Don't Force The Hijab, Do THIS Instead | Nouman Ali Khan

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  • @thinkislam714
    @thinkislam714  9 місяців тому +1039

    Since there’s been a lot of confusion in the comments section on this topic, I’ll clear a few things:
    1- Hijab is a command from Allah and should be taken seriously just like the 5 daily prayers. Just like there’s no choice in salah, they’re no choice in hijab.
    2- Some people are taking this video as a justification to not wear the hijab, to those I say, don’t fool yourselves. You know exactly what the video means, don’t try to twist his words to sooth your desires.
    3- What the video is preaching is that: Before enforcing the hijab on your daughter or wife or anyone else, first connect them to Allah’s words, make them fall in love with Islam. When they ask you why to wear the hijab, don’t just say, “Because I said so” or “Its Allah’s command”. Give them the wisdom and beauty behind it. And if after providing all the evidences and proofs they’re still rebelling then remember it’s not your job to guide the hearts. You just provide the proof and let Allah do His thing.
    4- And finally, to those non-Muslims who’re just hating. If you don’t want to learn about Islam then don’t come here trying to mock it. Just because you can’t prove your religion is the truth, don’t cry about it in our comments section. If you’re sincere, learn about Islam. And anyone with even a single brain cell could tell from all the religions Islam is by far the most logical, factual, preserved, and miraculous. But if you’re here just to play games then you’re just wasting your time if you think that’s gonna slow us down.

    • @m.m.a.1489
      @m.m.a.1489 9 місяців тому +20

      JazaqAllahu Khair 🤲🏽

    • @cyberWarrior7519
      @cyberWarrior7519 9 місяців тому +24

      Yes but many people got the wrong idea that you are saying “you can’t force your wife or daughters”
      Which is false, not only you can, if you fear allah you won’t let them leave the house without hijab, anyone who disagrees doesn’t know about islam

    • @shrayz.
      @shrayz. 9 місяців тому +12

      Pfff! None sense! Okay, then let's do the same thing for “Zina”. Let’s our daughter be free about it. Let's not force her; instead, let's allow her to explore while we explain Allah's word and guide her towards closeness to Allah. Once we've delivered all of Allah's teachings, we can assess what she might have missed. But let's not overlook the obligations (farz); they're non-negotiable

    • @rojaktar3509
      @rojaktar3509 9 місяців тому +6

      Well said 😂 mashallah. If a daughter/sister is taught or educated as well as guided in terms of deen & embraces it then she will naturally follow what is sunnah/fardh of her own accord inshallah

    • @rojaktar3509
      @rojaktar3509 9 місяців тому +10

      ​@@cyberWarrior7519they need to understand AND accept what is fardh or sunnah FIRST before embracing hijab-if they do so then they will do so willingly.

  • @andjazzh
    @andjazzh 8 місяців тому +1413

    I used to wear hijab since I was a kid until I went to college. then took it off for three years because I used to hate the connections of my “Muslim family” but their actions didn’t represent Islam. but then Allah guided me and showed me how beautiful Islam and I immediately wore it without hesitations. Alhamdulillah..

    • @MoinMPatel
      @MoinMPatel 8 місяців тому +15

      But you should get the photo off with you without hijaab

    • @koaaala
      @koaaala 8 місяців тому +10

      Indeed Allah find us lost and guided us❤

    • @englishisthebest1838
      @englishisthebest1838 8 місяців тому +4

      THANKS TO GOD

    • @yamuhammad7217
      @yamuhammad7217 8 місяців тому +7

      ❤That's the story of mostly girls
      ......bad feel for our society 😢

    • @_Anonymous_Participant
      @_Anonymous_Participant 8 місяців тому +13

      Never enclose your past sin to others, To be forgiven for sins we need to just close our sins from people.

  • @KaanfitnessUk
    @KaanfitnessUk 8 місяців тому +711

    Change hearts before you change their behaviour - great quote

    • @kal-px7qd
      @kal-px7qd 8 місяців тому +3

      That’s standard practice we should all be doing this

    • @radyashail2885
      @radyashail2885 8 місяців тому +1

      It's so deep

    • @ahmadashraf9448
      @ahmadashraf9448 8 місяців тому

      Yes the impact me deeply as I did just like he said, demanding people doing the 'right' thing immediately.
      And I always fail.
      I'm sad and definitely regrets it.
      However, I grateful I found this advice and I hope to never forget this.

    • @DursameenZehra-hk7ov
      @DursameenZehra-hk7ov 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Usman-ys9tw
      You didn't get it bruh

    • @SaeedTowfik
      @SaeedTowfik 7 місяців тому

      Yeah I agree with totally ​@@Usman-ys9tw

  • @aj__love5919
    @aj__love5919 9 місяців тому +1009

    This is the best way to explain to those people who say "wear the hijab!" Look I am a hijabi and I completely understand the journey of every hijabi. Do not force anyone people, Somethings take time- it is okay. In Sha Allah lots of women will wear hijab just do not force.

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому +11

      Hijab is not true deen

    • @yishmoosa1234
      @yishmoosa1234 9 місяців тому +76

      ​​@@zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 Covering your body and being modest is a part of Deen.

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому +6

      @@yishmoosa1234 I'm boy not girl! 😂🤣

    • @99chartered
      @99chartered 9 місяців тому +11

      Tell it to the Islamic Republic of Iran- they have a different quaran LOL

    • @Sifat-y9t
      @Sifat-y9t 9 місяців тому

      Why do You guys believe in God conscious human type but not similar existence? A believe can be True or false both depending on the reality of that matter... How are you so sure that it is not a false belief which encourages you to involve in war and their are violence in Islamic world view. why do you believe so surely then?

  • @loladivinitysugarladyacademy
    @loladivinitysugarladyacademy 8 місяців тому +343

    Some days I wear it, some days I don’t. I wear it more now than ever before. It takes practice especially when nobody in my family knows I’m Muslim. Allah is helping me grow closer to Islam every day one step at a time.

    • @sajjadpasha4783
      @sajjadpasha4783 8 місяців тому +20

      May allah make it easy for you

    • @Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn
      @Youtube_user_nhvrxdhn 8 місяців тому +7

      May Allah help you to talk to your family. 🤲❤️

    • @saboorulfajr-z3z
      @saboorulfajr-z3z 8 місяців тому +5

      Oh my god Allhumdullillah you are doing great girl and every women here is proud of you❤❤💖

    • @bintebashir-c6y
      @bintebashir-c6y 7 місяців тому

      Ma Sha Allah. Start from the small

    • @bintebashir-c6y
      @bintebashir-c6y 7 місяців тому +1

      Ma Sha Allah start from small steps. Then Allah helps you. In Sha Allah

  • @sonia197171
    @sonia197171 8 місяців тому +688

    I have never forced hijab on my daughters.
    Now Alhumdulillah they started wearing themselves.
    Subhan Allah.

    • @AtifUllah-bo9de
      @AtifUllah-bo9de 8 місяців тому +9

      MA SHA ALLAH Blessed Mother 😊

    • @muneebchughtai3551
      @muneebchughtai3551 8 місяців тому +4

      Allah hu akbar

    • @RokyBhurr
      @RokyBhurr 8 місяців тому +9

      Women defend Islam is like Chicken defending KFC

    • @nurqhairunnisa2562
      @nurqhairunnisa2562 8 місяців тому

      What if that women already in their 70's but still refused to cover themselves

    • @Trep3
      @Trep3 8 місяців тому +16

      @@RokyBhurr Islam was one of the only things to give rights to women in the middle ages, you talking about women's rights in Islam is like a blind person describing the sky

  • @KLA82
    @KLA82 9 місяців тому +469

    I genuinely respect this gentleman for his explanation. He's an excellent speaker.

