19 Simple Psychological Tricks That Actually Work
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- Опубліковано 1 тра 2024
- Have you ever had to use psychological tricks to get what you want? There are a lot of psychological tricks and neuro-linguistic programming tips and there are millions of books and articles written about them. Many of these tricks really help professionals manipulate people and avoid being tricked by others. But are there tips that non-professionals can use on a daily basis?
Psychology is a science with certain laws one cannot ignore. Modern marketing specialists, entrepreneurs, and even swindlers realize that. Bright Side offers a few psychological tricks you can use in everyday life to make it much easier and more exciting for you to reach your goals.
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SUMMARY:
- Never start your request with the words "Could you..." It can cause the other person to subconsciously assume that this is a theoretical question
- If you ever want someone to feel uncomfortable, look at the middle of their forehead during the conversation.
- If someone you're talking to is trying to avoid answering a question, just make a pause in the conversation while still keeping eye contact.
- When asking a question that you want an affirmative answer to, try to nod subtly as you make your request. This trick is often used by restaurants employees to make guests buy more food, and it’s pretty effective!
- If a person is really concentrated on a task (let's say they're in the middle of a serious phone conversation), you can extend your hand to them and get anything they’re holding at the moment.
- If you want somebody to do something for you, casually say how they probably wouldn’t even be able to do it. Most people will try really hard to prove someone wrong when it comes to doubting their capabilities.
- Here’s a good one for negotiations. If you like a person's offer in general but would like to get better conditions, pretend to be a little bit disappointed.
- As soon as your alarm clock goes off, sit up, make two fists, and yell "Yeah!" as if you’re a soccer player who's just scored a goal. It sounds bizarre, but it really does help you easily get out of bed feeling refreshed.
- If a person tries to pull you into an argument or some drama, say something nice to them. The ol’ “kill ‘em with kindness” trick really does stop them in their tracks.
- If you have that one lazy person on your team that slows the whole work process down, don't give them tasks by saying "Do this." It’s better to say "Start with this."
- If someone is staring at you in the subway (happens all-too often, right?), just look at their shoes. Don't give up, keep gazing! It’ll drive them crazy!
- If someone has done something wrong, but you don’t wanna sound too accusing, change the way you construct your sentences.
- If you didn't get a good night's sleep, tell yourself that you did. I know, it sounds like nonsense, but it does work 100% if you say it with meaning!
- People are better at remembering what happened at the beginning and end of the day. As for anything that went on in between, it gets blurry.
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Imagine trying these tricks on someone and that person watched the video too.
😂😂😂
I would cry
hahahaa
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He will watch my shoes, and I watch his Forehead
I was staring at my friends forehead and she said "I know it's big."
Itz LlammaCornz that’s what she said
Lol😂
*legit laugh😂
Lol hahahha
😂😂😂
When you are late to something, don’t say sorry I’m late. Say: thank you for your patience. This especially works well for sales jobs and makes the person you say it to feel more respected.
Wow this is helpful thanks
Thanks for the tip
When people do that sort of thing, I just feel a bit annoyed. It's so manipulative and condescending.
Thx
@Pallavi Dalvi the thing that I said? I was in sales for a large furniture company like 6 years ago and they told us to tell customers “thank you for your patience” instead of “sorry I’m late. “ also why are you typing in all caps and thirsty for likes? I have no interest in thumbs up or thumbs down. My comment was just to pass along what I was taught.
“Smile because it makes people wonder what you are up to” is a quote I heard a long time ago!
That is the quote under my yearbook picture . I used it in 1972, so it is pretty old.
Really??
I feel like they just smilling at you because yes
Granny this is 2021,😁
Spot on!
I wanted to avoid a person's conversation so I looked at their forehead and they thought I was cross eyed.
Soobin is an awkward grandpa that I stan 🤔😀
😂😂😂😂
Hey
Soobin's not awkward grandpa though 😂😅
@@fruity2119 😜😜😜😜😂😂😂
who else watches these videos then forgets about them and ends up in an awkward situation
Me but not that much
Me! DEFINETLY, and totally me
Nobody! Oh this is awkward...
Definitely me!
@@CliftonPhotographer 😂😂😂
When trying to grab someone's attention who is talking loudly over you...Simply just speak softly to them... continue this no matter how loud they are... Subconsciously they will quiet down their voice and speak more softly as they attempt to listen to your words. It's like when you turn the volume down on the radio in your car when you are trying to find an address or see something important infront of you.
