How to Avoid Toxic Friendships - Law 2 of the Famous Book "48 Laws of Power"

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  • @The01t
    @The01t 7 років тому +43

    'If you have no enemies, find a way to make them' LOL

  • @JediBunny
    @JediBunny 6 років тому +64

    That video of the guy dancing by himself at the music festival is one of my favourite UA-cam videos of all time.

    • @jessesturk9658
      @jessesturk9658 5 років тому +1

      What video is it.so i can look it it up

  • @sofakingco_ol7381
    @sofakingco_ol7381 7 років тому +131

    Damn that one dude got the whole gathering lit🔥🤣

  • @Eric-lq9fr
    @Eric-lq9fr 7 років тому +10

    that guy in at the end is not the hero we want, he is the hero we need.

  • @shervins9139
    @shervins9139 7 років тому +54

    That video at the end legit taught me a life lesson holy fk

  • @amolkale2140
    @amolkale2140 7 років тому +33

    This channel one day will be very famous

  • @Austin_B97
    @Austin_B97 7 років тому +9

    I recently cut all contact from a group of online "friends". They were becoming toxic (or perhaps they always were). There was no real value to the relationship, all we did was play video games. When I started cutting contact, I made it loud and clear as to what I was doing, and they tried to guilt. trip me. Point is, if you can cut your losses in a failed investment in any given scenario, you will be stronger for it.

  • @TsarOfRuss
    @TsarOfRuss 7 років тому +44

    I have bunch of negative friends right now.... im currently studying FINANCE on my free time to start trading stocks.. and whenever im listening to audiobooks they tell me "WTF IS THIS YOU ARE LISTENING TO, LETS HEAR SOME GOOD RAP MUSIC AND SMOKE WEED" .... they are okay if we just watch some rich kids with flashy cars on youtube too...
    Meanwhile we sit in this shitty community and not find a way out of it ...

    • @Incubator859
      @Incubator859 7 років тому +11

      There are friends for fun who you want to hang out with and then there are friends you would like to work with. Everything outside of that are just acquaintances, people who you meet but won't matter much in your life. You don't have to burn bridges with your current friends, they can erase boredom and hang out with them when you want to unload. Just make sure you know the difference between the two.

    • @nomotivay
      @nomotivay 4 роки тому +2

      stay strong my dude, you'll get out soon enough

  • @danieldacruz452
    @danieldacruz452 7 років тому +11

    I find it quite difficult to meet someone my age that enjoys discussing these philosophical ideas in your content! As a fellow South African, I'm glad I found this channel and it would be even better to network and discuss these great ideas over a braai

    • @EvA-ji9rz
      @EvA-ji9rz 7 років тому +2

      Daniel Da Cruz I've got the same problem,if you ever find out how to deal with it,tell me .

  • @rickybobby2610
    @rickybobby2610 7 років тому +4

    That ending was perfect

  • @IslandMan96
    @IslandMan96 7 років тому +53

    This is why I don’t fully trust anyone ESPECIALLY in college.

    • @ladev91
      @ladev91 7 років тому +8

      college is the worst. You make a bunch of temporary friends that last as long as college, then you all go separate ways. You might keep in touch with one or 2

    • @jonmart2036
      @jonmart2036 7 років тому +2

      ladev91
      My two teachers whom work in the same school are best friends. They were also best friends as roomates in Lehman College

  • @anonymousanoonymous6869
    @anonymousanoonymous6869 7 років тому

    I had these before and I can say that making distance with them is the best thing I've ever done in my life

  • @TruthSeekerClub
    @TruthSeekerClub 6 років тому

    The end effected me so much.
    I never loved action like this before.
    Thanks for diving to the point.

  • @risefromthedark
    @risefromthedark 7 років тому +1

    I love your videos and suggestions it helps me live more productive and happily. Thanks for good work.