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +3

      Spreading Liberal interpretation of Qur'an 😂
      Of course an excellent speaker 😂

    • @anorthfacinggarden9045
      @anorthfacinggarden9045 8 місяців тому

      @@NAZionist666how many people have you converted or pushed away from the religion. Only Allah knows what is in the heart of man. Have you heard the Hadith of the man who went to the prophet asking for permission to commit Z*na?? Please learn how to the prophet s a w spread the teachings of Islam !!

    • @anorthfacinggarden9045
      @anorthfacinggarden9045 8 місяців тому

      @@NAZionist666sorry i just saw your handle says Zion.... don't bother replying

    • @anwarmamun2020
      @anwarmamun2020 8 місяців тому +18

      @@NAZionist666 Yes, some will say he is liberal and some will say others are extremist.. this is the problem with the Ummah; instead of encouraging each other, we are engaged in a slagging match!

    • @Meh_05
      @Meh_05 8 місяців тому

      "Liberal interpretation" - yet it IS true that Islam clearly prohibits forcing its rules on others. ​@@NAZionist666

  • @LAMI4H
    @LAMI4H 8 місяців тому +275

    I'm a 16 year old girl. My parents performed hajj a year ago. After the hajj, I was actually scared that they will force the hijab on me, but guess what? they didn't, not even once. They just encouraged me to wear when I'm ready and ordered that I will never take it off once I start wearing it. Because of this, I never felt pressured but an interest started to grow within me, I started to learn more and gave myself time. And here I am, about 10 months later, wearing the hijab with pride and happiness ❤ I'm eveb starting to think about Niqab! May Allah grant hidayah for all the sisters

    • @TJ-TJ
      @TJ-TJ 8 місяців тому +7

      Niqab is not obligatory. It is purely cultural.

    • @LAMI4H
      @LAMI4H 7 місяців тому +5

      @@TJ-TJ i believe it is obligatory and the evidences lead it to be obligatory tbh. It's the other way around.

    • @WaqarAhmad1.
      @WaqarAhmad1. 7 місяців тому

      Awesome 😊

    • @sobanbabbar2451
      @sobanbabbar2451 6 місяців тому

      Aameen ALLAHumma aameen

    • @EVERYDAYQURAN1921
      @EVERYDAYQURAN1921 5 місяців тому

      There is a confusion about hijab.if I say hijab means a womans or girls hide everything by a hijab. First thing you hide your face this is the first thing where shaitan enter and the 2nd thing an eyes these are attractive after the face. so cover all the things and if you need to go college or market the hijab is your protection

  • @z.m5637
    @z.m5637 8 місяців тому +233

    I love how you emphasize that is not easy for a woman. Thank you! People and concretely men critizise us without understanding what is going on inside of out hearts, and how deep we are working to do things in the right way. May Allah guide and forgive all of us.

    • @MahmmadzaidLakhani
      @MahmmadzaidLakhani 8 місяців тому

      I am trying to understand why is it so hard? Like genuinely what are the difficulties

    • @staypatient2816
      @staypatient2816 8 місяців тому

      How is it hard? 😅

    • @abbasabdeali3239
      @abbasabdeali3239 8 місяців тому

      ​​​​@@MahmmadzaidLakhani lackk of interestt in deen and learning the truth of Quranmajeedd.....to battle ignorance with lightt of deen isn't easyy.

    • @ssofu9984
      @ssofu9984 8 місяців тому +38

      As men are created in the way to look at the beauty and struggle to not to look at. Women struggle not to reveal their beauty the same way.

    • @AyanKhan-ge4fp
      @AyanKhan-ge4fp 8 місяців тому

      ​@@MahmmadzaidLakhaniI think if man would have to do the same perhaps they would understand it or something.

  • @minaamk9821
    @minaamk9821 7 місяців тому +119

    The worst part about enforcing hijab is that the men aren't enforced to not to look...

    • @manalblack9626
      @manalblack9626 6 місяців тому +11

      Exactly!!

    • @hazelmint6671
      @hazelmint6671 6 місяців тому +11

      True. Growing up most boys never bothered to look away (they rather stared)

    • @tafis007
      @tafis007 5 місяців тому

      How do you do that 😂

    • @BrilliantHandle
      @BrilliantHandle 4 місяці тому

      @@tafis007by being a mature adult and not acting like an animal. Why do you blame women for your own behavior? Are you an animal?

    • @tafis007
      @tafis007 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Rafat_Fatima How is lowering gaze going to be enforced? Blindfolding men 😂

  • @HackerPULSE90
    @HackerPULSE90 9 місяців тому +74

    Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba:
    `Aisha used to say: "When (the Verse): "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms," was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their heads and faces with those cut pieces of cloth."
    Sahih al-Bukhari 4759

    •  3 місяці тому

      Put this "hadith" in ur butt and get covered yourself.

  • @mowmitamehjabin6401
    @mowmitamehjabin6401 3 місяці тому +6

    Mashallah. Wonderful lecture. More people in our society need to focus on this aspect. Islam is a peaceful religion. People make it so complicated

  • @aminabashir7545
    @aminabashir7545 8 місяців тому +35

    You explain according to the mental level of a person......appreciateable Allah bless you

  • @ultufaitu9060
    @ultufaitu9060 9 місяців тому +25

    Brilliant answer sir. I am very satisfied. May allah give you more knowledge to spread deen.

  • @AnamLodi
    @AnamLodi 8 місяців тому +35

    "How do you put them inside somebody's heart.. not just on their head" 2:13

    • @OkokokRosepetal
      @OkokokRosepetal 8 місяців тому +3

      by teaching them the importance and value and meaning behind the reason why we are supposed to wear, we need to peacefully explain to them, make sure they understand and accept it by heart before wearing it, not just go to them and SAY WEAR IT BECAUSE ALLAH SAID TO DO SO,
      Islam teaches us that we must question things that don't make sense to us until they finally make sense to us, otherwise its useless to have good acts but still doubts in hearts

    • @tytiw516
      @tytiw516 8 місяців тому

      Learn the basic thing about creed. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him taught creed around 13 years in Mecca. Just look into Makkiyah verses in the Quran, there's no single ayat talks about commands and prohibitions.

    • @misbahhabib8866
      @misbahhabib8866 4 місяці тому

      U Can’t. Hearts are in Allah’s hands. Just do your part by giving information

  • @sadafjasminekhan5311
    @sadafjasminekhan5311 8 місяців тому +80

    Agree
    In subcont if a girl wears hijab she is considerd a good girl in all aspects and the one who doesnt , is considerd a bad one in all aspects i.e people judge a woman by her appearence .
    May ur words reach to our subcont islamic preachers .

    • @nabilaharoon449
      @nabilaharoon449 4 місяці тому

      That's true

    • @Virgin69-n8s
      @Virgin69-n8s Місяць тому

      She's bad if she doesn't cover.

    • @shiismg
      @shiismg Місяць тому

      ​@@Virgin69-n8sNo you are bad for thinking so

  • @dwiantikaoktarini4149
    @dwiantikaoktarini4149 8 місяців тому +13

    Wow we really need more this type of guru in Islam… this type of guru make islam easy to reach for the one who not believers

    • @OkokokRosepetal
      @OkokokRosepetal 8 місяців тому

      yeah, and because many other people are not good at explaining about Islam, so there are so many false stereotypes about Islam in Non muslim communities..
      we need more people like Nouman Ali Kahn, May Allh bless him in Jannatul Firdous

  • @tsh.k113
    @tsh.k113 8 місяців тому +34

    I converted to Islam just because of interest in Islam and no one forced me - not the Family of my husband not he himself. I just started reading the holy Quran and later learned to pray. It felt like detoxing because it was like something inside me was fighting against praying like a muslim, or even Reading the holy book, and sometimes I still need to force myself to pray especially when I am tired but I try my best.
    Maybe I would not have converted and instead turned my back to this beautiful Religion if someone had pushed me. Unfortinately I am not wearing a headscarf because of the society I live in and my family is Christian, they are not quite happy about my choice but accept it. My hijab is just like waering no make up, waering wide shirts and wearing a braid when I go oitside.
    I am glad I found tgis video, it makes me feel a little bit better about this hijab issue.