Try it...It Actually Works!
A soft answer turns away wrath
When my first child was young I found myself raising my voice. It was not effective and scared her. So I switched to talking softly near her so she had to strain to hear.
A proven technique i have often used arguing with angry customers on the phone - LOL
Not when ur trying to get the attention of 8 screaming 4-year-olds 😭
When someone is staring at me, it feels so uncomfortable because it feels like they are judging your looks...
Ikr!
They could also think you are attractive in most cases.
Shadow Gamer I know right!
Sometimes kids always starring at me, I know there young
But I became so anxious:”
Slap them
same.
As soon as I turned off my alarm, I yelled *"Yeah"* and went back to sleep
Bruh
Hahaha...lol😂🤦♀️
Hahahhaha seriously dude😂
😭😭😂😂
HAHAHAHA
Loudly say “Look Away” always leaves the starer bewildered 😅
That made me laugh because it's so bold. One time I took a bus trip and the guy next to me kept putting his leg on mine. He was very shocked when I finally told him to get his leg off of me. Some people are so weird.
🤣
@@eagleeye2300 , lol
Point into the distance or up in the sky, shielding your eyes as if you`re looking at an object far away. Then give them the thumbs up and wave goodbye, turning on your heels.
When someone is tailgating you on the road, reach up and slowly pretend to adjust your mirror. Most times, the tailgater will back off. It subconsciously reminds people of police officers adjusting their mirror. I learned that years ago and it really works!
They think your getting plate number too
I just slowly apply the brake.
@@reubenmanzo2054 ...then accelerate LF
@@rattusnorvegicus4380 No, just watch as their pants change colour.
@@reubenmanzo2054 I slam on brakes hard and fast…..just sayin
When I was younger I knew my mom wouldn’t let me have something so I’d wait till she was on the phone and she’d shake her head yes. That’s how I got stuff I wanted as a kid 😂
I can relate 😂
I did it but it didn't worked
Thanks for the tip XD I’ll try it out, after quarantine (which will probably take years ;-;)
and all of a sudden my life changed
Yeah i do😂😂👌🏻
2020: When someone stares at you *cough at them*
Lol
😂😂
Lol
Lol...underrated comment
🤣👌
Growing up the youngest in my family, I was often ignored, and sadly still am. Whenever I had something I thought was important, but nobody was paying me attention, I would loudly yell 'fine! I won't say it!'. That always got them begging me to say what it was. I would resist for a minute, enjoying the power I suddenly had over their curiosity, then tell them. Worked every time growing up.
I have the same problem, unfortunatly the times I tried that, they will listen but make it a point to laugh and discount what I said, listing every reason why what I just said has no value.
Did you know that if you go to an texting app if you put :) or :( it'll make a secret emoji!?
@@SuperGreenPlants This is soo sad. It reminds me of my experience growing up. Because I was much younger and therefore smaller they would pass stuff to each other over my head while discussing it.
I didn't quite get what in the world you said
@@user-xw1tb7hw4o for people to listen to me, I had to make them think they wanted to. The thing I found that worked was to make them wonder what I was going to say.
When you need someone to do something, especially if you have a complaint, in a polite tone, start the conversation with “I have a problem. Can you help me?” This works wonders at the customer service counter. Those poor people are so accustomed to yelling and demands that a polite request for help makes them inclined to give you more than you are entitled to. I did this at an airline counter and got $50 in drink coupons when the only thing I was entitled to was an apology.
I like this approach; I’ll have to try it.
If someone is looking at you, look slightly above their head with the expression of something scary being behind them. People love it.
Lol
Lol
Alternatively, act like something really funny is behind them. Look like you're trying to stifle a laugh and maybe pretend to send a text to a friend. They'll seem confused and maybe even embarrassed.
Or stare right back and don't move a muscle, and continue staring even when they start walking away. Making yourself seem like even more of a creep than they are were works pretty well.
😂😂😂😂
Alarm clock rings...
Me: Yeeaaaahhh!
*Goes back to sleep
It really doesn't work!
Nope instead i got hit wth a pillow😧
Alarm clock rings...
Me: Fukin ell *throws alarm clock across the room*
Rohan Patel u deserves a comment like ❤️
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If someone’s body language is closed off to you, mirror their body language. After a minute or so of them talking, uncross your body (arms or legs). Often they will mirror you and become more open to what you have to say.
