How to Deal with Opposite Gender? - Nouman Ali Khan

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ •

  • @edu.33
    @edu.33 7 років тому +5055

    I'm not muslim but this is knowledge, it's interesting and that drop of humour makes it unsurpassable

    • @edu.33
      @edu.33 7 років тому +125

      he did have and does...and he guided me... :')

    • @junikutv1534
      @junikutv1534 7 років тому +9

      hugh mongus Hahah Chill im confused now. U a muslim now?

    • @kubrasth2760
      @kubrasth2760 7 років тому +48

      yes it is. Cos, He is talking about general morals which is the same in every social circumstances, how people should interact with each other. These are basics in Islam :)

    • @edu.33
      @edu.33 7 років тому +13

      lol my eglish on late night was really bad haha...don't go to bed very late guys

    • @edu.33
      @edu.33 7 років тому +8

      Lol when did I lie?? Do you want evidence so you can shut up and deceive yourself about anything else then? /watch?v=uo6xrl6-r4E

  • @hamzaahmed3066
    @hamzaahmed3066 7 років тому +4286

    wow he's so right sometimes I stare and even flirt but then by the time it's over, I'm like what I'm doing I'm supposed to be Muslim. May Allah swt forgive and guide us

    • @supersam1181
      @supersam1181 7 років тому +87

      Hamza Ahmed that is so true I do the same istagfurrallah

    • @uhhmmkay6095
      @uhhmmkay6095 7 років тому +76

      Hamza Ahmed maybe try wearing more religious clothes it would stop you from saying certain things . I'd say start with something simple and that specific item will always be on your mind when doing bad . Even if it's as simple as a bracelet that has allahs name on it , or a necklace . Or the tuspahs ( idk how to spell it lol but one of those bead things ) or you can go the whole mile and wear a cap or Islamic clothes .

    • @muskanfatima5860
      @muskanfatima5860 6 років тому +12

      Hamza Ahmed too true....jazakallah

    • @husseomg1494
      @husseomg1494 6 років тому +5

      Hamza Ahmed looll I know by ur name ur a muslim falboi

    • @whooopsiesssssssss9770
      @whooopsiesssssssss9770 6 років тому +14

      Hamza Ahmed all the boys named Hamza r always flirty i think its somthing to do wiv ur name bcz i have seen boys named Hamza at my school nd all of thm r always flirting wiv evry girl i m not sain ur like em but it might have something to do wiv ur name nd if u wanna stop flirting i suggest u should ignore girls even if they come up to u nd recite aytul kursi or dua or something it will help trust me i have done it

  • @notlemon3819
    @notlemon3819 6 років тому +2882

    "lower your gaze, make just enough eye-contact to get your point across" this saved me so much. i'm just so shy with dudes even, older or younger and i really have trouble making eye-contact with them but i always forced myself to because i don't want to come off as rude omg i love islam

    • @mams2847
      @mams2847 5 років тому +86

      I do too 💜 and I relate to you. You're an Army too, there's no one better in this family that can understand ourselves than we do each other.

    • @anormalfangirl7408
      @anormalfangirl7408 5 років тому +60

      Lol this happened with me and my male co workers. Im so damn awkward. Sometimes i stuttered and tried so hard not to make an eye contact for a long time

    • @thegloriousquran1208
      @thegloriousquran1208 5 років тому +29

      A good advice think before you say really focus and research what you want to say save different words repeat them even talk to your self about the same topic in different words read a book as loudly as fast and as clearly as you can the stuttering will go away and you will be shocked the improvement is gonna be in days.
      And get a confidence source what ever it is, i get mine from boxing and staring opponents right in the eyes you will really feel like your self but high class as heck and confident, peace

    • @lazycat0066
      @lazycat0066 5 років тому +9

      Glad im not alone 😂

    • @uzmafatima2704
      @uzmafatima2704 5 років тому +3

      @HandsOffStalker bts' r Illuminati I don't know that if they are or bighit is but they HV l shown so many Illuminati signs in their MV's

  • @rosejack8792
    @rosejack8792 5 років тому +4592

    When she said “ salamuqalekum”to the boy and he cried 😂

    • @kucingmerah7563
      @kucingmerah7563 5 років тому +106

      😂😂😂With stern voice

    • @ChangedNames
      @ChangedNames 4 роки тому +291

      The dude had planned their whole life up, from their first child to watching their grandchildren grow up,
      But then she shredded his dream by a single word

    • @fiza10
      @fiza10 4 роки тому +12

      😅

    • @seonshenlihan1047
      @seonshenlihan1047 4 роки тому +10

      Haha 🤣😂

    • @shreksyq
      @shreksyq 4 роки тому +9

      😂😂

  • @sakhofatimata4128
    @sakhofatimata4128 7 років тому +3460

    The sister section behind the glass made my day lmao

    • @alebamunir7852
      @alebamunir7852 7 років тому +28

      sakho fatimata that was so funny!😂😂😂

    • @OmarMohamed-qx1vq
      @OmarMohamed-qx1vq 5 років тому +6

      whats wrong with that?

