A note that this video was produced prior to the COVID-19 pandemic; because the section on personal space is less relevant under current circumstances, we withheld the video for a time. We hope, however, that you'll still find our advice useful, and that this section will become relevant again as things eventually return to normal. Stay safe and healthy, viewers! - Preston
Hi Preston, Great video as always. Off topic, I am wondering if the Fort Belvedere shadow stripe socks in the smallest size will fit women who wear a size 7 1/2 shoe? Thanks dear! Lisa
@@craft-o-matic2377 A small pair of Fort Belvedere socks fits men's shoe sizes 6-7.5 (US sizing), and a men's 6 fits a women's 7.5. You should be fine with a small pair of socks.
@@johnb4966 some people have immune conditions or care for someone who does and some people live in countries or regions that are still enforcing lockdowns.
@@jonahpeacock2561 here in italy, we think that it will might possible another lock down in the next weeks. Some little areas, mainly in the south, are arleady signed as red areas which they are now in lock down, so it could be possible.
When you are in a threatening situation and don’t feel secure walking with your fists clenched is a sign of physical strength and makes you appear to be a less vulnerable target .
@@MrBarnettcm i’am the size of a child nobody is intimidated by me 😂😂😵💫😵💫. It gives you a different perspective because you know the odds of you fighting your way out of a situation is limited and no I do no carry a gun 😂😂.
This is a fantastic video! Well done mate, well done. I especially appreciate your honesty with your physical attributes that can effect the way people might move or interact. Food for thought when talking to others that might have such. I have personally focused on body language for 20 years and found this video to be spot on the money, I also noticed that I walk with fists and I will now adjust my walk. Thank you again gentleman, yours sincerely CJ.
It's quite a distinguished video, but my question is, How to keep my hands while standing still or walking, I would be delighted to know. Sorry if it's wrong or weird I was just trying to be socialized...well that is what the book says 😅
I have seen David gandy standing with legs crossed so many times, I have thought this is the right way of gentleman to stand but it is a bad gesture 🤣.
The leg over leg stance can come off super feminine. I seen some guys have there leg crossed over so far, that it was disturbing. I’m sure you are correct, but I avoid this position at all costs. The rest was very informative. Thanks
My guess is that it depends on your thigh-circumference to hip-width ratio. I think a fellow with slimmer thighs and wider hips is going to be more comfortable with his legs crossed, than a guy with bulkier thighs and narrow hips. Also, the cut of your pants can really impact how you can sit comfortably too. :)
A further point about sitting with your legs crossed: remember how long your socks are. Flashing a length of hairy shin won't look good. Invest in knee-length socks for job interviews and other important occasions.
I've found that exercise and manual labour makes my movements and body language more natural, especially when walking. So to everyone who finds that they look awkward when moving around, I suggest trying to either exercise or do some heavy work in the yard or something.
I would especially recommend making sure your upper back is in shape, be it through sports, work or specific training exercises. When the upper back muscles are in shape, proper posture comes naturally. Especially archery training helped me to adopt an open posture, whereas previously I had a natural tendency to walk somewhat hunched.
As a person with autism myself, I want to say thank you for mentioning that people with autism need to find a peer to help them (if need be) on these social cues. There is one point of feedback though. People with autism follow different guidelines of social cues and that is untrainable. Mentoring would help but generalized situations often fall short on the reality for them. Its like we think we learn him to fish but instead he just got the fish to eat for that day... Just thought to chip than in as autism expert for those watching the video :)
Hello @Robert V. , I agree with you with most of what you say. I have also autism and as a young lad, I used to struggle very much with these things. However, as someone who got enough luck to have been trained and worked in the military prior to my diagnosis, I got the opportunity to be corrected on my posture and the aspects of body language dealt with in this video during that time. But true to say that more subtle cues are, unfortunately, difficult to understand... Or I understand through other things. So, anyhow, I still think that such video would be helpful for some of us. Even if we are all différent...