When interviewing for a job, try to be the last candidate interviewed. 1st candidate interviewed has a 33% chance of being hired. Last candidate has a 66% chance of being hired. Try to schedule your interview late in the day @ the end of the week.
The wake up trick is doesn't seems work
The bed pulled me again, the gravitational power is so strong
Bluenix _Indo oh same happens ALL the time 😔
Too*
Same here
IKR
Tried it. Made two fists, tried to say "YEA" but "NO" came out and I overslept for 2 hours
I sat up. Yelled "yeah" then layed down and went back to sleep.
haha that was funng
haha that was funny
I actually laughed loud at this Lol
Yeah I laughed loud too
LOL
I stare at my boss ,when he is talking to me. Makes for a short conversation
I just pick my nose
Ima do this to MY bosses!!💪
😊
Hehehe
Look at them right in the eyes
To me when someone criticizes you and scolded you never say a word, but instead keep your mouth shut. Coz it makes them puzzled because you aren't easy to manipulate try it!
That's the Perfect thing to do !!!!!
When you come across unbothered and remain silent while being belittled, some people dont know what to do next with that because they're bracing for a fight or argument not to be ignored or their anger not acknowledged. Now they're just standing there alone huffing and puffing with no outlet and probably embarrassed
In a crowded place, like a subway. Keep watching straight ahead and make confident steps, people will automaticly step out of your way.
Oh, that's a good one! I use it all the time! 👍
What if the one on the other side is doing the same walking your way
I do this all the time! It's very effective.
@@josediazasmr6014 Normally you will just shift your gaze by a few degree to say you're moving left around them. They automatically notice the shift and accommodate.
@@josediazasmr6014 a black hole
*alarm goes off*
YEEEEEAAAAH!
*Silently cries back to sleep*
Lolz
😂😂😂
Me 😂
😂😂😂😂
Hahaha lol lol lol
18 is absolutely correct. After a late night, I REFUSE to check the time I went to bed. Thinking I had more sleep has a positive effect.
When someone is staring at me, I also stare at them . In just a milliseconds, they will stop staring at you 😂💯
Samee😂😂
FOLLOW ME most of the time they just keep staring back (it’s usually guys) 😅😐 so I have to be the one to look away then I feel so awkward that I start acting even more nervous & feel more uncomfortable than I was before 😬 I find it best to just ignore the looks completely (for me anyways)
Nicole Love In my case they also stare back but I just keep staring at them. Guurl don't feel awkward you should always keep in your mind that they are the one who should feel the embarrassment.
I just pretend to not notice
Same😂😂😂
I'd get my bosses to approve my requests for parts, vacation time, or pretty much anything by just saying " I don't think that you can approve this, would you tell me who I should go to with my request?" They'd do ANYTHING to prove that they had the authority to approve it.
So, what do you do if they are that person?
@@carriethompson9826 It only works BECAUSE they are that person and will flip the world to prove it.
Genius!!
Uh WHAT?
Did it work?
I was busy reading the comments i didnt know the video ended already 😂😂😂
Oh my gosh me too
Galaxy Mountain oh my god me too
Lol I wasn't even watching the video
Stares at your forehead 😋😜😝
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For me, if someone is staring, I’ll stare back intently and see who breaks away first. Works every time
Me too
Haha
You wouldn't win with me, creep
Same! The intensity of it is fun too
🤣🤣
One of my biggest issues is initiating a conversion with a boss or people that have made me feel uncomfortable in the past. If they come to me...I have no problem talking and usually we both feel better like, why was I even hesitant to talk in the first place. Still working on getting better at this but one thing is for sure... I know I have to keep pushing myself towards those "uncomfortable situations" for me to really grow past this irrational fear many of us have.
When a child get little hurt and if they think no one notice them then they don't cry but if you say what happened then they will start crying 😭
this happened to me when i was little i guess i fell on my forehead cuz there was gravel stuck on there after but i didn't cry or say anything so my mom just didn't say anything😂😂
This one is so true
When someone stares at me, I stare back until they turn away. It works every time, though you will seem like a creep😂
same here😂😂😂😂
😂😂 mee toooooo
😂😂😂
Why would you seem like a creep when it's the other person who started staring at you?
You know some psychopaths would smash your face in right ! You ever lived in NZ ? You walk down the street there staring at people especially gang members they won’t hesitate in slapping you silly until you get a clue
I'm feeling more manipulative, hypocrite and passive aggressive already, thanks!
*makes two fist, raise them in the air and yells "yeah"*
ain't that great ?
