To everyone that is of the opinion that women should stay at home and not work:I assume that you are also fine with the fact that your wives, sisters and mothers have to visit male doctors, surgeons and gynecologists. Sincerely a female Muslim doctor who didn't stay at home.
Well, there is a huge difference between having a lady doctor and a lady waitress. Or a Lady teacher for girls and a lady accountant between men. Isn't it?
Being a Muslim is so hard these days. Every other person, even Muslims themselves keep on saying how Islam oppresses women. Nouman Ali Khan is truly a gem amid these❤️
Of course Muslim ladies can do job. Quran says, O muslim lady! Go outside but honor yourself and get covered properly. Hadith shows when a muslim lady asked the prophet s a w, to whom she should do charity, and prophet said, " to your husband ", who was disable . She can do business, can be a teacher, doctor but her primary responsibility is her home, her kids because she is " hafizaat ", guardian of her husband's house, kids, earning, and honor.
@@mysterious_4053 . Of course , or a house provided to her as it is his responsibility to provide food n shelter to her queen 👑. But she is not responsible to share her money or divide it, but charity is good for her.
@@salahdin6382 even if she is not obbliagated to share money or divide it, can we do it to help our husband and have more money to spend for our childrens (if we have one) and for our health and house? Sorry but I want to clarify all this😅
@@mysterious_4053 . Of course, why not. It is not obligatory for her, but whatever at of good a men or women does, is ihsaan and will be rewarded on That Day.
Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid (may Allaah be pleased with her) DID NOT ENGAGE DIRECTLY IN TRADE herself, rather she used to employ men to work on HER BEHALF❕
sister with all the respect... Today we are living in the times of fitna... Great fitna... And feminism is one of them... I understand what you say... But there is great hikmah in what Allah has told.... And above all we are His slaves and He is our master... We don't interpret the Quran according to our wishful thinking ...tell me if you disagree sister... Further the feminist movement has made it like women are oppressed... Education/ilm is fard but earning is on the wali of the girl... You should fight for the right... You have right on your husband ... Your father your sons your brother... Why make them free from responsibilities?? Ofcourse Islam doesn't prohibit working for a woman but what it prohibits is the interaction... Which has consequences... I will further write about this Insha Allah in this reply only... When you have an environment that is conducive..you're encouraged to work... Today I see men tailoring women's clothes... And how immodest it seems to me when woman give their measurements to the tailor... There we require women Today when a woman is in hospital to deliver a child..she doesn't get a female doctor ..there we need you.. Today our sisters and daughters are learning Quraan from male teachers... There we need woman ... Today we need woman nurses for woman.. When we will obey Allah's command of segregation between men and women automatically there will be vacancies for women.. and Wallahi sister we need you out there... We love you sister and Allah loves you and that is why He doesn't want the muslim woman out there .. in front of the perverted men... Unless need be so. I know females who didn't undergo surgery because they don't want their body to be seen by a non mehram and are afraid a doctor can do anything while in operation theatre... But on the same note this free mixing is what Allah has forbidden because it's so evil that He commanded woman to stay safe at homes and not work, you're precious in Islam and so Allah want your men ( mahram) to protect you... I will explain this in brief. If we read the reports of divorce cases in the US itself... Only 30% marriages somehow survive without separation... And in the remaining separated 70% couples ... 50% go for legal divorce ... And shockingly 40% of these registered divorce cases happen because of infidelity in workplaces (ie...the spouse finds someone at workplace) .. Imagine the pain a woman goes through if her husband leaves her... Allah is protecting you from that heartbreak and helplessness... And even those women don't understand the hikmah of this... Wallahi sister you'll be out becoming a temptation for someone else... Allah will place a temptation for your husband in his workplace... Because what goes around comes around... Allah says in the Quran ..not to go out of homes without a necessity... And not become a tabarruj (tabarruj comes from the word Burj means a tower... And a tower is a attention seeking thing... A head turner) Allah has hikmah behind this, sister... When Allah calls something a temptation and you see that reports say that free mixing results in immodest conduct... This is not a question on your modesty or my modesty... These ayahs came for the wives of prophet... If Allah is warning against this free mixing we must at once understand His words and learn from people who went astray... It has been proved that when men and women come together... Disaster happens... Further if you read the researches done on delinquent children( juvenile cases in US) .. A study was done on 497+495 or so children ... It was found that the children in juvenile had almost 50% working mothers ... And non delinquent/juvenile children had around 30% working mother... Also, among those children for which it was found that their guardianship was responsible for their crime... It was found that 80% of their mothers were working woman... Also in a new research it was found that woman who earn their daughters tend to become earning woman and the concern is here ...their sons tend to become househusbands... This is alarming sister... Allah has given our Muslimah sister a greater responsibility a far complex and complicated work which men can't do... That is the work of raising a righteous child... A woman can raise a Firaun or a Musa ... That's how powerful our sisters are... I know it's difficult for you sisters... But it's only a matter of time... The day you die you're free from all the rules... And Allah will reward you greatly for your sacrifices... You'll turn back and see your life and wonder... Only if had done more sacrifices I would have had a better Jannah... And for this duniya try to understand the hikmah of Allah... He only wants your good.. he is protecting you from evil eyes... Evil touches.. evil people... Heartbreaks and much more... And even men do sacrifices sister... But it has become a custom and is not recognised it's taken for granted... There are a lot of other reasons... Economic reasons biological reasons... And so on... But I can't write everything here... Insha Allah you will understand... May Allah give you hidayah..like the mothers of believers were on the right path... If my words have hurt you please forgive me... And don't embarrass me on the day of judgement... I hope this will seem logical to you... JazakAllah khair
I'm also so much confused in this regard. I'm an Indian muslim. I graduated and I have been working hard since past 1.5 year for an exam and now after I came across Islamic speeches by many scholars. I don't know where to go ahead.
And she left her business... YOU FORGOT TO MENTION... ?? And gave all her wealth in Baitul Maal... She was a chaste businesswoman in the days of JAHILLIYAH...you didn't mention this as well.... And when she accepted Islam...she gave up her business..... Why cherry pick things???
sister with all the respect... Today we are living in the times of fitna... Great fitna... And feminism is one of them... I understand what you say... But there is great hikmah in what Allah has told.... And above all we are His slaves and He is our master... We don't interpret the Quran according to our wishful thinking ...tell me if you disagree sister... Further the feminist movement has made it like women are oppressed... Education/ilm is fard but earning is on the wali of the girl... You should fight for the right... You have right on your husband ... Your father your sons your brother... Why make them free from responsibilities?? Ofcourse Islam doesn't prohibit working for a woman but what it prohibits is the interaction... Which has consequences... I will further write about this Insha Allah in this reply only... When you have an environment that is conducive..you're encouraged to work... Today I see men tailoring women's clothes... And how immodest it seems to me when woman give their measurements to the tailor... There we require women Today when a woman is in hospital to deliver a child..she doesn't get a female doctor ..there we need you.. Today our sisters and daughters are learning Quraan from male teachers... There we need woman ... Today we need woman nurses for woman.. When we will obey Allah's command of segregation between men and women automatically there will be vacancies for women.. and Wallahi sister we need you out there... We love you sister and Allah loves you and that is why He doesn't want the muslim woman out there .. in front of the perverted men... Unless need be so. I know females who didn't undergo surgery because they don't want their body to be seen by a non mehram and are afraid a doctor can do anything while in operation theatre... But on the same note this free mixing is what Allah has forbidden because it's so evil that He commanded woman to stay safe at homes and not work, you're precious in Islam and so Allah want your men ( mahram) to protect you... I will explain this in brief. If we read the reports of divorce cases in the US itself... Only 30% marriages somehow survive without separation... And in the remaining separated 70% couples ... 50% go for legal divorce ... And shockingly 40% of these registered divorce cases happen because of infidelity in workplaces (ie...the spouse finds someone at workplace) .. Imagine the pain a woman goes through if her husband leaves her... Allah is protecting you from that heartbreak and helplessness... And even those women don't understand the hikmah of this... Wallahi sister you'll be out becoming a temptation for someone else... Allah will place a temptation for your husband in his workplace... Because what goes around comes around... Allah says in the Quran ..not to go out of homes without a necessity... And not become a tabarruj (tabarruj comes from the word Burj means a tower... And a tower is a attention seeking thing... A head turner) Allah has hikmah behind this, sister... When Allah calls something a temptation and you see that reports say that free mixing results in immodest conduct... This is not a question on your modesty or my modesty... These ayahs came for the wives of prophet... If Allah is warning against this free mixing we must at once understand His words and learn from people who went astray... It has been proved that when men and women come together... Disaster happens... Further if you read the researches done on delinquent children( juvenile cases in US) .. A study was done on 497+495 or so children ... It was found that the children in juvenile had almost 50% working mothers ... And non delinquent/juvenile children had around 30% working mother... Also, among those children for which it was found that their guardianship was responsible for their crime... It was found that 80% of their mothers were working woman... Also in a new research it was found that woman who earn their daughters tend to become earning woman and the concern is here ...their sons tend to become househusbands... This is alarming sister... Allah has given our Muslimah sister a greater responsibility a far complex and complicated work which men can't do... That is the work of raising a righteous child... A woman can raise a Firaun or a Musa ... That's how powerful our sisters are... I know it's difficult for you sisters... But it's only a matter of time... The day you die you're free from all the rules... And Allah will reward you greatly for your sacrifices... You'll turn back and see your life and wonder... Only if had done more sacrifices I would have had a better Jannah... And for this duniya try to understand the hikmah of Allah... He only wants your good.. he is protecting you from evil eyes... Evil touches.. evil people... Heartbreaks and much more... And even men do sacrifices sister... But it has become a custom and is not recognised it's taken for granted... There are a lot of other reasons... Economic reasons biological reasons... And so on... But I can't write everything here... Insha Allah you will understand... May Allah give you hidayah..like the mothers of believers were on the right path... If my words have hurt you please forgive me... And don't embarrass me on the day of judgement... I hope this will seem logical to you... JazakAllah khair
@@heartsxday read Qur'an chapter 33 verses 28 to 33 ..and also read sahih Muslim 1478 .. this hadith explains the situation after which those ayats 33:28-33 were revealed. You'll understand what is of importance. And when you have no proof and knowledge in your hand stop explaining Islam through your distorted understanding.
@@heartsxday i do understand brother. But as u said we need women in place of doctors, teachers, nurses, tailors etc. Etc. We also need women in the technology industries bcoz their brains r quite sharper and when both men and women's brain come together they develop the world, build up space missions, create better robotics etc. Women are really needed in most of the fields. Mixing is everywhere but a true muslim needs to resist distractions and move forward. Allah rewards the people who despite of many distractions stick to islam. Locking women in houses isnt the solution. Women also need the freedom to follow their dreams and become successful.
@@ziasmailbox i think u misinterpreted some information..."Khadijah pbuh left the business to help poor and people who were in need. By her will, knowledge and support ’Khadijah Al Kubra proved her as a great companion and loving mother and a great ideal for the women of all times". Allah was extremely pleased from her due to her helpful nature. After her father's death she took up the business and continued it, even prophet pbuh used to work under her.
I think people forget that the first wife of the holy prophet (s.a.w.) and the person to accept Islam was Khadijah (radi allahu anha) who was a businesswoman. I think it's important for the Muslimeen to learn about the prominent women in Islam even on UA-cam. Lady Khadijah (ra) was just one of the examples. Asma' bint Abu Bakr as Siddique was another example of the women in Islam, she was the first who provided aid to the Prophet and Abu Bakr as Siddique when they were hiding in the cave of thawr. She would keep food and water in her belt to take to the prophet pbuh and her father for which Prophet Muhammed (s.a.w.) nicknamed her dthat al nitaqayn. She gave birth to the first Muslim son in the Muslim population, and during the time she was married, she would graze horses and help her husband in the farm. She was also tested by Allah swt when her son was martyred. And she also contributed to the hadith. She is just one of the many examples of the women in Islam.
Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid (may Allaah be pleased with her) DID NOT ENGAGE DIRECTLY IN TRADE herself, rather she used to employ men to work on HER BEHALF❕
Great. A man is telling us what to do. He has no idea how challenging it is to have two jobs because, let's face it, men don't do anything around the house, carry the mental load of what the kids, house, etc., need.
That's why me and my wife never had kids. She is a Biotechnical Engineer tho. Her career and ambition made her very attractive to me. I actually always preferred career ladies as a partner as they would be more relatable
I can tell you its not easy for a woman to follow the shariah at work because one, free mixing is rampant. In fact youre expected to be friendly with your male colleagues and at meetings theres no such thing as "mens table" and "womens table". Its common to see men and women sitting together, laughing..and its not strange to hear of workplace affairs. Then, you may also be expected to travel and stay in hotels or whatever. Without mahram. Apart from that, the work culture itself may expect women to adorn herself so you see muslim women with fitting suits, makeup, high heels, branded handbags because you have to look "presentable". Hijab? What hijab? Maybe there are exceptions but most workplaces are not shar'i.
So what women are it allowed education and to contribute anything to society but giving birth? What about women who can’t have children? Are they useless to society?
Şu an kadınlar çalışıyor diye günaha giriyormuş gibi davranan "kadınların fıtratı" yemek yapmak, bulaşık yıkamak üzerine kurulu, önrmli işlere elinizi sürmeyin diyen veya öyle bir izlenim yaratmaya çalışan herkese Allah daha derin düşünebilme yeteneği versin diyorum. Son anda kendimi tutup hayır duasına çevirdim. Bu çok zordu...
I don't understand people. Rasullulah SAW said whoever has two daughters and educates them and marries them to good men will enter Paradise. So what is the purpose of the education? Women can have careers as long as it does not contradict the Islamic teachings. We should have more women in healthcare and teaching. Especially in non Muslim countries. A Muslim woman most usually ends up exposing her nakedness to non Muslim men in the name of childbirth. Where are our Muslim sisters? After going to medical school they sit at home! Am from Africa and where I come from most Muslim men don't live up to their responsibilities. They don't pay school fees, take care of their wives and in-laws. Where I come from if you as a woman stays at home, hunger and poverty will be your lot as husbands now admire financially empowered women. Islam did not say, women don't work!
The purpose of education is to earn money? Lmao XD Gynecologists are female. She gives birth in front of female doctors. And there should be female doctors. I agree. But you have to have separate female hospital and Medical colleges as well. If fathers don't fulfill their duties they will be accountable before Allah. Islam doesn't forbid women from earning, but has to have a halal environment.
Woman can be financially independent by staying at hone too, there are so many things that you can do at home, by staying with the kids and earn a living too
Very confusing and unclear answer to be honest, disappointed. Where are the sources to the claims he made? The women with the dad who was old and couldn't work, worked in their own field out of necessity or they would go hungry. Can you draw such comparison in the west today???? Nearly every work place would be deemed unsuitable for a woman to work according to Islamic teachings. Such answer by NAK only enforced career driven women to go out and neglect marriage and children in favour of cooperate career progression. Too many imams are being liberalised it's soo sad to see.
