The loss of identity because of the identity was built within the problem. I can't help but think of the plot given to Mary Magnalene in The Chosen when she became restless and anxious and then headed back to her old lifestyle.
In the last 4 years, I lost my Mom, Grandma, Best friend, Aunt, and Uncle. Every one of them had terminal disease (mostly cancer). I was their sole caregiver, was alone during their hospice vigils, and afterwards was responsible for their final arrangements. When my Mom died, my Uncle was in ICU (he pulled through) and my Grandma had advanced dementia. My Grandma passed 7 weeks after my Mom. While she was still alive, I started taking my best friend to her oncology visits. Through much of this, I was taking care of 2 people, sometimes 3. My Uncle just passed on Thanksgiving. It's the first time in 5 years that I've not been responsible for someone else's health. I don't know if I'll ever feel again. I shut down when my Mom died (4 year ago). I don't even know how to feel anymore..
They were so lucky to have you but I know you have so many feelings piled up now. You are in the right place with this video. I pray we all move toward healing and peace. Thank you for sharing your story.
TY Tim! At 12:40 when you mentioned the losses associated with multiple moves. I felt those words in my very core! During my childhood we moved many times. I attended nine different schools, resulting in the loss of many homes, churches and friends. I also left behind three of my pets, buried in various towns along the way. As an adult my self-constructed protection against the pain of loss, became to develop superficial relationships or to not get attached at all. At times I feel I became a stronger and more resilient person, at other times I continue to feel the grief of being uprooted and unrooted.
Thank you, Pastor Tim. I know that you take heat for presenting Truth, but it is the right thing to do. Our only hope is in our Triune God and the blessed gift of His inerrant Word. Bless you as you follow God's leading !!
Love your talks Tim. Thank you for what you do. Please do a talk on the topic of ageing for people people with cptsd and what issues come up and healthy ways to cope with it existentially. And how the Bible can help.
I so wish you were my local pastor. However I haven't checked out my local church's and maybe I should as my dad's in coma and im not coping too well. Everything is slipping because im sleeping all the time. Im also fighting terminal cancer so that's alot of why but it's mostly grief that's triggered my sleeping lots maybe my dad's coma wearing off on me? But it's better than getting into trouble because im awake not coping well
I lost my young ragdollcat, where I live, they have to stay inside, I couldn't cope, he pooped in common area, I have no-one to talk to, I'm feed all the rainbow lorikkeets driving me nuts, I don't like therapy, they don't care, just want your money! I feel like running out to get another one, I don't know ow how to make friends anymore, I am getting too old, plus had to stop contact with npd abusive sisters, been doing AA for 25 years just went back, I am crying quite a bit, feel guilty, I think about how painful it must have been for him, to lose his cat mother and his home to go to strangers! Oh well, I just pray 🙏 for answers!❤❤thanks!
Hi, Thank you for the valuable talk! I have a question on how to deal with the type i grief (in relationship loss)? I feel grief for I should have had but what was taken from the abusive parents (I got here with my therapist and feel stuck, maybe just today). The trick is it is not directly related to a person. How to deal with the unsolved/unmet and will-never-be-met needs, while still keeping the right boundary? Thank you for any info!
God bless you.
The loss of identity because of the identity was built within the problem. I can't help but think of the plot given to Mary Magnalene in The Chosen when she became restless and anxious and then headed back to her old lifestyle.
Powerful!
In the last 4 years, I lost my Mom, Grandma, Best friend, Aunt, and Uncle. Every one of them had terminal disease (mostly cancer). I was their sole caregiver, was alone during their hospice vigils, and afterwards was responsible for their final arrangements. When my Mom died, my Uncle was in ICU (he pulled through) and my Grandma had advanced dementia. My Grandma passed 7 weeks after my Mom. While she was still alive, I started taking my best friend to her oncology visits. Through much of this, I was taking care of 2 people, sometimes 3. My Uncle just passed on Thanksgiving. It's the first time in 5 years that I've not been responsible for someone else's health.
I don't know if I'll ever feel again. I shut down when my Mom died (4 year ago). I don't even know how to feel anymore..
peace be with you
🙏🏼❤️🩹 pray you’re in a better place now. You are one strong person.
They were so lucky to have you but I know you have so many feelings piled up now. You are in the right place with this video. I pray we all move toward healing and peace. Thank you for sharing your story.
I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you're feeling. I hope you feel Christ walking with you through this
TY Tim! At 12:40 when you mentioned the losses associated with multiple moves. I felt those words in my very core! During my childhood we moved many times. I attended nine different schools, resulting in the loss of many homes, churches and friends. I also left behind three of my pets, buried in various towns along the way. As an adult my self-constructed protection against the pain of loss, became to develop superficial relationships or to not get attached at all. At times I feel I became a stronger and more resilient person, at other times I continue to feel the grief of being uprooted and unrooted.
Thank you, Pastor Tim. I know that you take heat for presenting Truth, but it is the right thing to do. Our only hope is in
our Triune God and the blessed gift of His inerrant Word. Bless you as you follow God's leading !!
This is what I need. Let me find a quiet moment to really absorb this. Thank you 🙏🏾
I love your videos, they are long and informative. Thanks for making these
Love your talks Tim. Thank you for what you do. Please do a talk on the topic of ageing for people people with cptsd and what issues come up and healthy ways to cope with it existentially. And how the Bible can help.
Sucks to age when you feel have never been young due to CPTSD
Thank you 🙏🏼
I so wish you were my local pastor. However I haven't checked out my local church's and maybe I should as my dad's in coma and im not coping too well. Everything is slipping because im sleeping all the time. Im also fighting terminal cancer so that's alot of why but it's mostly grief that's triggered my sleeping lots maybe my dad's coma wearing off on me? But it's better than getting into trouble because im awake not coping well
I hope you're doing better now, Trudy. Checking out a local church is a great idea 🙏
Much❤from Germany
I'm listening
❤ THANKS
I lost my young ragdollcat, where I live, they have to stay inside, I couldn't cope, he pooped in common area, I have no-one to talk to, I'm feed all the rainbow lorikkeets driving me nuts, I don't like therapy, they don't care, just want your money! I feel like running out to get another one, I don't know ow how to make friends anymore, I am getting too old, plus had to stop contact with npd abusive sisters, been doing AA for 25 years just went back, I am crying quite a bit, feel guilty, I think about how painful it must have been for him, to lose his cat mother and his home to go to strangers! Oh well, I just pray 🙏 for answers!❤❤thanks!
Hi, Thank you for the valuable talk! I have a question on how to deal with the type i grief (in relationship loss)? I feel grief for I should have had but what was taken from the abusive parents (I got here with my therapist and feel stuck, maybe just today). The trick is it is not directly related to a person. How to deal with the unsolved/unmet and will-never-be-met needs, while still keeping the right boundary? Thank you for any info!
Is there a way to go see these lectures in person?
It was a man made scam
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