(No vivid scenes were shown, although please don't watch if you can be triggered by this topic, your mental health comes first, please take care of yourself) I love you so so so much, it isn't your fault, the person who did that to you is at fault, they ruined you, but you are so strong, you can bounce back and take back the right to your own body and mind. they don't own you, you own you, and you have the strength to not let that person break you. I know it can be hard, but don't let the person win, you deserve so much happiness. I appreciate all your comments. Sharing your story can be so hard. If I dont reply it's not because I don't care but because it is too hard for me to say anything due to personal reasons. But I love every single one of you, you are all so strong ❤️
I love that they added The perks of being a wallflower. Female on male sexual assault isn't talked about enough. Powerful video. You are not a victim. You are a survivor. Wear your scars, external and internal, with pride.
Yess. Just sexual assault on men on general is usually not talked about or seen as something that doesn't happen. I tried to be inclusive and show both men and woman because it happens to people no matter what gender or sex you are and it may seem like it happens less to males because they don't report it as much because of the stigma. Stay well ❤️
My older brother’s friend would play this “game” with me. He would get on top of me, pull my trousers down and feel me. He would hold me by my wrists and press himself up against me. He was only 11 so he was probably a victim to but that doesn’t excuse him. I know that. Because I was only 6. SIX!!! I just can’t recover. I’m 13 and I still can’t believe it happened. I think it has an eternal effect on me. I still get flashes of the “game”. I can’t stand anyone touching me, especially on my wrists. I get infections too. I feel pain every day. I just wish it could end...
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Especially at such a young age. I hope you find the closure u need to get through your trauma. He may have been 11 but he should have still known not to do that. It may take years but I hope you eventually will get better. Although trauma may never go away, I hope it gets easier.
I get the feeling I was 5 my dad's girlfriend had a son who was 6 at the time and he would touch me I couldn't sleep at night bc he would sneak in the bed I'm 19 and the pain never fades but we have to keep fighting and my father was to drunk to notice the boys mother beat me if you need someone who understands I'm here
After Reading these comments I couldn’t help myself I’m crying rn as I type I am so sorry that this has happened to all of you it’s disgusting and it brings so much trauma to people and I really hope that one all of you will find closure you deserve a better life and hopefully one day it gets better I’m so sorry
He was 11...he played the same "game" with me...he used to hurt me so much...touch me everywhere..I was only 6 ...never even understood what he was trying to do...scarred my life forever.
"Was it my fault?" Asked the mini skirt... "No, it happpened to me to" said the burqa.. "But I don't understand" said the kindergarten uniform... And the diaper in the corner couldn't even speak...
My “friend” touched me and put her fingers inside me and said it was a game and pretend to be Troy and Gabriella from high school musical. She always made me do things I didn’t want to do we were 7 to 9 years old and I blocked it out and remember when I was 19. I was also assaulted at 13 by a student we were 13 I was supposed to help him with math and he touched me every where I just didn’t know what to do I was shocked and I froze and I’m angry at myself for not saying no and run away.
DO NOT blame yourself. it was not your fault. u are so freaking strong and what they did to you is something horrible that you didn't want or choose so do not be angry at yourself. keep fighting you are so so strong and you will get through this.
@xsweetCamilox So if you see my husband who was raped and molested at 12-14 by Catholic priests and again at 15 by male staff members at Provo Canyon school. Your going to tell him it's his fault right? And your going to tell my best friend Andrew that it was his fault that he got raped and molested by a female teacher at 16? I don't know how you sleep at night.
Pls it hurts when ppl say this even it hurts for me 7 ppl I mean really like they raped me and know I don’t want to go to my babysitters home anymore for you guys Brockton feel this but I feel empty sad and nothing do you guys feel that
@@lolbit_error_animelov1234 I was raped when I was 7 he was 16. Yh I feel similar, I mean i don’t feel exactly sad but I feel empty and isolated. Whenever I remember what happened I feel weak and pathetic as I never stopped it or told anyone what was going on
i'm feeling so validated after reading the comments which say that their brain blocked the bad stuff up until they were 19/20 bc i was 18 when i finally realized my brother assaulted me, & i constantly thought maybe i was bringing it up now for attention
I am sorry for everything. I hope you are doing better. It's not attention, it has nothing to do with that. It's about what is right is about what justice demands it's about what's fair. You are so strong and brave. Keep dreaming for your life you deserve the best ❤.
And tbh, the same thing happened to me. I was 13 and he was 12 maybe and shorter. He pinned me to my bed and touched me and kissed me without permission. I never told my parents cause they wouldn’t believe me. I told some trusted friends and they understood my pain. I do get flashbacks and cry from remembering his hands and lips on my body. I wasn’t able to push him off me so I was pinned and touched. (And touched my areas too)
I was 16 and I wouldn’t let myself process it. I hid every part of me and shut that out and I met someone who helped me realize what happened. This friend helped me through it. He helped me get my life back. I’m almost 20 and I spent most of my teenage years hiding instead of having fun. It was taken and I’m glad I get to have my twenties to live again
8 months of my life I was abused by my ex boyfriend. I can still taste the sweat on his hands when he covered my mouth. His eyes were dead yet so full of rage for me. I didn't do anything.....for 8 months I was sexually,verbally and physically abused by him.....which has now resulted in a pregnancy. I will cherish MY son forever and ever.....but I'll never be able to recover from what he did to me
@Mr. M it isn't just this instance as to why I don't believe in god or Jesus. I believe in many gods who have made their presence known to me whereas that "god" hasn't. Besides the actual god has been whitewashed And his words he truly stood for have been bent. Again thank you for your kind words but please stop talking about God and Jesus because it makes me uncomfortable
@Mr. M besides I was close to getting a abortion which would have been ok and saved me a lot of medical problems. But oh well. I chose to keep it and now I'm 22 weeks pregnant with my son. Wouldn't change it for the world but I do hope that you weren't insinuating that if I did choose to get one that that wouldn't have been ok.
I was raped by my own uncle ...My brother sexually harassed me ... and I hate to see them both smile as if nothing happened ...I don’t trust anyone because trust makes me traumatized ... My parents didn't even know this ... to this day I am still harassed. it's not once or twice but many times ...sometimes I feel like suicide but I don't want my parents to be sad because of me
Thank you for making this wow this is so powerful! In a weird sort of way it’s therapeutic and triggering at the same time. Incredible just incredible!
I would like to say that you are not what happened to you. You don’t have to be guilty for what he did, she did, or they did. The fact that you are here makes you strong, and being able to speak out on your story makes you strong. You are allowed to be angry, or feel absolutely nothing because that experience is traumatic, and you shouldn’t have to live with the guilt of what happened to you.
I wasn’t raped. But I was drunk and almost unconscious and he wouldn’t stop touching and kissing me. I still feel his hands everywhere and it’s making me wanna throw up. But because I wasn’t raped I „am not allowed“ to go to the police and report it or something like that. I also can’t talk with my friends because he is popular and they would not do anything. Any tips? Have you experienced this in some way?
You should report him under the case of sexual assault ,I know how it feels the difference is you maybe older than me I was 9 -11 , you may feel if it wasn't rape it was not bad but it was bad it was traumatic ,do not care of he is popular or not, report him ,I suggest you to go to therapy ,it really helps .