Lol same here!
I don't want to be that guy but, the adjective of hypocrite is hypocritical.
@@zixter4756 thank you for being that guy, English is not my mother tongue and now I learned something new
When you arguing back and forth with someone I found that being silent really does work!
When I worked in sales people would ask for a discount for no reason, usually repetitively. After saying no twice I would simply stop answering and not say a word. They usually would start up the conversation again by talking about the product themselves without asking for a discount again.
The greatest Psychological master is our mom😂.
She knows all the tricks of psychology.......
No cap
Because the only man she tries her tricks is our Dad and us😂😂
Yes because its a mothers instinct we where once a kid to
Screamed YEAH today and I realized I have nowhere to go so I went back to sleep
lol with a hahahahha.. you really made me laugh
You made me giggle
Hahahaha
Davis Samwels
Did the neighbours call the cops for disturbance?
YEAH to that!
*alarm goes off
*me sitting up : "YEAAHHHH naahh..."
*proceed to go back to sleep
Me to
Doesn’t everybody although my alarm is my small dog who won’t leave you alone till your up and out of the bed if you get back in she does it again and again till your not in the bed sad
🤣😂
especially now that is getting colder :p
Lol
I tried sitting up and say "yeah", but as I was about to stretch my arms up, I woke up instantly because my back hurt
When someone stares at me, I just asked them if I owe them money believe me they will quit looking at you
In Colombia we say 'did you lose someone same looking'?
They might say yes, you owe them money.
In Dutch: am I wearing something that belongs to you!? Actual phrase: "Heb ik iets van je aan ofzo!?"
When you get pulled over by a cop and he asks you if you know how fast you were going, tell him, "I don't know, but you must have been going faster if you caught up to me." This will cause him to have an existential crisis, enabling your escape.
Hehe hello there
Did it work for you?
Dr Shaym gets shot
Dr Shaym!!!
Dr Shaym lol what don't do this kids you'll end up in jail
That moment when you make eye contact with someone unintentionally, but you both keep looking back every so often to check if they're still staring...
Chemmow so true!
This.
Attraction
I know
Make eye contact and mean business
I just stare right back at them in the eyes, they get all nervous
When I’m calling a business, I first introduce myself, then ask, “How are you today?” I normally get a slight pause like, “Did she really just ask me that?” Then, they ask the same in return. I also say their name before I get to the business of the call. It normally makes the rest of the conversation go well. People in customer service deal with rudeness regularly; I like to remind them that they are important and appreciated.
This also works in public, especially in places where they wear name tags and you can greet them by their name.
That Americanised overly -friendly-from-a-stranger intro, always gets my back up. No stranger on the phone EVER asks how you are today, without wanting something in return. I usually answer "Same as yesterday" or "Never been better". If they reply "That`s great", then I reply, "Why is it great that I remain ill?" All my calls are recorded and the ones with scammers can be hilarious.
I like to say hello or thank you and their name…. If it is a name I can pronounce 😀
I screamed yah and my mom came in and slapped me 🤦♂️
BULLSHIY
Angel Martinez hahaha
Angel Martinez 😂😂😂
But now you are fully awake 🤷♀️
@@cindycolosio3532 lol
Another basic psychological technique is, not using the word forget, when asking someone to do something. Instead, say 'remember' to hit that like and subscribe button.
The same technique is applied when someone is carrying something with liquid in. They say 'don't spill it'. The word spill is now in their mind. Instead, say, keep it steady, this makes them focus on the steady part.
🤔 Does it really work?
I dunno about the "forget" part but I kinda agree with the "spill" thing, if someone told me not to spill something I directly imagine myself spilling it and thus get shaky nerves like I might spill it anytime eventho I have a good grip in it, which sometimes ends up in me taking longer to do something which has a chance of me actually spilling the thing, with the keep "steady" part, I never experienced getting told that when I handle liquids but I have been instructed so for other stuff, and yes, there's still the pressure of actually being steady but I was able to focus on the task more than imagining other stuff
I agree. Commands are more effective than prohibition
A positive command is often more effective than a negative one.
There's a similar principle in training. Don't tell employees what not to do, tell them what to do. We avoid saying "no" words. So instead of saying "Don't put the cables on the side of the truck" we say "put the cables on the wall hook."
This is also, of course, so they know what TO DO as well. If you were to say "*Don't* put the brushes in the sink" you really haven't told them what to do with the brushes. So they'll probably end up on top of the cabinet. Lol. Similar principle I imagine, though. Maybe.
