Celesta's Journey Out of the FLDS Polygamous Church

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  • Опубліковано 24 сер 2023
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    Welcome to Celesta's Journey from FLDS Polygamy to Freedom. In this captivating episode, we delve deep into the extraordinary life of Celesta, a courageous young woman who defied the confines of the FLDS polygamous church to reclaim her life and embrace true freedom.
    Join us as we hear Celesta's powerful first-hand account of growing up in a world that demanded conformity, sacrifice, and blind obedience. From a childhood filled with rigid doctrines to the heart-wrenching decisions she had to make to break away from her family and the love she knew, every step of her journey is a testament to the strength of the human spirit.
    In this episode, we explore the emotional complexities of Celesta's transition from a life of suppression to one of self-discovery. We discuss the challenges she faced, the allies she found along the way, and the moments that gave her the determination to forge a new path. Her story serves as a beacon of hope for those who seek their own liberation and a greater understanding of the resilience of the human soul.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 83

  • @ms.fancypants8548
    @ms.fancypants8548 11 місяців тому +61

    This video made my week. The fact that group of FLDS kids were jamming to Ludacris made my day 😀On a more serious note I am so grateful to you all for sharing this amazing story with us. ❤

    • @GrowingUpinPolygamy
      @GrowingUpinPolygamy  11 місяців тому +13

      Haha it is a funny thought that someone dressed that way would be jamming to that.

  • @arianacoleman7801
    @arianacoleman7801 11 місяців тому +39

    I love her rebellious spirit! Thanks for sharing your story and thanks for facilitating it Melissa and Sam! 😊

    • @GrowingUpinPolygamy
      @GrowingUpinPolygamy  11 місяців тому +4

      You're welcome! It was our pleasure :)

    • @China-Clay
      @China-Clay 11 місяців тому

      Rebellious? I like to think that Celesta was trying to be honest! Right?!!

  • @kannakanina6552
    @kannakanina6552 11 місяців тому +22

    Celesta, your strength and resilience are inspiring. Best wishes to you and your family!

  • @cannibalculture4499
    @cannibalculture4499 11 місяців тому +23

    What a brave girl you were and what a beautiful, strong woman you've become. Congratulations on making your own way. There is no doubt in my mind that your father is watching over you and your new family, proud as proud can be. And I hope that your mom comes to see the light. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

    • @windowgirl7300
      @windowgirl7300 Місяць тому

      Her father is NOT watching over her - HE'S DEAD!! There's NO GOD, and if anything should prove it... it's HER STORY!!

  • @grandmaschuman
    @grandmaschuman 11 місяців тому +35

    Such a great story of a woman knowing her own mind! Thanks for sharing it with us Celesta!

  • @michellez13
    @michellez13 11 місяців тому +15

    Celesta, I wish you and your family nothing but happiness and all the good things! Thank you for sharing your story. You are truly an inspirational woman!

  • @starri9103
    @starri9103 11 місяців тому +15

    I'm so glad at your strength as a person. I'm forever appalled at the hypocrisy that goes on, but good on you for seeing through it all and taking your own path. You're a good example for others. Super glad you got your dad's house. 👍

  • @genevievekelly4998
    @genevievekelly4998 11 місяців тому +16

    I feel for the ones on the outside that have been deprived of family on the inside

  • @genevievekelly4998
    @genevievekelly4998 11 місяців тому +13

    Celesta is so interesting because of her strong indomitable spirit

  • @ocdmom7889
    @ocdmom7889 9 місяців тому +5

    I have so much respect for the way you handled this interview. I am glad that you have found happiness and are still close to your family (those that will be close to you). So many today are throwing around the "cult" word when they do not agree with a religion they are leaving. I love that you presented the good, the bad, and the really ugly in a dignified way. Thank you

    • @sof1675
      @sof1675 6 місяців тому +3

      FLDS is a cult tho

    • @ocdmom7889
      @ocdmom7889 6 місяців тому

      @@sof1675 🥲

  • @DarkbutNotsinister
    @DarkbutNotsinister 11 місяців тому +7

    I’ve been waiting all week for this!!

