The Science of Heartbreak
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2013
- Why is a 'broken heart' so painful?
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Why Does Social Exclusion Hurt? The Relationship Between Social and Physical Pain
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The Broken Heart Syndrome
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When you're heartbroken over someone who was never yours :(...
+Dark Wolf same....... thats y im watching this video
+Jordan parker Alright guys leave a space for me,im joining in
........its like meeting the man of my dreams.. and then meeting his beautiful wife..
Literally what I'm dealing with right now
Tell me abt it.. I've been liking this guy for 4 years and I can't put into words how hellish it has been
Like me, sensitive people feel deeper love and deeper pain.
+Diaming787 yeah dude, I get ya :( ;__;, and actually, I might recognize who you are from other comment Sections, but wheteves
+Diaming787 Sometimes having a good heart can really turn on you....
Yeah why do nice people always come in last
Yes, we sure do...
Amen, brother. Amen!
I never realized how awful heart break was. After the breakup my heart was beating so fast and so "loud" for weeks. The first week, I couldn't even hear people at work because my ears were filled with the sound of my heart beating. I constantly felt like I was going to vomit or faint. I also could not eat. Food tasted like nothing. I could not sleep so I was also delirious and erratic. The crying and lack of food/water left me dehydrated.
cutieprincess431 dude is that what it was , idk I was more deaf than usual like the whole world went silent or I shut myself off
cutieprincess431 i feel you..
I guess everyone who truly loved someone went thru this.
Tell me how do you feel now after 1 year?
Time can change such feelings, is it the case with you?
I feel like that right now and it feels like it’s never going to end
When I was heartbroken all I could do was nothing but eat junk food yet I'm still 118lbs smh fast metabolism tingz
Who here went through heartbreak and is here in the comments, feeling better now knowing you are not the only one?
McKenna Absolutely on point :)
Me
😞😔 I’m 18 and I’m still not feeling better at all 💔
Meeeeee.
Me...💔
Seeing the person you love happy with someone else is the worst
Your comment is so true that this happened to me today
@@gringobingo471 gurl it happens to me everyday
@@ronimand It hurts like hell sis 😪
Christian Fuentes it hurts me too, but at the same time I feel happy for my crush.
I felt that.... 😖💔
It's frustrating to hear "someone better" will come along when the person you lost is the best person you've ever met... and the only one you have any interest in spending time with. Nobody else even LOOKS attractive anymore.
Soloworth I feel the same way I can't get her out of my head it's like I was waiting my whole life to meet her but it's all over now she moved away
Natalie Soloworth I think it just takes time but someone will eventually make you feel love again.
Natalie Soloworth... Are you mr or am I you?
cause I feel the same way
Natalie Soloworth yes. thank you. preach. this is exactly what im going through right now lol my friends trying to introduce me to new guys but honestly im not even interested anymore
I feels you girl 😢
I’m so heart broken right now that I’m literally scared to fall in love and get attached to someone again.
It’s like I want to fall in love again so I can get love back but yet it’s scary that it could be taken away again.
DRECK same
Yea f'ing mass-psyhosis going on or some sh' like that. Horrible
How are you doing now.. it's been a couple of years..
@@dileepyellu now I’m doing great I found the love of my life we been together for about 3 years now I guess you just gotta be patient and let that person come with time
The part that hurts the most when you find out that they don't love you anymore ,leave you for someone else or even cheat on you.
The part that hurts the most is when they promise you that they will never leave you, and love you till' the end.
Agata Paszek happened to me today. She left me
happened to me today. my whole body is hurting from this shit
Just found my own comment 2 years later. Guess what happened again guys B)
Nero again! Oh my :(
😭😭
Physical Pain *eventually* forgets. Emotional is forever.
If my emotional pain was physical, I would've already died from my injuries.
i would have died the most brutal my pets will always be in my heart curse cars
Bullshit
No no emotions only needs to be practiced and taken seriously
Until you learn to love on or let it go. You're only hurting yourself, if someone leaves you, it was meant to be, someone better will come along
I wonder how biology can explain the physical pain you feel in your chest when all you want to do is be with someone.
fruit in all caps I wish it would stop
It's adrenaline, fight or flight response because your life purpose to procreate is threatened
PHAN
PHANNNN
@@beavinator420 What about depression or trauma? The feeling of being physically weighed down..where does that come from?
