What to do when people make fun of you

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  • @The_End.
    @The_End. 6 років тому +108

    "Do you want me to beat you up"
    "I bet you use that line on all the girls"

  • @cguns9893
    @cguns9893 7 років тому +88

    1. Agree and amplify
    2. Pressure flip
    3. Ignore

  • @JoshuaBurton110213
    @JoshuaBurton110213 7 років тому +244

    I totally understand the game but I'm not good at coming up with clever comebacks until it's too late.

    • @TheNewtonhead
      @TheNewtonhead 7 років тому +2

      Joshua Burton same here frd

    • @cuntcrusher9546
      @cuntcrusher9546 6 років тому +9

      Your mom is always good

    • @zombiedeutsch
      @zombiedeutsch 6 років тому +7

      Some people born very good at this

    • @adriansanchez1969
      @adriansanchez1969 5 років тому +4

      @@zombiedeutsch That is not true , all skills are learned. Nobody is born knowing how to do everything.

    • @zxcfortnite8302
      @zxcfortnite8302 4 роки тому +3

      Same

  • @bipolarbear1450
    @bipolarbear1450 5 років тому +23

    when a random stranger makes fun of me i just play along and usually smile , talking to them is a waste of time.when i walk and leave i pretend to have an itchy back and scratch my back with my middle finger.These kinds of people are really annoying.

  • @flyingpandaz6687
    @flyingpandaz6687 7 років тому +34

    Guys...for those of u guys struggling to come up with good comebacks, listen up.
    Firstly: Agree “Ohh, Yes.”
    Amplify: this will come naturally after u have agreed. The trick is not to worry to what u say but make sure u keep ur frame and stay confident. (Keep calm)

  • @MrGylanThomas
    @MrGylanThomas 7 років тому +90

    I thought a shit test was when a doctor asks for a stool sample :P

  • @kyrileontiou7098
    @kyrileontiou7098 6 років тому +53

    ignore sometimes silence is very powerful

    • @calistavicente-bradley4739
      @calistavicente-bradley4739 5 років тому +2

      I never know what to say so I never say anything.

    • @calistavicente-bradley4739
      @calistavicente-bradley4739 5 років тому +1

      @Jay L take it easy mannn! Hes probably just learning English and is still practicing spelling. It's hsrd y'know lol. Like to see u erite in Arabic and see what happens wheb someone points at u

    • @McBreadbro
      @McBreadbro 5 років тому +2

      @Jay L well of course humans can make mistakes you idiot, nobody's perfect

    • @Gogeta2501
      @Gogeta2501 4 роки тому +1

      Yeahh

    • @aloof5746
      @aloof5746 3 роки тому +1

      True , but I hate that doing that makes you look weak.

  • @dps1689
    @dps1689 5 років тому +23

    Just laugh at them while walking away. I will never jump through hoops for anyone to prove myself.

    • @sirwe9777
      @sirwe9777 5 років тому +3

      D PS I always say «okay?» or «okay I don’t care» then walk away. Then they just look at each other with that «look»

  • @kyrileontiou7098
    @kyrileontiou7098 6 років тому +63

    dont get defensive, take is as light and playfull

    • @sfumatoleonardo9580
      @sfumatoleonardo9580 6 років тому +5

      exactly. Needs to be calculated like the game of battleship, you can declare if you've been hit or not. People shoudn't appear desperate in your self defense since it inadvertently signifies insecurity and other manifestations of momentary petty feelings in the pursuit of meager or even Pyrrhic contentment/satisfaction . two pronged approach you can take the high road or if your own reputation is solid, use subtler tactics, such as satire and ridicule, to weaken your opponent while making you out as a charming rogue. The mighty lion/ tiger toys with the mouse that crosses his path-any other reaction would mar his fearsome reputation.

    • @Number2Drakefan
      @Number2Drakefan 5 років тому

      @@sfumatoleonardo9580 after reading your comment I could see that you understand many things, so I checked out your account and now I will watch your martial art videos. Thank you.

