Multifandom | “I was raped” (RAPE WARNING)
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Females from the ages 12-34 have a higher risk of being raped. 1 out of 6 females has been a victim of an attempted or complete rape in her lifetime (14.8% complete, 2.8% attempted) As of 1998 an estimated 17.7 million american females had been victims of attempted or complete rape. 82% of all juveniles victims are female and 90% of adult rape victims are female. Females ages 16-19 are 4 times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault. Women ages 18-24 who are college students are 3 times more likely than women in general to experience sexual violence. Females of the same age who are not enrolled in college are 4 times more likely. 94% of women who are raped experience symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) during the two weeks following the rape. 30% of women report symptoms of PTSD 9 months after the rape. 33% of women who are raped think about suicide. 13% of women who are raped attempt suicide. Approximately 70% of raped or sexual assault victims experience moderate to severe distress, a larger percentage than for any other violent crime. 60% of rape assaults don’t get reported they are either too scared, too shocked or feel like it’s their fault and only 6% of rapists ever serve a day in jails. Sexual assault victims are survivors and it is scary how much females get sexually assaulted but sadly not surprising.
Mom season 4 episode 20
13 reasons why season 1 episode 9, season 1 episode 12, season 1 episode 13, and season 2 episode 13 (but honestly binging the whole series would most likely help if you were raped)
Degrassi The Next Generation season 13 episode 23, season 2 episode 7, and season 7 episode 2,
Unbelievable (incredible Netflix series)
Reign season 2 episode 9
switched at birth season 4 episode 5
Anne with an E (she wasn’t raped but still used it in this cause it was a good episodes for females to watch it’s powering) if you wanna watch it’s season 3 episodes 6 and 7
Riverdale (attempt rape) season 2 episode 5
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STOP Blaming the victim! You won't know their pain until you are in that situation!
It's never their fault... Even though they are wearing clothes that are revealing, it's NEVER YOUR FAULT! They should be ashamed of themselves...
DO NOT KEEP QUIET!!! SPEAK UP! FIGHT BACK!!
Hope all women, men and children be safe around this heartless world who won't stand for victims.
To all the people who have been victims of this crime, may God give you the courage to move on and lead a happy life... May God punish the wrong ones... May justice be served to you...
Amen
It means so much for you to say it out there 😭😭😭
Preach
The worst thing is blaming the victim. Sometimes a woman doesn’t have to/is not in a position to say no, for various reasons. It’s still rape. When a woman is drugged, she cannot say no. When a woman is tied up, no doesn’t exactly work. When there are a group of men overpowering one woman, No means nothing to them. Sometimes she has been manipulated, groomed and made to believe the person is someone she can trust, when in reality they just manipulated the women….she may not even realize it is rape. It doesn’t have to be violent to be rape either. Alcohol is not an excuse for rape. Dressing “provocatively” is NOT an invitation for RAPE. Nothing is an excuse for rape…. Or EVER HAVING A MAN PUT THEIR HANDS AGGRESSIVELY & INAPPROPRIATELY ON A WOMAN.
Good men know this. MEN BEWARE, KNOW HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN. THERE IS NEVER ANY EXCUSE TO ABUSE A WOMAN. Make sure that when you want an intimate relationship with a woman, that it actually IS consensual.
And never ever think there is an excuse of justifiable reason to attack a woman or be aggressive with a woman in a non-sexual way. There is NO EXCUSE OR JUSTIFICATION FOR THAT EITHER.
“I DISSENT!” 🖤🤍RBG
Why is it so much more horrifying to have the guy openly admit to it and not ever deny it. Than to have them deny it happening.
Because it shows he's proud. He believes he's entitled to your body, so he deserves it, doesn't matter how he gets it...
It shows that they don't care about what they did to you AT ALL. Or about the repercussions. It's terrifying because you realise they don't care and that it didn't matter to them. Some men get drunk and rape a woman and feel disgusted about it afterwards, so it's harder for them to admit, even to themselves. But a guy that just is open about raping people really makes it show that it doesn't matter to them.
my attacker very recently told me he knows what he did, knows how much he hurt me. that he knows how damaging it was for me to see him being bestfriends with my rapist after he was the first person i told
that destroyed me all over again
I just had my so called "friend" rape me this past Sunday on Easter and he admitted to everyone he did it. Ive been raped before but none of them ever admitted it and this does feel scarier because it shows that he knows exactly what he did and that he doesnt cate of he gets in trouble for it because he has no regrets hes proud of himself. But oc even tho he admitted to staff at my group home and wrote down a confession the staff didnt call the cops and wont let me call the cops and Im stuck seeing him everyday.
@@v3r1ty hey im very sorry to hear that. And you know You're a really strong person. I hope you're alright.
If a women doesn’t say no AND YOU DONT HEAR THEM SAY FREAKING YES WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO DO IT
EXACTLY
YES EXACTLY LOVE THAT!!
