Ladies you have to be totally done with this guy and move on. That’s when they come back. Men know when you are still holding out hope. If you have to go though this with a man he’s not the one for you . A man should be pursuing you.
At the end of the day you teach people how to treat you. If you allow them to walk all over you, don’t be surprised when they walk all over you. It doesn’t even mean they’re bad people, it’s simply human nature. We want to invest the least but still get the most. I think it’s really important to set the tone from the very beginning. You want to avoid doing damage control later on. If you’re seeing a guy and you see from the very beginning it’s not a great fit, just let it go. Don’t try to fight Mother Nature. Whatever is meant for you will find you. I’m in my 30’s and wasted my 20’s trying to prove myself to the wrong guys. I did wayyy too much and nothing came of it I’d love for you to do a video on how to approach dating when you’re in your 30’s and live in a big city. A lot of guys assume I hit the wall or got “ran through” and now want to settle down but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Last guy I dated passed away from Covid. I haven’t dated in 5 years, before that I only had 3 other relationships. Never slept around. It’s hard to navigate dating and not feel like you’re no longer valuable
Elliott you are the real MVP. I learned so much from you with going through a heart break of this guy who still was in love with his ex who had a baby by another man. He was just using me to make her jealous, it sucks. I learned so much from you. Keep doing what you do, I love your realness.
@basicinfo2022, true. But he still loves this girl. He was married to her got a divorced and a kid as well, but she had a baby by one of his friends, and he still sleeping with her. Still slept with her throughout our whole relationship too. She finally broke up with her last child’s father
Hey Elliot Scott, your video storytelling is incredible-I couldn’t take my eyes off it for a second! It’s clear you put so much effort into creating amazing content. I noticed your views are a bit low, and as a thumbnail strategist, I wanted to share a tip: refining your title"How Long to Stay Silent for Regret?" or enhancing your thumbnail could help your videos get the recognition they deserve. Your content has so much potential, and I’m excited to see it reach more people! Would you be interested in seeing some of my design skills? I’d love to share some ideas with you
They have to learn the lesson . They have to feel what life feels like without your energy. Show them that you dont need them .Show up for yourself by raising your bar . Your boundaries have to be so strong he be climbing 7 floors to get onto your balcony .... and still figure out how to open them windows .....
What would be the benefit of taking someone back who has disappeared? I blocked him after 8 days of hearing nothing. I didn't want to have to deal with Xmas/New Year messages. I wanted to clear my head. This was the second time he has disappeared. The first time, I did reach out after 9 days and he was very responsive and starting messaging everyday but didn't plan a date to see me.
Ladies you have to be totally done with this guy and move on. That’s when they come back. Men know when you are still holding out hope. If you have to go though this with a man he’s not the one for you . A man should be pursuing you.
At the end of the day you teach people how to treat you. If you allow them to walk all over you, don’t be surprised when they walk all over you. It doesn’t even mean they’re bad people, it’s simply human nature. We want to invest the least but still get the most. I think it’s really important to set the tone from the very beginning. You want to avoid doing damage control later on. If you’re seeing a guy and you see from the very beginning it’s not a great fit, just let it go. Don’t try to fight Mother Nature. Whatever is meant for you will find you. I’m in my 30’s and wasted my 20’s trying to prove myself to the wrong guys. I did wayyy too much and nothing came of it
I’d love for you to do a video on how to approach dating when you’re in your 30’s and live in a big city. A lot of guys assume I hit the wall or got “ran through” and now want to settle down but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Last guy I dated passed away from Covid. I haven’t dated in 5 years, before that I only had 3 other relationships. Never slept around. It’s hard to navigate dating and not feel like you’re no longer valuable
Elliott you are the real MVP. I learned so much from you with going through a heart break of this guy who still was in love with his ex who had a baby by another man. He was just using me to make her jealous, it sucks. I learned so much from you. Keep doing what you do, I love your realness.
He could be also triangulating you so you feel insecure and chase him.
@basicinfo2022, true. But he still loves this girl. He was married to her got a divorced and a kid as well, but she had a baby by one of his friends, and he still sleeping with her. Still slept with her throughout our whole relationship too. She finally broke up with her last child’s father
"He's" reflecting so much that he is now calling his daughter and daughter in law by my name....bless his old heart🤣
Hey Elliot Scott, your video storytelling is incredible-I couldn’t take my eyes off it for a second! It’s clear you put so much effort into creating amazing content. I noticed your views are a bit low, and as a thumbnail strategist, I wanted to share a tip: refining your title"How Long to Stay Silent for Regret?" or enhancing your thumbnail could help your videos get the recognition they deserve. Your content has so much potential, and I’m excited to see it reach more people! Would you be interested in seeing some of my design skills? I’d love to share some ideas with you
They have to learn the lesson . They have to feel what life feels like without your energy. Show them that you dont need them .Show up for yourself by raising your bar . Your boundaries have to be so strong he be climbing 7 floors to get onto your balcony .... and still figure out how to open them windows .....
Thank you. I wish I knew all that sooner. ❤
You are the literal best coach 💙
Ayyyyy 1st comment!! Thank you sooooo much for the wonderful advice and content!! Always appreciative!! ♥️🤗
Wow..awesome video
Very good clarification
Thank you so much Elliot for making this video
made me strong 👍
What would be the benefit of taking someone back who has disappeared? I blocked him after 8 days of hearing nothing. I didn't want to have to deal with Xmas/New Year messages. I wanted to clear my head. This was the second time he has disappeared. The first time, I did reach out after 9 days and he was very responsive and starting messaging everyday but didn't plan a date to see me.
Girl, what are you doing? He’s not into you. Give me a break. Elliot has laid it all out here.
You helped me soooo good i was getting played BAD. Now I'm too busy for boys haha
So true thank you
Honestly I am not playing the part anymore. Im actually done
What if he indirect direct approaches you?
Why do you want him to return?
Can you do a video on if he is using you to make his ex jealous?? Thanks !
Posting you like a couple very early for her to see
@@basicinfo2022 that’s a good one. My ex did this somewhat for his birthday on his story smh
Forever !
💯💯💯💯