    • @mumin9436
      @mumin9436 8 місяців тому +1

      God knows ur intentions . u dont have to worry. which country are u from if i may ask ?

    • @tsh.k113
      @tsh.k113 8 місяців тому

      ​@@mumin9436 Germany

    • @rimelouardighi8368
      @rimelouardighi8368 4 місяці тому

      Sister i advice you to take it step by step. Obey Allah because he's the most wise. May Allah make it easy for you.

    • @tsh.k113
      @tsh.k113 4 місяці тому

      @@rimelouardighi8368 inshallah

  • @Sarah_Alen
    @Sarah_Alen 3 місяці тому +3

    This guy is a living miracle. Praying that one day I will be strong enough to do that decision and have my hijab on.

  • @Tanzil2000
    @Tanzil2000 9 місяців тому +92

    I always find a very logical and trustworthy explanation of very critical matters on Deen by Ustadh Noman, Jazak Allahu Khair👍👍👍

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +3

      😂😂He said "Let them take time"
      Million dollar Question comes up , HOW MUCH ?
      1 year ? 10 years? 50 years ?
      Or 70 years ?😂

    • @staypatient2816
      @staypatient2816 8 місяців тому

      @@NAZionist666exactly lol.
      These woman in comments must be thinking, it would be like 50 years or when they are death time is near 😂
      That’s not how it works lol. Allah says submit your soul to the commands of Allah.
      And since you claim that it’s hard for you, can’t wear it, your iman or knowledge isn’t much, then get educated and know why you should wear hijab.
      It takes no less than 1 year to know all that, if you need more time sure take it. But when your education on it is done, then submit yourself to Allah and wear the hijab even if it’s hard.

    • @user-pf5bw9zd4z
      @user-pf5bw9zd4z 8 місяців тому

      @@NAZionist666as long as it takes you to understand everything in Islam comes with faith and own will not force

    • @Trep3
      @Trep3 8 місяців тому

      @@NAZionist666 as long as it takes, you can't force them to wear it, in the end only Allah decides, they can only be guided if Allah wills, you should do what you can but do not force them, that will just make it harder for no reason

    • @Majid-mf2ii
      @Majid-mf2ii 8 місяців тому +2

      ​@@NAZionist666their hijab is not our responsibility. Our responsibility is just remind them what's right and what's wrong. There is no need to force them
      "By the (passage of) time! Surely humanity is in (grave) loss, except those who have faith, do good, and urge each other to the truth, and urge each other to perseverance"
      - Quran surah Al-Asr

  • @lastworlddeer
    @lastworlddeer 9 місяців тому +31

    Learned something new today! Subahan allah!

  • @DianaCharles360
    @DianaCharles360 9 місяців тому +21

    Ustdh s explanation is just perfect. For ive seen girls who re foeced by their families to put hijabs on...nnd when their famiky members aren't around they would remove that. Kinda that hijab was jsut to obey their parents not for Almighty and we alll shall consider the fact...that what we actually need is the fear of Allah in our hearts, in their hearts....we need imaan. We have to train thwm so they look for the acceptance by almoghty . Not of people (parents)....
    Hope ot helps
    Baarakallah u li wa lakum
    Lots of prayers for ustaadh ❤

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +1

      ☪️HAD PARENTS 🗿🗿🔥

    • @malikboudissa2657
      @malikboudissa2657 8 місяців тому +2

      They should make them wear it but explain why in a beautiful way attention is most addictive thing for a woman dificult to give it up later and Allah knows best

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 8 місяців тому

      @@malikboudissa2657 has nothing to do with addiction. It's men like you who say stupid stuff like that, that makes women not want to wear hijab.

  • @zarinakhokhar9423
    @zarinakhokhar9423 8 місяців тому +45

    Ameen...🤲🏼🤲🏼......i wish the Muslim men would understand such things and refrain from imposing... Its a definite journey for us all. 🤲🏼

  • @everydaypaper
    @everydaypaper 8 місяців тому +8

    I can listen to this a hundred times, it never gets old

  • @Hadith_.hub0
    @Hadith_.hub0 8 місяців тому +3

    Mashallah, this video has truly inspired me to strengthen my faith. Jazakallah khair to the creator!

  • @shamimmukadam9859
    @shamimmukadam9859 8 місяців тому +13

    Absolutely true what Ustad Norman said. Let the person beautify her heart with Islam before forcing her to wear the hijab. She must want to do that for herself, and not because she was forced to do that. Allah looks at your heart and good character first. ❤❤❤

  • @ayeshahn1838
    @ayeshahn1838 9 місяців тому +6

    Subhanallah! Very beautifully explained. May Allah make it easy to practice Islam. Aameen.

  • @kmzakaria
    @kmzakaria 9 місяців тому +9

    In the same Sura (An Nur) Allah talks about obedience to Him and His Messenger:
    اِنَّمَا كَانَ قَوۡلَ الۡمُؤۡمِنِيۡنَ اِذَا دُعُوۡۤا اِلَى اللّٰهِ وَرَسُوۡلِهٖ لِيَحۡكُمَ بَيۡنَهُمۡ اَنۡ يَّقُوۡلُوۡا سَمِعۡنَا وَاَطَعۡنَا​ؕ وَاُولٰٓـئِكَ هُمُ الۡمُفۡلِحُوۡنَ‏ 
    (24:51) When those that believe are called to Allah and His Messenger in order that he (that is, the Messenger) may judge their disputes among them, nothing becomes them but to say: "We hear and we obey." Such shall attain true success.
    وَمَنۡ يُّطِعِ اللّٰهَ وَرَسُوۡلَهٗ وَيَخۡشَ اللّٰهَ وَيَتَّقۡهِ فَاُولٰٓـئِكَ هُمُ الۡفَآئِزُوۡنَ‏ 
    (24:52) Those who obey Allah and His Messenger and fear Him and avoid disobeying Him: such, indeed, shall triumph.
    How about Sura Ahzab where Allah states the following:
    وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤۡمِنٍ وَّلَا مُؤۡمِنَةٍ اِذَا قَضَى اللّٰهُ وَرَسُوۡلُهٗۤ اَمۡرًا اَنۡ يَّكُوۡنَ لَهُمُ الۡخِيَرَةُ مِنۡ اَمۡرِهِمۡ ؕ وَمَنۡ يَّعۡصِ اللّٰهَ وَرَسُوۡلَهٗ فَقَدۡ ضَلَّ ضَلٰلًا مُّبِيۡنًا‏ 
    (33:36) It does not behove a believer, male or female, that when Allah and His Messenger have decided an affair they should exercise their choice. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has strayed to manifest error.
    May Allah guide us all and bless us with the true understanding of his deen. Ameen

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому

      But i hate to marrying hijabi women! 😣

    • @tanzeelamushtaq4888
      @tanzeelamushtaq4888 9 місяців тому +2

      Thank you, in whole comment section I was looking for someone to comment on this.
      Salah and forbidding alcohol did not come immediately either. Can the same concept apply to this as well?

    • @queenlarteephart9248
      @queenlarteephart9248 8 місяців тому

      He was only trying to peach patient

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 Місяць тому

      ​@@tanzeelamushtaq4888The quran has never mentioned hair as being specifically a woman's aura or awrah

  • @beawesomeee
    @beawesomeee 2 місяці тому +3

    i am going start to wearing hijab.
    But i think i need sometime to start and never stop. ( As i am already stuffering from mental health issues and my anxiety killing what if something bad happens then i will not wear it... and all....)
    But i know i need sometime and I will keep going and mantaining.
    i love my creator and respect his every rules i wanna follow it... ❤.
    I wish may Allah help me and give me time to wear it.