  • @carriedream101
    @carriedream101 11 місяців тому +7

    I just watched part 1 last night and I’m so excited for part 2!

  • @baileymae5883
    @baileymae5883 10 місяців тому +4

    Your channel is so appreciated. I am not from a religious background, but have always been fascinated by these types of stories. Sending so much love to every single person that comes from religious or cultic trauma

  • @sarahhaakenson5330
    @sarahhaakenson5330 10 місяців тому +4

    Wow Celesta you are a strong amazing survivor. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you guys for sharing this with us.

  • @williampopper59
    @williampopper59 11 місяців тому +3

    A very heartwarming story , thank you!👍🙏🙏

  • @vjs4539
    @vjs4539 11 місяців тому +5

    Celesta's mom is one of the sweetest women I've ever met.

    • @amyarthurs4966
      @amyarthurs4966 6 місяців тому +1

      Were you also part of the flds?

  • @user-gh2fo9pw2b
    @user-gh2fo9pw2b 4 місяці тому +3

    Just starting this, but this girl is so freaking cool, I would totally hang out with her ✌ ❤ I am beyond proud of her, she is so corageous, brave and intellegent, also, she is so funny, I love her sense of humor!!!😂 I was literally laughing out loud😅 More comments later! ETA, spelling, auto correct you kind of suck😂

  • @Siobhan146
    @Siobhan146 11 місяців тому +5

    She is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @Lovecoffe506
    @Lovecoffe506 11 місяців тому

    You are wonderful ❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing

  • @BaileyGroe
    @BaileyGroe 11 місяців тому +5

    Can we all take a moment to appreciate the new GUIP logo. Love the new look. ❤

  • @christinecrowley7132
    @christinecrowley7132 11 місяців тому

    Wonderfully positive video.

  • @hanxo7118
    @hanxo7118 11 місяців тому +2

    Been around from the start these videos are my bedtime listen so calming ❤

  • @Kristenm28
    @Kristenm28 6 місяців тому

    Great story and teller!

  • @yvonnes8701
    @yvonnes8701 5 місяців тому +2

    I had the same rebellious spirit! I didn’t like socks growing up so I’d cut the tops and tuck them into my shoe to make it look like i was wearing them… so interesting how kids think of these creative ways to rebel only holy long johns sound so much worse!

  • @terryarmstrong8598
    @terryarmstrong8598 2 місяці тому

    A delightful and wise woman. Her spirit shines through the tragedy and losses in her life. I immediately recognized who her father was in the photograph of him shown early in part one. I knew some of his story and the cruelty of how he was treated by the truly wicked FLDS priesthood powers that were and sadly still be.
    I knew immediately that Celesta's story would be personal to me on a deep level.I had a treasured friendship with a former sister wife to her paternal grandmother.
    Celesta speaks of my friend in part one of this interview, although she doesn't reveal my friend's name. My friend would appreciate Celesta's thoughtfulness.
    Things Celesta reveals fills in a part of my friend's story she never fully talked about with our little group of friends. Celesta's revelations about the circumstances of my friend's marriage with Celesta's paternal grandfather has given me much to process about my beloved friend's story left unspoken to me. That part of my friend's life explains to me why we had such a strong bond. My process of learning more is with a joyful heart. But cancer sucks.
    My remembrances of my friend fill my heart with a deep and abiding love.
    I'm grateful for this UA-cam channel and the guests. Celesta is special to me because of our connection to my "wicked" friend. As is the recent interview with one of Warren's young wives who left the FLDS. She and Celesta have warmed my heart with the love I have known.
    I thank you all for deepening my understanding and appreciation of my Ex-FLDS friend. The times shared with my beloved friend were an extraordinary period in my life. The love is forever with me. ❤

  • @americathebeautiful9613
    @americathebeautiful9613 11 місяців тому +7

    Celesta is amazing ❤ very good and beautiful girl - I grew up in stg and always thought was is going on with these people when I would see them bc they would seem so blank stared at the store - never knew what absolute hell most of them experience

  • @stephaniebohn9002
    @stephaniebohn9002 7 місяців тому

    Good story so glad she is happy now. Best thing she is in her family home.

