How Your Silence Will Intrigue Him To Act And What To Do Next

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    My name is Elliot Scott and I am a dating coach that is going to teach you how to get a boyfriend and attract the guy you like. I am going to teach you numerous ways to attract your crush and get him to fall for you. I have helped thousands of women all over get the guy of their dreams. I am going to tell you how to find out if a guy likes you and the signs that a guy likes you. I also will teach you why men pull away and what to do if they pull away.
    I am going to give you a ton of free dating and relationship advice. Everything you need on how to make a guy fall for you is in my guides and videos. Don’t worry about men pulling away or losing interest. I show you how to get a guy to like you again. I show you how to get a guy back once and for all. If you have any topic or question on attraction and getting guys to desire you then you will find it here. I have been doing this for a long time and I don’t plan on stopping. I love what I do.
    I cover a lot of the following: How to get a guy to like you, signs a guy likes you, how to get a guy back, how to get your ex back, how to get him to like you again, how to get a guy to text back or text faster, and many more.
    I am no way a professional or licensed. This is all just my experience, knowledge, and opinion.
    One more thing: I don’t want you to ever think I am trying to blame you or gaslight you into thinking something that isn’t true or actually happening. My intentions are to give you another way of looking at things and to help you question what is actually going on. My intention is to give clarity and insight. You don’t have to agree with that is being said.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 121

  • @cytavares
    @cytavares Місяць тому +62

    He chose to close the door, he might have the key, but I've already changed the lock.

  • @cup_o_TMarie
    @cup_o_TMarie Місяць тому +33

    “Who gives a rat’s hairy ass!”😝🐀
    I love the straight up raw talk!
    Ladies DO NOT let your ego get in the way! People who really care WILL NOT do or say anything that risks their connection with you or risk losing you!
    Yes people make mistakes. But serious people don’t keep making the mistakes & know how to properly apologize & clean that ish up!
    Stop settling because you’re afraid to be alone, get straight on your values & know your worth!
    No one will ever place a value on you higher than the one you place on yourself!

  • @lauriechan2966
    @lauriechan2966 21 день тому +3

    I went no contact for over a decade.
    Still going.
    That's how mentally, emotionally, spiritually, morally, ethically, financially strong I am.

  • @stephaniethelovely1
    @stephaniethelovely1 Місяць тому +86

    I watch these and there's not even a guy in the picture, oh dear.

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  Місяць тому +27

      @@stephaniethelovely1 that's loyalty

    • @stephaniethelovely1
      @stephaniethelovely1 Місяць тому +11

      @ElliotScottDating it's all about those lion analogies 🤣

    • @ceecee16161
      @ceecee16161 Місяць тому +19

      Preparing for the nonsense 😊

    • @FeliciaStands
      @FeliciaStands Місяць тому +9

      😂😂😂practice makes perfect you will be a scholar once you start dating again 😂😂😂🎉❤🎉❤🎉

    • @FeliciaStands
      @FeliciaStands Місяць тому +4

      @@ceecee16161😂😂😂😂😂😂😂love it 🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @kellystargell8873
    @kellystargell8873 Місяць тому +6

    He re-appeared 6 Months later ( approx 3 weeks ago) and tried me…I told him about himself. He’s still on block with no communication. I have no desire to reconnect with his playa, narcissistic ways.
    I agree with this completely

  • @renchemarais8419
    @renchemarais8419 Місяць тому +44

    It's DANGEROUS taking someone back. He's into REVENGE or showing off to someone else or something. Do not give people the benefit of the doubt.

    • @kaybase6967
      @kaybase6967 Місяць тому +1

      When you say get revenge are you saying he is getting back with you only to get revenge on you? Also, the other reason could be that he is just using you to make someone else jealous? I’ve never seen someone comment that before and I thought I was the only one who would think that. The getting back together (or flirting with you) “to make someone else jealous” part. But I never thought someone would want to get back with you only to get revenge. I’m not saying you’re wrong or it doesn’t happen but I find that take interesting and something to consider (not being sarcastic).