Regarding #12, putting myself in others’ shoes to understand their perspectives is something that I do every day, as that is something that has always come so naturally for me. Being a deeply empathic person is what allows that to happen.😁 And that’s how people know that I do not judge others without knowing and understanding a story/situation.🥰💛🕊️
I know one ☝🏽: when talking to someone start mirroring their movements without being too noticeable if you can. This will make them like you more.
it can also be really irritating and the person will think you're copying them or something if they notice you doing it all
Great video! here's a short index I hope you find useful:
#1… 0:29 … Never start a question with "could you".
#2… 0:58 … Look at the middle of the forehead to make someone uncomfortable.
#3… 1:18 … If someone is avoiding an answer, make a pause while keeping eye contact.
#4… 1:46 … If you want someone to like you, ask them to explain something.
#5… 2:03 …When asking a question you want an affirmative answer to, nod your head.
#6… 2:17 …During a phone call, you can make anyone hold stuff or take it away, without them noticing.
#7… 2:40 … If you want someone to do something for you, doubt they can do it
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#8 … 3:06 … Start nodding in the middle of a conversation, for better attention
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#9 … 3:21 …For negotiation, be disappointed with the offer
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#10 … 3:36 …To wake up, sit up, lift up your hands in a fist and yell "Yeah"
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#11 … 3:55 …Say weird phrases while doing tasks you often forget.
#12 … 4:20 …If someone tries to argue, say something nice to them, put yourself in their shoes.
#13 … 4:49 …Tasks for lazy team member say: Start with this
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#14 … 5:19 …For public speaking, bring water, use the moment of drinking it for a pause to remember.
#15 … 5:51 …If someone is staring at you, look at their shoes.
#16 … 6:04 …If you act worried when you see someone, they'll be worried when they see you
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#17 … 6:19 …Instead of accusing, state the facts.
#18 … 6:38 …If you didn't sleep well, pretend you did.
#19 … 7:04 …It's easy to remember the start of the day or the end of the day, a good tip for job interviews.
Thanks for this...its really very helpful👌
@@rai-ul-ainkhalid6354 nice! Really glad it helps, I found this tips really cool and wanted to take notes on it
SantiProjects I ok
Was looking for this, thanks.
@@control4017 awesome!! Which tip is your favourite?
I have a tip for getting through a crowd at the end of a concert fast ! Just say, in a somewhat loud voice to your friend, "oh god, i think i gotta throw up!' The people within earshot will part in a nanosecond. Get a few steps ahead, aaannndd say it again! 😄 keep doing this til you reach your destination. Works every time 😉
I usually just scream FIRE!!!
8 8 i think its not about them moving because they want to help you, they move because they dont want to be infected with puke
I just scream EXCUSE ME!!! Really loud. It works so well. I guess when they look at you, you have time to escape while they are unaware of their surroundings, or they think that you have to get somewhere urgent.
@Fuzion Shot 🤣
On a random note, I had the flu and puked out a car window on a 6 lane highway. They let us over :)
1:43 very accurate, I didn't tend to be close to one of my classmate but since she is my seatmate and I ask her what did our teacher says. We eventually became friends and always talk to each other at school. I miss uu fe
When interviewing for a job, you should try to arrange to be the LAST person interviewed. An Executive search firm did a study & found that the 1st person interviewed has a 20% chance of being hired, while the LAST person interviewed has a whopping 60% chance of being hired!
If you want something from someone else, start bargaining with more then what you want. For example: you need one day off from your job. You ask your boss two days off. He might refuse. You then ask 'how about one day then'? He will be more likely to accept. This is due to the tendency in humans to give something back in return when they are given something. You 'give' your boss one day and he feels like he should give something back., in this case one day off instead of two.
Wow. This comment is too matured brah!
Stefan Bezema I would look for workers who actually don’t play games as is said in the apprentice “your fired “
Even if it's from boss baby, it's still matured. Stop being jealous🙂If u ddnt knw what to say...you shoul've stayed silent!
It's called the "door to the face" technique
@anastasia kuznetsova It is? I did see the movie but don't remember this being mentioned. I've got it from an article about manipulation, don't remember the source but this advice stuck. I used it sometimes and it actually works
if someone looked at my forehead I will feel uncomfortable cuz of my acne 😂😂👀
Same!!!!
yara fayroz well I felt like I was getting teased behind my back so now I’m getting really rid of my pimples but they are now getting them, whos laughing now? (I’m not actually laughing , I’m not really mean)
I have a big forehead and oily skin so I’d be so self conscious....