  • @unknownranger250
    @unknownranger250 9 місяців тому +3

    Powerful words, everytime i listen to your talks, it just puts things into prospective. I was always forced to wear hijab, never knew why i was wearing it, i was about 8-9 years old no clue, high-school came, i took it off , most girls and women around me have all removed hijab, most forced after marriage or just wore it for “show”.. May Allah guide us all Ameen and give us the taufeeq

  • @kazutokirigaya6930
    @kazutokirigaya6930 7 місяців тому +2

    3:00 this is very veautiful said. I was living my entire life ignorant. Ignorant in the way that I didnt follow the rules of Islam like praying 5 times a day, even though I claimed to be Muslim. Right now, ever since last Ramadan, I feel that my iman is stremgthened and my connection to Allah as well. My opinion on praying has gradually changed and I didnt need anyone to tell me to pray but god. When people told me to pray back then I didnt really listen to them. No that my iman is stronger I wanted to start again on my one, without anyoone telling me that. When you really believe in god, then everything else comes from itself. And rules are no longer considered restrictions, but blessings of Allahm He gave us the chance to enter paradise and it is so easy actually.

  • @Shemul-BD
    @Shemul-BD 6 місяців тому +4

    ALLAH Changed Hearts Way Before He Changed Behavior 🥺
    Most Powerful Sentence I Heard in This Month.

  • @mehbubaproma9973
    @mehbubaproma9973 День тому

    Intelligence level!... It’s a beautiful blessing of Allah. He is truly blessed. May Allah give all of us this blessing.Ameen.

  • @MeryemHMa
    @MeryemHMa 8 місяців тому +3

    Oh wooooow Subhan’Allah this is the BEST reminders I’ve heard since long. So true dear Ustzda and our beloved brother in Islam

  • @Abd.Allah_D.Bockler
    @Abd.Allah_D.Bockler 4 місяці тому +1

    This is a very good video for understanding Islam. Short video, but much meaning.

  • @shelly181
    @shelly181 8 місяців тому +30

    Subhanallah he’s right, every woman has a unique journey, as parents we should make a lot of duas for our daughters

  • @ayeshaarnab9619
    @ayeshaarnab9619 9 місяців тому +60

    Yes it is a nice explanation. Because look at what happened in saudia arabia. It was made an obligation for even non muslims to cover themselves and when suddenly the obligation was lifted off so did the hijab you want your sisters to develop the love for Allah and in sha Allah wearing hijab will not feel that difficult.

    • @BashaerB-h2c
      @BashaerB-h2c 9 місяців тому +21

      As a woman living in Saudi Arabia, the most women now who don’t wear hijab anymore are the ones who have been forced. I know many woman who their family wasn’t strict and allowed them to choose hijab didn’t take it off when it became a trend to do so. NO human wants to feel like they are forced to do something especially when it comes to faith. Yes, it’s haram but people have to be convinced this is the right thing to do in their hearts before it reflects on their appearance.

    • @cyberWarrior7519
      @cyberWarrior7519 9 місяців тому +1

      @@BashaerB-h2c still
      First you make them love the hijab, if that didn’t work then enforcing it is the only left option

    • @cyberWarrior7519
      @cyberWarrior7519 9 місяців тому +2

      @@BashaerB-h2c don’t make fatwa yourself, the majority of ulamaa2 agree that a husband and a father must enforce the hijab on his family members else he will also take sin for every strand of hair seen by a non mehrem

    • @cyberWarrior7519
      @cyberWarrior7519 9 місяців тому

      @@BashaerB-h2c still it will prevent fitnah between men and women
      Lets say they took it off when you are not looking??
      The answer is, you have done your part, its now her’s

    • @maystqrr
      @maystqrr 9 місяців тому +3

      @@cyberWarrior7519 Allah has stated that "وَ لَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَيٰ وَ إِنْ تَدْعُ مُثْقَلَةٌ إِلَيٰ حِمْلِهَا لَا يُحْمَلْ مِنْهُ شَيْءٌ وَ لَوْ كَانَ ذَا قُرْبَيٰ" which translates into "Nor can a bearer of burdens bear another's burdens if one heavily laden should call another to (bear) his load. Not the least portion of it can be carried (by the other). Even though he be nearly related"

  • @Class5Moriyam51
    @Class5Moriyam51 9 місяців тому +4

    Oh God!You are the best.my parents always force me to wear hijab from my early age but i always envvy the stylish clothes of others .they dont allow me to take time.i just wear hijab in their fear

    • @unknownranger250
      @unknownranger250 9 місяців тому +1

      there is another talk by Nauman A Khan where he talks about the parents having this auto connection with Allah where we as children “fear” it… i too wore hijab out of fear of my parents but it wasnt the right way.

    • @cyberWarrior7519
      @cyberWarrior7519 9 місяців тому

      Your parents did their part, even if you were forced, which is the right thing if you didn’t want to do it
      Why don’t you fear your creator and simply love it

    • @bloxinaron3803
      @bloxinaron3803 8 місяців тому +2

      @@cyberWarrior7519she wasn’t given the time to fear her creator first.. and she was still a child she didn’t understand everything yet, so how can you ask that?

    • @bloxinaron3803
      @bloxinaron3803 8 місяців тому

      And why force? Why not teach her how important it is to wear hijab first? Is forcing her to wear it overnight and making her hate hijab more important than letting her slowly love it and hold on to it forever?

  • @JaneM-r9n
    @JaneM-r9n 8 місяців тому +2

    Jazakallah khairan, brother. I am a revert Muslim just last year. I live in a place where very very few are muslims and there is a huge divide between Christians and the Muslim minority. Everyone in my family is a christian. Much as I want to wear a hijab, I know it is not time. Insha'Allah that time will come soon.

  • @extraordinary.72218
    @extraordinary.72218 9 місяців тому +52

    May your words reach to those so called Indian and Pakistani Islamic preachers
    Excellent explanation, Ma Sha Allah ✨💐 jazakallah Khair

  • @manchu-qu9mw
    @manchu-qu9mw 4 місяці тому +1

    Very logical sequence. Get the deen solid into the heart and not forced upon the head hard, then putting the hijab will follow up without coercion but willingness.

  • @aak6067
    @aak6067 8 місяців тому +3

    Very true....We as community have lost depth on Quranic teachings and caught ourselves in rituals and customs...forgetting essence is soul not materialisticbody that needs purity...Purity comes from within and never can be forced upon....

  • @hzr3in
    @hzr3in 4 місяці тому +2

    My mom is a hijabi and my dad is the best muslim role model I’ve ever encountered. Yet, he never even once told me nor suphanallah forced me to wear hijab. I’m 18 years old and he wants me to wear the hijab whenever I feel the most close to Allah swt and to my deen. I think the reason why so many sisters are wanting to take off their beautiful hijabs is that they weren’t really ready to wear it at the first place. I want to wear it so much, May Allah makes it easier for me and all my sisters who are living in a non-muslim country InshaAllah. 🙏 great video.

  • @huh1279
    @huh1279 7 місяців тому +4

    As a woman who has been looked down upon because of not wearing hijaab my imaan being questioned my knowledge being dismissed faced discrimination in a group of people who wear hijab where someone not wearing is assumed that they don't even fulfill the 5 pillars of islam and don't read quran ... Trust me it creates an aversion and please be kind and polite when approaching, don't just tell woman to wear it saying it's obligatory if it bothers you so much and you're genuinely concerned for her, gift her one (granting her access to one, go buy one for her she's more likely to try it) and pray to Allah for her guidance. It will happen when Allah wills , have patience and be kind. Don't be arrogant for the hidyah Allah gave you , it can be taken away too.

