Inside The Most INSULAR Sect of Hasidic Judaism

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  • @AndrewGold1
    @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +240

    You asked for it - more on the Hasidic community. What would you like me to do next? (and hit the like!)

    • @iamgc369
      @iamgc369 Рік тому

      Hey there Andrew 👋
      All religions are cults.

    • @michellemooresings
      @michellemooresings Рік тому +11

      Oh that's what I was really interested in learning more about.

    • @angelathompson4298
      @angelathompson4298 Рік тому +2

      Sorry I missed most of the premiere. I'll have a proper look now.

    • @fallon7616
      @fallon7616 Рік тому +13

      Great guest, Andrew 🇱🇷💯🥰

    • @angelathompson4298
      @angelathompson4298 Рік тому +10

      Andrew, are there any of these Hasidic communities in Britain? Maybe you could find somebody to interview face to face.

  • @peterdalyy3542
    @peterdalyy3542 Рік тому +570

    I think this woman is so open and so honest, she left the community but she is not bitter such an Intelligent person

    • @miglek9613
      @miglek9613 Рік тому +20

      yeah, likely because her family didn't actively destroy her life like the families from ost extremist religions do. It's very obvious from the interview her family was extremely tolerant compared to others (she was allowed to read books from a library, keep her child after leaving, enter the community while wearing pants later on, etc)

    • @jasonadamik2206
      @jasonadamik2206 Рік тому +14

      And that she isn't even a native English speaker is simply astounding. She's an incredibly articulate and attractive lady.

    • @lorrainehameiri3419
      @lorrainehameiri3419 Рік тому +14

      An amazingly intelligent woman.Such a balanced outlook on life and its complexities.Amazing insight , sensitivity and so understanding and respectful.

    • @vonickles5033
      @vonickles5033 Рік тому +8

      Very genuine woman

    • @mariaviscione-ho7zc
      @mariaviscione-ho7zc Рік тому

      ​@@vonickles5033ppp

  • @anonymousanonymous9844
    @anonymousanonymous9844 Рік тому +309

    What a darling! She's so honest and non judgemental! As an hasidic woman I feel that she portrayed us honestly and wasn't eager to lie and make us look like a cult like some others that left the community do. Thank you Frieda! It's always a pleasure watching you!

    • @saschamayer4050
      @saschamayer4050 Рік тому +22

      What? You're hassidic?
      How do you get access to the internet? Isn't that forbidden?

    • @TawnyC_
      @TawnyC_ Рік тому +11

      Yeah how are you watching this?

    • @vettelover695
      @vettelover695 Рік тому

      @@saschamayer4050 sounds like a cult to me! Cults restrict information. They restrict access to controlled contradictory information about the cult. They cause fear of the outside. They isolate the acolytes. They justify their isolation and “special “ knowledge. They dress in a way that signifies membership and /or relating to dogma. This is just the beginning. Look up Cult tendencies.

    • @aprilwardle6859
      @aprilwardle6859 Рік тому +12

      She did a fantastic interview on her channel with an elderly hisidic lady called pearl. Great bunch of interviews

    • @Monica-gene1
      @Monica-gene1 Рік тому +4

      @@saschamayer4050 was just thinking the same thing!

  • @mamaocillian
    @mamaocillian Рік тому +315

    Frieda’s channel is fantastic! Not a Jew myself, but totally facilitated with her channel and understanding a different culture than my own. She does a fantastic job showing the community with respect without it seeming like she is exploiting the community.

    • @vonickles5033
      @vonickles5033 Рік тому

      What is her Chanel called?

    • @hemera73
      @hemera73 Рік тому

      @@vonickles5033 www.youtube.com/@FriedaVizelBrooklyn

    • @ShaunBoden-zw5zu
      @ShaunBoden-zw5zu Рік тому

      Facilitated by a channel thats new mate.

    • @writerdirect
      @writerdirect 11 місяців тому

      aside from the fact she knows absolutely nothing shes great

    • @jiltedjohn9294
      @jiltedjohn9294 7 місяців тому

      @@writerdirect You know loads ?

  • @geisaroveri5310
    @geisaroveri5310 Рік тому +80

    Frieda is the gentlest, most insightful, intelligent and caring former-Hasidic I know. She has the best tours (which I recommend). She shows and talks about the community with a smile in her face which shows that she truly cares and respect them despite the pains she might have endured. I am always in awe to listen to her. Her vocabulary, her eloquence… all so inspiring. Andrew, you really nailed it! You are my favorite people! (This is not a paid advertising)

    • @meghanmantler9476
      @meghanmantler9476 Рік тому +3

      Where does she do yours? In Williamsburg? Joel?

    • @Monica-gene1
      @Monica-gene1 Рік тому +1

      I know! Love her and her channel. I could be friends with her easily!

  • @worldsnacked7150
    @worldsnacked7150 Рік тому +40

    I'm a huge fan of balanced commentary. I have been watching Frieda's channel for a while. She's a pleasure to watch.

  • @sk8rjockid
    @sk8rjockid Рік тому +64

    What a charming, fair-minded/-hearted, and thoughtful guest!

