🎢 How to NOT GO BACK to someone who you know isn't right for you (Rollercoaster analogy)

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  • Опубліковано 24 тра 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 37

  • @katrinabrown3561
    @katrinabrown3561 Місяць тому +15

    For me I realized I saw him a challenge and that using tactics to “get him back” was a way for me to cope with my estranged father. I spent my life performing for my dad’s attention. Once I realized this it’s making me more resolute to move on. I didn’t know that I was using the guy as a means of attaining the love I craved from my father.

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому +1

      Ohh my heart goes out to you Katrina! 💞i know how that is... AND, how fabulous that you had this realisation!! Im so proud of you for seeing through the patterns and choosing to change 🥰 If you ever need any help let me know!

  • @nancyrivera3417
    @nancyrivera3417 Місяць тому +3

    So happy that you are doing UA-cam Videos!!! Great to re-see them when needed. And these 2 videos are what I still need! I’m not over the bridge yet but I’m getting there and I feel better and better each day 😊. No anxiety, but feel sad once in a while. Still in no contact since March 11th and I’m so proud of myself. He has tried to reach out but I avoid at all cost, I have the Universe on my side 😊. Don’t even see the need to talk it out which is what he is looking for. So happy I found you or you found me!! Please continue with your fabulous work, you heal and give hope 😊

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому +1

      Ohh Nancy you're going to make me cry! I am so proud of you and to read an update about your journey. Just the way that you have overcome years of waking up with anxiety is also how you will overcome the residue of these feelings that are still lingering on. You've got this 💛💗🥰🥰

  • @Arsalannotadoctor
    @Arsalannotadoctor 18 днів тому +2

    So so so helpful. May God bless you!

  • @Miguel-zi5vt
    @Miguel-zi5vt Місяць тому +3

    this video is exactly what I needed to hear. thank you for this... very underrated video, you deserve millions of views

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому

      Thank you Miguel! 🥰🙏💛

  • @zarae9651
    @zarae9651 Місяць тому +4

    This advice is amazing. Thank you, I needed to hear it.

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому +1

      So happy to read! Thank you 💛

  • @Dragonfly46
    @Dragonfly46 2 місяці тому +3

    Your advice can be applied to any type of relationship🥰

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  2 місяці тому

      Absolutely!! Feel free to get creative with it💛🙏

  • @AlisonQ1
    @AlisonQ1 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you universe for letting me find your video when I need it most 🙏

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому +1

      bless!! 🙏💛🌞

  • @giordanadenardo8407
    @giordanadenardo8407 Місяць тому +1

    This is a masterpiece, you are really inspiring :)

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Giordana 🙏💛🌞

  • @raziyarukshar
    @raziyarukshar 2 місяці тому +2

    Looking forward to see you more here , ❤️.... thank you 🤍

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому

      Thank you for being here 💓

  • @pashnikhutel
    @pashnikhutel 2 місяці тому +2

    Soooo happy to finally see you on UA-cam ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому

      Ahhh! Thank you angel, and thank you for your support 💓

  • @brian1018
    @brian1018 Місяць тому +1

    Appreciate this, really helpful 💯✅

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому

      Happy to read that Brian! 🙏💛

  • @katd4483
    @katd4483 Місяць тому +2

    I NEED THE PART 2

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому

      up now! 😍

  • @robdunn5518
    @robdunn5518 2 місяці тому +1

    Excellent content. Looking forward to the next one.🙌

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  2 місяці тому

      Thank you Rob! I’m excitedly anticipating sharing the next one with you as well 🥳💛

  • @Kanto77
    @Kanto77 Місяць тому +1

    this really helped, thank you

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for your beautiful comment! 💞

  • @khaledsawy7680
    @khaledsawy7680 2 місяці тому +2

    Congratulations zmaj 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for being here Khaled🙏🥰🤗💞💛😌✨

  • @faycelfridi1116
    @faycelfridi1116 2 місяці тому +2

    Yoohooo you're on UA-cam that's great i like it 🎉 🎉✨

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you dear 🥰🥰💛🙏

  • @thesicahill
    @thesicahill Місяць тому +1

    What happens if you see them most days at work and you have to periodically interact with them?

    • @Lilgoat.1
      @Lilgoat.1 Місяць тому

      Stay friendly but don't be friends. The relationship fell apart for a reason, it will never go back to how it used to be so move on. Reflect on where you messed up and fix yourself. Not for them, you. Fix yourself for you.

  • @faycelfridi1116
    @faycelfridi1116 2 місяці тому +1

    Look, I made the first comment ☺️🤗

    • @Arrual
      @Arrual  2 місяці тому +1

      Yayy!! First comment on the first ever video ❤

    • @faycelfridi1116
      @faycelfridi1116 2 місяці тому

      @@Arrual Yeeees 🎉 i'm happy for that