Humiliation - is one word to describe dating Single Moms
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Exploring the Realities: Dating Single Moms 💔
In this candid video, I delve into the complexities and challenges of dating single moms. I will discuss potential pitfalls, shedding light on a topic often surrounded by misconceptions. Gain a deeper understanding of the unique dynamics involved, and learn valuable insights for navigating this journey with empathy and respect. If you are someone considering dating one, this video offers a thoughtful perspective on realizing why its a dead end.
Single moms are not looking for love. They are looking for help.
LMAO 🤣 😆
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Help? Nah… but a bouquet of flower and new phone is always handy, New Partner - More Free Stuff
100%, you resumed the entire video in few words.
Yes, they usually give birth with a douchebag, then settle with mr nice guy.
Been there, done that and never again. If you want to ruin your life, start using drugs, gamble or date single mother.
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🤣🤣🤣That is GOOD and GOLD.
My best friend moved in with a woman who was artificially inseminated. Agreed to raise the kid together. There for the birth. Kid calls him daddy. The mother routinely says "he's not the father." But he still has to pay for school, etc. To her, he never does anything right. All the responsibility. None of the rights. Now he wants to leave her, but he loves the kid and knows she's not a good role model. Don't be like my friend.
So he should leave... he's not the father.
@@rally_chronicles ya think? I know it. He knows it. But he loves the kid. Easy for us to say. I do all the time. Life's always easier from the outside.
@bazookacat8421 oh I know. But it's not his kid.
I don't have kids but I have no care for other seed other than my own.
I've told single mothers if they want to be in a relationship with me they have to buy two tickets to Africa, take their kid to some orphanage far away, come back and we can have a relationship and maybe start a family.
Lions 🦁 don't raise other lions cubs. We need to implement this in humans. More people need to be stronger.
@@rally_chroniclesyou are missing the part where he said "he loves the kid". We as men don't talk about this but we invest emotions as well, he made the mistake to invest emotions and time on a kid that is not his, now, emotion investment is hard to break, easier said than done ofc.
This is why the video tells you to stay away.
@redishdude his fault. Rip yourself away from it. It'll hurt for a bit but you'll be alright. Sorry kid. Thank your pos mother. Peace.
One of the biggest deterrents for me is potentially building a bond with a child that could be ended at any moment. And my heart is for the child. Because if the mother can discard of that kid's father so easily; you stand NO CHANCE against her hypergamy. And if that child comes to love you, and the mother decides to cut ties completely, it opens the door for attachment trauma on that child.
good point, i should have mentioned that too
💯You nailed it
@@bettercallgeorge924 In more cases than you think, some kids with single mothers actually CRAVE a father figure.
For one reason or another, they may have given up hope on their biological father being in their lives, and are thus open to anyone that will love them. And they'll consciously choose you if they see you're taking a genuine interest in them for the companionship aspect alone.
The issue then becomes their mother. Because of their mother's selfish hypergamy, they'll continue the cycle. And the more guys she cycles through, the more discouraged the child becomes that they'll ever have a consistent father figure around.
So if a woman says, "he's not in our life," that might be even worse than if the baby dad is still involved. Great points nonetheless. Glad I could add more insight!
I was the kid. Sucks on both ends. Dad was just a guy who I’d know for a few years til the next.
Luckily for me I know my biological now. Just by exposure and osmosis I’ve gained a lot.
that why i convinced the single mom i knocked up to convince her ex to adopt
Omg I was dating a single mother and discovered your channel, days later you post this video, the universe gives me signals😂😂😂
The older the kids get, the more expensive it becomes.. cars, college, etc. Don’t think that the older the kids are, the easier it will be.
Dating single moms is a nightmare. So many interruptions and delays. You will get tired in just a couple of days if not a few hours and walk away.
There are plenty of normal women out there to choose from
A "normal one," hahahhahhahahhha have you heard yourself. What is this "normal woman," you speak of?
@@enlightenment6994 Get out the house and find out for yourself. You can find a lot of childless young women around to date. The hell you think I mean?
Unless the children are over 21 then I’m ok with dating a single mother.
@@ryancentnarowicz If her children are over 21 you’re dating a grandmother 👵
@@pantsonfire2216 I should’ve clarified the children are around 21 she’s 39. She had the kids pretty young.
Please don't stop make content to us, you enlightened us Mr George
He's our new Sheriff in town👌🏻
Your wish is my command. Will do, i think i figured out a way to upload more often.
@@bettercallgeorge924 are most russians this based ?
@@jr-yn4lkbased on what?
