@@ABC-ho5jo if they never liked you, then they make themselves look st*pid for continuously texting you, and them not getting the hint, you not liking them either.
@@ABC-ho5jo if they never liked you, the jokes on them, they shouldn’t be continuously texting you, and should get the hint you don’t like them either, reason for the silence.
"Silence kills anybody who ever cared about you"??? And to the one giving the silent treatment - that shouldn't be an option if you ever truly cared! Silence is a petty, childish, and unnecessary behavior
Not true, both the narc and the avoidant will feel something, however the narc will freak out because they loose control if you go silent, avoidant on the other hand will be left alone with their true emotions with out their fears and of they truly have feelings for you theyll realize that and then try to come back.
By the time I'm silent, it means I'm done. I really don't care what he is thinking or feeling. If it takes me to not care for him to care, then I don't want any of that. It's too immature and drama-filled.
Showed up with flowers and a card. Got sent home with same flowers and card. Also, told him why I was done and that he was blocked. My Peace is priceless. 🕊️💕
Never block them (unless they could cause you real harm) always leave them on read. They will keep coming back for another try. But you have to decide you're DONE and NEVER reply again.
I blocked my X … I left w $10,000 I should have shared in 1/2 of $375,000 BUT I was scared of him and had a restraining order. When I was far away & before I blocked him he called .. oh please come back (he’s got the money in his account) …blah blah blah I listened for about 10 minutes & said are you done ??? I gotta go, hung up & blocked him ! I found out many months later that blocked callers can still leave messages (and you’re not notified) at the very bottom of VM it says blocked messages 😳 omg So every so often I would look & there would be some pathetic message/threat from him. I NEVER responded. Last May his daughter texted me that he had passed. While we were on the phone I looked at blocked messages & there was a message from him … I told her the date & she said that’s the day he was in the accident & hospitalized. The message (we had not spoke for 10 years) “Where are you I keep trying to find you, I can’t find you (weepy voice) …. Long pause, Good luck girl” :/ It was eerie that it was his last call, but I’m so thankful I was able to walk away from him . Silence is golden . RIP DEAD EDD
@@Blondiee777 if you still want to mess with their heads...you are not done. You should focus on you instead of worrying about how you are affecting his head. He's most likely already a fucked up person. Cut out the cancer and protect yourself.
Cheers 🥂 🎉 to 2025! Honestly, this whole idea seems pretty straightforward, but let’s be real: it rarely pans out. By the time he decides to show up again, most women have already moved on or are at least looking for something fresh. Sure, she might give it a shot, but her mind and heart are probably already scouting for better options while keeping you on the back burner. It would be so much easier if everyone just laid their cards on the table. If you’re not emotionally ready, still nursing old wounds, or clueless about what you want, do yourself a favor and sort that out before diving into the dating pool. Clear communication trumps all the mind games, and honestly, if games are necessary, who really comes out on top?
I agree a lot of us women are already 10 steps ahead of the game. And continue to strive not letting men know what they know about him. Men are not that complicated. Just watch how they move, talk, it’s the same over and over again. Same bullcrap. I’ve seen it in my situationships. I’ve moved on and they be still playing games. So funny to me.
It's pointless and these UA-camrs need to stop doing these videos because it's causing real damage to women's self esteem giving them hope that this tactic 99 per cent of the time it doesn't work. Don't let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want you. These type of guys will come back make you believe you are winning and then disappear again
@@chinadoll534 he's done plenty of videos giving this example but there is reality. The reality is these men are just not into you type of guys. They play games have a ton of options and if women continue this tactic they will waste years trying to figure out "why isn't he responding to my messages" why hasn't he called " "if I ignore him for a day or two then maybe he will respond " all these tactics are blocking your blessing from finding the one.
Regardless of why they do what they do. Don't think men understand just how tired some of us women are of the childish games & toxic behaviors. We are out here losing our lives and sacrificing our mental health to be in relationships with someone who doesn't even want a real relationship but just to waste time and use for their selfish benefits. Not realizing it's getting old at this point and I'm definitely not afraid to be alone if it means I get to protect my peace and happiness.
I like men. I'm single. I'm in the peak of my life. And I have to go through ridiculous games just to date!? That detracts from the quality of my life. Pass.