@Seaworth It is, though .Autism is a separate neurology which by definition affects both how we take in information and use it. Robert's commenting specifically that in situations that aren't one to one to a situation we have been taught a response to, we often do not consider them similar in the way a neurotypical person would and therefore won't apply a taught response to them. I have this issue somewhat regularly, even though I'm passable at masking. Scripting can help, but it's inauthentic and frankly stressful.
As I often say ... if you meet one person with ASD - you've met one person with autism. Everyone presents differently. There's a lot of high functioning autism (Aspergers) in my family. We can and have learned non-verbal communication, but it's conscious learning, and takes practice to get right. Having a few rules can get you started, but then there are all the exceptions, cultural differences, code switching ... these are important skills, and while not everyone can learn them, it's always worth the effort to try.
I appreciate the mentioning of disabilities and specifically autism in this video, I think it’s great that you include these things since they’re very important parts of some people’s lives (like me with ASD traits and scoliosis) !! Great video
Totally random note, but I really love the fact that you choose Zodiac for the clip of phone hand gestures...such a great movie! Fantastic video as always, gents...I'm gonna start practicing on my walk now!
We love the effort and humor you put into your videos, and of course the reaction to your former self. Just filmed something similar... Are you still working with craftsmen clothing mostly?
Never walk, jog, or run with your hands in pockets! I've restored several folks front teeth after they stumbled, tripped, and faceplanted. Nothing worse than reconstructing a smile, and supporting structures. Can be done, albeit, not as quickly or as fast as they were ruined. Just my $.02.
Good video. But I disagree with the man spreading part because third wave feminists turned this into a problem by saying that it's sexist, but actually isn't. How is a man supposed have that area down there any room to breathe? I do agree though that a man or a woman shouldn't spread there legs too widely though that it takes up too much space for the next person who wants to sit down on that extra seat you're taking up.
However much I love GG content, the manspreading part was much to my dismay. First, for not considering the need for breathing of skin and fabric down there. Second, (presumably) for not examining the origin of the word itself. It is a construct that has not been lingering around for a long time. Anyway, it would have been a nice detail to explain the view on, and acceptance of, the posture throughout the last 2-3 centuries.
Well done, Sir. Your advice reminded me a lot of how I was taught to walk at New Mexico Military Institute, a military high school / college. Proper etiquette was very important there and I’m glad for it. I wish it were more widely taught.
These tips are great but I always forget them whenever I'm actually talking to someone and after the conversation ends I think about how I should've done it differently.
Thank you for your helpful instructions and guidance. I have a walking situation when I'm out with my wife. I think I'm polite by walking at her pace, but I feel that her much slower speed hampers me. I feel ungainly. I've noticed other men will not wait for their slower partners, especially when shopping. Advice please.
This has been a great 👍🏻 video because it touches on many aspects, even the disability aspect for many people... How about a video on how to act or conduct yourself when dealing with people with a disability ? 🤔 Could be physical or mental as U mentioned.. 👏🏻 👋🏻
Thanks for the video again, Rafael. In our culture, leg over leg is similar to man spread, as an impolite gesture which is sad because I really like to sit like this.
One should be aware that crossing one's leg is deemed to be disrespectful in some cultures especially in the presence of your elders, the ones . who outrank you etc. Also excessive hand jestures may be perfectly okay for some cultures whereas in others it may also be deemed as offensive.
As per usual, great video! One thought, however: leg- on- leg sitting, while polite, is not great for lower- body circulation, and can lead to varicose veins in the legs.
Today I wore a nice pair of black sneakers, with some short black socks, a nice comfortable stylish black tracksuit, some good colored boxers, and a cool blue t - shirt, I am kicking it 😊 👍 ✨
*t-poses aggressively with a vitriolic stare* I think i'm doing alright (honestly, thank you for explaining why i'm in constant pain and often ignored whenever i'm standing talking to people)
Ok sorry, but once you list manspreading (a non existent word) as a reason to describe a sitting posture as "bad", I can't take seriously this video as you probably think I should. A channel with such a name is the last place I would expect to find an immature word like that one, even if you're Americans...