This is a very bad and incomprehensive answer. I have not ready any hadith where men and women worked together on farms. There is a hadith where a woman worked on a farm but it was her own farm and presumably among her own relatives. It would be good if NAK gave references considering he is a scholar. NAK is giving a westernized answer not an islamic one. From my understanding of sharia women should not work in environments where there is regular interaction with men. I don''t know of any job in the West save a few that has segregated work environments. And it is very easy to prove that according to islam women are not encouraged to work. All muslims say and I accept that women during the Prophet's time were the most liberated women on the planet of the earth. I have not read any hadith where the first thing that these newly liberated Muslim women did was to go out and work in hordes. They were truly liberated and if they felt that working was a priority they would all have done so if that is what they felt was their ulitmate right , i.e. to go out and work, instead they become even more conservative and there are sufficient hadiths to prove this. They were no where near as rich as Muslim women in the west yet they didnt work. Muslims these days have got a westernized way of thinking so they have lost their priorities. To even make wanting to work your number one priority shows a defect in intentions and haya. A woman with true haya would not consider working among men. Mariam was not a prophet. Yet she secluded herself in her room and devoted herself to prayer. Even if she had gone out to work she would never have been tempted because only her and Prophet Isha are the only ones to never be touched by Satan, yet Mariam didn't. (astagfirullah to even think such a thing, just trying to make my point) I would like to clarify that I am not saying its haram to work. I am stating that for a Muslim woman to be willing to work among men makes me think that her priorities are not in order. Some answers here say that women should work such as by being doctors, nurses so they can help other Muslim women. My answer is : help your self first. You don't help someone else by losing your modesty or working in unislamic environments. Can a woman in the West work as a doctor or nurse catering to only women?? Is that practically possible? By giving these fanciful answers the commentators are only fooling themselves and deluding others
dear brother i just wanna say that you are right but you did't understood the answer he said he said women can work until they follow sharia and the primary job of women is to take care of the children and her husband same goes for men there priority should be family but when we came to this world to please allah subhan wa tala so we should do those things that makes him happy for example sadaqah,helping poor,taking care of allah's creation it should apply on both men and women both are responsible for making a world better place for upcoming generation man can do this beacuse they are allowed to work but what about women every one thinks that they should help herself first then men also should help himself first being and career orieented women does'nt mean her priorities are not in order it means that she made herself very clear that before she dies she will make differenc ein peoples life in a good way she has a right to do sadaqah jariya,help poor people with her own money ,and being remeber after she dies means matrydom she can do the things that her religon allow her to do but some men think that women are weak they are not able to do such things but remember there are lot of women in the past who were in jihad with prophets and they had been the aprt of very important discussions at the time of wars and prophets used to value their points they have been leaders,commanders and many more and we remember them for their bravery because those womens are matrys of islam women can do anything unless its not affecting their husband,children and islam.
Dear Mr. Nouman In my opinion, if the ladies are not married and have no kids or supporters they can do jobs with the conditions that's required from them. Masha'Allah, with all my respect to you and all your works I disagree with the example you gave about the Madian girls. They had to get out of the house because they had no supporter, (وَلَمَّا وَرَدَ مَاءَ مَدْيَنَ وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِ أُمَّةً مِنَ النَّاسِ يَسْقُونَ وَوَجَدَ مِنْ دُونِهِمُ امْرَأَتَيْنِ تَذُودَانِ ۖ قَالَ مَا خَطْبُكُمَا ۖ قَالَتَا لَا نَسْقِي حَتَّىٰ يُصْدِرَ الرِّعَاءُ ۖ وَأَبُونَا شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ) [Surat Al-Qasas 23] the reason they went out is they have to eat right? I do not think that there is a greater or a heavier job than raising generations to be a great muslim.
If they can do both, raise their kids and earn money or do a job they want to because they have goals in life, then Why not let them? What if the womans happiness or goal is not to stay at home and take care of kids for the rest of their lives, every human has a goal, islam lets us achieve it in the best way possible, so best not to judge.
I live in Pakistan , most of the men don't bother fullfilling the basic rights over here. but still every single molvi out here emphasize on women staying home. let me give an example of my aunt. her husband lived in south africa for about 11 years. and his income wasn't enough to fullfil their needs. both of them used to fight over money. my Aunt had to take off her kids from their old school and she got them admitted to a cheaper school. they left the city and moved back to village because they couldn't afford the bills of their rented house in city. her husband came back to Pakistan and was now totally unemployed. he stayed at home ,didn't earn anything at all. my Aunt was now dependent on money and basic needs to her brothers. but my uncle used to beat her and kids because he thought it's against his honor that her wife's brother are fullfilling their needs. but still he didn't bother going out and doing something. things went even worse. my Aunt and uncle got separated , and after they got separated uncle died (2 or 3 months later). now the brothers of my Aunt who made her stay home when she was young, who never bothered sending her to school,college are not supporting her either. all I know is this could definitely have been better if my Aunt was educated and independent . this could have stopped the fights for money and her kids from crying for their little wishes. Idk when ese molvis will learn that their is a lot of difference between Paksitani men and those Arabis at times when Quran was revealed
that's the problem. The men and women both have to follow Islam. If men don't do that, they will be punished accordingly. And if the women don't, then they will be punished too. As simple as that.
I think women can work only when it is so necessary situation and not much challenging with men’s environment. For ex: women didn’t have husband or other mahrams or it is not enough money to take care family which man is finding ( poor family, may Allah helps them) or the job need Muslim women (for ex: OBG doktor or like kind of). That is my opinion. Allah knows best
@@ayshafidha1711 And she left her business... YOU FORGOT TO MENTION... ?? And gave all her wealth in Baitul Maal... She was a chaste businesswoman in the days of JAHILLIYAH...you didn't mention this as well.... And when she accepted Islam...she gave up her business..... Why cherry pick things??? that was when Islam didn't come... Those ayahs of Quran were not reveled... When that ayat came... Everything was different... Even mother Aisha cried so much after reading those ayahs that her headscarf drenched in her tears... Why??? You know ??? Because earlier she participated in a war and did horseriding... sister with all the respect... Today we are living in the times of fitna... Great fitna... And feminism is one of them... I understand what you say... But there is great hikmah in what Allah has told.... And above all we are His slaves and He is our master... We don't interpret the Quran according to our wishful thinking ...tell me if you disagree sister... Further the feminist movement has made it like women are oppressed... Education/ilm is fard but earning is on the wali of the girl... You should fight for the right... You have right on your husband ... Your father your sons your brother... Why make them free from responsibilities?? Ofcourse Islam doesn't prohibit working for a woman but what it prohibits is the interaction... Which has consequences... I will further write about this Insha Allah in this reply only... When you have an environment that is conducive..you're encouraged to work... Today I see men tailoring women's clothes... And how immodest it seems to me when woman give their measurements to the tailor... There we require women Today when a woman is in hospital to deliver a child..she doesn't get a female doctor ..there we need you.. Today our sisters and daughters are learning Quraan from male teachers... There we need woman ... Today we need woman nurses for woman.. When we will obey Allah's command of segregation between men and women automatically there will be vacancies for women.. and Wallahi sister we need you out there... We love you sister and Allah loves you and that is why He doesn't want the muslim woman out there .. in front of the perverted men... Unless need be so. I know females who didn't undergo surgery because they don't want their body to be seen by a non mehram and are afraid a doctor can do anything while in operation theatre... But on the same note this free mixing is what Allah has forbidden because it's so evil that He commanded woman to stay safe at homes and not work, you're precious in Islam and so Allah want your men ( mahram) to protect you... I will explain this in brief. If we read the reports of divorce cases in the US itself... Only 30% marriages somehow survive without separation... And in the remaining separated 70% couples ... 50% go for legal divorce ... And shockingly 40% of these registered divorce cases happen because of infidelity in workplaces (ie...the spouse finds someone at workplace) .. Imagine the pain a woman goes through if her husband leaves her... Allah is protecting you from that heartbreak and helplessness... And even those women don't understand the hikmah of this... Wallahi sister you'll be out becoming a temptation for someone else... Allah will place a temptation for your husband in his workplace... Because what goes around comes around... Allah says in the Quran ..not to go out of homes without a necessity... And not become a tabarruj (tabarruj comes from the word Burj means a tower... And a tower is a attention seeking thing... A head turner) Allah has hikmah behind this, sister... When Allah calls something a temptation and you see that reports say that free mixing results in immodest conduct... This is not a question on your modesty or my modesty... These ayahs came for the wives of prophet... If Allah is warning against this free mixing we must at once understand His words and learn from people who went astray... It has been proved that when men and women come together... Disaster happens... Further if you read the researches done on delinquent children( juvenile cases in US) .. A study was done on 497+495 or so children ... It was found that the children in juvenile had almost 50% working mothers ... And non delinquent/juvenile children had around 30% working mother... Also, among those children for which it was found that their guardianship was responsible for their crime... It was found that 80% of their mothers were working woman... Also in a new research it was found that woman who earn their daughters tend to become earning woman and the concern is here ...their sons tend to become househusbands... This is alarming sister... Allah has given our Muslimah sister a greater responsibility a far complex and complicated work which men can't do... That is the work of raising a righteous child... A woman can raise a Firaun or a Musa ... That's how powerful our sisters are... I know it's difficult for you sisters... But it's only a matter of time... The day you die you're free from all the rules... And Allah will reward you greatly for your sacrifices... You'll turn back and see your life and wonder... Only if had done more sacrifices I would have had a better Jannah... And for this duniya try to understand the hikmah of Allah... He only wants your good.. he is protecting you from evil eyes... Evil touches.. evil people... Heartbreaks and much more... And even men do sacrifices sister... But it has become a custom and is not recognised it's taken for granted... There are a lot of other reasons... Economic reasons biological reasons... And so on... But I can't write everything here... Insha Allah you will understand... May Allah give you hidayah..like the mothers of believers were on the right path... If my words have hurt you please forgive me... And don't embarrass me on the day of judgement... I hope this will seem logical to you... JazakAllah khair
But primary responsibility of a married woman is her husband and children's at the day of judgement every human being Will be called by his/her mothers name it's also mentioned in many hadiths that A Muslim women jihad is when she serve her kids husban jobian woman's are not bad or its prohibited but Allah says I Qur'an man's are protecters and maintainer of the family so never neglect ur kids as bb khadija did after nikah she become complete house wive and detonated all her money in charity
Assalamoaliakoam warahmatulahi Wabarakatuhu the thing is that if the wife has a husband who is follows the sunnah of Muhammad salalhu alayhewasalam then she should stay home and raise the. Kids alot of sister work because some brother are irresponsible and dont follow sunnah we should know our gender roles and rights of each other We males are kawams if we became real men who know their responsibilities then the real woman will respect and love you in sha Allah and fulfilling her sexual needs Simple formula of a happy and greatful life quran and sunnah simple
The Pakistani Indian south east continent only give firka . The comment sections is filled with people who are against women work who are from India Pakistan South East region .then there is Nouman no the cultural differences of Western and Eastern country. From my knowledge Islam promote earning money to women in order to give charity whether you earn money from home or else
Sheikh Assem al Hakeem says women are to stay at home, and husbands have the right ("God-given right" ) to tell her not to work if they can "bring the food to the table", and she must obey; because he is the "captain", he decides. If she doesn't obey and still chooses to work he can "ditch such evil woman" and seek a better wife. He even said this about a woman's money being hers: that if a woman does a job that means she has to quit some of her household chores that must be done by domestic help...so the husband can come to this agreement that she agrees to pay a percentage of her salary to pay for the maid. ..yes, a man can't control where she spends, but the world cannot work this way...she should agree to such an arrangement. About women giving the reason that they want to do a job because of "beneficially contributing to society", Dr. Zakir Naik said ", a woman raising her children is the best job for her because she's raising an ummah, a woman is responsible for her flock..."
Um...Nope! I'm a grown adult with two motorcycles, a truck, many bills to pay, a full-time career in science and a social life. I'm with the same right to enjoy life and all the privileges and golden opportunities this world has to offer me (without having to be male). So I'm only home (when I feel like being home)...😎
Well I am Indian and I am a Teacher.My dad who is a retired teacher always supported me to persu my carrier.Infact in my family many of my cousin sister are working not only as teacher but also other jobs like BCS officer.Just ignore the ignorant people who think ISLAM forbids women to achieve their dreams .
@@arshikhan9910 Assalamualaikum sister I'm an Indian too. Mashallah I'm also aspiring for some government job exams. I'm more confused because doing a 9-5 job also leads to missing of Salaah and here in India I don't think we can also do a proper hijab while at work. Plz enlighten me on this Jazakallah
I have a question. We know that In Islam free mixing between male and female is Haram. And any physical touch between 2 Gayeri Mahram is considered as fornication and serious sin in Islam. Then why in Hajj Islam allows free mixing ? Specially Tawaf at close circle to Kaba has a lot of gathering, where any people will be embraced totally by other. Can a be in that much of gathering while it is haram and almost embracing ?
Well, we also need to take in account the difference in today's society comparing to the society of Madina at that time. Do you think that today our society is strictly practicing ISLAMIC TEACHINGS as it was practicing before? And let us not forget the advancement in technology that has caused more fitna in the name of "connectivity". (Spouse getting text-messages from some co-worker after job hours. Why? ). Last, do you think we live with the same standards and high moral values and integrity as people lived back then? All these points should be taken in consideration before giving such statement. I do like Nouman Ali Khan's lectures. He has been a guiding star to many lost youths of today's (I was one of them). But this statement made in the video seems that he just wants to go WITH THE FLOW. Allah knows the best.
so your saying me a girl should not go to university to peruse a career i want to do in life because i have to limit myself at home? a muslim women (if she’s married if she’s not doesn’t apply to her)can work outside her home as long as she tends to the needs of her household and children because she was given that responsibility by Allah. Today there are more career opportunities then there were before and it should be for both male and female not only be for males because she has to stay at home all day . Staying home should not limit the rights that a muslim can go out to work respectively or go study at school/university as long she knows her responsibilities at home
if anything, technology is a fitna for people who stay at home. So women should probably work outside more often these days so they can avoid this fitna, where you can sin so easily from the click of a button.
@@MH-bf4uu Technology isn't some household thing. It goes where you go. Women going out to work or staying at home, has nothing to do with technology. However, women going outside unnecessarily and then staying in touch with gair mehram (via technology) and then building relationships with them is surely not right. And of course "Same goes for men."
bro in maddian the father of that two women was very old that why when mosa (as) aproched them the females said (may allah forgive me something like) that there father is an old man. dont twist islam.
Well if a girl has finished her education and her mahram are supporting her financially she should serve Allah's deen, seek deen's knowledge and teach muslim kids and ladies because in todays time when Islam is weak and suppressed we need educated muslims who can devout themsleves to serving deen, There are so many muslim ladies who are stuck in a circumstance that they have to earn but if Allah has blessed a girl so much that she does not have to worry about the next meal for herself and her family that's not because so that she can earn and start accumulating more dunya rather Allah has blessed her so that she can work for His deen. And if Allah's deen is weak and we are "free" then we surely need to have more understanding and love for Allah's deen.
What about inspiring rest of the world especially non-muslims. I do understand ur point of teaching Muslim women and kids. But what about non-muslims. What about showing them what Islam is about and be a representative of Islam. So try to have a wider perspective and let us do the duty Allah has decided for us.