My tip, you definitely need to tell someone that will believe you, because I know that if they believe you, they will definitely do something about it and do something for you too
She made me put my legs around her. I was frozen in place but she just kept pulling me closer towards her body. I remember trembling and not bring able to talk. She just kept repeating "It's ok." I remember her hands being dangerously close to my chest, her hand being close to my vulva not once did she ask permission we were 13-14. We were 13-14
I thought she was on about Justin, who took her up there bc she was drunk and about to pass out, before Bryce came in and raped her, could be wrong tho, haven’t watched the show in ages
I was 20 years old and passed out drunk. I woke up to him on top of me holding me down and inside of me. My investigator told me "he's a rich white male, so I'm not gonna try and you shouldn't either." Gotta love the justice system
Damn I’m so sorry that happened. U will recover just give it time, u might never completely erase it from ur mind but it’ll become somewhat like an old memory or emotion in time
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you get justice. You deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best.
whatever we wear wherever we go yes means yes and no means no we didnt ASK for it we didnt lead you on we were ruined not just by men not just by women but by both NOT ALL MEN but most NOT ALL WOMEN but most ITS NOT YOUR FAULT, ITS NOT MINE. its theirs
I was sexually assaulted in my school and this guy touched my butt, it felt so wrong and it happened last week on Tuesday. I felt scared and had so much different emotions here when that happened to me. But I do have a lot of people on my side with this. I hope nobody else goes through this or anything else like this.
Some of us will never get an apology much less a trial to prove they're guilty. I'm one of them on all fronts. The reason why is because mine is in complete denial about any of it and all that transpired after.
all i am trying to do is spread awareness and show that people who go through this are not alone. there is a trigger warning and the last thing I would try to do is upset anyone.
Videos like that help some people. But obviously not everyone, that's why there's a trigger warning. I hope your daughter is doing better, but at the same time noone is forcing her to watch it.
My dad sexually abused me and raped me since I was a baby and years after. I’m still recovering my memories and I’m still learning how to get through all the excruciating pain and shame he inflicted on me until now. I hate him so much I can’t stand it!! I’m crying so hard reading all your comments and seeing that I’m not alone. I feel so sorry for myself and for everyone who went through sexual abuse. It really wasn’t our fault
I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more
I am so sorry that happened to you. It wasn't your fault and it wasn't sex. Sex means consent. U didn't lose your virginity to him because it wasn't sex. Don't let him take your power away like he wanted. U are so strong and stay strong. You will get through this ❤️❤️❤️
Now I haven’t experienced sexual assault but seeing this is absolutely heartbreaking. This is the reason why I am so scared of “men” nowadays. Still can’t believe people are going through this pain 😞❤️🩹
I was assaulted when I was 3-4 years old. My parents had left us with a babysitter and our babysitter had a boyfriend. He would give me candy and toys and special treatment everytime he came over. My mother had a bad feeling and so she decided to ban him from the house. He kept going behind their backs and assaulted me. He wasn’t even allowed to see his own daughter. But yet he was allowed to roam the streets and hurt others. He took away my childhood and most of my teen years. He took away my peace and my freedom. The two things I am suppose to have a right to in this country. What’s peace? I panic to the point where I’m screaming at the top of my lungs and can’t trust a soul around me? What’s freedom? The nightmares I get each night about what he did to me? I spent years and years confused on what had happened to me and being terrified to tell someone. Worse of all I blamed me. Even though I was just a little girl and it was his fault it was my fault somehow. I couldn’t fight him off or know to that or to scream or anything. I was still. I slept in my parents room until I was 12, I wet the bed till 7-8, I have high anxiety and high depression, I get nightmares about it, I can’t trust anyone, I’m insecure, I have no confidence or self esteem, I do not love myself, I am mad and I am sad, I fight each and everyday for my life. The worse feeling to me is the weakening feeling I get. I always have dreams about how weak I am. Dreams where I’m so weak I can’t even pick up a stick. The world terrifies me. I scare myself sometimes I’m scared of very irrational things. Then what I hate the most is the extreme hate for who I am. Because what made me who I am is mostly because of what he did to me.
Hey buddy, u are gonna be okay... One day u will be beyond happy and you will get everything you want in life.... Have faith in urself... Don't blame urself... Stay strong... I don't know u but keep one thing in mind... I am always with you
I feel like it's my fault tho but every one says it's not but I just feel like it was and he lied to me abt everything and I just hate him for everything that he did to me and I hate him so much
You have every right to hate him, what he did to you was horrible and awful and he is an awful person, feeling guilty is natural, but the people telling you it's not your fault is natural too.
I'm crying reading these comments. I am so so incredibly sorry that any of you had to go through this terror. My heart breaks for you. But remember just keep swimming. ❤
it has happened to me twice, i was raped when i was 12, but it happened again a few months ago n i stayed quiet abt it for too long n ion know who to tell or what to say. n i am now 16 abt to be 17. w a whole kid of my own, n ion even know how i would tell him when he grows up
I was sexually molested several times between the ages of 6 to 17.....it ruined me completely and I cannot stand to get into any physical relationship now even though m 30 now. ..words aren't enough to write it here and no feelings or details can describe those horrendous experiences that have killed my heart. My heart goes out to the sufferers.....please its not your fault it never was.
I will do my best I will study as well as i can i will be a doctor i promise my self i will skip what I am passing in i will have the life that i deserve cus life too short to be sad you gotta wake up and work to have the life you wish for in sha allah
She was my babysitter. I was only six I resembled my dad and she wanted him and she couldn’t have him so she took me instead. Told me it’s a game to make us “feel good” Force my mouth on her breast, use my hands to please herself, forced her lips on me. Still traumatizes me when my hand gets grabbed randomly by people without my consent
Morgan and Charlie's stories really hit me. I haven't seen them all but damn any scene similar just reaches into my soul takes that helpess girl who so desperately needed someone to care out. Just someone to tell to listen to be there. I was alone through it all, and i still dont talk about my trauma. I have to because if i dont i never will.
My family member assaulted me I couldn't believe it a monster was living with me for years and it's true colours only came out then. I get really anxious and upset and destructive when it's near or even the thought of it, the reality in the form of a nightmare was also a realisation day of when before my teenage years it attempted to do it to me in a taxi and no one payed much attention to it...
I am bullied,laughed at,called crazy,called mad,stalked ,all because i am full of love and want and need a girl and yes some xxx that most people do. Many.many girls really hurt my feelings by calling me ugly in the past and playing with me as well. I am not perfect,but i am honest,good and fair, i want fair-play and justice for me and others who are bullied and stalked etc. My looks is not my fault!
It’s sad to see this, but it’s also very comforting to see this sort of representation. Rape is the “bad stuff”, the stuff that people don’t talk about/want to hear about. But it’s such a big thing. It’s also great to see more female on male sexual assault because it’s not always male on female. Sometimes women can be worse than men, especially when you’re a little kid.
