Do All Teen Dads Think The Same? | Spectrum
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Tylor: “that’s the shittiest thing you could do”
Josh: 👁👄👁
Claire Selje That camera guy did him dirty 😂
i feel so bad for him lol he’s the only normal one in this line up 😭 the rest are like “no yeah i planned this/we’re married/abortion isn’t an option”
Perle des Antilles omg ik 😅😅😂
bri Ikr
@@bri4015 fr like you really planning a pregnancy and you haven't even graduated high school yet?????? To each their own
Its so weird hearing a 19 year old saying "my wife"
That's what I thought in the teen mom one too
MAAH WAAIF
You haven’t met enough Mormons
^ im-
LucasArg extremely
I feel like Tylor thinks he is already 45 and know everybody
Gurl😂
@@nyawina3431 gurlll don’t come after me 😭😭😭 al i right?😂😂
Am*
@@mariahearts372 Your comment has made me feel better today😂😂
@@nyawina3431 hahah i hope it did love!
Josh was obviously scared of being a dad , he was having 2 children
Yes! It’s already scary having an unplanned pregnancy. Imagine having an unplanned pregnancy with twins. He’s grown so much and he’s a great father!
Dang imagine being that young and ur gf tells u she’s having twins
Gone 😭💀
And about to leave for college!😭
I’m a twin and my mom had us at 16!
imagine the pain of having those twins😭
happened to a bud of mine. wild but he knows to take responsibility
it’s so weird to hear someone my age say “i planned our pregnancy”
I can't really fathom having my early life revolving around marriage and children. All I wanted to do was studying and going out with friends and preparing myself for adulthood.
I was planned my mom was 17 my Dad was 18 it happens lmao
Lauryn H. You may not be able to relate but not everyone is the same. I’m 18 and pregnant and I’ve wanted to be a young parent since I could remember. Just because this lifestyle isn’t ideal for you doesn’t give you the right to be so judgmental
Some people start early because they want a lot of kids. Or because you have more energy when you’re younger. It all just depends what your desires and goals are.
I planned with my now husband to have a kid at 14 🤦♀️ ended up having our son at 16 but he really was the best thing to happen to us
Josh is the most honest, honestly. Others are either afraid that their kid is gonna see this video one day or straight up lying.
I feel like Edgar was straight up. I mean, he said it was hard but he had always wanted that and he’d kinda been prepared for it so it makes if he wasn’t as phased by a pregnancy.
Josh is the only that lied. The financially stable question. When together with his baby mama, he would ask for UA-cam money when he didn’t want to help with UA-cam. They all have UA-cam besides Zenon who just has Instagram.
Am I the only one that doesn't like Josh? Cause I dont mind him it's just that EVERY SINGLE answer of his has to be about college which annoys me.
or they’re just telling the truth.... not everyone is gonna have the same experience
Why are you all saying this, how can you tell they are not honest??
If I told my mom I was “excited” she would slap me to the 5th dimension lmao
Why?
@@sheena_1378 because some parents are concerned for their childs future and aren’t as supportive
@@maryupoppin okay thanks for explaining it to me
@@sheena_1378 np :)
5th dimension huh? my mom would slap me off to another planet
why do y'all gotta make josh seem like a bad guy tho? he's being real
we see those camera angles bruh
So many comments shitting on how they edited Josh specifically, but I think the angle they were trying to take was--seeing how Josh is the most relatable--to put a spotlight on him in order to show the audience how authentic and level-headed he approached the given circumstances.
Idk I've been only seeing good comments about him lol
i hate when they do that
i-want-fries right
We don't have to agree with him
Tylor: I think that’s the shittiest thing you could do
Josh: 😐
Omg yess I felt so bad for josh when it happened.
Bruh. Like, wtf. He made him seem like he's the bad guy
The way he looked around aswell.
when did that happen?
@@wilmon 8:31
Not only is Josh's reaction totally realistic, his parents' reaction was realistic too. I am a little surprised by how the other guys said their parents were excited and were fully supportive. Perhaps it's to do that some of their parents also had kids at a very young age.
It was clear why Logan’s mom was excited because she has 4 boys and two granddaughters through her son. He dad seemed quite excited for girls too. His mom shopped for girly things a lot.
I’m 24 and honestly, if I get pregnant out of marriage my mother wouldn’t be supportive at all.
@RiBea yes. That’s how my culture has affected my mother’s values and principles fortunately and unfortunately. That makes me stick to the cultural norms to an extent regardless the way I personal see things
If my kid becomes a teenage parent ofc i will support them and not bash them. But ngl i'd be disappointed, cos i want them to have a stable life and education. So not too excited
Logan's mom and dad were supportive because they were teen/young parents as well so they understand Logan and his fiance's position
No, Edgar, birth control isn't only about women's pills
lol why do you think they all got someone else pregnant
@@kate-zh4ny I- wha-
@ISABELLA SANTIAGO Jajaja agreeeee, but what i said is that the pill isn't the only method
@@lucilulv there really aren’t that many options that out there worth talking about tho.
