How To Avoid Burnout

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
  • In this clip, Dr Rupy and I talk about burnout, or more specifically how to avoid burning out. He talks about his own experiences with burnout and gives some advice on how we can avoid it ourselves.
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  • @MDobri-sy1ce
    @MDobri-sy1ce 2 роки тому +243

    To me being burnt out is still really wanting to do something but a big part of your mind saying, “No!” Feeling like “failed” but mentally too tired to do anything. I did do some research on it for a psychology report. It said, something like, the exceptions outweighs the rewards and that’s why people get burned out.” Something like that but up above is what burnout is to me.

    • @laselecta9012
      @laselecta9012 11 місяців тому +1

      I feel that rn

    • @SM-ku3uo
      @SM-ku3uo 9 місяців тому +1

      you mean the expectation outweighs the rewards?

    • @josegray666
      @josegray666 7 місяців тому +1

      it literally feels like ur brain is fried

    • @_quixote
      @_quixote 3 місяці тому

      @@josegray666I felt that. My brain felt like mush

  • @PanaMaJwaaRd
    @PanaMaJwaaRd 2 роки тому +25

    When he says you go home at 7-730 pm 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. As hospitality worker this made me lol from 2 seconds in

  • @ashwinadeenanath4072
    @ashwinadeenanath4072 2 роки тому +2

    advice for the future - please do not mention putin

  • @tgc517
    @tgc517 17 днів тому +4

    Burnt out is when you dread something you want to do. Bad dread, where it hurts to even think about doing it.

  • @mcmaschio
    @mcmaschio 2 роки тому +91

    I thought i was too cool and thought i would never burn out 😛 2 years later i crashed bad 😂💯 Thanks for this video Ali 🔥

    • @karlfernandes1367
      @karlfernandes1367 2 роки тому +1

      how did you recover from it?

    • @mcmaschio
      @mcmaschio 2 роки тому +8

      @@karlfernandes1367 slowing down and trying to find the balance … for one i stopped working on weekends and became less harsh on myself … like anytime i used to wake up late etc i would be very hard on myself … now i have become more forgiving … still figuring it out but better now ✔️

    • @karlfernandes1367
      @karlfernandes1367 2 роки тому

      @@mcmaschio oh ok thank you 👍👍

  • @DanishAshrafi
    @DanishAshrafi 8 місяців тому +18

    Timestamps:
    Introduction (00:00 - 00:23)
    Dr. Rupee's Experience with Burnout (00:23 - 02:27)
    Discussion on Burnout Experience (02:27 - 03:51)
    Impact of Burnout on Personal Life (03:51 - 04:25)
    Mitigating Burnout and Personal Strategies (04:25 - End)

  • @abdullahalhashem986
    @abdullahalhashem986 2 роки тому +15

    He did specify one way to get out of the burn out, is to have a partner, and to comparmentalize.
    I don't think that is enough for the subject.
    😁

    • @adamarafa611
      @adamarafa611 7 місяців тому

      agreed

    • @_quixote
      @_quixote 3 місяці тому

      Burnout isn’t gonna let you have a partner lol

  • @gatovillano7009
    @gatovillano7009 Рік тому +17

    Ok, this guy never experienced a burnout.
    When tying your shoes becomes an overwhelming task; when you need to sit down and take a moment to pull yourself back together multiple times for the easiest task; when you breakdown the moment someone asks you ''what do you want''.
    That is a burnout.
    These people have no experience with this topic

    • @maimouna4623
      @maimouna4623 9 місяців тому +2

      You're describing depression

    • @ImageBoxTV
      @ImageBoxTV 8 місяців тому

      @@maimouna4623 it is actually the same thing

    • @nekohakuro9490
      @nekohakuro9490 7 місяців тому

      It's a spectrum stop trying to invalidate others

    • @dbxniker7484
      @dbxniker7484 3 місяці тому

      @@maimouna4623 depression is when burnout doesn’t go away i believe it is mostly caused by genetics and disability to heal yourself after burnout

  • @ishwaryai9796
    @ishwaryai9796 2 роки тому +8

    I've been in this slump for like 2 years and 1 year getting out of it I'm done with this

  • @BeingIntegrated
    @BeingIntegrated 2 роки тому +31

    Hey I also teach this (I teach therapists mindfulness skills and therapists are VERY prone to burnout) and I've found there are 2 core ideas that are game changing:
    1. is Equanimity, which is not fighting against our inner experience. It's this counter-intuitive truth that resisting discomfort just leads to more inner conflict and actually amplifies the discomfort. It just creates more reactivity. Accepting discomfort and actually opening to it, welcoming the experience fully, actually reduces reactivity and makes the experience easier / smoother. Equanimity is one of the core things that we train in meditation.
    2. is compassion, instead of putting up walls, or empathizing (adopting the feelings of others) actively cultivating compassion actually protects against "compassion fatigue" (empathetic burnout). The reason is you're cultivating your own energy and directing it outwards, instead of empathizing/adopting the distress of others (mirror neurons can be stressful). There are a ton of studies backing up this approach now.