That is exactly the reason i made this. It is such a taboo topic that nobody wants to talk about. I also wanted to show people that they arent alone. And created a safe space for people to talk about their experiences which i think is beautiful. Thank you for the kind comment 💜
I always feel so invalidated bc we were both kids and it was only ever over the clothes but it was a lot of grabbing and touching and taunting in broad daylight with hundreds of other kids and 5 different teachers usually. it went on for a whole year and this was 6-7 years ago and I'm 15 now. thought I was over it but I walked past him on the way home last week and while he is younger than me I felt completely powerless and cried the rest of the way home
I was sexually abused when i was 4 to 5 years old i have never told anyone in my family i blocked out what happened to me for years until I was a teenager im 33 year's old now because of what happened to to me it's forever left me damaged it's taken so much from me 😢
seeing some of the comments here is like...seeing through a window society doesn't look at enough times. it's sad and frustrating that sometimes people actually get away with this stuff. stay strong out there, everyone!( is the optimism working?)
Reading these comments make me realise I’m not alone. I was raped by my ex partner and his friends I don’t know if I can ever get past it but I have to for my daughter I’m the only person she has in life. We are all survivors and we have to be strong ❤❤
My brother would have me play the “love” game where I would say how much I loved him he would say “if you love me you won’t tell” he would touch me and to this day I haven’t told anyone I was 8-10 now I’m 13 I’m still healing but I don’t think I’ll ever forgive him…
i was sexually assaulted at school he touched me and that wasn’t even the worst. he was supposed to be my friend and he couldn’t accept that and he went to my house one day after school with me and my friend and he told my friend to go downstairs to dance in my heels and he wouldn’t stop touching me and he got further i couldn’t say no he manipulated me into it and he took my power and innocence away i have nothing left, he didn’t take my virginity he almost did but my friend walked in and he stopped, a person i thought i could trust used me for his own god damn wants, that was 7 months ago i was 14. 2/9/22. there was a case but they had no evidence so they closed it and i felt so un spoken because the cop told my mom peer pressure and manipulation isn’t a crime i was sexually assaulted still and they let that slide i lost my hope because of that. today i felt so good today because we finally have evidence to put him away and i need to do this not only for myself for the other woman he’s been sexually harassing and using. he is a predator who needs to get it straight that this isn’t okay he’s 16 how did he ever think it was okay to touch and assault woman. my last words i haft to say on this i hope if there is a god he gives him hell without no mercy.
Oo, when I was I think about 11 in Korea, I met this maganda girl in school she was so pretty we became friends but when we were 13 she used to say disgusting things about my body parts and touched me when I was in class. I told her I didn’t felt comfortable but she said “this is how best friends love”. And i actually felt bad and let her continue to do it for an while now. I’m 17 and me and her still friends I told her and she said she’ll go easy for now on
My dad "Touches" me and it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and i have told him and mum many times they just say to shut up and i don't know what to do about it and I'm stuck here forever, we live in a small appartment there is no getting away from it. Ik the comment section is not the right place for this but i just don't know what to do
Tell a trusted adult or someone you trust, be careful not to say too much to to many people and if you tell someone be careful who it is, they might stab you in the back. Please be safe, you are strong! ❤️
I am so sorry u have to go through that. I can’t even imagine how awful that is. I will keep u in my prayers. And yes tell someone u really trust and make sure they are trustworthy
It was my dad. It was for so long that it became normal. I didn’t even realise it wasn’t till I was 11. I have no proof of rape or of anything else. It’s pointless trying to get help for me.
My mom's friend son SAed me when I was 3, My mom's friend (different) SAed me when I was 9. My stepdad's best friend SAed me when I was ten, he stopped, then I turned 13, I then found out he started touching my 12, 8, and 4 year old brothers. I'm now 16 and i'm not sure what to do or how to think. This world sucks.
@@cammiestrawn9103 I am sorry for what you went through... you are brave for sharing it and I'm proud of you, you are an amazing person, did you tell anyone you know about it, a person you trust who may be able to help you ?
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 When I was 13 I told my mom because i found out what he did to my siblings. He's in prison and i feel i was fortunate enough to have a mom who while she's neglectful she still helped.
Hearing the comments and the video just gives me chilled of when 7 people decide to rape me and I don’t know when it started with my two cousins and then a grown man and then my three cousins and then my uncle I can’t get rid of it it hurts so much I couldn’t even say anything to anyone about it until my family found out back to the two cousins I don’t know how young I was all I know is what we’re they trying to do the grown man Idk what to say about him my three cousins made me feel empty sad and nothing and then my uncle he wasn’t what he seemed he felt wears like he was going to hurt me and that’s what he did also pls don’t tell anyone else
I'm so disgusted by those people that hurt you... Stay strong ❤️ my advice is to tell your parents. If they're not supportive please go to a therapist if you are able to. They might be able to help ❤️
Most of my 7th grade year I was SAd a couple times in 8th grade July 2021( the summer after my 8th grade year) I was SAd again. December of 2021 and April of 2022 it happened again
I am 15 and I was raped many times. Last year I was an drug addict I had sex for drugs unwanted I will never forget it. And now it traumatized me after it happend it was not a big deal but now? I will never get over it
I am so sorry for what happened to you... for what you went through... you are so strong and brave, sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I know you are not ok right now but please remember that you are amazing. You deserve hapiness, you deserve the best. If you need someone, I'm here for you.
I was sexually abused by my mother forcing me to do things to her at age 16 Horrible things and when i refused to do things to pleased my mother She just punished me and hit me until i couldn't move I kept this serect until age 23 was the hardest thing i dealt with I get nightmares about all of it, have random breakdowns, and it hurts so much
@@JMSerbelII-sw3ck no one should go through what you did. Im so sorry to hear what your mother did. You deserved a mom. Just know that you are worth so much more love and kindness. And you are not what she made you believe. Stay strong, you ARE loved 🩷
When I was 5 my friend and where having a sleepover and out of nowhere she said she saw a girl a in a white covered in blood holding a baby and then pretended the black out I thought that she was being funny but then she got up and started choking me and every time I said no she would squeeze Tighter I was running out of air so I said yes I WAS 5 AND SHE WAS 6 AND I think about this all the time and i still think it’s my fault when I know it’s not but I can’t not think it’s my fault
Let me clear this Even if it is consensual it's still a rape 👍👍🙏🏻because logically a kid and a victim don't know about the consent itself don't know what this things is called 👍her trust can be gained she can be manipulated by the abuser that I have seen you that a small kid can be manipulated easily thinking that it's their fault now they have to agree with them too 🙏🏻🙏🏻👍 it's not a free consent... The age of consent really matters 👍👍👍 if you r a minor you don't really have a knowledge of consent yourself 🙄🙄🙄🙄 so even if somebody agrees for it in innocence it's still a rape you cannot expect a 6 or a 9 year old not to give her consent she can be manipulated easily 🙄🙄👍 even if she don't want it abuser will still rape them so the age of consent really matters an abuse is an abuse even if it's consensual
To anyone watching this, I believe in your STRONGLY and you are never alone, plus if this happens, NEVER blame yourself for it. Also, out of curiosity, which show is 4:55 from? :)
I was 6 he was 17 he told me we were going to watch a movie in our grandmother's room ( he was my cousin) he told me it was a secret game everyone does it I was 6 FUCKING YEARS OLD.
I am bullied,laughed at,called crazy,called mad,stalked ,all because i am full of love and want and need a girl and yes some xxx that most people do. Many.many girls really hurt my feelings by calling me ugly in the past and playing with me as well. I am not perfect,but i am honest,good and fair, i want fair-play and justice for me and others who are bullied and stalked etc. My looks is not my fault!