It’s not only women who get raped
@@scouser2010ify definitely not men get raped so much I’m sorry I only put women in here I was gonna put men but I was thinking and I already got a bunch of women scenes so I decided that I would do a better one with the men but sorry I have non in this one
@@scouser2010ify I know that I was talking about the video most scenes were women.I’m sorry if the comment offended you
One of my closest friends assaulted me in my sleep. What hurts the most is we'd just had a deep conversation, and I'd shared some really difficult things going on in life at the moment. And at some point had made it clear I wasn't interested in him, but loved him so much as a friend. And he returned the sentiment. We'd occasionally stay the night at each other's, staying in the same room.
And he chose one of the most vulnerable times for a person and decided to... do that... to me. He wasn't violent about it, but tried to be sneaky. He didn't even bring it up the next day. Of course he didn't, why would he? He thought I'd slept through it. When I confronted him, he didn't try to hide it then. He immediately apologized, said "that's not the person he wants to be." I essentially said go to hell and took him in for a trial. Since I had text evidence with him saying he'd done it, it was a fairly clear-cut case.
But I don't know if I can ever trust a friend, especially a male friend, again. Which sucks, I don' want to be "discriminatory", but I truly can't help it in my brain. I want to have friends, I'd like to not care about their gender, and I know female friends have the potential to assault too. But damn. It hurts so badly even after 3 years.
That sounds awful. As a man, I hope you recover.
That’s not discrimination, that’s trauma. Don’t be frustrated with your brain because it’s protecting itself. This can be worked through with a therapist. I hope you’re able to find peace with this someday.
So proud of you for standing up to him! You didn’t deserve that but you aren’t alone lovely ❤️🩹🫶🏻
I'm so sorry ❤❤
I want to say that you are not what happened to you. You don’t have to live with the guilt of what he did to you, or what she did to you, or what they did to you. You are also allowed to be angry or feel nothing at all. You are allowed to feel how you want to about it because it was something that happened to you. You are a survivor and you can get through this. I believe in you, even if no one else does.
Omg! This brought tears to my eyes, thank you.
Thank you for this comment ❤
Thank you I needed this reminder for the last two weeks my will to keep living was slowly fading I had awful thoughts of dying i even attempted to kill myself and there are people to talk to about it but all I could do is put a mask on because I didn't want to talk yet I feel like I'm drowning for not looking for help however thank you I needed to hear these words 🙏
These are just shows. However, the sad reality is that rape occurs more often than it should. It can be done to both females and males.
When will there be harder punishment for those who commit these crimes. Society needs to stop victim blaming.
And if any ones lies about being raped they should also be punished for false allegations. It only makes it harder for real victims who are raped, abused, molested.
I agree 💯
As a person who knows what it's like, I hear people say "He r@ped me" just when He was tapping her shoulder to get her attention. I watched it... And she yells "R@PE!!!" And all I can do is just stare because I'm blown away by what I just saw
rape happens occasionally outside of marriage. The best way to prevent it is to marry and stay out of trouble
@@reek4062 whether or not you're married is out of the question, it's more surround yourself with people you know you can trust. but even then it isn't preventable. there are cases of parents, partners, strangers etc getting their hands on someone whether they're married or not. it should be less about what the victim should do, but more about what the perpetrator shouldn't do. this advice is okay, but just isn't always that effective
And to animals too
The feeling of helplessness right before it happens knowing it’s going to, and that you can’t do anything about it, is one of the worst feelings in the world. That’s one of the parts that stuck with me the most
I’m so sorry that happened to you and Im so sorry you ever experienced this feeling no one should I hope you got or is good get your justice!! 🤍
@@multieditsmc6156 thanks. No one should have to experience that feeling, yet so many do and it’s not right.
Being sexually assaulted change's you inside and out a piece of you dies and it will never return I was sexually assaulted when I was a child by two different people I blocked it out for years until I was a teenager I'm still feel the anger the pain and at times the shame of what happened to me
I am so sorry that happened to you and the people that did that to you will get justice
Honestly, shout out to the actors/actresses that have to play rapists, I feel like that has to be truly one of the HARDEST roles to ever play in a movie/tv show. Anyone can play a villain, but playing a rapist... well, it has to be awful feeling
completely agree that must be a difficult role to play i definitely wouldn’t be able to play that role just the sounds would haunt me
I was almost raped by college boyfriend he even said yes. But i fought him off then told my friends. He was arrested.