    • @libannoor746
      @libannoor746 5 років тому +5

      @@OmarMohamed-qx1vq ah serous tone i see my brother mo giggling

    • @QuranwithRain
      @QuranwithRain 5 років тому +27

      Omar Mohamed they’re behind the glass like they’re hamsters or somethin 😂😂😂

    • @tigerking6908
      @tigerking6908 5 років тому +4

      Wait there where class back then

  • @looneyshorthair.6152
    @looneyshorthair.6152 4 роки тому +1848

    Girl: *Walks up to a boy* .
    Girl: *In a deep and serious voice* Assalamualaikum
    Boy: *Starts sobbing*
    Me: Lmao 😂

  • @LetUsSee001
    @LetUsSee001 7 років тому +2260

    When you go to a non-Muslim school, you come off as very weird if you act all serious with a dude. But oh well, deen over dunya. HOWEVER, it is also coming to the point where Muslims dub me as an outcast for staying away from guys & dating. This is wrong. Astagfurillah. May Allah guide us Aameen.
    I still talk to guys about school & work, but no touching or being giggly...

    • @aminat7490
      @aminat7490 7 років тому +115

      LetUsSee001 May Allah make it easy for you (and us)

    • @imaniman626
      @imaniman626 7 років тому +81

      LetUsSee001 in syaa Allah sister naruto

    • @saarahkhan5051
      @saarahkhan5051 7 років тому +53

      LetUsSee001 as you said sister, Deen over dunya

    • @blueberrycupcake6999
      @blueberrycupcake6999 6 років тому +10

      LetUsSee001 I'm in the same situation except the last bit you said don't speak to them at all and like you said deen over dunya

    • @ifratjahan7050
      @ifratjahan7050 6 років тому +22

      I like ur profile🍥

  • @nurao-o3985
    @nurao-o3985 6 років тому +1653

    This cartoons is what I love about this channel 😊

  • @mamasprincess1024
    @mamasprincess1024 5 років тому +609

    So this is what we call "Hallal Confidence"...😂😂😂👍👍👍🇵🇰❤🇵🇰

    • @BudgetCarnivore
      @BudgetCarnivore 4 роки тому +4

      Papa ki pari in my country 😁😂😂😂🇮🇳

    • @mamasprincess1024
      @mamasprincess1024 4 роки тому +2

      @@BudgetCarnivore bro kiya matlab? 🇵🇰♥️🇮🇳👍😊

    • @hades1907
      @hades1907 4 роки тому +1

      Loved your name

    • @mamasprincess1024
      @mamasprincess1024 4 роки тому +2

      @@hades1907 thanks a lot bro😊🥰
      Btw ur name is very motivating...

    • @hades1907
      @hades1907 4 роки тому +1

      @@mamasprincess1024 i am girl sis

  • @ifarhan826
    @ifarhan826 6 років тому +645

    Sheikh got sense of humor I love that 😂. But I love serious Sheikh also. What am I even saying I love everyone. Subhanallah.

  • @Anoldaccount988
    @Anoldaccount988 5 років тому +2317

    🤣🤣🤣 the giggle he did for the ladies had me screaming 🤣 “ahehehehe hajshsks”

    • @what3040
      @what3040 5 років тому +31

      Girl you gorgeous 😍 MashAllah may Allah swt protect you from the evil eye 💕 ameen

    • @what3040
      @what3040 5 років тому +14

      @Mehmet Dogan but brother I have never said that the one is more prettier than the other, everyone is beautiful inside and out. And I'm thankful that Allah created us Alhamdullilah!

    • @imannadira4156
      @imannadira4156 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂 it was really funny

    • @kingme714
      @kingme714 5 років тому +1

      @Mehmet Dogan *Allah

    • @darthvader6072
      @darthvader6072 4 роки тому

      @Itz Nuhii WTH weebs are everywhere

  • @iqahnh
    @iqahnh 6 років тому +855

    Ive always been so strict to boys that they find me intimidating and sometimes when i see my friends being all friendly with boys i feel a little jealous and think why cant i be as friendly? Ive always felt like i needed to be more friendly but now that ive seen this video, alhamdulillah i dont feel like that anymore. I can keep being the cold intimidating me 😈😌

    • @rosalin24
      @rosalin24 5 років тому +38

      Me too
      Totally relate

    • @rj4510
      @rj4510 4 роки тому +19

      Omg same

    • @wolverdep4739
      @wolverdep4739 4 роки тому +48

      why do you think they felt that being stern and not having male "friends" are non girl-like (in a way)? Imo, I think they lack the attention and love from their father so they went to other non-mahram males to get that feeling.

    • @seonshenlihan1047
      @seonshenlihan1047 4 роки тому +8

      Good luck ma'am! and wish luck for my exams please XD

    • @KS-cq2pt
      @KS-cq2pt 4 роки тому +65

      Wolver Dëp honestly when a girl has a strained relationship with her father or when he has always been abusive towards her or her mother It causes a lot of psychological damage and sometimes they aren’t even aware that their attention seeking behavior and flirting with nonmahrams is really to fill a void in their heart that should have been filled with the love and affection of her father. My heart really feels for those girls who are so misfortunate. We ask Allah that he fills their hearts with His love and light instead of filling their hearts with the love of guys that will be careless with it or cause her to sin.

  • @AMA-fo7yw
    @AMA-fo7yw 6 років тому +356

    The part with the guy crying over how seriously the lady said 'Salaam Alaikum' was pretty hilarious.

