Do All Couples Think The Same?

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  • @Najib99
    @Najib99 Рік тому +13854

    Chelsea is so brave for been genuine and transparent. It takes so much self awareness and maturity to point out her own weaknesses as part of her explanations 💕

  • @Wra8h
    @Wra8h Рік тому +6533

    You know why Tara and Jake work so well? Because they are fantastic people who know themselves even if they weren't in a relationship! As they said, there's her, his, and their lives, not just one. I really love their input.

    • @ashleyh2578
      @ashleyh2578 Рік тому +119

      This. They seem like confident people. Idk them but they exude that idea of knowing yourself first and also healthy effin boundaries.

    • @ShayNola
      @ShayNola Рік тому +45

      you cant stop having your own life because youre in realationship yes youre together but its kinda sad if youre one person honestly

    • @shrutik9673
      @shrutik9673 Рік тому +15

      @@ShayNola Tara is the most intelligent of them all

    • @ShayNola
      @ShayNola Рік тому +1

      @@shrutik9673 agreed

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent Рік тому +5

      they were my favorite

  • @kevinadiel777
    @kevinadiel777 Рік тому +2289

    “I have my life Tara has her life and we have our life” that line was simple but very powerful. I liked a lot!

    • @jiminjimin1227
      @jiminjimin1227 11 місяців тому +47

      Ya I agree …. They are young but seemed to have more of a healthy relationship then most older people … I love that … they know what they want and it feels like if they came to a bump in the road and wanted different things in life … they would part ways relationship wise with ease … and they would probably stay friends …

    • @kaywee4200
      @kaywee4200 8 місяців тому +3

      100 percent.

    • @krissed7770
      @krissed7770 5 місяців тому +15

      @@jiminjimin1227the fact that you’re right

    • @heartclouds
      @heartclouds 5 місяців тому +12

      @@jiminjimin1227they did exactly that

    • @samanthaxo819
      @samanthaxo819 4 місяці тому +5

      @@jiminjimin1227ahaha that’s exactly what they did!

  • @katrinasierra2733
    @katrinasierra2733 8 місяців тому +1165

    The way people really use "breaks" as an excuse to sleep around and then say that they are "so necessary" for relationships to thrive is actually insane. No way a person who isn't manipulative or narcissistic thinks this way.

    • @vivianahernandez1130
      @vivianahernandez1130 7 місяців тому +112

      trynna to find a comment that talked about that bc there’s literally no way you date someone and randomly when you’re comfortable be like do i want this person? leave and go fuck someone .. like huh? it’s a break like they said. if it’s a break that’s considered cheating to me personally. just break up if you want to fuck other people. your partner shouldn’t be a second choice because you’re unsure ? how are you unsure after 4 years? make it make sense.

    • @kissmyasss420
      @kissmyasss420 7 місяців тому +19

      I also agree but it's a good thing we can choose our person and we can choose to leave. If someone asked for a break I would just leave and never return lol I'm not dealing with that 😂

    • @jam3269
      @jam3269 7 місяців тому +31

      No fr. Like Why do u have to sleep around to know if u really want to be with skmeone

    • @tinymogi
      @tinymogi 7 місяців тому +5

      exactly

    • @Meccarox
      @Meccarox 7 місяців тому +5

      Right??

  • @kelseyfrazier7110
    @kelseyfrazier7110 Рік тому +2669

    Throw back to when Kian & Ayla said they wanted a baby within the next 3 years and now look at them 6 months later 🤍 Congratulations Ayla & Kian!!

    • @roseyfan
      @roseyfan Рік тому +6

      yay! 🎉

    • @amyserrano5823
      @amyserrano5823 Рік тому +18

      I came back to watch this video because of the foreshadowing 😢🎉❤

    • @merrelltwinslover1556
      @merrelltwinslover1556 11 місяців тому +3

      💓

    • @miadaniel294
      @miadaniel294 11 місяців тому +3

      right omgg

    • @cheyennediedrich
      @cheyennediedrich 8 місяців тому +6

      At first I thought Ayla was already pregnant but haven’t told anyone yet. 😅

  • @shelbi5204
    @shelbi5204 Рік тому +21265

    tara and jake are so real and genuine - they’re literally made for eachother

    • @shaynaclickovich5416
      @shaynaclickovich5416 Рік тому +61

      yes 😍

    • @CaitWylie
      @CaitWylie Рік тому +36

      Facts

    • @leensalocin
      @leensalocin Рік тому +14

      Yaaassss

    • @jackyflores245
      @jackyflores245 Рік тому +6

      rightttt

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Рік тому +215

      I feel bad for Jake tho at the end lol.. when he was talking about kids and she interrupted him you could see it In his face so he had to slowly add his answer while the other people talked lol DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE TARA SO MUCH AND THEY ACTUALLY TALKED ABOUT THIS PROBLEM IN JC STREAM SO DONT TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY

  • @abbeyz4920
    @abbeyz4920 Рік тому +7878

    I honestly love seeing how healthy and genuine Tara and Jake's relationship is - every time I see them together I’m always so impressed by how well they communicate and are so clear and comfortable within themselves and with each other. Both such well-rounded humans who balance being mature and knowing what they want with allowing themselves to have fun and make the most of life by doing what makes them happy. Honestly so lovely to see partners that understand each other in that way and have clearly put in the work to cultivate such a strong and healthy relationship.