It's been over a year and just as I thought I was over it, I'm right back to the pain of realizing he will never choose to be with me.
I fear this will be me! It’s been 5 weeks and they’ve been the worst weeks of my life ! I really do feel I’ll never be over this pain
How's it now? After 4 years
Sleep is the only escape I get from my heartbreak, but sometimes that doesn't even help because I'll see her in my dreams.
EDIT: 4 years later it definitely gets easier haha; smoke weed, hit the gym, make money and hang out with your friends
Never have I read something more true than that.
Yeah it is the only time I can escape this painful existence
same bruh
@@mythiccwindow8307 Do you want your ex back?. I know someone who can help you get your ex back
Same
I was only 15 and I visited this girl nearly everyday. Her name was UA-cam
lol
+Yashfi Aariba dammit, I knew there had to at a billion other people she was seeing I KNEW IT!
+Phonos Smith shes cheating on you with me
SHES CHEATING WITH EVERYONE
+InFamouslyRed so true
"Surround yourself with friends" to combat the emotional pain. My closest friend just kissed my girl. I've never felt so low in my life. I feel beyond low..
I'm Savage Ayy must indeed suck really bad. Keep being yourself and better time will come again!
I'm Savage Dude i wish you the best.
I'm Savage ..Life can be unbelievably cruel....and so can people.
I'm Savage Dude i feel you my bro got together with my girl in October....he was like my brother...
I can't stop thinking about her also...
Solution: 3 sum
I'm not sure if anyone is still visiting this video, but if you do, I just want to wish you a happy 2019. Heartbreak is painful-may you have the strength to carry on. May the force be with you.
I just recently had my heart broken. My first relationship, the first person I've ever loved in a romantic way, all of those memories are thrown away forever. I'll never be able to experience those memories with them again, things will never be the same between us even though we've agreed to stay friends. The absolute worst is hearing that "it's not you, it's me" when you know deep in your heart you could've done something to change the outcome, and to hear that person say "you'll find someone else" is heartbreaking because it feels like you were matched with the perfect person, and now they're gone forever
♥ ѕку ♥ the same exact thing happened to me just yesterday, she said she isn’t ready for a relationship, after 2 years of being together, I feel so distraught and confused and shocked and empty, everything feels like a nightmare, and I feel like I need to cry every second, even though I spent about 15 hours straight crying last night.
If you don’t mind me asking, were you able to move on?
@@WillyWankstain it happened to me, today
Martin xD we may be hundred of miles away, but we share the same pain.
Good luck to you man.
I get what you feel like and yeah it hurts when you did nothing wrong and it’s ripped all away because of the other person then being told you’ll find someone else when you want to be with the person you were with before
And I get that that makes people feel like shot
I wish I could stop crying...
I wish I can stop the pain, the depression, the reoccurring memories...........
TigerwomanXsweden ahhh me too
Dont worry you will❤️
This comment section makes me wanna cry cause it's a saddening section. Hope all goes well for everyone out there
❤
Adrian Arreola no it won't get better
*What I dislike is how the majority thinks everyone should get over getting hurt, especially guys, no way, I relish in it, I remember the pain everyday, I don't want to forget, I want to remember.* I'm focused, I'm excelling, and I have an understanding that what I want in a companion is a friend who will support(what I wanted at first, but that was in a traditional manner)me when I'm older, with no sexual constraints, while as I enjoy my prime womanizing as much as I can, relieving myself of the pain through each sexual encounter, in which I don't at all care about the person, and finding comfort in knowing I will never commit myself emotionally to anyone.
Aww don’t give up. I was committed to someone and she left me. I would never do what she did to anyone ever.
I feel so better to know that I'm not the only one going through a Heartbreak. All of you are my brothers and sisters now
Heart break is like being stabbed in your stomach then kicked in the face 20 times, while being beaten with the metal part of a belt.