  • @Peaceshiet812
    @Peaceshiet812 10 місяців тому +3

    I’d love to know the plight of FLDS women who can’t have children, has this been addressed anywhere?

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 місяців тому

    Liked, shared and commented

  • @Goldie_F
    @Goldie_F 11 місяців тому +3

    I’ve seen FLDS women in Pleasant Grove shopping. Wearing purple prairie dresses. Also, my husband and I were in Murray eating at a buffet, and we saw a bunch of FLDS women {also wearing purple prairie dresses} getting food to go. Seems like FLDS live all over the place now {in Utah anyway.}

    • @MsFitz134
      @MsFitz134 11 місяців тому +2

      Back when I grew up (90s) in Sandy we lived near Warren's school and would see FLDS mothers at the grocery store all the time. In the late 90s they were all called to leave the city and move out to Short Creek. Now that much of Short Creek has been reclaimed by former members, I see FLDS women spread out in various small towns (especially Beaver) but haven't seen them up in SLC. I've noticed they're usually in darker colors like black and purple instead of pastels.
      I've also heard that many of the faithful are being called to remote places so I wonder what the status of these women is - are they "repenting"? Are they recently out? Are they living the teachings but no longer loyal to Warren? Were they told to get jobs in the gentile world? Whatever the reason, I always wonder if this is the mother of an "apostate" that I've seen on this channel. I always want to ask if they have a child somewhere that I can reach out to to let them know their mom is okay, but I assume it wouldn't be well received.

    • @Sunset-chaser777
      @Sunset-chaser777 11 місяців тому

      There’s a lot in Eagle Mtn.. most in Utah County are AUB based in Bluffdale!

    • @MsFitz134
      @MsFitz134 11 місяців тому

      @@Sunset-chaser777 yes but the AUB don't wear the distinctive dresses that the FLDS do.

    • @aliciahupprich187
      @aliciahupprich187 11 місяців тому

      I recently went on a Roadtrip in the four corners areas and I saw several FLDS in Kanab.

  • @yvonnemoujalli6904
    @yvonnemoujalli6904 10 місяців тому +1

    you are born free and you should live free .God gave us brain to use not to be controlled .Have a happy life to you'll .

  • @SnoopyDoofie
    @SnoopyDoofie 11 місяців тому

    At the end you said that all those originally from The Crick are no longer there. So where did the former FLDS move to?

    • @vjs4539
      @vjs4539 11 місяців тому +1

      Most of the people living in Colorado city and hildale are former FLDS. The people who are still in the church are scattered throughout the US

    • @SnoopyDoofie
      @SnoopyDoofie 11 місяців тому

      @@vjs4539 So correct me if I'm wrong. The members live all over the place, are controlled by Warren Jeffs from prison and no longer marry? Isn't that the same thing as just saying the FLDS no longer really exists?

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 місяців тому +3

    Break the silence. Break the cycle.

  • @meomy29
    @meomy29 11 місяців тому +2

    It's great that her Ex let her leave the state she was in.

  • @deecawford
    @deecawford 11 місяців тому +2

    These stories or innocent lives is so intense. I mean I sit here cheering for her, no don’t marry him just leave lol. I know in my heart it’s not that easy

  • @barbwestover1275
    @barbwestover1275 11 місяців тому +2

    What is the name of her UA-cam blog?

  • @shirlzitting647
    @shirlzitting647 11 місяців тому

    Great soul... Happily ever after.

  • @pernilladomander7648
    @pernilladomander7648 10 місяців тому

    Your grandfather had children your age. Very weird fact to us outside of the cult :) Was that kind of situation normalized early on?