  • @user-rq1ut2zm1k
    @user-rq1ut2zm1k 7 років тому +589

    This is funny and educational at the same time 😂😂 I love this

    • @levinaperzhilla9778
      @levinaperzhilla9778 6 років тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/9NsQp2tx4YzBobydjXPUHg.htmlabout subscribe please, help growing the page for the sake of Allah

    • @sofhanjack3887
      @sofhanjack3887 2 роки тому

      Exactly

  • @FreeQuranEducation
    @FreeQuranEducation  7 років тому +434

    We are on a Quest to make Islamic Education Universal, free, State of the art and available to every single human being. BUT We need your help. We dont have hundreds of thousands of dollars needed to properly reach out to all audiences once the content has been made, so please do remember to share the video if you benefit from it. Jazakum Allah Khayrun.

    • @QuranRecitations65894
      @QuranRecitations65894 7 років тому +4

      FreeQuranEducation
      اسّلام عليكم ورحمت الله وبركاته
      For beautiful and blessed Quran recitations check out my channel - Like, comment subscribe, and share!!

    • @zahraamohsen1409
      @zahraamohsen1409 7 років тому +1

      yeah i don't think marriage is mandatory

    • @edu.33
      @edu.33 7 років тому +4

      I added spanish subtitles. I really worked on it, I don't think they can be better

    • @asmahkhan6723
      @asmahkhan6723 7 років тому

      Which channel is it?

    • @xPikaRawr
      @xPikaRawr 7 років тому +2

      I looove the illustrations soo cute!

  • @Jule-mm4dr
    @Jule-mm4dr 4 роки тому +260

    Do not forget about our brothers and sisters who are attracted to the same gender. May Allah give them strength to resist the passion and praise Him.

    • @Luna.311
      @Luna.311 4 роки тому +8

      Ameen

    • @ChadEricCartman
      @ChadEricCartman 3 роки тому +3

      you mean faggots?

    • @Jule-mm4dr
      @Jule-mm4dr 3 роки тому +42

      @@ChadEricCartman Do not use badeords. Do not underestimate others. You're not a Muslim if your tongue or your arms cause trouble to someone else.

    • @MonoXZY
      @MonoXZY 3 роки тому +15

      @@Jule-mm4dr No, just because of sin it doesn’t mean he’s not Muslim. He’s still Muslim

    • @raeesadhorat2170
      @raeesadhorat2170 3 роки тому

      AMEEN UQHTI!!

  • @dewimasyithoh5730
    @dewimasyithoh5730 7 років тому +672

    thanks for giving us illustration in each lesson. it's makes me more understanding. barokallah! :)

    • @QuranRecitations65894
      @QuranRecitations65894 7 років тому +3

      Dewi Masyithoh
      اسّلام عليكم ورحمت الله وبركاته
      For beautiful and blessed Quran recitations check out my channel - Like, comment subscribe, and share!!

    • @manofsteel447
      @manofsteel447 6 років тому +2

      Assalamu alikum sister. Do me a favour please remove your DP(profile picture) and let it be blank or upload something else. Strangera may or may not see this in bad intention. So make it as an advice and try to remove it. Assalamu alikum

    • @ocean3802
      @ocean3802 6 років тому +2

      More about islam But you can have a 'cool' picture of yourself as your profile picture?

    • @sheershomustafa2631
      @sheershomustafa2631 6 років тому +2

      there are always gonna be people who'll interpret stuff with the wrong intention , but because of that we can't change the way we are... And it is FULLY HER CHOICE whether she wants a DP :) #Peace

    • @levinaperzhilla9778
      @levinaperzhilla9778 6 років тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/9NsQp2tx4YzBobydjXPUHg.htmlabout subscribe please

  • @Shannyrulz4eva
    @Shannyrulz4eva 7 років тому +882

    If you have brothers or a father, anytime you talk to a non-mahram, mentally pretend your brother is standing with you.. If it's hard for you to not act girly lol 😂 it works... I guess with brothers, act like your sisters or mother is with you.. not sure if this will work for everyone e but if you think it may help, won't hurt to try

    • @levinaperzhilla9778
      @levinaperzhilla9778 6 років тому +2

      ua-cam.com/channels/9NsQp2tx4YzBobydjXPUHg.htmlabout subscribe please, help growing the page for the sake of Allah

    • @asmaeelmadkouki1437
      @asmaeelmadkouki1437 6 років тому +22

      shanny94 sha that’s a really good one 😂thx

    • @Maysha-
      @Maysha- 6 років тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sudaiskhan8453
      @sudaiskhan8453 6 років тому +5

      Thanks cool idea

    • @newmi8120
      @newmi8120 6 років тому +5

      Its really work 😂😂😂

  • @allaboutuful
    @allaboutuful 4 роки тому +108

    I used to be tough and serious to the opposite sex .. but then i changed. Bcs my friends told me that i was too extreme. And yes, now i realize that i shouldn't change. Thank you Ustadz.

    • @eman8711
      @eman8711 3 роки тому +10

      Me too 🖐️. My friends thought i was insensitive. Now i better get back to my old self👀

    • @onlylookingahead2030
      @onlylookingahead2030 3 роки тому +4

      Same I've always been like that and imma keep being that way✌

    • @ks9875
      @ks9875 2 роки тому +2

      Same… i got too friendly too

    • @Rahat_98
      @Rahat_98 2 роки тому +1

      Mee Too

    • @Mnm-c4x
      @Mnm-c4x 4 місяці тому

      don't listen to those friends. My friend also said that and i thought may be i should change my way but then I saw how she was getting into troubles for the overly sweet behaviour.