You are talking about unhealthy men!! Not healthy mature men!! Literally you are talking about avoidant men. Not interested in playing games, rather stay away from it and not have to figure out sick minded people.
Just move on all these videos are becoming redundant. If you have to resort to giving a person the silent treatment all the time just to get their attention then they are not the not the one for you. Grown up people don't have time for these games. And if this tatic works it only lasts short term..
It’s the New Year. At 12:16am, when the ball dropped, I got a “HAPPY NY” text message with bunch of emojis & emotion. I replied with a kind & less emotional text message at 8:36am. A reply that was totalllllyy opposite of what I’d usually give to him. He’s expecting more. But nope, I refuse. Moving forward! 😘
He sent a pic Happy New Year, I replied with a lack luster forwarded pic, he said Thank you, I replied with a thumbs up 👍😂😂😂😂, I've not heard a quip from him since then😂😂😂
@@ewm4266 and likely won't until Easter when you get another GIF. He was just trying to connect with everyone in a Woohoo party moment. His text meant nothing. Good for you to move on. There are many fish in the sea.
Nobody needs validation from nobody. When the relationship is true both way makes sacrifices and care for each other. And they clarify everything to each other to avoid any kind of misunderstanding. This types of silent games are only played by narcissists beaware. Relationship is responsibility, not a game.
It's weird because even though I really miss him, I'm pretty sure that is me ruminating about the times he was lovebombing me. Because at the same time, I feel totally disgusted by him. He is still living with his ex, who I believe is still on and off again girlfriend. He refers to her as "sister" as if I don't know who he is talking about. He is so manipulative and did all the tricks I've been learning about avoidants and narcissists. I am more mad that he played me. I just want vengeance.
They’re not worth it & they’re relying on you not knowing your worth. Drop em like a bad habit! Best revenge is moving on and finding happiness without them. Wishing you peace and healing. ❤️🩹
@@JB-em1rv you are right. Best to close the door and keep your eyes on a better future, but there is this little part of me that wants to help her get her vengeance.
@@northshorelight35 the vengeance thoughts…for real! Take some appreciation that you LEARNED how to not fall for these games & tricks again. That’s all we have. The 🚩 will be in the forefront of your mind for next time and always be a step ahead. I eff it up sometimes, but my learning curve has saved me from some stupid drama in advance. It’s hard to get over feeling punked out by a dude. But it just takes time and making new memories to get over it. Happy New Year girl…you’ll get past it ❤️🩹
"How your silence is louder than words"...MEANWHILE, I'm sitting here wearing a sweatshirt that says "Born to Yap!" on the front. I'm 7 days in on the no contact game. It's killing me BUT, Grandma is THRIVING on her stubbornness....I WILL WIN this silent treatment game!
My ex had ghosted me, didnt return calls, etc. Then, randomly he showed up with expensive Christmas presents at my door on Christmas Eve, and then promptly ghosted me again. Fortunately for me, his friend knew the relationship was over, stepped in and I married him. We didn't invite the ex to the wedding. ;) married for 33 years. What I learned from that was to never try to "be good enough" for a man or any situation. Never " keep trying" to be good enough, being patient enough, smart enough, etc. move on.
He messaged me on 2am new years. I didn't reply then...but just sent a message that it's not enough to message me drunk on new years and that I'm not interested unless he puts in effort for a real closure conversation or to fight for the relationship. Better delete message before he reads it?
Yes. Modify it. And send a "Happy new year to you to buddy." Smile and ghost him. Don't waste your breath trying to explain basic social skills that any 5th grader could quickly understand. I believe he thinks he can dupe you, because in his pea brained mind, you "are not street smart" like he is, to know that he is manipulating you with crocodile tears, "no-one understands me like you do" and " I was raised by an abusive pack of wolves/parents, so I don't know what to do" and " I don't want to get married because I'm afraid" victim stance...etc. He plays on your kindness. You deserve better. Way better. Stay with him and he will turn you into a sad, bitter, resentful woman. And then everyone will look at you and say, " No wonder he left" leave now and lock the door work on yourself and everyone will say, "What a fool he was. Can you believe he let that woman slip through his fingers?"
He didn't even message you at midnight lol he wasn't thinking about you. Just don't respond again, or message him again and tell him you changed your mind and aren't interested and goodbye.