Their ignorance actually justifies why they got a child at such a young age...
*It’s so weird as a young person hearing a 19 year old talk about his wife lol*
Cause you are a single millenial.
Nimbereth That’s actually a pretty moderate view. Our generation gets married later in life on average.
@@takearriabrown7644 How much later the mother has a child is worse for the child. Teenage mothers are best for the baby.
Nimbereth not necessarily, girls who have kids at 12,13,14 are normally high risk pregnancies, and a lot of the times, both the baby and the mother are in danger
@@Nimbereth What studies say that? Teen mothers, more times than not have no college education, don't have stable jobs, and have school to worry about. Also it's proven that the younger you are the higher risk the pregnancy.
josh: “two little infants”
he has twins? omg
Nancy Benavides his girlfriend has a yt channel if you wanna check it out. its just sophie gonzales
Carsyn J woah i watch her sometimes but never with the dad in it now ik the family 😱😂
I didn’t realise they had split.
Yup at 14:03 the one he’s holding and also the one Logan is holding,Luke and Zeke
I feel so bad for these guys. they've derailed their lives and it was entirely preventable.
just would like to add that tylor got discharged, he and his wife got separated and he got another woman pregnant :-)
WAIT WHAAAAAAAAAAT
Sarah Siddiqui yeah they were on unexpected and I saw on a fan account that this all happened. Obviously none of my business and I can’t judge but I just got a bad vibe from him in the show and on this video he was pretty disrespectful towards some of the other dads idk
teaaaaaaa😬
Noooo waaayyyyy
🤣 not surprised at all
Josh was so real i feel like everyone was judging him for having actual concerns about his future
I feel like Josh is having it hard. First he had twins, second he broke up with his gf,then he has college,and his family weren't that supportive.
him and his girlfriend have a youtube channel
999th like hehe
@@tasmiabano1663 it's really his girlfriends channel but he is on there a lot is called Sophie Gonzalez
Maybe his family is still not open about it until now and maybe their throwing so much words that made him even more stressed.
@@beyoncesweetieiamsosorry6800 she said Josh not the other one
I feel like the guy in the white shirt represents actually the majority even though he isn’t it in this video
My theory is that people with similar attitudes wouldn't be down for this video. They don't wanna put themselves out there as "teen dads".
I wouldn't say that that at all. that's literally one out of the 6. unless you are saying they carefully pick all their ppl to fit a certain agenda.
@@nimbzclowd well for each question they show the answers to an Instagram poll they made and it usually favored white shirt guy's answer
@@nimbzclowd Possibly. But people have to remember certain types of people would choose to participate in these videos. For example, I think "do all Asian Americans think the same?" is a much softer representation of how asian parents actually feel. And that's because the more "cool" parents would participate in those videos.
I think he’s just saying that the people that would be willing to come on a video like this are people that have had a more positive experience with being a teen dad. The guy in the white shirt showed a bit more vulnerability in the negatives of being a teen dad and how it totally derailed his life plans
I think Josh is the only one matured here,, his reaction is realistic. And also i think only josh is an educated student and have family that cared abt their son’s future and education. His the only one talking abt college here. His honesty hit me hard. No wonder he get scared bcs he got a twin babies.
First off your opinion sucks, but just cause he’s allowed to pursue college doesn’t make him or his’ parents better than the rest tf. Who’s to say any of them wanted to go to college or could actually afford college and then wait 4-8 years to get money when they need it now. Naive person with a simple minded comment.
@@themacdaddy1749 tf,, its just an opinion, MY opinion. I dont care what you think abt josh or others bcs its YOUR opinion but FOR ME josh the only one show that education is really important (in this video and at this moment-not future) and i’ve never said that his parent better than others, the one i mentioned in previous comment is in specific aspect which is education. Not all aspect i said abt his parent bruhh. Everyone has their right to give an opinion. You’re the one that tooo simple minded right now. I’ll not comment anything abt your opinion bcs i respect the way you are thinking. Everyone has difference thought bro.
I agree with you that Josh gave us a more realistic perspective on being a teen dad, because he wants to focus on school and he knows that his (baby mama or girlfriend) also wanted to go to school and travel. I also think that Zenon gave us a more realistic perspective on being a teen dad as well.
@@themacdaddy1749 but ur opnion sucks
Ohkay supreme judge saya. Because you feel, we must declare all others as immature imbeciles while Josh is mature.
Why? Because you said it.
tylor was downright shaming josh and nobody defended him. thats so wrong for so many reasons.
tylor also got another girl pregnant lmaoo. he’s so annoying
@@gitutaneja wait what??