I'd prefer that to what I feel right now.
@@madcowrebel4216 same man
29 stab wounds!!
That’s better
If only it hurt that little...
Anyone wanna come over to my house and cry with me?
Fan Pop I'll be over in an hour
Fan Pop I will come too 😩
meeee
Fan Pop whats your address?
JerryxTC pick me up
*gets heartbroken*
Normal people: cry with chocolate and netflix
Me: looks it up on ASAP
Replace Netflix with UA-cam(I’m broke) and I can be both people.
Jenna Taylor normal people drink me
signs you may be intp
and me: *listen to sad songs and performance eating anxiety*
@@pocariii3596 lmao
Sending love to all the broken hearts out there in the world ❤️
I'm done with having people around me, I'm done with talking about my feelings. Every time I thought I met someone good, I screw up, I'm not going to have another relationship or friendship. I'm done with those fake things. I'm tired of everything and everyone.
my now ex boyfriend just left me 4 days ago and it hurts so much. we were best friends before we got together and now it hurts to look at him or think about him. i act fine around him and my friends but as soon as im alone im a wreck. love hurts dude.
I feel you, the guy I like/had a thing with is dating this girl, while months ago he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. But I can see he changed his mind now..
Coco honestly I hate when people give another person an excuse like that. Just say it to their face and just end the pain and suffering for them in the long run.
shoshanna boucher I hope things are better for you now
Do you want your ex back?. I know someone who can help you get your ex back
Christ, I miss her too much.
+Brendan Brady i can relate...
yeah...
I think anyone that searches up 'The Science of Heartbreak' will relate.
Everyone be happy! :) It will be alright. Things will get better:)
***** All relationships are doomed from the start, doesn't mean I'm not gonna enjoy the ride.
This video: surround yourself with friends
Me: Cries in quarentine cause of Covid-19
its crazy how one person can make you feel like you lose everything.without him you feel like theres nothing in this world.thats im feeling rn
U cant surround urself with friends if u don't have any :/
+Sunshine rose Girl come on you can't say that I'm sure you just need someone to open up themselves to you.
Yoona snsd :)
+Yoona A or ur family
family is stronger bound
Sunshine rose Girl lol
Girlfriend just cheated on me... Worst part is knowing i'll feel this pain for a long time again. Physical pain is so much easier to cope with
+Kai You I know how you feel dude, not going through this alone. Trust me.
+Kevin Marroquin we'll make it bro.. Its just so painful but ive been through this before. thanks for replying
Kai You i'm basically in the same situation. To put it simple I really love this one girl and she made me smile every day. We dated and stuff and eventually she was not interested anymore and decided to end it. I feel so lost without her and it sucks. It's very painful especially since it was the only real friend I had. I can't take my mind off it and whenever I try to it doesn't work.
It'll pass I know, time heals everything. But I just wish I didn't feel like this. I miss being happy
+Kevin Marroquin My girl would talk about marriage with me and tell me how she knows im her last boyfriend and that shes going to have a future with me. Now shes with another guy who she cheated on me with and her words are meaningless. I think about the time we first got back together after our first breakup and it was the happiest day of my life. that was only about a month and a half ago. My happiness is dead. its nonexistant now. I just want to be happy again.. Idk how i can ever trust somebody again..
Kai You Damn dude, I know how it feels. The girl is moving and it hurts because you see her moving on and you staying and trying to get her back. I still love her, it's hard not to. Me and my girl talked about marriage too. I met her parents and her siblings and went to family reunions and her family loved me. My family knew her and she went to my family meetings. So it's hard as hell, even after a month of us being apart. I understand how you feel. It's hard for me because this was my first love and it's heartbreaking. We'll get better soon. Be strong dude, try to think about something else. There is someone out there better than her waiting for you, trust me.
I am heartbroken since my crush showed me I am not as special to him as he is to me... It hurts so much. I give him a lot but not receive much. 😔
I'm going through something right now but seeing this helped. this emotional pain persists longer than physical pain, but any bit of social interaction helps a lot. Thank you for making this video.
What if my ex is someone i want back more than anything? What if my ex is someone I love more than anything? What if I'd give it all up to hear him say "I love you" one last time?