I’m sorry for that thank god you fought him off and thank god he was arrested
Good
“Did I say yes?” ….so much truth
The reporter who said she just made bad choices while being drunk pissed me off omg
Me too ,like if a woman says she was raped by a guy, and it didn't happen ,not only does she end up embarrassing herself but also the guy, her friends and family and his friends and family as well
I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more
no one knows about it. it happened while i was in relationship with another man. i was so scared to tell him about scared that he will say that was my fault
i really dreaming about someone tell me "i believe u". That I was the victim.
i can't stop crying, I don't know how i can live with this
I am so sorry for everything that happened... I want you to know that you are strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage and it's not your fault... it never was. I believe you. I BELIEVE YOU. Keep dreaming for your life because you deserve hapiness and you deserve the best in the world. Even I don't know you, I know you have a heart and you are a wonderful person. I hope you are doing better and I wish for you to find peace. Please remeber that you did nothing wrong, it's not your fault. I'm here and I believe you. You are an amazing person and you are a hero, my hero.
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 you are the person who have a really big heart. thank u so much for finding time to say this to me. i really needed this. sitting n crying. thank u. wish u all the best n send all my love, u have no idea how grateful am i
@@Katherine-vv3dq No need to thank me ❤. I'm here for you, again i wish you the best because you deserve the best ❤. Don't forget that.
@@Katherine-vv3dq Hello again, I was wondering how you are doing, I hope you are better and I'm sending you my love ❤
After all of this. You realise you can't even talk to your parents about it.
And when you actually get the guts and talk about it and tell them. You get, "every girl goes through it"
The thought, that someone has touched you without your consent. It breaks me everytime I look at myself.
That’s so sad cause every girl shouldn’t have to go through that and people who use that as an excuse I guess is just messed up like everyone dies does that mean you shouldn’t get a funeral cause it always happens it’s just messed up and I am so sorry that happened you don’t deserve that and no one does you deserve better.
Amazing. I have no words.
Thank you so much
@@multieditsmc6156 thank you
@@jonse2824 of course
This was such a balanced well made video on the reality of rape in our society including victim blaming. ThAnk you. 🙏🏽❤🔥
i never wanted to admit it but today i realised it was rape, not assault. he put his fingers in me and i was talking to my friend and she said “that’s rape”
he nearly killed me. he put his hand around my throat until i could t breathe
I am so sorry for what you went through... I want you to know that you are strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are doing better, if not, please remember that you are amazing. Sending you my love ❤
The only ones I did not see were Mom, and Switched at Birth...
But the ones that I did see were so hard to watch... These women did an amazing job really embodying what a true rape survivor goes through... Degrassi was seriously one of the most cutting edge teen dramas at least in my time.
So true!!
I wasn't ever raped.. but when I was in first grade this boy always stuck his hand up my dress and it made me uncomfortable, but I never told anyone I know this isn't really a big deal because it was a VERY long time ago.
No it still is a big deal don’t feel bad or anything cause it was a while ago and you should have told someone but I’m sorry about that
@@multieditsmc6156 it's ok! Luckily nothing has ever happened to me like that since ^^ ty for your concern
A monster? He was 6 and probably curious. He had no idea what that meant. No, he shouldn't have done that, but what do you expect from a 6 year old?! A monster?! That's a heavy thing to call a 6 YEAR OLD who knew no better! People aren't born knoeing everything.
@@ellatizzy9726 That kind of doesn't make it okay though.. and question have you ever been through something like this? Just curious you don't have to tell me I understand if its personal.
@@multieditsmc6156 It's okay! I know i shouldve
Mine insisted that I was crazy, that I was mentally ill and he just wanted to help me. ‘Like when you see a homeless person on the street and give them money, only I’m not giving you money.’
He said he’d get me done for harassment if I went to the police, falsified messages between us and got my now former best friend believing him. Most days I question myself and I pray that I truly am crazy and he’s not capable of doing that to another girl.
my uncle was there my cousins and he we sat on the bed he began kissing my neck i pushed him of off and told him no they all heard and began laughing and ignored me...... he grabbed me and pried open my legs and pins my hands above my head and began to kiss and touch me i screamed no but he woudnt stop i prayed to god that he would stop i began crying and he told me to shut up.....he tried to remove my shorts but i kicked him and ran thank god.... im sorry i....i cant stand the sight of myself and they lied... they said i wanted him to but i didnt i tried sucid3 they said i wanted attention...this all happened last month i dont kn what to do
I am so sorry for you it is not your fault and you shouldn’t be the one having to deal with this they should feel terrible about this karma will get them like you wouldn’t believe though they live their lives feeling worthless and they will get exactly what they deserve you can live through this and honestly I am so sorry again
@@multieditsmc6156 thanks it means a lot ur vidz are great btw
@@shamarawswilliams5474 you’re welcome and thank you so much
@@multieditsmc6156 i dont know if this means anything but you made smile..... i owe you alot
@@shamarawswilliams5474 it means a lot that I made you smile that makes me so happy and I hope you keep smiling
I wish there wasn’t so much hatred towards victims and survivors…I live through everyday wanting to end my life because the cops didn’t put him behind bars. And he’s living his life free and he will possibly do it someone else. The pain I feel everyday is unbelievable. I was just told tonight “you seem like you’re still a virgin, are you a virgin”. And now I’m so triggered. Having flashbacks. Which is I’m here commenting this because everyone around me in my life doesn’t care. And I have no one. I wish and hope us survivors and victims can live a peaceful life
yeah it's so devastating how victims get much hate for something THEY NEVER FUCKIN ASKED FOR while a lot of times at RAPIST is just living their life unaffected while they RUINED someone's life and when they get their justice they get so much hate saying they ruined the rapist is life LIKE WTF it's still doesn't even sound like enough payback
Apparently the scene where Maleficent gets her wings ripped off is a metaphor for rape
wow and i already thought that scene was dark that's so sad makes a lot of sense though
Give yourself time to be sad and confused for what happened to you. You are still you. You survived. You can breathe. You can think. You have hope. What happened to you is not your fault at all. Okay. Now we move to the anger phase. Justice. Please please don't be alone. Ask for help from a hospital. They offer counsellings and they can help you to communicate with the cops too. Don't do this alone. You survived so you're going to survive all the way, throughout your entire life. Your voice matters.