  • @Incubator859
    @Incubator859 7 років тому +14

    Rule 3 only works if you already have the social capital (ie have the social connections and friendships) to back you up with it. What these "Red Pill" armchair psychologists fail to realize is that human beings are gossipy in nature. They can't or just won't stop talking about other people. So if you have the social capital to back you up, people are bound to talk good things about you, making you more valuable in other people's eyes than they appear. Word of mouth is a very real thing. Humans are social creatures. You can never be reliant or have fun by yourself. You will always seek validation and acceptance. It's hardwired into your brain and it's not as easy as what this vid portrays.

    • @conorm2524
      @conorm2524 7 років тому +4

      Hmm, I've no problem heading out for the night alone, but yes, if I wander into an empty bar I might have one drink and leave. Since moving to a new city 6 weeks ago I have frequented bars solo and people just gravitate towards me. I'm an easy conversationalist and even women have bought me drinks without me dipping into my pocket at all. The last point in this video is very true.

    • @neo1053
      @neo1053 5 років тому +1

      Yes we are social.creatures but you could have fun by yourself

  • @francoaguirre5751
    @francoaguirre5751 5 років тому

    Hey man! Keep up with the videos, you are helping a lot of guys out there. Best wishes :)

  • @chandler4301
    @chandler4301 7 років тому

    Your videos are INCREDIBLY helpful and deeply inspiring and educational, and all of that is but a severe understatement.
    Thank you.
    Yo that dude at the end is a legend.

  • @cesarmorales9766
    @cesarmorales9766 6 років тому

    You know the answers to this matrix we live in and I salute you

  • @aadaveyad
    @aadaveyad 7 років тому

    thought provoking video-some enemies have more value than friends-a valuable insight for the jungle.

  • @heckdylan
    @heckdylan 7 років тому +3

    Only 15k subs? You should have millions, I love your videos. ❤

  • @goonbug8910
    @goonbug8910 6 років тому

    The way you present the information is entertaining and of course informative.

  • @Ironside9494
    @Ironside9494 7 років тому +2

    I think a great suggestion for another video is one on leadership (not just in a friend group but like in a work, sport, or military environment)

  • @brandenokbranded9078
    @brandenokbranded9078 7 років тому +51

    Goku in a nutshell all of his friends are former enemies ex. Vegeta piccolo yamcha tien krillin

    • @dbb2347
      @dbb2347 5 років тому

      Brandeno kbranded YO

  • @PCProphecy
    @PCProphecy 7 років тому

    Lol that last part was pretty amazing. Great example & quite inspiring.

  • @johnmctavish1021
    @johnmctavish1021 6 років тому

    Heyyyyy!!! Please complete this series man! Its been exactly 6 months and you haven't posted a video on Law 8! Please man complete the series. These are some of the most useful videos I'e even watched. Please please please complete the series!

  • @zapatastyle
    @zapatastyle 7 років тому +15

    The pursuit of "Enemys" is something I've never thought about......has anyone applied this strategy? I would love to hear some examples.

    • @zapatastyle
      @zapatastyle 7 років тому +6

      Deniz Kilic I think we need people to challenge and shake up our world. Otherwise its too safe and dull. Thanks for your reply. It sounds like you were very much feeling the experience. Thats a great way to live.

    • @Austin_B97
      @Austin_B97 7 років тому +2

      Valente Zapata
      Indeed. I feel like conflict is needed to prevent stagnation. However, it's still something that needs to be done decisively, not thrown around willy nilly.

    • @flyingpandaz6687
      @flyingpandaz6687 6 років тому +8

      Hey, I know this is a late reply but meh... So when I was in high school I had this enemy, he was my bully. I was a small weak kid, but because of him who kept "shaking up my world", I was forced to grow stronger, smarter. He forced me to be on my heels at all times and before I knew it, by the time I got to the end of high school I became a popular kid who got the girls and etc. That bully/enemy also became one of my most loyal comrade, it was because of the constant pressure from him that I was forced to evolve and grow to become a stronger and better individual. That's my story!

    • @henryviii4629
      @henryviii4629 5 років тому

      It's not really a pursuit.. All you have to do is succeed in all/most of your endeavors and they'll show up naturally.