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 This is our biggest problem we as muslims do not know where we stand today as ummah, how can we take Islam forward, and that happens because deep down inside we just want to raise our own status, persue everything that non-believing materialistic world wants us to persue but we are very smart we do it in the name of serving Islam, but we all know what most muslims do, make their careers, earn money and have a luxurious life and all they do for islam is may be attending a weekly islamic lecture that is their way of serving islam, look around you, so many muslims are making great careers to serve Allah's deen, but all they do is to serve themselves, So if you really want to go in those fields it requires great taqwa, you have to be ready to lose that position to stand for Islam and to spread Islam but no one does that rather they start following the kufr system to maintain their luxurious life, and having someone with a muslim name at such and such position hardly benefits Islam if that position is not used to spread Islam, and spreading Islam with only akhlaq is also a escape route, because Rasoolullah (saw) had best akhlaq but still he had to give dawah in speech so you have to do it at any cost, but the problem is, while making our careers we are so busy we dont have time to do something real for islam. At that time we think we will be doing it when our studies are over, when we start working we are busier than before and we never have time for Islam, Well that happens because we are not true to Allah's deen, deep down inside we just want to make our own life like everyone else we are not ready to compromise this life at any cost, ( They try to decieve Allah, but they only decieve themselves- Quran) What and how you should be serving Allah's deen , It can be known from seerah of the prophet (s.a.w), You need to find yourself in the seerah, and then start struggling for Islam the way Rasoolullah(saw) and sahaba karaam did. so if you live in a country where Islam is strong and established, Allah's laws are the law of the land, then you must make great careers in every field because this is what Sahaba karam did when Islam was established in Arab and spreading outside. If you live in a country where Islam is not strong and partially established like that in medinah, then you should be working the way sahaba karam did in medinah, they spent alot in the path of Allah and sacrificed their lives for in the path of Allah to strenghen Islam. If you live in a non muslim country, where Allah's laws are nowhere to be seen rather What Allah made prohibited is made halal and and what Allah made halal is made haram , then it's like makki time, What did sahaba karam do in makkah, did Rasoolullah (saw) ask sahaba karam to make great careers to spread Islam, did he say all of them should try to become best poets or businessman or their tribe leaders to spread Islam, rather you would see khadija tul Kubra(r.a) who was the richest business women in makkah before Islam, was then starving, she spent everything in the path of Allah, pampered and Rich Musab ibn umair(r.a) was walking the streets with no home and no luxuries and only a sack covering his body, Millionare Abu bakar (r.a) left nothing behind for his family when he migrated with the prophet (s.a.w), What muslims were commanded to do was ( qum fa anzir- Arise and warn- (Quran surah mudassir) that is spread the message of Islam), and if you are sure you can perform this duty better if you are working in a particular field then that's great, but if your career boils down to working like crazies from morning to evening to earn the money you don't even need (to fulfill basic necessities) , then it is better that you seek knowledge ( Islamic as well as other subjects) so that you can effectively spread the message of Islam by elaborating in modern terminology the teachings of Islam regarding the practical aspects of life be it social, political, economical or spiritual. The only way to inspire rest of the world specially non muslims, we need to establish Islam, When Allah's laws are established, whole world can see how prosperous, just and happy society is formed by the laws of Allah, then whole world will see greatness of Allah. and Islam can be established only by struggling the way Rasool Allah (saw) did in his lifetime.
@@frengsapien2722 u can inspire ppl by being among them. I work hard and ppl look up to me. And I never forget to tell them that I'm a Muslim. So this way they know that Muslims can be good ppl. And remember the society also needs us.
@@frengsapien2722 we r all struggling in our own way. In prophets (pbuh) time the farmers were not asked to leave their farms to work for Islam. They did both however much they could because ppl had to eat as well. Islam is important but eating is as well And looking after human beings in other ways is also necessary.
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 Keeping a good character , working hard and honestly, these are the things we have to do if we are muslim, there is no such thing that today I was not in dawah mood so I displayed a bad akhlaq, we have to do all of these things in obedience to Allah, but tagging these things as giving dawah or serving Allah's deen is not justified at all if we do not have these traits as a muslim we will be held responsible on the day of judgement, we are giving quality time for this dunya, but when it comes to deen we reduce it to keeping good akhlaq while making our dunya. This is just another way of fooling oneself that I am serving deen in my own way even though we know we are just serving ourselves accumulating more and more dunya..... If it was enough Rasool Allah( saw) too had just continued His business displaying best akhlaq and saying " I am a muslim" but the man with the best character had to reach out to people and give the mesaage of Allah to invite them to Islam. specially in todays time, when Islam is weak and maligned, we have to give quality time to it.
Well it is either be there for your children or choose a career. Every normal woman who stands before this decision will realize that you cannot have both. Children are a gift from Allah and we should give them our time and love as much as we can. I have yet to meet one woman who can do it all without burning herself out and becoming miserable and masculine!
With all due respect, Br Nouman isn't an aalim who can give fatwah on such issues... He said correctly, but exaggerated... It's preferably for women to not work and be at home and tender to family as per Hadith and as per majority of fuqaha. Secondly, for her to work or not is again dependent on her husband, if he allows or not.
The husband must provide for their women. If the women is unmarried the the father must provide, but the women should get married asap if old enough. And Allah knows best.
@@fantasticfractals9583 Asalamu alaikum That's out of my league. You must ask and consult a sheikh or at least strong student of knowledge who's upon the sunnah
What a way of asserting your opinion and generalizing the whole idea of how a women should only be part of someone's entity and not be an independent person herself? What will you suggest to a women who does not want to marry but wants to live life on her own terms?
Asalamu alaikum. Sister, when did I say women should only be apart of someone's entity. I'm talking about the right that women have given to them by Allah. That their menfolk must provide for them. This is their right. Sheikh ibn uthaymeen (ra) said that if a man is married to a millionaire women, then he still must provide for her. Even if a wife is a millionaire, she doesn't have to use that money to provide for herself or family. She can still demand that the husband provide.
Out of necessity it’s fine. But if you are telling me it’s better for a woman to delay having a family for 6 years in a mixed gender university to then work a job to buy things that her husband is already responsible for providing you have things mixed up
nope not mandatory that it has to be only out of necessasity even if she has richest father and husband she can still be a doctor pilot teacher it engineer etc and there is no harm in it she can do jobs earn halal in hijab thats it and should remain reserved at workplace follow the basic code and principals thats it no wehre its mentioned that a women must be poor enough to play role of an officer or manager in society wehre would u take ur women if women police is not there to help where would u take women for groming if women salons arent there where u would take women for education if women teachers are not there where would u take women for clohtes and stiching if ladies tailors are not there where would u take women for recreation if women parks and staff women working there not there where would u take women for sports if sports complexes where women work are not there dnt be sheer ignorant
@@kiranshah2012 I didn't say only out of necessity woman are allowed to work. I said out of necessity it's fine but when you live in secular countries with mixed class rooms environments with lots of people drinking alcohol, partying, using drugs and casual dating it becomes a danger to women who are more agreeable in nature. Especially if they going for reasons other than necessity. To place oneself into this environment rather than doing school online would be quite irresponsible in lacking in wisdom. Also delaying motherhood to peruse a career for personal gain is a huge mistake and a feministic idea that has only tricked women into depression later on in life. Sadly a job won't replace having a great family but many women later in life can't even have children because they became so focused on this dunya. The main point im trying to make is setting your priorities in the right order.
@@seektruth581 is it compulsory for women to have children?? You shouldn't generalize all women. Number of women are happy without being mothers. It differs from person to person if they wanna have children or not. Having children doesn't equate to happiness.
@@hopefully223 I'm against forcing anyone to have children. That's totally wrong. If your career is first priority though it's not Islamic. Our first priority as Muslims should always be our religion. Women nowadays are brainwashed into thinking a career is more important than a family when in reality the more prestigious the career, the less desirable she becomes as a partner. She is degrading her potential as a suitable life partner depending on what career it is. Raising healthy and smart children to build a better society is far more important than a woman spending her life competing with men in the work place. . The smartest women are the ones with the highest degrees and women with the highest degrees don't have children nearly as much statistically speaking. This means the smartest genetics will no longer will be in circulation so technically speaking it's dysgenic. If the career is literally saving dying innocent people who have no hope, then it's admirable. But really the best intention to have is raising a family and contributing to society. Better to serve your family then a corporation any day.
Any woman reading this, 1.please understand that; the thought of staying home is not of the extremist Muslims as you think, it is the command from Allah that is very clear in suratul Ahzab verse 33, dont use examples of the pre Islamic error because even the Aya is crystal clear that "not like the women in the jahiliyyah error. If you follow the Quran and the Sunnah you should know that its obligatory to try your best to imitate the life of the mothers of the believers (wives of our prophet) as they were ordered in the Quran and the sunnah. 2. Stop making excuses that "ooh its a different time its impossible to compare the Prophet time and now....dah dah dah". Honey..!!its very clear in the Quran that Allah said that he perfected our religion in Suratul maida verse 03. Nothing in the world system is undefined. If you don't find it in the Quran, use the Hadith and the sunnah of the prophet with the understanding of the three best generation. Women let's try our best in submissive to our Deen and not make excuses, this world is temporary and here after is the goal. I understand it's not easy like,,The tests in single motherhood,etc ...when we have bills to pay and all bunch of problems. its only that we should have the tranquility in our hearts that whatever we abstain from is for the sake of Allah. Having Tawwakul and trust in his destiny for he is the one who kept the rules and solely he is the Al-Razaaq. 3Lets learn our deen for us to be effective and practical...not being blind followers of only the fatwas that benefit our wimbs and desires. And Allah knows Best.
Um...Nope! I'm a grown adult with two motorcycles, a truck, several bills to pay, a full-time career in science and a social life. I'm with the same right to enjoy life and all the privileges this world has to offer me (without having to be male). So I'm only home (when I feel like being home)...😎
Why wasn't the part about the women of Madyan not going near the men in the "workplace" mentioned? The workplace today makes men and women free mix unnecessarily.
True. Considering today's environment, the best place for women IS at home. I dont know why people are so afraid to say that. Yes women can work out of necessity but the best place is at home. I dont know why women today think working 8-5 is like some kind of priviledge either. Its hard work and like a prison working 8-5 daily, dealing with all kinds of people who are not nice, nasty people, theres office politics, drama, backstabbing, mistreatment...why you think theres workers union and people have to fight for their rights in the workplace. If youve a husband providing for you....be THANKFUL you dont have to work and deal with so much crap at work. P.s. im a woman.
@@lavendarhijab8066 but you see, working out of choice is different. I am a women who works and I have never been happier. Working for hours is fulfilling because i studied and graduated for it and it teaches me hard work and discipline. It is just your opinion, if you hate working then you can stay at home and do domestic chores which is also work but at home.
Yes but women are going to work for the sake of working not for men. It is about intentions. I don’t know why a man should bother a women who is there to work.
@@Hi-nl1mr Whether they are working for the sake of men or not is irrelevant. If something is impermissible (which in this case is freemixing) it doesn't matter what your intention is. Can a woman remove her hijab because she claims her intention is not to attract any men?
@@lavendarhijab8066 some women have goals in life, goals that go beyond staying at home and taking care of family. Women can do both, and those who choose to do it know what they are signing up for, the thing u said is an opinion, best not tell women what they should and shouldn’t be thankful for, if u have no goals in life and prefer to stay home, that is up to u. If you do a job you love, its not a burden but is fun and makes life worth living. Their are pros and cons to doing anything and a job comes in that category too, life is tough.
it is both valid for men and women. I am a man and I dont live in western but somewhere known as 'muslim country' for most of people. but still I dont go outside unless there is something necessary like the school. staying in the home and protecting our eyes, ears and heart is the best I believe. even we have no ill intention, that still harms our spiritual state
actually I believe currently going outside is more harmful for men than for women. men are more vulnerable against images than women. actually men dont work and stay at home while women work could be better than its opposite :D a woman can say that "I dont want you to go out and work. life is just ugly and I want your heart pure not dirtied. I can go out and work, you just look kids and cook" fairly 🙃
Of course. Stay at home and go visit a male doctor because that's the better option? Or a non Muslim female gynecologist because all Muslim females decided to stay at home? Makes perfect sense
@@lmknjblmknjb2623 No no no. Stay at home and go to the feminist independent freedom lover so called female muslim doctors like you. You get the sin, we get the treatment 😂😂
Hazrat Khadija never went out on trading she had people doing it for her MIND IT and stop misleading innocent people who have little or no knowledge or deen !!!!
She still had to communicate with those men. And mind it she was rich enough to have ppl working for her. Not all of us r rich enough to do so. In most of the professions u have to do 1 to 1 dealing. But f example male doctors are not allowed to see female patients on their own. They need female assistance to do so. So all this is done to make our society stronger. And also my husband is the only son so if I hadn't worked either my in laws wouldn't have had a house to live or we wouldn't have had a house to live. Now both sides are living comfortably and my relationship with my husband is not ruined.
And she left her business... YOU FORGOT TO MENTION... ?? And gave all her wealth in Baitul Maal... She was a chaste businesswoman in the days of JAHILLIYAH...you didn't mention this as well.... And when she accepted Islam...she gave up her business..... Why cherry pick things???
If the husband is not earning much she can look out for a job where proper hijab is allowed ....in the work place ...she had to follow the proper Shari'ah ....
My comment is out of the topic. But i do need an advice. I am a filipina and currently in a relationship with an afghani man. We are in a serious relationship and planning to settle down. But for some reason, our religion and culture is quite being a villain to our happiness. His parents suddenly told him that they arranged him to his country girl for marriage. And its really breaking my heart. We are still together now. What to do? Im so sure he loves me, but i dont want to make him choose between me and his family.
First thing, what his parents say is not in our deen. Second thing, I would suggest that he can try to talk to his parents and tell them that it is okay for him to marry you; besides, the Prophet married an Egyptian woman while he was an arab.
Then study Islam. If you become a muslim, it will make it easier. As it's prohibited in Islam to marry non muslims, unless they're Christians or Jews, that also is not preferred or encouraged, as the salvation and the faith of the future generations also depend upon your spouse
ok if she work, and the husband keep paying for everything and support her financially, does she still need to cook and take care of the house? oh because she is working, and her is for her only and her husband still need to help with the kitchen and all???? show me some sense. thanks
My response to this video is just a straight up "Nope!" I'm a grown adult with two motorcycles, a truck, many bills to pay, a full-time career in science and a social life. I'm with the same right to enjoy life and all the privileges and golden opportunities this world has to offer me (without having to be male). So I'm only home (when I feel like being home)...😎
*Both men and women must stay in a home together. Not in the pub, movie theater, always at office, always at Masjid, or always abroad etc* Allah SWT has provided more security for women to travel alone now in cars by His immense mercy unlike bandit Western California or ancient roads full of thieves and bandits. It is all in the Plan of Allah SWT. That is what it means...
I chose to be a homemaker as a Muslim woman. I am happier this way to focus on my family and my home. I am not able to take care of the home and my husband properly while I am working. I personally think if women want to have a career, they should respect women who are also just homemakers. They shouldn't stick us into the ground like we are lazy and do nothing. I make food from scratch for my husband, I keep the house very clean, I am spoiling my husband who is going out and making money for the home and I help my elderly mother out in her home as well when she has problems. I think female doctors and midwives should exist, but I really hope you don't send your children to day care. I hope you get the chance to raise your own children.
dear sister you are right its completly your choice whether a women is housewife or working women she is on duty 24/7 its not easy to be a homemaker but also it is not easy to be independent i respect your choice
Women who have no financial support should take up job other wise can stay home look after kids husband n elderly .....if husband is financially supporting helping family grow in terms of finances then women no need to go out for jobs leaving all elderly n kids at home with no one to care them
i can't take this religion seriously anymore ..you guys are divided than you are scared to be divided by others. hope GOD lead me to straight path .however i can't go like this where one scholar say something and other scholars say something completely different
if mixed gatherings are allowing then what is parda for when it is mentioned in Quran in front of whom a woman should come they are called mahrams how can a woman come in front of na mehrams when allah has forbidden it
Brother Nouman, please don't say it's ridiculous, what you mention applies to a perfectly muslim country, not here in the west. Please be specific and re-frase your answer. Here in the west even men are tempted and getting fitna, how about the women then?