I know this isn't bad compared to the things other people go through but a few months ago a guy messaged me on Instagram telling me my smile was pretty or something like that..I replied saying it wasn't and we ended up talking...I told him my age, which was 13 at the time and he told me he was 21...I genuinely thought he just wanted to be friends. I told him about all my problems with my bf at the time and he tole me he liked me and that I was the only girl he finds attractive and ever since he got kidnapped, beaten and r**** he would hurt himself instead of touching himself sexually...I got worried for him and I ended up leaving my bf for him. Not even a day went by and he told me he would hurt himself or end himself if I didn't call him so he could touch himself while looking at my face...I agreed after a while of him persisting and not long after it wasn't enough for him. He would tell me to touch myself too either that or get my breasts out to show him I would tell him no but he would scream at me to...I was so scared but I though that he loved me...I just wanted to feel loved for once. Once I had enough of all that I tried to end things with him, he agreed and told me that he wanted to call me again so he could touch himself and if I didn't then he would leak screenshots if my breasts everywhere and I believed him so I called him, I broke down in the middle of that call and ended it and he messaged me saying that it was good enough and not long after he deleted his social media accounts...his face won't get put of my head...I thought I was okay but I was lying to myself and I can't help but feel like it was all my fault. Please be careful online...
@@ashleyk7165 I used the clip because i think that quote "it wasn't your fault" also fit really well with sexual abuse/assault. I hadn't watched the movie before making this so I saw the quote and thought it fit well.
Have ever had someone threatened to beat and rape you online and you know that because you go to school with him and he didnt take no for an answer and to top it off he would text me on instagram to do things for him and when we were in school he would tell my friends i was imagination his behavior but he would say it to me at school telling me not to tell anyone what happened because if i did he would he me😢
I'm 17 now have remembered for years probably a years after I started to remember again I just can't remember exactly what age I was but don't think I want to and mine was my brother he's 7 years older thane me i think i may have be 8 or 9 but can remember, me and one of my friends were sexually harrased in yr 9 by in our history class by one of the boys and his friends thought they were funny but he was doing it to my friend since yr7 and nothing was done he didnt even really get spoken to till it happened to me as well and majority of the time it would be in class and hed say across the classroom that he wanted to fuck and touch us what made it worse that the class was basically just us two and him and his friends
I was 10. He was 8. I was told that it was my fault bc I was older and I should have made it more clear. I was fighting him, begging him to get off of me. He knew about my trauma with my dad and he did it anyway. I trusted him. I loved him. He was my fucking boyfriend. We’d snuck alcohol up and I’d drank most of it. It was a party and no one heard me over the music. Hours passed and no one came to help. I couldn’t escape. I was terrified. I was numb. He told me that he did this with everyone else so just to enjoy it, otherwise I couldn’t be his girlfriend. I thought I loved him so I did it. The next morning I remembered everything and all he said was that I was too drunk to remember it properly. Now I can’t be around boys or men alone, I can’t have people touching me and I can’t be in a room alone with someone. Anyone I told said it was my fault. I guess I started to believe them and still do. I mean I was older, I should have been able to escape and get help. I should have made him listen. I was older. I knew better than to trust someone. But I rlly did trust him. I thought he was a good one.
I promise you. You were a child it was not your fault. He knew what he was doing. U are so strong for sharing your story. Keep fighting. And know that it is most definitely not your fault
@@charleyjames8045 those people are victim blaming. U were forced against ur will. Does not matter the age. He was stronger than u physically and held u down. He did that. Unfortunately someone alot older probably did that to him to teach him to do that to you. So why arent people worried about why an 8 yr old would be doing that? I'm so sorry you have to deal with people who blame you for something that was definitely not your fault and something you couldn't stop/prevent. You are a survivor, you can get through this 🩷
@@EmptySoulEm u have no idea how much I physically and mentally needed this. He keeps grabbing my arm in school and I’m struggling to get through the days. Thank you so much for this
When I was asleep my older cousins SA/almost raped me I was 12/13 he was 18/19 I would wake up to him touching me but I couldn’t move I was scared I cried when he left my room it hurt so much I cried myself back to sleep one day I fell asleep on the couch and again I woke up to touching me but this time he manage to get the tip in before my mom’s friend got home from work i am 16 now I still live with the pain and nightmares/replays I don’t see him no more it went on for two months straight every time he stayed a night at my house
Im so sorry that happened. You're so strong. Im glad you don't see him anymore. I hope you are doing better. And I promise the flashbacks won't be as often, eventually. but u are so much more than him and can get through this 💓 stay strong 🫶
@@EmptySoulEm thanks and yeah me too I ain’t doing better tbh I started to hate my body myself and starving /cutting myself but today marks me 2 months clean if sh I hate the replays and nightmares they feel super real like it is happening over and over again and it doesn’t help that in 9th grade it happened again but it was minor nit like what my cousin did I’m sorry for bothering g you
It isnt your fault. Thats disgusting that people say its your fault for other peoples behaviour. Stay strong and it isnt your fault, you are not gross and your body is beautiful. F those people looking at u in that way thats them doing it not you. Stay strong ❤️
I do remember monkey in hills follow me he in window I got snow globe when I was 7 When turn 7 he has got new look I don’t know what it from I told him take off new look So he hurt me I am not in trouble mum said it not my fault I didn’t know when I am disability I haven’t been harassed I was new it my first year I will take care of myself
rn im 13. when i was younger (5) I lived in a orphanage called santa maria and I went to get groceries bc a sister told me to and I was followed and raped by one of the boys in the orphanage( he was 16) . they said it was a game called house and all the ̈cool kids¨ play it. i never fitted in so I played. i played for 6 years until I realized it was wrong. he came in at night to rape me again and I said no. he slapped me, pulled my hair, and ripped my clothes off. ofc I wont go into detail but that night I started bleeding and went to the hospital to find out I had a yeast infection AND I was pregnant. :/ now I live with my mom and dad and they help me take care of my kid. ofc I don't go anywhere near my dad (bc I'm still...yk) but we can shake hands now! baby steps
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(No vivid scenes were shown, although please don't watch if you can be triggered by this topic, your mental health comes first, please take care of yourself)
I love you so so so much, it isn't your fault, the person who did that to you is at fault, they ruined you, but you are so strong, you can bounce back and take back the right to your own body and mind. they don't own you, you own you, and you have the strength to not let that person break you.
I know it can be hard, but don't let the person win, you deserve so much happiness.
I appreciate all your comments. Sharing your story can be so hard. If I dont reply it's not because I don't care but because it is too hard for me to say anything due to personal reasons. But I love every single one of you, you are all so strong ❤️
I love that they added The perks of being a wallflower. Female on male sexual assault isn't talked about enough. Powerful video. You are not a victim. You are a survivor. Wear your scars, external and internal, with pride.
Yess. Just sexual assault on men on general is usually not talked about or seen as something that doesn't happen. I tried to be inclusive and show both men and woman because it happens to people no matter what gender or sex you are and it may seem like it happens less to males because they don't report it as much because of the stigma. Stay well ❤️
@@Xcalibur2679 bro what
@@Xcalibur2679 bull shyt? What the hell are you even saying?