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Рік тому +30

      They were made for each other

    • @abbeyz4920
      @abbeyz4920 Рік тому +50

      * Should clarify that I don’t mean to take away from anyone else’s relationship! Everyone seems happy and secure in their own style and doing what works for them. Just feel like (especially for a young couple) they are a great example of what I’d love to see in my own life!

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Рік тому +4

      @@aubreyy__15 honestly tho, they're so compatible

    • @iman4944
      @iman4944 Рік тому +2

      @@abbeyz4920 you are so right and don’t worry you weren’t putting down other relationships but relationships now of days are toxic and them being so young while maintaining a healthy relationship is something I want as well🥺

    • @etherdragun
      @etherdragun Рік тому +1

      😆😆

  • @jiayiwang4973
    @jiayiwang4973 Рік тому +2108

    Tara and Jake is the relationship I would want to be in
    No kids, no trust issues, no looking phones, stylish, perfect.

    • @thedcvilswhcre_
      @thedcvilswhcre_ 10 місяців тому +13

      Sameee it’s what I strive to have.

    • @WillowTree363
      @WillowTree363 10 місяців тому +71

      Yeah, and I like that Tara acknowledges that she won’t be a perfect mother. Not saying she won’t, but many adults have kids without thinking and they might not be the best parents, so I really like that about Tara

    • @Subsistence69
      @Subsistence69 9 місяців тому

      Same, that shit looks tight

    • @tevarose
      @tevarose 7 місяців тому +25

      this didn’t age well

    • @denjiwh0re
      @denjiwh0re 7 місяців тому +42

      @@tevarosethey still love each other tho, they just decided to follow their own ways which i find really healthy!

  • @makaylagaitan
    @makaylagaitan Рік тому +1616

    this aged so well for kian and ayla😭❤️ so happy to see them become parents

    • @roseyfan
      @roseyfan Рік тому +6

      yas!

    • @landoncoffel3104
      @landoncoffel3104 4 місяці тому +6

      Just found and followed bc this comment

    • @eerriiiika
      @eerriiiika 3 місяці тому

      Yess

    • @glendagonzalez4217
      @glendagonzalez4217 3 місяці тому +5

      definetly did not age well for tara and jake :( i wish they didnt break up

    • @lester499
      @lester499 3 місяці тому +5

      @@glendagonzalez4217 i mean you could tell from the video they wouldn't last

  • @sashac175
    @sashac175 Рік тому +3647

    Tara and Jake are so good at communication. You can really tell by their boundaries that it’s a healthy relationship too

    • @hannahknolly
      @hannahknolly 10 місяців тому +12

      right?!! and im pretty sure they have been together the longest out of all the couples! they compliment each other so well, i love them!

    • @morganhall7336
      @morganhall7336 7 місяців тому +18

      this didn’t age well

    • @divyaa4459
      @divyaa4459 7 місяців тому +4

      @@morganhall7336 oh, did they break up?😐

    • @andreagonzalezo.7954
      @andreagonzalezo.7954 7 місяців тому

      @@morganhall7336wait, they broke up?

    • @tessaelto1472
      @tessaelto1472 7 місяців тому +51

      @@morganhall7336just because they broke up doesn't mean they didn't have a healthy relationship with good communication lmao jeez

  • @megan_1
    @megan_1 Рік тому +1890

    JC saying "WHAT IS A BREAK" is literally me 😂
    and then Kian telling Ayla "and then when I kicked you out of the house we took a break for a weekend" lmfao Kian 💀

  • @lgerd8828
    @lgerd8828 Рік тому +479

    Taking a “break” is different than needing space for a second. In my 10 year relationship we have faced many of hard times that required space but we never once needed a “break”. We worked though it together and that’s what makes you stronger

    • @StellaRose.
      @StellaRose. Рік тому +26

      I love your comment and I agree. My boyfriend and I been together for 7 years and we never want our own space and we never fight, we agree and disagree but never a fight.

    • @ecstasyecs
      @ecstasyecs Рік тому +47

      Same. I always said it’s an excuse to sleep with other people and they kinda confirmed it here lol.

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Рік тому +1

      @@ecstasyecs yep! I think Chelsea is late 30s which explains her views!!

    • @MC32595
      @MC32595 Рік тому +1

      agreed!

    • @keyLimner
      @keyLimner 10 місяців тому

      ​@@ecstasyecs Maybe that's healthy sometimes.