  • @thunder.gun.cheese
    @thunder.gun.cheese 6 років тому +2

    At 1:25 of this clip
    What's the name of the movie?
    Somebody plz tell

  • @nikossssssssss1
    @nikossssssssss1 7 років тому

    Great videos bro! Keep it up 💪💪

  • @Ubermicropwned
    @Ubermicropwned 7 років тому

    Absolutely amazing videos. Serioisly

  • @rickyelliott1379
    @rickyelliott1379 7 років тому

    Very good content man

  • @minecraftotalwar
    @minecraftotalwar 7 років тому

    Amazing job master

  • @alexpwer3590
    @alexpwer3590 7 років тому

    Amazing video!

  • @zakh1579
    @zakh1579 4 роки тому

    man your youtube videos are fucking golden. idk what happened to the channel if you gave it away to someone else or something cuz there is this new guy and new guy if you are reading this bring back the old red pill psychology

  • @rolandbak3074
    @rolandbak3074 7 років тому

    Very nice channel!

  • @cesarsanchez5619
    @cesarsanchez5619 7 років тому +2

    I have to say that clip at the end made me laugh and made me feel hole at the same time.

  • @areez22
    @areez22 6 років тому

    I really liked your video.

  • @Martin-vj7zx
    @Martin-vj7zx 6 років тому

    Pure gold

  • @mikeohernia5498
    @mikeohernia5498 7 років тому +1

    48 laws of power great book i must read it again.Can you do more videos on social dynamics?

  • @bennystanley5501
    @bennystanley5501 7 років тому

    That was the coolest ending in the world

  • @gordanator2060
    @gordanator2060 7 років тому +3

    Oh, its funny this is a lifestyle I've already adopted naturally.

  • @angelushungaricus
    @angelushungaricus 7 років тому +1

    What is the title of that film with the bishop? I must see it.

  • @muhammadwaleed1925
    @muhammadwaleed1925 6 років тому +1

    I had an enemy in 3rd standard he hired me and we became friends and we are now more loyal to each other than any other person....So we can say that "Hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal"

  • @wolfgang7812
    @wolfgang7812 5 років тому

    I myself prefer loving relationships which; are in a way formal themselves.

  • @collinmonette9795
    @collinmonette9795 7 років тому +8

    That last video is literally the definition of Sheep Mentality

    • @conorm2524
      @conorm2524 7 років тому +1

      Or wolf mentality too!

  • @detlefschillack3089
    @detlefschillack3089 7 років тому

    Very good

  • @legendofporkchop6904
    @legendofporkchop6904 5 років тому +1

    Dude good fucking video. I feel more focused and sure of the things that I have been doing.

  • @santear5442
    @santear5442 4 роки тому

    where is the movie scene from

  • @willbendingsteel6258
    @willbendingsteel6258 5 років тому

    Kicked in my neighbors door and said, I now declare you my enemy!!!

  • @AndrewAttard78
    @AndrewAttard78 7 років тому +7

    Hey bud. Great video. What's the deal with these templated psychology channels? Do you guys all know each other? You all use the same software and style? Is someone selling this as a class? One of you guys I swear is Romanian but you sound South African. It's odd.

    • @mindovermatter5675
      @mindovermatter5675 7 років тому +1

      Software is called video scribe , I don't know him personally. Haven't seen any classes on the software.His accent sounds like its from New Zealand.

    • @AndrewAttard78
      @AndrewAttard78 7 років тому

      BrainCeps New Zealand or South Africa... Red pill, where are you from?

    • @aadaveyad
      @aadaveyad 7 років тому

      he is from southern africa

    • @Red_Pill_
      @Red_Pill_  7 років тому +2

      i am south african :)

    • @AndrewAttard78
      @AndrewAttard78 7 років тому

      Woo-hoo!

  • @mohammedabdulmumini107
    @mohammedabdulmumini107 6 років тому

    What movie or serie is that with the priest?