@@pantsonfire2216 Based is a slang term that means being yourself and not caring what others think of you. This guy is ultra based for spreading the unpopular but accurate idea that women should be put into their place by their male partners when they start bitching about unimportant stuff and that men shouldn't take care of other's children.
Ufff like a "medicine with bad taste" was this video for me, i needed it. I was 3 months with a single mother (japanese 42 y/o). The father of the kid (7 y/o), was totally absent from their life, the kid did not even know that he had a father figure or what he looked like. I get introduced into hell. Every day was like walking on eggshells. Nothing i did would prove to her that i liked her or that i loved her. She still had traumas from all the previous relationships. Her advantage over me was the financial aspect (succesfull forex trader). She was afraid that i would only use her for her money and benefit an easy life (meanwhile i was working my ass off). I experienced with her almost every point on George's list. At the end i was so happy i got away from all that.
I have a quote to encompass all this: "You will NEVER be enough, for the WRONG person. They will keep moving the goal post one step away"
It's like I'm listening to myself. All the same. A very ugly experience
almost the same here. japanese. 7yo who gets away with everything. he's the boss. LATERS!
This is a very connected person.
There is not a word off.
And the finale shows his nature.
We need so many more of these men.
GREATEST SINGLE MOTHER VIDEO ON UA-cam. NOT KIDDING! ABSOLUTE BEST! EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR! I got my heart broken man. Thank you for this
I agree. I watched the entire video.
@@EsauistheCaucasian thank you for commenting on this, I had lost this video now I'll be able to save it
Another angle on traumatizing kids. I knew a guy who bonded with his girlfriend's kids. He was closer to them than their own father, and he did all the normal dad stuff with them. He was there for several years while they were growing up, and they loved him. When the relationship ended, the kids were devastated, as if they had lost a father, and he was devastated as well since he couldn't see them anymore.
That's ridiculous and that man was a really stupid.
LOLOLOLOLOL
How did thr relationship end
@@brig.gen.georgiiisserson7226 They had issues that couldn't be worked out, so she dumped him.
This confirms that it's the men if the are sane who create order and culture. Children realize this and therefore in this case are loyal to the "social father" often over the biological mother. This all highlights how important father's are and that girls must be raised to virtuous woman so they select a good men who will stay to raise the biological kids. Virtuous woman means also she is loyal and trusting to the men she had chosen that she is submitting to him.
100% my experiences. I'm a successful businessman, dominant, high IQ, and I see through these women like a pane of glass. You are so spot on about single moms and career women will never submit to you. I've dated these women before and I usually ghost them after 2 dates after it becomes apparent they are looking for a doormat. I pick up on subtle cues, like if a woman tries to walk in front and lead me, if she is combative and tries to dominate a conversation, if she tries to build herself up to be superior, these are very obvious signs she is trying to be dominant. Single moms I find are more interested in the lifestyle you can provide than who or what you really are. To a single mom, you are simply a lifestyle provider nothing more, she'll never love you, only what you provide.
Spot on dated a single mom and she never experienced a real date or anything until dating me. We vibes but hard truth I knew I'd never be priority her life. She always would saybdonfor my kids but yet her bd isn't accountable and never showed up for they kids smh. Folks have kids with ppl then say wrong person na u knew what u were doing. Single bros get a single woman no kids build your own family.
Its why in islam (patriarchal system) a woman loses her children to her ex husband as soon as she decides to marry another man or enters a relationship with a new man.
As a masculine American Male, I agree with George. Keep sharing your eye opening and life supporting message King George 😊 We all need it
you amazes me with how deep thinker you are in every new video.
Love you, George, please keep it up
A single mom's life is almost always a catastrophe. I've found myself wanting to believe their PR spin a few times, & been burned every time. The most recent time it only took me a couple months to figure out she was a dumpster fire, but it still hurt like hell. I've definitely lost my capacity to trust them. Better late than never i suppose.
They'll eat your soul alive it's best you learn from your mistakes and find better solutions
What happened bro? Can you share more about the “dumpster fire” side of things?
I’m currently dating a single mom for the first time in my life.
George you are bang on.
Your advice is really helping. Your hysteria video is gold.
You really know your stuff.
Great video my man. Very well articulated. I agree with everything you said. No self respecting man should enter into another man's broken family.
i really appreciate your last ethical advices how to deal with the single mothers, you are a real man with principles George
Been there done that. Do not do it. You will be always a second priority to the child of another man. You will be manipulated to stay in that relationship, and ultimately disrespected.
100% correct. I love you for your authentic speech !