Sora Flower exactly what I’m going through
Sora Flower I read in the acknowledgement part of a book this quote that said 'For (name) who loved me enough to let me go' and I never thought I'd be comforted right at the acknowledgements while reading a book. But it's true, if you really love them you have to let them go and if they come back, it was always meant to be. If they don't, accept it, and find consolation in everything else. Know that your heartbreak will teach you more about you and your life than being in love did and that's the silver lining even if you don't see it now.
Sora Flower welcome to my world
To get over something you have to move on then and there. No wanting him to say I love you one last time. Forget everything about that person then and there. There is no one last time when moving on is the correct thing.
Same I’m gonna try to get him back even though he’s a douche
"Surround yourself with friends and family" Error 404 :/
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+Andrea
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Too true, too real. 💔
same here 😢
Aww😥
The person I’ve loved since 6th grade just ghosted our whole relationship when it was better than ever. I feel like I’m dying.
After I was heartbroken a year ago, I was experiencing heart pain physically. My heart would actually heart a few times.
Is it normal to feel heartbroken from a friendship? I lost the first person who ever genuinely cared about me (except for family) after that I felt as though my heart was being ripped out, but I was never in love
It's totally normal losing a friend in my opinion at least can sometimes hurt as much as a relationship heart break
Yes, and friend breakups (at least for me) are 4 times as hard as boyfriend breakups
All my friends are assholes, BEST FRIENDS HOWEVER........
yeah today was my friends last day at my school and i cried my eyes out
The cause for actual pain is that after something extreme either psychological or physical, the body is producing an immense amount of stress hormones which then can cause negative reactions to your heart. So a friendship can definitely be a cause for that. This syndrome is not related to any specific thing. It could even be the loss of something you value like a an object.
why they pretend to love us just to cause us pain and leave ? I ll move on when I ll find the answer
Because they’re ducking selfish
Because deep down they came straight from the pits of hell
they most likely have never experienced real love or nurture because their parents were negligent or not there at all
Yeah I get that feeling, I’m crying myself to sleep everyday just because they pretended to love me
Same thing happened to me
If they really want you, they will still be with you. Everything else is just an excuse. Take a long break from dating. You'll need it.
Thanks bro. Theres always a bro popping in with some truth.
I needed to see this. Thank you.
when i'm going through hard times or heartbreaks I prefer to be alone. It helps me get a better perspective of myself than me surrounded with people and ignoring the issue only to make it worse.
I literally just felt really sad when i realised how lonely i am...
Ur not :/
I'll be your friend :)
yay!
Thespongeeguy You are not alone as ironic as it can be
Hey spongeeguy. Hru holding you??
Just want to say hi and have a great day ahead
Take care :)
Me and my ex-bf broke up like 7months ago, but I still want to cry about it. He's the most amazing person I've ever met, and I just wish I never met him, so that it wouldn't be so painful
Dark Cookie that's exactly how I feel
for me it's been nine months, i remember the dates of our first date, when we met, when we broke up. Everything. it hurts so much and i hate everyone telling you to get over them when you cant. There's just something in you that won't let you do it. You can't forget the people you loved. Never.
@@ciarabegley11 help me
same here
I was hurt so much because of the relationship, I keep smiling to the people around me even tho I was already DYING inside of me....
I always forget what it really feels like and when it happens it’s like I lose any emotional intelligence I’ve ever had. Seeing other people give advice and talk about similar experiences really helps ground me and understand that they just weren’t the person for me no matter how much I may have loved them or wanted them to stay.
when my boyfriend passed away from cancer last year, it literally felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I still can't believe the physical pain I felt, as if the emotional pain wasn't bad enough! when we met and fell in love I couldn't believe the feelings I had for him. I honestly didn't know love like ours existed until "we" happened. It was like we invented love. I miss him so much and seriously hope theirs an afterlife where he's waiting patiently for me when my time eventually comes. I'll love him until I die and beyond. Friday (March 3, 2017) will be one year without him. I LOVE YOU, P.T!!! 😢💖💩🏈🏂🎱🍷🍻🍍🌴🌅🐶🐱🐾🍀💖
Sorry to hear that, rest in peace to your fellow boyfriend. I hope you feel better, i know u cant erase the pain, make him happy by seeing u happy, I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to see u miserable. Take care for yourself, and pray cuz we all obey to God,who will surely get some of our things but return to us much more than what he took from us. Peace up :)
I'm sorry and I hope you're feeling better. He's your angel now. When you said "it was like we invented love" it really hit the nail on the head for me.