    • @eclecticd9953
      @eclecticd9953 Місяць тому

      I wish I knew that sooner 😢

    • @Adoptedforever
      @Adoptedforever Місяць тому

      @@kaybase6967 oh wow this is a scary world. Feminine women have to be cautious. People have been killed and badly injured and had their kids taken away, etc. Because of these things.
      Personally I was in 2 year custody battle with a raging male who switched from being considerate to threatening me daily because I was not playing his games anymore. (He wanted a friends with benefits situation, to live together, and when I said no to either and we were just friends he wanted me to worship his ego and not have a mind of my own). It's batshxt crazy.

  • @Jadee2022
    @Jadee2022 Місяць тому +8

    You are so right..who wants someone after 6 months 😂😂😂

  • @_anon_4532
    @_anon_4532 Місяць тому +31

    I dated this guy for a year and a half. He started distancing himself, calling less, coming over less, so I didn’t press the issue, I just started doing more things with my friends & family, working a little more, etc. Then he finally talked to me and was like we’re growing apart blah blah, but I could tell he wasn’t trying to fix it. I got the vibe he had someone else so I basically just agreed and was like you’re right. So we stopped talking but he constantly watched my IG stories (he almost never posts anything). That was back at the beginning of October. Tbh I got busy with life and hadn’t checked his social media in a while, bc he never posts anything anyway, but I just checked it out of curiosity like a week ago… and apparently I’m blocked now lol

    • @debbylee6329
      @debbylee6329 Місяць тому +8

      I wonder what he doesn't want you to see? Hmm...

    • @_anon_4532
      @_anon_4532 Місяць тому +21

      Well idk bc he didn’t block my sister and he still isn’t posting so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I was kinda thinkin maybe he has a new gf and doesn’t want her to know about me? Idk men are fkn weird and most have the maturity of 13 yr olds well into their 40’s so I’ve stopped trying to guess what their intentions are. If they can’t straight up tell me I don’t give a damn lol

    • @debbylee6329
      @debbylee6329 Місяць тому

      Good thing to just move on. I am an older woman and even the older men still play games. ​@@_anon_4532

    • @BabyFaceRose
      @BabyFaceRose Місяць тому

      @@_anon_4532heavy on fuckin weird!!! He’s immature lol

    • @cup_o_TMarie
      @cup_o_TMarie Місяць тому

      @@_anon_4532Good for you 👏

  • @apoenaabreu257
    @apoenaabreu257 Місяць тому +6

    This topic is repeating so much in my feed despite me trying to curate my algorithm, that I'm starting to once again believe in synchronicities and feeling hopeful my ex is in anguish for my absence 😂
    Stop giving me hope Elliot!

  • @BabyFaceRose
    @BabyFaceRose Місяць тому +14

    BAHAHAHAHAHA MARRY CHRISTMAS🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😂😂😂 you’re hilarious Elliot

  • @jessicahitchens6926
    @jessicahitchens6926 Місяць тому +12

    The lion skit is so funny it reminds me of Family Guy or Southpark from years ago.

  • @Thisismebutme2.0
    @Thisismebutme2.0 Місяць тому +3

    I watch ur videos daily like a ritual repeating them to get these godly insights ingrained in me. Thank you god elliot scott.

  • @ginabellido8689
    @ginabellido8689 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you I need to hear this … got tired of the manipulation

  • @jessicahitchens6926
    @jessicahitchens6926 Місяць тому +7

    This was hilarious 🤣

  • @renchemarais8419
    @renchemarais8419 Місяць тому +3

    ❤ Elliot's AMAZING ❤

  • @Vilmarie_Sanchez_90
    @Vilmarie_Sanchez_90 Місяць тому +8

    It’s been 9 months and he hasn’t looked back.

  • @tessa7778
    @tessa7778 Місяць тому +4

    Love your channel!

  • @crystal-rose1307
    @crystal-rose1307 Місяць тому +9

    Hey King Elliot I was literally with my partner for a year. Suddenly we had an argument about the future, he became really distant, and all of a sudden he said his heart wasn’t in it anymore ending the relationship.
    I accepted it and deleted him off everything.
    I was such a good partner to him, I can’t believe it 💀

    • @crystal-rose1307
      @crystal-rose1307 Місяць тому +2

      Also if anyone could please reply telling me their thoughts that would be great!!