Only if a man of the household can not provide the necessaties or in those professions where females must play their role. Other than that for only economic reasons I can't agree with you Ustaad. Because the on coming generation's education and wellbeing is more important Ustaad g.
Why do the women need job as men are instructed to bear all the expenses of women. women have more responsibility to take care of children at home because children need one of their parents, especially mother, to them all the time for their(children) better upbringing. Doing job in mixed gatherings should be avoided. In mixed gathering, Shaitan get more chance to deviate both man and woman and thus illegal affairs may be created at one time, bringing risk to a happy family. Human beings can not control their mind totally. But if a woman has no father or husband, she should work (but also she should try to avoid mixed gathering because Islam does not allow mixed gatheing of men and women excepting some cases). Allah knows the best.
Then stop the hypocrisy and give women the same respect and honor as does a man of the family gets just because they are the bread earner of the family even if they might have a bad personality? Islam is not so shallow brother. You need to learn how to read the book of Allah in its context and stop preaching before quoting!
Mahin H My husband cheated on me with an employee in his office who was a hijabi. I used to think like u, but I go back to the Quran. Allah speaks Al Haq. La Takrabu Zinaa.., Dont go NEAR Zinaa.
@@Quorum1 sister this world comprises of both men and women... sorry but if your husband cheated on u then its because of his flaws and unfaithfulness not because of mixed gathering... even in family you have mixed gatherings and if someone's intentions are wrong things can obviously go wrong... You are absolutely right that Allah knows best but as humans he has bestowed us with talents and abilities which if not utilised is ungratefulness of his mercy.
Does the woman have the right to work? Assalamu aliakum. Please elaborate, if women are allowed to work outside their homes in a professional capacity. I was raised to think that only men can be bread earners for their families. Recently however, I come to learn that there may be other opinions on the topic and that women do not have to confined to their houses. Can you please clarify in the light of the Quran, Sunnah and the practice of the pious predecessors. Please also provide different viewpoints on the matter so that I may not remain blind to other valid opinions on this topic. According to the noble Shari'a [Islamic law], it is permissible for a Muslim woman to go out for work providing the following conditions: - The job is deemed permissible in Shari'a and does not include anything that contradicts legal rulings. - The woman guarantees safety for her person, chastity and religion [from temptation). - The job suits woman's physical and psychological nature. Consequently, a woman's work should not contradict righteousness [birr] or oppose her guardian's responsibility over her. Evidence from the sunna Jabir Ibn 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported: My maternal aunt was divorced, and she intended to pluck her dates [from palm trees]. A person scolded her for having come out (during her waiting period). She came to the Prophet (peace and blessins be upon him) and he told her: "Certainly you can pluck (dates) from your palm trees, for perhaps you may give out charity or do an act of kindness." [Muslim, Sahih). The Shari'a view on working women It is established in shari'a that it is impermissible for a wife to go out for work except with her husband's permission. If a wife goes out for work without her husband's explicit or implicit permission, she will be blameworthy. The spouses' rights are mutual This means that a husband is obliged to provide for his wife and she is to remain in the marital house in fulfillment of his rights over her. Allah Almighty says: Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. [Qur'an 4: 34). There is no contradiction between a wife's legal right to work and her husband's right to prevent her. No one can object to a sensible and adult woman's legal right to engage in work that is lawful or to her right to be financially independent though this does not contradict her husband's right to prevent her from working. For example, it is established in the Shari'a that it is permissible for a husband to prevent his wife from performing voluntary prayers and fasts although they are both legally permissible. The husband's explicit permission for his wife to go out for work involves him informing her of his consent, while his implicit permission involves showing no objection to her going out or if he had accepted to marry her while knowing that she is a working woman
The reason a woman has to take consent from a man is bcs he has to see if her safety comes in the way, as a protector of him wife, not because his wife is dumb child he has to assert dominance over. Think a little with your brains people and don’t take quranic verses out of context without seeing several tafseer on it which doesn’t involve cultural interference in islam. May Allah guide You all.
Wht about womens whom husbands die, and his and her family is so poor that they cant take care of them?? Or womens whom husband becomes sick and can't work, and they have (alot) kids? She should take 6 kids in father house, or in law house and expect to they care for them?
@@umi9586 yes after her husband her father is responsible ,then her brothers then the state or government . But if none of them is available than she can work for her children.
@@mrchips.9245 there is womens whom family accept to care fot them but not for them kids. So women should go her family, and leave kids to husband family, or she should take her kids with herself and take care of them best tht she can? There is 1000 situations, and only wise person know how much is important sometime to women can (from any halal work) earn money. Comment like ur is so discriminating and ignorant. R u self teacher or doctor? It is beter to not write anything than write comments like this. Not all womens have acces to education, not all parents let daughters go to school. But tht same girls one day may get in situation to them own family not accepting them kid, and husband is die. It’s so funny how superficial people can be. Womens should get quality education at first, and have enough contacts with quality peopls so she can teach something her kids other than cooking and cleaning
@@umi9586 it would take you alot of time and education to finally agree with my point . At last I would say ,outdoor job for women in not recommended unless out of necessity.
Assalaamu alaikum, brother, I don't think that you gave a clear enough answer here. Fundamentally, there is nothing wrong with a woman working, yes, but as Allah says in the Qur'an men are the providers and maintainers of women. What would be the point of women having a provider and a maintainer if it was "perfectly fine" for them to have a career? Even khadijah had men doing business on her behalf and the prophet s.a.w was one of them. The part of musa's story that you mentioned was before islam so I dont see the relevance of that. And I havent even mentioned the fact that a woman has to obey her husband and that his word basically overrides hers so if working is something that a husband doesn't want his wife to do then she must obey him regardless of what inclination she may have.
@@turquoisecraft Yes they were muslims but that was before the time of the prophet s.a.w so they didn't have the same exact laws that we got once Allah completed religion which He specifically stated He did in the Qur'an in the prophet s.a.w's time. Even in the prophet s.a.w's days they did things that eventually got forbade. Yes, they were righteous but they weren't subjected to the same detailed restrictions that we have. I think I'm repeating myself lol
Marriage is not just about having a provider. Marriage is about a lot more than that. F ex to keep ur wife satisfied and happy. So normally ppl who r busy thonk less about committing sins because their minds are occupied with something else. However ppl who have less to do r bored and just do whatever they have at hand. F ex lots of gossiping. Also I would rather work so my husband doesn't have to work more so we can have more time for each other.
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 Assalaamu alaikum, first of all I dont want u to think that I'm trying to argue with u or anything of the sort, this is just a conversation that we're having, so I mean no harm. If anything I would like to open your mind and anyone else's mind who reads this. Now, I never said marriage was JUST about anything. It is true though that an idle mind is subject to misdeeds, I agree. But to think that both people working would result in more free time together doesn't really make sense. It would just lead to both of you being tired. If I work 8 hrs and u work 8 hrs we're both gonna be tired and what'll happen with the kids while we're both working? If I work 4 hrs and u work 4 hrs, were still gonna be tired but more importantly, what'll happen with the kids when we're both working? If I work and u stay home, the kids will be taken care of and if I'm a good man I wouldn't let my work fatigue affect my dealings with my family unless I really need rest. Also, if you're working, what about your duties inside the home and to your husband and children? Women are the queens of the household, u being tired from work would inevitably effect the effeciancy and quality of everything altogether and you'd feel overly stressed/worked. Not to mention the way of the world today and the harms that muslim women are subjected to while being outside by themselves. You have to prioritize things and realize that the level in which your duties to your husband himself is positioned overrides everything else except obeying Allah. But more importantly, the children. Women are the first teachers of children, u cannot leave this position for society to fill
TheeGrandHizah Marriage is based on consensus and cooperation, not ordering your spouse around. She can also divorce the husband (by returning the mahr). Women can work and the Qur'an and Sunnah does not forbid it.
Totally haram. these things will reduce your chances of going to heaven. So, dedicate this life and fully give your effor in submission to allah. and you will joy eternal bliss in heaven by the mercy of allah.
@@creativity_in_gadgets Completely incorrect. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a husband and wife spending time together. What you’re saying is extremism.
@@creativity_in_gadgets how the heck will that reduce chances of going to jannah . Nowhere in Quran aur hadith is that written. Don't give stupid extreme fatwas on your own . It's completely halal to go sight seeing
it's not proper for women to go and work with men or give them a speech and Islam does not allow free mixing of men and women, and even where we might need women to work such as medical hospitals, schools or dental care for women and children they need to abide by the Islamic rules and have to observe modesty and chastity.
Yk in the Quran it’s stated and encouraged for women to work?? Are you trying to say women shouldn’t have careers and just stay trapped in the house? Cuz that’s clearly against the Quran, you can’t force them to do that.
If the husband's earning is sufficient it's not required for a woman to go out..Yes for the purpose of learning Deen and regards to Deen she can surely go out for Dawa only if the husband pemits .... Or else do from home ....
nope ur ignorant even if earning is sufficeint she can go out provided she does hijab earns halal and talks to the point at job place whoever follows that code thats enough and she can do any thing any field she wants and not ALLAH niether quran hadees stops so who ru ignorant
there are thousands of subjects in world other then religon maths sceience medical and much more so they can work on that also its their right to education and halal rizq so even if husband doesn't permit he would be doing sin and women dnt need to ask for their birth rights from men
One of the Hadith reads:- there will be a time when women will be coercively tied by men at home in order to prevent them from Dajjal's fitna. This does not mean women should be at home & no career. No not at all. Allah SWT has given thinking capacity for women to weigh the balance between career & Dajjal's fitna & take a decision which pleases Allah SWT.
As-Salaamu Alaykum, This is not a holistic answer. Reason: Environment, Conduct, Etiquettes and Behavior are not elaborated. These points are put to subjective research and rationalization which will add further inconsistency and doubt amongst Muslim women. And Allah Knows best.
Really good answer. From the video it feels like women will interpret it as a blank cheque to go out and work disregarding all matters concerning haya and segregation.
You have some dress code for the women encountering the ones who think themselves supreme over female and forget their personal duties towards female.....
The problem is that people has skipped first step and gone to the 2nd step,,,,, regarding dressing sense,,,, first thing Allah describes is the modesty then he told us about the dress code,,,,,,,, male dominant society are the reason for such dumbness prevailing in the society,,,,,,,,,, every one should know what actually is their haqq,,, and you can't tell extra things by yourselves to the females that you can't do this or that,,,,,even our prophet was not allowed to make anything haram or halal by his will,,,,,
Its better to ask religious Authorities in Madina University or Al Azhar University , on th side note, I am Alhamdulilah earning well , I dont want a career women in My life , I want a wife who has same traits which were in my Mom , taking care of Children , maintaining the household , and protecting the honour of her husband and Secrets of her Family
U r getting answer from the wrong source ... so sorry i have to unsubscribe from your channel someone who thinks mix gatherings are ok they have no right to be asked any religious questions no matter who mr so n so they are !
Brither depends on the reason of the mixed gathering. If there is barrier between the woman and man is ok. Because khadijah (ra) was a business woman. Of course the communication and contact with the opposite gender should be to a minimum. Btw by barrier i mean burqa and niqab.
So it’s a no no since the society is so evil nowadays, especially in the western world..may Allah give us the correct understanding and not what we want to here
i think hes misleading people...... women should only work when there is no one else to provide for them..... if u r done with studies..... have some free time, enjoy urself lawfully and then get married..... man should be providing for you.
@wavokiaado can you please give evidence from the Sunnah and the Quran; all you are doing is just giving your opinion; beware of creating false information and spreading it; innovation is a huge sin so if you are making such a bold statement back it up with proof or I have no reason to believe you; Allahu Alam
@@fatmaahmad8874 Allah says in the Quran... Fadallahullah ala ilm.... And Allah made them go astray because of their knowledge... Better be an illiterate if your knowledge is turning you against Allah and his messenger...
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 yes she did Sidra... She gave up her business and all her wealth in baitul maal... Learn it before you assume something to prove your whims and desires...
Islam is easy, but people make it complicated. Allah has given us clear guidelines.
absolutely
Exactly!
That's so true
May Allah forgive all of our past, present, future sins and grant us Jannat Al-Firdaus. Ameen.
Ameen ya raabil alameen
Bilal Bin Faisal Ameen
Ameen
Ya Allah keep us away from future sins. Ameen
Ameen
To everyone that is of the opinion that women should stay at home and not work:I assume that you are also fine with the fact that your wives, sisters and mothers have to visit male doctors, surgeons and gynecologists.
Sincerely a female Muslim doctor who didn't stay at home.
Masha Allah 👏👏💪
Thank you
❤
Well, there is a huge difference between having a lady doctor and a lady waitress. Or a Lady teacher for girls and a lady accountant between men. Isn't it?
@@mnmussu do you send your wife to a male doctor?
Being a Muslim is so hard these days. Every other person, even Muslims themselves keep on saying how Islam oppresses women. Nouman Ali Khan is truly a gem amid these❤️
Of course Muslim ladies can do job. Quran says, O muslim lady! Go outside but honor yourself and get covered properly. Hadith shows when a muslim lady asked the prophet s a w, to whom she should do charity, and prophet said, " to your husband ", who was disable . She can do business, can be a teacher, doctor but her primary responsibility is her home, her kids because she is " hafizaat ", guardian of her husband's house, kids, earning, and honor.
Wife and husbands house, not only husbands house
@@mysterious_4053 . Of course , or a house provided to her as it is his responsibility to provide food n shelter to her queen 👑. But she is not responsible to share her money or divide it, but charity is good for her.
@@salahdin6382 even if she is not obbliagated to share money or divide it, can we do it to help our husband and have more money to spend for our childrens (if we have one) and for our health and house? Sorry but I want to clarify all this😅
@@mysterious_4053 . Of course, why not. It is not obligatory for her, but whatever at of good a men or women does, is ihsaan and will be rewarded on That Day.
@@salahdin6382 oh ok, thanks for the reply. So this means that to gain more money woman can also go to work in certain conditions, right?
Islam is so beautiful but I feel sad how much difficult we have made it💔
Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid (may Allaah be pleased with her) DID NOT ENGAGE DIRECTLY IN TRADE herself, rather she used to employ men to work on HER BEHALF❕
That was before Islam came to the world.
I was so confused!
Jazakallah Khair for this video!!!❤️❤️❤️
me too..
Jessica Allah khiran
you should seek answer from some other source too, to get better n complete understanding on the subject.
Freng sapien Yes!
sister with all the respect... Today we are living in the times of fitna... Great fitna... And feminism is one of them... I understand what you say... But there is great hikmah in what Allah has told.... And above all we are His slaves and He is our master... We don't interpret the Quran according to our wishful thinking ...tell me if you disagree sister...
Further the feminist movement has made it like women are oppressed...
Education/ilm is fard but earning is on the wali of the girl... You should fight for the right... You have right on your husband ... Your father your sons your brother... Why make them free from responsibilities??
Ofcourse Islam doesn't prohibit working for a woman but what it prohibits is the interaction... Which has consequences... I will further write about this Insha Allah in this reply only...
When you have an environment that is conducive..you're encouraged to work...
Today I see men tailoring women's clothes... And how immodest it seems to me when woman give their measurements to the tailor... There we require women
Today when a woman is in hospital to deliver a child..she doesn't get a female doctor ..there we need you..
Today our sisters and daughters are learning Quraan from male teachers... There we need woman ...
Today we need woman nurses for woman..
When we will obey Allah's command of segregation between men and women automatically there will be vacancies for women.. and Wallahi sister we need you out there... We love you sister and Allah loves you and that is why He doesn't want the muslim woman out there .. in front of the perverted men... Unless need be so.