I’m sorry. Even though this is an old comment, it probably still hurts. That’s a really sad story... He will be always taking care of you up there❤️
Cee Cee R.I.P. to your boyfriend,. I hope he’s in a good place now.
Wow loyal to the end you my friend deserve more likes
So if someone is a loner without friends or attention or affection and tries to find love but keeps getting played led on and heart broken do they die?
Yup because they commited suicide of bullyness
Lps SnowTV Not just suicide. They can be stressed out to the part they die of heart attack. It's most likely to happen to old people whose lifetime partner has died recently.
Im gonna die then :/
SouthCalifas619 Everyone dies, silly.
SouthCalifas619 immune system will become weak. not having friends can be as damaging as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.
To all the broken hearted people on here and in reality. All we want is to be loved and accepted. Through all the mistakes we make, through all the pain we go through. We must be there for one another no matter how alone we feel. Through heartbreak we are united to comfort those who are hurting because we are going through it with them.
To anyone going through a heartbreak. You deserve the world and you are perfect just the way you are. It may seem like this pain won't go away but trust me this too shall pass and you'll be your best self again, may be even better🥰🌸.
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Whtsaap him"**
why am I watching this I've never even had a relationship lol
Lmfao thank you for this. I was in a really depressed state when I read this and started laughing. Still sad...but the laugh was needed
+Daniel Jones aw glad I could help :))
rejection after relationship maybe. mutual separation after ongoing feud is different
Psycho Grizzly
Fernanda Aguirre what about my channel name?
It took me 2 years to get over an internet relationship.. What am I doing with life.. How am I going to live like this
+IWatchWeirdVideos Yea.. I'm ok although I still remember him. Thanks for understanding. But I am in love again and soon to be in a relationship.. :)
+AngelFlower nvm got freaking friendzoned. Fml bye
+IWatchWeirdVideos thanks.. you too
same
Yeah me to it was 😭
I started dating a girl, and I slowly fell in love with her, and I thought she felt the same, but yesterday, when I got home, I saw her instagram story ... she was kissing another guy
GOD IT HURTS SO MUCH
she belongs to the streets
Don't even speak to her again, she doesn't deserve to hear your voice
I met the one but we were too young and messed up our relationship beyond repair... now 5 years later realised we would never be happy as a result, and agreed to break up I feel so lost ;-; how do you just move on after so many years ?
Rachel same I'm going through it now it's hard worst pain I've ever felt
I'm really really heart broken
Nerdy_depressed_girl I'm here for you
Nerdy_depressed_girl I feel you... It sucks...
Same..
I’m in pieces I don’t know what to do
Do you want your ex back?. I know someone who can help you get your ex back
I found out the guy I loved for a year stopped loving me back one day. All feelings for me, gone. I was heartbroken. Couldn't eat. BUT now I'm eating and I'm moving on :). Thought I would marry that guy even. I was wrong...but the man I WILL marry is out there somewhere :).
Sarina you just need to keep your ex's number for the rest of your life. Send them pictures of your hot future husband/wife (whatever your preferences are) and send them the middle finger emoji whenever you're angry. If they're too mental to recognize what they're missing out on, it's their fault. 🖕Screw 'em.
Sarina W, it's hard, and it stinks. I'm still stinging and it's been a couple months. There's no miracle cure, and it gets worse before it gets better. Just try to keep moving forward. Do things you enjoy and focus on the positive things that you have. At some point it gets better. Hang in there.
C.benson how can you think like this ? Im in pain. I dont want to love anymore.