MEEE TOOO. You wanna know something horrible? I WAS TALKING TO MY CRUSH AND HE JUST SAT THERE STARRING AT MY FOREHEAD!😔
Im 14 and i don't have acne
If you want someone to like you, offer them a piece of their favorite candy whenever you see them
Eventually, they’ll get excited about seeing you
Just make sure they aren't a diabetic first lol
Then they will use you for the candy
Especially children
I can attest to this as being offered candy as a child made me excited to see them everytime, it was nice.
Just make sure its someone you know or at least trustable. But children prolly dunno that XD
I assume you usually deal with children LOL
Everytime you answer a phone call or call someone , try to smile while talking so you will sound pleasant and not boring..
If you’re trying to get what you want, bring a baseball bat to the conversation, and lightly tap it in the opposite hand while asking the question... People rarely say no to someone with a baseball bat.
Is it because you look so muscular manly and sporty so that you become irresistable
😂 Lol good one !
NRL Sledging Immortals 😅 you’re uh kidding... right?...
Yeah lookin like you gonna beat someone up
Ashleigh Fitzhugh wooosh
I have tried #12 and it works. My neighbor was ranting at me, and instead of arguing back or defending myself verbally, i quietly said, "You did a good job mowing your yard." They stopped yelling (like someone had thrown on the brakes to their mouth!) and walked off. This principle is also found in the writings of King Solomon; Proverbs 15:1 - "A soft answer turns away wrath."
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prayineveryday that's so funny
Just goes to show how little humans have changed emotionally all these thousands of years in spite of all the knowledge and tech advancement..
woahhh thas a good one
Next you should look at his wife and say you look beautiful today
If someone is staring at you, look at their shoes.
Me: looks at their shoes for a moment and then at the crotch area for a larger amount of time.🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
...
If they are wearing gray sweatpants...tehehehe....
SAME!! But I squint my eyes!! The feel so weird they slowly turn away😂😂😂😂
I worked out that not looking at someone's face as you draw near in a crowded space avoids the little dance as you both try to pass on left or right. I learned that when I was homeless and spending too much time walking along busy city streets. It works.
I jumped out of bed at 6:00am and yelled “yeah” *with my fists up* but the next thing I knew, I woke up at 8:30am and was late to school
ME... 😥
Ayrton Purdy story of my life
Set up a alarm, sound is just like the class start. When I was in middle school, it work very well, I some time even can't sleep, too worries it will Ring.
ME TOO OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!
Did you shout YEAH on the second wake up though? 🤔
Instead of saying "sorry", say "thank you" (ex: "sorry for being late" would be "thanks for your patience")
The other person feels less angry and more flattered , so they tend to forgive you more easily.
Good Point.
I’ve been doing that since I read about it and it doesn’t seem to help. Now I wonder if I should have been apologizing lol
instead of saying sorry i cheated on you_ say. Thanks for the opportunity to cheat :
(i will let you know what my gal will say)
Worked in restaurants for 20 yrs. I always told new servers that's the #1 rule to getting better tips. Never say I'm sorry, say I'm on it. Example, I know your food is late. I'm headed back to the kitchen now. If they don't have it ready I'll cook it myself.
I don't agree with that, by saying "sorry" it acknowledges that you are in the wrong, which is what people want to hear when they're tirelessly waiting for you. Saying "thank you" feels like you are taking and profiting something from them, like their time.
I remember when I was younger, my little brother used to have a sign on his bedroom door that said, “no sisters allowed”. I always still went into his bedroom for this reason or that but before I did, I would take a sharpie marker and either make “no” into “noW” adding the W, or I could add a comma onto the end of the no making it a “no, sisters allowed” agreeing with the apposing statement. Even though I got in trouble for it, I knew my parents loved it!
If someone is staring at you look away. If they continue, look away again in a more dramatic fashion. You can tell the level of a person’s sensitivity by observing their reaction or lack of it. (IMO) If they are really callous, maybe, you should find a way to move as far away from them as possible. Also, in subways I would find the largest most dependable person to stand near. Sometimes people will think you are together, and leave you alone or be more cautious. Much of this really can thwart stranger danger.
Can't wait to stare at everyone's forehead tomorrow on my way to work😂
Try that with me bud and you'll regret it.
I'll stare at your shoes.
And I will yell "the window was left open all night!"