Not the first tim GG has handed around cups of the feminist Kool-Aid for their viewers to drink. We were also treated to a lecture about “toxic masculinity “-from a couple of the less masculine men one might ever meet.
I’m from Brazil and, from personal preference, use in most cases the leg over leg, but is considerer a feminine way, most men use the figure-four. Ps: sorry for the mispeling
I gag when I go out for BBQ with friends because their fingers get absolutely covered in sauce. I eat my ribs and wings with 3 finger tips of each hand, reducing the mess. But how do I endure their far more sloppy styles without losing my appetite or avoiding looking up at them?
I was hoping you'd mention putting hands in one's pocket while standing during a conversation. It CAN look elegant, but I know of people who apply this posture all the time, which to me looks silly.
Being an animator, I am particularly sensitive to body language and the ways people move. Working as an animation artist all my life has ironically also had the lamentable effect of promoting a hunched posture, as animators tend to lean into their work at their desks. Had I only listened to my beloved grandmother's advice to "Sit up/stand up straight" as a child...
Amusingly enough, I hardly ever gesture with my hands. Then again, I am logical and analytical. Another "amusingly enough": crossing one's legs with the ankle over the knee is known as the American figure four and will out thee as an American for sure when traveling abroad. Crossing one knee over the other is globally universal and allows one to blend in better when in foreign lands. For some reason I stand with my left foot forward of my right shoulder, my right foot underneath my right shoulder with the toes directly behind the left heel, and my knees slightly bent with my weight being balanced over both feet. Had to laugh a little at the walking bit, because I've been told my walk is rather mechanical, like the Terminator, and my arms don't swing. They slightly bounce below the elbows. Then again, I also have the Terminator's emotionless expression.
I always wonder, do Preston and Sven Raphael both live in the USA? And is Preston american? I am not a native speaker, but his accent is so distinct and clear, which I think is very pleasant to listen to.
In Indonesia most common and natural sitting way for girls is to sit crossing their legs, guys don't do that in their culture so be aware of that if you someday visited Indonesia
I don't know why, but you remind me of Victor M. Sweeney from the UA-cam video of where he answers questions on dead body from twitter uploaded by WIRED.
A note that this video was produced prior to the COVID-19 pandemic; because the section on personal space is less relevant under current circumstances, we withheld the video for a time. We hope, however, that you'll still find our advice useful, and that this section will become relevant again as things eventually return to normal. Stay safe and healthy, viewers!
- Preston
I hate COVID-19 and want it to go away ASAP. I hate talking about it.
I have learned something new if every one of your videos.
Hi Preston, Great video as always.
Off topic, I am wondering if the Fort Belvedere shadow stripe socks in the smallest size will fit women who wear a size 7 1/2 shoe?
Thanks dear!
Lisa
@@craft-o-matic2377 A small pair of Fort Belvedere socks fits men's shoe sizes 6-7.5 (US sizing), and a men's 6 fits a women's 7.5. You should be fine with a small pair of socks.
@@themoderndandy713 Thank you very much!
Lisa
This channel has been great during lockdown. I'm still broke but when I'm not I'll look good!
Are people still doing lockdowns???? Lolol
@@johnb4966 some people have immune conditions or care for someone who does and some people live in countries or regions that are still enforcing lockdowns.
@@jonahpeacock2561 here in italy, we think that it will might possible another lock down in the next weeks. Some little areas, mainly in the south, are arleady signed as red areas which they are now in lock down, so it could be possible.
And how!
@@jonahpeacock2561 98% survival rate....open your eyes
Haha, I love all the goofy gestures and faces you make. Great to have some humor on this fantastic channel.
whats that profile pic
I believe “Sting” said it best. “A gentleman will walk but never run.” Englishmen in New York is a great song.