  • @MarilynAlmodovar
    @MarilynAlmodovar Рік тому +216

    Just leaving this here, after listening to the lady explain. The Hanukkiah is the Hanukkah Menorah which can hold 9 candles, the eight candles representing 8 nights plus the Shamash, which is the candle used to light the other candles each night. A regular Menorah has 7 branches, for 7 candles. It's meant to be like the Menorah in the 1st and 2nd temples. So every Hanukkiah is a Menorah, but not every Menorah is a Hanukkiah.

    • @alg11297
      @alg11297 Рік тому +19

      Hard to believe someone who grow up in this community for years would not know that.

    • @Barbara-bl7xv
      @Barbara-bl7xv Рік тому +9

      @@alg11297 This also surprises me very much, but is not the only thing that Frieda does not know anymore.

    • @alg11297
      @alg11297 Рік тому +5

      @@Barbara-bl7xv Anymore? Says alot for person who claims to be a victim of a community and then makes a living showing outsiders what it's all about.

    • @samcarter8828
      @samcarter8828 Рік тому +36

      Hanukkiah is a modern Hebrew word, and it's not generally used in the Orthodox community; rather, we just say menorah.

    • @stephenfisher3721
      @stephenfisher3721 Рік тому +47

      As an older American Jew, I had not heard hanukkiah in my youngest years but called it menorah as most everyone else in my time and place. Over time Israeli Hebrew, food and culture began to influence much of American Jewry. But Satmar Jews do not support modern political Zionism. Their Hebrew is Loshen Koydesh (Holy Tongue) not modern Israeli Hebrew. Of course, they would not use hanukkiah, a word invented by Zionists and used in modern Israel.

  • @lorrainemclean3914
    @lorrainemclean3914 Рік тому +55

    As a non Jew I’ve learnt so much from Frieda!! She has a deep and genuine respect which opens a window through which to view Hasidic culture without the added anger/resentment of being OUT, OUTTED or OTHERED!! It’s so refreshing!!!!

  • @bobbieanderson5791
    @bobbieanderson5791 Рік тому +185

    I am a Christian female and worked as a cleaning person for a large Hasidic family for over a year. I became close with the family and was invited to some events. It is a different way of life but thoroughly enjoyed it. I learned a lot and the daughters were interested in my life. I cleaned for other family members too. The wedding was a learning experience!

    • @DrarayneThelas
      @DrarayneThelas 3 місяці тому +5

      You’re fortunate to be brought into their culture with welcome arms!! Amazing 🎉 all religions are beautiful in their own aspect. Judaism is very interesting to me

    • @AnnaParada-x3y
      @AnnaParada-x3y 3 місяці тому

      YES I DON'T SEE ANY CHRISTIAN PEOPLE HELPING THEIR NEIGHBORS ARE HELPING A WOMAN THAT'S A WIDOW ALONE IN ARKANSAS SO YEAH THEY THE CHRISTIAN PEOPLE ARE NOT UNITED THEY JUST CARE THAT THE BUILDING YOU KNOW THE CHURCH IS MOST MAINSTREAM CHRISTIANITY SO IT'S A BUSINESS OKAY THEY DON'T HELP THE POOR IN THE HOMELESS I WORK WITH THE POOR AND THE HOMELESS THERE'S NO CHURCHES THAT ARE CHRISTIANS THAT HELP DON'T BE FOOLED THEY DON'T CARE NOTHING ABOUT YOU UNLESS YOU ARE BELONG TO THEIR CHURCH THE CHRISTIANS I'M TALKING ABOUT SO THIS LADY THAT THE JEWISH COMMUNITY IS BEAUTIFUL I GREW UP IN BROOKLYN PART OF MY LIFE SEEN THE HASIDIC JEWS AND ORTHODOX JEWS THEY ALL HELP EACH OTHER YOU DON'T SEE THAT IN MAINSTREAM CULTURES NOBODY CARES PEOPLE ARE NARCISSISTIC AND SELFISH THEY CLAIM TO BE TOO BUSY

  • @geriattrique7141
    @geriattrique7141 Рік тому +14

    Frieda is awesome! I love her channel! I would love to go on one of her walking tours in NYC! ❤️

  • @andreaf7886
    @andreaf7886 Рік тому +55

    As someone who is not Jewish nor knowledgeable about the Hasidic community in any way, I've learned so much from Frieda's channel. She offers a respectful, and nonjudgemental perspective. I'm glad I was able to learn more about this thoughtful, caring, and intelligent woman.

  • @cdewey5115
    @cdewey5115 Рік тому +148

    I feel Frieda shows respect for her former community and her family. She really describes her life in the Hasidic community growing up.

    • @businesswalks8301
      @businesswalks8301 Рік тому +8

      yea she advocated for her cult very well. it's not a cult, it's a different way of life and she did well make it more relatable. all other cults should learn from her.