  • @FirstLast-ut2bk
    @FirstLast-ut2bk 4 роки тому +84

    Damn I was just practicing to get rid of my anxiety and make eye contact with people (I thought it was rude not making eye contact while talking) but this changed my entire perspective 😂. I'm still so happy and thankful that I'm Muslim

  • @anamfatima1393
    @anamfatima1393 4 роки тому +31

    This is basic girl-boy psychology explained so well. And he's right. When a woman is serious, the guy gets serious instantlym

  • @sadiqshaikh8715
    @sadiqshaikh8715 4 роки тому +48

    4:04 This made my day also I learned a lot. Nouman ali khan sure knows how to keep stuff smooth and straight forward while being hilarious😂

  • @flapyjac
    @flapyjac Рік тому +4

    he explains it in such an amazing way
    he keeps to the topic, he makes it kinda funny and still manages to get the message across

  • @yasminy.7243
    @yasminy.7243 7 років тому +187

    I have one thing to say... Some girls are smiley and giggly by nature. So they can't control it everytime... For example I am a very shy woman and because of that I become smiley... I don't think that a man will be attracted just by that...

    • @yasminy.7243
      @yasminy.7243 7 років тому +77

      Elnar Then they have a problem... They can't just think that a girl likes them just because she is giggly when she talks with somebody...Boys shouldn't interpret so much things into a girls behaviour or nature...

    • @wnmaisarah
      @wnmaisarah 7 років тому +24

      this probably sounds a bit weird but its true HAHA coming from a students of islamic school where the interaction between boys and girls are restricted. because we don't usually interact to diff gender like others do, small things that others do can affect us a bit deeper lol

    • @yasminy.7243
      @yasminy.7243 7 років тому

      Sarah M. Do you live in an Arabic country?

    • @wnmaisarah
      @wnmaisarah 7 років тому +3

      nope im from malaysia

    • @d_lee_donaa9682
      @d_lee_donaa9682 6 років тому +4

      believe me he will…

  • @superchecker234
    @superchecker234 6 років тому +23

    Wow this was, to a non believer, really helpful. I'm from Germany and I found many conversations with Muslims quiet weird, because while it is welcome to talk to the point if your not close friends. Not making eye contact whilst addressing someone (especially if formal) is considered very rude in Germany, to the point where some consider it disrespectful. Most importantly while shaking hands and introducing yourself looking away signals to most of us here a message of "I don't want to talk to you and you are unworthy of my time".

    • @minaa16mina87
      @minaa16mina87 3 роки тому +3

      Muslims aren't supposed to look away when someone is talking to you , me for example i Don't make a direct eye contact mostly bcz I'm a shy person but also to avoid the attention of man , it's like an eye contact for a millisecond hahaha

  • @_baZzy
    @_baZzy 5 років тому +382

    4:05 I kept rewatching this scene, I literally can't stop laughing.

  • @rutabatariq8096
    @rutabatariq8096 4 роки тому +31

    Guys always remember the “PPL” formula. P = Purposeful P = Public and L = Limited.

  • @zeeshankhokhar6332
    @zeeshankhokhar6332 5 років тому +22

    I love Ustaad Nauman. He explains like nobody else. Thank you.

  • @eman8711
    @eman8711 3 роки тому +5

    I seriously can't get over this video 😂💯. I'm leaving a comment here, so I get reminders .

  • @72TheKingkong
    @72TheKingkong 7 років тому +106

    so beautiful this is. exactly how people should behave . our society would be safe and sound if we followed this.

  • @alyzak.8997
    @alyzak.8997 7 років тому +314

    the giggles tho😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @worldreligion5992
    @worldreligion5992 6 років тому +153

    Such a good video thanks so much.

    • @faerie4971
      @faerie4971 3 роки тому

      Dude but what I don't understand are the creepy guys in the comments y'all can't control yourself when you see a woman ? Be nice towards her instead of getting dirty thoughts no matter what type of dress she wears.

    • @faerie4971
      @faerie4971 3 роки тому

      I think that women should wear whatever they like I agree in islam there are certain rules and the muslims can follow it but however the muslims who Don't doesn't deserve any hate and also doesn't deserve to be seen as a whore.
      A true man can and should be able to control himself the true problem is that you aren't around women who wear such reveling clothes so you feel urge to do something to people who does..... Let them have their own freedom even tho they might or might not be in the same religion they are still your sisters. Cause WE ALL ARE HUMAN and we should love and spread peace instead of hate and sex

  • @TrackingAcademy
    @TrackingAcademy 5 років тому +76

    The cartoons are so funny, girls come up to you and says 'assalam o alaikum' angrily haha. Point

  • @snowflake882
    @snowflake882 6 років тому +51

    I loved the illustrations so funny but it gets to the point good work

  • @mahadidi6142
    @mahadidi6142 4 роки тому +46

    6 ways to earn deeds after death:
    1) Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone. Each time one reads from it you gain.
    2) Donate a wheelchair to a hospital. Each time a sick person uses it you gain.
    3) Participate in building a masjid.
    4) Place a watercooler in a public space.
    5) Plant a tree. You gain whenever a person or an animal sits in it's shade or eats from it.
    6) And the easiest of all, share this message with people.