I dont understand how they can cuss you out and do the things we tell them not to do but they dont want to let you go. That nevee made sense to me. 😔💔 i had to block him ans leave him for good from everywhere because he became abusive after i gave him chances to fix himself.
"Cuss you out"????? Whattt? Do you let man Cussler you out? And still thinking tostay?? Know your worth lady. A man that cusses you out will never respect you. It only gets worse.
A drunk accidental call. Not a call to take seriously. Happy new year buddy. Here is your hat, do t let the screen door hit you on your way out. Smile and wave goodbye.
So what does the UA-cam community think… he ended it after cheating on me with his ex that he was very sad about. We dated for four months. The ex was a ten year relationship.. I wanted to work it out He’s mentally a mess, but they are not together again So he broke up with me DO I remove him from my social media? I don’t want to look bitter, but yet I feel like he shouldn’t have that kind of access to my life. I do not contact him. I don’t do anything. But if he was somebody, I really hated, I would have no problem, removing him from my social media, but I still have a heartstring for him. It’s been about a month now that we’ve separated.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation but you probably should move on because you can't compete with a woman that has his heart. If he was in that other relationship for that long it is so many feelings involved in that. If you stay you will possibly try to do to much to get this guy to like you more than the ex but the thing is a lot of us want to think if we do more he'll want to stay but thing is you can turn into a clown in a circus and do back flips ,swing on chandeliers, do magical s*x tricks for this dude but if his heart is with someone else it does not matter what you do he will still want the one that has his heart. I'm sorry to say it sounds like you were his rebound possibly to deal with the hurt of his ex.
Never give him another chance you deserve better than that if he can cheat and act like that and you let him back he will just do it again block him on everything hun xx
Block, remove delete. Do not let him have access to your life. I am sorry this happened to you. I have been through this as well. It gets better once you remove any contact ❤❤
Don't let it linger off and on for 22 years just to find out the apartment he is renting doesn't belong to a family member. She needed her apartment back and moves back in, but he stays there with her instead of moving out. They go out to eat, casinos and cruises and say they are friends, but he won't let you meet her. You can only come over to pick up money for your child when she isn't there 😢
He blocked me for 6 months and now I see he has a new fb account and didn’t block me on it. His old account is deleted (got a friend to check lol). I’m wondering if he’s thinking I’m going to reach out? I am not going to lol.
We had a great time for Christmas/New Years. He said over and over again how fun he had and wasn’t thinking this Christmas will be as good as it ended up being. Then for new years he said he missed how he felt with his ex wife and chilling with friends and he felt that he was finally feeling like he use to. Happy. The day after New Years he started acting weird. Kinda indifferent towards me. Like he didn’t care if I was there or if I wasn’t. I ended up leaving late at night cause I didn’t feel welcome. Well this is the next day and I haven’t heard anything from him. I called him , no answer. So what’s going on ?? I’m not good at “ playing games “ im 41 and not at all interested in doing that. I hate dating … ugh.. what a nightmare. Tomorrow is his b day. Do I text him happy birthday or no ? I don’t want him to think I’m mad but I’m just confused. He knows I got him something for his b day. So I can’t pretend I forgot his b day.
Sigh. It doesnt even sem like this advice applies bec it seems as if al men are simply narcissitic psychopaths or toxic or emotionally unavailable or have a lack of emotional intelligence........Been talking to someone online. Deep convos. So connected. So much effort he put in only to overnight change and ghost me .... tell me we will talk soon and it's been 3 weeks now ...... I don't get it. Why can't he just tell me what's up. Why is it so easy to do this to me .........insane. he aint some fine young thang...what is he thinking? He needs a woman..im not even kidding ...i cud help his life and be so happy as well. Why ... i dont get it. Smh
I know swearing is part of your vocabulary but can you please try not to, I'm a Christian, and it literally hurts my ears hearing the f bombs. Imagine you're at work, you need to be professional. God bless 🙏
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Silence kills anybody who ever cared about you but for someone who never liked you it's a heaven send
Touché
@@ABC-ho5jo if they never liked you, then they make themselves look st*pid for continuously texting you, and them not getting the hint, you not liking them either.