    • @beans4853
      @beans4853 Рік тому +6

      @@businesswalks8301 She doesn't seem to advocate for it very much. She just shows how even though it didn't work for her, it works beautifully for thousands of others who do chose this way of life

    • @businesswalks8301
      @businesswalks8301 Рік тому

      @@beans4853 I try to tell the scientologist the same thing, just because you didn't like it, doesn't mean all the other tortured souls in your cult don't like. they should learn from Frieda on how to make it seem like a lifestyle choice and not coercion.
      lol if you think being born into a cult is a choice, you are insane. I got 5 likes to my original comment because they couldn't tell I was being VERY sarcastic, Frieda is of course OUT of her mind. I heard those rabbis abuse the kids and spank grown women with goat hangers. stop the madness

  • @annmilvado9913
    @annmilvado9913 Рік тому +26

    I am ultra orthodox.
    Frieda is the only ex-Hassid who does not bash the community.
    Mainstream media is very anti-religious.
    So anyone who will bash a religious community is made into a celebrity, a best selling author.
    That is what fuels a lot of the bashing, the $$$
    And attention it generates.

  • @mwalter3755
    @mwalter3755 Рік тому +25

    Frida brilliantly explains the complexities dividing the outsiders view and the Hasidic insiders experience. So wise and articulate. The interviewer does a good job as well, letting her speak and appreciating the content.
    Frida we appreciate your work and contribution to the Hasidic community’s presence in the world and I think this is your way of being part in a way that works for you!
    Thank you!

  • @jojowynne233
    @jojowynne233 Рік тому +89

    Frieda has had a different experience with the Hasidic community and I’m glad she came on to speak about it. I can only imagine it’s still hard for her being hurt and shunned by people she loved and thought loved her. However, she seems to have built a life for herself and becoming a UA-camr. Frieda speaks so eloquently, it’s the one thing I’m sure she’s happy about that the girls got taught English. Well done Frieda!

  • @carmelpaints313
    @carmelpaints313 Рік тому +27

    Only 15 mins in, so I've not heard her story of leaving the community, but I have loved Frieda's content ever since I discovered it several months ago. Thank you so much for this interview - I think she is such a role model to all! She gives such a calm, balanced and view of the community she came from and how it connects with the secular world.

  • @hannahs548
    @hannahs548 Рік тому +26

    Frieda is the most balanced ex hasidic I know! I love you Frieda, you spread love!! Ur making the world a better place ❤

  • @patricianoel7782
    @patricianoel7782 Рік тому +54

    As a Mormon, just watched 2 of Frieda’s episodes and found Andrews interview. Im actually in a faith crisis as a Mormon of 60 years. I appreciate the discussion of lifestyles as well as God. Thank you so much for sharing such new knowledge. ❤

    • @suzannakoizumi8605
      @suzannakoizumi8605 Рік тому +6

      Please go to a Catholic Church for 5 Sundays in a row and then decide if the Catholic Church may offer you peace.

    • @patricianoel7782
      @patricianoel7782 Рік тому +6

      @@suzannakoizumi8605 i definitely would. My second husband was Catholic and 2 out of 4 of my kids spouses are Catholic. 😉

    • @jbailey1898
      @jbailey1898 Рік тому +7

      I am also LDS and have gone through a faith crisis period. I have since been able to move through it and feel so liberated by what I learned. I have moved from "brittle belief" to " flexible faith." If you're interested, watching faith crisis episodes by Jared Halverson has been wonderful. Wishing you the best.

    • @patricianoel7782
      @patricianoel7782 Рік тому +4

      @@jbailey1898 I’ve watched JH. Very good. Also, read “Faith After Doubt” by Brian McLaren. It is wonderful. Press on, friend. ❤️

    • @christiner168
      @christiner168 Рік тому +3

      As a Mormon all I want you to know is that the gift of Jesus Christ's life it's all you need, and there is nothing more you need to do in order to get into heaven but believe that uses Christ as your savior. Please go to a bookstore and get the gospel that's not Mormon made. May the Lord bless you always! You are worthy now! ❤

  • @charlayned
    @charlayned Рік тому +28

    I have a friend who converted to Judaism and who lives with her boyfriend on the edge of a more modernized Orthodox neighborhood. She tells me about things and I sometimes don't understand them, Frieda did a great job of explaining things. Thanks for the interview.

  • @susanmagalas3074
    @susanmagalas3074 Рік тому +19

    I have already come across Frieda's podcasts and thoroughly enjoy them. I think Frieda has inherited her mother's ability to story tell - she has a wonderful voice and is so easy to listen to. Great program! thank you

  • @sngray11
    @sngray11 Рік тому +18

    I really enjoyed this interview and the way that Frieda so openly and honestly shared her experience growing up in the Hasidic Jewish community. 💗

  • @mailill
    @mailill Рік тому +23

    I love this interview, and Frieda has a great channel, too! You are both delivering great content!

  • @smileandnod
    @smileandnod Рік тому +15

    My worlds combine! I've been following Frieda for years. So excited to see her on your show!

    • @businesswalks8301
      @businesswalks8301 Рік тому +2

      she did an amazing job advocating for her cult. you don't usually see that. I wish the interviewer didn't lie and say he tried to get a balance view on cults. I didn't see a single pro-scientology video.

  • @pandorabryn
    @pandorabryn Рік тому +19

    Frieda is so incredibly articulate and thoughtful! Thank you for your story.🙏❤️

  • @jenniferstone2975
    @jenniferstone2975 Рік тому +7

    Frieda is a wonderful human being, a shining light. Her UA-cam channel is beautifully presented, her conversations with her subjects and subject matter are both warm, honest and a joyful celebration. Thank you for featuring her here!