I know females who didn't undergo surgery because they don't want their body to be seen by a non mehram and are afraid a doctor can do anything while in operation theatre...
But on the same note this free mixing is what Allah has forbidden because it's so evil that He commanded woman to stay safe at homes and not work, you're precious in Islam and so Allah want your men ( mahram) to protect you... I will explain this in brief.
If we read the reports of divorce cases in the US itself... Only 30% marriages somehow survive without separation... And in the remaining separated 70% couples ... 50% go for legal divorce ... And shockingly 40% of these registered divorce cases happen because of infidelity in workplaces (ie...the spouse finds someone at workplace) ..
Imagine the pain a woman goes through if her husband leaves her... Allah is protecting you from that heartbreak and helplessness...
And even those women don't understand the hikmah of this...
Wallahi sister you'll be out becoming a temptation for someone else... Allah will place a temptation for your husband in his workplace... Because what goes around comes around...
Allah says in the Quran ..not to go out of homes without a necessity... And not become a tabarruj (tabarruj comes from the word Burj means a tower... And a tower is a attention seeking thing... A head turner) Allah has hikmah behind this, sister...
When Allah calls something a temptation and you see that reports say that free mixing results in immodest conduct... This is not a question on your modesty or my modesty... These ayahs came for the wives of prophet... If Allah is warning against this free mixing we must at once understand His words and learn from people who went astray...
It has been proved that when men and women come together... Disaster happens...
Further if you read the researches done on delinquent children( juvenile cases in US) .. A study was done on 497+495 or so children ... It was found that the children in juvenile had almost 50% working mothers ... And non delinquent/juvenile children had around 30% working mother...
Also, among those children for which it was found that their guardianship was responsible for their crime... It was found that 80% of their mothers were working woman...
Also in a new research it was found that woman who earn their daughters tend to become earning woman and the concern is here ...their sons tend to become househusbands...
This is alarming sister...
Allah has given our Muslimah sister a greater responsibility a far complex and complicated work which men can't do...
That is the work of raising a righteous child... A woman can raise a Firaun or a Musa ... That's how powerful our sisters are...
I know it's difficult for you sisters... But it's only a matter of time... The day you die you're free from all the rules... And Allah will reward you greatly for your sacrifices... You'll turn back and see your life and wonder... Only if had done more sacrifices I would have had a better Jannah... And for this duniya try to understand the hikmah of Allah... He only wants your good.. he is protecting you from evil eyes... Evil touches.. evil people... Heartbreaks and much more...
And even men do sacrifices sister... But it has become a custom and is not recognised it's taken for granted... There are a lot of other reasons... Economic reasons biological reasons... And so on... But I can't write everything here...
Insha Allah you will understand...
May Allah give you hidayah..like the mothers of believers were on the right path...
If my words have hurt you please forgive me... And don't embarrass me on the day of judgement...
I hope this will seem logical to you...
JazakAllah khair
I'm also so much confused in this regard.
I'm an Indian muslim. I graduated and I have been working hard since past 1.5 year for an exam and now after I came across Islamic speeches by many scholars. I don't know where to go ahead.
I see the amazing deep understanding of Islam in this man 👍 long life ustadh noman 🙏🌷.
And she left her business... YOU FORGOT TO MENTION... ?? And gave all her wealth in Baitul Maal... She was a chaste businesswoman in the days of JAHILLIYAH...you didn't mention this as well.... And when she accepted Islam...she gave up her business..... Why cherry pick things???
sister with all the respect... Today we are living in the times of fitna... Great fitna... And feminism is one of them... I understand what you say... But there is great hikmah in what Allah has told.... And above all we are His slaves and He is our master... We don't interpret the Quran according to our wishful thinking ...tell me if you disagree sister...
Further the feminist movement has made it like women are oppressed...
Education/ilm is fard but earning is on the wali of the girl... You should fight for the right... You have right on your husband ... Your father your sons your brother... Why make them free from responsibilities??
Ofcourse Islam doesn't prohibit working for a woman but what it prohibits is the interaction... Which has consequences... I will further write about this Insha Allah in this reply only...
When you have an environment that is conducive..you're encouraged to work...
Today I see men tailoring women's clothes... And how immodest it seems to me when woman give their measurements to the tailor... There we require women
Today when a woman is in hospital to deliver a child..she doesn't get a female doctor ..there we need you..
Today our sisters and daughters are learning Quraan from male teachers... There we need woman ...
Today we need woman nurses for woman..
When we will obey Allah's command of segregation between men and women automatically there will be vacancies for women.. and Wallahi sister we need you out there... We love you sister and Allah loves you and that is why He doesn't want the muslim woman out there .. in front of the perverted men... Unless need be so.
I know females who didn't undergo surgery because they don't want their body to be seen by a non mehram and are afraid a doctor can do anything while in operation theatre...
But on the same note this free mixing is what Allah has forbidden because it's so evil that He commanded woman to stay safe at homes and not work, you're precious in Islam and so Allah want your men ( mahram) to protect you... I will explain this in brief.
If we read the reports of divorce cases in the US itself... Only 30% marriages somehow survive without separation... And in the remaining separated 70% couples ... 50% go for legal divorce ... And shockingly 40% of these registered divorce cases happen because of infidelity in workplaces (ie...the spouse finds someone at workplace) ..
Imagine the pain a woman goes through if her husband leaves her... Allah is protecting you from that heartbreak and helplessness...
And even those women don't understand the hikmah of this...
Wallahi sister you'll be out becoming a temptation for someone else... Allah will place a temptation for your husband in his workplace... Because what goes around comes around...
Allah says in the Quran ..not to go out of homes without a necessity... And not become a tabarruj (tabarruj comes from the word Burj means a tower... And a tower is a attention seeking thing... A head turner) Allah has hikmah behind this, sister...
When Allah calls something a temptation and you see that reports say that free mixing results in immodest conduct... This is not a question on your modesty or my modesty... These ayahs came for the wives of prophet... If Allah is warning against this free mixing we must at once understand His words and learn from people who went astray...
It has been proved that when men and women come together... Disaster happens...
Further if you read the researches done on delinquent children( juvenile cases in US) .. A study was done on 497+495 or so children ... It was found that the children in juvenile had almost 50% working mothers ... And non delinquent/juvenile children had around 30% working mother...
Also, among those children for which it was found that their guardianship was responsible for their crime... It was found that 80% of their mothers were working woman...
Also in a new research it was found that woman who earn their daughters tend to become earning woman and the concern is here ...their sons tend to become househusbands...
This is alarming sister...
Allah has given our Muslimah sister a greater responsibility a far complex and complicated work which men can't do...
That is the work of raising a righteous child... A woman can raise a Firaun or a Musa ... That's how powerful our sisters are...
I know it's difficult for you sisters... But it's only a matter of time... The day you die you're free from all the rules... And Allah will reward you greatly for your sacrifices... You'll turn back and see your life and wonder... Only if had done more sacrifices I would have had a better Jannah... And for this duniya try to understand the hikmah of Allah... He only wants your good.. he is protecting you from evil eyes... Evil touches.. evil people... Heartbreaks and much more...
And even men do sacrifices sister... But it has become a custom and is not recognised it's taken for granted... There are a lot of other reasons... Economic reasons biological reasons... And so on... But I can't write everything here...
Insha Allah you will understand...
May Allah give you hidayah..like the mothers of believers were on the right path...
If my words have hurt you please forgive me... And don't embarrass me on the day of judgement...
I hope this will seem logical to you...
JazakAllah khair
@@heartsxday read Qur'an chapter 33 verses 28 to 33 ..and also read sahih Muslim 1478 .. this hadith explains the situation after which those ayats 33:28-33 were revealed. You'll understand what is of importance. And when you have no proof and knowledge in your hand stop explaining Islam through your distorted understanding.
@@heartsxday i do understand brother. But as u said we need women in place of doctors, teachers, nurses, tailors etc. Etc. We also need women in the technology industries bcoz their brains r quite sharper and when both men and women's brain come together they develop the world, build up space missions, create better robotics etc. Women are really needed in most of the fields. Mixing is everywhere but a true muslim needs to resist distractions and move forward. Allah rewards the people who despite of many distractions stick to islam. Locking women in houses isnt the solution. Women also need the freedom to follow their dreams and become successful.
@@ziasmailbox i think u misinterpreted some information..."Khadijah pbuh left the business to help poor and people who were in need. By her will, knowledge and support ’Khadijah Al Kubra proved her as a great companion and loving mother and a great ideal for the women of all times". Allah was extremely pleased from her due to her helpful nature. After her father's death she took up the business and continued it, even prophet pbuh used to work under her.
He seriously is an amazing man
I think people forget that the first wife of the holy prophet (s.a.w.) and the person to accept Islam was Khadijah (radi allahu anha) who was a businesswoman.
I think it's important for the Muslimeen to learn about the prominent women in Islam even on UA-cam. Lady Khadijah (ra) was just one of the examples. Asma' bint Abu Bakr as Siddique was another example of the women in Islam, she was the first who provided aid to the Prophet and Abu Bakr as Siddique when they were hiding in the cave of thawr. She would keep food and water in her belt to take to the prophet pbuh and her father for which Prophet Muhammed (s.a.w.) nicknamed her dthat al nitaqayn. She gave birth to the first Muslim son in the Muslim population, and during the time she was married, she would graze horses and help her husband in the farm. She was also tested by Allah swt when her son was martyred. And she also contributed to the hadith. She is just one of the many examples of the women in Islam.
I appreciate your response. But what has it got to do with women working among non mahrems?
And in any case the examole u provided of hazrat khadija was during pre islamic days.
And who is gonna mention that all of this happed before the verses of veil came down?
Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid (may Allaah be pleased with her) DID NOT ENGAGE DIRECTLY IN TRADE herself, rather she used to employ men to work on HER BEHALF❕
@@Aisha-hw1kh so how did she employ men without talking ? ??
Great. A man is telling us what to do. He has no idea how challenging it is to have two jobs because, let's face it, men don't do anything around the house, carry the mental load of what the kids, house, etc., need.
Sorry if I ask, are you Muslim?
That's why me and my wife never had kids. She is a Biotechnical Engineer tho. Her career and ambition made her very attractive to me. I actually always preferred career ladies as a partner as they would be more relatable
then the man is wrong men and women should contribute equal in childs growth
, you're missing out. Children are a blessing.
@gazelle420 You're a woman.Nice try though.No Muslim man finds career lady attractive.
I can tell you its not easy for a woman to follow the shariah at work because one, free mixing is rampant. In fact youre expected to be friendly with your male colleagues and at meetings theres no such thing as "mens table" and "womens table". Its common to see men and women sitting together, laughing..and its not strange to hear of workplace affairs. Then, you may also be expected to travel and stay in hotels or whatever. Without mahram. Apart from that, the work culture itself may expect women to adorn herself so you see muslim women with fitting suits, makeup, high heels, branded handbags because you have to look "presentable". Hijab? What hijab? Maybe there are exceptions but most workplaces are not shar'i.
Well said
Looool so what about men? Will they not be free mixing too?
How do you think this will change? We need to contribute and remain firm upon Islam so that life becomes easier inshaAllah. May Allah guide us.
So men can work with women but women can’t work with men???
So what women are it allowed education and to contribute anything to society but giving birth? What about women who can’t have children? Are they useless to society?
Şu an kadınlar çalışıyor diye günaha giriyormuş gibi davranan "kadınların fıtratı" yemek yapmak, bulaşık yıkamak üzerine kurulu, önrmli işlere elinizi sürmeyin diyen veya öyle bir izlenim yaratmaya çalışan herkese Allah daha derin düşünebilme yeteneği versin diyorum. Son anda kendimi tutup hayır duasına çevirdim. Bu çok zordu...
I don't understand people. Rasullulah SAW said whoever has two daughters and educates them and marries them to good men will enter Paradise. So what is the purpose of the education? Women can have careers as long as it does not contradict the Islamic teachings. We should have more women in healthcare and teaching. Especially in non Muslim countries. A Muslim woman most usually ends up exposing her nakedness to non Muslim men in the name of childbirth. Where are our Muslim sisters? After going to medical school they sit at home! Am from Africa and where I come from most Muslim men don't live up to their responsibilities. They don't pay school fees, take care of their wives and in-laws. Where I come from if you as a woman stays at home, hunger and poverty will be your lot as husbands now admire financially empowered women. Islam did not say, women don't work!
The purpose of education is to earn money? Lmao XD
Gynecologists are female. She gives birth in front of female doctors. And there should be female doctors. I agree. But you have to have separate female hospital and Medical colleges as well. If fathers don't fulfill their duties they will be accountable before Allah. Islam doesn't forbid women from earning, but has to have a halal environment.
I wouldnt want such husbands who "admire financially empowered women". Thats the men's job. Take responsibility and dont force your women to work!
@@lavendarhijab8066 not every woman thinks like u sister...some like to be financially dependent only on THEMSELVES and not their husbands.
Woman can be financially independent by staying at hone too, there are so many things that you can do at home, by staying with the kids and earn a living too
Very confusing and unclear answer to be honest, disappointed. Where are the sources to the claims he made? The women with the dad who was old and couldn't work, worked in their own field out of necessity or they would go hungry. Can you draw such comparison in the west today???? Nearly every work place would be deemed unsuitable for a woman to work according to Islamic teachings. Such answer by NAK only enforced career driven women to go out and neglect marriage and children in favour of cooperate career progression. Too many imams are being liberalised it's soo sad to see.
He isn't a scholar so guys please avoid his opinions
yeah, apparently the only scholar on this planet is Daniel Haqiqatjou
JazakAllahu khairan❤
This is a very bad and incomprehensive answer. I have not ready any hadith where men and women worked together on farms. There is a hadith where a woman worked on a farm but it was her own farm and presumably among her own relatives. It would be good if NAK gave references considering he is a scholar. NAK is giving a westernized answer not an islamic one. From my understanding of sharia women should not work in environments where there is regular interaction with men. I don''t know of any job in the West save a few that has segregated work environments. And it is very easy to prove that according to islam women are not encouraged to work. All muslims say and I accept that women during the Prophet's time were the most liberated women on the planet of the earth. I have not read any hadith where the first thing that these newly liberated Muslim women did was to go out and work in hordes. They were truly liberated and if they felt that working was a priority they would all have done so if that is what they felt was their ulitmate right , i.e. to go out and work, instead they become even more conservative and there are sufficient hadiths to prove this. They were no where near as rich as Muslim women in the west yet they didnt work. Muslims these days have got a westernized way of thinking so they have lost their priorities. To even make wanting to work your number one priority shows a defect in intentions and haya. A woman with true haya would not consider working among men. Mariam was not a prophet. Yet she secluded herself in her room and devoted herself to prayer. Even if she had gone out to work she would never have been tempted because only her and Prophet Isha are the only ones to never be touched by Satan, yet Mariam didn't. (astagfirullah to even think such a thing, just trying to make my point) I would like to clarify that I am not saying its haram to work. I am stating that for a Muslim woman to be willing to work among men makes me think that her priorities are not in order. Some answers here say that women should work such as by being doctors, nurses so they can help other Muslim women. My answer is : help your self first. You don't help someone else by losing your modesty or working in unislamic environments. Can a woman in the West work as a doctor or nurse catering to only women?? Is that practically possible? By giving these fanciful answers the commentators are only fooling themselves and deluding others
dear brother i just wanna say that you are right but you did't understood the answer he said he said women can work until they follow sharia and the primary job of women is to take care of the children and her husband same goes for men there priority should be family but when we came to this world to please allah subhan wa tala so we should do those things that makes him happy for example sadaqah,helping poor,taking care of allah's creation it should apply on both men and women both are responsible for making a world better place for upcoming generation man can do this beacuse they are allowed to work but what about women every one thinks that they should help herself first then men also should help himself first being and career orieented women does'nt mean her priorities are not in order it means that she made herself very clear that before she dies she will make differenc ein peoples life in a good way she has a right to do sadaqah jariya,help poor people with her own money ,and being remeber after she dies means matrydom she can do the things that her religon allow her to do but some men think that women are weak they are not able to do such things but remember there are lot of women in the past who were in jihad with prophets and they had been the aprt of very important discussions at the time of wars and prophets used to value their points they have been leaders,commanders and many more and we remember them for their bravery because those womens are matrys of islam women can do anything unless its not affecting their husband,children and islam.