This was great video! Very educational and funny, I also appreciate the speaker bringing out tips for those struggling with a disabled. Excellent Job!
When you are in a threatening situation and don’t feel secure walking with your fists clenched is a sign of physical strength and makes you appear to be a less vulnerable target .
…Hmm there def. Exist the possibility that this could have the opposite affect
@@MrBarnettcm i’am the size of a child nobody is intimidated by me 😂😂😵💫😵💫. It gives you a different perspective because you know the odds of you fighting your way out of a situation is limited and no I do no carry a gun 😂😂.
the walking and standing also have psychological effects too
This is a fantastic video! Well done mate, well done. I especially appreciate your honesty with your physical attributes that can effect the way people might move or interact. Food for thought when talking to others that might have such. I have personally focused on body language for 20 years and found this video to be spot on the money, I also noticed that I walk with fists and I will now adjust my walk. Thank you again gentleman, yours sincerely CJ.
The Gentlemans Gazette fits to me so well, it could have been my own idea👍🏼🤗
It's quite a distinguished video, but my question is, How to keep my hands while standing still or walking, I would be delighted to know.
Sorry if it's wrong or weird I was just trying to be socialized...well that is what the book says 😅
Staring Preston will hunt me in my dreams for the next few weeks. Great video as always, thank you! And greetings from Germany!
Thank You So Much for this Etiquette Class for the Gentlemen tutorial >>> Jolly Good Show indeed! 🕯🌷🌿
Those clips are both hilarious and informative at the same time
Because he is hilarious without even knowing it
@@romain3622 I think they are both (all three actually) quite aware of how funny they are
I feel like Gentleman's Gazette and The Report Of The Week would work well together, if they were to do a collaboration.
Lovely people in the GG team
The Guy presenting reminds me of Eddie Redmayne when he is in his 1920s fashion suit
This channel is great, let's bring back chivalry gents!
At 13:29 is the knockout walk 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nothing is as disrespectful as walking wrong, really makes me mad
Calm down
@@aliasaurora9 No i won't, drives me furious, it's the most offensive thing since talking was invented
@@DutchPlanDerLinde gee mate, anything triggering you that much is showing you there is something deeper within that needs to be addressed
@@AwesomeAndrew Tahiti perhaps?
Great video guys love the content.
Looking at this guy I can't stop thinking about he saying "Do u want a cop of tea?" 😂 By the way your tips are priceless ✨
Is there a similar channel for ladies, or is this etiquite more or less the same for both genders?
If I'm going to do these things anyway, I shall do them the gentleman's way.
A very fine channel
May I say, you do socks so well, really. Thank you : )
Thank you Preston. Always good to keep in mind. Do you mind if I ask your current height?
If you don't make it, apply to WWE as the JAW
If one of your legs is longer than the other you probably have a pelvic tilt issue. See a chiropractor for alignment
Man this is funny and spitting bars 😂
I have seen David gandy standing with legs crossed so many times, I have thought this is the right way of gentleman to stand but it is a bad gesture 🤣.
Yes nice bro like ur video
We got to get a joke video where they teach us how to dress gangsta
The leg over leg stance can come off super feminine. I seen some guys have there leg crossed over so far, that it was disturbing. I’m sure you are correct, but I avoid this position at all costs. The rest was very informative. Thanks
you look like young Sheldon.
I still wonder how some males can pull off the first type of leg crossing, every time I try to do it my crotch is squezeed to oblivion.
My guess is that it depends on your thigh-circumference to hip-width ratio. I think a fellow with slimmer thighs and wider hips is going to be more comfortable with his legs crossed, than a guy with bulkier thighs and narrow hips. Also, the cut of your pants can really impact how you can sit comfortably too. :)
@@m.m.i.9586 My pants are totally confortable, but I am the second type of guy you described, so :(
Oh well. Hey, at least there are plenty more ways to sit in a chair, that both look elegant, and are less constricting. :)
Feel Like im tryna learn how to be more human
Do you have one like this for kids?