@@EmptySoulEm can you plz Tell the movie Name at starting?
@@ayeshasiddiqa7828 criminal minds
My older brother’s friend would play this “game” with me. He would get on top of me, pull my trousers down and feel me. He would hold me by my wrists and press himself up against me. He was only 11 so he was probably a victim to but that doesn’t excuse him. I know that. Because I was only 6. SIX!!! I just can’t recover. I’m 13 and I still can’t believe it happened. I think it has an eternal effect on me. I still get flashes of the “game”. I can’t stand anyone touching me, especially on my wrists. I get infections too. I feel pain every day. I just wish it could end...
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Especially at such a young age. I hope you find the closure u need to get through your trauma. He may have been 11 but he should have still known not to do that. It may take years but I hope you eventually will get better. Although trauma may never go away, I hope it gets easier.
I get the feeling I was 5 my dad's girlfriend had a son who was 6 at the time and he would touch me I couldn't sleep at night bc he would sneak in the bed I'm 19 and the pain never fades but we have to keep fighting and my father was to drunk to notice the boys mother beat me if you need someone who understands I'm here
After Reading these comments I couldn’t help myself I’m crying rn as I type I am so sorry that this has happened to all of you it’s disgusting and it brings so much trauma to people and I really hope that one all of you will find closure you deserve a better life and hopefully one day it gets better I’m so sorry
He was 11...he played the same "game" with me...he used to hurt me so much...touch me everywhere..I was only 6 ...never even understood what he was trying to do...scarred my life forever.
Your pain isn't any less valid. It's called COCSA, i.e child on child sexual abuse. Hope you heal from this. Much love and prayers. With you.
"Was it my fault?" Asked the mini skirt...
"No, it happpened to me to" said the burqa..
"But I don't understand" said the kindergarten uniform...
And the diaper in the corner couldn't even speak...
My “friend” touched me and put her fingers inside me and said it was a game and pretend to be Troy and Gabriella from high school musical. She always made me do things I didn’t want to do we were 7 to 9 years old and I blocked it out and remember when I was 19. I was also assaulted at 13 by a student we were 13 I was supposed to help him with math and he touched me every where I just didn’t know what to do I was shocked and I froze and I’m angry at myself for not saying no and run away.
DO NOT blame yourself. it was not your fault. u are so freaking strong and what they did to you is something horrible that you didn't want or choose so do not be angry at yourself. keep fighting you are so so strong and you will get through this.
This was not your fault. The person who assaulted u deserves hell you seem like a wonderful person and no one should go through that.
@xsweetCamilox So if you see my husband who was raped and molested at 12-14 by Catholic priests and again at 15 by male staff members at Provo Canyon school. Your going to tell him it's his fault right? And your going to tell my best friend Andrew that it was his fault that he got raped and molested by a female teacher at 16? I don't know how you sleep at night.
Pls it hurts when ppl say this even it hurts for me 7 ppl I mean really like they raped me and know I don’t want to go to my babysitters home anymore for you guys Brockton feel this but I feel empty sad and nothing do you guys feel that
@@lolbit_error_animelov1234 I was raped when I was 7 he was 16. Yh I feel similar, I mean i don’t feel exactly sad but I feel empty and isolated. Whenever I remember what happened I feel weak and pathetic as I never stopped it or told anyone what was going on
i'm feeling so validated after reading the comments which say that their brain blocked the bad stuff up until they were 19/20
bc i was 18 when i finally realized my brother assaulted me, & i constantly thought maybe i was bringing it up now for attention
I am sorry for everything. I hope you are doing better. It's not attention, it has nothing to do with that. It's about what is right is about what justice demands it's about what's fair. You are so strong and brave. Keep dreaming for your life you deserve the best ❤.
Seeing these stories of others Traumas is so upsetting. The fact they all went through this is awful. Hope everyone is healing and staying strong ❤
And tbh, the same thing happened to me. I was 13 and he was 12 maybe and shorter. He pinned me to my bed and touched me and kissed me without permission. I never told my parents cause they wouldn’t believe me. I told some trusted friends and they understood my pain. I do get flashbacks and cry from remembering his hands and lips on my body. I wasn’t able to push him off me so I was pinned and touched. (And touched my areas too)
I was 16 and I wouldn’t let myself process it. I hid every part of me and shut that out and I met someone who helped me realize what happened. This friend helped me through it. He helped me get my life back. I’m almost 20 and I spent most of my teenage years hiding instead of having fun. It was taken and I’m glad I get to have my twenties to live again
I am so glad you are healing ❤️
I was 20.
8 months of my life I was abused by my ex boyfriend. I can still taste the sweat on his hands when he covered my mouth. His eyes were dead yet so full of rage for me. I didn't do anything.....for 8 months I was sexually,verbally and physically abused by him.....which has now resulted in a pregnancy. I will cherish MY son forever and ever.....but I'll never be able to recover from what he did to me
@Mr. M as kind as that is I don't believe in Jesus or God because if either existed they wouldn't of let that happen to me
@Mr. M it isn't just this instance as to why I don't believe in god or Jesus. I believe in many gods who have made their presence known to me whereas that "god" hasn't. Besides the actual god has been whitewashed And his words he truly stood for have been bent. Again thank you for your kind words but please stop talking about God and Jesus because it makes me uncomfortable
@Mr. M besides I was close to getting a abortion which would have been ok and saved me a lot of medical problems. But oh well. I chose to keep it and now I'm 22 weeks pregnant with my son. Wouldn't change it for the world but I do hope that you weren't insinuating that if I did choose to get one that that wouldn't have been ok.
@@destinyarpy6430 you loved that dik don’t lie 😂
My mom was eighteen... and I was three. Both sharing the same pain as my biological father.
I was raped by my own uncle ...My brother sexually harassed me ... and I hate to see them both smile as if nothing happened ...I don’t trust anyone because trust makes me traumatized ... My parents didn't even know this ... to this day I am still harassed. it's not once or twice but many times ...sometimes I feel like suicide but I don't want my parents to be sad because of me
You are not alone and this wasn't your fault, I believe you and I hope you can feel happy again someday
Bro don’t u dare suicide. If it’s still happening U must talk to ur parents, I wish I did.
Or someone please
You should talk even if the price is your parents sadness
I believe you
Thank you for making this wow this is so powerful! In a weird sort of way it’s therapeutic and triggering at the same time. Incredible just incredible!
“Your God expects way to much from a 13 year old boy.”
I would like to say that you are not what happened to you. You don’t have to be guilty for what he did, she did, or they did. The fact that you are here makes you strong, and being able to speak out on your story makes you strong. You are allowed to be angry, or feel absolutely nothing because that experience is traumatic, and you shouldn’t have to live with the guilt of what happened to you.
I wasn’t raped. But I was drunk and almost unconscious and he wouldn’t stop touching and kissing me. I still feel his hands everywhere and it’s making me wanna throw up. But because I wasn’t raped I „am not allowed“ to go to the police and report it or something like that. I also can’t talk with my friends because he is popular and they would not do anything.
Any tips? Have you experienced this in some way?