I have felt this pain before. When you loved someone so much, and one day it ends, your heart hurts, time feels like it stopped for a moment, and days feel so long. I too thought that things were going so well. My ex and I dated for almost 2 years. Eventually, you learn a lot from the break up. Word of advice, don't force yourself to be happy. If you do, you're really just hurting yourself even more. To be truly happy, you'd learn to move on and accept that everything happens for a reason. It will always be a lesson of learning. I am in another relationship now, but it took me a while to move on before getting into another relationship. You don't always need get into another relationship to be happy. It's always nice to bring positivity here. :) It may take time to move on, but you will soon learn to see what's better for yourself. Eventually you'll find someone new and maybe even be happier than the last relationship. If not, you can love yourself as in making sure to take care of your needs. Don't forget those around you that still care for you. Life goes on, and so do we.
Mellough hi, how are you?
I'm really heartbroken because the boy who "apparently" loved me has FEELINGS for his ex and has pretty much forgotten about me and I don't know what to do! I loved him tones oh well 😭💔
EVEN MY STORY IS SIMILAR LIKE YOURS MY BF USED TO LOVE ME SO MUCH EVEN HE WAS EXTREMELY POSSESSIVE ABOUT ME BUT I SUDDENLY LEFT OUT FROM THE SCHOOL NOW I M GETTING HIS DATING RUMORS JUST FEELS SO BAD BECAUSE I LOVED HIM SO MUCH AND I WAS JUST SINGLE FOR HIM ONLY 😿😿🤮🤮
I feel intense pain when I’m sad, and my parents gave my Cat to the spca recently and I feel so much pain. But I have no friends and my family isn’t their for me
Im suffering emotionally, but I have no family and friends to turn to for support
talk to me...
Elizabeth Almanzar Hi, but how
Eamail..
Random Tube bro that sounds really terrible and what ever you do, do not give up on any cause you've been through that's saddening or on your life always fight for your life because your not alone so keep fighting no matter what OK and i really hope and believe that you'll have good family and friends sooner or later in life and don't worry your not the only one so keep on fighting no matter what OK peace love bro peace and I hope everything goes awesome for you. ;)
Random Tube
I support you. I am going through the same thing right now
What if you don't have any friends
I don't even have a good enough family to connect myself with
Ignoring the profile pic it's true
I was going to say the same thing
+IWatchWeirdVideos i have no friends and my family dont care about me what do i do then ?
+IWatchWeirdVideos You sir,are awesome.
Thanks
When your heart drops that’s a deep feeling
I was antisocial, but i tried to jump in love and find hope, but i got heartbroken :(
Heartbroken. I still feel a lot of pain. Nobody will ever be like her, I hope we'll meet again. She promised.
But for now, I'm under pills and social support. Damn, it's so painful.
ProGames107
Thanks man
How are you now?
Losing someone hurts BUT it is necessary for progress.
Surround yourself with friends and family
I literally almost cried
Neglected, stuck on homeschool, and I'm not allowed to hangout with friends unless my parents get to know them, they don't care enough to get to know them. Now I remember why I promised myself to not get into a relationship, and I shouldn't have broken that promise 💔
I am suffering from a broken heart right now, and it is bad, really bad.
He was the first person that I really loved, he was the one person I could talk to about anything in the world, he was the one person that made me finally understand the true meaning of love songs and romantic movies. Fullfilling his wishes and needs and making him happy was the best feeling in the world. Everything was perfect and it seemed like it was meant to be, but then he said he needed time to get his feelings straight because he never really had time to work through his break up with his former girlfriend. He broke up with here two weeks before met met.
Yesterday I found out, that they are kind of working things out so they can get back together. I am miserable right now and I feel taken advantage of.
Lane Moje I know how you feel. Know that you're not alone. When you're going through hell, keep going. You're not done yet.