@@gitutaneja
This ain’t supposed to be rude but can you give sum of dat ✨proof✨
@@gitutaneja proof? or are you spreading lies because you like to hate?
@@wilburfoot how instagram and there’s videos online i’ve seen. stop assuming the worst dunbass
Josh had considered not being apart of his children’s life because he was considering abortion which is something the other guys didn’t. They literally shouldn’t judge him for it.
Glamour CH I would. Abortion is disgusting
e o n it’s not disgusting... but its your opinion i guess...
e o n it isn’t. if the child suffers later on esp financially, you’re not gonna swoop in and venmo the baby money so no, you have no right to judge.
Faith Coxon it’s not murder..... it’s literally a clump of cells.... would u consider cancer treatments murder also?
Faith Coxon “let’s save political fights for twitter” - says the person who decided to knowingly input their controversial opinion but expected no one to say anything about it
Why did it feel like the guy in the white shirt was the main character in a movie?
you might be thinking of Love, Simon?
Lindsey Shane 😂
LMAO
Cause he’s the cutest due 😂, excuse my gayness
Sophie Gonzalez is the mother of his twins and they have a UA-cam channel!
Tylor : *Funny, military teen*
Josh : *Realistic, honest teen*
Tylor is just annoying with that Yee yee ass haircut
Where was the funny? 😕
Define funny
Guys, he was acting like everything was alright. No actual teen is gonna feel like that because no actual father will feel like that, unless they planned to have the baby. At least that's just my opinion on it.
@@tajanaimccray thats got nothing to do with being funny😂😂
Josh has twins on top of that. Respect him for his honesty
The camera was so shady panning to josh after tylor saying “that’s a shitty thing to do”
I noticed that too😂😂
lifewithmatt nah fr tho😂😂
lol
YEAH WTF its fine to have doubts and some thoughts out of fear, at the end of the day hes there for his kid. jeez camera!
True I feel like these people come here and be honest and open up we shouldn't judge just listen and learn
The cameraman is one shady fella for focusing on Josh when Taylor said it’s a shitty thing to think of abandoning your pregnant girlfriend when he’s the only one that kept it 100%
Ikr
You've got to realize there are multiple camera angles, and the editor chooses which are viewed. Also, I think it was intended to show both aspects of the question.
Jubilee has political bias, you should all be aware of this
Byunsbabe Vlogs Well it is pretty shitty. You can still point that out while commending his honesty. I don’t really think that men should be applauded for not abandoning the children they had equal part in creating, but it is hard to admit when you have less than savory thoughts but overcame them, so good in him.
@@lamborghinicentenario2497 i wasn't,but now that you mentioned it.... interesting
Josh seemed a little sad and scared throughout the video, but when he picked up his baby he had a bigger smile than anyone else🙈❤️
I think tylor was being horrible to him during it because they do edit a lot out
point made on authenticity!!!
Everyone else: Josh is honest.
Me: What happened to the back of that boy's head?
i’m pretty sure he’s got the united states shaved into it 🤮
@@maggiestearns9825 bro i legit thought he got some hair issue 💀💀💀💀
It’s most likely Alopecia which is an autoimmune disorder.
Looks like scaring
@@davyddocarmocabral2989I have it similiar to him but it’s only 2 really small spots you can barely notice. I was born with the scars and hair doesn’t grow there
I felt really bad for josh, I just felt like he was a little overwhelmed with the baby situation and the other participants kind of made him uncomfortable with their responses
Honestly Josh was the norm, most teenage boys are not PLANNING pregnancies or hoping for a baby anytime soon. Most of the guys here are more exceptions while I feel like Josh is really how most teen dads feel.
@@UrbanDecayLova247 Yeah his reaction is the most real one out of these six guys
Nikoleta Cude I don’t think so. I just think that the people they chose were unfair because some were married and seemed happy
Especially 8:32...
Yupppp
when the one guy said “Babies” i was like MULTIPLE BABIES
HAHAH same
Marissa w twins the mom has a youtube channel
He has twins :)
What’s the channel ?
Sierra Nicole Sophie Gonzales
Y'all should do one of these with single dads because they don't get enough recognition
git what I thought this was at first s
They don’t exist
i agree because all the single dads i have met are some of the greatest dads i’ve met !
@@00Agitprop00 yes they do
Because theres not alot of them. 98% of single mothers are women. Thats where the ubiquitous term’gone to get milk’ came from. Theres no saying liek that for mothers cause they dont leave
Josh was still able to financially support his child completely, he a king
Children*
You can see how Josh’s face lights up when he holds his baby and it’s much different from the gloomy expression he had during the questions
He regretted his mistake but now he loves it
Because he is an amazing dad!! i watch him and the mother of his babies on youtube. they are so mature and amazing
jenny j what’s their youtube channel
@@antoninaprazic9818 Check the description
Antonina Prazic Sophie Gonzalez
imagine PLANNING and TRYING to have a kid before you even get a stable job and settled down life
Elijah R. Ikr, that’s scary. But Logan’s girlfriend has a pretty stable job.
exactly. that’s so selfish to start a life with a PLANNED child when you have no stable career, insurance, or home that you own or rent. that’s crazy ignorant and irresponsible to me, to plan to get support instead of just waiting until you’re a stable, independent adult ...
