Why You Struggle To Take Action - And What To Do About It!

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  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
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  • @youllmakeit
    @youllmakeit 4 місяці тому +4

    I legit pray someone has all the videos that aren't here anymore. I learned so much from them and use to go back to them like a book. I'm talking pre 2014 videos.

  • @andreslikesramen
    @andreslikesramen Рік тому +38

    The negative motivational part to get your goals is defintely the better way. I watched an Andrew Huberman video on goal setting that proves you are more than likely to stay with goals if you focus on how you will fail if you don't do them. Anyway always love the videos they are super helpful . Thank you.

  • @DarkKniteZ
    @DarkKniteZ Рік тому +9

    Tyler risking his life to teach us a lesson. Love you man

  • @karimahclintonfilms
    @karimahclintonfilms Рік тому +1

    Its crazy that content like this only has 19K views. Absolute goldmine of knowledge not found anywhere else

  • @indigosteel
    @indigosteel Рік тому +10

    I love how your latest content has the vibes of your oldschool videos, but very well refined and perfected. Thank you so much!

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @coolaidforsurebabey5132
    @coolaidforsurebabey5132 Рік тому +1

    Hey guys if your wondering if this is A+ content and questioning how this is free. Just breathe and accept that this content is in your reality and going to advance you 100x. Owen cook info is a cheat code. Best stuff on UA-cam, god damn

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @kevinslyter
    @kevinslyter Рік тому +4

    Dam I want to go to lake Powell

  • @ibeAmir
    @ibeAmir Рік тому +1

    Thanks for having put out so many great videos so that I can always find great answers and ways on how to come out above what i'm going through at the moment. You've been such a great mentor throughout my life.

  • @tmttmf
    @tmttmf Рік тому +5

    Bro, the lengths you’ve gone for these videos literally make the difference, ahead of the curve and a trend setter, because of rsd I’ve got commas and fw baddies lolol thanks Owen 🎃

  • @EmberPsycho
    @EmberPsycho Рік тому +6

    Love the video Owen! Long time fan, attended a few hotseats as well.
    One thing I actually found issue in is how to hold yourself accountable to continue improving after you actually achieve everything you wanted.
    3-4 years of going out and building willpower landed me a girlfriend, 6 figure job, home. All happened right before cough cough year.
    Found myself getting very stagnant in times of comfort and struggling to get back to who I was before and to continue hustling.
    Love coming back to the og for getting me back on the right mindset 💪

  • @otakuharu331
    @otakuharu331 Рік тому +2

    so pretty, the scenery is incredible. Amazing points on how to take back your power. Love the "I am dumb" mindset. We take ourselves too seriously and I am a culprit.

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase Рік тому +2

    Thank you Owen, I was just remembering a video where you said no matter if you have to work 10x as much to get to the same place someone else was given because you got to that place. Like it doesn't matter if you had to work 16 hour days for 10 years to become a millionaire and someone else was given a million dollars, you're still a millionaire.
    On the topic of willpower, this is so interesting how it intertwines learning and automated synaptic pathway activations. How it is frustrating to learn something new, but once it is learned it can be activated. The push and impetus in this process is also very interesting to observe. Thanks again Owen.

  • @gainzplz4028
    @gainzplz4028 Рік тому +1

    Gorgeous views. Love how consistent you always are with these videos, thanks for all your knowledge.

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @martinaleksandrof7863
    @martinaleksandrof7863 Рік тому

    Owen....dude...
    The cinematography...On a totally crazy level...Just freaking beautifull!

  • @Merritt_Life
    @Merritt_Life Рік тому +2

    Might be one of my favorite videos you’ve ever made. Great stuff man!

  • @julio1982
    @julio1982 Рік тому +2

    This is super high level info. Life changing to identify the fatigues

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @plasma-buddha2435
    @plasma-buddha2435 Рік тому

    Owen, you're a champion. Thanks brother.

  • @beemo9
    @beemo9 Рік тому

    I like how you synthesize the teachings of the big names in the self improvement world.