  • @haileystrang
    @haileystrang Рік тому +5826

    It’s was so weird to me seeing Kian and jc talk about kids until I realized that they really are grown adults now, it’s hard to believe how far they’ve come sometimes I still see them as the kids they were when I first started watching

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe Рік тому +34

      exactly! time flew

    • @estefanysepulveda10
      @estefanysepulveda10 Рік тому +38

      lol I was kind of shocked, then remembered they are full on adults JC is already 30

    • @brynnamanda6278
      @brynnamanda6278 Рік тому +12

      FR I remember seeing kians first ever video

    • @iris-xo
      @iris-xo Рік тому +9

      I seriously am struggling to comprehend they’re like 30

    • @avin374
      @avin374 Рік тому +16

      And now kian and ayla are having a baby😭🥹

  • @AllieDanielleYoga
    @AllieDanielleYoga Рік тому +2814

    when JC says “speak your truth, baby” to Chelsey, my heart melted omfg 🥺

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Рік тому +13

      same omg I love them

    • @ri6516
      @ri6516 Рік тому +10

      That was so cute. 😭

    • @cheddarsunchipsyes8144
      @cheddarsunchipsyes8144 Рік тому +4

      “Your truth” is such a dumb term, there is only 1 truth in any scenario. You can have your own experience and your own opinion.

    • @shannematalang9707
      @shannematalang9707 Рік тому +15

      @@cheddarsunchipsyes8144 it’s poetic actually. As you said, you can have your own opinions and I believe JC didn’t mean to say the real definition of truth what he meant to push her to say was what’s really on her mind and feelings so meaning that’s her truth

    • @romanbisek1498
      @romanbisek1498 Рік тому +6

      @@cheddarsunchipsyes8144 taking it too literal bro.

  • @savannahdamico2011
    @savannahdamico2011 11 місяців тому +401

    watching ayla sprint to strongly agree to having kids in the next three years knowing they’re pregnant is crazy

  • @meetoo5088
    @meetoo5088 Рік тому +577

    I love the boyfriend giving support to his girl every time she talks about her insecurities and the toxic traits she’s able to acknowledge and work on ❤

  • @shaneelizabeth4010
    @shaneelizabeth4010 Рік тому +4621

    I cannot believe Tara is only 22. She is wise beyond her years and so mature! I genuinely think she would be a fantastic mom and give such good advice

    • @leticiaquitete7205
      @leticiaquitete7205 Рік тому +262

      it’s usually how it is, the people that would be great parents doubt themselves bc they understand how much effort it takes to raise a great human being and put too much pressure on themselves

    • @R2S0725
      @R2S0725 Рік тому +129

      she said herself she’s too selfish and self centered right now to be able to be the best mom lol which is very apparent so it’s good she’s that self aware to prevent any accidents bc she knows she’s no where near ready

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Рік тому +18

      @@R2S0725 yeah I agree, it's better that she's honest & aware instead of having a baby she knows she can't take care of

    • @jewel8439
      @jewel8439 Рік тому +72

      She said she doesn’t have motherly instincts. That’s actually the most important thing you need to be a mom, to want the kid. I’ve loved kids and babies my whole life and she says she doesn’t even like them. I applaud her self reflection and knowing herself, she’s a very nice and mature person

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Рік тому

      @@jewel8439 oh yeah, I forgot she said that too, but you're right

  • @melh5531
    @melh5531 Рік тому +2143

    Legit can’t get enough of this friend group, from the dating blind series to the series where you get to see everyone’s mindset. Love all this content

  • @michelle2367
    @michelle2367 4 місяці тому +53

    i LOVED tara and jake's explanation about the looking through phones. they explained my thoughts perfectly they get it

  • @Xx-ic8ym
    @Xx-ic8ym Рік тому +392

    kian, jc and david saying they see themselves as parents in 3 years kind of made me a little emotional. i grew up watching these people so i'm definitely gonna cry when that day comes

    • @Xx-ic8ym
      @Xx-ic8ym 11 місяців тому +16

      NOW KIAN AND AYLA AND PREGNANT I'M CRYING

  • @meg_collins
    @meg_collins Рік тому +2887

    “let’s all fight”
    kian is so effortlessly funny 😭

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Рік тому +32

      I literally cant get enough of Kian HAHA

    • @dolahdoles4481
      @dolahdoles4481 Рік тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Alejandracortes98
      @Alejandracortes98 Рік тому +21

      His gf is too much man, she just likes to disagree lmao

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Рік тому +17

      and also when he said "I trust Ayla with my heart, she could take it out like a heart surgeon and keep it alive" lol

    • @biancadisanto222
      @biancadisanto222 Рік тому

      when was this?

  • @mariamosquera1183
    @mariamosquera1183 Рік тому +1299

    You can really see that age difference matters when answering these questions. Love jake and Tara for keeping it real and truly enjoying their early 20’s as they should

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 Рік тому +11

      Lol absolutely. I feel like my expectations and mentality really developed over time.

  • @unoriginxlity
    @unoriginxlity Рік тому +174

    i’m really happy they mentioned the FOMO type of jealousy because i always feel like such a horrible person when my bf gets to hang out & have fun with his friends and im sitting at home because i have no other friends besides him and i get that FOMO kind of jealousy, but i also don’t wanna break boundaries by insisting that i have to always be there when he’s hanging out with them

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Рік тому +2

      Then, have your own friends! Get busy!!