The guys in this video seem super selfish except for Josh pretty much
Gabrielle Floyd she’s a youtuber haha
Really tho. They are humans not Alexa’s
"If you knew what could come of you having relations, then you shouldn't consider abortion"
easy to say for a teen who was so self assured that he planned to have a teen pregnancy
and tbh he is not the one carrying the egg
Not to mention that he’s speaking about a whole ass child like just some kind of accident that can happen and that someone has to deal with
@@vitaaeris ikr? A kid is a huge responsibility, the only valid reason to have a kid is because you want a kid. He consented to sex, not parenthood. And sexual drive is something most people have starting from teens, that doesn't mean they're mature or responsible to have kids. And that was so immature lol like so poor shouldn't have sex because they may not be able to afford to raise a baby?
@@luisasalazar2796 “the egg” - wtf does that even mean? You mean the ZEF (zygote, embryo, fetus)? No woman carries “an egg” when she’s pregnant.
Is he wrong? what are you trying to say? You are admitting he is the one being accountable for his action? You talking like that's a bad thing
i love how josh handled finding out he was having children he didn't just ask her straight up to have an abortion, but he also didn't just move on thinking everything was great they had a sit down honest conversation on what they should do. and that, my friends, is how you handle that
Agreed.
Tylor doesn’t feel judged for being a teen dad because he doesn’t look like a teen
Also who names their kid tylor
So maybe when naming him they made a typo and named him tylor except tyler
His hair is so bad!
🍎 Apple 🍎 he has a really bad scar on his head. If you watch unexpected you’ll see some of it like you do in this video. I don’t know what it’s from but don’t be insensitive.
who names their kid tylor it’s tyler
Josh isn’t just a teen dad he’s got TWINS
Edit: the baby momma is named Sophie Gonzalez and she has a YT channel
teen dads
Zoe Borja still a teen dad tho nothing changes...
😳😳 wdym twins i only saw him with 1 baby..where’s the catch
@@aristotel2094 he said "From obviously zero babies to TWO infants-" He wasn't planning to have a child, especially not two of them. That means he had twins...
mwuah seems I missed that part, thanks for the explanation :)
I feel like Tylor was trying so hard to portray himself as perfect 😂 and he was making Josh feel really bad about his honesty with his comments. It's totally normal to have negative thoughts at first.
Tyler got another girl pregnant ;)
@@user-rt5to7jn3x LMAOO ARE YOU JOKING
I’m confused. It seems like most of them planned their pregnancy. If that’s the case Jubilee should have choose more fathers that “accidentally got pregnant”. In my opinion it’s not “normal” or common to PLAN a child at such a young age so I absolutely understand Josh’s points of views. I felt kind of bad for him bc he sometimes was the only one with another opinion and I personally think that Josh represents a lot of teen fathers or parents all around the world. This video kind of portrayed teenage pregnancy as something completely normal and did not (or barely) talk about other problems.
yeah i thought that or they were pretty privilege (supporting parents and not bad financial situation from the start)
Totally agree. I bet the vast majority of teen fathers are a lot more like Josh than any of the other guys. I felt bad for him too because in this group he was the minority but definitely not IRL. The proportional representation is way off in this group.
Well the point of this video is to see if all teen dads agree on things. Of course they're going to have similar points of view if they were all dads who did not plan on having a baby. This video just shows that some teen dads are excited to have babies and have different perspectives than the stereotypical ones. Josh just fits into the stereotypical box, which is perfectly fine by the way. I feel like this sort of video is always going to be skewed anyways because I'd think most dads with negative experiences with their children's birth wouldn't want to go online saying stuff like, "I didn't want them," "They ruined my relationship with my family," or, "They destroyed my chances at getting an education." Imagine their kids seeing that some days. It could ruin their lives. So makes sense that more dads with positive or neutral experiences would be willing to open up about it in front of a camera.
I'm pretty sure none of them wanted to have a child. Most of them were putting their best face for the camera. Josh was the only one who I thought was honest.
"Abortions, adoptions and all other options" -Lil Josh 2019
Lollll he should drop a diss track on the other dudes haha 😂
JS Medenilla pray to end the sin of abortion! Hell is real!