You can breathe. You can think. You have hope.
The list of the shows are now in the description
Thx
Do you have a full list of the shows featured here? I was raped and it is comforting for me to watch shows where other people go through the same thing.
Mom season 4 episode 20, 13 reasons why, Degrassi the next generation season 2 episode 7, Degrassi (again) season 7 episode 2, Degrassi (again) season 13 episode 23, unbelievable (which is an incredible series to help), reign season 2 episode 9, switched at birth season 4 episode 5, and Anne with an E (she wasn’t raped but still used it in this cause it was a good episodes for females to watch it’s powering) if you wanna watch it’s season 3 episodes 6 and 7, riverdale (attempt rape) season 2 episode 5 and that’s all the shows I am so sorry for you being raped you do not deserve that no one does but you’re a survivor don’t think otherwise I hope these help.
@@multieditsmc6156 I was raped and I few months later my parents find out and don’t believe I was raped they thank I wanted it but my mom made me take. a pregnancy test and thank god it was negative
@@victoriahatch2022 I am so so sorry that happened to you it really shouldn’t have and it is no ones fault but the person that did that to you they should rot in hell and we believe you .
You think it's comforting other women are raped?
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@@victoriahatch2022 wouldn't it be better if it was positive?
Never let men bully you girlies.
THOSE MEN SHOULD LISTEN
yea we know its not all men
I was 4 he was 17
i was 9 he was 18
i was 11 he was 23
I was 12 he was 50
i am 13 now and he is 19
I knew these men. i trusted them
I am so sorry for what you went through... I'm sorry you had to live such terrible things in such age. You are so strong and brave though. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are doing better, keep dreaming for your life you can achieve great things.
I wish I was brave enough to come forward.
I was 15 and I felt so alone and he told me about how no one would believe me and told his parents and our friends that it was consensual sex before I even wrapped my head around it. I felt so... dirty... violated... I can never seem to find the right word. I went to talk to my best friend after it happened as I couldn't look at my parents and she said that I deserved it and called me some nasty names. It made me feel like I had asked for it. 2 weeks later his mother had found me and told me that we were both stupid and should just move on and I thought it was the best thing to do. I wish I would of spoken up but I had no proof, still don't, so I don't feel like I can come forward which hurts as I am still carrying around this.
I hope no one ends up like me. Say something, and encourage others to come forward, it makes it easier for the next victim to speak up.
My husband and I went to his Catholic Church to confront the man not just one but multiple priests. They said that Tom was sinning because he wanted it. Because he kept going back and he wanted to have sex. They even got him drunk when his parents told the priests that he was drinking at 14. Because his parents didn’t believe him. 10 years later and still no justice. They made Tom look like the villain not them.
I am so sorry it's absolutely terrible that they used their power against him like that they should be ashamed of themselves I pray one day he gets justice.
If it's not a clear yes then it's a no don't force yourself on anyone
sometimes a bit of force makes it more exciting
@@reek4062 it's not exciting when women don't want as a woman that's disgusting
@@reek4062 wtf that’s just sick. And you’re wrong it would make it traumatizing.
@@reek4062 Ummm you sound like a predator yourself bud.
If a girl says no it means no. But what if she says yes and then 3 weeks later changes her mind? Happened to a buddy of mine in senior year of college. A girl had been flirting with him at several parties leading up to a night where she started making out with him in front of everyone then she led him into his room. We all knew what was happening and even her friends said she had been talking about it for several days. The next morning she made him breakfast and hung out with him until the afternoon. The next weekend she came back over and partied at his place again. About a week after that next thing we knew he was hauled into the campus police department and accused of raping her. The girl became guilty, told her mom who in turn told the father and he freaked out. She had been a virgin (which none of us assumed based upon previous behavior) and he was throwing chairs around demanding his arrest. Family was a huge donor to the school so in the end my friend was forced to drop out and never got his diploma. She even admitted to her friends she never said no and wanted it. It was only later she felt guilty. How is this justice? And why do girls now wonder why guys want a signed contract prior to engaging in sexual activity? I’m sure I’m going to get blown up for this story but I’m most cases there are two versions of the story.