Does it work?
You can to me
@@braayan03 imma head to work in like 4 hours. Will keep u updated 😂😂
has 9am lecture
*wakes up at 2pm*
*fists in the air*
‘YEAH’
then goes to a meeting in middle of the day
And misses the next lecture too
soo me. i've been missing lectures all week because of that.
honestly hahaha@@SakinaAhmadi
Then you believe that you got a good night's sleep
Make medical appointment within an hour of the office closing... they will see you immediately because they want to go home.
Now, I don’t necessarily think this is proven but when I start to feel sick, I tell myself I’m not and I focus on other things. I start feeling better immediately. The power of the mind is amazing.
I woke up, said YEYY.. and slept again
Hehehe
🤣😂🤣😂
Me
story of my life
Olive P lol
"Did you lock the door?"
*OPPRESSIVE CRAB*
EJACULATING ANTELOPE
I love this comment
Thank you guys for the likes ❤
If you ask for more than what you actually want, they will give a bit less but that will be what you want. I tried it on my mom and boy, it works like magic.
I saw a comic on this. Probably "Dennis the Menace".
If someone is trying to start an argument, keep agreeing with whatever they say👍🏽
I don’t know why, but when I forget something I look in my fridge and remember it
That’s such a mood
same
WaHt
I wanna try this
Me too 😭
CamilaLaraVlogs your fridge is superb
Why not say “Oppressive Crab” in an interview so that they remember you...
😂
Im dying 😂
I like the way u think, Opressive 🦀!"
Ahahahahhaha!
Good one😄
In some cultures it is considered rude to look them in the eyes, so you need to look at their foreheads. As for me I do not want people looking in my eyes, if they do that they will see the cold empty darkness within.
BRUH
😂☠️
When you're talking to someone and they bring up a subject you'd rather not get into, you can say, at a well-timed cadence, "Decisions like to make themselves sometimes." It doesn't really make sense but it usually makes enough sense to get them thinking and you'll have bought yourself a moment to find your footing for an exit--restroom, phone call, etc.
Here’s how to avoid somebody sitting next to you on the bus or train: if you see someone about eyeing up the seat next to you, tap the seat and smile at them intensely.
I did that and he's now following me home :'(
Petr Lockenbauer wowza
😂😂😂😂
💀💀💀
Lool
Thumbnail: If someone is staring at you, look at their shoes.
Me: *stares back at them*
@Roanne Iman L0L!!!! SAMEEEEEE
YEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Lol I have mental problems...
Edit:
Literally tho...
Me:twirl my eyes
same here😃😃
Most of these tricks I already knew by my own... My fav is the sleeping technique... Making yourself fool by believing that i slept perfect
One time I did something wrong and this guy said “let’s not have that happen again”
That works a lot better than “don’t do that again”
-Someone stares at me
Me: Looks at his shoes
-Not wearing shoes
Me: *Breathing Intensifies*
Loll gurrl😂😂
Ok, now I'm scared IAMDDJAKSIDJ
This make me laugh🤣
I will tell the person to where shoes, come back and stare at me so I can stare at the shoes. Lol😂😂
@@ilovebts7360 Imao
My wife wasn't happy when I jumped out of bed and yelled "yeah" at 6am 😂
This is the funniest comment I have read so far🤣😂🤣😂
Oh! You deserve an award for reading. Keep it up and keep us informed!
@@haralbi I don't understand you mean by your comment.
@@4391gareth probably because I wrote to the guy who appraised your comment as the funniest ever. It was kind of nonsense to me. So do not worry it was not meant to offend you neither it was addressed to you at all.
Dont worry, I cheered her up once you left for work 🤗
If I'm outside, and talking to someone who is sat down and I am stood up, I'll put the shadow of my head across their face, so the sun is shining in their eyes.
I've seen many of these techniques work. I'll have to try the one with staying awake after my alarm clock goes. I have lots of problems with going back to sleep afterwords, then getting up and starting my day.
Did it work?
I tried shouting YEAH when waking up but my cellmate says he'll break my head open if I do it again.
😅😅😅
You had me in the first half not gonna lie
uh cell?
This comment should be at 10k likes😂 underrated comment
😂 😂 😂 😂
When you did sth wrong, for example when you're late, turn the negative situation into a positive situation, e.g. by saying "Thanks that you waited" instead of "Sorry that I'm late"
That's really good advice
Or, “at least I showed up”
"Thanks for clearing your own desk out before leaving you low functioning sociopath."