This is excellent!
this is really amazing
The jawline on this man is putting Clark Kent to rest
A further point about sitting with your legs crossed: remember how long your socks are. Flashing a length of hairy shin won't look good. Invest in knee-length socks for job interviews and other important occasions.
Work tip: stand up, stretch, take a walk, go to the airport, get on a plane and never return.
☺️👍
You bored?
Life tip: stand up, stretch, take a walk, go to the airport, get on a plane and jump off mid air.
😚👍
Shimmi Shanga hahahaha
@@MonkyDollqueen hello there
@@amazchannel625 General Kenobi
I've found that exercise and manual labour makes my movements and body language more natural, especially when walking. So to everyone who finds that they look awkward when moving around, I suggest trying to either exercise or do some heavy work in the yard or something.
I would especially recommend making sure your upper back is in shape, be it through sports, work or specific training exercises. When the upper back muscles are in shape, proper posture comes naturally. Especially archery training helped me to adopt an open posture, whereas previously I had a natural tendency to walk somewhat hunched.
Dance and ballet can help too!
Hahaha I love your eyes contact Preston at 2:57 😆😆😊😊 you’re the best actor 👍👍👍
I am so tired of the 4 feet social distancing policy,,i am so looking forward to return to the 15 feet Norwegian standard 😎😀
If I had Prestons ""staring face" as a large printout pinned over my bed I would need 1 instead of 7 alarms in the morning...
Yes, that one is awesome - being a good concert singer, he had to have something like this in his sleeve too.
He looked just like Bubbles from Trailer Park Boys.
As a person with autism myself, I want to say thank you for mentioning that people with autism need to find a peer to help them (if need be) on these social cues.
There is one point of feedback though. People with autism follow different guidelines of social cues and that is untrainable. Mentoring would help but generalized situations often fall short on the reality for them. Its like we think we learn him to fish but instead he just got the fish to eat for that day...
Just thought to chip than in as autism expert for those watching the video :)
Hello @Robert V. , I agree with you with most of what you say. I have also autism and as a young lad, I used to struggle very much with these things. However, as someone who got enough luck to have been trained and worked in the military prior to my diagnosis, I got the opportunity to be corrected on my posture and the aspects of body language dealt with in this video during that time. But true to say that more subtle cues are, unfortunately, difficult to understand... Or I understand through other things. So, anyhow, I still think that such video would be helpful for some of us. Even if we are all différent...
@Seaworth "You guys"? What guys do you mean, exactly?
@Seaworth It is, though .Autism is a separate neurology which by definition affects both how we take in information and use it. Robert's commenting specifically that in situations that aren't one to one to a situation we have been taught a response to, we often do not consider them similar in the way a neurotypical person would and therefore won't apply a taught response to them. I have this issue somewhat regularly, even though I'm passable at masking. Scripting can help, but it's inauthentic and frankly stressful.
As I often say ... if you meet one person with ASD - you've met one person with autism. Everyone presents differently.
There's a lot of high functioning autism (Aspergers) in my family. We can and have learned non-verbal communication, but it's conscious learning, and takes practice to get right. Having a few rules can get you started, but then there are all the exceptions, cultural differences, code switching ... these are important skills, and while not everyone can learn them, it's always worth the effort to try.
You beat me to the punch
I appreciate the mentioning of disabilities and specifically autism in this video, I think it’s great that you include these things since they’re very important parts of some people’s lives (like me with ASD traits and scoliosis) !! Great video
Thank you once again dear Gents. I'm becoming a new man. People are already recognizing it through wardrobe and behavior. This is my favorite chanel.
the young man in the video is the embodiment of gentlemanly modesty and dignity, it is difficult to overestimate the contribution of your team!
Totally random note, but I really love the fact that you choose Zodiac for the clip of phone hand gestures...such a great movie!