@@ABC-ho5jo if they never liked you, the jokes on them, they shouldn’t be continuously texting you, and should get the hint you don’t like them either, reason for the silence.
He never loved me or cared.
"Silence kills anybody who ever cared about you"???
And to the one giving the silent treatment - that shouldn't be an option if you ever truly cared!
Silence is a petty, childish, and unnecessary behavior
I give up on love. I give up on it all. I'll love myself and give myself everything I want.
As you should cause if you love yourself you won’t bother seek love
There are only a couple of people who knows what real love is. A lot of people have a void within them and wants the other person to fill it❤
Same. Heartbroken. Ghosted after deep concos daily for 7 months. Wtf .... i give up
If you're dealing with an avoidant or narcissist, they will never feel anything. Best thing to do is move on and find your happiness.
The person he's describing is an avoidant man. They need spoon fed emotional intelligence
He is talking about avoidants imo
But I want only him!
Not true, both the narc and the avoidant will feel something, however the narc will freak out because they loose control if you go silent, avoidant on the other hand will be left alone with their true emotions with out their fears and of they truly have feelings for you theyll realize that and then try to come back.
It worked with my avoidant
By the time I'm silent, it means I'm done. I really don't care what he is thinking or feeling. If it takes me to not care for him to care, then I don't want any of that. It's too immature and drama-filled.
Same
100%
Showed up with flowers and a card. Got sent home with same flowers and card. Also, told him why I was done and that he was blocked. My Peace is priceless. 🕊️💕
I’m done this time!! Never another chance will he ever get with me! Sick of the games!
Exactly
Same here. I'm sick of games from my 55 year old sp. F him and his stupid channel
Agreed
Right with you! 🎉
I hear you.
Never block them (unless they could cause you real harm) always leave them on read. They will keep coming back for another try. But you have to decide you're DONE and NEVER reply again.
But sometimes blocking protects your peace way more.
@noria_h Yes I totally get that. What I've suggested certainly isn't right for everyone but if you're wanting to mess with their head, it works.
Exactly
I blocked my X … I left w $10,000 I should have shared in 1/2 of $375,000 BUT I was scared of him and had a restraining order. When I was far away & before I blocked him he called .. oh please come back (he’s got the money in his account) …blah blah blah I listened for about 10 minutes & said are you done ??? I gotta go, hung up & blocked him ! I found out many months later that blocked callers can still leave messages (and you’re not notified) at the very bottom of VM it says blocked messages 😳 omg
So every so often I would look & there would be some pathetic message/threat from him. I NEVER responded.
Last May his daughter texted me that he had passed. While we were on the phone I looked at blocked messages & there was a message from him … I told her the date & she said that’s the day he was in the accident & hospitalized. The message (we had not spoke for 10 years)
“Where are you I keep trying to find you, I can’t find you (weepy voice) …. Long pause,
Good luck girl” :/
It was eerie that it was his last call, but I’m so thankful I was able to walk away from him .
Silence is golden .
RIP DEAD EDD
@@Blondiee777 if you still want to mess with their heads...you are not done. You should focus on you instead of worrying about how you are affecting his head. He's most likely already a fucked up person. Cut out the cancer and protect yourself.
If a man plays the push-pull game with me, it's a serious total turn off.
We aren't playing any push-pull games. We have lives and things going on.
Cheers 🥂 🎉 to 2025! Honestly, this whole idea seems pretty straightforward, but let’s be real: it rarely pans out. By the time he decides to show up again, most women have already moved on or are at least looking for something fresh. Sure, she might give it a shot, but her mind and heart are probably already scouting for better options while keeping you on the back burner. It would be so much easier if everyone just laid their cards on the table. If you’re not emotionally ready, still nursing old wounds, or clueless about what you want, do yourself a favor and sort that out before diving into the dating pool. Clear communication trumps all the mind games, and honestly, if games are necessary, who really comes out on top?
I agree a lot of us women are already 10 steps ahead of the game. And continue to strive not letting men know what they know about him. Men are not that complicated. Just watch how they move, talk, it’s the same over and over again. Same bullcrap. I’ve seen it in my situationships. I’ve moved on and they be still playing games. So funny to me.
I will not wait for him!