  • @ahmadarman11
    @ahmadarman11 3 роки тому +9

    "There's supposed to be a certain line of discomfort"- Perfect line if someone's trying to match the vibe.😁

  • @princesssilence2707
    @princesssilence2707 6 років тому +26

    I was looking for a lesson like this,in need for a lesson like this especially these days because I entered college.. Jazakum Allah khaira

  • @cxtlyst8318
    @cxtlyst8318 7 років тому +218

    Your videos fill my heart . A good way of presentation . Thank you and Keep your hard work . 💕

  • @hamdimohammed2541
    @hamdimohammed2541 3 роки тому +4

    'How to interact' was a really important subject yet not usually discussed, thank you for this, it shaped one big part of our life!

  • @purplemina2418
    @purplemina2418 6 років тому +105

    a guy in my class doesn't want to leave me alone he's literally flirting with me I was cold strict and direct but the guy doesn't want to understand and want to stop annoying me he even dare to ask to take off my hijab or to show him pictures of my hair I changed my place please help me I want my place back and I want peace

    • @kashhh4u
      @kashhh4u 6 років тому +56

      Tell your parents to tell his parents embarresment is key

    • @purplemina2418
      @purplemina2418 6 років тому +59

      @@kashhh4u this is what i done and the Guy left me alone

    • @Khadijahplanet
      @Khadijahplanet 5 років тому +10

      OMG ,Something similar happened to me,I was in English sitting by dudes...and one guy was like "what's under that hair" or something idk but yeah thank God you aren't in that situation anymore.

    • @ceasefire2825
      @ceasefire2825 5 років тому +12

      as a guy i can tell you he's probably the weakest lad ive heard about. just tell to the superiors so he may get proper punishment

    • @zalfadaulah4890
      @zalfadaulah4890 4 роки тому +1

      Tell him starighly

  • @bilasmukharji8041
    @bilasmukharji8041 4 роки тому +4

    Mufti Menk and Nouman Ali Khan they are two gems❤

  • @lows0409
    @lows0409 8 місяців тому +1

    Alhamdulillah, allah subahanahu wata'ala had blessed me with extremely shy personality, and i'll do my best to low my gaze.

  • @gulzadabayani7227
    @gulzadabayani7227 4 роки тому +5

    God bless Ustad Nouman Ali Khan and his family. He has completely changed my life for good. I will always be thankful to him and many other fellow Ustads.

  • @wajeehatabassum9527
    @wajeehatabassum9527 5 років тому +7

    This is probably the best animated channel I've ever see.......Masha Allah I got to know about this!!!!
    Thanks to the creators for such quality videos and quality lessons.......
    In hope to see more!!!!

  • @rorealmughraby8928
    @rorealmughraby8928 7 років тому +35

    الحمد لله
    الذي جمعني بقنواتكم في الوقت الذي لا املك فيه احد لينصحني
    لقد طلبت من الله ان يرشدني
    اخواتي ادعو الله
    الدعاء حبل النجاة من هذه الدنيا
    الله يحفظ امة محمد ❤

    • @Polyglot97
      @Polyglot97 5 років тому

      هههممم، نعم ،يا أختي

  • @tash005
    @tash005 3 роки тому +3

    An eye opening line "jazakallahu khair baba you are great".

  • @dearmalaysia
    @dearmalaysia 4 роки тому +6

    A good point about the giggling. I always get giggly out of nerves or because I don't know how to respond, but I know I should try to avoid that. Jazakallah khair for the tips and the funny cartoons.

  • @bushrabukhsh8643
    @bushrabukhsh8643 6 років тому +1

    I never get bored listening to this scholar..even my interest to learn more about Islam boosts up

  • @hasnainjamshed7533
    @hasnainjamshed7533 4 роки тому +8

    MashaAllah the best channel to learn more about Islam and I love this very very good videos JazakAllah for so many information.

  • @DramaticRascal
    @DramaticRascal 5 років тому +2

    This is so relevant to me personally. I'm an extremely giggly, happy-go-lucky piece of sunshine to EVERYONE. women, men, mahrams and non-mahrams alike. I admit that it attracts a lot of unwanted attention, but i'm afraid that if I force myself not to smile,etc. then Islam will take away a part of my identity. I will have to change who I am...

  • @niha2214
    @niha2214 3 роки тому +4

    He's such a great influence plus a guider but I wanna say that his way of describing things, talking, and expression are more likely to amuse me 🙌 moreover informative, thank you, sir, 🤲

  • @shanazahr2191
    @shanazahr2191 7 років тому +1

    Alhamdulillah Rab
    no words ...
    may Allah Ta'ala give Nouman Ali khan jannatul firdous.....Ameen ya Allah

  • @rizwanasurve109
    @rizwanasurve109 4 роки тому +3

    I love this channel!
    It is more interesting than my college lectures!
    If these lecturers will teach me in college I won't mind the number of lectures they deliver!I can attend it without break👍🏻

  • @isninaaryani5483
    @isninaaryani5483 Місяць тому

    Barakallah. The way they producing this topic is so interesting and entertaining!

  • @zahra.rashid
    @zahra.rashid 7 років тому +21

    I love these videos. Thank you so much for your efforts. May Allah bless you

  • @yoyibeee5881
    @yoyibeee5881 4 роки тому +1

    بارك الله فيكم ووفقكم الله لما يحبه ويرضاه آمين من فلسطين

  • @syednoorullahshah9194
    @syednoorullahshah9194 5 років тому +4

    this is a very sensitive topic and ustad nouman does a very good job every time he explains this to the youth.

  • @anisa6744
    @anisa6744 2 роки тому

    I had this situation before Alhamdulillah I learned to look down by saying Assalamualaikum Jazakumullahu Kharyan brother to help us with our mistakes!