Fantastic video as always, gents...I'm gonna start practicing on my walk now!
We love the effort and humor you put into your videos, and of course the reaction to your former self. Just filmed something similar... Are you still working with craftsmen clothing mostly?
@@gentlemansgazette can't wait to see that! No, not anymore. Flying solo now haha still a great company though!
Never walk, jog, or run with your hands in pockets! I've restored several folks front teeth after they stumbled, tripped, and faceplanted. Nothing worse than reconstructing a smile, and supporting structures. Can be done, albeit, not as quickly or as fast as they were ruined. Just my $.02.
Love that at 1:17!! Ah oh, sh*t, not enough to pay for that meal...Great acting Raphael!
Good video. But I disagree with the man spreading part because third wave feminists turned this into a problem by saying that it's sexist, but actually isn't. How is a man supposed have that area down there any room to breathe? I do agree though that a man or a woman shouldn't spread there legs too widely though that it takes up too much space for the next person who wants to sit down on that extra seat you're taking up.
I completely agree with that. If you’re taking up 3 seats then please stop, but otherwise it’s only a problem to those that want it to be a problem
However much I love GG content, the manspreading part was much to my dismay. First, for not considering the need for breathing of skin and fabric down there. Second, (presumably) for not examining the origin of the word itself. It is a construct that has not been lingering around for a long time. Anyway, it would have been a nice detail to explain the view on, and acceptance of, the posture throughout the last 2-3 centuries.
I agree
13:28 - Ministery of Silly Walks is BACK!
Lol!
i watch these videos simply because Raphael makes me laugh with his amazing facial acting :D
Well done, Sir. Your advice reminded me a lot of how I was taught to walk at New Mexico Military Institute, a military high school / college.
Proper etiquette was very important there and I’m glad for it. I wish it were more widely taught.
1:32 ahh... The Dying Gladiator
omg lol
Hand gestures... How much is to much?
Italians: YES
These tips are great but I always forget them whenever I'm actually talking to someone and after the conversation ends I think about how I should've done it differently.
I just turned 18 and thought I'd set off on the right foot. Though alot of this isnt new
Definitely appreciate a person giving advice on how to be more formal and presentable without giving off disgusting amounts of incel vibes.
I love the way you show what 'not to do' 😂 Preston is like a stuntman!
Thank you for your helpful instructions and guidance. I have a walking situation when I'm out with my wife. I think I'm polite by walking at her pace, but I feel that her much slower speed hampers me. I feel ungainly. I've noticed other men will not wait for their slower partners, especially when shopping. Advice please.
In Middle Eastern countries it’s considered very rude to show the soles of your shoes to others. So the 4 position would not be appropriate.
This has been a great 👍🏻 video because it touches on many aspects, even the disability aspect for many people... How about a video on how to act or conduct yourself when dealing with people with a disability ? 🤔 Could be physical or mental as U mentioned.. 👏🏻 👋🏻
Thanks for the video again, Rafael. In our culture, leg over leg is similar to man spread, as an impolite gesture which is sad because I really like to sit like this.
3:22 - The GG mafia going round the 2nd hand shops collecting fees from local shopkeeps.
One should be aware that crossing one's leg is deemed to be disrespectful in some cultures especially in the presence of your elders, the ones . who outrank you etc. Also excessive hand jestures may be perfectly okay for some cultures whereas in others it may also be deemed as offensive.
bro is mewing
😂😂
next episode: how to speak like a gentleman
Brainrot has even reached polite communities....
As per usual, great video! One thought, however: leg- on- leg sitting, while polite, is not great for lower- body circulation, and can lead to varicose veins in the legs.
7:37 Imagine that - no cell phones, iPads or laptops.
Today I wore a nice pair of black sneakers, with some short black socks, a nice comfortable stylish black tracksuit, some good colored boxers, and a cool blue t - shirt, I am kicking it 😊 👍 ✨
40 sociopaths gave this video a thumbs down
For agreeable walking techniques I rely on the standards set by the Ministry of Silly Walks.