*_bARS_*
His Blood Saves
Okie Doki then
@@hisbloodsaves3621 Prove it
Tylor has no chill, he’s out for Josh. Poor dude was scared and being honest
Ask to seduce Miss lmao stfu you copied a comment for no reason at all, like did you win a lottery or did you cure cancer, Seriously get outa here
gamers kitty love her or hate her she’s spitting straight fax
THANOS it’s not her facts tho thats what im saying, she copied it from someone else when she can make her own, like didnt even try to change it a little bit and just strail up stole a comments and making it like she said it just disappointed
THANOS straight up*
Ask to seduce Miss gamers kitty it doesnt matter, she agrees and its true so chill out, ppl these days tho
Y’all are sleeping on Logan. He stepped up for his girlfriend who was already a teen mom to a baby when she met him, not only does he take care of her, her daughter, but now there daughter together and a baby on the way.
I like how josh mentioned adoption as an alternative if they had agreed for abortion
Josh is the only one being real, and everyone else judged him. He really didn’t deserve that.
NG 217 not really. logan was being real
The dude with the fked up hair basically called him a ahole which made me made because he doesn't know him at all
Logan was being real also
These guys were conforming and not being as real a JOSH👏🏽👏🏽
NG 217 you have 999 likes
Everyone's praising Josh and throwing dirt at the others lmaooo this is like a reverse Erin
Ana THIS IS SO TRUE... lmao
i laughed at this
Thats not vegan
Ikr the other guys deserve more respect
Reverse Erin lmao
LEAVE JOSH ALONE 😤!! HE HAD TWINS OF COURSE HE WAS SCARED GAHT DAMNIT!!
I hope Josh looks at this comment section and realises how amazing he is and how much everyone likes him
the military dude probably doesn’t feel judged bc everyone is married w kids in the military lol
So true
RIGHT! I was thinkin like sir that’s normal there.
Truest comment
True , my brother and his 18 yrs wife
@first last Same with my brother, but he was engaged until he cheated on his girlfriend and they broke up. :P
honestly, props to josh for being so honest even when he was the only one on the other side of the room
Copied
Yes he wasn’t afraid of the judgement
Yeah. For sure. I can’t imagine it-3 days before college move-in. Surprised they didn’t go with adoption.
Adriana Olivas Ureno yeah and i support that he still wanted to be educated...i hope he finishes those 4 years^^
I’d definitely have been on his side if I were in his position, it was pretty rude that Tyler was shading him wherever possible. Tf, people have different experiences y’all 😂
Josh is just being honest. He's showing what a lot of other guys go through.
Josh's responses are what I would assume a teenage boy would feel after he finds out he's going to be a dad, I was actually more surprised by the other teens' responses.
Everyone in his life was telling him it was bad.
i feel like josh was being targeted by some of the other guys when they were answering questions. he was just being real.
Right it annoyed me. Like non of them hv it all together no matter what they say lol 😂
Lynne Zhang yeah I noticed that too. I kinda felt bad for him
i agree!
Josh is a UA-camr along with his baby's mom. Their channel's name is Sophie Gonzalez.
They’re not singling him out because he chose to go to one side of the room.
He chose to make an adult decision, but wasn’t ready for the adult consequences that CAN happen when that decision is made.
I get it, teenage boy with raging hormones, can’t see things clearly for what they are in reality. But there’s a point in life where we are taught a level of self discipline to be averse to these life changing risks.
Nowadays, single mother households don’t put that pressure on self discipline and thinking before acting. The stats and science on that is fascinating for those of you interested.
He made his decision that cost him the life he might’ve wanted and is responsible for the life he helped create.
He seems happy now that his child is born, for most men that puts life into perspective. It’s a sacrifice that he’ll live with but most importantly he’ll be living for something other than himself and will feel more fulfilled and validated as he becomes a pillar in his child’s life
I wish they showed more unplanned teen parents. Half of these guys wanted the baby.
yami bakura exactly
Victoria Moreno I believe they may not have because that could be detrimental to the child later because that may cause the parents to say truthful, yet hurtful, things.
They choose dads who planned it because it makes it more interesting they ask you questions before picking who they will have in the video
Only like 2 of them wanted them right?
This Boi Loves P!nk yes Logan planned his baby
Not only was Taylor literally going after josh but are we not gonna talk about the fact that Taylor looks like his hair was cut by a lawn mower LMAO😭😂
His hair is cut in the shape of texas lol
He had cancer. Don’t judge before you learn.
@@Ofthewoods1973 LMAO thats not the shape of Texas were you ever in a geography class
@@donteatmycheeze4901 It looks like Texas in my opinion. And yes, I aced my geography courses this year.
@Hannah Beaumont yes get it I'm so proud
Josh being realistic and serious throughout the prompts but then all dopey smiles around the babies made him the real one here
These kids having kids at 18/19 and then there's me at 23 who can't even talk to a girl.