@@1981Mog .
@@1981Mog ,
When I catch someone looking at me I stare back and inorder to avoid chickening out and breaking eye contact I solve maths equations in my head whilst staring blankly at them so that I don't have to focus on the intense staring competition which would make me feel nervous .
They usually look away
Okay, I just realized that my principal stared at me while saying nothing, made me uncomfortable, and forced me to answer why I was arriving at school late. And he did this several times, lol.
when I was young woman, I worked in an all male environment....loved it and most of these guys were so smart, funny that I looked forward to going to work every single day. However, two of them could never speak to me without staring directly at my chest, which would rattle me. One guy was bald and the other had a big belly. My much older and wiser girlfriend told me to stare directly at the bald head or the big belly whenever either of these guys talked to me. It worked!!!!! I rattled THEM.......soon they would shift their eyes to mine and within a week or two I had trained them to look at my face and not my chest while speaking to me. It was so liberating and it also resolved this issue without firing a shot.
😄 Oh, your friend is really smart!
Wow the nerve 🤦♂️
The trick is brilliant
Noted xD
Oooh, I'll do that method!
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Mateus Vitor Not you
Do you care?
@@mateusvitor4557 ok.
Thx
If someone's putting you down and you want to feel better about yourself. ..say "I'm sorry YOU feel that way" ! It makes it their problem not yours and makes you feel better.
#9 - 3:25 - You said "prepare" but the word in the sentence is "pretend."
If someone is staring at you, yawn, yawning is contagious. If the person yawned, that means that the person is staring at you! Then look at thier shoes to drive them crazy
Everyone knows this
Duh lol
Also, you could look at their shoes like the video said, but instead of just staring at their shoes all the time you could look back at them with a disgusted expression, then look away as if you didn't want to see what you just saw, they'll think something is wrong with them and will become paranoid, and every time they notice someone is looking at them they'll feel insecure...
Well, i actually don't know if any of that would work, but i think it could >_>
The reason why yawning is contagious Because it means that your body is switching modes. I'd someone is switching modes or yawning, your body will think it is time to switch modes. Yawning during a teachers lecture means change the subject, or I'm ready to get active. I'm not an expert.
Well no, not entirely true. Even if you catch a yawn anywhere in your peripheral vision, it could make you yawn as well. Doesn't mean they were looking at you at all.
Warning ⚠️ DO NOT wake up and yell “YEAH” while someone else is in the bed 🤷🏾♀️
Why not
Hahahhahaha
Probably gonna punch them in the face or knock them of the bed
Cuz it's my cat sis who is on the bed,I can knock her down cuz she's only a little kitten
@@RageQuitter. That doesnt matter.
I used to get embarrassed when I could see someone staring at me out of my peripheral. I eventually got to the point of where I would stare back and not back down, even if minutes go by, I would stare. Whenever they’d break, I’d continue to stare for a few moments longer, non verbally letting them know that two can play at that game. Sometimes they’ll eventually get a puzzled look on their face and ask me why I’m staring at them, and I’ll normally respond with “You started staring at me first, I assume you have a reason for that.”
When I wake up I take a drink of water then turn my alarm off it truly works wonders for me
I woke up and screamed yeah and my dad broke my door because he thought I was dying.
yeah my parents would bring me to a psychiatric ward if I became a morning person. Let people be tired already. forcing your body to function top notch when it is depleted is the start of many modern chronic illnesses. It is in fact ok to grumpy, a bit lazy, a bit angry, a monday hater, a tuesday hater, whatever. Be yourself. Life is already so weird, we need to slow down
Your dad broke down your door because he found out you watch Bright Side in a non-sardonic manner. He's coming in to put you down.
And then everyone stood up and clapped.
Your lying about this. It's okay. You don't have to make up stories, we will pay attention to you for other reasons! Stop the lies please! Thanks.
You made me laugh, well done stranger
If I scream "yeah", I'll wake up the neighbors as well.
Lol right
Then yell-whisper it.
Me to
Same. Besides, some of our neighbors could have night shifts and just got home from work, so we could get them angry for disturbing them.
Not me
It's amazing how no one thought to say that if someone is staring at you, it could be that they are flirting with you. Truly, how things have changed.
My friend met her dream husband like that
A conversation started and they realised they needed each other
A lovely couple now though second marriages
Oh no even WORSE
@@yemisiaderuku2902 oh nice
Thanks bright side! Worked amazingly :)