    • @unoriginxlity
      @unoriginxlity Рік тому +19

      @@blueskies6475 if you don’t understand my struggle then ignore my comment. it was not targeted at you. it was for anyone else who might share my struggle so maybe they won’t feel so alone like i do.
      maybe try to be a little more kind in your replies because whether you believe it or not, reminding the wrong person of that in your tone could send them over the edge.
      i’m glad you’re able to make and keep friends but not everyone on this earth is as lucky.
      it takes more energy to type up a rude response than it does to not type one up at all.

    • @p_roduct9211
      @p_roduct9211 Рік тому +8

      Hey hun, I'm kind of horribly ambivalent towards wanting to be part of my BF's friends hangouts (I am always grateful to be included, but I don't expect and feel obligated to always be there as the 2nd half). But I get what you mean. I think it feels normal because there's this unsettling thing between his ability to have fun with another group and possibly have a different story or bond develop without you there... and the contrast to your lack of friend action at home. Don't feel obligated to always be a social butterfly. I can count my true friends on one hand, we connect and chat maybe 2-3 times a year since we are all spread across the world now but go to each other with all our deepest insecurities, goals, secrets and successes. Fun is overrated, remember 90% of the time boys are sitting around doing the dumbest shit, drinking and jking around. Don't feel guilty to not match the same level of social activity. Protect your energy and be happy with those closest to you.

  • @bri7614
    @bri7614 Рік тому +590

    Kian has the ability to be immature but mature at the same time😅

  • @ItsMe34120
    @ItsMe34120 Рік тому +2004

    Jake and Tara are literally perfect for each other!

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Рік тому +2872

    chelsey's answers were so real and relatable, I love how she wasn't afraid to be transparent with her answers.

    • @fatsanii
      @fatsanii Рік тому +4

      yes !!

    • @anjieeee
      @anjieeee Рік тому +3

      she’s so real

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Рік тому +9

      Being honest about your "lack of values" doesn't really give you a lot of points! She's"honest" tho, I guess.

    • @lulue.5655
      @lulue.5655 11 місяців тому

      @@blueskies6475 how does expressing insecurities mean she lacks values???

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 11 місяців тому

      @@lulue.5655 Sorry, I don't recall her insecurities. What were they?

  • @nishamiah4564
    @nishamiah4564 Рік тому +85

    who’s watching after kian and ayla announced their baby news🥺been watching kian for the last 11 years and i cant believe he’s going to be a dad, so surreal to hear them talk about it in this video 💕

  • @SacrificeLoveJoyLife
    @SacrificeLoveJoyLife Рік тому +201

    They definitely need to start doing these blindfolded. People look at what others are doing, and then follow.

    • @MT-ov8qf
      @MT-ov8qf Рік тому +14

      i disagree, i think it adds to it when people are being indecisive and have to explain why

    • @daisyhayzzz
      @daisyhayzzz Рік тому +20

      if they were blindfolded how would they see the lines to know where to go to lol

    • @Nisa-oe9dd
      @Nisa-oe9dd 7 місяців тому +2

      I mean they literally ask for their ideas so anytime they talk it’ll be obvious

  • @Asshlaay1
    @Asshlaay1 Рік тому +2655

    I feel like everyone is talking about how healthy Tara and Jake are, and they are. But I appreciate how vulnerable and open everyone else was sharing their honest opinions. Especially Chelsea. You can tell she struggles with insecurities and trust. I’m happy that she and everyone else is open to talking about these things not only with their partners but with their friends as well. Talking about these things really helps others learn and realize their own toxic habits. I would love a part 2 of this!

  • @molly.elizabeth5639
    @molly.elizabeth5639 Рік тому +2468

    This video just reinforces my belief that “healthy” relationships are different for every single human. What’s healthy to one person could not be to someone else & that’s why there’s specific people for each other.. because you’ve gotta find someone who aligns with you. It’s kinda a beautiful reminder of how diverse each individual person is. ❤

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Рік тому +2

      exactly

    • @molly.elizabeth5639
      @molly.elizabeth5639 Рік тому +2

      @@kaylahmatano1749 :))

    • @lorelylopez9448
      @lorelylopez9448 Рік тому +2

      So true!!!!!

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent Рік тому +19

      kinda true. but! there are still some universal concepts of health ...

    • @molly.elizabeth5639
      @molly.elizabeth5639 Рік тому +12

      @@onemillionpercent For sure. I’m not saying “it’s okay you’re partner beats you or controls what you wear bc it’s healthy to you.” I didn’t think I needed to include toxic/abusive behaviors, because those things are obviously not healthy.

  • @shegotit143
    @shegotit143 Рік тому +112

    Really appreciate Chelsea being vulnerable and real even when it shows her own toxic traits or low self-esteem. I think we all can relate but to vocalize and be real about it… oof girl 🙌🏼❤️

  • @BlackLightning47
    @BlackLightning47 8 місяців тому +30

    A break is a breakup for people in denial. What they are describing is just having some "me time" away from your SO. Which is okay and probably necessary for healthy relationships. It could be a weekend away from each other or going to see family or a friends only vacation.
    A break sounds like someone who fell out of love or isn't interested in the relationship anymore but hasn't realized it yet.