UA-cam literally covers everything and you can study everything from here. Even sitting and walking
Thank you gentleman's gazette. You are doing a really good job. This channel helped me a lot.
*t-poses aggressively with a vitriolic stare* I think i'm doing alright (honestly, thank you for explaining why i'm in constant pain and often ignored whenever i'm standing talking to people)
Ok sorry, but once you list manspreading (a non existent word) as a reason to describe a sitting posture as "bad", I can't take seriously this video as you probably think I should. A channel with such a name is the last place I would expect to find an immature word like that one, even if you're Americans...
Not the first tim GG has handed around cups of the feminist Kool-Aid for their viewers to drink. We were also treated to a lecture about “toxic masculinity “-from a couple of the less masculine men one might ever meet.
I'm a girl and I don't know why I'm watching this.
I greatly enjoy listening to your voice Preston, and I wish everyone spoke like you.
I’m from Brazil and, from personal preference, use in most cases the leg over leg, but is considerer a feminine way, most men use the figure-four.
Ps: sorry for the mispeling
Your voice is the clearest I've ever hear man
Preston, the man, the myth, the legend.
Fantastic video for men & women alike! Danke schön!
I gag when I go out for BBQ with friends because their fingers get absolutely covered in sauce. I eat my ribs and wings with 3 finger tips of each hand, reducing the mess. But how do I endure their far more sloppy styles without losing my appetite or avoiding looking up at them?
Even more broke than before, but now i'm a style icon in my area thanks to GG🤣
The deliberate staring almost fits with all those horror games and videos on the internet...😱
I was hoping you'd mention putting hands in one's pocket while standing during a conversation. It CAN look elegant, but I know of people who apply this posture all the time, which to me looks silly.
Being an animator, I am particularly sensitive to body language and the ways people move. Working as an animation artist all my life has ironically also had the lamentable effect of promoting a hunched posture, as animators tend to lean into their work at their desks. Had I only listened to my beloved grandmother's advice to "Sit up/stand up straight" as a child...
I have never thought about such simple things in such depth, awesome !!!
This video is so ridiculous well produced and the quality is absolutely amazing
Crossing the legs is a no go for me, either figure of 4 or knee on knee, not comfortable at all
Monty Python's "Ministry of Silly Walks" may have provided a valuable instructional tool for this video. :D
Amusingly enough, I hardly ever gesture with my hands. Then again, I am logical and analytical. Another "amusingly enough": crossing one's legs with the ankle over the knee is known as the American figure four and will out thee as an American for sure when traveling abroad. Crossing one knee over the other is globally universal and allows one to blend in better when in foreign lands. For some reason I stand with my left foot forward of my right shoulder, my right foot underneath my right shoulder with the toes directly behind the left heel, and my knees slightly bent with my weight being balanced over both feet. Had to laugh a little at the walking bit, because I've been told my walk is rather mechanical, like the Terminator, and my arms don't swing. They slightly bounce below the elbows. Then again, I also have the Terminator's emotionless expression.
I always wonder, do Preston and Sven Raphael both live in the USA? And is Preston american? I am not a native speaker, but his accent is so distinct and clear, which I think is very pleasant to listen to.
In Indonesia most common and natural sitting way for girls is to sit crossing their legs, guys don't do that in their culture so be aware of that if you someday visited Indonesia
Does anyone know any channels/ videos that discuss social cues and rules? I have a hard time understanding them.
I sit with a bit of spread as it is more comfortable... Especially in a hot country where I live... Doesn't matter what others think..
I don't know why, but you remind me of Victor M. Sweeney from the UA-cam video of where he answers questions on dead body from twitter uploaded by WIRED.
The sitting thing is just ridiculous how any bloke can sit crossed legged is a mystery to me?
It very uncomfortable if you know what I'm saying.