Yeah guys do get accused but this video isn’t about that and if that’s “unfair” or something sure but there are millions have girls that have been raped out there and this is talking about that not guys getting accused I mean I feel sorry for those guys I really do they don’t deserve that and those girls shouldn’t lie about that cause girls getting rape is no joke and girls shouldn’t pertain like it happened to them if it didn’t but I made this video for the people it did happen too and so people can know it’s serious not so people can talk about that sometimes girls lie and there’s two sides to a story cause a lot of times girls just get rape and if a female lies about it they should go to jail or something like that cause that shouldn’t happen to the guy and it is completely disrespectful for people that actually have been raped and have felt the pain of it.
@@multieditsmc6156 I completely agree and did not mean to detract from your video nor its message. I just wanted to put out there that there is that area in-between that rarely gets discussions. I hate girls like that because they detract and cast doubt on the ones who actually got raped and even worse killed during the assault.
IF THEY DONT ASK FOR CONSENT LEAVE
first YES and second I love your profile picture so much
@@multieditsmc6156 THANK YOUUUUUU
That's a silly statement... It's once again putting the emphasis on the victim to take action.
If they don't say yes Stop
@@amandadublin3129 well do you want the victim to just sit there and do nothing?
@@hayden_kennedy I don't want the message to be that prevention is the victims responsibility.
This is emotional but so sadly a fact.
You should add another great TV movie into one of these edits it’s called Freshman Fall (1996) it made me cry. Such a powerful story.
is it on anything i’ll be able to watch it on?
it was a female and she made it seem like i had too... i started crying. i still dont really know if it was rape
I am so sorry that happened to you if you need to talk to anyone I’m always here for you
@@multieditsmc6156 thank you, that means a lot. i dont talk about it to my friends but i dont know if it happened before that because i blacked out and dont remember certain nights so...that troubles me a lot.
@@whittakers yeah peoples brains block out traumatic experiences
That depends on two key questions. Was she attractive? And did you enjoy it? If one of them is yes, then it ain't rape, but a sweet surprise.
@@reek4062 you're disgusting
Your consent matter the most if you said no that means no.
When I was 19, I was sexually assaulted by a man I knew and trusted and even looked at him as a father figure. I didn't report it because there was no evidence that he did anything and it would've been my word against his since nobody else was in the room. My biggest fear was telling somebody and being called a liar and an attention seeker so I never told a soul. I kept it inside me for about 7 years until I just couldn't take it anymore and I told my counselor about it and she asked if I wanted help telling my mom and I said yes. I was terrified that my mom wasn't gonna believe me but thankfully, she did. I was also terrified of telling the man's wife what he did because I was afraid that if I told her, she'd say, "No he didn't. He wouldn't do that. Now get the fuck out of my house!" Thankfully she also believed me and she's done with him.
My biggest fear was not being believed. I wish that all victims were believed but unfortunately they're not. I understand the pain of carrying that horrible secret. I understand the pain of almost saying it and not saying it. I understand the fear of being called a liar. I was just lucky to have been believed so I don't know what advice to give to anybody struggling with a secret like that because telling it could change everything...and not for the better. Not great advice but only tell if you're ready. Come to terms that everything may change and to prepare yourself for that because unfortunately, not everybody believes rape or sexual assault victims because "No they wouldn't do that. Quit lying!" Well, the man who did it to me was a family man and a hard worker and cared about people and helped people and yet found the time to assault a young girl who trusted him. Not everybody is who they seem to be. Not everybody is who they appear to be behind closed doors. Not everybody is who we thought they were.
To anybody struggling with a terrible secret, please know that at least some random stranger on the internet believes you, even if no one else does.