Dear Mr. Nouman
In my opinion, if the ladies are not married and have no kids or supporters they can do jobs with the conditions that's required from them. Masha'Allah, with all my respect to you and all your works I disagree with the example you gave about the Madian girls. They had to get out of the house because they had no supporter, (وَلَمَّا وَرَدَ مَاءَ مَدْيَنَ وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِ أُمَّةً مِنَ النَّاسِ يَسْقُونَ وَوَجَدَ مِنْ دُونِهِمُ امْرَأَتَيْنِ تَذُودَانِ ۖ قَالَ مَا خَطْبُكُمَا ۖ قَالَتَا لَا نَسْقِي حَتَّىٰ يُصْدِرَ الرِّعَاءُ ۖ وَأَبُونَا شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ)
[Surat Al-Qasas 23]
the reason they went out is they have to eat right?
I do not think that there is a greater or a heavier job than raising generations to be a great muslim.
Right brother.
If they can do both, raise their kids and earn money or do a job they want to because they have goals in life, then Why not let them? What if the womans happiness or goal is not to stay at home and take care of kids for the rest of their lives, every human has a goal, islam lets us achieve it in the best way possible, so best not to judge.
I live in Pakistan , most of the men don't bother fullfilling the basic rights over here. but still every single molvi out here emphasize on women staying home. let me give an example of my aunt. her husband lived in south africa for about 11 years. and his income wasn't enough to fullfil their needs. both of them used to fight over money. my Aunt had to take off her kids from their old school and she got them admitted to a cheaper school. they left the city and moved back to village because they couldn't afford the bills of their rented house in city. her husband came back to Pakistan and was now totally unemployed. he stayed at home ,didn't earn anything at all. my Aunt was now dependent on money and basic needs to her brothers. but my uncle used to beat her and kids because he thought it's against his honor that her wife's brother are fullfilling their needs. but still he didn't bother going out and doing something. things went even worse. my Aunt and uncle got separated , and after they got separated uncle died (2 or 3 months later). now the brothers of my Aunt who made her stay home when she was young, who never bothered sending her to school,college are not supporting her either. all I know is this could definitely have been better if my Aunt was educated and independent . this could have stopped the fights for money and her kids from crying for their little wishes. Idk when ese molvis will learn that their is a lot of difference between Paksitani men and those Arabis at times when Quran was revealed
that's the problem. The men and women both have to follow Islam. If men don't do that, they will be punished accordingly. And if the women don't, then they will be punished too. As simple as that.
Ja'Zakal'ALLAH Khair for the video
Ridiculous
@Abdul Rehman Shaikh yeah I don’t care I’m not Muslim anymore so I can go out whenever I want and not have a million rules
I think women can work only when it is so necessary situation and not much challenging with men’s environment. For ex: women didn’t have husband or other mahrams or it is not enough money to take care family which man is finding ( poor family, may Allah helps them) or the job need Muslim women (for ex: OBG doktor or like kind of). That is my opinion. Allah knows best
Khadijah RA - The most richest business woman - RasoolSAW's Wife ❤
@@ayshafidha1711 when Khadija (Ra) did bussiness ,she did it by Rasul(S) .she did not do it by herself.And that tym Quran did not come.
@@user-xv7il5hu2y yes agree
Women stay at home and in quran basically quraan is not against WOMEN JOB and education but against this system of our life . like behayai -
@@ayshafidha1711 And she left her business... YOU FORGOT TO MENTION... ?? And gave all her wealth in Baitul Maal... She was a chaste businesswoman in the days of JAHILLIYAH...you didn't mention this as well.... And when she accepted Islam...she gave up her business..... Why cherry pick things???
that was when Islam didn't come... Those ayahs of Quran were not reveled... When that ayat came... Everything was different... Even mother Aisha cried so much after reading those ayahs that her headscarf drenched in her tears... Why??? You know ??? Because earlier she participated in a war and did horseriding...
sister with all the respect... Today we are living in the times of fitna... Great fitna... And feminism is one of them... I understand what you say... But there is great hikmah in what Allah has told.... And above all we are His slaves and He is our master... We don't interpret the Quran according to our wishful thinking ...tell me if you disagree sister...
Further the feminist movement has made it like women are oppressed...
Education/ilm is fard but earning is on the wali of the girl... You should fight for the right... You have right on your husband ... Your father your sons your brother... Why make them free from responsibilities??
Ofcourse Islam doesn't prohibit working for a woman but what it prohibits is the interaction... Which has consequences... I will further write about this Insha Allah in this reply only...
When you have an environment that is conducive..you're encouraged to work...
Today I see men tailoring women's clothes... And how immodest it seems to me when woman give their measurements to the tailor... There we require women
Today when a woman is in hospital to deliver a child..she doesn't get a female doctor ..there we need you..
Today our sisters and daughters are learning Quraan from male teachers... There we need woman ...
Today we need woman nurses for woman..
When we will obey Allah's command of segregation between men and women automatically there will be vacancies for women.. and Wallahi sister we need you out there... We love you sister and Allah loves you and that is why He doesn't want the muslim woman out there .. in front of the perverted men... Unless need be so.
I know females who didn't undergo surgery because they don't want their body to be seen by a non mehram and are afraid a doctor can do anything while in operation theatre...
But on the same note this free mixing is what Allah has forbidden because it's so evil that He commanded woman to stay safe at homes and not work, you're precious in Islam and so Allah want your men ( mahram) to protect you... I will explain this in brief.
If we read the reports of divorce cases in the US itself... Only 30% marriages somehow survive without separation... And in the remaining separated 70% couples ... 50% go for legal divorce ... And shockingly 40% of these registered divorce cases happen because of infidelity in workplaces (ie...the spouse finds someone at workplace) ..
Imagine the pain a woman goes through if her husband leaves her... Allah is protecting you from that heartbreak and helplessness...
And even those women don't understand the hikmah of this...
Wallahi sister you'll be out becoming a temptation for someone else... Allah will place a temptation for your husband in his workplace... Because what goes around comes around...
Allah says in the Quran ..not to go out of homes without a necessity... And not become a tabarruj (tabarruj comes from the word Burj means a tower... And a tower is a attention seeking thing... A head turner) Allah has hikmah behind this, sister...
When Allah calls something a temptation and you see that reports say that free mixing results in immodest conduct... This is not a question on your modesty or my modesty... These ayahs came for the wives of prophet... If Allah is warning against this free mixing we must at once understand His words and learn from people who went astray...
It has been proved that when men and women come together... Disaster happens...
Further if you read the researches done on delinquent children( juvenile cases in US) .. A study was done on 497+495 or so children ... It was found that the children in juvenile had almost 50% working mothers ... And non delinquent/juvenile children had around 30% working mother...
Also, among those children for which it was found that their guardianship was responsible for their crime... It was found that 80% of their mothers were working woman...
Also in a new research it was found that woman who earn their daughters tend to become earning woman and the concern is here ...their sons tend to become househusbands...
This is alarming sister...
Allah has given our Muslimah sister a greater responsibility a far complex and complicated work which men can't do...
That is the work of raising a righteous child... A woman can raise a Firaun or a Musa ... That's how powerful our sisters are...
I know it's difficult for you sisters... But it's only a matter of time... The day you die you're free from all the rules... And Allah will reward you greatly for your sacrifices... You'll turn back and see your life and wonder... Only if had done more sacrifices I would have had a better Jannah... And for this duniya try to understand the hikmah of Allah... He only wants your good.. he is protecting you from evil eyes... Evil touches.. evil people... Heartbreaks and much more...
And even men do sacrifices sister... But it has become a custom and is not recognised it's taken for granted... There are a lot of other reasons... Economic reasons biological reasons... And so on... But I can't write everything here...
Insha Allah you will understand...
May Allah give you hidayah..like the mothers of believers were on the right path...
If my words have hurt you please forgive me... And don't embarrass me on the day of judgement...
I hope this will seem logical to you...
JazakAllah khair
Great explanation. MashAllah.
May Allah (swt) bless him.
Thank you.
Jazak Allah Khair.
We need more mentality like him in the society ❤
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But primary responsibility of a married woman is her husband and children's at the day of judgement every human being Will be called by his/her mothers name it's also mentioned in many hadiths that A Muslim women jihad is when she serve her kids husban jobian woman's are not bad or its prohibited but Allah says I Qur'an man's are protecters and maintainer of the family so never neglect ur kids as bb khadija did after nikah she become complete house wive and detonated all her money in charity
also it depends on the father or the husband whether or not they agree
the husband should never restrict his wife from leaving the house.. thas when it becomes oppression
thank u thank u thank u thank u thank u thank u. jazakAllah Khayran x 1,0000
Wa yayyki :)
Assalamoaliakoam warahmatulahi
Wabarakatuhu the thing is that if the wife has a husband who is follows the sunnah of Muhammad salalhu alayhewasalam then she should stay home and raise the. Kids
alot of sister work because some brother are irresponsible and dont follow sunnah we should know our gender roles and rights of each other
We males are kawams if we became real men who know their responsibilities then the real woman will respect and love you in sha Allah and fulfilling her sexual needs
Simple formula of a happy and greatful life quran and sunnah simple
The Pakistani Indian south east continent only give firka . The comment sections is filled with people who are against women work who are from India Pakistan South East region .then there is Nouman no the cultural differences of Western and Eastern country. From my knowledge Islam promote earning money to women in order to give charity whether you earn money from home or else
Sheikh Assem al Hakeem says women are to stay at home, and husbands have the right ("God-given right" ) to tell her not to work if they can "bring the food to the table", and she must obey; because he is the "captain", he decides. If she doesn't obey and still chooses to work he can "ditch such evil woman" and seek a better wife.
He even said this about a woman's money being hers: that if a woman does a job that means she has to quit some of her household chores that must be done by domestic help...so the husband can come to this agreement that she agrees to pay a percentage of her salary to pay for the maid. ..yes, a man can't control where she spends, but the world cannot work this way...she should agree to such an arrangement.
About women giving the reason that they want to do a job because of "beneficially contributing to society", Dr. Zakir Naik said ", a woman raising her children is the best job for her because she's raising an ummah, a woman is responsible for her flock..."
Jazakallahu khairan ustadh ❤
Alhamdulillah rabil Allah min
Um...Nope! I'm a grown adult with two motorcycles, a truck, many bills to pay, a full-time career in science and a social life. I'm with the same right to enjoy life and all the privileges and golden opportunities this world has to offer me (without having to be male). So I'm only home (when I feel like being home)...😎
Thanks brother! this is useful informationmy daughter wants to have a career..but here Indian Pakistani mullas say..woman can't have a career
Well I am Indian and I am a Teacher.My dad who is a retired teacher always supported me to persu my carrier.Infact in my family many of my cousin sister are working not only as teacher but also other jobs like BCS officer.Just ignore the ignorant people who think ISLAM forbids women to achieve their dreams .
I am sick of Pakistani molvis who think that islam is only made for men😑. they really make it totally inapplicable
@@arshikhan9910 Assalamualaikum sister
I'm an Indian too. Mashallah I'm also aspiring for some government job exams. I'm more confused because doing a 9-5 job also leads to missing of Salaah and here in India I don't think we can also do a proper hijab while at work.
Plz enlighten me on this Jazakallah
Yeah. Those of you who think doing career is very good, please explain Sura Ahzab-33. Thanks.
@@heartsxday I said explain Ahzab 33.
Thank you very much for this information 🍁 may Allah bless you with benefitial knowledge,
I have a question.
We know that In Islam free mixing between male and female is Haram. And any physical touch between 2 Gayeri Mahram is considered as fornication and serious sin in Islam. Then why in Hajj Islam allows free mixing ? Specially Tawaf at close circle to Kaba has a lot of gathering, where any people will be embraced totally by other. Can a be in that much of gathering while it is haram and almost embracing ?
Plz preach this in urdu to pakistanis especially to mufti Tariq Masood🙏🙏🙏
Awesome ❤
Respect! NAK is awesome
Well, we also need to take in account the difference in today's society comparing to the society of Madina at that time. Do you think that today our society is strictly practicing ISLAMIC TEACHINGS as it was practicing before? And let us not forget the advancement in technology that has caused more fitna in the name of "connectivity". (Spouse getting text-messages from some co-worker after job hours. Why? ). Last, do you think we live with the same standards and high moral values and integrity as people lived back then?
All these points should be taken in consideration before giving such statement. I do like Nouman Ali Khan's lectures. He has been a guiding star to many lost youths of today's (I was one of them). But this statement made in the video seems that he just wants to go WITH THE FLOW. Allah knows the best.
Agree with you. Got the same impression.
so your saying me a girl should not go to university to peruse a career i want to do in life because i have to limit myself at home? a muslim women (if she’s married if she’s not doesn’t apply to her)can work outside her home as long as she tends to the needs of her household and children because she was given that responsibility by Allah. Today there are more career opportunities then there were before and it should be for both male and female not only be for males because she has to stay at home all day . Staying home should not limit the rights that a muslim can go out to work respectively or go study at school/university as long she knows her responsibilities at home
so why can’t the same be applied to men? since it’s all western now?
if anything, technology is a fitna for people who stay at home. So women should probably work outside more often these days so they can avoid this fitna, where you can sin so easily from the click of a button.
@@MH-bf4uu Technology isn't some household thing. It goes where you go.
Women going out to work or staying at home, has nothing to do with technology.
However, women going outside unnecessarily and then staying in touch with gair mehram (via technology) and then building relationships with them is surely not right. And of course "Same goes for men."
bro in maddian the father of that two women was very old that why when mosa (as) aproched them the females said (may allah forgive me something like) that there father is an old man. dont twist islam.
Explain Sura Ahzab: 33
It also mentioned how they cant go to the watering because of the men there, and how they acted SHYLY.
Well if a girl has finished her education and her mahram are supporting her financially she should serve Allah's deen, seek deen's knowledge and teach muslim kids and ladies because in todays time when Islam is weak and suppressed we need educated muslims who can devout themsleves to serving deen, There are so many muslim ladies who are stuck in a circumstance that they have to earn but if Allah has blessed a girl so much that she does not have to worry about the next meal for herself and her family that's not because so that she can earn and start accumulating more dunya rather Allah has blessed her so that she can work for His deen.
And if Allah's deen is weak and we are "free" then we surely need to have more understanding and love for Allah's deen.
What about inspiring rest of the world especially non-muslims. I do understand ur point of teaching Muslim women and kids. But what about non-muslims. What about showing them what Islam is about and be a representative of Islam.
So try to have a wider perspective and let us do the duty Allah has decided for us.