    • @cassiewilliams2041
      @cassiewilliams2041 Місяць тому

      ​@@crystal-rose1307I've gone through this experience with a man and I've watched a lot of videos and learned he's emotionally unavailable and an avoidant. I never knew what avoidant was I have learned a lot in the last four and a half months.. focus on yourself and go forward and don't even think about him... I've come to realize if somebody doesn't want to be with you why would you waste your tears in energy on someone who doesn't know your worth... If somebody doesn't care you didn't really lose anything because you didn't have him anyway he wasn't yours.. you deserve someone who's going to put in as much as you in the relationship.

    • @KatherineMalupo
      @KatherineMalupo Місяць тому +6

      Sounds like he has avoidant attachment style.
      There are many videos about this attachment style

    • @cytavares
      @cytavares Місяць тому +6

      It's not about you, it's about him, you communicated you're feelings and still he didn't acknowledge them or better, he saw you were not aligned. You can be mother Theresa to someone, if they don't see you like that, they don't. Remove yourself and thank for the rejection, because rejection is redirection, channel your anger and sadness towards improving yourself, and remember you could've wasted even more time with him, think like that, it will get better.

    • @1crafter408
      @1crafter408 Місяць тому +3

      He also sounds like an avoidant to me. If u go silent he might come back around.

  • @daydaynj
    @daydaynj Місяць тому +5

    Needed to hear this. After 7 mths he is popping on up and throwing insults lol. Ahhhh thank you!

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Місяць тому +2

      Insults? What for? How did you even get yourself into that situation?

    • @daydaynj
      @daydaynj Місяць тому

      @Lipanj92 i just didn't block his phone number. Hence, has access to destroy me!

  • @beverlypatterson2550
    @beverlypatterson2550 6 днів тому

    Great advice. Women are socially programmed to forgive. Ladies, speak less and move forward. A good life is an active life…keep moving on. Your mister right is coming and you want to be ready.😊❤

  • @ezziejp7306
    @ezziejp7306 Місяць тому

    Love your videos Elliot the psychological side makes a lot of sense keep doing what your doing your video Have given me so much prospective
    Thank you ❤

  • @TheNr1784
    @TheNr1784 29 днів тому

    Ok Elliott you crack me up. Every time I’m going through another one of these bozos I come back to your videos and thank you! 🙏🏼 the animal kingdom mention really makes sense. Emotional damage or immaturity is the equivalent of a male that lost to his rivals. Better try next time little guys. If you are ever in Austin I would love to hang out with you! 🏆

  • @BellaEstrella7
    @BellaEstrella7 Місяць тому +1

    Yup thank you. Keep these videos coming

  • @bomdestructor
    @bomdestructor 17 днів тому

    I think that lion reference was the best one yet.

  • @chloedawnmom
    @chloedawnmom 26 днів тому

    Diggin’ the real talk

  • @Twighlight333
    @Twighlight333 Місяць тому

    Im sooooooo glad i found this video! This is exactly what i needed right now

  • @1crafter408
    @1crafter408 Місяць тому +1

    This was a good video.

  • @tormentors
    @tormentors 9 днів тому

    I just remembered a guy that came back after 8 YEARS!!! God I mean,I was so over him 😂

  • @MissKbabyy
    @MissKbabyy Місяць тому

    Love how real you are. Subscribe

  • @QueenOfTheGreen27
    @QueenOfTheGreen27 Місяць тому

    This was great to hear 👍👍

  • @deborahjoyce4724
    @deborahjoyce4724 Місяць тому +5

    @ElliotScottDating Thank you, man. This video saved me from making a phone call!

  • @mlntasa4113
    @mlntasa4113 Місяць тому +1

    The lioness statement 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheNeoKalashnikovs
    @TheNeoKalashnikovs Місяць тому

    Elliot I've been watching your videos for over 5 years 😉and I just needed a refresh and damn this video was good, your best one yet 💖
    I'm laughing so hard lmfao. I'm gonna go get me a pack of cigarettes, pour myself a whisky and turn my phone off, these assholes can wait 🤣🤣🤣
    Much love V

  • @1crafter408
    @1crafter408 Місяць тому

    Yeah we need to relieve our curiosity

  • @darlinah8090
    @darlinah8090 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks !🙏🏻

  • @renchemarais8419
    @renchemarais8419 Місяць тому +2

    CapeTown SOUTH AFRICA 💯👉🌍

  • @wuanitaconverse7059
    @wuanitaconverse7059 Місяць тому +4

    Do block, delete everything. Sorry, I noticed typo. Do block and delete everything, text, etc.