  • @S-Saha.19
    @S-Saha.19 3 роки тому +1

    This channel is fucking gold

    • @Red_Pill_
      @Red_Pill_  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much mate

  • @denizyilmaz8973
    @denizyilmaz8973 7 років тому +8

    really nice channel ! man
    I watched couple of your videos and I realized couple of things
    1. I'm addicted to facebook and TV shows
    2. I'm an alpha male in my mind but outside an annoying stupid beta
    3. I do a lot of "mental masturbation " like u said, I watch this videos about how to improve myself but I don't do anything, I don't get out at all
    *request: could you do more videos about how to manipulate and how to read people, please

    • @mindovermatter5675
      @mindovermatter5675 7 років тому

      Manipulation implies you force someone to do something they don't want to do. The only way to do that is physical force or blackmail them - which you obviously shouldn't do. People are not robots you can control , you have to accept people will do things you don't want them too.There are methods to influence people but they are all hit or miss depending on the type of person you are dealing with.

    • @denizyilmaz8973
      @denizyilmaz8973 7 років тому

      BrainCeps I know that I can control everybody, but manipulation still exists and if u know how to manipulate you can't be manipulated , Do you know anything about reading people?

    • @mindovermatter5675
      @mindovermatter5675 7 років тому +1

      *can't - Never said you can't influence people. Just giving you realistic expectations and explaining the difference between manipulation and influence... It isn't black or white , understanding how to influence people doesn't make you immune , it just means you are less likely to be hustled.You did say you are addicted to tv shows / facebook which implies you spend all your time at home - and if you spend your time at home then you spend no time learning to be socially calibrated (talking to people). If you want to be "alpha" on the outside (like you say) the path is : 10% theory , 90% action.

    • @denizyilmaz8973
      @denizyilmaz8973 7 років тому

      I know that and I'm going to try to get out of my comfort zone
      I deleted my facebook yesterday, now I have to try to get out

    • @mindovermatter5675
      @mindovermatter5675 7 років тому

      Good luck dude

  • @maxthefatfuck9085
    @maxthefatfuck9085 7 років тому

    yo i caught you in Kevin's stream! im a big fan of you too! :DD

    • @Red_Pill_
      @Red_Pill_  7 років тому

      thanks man im also thinking of streaming in the future :)

  • @appow5677
    @appow5677 6 років тому +1

    lmao the last part

  • @tannerhagen774
    @tannerhagen774 7 років тому

    Song at the end please?

  • @LadyLizzieLuna
    @LadyLizzieLuna 7 років тому

    I've heard that song at the end but can't remember who sings it?

  • @michaelnelson1528
    @michaelnelson1528 6 років тому

    The first scene is from the tv show "The Young Pope"

  • @Surfingthekaliyuga
    @Surfingthekaliyuga 6 років тому +1

    The last video tho.

  • @bigmoneyiceman2872
    @bigmoneyiceman2872 5 років тому +1

    I Am the Party.

  • @quentinblake485
    @quentinblake485 5 років тому

    Trust in the process🤣

  • @The2011andrey
    @The2011andrey 6 років тому

    Song at the end

  • @jacobslapinski3710
    @jacobslapinski3710 7 років тому +16

    I love your work but: "Try to cut out unnecessary TV shows" ... clearly watches a hell of a lot of TV shows. Haha.

    • @marcoarana2773
      @marcoarana2773 6 років тому +2

      Jacob Slapinski key word being unnecessary as you can see the tv shows he references have a teaching or you can get valuable information from them

  • @Luckimee
    @Luckimee 6 років тому

    Santigold!

  • @1youngwest
    @1youngwest 7 років тому

    Dis guy knowz wasup

  • @j.r.6627
    @j.r.6627 7 років тому

    And ends onSanti jollygood

  • @TheJourney667
    @TheJourney667 6 років тому

    dependent*

  • @yogib668
    @yogib668 6 років тому

    INDEPENDENT

  • @lieutenantundercover9329
    @lieutenantundercover9329 7 років тому +16

    What is this shit at the end?!

    • @leoveyne7395
      @leoveyne7395 7 років тому +45

      Lieutenant Undercover Proof of his last point, you don't need people.to have fun and once you become indipendent of others people shall gravitate to your energy. It was a brilliant clip to prove the point.

  • @KINGXMAGS
    @KINGXMAGS 5 років тому

    But you watch pesky blinders and young pope 😂

  • @letroid360
    @letroid360 7 років тому +1

    Great video!