You should report him under the case of sexual assault ,I know how it feels the difference is you maybe older than me I was 9 -11 , you may feel if it wasn't rape it was not bad but it was bad it was traumatic ,do not care of he is popular or not, report him ,I suggest you to go to therapy ,it really helps .
My tip, you definitely need to tell someone that will believe you, because I know that if they believe you, they will definitely do something about it and do something for you too
You have to go to police you were sexually assaulted i'm so sorry i was sexually assaulted to it was two days ago...
She made me put my legs around her. I was frozen in place but she just kept pulling me closer towards her body. I remember trembling and not bring able to talk. She just kept repeating "It's ok."
I remember her hands being dangerously close to my chest, her hand being close to my vulva
not once did she ask permission
we were 13-14.
We were 13-14
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. Hope you are ok 💜.
No Jessica. Not „we“ decided HE DECIDED❤️
What’s that movie called
@@briannaplays4174 13 reason why
I thought she was on about Justin, who took her up there bc she was drunk and about to pass out, before Bryce came in and raped her, could be wrong tho, haven’t watched the show in ages
I thought she was on about Justin in that bit. Could be wrong haven’t watched in a while
I was 20 years old and passed out drunk. I woke up to him on top of me holding me down and inside of me. My investigator told me "he's a rich white male, so I'm not gonna try and you shouldn't either." Gotta love the justice system
Damn I’m so sorry that happened. U will recover just give it time, u might never completely erase it from ur mind but it’ll become somewhat like an old memory or emotion in time
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you get justice. You deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best.
whatever we wear
wherever we go
yes means yes
and
no
means
no
we didnt ASK for it
we didnt lead you on
we were ruined
not just by men
not just by women
but by both
NOT ALL MEN
but most
NOT ALL WOMEN
but most
ITS NOT YOUR FAULT, ITS NOT MINE.
its theirs
Do u mind if I post a screenshot of this on my social media
I was sexually assaulted in my school and this guy touched my butt, it felt so wrong and it happened last week on Tuesday. I felt scared and had so much different emotions here when that happened to me. But I do have a lot of people on my side with this. I hope nobody else goes through this or anything else like this.
I am so sorry for what happened. I'm glad you have people on your side. You are strong and brave, you deserve the best ❤
Some of us will never get an apology much less a trial to prove they're guilty. I'm one of them on all fronts. The reason why is because mine is in complete denial about any of it and all that transpired after.
my daughter went through this nearly 11 years and she would be mortified
all i am trying to do is spread awareness and show that people who go through this are not alone. there is a trigger warning and the last thing I would try to do is upset anyone.
ok?
Videos like that help some people. But obviously not everyone, that's why there's a trigger warning. I hope your daughter is doing better, but at the same time noone is forcing her to watch it.
I am so sorry about your daughter, I hope you're doing everything you can to help her, and I hope you too are healing from this tragic event.
To anyone watching this: I BELIEVE YOU❤
My dad sexually abused me and raped me since I was a baby and years after. I’m still recovering my memories and I’m still learning how to get through all the excruciating pain and shame he inflicted on me until now. I hate him so much I can’t stand it!! I’m crying so hard reading all your comments and seeing that I’m not alone. I feel so sorry for myself and for everyone who went through sexual abuse. It really wasn’t our fault
You are way stronger than you know. Everything is so much harder when it was someone who is supposed to love us. We love you.
You are never alone don’t ever forget that,he’s going get what he deserves.You are so strong and I’m so proud of you for just surviving.
I'm so extremely sorry..I hope ur doing ok
God damn and I thought my one was bad. I am truly sorry u had to experience that
I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more
I am so sorry that happened to you. It wasn't your fault and it wasn't sex. Sex means consent. U didn't lose your virginity to him because it wasn't sex. Don't let him take your power away like he wanted. U are so strong and stay strong. You will get through this ❤️❤️❤️
@@EmptySoulEm thank u so much for this words. and for really beautiful video about this.
I’m a survivor and I love all those who stand with me. Stay strong ladies and your not broken in promise. ❤️❤️❤️
And also men too youre not alone either,you’re survivors!
Now I haven’t experienced sexual assault but seeing this is absolutely heartbreaking. This is the reason why I am so scared of “men” nowadays. Still can’t believe people are going through this pain 😞❤️🩹
It never leaves you.
The ,, it’s not your fault “ part got me good bruh. Real good.
I hope you are okay ❤️ and believe those words because it is true ❤️
I was assaulted when I was 3-4 years old. My parents had left us with a babysitter and our babysitter had a boyfriend. He would give me candy and toys and special treatment everytime he came over. My mother had a bad feeling and so she decided to ban him from the house. He kept going behind their backs and assaulted me. He wasn’t even allowed to see his own daughter. But yet he was allowed to roam the streets and hurt others. He took away my childhood and most of my teen years. He took away my peace and my freedom. The two things I am suppose to have a right to in this country. What’s peace? I panic to the point where I’m screaming at the top of my lungs and can’t trust a soul around me? What’s freedom? The nightmares I get each night about what he did to me? I spent years and years confused on what had happened to me and being terrified to tell someone. Worse of all I blamed me. Even though I was just a little girl and it was his fault it was my fault somehow. I couldn’t fight him off or know to that or to scream or anything. I was still. I slept in my parents room until I was 12, I wet the bed till 7-8, I have high anxiety and high depression, I get nightmares about it, I can’t trust anyone, I’m insecure, I have no confidence or self esteem, I do not love myself, I am mad and I am sad, I fight each and everyday for my life. The worse feeling to me is the weakening feeling I get. I always have dreams about how weak I am. Dreams where I’m so weak I can’t even pick up a stick. The world terrifies me. I scare myself sometimes I’m scared of very irrational things. Then what I hate the most is the extreme hate for who I am. Because what made me who I am is mostly because of what he did to me.
Hey buddy, u are gonna be okay... One day u will be beyond happy and you will get everything you want in life.... Have faith in urself... Don't blame urself... Stay strong... I don't know u but keep one thing in mind... I am always with you
I feel like it's my fault tho but every one says it's not but I just feel like it was and he lied to me abt everything and I just hate him for everything that he did to me and I hate him so much
You have every right to hate him, what he did to you was horrible and awful and he is an awful person, feeling guilty is natural, but the people telling you it's not your fault is natural too.
Omg...
It’s not your fault at all ok?
You were lied to and I am so sorry that this happened to you.
I'm sorry that happened to you
I was 8
It hurts
I can't dress how i want to
I am not giving up bcz of my family
It hurts so bad
I'm crying reading these comments. I am so so incredibly sorry that any of you had to go through this terror. My heart breaks for you. But remember just keep swimming. ❤
it has happened to me twice, i was raped when i was 12, but it happened again a few months ago n i stayed quiet abt it for too long n ion know who to tell or what to say. n i am now 16 abt to be 17. w a whole kid of my own, n ion even know how i would tell him when he grows up
I was sexually molested several times between the ages of 6 to 17.....it ruined me completely and I cannot stand to get into any physical relationship now even though m 30 now. ..words aren't enough to write it here and no feelings or details can describe those horrendous experiences that have killed my heart.
My heart goes out to the sufferers.....please its not your fault it never was.