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 This is our biggest problem we as muslims do not know where we stand today as ummah, how can we take Islam forward, and that happens because deep down inside we just want to raise our own status, persue everything that non-believing materialistic world wants us to persue but we are very smart we do it in the name of serving Islam, but we all know what most muslims do, make their careers, earn money and have a luxurious life and all they do for islam is may be attending a weekly islamic lecture that is their way of serving islam, look around you, so many muslims are making great careers to serve Allah's deen, but all they do is to serve themselves,
So if you really want to go in those fields it requires great taqwa, you have to be ready to lose that position to stand for Islam and to spread Islam but no one does that rather they start following the kufr system to maintain their luxurious life, and having someone with a muslim name at such and such position hardly benefits Islam if that position is not used to spread Islam, and spreading Islam with only akhlaq is also a escape route, because Rasoolullah (saw) had best akhlaq but still he had to give dawah in speech so you have to do it at any cost,
but the problem is, while making our careers we are so busy we dont have time to do something real for islam. At that time we think we will be doing it when our studies are over, when we start working we are busier than before and we never have time for Islam,
Well that happens because we are not true to Allah's deen, deep down inside we just want to make our own life like everyone else we are not ready to compromise this life at any cost, ( They try to decieve Allah, but they only decieve themselves- Quran)
What and how you should be serving Allah's deen , It can be known from seerah of the prophet (s.a.w), You need to find yourself in the seerah, and then start struggling for Islam the way Rasoolullah(saw) and sahaba karaam did.
so if you live in a country where Islam is strong and established, Allah's laws are the law of the land, then you must make great careers in every field because this is what Sahaba karam did when Islam was established in Arab and spreading outside.
If you live in a country where Islam is not strong and partially established like that in medinah, then you should be working the way sahaba karam did in medinah, they spent alot in the path of Allah and sacrificed their lives for in the path of Allah to strenghen Islam.
If you live in a non muslim country, where Allah's laws are nowhere to be seen rather What Allah made prohibited is made halal and and what Allah made halal is made haram , then it's like makki time, What did sahaba karam do in makkah, did Rasoolullah (saw) ask sahaba karam to make great careers to spread Islam, did he say all of them should try to become best poets or businessman or their tribe leaders to spread Islam, rather you would see khadija tul Kubra(r.a) who was the richest business women in makkah before Islam, was then starving, she spent everything in the path of Allah, pampered and Rich Musab ibn umair(r.a) was walking the streets with no home and no luxuries and only a sack covering his body, Millionare Abu bakar (r.a) left nothing behind for his family when he migrated with the prophet (s.a.w), What muslims were commanded to do was ( qum fa anzir- Arise and warn- (Quran surah mudassir) that is spread the message of Islam),
and if you are sure you can perform this duty better if you are working in a particular field then that's great, but if your career boils down to working like crazies from morning to evening to earn the money you don't even need (to fulfill basic necessities) , then it is better that you seek knowledge ( Islamic as well as other subjects) so that you can effectively spread the message of Islam by elaborating in modern terminology the teachings of Islam regarding the practical aspects of life be it social, political, economical or spiritual.
The only way to inspire rest of the world specially non muslims, we need to establish Islam, When Allah's laws are established, whole world can see how prosperous, just and happy society is formed by the laws of Allah, then whole world will see greatness of Allah.
and Islam can be established only by struggling the way Rasool Allah (saw) did in his lifetime.
@@frengsapien2722 u can inspire ppl by being among them. I work hard and ppl look up to me. And I never forget to tell them that I'm a Muslim. So this way they know that Muslims can be good ppl. And remember the society also needs us.
@@frengsapien2722 we r all struggling in our own way. In prophets (pbuh) time the farmers were not asked to leave their farms to work for Islam. They did both however much they could because ppl had to eat as well. Islam is important but eating is as well And looking after human beings in other ways is also necessary.
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 Keeping a good character , working hard and honestly, these are the things we have to do if we are muslim, there is no such thing that today I was not in dawah mood so I displayed a bad akhlaq, we have to do all of these things in obedience to Allah, but tagging these things as giving dawah or serving Allah's deen is not justified at all if we do not have these traits as a muslim we will be held responsible on the day of judgement, we are giving quality time for this dunya, but when it comes to deen we reduce it to keeping good akhlaq while making our dunya. This is just another way of fooling oneself that I am serving deen in my own way even though we know we are just serving ourselves accumulating more and more dunya..... If it was enough Rasool Allah( saw) too had just continued His business displaying best akhlaq and saying " I am a muslim" but the man with the best character had to reach out to people and give the mesaage of Allah to invite them to Islam.
specially in todays time, when Islam is weak and maligned, we have to give quality time to it.
Well it is either be there for your children or choose a career. Every normal woman who stands before this decision will realize that you cannot have both. Children are a gift from Allah and we should give them our time and love as much as we can. I have yet to meet one woman who can do it all without burning herself out and becoming miserable and masculine!
he is the best scholar in our time
Can anyone please send me this in written form because there is a problem in phone speaker...
With all due respect, Br Nouman isn't an aalim who can give fatwah on such issues... He said correctly, but exaggerated... It's preferably for women to not work and be at home and tender to family as per Hadith and as per majority of fuqaha. Secondly, for her to work or not is again dependent on her husband, if he allows or not.
The husband must provide for their women. If the women is unmarried the the father must provide, but the women should get married asap if old enough.
And Allah knows best.
And if the husband is abusive. ... what to do then? Jump from husband to husband for financial security or take him to court?
@@fantasticfractals9583
Asalamu alaikum
That's out of my league. You must ask and consult a sheikh or at least strong student of knowledge who's upon the sunnah
@The Etceteras
Asalamu alaikum
This link will help in'sha'Allah
islamqa.info/en/131382
What a way of asserting your opinion and generalizing the whole idea of how a women should only be part of someone's entity and not be an independent person herself?
What will you suggest to a women who does not want to marry but wants to live life on her own terms?
Asalamu alaikum.
Sister, when did I say women should only be apart of someone's entity. I'm talking about the right that women have given to them by Allah. That their menfolk must provide for them. This is their right.
Sheikh ibn uthaymeen (ra) said that if a man is married to a millionaire women, then he still must provide for her. Even if a wife is a millionaire, she doesn't have to use that money to provide for herself or family. She can still demand that the husband provide.
Out of necessity it’s fine. But if you are telling me it’s better for a woman to delay having a family for 6 years in a mixed gender university to then work a job to buy things that her husband is already responsible for providing you have things mixed up
nope not mandatory that it has to be only out of necessasity
even if she has richest father and husband she can still be a doctor pilot teacher it engineer etc and there is no harm in it she can do jobs earn halal in hijab thats it and should remain reserved at workplace follow the basic code and principals thats it
no wehre its mentioned that a women must be poor enough to play role of an officer or manager in society
wehre would u take ur women if women police is not there to help
where would u take women for groming if women salons arent there
where u would take women for education if women teachers are not there
where would u take women for clohtes and stiching if ladies tailors are not there
where would u take women for recreation if women parks and staff women working there not there
where would u take women for sports if sports complexes where women work are not there
dnt be sheer ignorant
@@kiranshah2012 I didn't say only out of necessity woman are allowed to work. I said out of necessity it's fine but when you live in secular countries with mixed class rooms environments with lots of people drinking alcohol, partying, using drugs and casual dating it becomes a danger to women who are more agreeable in nature. Especially if they going for reasons other than necessity. To place oneself into this environment rather than doing school online would be quite irresponsible in lacking in wisdom. Also delaying motherhood to peruse a career for personal gain is a huge mistake and a feministic idea that has only tricked women into depression later on in life. Sadly a job won't replace having a great family but many women later in life can't even have children because they became so focused on this dunya. The main point im trying to make is setting your priorities in the right order.
@@seektruth581 is it compulsory for women to have children?? You shouldn't generalize all women. Number of women are happy without being mothers. It differs from person to person if they wanna have children or not. Having children doesn't equate to happiness.
@@seektruth581 for some women like me career is their first priority. You can't force all women to have children as their first priority
@@hopefully223 I'm against forcing anyone to have children. That's totally wrong. If your career is first priority though it's not Islamic. Our first priority as Muslims should always be our religion. Women nowadays are brainwashed into thinking a career is more important than a family when in reality the more prestigious the career, the less desirable she becomes as a partner. She is degrading her potential as a suitable life partner depending on what career it is. Raising healthy and smart children to build a better society is far more important than a woman spending her life competing with men in the work place. . The smartest women are the ones with the highest degrees and women with the highest degrees don't have children nearly as much statistically speaking. This means the smartest genetics will no longer will be in circulation so technically speaking it's dysgenic. If the career is literally saving dying innocent people who have no hope, then it's admirable. But really the best intention to have is raising a family and contributing to society. Better to serve your family then a corporation any day.
Any woman reading this,
1.please understand that; the thought of staying home is not of the extremist Muslims as you think, it is the command from Allah that is very clear in suratul Ahzab verse 33, dont use examples of the pre Islamic error because even the Aya is crystal clear that "not like the women in the jahiliyyah error. If you follow the Quran and the Sunnah you should know that its obligatory to try your best to imitate the life of the mothers of the believers (wives of our prophet) as they were ordered in the Quran and the sunnah.
2. Stop making excuses that "ooh its a different time its impossible to compare the Prophet time and now....dah dah dah". Honey..!!its very clear in the Quran that Allah said that he perfected our religion in Suratul maida verse 03. Nothing in the world system is undefined. If you don't find it in the Quran, use the Hadith and the sunnah of the prophet with the understanding of the three best generation.
Women let's try our best in submissive to our Deen and not make excuses, this world is temporary and here after is the goal.
I understand it's not easy like,,The tests in single motherhood,etc ...when we have bills to pay and all bunch of problems. its only that we should have the tranquility in our hearts that whatever we abstain from is for the sake of Allah. Having Tawwakul and trust in his destiny for he is the one who kept the rules and solely he is the Al-Razaaq.
3Lets learn our deen for us to be effective and practical...not being blind followers of only the fatwas that benefit our wimbs and desires.
And Allah knows Best.
Um...Nope! I'm a grown adult with two motorcycles, a truck, several bills to pay, a full-time career in science and a social life. I'm with the same right to enjoy life and all the privileges this world has to offer me (without having to be male). So I'm only home (when I feel like being home)...😎
Why wasn't the part about the women of Madyan not going near the men in the "workplace" mentioned? The workplace today makes men and women free mix unnecessarily.
True. Considering today's environment, the best place for women IS at home. I dont know why people are so afraid to say that. Yes women can work out of necessity but the best place is at home. I dont know why women today think working 8-5 is like some kind of priviledge either. Its hard work and like a prison working 8-5 daily, dealing with all kinds of people who are not nice, nasty people, theres office politics, drama, backstabbing, mistreatment...why you think theres workers union and people have to fight for their rights in the workplace. If youve a husband providing for you....be THANKFUL you dont have to work and deal with so much crap at work. P.s. im a woman.
@@lavendarhijab8066 but you see, working out of choice is different. I am a women who works and I have never been happier. Working for hours is fulfilling because i studied and graduated for it and it teaches me hard work and discipline. It is just your opinion, if you hate working then you can stay at home and do domestic chores which is also work but at home.
Yes but women are going to work for the sake of working not for men. It is about intentions. I don’t know why a man should bother a women who is there to work.
@@Hi-nl1mr Whether they are working for the sake of men or not is irrelevant. If something is impermissible (which in this case is freemixing) it doesn't matter what your intention is. Can a woman remove her hijab because she claims her intention is not to attract any men?
@@lavendarhijab8066 some women have goals in life, goals that go beyond staying at home and taking care of family. Women can do both, and those who choose to do it know what they are signing up for, the thing u said is an opinion, best not tell women what they should and shouldn’t be thankful for, if u have no goals in life and prefer to stay home, that is up to u. If you do a job you love, its not a burden but is fun and makes life worth living. Their are pros and cons to doing anything and a job comes in that category too, life is tough.
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The answer is definitely
YES .
It's better for Muslims women to stay at home especially in western Europe and America . For more than a reason .
it is both valid for men and women.
I am a man and I dont live in western but somewhere known as 'muslim country' for most of people. but still I dont go outside unless there is something necessary like the school.
staying in the home and protecting our eyes, ears and heart is the best I believe. even we have no ill intention, that still harms our spiritual state
actually I believe currently going outside is more harmful for men than for women.
men are more vulnerable against images than women. actually men dont work and stay at home while women work could be better than its opposite :D
a woman can say that "I dont want you to go out and work. life is just ugly and I want your heart pure not dirtied. I can go out and work, you just look kids and cook" fairly 🙃
Of course. Stay at home and go visit a male doctor because that's the better option? Or a non Muslim female gynecologist because all Muslim females decided to stay at home? Makes perfect sense
@@lmknjblmknjb2623 No no no. Stay at home and go to the feminist independent freedom lover so called female muslim doctors like you. You get the sin, we get the treatment 😂😂
Thank you 🙏🏽
JazakAllahu khairan
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thank youuu!
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Hazrat Khadija never went out on trading she had people doing it for her MIND IT and stop misleading innocent people who have little or no knowledge or deen !!!!
She went even with Rasool Allah (saww) ..
Learn ist then criticize others
@@wafabatool6130 no she did not went with him pbuh
She did not do it by herself and that time Quran did not come
She still had to communicate with those men. And mind it she was rich enough to have ppl working for her. Not all of us r rich enough to do so. In most of the professions u have to do 1 to 1 dealing. But f example male doctors are not allowed to see female patients on their own. They need female assistance to do so. So all this is done to make our society stronger.
And also my husband is the only son so if I hadn't worked either my in laws wouldn't have had a house to live or we wouldn't have had a house to live. Now both sides are living comfortably and my relationship with my husband is not ruined.
And she left her business... YOU FORGOT TO MENTION... ?? And gave all her wealth in Baitul Maal... She was a chaste businesswoman in the days of JAHILLIYAH...you didn't mention this as well.... And when she accepted Islam...she gave up her business..... Why cherry pick things???
If the husband is not earning much she can look out for a job where proper hijab is allowed ....in the work place ...she had to follow the proper Shari'ah ....
May Allah forgive our sins past future present
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What if the female guardians don’t approve it?
They can't give restrictions without a good reason since it's the womens right to be treated nice and get entertainment
@@ohdomme771 Yes but she needs Maharam permission otherwise she would be transgressing.
@@guilhermefernandes6067 then she can go to the court if the man restricts her unreasonably
My comment is out of the topic. But i do need an advice. I am a filipina and currently in a relationship with an afghani man. We are in a serious relationship and planning to settle down. But for some reason, our religion and culture is quite being a villain to our happiness. His parents suddenly told him that they arranged him to his country girl for marriage. And its really breaking my heart. We are still together now. What to do? Im so sure he loves me, but i dont want to make him choose between me and his family.
First thing, what his parents say is not in our deen.
Second thing, I would suggest that he can try to talk to his parents and tell them that it is okay for him to marry you; besides, the Prophet married an Egyptian woman while he was an arab.
I am also in relationship with an Afghani boy 😉
Then study Islam. If you become a muslim, it will make it easier. As it's prohibited in Islam to marry non muslims, unless they're Christians or Jews, that also is not preferred or encouraged, as the salvation and the faith of the future generations also depend upon your spouse
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Can any one tell me where is the compelete video?
Asalamoalikum! How can I ask question ? Will Nauman Ali REPLY? What is the website?