Nick Tokar I had my son when I was 19 he’s 8 now 😊💯
This comment is me in seven years I'm calling it right now
Nick Tokar lmaooo.. me af
32, I can talk to girls/women. Now It's time for another step xP
Dude I feel that, 20 and still lacking a first kiss. Haha
No teenager should be 'trying' to get pregnant. You have plenty of time, wait until your career is established and you earn money so can help provide for your family.
I feel like josh didn't got as much support by his own family as he deserve at that time
it’s so weird seeing an 18 year old say they planned their pregnancy.
Justin C. Yeah, and they were seniors in high school when they got pregnant. It’s crazy, but they have their own family unit in a house they’re renting so I guess it works for them
Justin C. I’m 31 and I can’t imagine being 18 and thinking about having a baby. I’m 6 months pregnant and I’m kind of overwhelmed and I do have financial support. At 18 I was graduating high school and looking forward to finally having freedom. But, to each their own.
I know, right. You should at least be financially stable before you PLAN to have a child.
Tiffany agreed, i’m 23 and about to graduate college and i don’t want one for a few more years
Abby Griffin how would u know they aren’t stable Lmaooo
No one:
Egdar: I planned my pregnancy
He's probably married to Chelsea from the other video. They both are very proud to have a kid that young which is a red flag to me...
@@MsDudette21 they are married.
MsDudette21 They can do what they want and they have more than enough to support his kid, If you have the money, time and want to have a child what’s so wrong?
@@cliffp2562 They're not mentally prepared. That's what's bad about it. For example, Kylie Jenner when she had her baby. She could have all the money in the world but doesn't necessarily mean that she is mentally prepared. It's not just having it, it's raising it correctly, that's a challenge!
MsDudette21
Why is that a red flag ?
I like Josh, he is intelligent. I knew Edgar feels so uncomfortable, he crossed his hands, I consider his answers sounds like justification, he knew how hard it is to be a young father.
i watched josh's baby mom's youtube and you could really see how involved josh is in their lives, even with everything that was going on and i really appreciate his honesty in this video
what's her youtube?
@@larsswig912 Sophie Gonzalez !
“i think that’s the sh*ttiest thing to do”
*zooms in on josh on disagree line*
alayna mclands he looked so sad and embarrassed
strechybÖi he’s only being truthful.
Julianne Oceana there’s no truth to that comment it’s simply an opinion.
That was SHADY
Lmao
I’m crying Josh was like “ What a nice baby u have ”
The guy was holding his other baby
Naseem R when he says “what a nice baby you have” to the guy beside him in the jean jacket, he’s saying that because he’s a dad of twins, the other dad is holding his second baby.
Naseem R the baby’s are Zeke and Luke, the mom of the baby’s have a UA-cam channel. When he said nice baby he was making a joke cause it was actually his
Leigha Yvonne omg i didn’t even notice that those were sophie’s babies!!
Leigha Yvonne what’s her UA-cam channel
I get all the comments about Josh being a great guy, but Logan definitely is too! He literally stepped up at 17 to be a step dad and he also seems really nice😊
Josh is the most mature and honest out of all of them. He really thought it through, stepped up and took responsibility, I'm sure he's a great dad.
That guy in the white t-shirt is so alone in this discussion.
He tells his own story on his ex gf's YT Channel: Sophie Gonzales
Mie Lindegaard IKR, I feel like this is so unbalanced. Most teen pregnancies are terrifying when unplanned, and these teen dads all seemed to be planning them!
Fru Lindegaard, he is the only one that's honest .
Most of these guys are lying. 100%
As he should be. The other guys actually take responsibility for their choices and are actively involved with being a dad.
the guy with the white t-shirt its like the reality of having a baby when you are a teen.
@beyone queen well idk teen dads cause they all ran away when they found out their gf is pregnant so..
@beyone queen no he is. Because in the end he is a great father. You van watch his baby mamas youtube video. I dont wanna judge the rest but he is more full on and positive influence than some others whose vlogs i watched.
beyone queen “all the ones you met” don’t relate personal experience with facts
@@Justme-qx4iu lot of fatherless kids out there
beyone queen ok and the teens dads they’ve met are probably having a negative experience... no need to get triggered if the shoe doesn’t fit
the kids just vibin like: 👶🏻👶🏽👶🏼
I just want to reach through the screen and give Josh a big hug and tell him everything's ok.
“My wife”. Dude. I’m literally 20 and can barely make a doctors appointment myself. I can’t imagine being pregnant or married this early. I‘m barely on a Taco Bell budget.
Edit: To clarify, this isn’t knocking any teen parents. It’s something called “a self deprecating joke”. These mature young men made the decision to have kids. I am a mature woman who has made the decision not to just yet!
Aubrey W. LMAO same
Some people live a different life than you. He matured and is taking care of his family, good for him
Edit: the original comment clarified that her comment wasnt meant to knock down teen parents like I thought it was. Thanks for the clarification!