  • @jefferysethcoaching9456
    @jefferysethcoaching9456 Рік тому

    I like the pay money and punch in shoulder technique. I had a friend that had “approach anxiety” and on the beach one day, I said, “ f you don’t open, you’re holding my hand all the way back to the car hahaha. He opened.
    I don’t believe in Willpower….I believe in conditioned responses. As far as breaking loose of conditioned responses, I recommend command Z or undoing work that’s changing the structure of the brain and de-conditioning oneself. Also, doing anything different is restructuring the brain as well…whether that’s cold bath, hot sauna, learning jazz flute, juijitsu erc.

  • @tomf8784
    @tomf8784 Рік тому +1

    OWEN, you did a video a long while back, which was set on the East Shore of O'ahu and was centred on the topic of Depression and how for the guy starting out who is right at the bottom, its the same sort of process as when Bruce Wayne had to essentially lose his fear of death in order to escape from his prison.
    Just an opinion from a humble friend - but I remember that video was hugely popular and I think it could do with seeing the light of day again as it seems relevant. given Jordan Petersons stance about a month ago on Piers Morgan. I have it myself but not going to repost it for obvious reasons.
    You've don a lot for me, keep winning
    Tom
    Edit: I reckon if you shaved off the first 14 seconds, and did an intro of you now, it would transition pretty good.

  • @dario4385
    @dario4385 Рік тому +1

    Great video! Pushed me to take action, thank you!

  • @Martin6798-r9j
    @Martin6798-r9j Рік тому +1

    Brother. I struggle with the opposite. Of taking TOO MUCH action. That “never enough” feeling. You may struggle with it too. Of too much action. Getting burnt out. God I know that feeling. Rest. Weakness. Strength in weakness. Jesus Christ help us to heal.

  • @tuannguyen4103
    @tuannguyen4103 Рік тому

    Thank you Owen, i very much appreciate your content . Its help me a lot since I discovered you last month.

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase Рік тому

    I just made a video about pushing your edge, and impetus giving the example of Eddie the Eagle, he was the worst at the olympics but pushing his limits the most which is why he is so memorable. I love that movie.

  • @HARwinsOUTagain
    @HARwinsOUTagain Рік тому

    I needed this. My brain is always on autopilot and keeps me from many experiences.

  • @unatardedelibroscafeyfilosofia

    The 3 fatigues! one of the best practical concepts from RSD

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  • @lejune5083
    @lejune5083 Рік тому

    Hey man that's a awesome view point about that we aren't made for all that we have going on. Very humbling but true thought

  • @nasti362
    @nasti362 Рік тому

    Just watched you on Timcast! This is just what I needed thank you!

  • @fasihkhan7777
    @fasihkhan7777 Рік тому

    Reeeaaaly grateful for this video man, definately needed this rn! . Thanks

  • @shaolin-c9l
    @shaolin-c9l Рік тому

    download, vibes, cinematography 1000/10

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @komeitakano7976
    @komeitakano7976 Рік тому

    was feelin derpy, turned on this video, instant motivation❤‍🔥

  • @gregmichael1236
    @gregmichael1236 Рік тому

    Great content . I resonate because I developed a stiff personality . :(

  • @Jameszlin
    @Jameszlin Рік тому

    Great topic!! Read the willpower instinct for deeper understanding of this element. I have always felt I could do a lot. Yet a lot of people feel that, as long as you have energy flowing. Now the truth is that reality feels REAL REAL when you push yourself to do something. Like getting feedback from your social interactions over and over again. Or running a marathon where your mind and body are against you, wanting you to stop for hours but you push through!!!! Never thought about it as willpower. I thought it was sheer consciousness strength. Willpower is a close accurate word for it I agree.

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  • @nf-ib2cr
    @nf-ib2cr Рік тому +1

    This video is sooo practical💯💯💯

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @tatewinters5565
    @tatewinters5565 Рік тому

    Is that a quarry lake? It's absolutely huge! Look at those cuts in the rock 👀

  • @HighAltitudeInvesting
    @HighAltitudeInvesting Рік тому

    Owen Great choice recording at Lake Powell I have been there and love it there!