  • @stefanvanderlinde3384
    @stefanvanderlinde3384 5 років тому +10

    I purposely fail such tests to make them think less of me:"Play the fool to catch the fool"

  • @aden8133
    @aden8133 7 років тому +17

    I usually just show them that being viewed as less than them or weaker doesnt bother me in my response. This has shown to be pretty effective, and seems to make people like you more as they see that you are comfortable in your own skin but at the same time not a dick.

  • @josevasconcelos9887
    @josevasconcelos9887 5 років тому +5

    The problem is when people say bad things to you and then they say it was just a joke constantly

  • @Adamkww
    @Adamkww Рік тому +1

    Good example of a shit test is from the film 'fury', when norman meets his platoon, and they provoke him to try to see what he's made of.

  • @edengarden6811
    @edengarden6811 6 років тому +12

    My sister makes fun of me every time i post a video on social media where i talk in. She acts like she is me. I IGNORE her and don't give attention to negative shit like that. She is the sad one, nothing better to do. God leads me out of this every time, sometimes i want to say shut up. But i never do. I stand above her.

    • @qwerty1233787
      @qwerty1233787 6 років тому +2

      LOL

    • @Ferelmakina
      @Ferelmakina 5 років тому

      If that's true, I'm proud of you and I even don't know who you are

  • @Unbekannt_0012
    @Unbekannt_0012 4 роки тому +1

    Remember people who do more than you don’t care but people who under you trying you

  • @saksezo
    @saksezo 7 років тому +15

    Shit test is when they test your shit to see if your body is healthy or if you need to eat better food.

  • @vRestrictionzHD
    @vRestrictionzHD 6 років тому

    I just found this channel today and love what I’m seeing/hearing (not just this vid).
    I’ve been doing so many of these techniques for so long and tbh staying silent is my fav when it comes to shit tests. I find it hilarious when I watch someone shit test me, and sits there expecting a response or some type of reaction while I don’t even give them eye contact. Their humor is so short lived when they realize I don’t find what them important enough to even acknowledge them. Sometimes I find it so funny I can’t contain it and let out a chuckle

  • @kyrileontiou7098
    @kyrileontiou7098 6 років тому +2

    you will be tested by everyone, so be present when this happens and pass them like a boss

    • @swirlingbutterfly3031
      @swirlingbutterfly3031 3 роки тому

      This is so true 100%true as you pass everyone will shout laugh make fun comment on colour your education play songs call you drunk yaah they you are right they test you everyone taste you they spread rumors about you call u characterless and what not ......this is happening to me every day from last 3 months it starts from morning 9 to night 8 'o'clock this is not easy even people around me laugh out loud and enjoy the scenario you are so right dear everyone test us .may god give them some Brain and peace to me thats all i wish

  • @PabloDiazBuscio
    @PabloDiazBuscio 6 років тому +7

    What are the best books you've read and recommend? I like your videos the way you think is highly intelligent

  • @TripleNoobs
    @TripleNoobs 4 роки тому +1

    i'm here because someone just makes fun of me very badly

  • @blurlover13
    @blurlover13 4 роки тому +2

    I said I got in a magazine and Debbie Mcgee’s autograph once in different timezones and nobody believed me, it was on a WooHoo video “if I became popular” I might report those two people who made fun of me for that

    • @Red_Pill_
      @Red_Pill_  4 роки тому

      Don't be angry at people for being skeptical there are so many liars that it is healthy to doubt what people say just show them the evidence. If they deny then ignore them or depending on the situation if you can't defend yourself.

  • @nathaneccleston3738
    @nathaneccleston3738 5 років тому +4

    I can never think of comebacks...
    Is there any way to amend this?
    Normally when I try they come off as a basic insult (one that makes me look like a dickhead in front of other people).
    Maybe I'm trying to hard. Idk.
    Any help appreciated.

  • @leifkhas7425
    @leifkhas7425 7 років тому +12

    I hate when an arrogant coworker tries to do this game where they try to act like they are some kind of de facto supervisor. And they try to point out the obvious. And then when I make them look stupid and incompetent in a very subtle/pc way; and then they are too dumb to see it when everyone else does... Omg!

  • @qwerty1233787
    @qwerty1233787 6 років тому +2

    Great but people are already too terrified to do anything like this to me :^)

  • @ceepclothcreepcloth6554
    @ceepclothcreepcloth6554 5 років тому +4

    Violence solves everything.