Thats you. Im 20 and have 2 kids as a single mother. I work all day take care of my kids all night sometimes you have no other choice but to mature
you should be in other countries, some ppl get married at 16🤣🤣
this made me hardcore giggle
Josh seems so judged but is literally the only one being honest.
Claudia Aguas So you’re just assuming that the other guys are lying?
@@jada2370 They're not all lying but I highly doubt all of the ones who had unplanned pregnancies were perfect angels that didn't have any doubts.
That’s why I asked about peer pressure. How much are these guys not being honest due to the fear of being judged.
everyone has a different opinion, maybe they are "lying" or sugar coating, but it's maybe their way of dealing with it, like the more you say it, the more it grows on you, please don't judge without knowing
He seems the least likely to end up an absentee father in the long run
So Edgar went to agree for "My family approves of me having a child at my age" but then, proceeded to talk about how her reaction to the pregnancy wasn't it, she was negative & now his kid doesn't hang with his mum. Why didn't he go to the middle or to the disagree side? Was he being real with himself?
Josh was being super honest and also like that’s a normal reaction and he had twinssss
Josh was the most honest with where he positioned himself.
The rest probably weren't being honest because they don't want to look like the bad guy. Most of their answers were way off the instagram poll answers that were more truthful imo. Like for example that one guy who said he was excited when he found out he was going to be a dad but then later on answered yes to the question about asking the girl to get an abortion. Makes no sense. If you were excited to have a baby you don’t ask the girl to get rid of it.
Nah maybe some teen dads are actually happy and it just happened to be that alot of them are in the video
I think they were all honest with what they personally felt. The polls favored the negative answers more but that doesn’t mean all men feel that way. Plus literally anyone could vote on the polls as they are predictions. It’s mostly how other people thought they would answer.
*Poqqers* just because he isn't really glad with it all doesn't mean that he's the "most honest". I feel like the rest were genuinely glad.
Lol what?? Just because he fits your stereotypes doesn't mean others weren't honest with their positioning.
“what a nice baby you have”
we love josh
NIKAYLA i think he was talking to logan bc logans baby wasn’t there so he was holding one of joshs twins
Olivia Parres-Gold yes! cutest boy twins
Olivia Parres-Gold Yeah! his girlfriend (i think sophie) has a youtube channel!
I think the UA-cam channel is Sophie Gonzalez
Olivia Parres-Gold he did him and sophie and both the boys went to LA to shoot this, logans holding the other twin bc his baby couldn’t be there
Watching "teen mom"i think gives a more realistic picture of what is going on ...most teenage girls end up with horrible irresponsible boys with few exceptions.
For the prompt "Do you have a good relationship with the mother of your child" when they all walked to strongly agree it made me super happy- I have no idea why but just knowing that they were in a good spot made me smile :)
I won't lie, I don't like how they're making Josh a bad person. Tylor seems kind of unrealistic with what he's saying. Josh is being very real about the situation also bc he has twins
No one made him look bad you think he looks bad. His views and choices were honest just like everyone else’s. Things happen when something as major as a child throws off your plans there’s a lot you have to think about.
@@ashbabl8045 im not saying Josh is a bad person. I would be in his mindset if I were him. But like all the others he loves his kids.
@@singbin again I'm not saying Josh is a bad person, the part that Tylor said that you should know what happens so deal with it or something(it's been a while since I watched this) I'm was feeling a little mad at him.
I agree, they were definitely being a little passive aggressive for some questions and it seemed as if they didnt understand that he didnt plan it and it was not the best of news
But it’s his life
I honestly would like to see “Do all people who had abortions think the same?”
There is a difference between i had an abortion because i wanted to and i was forced to do so. Those who were forced obviously don't think positive of it. And many people don't see the difference when they say " you will regret having an abortion".
Ishizu09 I agree❤️
carolina hernandez what’s your handle? ❤️
there's already a posted video about it. check pro-life vs pro-choice
La Vie not with spectrum though
12:06 is just Tyler trying to be ✨different✨
Brandon seemed so heartbroken when he told them „friends“ from football who would call his girlfriend names. This actually broke my heart.
I feel like this isn’t really a fair comparison. Most of these pregnancies were planned, while in the teen moms’ one all but one were unplanned.
I mean, it’s super common for fathers of unplanned pregnancies to RUN and be absent, so...
hard to find deadbeats to come make a video talking about why they're deadbeats
Dominik Torres period
Xeta pretty common
@@dominiktorres8256 ikr, It's not like they'll be like "Nah, I'm not involved, the reason I showed up is cuz I wanted to be in a video and thought maybe I'd get paid. But I actually just walked out as soon as she told me. I had actually been cheating for a while. But yeah! Life is good"
When that 18 yo. said "My girlfriend already had a baby." Everyone turned around 🤣
Ikr, like damn how old is your girlfriend?