It's pointless and these UA-camrs need to stop doing these videos because it's causing real damage to women's self esteem giving them hope that this tactic 99 per cent of the time it doesn't work. Don't let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want you. These type of guys will come back make you believe you are winning and then disappear again
@ that’s not what he’s saying
@@chinadoll534 he's done plenty of videos giving this example but there is reality. The reality is these men are just not into you type of guys. They play games have a ton of options and if women continue this tactic they will waste years trying to figure out "why isn't he responding to my messages" why hasn't he called " "if I ignore him for a day or two then maybe he will respond " all these tactics are blocking your blessing from finding the one.
Regardless of why they do what they do.
Don't think men understand just how tired some of us women are of the childish games & toxic behaviors. We are out here losing our lives and sacrificing our mental health to be in relationships with someone who doesn't even want a real relationship but just to waste time and use for their selfish benefits.
Not realizing it's getting old at this point and
I'm definitely not afraid to be alone if it means I get to protect my peace and happiness.
I like men. I'm single. I'm in the peak of my life. And I have to go through ridiculous games just to date!? That detracts from the quality of my life. Pass.
You are talking about unhealthy men!! Not healthy mature men!! Literally you are talking about avoidant men. Not interested in playing games, rather stay away from it and not have to figure out sick minded people.
Just move on all these videos are becoming redundant. If you have to resort to giving a person the silent treatment all the time just to get their attention then they are not the not the one for you. Grown up people don't have time for these games. And if this tatic works it only lasts short term..
happy new year everybody!! 🎉
Best wishes 🎉
Happy new years
It’s the New Year. At 12:16am, when the ball dropped, I got a “HAPPY NY” text message with bunch of emojis & emotion. I replied with a kind & less emotional text message at 8:36am.
A reply that was totalllllyy opposite of what I’d usually give to him.
He’s expecting more. But nope, I refuse. Moving forward! 😘
He sent a pic Happy New Year, I replied with a lack luster forwarded pic, he said Thank you, I replied with a thumbs up 👍😂😂😂😂, I've not heard a quip from him since then😂😂😂
@@ewm4266 and likely won't until Easter when you get another GIF. He was just trying to connect with everyone in a Woohoo party moment. His text meant nothing. Good for you to move on. There are many fish in the sea.
Mine ditched me again. 2 years in a row
Nobody needs validation from nobody. When the relationship is true both way makes sacrifices and care for each other. And they clarify everything to each other to avoid any kind of misunderstanding. This types of silent games are only played by narcissists beaware. Relationship is responsibility, not a game.
This is true! 😂 Elliot you the man! Thank you, stay blessed!
He's a fool, and you are too if you want to support this message. its 2025...no more BS
Happy New Year Elliott!
Happy new year! 🎊🎆 🎊🎊🎊✨
It's weird because even though I really miss him, I'm pretty sure that is me ruminating about the times he was lovebombing me. Because at the same time, I feel totally disgusted by him. He is still living with his ex, who I believe is still on and off again girlfriend. He refers to her as "sister" as if I don't know who he is talking about. He is so manipulative and did all the tricks I've been learning about avoidants and narcissists. I am more mad that he played me. I just want vengeance.
They’re not worth it & they’re relying on you not knowing your worth. Drop em like a bad habit! Best revenge is moving on and finding happiness without them. Wishing you peace and healing. ❤️🩹
@@JB-em1rv you are right. Best to close the door and keep your eyes on a better future, but there is this little part of me that wants to help her get her vengeance.
@@northshorelight35 the vengeance thoughts…for real! Take some appreciation that you LEARNED how to not fall for these games & tricks again. That’s all we have. The 🚩 will be in the forefront of your mind for next time and always be a step ahead. I eff it up sometimes, but my learning curve has saved me from some stupid drama in advance. It’s hard to get over feeling punked out by a dude. But it just takes time and making new memories to get over it. Happy New Year girl…you’ll get past it ❤️🩹
Listen carefully. Narcissists cannot be cured 99%. They DESTROY people. They're predators. Run aWAY. Don't look back.
"How your silence is louder than words"...MEANWHILE, I'm sitting here wearing a sweatshirt that says "Born to Yap!" on the front. I'm 7 days in on the no contact game. It's killing me BUT, Grandma is THRIVING on her stubbornness....I WILL WIN this silent treatment game!