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 Місяць тому

    5:55 🔑 make him pay and gift too
    7:30 dont be weak ladies. He said it himself.
    8:29 9:41 👑

  • @pb7473
    @pb7473 Місяць тому +1

    I love you Elliott 😂😂😂😂 Your examples and facial expressions when your trying not to laugh because your trying to get basic mother nature stuff through some brains that have turned thick trying to figure out this stupid culture of playing games by the other person and then ending up with nothing but a mess because they still keep dropping their standards for someone that doesn't deserve it.

  • @Esastujn
    @Esastujn Місяць тому +1

    What age group of men does this apply to? Because it sounds like 19 - 32

  • @flowertot786
    @flowertot786 Місяць тому +4

    Elliot what if the guy is an avoidant and says i hurt him should i reach out once more and when?2 weeks no contact

    • @sandradaniel2031
      @sandradaniel2031 Місяць тому +3

      If you’ve hurt him then I think you should reach out. If you don’t get a response just go silent till he’s ready to reach out. Good luck 🤞

    • @flowertot786
      @flowertot786 Місяць тому +1

      @ yeah he wasnt interested started acting mixed signals and totally different, so now shall i wait?

    • @cytavares
      @cytavares Місяць тому +3

      Noooo, don't! What you're looking for? If you have hurt him, give him space to heal and learn better so that you don't do that again, but for me he's playing, if he says you've hurt him and still likes you could talk and work it out, but instead he is choosing to make your suffer, why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel so bad?

    • @1crafter408
      @1crafter408 Місяць тому +2

      Well, how did u hurt him exactly..?

    • @kaybase6967
      @kaybase6967 Місяць тому

      How did you hurt him though? Sounds like he’s making excuses and wants to make you feel guilty, if in fact you did nothing to hurt him.

  • @carlyc9891
    @carlyc9891 Місяць тому

    Elliot your funny 😄

  • @Starrynights0304
    @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому +4

    Wrong they dont check in they move on immmediately

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  Місяць тому +2

      @Starrynights0304 thats bc you not them

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

      @ElliotScottDating that's very incorrect . They are the ones who were not good people

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому +2

      @@ElliotScottDating normal people don't move on immediately

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

      @@ElliotScottDating you know nothing about relationships or men

  • @Sienna-q4x
    @Sienna-q4x Місяць тому

    What if you block him?

  • @verarobinson6759
    @verarobinson6759 Місяць тому

    Ha ha u are so funny ❤

  • @EZ-mp9kn
    @EZ-mp9kn Місяць тому

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ceyciemateo9411
    @ceyciemateo9411 13 днів тому

    Some guys need time. I know ppl who got married after 3 months later

    • @bbbrandon4499
      @bbbrandon4499 11 днів тому

      Wow- that’s sounds like a miracle.

    • @ceyciemateo9411
      @ceyciemateo9411 10 днів тому

      @ not really. It happens more often than you think… at least half of marriages experienced a break up or a period of separation before marriage. Usually the woman having to prove that she is not one to be played with. This happens when you as a woman walks away, when the man is taking you for granted. And in that space the man will miss you. Men fall in love with your absence. If they like you, love will grow.

  • @verarobinson6759
    @verarobinson6759 Місяць тому

  • @rileysmiley9585
    @rileysmiley9585 Місяць тому

    lol…who gives a rats hairy ass. I love this stuff.

  • @laetitia9652
    @laetitia9652 Місяць тому

    😂😂😂🔥

  • @Starrynights0304
    @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

    That's a complete lie . Many of my exs nevr came back around to check on me thru others or internet etc

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  Місяць тому +4

      @@Starrynights0304 that's bc you not them 🤣

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

      @@ElliotScottDating very incorrect they were the ones who were not good guys

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

      @@ElliotScottDating your channel is beyond ridiculous. I can very clearly see that you abused all women in your own relationships

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

      @@ElliotScottDating you literally know nothing about men or relationships

    • @Starrynights0304
      @Starrynights0304 Місяць тому

      @@ElliotScottDating normal people don't move on immediately after a breakup . It is very clear you abused all your exs