  • @lindakindlon2383
    @lindakindlon2383 Рік тому +28

    I am a Catholic female and I love Friedas Channel. I have learned so much~ it’s all about learning :)

  • @TheNostalgicKitchen
    @TheNostalgicKitchen Рік тому +13

    I was suggested Frieda’s channel on UA-cam but I hadn’t really watched anything yet. After seeing this open and honest interview I’m a fan and I’m sure I’m going to love her channel. Frieda you are such lovely and respectful woman!

  • @jillbrison5177
    @jillbrison5177 Рік тому +32

    Listening to her talk about when you don't fit in to an insular religious community made me think about my childhood which was in a small town in middle America, and I see a lot of similarities. Clearly there were also a lot of differences as well as, but when you don't fit in to a small community, it's hard no matter where you are. In my case I always thought I didn't fit in to my family and now I joke about being the black sheep, but it is a joke. I have come to learn my family doesn't always understand me, but they still love me. I know in this I am lucky because not everyone's family is so caring.
    As an adult, I still don't fit in with the small-town people I grew up with, but these days I just don't care. The internet helped a lot by letting me connect to people similar to me, and no longer living in that same small town but only visit it on occasions when visiting family. I've lived all over the Southern US since then and I defintely realized I'm a city girl culture wise, but part of me still loves that connection to the country, even if I hate the culture One Of Us that's often pervasive in small town.

  • @lafemmerouge4271
    @lafemmerouge4271 Рік тому +11

    I think that FV’s respectful and compassionate approach is why she receives respect and compassion in return. ❤️

  • @Peter-ov6xh
    @Peter-ov6xh Рік тому +21

    I'm so happy you're talking to Frieda, she's amazing!

  • @shellygauvreau399
    @shellygauvreau399 Рік тому +19

    Frieda is such an open and honest person. I really enjoy listening to her story which she tells without totally bashing and bringing down the orthodox community. I really appreciate that despite her need to leave she finds the amazing little bits and pieces which she still holds dear. The story telling of her mother is something I think many wish they had now instead of the social media and TV etc. I watch her channel and she is so respectful of the community as she walks the streets and you can tell that she has "earned" a certain amount of respect.

  • @brooklynShap
    @brooklynShap Рік тому +99

    I laughed when she described how people would do a double take when they found out who’s daughter she is, because I know. Her father is a mega wealthy and important person in the community and he is the founder and ceo of one of the biggest businesses in the orthodox Jewish world. I loved seeing this personal side of her. So honest and eloquent ❤️

    • @marthab.higgins635
      @marthab.higgins635 Рік тому +7

      whose daughter she is, who's = who is

    • @thesoren
      @thesoren Рік тому +10

      And don't even get me started on "then" and "than"

    • @angelam3517
      @angelam3517 Рік тому +8

      and would of and should of. It's would've and shoud've.

    • @lporquai9048
      @lporquai9048 Рік тому +21

      Oh no the grammar police are out

    • @thesoren
      @thesoren Рік тому +19

      @@lporquai9048 uh, we actually prefer Grammer Correctional Personnel...Grammer Police is an extremely Blue-collarist term and we find it to be very offensive

  • @ld-zj1bn
    @ld-zj1bn Рік тому +10

    Thank you Frieda and Andrew.. that was fascinating. Loved it. I'm off over to Frieda's channel.

  • @nooncactus
    @nooncactus Рік тому +10

    I enjoyed this interview with Frieda and her thoughtful description of Hasidic life. I feel like part of her heart is still with the community.

  • @chayukykenig3055
    @chayukykenig3055 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for the interview! I have been waiting for this! Freida, as always your ability to describe things, even the most complicated concepts- is incredible. I enjoyed very much the interview and I related to so many experiences you described. l think the biggest takeaway is every individual who leaves the chareidi community will have a different experience and a different perspective. Mutual respect is key.

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @wesleycurryii3341
      @wesleycurryii3341 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/v-deo.html
      THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
      Shallom.

  • @joankristall6417
    @joankristall6417 Рік тому +12

    Thank you both for a refreshing, open, honest and respectful conversation about a world most viewers know nothing about. Freida presents a welcomed, balanced experience that is greatly appreciated in a time of black and white, “in a box” thinking. Well done!

  • @Constantin9va
    @Constantin9va Рік тому +11

    LOVE THIS INTERVIEW SO MUCH! I’m so happy you both connected!

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +1

      Thank you !

    • @wesleycurryii3341
      @wesleycurryii3341 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/v-deo.html
      THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
      Shallom.

  • @beethimbles8801
    @beethimbles8801 Рік тому +12

    I’ve come to really look forward to your new videos. As a Blighty, it’s fantastic to see one of my own chart a path in this space. It’s just a matter of time before you get a viral video and that 100k jumps to 1m. You’ve absolutely got the skills to be a real leader in the debates and humanisation of the huge variety of alternative cultures. Thankyou 🐝 x

  • @erciliaflores
    @erciliaflores Рік тому +21

    This was good to hear a more positive perspective. I think for most people in religious families, for eg, it feels very difficult to exist with one foot in each world: One in the secular and one in the religious. However, for the sake of family, it does seem inevitable. But worth it. She's blessed to have had a healthy and peaceful childhood

  • @soulie1971
    @soulie1971 Рік тому +18

    Frieda is amazing! She is such empathetic, sensitive and very intelligent person. Stories on her channel are narrated in such subtile way, always very understanding, respectful and loving. Only she could pull off the interviews with Pearl.