These videos are GREAT. Thank you George
The funny thing is... A single mother tried to flirt with me a week ago and I was like HELL NAW.
Hell to the naw
Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sheriff George❕️🙌🏻 Thx for another awesome video❕️💪🏻🤜🏻🤛🏻
I really like this guy's take on this. Right to the point. Had a single mom and when we were intimate one of her kids who if awakened would come into the bedroom. Had to head for the hills! Only good for pumping and dumping.
Hey George, thanks for all the information about women, i didn't have a father so the videos really helped me with women. Fan of your channel from the first video.) Now I work in a women's team, I'm 20, and almost all the women in it look at me with hunger in their eyes)
One of my mates went through this,now divorced,it was exactly how you explained it
u have a unique perspective and i appreciate your channel thanks
Given all you have said, it makes sense why male lions kill the cubs.
We're not lions though
Good video breakdown.
The word Single mom, says it all
I really have to admit that I watched this video before I found a single mom girl. I didn't believe it. And I repented a lot. This guy is "God" when it comes to relationships with women. Not only this but every video is great. I checked each one in practice. Dating a single mother isn't just a disaster.....it's even worse. Now we've broken up and I feel really crappy for not taking the advice sooner.
Loved this video !! Eye opener!!! Thank you
These days I find it extremely interesting that you mentioned you had an IT company, I can now see how it's interconnected. Can you do a video about your story with computers and everything digital? Goldmine of content.
My my, you stated more points than I could in any of my essays.
i reached out to one of my single mom ex’s and this video magically shows up on my feed 😳
My mom had a peruan boyfriend and he tried to be nice with me. He thought to give me a hug but I reyected him with rage. Pushing him like "step the f away from me..."
Man, I hated that guy so much.
Now, my mother has other boyfriend. G... Damn it.
What is wrong with women?
You are so f ing right, George.
Thank your mother
Great video George - glad you stood up for America & American men!
your content is amazing it's truly eye opening keep up the work
George we want a new video every other day
I need it several times a day, I consume his videos like if they were a dope
@@Shifty3651727 Ditto! Lol
Please do a video comparison breakdown between life in Russia / America. Also, the different experiences dating in those respective countries. Please consider this. Thanks for your videos George. Keep them coming
Your wisdom is gold.
Bro this was so good I watch every minute of it but am already aware but still a good watch
Thanks for getting straight to the point.
Hi George, good video. Regarding single moms, you touched a lot of good points.
However, a suggestion for the long list of the screen would be to use the clip function to list each minus in this case as a small section of the video. I think it would make it a bit cleaner.
Bottomline, stay away from single mom's with kids.
Omg , new video 🎉 , those videos changed my view and my life got easier with women 😘
My brother-in-law after he get divorced, is always chasing single moms, this women left his wallet empty and heart broken 24/7, should be staying by his wife to avoid this level of self destruction behaviour
this went very deep, especially at the end, respect
the only time its ok to date a single mom is if the dad is dead. and then only if the child is young and you are above the mothers league. and never try to impress the kid.
George if you are reading this, you thought me a lot of things, but the main masculine feature i think you have is, your videos are very entertaining, the way you tell stories is interesting. even if your videos become non-educational i would still watch you do anything. keep up, try making vlogs, i hope you read this and feel loved.
As a born-in-Moscow, Russian-speaking Jew living in the US, I love you channel. The ideas resonate with mine a lot.
FYI, the Muslim arranged marriage is not unique. Pretty much all cultures with any semblance of civilization had had arranged marriages until female emancipation. For instance, in the West, there was the concept of woman being property belonging to her father (until marriage) and then husband. It was called coverture.
Well , he ain't lying !
I say this all the time. A woman with a child will have a physical and emotional attachment to another man forever!
You’re SPOT On
hi George, can you make a video on how to stop feeling hatred towards women? all these red pill videos on the interned made me hate them and think horrible about them all
yes, its important topic, will do.
George said already in one of the video that you should not feel hate towards women, it is just the way they were created
he already mentioned women are like child. u dont hate a child
Don't except a cat to act like a dog, if you do it's your fault for feeling hate towards the cat. Accept the way the cat is and enjoy the cat for it's strengths and weaknesses
If you actually meet some women, you won't feel quite the same way. From absorbing red pill content, I thought they were all evil. But after I started dating, and met some women socially, I realized that most are just normal flawed human beings. They have their issues, but most are not especially evil.