2 guys pulled down my pants in public and all my classmates laughed
I wish I told the teacher when she asked me if I was alright
Apparently even when u say no it means yes to them they dont stop
I know it’s terrible they don’t understand no means no
I got suspended for telling my principal what happened all he said was I regret letting him do that
i'm so sorry about that he sounds like such a dumbass and you shouldn't have to even hear that but getting suspended for telling him?? WTF is there anyway you can go to more powerful people at the school cause you need to get justice if you want and you definitely shouldn't let him stop you for getting it. i hope you get the justice you deserve 🤍
Just because u dont say no doesn't mean you said yes
sometimes her mouth says no but her eyes say yes
@@reek4062 No
@@savagenightcore6421 yes
@@reek4062 then you're a rapist
@@reek4062 NO
Change the age rage to 6 to 34 and we are on the same track
Hi, I'm 17 and I'm here to tell what happened to me . I had my birthday 6 days ago . So from the start I was 14 or 15 that time I was sexually assaulted by my relative one I felt like depressed and anger so i didn't speak with him I told my mom that i was going through this but she blamed me and said i was the fault and when I'm 16 I'm a school going child and i got proposal and i accept it but things get hard and hard when he asked me for sex i said we will have it after our marriage and told him that i have been abused I'm scared when he touch me bc of the harrassment I directly said that I'm afraid of a mens touch because i have been sexually harrass by someone and he asked me that Did i keep my boyfriend in that place which i keep the harrasser and he said you can trust me like that blah blah . When first time he asked for sex i said no try to push him but He had sex with me and he didn't even ask next next time but i do not want sex but i was afraid what if i said i do not want sex and he get fight with me but every time he try to have sex i say No but he didn't listen . It's huts when i was in my period and he really want sex and i said noo and try to push him back but i can't i cried and i have a cramp but he making it i can't bear the pain and After that we got into fight and i wanted a breakup but he said that he makes mistake but he wanted me to forgive him and accept him i can't . This is my story I don't know i did right or wrong If anyone watch the comment plz reply me that i was wrong or right . Sorry for the grammer mistakes and spelling mistakes
You’re not wrong at all for wanting a breakup, he’s the bad guy here, not you…..I’m sorry you had to go through that and I hope you get over it. But please don’t go back to him ever again.
I call it bullshit
No man should never do that
No woman should never go through that
NO means NO!!!
I have never been raped, but I was sexually assaulted. I didn't say no or yes. I froze and just sat there and let it happen. I don't even know if that's sexual assault at this point. He said that he was sorry and that he didn't know it was bad at the time. But I still can't get over it. Is it even valid at this point? It happened last year...
Hi, I'm 17 and I'm here to tell what happened to me . I had my birthday 6 days ago . So from the start I was 14 or 15 that time I was sexually assaulted by my relative one I felt like depressed and anger so i didn't speak with him I told my mom that i was going through this but she blamed me and said i was the fault and when I'm 16 I'm a school going child and i got proposal and i accept it but things get hard and hard when he asked me for sex i said we will have it after our marriage and told him that i have been abused I'm scared when he touch me bc of the harrassment I directly said that I'm afraid of a mens touch because i have been sexually harrass by someone and he asked me that Did i keep my boyfriend in that place which i keep the harrasser and he said you can trust me like that blah blah . When first time he asked for sex i said no try to push him but He had sex with me and he didn't even ask next next time but i do not want sex but i was afraid what if i said i do not want sex and he get fight with me but every time he try to have sex i say No but he didn't listen . It's huts when i was in my period and he really want sex and i said noo and try to push him back but i can't i cried and i have a cramp but he making it i can't bear the pain and After that we got into fight and i wanted a breakup but he said that he makes mistake but he wanted me to forgive him and accept him i can't . This is my story I don't know i did right or wrong If anyone watch the comment plz reply me that i was wrong or right . Sorry for the grammer mistakes and spelling mistakes
@@aswinimeowkutty7488 honey, he should never force you to have sex with him. You are a beautiful and magnificent creature who doesn't deserve that kind of pain. When someone says no, it means no. He needs to learn that.
@@riverz_paws Thank you actually I have no one to share it ! And I don't know the decision i take is right or wrong Thank you for making it clear I need this kind of peoples in my life ! Thanks alot it means alot to me Thank you Thank you 😢✨
@@aswinimeowkutty7488 ofc, honey! Us victims of sexual assault and harassment gotta stick together.
@@riverz_paws My Family is also messed up there are so many problems runing through my head
not a mystery that so few are reported when women have to go thru the third degree while the culture protects the abuser. I take incredible courage to accuse the god-like male in this civilization. There's a acronym for this: DARVO Deny. Attack. Reverse. Victim. to Offender and another: Gaslighting
Support your sisters!
I hate that people have to go throw this, the pain they must feel
I’m confused what you mean
@@multieditsmc6156 people that are raped and no one believes them at least 99% of the time
@@emmabond7881 oh yeah I can’t imagine their pain
In my head when people argue to me they bring it up and it happened with 2 different people the first one was my "bf" for 2 years and the next one was my friends friend that said we could be friends but I was wrong to trust my friend and betray me like that. I just say in my head okay and? It's a normal thing girls get raped bit deal idc but I think like that towards women bc that's what I'm used to like all of my friends have been through it even from their family, it's a normal thing in my head. Is it normal to think or feel that way?
2:43 and 2:45 plssss??
Degrassi next generation 1338 believe pt 2 and 1324 unbelievable pt 2
That is so horrible what happened to her
I was rapped when i was 12 yrs old.
I’m so sorry that happened to you you definitely didn’t deserve that ♡
Thanks 🤧
the work you have done has always touched me
No means no
sometimes it means yes
@@reek4062 never! If she said no,it means no! Period
@@reek4062 wtf is wrong with you?