  • @schoolschool1227
    @schoolschool1227 19 днів тому

    Thank you , you make me cry 😢 , I hope we live in a community that doesn't have judgement

  • @ilyasmuhammad5231
    @ilyasmuhammad5231 9 місяців тому +17

    I don't know how to explain it but I was about 16 to 17 when I started to cover my head, and now after knowing by this video,I am feeling so overwhelming and contentful and I am surprised and it's such an amazing feeling to get to l know that your RABB your ALLAH literally knows every single thing about you and HE also knows when we are ready. ALLAH indeed is amazing and beyond us........

    • @Justice_Dignity
      @Justice_Dignity 8 місяців тому +1

      The only problem all along is 'The lack of islamic Knowledge'.
      If you have knowledge and know that Allah is aware of your sacrifice and every decision you make for the sake of pleasing him and obeying him.
      You would feel better about wearing it.
      Allah loves you.
      Muslim lacks knowledge.
      Some are just born as Muslim and they just received what you can do and cannot do.
      They don't even understand their connection between Allah.
      My explanation is not good but i simply want to say 'Islamic Knowledge is SO IMPORTANT!'

    • @TahreemIlyas-
      @TahreemIlyas- 7 місяців тому +1

      Oh you're right sissi😁

  • @FearlessMuslimah
    @FearlessMuslimah Місяць тому +1

    Alhumdolillah love my hijab 🧕 so proud to be an ambassador for this amazing beautiful wonderful life transforming religion. Remember dear sisters, hijab is your crown! ❤️👑

  • @Malik_Sajad
    @Malik_Sajad 8 місяців тому +4

    This is an excellent advise for failed parents and Allah swt knows best.

  • @najatalsayed4336
    @najatalsayed4336 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this video. I feel closeness to Allah all the time. This is what I’m after. May Allah guide me always.

  • @sanaa.3216
    @sanaa.3216 9 місяців тому +59

    Hes so right i was abused and harassed into wearing hijab. I hated it so much i cried for months. Every time i saw a hijabi i thought they were stupid and i hated seeing them. But alhamdulillah i wore it by my own choice a few months ago.
    Im still not okay with all the abuse i went through just for a scarf. Being name called and considered a worthless object if i didnt wear one. May Allah SWT punish my abuser for all the pain and sleepless night they put me through

    • @ashfaquekhan_2329
      @ashfaquekhan_2329 9 місяців тому +1

      There is contradiction in your comments
      Think before you comment
      Sometimes you thanks and regret at once
      Leave Islam and go west

    • @wash2361
      @wash2361 8 місяців тому +24

      @@ashfaquekhan_2329Why would you say that to her? Are you a servant of the devil?

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +5

      Respect for the PARENTS 🗿🗿
      You h@ted hijab , because you were influenced by the content u consume from movies and dramas.
      And friend circle.
      Alhamdulillah you are now on the Right path.

    • @sanaa.3216
      @sanaa.3216 8 місяців тому

      @@NAZionist6661. I never said it was my parents
      2. The difference between you and the feminist western liberal blablabla is that at least those people have basic human decency and empathy. They don’t side with an abuser vs you who applauses an abuser
      “Let there be no compulsion in religion,” [2:256]

    • @sanaa.3216
      @sanaa.3216 8 місяців тому

      ⁠@@ashfaquekhan_2329sometimes you think*

  • @enlightenedbeliever5610
    @enlightenedbeliever5610 8 місяців тому +1

    So true ❤ MashaaAllah. The best gift we can give our children is the love of Islam. Everything else good will come, inShaaAllah 🤲

  • @Tighnariiloverr
    @Tighnariiloverr 8 місяців тому +5

    Yeah i completely agree, why every people can't mind their own business like it is their decision not yours

  • @aminatasanyang8376
    @aminatasanyang8376 8 місяців тому +1

    faith grows.... is the connection with Allah that motivates one to put the hijab on and hear it properly. this makes so much sense.

  • @lyraaquila2188
    @lyraaquila2188 3 місяці тому +4

    Daughter dresses how mother dresses. You want your daughter to take hijab simply put it on and she will follow In Shaa Allah

  • @nafisatoyshi7902
    @nafisatoyshi7902 Місяць тому +2

    I agree with this video. There used to be lots of girls in the school whose parents kind of forced them hijabs. They would come to school wearing the hijab but the moment they enter the school they took their hijabs off in the staircase. It's like they are wearing their hijab just to avoid the nagging of their parents instead feeling closer to Allah. So it's better to open their hearts, give them reasons why Allah imposed these rules and how Allah loves us much more than we think. May Allah guide us ameen.

  • @jamilatukdi6280
    @jamilatukdi6280 8 місяців тому +3

    I agree with you don't force let it come with depths of heart

  • @Nobody_114
    @Nobody_114 8 місяців тому +1

    Masha-ALLAH so true. For 13 years, Rasulullah (SAW) preached only Towheed in Mecca before anything else. Can we muslims ever have such patience as Rasulullah (SAW)?

  • @anonnamilly7909
    @anonnamilly7909 8 місяців тому +30

    No one ever forced me to put Hijab on. Now I am Hijabi, I need my Muslim identity. Alhamdulillah

    • @muneebchughtai3551
      @muneebchughtai3551 8 місяців тому

      Alhamdulilah sister may Allah protect you and ur iman

    • @RokyBhurr
      @RokyBhurr 8 місяців тому

      Women defend Islam is like Chicken 🐔 Defending KFC 😮

    • @abdullahmansoor5161
      @abdullahmansoor5161 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@RokyBhurr Islam is the only religion to give women their rights

    • @selver1386
      @selver1386 28 днів тому +1

      @@RokyBhurr Alhamdullilah Im a muslim woman and I get all my rights from Islam❤, whether you like to hear it or not

  • @moniqueharris1804
    @moniqueharris1804 7 місяців тому +1

    This is so beautiful. Sabr, time, allah knows it's not easy

  • @lubmthr
    @lubmthr 8 місяців тому +3

    Wearing hijab is also not just on the head. From my perspective, it is the representation of modesty. Which includes attitude, speech and ofcorse attire. I think this is why teaching the purpose of hijab is crucial. As it will strengthen their connection to the deen and will really construct the character of a person and more importantly they will be the face of a muslimah. And I believe will also be a cause of da'wah.
    But my sincere advice to parents. Don't delay teaching your kids about the importance of hijab. We never know when is the time of our passing or their passing. May Allah guide us all to the correct path.

  • @aishasartaj2985
    @aishasartaj2985 4 місяці тому +1

    Mashallah the way you explain things❤ Only if people could understand this. And give time, patience and support to their women! May Allah SWT help us all become better muslims, Ameen

  • @HajerDesigns
    @HajerDesigns 3 місяці тому +4

    When I reverted to Islam in 2001, I immediately began wearing the hijab. A few years later, I lost my job and faced significant challenges in finding new employment at just 30 years old. Despite my solid experience as a Legal Secretary, opportunities were scarce, and I grew increasingly worried as I was the sole breadwinner for my family back home.
    At the time, I was living in a country where Islam was the dominant religion. One day, a foreign recruiter reached out to me and candidly explained that my hijab was a barrier to my job prospects. He said, "When they see your resume, they're eager to meet you, but that enthusiasm fades as soon as you walk in for the interview."
    I shared this with my husband, who reminded me that wearing the hijab was my personal choice and a matter between me and Allah, who is understanding. He consulted his parents, who advised me to consider removing the hijab and seek forgiveness. I removed it. The following month, I signed a job offer.
    I promised myself that once I regained control over my finances and achieved financial independence, I would wear the hijab again-this time, free from the scrutiny and discrimination of the job market.