I will do my best I will study as well as i can i will be a doctor i promise my self i will skip what I am passing in i will have the life that i deserve cus life too short to be sad you gotta wake up and work to have the life you wish for
in sha allah
Very well made video!!!congrats
She was my babysitter. I was only six I resembled my dad and she wanted him and she couldn’t have him so she took me instead. Told me it’s a game to make us “feel good” Force my mouth on her breast, use my hands to please herself, forced her lips on me. Still traumatizes me when my hand gets grabbed randomly by people without my consent
Morgan and Charlie's stories really hit me. I haven't seen them all but damn any scene similar just reaches into my soul takes that helpess girl who so desperately needed someone to care out. Just someone to tell to listen to be there. I was alone through it all, and i still dont talk about my trauma. I have to because if i dont i never will.
My family member assaulted me I couldn't believe it a monster was living with me for years and it's true colours only came out then. I get really anxious and upset and destructive when it's near or even the thought of it, the reality in the form of a nightmare was also a realisation day of when before my teenage years it attempted to do it to me in a taxi and no one payed much attention to it...
I am bullied,laughed at,called crazy,called mad,stalked ,all because i am full of love and want and need a girl and yes some xxx that most people do. Many.many girls really hurt my feelings by calling me ugly in the past and playing with me as well. I am not perfect,but i am honest,good and fair, i want fair-play and justice for me and others who are bullied and stalked etc. My looks is not my fault!
Im so sorry that happened. Stay strong and just know there are people out there who believe and see you ❤️
when you say no to your boyfriend but he still forces it when you are sleeping
I am so sorry... I want you to know that you are strong and brave. You deserve the best in the world ❤. If you need me I'm here for you.
It’s sad to see this, but it’s also very comforting to see this sort of representation. Rape is the “bad stuff”, the stuff that people don’t talk about/want to hear about. But it’s such a big thing. It’s also great to see more female on male sexual assault because it’s not always male on female. Sometimes women can be worse than men, especially when you’re a little kid.
That is exactly the reason i made this. It is such a taboo topic that nobody wants to talk about. I also wanted to show people that they arent alone. And created a safe space for people to talk about their experiences which i think is beautiful. Thank you for the kind comment 💜
I always feel so invalidated bc we were both kids and it was only ever over the clothes but it was a lot of grabbing and touching and taunting in broad daylight with hundreds of other kids and 5 different teachers usually. it went on for a whole year and this was 6-7 years ago and I'm 15 now. thought I was over it but I walked past him on the way home last week and while he is younger than me I felt completely powerless and cried the rest of the way home
I am so sorry for what happened... you are so strong and brave... I hope you are doing ok 💜.
I believe you
I was sexually abused when i was 4 to 5 years old i have never told anyone in my family i blocked out what happened to me for years until I was a teenager im 33 year's old now because of what happened to to me it's forever left me damaged it's taken so much from me 😢
I am so sorry for what happened to you... you are so strong and brave for sharing this. If you want to talk to someone I'm here for you.
seeing some of the comments here is like...seeing through a window society doesn't look at enough times. it's sad and frustrating that sometimes people actually get away with this stuff. stay strong out there, everyone!( is the optimism working?)
10 years 😂. everyday . didn’t get a childhood, it is what it is in my eyes. there’s never been any good in my life, so that’s okay.
Reading these comments make me realise I’m not alone. I was raped by my ex partner and his friends I don’t know if I can ever get past it but I have to for my daughter I’m the only person she has in life. We are all survivors and we have to be strong ❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story. You sound like an amazing mother 💜
You are an amazing person and mother ♥️
Nice edit keep going love your channel 2✌✌✌
Thank you ❤️
My brother would have me play the “love” game where I would say how much I loved him he would say “if you love me you won’t tell” he would touch me and to this day I haven’t told anyone I was 8-10 now I’m 13 I’m still healing but I don’t think I’ll ever forgive him…
It happens over Years, he used to be my ‚best friend‘.
I hope I’ll be able to recover from it bc rn I can’t.
i was sexually assaulted at school he touched me and that wasn’t even the worst. he was supposed to be my friend and he couldn’t accept that and he went to my house one day after school with me and my friend and he told my friend to go downstairs to dance in my heels and he wouldn’t stop touching me and he got further i couldn’t say no he manipulated me into it and he took my power and innocence away i have nothing left, he didn’t take my virginity he almost did but my friend walked in and he stopped, a person i thought i could trust used me for his own god damn wants, that was 7 months ago i was 14. 2/9/22. there was a case but they had no evidence so they closed it and i felt so un spoken because the cop told my mom peer pressure and manipulation isn’t a crime i was sexually assaulted still and they let that slide i lost my hope because of that. today i felt so good today because we finally have evidence to put him away and i need to do this not only for myself for the other woman he’s been sexually harassing and using. he is a predator who needs to get it straight that this isn’t okay he’s 16 how did he ever think it was okay to touch and assault woman. my last words i haft to say on this i hope if there is a god he gives him hell without no mercy.
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you find peace, always remember that you are amazing 💜.
thank you that means so much. more than you know:)@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
@@nataliebartholomay7412 Keep fighting and keep dreaming, you can achieve great things, even I don't know you I know you can 💜.
I was 12-13 it lasted 2 years. It was my teacher who did it.
I am sorry for what happened... sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. Hope you are doing ok 💜.
Oo, when I was I think about 11 in Korea, I met this maganda girl in school she was so pretty we became friends but when we were 13 she used to say disgusting things about my body parts and touched me when I was in class. I told her I didn’t felt comfortable but she said “this is how best friends love”. And i actually felt bad and let her continue to do it for an while now.
I’m 17 and me and her still friends I told her and she said she’ll go easy for now on
I am sorry for what you went through... I hope you are doing ok now.
My dad "Touches" me and it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and i have told him and mum many times they just say to shut up and i don't know what to do about it and I'm stuck here forever, we live in a small appartment there is no getting away from it. Ik the comment section is not the right place for this but i just don't know what to do
Tell a trusted adult or someone you trust, be careful not to say too much to to many people and if you tell someone be careful who it is, they might stab you in the back. Please be safe, you are strong! ❤️
I am so sorry u have to go through that. I can’t even imagine how awful that is. I will keep u in my prayers. And yes tell someone u really trust and make sure they are trustworthy
It was my dad. It was for so long that it became normal. I didn’t even realise it wasn’t till I was 11. I have no proof of rape or of anything else. It’s pointless trying to get help for me.
my coach, old friend, and my half cousin SA’ed me. this happened within the same year and it happens a year ago and im still not over it
I am sorry for what happened... you are so strong and brave. If you need someone to talk I'm here for you.
My mom's friend son SAed me when I was 3, My mom's friend (different) SAed me when I was 9. My stepdad's best friend SAed me when I was ten, he stopped, then I turned 13, I then found out he started touching my 12, 8, and 4 year old brothers. I'm now 16 and i'm not sure what to do or how to think. This world sucks.
@@cammiestrawn9103 I am sorry for what you went through... you are brave for sharing it and I'm proud of you, you are an amazing person, did you tell anyone you know about it, a person you trust who may be able to help you ?
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 When I was 13 I told my mom because i found out what he did to my siblings. He's in prison and i feel i was fortunate enough to have a mom who while she's neglectful she still helped.
@@cammiestrawn9103 I see. I hope he stays there for decades, and I hope you get better 💜.