    • @thumbsuckerjoe
      @thumbsuckerjoe 2 місяці тому

      Bro exactly. Every relationship whether a bf/gf or even close friends are allowed to have some distance and me time whenever its needed.
      The only reason they use the term "a break" is because of exactly what the girl said in the video: they explicitly want a time where they can go fuck around with other men/women.
      Saying its "a break" is just an attempt at a guilt free pass to do so at the detriment of their partner.

  • @corischrade6787
    @corischrade6787 Рік тому +4415

    But really, Chelsea shows so much maturity, bravery, and self awareness. You can tell she has put in work to better herself for her and therefore for her relationship. That’s not easy, so I just want to commend her on that and being so authentic during this video. I feel like so many people can relate to the struggles she talks about and it is extremely validating to hear someone with a platform and in a long term relationship speak up about it ❤

  • @ariannam1103
    @ariannam1103 Рік тому +1138

    this friend group just seems so safe and fun. i hope one day i’ll be able to find a true group of friends like this. y’all have amazing souls and will each move on to amazing things. can’t wait to see what they are♥️

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Рік тому +6

      Couldn’t of said it any better. I fully agree with you. This is like my biggest wish.

    • @indierain8524
      @indierain8524 Рік тому +12

      100% agree. Even though i am 21 and i feel like finding a group of friends like this is pretty much impossible now, i still hope that i can find ones like them.

    • @sebastianreyes7917
      @sebastianreyes7917 Рік тому

      Completely agree

    • @jujumariex
      @jujumariex Рік тому +2

      couldn’t agree more, and i’m 29 so i feel like times ticking 😂 but supposedly 30’s are the new 20’s!

  • @queenavocado9441
    @queenavocado9441 Рік тому +85

    Jake and tara have the most healthiest and adult relationship. They also look like they’ve come straight from an 80s & 90s movie

  • @nutella9446
    @nutella9446 Рік тому +216

    This is the first time I saw grace in a video and she absolutely killed it , such a smart , articulate & effortlessly funny person & she’s also stunning
    You complement each other beautifully, sending you lots of love

  • @indierain8524
    @indierain8524 Рік тому +499

    i love how Tara and Jake are so calm and mature. You can tell they don't center their life around their relationship and i honestly feel like that's the most healthy thing. Love them both and it was good to hear their points of views.

    • @persiabell556
      @persiabell556 Рік тому +2

      I’ve seen them bicker a lot too tho, and boderline being rude to each other. Which is fine they’re both young and couples can fight too, but they seems to treat each other more like friends.

  • @coo1ranch820
    @coo1ranch820 Рік тому +909

    Love the fact that Tara says how her friends tell her personal stuff and that it’s not for bf eyes. My ex best friend always let her bf on her phone like in class and he was the kind of guy who would read our text to find our drama. So I always felt uncomfortable with it especially since I always told her my family drama. Like at some point I felt like I couldn’t tell her anything because I was too worried he would read all about it without my permission. One of many reasons why we aren’t friends anymore

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Рік тому +75

      I think Jake had a really good point when he said "there's my life, Tara's life, & our life." I think if someone can't separate their life with their friends & their life with their significant other then it's a problem. I've had friends who put more importance on her boyfriend of 1 month over our friendship of 6 years, so I can kind of relate to you, I'm glad you're not friends with her anymore

    • @estefanysepulveda10
      @estefanysepulveda10 Рік тому +6

      @@arielm.4997 that's so true, some in a relationship may even say why can't you just tell me their "family drama", or secrets, or whatever else it could be because you're supposed to tell me everything. But no, they don't have to tell you everything if it doesn't have anything to do with your relationship. Specially if your friend is trusting you with this info, why does your partner need to know this info? It really just depends on the situation though

    • @pxaolaaa
      @pxaolaaa Рік тому +2

      thisssssss

    • @YamiiiC7
      @YamiiiC7 Рік тому +5

      @@arielm.4997 my bsf does that to me now, we’ve been friends for 10 years now and she finally got her first bf and they are super close so she kinda brushed me to the side and the only time we rlly talked to eachother was when I reached out to her so I stopped reaching out and we go weeks without talking to eachother, and atp idk how to feel cuz I’ve been going through a hard time these past months and she never rlly check up on me sooo I feel like I don’t rlly got a bsf anymore. And it bothers me cuz he means a lot to me….🫠🫤

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Рік тому

      @@YamiiiC7 I'm sorry you're going through that, I've been there & it hurts a lot. Have you talked to her about it? She may or may not realize she's doing it but either way telling her how you feel is a good idea. Especially since you guys have been friends for 10 years, that's too important to let it end like that. I hope it gets resolved

  • @tess98y
    @tess98y Рік тому +121

    it's so nice from Chelsea to be genuine and transparent about her insecurities 'cause I could relate so much to her and I'm myself on a journey trying to get better about it. Also seeing how a beautiful and smart girl talking about having times of weakness made me feel a little better about myself like the fact i'm insecure doesn't mean i'm not pretty 💞

  • @ReganSkye2010
    @ReganSkye2010 Рік тому +13

    This video is so important and I’m so glad it exists. So many great conversations displaying HEALTHY, non-toxic relationships, but also being open about “toxic” traits and explaining how they’re actively working to improve, for themselves AND their relationships. BRAVO 👏🏻

  • @autumn4161
    @autumn4161 Рік тому +877

    Tara and jake are so mature and have such a healthy relationship because of it

  • @SuperEmilio2011
    @SuperEmilio2011 Рік тому +726

    I just love Tara so much, just a wholesome, well-rounded, grounded person.