Love you man. Thank you so much
My grandmother was divorced twice. My mother did not grow up with her father. My mother is divorced twice. I did not grow up with my father. Im an only child. I've seen my mother with so many boyfriends. Some days I felt like her therapist because she would vent to me about drama. On my fathers side all is lost from intergenerational addictions. I've struggled a lot with confidence and self esteem. I think I may be old and gray by the time I become more whole and congruent as a man.
Thank you very much U opened My eyes from today I'm going to change
This has to be the most complete list of why not to date a SM I have ever seen! Where was this channel before I messed up!😂
I had a similar 2 week experience. I didn't know she had a kid when i asked her out. The kid actually came on our one and only date as she had no one to watch him. I never hung around long enough to meet the Dad. It turns out he was a real low life who was basically terrorizing her, breaking into her apartment etc. He did nothing to help out except give the kid a few bucks once in a while. Needless to say, this was one lost kid. A week later, she indirectly contacted me to ask for money for a bus to go to Florida to get away from the Dad. I gave her what little I had. I was broke for months after that. I found out she left most of her stuff behind, even her dog. Understand, I barely knew or much liked this girl. I just stumbled into a situation finding a person in desperation and i became her only hope.God knows what would have happened if I met the Dad. One of us would probably been killed.
it is never wrong to help another child.
It s not. But being the paternal figure of a single mom's child is not just helping the kid but sacrificing your own life for his sake
@@baraodeosasco1102 juat have multiple women and other children outside the relationship so ya genes get passed on 😜
The village that needs to help the child is the mother and her side of the family, and the father and his side of the family
All she can talk about is her past / it is atrocious
Well explained . Thank you 🙏🏻
I have a friend that has double the drama, he has a kid from other girl, and he lives with his current girl that has 2 kids from other guy. It's messy from what he told me, he also pays for 💯 things and the father doesn't pay even for recharging their phone... Its sad and he now has a yo kid with her. I just couldn't tbh.
I like this video! Everything makes sense
Thanx for the upload 👍👍👍
Women with past relationships are like leftovers. They are not worth it. There are 4 billion women in the world and everyday, there's a new lot that becomes 18. You need only one from them.
Hey, nice, structured work, man!
Why and to whom do u apologizing in the end?
Nice video on the cons with baby mothers. Can you do a video on what to do on first and second dates
Men. I’ve dated 20 single moms. All = the same trauma drama no time she’s tired. Mentally drained. It’s so bad. You’ll only really see her a lot if u go to her. Which kids will be running around. Even if u get her alone. She’ll be on her phone with the kids checking on em. She can’t focus on u. Bad deal
When you stop dating the single mom the relationship with the kid ends too, despite all your time, investment and feelings.
I dated war widows single mom, I can say she is best of best lady she is completely balance know her priorities she is balance n she is awesome
Thanks George very helpful video
You have the best anti single mom video. Trust me, ive watched 95% of them on youtube
Hey George, love your content man, you are right on point with everything you say.
Question for you though, would you say this same thing applies when the kids are full time custody with the father but only come to see the mother on weekends and some occasions? Like would it be easier with the mother in this situation since you are not the one raising the kids but they only visit once in a while. Will she still be harder to submit to you and allow you to lead this situation you think?
Thanks for your insight. Keep up the good work, you're great! 👍
George, my father was adopted. With genetic testing we found his birth mother when she was 90 years old. I agree with you about genetic similarities, it was very familiar when I met her and saw how she lived. However, the birth father was never discussed. We found out later that she was raped. My father was the result, that was a shocking revelation. Family dynamics are very sensitive and are hard to generalize. I wonder about his birth father and the genetic impact of an obviously violent person. What do you think?
Excellent video 🎉
Thanks brother, You are nailing... Promiscuous and honest Slovenska Душа!
Regards,
And thank You for videos!
Canadian, born in GER, ex-YUGoslavian, exex Habsburg monarchy
This is an honest down to earth explanation of the problem. But it must be awful to fall in love with her and then realize that there is so much extra things from her background to deal with. And you can't do nothing about it and put up with her baggage.
Thank you for this video.
it goes both ways here. As a woman, don't get involved with single fathers you'll always have another women in you life. It's sooo off.
Hey George, really appreciate your content. I have a question for you, Is it okay for a guy to approach and try his luck on a girl who is hanging out with some guy or in a long-distance relationship?
nope
So true, this is not BS.
this video is spot on and hilarious
I'm a step father and I can tell that except 2-3 of your points (because they are too general and cannot universal in all cases) all others are very true. Especially those one that are related of my own feelings and how I feel in this situation. Long time I thought something is wrong with me and I'm not noble enough to handle my feeling properly, but as time passes I recognize the patterns of lack of genuine desire, disrespect, double standard (me and her previous husband), etc. Then something small triggered the retroactive jealousy and that was it. Now we are separated, so I can heal my long forgotten and neglected dignity and self-esteem.