  • @lubnashahid2627
    @lubnashahid2627 6 років тому +14

    Too good video.Thankyou for these Islamic knowledge in an interesting way

    • @_clf0
      @_clf0 5 років тому +1

      change pic

    • @masumamiah101
      @masumamiah101 5 років тому

      زمن الغربلة Why you freak ?

  • @teekanyel5656
    @teekanyel5656 4 роки тому +2

    Is it Ustadh Nouman Ali? I just love the way he talks. His way of explanation is splendid.

    • @maryamansari8467
      @maryamansari8467 4 роки тому +1

      Yes its him ..you can recognise by his voice

  • @zadhzadh9199
    @zadhzadh9199 6 років тому +14

    Merci beaucoup pour la traduction française, elle m'a bien aidé, barak Allahu fik

  • @serenayazan52
    @serenayazan52 4 роки тому +31

    Ohh yess alot of girls need to hear this about the giggling part

  • @kinahseli1481
    @kinahseli1481 5 років тому +3

    I just found this channel, and im in love.. may Allah bless... love from Malaysia

  • @QuranwithRain
    @QuranwithRain 5 років тому +7

    If you want to get to know someone for marriage
    There’s this thing called Islamic Dating. Here’s how it works:
    1. *Have a family member in the conversation* (so the 2 people don’t say inappropriate things)
    2. *Use business like tone to ask questions to the other person*- see how compatible you are (Ex. Do they want kids? Where do they work? Etc.)
    3. *This can happen face to face or even text* BUT make sure to make it a group chat with one family member.
    Good luck! Hope this helped

  • @sadiajahanmedha2649
    @sadiajahanmedha2649 2 роки тому

    Zajakallahu Khair! It's an excellent advice for every Muslim girl! We really needed it! It's a great guide line for every Muslim girl who has to go outside everyday and has to face such situation! Again Zajakallah!

  • @Idgab
    @Idgab 4 роки тому +7

    I am trying to learn from the drawing. Man.. this helps so much, alhamdulillah.

  • @YunusAshr
    @YunusAshr 5 місяців тому +2

    You have to keep a stern voice
    Keep your conversation to the point
    There's supposed to be a certain line of discomfort
    You have to keep your eyes low, make just enough eye-contact to get your point across

  • @shaikhmuskan8975
    @shaikhmuskan8975 6 років тому +28

    mashallah...he's so funny and inspiring.

  • @leopard7890
    @leopard7890 4 роки тому +6

    god bless you , thats a really important thing in islam

  • @zanetruesdale8336
    @zanetruesdale8336 7 років тому +43

    excellent video these get better and better

  • @sweet9577
    @sweet9577 4 роки тому +4

    Ive been looking this so long, Alhamdulillah. Allah is the greatest planning.

  • @ukht_umme8656
    @ukht_umme8656 7 років тому +31

    Jazakallahu kairan Bhai. it's really good for we sister to understand how to treat non mahrum​ and especially not showing yourself or popping with the guys. Really love this concept and your hard work. Allah hum'ma barik lahu 🌹💕

    • @RahmaMohamed-ix2zn
      @RahmaMohamed-ix2zn 7 років тому

      Kawaii love Here u are again 😂

    • @ukht_umme8656
      @ukht_umme8656 7 років тому

      Rahma Mohamed hehehe 😂😂😅

    • @Zainfa4
      @Zainfa4 3 роки тому

      @@ukht_umme8656 kawwai it’s been 4 ears

  • @someone-nu8jo
    @someone-nu8jo 2 роки тому +1

    Alhamdulillah I watched it again. I keep watching it again and again. Perhaps I've Committed a sin which I shouldn’t have. I'll try my best again inshaAllah. May Allah Azzawajal help us all and make it easy for us!💗

  • @bareen1254
    @bareen1254 4 роки тому +13

    I have always been like this but my friends think I'm rude and impolite.

  • @yusranaazqidwai9158
    @yusranaazqidwai9158 4 роки тому +2

    What an interesting way to teach the guidelines.....what an outstanding animation..... thankyou so much for this content

  • @how2indonesia
    @how2indonesia 7 років тому +64

    SERIOUSL THAT GIGGLE HAHAHAHHAHA 3:19 Subhanaallah

  • @mimsum2584
    @mimsum2584 4 роки тому

    Oh so happy to see french subtitles. And happy to hear brother Nouman Ali Khan 👍👌

  • @allahissufficientforus2119
    @allahissufficientforus2119 4 роки тому +5

    Today I got know that we can have a serious conversation with non mehram if it's need😍😍..... I m so lucky to be Muslim

  • @snowflakes003
    @snowflakes003 3 роки тому +1

    These guidelines are actually making things professional, it's perfect for getting works done. I cannot believe it's my religion that is teaching these. In any formal workplace, these behaviors are considered as appropriate and professional.