  • @daniellemunoz9128
    @daniellemunoz9128 Рік тому +12

    Frieda is an extraordinary spirit, so lovely, balanced and intelligent. Great interview :)

  • @aggieglitter
    @aggieglitter Рік тому +4

    I live a Frieda and her channel. Loved this interview Andrew. You are a great journalist and ask great questions. The Hasidic community is definitely doing something right. Every Hasidic person you've interviewed or that I have seen interviewed on other channels is articulate, eloquent and very poised. I could watch them all talking about paint drying honestly and I'd find it interesting. But honestly, this was a great interview.

  • @rogermansour6085
    @rogermansour6085 Рік тому +6

    Andrew i must say i found your interview with Frieda fascinating and i stayed glued to my phone the whole time.Frieda was just so eloquent and i found her story about her life in a Hasidic community very interesting. As a Messianic Jew i have a completely different story ,but was also abandoned by my jewish family in the beginning but after many years i was accepted and even understood. Years later when i became a missionary to haiti and leaving the USA and my secular job was a total shock to my family as well as my friends.I look forward to watching more of your videos in the future
    Evangelist Roger Mansour

  • @lydiab5200
    @lydiab5200 Рік тому +126

    After reading Julia Haart's book, Brazen, this interview is so welcome. While Julia seems to be filled with so much anger against her community, Frieda is so balanced in her outlook. She manages to see the positives. Would welcome further interviews with her. On her channel , the interviews with Pearl are fantastic.

    • @anonymousanonymous9844
      @anonymousanonymous9844 Рік тому +19

      Unfortunately Julia Heart is not very honest about her history. It's sad !

    • @sarahgillen5281
      @sarahgillen5281 Рік тому +18

      I feel something is off with Julia Haart. She comes across as inauthentic.

    • @beans4853
      @beans4853 Рік тому +13

      @@sarahgillen5281 While trauma can cloud a person's memory and paint a picture that is different from reality, she seems to just wanna milk her story for all its worth and this is the way to the cash

    • @vroodamakhan1895
      @vroodamakhan1895 Рік тому +5

      I’m busy reading Brazen. I got into watching all Jewish movies. I don’t mind Julia Haart at all. I’m just interested in their way of life.

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad Рік тому

      Pearl is the real deal! Julia, unfortunately, is not!! The numerous lies she has told in her show have all been proven as 100% false! And then she went on her book tour and continued to lie in her interviews! I just saw her do it on this channel (I am shocked they didn't research if her claims were true before bringing her on as a guest!).
      She was not raised in a cult and did not belong to a cult! And while she did not go to the most mainstream of Yeshivas, she did have a solid education. After having seen her in a bunch of interviews, it turns out she's just really dumb! The examples she quotes regarding Jewish prayer and Jewish laws are all WRONG! She doesn't have the years right (not even close!), the history, the translations and deeper meanings of the texts, etc. etc. I have less of the feeling that it is due to her Orthodox schooling and more to do with the fact that she is just plain dumb!

  • @kathleengilmartin1180
    @kathleengilmartin1180 Рік тому +6

    Such and interesting and compassionate interview. Ms. Vizel is lovely and so articulate. It takes such courage to speak honestly (and carefully) as it is evident there is love, affection and caring for her family and the community since her childhood. I sense Frieda is an independent thinker, which is a gift and can be lonely at times too. I was raised Catholic although practicing Episcopalian (it's important for everyone to be invited and to hear a women's voice from the altar). Anyway, I see so many parallel's as with many religions, I suppose it's what makes us all human looking for sincere connection. Having worked as a nurse in NYC with mother's and high-risk infants, I can also share confidently how truly wonderful it is to see such care and connection within the Jewish community as there is such care for one another. Ms. Vizel will go far in her vision as I sense we all strive for this connection she speaks so eloquently.

  • @susanb974
    @susanb974 Рік тому +9

    I’ve watched Frieda’s videos and like others, have found them fascinating. However, because she is an expert interviewer, we only hear about the person she is interviewing.
    This interview was brilliant. What an intelligent, compassionate and strong young woman! I rarely, if ever watch a video that’s more than 15 minutes but I watched and enjoyed every second of this. Hope she comes back for another discussion.

  • @annehersey9895
    @annehersey9895 Рік тому +8

    What I love most about Frida's channel is her absolute respect for the community and every person she interacts with and there is never any judgement in her interactions or interviews! She asks her questions purely from a point of interest and not because their lifestyle is so different from the outside world. Great interview, thank you! For those who have never seen Frieda's channel, I suggest you start with one of her videos with the indominable Pearl! They are a great introduction to how a woman who loves being in her community wouldn't want to leave.

  • @barbr100
    @barbr100 Рік тому +13

    I have been watching Frieda’s channel and it is fascinating. I enjoy learning about other religions.

  • @brucewu3781
    @brucewu3781 Рік тому +14

    I have watched Frieda's channel, she is wonderful and this was a beautiful and respectful dialogue. I love how she explains how "Freedom to choose is a very Western' concept." Great insight. It is incredible that as Ashkenazim, we are literally all cousins but worlds apart.