  • @katelynwright3165
    @katelynwright3165 Рік тому

    I always love these type of videos with my favorite people, good work david!! and i love the honesty from every couple

  • @tationagaiten9074
    @tationagaiten9074 Рік тому +9

    This is probably one of my favorite questionarries that David has done. I don't know why but I loved this one for sure.

  • @yasmeenallouch5258
    @yasmeenallouch5258 Рік тому +531

    Genuinely can't wait for the day when this friend group start getting engaged/married/having kids. I just know that baby will be loved, spoiled as HECK, cared for, and be surrounded by amazing people who will move mountains for them.
    I've been watching the majority of this group since the beginning and to see them all now, grown and talking about having kids is crazy. Love you sooo much David and thank you for always making such amazing videos.
    (Also, I freaking love Ayla and Kian😂😂He's effortlessly funny and I'm here for it)

  • @amywestlund
    @amywestlund Рік тому +582

    These couples are making my relationship expectations even higher than they already are lol

    • @wendy.darling
      @wendy.darling Рік тому +1

      right? 😭

    • @amywestlund
      @amywestlund Рік тому +8

      @@wendy.darling like I’m gonna be single forever at this point lmaoo no one will be Kian Lawley 😂

    • @leomessirules19
      @leomessirules19 Рік тому

      @@amywestlund stop

    • @nakynie463
      @nakynie463 Рік тому +1

      Ikr? Nothing saves me from the old cat lady life anymore

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 10 місяців тому +13

    I agree with Tara and Jake so much especially with the phone thing, i think that everyone deserves privacy, just bc youre in a relationship doesnt mean that you have to show that person everything all the time, you still deserve to have private conversations etc. for me i use my notes app as a therapist and diary and i just want in there and i would be so uncomfortable if i caught someone looking through it

  • @Xx-ic8ym
    @Xx-ic8ym Рік тому +3

    what a good video david. such good and mature conversations that i think they and us viewers needed to have

  • @b3ttr0ff
    @b3ttr0ff Рік тому +530

    tara and jake being on the same side most of the time is goals no cap 🤞

  • @josse1yn
    @josse1yn Рік тому +288

    i’ve always been told by my friends that i was “too chill” in relationships but seeing that i agreed with jake and tara with every topic and knowing that they’re in a beautiful, healthy relationship makes me feel at ease. everyone is different and sees healthy relationships in different ways, you just need to find your person and work through those different ideals together.

    • @zarahshabs7936
      @zarahshabs7936 Рік тому +17

      I think people mistake fighting for passion and care in the relationship
      When in reality if you guys have your boundaries and can handle conflict calmly, there’s nothing wrong with be calm!!
      Go you!

    • @MiaAshlynM
      @MiaAshlynM 3 місяці тому +3

      this didn’t age well

  • @arifapatel13
    @arifapatel13 Рік тому +1

    Ahhhhh I'm sooo glad you decided to make this video!! I remember commenting on the Do All Guys Think The Same video to make one with the couples, glad to see it, it really was great conversation and also very eye opening. I love watching these kinds of videos because you get to hear so many different perspectives and sometimes they help me make decisions if I'm on the fence about a question that was asked. Love the content, can't wait to see what's in store next! Lots of love to all ☺

  • @damitamarie2458
    @damitamarie2458 Рік тому +82

    Tara and Jake have one of the strongest "influencer" relationships I have seen in a while. They just meld so perfectly and are clearly on the same page about a lot of things in life.

  • @destinyanngel
    @destinyanngel Рік тому +287

    Jake and Tara are very genuine and understanding of a real relationship but also the parent question they answered how people really should think when it comes to kids. People think that because they’re in a good place or they’re happy enough that this is a good time to have a kid when its really about if you’re ready to put your life on hold to raise a child to be its own person which is something barley any adult or parents understand so they have kids for the wrong reason such as “my cousin is having kids i should too” and such. I’m happy they know they have a life to live and goals that they would probably struggle to reach if they were pressured to think they needed to have kids soon because its the “right thing to do.”

    • @jesse-mu4ue
      @jesse-mu4ue Рік тому +4

      Completely agree with you!!

    • @yazzzmin1025
      @yazzzmin1025 Рік тому +4

      agreed!

    • @aereid6
      @aereid6 Рік тому +14

      I agree the goal shouldn't be to have kids it's to raise good humans. Lots of people use kids for selfish reasons like passing on their "legacy" or using them to heal their own issues. Children don't owe you anything I wish more people considered these things a little more.