  • @candykane4271
    @candykane4271 10 місяців тому +1

    Difficult to imagine her in her FLDS dresses and smoking pot …in rebellion.

  • @kristenkaz3080
    @kristenkaz3080 11 місяців тому

    It says A LOT about a religion if the description used is “ESCAPE”. Think about that. A religion that’s so “cloak & dagger” with secret ceremonies & secret handshakes, not to mention underage brides & secret underwear, is pretty darn scary. I pray for these people. Routinely. I had a best friend who was raised Mormon (her brother is the gay brother who got proposed to in Home Depot), & the stuff I saw & heard scared me. Especially the baptism ceremony with the church elders baptizing her teenage body in the baptismal pool. I pray for these people.

  • @pernilladomander7648
    @pernilladomander7648 10 місяців тому

    11:06 what was flying by?

  • @windowgirl7300
    @windowgirl7300 Місяць тому

    ADVICE - Stay away from organized RELIGION."

  • @asiapersonalable
    @asiapersonalable 6 місяців тому +1

    It’s so sick to control someone’s underwear. 😮

  • @noelcaro9182
    @noelcaro9182 2 місяці тому

    Poor girl ❤️ I hope she knows the real Jesus now!! 🙏🏻

  • @Robindigsit
    @Robindigsit Місяць тому

  • @jeremyleforce7926
    @jeremyleforce7926 6 місяців тому

    And Melissa calls Sam a rebel. 😂😂

  • @teemarie5478
    @teemarie5478 11 місяців тому +2

    She seems like a really cool, down to earth chick. I like her 😩

  • @janineshideler4051
    @janineshideler4051 8 місяців тому

    It's funny, you could tell they are from a tight cult just by hearing her say, "we formicated", people would never say that outside a cult, they just say "we had sex."

  • @greatislife435
    @greatislife435 Місяць тому

    I still wonder why it was ok for your grandpa Ron to let his pregnant daughter live at home. It was hush hush even in his own family? And you were rushed off because of sleeping with a boy.! It’s all different when it’s your own kid messing up

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 11 місяців тому +5

    The pants thing always makes me think they just want the women accessible. It’s easier to assault someone who isn’t wearing pants. Just saying.

    • @MsFitz134
      @MsFitz134 11 місяців тому +5

      They do wear long underwear (and sometimes leggings or tights to cover the long underwear) under the dresses though. So I don't think it's about accessibility but rather subservience and teaching women to fear or be ashamed of their bodies.

  • @marys.currie9026
    @marys.currie9026 11 місяців тому +3

    I don't get it🤔 She was able to go out to parties, have a mobile phone, wear make up , drink alcohol, take drugs, drive a car and go to town to buy clothes, music cd's etc. Why didn't she just leave like Sam did. Why did she keep going back.
    It sounds like to me that she had her freedom for years but wanted to live a double life. She wanted to have her cake and eat it.
    The church can't be that strict if you are able to work and go out and about as much as you want 🤔

    • @CarolynandherClothes
      @CarolynandherClothes 11 місяців тому +6

      She was female (they are needed for marrying off ) and a minor.

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 11 місяців тому +9

      Legally her parents could have her brought back until she was 18.

    • @lantanarh
      @lantanarh 11 місяців тому +8

      She did at the 16 and they brought her back

    • @emrysaki
      @emrysaki 11 місяців тому +36

      You’re criticizing a child in a cult for not running away effectively enough?

    • @americathebeautiful9613
      @americathebeautiful9613 11 місяців тому +10

      she was not living a double life - she had zero support outside of that isolated community - it’s just not that easy - Sam at least got to go out and work and see the outside world in a work setting she never had that just contact with young ex plyg kids that are completely lost and traumatized . Hope that makes sense it’s good to ask questions I can see how it’s sounded a bit confusing

  • @karlakh
    @karlakh 7 місяців тому

    I don't agree with many viewers. This story came out awkward and disjointed. I think she did it only for a shoutout for her YTchannel.