  • @donnacarlin236
    @donnacarlin236 Рік тому +14

    As far as a menorah and a Chanukiah, Frieda had it reversed on the difference. A menorah is not specific to the holiday of Hanukkah, and actually only has seven branches whereas a chanukiah is a menorah that is specific to Hanukkah and has nine branches. All chanukiahs are menorahs, but not all menorahs are chanukiahs.

  • @sandife4nandes365
    @sandife4nandes365 Рік тому +7

    I just started following Frieda's channel. She does a fantastic job. I'm glad I got to hear her story.

  • @keeptrying5962
    @keeptrying5962 Рік тому +6

    What a delight and pleasure to listen to this young woman. She is so wise, thoughtful, and considerate in her language. Such a clear-thinker. Breath of fresh air that she absolutely thinks for herself. I expect a great deal of her rare composure and what seems to me her self-possession (in a very fine way) comes from her upbringing! This was A PLEASURE to listen to while doing mise en place for dinner here in rural Texas. THANK YOU.

  • @cathyrocksfreckles
    @cathyrocksfreckles Рік тому +11

    Freida, great job. You were well- spoken, open, but guarded enough to make the interview question more respectfully.

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +1

      Respectfully!? I won't hear of such a thing ;) Thanks for listening, Cathy.

    • @maryapatterson
      @maryapatterson 2 місяці тому

      ​😂😂@@AndrewGold1

  • @carrollrhodes4050
    @carrollrhodes4050 Рік тому +42

    I'm not Jewish. I really like both Ms. Vizel and Mr. Gold. I do not understand why anyone would be affronted by these wonderful people. I guess I have a lot to learn! I hope Ms. Vizel gets everything she wants in her human journey.

  • @maryrosed8475
    @maryrosed8475 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for this great video. Frieda is a lovely lady and gave us a great look into the Hasidic community and the different levels of Hasidic communities. I live in Ireland and we only have a tiny Jewish Community. A mix of Orthodox and Conservative/Liberal.

  • @Ingi132
    @Ingi132 Рік тому +24

    Great interview. Love the peeks into the fascinating lives of the Hasidic community, but also Frieda’s. I already follow her,she has loads of great videos. Would love to hear more about her experience on leaving the community and how she adapted into ‘regular’ life in NY.

  • @LuciDomino
    @LuciDomino Рік тому +40

    Sorry guys to correct you, even as non Jewish.
    I'm a guide for the Jewish museum in Prague and during our training we've learnt that Menorah has 7 arms and was connected to the Temple. And since the Temple doesn't exist anymore, the 2nd one being destroyed by the Romans in the 2nd Century is the Menora nowadays merely a symbol of Judaism and the state of Israel.
    Chanukhia is being used at chanukah.
    It has 8 main arms and one smaller arm called shames (servant) serving for the one servant candle lighten the other candles. Every day you light one more candle out of 8. It is a reminder on the time when selukhian rulers dehonested the Temple and venerated the Zeus there. When Jews took over the Temple again they needed to produce the consecrated oil which takes 8 days. Yet it seemed that they will not be able to produce new oil before they run out of the remaining leftover estimated to last 1 day - a miracle happened. This leftover lasted for 8 days. That's why you celebrate chanukah for 8 days, the chanukhia has 8 arms, you play dreidel with the 4 letters meaning "Big miracle happened there" and eat donats and others greesy foods to remain you on the oil.
    On shabes a different candelabra with 2 arms is being used.
    Feel free to correct me anyone who live the culture. My knowledge is academical. Yet the Prague's community is to big part orthodox and they really tried hard to train us well.

    • @shimonbrandsdorfer9427
      @shimonbrandsdorfer9427 Рік тому +14

      Yes, this is true.
      As a Chasid who grew up in Israel, I know about these 2 terms.
      Chanikiyah is a term that was introduced in Modern Hebrew with the revival of Hebrew.
      Satmar people (where Freida grew up) reject Zionism and Modern Hebrew, they would refer to both as Menorah and will typically not use the term Chanikiyah. That explains why Frieda was confused about this.

    • @LuciDomino
      @LuciDomino Рік тому +4

      @@shimonbrandsdorfer9427
      Thank you Shimon for explaining this ❤️

  • @amandamorton-king2112
    @amandamorton-king2112 Рік тому +18

    My absolutely favourite video from On the Edge so far. Frieda Vizel is so approachable and willing to challenge her own thinking as well as the system she was raised in without being overly critical or judgemental. She is a wonderful combination of observer, commentator and teacher and draws out Andrew as much as he draws out her so it feels like a very real conversation and exchange of experience between them which we are privileged to listen in on. I might even re-listen to the whole thing again!

  • @anonymousanonymous9844
    @anonymousanonymous9844 Рік тому +5

    As I suggested in the other video, Interviewing Shloimy Zionce would be an excellent choice . Also this Frieda was amazing, Thank you!

  • @Janjanbobaney
    @Janjanbobaney Рік тому +17

    i was just telling a friend to watch Shtisel that see is on your thumbnail....excellent hasidic Netflix series for sure! i also love your channel...im jewish but live
    in a very amish community...i know people are always fascinated with them like the hasidic community....you cant go wrong with these topics ....