My ex sent me a package two days before Christmas, before that he reached out on Halloween. I love ignoring him ☺️
Well done. Silence is violence😅never reply
My reply to you got removed, but it was basically saying good for you
Amen 🙏
My ex had ghosted me, didnt return calls, etc. Then, randomly he showed up with expensive Christmas presents at my door on Christmas Eve, and then promptly ghosted me again. Fortunately for me, his friend knew the relationship was over, stepped in and I married him. We didn't invite the ex to the wedding. ;) married for 33 years. What I learned from that was to never try to "be good enough" for a man or any situation. Never " keep trying" to be good enough, being patient enough, smart enough, etc. move on.
@ nice 👍 I’m glad you were available to be with his friend and glad you guys have been together that long. Happy New Year
Happy New Year 🎉
Happy New Year from El Paso Texas USA ❤
Happy New Year
Happy new year 2025 Elliot 🥳🎉🍾🥂🌟
Happy New Year Elliot and Chat! 🎉Thank you for all the wonderful advice and videos! The timing of this video couldn’t be more perfect! ❤
I don't need validation from anyone. I'm perfectly fine working on my projects and doing my thing.
He messaged me on 2am new years. I didn't reply then...but just sent a message that it's not enough to message me drunk on new years and that I'm not interested unless he puts in effort for a real closure conversation or to fight for the relationship. Better delete message before he reads it?
No. If you delete it, he will see you deleted it and it will make you look weird
Never reply to drunk text from an ex never
Yes. Modify it. And send a "Happy new year to you to buddy." Smile and ghost him. Don't waste your breath trying to explain basic social skills that any 5th grader could quickly understand. I believe he thinks he can dupe you, because in his pea brained mind, you "are not street smart" like he is, to know that he is manipulating you with crocodile tears, "no-one understands me like you do" and " I was raised by an abusive pack of wolves/parents, so I don't know what to do" and " I don't want to get married because I'm afraid" victim stance...etc. He plays on your kindness. You deserve better. Way better. Stay with him and he will turn you into a sad, bitter, resentful woman. And then everyone will look at you and say, " No wonder he left" leave now and lock the door work on yourself and everyone will say, "What a fool he was. Can you believe he let that woman slip through his fingers?"
He didn't even message you at midnight lol he wasn't thinking about you. Just don't respond again, or message him again and tell him you changed your mind and aren't interested and goodbye.
Happy new year Elliot!
Happy New Year! 🎊 2025!
Lol at this point I can't live without a Dose of Elliot every day. It's like reinforcement, stay awake, don't fall again 😅
Lol this works with fake friends too. The ones that text u cause they bored and needs validation
Hairs on point El
I dont understand how they can cuss you out and do the things we tell them not to do but they dont want to let you go. That nevee made sense to me. 😔💔 i had to block him ans leave him for good from everywhere because he became abusive after i gave him chances to fix himself.
Because they’re like little boys and never know what the hell they want or doing
"Cuss you out"????? Whattt? Do you let man Cussler you out? And still thinking tostay?? Know your worth lady. A man that cusses you out will never respect you. It only gets worse.
You're funny!!! "I might as well talk to you". Funny!!
10:44 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he said, "Let me shoot my shot." ❤ Thanks for the good content.
"Men are more fluid with who they are with and stuff" hahaha...you said it alright 😂 😂😂
Happy newyears dad 🤣
i'm tired of these games. This shouln't be so complicated.
i got a missed call from my ex @ 3:45 am on new year and texted me right after saying sorry I called you by accident🤔🤔drunk call?
Wow 😮 yeah a drunk will be a drunk
No accident at all. They are babies with silly tactics
A drunk accidental call. Not a call to take seriously. Happy new year buddy. Here is your hat, do t let the screen door hit you on your way out. Smile and wave goodbye.
Anyone that isn't your emergency contact, that's calling you at 3:45am - doesn't respect you. Drunk or not.
So what does the UA-cam community think… he ended it after cheating on me with his ex that he was very sad about.
We dated for four months. The ex was a ten year relationship..
I wanted to work it out
He’s mentally a mess, but they are not together again
So he broke up with me
DO I remove him from my social media?