Daughters of old man getting water = women having careers 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Asma, the wife of Zubair worked collecting date stones until her husband didn't need her to work anymore.
ok if she work, and the husband keep paying for everything and support her financially, does she still need to cook and take care of the house? oh because she is working, and her is for her only and her husband still need to help with the kitchen and all???? show me some sense. thanks
My response to this video is just a straight up "Nope!" I'm a grown adult with two motorcycles, a truck, many bills to pay, a full-time career in science and a social life. I'm with the same right to enjoy life and all the privileges and golden opportunities this world has to offer me (without having to be male). So I'm only home (when I feel like being home)...😎
*Both men and women must stay in a home together. Not in the pub, movie theater, always at office, always at Masjid, or always abroad etc*
Allah SWT has provided more security for women to travel alone now in cars by His immense mercy unlike bandit Western California or ancient roads full of thieves and bandits. It is all in the Plan of Allah SWT.
That is what it means...
I chose to be a homemaker as a Muslim woman. I am happier this way to focus on my family and my home. I am not able to take care of the home and my husband properly while I am working. I personally think if women want to have a career, they should respect women who are also just homemakers. They shouldn't stick us into the ground like we are lazy and do nothing. I make food from scratch for my husband, I keep the house very clean, I am spoiling my husband who is going out and making money for the home and I help my elderly mother out in her home as well when she has problems. I think female doctors and midwives should exist, but I really hope you don't send your children to day care. I hope you get the chance to raise your own children.
dear sister you are right its completly your choice whether a women is housewife or working women she is on duty 24/7 its not easy to be a homemaker but also it is not easy to be independent i respect your choice
Women who have no financial support should take up job other wise can stay home look after kids husband n elderly .....if husband is financially supporting helping family grow in terms of finances then women no need to go out for jobs leaving all elderly n kids at home with no one to care them
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i can't take this religion seriously anymore ..you guys are divided than you are scared to be divided by others. hope GOD lead me to straight path .however i can't go like this where one scholar say something and other scholars say something completely different
if mixed gatherings are allowing then what is parda for when it is mentioned in Quran in front of whom a woman should come they are called mahrams how can a woman come in front of na mehrams when allah has forbidden it
When encountering with non meharam you have those dressing sense,,,,
Brother Nouman, please don't say it's ridiculous, what you mention applies to a perfectly muslim country, not here in the west. Please be specific and re-frase your answer.
Here in the west even men are tempted and getting fitna, how about the women then?
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Only if a man of the household can not provide the necessaties or in those professions where females must play their role.
Other than that for only economic reasons I can't agree with you Ustaad. Because the on coming generation's education and wellbeing is more important Ustaad g.
Why do the women need job as men are instructed to bear all the expenses of women. women have more responsibility to take care of children at home because children need one of their parents, especially mother, to them all the time for their(children) better upbringing. Doing job in mixed gatherings should be avoided. In mixed gathering, Shaitan get more chance to deviate both man and woman and thus illegal affairs may be created at one time, bringing risk to a happy family. Human beings can not control their mind totally. But if a woman has no father or husband, she should work (but also she should try to avoid mixed gathering because Islam does not allow mixed gatheing of men and women excepting some cases). Allah knows the best.
So why dont u think that u do..
Then stop the hypocrisy and give women the same respect and honor as does a man of the family gets just because they are the bread earner of the family even if they might have a bad personality?
Islam is not so shallow brother. You need to learn how to read the book of Allah in its context and stop preaching before quoting!
Mixed gathering you say?
Really? You are in avid need of learning
Mahin H My husband cheated on me with an employee in his office who was a hijabi. I used to think like u, but I go back to the Quran. Allah speaks Al Haq.
La Takrabu Zinaa.., Dont go NEAR Zinaa.
@@Quorum1 sister this world comprises of both men and women... sorry but if your husband cheated on u then its because of his flaws and unfaithfulness not because of mixed gathering... even in family you have mixed gatherings and if someone's intentions are wrong things can obviously go wrong...
You are absolutely right that Allah knows best but as humans he has bestowed us with talents and abilities which if not utilised is ungratefulness of his mercy.
Career Women | Khadija (R.A) | Beautiful Answer | Sh.Abdur Rahim GreenAppli UA-cam - 7 nov. 2012
Does the woman have the right to work?
Assalamu aliakum.
Please elaborate, if women are allowed to work outside their homes in a professional capacity. I was raised to think that only men can be bread earners for their families. Recently however, I come to learn that there may be other opinions on the topic and that women do not have to confined to their houses.
Can you please clarify in the light of the Quran, Sunnah and the practice of the pious predecessors. Please also provide different viewpoints on the matter so that I may not remain blind to other valid opinions on this topic.
According to the noble Shari'a [Islamic law], it is permissible for a Muslim woman to go out for work providing the following conditions:
- The job is deemed permissible in Shari'a and does not include anything that contradicts legal rulings.
- The woman guarantees safety for her person, chastity and religion [from temptation).
- The job suits woman's physical and psychological nature.
Consequently, a woman's work should not contradict righteousness [birr] or oppose her guardian's responsibility over her.
Evidence from the sunna Jabir Ibn 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported: My maternal aunt was divorced, and she intended to pluck her dates [from palm trees]. A person scolded her for having come out (during her waiting period). She came to the Prophet (peace and blessins be upon him) and he told her: "Certainly you can pluck (dates) from your palm trees, for perhaps you may give out charity or do an act of kindness." [Muslim, Sahih).
The Shari'a view on working women It is established in shari'a that it is impermissible for a wife to go out for work except with her husband's permission. If a wife goes out for work without her husband's explicit or implicit permission, she will be blameworthy.
The spouses' rights are mutual This means that a husband is obliged to provide for his wife and she is to remain in the marital house in fulfillment of his rights over her. Allah Almighty says:
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. [Qur'an 4: 34).
There is no contradiction between a wife's legal right to work and her husband's right to prevent her. No one can object to a sensible and adult woman's legal right to engage in work that is lawful or to her right to be financially independent though this does not contradict her husband's right to prevent her from working. For example, it is established in the Shari'a that it is permissible for a husband to prevent his wife from performing voluntary prayers and fasts although they are both legally permissible.
The husband's explicit permission for his wife to go out for work involves him informing her of his consent, while his implicit permission involves showing no objection to her going out or if he had accepted to marry her while knowing that she is a working woman
The reason a woman has to take consent from a man is bcs he has to see if her safety comes in the way, as a protector of him wife, not because his wife is dumb child he has to assert dominance over. Think a little with your brains people and don’t take quranic verses out of context without seeing several tafseer on it which doesn’t involve cultural interference in islam. May Allah guide You all.
As a doctor and teacher yes , other professions no .
Wht about womens whom husbands die, and his and her family is so poor that they cant take care of them?? Or womens whom husband becomes sick and can't work, and they have (alot) kids? She should take 6 kids in father house, or in law house and expect to they care for them?
@@umi9586 yes after her husband her father is responsible ,then her brothers then the state or government . But if none of them is available than she can work for her children.
@@mrchips.9245 there is womens whom family accept to care fot them but not for them kids. So women should go her family, and leave kids to husband family, or she should take her kids with herself and take care of them best tht she can? There is 1000 situations, and only wise person know how much is important sometime to women can (from any halal work) earn money. Comment like ur is so discriminating and ignorant. R u self teacher or doctor? It is beter to not write anything than write comments like this. Not all womens have acces to education, not all parents let daughters go to school. But tht same girls one day may get in situation to them own family not accepting them kid, and husband is die. It’s so funny how superficial people can be. Womens should get quality education at first, and have enough contacts with quality peopls so she can teach something her kids other than cooking and cleaning
@@umi9586 it would take you alot of time and education to finally agree with my point . At last I would say ,outdoor job for women in not recommended unless out of necessity.
@@mrchips.9245 and u need more life expirience to understand tht not only ur point is right
Assalaamu alaikum, brother, I don't think that you gave a clear enough answer here. Fundamentally, there is nothing wrong with a woman working, yes, but as Allah says in the Qur'an men are the providers and maintainers of women. What would be the point of women having a provider and a maintainer if it was "perfectly fine" for them to have a career? Even khadijah had men doing business on her behalf and the prophet s.a.w was one of them. The part of musa's story that you mentioned was before islam so I dont see the relevance of that. And I havent even mentioned the fact that a woman has to obey her husband and that his word basically overrides hers so if working is something that a husband doesn't want his wife to do then she must obey him regardless of what inclination she may have.
İn Hz Musa’s story Two young girls Are the Hz. Şuayb prophet’ s daughters they Are muslim
@@turquoisecraft Yes they were muslims but that was before the time of the prophet s.a.w so they didn't have the same exact laws that we got once Allah completed religion which He specifically stated He did in the Qur'an in the prophet s.a.w's time. Even in the prophet s.a.w's days they did things that eventually got forbade. Yes, they were righteous but they weren't subjected to the same detailed restrictions that we have. I think I'm repeating myself lol
Marriage is not just about having a provider. Marriage is about a lot more than that. F ex to keep ur wife satisfied and happy. So normally ppl who r busy thonk less about committing sins because their minds are occupied with something else. However ppl who have less to do r bored and just do whatever they have at hand. F ex lots of gossiping.
Also I would rather work so my husband doesn't have to work more so we can have more time for each other.
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 Assalaamu alaikum, first of all I dont want u to think that I'm trying to argue with u or anything of the sort, this is just a conversation that we're having, so I mean no harm. If anything I would like to open your mind and anyone else's mind who reads this. Now, I never said marriage was JUST about anything. It is true though that an idle mind is subject to misdeeds, I agree. But to think that both people working would result in more free time together doesn't really make sense. It would just lead to both of you being tired. If I work 8 hrs and u work 8 hrs we're both gonna be tired and what'll happen with the kids while we're both working? If I work 4 hrs and u work 4 hrs, were still gonna be tired but more importantly, what'll happen with the kids when we're both working? If I work and u stay home, the kids will be taken care of and if I'm a good man I wouldn't let my work fatigue affect my dealings with my family unless I really need rest. Also, if you're working, what about your duties inside the home and to your husband and children? Women are the queens of the household, u being tired from work would inevitably effect the effeciancy and quality of everything altogether and you'd feel overly stressed/worked. Not to mention the way of the world today and the harms that muslim women are subjected to while being outside by themselves. You have to prioritize things and realize that the level in which your duties to your husband himself is positioned overrides everything else except obeying Allah. But more importantly, the children. Women are the first teachers of children, u cannot leave this position for society to fill
TheeGrandHizah Marriage is based on consensus and cooperation, not ordering your spouse around. She can also divorce the husband (by returning the mahr). Women can work and the Qur'an and Sunnah does not forbid it.
Is it Haram for me and my wife to go out for drives and site seeing and adventures? Please answer
Totally haram. these things will reduce your chances of going to heaven. So, dedicate this life and fully give your effor in submission to allah. and you will joy eternal bliss in heaven by the mercy of allah.
@@creativity_in_gadgets Completely incorrect. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a husband and wife spending time together. What you’re saying is extremism.
@@creativity_in_gadgets .. wtf. No. People should be able to just go outside and have a life...
@@creativity_in_gadgets stop making things hallal and haram on ur own will
@@creativity_in_gadgets how the heck will that reduce chances of going to jannah . Nowhere in Quran aur hadith is that written. Don't give stupid extreme fatwas on your own . It's completely halal to go sight seeing
it's not proper for women to go and work with men or give them a speech and Islam does not allow free mixing of men and women, and even where we might need women to work such as medical hospitals, schools or dental care for women and children they need to abide by the Islamic rules and have to observe modesty and chastity.
Yk in the Quran it’s stated and encouraged for women to work?? Are you trying to say women shouldn’t have careers and just stay trapped in the house? Cuz that’s clearly against the Quran, you can’t force them to do that.
Stay home! God Will protect you and your family! Your Christian friend!
If the husband's earning is sufficient it's not required for a woman to go out..Yes for the purpose of learning Deen and regards to Deen she can surely go out for Dawa only if the husband pemits .... Or else do from home ....
nope ur ignorant
even if earning is sufficeint she can go out provided she does hijab earns halal and talks to the point at job place whoever follows that code thats enough and she can do any thing any field she wants and not ALLAH niether quran hadees stops so who ru ignorant
there are thousands of subjects in world other then religon maths sceience medical and much more so they can work on that also its their right to education and halal rizq so even if husband doesn't permit he would be doing sin and women dnt need to ask for their birth rights from men
One of the Hadith reads:- there will be a time when women will be coercively tied by men at home in order to prevent them from Dajjal's fitna. This does not mean women should be at home & no career. No not at all. Allah SWT has given thinking capacity for women to weigh the balance between career & Dajjal's fitna & take a decision which pleases Allah SWT.
reference?
As-Salaamu Alaykum,
This is not a holistic answer. Reason: Environment, Conduct, Etiquettes and Behavior are not elaborated. These points are put to subjective research and rationalization which will add further inconsistency and doubt amongst Muslim women.
And Allah Knows best.
Really good answer. From the video it feels like women will interpret it as a blank cheque to go out and work disregarding all matters concerning haya and segregation.
You have some dress code for the women encountering the ones who think themselves supreme over female and forget their personal duties towards female.....
The problem is that people has skipped first step and gone to the 2nd step,,,,, regarding dressing sense,,,, first thing Allah describes is the modesty then he told us about the dress code,,,,,,,, male dominant society are the reason for such dumbness prevailing in the society,,,,,,,,,, every one should know what actually is their haqq,,, and you can't tell extra things by yourselves to the females that you can't do this or that,,,,,even our prophet was not allowed to make anything haram or halal by his will,,,,,
Its better to ask religious Authorities in Madina University or Al Azhar University , on th side note, I am Alhamdulilah earning well , I dont want a career women in My life , I want a wife who has same traits which were in my Mom , taking care of Children , maintaining the household , and protecting the honour of her husband and Secrets of her Family
So I hope you find what you wish,,,,but don't deprive others from their rights
U r getting answer from the wrong source ... so sorry i have to unsubscribe from your channel someone who thinks mix gatherings are ok they have no right to be asked any religious questions no matter who mr so n so they are !
Brither depends on the reason of the mixed gathering. If there is barrier between the woman and man is ok. Because khadijah (ra) was a business woman. Of course the communication and contact with the opposite gender should be to a minimum.
Btw by barrier i mean burqa and niqab.
@@maindepth8830 thats not a barrier, it is the minimum obligation for women to cover themselves. A barrier would mean something like a curtain etc
@@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 true
ETERNAL BLISS جنت الفردوس wow your brain clearly can’t comprehend logic! It’s sad....
One of the biggest mixed gathering= Hajj
Shameless still has guts to speak to people
What was shameless??
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So it’s a no no since the society is so evil nowadays, especially in the western world..may Allah give us the correct understanding and not what we want to here
i think hes misleading people...... women should only work when there is no one else to provide for them.....
if u r done with studies..... have some free time, enjoy urself lawfully and then get married..... man should be providing for you.
Oh right,she should stop making use of her educational qualification and let them get rusted,should stop using her intellect and waste away her life.
Btw did hazrat khadija stop working after getting married to the prophet (pbuh). Ahhhhhhh NO!
@wavokiaado can you please give evidence from the Sunnah and the Quran; all you are doing is just giving your opinion; beware of creating false information and spreading it; innovation is a huge sin so if you are making such a bold statement back it up with proof or I have no reason to believe you; Allahu Alam
@@fatmaahmad8874 Allah says in the Quran... Fadallahullah ala ilm.... And Allah made them go astray because of their knowledge... Better be an illiterate if your knowledge is turning you against Allah and his messenger...
@@sidrasiddiqui1852 yes she did Sidra... She gave up her business and all her wealth in baitul maal... Learn it before you assume something to prove your whims and desires...