  • @dezz238
    @dezz238 9 місяців тому +5

    Amen to this! I was forced into hijab before nikah and taking my shahada. Wore it by force for 7 years then after 9/11, I removed it and never put it back on and don’t plan to again.

    • @LadyVintage83
      @LadyVintage83 9 місяців тому +4

      So sad 😢

    • @paulinakalumbu5141
      @paulinakalumbu5141 9 місяців тому +7

      Do it for the sake of Allah
      Since it’s a commandment

    • @zerta0075
      @zerta0075 7 місяців тому

      So you are not a muslim now? That's reasonable but please research about Islam, don't disbelieve or hate on Islam just because of your past. Also you can't prove 9/11 was caused by muslims(not talking about if they claimed to be muslims)as you don't know what was in the hearts of those people

    • @zerta0075
      @zerta0075 7 місяців тому +1

      what I mean in the last sentence is 9/11 doesn't have any realtion with Islam

  • @Mesmerising_Eyes
    @Mesmerising_Eyes 8 місяців тому +4

    JazakAllahu Khayran❤
    Love and prayers from Europe.

  • @saud4159
    @saud4159 8 місяців тому +2

    Absolutely right . But one must realise that Hijab is mandatory just like Salah . The video could be misinterpreted by those justify it by saying its ok to not wear it . May Allah guide us all

    • @Kai_28
      @Kai_28 3 місяці тому

      Pehle apni nazar jhukao, western gadgets or west ki banai koi bhi cheez use mat kro. Don’t you realize k west ‘kuffar’ hen or wo hmare dost nhi bn skte kbhi. Phr p*n sites mat dekho, jnhen dkhne men Pakistan top p pohnch jata h hr dusre saal.
      Ye sb krne k baad, repeat with me, ‘ Mujhe Sirf Apni Qabar ka Hisab Dena H’.

  • @Gilsbunny6
    @Gilsbunny6 8 місяців тому +8

    To tell the truth i hated the hijab when i was growing up because my mother and father would always say "you either put the hijab on or go show urself" it made me feel like i was a whore in their eyes if i wanted to NOT wear the hijab when going outside. But as time grew i came to realize that the thinking my father and mother have is 80% "culture" and not much islamic....had they known that forcing their daughters to be the way they want me to is actually much more damaging then "islamic".
    I thank allah for showing me video's like these. It means im not alone 😊

    • @abrarhaque8481
      @abrarhaque8481 7 місяців тому +1

      So when the prophet (saw) said that "those women who go outside, wearing perfumes and letting other man to inhale the fragrance, they are like prostitutes(metaphorically)." so the prophet was wrong cz it was "cultural". And Don't come and say that there are women who go outside without hijab, flowing their hair to let other underserved men to see, but don't wear perfumes.

  • @ArT_LiKeR
    @ArT_LiKeR 9 місяців тому +1

    Yess u are right, beautiful explanation...
    I'm proud to be an hijabi,
    some years before i didn't like wearing hijab,but i wore for no reason,i didn't know it's purpose ,but these some years i realised the purpose and need of hijab,and now i like to wear hijab,no one forcing me,And i feel so closeness between me and Allah,may be this is my time, Alhamdulillah...i am getting more closer to him,i am knowing more about Quran... finding peace and comfort by these... Alhamdulillah...
    Some of us don't wear hijab properly,they wear only bcz of their parents forcing,i am agree with u, don't force them,they should find the need of it,and purpose,then they don't hate it...and will get the rewards for it and also love of Allah,we can only pray for them for Allah guiding them on right path...
    I'm a born muslim,but now realised that,all PPL should find what is islam...no separation between them.. Allah don't give paradise only for the reason of born muslim... some are not find...may Allah bless them and all...
    May Allah bless us all and guide on the right path 🤲

  • @rajibalqees947
    @rajibalqees947 9 місяців тому +22

    Jazakallahu khairan

  • @masudalishaikh
    @masudalishaikh 9 місяців тому +2

    I hav respect for this man
    Remember islam completed over years
    In the last speech of nabi karim swa said haven't i conveyed complete deen amongst you
    That means revelation have stopped nothing will come afte, that's where islam is completed. Yeah it's takes time to follow islam in every aspect in starting.But Allah will guide through

  • @Sir-Ahmad-Khan
    @Sir-Ahmad-Khan 8 місяців тому +4

    Quran says to cover yourself properly that does not mean that one have to wear a hijab and Burqa only, in the old times it was Hoods that women used to wear and they cover the body and head and leave space for air as well and as compared to Burqa and Hijab it also looks cool, this hood can be seen in old Midlevel Movies and even Christian woman used to wear it.

    • @mariaclaudettecaluban5286
      @mariaclaudettecaluban5286 6 місяців тому +3

      They didn't have umbrellas then and they wore it to protect themselves from the elements like the wind, the heat and cold. Why this obsession about the hijab when what was recommended was to cover the breasts and wear modest clothing. If you live in a hot and humid country it is not a question of religion but comfortable clothing. The hair was not even mentioned, only the breast and to lengthen one's clothing..

    • @Sir-Ahmad-Khan
      @Sir-Ahmad-Khan 6 місяців тому

      @@mariaclaudettecaluban5286 wrong, no one expose them selves where their is excessive heat otherwise you will get a nasty tan and may also hurt your skin. Take an example of Arab countries. And in Quran it is clearly mentioned to cover the head.

    • @Dragon_Knight-x9r
      @Dragon_Knight-x9r 13 днів тому

      ​@@mariaclaudettecaluban5286you're so right. I can't believe people think they can determine the faith of a person based on a piece of cloth. A non-hijabi who prays and follows the pillars of Islam has wayyy more faith than a hijab who doesn't. It's so frustrating that they try to downplay a woman merely because she doesn't wear the hijab. Like, the hijab isn't even in the five pillars of Islam...

  • @happinessismommade_
    @happinessismommade_ 8 місяців тому +2

    The most beautiful way of explaining

  • @abcd-pp3ps
    @abcd-pp3ps 6 місяців тому +3

    "we should change the secular thoughts in society before they change us"

  • @hamzakhan-vf3to
    @hamzakhan-vf3to 2 місяці тому

    When i was kid my arabic ustadji put the love for hijab in me.. In my family no one forced me.. Alhamdulillah I myself started wearing it when i reached teenage not out of fear but in the love of Allah Subahanahu wa ta'ala.. .

  • @saysubhanAllah-qs5fm
    @saysubhanAllah-qs5fm 9 місяців тому +32

    I know it is tempting to be harsh on non-hijabi sisters because there is something wrong going on, but it is necessary to acknowledge their feelings if you really want them to wear it at all.
    I like ustadh's point. I'm a hijabi woman and I used to seem very condescending towards other sisters who may not wear it properly or not wear it at all, but you just have to get rid of that mindset and put yourself in their shoes. It is so hard to escape the fashion, makeup and Beauty rat-race, and overcome the racism and islamophobia at the same time, especially when you are just entering Islam.
    The sweetest words are required, as it is easy to lose their attention if you are just forcing them and shouting at them. Sure, some girls are just defiant and do not care about their obligations, but not all of them are. Sometimes, you don't have a clue what is going on in their head.

    • @hilmyakatsuki1665
      @hilmyakatsuki1665 9 місяців тому

      They shouldn't also try to change their view and mindset?
      Or let them lose and inspire other women?