    • @Xaroni
      @Xaroni Рік тому +3

      @Proud Canadian girlie
      Hiya! Could you explain your story? How did a Jewish girl like yourself, end up in an Amish community??

    • @LizbetPCB
      @LizbetPCB Рік тому +1

      I’m intrigued, too 😊

    • @Monica-gene1
      @Monica-gene1 Рік тому

      Oh please tell us how you ended up living in an Amish community?

  • @joannek7447
    @joannek7447 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for this interview with Frieda Vizel. She is courageous and articulate and brings me to a community that I am intensely interested in but would have no ability to learn. Thank you.

  • @truecynic1270
    @truecynic1270 Рік тому +4

    I love Frieda!!! And I love Andrew's channel, his interview approach and questions! Two tremendously intelligent people to listen to!! ❤❤❤ What a WONDERFUL interview!! Todah Rabah!!!!!

  • @cgannis2251
    @cgannis2251 Рік тому +3

    Just let me tell you something. I’ve paused you to write this or to say this. So, I have come to the conclusion that you are my favorite talk show person. You allow your guests to make their point or thought without over talking or interrupting. Thank you!

  • @kaiduponte4091
    @kaiduponte4091 Рік тому +11

    Thank you so much for doing this interview. Frieda is such an amazing, highly evolved human, for being able to speak so openly and without bitterness about these incredibly difficult situations.

  • @roseficke
    @roseficke Рік тому +4

    I really enjoyed your conversation with Frieda. It was a good, balanced and informative discussion. Thank you.

  • @carolineoverbeek8210
    @carolineoverbeek8210 Рік тому +7

    I just love Frieda ❤️ she's an amazing young woman. And Frieda and Pearl are a knockout combination!!!! Thank you 🎉❤

  • @chavkon526
    @chavkon526 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful interview. Frieda is such a breath of fresh air

  • @jaelkalashnikov3833
    @jaelkalashnikov3833 Рік тому +6

    It takes a lot of courage to do what Frieda has done, and even more to talk openly about it. I don't understand those that "cut ties" with their family member or community member based on legalistics and rules, especially when the individual involved doesn't want to cut ties with The Most High, but whose focus is on building a personal relationship with HIM, instead of "rules and legalistics" imposed by the community or it's leaders. Obeying The Most High's Commandments is paramount for all of us, the most important one being To Love The Most High with all of your heart, as then Obeying the other Commandments will fall into place
    My apologies if I have not articulated my thoughts well. I wish Frieda all the best and may The Most High continue to Bless Her and her family. 🙏❤🙏

  • @janeingram7331
    @janeingram7331 Рік тому +3

    Excellent interview. What a lovely, well-spoken woman. I wish her all good luck with her life.

  • @olgagomez485
    @olgagomez485 Рік тому +3

    You Rock Frieda😁👍🏼I took one of her tours last year. Awesome 😁👍🏼. Thank you for interviewing her Andrew 😁

  • @l.s5067
    @l.s5067 Рік тому +3

    Frieda, your are such a special honest respectful person.
    i really enjoyed this interview.frieda thank you, you did so well!!
    Frieda channel is awesome!!

  • @alizafuchs4867
    @alizafuchs4867 3 місяці тому +5

    Charedie and Frum children are raised with two parents, loved, nurtured and protected. They are smart, NEVER sell drugs or murder and are functioning members of society. They stay married (mostly) to the same person, DO NOT have kids out of wedlock and RAISE their children. Sounds like a great life to me.

  • @robinbee7799
    @robinbee7799 Рік тому +9

    Frieda’s channel is great. She will give you insight into the Hasidic community. As a secular Jew I have learned a lot from Frieda’s channel.

  • @kathysullivan314
    @kathysullivan314 Рік тому +6

    another incredible guest who I'll b definitely checking out -🙂🙂🙂

  • @mikiavidan508
    @mikiavidan508 Рік тому +9

    I love your channel Frieda. Can’t wait to hear your story.

  • @judithbutler9695
    @judithbutler9695 Рік тому +8

    Freida, is a magnificent writer as well as u tuber. So thoughtful in all her answers.❤

  • @dotgoodwin4312
    @dotgoodwin4312 Рік тому +4

    I really liked this interview Andrew! Frieda is so interesting to listen to and I did subscribe to her channel. Thank u

  • @tj8114
    @tj8114 Рік тому +10

    What a wonderful episode. While I find all fundamentalist societies to be frightening, it is refreshing to hear a more moderate discussion with a free, nonjudgmental exchange of ides. I love that this community is striving to keep oral traditions alive. As a teacher, I am deeply saddened that children have no imagination and an ever lessening intellectual curiosity due to the proliferation of instant gratification from electronics. Please do more shows like this one.

  • @hils3066
    @hils3066 17 годин тому

    Fascinating. My family were Orthodox Jews from Belarus - I didn’t grow up in Judaism, but my Jewish family has told me, ‘think fiddler in the roof’ and this interview gives such a good picture of what my family life probably was. Thank you 🙂

  • @lizmcgrath7552
    @lizmcgrath7552 Рік тому +15

    I adore Frieda she’s so genuine ❤

  • @marilynnusbaum7564
    @marilynnusbaum7564 Рік тому +5

    Thank you Andrew for bringing us this brilliant beautiful woman - what a treasure you both are ❤

  • @R.N.19
    @R.N.19 Рік тому +9

    This was such a good interview. I hope you interview her again.