I understand, don't listen to the cliche and overrated "You're not alone, smile." phrases. Use your pain to become a powerhouse and eat everything that stands in your way.
pretty much the same story for me. sorry you had to live that too, it sucks. some days are better than others :(
I am probably replying too late but I am almost going through the same thing. I met this guy who broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years (they lived together for 3) a month before we met. I broke up with my ex too because I wasn't in love anymore (yeah, broke his heart too...) so when we met, it was pure attraction. We became friends with benefits and everything was good, but then we started spending time together and the months past. At the end we would meet and not even sleep together, we would do normal things like cooking, working out, going to the theater. And eventually we talked about it and we stated that I was going in the same direction, we were beginning to feel like we could at some point start a relationship but we wanted to wait. Then one day he comes to me and tells me that he can't be with me and give me a serious relationship right now, so he kept his distance for a week. Then he came back and we tried it again as before and then finally he admitted to me that he wanted to try it with his ex again. So puff.. Everything disappeared as if it were nothing.
Aand I am so sad, we shared so many good things we laughed together all the time, we did stupid things together and I truly had hope... But he was just thinking about her this whole time....i just want the pain to be over
And now??
damn these comments are pretty hardcore
Carson Troeh fr boi
Heartbreak has to be real. I just lost my friend yesterday and my chest has been tight ever since i found out 😣 Life aint fair
Your true my friend. I just got heartbroken yesterday and it's my first time ever being heartbroken. I'm not used to it and it hurts a lot.
This explains why I have depression and anxiety, yay.
I could relate
same
Astrus No need to comment then.
Not really, people can agree if they think the same thing, and this is my own comment that you're commenting on, so yeah.
Also, people could have also gotten a diagnosis from an actual doctor and also commented here, so it wouldn't be a self diagnosis.
You can say what you want on your own comment out of someone else's thread.
I've liked a boy since kindergarten and we were great friends, I was about to tell him how I felt but he asked a girl to yesterday's dance as I was walking up to him. I thought i found true love. He was the only person that could really make me laugh and smile since my mom died. I could talk to him about anything and whenever he was sad he talked to me. I finally felt like I found someone who liked me.
Awwwww that's so sad ;-; Maybe he is trying to make u jealous. Keep looking on the bright side :)
Never forget! U meet every person for a reason!
Awww I know how that feels but don't worry just tell him how you feel I told my crush that and now we're together:)
Tell him how you feel. You'll be surprise at what might happened. Trust me.
Maybe the other girl liked him also. Maybe she told him how she felt about him, just before you were going to. The thing about guys, is we are terrified of rejection. Especially in front of others. If you tell him how you feel, if he likes you back, he'll ask you out. Guys just don't want to get rejected especially in front of other people.
Thank you I didn’t know what to do with myself but friends actually do help me cope with a recent breakup
I always underestimated ppl who said heartbreaks were hard, yeah i’d already been through one but it was different It took me months to heal and I did but it didn’t hurt as much as this one. Every time i see this persons story or with their friends I get sick to my stomach , it hurts so bad I wanna cry but cant anymore it hurts so bad that my whole body aches. Heart breaks are incredibly hard and to this day those who get over it or find each other again and it works I admire bc it is hard going from all the time to nothing anymore and having that boundary of just friends. They always say if your friends with an ex you say you loved you either never rlly loved them or where deeply in love and tbh your first love will hurt bad bad. It hurts so bad I just wanna curl up and cry but I cant.
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Its a shame, that moment in your life when you realise you are wasting the only time you have here alone. And you try to change that by trying to start living life, but you can't really find anyone to experience life with. Then your stuck at the beginning with the thought of wasted time in your head. The time in your life when you realise this is so tough.
I know that feeling. It's like you're always on the outside looking in, wanting to fit in, to feel normal, to be part of something but just can never be so.
I cried watching this , my heart hurts so much
"Human beings would prefer to be inflicted with physical pain over feeling social occlusion." That is both profoundly sad, but also shows the beauty and importance of relationships of all kinds.
Around the time after I turned 30 I started to feel exactly what this video talks about. In the last I felt very defined emotional pain and physical pain. They were always separate and different. But when I started to experience some anxiety or having episodes of depression after my 30s I felt a very clear type of physical pain. It feels kind of like every muscle in your body at once hurts. Not as intensely as individual physical pain, but because it’s everywhere at once it feels very bad and severe.
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I once heard that "You are able to close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel." Emotional pain hurts more than any physical injury you can fathom in this ever unfair world.