  • @Myrrhth
    @Myrrhth Рік тому

    this is what I needed right now, thank you

  • @DirectorBrazil
    @DirectorBrazil Рік тому

    I love the coloring on this video. Def see the improvement

  • @KhalilAynaou
    @KhalilAynaou Рік тому

    love it, thank you Owen!

  • @nickpapageorgio4835
    @nickpapageorgio4835 Рік тому

    From start to finish, this is about Dopamine. Here, it's in the context of the social arts.

  • @mimjack
    @mimjack Рік тому

    Yesterday I went out for Halloween dressed as Deadpool, I made everyone I came across part of the party, part of the game. I felt such an expansive energy. This was only one night. but since 2014 I've had many many many such nights and days. I owe A LOT to this ginger bearded high pitched voice nerd. I honestly wonder brother, how cool does it feel that millions of people have had success because they imitated your vibe. You made me want to be happy person and make people around me happy.

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  • @JoseRamos-fh6ds
    @JoseRamos-fh6ds Рік тому

    Amazing Owen ty I haven’t seen any of your videos since the 90 day challenge but this was a good refresher
    Thank you man

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  • @rhobodub
    @rhobodub Рік тому

    It’s already not so difficult for me to meet new people (bless RSD for that), but it’s already not so exciting for me either. Maybe, because I haven’t achieved my goals by taking massive action, or it’s simply comfortable for me to be alone at home (music is my girlfriend, as I say), or I’ve got deep issues that are complemented by the war in our country (Ukraine).
    Anyway, I continue forcing myself to say hi to strangers whenever I’m outside and inspiring by videos of the ex-RSD team despite of internal contradictions. I literally trick my brain to do so, as Owen says.
    Hope it’d be better someday, and I’d really enjoy the interactions. Wish you the same. Peace.

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  • @chromyb.
    @chromyb. Рік тому

    gem

  • @carloslxix6599
    @carloslxix6599 Рік тому

    Great vids man! Keep ‘em up!

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  • @amitjain4120
    @amitjain4120 Рік тому

    LOVE this video, would love to know more about how our brain works in social situations, and how to “hack” our brains survival mechanism and become more high status. Are there any books you’d recommend on this topic?

  • @216trixie
    @216trixie Рік тому

    These last couple of videos are exactly what I need to hear and what I'm going through and just good confirmation. Keep up the good work thanks. Is that Dead Horse point?

  • @tonyednalvo
    @tonyednalvo 5 місяців тому

    Saw this the week it came out, today im rewatching it and panicking

    • @tatewinters5565
      @tatewinters5565 Місяць тому

      Why did you panick watching this video?

    • @tonyednalvo
      @tonyednalvo 27 днів тому

      @@tatewinters5565 "should've listened" coupled with "how did i not see this"

  • @iscareurmum1508
    @iscareurmum1508 Рік тому

    Maaajor value here, tank u!

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  • @jarredgarretty
    @jarredgarretty Рік тому

    Loved this one ❤

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  • @petroniusarbiter2632
    @petroniusarbiter2632 Рік тому

    Looks like you're in Page Arizona. I was just there a month ago. You can rent jetskis for like 275 a person a day and it's a blast!

  • @paultimmer106
    @paultimmer106 Рік тому

    Love you Owen.🥳

  • @bassgodgandhi6559
    @bassgodgandhi6559 Рік тому

    Put these on Spotify bro ✨

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  • @Full2635
    @Full2635 Рік тому

    Those sceneries

  • @aymanhimself
    @aymanhimself Рік тому +1

    5 min in and this really resonates. What I find is that I don't even need to give cash or be tapped on the shoulder if I don't approach because whenever I'm with a wing I just do it, it comes off as the easiest thing in the world, they can just stand there and watch and I would do it, but whenever I'm by myself I feel like something just stops me; what could that be, and how do I make myself go all in ?