It can be hard to admit it.
Can you please give me the name of these shows? I only know 13 reasons why one
Which song is in the background music?
praying by kesha without the lyrics
0:46 which movie
People are HORRIBLE.
What episode and season from the tv show “Mom” Anna faris?
Season 4 episode 20
I do remember that in an episode where Violet wants to know about her true father, we find out from Bonnie (the mom) that Violet’s father was the one who sexually assaulted and raped Christy, and that Violet was born out of that.
3:08??
13 reasons why
the first scene to which series does it belong?
Mom
my at the time boyfriend raped me. I can’t even admit it out loud that it was rape, it’s hard to tell myself that it might even be sexual assault. I was asleep on his lap and somehow that gave him ideas. He kept on waking me up to talk about it and ask for it. I just wanted to sleep. I said I don’t know and that it was risky and I didn’t want to get caught multiple times and even no eventually but he kept on saying how much he would’ve liked it, we both would’ve liked it, I gave in because of how much he was asking me. It was sexual coercion and it was rape (oral sex) and I can’t get it out of my mind I can’t stop thinking about it anytime it’s quiet and I’m not busy or talking to anyone, when I’m in class trying to focus or when I’m trying to sleep I can’t even go on a school bus anymore because that’s where it happened. On the way back from a marching band competition. I can’t stop reliving the moment and it’s consuming my entire life and I don’t know how much longer I can take it.
Worst part is, I loved him, and because I’m stuck in that moment I still keep on telling myself that he loves me and would never do that to me and that I’m crazy for leaving him.
you're not crazy for leaving him he should've respected that you didn't want to and you didn't feel good about doing that i'm so sorry that happened to you i hope you know people care about you and you're not alone.
Hi, I'm 17 and I'm here to tell what happened to me . I had my birthday 6 days ago . So from the start I was 14 or 15 that time I was sexually assaulted by my relative one I felt like depressed and anger so i didn't speak with him I told my mom that i was going through this but she blamed me and said i was the fault and when I'm 16 I'm a school going child and i got proposal and i accept it but things get hard and hard when he asked me for sex i said we will have it after our marriage and told him that i have been abused I'm scared when he touch me bc of the harrassment I directly said that I'm afraid of a mens touch because i have been sexually harrass by someone and he asked me that Did i keep my boyfriend in that place which i keep the harrasser and he said you can trust me like that blah blah . When first time he asked for sex i said no try to push him but He had sex with me and he didn't even ask next next time but i do not want sex but i was afraid what if i said i do not want sex and he get fight with me but every time he try to have sex i say No but he didn't listen . It's huts when i was in my period and he really want sex and i said noo and try to push him back but i can't i cried and i have a cramp but he making it i can't bear the pain and After that we got into fight and i wanted a breakup but he said that he makes mistake but he wanted me to forgive him and accept him i can't . This is my story I don't know i did right or wrong If anyone watch the comment plz reply me that i was wrong or right . Sorry for the grammer mistakes and spelling mistakes
Which show is the scene on 3:40 please?
Degrassi the next generation season 7 episode 14
Protect women
Which one is the 0:36 and 2:04 and 2:53 ???
Reign, Degrassi or if you meant 13 reasons why and Anne with an E
what is some of these movies and shows
These stories very disturbing, and very upsetting, this man was extremely cruel and Very violent
This was absolutely terrible and Very difficult to watch
I hope this Woman Survived this terrible situation and left this very violent situation
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough...
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong...
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool...
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man....
Beating a woman is Not masculine
Beating Women is NOT sexy
Beating Women is NOT manly
Using abuse, and force for sexual intimidation, by harmful behavior for sexual intimacy with someone doesn’t make a man, strong, cool, or, manly.
I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men
WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE
This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman:
For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable...
Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe...
No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often.
Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been...
My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior,
I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others...
Keep everyone SAFE
PLEASE BE SAFE
Your Life is important
Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan
MESSAGE REPOSTED
10/16/2021, 10/30/2021
What show at 0:50
boys and girls here is what consent is:
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Marry, mother of Jesus.
Seriously...
Stop idolizing a god that would do that to 14yo Marry.
May I know what is this. Song ?
Praying by Kesha but no lyrics version
And I was watching 50 shades of grey
where is 1:11 and 1:16?
Degrassi the next generation on both
I was just 9 years old
1:20 what is the name of the Show
Switched at birth
Multiedits MC ohhhh thank you so much
1:57 and 1:58 ??