  • @_daniellelizabeth
    @_daniellelizabeth Рік тому +275

    I absolutely love Tara and Jake, they’re so real with eachother
    I also agree with Tara 100% on her outlook on having kids which I feel like is a uncommon opinion so it’s nice to hear how open she is with expressing it

  • @napturalkassie
    @napturalkassie Рік тому +19

    Jake and Tara really go together, you can tell how much they respect and trust eachother.😍All of the couples had a really great dynamic. This is such a fun friend group to watch. Keep em commmin!

  • @lovalexis
    @lovalexis Рік тому +19

    I just love this whole friend group. And everyones relationships are so different but yet so similar because there's so much trust in each one of them. Everyone was so vulnerable and honest with each question and that amazing and so helpful for the people in relationships watching this not so much to compare but to see like "oh yeah they went through this also" kind of thing. I relate so much with Chelsea and I'm happy for her and her own growth.

  • @laurenkellie
    @laurenkellie Рік тому +1642

    David: "it's okay to be jealous"
    Jake: "Nick Jonas was."
    that was iconic😂😂

  • @winnierenee0
    @winnierenee0 Рік тому +26

    “having a break” is a high school mentality. i have been with my spouse for 9 years. you are either in it or not. if you are gonna take a break like tara said then most likely they aren’t for you.

    • @thumbsuckerjoe
      @thumbsuckerjoe 2 місяці тому

      I'm in my late 20s and this is one of the first videos I've seen that had really made me feel old.
      I truly don't understand how someone can rationally say "Sometimes in a relationship you need to take a break to go sleep with people to see if you truly want to be with someone and if they're 'your person'".
      It's just a selfish mindset and a lack of respect and commitment to your partner.
      You're either in, or you're out.

  • @steffycastro6446
    @steffycastro6446 Рік тому +2

    I love that you are making these videos because I enjoy hearing from people who I have grown up watching talk about just real life topics that i discuss with my friends. I hold a lot value in hearing your guys genuine opinions. And just the fact that as I grow up, you guys are growing up too 😢

  • @lillypad4174
    @lillypad4174 Рік тому

    This is one of my favorite ones of these so far loving the content David ❤

  • @MM-tj9to
    @MM-tj9to Рік тому +221

    jake and tara are probably the most mature, healthy and genuine couple i know

    • @mipox2851
      @mipox2851 2 місяці тому

      what are you on about bro

    • @mipox2851
      @mipox2851 2 місяці тому

      what did you smoke brev

  • @valeriaaamunoz
    @valeriaaamunoz Рік тому +192

    I love how everyone was so sincere and genuine with their answers and I love how mature jake and Tara are in their relationship when they are the youngest in the friend group. Overall great video !

  • @isaiahmichalak6964
    @isaiahmichalak6964 Рік тому +1

    Love David’s videos always help me clear my mind and help me threw my day

  • @ItsChelseaSymone
    @ItsChelseaSymone Рік тому +3

    Yooo David's girl said such a great thing🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 yessssss about the genuine friend thing cause there are girls who are very conscious about their friend's girlfriend's feeling and don't want to be anything more than friends. Being mature is a HUGE part of that. Trusting yourself and your partner has to be there to be comfortable with outside friends

  • @natashasaliba24
    @natashasaliba24 Рік тому +35

    David, your quality in videos is just amazing, they always brighten my day. Thank you for making videos 🙏🏻

  • @ximenasagastume2315
    @ximenasagastume2315 Рік тому +98

    Chelsey being so vulnerable, made this so genuine 💌

  • @vicxxo_
    @vicxxo_ Рік тому +1

    I honestly loved the honesty and realness of this video. Great job 👏🏻

  • @brandimunguia
    @brandimunguia Рік тому +36

    I aspire to have the level of confidence and security that Tara has, in herself and in her relationship.

  • @AngelinaFraser
    @AngelinaFraser Рік тому +287

    David really be stirrin' the pot in all his friends relationships 😂 excited to see what else he comes up with

  • @jasp6653
    @jasp6653 Рік тому +16

    i knew i loved this group for a reason!! it was so refreshing to see people being real about their insecurity's and feelings towards relationships! i would love a part two

  • @Blueeyesinthesky
    @Blueeyesinthesky Рік тому +9

    What a great set of couples! They all have good morals and care about their relationships. I can understand Chelsea with the questions thing because I have been guilty of doing the same thing with my boyfriend. It’s toxic and isn’t helpful to yourself but you do it anyways due to anxiety and being an over thinker. I commend her for being so transparent and honest

  • @jasmineojeda9359
    @jasmineojeda9359 Рік тому +8

    Chelsea, I can relate to you on so many levels girl!
    I always felt insecure about being so insecure but you make me feel better about myself!

  • @krispipatty
    @krispipatty Рік тому +32

    I knew it! I've been waiting for this video! Thank you so much David for uploading this! You are awesome! Plus I love how chill Tara and Jake! I love their relationship ☺️

  • @xhairystyles
    @xhairystyles Рік тому +264

    something about grace seeming like the total opposite of david makes me believe wholeheartedly that they compliment each other so well lmaooo I wanna see more Grace!