    • @wesleycurryii3341
      @wesleycurryii3341 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/v-deo.html
      THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
      Shallom.

  • @janhertzberg1797
    @janhertzberg1797 Рік тому +7

    Very intelligent discussion…both individuals sharing thoughts without bias or obfuscation. Well done.

  • @martaeaaron
    @martaeaaron Рік тому +4

    Frieda is a wonderful person, she's passionate and I love the way she want to understand every people without judgement.

  • @joward481
    @joward481 Рік тому +3

    I loved this thanks Andrew & Frieda ❤👏. Really enjoy hearing people's stories & experiences ✌️. I hope you can do a follow up that would be great 🤗.

  • @kevinjmj2266
    @kevinjmj2266 Рік тому +3

    Loved this interview. Quite a breath of fresh air as she comes across as very balanced and doesn't have an axe to grind.

  • @KatieJones-fp1ku
    @KatieJones-fp1ku Рік тому +6

    You're so smart Frieda. Thank you for sharing part of your story.

  • @GG-py9vp
    @GG-py9vp Рік тому +7

    I feel such great affinity for the Jewish people. When I was young we had the 11 Plus and if we passed we could choose the high school we wished to attend. I chose the Jewish H.S. because it was the best in the city. I loved it there even though it was so strict. I was in the choir and learned the Israeli National Anthem and at 70 years of age can still sing it. I learned the prayers before and after meals but we “non Jewish” also had our own prayer times. I look back on those days with such fond memories.

  • @touchedbyfire99
    @touchedbyfire99 3 місяці тому

    Terrific interview! It was great to see Frieda as the interviewee - I am curious about her personal experience. Thank you for bringing this to us, Andrew!

  • @annepoitrineau5650
    @annepoitrineau5650 Рік тому +18

    I love Yiddish. I speak Slovak and Swiss German, so I understand Yiddish, if I am speaking to Yiddish speakers for a couple of days, I really slip into it. I love Yiddish music especially.

    • @carolineok11
      @carolineok11 Рік тому +1

      I’m not Jewish but I love Yiddish music and singing the older the better and I love to listen to Yiddish being spoken .

  • @saracooper7904
    @saracooper7904 Рік тому +13

    Love her honesty, she still has love in her heart and shows no bitterness. ❤

  • @lilyarnaout7369
    @lilyarnaout7369 Рік тому +5

    I know Frieda from her channel and UA-cam probably suggested the video based on my being a subscriber of hers - so I’m basically new to Andrew’s channel. I always appreciated Frieda’s non-judgemental presentation of the Hasidic community and that makes her, for me at least, a trusted source of learning about it. I find she was eloquent with her responses to Andrew, trying all the time to be objective in her portrayal of the community and her experience. I also felt that this interview wasn’t exactly easy for her. I hope there can be a second episode of the interview to cover the questions Andrew didn’t get to ask.

  • @DeanieW.-uk4jd
    @DeanieW.-uk4jd 2 місяці тому

    I’m a recent follower of Frieda’s and I loved this conversational interview. I was so bummed when it wrapped up as I wanted to hear more. Her attitude is amazing despite the pain she went thru and I love how open and informative she is. Not a spec of “ugly” in her responses other than to express pain and loss. Thank you!!

  • @irvingbrachfeld8474
    @irvingbrachfeld8474 Рік тому +9

    i have visited the place she lived in. found people were friendly to a point because my late husband was orthrodox. i could never live that kind of life. i enjoyed the video. she was brave to leave

  • @kellywatts6227
    @kellywatts6227 Рік тому +6

    I relate to this woman so so much, what she stands for and I was raised a Catholic! It doesn't matterI feel this connection to what she's saying so much and have an immediate empathy towards her. I am open minded and don't expect everyone to conform to one belief. We have to protect and respect each other's beliefs as humans first and foremost and have understanding and for others upbringings and humanity. First will always be protect our children, follow our laws, don't preach unhealthy behaviour that may damage another. ✌️🇦🇺😎

  • @debbielondon1809
    @debbielondon1809 Рік тому +7

    I live near the Hasidic community in London. I love to see the way the children look after each other - travelling on the busses alone etc. They are entrusted to look after their younger brothers and sisters, which clearly develops a sense of self reliance, responsibility and pride, which secular children who are helicopter parents entirely lack! We (secular folk) are so sure we have it right...but are blind to the qualities such a culture offers, and to the fact we are infantilising our children - giving them no real responsibilities to their communities. With responsibility comes pride.

  • @agolg622
    @agolg622 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much! Amazing interview freida answered very good 👍👏👌

  • @kathy2929
    @kathy2929 Рік тому +13

    They are both respectful for the community she left!

  • @alexandervanlohen4229
    @alexandervanlohen4229 6 місяців тому

    Yes, please, another interview! I've been following Frieda’s channel for quite a long time, and her being interviewed is just great! Hearing you speak German was unexpected but so good. Thanks, Andrew, this was a great interview!