1:57 is 13 reasons why and 1:58 is degrassi the next generation
Do griffin Campbell from secret of sulfur springs sad fandom
JUST BC YOU FRICKENIG ACT SOME WAY IT DOESNT MEAN YOU WOULD LIKE IT OR THAT YOU ARE ASKING FOR IT OR THAT U FRICKEN WANT IT
often women send confusing signals, which can be misinterpreted
@@reek4062 No matter what though. You should NEVER assume. It is not that hard to ask a simple clarification
@@rosilynrivas9251 It isn't hard to be clear either. You shouldn't leave it ambiguous what you want and don't want
@@reek4062 You're acting as if this is an excuse for people to sexually harm others. People dont go around saying "IM GOING TO SAY THIS BUT DONT SEXUALLY HURT ME BEACUSE I DONT MEAN IT". It literally common sense to not rape and friken hurt others.
@@rosilynrivas9251 I understand it. People should be clear and respectful towards others. If they aren't, it will cause trouble.
If the girl don't express a "no" whatsoever how guys are supposed to know...
Seriously
the guy should ask before
It’s also fairly obvious when a girl lies there with a terrified look on her face. If u can get off while looking at that somethings wrong with you
Then just don't go through with it. It's really not that hard to do.
@@multieditsmc6156 the woman should say no she has a tongue in her head if she doesn't want to but there is lots of times when a woman says no but doesn't mean it its role playing when it comes to sex I sometimes like a man to take charge s&m I have said no but really want the guy to push a little
@@jilliantatum1138 you can never be sure someone is not going to change their mind some people play games as waiting till you are married that is nor going to happen as well 1 .I don't believe in God 2. I never married but very much would not wait to have sex to enjoyable .you are saying cause I never wed I should not be in any sexual activity
I was one of them
What is the name of the background Song?
I thing about this all the time...
where’s the first clip from?
Mom season 4 episode 20
What show is 2:50 from?
Anne with an E
@@multieditsmc6156 she wasn’t raped she was sexually asualtef
@@multieditsmc6156 I mean she was froped
@@lampeditor6199 I know but I still included it the lesson in that episode was really good
Vulgarity said by rapist and this ugly scenes are really unnessesary. Rape in private practice was done with no vulgarity or violent scenes besides those 5 seconds of struggle. It was done with obviously a team who has dealt with rape SURVIVORS and not a scenarist who uses lines like "raped her from behind until she cried" to get more rating
Griffin from poltergeist 2015 fandom music by train wreck
What shows are these can we have a list
Yeah I put them in the description now
😣
1:00??
It’s Degrassi the next generation
I really don't understand society now. In an age where you can meet someone in a bar and screw them 30 mins later. Guess I am old fashioned. People just don't seem to have any respect for themselves, and now even men get raped. I would never have even thought such a thing possible. But sex nowadays is so not a big deal, that rape seems to have been lowered to a category of 'he kissed me on the cheek without my consent'. When your standards drop, the meaning of those standards drop with them. People dress to impress now as they always did, but they seem to prefer undress to impress more than they ever did. Why wear jeans with holes in them so big that you might as well just be wearing shorts? If you want attention from the opposite sex, you just need to say hi, be confident, and smell nice. A nice smile across a bar can find you a soulmate, a half naked person flirting with you will only find you a one night stand. I would go for soulmate everytime (or preferably just the ONE time) .
0:07
I was 4 months ago :(
i’m truly so sorry for that
I am sorry for what happened, you are so strong and brave, sending you my love ❤
I do not know how to experess my feeling to anybody if i started to explaine everone started missunderstood me they say i enjoy doing sex with my bf but they never know i was forced to do every time i try to say no he always blackmild me or theathing mean to tell everthing to my family he know my family is my weekness he say it is love but i do not think love give physicall or mental pain he never cara about me he always want sex and sex sometime i thik for him i am just sex toy and 2 big acciant in my life is geting sexual assualt by my brother in law . I hope everone go through these there pain will heal soon god bless you all
Maybe you should make it aware to everybody that men can also be raped so you should put up some of that to make awareness of it because it's not just girls that this happens to this happens to boys as well and I'm a woman and I'm telling you that I know a few men that this has happened to when they were kids and when they were teenagers by other men and by a full grown woman let's make awareness of all rape cases if you're going to do videos like this do it 100% or don't do it at all
Yeah of course men get raped they definitely do and I wanna like make an edit like this one to make that known but I just started high school and I’ve been really busy lately but I’m gonna do that for sure
What's the show at 2:34
degrassi the next generation
Where 2:44 from
Degrassi the next generation
These me are dispicabul but we this is all we see men as the perpetrators we don't see the women that say yes have sex all the way to the end then cry rape where's the punishment for false allegations the other way what about the men that get raped what about the women that play the victim card to get guys in trouble coz they get something out of it all we see is women as the victims it upsets me it's not as one sided as the world makes out
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I love how some people will specifically open videos pointing out the rape culture that runs rampant even in today's world, and see the hundreds of comments sharing stories of rape, and then decide to go: 'False allegations exist too.' We know they exist, the difference is that a false allegation is an anomaly while rapists walking free despite the evidence presented against them is the norm.
where is 2:05 from please?
13 reasons why