  • @nimraiqbal9832
    @nimraiqbal9832 5 років тому +6

    May ALLAH guide us all.. AAMEEN

  • @gulzarahmed6998
    @gulzarahmed6998 5 років тому

    I have just started my uni.and I was much worried how should I interact with my co fellows according to Islam.and yes Islam has a thorough explanation on it.feeling much relaxed after watching this

  • @Sarah99007
    @Sarah99007 4 роки тому +6

    This chanel helped me a lot I actually do this by nature and I'm super serious with non mehrim and they think I'm a weirdo and girls always bully me saying oh so this is Haram tooo and laugh boys too do that but behind my back with other "girls" they don't have the gut to talk to me while looking at me and I'm proud of that .But belive me I try to be nice but I'm not a bullied poor girl I return the favour to the girls not the boys and now sometimes I feel conflicted do I respond to badgirls and broke their hearts defending my self or be nice and believe me I saw what they do to those who do that
    PS: I live in 99% Muslim country ironically and with my broken heart I say they laugh at every one trying to follow God path 💔

    • @qoon7689
      @qoon7689 4 роки тому

      Sarah .B
      I’d really appreciate sis,if you give me some tips on how to talk straight to the point and seriously without even smiling.
      I do have a past, not so good past. I was a extrovert. And never had any problem talking to a complete random person. I would always make that conversation friendly. I would joke around with random people.
      But that’s not Allah wants me to be.
      I really need to change. But it’s really hard, to focus😢.
      And whenever I used to go out... I always kept my head up.
      Never lowered my gaze. I find it really difficult now. I am embarrassed now. I really *need* to change.
      I would really really appreciate sister, if you’d share with me some tips and advice 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @Sarah99007
      @Sarah99007 4 роки тому

      @@qoon7689 It was always easy for me because I'm extro/introver so I switch from introvert with boys and extrovert with girls .
      My advice for you is to set a goal you know like when you're studying and you say this month i WILL FINISH THIS COURSE or when you say this month I will save money to buy this book or clothes
      YOUR GOAL would be to become a Royal they never talk to random people only to special people and people in need so whenever they talk to a person they have a very straight and good reason for exemple I don't talk to all the classmates because some of them can be bad influence so I talk to the favorite few that I really trust and apreciate and let the other to come and talk to me if they want but I will for girls keep the eye contact from time to time and average smile and only answer or keep the coversation pro (by time if this girl is good behaving near me she could become a friend) for boys I keep my head to my book or whatever I have then turn my head from time to time not eye contact though and they all respect and never talk to me with disrespect .
      I do have good friends that I consider sisters they respect me even though I talk normally with them but my first empression never go away they love my sense of humor my principes and being their for them whenever they are in need but never cross the line talking about bad things or haram things even if they say those things between them they don't near me.
      The result :
      People will look at you like you're very elegent and they will respect and help you I know some people don't care about others opinion but you should have a good reputation not only to build a great career but to honor your Now and Futur family belive me I'm talking with experience you should see my father's face when he come and a teacher or someone he know tell him how much he should be proud of me and how much they are curouis of how he raised me so well because their daugthers are giving them hard time.
      what they don't know is it's not only their raising but the girls WILL if you have the will to become better to study have a job a career a family anything you can because the girl can do every thing and she is the very first stone to build the society.
      I hope this help you remmember it doesn't mean to put your self under a rock it's just some principle to become the queen as you're now a princesse and to get more help read about our mother khadidja or aisha they were both strong yet shy women.

    • @qoon7689
      @qoon7689 4 роки тому

      Sarah .B
      Jazakallah khayr sister🥺💟🙏🏻
      Btw Do you wear niqab while going to school??

    • @Sarah99007
      @Sarah99007 4 роки тому

      Black Lives Matter you're welcome sis, I wear full hijab it look like a long dress and a hair cover that is long it cover until half of my arm they are nice though and have their own fashion .but without niqab

    • @qoon7689
      @qoon7689 4 роки тому +1

      Sarah .B
      Oh thank you sister😇

  • @sainoLibra
    @sainoLibra 4 роки тому +4

    Mashaallah
    Islam is so perfect 👌🏻

  • @ahmadahmadahmad9145
    @ahmadahmadahmad9145 7 років тому +3

    always amazing remimder ...Best Ustadh In my life Im blessed Alhamdullillah

  • @khanizhan8682
    @khanizhan8682 2 роки тому

    I accidentally found your channel.
    I'm impressed. Now I subscribed it. 👍🏻

  • @nairahamdy9992
    @nairahamdy9992 7 років тому +4

    The animation is very well done! 😃

  • @asilaabraiz4776
    @asilaabraiz4776 6 років тому +2

    NAK is the best at portraying important messages to the point yet interesting and funny ........Alhamdulillah!!!!!

  • @saquibelec208
    @saquibelec208 7 років тому +3

    Great concept
    May all help us to follow ...
    Ameen

  • @aenirrinea523
    @aenirrinea523 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this. I have a huge difficulty with making eye contact with guys, and I'm generally straightforward and serious. I've always thought there was something wrong there. It never even occurred to me that perhaps Allah SWT has been guiding me away from doing this.

  • @ayeshashaikh75
    @ayeshashaikh75 5 років тому +13

    He is funny. MashaAllah! 😂😂😂

  • @shazishaikh
    @shazishaikh 4 роки тому

    Nouman ali Khan is simply the best Islamic Scholar !

  • @dr.ebrahimeldesoky6211
    @dr.ebrahimeldesoky6211 7 років тому +201

    great video
    but sir, our sisters are putting us on the back and sit on the front 😂😢

    • @aziafdoza1243
      @aziafdoza1243 7 років тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @littleharu3895
      @littleharu3895 6 років тому +3

      Ebrahim Eldesoky 212 well in my place the brothers sit in the front while the sisters sit at the back

    • @iar6478
      @iar6478 6 років тому +13

      We sit were we like as long as its appropriate

    • @RehanaBegum-fn7vg
      @RehanaBegum-fn7vg 6 років тому +1

      😊😃

    • @levinaperzhilla9778
      @levinaperzhilla9778 6 років тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/9NsQp2tx4YzBobydjXPUHg.htmlabout subscribe please, help growing the page for the sake of Allah

  • @sazzadurrahman6933
    @sazzadurrahman6933 Рік тому

    It's supereb dear ! A much needed reminder.