    • @karasoma1594
      @karasoma1594 2 роки тому +1

      thank you for sharing!

    • @shaunreich
      @shaunreich 2 роки тому +1

      Can you elaborate more on number 2? I'm not sure I understand how that's applied, do you have examples?

  • @alexccen
    @alexccen 5 місяців тому +1

    I usually love this channel but there were no practical tips for avoiding burnout or how to overcome it?

  • @mv678
    @mv678 Рік тому +2

    No offence but Rupe looks so much like Ranveer Singh.. I like him really

  • @razabadass
    @razabadass 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for the clip on burnout here, Raza :)

  • @TE_-.-
    @TE_-.- 2 роки тому +5

    this is my fourth attempt to find out where ali got his laptop case from, does anyone know?

    • @Hardeneer
      @Hardeneer Рік тому

      the internet

    • @convertible2987
      @convertible2987 Рік тому

      thats actually just a skin for his mac

    • @zahid7006
      @zahid7006 5 місяців тому

      Probably DBrand they make skins

  • @Ahmad_mahrooghi77
    @Ahmad_mahrooghi77 2 роки тому +2

    Anyone know we have any Startups that work on supporting medical students when they got burn out?

  • @sirijanthakur
    @sirijanthakur 2 роки тому +2

    bro how come u never felt burnt out 😂 tgats legendary

  • @mercedeswilkins5566
    @mercedeswilkins5566 2 місяці тому

    Don’t burn yourself out over a job that can replace you in a split second. If you don’t work they will just give someone else your money. Take care of yourself cuz your job won’t

  • @mercedeswilkins5566
    @mercedeswilkins5566 2 місяці тому

    Take care to yourself cuz your job won’t be there for you when you can’t get out of bed, or in the hospital or even in surgery

  • @mercedeswilkins5566
    @mercedeswilkins5566 2 місяці тому

    The only ppl that’s going to remember the burn outs, overnight working, and stress you be having is your family and friend you neglected

  • @simongurung7715
    @simongurung7715 2 роки тому +2

    Ali chickened out before getting burnt out, grt insight though 😁

  • @RJones-tn5vg
    @RJones-tn5vg Рік тому +5

    My husband pulls me away from work at 5pm, but it's not really helpful because then he wants me to figure out dinner and it feels like it's just more work

    • @thespidermanoftheottomanempire
      @thespidermanoftheottomanempire 29 днів тому

      This is also my mum. I promise I’m gonna learn how to cook so that I won’t put my gf in the same situation

  • @RayfuzuLearning
    @RayfuzuLearning 2 роки тому +3

    Such great content and advice here 👌🏽 🙌🏽

  • @NotirandonosUSA
    @NotirandonosUSA 2 роки тому +1

    1sttttttt!!

  • @Mind-Vue
    @Mind-Vue 4 місяці тому

    Love the practical tips on avoiding burnout in this video! The examples and advice are super relatable and helpful. Thanks for sharing! 🙌😊

  • @dbxniker7484
    @dbxniker7484 3 місяці тому

    im so tired of this it makes me feel worthless and weak

  • @sunitasa6346
    @sunitasa6346 2 роки тому +1

    Currently trying to navigate this

  • @roseballerine4395
    @roseballerine4395 Рік тому +1

    Great content, Bro.

  • @hisoka1186
    @hisoka1186 2 роки тому +4

    Awesome video , I found the Dr Rupy's experience truly useful and your discussion was great .

  • @maheerzasfari8666
    @maheerzasfari8666 Рік тому

    you look like gotham chess

  • @thedigitalchefb
    @thedigitalchefb 2 роки тому

    Okay

  • @razabadass
    @razabadass 2 роки тому

    :) :) :)

  • @zubairso
    @zubairso 2 роки тому +2

    Great insights, although the hustle never stops!

  • @erikasinternetgerat8019
    @erikasinternetgerat8019 2 роки тому

    DONT do the sad puppy clickbaity matt d'av thumbnail, dont go down that road. he had the exact same thumbnail two weeks ago. you may continue to hate your book, many authors do sometimes, but not the sad puppy void content, it does not match your videos, because they have substantial content.