    • @ponder2006
      @ponder2006 Рік тому +1

      It’s just like how Owen said it. Those are external motivations and they work because there is someone holding you accountable or some associated money loss. When by yourself you need to find that kind of motivation, Owen said to right down the cost of you not taking action, let the pain land when you write it down, that will be the motivation same as someone taking money from you

    • @aymanhimself
      @aymanhimself Рік тому

      @@ponder2006 I really should hold myself accountable and not be dependent on any form of external motivation.

    • @ponder2006
      @ponder2006 Рік тому

      @@aymanhimself Yes that is important. But dont underestimate motivations. Your brain is very powerful at keeping you happy and satisfied where you are. You need something to force you to take action at least at first until you get momentum

  • @teddyv2798
    @teddyv2798 Рік тому

    Like the video but where did you get the shirt jacket really nice

  • @davecopp9356
    @davecopp9356 Рік тому

    Great video.

  • @realhabilidadessociales
    @realhabilidadessociales Рік тому

    Good video thanks

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase Рік тому

    The Overton Window is stretching right? You the prophet.

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  • @samuraisaint2360
    @samuraisaint2360 Рік тому

    As someone who is boardine handicapped since birth defects that infected my speech. By share balls an will power I was able to approach a playboy model in a club in San Francisco an was able to vibe , get a hung an share good energy. Felt like I was jumping out of a airplane and I realized I could fly like Peter Pan in essence. My wingman was terrified to back me in the approach even thou he was very competent speaker an tall guy.

  • @MadisonSocialInfluence
    @MadisonSocialInfluence Рік тому

    Beautiful intro shot @owen cook

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  • @johndodson8464
    @johndodson8464 Рік тому

    There's a bracelet you can get that has an inflatable balloon as a flotation device. You guys need some of those when boating.

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  • @HotHeadCringe
    @HotHeadCringe Рік тому

    Track: Falling Away (Armin van Buuren Remix) Hannah - Location: Apple Music @2:25 - Notes: Merry🎄Christmas. Track starts at 2:25 ends on 5:34.

  • @mcaldwell27
    @mcaldwell27 Рік тому

    Owen, what's your camera man's name? Does he have a channel? I met him in Chicago but forgot to ask. Love the content!

  • @HotHeadCringe
    @HotHeadCringe Рік тому

    ❤Content.

  • @angelcontreras3956
    @angelcontreras3956 Рік тому

    Thank thank thank you this video clicked I’m my subconscious that I can see how I’m sabotaging my self from editing fx on my videos. I’m so dumb

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  • @DefeatLust
    @DefeatLust Рік тому

    The goat

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  • @ayy2193
    @ayy2193 8 місяців тому

    2:25 12:23 21:15

  • @Myrrhth
    @Myrrhth Рік тому

    so what youre saying is I should practice talking on the side of a cliff?

  • @Lightbringer.528
    @Lightbringer.528 Рік тому

    epic views

  • @hahahashish
    @hahahashish Рік тому

    hey guys, try sailing, audio will be amazing 🤣

    • @hahahashish
      @hahahashish Рік тому

      just kidding, I love your content, good stuff ❤

  • @nf-ib2cr
    @nf-ib2cr Рік тому

    💯💯💯

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  • @olivertaveras9896
    @olivertaveras9896 Рік тому

    Bro your videos are so fuckin dope

  • @chrissa1896
    @chrissa1896 Рік тому

    I'm a bit dumbfounded ... I actually thought that you can get to a higher paradigm where you don't need willpower anymore. I'd love to hear clarification from you, even if it is just a "You can't" or "you can". I'm stuck for a while now, running in circles, and I need a hint on how to get out.

  • @louisroblesdemedina5990
    @louisroblesdemedina5990 Рік тому

    Premortum

  • @arminunruh452
    @arminunruh452 Рік тому

    first!

  • @0xnpctim
    @0xnpctim Рік тому

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  • @ninjareflex
    @ninjareflex Рік тому +1

    Love u Owen but this is like the 3rd video so i must say; please stop supporting these culture vulture "fashion" brands that steal native American designs.