I don’t want to look bitter, but yet I feel like he shouldn’t have that kind of access to my life.
I do not contact him. I don’t do anything. But if he was somebody, I really hated, I would have no problem, removing him from my social media, but I still have a heartstring for him. It’s been about a month now that we’ve separated.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation but you probably should move on because you can't compete with a woman that has his heart. If he was in that other relationship for that long it is so many feelings involved in that. If you stay you will possibly try to do to much to get this guy to like you more than the ex but the thing is a lot of us want to think if we do more he'll want to stay but thing is you can turn into a clown in a circus and do back flips ,swing on chandeliers, do magical s*x tricks for this dude but if his heart is with someone else it does not matter what you do he will still want the one that has his heart. I'm sorry to say it sounds like you were his rebound possibly to deal with the hurt of his ex.
Never give him another chance you deserve better than that if he can cheat and act like that and you let him back he will just do it again block him on everything hun xx
Ma'am, remove him...what are you doing?
Block, remove delete. Do not let him have access to your life. I am sorry this happened to you. I have been through this as well. It gets better once you remove any contact ❤❤
Run forest run 🏃
Nice haircut 😊
Loved the Oprah reference 😂
Don't let it linger off and on for 22 years just to find out the apartment he is renting doesn't belong to a family member. She needed her apartment back and moves back in, but he stays there with her instead of moving out. They go out to eat, casinos and cruises and say they are friends, but he won't let you meet her. You can only come over to pick up money for your child when she isn't there 😢
Does it work on adult men too? Like 45-55 yo? Happy NY!!
Yes !!
Yes. Men are men even meant 65 years old act like they’re 25.
Yes!!!!
Exhausting but yes
He blocked me for 6 months and now I see he has a new fb account and didn’t block me on it. His old account is deleted (got a friend to check lol). I’m wondering if he’s thinking I’m going to reach out? I am not going to lol.
But why do men never validate their women?
Narcissists need to feed on your empathy. Run for the hills!
Of course they do, when they like them
Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉 to make it short give what vibes of a guy giving you. If he is not really giving you attention then do the same lol
We had a great time for Christmas/New Years. He said over and over again how fun he had and wasn’t thinking this Christmas will be as good as it ended up being.
Then for new years he said he missed how he felt with his ex wife and chilling with friends and he felt that he was finally feeling like he use to. Happy.
The day after New Years he started acting weird. Kinda indifferent towards me. Like he didn’t care if I was there or if I wasn’t. I ended up leaving late at night cause I didn’t feel welcome. Well this is the next day and I haven’t heard anything from him. I called him , no answer. So what’s going on ??
I’m not good at “ playing games “ im 41 and not at all interested in doing that. I hate dating … ugh.. what a nightmare. Tomorrow is his b day. Do I text him happy birthday or no ?
I don’t want him to think I’m mad but I’m just confused. He knows I got him something for his b day. So I can’t pretend I forgot his b day.
You left and haven't heard anything from him? Don't text him and forget about the b day present!
What if your just talking, no sex yet only kissed once
These suggestions do not apply 2 narcissists
I done everything wrong he dumped me
That’s okay. Just be sharp and ready for the next one. Like the song goes “Life goes on, and this world keeps on turning” stay strong
Can i be your friend Elliot?
Sigh. It doesnt even sem like this advice applies bec it seems as if al men are simply narcissitic psychopaths or toxic or emotionally unavailable or have a lack of emotional intelligence........Been talking to someone online. Deep convos. So connected. So much effort he put in only to overnight change and ghost me .... tell me we will talk soon and it's been 3 weeks now ...... I don't get it. Why can't he just tell me what's up. Why is it so easy to do this to me .........insane. he aint some fine young thang...what is he thinking? He needs a woman..im not even kidding ...i cud help his life and be so happy as well. Why ... i dont get it. Smh
i thought this was sal from impractical jokers
I kind of see it now 😂 the lighter Sal version lol love that show 🐈⬛️🤣
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Im doing it as, i message or call you, you should then do the same. If you don't match my effort, then I'm off. 😊
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I know swearing is part of your vocabulary but can you please try not to, I'm a Christian, and it literally hurts my ears hearing the f bombs. Imagine you're at work, you need to be professional. God bless 🙏