    • @saysubhanAllah-qs5fm
      @saysubhanAllah-qs5fm 9 місяців тому

      @@hilmyakatsuki1665 I do think that so many girls are being defiant and just not listening because they are so lured by liberalism and this false idea of being a “free,” “strong” woman who flaunts herself, and they think more revealing = more attractive. But the approach some people take to advise women does not help, they just get defensive and resort to feminist arguments.
      For example, if a man commented on a hijabi’s post, “Fear Allah sister, remove your makeup, stop threading your eyebrows and wear hijab properly or don’t wear it at all!” I’m pretty sure they would most likely respond with anger, “Don’t judge me!” and have inner hatred towards Islam and Muslims. Of course, tabarruj is wrong but she is not going to learn it from a mean, barking dog, as she just notices the barking, not the words.
      If someone wants women to love Islam and its pure teachings, they need to exhibit them as more loving and kind than the hypocritical liberals who have distracted them from what is good for them.
      Of course they should change their mindset, but the way you facilitate it makes a diffference :)

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +1

      First of all -
      Liberal muslims are not our sisters or brothers !
      They are منافق
      Second - The guy in this video is no Sheikh ul islam.
      We don't listen to interpretation of a R∆ndom guy speaking about our deen twisting according to his logic.

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому

      First of All !
      Liberal muslims aren't our sisters and brothers !
      They're منافق

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +1

      "Non-hijabi sisters" ??😂
      They're not sisters fyi
      They are Libëräls

  • @sdgarden4310
    @sdgarden4310 7 місяців тому +2

    Its a command from Allah, so muslims will not have any choice to wear hijab or not. If she accept Islam She must accept it as whole. Not accepting one part and leaving other part for later. Because now the deen has been completed. Wallahu aùlam.

  • @sabaawan97
    @sabaawan97 8 місяців тому +5

    Good narration: covering your head differentiates you from others and brings respect in the eyes of those who encounter you

  • @CometoSuccess-zar10
    @CometoSuccess-zar10 8 місяців тому

    Mutala-e-Seerat | Episode: 3 | Maulana Wahiduddin Khan #islamic #audiobook #urdu

  • @bilalification
    @bilalification 8 місяців тому +6

    Why don’t you tell when Allah commanded women have to cover themselves from head to toe. That time Hazrat Fatima (A.S) started weeping with fear of what if she dies and someone will see her body or a single hair which she did not wanted. She asked ladies to show her how they will take to grave and requested them to bring a coffin which was covered from all sides and they did demo to her (that they will take her to grave in that coffin). She smiled and said now Im relieved that no one will be able to see me even after my death.

    • @Kai_28
      @Kai_28 3 місяці тому

      Now women need locks on their coffins as they are not safe even after being dead. I don’t know when will society focus on boys’ upbringing rather than targeting girls.

  • @Ksmb00
    @Ksmb00 8 місяців тому +1

    Dear sisters ❤ don't wait to be "almost perfect" to wear hijab. It helps (a lot) to focus on the best things, to make better choices. Al hamdoulilah ❤ May Allah bless you !!! And don't forget Home and Modesty (in behavior) are the FIRST hijab❤.

  • @shabnafathwimak.1450
    @shabnafathwimak.1450 5 місяців тому +11

    Being a revert to Islam, while reading Surat Noor, Ayat 31 & 32, I started wearing Hijab and Hijab is thee Best gift for a woman bringing a Glory, a Beauty, a Divine look creating an answer attachment with Allahu Stronger, Stronger and Stronger!
    Alhamdulillah!

  • @JemimaRuby29
    @JemimaRuby29 6 місяців тому

    This Needs to go viral seriously

  • @tanzeelamushtaq4888
    @tanzeelamushtaq4888 9 місяців тому +6

    Rules on salah being fardh and alcohol being haram did not come with our prophet's first revelation either. Can the same concept be applied ro all fardh rulings?

    • @farahdeeba-bm5vx
      @farahdeeba-bm5vx 8 місяців тому +3

      Hijab by force is meaningless, even Salah by force is meaningless. The point is that you should educate people do not force them.

    • @Rawan-nm7fx
      @Rawan-nm7fx 8 місяців тому +3

      my uncles used to get hit when they were younger for not praying and guess what happened? they pretended to pray to avoid getting hit.
      forcing someone into something doesnt work and will never work

  • @InaamAli-v8l
    @InaamAli-v8l 4 місяці тому

    Salute to ones who doesn't hesitate regarding Hijab

  • @HackerPULSE90
    @HackerPULSE90 9 місяців тому +13

    Narrated `Aisha:
    The wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) used to go to Al-Manasi, a vast open place (near Baqi` at Medina) to answer the call of nature at night. `Umar used to say to the Prophet (ﷺ) "Let your wives be veiled," but Allah's Apostle did not do so. One night Sauda bint Zam`a the wife of the Prophet (ﷺ) went out at `Isha' time and she was a tall lady. `Umar addressed her and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda." He said so, as he desired eagerly that the verses of Al-Hijab (the observing of veils by the Muslim women) may be revealed. So Allah revealed the verses of "Al-Hijab" (A complete body cover excluding the eyes).
    Sahih al-Bukhari 146

    • @khadijabenassou8996
      @khadijabenassou8996 8 місяців тому

      Don't lie. Don't be a mouchrik.
      Following pagan ahadith books claiming it's from
      Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all is SHIRK SHIRK SHIRK
      The Qoraan is FULLY DETAILED by Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all The Most Just The Most Loving The Most Merciful The Omnicient...
      It's enough. It's Time
      Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty Will INTERVENE.
      Woe to the mouchrekeen.
      This is a promise from
      Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all.
      Don't believe me...just watch

    • @HackerPULSE90
      @HackerPULSE90 8 місяців тому

      @@khadijabenassou8996 what lie?

    • @kal-px7qd
      @kal-px7qd 8 місяців тому +1

      You made the complete body cover up yourself.
      Don’t do this to people

  • @nescincredible4822
    @nescincredible4822 3 місяці тому

    Thank you! This gave a great knowledge of how I was trying to force a lot of knowledge into my brain, feels really bad

  • @asamser284
    @asamser284 9 місяців тому +5

    Exactly right. Jaisa desh waisa bhesh.. Do not force to wear hijab. Even why black? Multicolor

    • @NAZionist666
      @NAZionist666 8 місяців тому +1

      Libëräls ko yeh video seh justification mil gaya 😂
      Hijab Tarq karne ka !
      Noman bhi is Ghuna meh shareek hoga

    • @Kai_28
      @Kai_28 3 місяці тому

      @@NAZionist666 tm to ese ro rhe ho hr comment p jaise liberals ka hisab tm ne dena h 🤣

  • @teaoftuty
    @teaoftuty 8 місяців тому

    Absolutely brother👍
    May Allah swt bless our girls n the forthcoming generations to follow it wholeheartedly

  • @mohsinakhan1511
    @mohsinakhan1511 9 місяців тому +4

    Best explanation. Can some one please explain to my father in law who force us to cook in kitchen with hijaab regardless of all season . Alhamdulillah I have understanding husband who protects me and never force me to wear hijaab and advise me to wear hijaab on my own will. ❤❤

    • @roshanfatima2348
      @roshanfatima2348 9 місяців тому +2

      First of all, cooking for in laws is not an obligation on Muslim women. It is just an assimilated culture from those around, mainly in the Indian subcontinent. If he is not comfortable with you not wearing the hijab in the kitchen, let him stay separately. That is better than staying with you and forcing you.

    • @mariaclaudettecaluban5286
      @mariaclaudettecaluban5286 9 місяців тому

      The men should wear the hijab with full hair and see how hot it can get. The khimars worn were for fashion not for modesty and they were used to attract men as they were trailing behind their heads. They were told instead to cover their breasts because it was a more important part to be covered. Can you imagine the veil trailing with the breasts showing?

  • @fatmaalbeity9097
    @fatmaalbeity9097 8 місяців тому

    Mashaallah ustadh is so unique in understanding Quran and the teachings of Islam he's the best of all the young shuyukh from the western world his interpretations of Quran and hadith is different from others very easy to understand and he has the good understanding of how some muslims mix cultures and religions teachings this is the mistake many muslims make especially from Asian countries ..