  • @kyrileontiou7098
    @kyrileontiou7098 6 років тому +1

    agree and amplify

  • @jane7758
    @jane7758 5 років тому +4

    How do normal kids learn these games by 12 or even younger? 2:40 that's why people attack someone who hasn't even done them nothing I guess, becuase they are cowards.

    • @suckyplanet7229
      @suckyplanet7229 5 років тому +1

      IKR I totally agree with you, humanity make a beautiful planet ugly.

  • @fatsomanamela8372
    @fatsomanamela8372 7 років тому +8

    Please recommend a few books on frame and social calibration

    • @flyingpandaz6687
      @flyingpandaz6687 7 років тому

      Autistic Cat is it a good book? I want to buy it

    • @flyingpandaz6687
      @flyingpandaz6687 7 років тому

      Autistic Cat thanks man! Just bought the book and so far it’s very impressive!

  • @Jahcrooks
    @Jahcrooks 2 роки тому +1

    Give it back to them.

    • @Red_Pill_
      @Red_Pill_  Рік тому

      Absolutely :) Thank you for your comment ;)

  • @dannydanny3649
    @dannydanny3649 7 років тому +8

    Great advice y'all must be new cause your channel is badass!

    • @Red_Pill_
      @Red_Pill_  7 років тому +2

      thank you so much!

    • @babayaga4415
      @babayaga4415 7 років тому

      +red pill psychology I'm am reading 48laws of power which and am having a great experience with it I love your vids they have been a great help but I also bought the 50th law and the art of war which of the two do u think would be more beneficial to read after the 48 laws ???????

    • @isidraloya1420
      @isidraloya1420 6 років тому

      How do you have 166 mil subs

  • @calistavicente-bradley4739
    @calistavicente-bradley4739 5 років тому +2

    I was at school today. I was waiting fir my mom to come fkr me. I sat on the side of the school and was sitting near a drain. This girl comes out nowhere says "don't sit on the floor or else when it rains you'll get swept away. When she walked away this girk said "did you hear what she said!" Her friend said "yeah" quietly. I'd thst bullying? Anf what should I have said to her? I was stunned and couldn't come up eith anything. I had to process that. What do i say, please help!

    • @jimjones6901
      @jimjones6901 4 роки тому +2

      I wouldn't call it bullying, it was more of a shit test like this guy describes in the video. Let me tell you something though. Do not ever be afraid to stand up for yourself. I promise you that it may seem like getting written up at school is the end of the world and it will have all of these consequences, but it won't. I've been afraid of getting in trouble for things like standing up for myself in fear that a teacher may misunderstand the situation and think I started a fight or argument with someone since elementary school and was afraid of it all through high school as well. If you get written up, honestly the worst they can do is call your parents and your parents might be upset until you explain that you got written up (for punching someone in the face for example) because they were being a jerk and you stood up for yourself. I'm not saying violence is the way to go every time, but even saying "fuck off" is better than just taking it. There is a difference between ignoring someone because you are scared to stand up for yourself and ignoring someone because they are not worth your time. I got picked on a lot but never stood up for myself and I really regret it. There really is not that much repercussion for doing things you're not supposed to in school. Once you are an adult (18 years old) things become a bit different. You might get in trouble with the law or be fired from a job if you stand up for yourself (even if you are in the right). I have a lot of passive aggressive managers that I work under and if I tell them to fuck off or call them out on being passive aggressive I will be fired. That's a big problem. If you tell someone you go to school with to fuck off or handle it in a way that a teacher may not like, you might get written up, suspended, or have your parents called. That's really not so bad. Obviously if you hit them there might be police involved and you could be fined, which is a bit worse, but if you tell them to piss off nothing that bad will happen to you. And it will teach you to stand up for yourself, which is the most important part. The main takeaway is that you should never be afraid to stand up for yourself, especially at this age where you will not receive much punishment (even if it may seem like it is a lot to you, I promise it isn't and that it is well worth the minor repercussions you could receive such as being written up or suspended). Self confidence is a very valuable skill. It may take time, but try to put yourself in situations where you are not very comfortable and try to get comfortable and you will become better at standing up for yourself. Good luck with everything kid! I wish you the best and feel free to ask me questions any time!