Oh geez so many sad stories. Well guys don't worry, the people here'll help ya.
literally crying my heart out 10 minutes ago
*sees this*
Are they reading my mind?!
It’s like a painful pit in your stomach and an outer body experience
I've never been in a romantic relationship in my entire life, but for some reason, I have this vague, lingering feeling. I watch tons of heartbreak-related music videos, and it engulfs hours of my day sometimes. It's so irritating, and so weird.
check out Syd Matters - Obstacles (I really understand you)
Lights Blade you can be happy with that.i would choose that,if i could.......my heart is broken,i can not stop crying right now and it is basically the worst feeling on earth.
I found out my crush got a significant other already this morning I was crushed
I confessed my love when they were in a bad time, it was my first time I gave my heart to someone, and they weren’t ready so they said “let’s stay friends” after dating for some time. I am crying, my heart is ripped, and I can’t do anything.
I thought I was okay, it's been 3 days no contact and he seems so fine, it makes me feel like he never cared about me in the first place
It's not cool that so many people feel like this, but it is nice to know I'm not alone in feeling like this. Hang in there everybody. We'll all get through it.
I think heart broken is the worse type of pain :(, how would I know this, well because everyone says its horrible and im heart broken right now :'(
There, there.
See, I'm socially supporting you. Feel better?
FingerAthLEET lol
FingerAthLEET awww that's very sweet of you!! lol :D
I feel to diee but I can't..
They looked forward to that moment with joy, but without haste, not pining for it, but seeming to have a foretaste of it in their hearts, of which they talked to one another. But when they looked at me with their sweet eyes full of love, when I felt that in their presence my heart, too, became as innocent and just as theirs, the feeling of the fullness of life took my breath away, and I worshipped them in silence. Their children were the children of all, for they all made up one family.
This short but sweet video just made me cry
why does it have to hurt so much, when someone leaves you.
Because no one likes rejection. That's all. You will heal though. It takes time.
It takes a really long time though, so get comfortable, heh.........heh........... 😔
Because you cared and put effort time and love into that person and then he or she betrays you.
its taking me 2 months so far to get over my ex I still feel for him...
corzza bear shit it’s been a bit over a year and I’m still not over her...
Its been 8 years and I'm not over my crush with my best friend who was there for me since childhood...
Mostly cause he lives across the street and when I see someone i like my feelings don't leave....that and it hurts more he was my best friend that now rejects me in his life as soon as he found out
That's a short time. You are lucky 😭
This helped me with my breakup in highschool 5 years ago. He was the first lover I've ever had.. but after we split I met someone better. And now my recent boyfriend and I are engaged :)
My heart got ripped out of my chest when my crush told me no to not going out with me because he was in love with a close friend of mine. I still love and think about him every single day. It really does hurt seeing walk right past me just looking forward. Not noticing me. Not talking to me.
it hurts like hell 😢😢😢😢
being with friends and family= being more social = more chances of getting hurt by people = depression.
instead of that.. try working on something which u love..I think that can help!
I always cry
why people just use me ? bully me?
why people don't have a heart?
Have you ever wanted to cry but no tears came out, so you just stare blankly into space while feeling your heart break into pieces?
What if this reality is a dream and when we die we wake up?
Well, I guess life is a Nightmare and Heaven is that mom waking you wen you are screaming after dream death
matrix. o:
Christian Salomon It has the concept of "INCEPTION" more than "MATRIX".......Well..i know that's what you think and every body thinks differently but just arguing with you cause i can....:)
This is by far the best comment a video like this could ever hope to get.
I've always thought that. My whole life, I've always believed that. It's amazing that someone else feels the same way.
2 year relationship, we talked everyday up until one day she started ignoring my messages and then 2 months later she had a new boyfriend... 💔
I actually really needed this. Thanks. :) So glad I found this video. :)
I was once in love with a younger girl who I pampered and took care of but when she broke up she made me feel like my love was lacking or not enough. This feeling of inadequacy still lingers and crushes my heart every day. I am afraid to love another girl to this day fearing my love will be deemed unworthy again.