  • @mahjabeen-jo5nk
    @mahjabeen-jo5nk 9 місяців тому +5

    I am completely hajibi girl no any one force me i do hajibi only for Allah not for showing others i start hajibi in 15

    • @cyberWarrior7519
      @cyberWarrior7519 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes but actually your parents shouldn’t allow you not to wear it if they didn’t want to also share your sins

  • @naziakhanum9937
    @naziakhanum9937 7 місяців тому

    Very true first imaan comes and then everything will fall in place

  • @Maham447
    @Maham447 9 місяців тому +12

    This is soo true, my mother forced me to wear hijab at 10 so does one of my male teacher .
    He was like now you're grown up you're not allowed to show your hair,
    while i was at that age a kid really wanna style my hair but as my mom said so i have to put on
    when i turn 14 she forced me to wear a gown everytime i go out and i feel so insecure about it my self esteem goes down. I had no freedom of expression and clothing.
    At 16 i started studying islam on my own and i started wearing hijab at weddings which everyone made fun of (its strange in my culture to wore hijab at weddings)
    at 19 i am DONE with everything about hijab (i'm still a hijabee i love that. I can't take it off) but the reason of starting at first is traumatizing (i wish that i would be able to choose hijab for me, not forced to )

  • @iiiiiiaaaandidiwinnnneo
    @iiiiiiaaaandidiwinnnneo 2 місяці тому

    This is a very useful and an important video. For this generation definitely. Yk in previous generations parents could order their children to do something and children would have done it without questioning it. But today it's different. Parents barely can force anything on their children. Whoever does it ends up making things worse. My mom and dad always were religious and always was affectionate to me and my brother. They always have been friendly to us. My parents never forced me to follow the islam . Rather from childhood they always talked about Allah and his mercy , about prophets how great they were. How islam solves everything. You should always first teach your children islam . Make them know about it and understand it. Yeah i agree i started doing hijab a bit late. But guess what my parents never ordered me to do it. My parents always said My dear daughter it'd be better if yoh wear hijab . Women's beauty is precious. Nor everyone deserves to see you. And there are some parents who scream, yell and force , beat their children to wear hijab. Without having a deep and logical conversation with them about why it is important. I've seen many girls in my class who's parents forced them everything. They wear whole burkha with hand gloves and all. That's really good . Yes .But yk what as soon as they step out of home they take those gloves off. Remove the mask and reveal faces. It's not that they can't show hands or face. But they all have the tendency to hide things from their families. Many of them are involved in haram relationships. The disturbing thing is they also get intimate with their bfs and also cheated them , did multiple relationships and all. Go to the far away places to hang around with friends without telling their parents. Without forcing people to follow islam make them understand it at first place. If someone who follows hijab from the age of 12 because tht were forced and deep down their parents indirectly made them hate islam. And they think it would have been better if they weren't born Muslims. That's really dangerous. Rather than if someone wears hijab after 2/3, years later but from the depth of her heart she loves it and she understands the concept of it , she feels proud to be a Muslim. Remember Believing is the first pillar of Islam. Everything starts with the mind. It's the truth. You can never force anything on anyone. It doesn't end well. Everything should come from heart. Always Pray to allah that he gives your children guidance and blesses them.

  • @Raja555dy
    @Raja555dy 9 місяців тому +10

    Don't force please

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому

      I really hate hijab because it's not ture like pray salah and faster in Ramadan

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому

      Hijab can't fardh because some people said hijab is choice not forcing

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому

      I know why people force the hijab just because everyone men have eyes can't see her long hair or jinn attract long hair in night

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому

      But i was make dua if she will not go to hell for not wearing hijab, there is no compulsion in Islam

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 9 місяців тому

      But i don't believe showing hair is haram in public because i believe Muslim women showing long hair in public is halal

  • @labulabuland
    @labulabuland 7 місяців тому

    ▪️The ayah about hijab reveals after 16 years of revelation.
    ▪️2:10 How were those rule given?
    How do u put them inside somebody's heart?
    ▪️Forcing 2:30
    -Allah changed hearts way before He changed behaviour. 2:55
    3:05 Priority =
    1. Getting their heart reconnecting to Allah.
    Goodness to your family 3:43
    ....
    Follow the rules of Islam.
    When iman come, everything else comes.
    ✅N

  • @JamiisonG
    @JamiisonG 3 місяці тому

    I needed the part where getting them to practice Islam ☪️ isn’t the top priority!! I need this!

  • @saud4159
    @saud4159 8 місяців тому +9

    This word ' forced ' is so misused . If someone asks yout to wear hijab . He/dhe is just conveying the message of Islam . It doesnt mean they are forcing you

    • @faiqchaudhry1849
      @faiqchaudhry1849 5 місяців тому +1

      For Example
      Drinking Alcohal was also prohibited by Islam after many years,
      So it means if we are stopping some one from drinking Alcohol is forceful act. And we give them time for years to stop by heart. And if we say them to stop then he will never stop.
      What a logic

    • @Kai_28
      @Kai_28 3 місяці тому

      @@faiqchaudhry1849 tmhen dusron ka hisab nhi dena, islye apni qabar ki fkr kro. Chill!

    • @s.hjawed9247
      @s.hjawed9247 3 місяці тому

      Alcohol is gunah e kabira biggest sins wheres not wearing hijab biggest sin?

    • @BlankMind_666
      @BlankMind_666 23 дні тому

      ​@@s.hjawed9247yes it is a major sin
      Men not having a beard while he can grow it is also a major sin

    • @BlankMind_666
      @BlankMind_666 23 дні тому

      ​@@Kai_28esa hota toh khilafat e na hota

  • @Akulion1
    @Akulion1 16 днів тому

    Thanks for this great point. I also wanted to add to the fact that there is no compulsion in religion. So rather than force anyone we should help them understand and leave the decison to them. In the end it is better that if a person truly believes and they adopt a practice versus having to wear something they felt coerced to wear. It would only lead to more rebillious attitudes. So we have to educate our people and remember that there is no compulsion in religion and respect their decsions ❤

  • @wkwk9367
    @wkwk9367 8 місяців тому +10

    Hijab is an obligation from the creator just as prayer, fasting, giving Zakat and so on. This message could easily be misinterpreted by those looking to justify not wearing hijab. Islam is a packaged deal and comes with some obligations towards our creator and Hijab is one of those obligations. May Allah SWT guide us all and make us strong willed and steadfast. Our first goal as Muslims should be to obey our creator and not cave to societal pressures.

    • @rosefabfab280
      @rosefabfab280 8 місяців тому +4

      He is saying you cannot force anyone to wear it, unless they do it from their heart

    • @laylaali5977
      @laylaali5977 8 місяців тому

      Hijab is nothing to do with dressing what you talking about is the headscarf and it’s not act of worship set your priorities straight it’s a Wahhabi crap

    • @mackbedunduk1305
      @mackbedunduk1305 6 місяців тому

      Your opinion and interpretation that "hijab is an obligation"..is confronted by another verse in alqur'an.

    • @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389
      @zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 4 місяці тому

      ​@@mackbedunduk1305But you should used website on chrome or Google

    • @bluecat7684
      @bluecat7684 3 місяці тому +1

      This is the fundamental issue, everything here may be technically true but can so easily be used to justify their actions rather than try to improve themselves

  • @lademonhunter
    @lademonhunter 6 днів тому

    As a revert I felt I didn’t deserve to be Muslim for many months until I repent and cried to Allah during
    Tahajjud which I didn’t know the name
    Of at the time and asked if saying my shahada was correct and it
    Felt confirmed. I wore my hijab a whole week at home to get used to it like clothing meanwhile I gave away bags and bags of clothes I knew did not serve me in this transition of life. Alhamdulillah