@@cati896 probably around 18 too...
@@Paoferdy dear lord thats even worse
@@Paoferdy she is
idk if you care but her youtube channel is yazmin Switzerland
Some of these men have to be lying about their answers-
Josh finally smiling when he holds his baby is precious.
Of course Josh wasn’t happy, she was pregnant with twins days before leaving for college which is what most Americans strive for during their education. I can’t imagine she was very happy either
Looking for that party life and finally freedom then gets hit with TWINS. When you've been thinking your life is going to go one way for 17 years and then boom. Big oof
Sandwich ikr I’d honestly just cry
@@mellamotina5100 apparently twins are a nightmare for people that have had children before. You can't even have a break and give it to the other parent if you need a nap 😂😭
Also when one cries the other is quite synchronised and will follow. Absolute madness.
Sandwich why do twins even exist it’s like “oh hey! an already expensive living being... *but two of them*”
@@mellamotina5100 Yeah I know right, imagine having triplets. I would die lol
How many 19 year olds can say “my wife and my kid”
we are in mainland europe, its not uncommon .
@@PHlophe what? Where are you from?
A good handful of them can say that.
@@car0linanne mainland Europe
@@monkeydude2424 😂😂😂
The way they all went to strongly agree when they were asked “was your relationship with the mother okay” I awwed
Josh might’ve been scared/nervous and had a normal teen reaction to a teen pregnancy but you can tell he loves his babies and he’s a great father!
These boys be married and having kids and I'm over here burning a grilled cheese
Kat Primm at least you’re cooking. I’m tracking my food on an app 😂
Never related more to a comment
Not all of them are married 💀
At least if you fuck up its only a sandwich
Grill cheese sounds good rn
I died at how they kept zooming in on Josh's face making him look guilty.
Shahir Ampey that was messed up!!
How does zooming in on a face make them look guilty?
TheRealDeal 51 It was a combination of the way the other guys were answering the questions and the way the cameraman was directing. Actors can do one thing but directors have the capability to manipulate the way in which the footage comes across or the emotions it evokes in the viewer. It’s not that josh was guilty, but the guys were saying stuff like “idk how you can make life and leave it” and then it shot to Josh’s face as if he was in the conversation or being talked about. It seemed like he was being singled out and it didn’t happen just once.
I think they were trying to catch reactions to other people's answers. It did make him look like he had other hidden thoughts but I'm sure that was not their intention.
I know and understand but it may not have been intentional and it just as likely may have been but you know whatever
josh was the most honest and realistic of all of them
Josh lied about being financially stable. When he was together with his baby mama, he would consistently ask for UA-cam money when he wouldn’t help with UA-cam. His baby mama because of UA-cam but not him. They aren’t together anymore.
Me being an indian just thinking how will my neighbours and relatives will react after they know i became dad at 19.
It’s almost a privilege that some of the guys couldn’t relate to Josh. It wasn’t a case of who was more honest, but Josh has had the more realistic, or at least more common experience as a teen father.
I wouldn't call being in the military a "privileged" lifestyle. I mean anyone of those guys can join.
Divine Campe I was meaning it’s a privilege they couldn’t relate to him
How can you victimised one guy situation if they all are in the same situation, come with a good argument instead of calling the other spoiled
youtube account i don’t think they were saying they were all spoiled i think they meant that they had like supportive parents, or the teens wanted to have a baby.
youtube account how are they in the same situation tge fact most of these planned their pregnancies made the situation so different from Josh´s
“My wife” Y’all I’m older than all these guys and I just broke up with my first real boyfriend...
I can feel you
24 never had one
Bro I JUST turned 18. I ain't gonna get a boyfriend for a long time, let alone a HUSBAND. I could never
Vlad To the Bone i’m turning 22 next month and I haven’t been in ANY relationships!! I want a baby!!!!
@@bigacornlavafla1310 I can give you a baby😉
I really hated how the attention was directed and cameras were pointing at josh just because the others were on the same side besides him when they asked whether they are involved in their kid's life even though he wasn't even on the other side. Just one line away. That just proves his honesty and I admire him
Josh literally had twins like no wonder he has the reactions he did ❤️❤️❤️
I feel like Josh was judged all the way through by the other teen dads 😭 makes me feel sad because I think he was 100% honest and thats the whole point of these videos, plus I think he is the most relatable one for teen parents.
LuanaLyrics exactly!
He was the only reasonable one. Like hey maybe I should graduate fkn high school before before starting to have kids
TBH i feel like the other dudes are hella conservative or didnt want to be judged on youtube. Josh was super realistic! Mad props to him
I really appreciated his honesty because for a majority of teen parents, it is really really hard
Dude need to grow a pair.