  • @iits_raelyn5825
    @iits_raelyn5825 Рік тому +18

    i love how every couple has their own style

  • @ainsleym9202
    @ainsleym9202 Рік тому +21

    JC's girlfriend is so sweet, I get you with the insecurity and the fact she recognizes it and is obviously self aware and honest is so sweet and JC comforting her as she's talking is so sweet

  • @ereenemiera6057
    @ereenemiera6057 Рік тому +52

    absolutely loveee jake and tara’s relationship!! and also love how chelsea is so transparent and recognises her own weaknesses ❤

  • @tamramaiden451
    @tamramaiden451 Рік тому +6

    love love love these relationships and how each one of y’all are genuinely yourself in your relationship and as individuals ♡

  • @izam1832
    @izam1832 Рік тому +1

    i really really enjoyed this serious, please do more!!

  • @Michelle-ko1lj
    @Michelle-ko1lj Рік тому +3

    I loved all the honesty from all couples!

  • @desireemcmillan
    @desireemcmillan Рік тому +110

    I really love hearing their explanations and seeing the similarities and differences between everyone

  • @samanthaciriaco9787
    @samanthaciriaco9787 Рік тому +3

    I always look forward to your videos David! Thank you for all the amazing content you out out there

  • @mackenziethompson640
    @mackenziethompson640 Рік тому

    This video was by far one of my favorites!!! It was so good to watch

  • @dianatorres5315
    @dianatorres5315 Рік тому +29

    Tara and Jake would do great as a married couple. So much communication and honesty. And although everyone else doesn’t agree on everything, these questions and videos helps put things into perspective which is brave of everyone! Marriage is up and down, just know that as long as you’re willing to stick it out together, you’re already on the upside of things. I’d like to see more videos like these, but how about adding married couples in the mix..it would be nice to see the different answers. I’ve been married 22 years, and some of these answers made me cringe lol😅❤ love to all of you though!! 😊

  • @casswynn4273
    @casswynn4273 Рік тому +69

    bro jake and tara are amazing together and are like a solid couple, but also all the other couples seem great for one another and you can tell there’s so much trust and love between all these couples. mad respect to all of them for being so open and honest. we need more representation for healthy and honest couples :)

  • @ianeerac
    @ianeerac Рік тому +9

    I love this video, the way everyone has different perspectives on their relationships goes to say a lot. It’s very eye opening especially since a lot of people are influenced to think of love a certain way when everyone’s different ❤

  • @user-lu4nc6by9m
    @user-lu4nc6by9m 2 місяці тому +4

    But really, Chelsea shows so much maturity, bravery, and self awareness. You can tell she has put in work to better herself for her and therefore for her relationship. That’s not easy, so I just want to commend her on that and being so authentic during this video. I feel like so many people can relate to the struggles she talks about and it is extremely validating to hear someone with a platform and in a long term relationship speak up about it

  • @amik98
    @amik98 Рік тому +42

    I love how open & honest Chelsea is. Makes me feel less alone in the way I feel

  • @sadiaanjum1
    @sadiaanjum1 Рік тому +12

    Also, this friend dynamic is absolute goals. Can't wait to see more amazing videos 😍

  • @FruitsandRoots-vegan
    @FruitsandRoots-vegan Рік тому +19

    I have to say, this was honestly an amazing video. Props to everyone for being so raw and honest and sharing their perspectives. Also, great thealthy communication between the couples. Loved hearing everyone's views. It's wonderful to see so many happy healthy couples

  • @shenglis4260
    @shenglis4260 Рік тому

    FINALLY I’ve been waiting for this!!

  • @_serenelynn_4577
    @_serenelynn_4577 Рік тому +9

    me and Chelsea are the same. Her answers were all so relatable to mine.
    I also feel like this would be a great idea for couples to just do. Gets you guys talking more, and will most likely make your relationship stronger, or realize that you guys aren’t great together. Which is not a bad thing.

  • @faatxwadi1873
    @faatxwadi1873 Рік тому +4

    Absolutely loved this video❤Could not get enough of it. I literally watched it a couple of times! Please make a part 2! Your content is very refreshing to watch!!

  • @Bilal_Aslam_
    @Bilal_Aslam_ Рік тому +85

    “We took a break for a week.”
    “We broke up.”
    “We took a break for a week.” Sounds like Ross and Rachel 😅 WE WERE ON A BREAK!

  • @r113y0
    @r113y0 3 місяці тому +8

    Tara and Jake are the perfect example of right people wrong time

  • @NabiBeautyBar
    @NabiBeautyBar Рік тому

    This content is exactly what I wanted!! Subscribed David.. lololol

  • @abigailpacheco1693
    @abigailpacheco1693 Рік тому +3

    Loved this video!! good mix of couples to show different perspectives. good job David ❤

  • @kirstennichole5430
    @kirstennichole5430 Рік тому +686

    i love chels and jc, she’s so mature and grounded, alpha female vibes the intellectual level is there

  • @RiiyaT
    @RiiyaT Рік тому +4

    These were really good, open-ended questions that every relationship should discuss!

  • @Forreminiscing
    @Forreminiscing Рік тому +3

    Honestly my favorite friend group on the internet. Y’all have evolved so beautifully