  • @hajarwj9748
    @hajarwj9748 7 років тому +8

    It's such agreat video
    Jazakum Allah Khyran 😊

    • @FreeQuranEducation
      @FreeQuranEducation  7 років тому +5

      Jazakum Allah Khayrun for positive words and feedback :)

  • @ibtihel2916
    @ibtihel2916 Рік тому +1

    i'd like to say"there's supposed to be a certain line of comfort" not discomfort cuz Allah made the guidelines in order for us to be comfort and happy يُرِيدُ ٱللَّهُ أَن يُخَفِّفَ عَنكُمْ ۚ وَخُلِقَ ٱلْإِنسَٰنُ ضَعِيفًا" (النساء - 28)"

    • @fizzaateeq19
      @fizzaateeq19 11 місяців тому

      It is Haram in Islam to admire the beauty of any non mehram even if you don't have any lust of sexual desires too! Still its Haram. We aren't allowed to look at non mehrams and think that oh that girl is very beautiful or that guy is handsome even if we don't have any lust or sexual feel in our mind. Still we can't admire. It is Haram. If you want proofs, I can also show them.
      May Allah SWT guide us to the right path...

    • @ibtihel2916
      @ibtihel2916 11 місяців тому

      @@fizzaateeq19 you're right but i didn't say that adultery preliminaries are halal i said the orders are a way from Allah to make our lives easier not harder

    • @fizzaateeq19
      @fizzaateeq19 11 місяців тому +1

      @@ibtihel2916 yes yes you are right dear. I had just commented to make people aware of this thing. Most people think that it is halal to admire the beauty of a non mehram person, like she has beautiful hair, beautiful eyes etc etc and I have fallen in love with her. Or the same things that girls say for boys... This is Haram... We cannot admire the beauty of non mehrams because this is Haram in Islam just lower our gazes.... I was talking about this so that anyone who comes across my comment can read and be aware of this thing.... That what they think is halal and permissible, is not.

    • @ibtihel2916
      @ibtihel2916 11 місяців тому +1

      @@fizzaateeq19 yes mashallah you're right chastity of both heart and body is really important may Allah guide us all to such a blessing and reward you for your words thank you so much

    • @fizzaateeq19
      @fizzaateeq19 11 місяців тому +1

      @@ibtihel2916 JazakAllah, may Allah bless you dear, everyone needs to know this these days!

  • @SonjaElizabethTeal
    @SonjaElizabethTeal 6 років тому +24

    This is kinda a long comment but i just had to share with the Ummah.
    I PRAISE Allah swt for these teachings. Especially TODAY (8-3-18)... Do you know for four LONG years I have been looking exactly for the content in this video. And today, when my faith is low and I'm trying to listen to positive messages, Bam...seemingly out of nowhere, not looking for it, on JUMMAH Friday!!! Alhamdullilah!
    Subannallah
    No fifteen letter words, no entangled speech. Simple and to the point with vivid illustrations for people like me who are very visual.
    Also, this particular lesson is what I've been trying to say for four years. As a new Muslim I've had arguments with other Muslims. I ask them how they function in the world without opposite sex interaction? How can we bring non Muslims to Islam if we don't TALK TO THEM? I'm a U.S. Army Veteran and most of my interactions are with mainly men while also being the only Muslim in the situations.
    Sometimes Muslims take thing to dang far.
    Again Thank you and Jazakallahu Khairan over and over!

    • @FreeQuranEducation
      @FreeQuranEducation  6 років тому +3

      So happy to read your comment, it made our day :)
      would like to share your convert/revert story with us?your life journey and how you ended up choosing Islam? you can email it to our email id nakcollection@gmail.com as we are going to start a convert stories series soon in sha Allah using illustration and animation videos.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal 6 років тому +4

      FreeQuranEducation I would be Honored to share my story. Shukran.
      Alhamdullilah!💖💖💖

    • @chickenwingslover9456
      @chickenwingslover9456 5 років тому +2

      @Sonja Teal I'm so happy that Allah has guided u to Him :) .
      I definitely recommend listening to Ustad Nouman Ali Khan (which is the person in this video). He explains things so well and makes it really easy to understand Allah and Islam. He adds in humour too. His youtube channel is Bayyinah Institute.
      I hope u also check out Mufti Menk.
      Ps i find it so cool that ur a Veteran

  • @moonchild1547
    @moonchild1547 4 роки тому +2

    this is actually pretty good, the animation helped me understanding the meaning, Thx!!!!!

  • @shahzadhussain8606
    @shahzadhussain8606 4 роки тому +11

    Sometimes i laugh during listening to brother Nouman and my mother watches me with doubtful eyes as if i m talking to a girl or something...😁😁

  • @Untold_story19
    @Untold_story19 4 роки тому +2

    This made me smile.. JazakAllah ❤️ this is so relatable

  • @maryamr.716
    @maryamr.716 5 років тому +10

    Can we take a moment to appreciate the animation?