  • @joycea3290
    @joycea3290 4 роки тому +2

    Why don't they make songs about people being made fun of people ?

  • @fatsomanamela8372
    @fatsomanamela8372 7 років тому +33

    Are you south African?

    • @LeanneGC101
      @LeanneGC101 7 років тому +2

      fatso manamela I was thinking he's New Zealander 🤔

    • @sayannayak2703
      @sayannayak2703 6 років тому +1

      Yeah he does have the accent

  • @JamesReborn2023
    @JamesReborn2023 5 років тому

    Ha. When a guy asks me if I wanna fight, I just square up. Nuff said. Why bullshit?

  • @kyrileontiou7098
    @kyrileontiou7098 6 років тому

    pressure flip, turn it back to the other person

    • @glamoc0000
      @glamoc0000 6 років тому

      What is your primary language?

  • @jotarokujo5655
    @jotarokujo5655 6 років тому

    Just ignore them

    • @jane7758
      @jane7758 5 років тому

      That's as bad as behaving insulted.

  • @kamtoyaoyibo8433
    @kamtoyaoyibo8433 5 років тому

    I love ignoring... It works the best

  • @mikotodread2785
    @mikotodread2785 6 років тому

    why i havent watched this video three or four years ago, even though it's uploaded in 2017

  • @tsepomaleke
    @tsepomaleke 7 років тому

    Nice

  • @ferencszekely3550
    @ferencszekely3550 6 років тому

    How can this guy has only 200k subs?

  • @trevorhook5677
    @trevorhook5677 5 років тому

    Misspelled absurd

  • @deadsick95
    @deadsick95 6 років тому

    Knowing this is all well and good but how the fuck do we use think of such lines in the midst of social interaction lol

  • @latrade2159
    @latrade2159 4 роки тому

    Just laugh and take it as a compliment, especially if it's from a girl. Just pretend as she didn't say anything, she'll be irritated.

  • @muhammadwaleed1925
    @muhammadwaleed1925 6 років тому +1

    Why does this guy never use upper case alphabets anywhere?

  • @dilsonluiz3567
    @dilsonluiz3567 7 років тому

    Where is your accent from?

  • @Lerroy007
    @Lerroy007 7 років тому +7

    What would be the best way to defuse the situation if a guy said he will fight You?

  • @jamiecee4960
    @jamiecee4960 3 роки тому

    Ignore it. The Shit Test...😁 You don't want me talking about my feelings out in public. So why be mad at me? And I've apologized for that over and over. I shouldn't of to begin with.

  • @chosensamurott4907
    @chosensamurott4907 5 років тому

    if you fail a shit taste *PEOPLE ARE GOING TO WALK ALL OVER YOU!*
    WHY tho????? I need to know.

  • @kaijordan425
    @kaijordan425 7 років тому +9

    dude.. if you misspell "conclusions" you fail the shit test

    • @kissedbytheanaconda7144
      @kissedbytheanaconda7144 7 років тому

      Jordan n16 other than the fact it toke you the whole 3 minutes and 10 seceonds just to comprehend what a shit test is never mind the 10 minutes and 3 rewatches it toke you before being able come up with that comment ;)

    • @kaijordan425
      @kaijordan425 7 років тому +1

      Kissed By The Anaconda i disliked your comment

  • @rokulshrestha2596
    @rokulshrestha2596 5 років тому

    I said What a shit is this cant understand even after caption on

  • @bassiejazz
    @bassiejazz 7 років тому +7

    Work on your spelling, dude.
    That’s not a shit test, just common sense.

  • @mingming2800
    @mingming2800 5 років тому

    He sounds like his in a hurry not like his other video

  • @leovincent7417
    @leovincent7417 7 років тому +4

    "Obsurd" 😂😂 unsubscribed

  • @tinastone4468
    @tinastone4468 6 років тому +1

    The spelling is terrible!

  • @leonardbrkanac9150
    @leonardbrkanac9150 6 років тому

    Bruh you gotta stop using the same fucking drawings in every video every 20 seconds please

  • @docgwav
    @docgwav 6 років тому

    '