It is very very true:
1. Three people sleep in the bed. Very current feeling after the crisis happened.
2. Felt disrespected and undervalued by her almost the whole time.
3. Almost no benefit of raising other's man child, even the kid is very good and the act is very noble, you are making great favor to him and his mother and she repays you with disrespect! At least the kid respects me.
4. Kid is a problem - it is the main focus of the mother (which is normal), but "eats" your time, money and energy and opportunity to be with her alone. Also the ex is also involved to some extend!
5. Feeling of being just a provider and nothing more - exploitation. No genuine desire and often lack of intimacy. Sex is more like a duty, but not fun. If I got luck to have it at all.
6. I lied to myself - true. I swallowed my principles, values and ego just to be with her. I zeroed myself as a man.
7. Almost never felt really loved.
8. She made silly and irresponsible decision with this junkie without knowing him - having kid after 6 months and marring him pregnant. What a red flag I missed!
9. I was in constant fight for the leadership in the family.
10. I always was the bad guy for her family. Wonder why when I saved her.
11. My family disapproved my choice and I banned them from my life for her!!
12. Biological father gain some credits for things he never did...
And so on....
Most of your points are correct. But I got enough and now I live separated from her in another town and the divorce will be just a formality form here on...
I agree with everything u said.
I will just share my experience, i'm now 19yo, i never known my biological father (i think why my experience happenned) and its been 6 years that my step father is in my life. My mom has no job because of health issues so my stepfather is our providers like u said. At first, i didnt respect him and was acting like a cuck at him, but now with the time im laughing with him, he learns me things and he really helped me building myself as a men. Since last year i realise i need to be grateful of what he did EVEN my stepfather did a cuck move, like i realised that he won my respect for all he did. But the 5 other years its was really weird and this video remembered me all the way we did. Like hes important for me now but in my head their is always a weird feeling like i dont even call him dad but he won my respect like i said earlier.
Remember this guy is advising you on making on making your decisions. Other people have other reasons and motivations, and there are simply men would want to educate a boy into a man and enjoy that feeling of being "a coach" or "a guide," for themselves. Without the responsibility of having whole own child from beginning to end. There is nothing wrong with good men and good hearted stepfathers. It just doesn't mean you got to become one, when you don't want to. Much luck to you, on your beginning journey!
George some videos on confidence, charisma,body language thx
New episode heck yah
Exceptions aside I agree. But this will apply the other way around as well. Ladies don't you, NEVER EVER, date a man with a baby momma. You dont want that drama! Trust me.
thats some true chit right there.
Men who only think of themselves and what THEY can get out of a woman, never in helping her, deserve women who only think of what they can get out of a man.
Is it fair?
Yes it is.
One single woman will ruin your life because you only choose her according to earthily standards, never once do you mention faith as a characteristic of a desirable woman.
My ex and I have three kids. Some guy married her lol. You are right he is insecure everytime me and her speak when he is around.
It's toxic if anyone found the other guy insecure and still laughing at it. Maybe it is what it was just toxic
I agree i have parts of me that can be toxic. i also think that's normal.@@fkvtsxhk
Did she ever hook up with you behind his back? Like is there a reason for his suspicions etc?
Your videos are so informative and addictive
Can you make a video on how to talk to a girl
Sensei George
I've done it more than once in my days of stupidity, it's not a good look and they don't have much to give...
Thankyou for this video
You really should make a video about how to show this inner confidence via dating apps, if there is any way to do so.
There is! Delete the dating app.
@@gasmarkets1723 That's what I am thinking.
not getting involved with a single mom should be obvious
Thanks for your perspective, George. I just 'dodged a bullet' after dating a single mom for several months (mom with three boys) At first it seemed nice and rosy, but then I started to experience (most of) the things you mention in this video. I know now that I was just being used yet I couldn't initially see it. I actually think that the woman (who was superficially, at least, very attractive and cute) was a borderline psychopath. I'm just happy that I was able to get away before anything really serious (eg marriage etc) happened. Feel sorry for her poor kids who are obviously damaged from her obsessive behaviours. - I hope they're able to survive and prosper in such a dysfunctional home. Lastly, I'd appreciate any recommendations and/or links that might be helpful for the 'recovery process'.
Hi George, can you make a guide on how to contact your girl (msg, call) whether dating stage, girlfriend, etc