I cant even count how many people did that to me
I'm so sorry that happened. Stay strong and remember you aren't your trauma. U are amazing ❤️
Hearing the comments and the video just gives me chilled of when 7 people decide to rape me and I don’t know when it started with my two cousins and then a grown man and then my three cousins and then my uncle I can’t get rid of it it hurts so much I couldn’t even say anything to anyone about it until my family found out back to the two cousins I don’t know how young I was all I know is what we’re they trying to do the grown man Idk what to say about him my three cousins made me feel empty sad and nothing and then my uncle he wasn’t what he seemed he felt wears like he was going to hurt me and that’s what he did also pls don’t tell anyone else
I'm so disgusted by those people that hurt you... Stay strong ❤️ my advice is to tell your parents. If they're not supportive please go to a therapist if you are able to. They might be able to help ❤️
Most of my 7th grade year I was SAd a couple times in 8th grade July 2021( the summer after my 8th grade year) I was SAd again. December of 2021 and April of 2022 it happened again
I am 15 and I was raped many times. Last year I was an drug addict I had sex for drugs unwanted I will never forget it. And now it traumatized me after it happend it was not a big deal but now? I will never get over it
I am so sorry for what happened to you... for what you went through... you are so strong and brave, sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I know you are not ok right now but please remember that you are amazing. You deserve hapiness, you deserve the best. If you need someone, I'm here for you.
The tv show with the guy confronting his abuser what is it called?
I believe you are thinking of criminal minds
Criminal minds 2x12 I believe
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I was sexually abused by my mother forcing me to do things to her at age 16
Horrible things and when i refused to do things to pleased my mother
She just punished me and hit me until i couldn't move
I kept this serect until age 23 was the hardest thing i dealt with
I get nightmares about all of it, have random breakdowns, and it hurts so much
@@JMSerbelII-sw3ck no one should go through what you did. Im so sorry to hear what your mother did. You deserved a mom. Just know that you are worth so much more love and kindness. And you are not what she made you believe. Stay strong, you ARE loved 🩷
what episode was the Riverdale one? I love the show but I really want t see that episode again so sry for bothering u
it is Season 2 Episode 4
but goes into episode 5
When I was 5 my friend and where having a sleepover and out of nowhere she said she saw a girl a in a white covered in blood holding a baby and then pretended the black out I thought that she was being funny but then she got up and started choking me and every time I said no she would squeeze Tighter I was running out of air so I said yes I WAS 5 AND SHE WAS 6 AND I think about this all the time and i still think it’s my fault when I know it’s not but I can’t not think it’s my fault
Let me clear this Even if it is consensual it's still a rape 👍👍🙏🏻because logically a kid and a victim don't know about the consent itself don't know what this things is called 👍her trust can be gained she can be manipulated by the abuser that I have seen you that a small kid can be manipulated easily thinking that it's their fault now they have to agree with them too 🙏🏻🙏🏻👍 it's not a free consent... The age of consent really matters 👍👍👍 if you r a minor you don't really have a knowledge of consent yourself 🙄🙄🙄🙄 so even if somebody agrees for it in innocence it's still a rape you cannot expect a 6 or a 9 year old not to give her consent she can be manipulated easily 🙄🙄👍 even if she don't want it abuser will still rape them so the age of consent really matters an abuse is an abuse even if it's consensual
4:32 how show is it?
Good will hunting.
To anyone watching this, I believe in your STRONGLY and you are never alone, plus if this happens, NEVER blame yourself for it.
Also, out of curiosity, which show is 4:55 from? :)
Its good will hunting
I was 6 he was 17 he told me we were going to watch a movie in our grandmother's room ( he was my cousin) he told me it was a secret game everyone does it I was 6 FUCKING YEARS OLD.
Im so sorry that happened and that he broke ur trust. I hope u are healing and he is out of ur life
not steve harvey in the first part
That isn't Steve Harvey 😂 although I can see the resemblance
lolll yeah i knew it was supposed to be a joking thing 😂
Of course it's not our fault
a lot of the time survivors blame themselves
derek from cm
Whats the video with the guy talking about going to church from
Criminal minds
@@PrttygirrlA thanks
It’s season 2. I can’t remember what number episode number it is but it’s called profiler, profiled. It’s honestly one of my favourite episodes
I am bullied,laughed at,called crazy,called mad,stalked ,all because i am full of love and want and need a girl and yes some xxx that most people do. Many.many girls really hurt my feelings by calling me ugly in the past and playing with me as well. I am not perfect,but i am honest,good and fair, i want fair-play and justice for me and others who are bullied and stalked etc. My looks is not my fault!
Sorry if this comes off as rude but how is this relevant to the context of my video?
Im sorry that happens to u
I know this isn't bad compared to the things other people go through but a few months ago a guy messaged me on Instagram telling me my smile was pretty or something like that..I replied saying it wasn't and we ended up talking...I told him my age, which was 13 at the time and he told me he was 21...I genuinely thought he just wanted to be friends. I told him about all my problems with my bf at the time and he tole me he liked me and that I was the only girl he finds attractive and ever since he got kidnapped, beaten and r**** he would hurt himself instead of touching himself sexually...I got worried for him and I ended up leaving my bf for him. Not even a day went by and he told me he would hurt himself or end himself if I didn't call him so he could touch himself while looking at my face...I agreed after a while of him persisting and not long after it wasn't enough for him. He would tell me to touch myself too either that or get my breasts out to show him I would tell him no but he would scream at me to...I was so scared but I though that he loved me...I just wanted to feel loved for once. Once I had enough of all that I tried to end things with him, he agreed and told me that he wanted to call me again so he could touch himself and if I didn't then he would leak screenshots if my breasts everywhere and I believed him so I called him, I broke down in the middle of that call and ended it and he messaged me saying that it was good enough and not long after he deleted his social media accounts...his face won't get put of my head...I thought I was okay but I was lying to myself and I can't help but feel like it was all my fault. Please be careful online...
I am sorry to my self for not helping myself I am hope less
U are not hopeless and it is not your fault 💜
Does anyone know the movie/show that the clip at 4:33 is? It looks really interesting.
It's called good will hunting
@@EmptySoulEm will hunting wasn’t sexual abused tho, he was severely physically abused in 3 different foster homes, but one particularly was the worst
@@ashleyk7165 I used the clip because i think that quote "it wasn't your fault" also fit really well with sexual abuse/assault. I hadn't watched the movie before making this so I saw the quote and thought it fit well.
Have ever had someone threatened to beat and rape you online and you know that because you go to school with him and he didnt take no for an answer and to top it off he would text me on instagram to do things for him and when we were in school he would tell my friends i was imagination his behavior but he would say it to me at school telling me not to tell anyone what happened because if i did he would he me😢
I'm 17 now have remembered for years probably a years after I started to remember again I just can't remember exactly what age I was but don't think I want to and mine was my brother he's 7 years older thane me i think i may have be 8 or 9 but can remember, me and one of my friends were sexually harrased in yr 9 by in our history class by one of the boys and his friends thought they were funny but he was doing it to my friend since yr7 and nothing was done he didnt even really get spoken to till it happened to me as well and majority of the time it would be in class and hed say across the classroom that he wanted to fuck and touch us what made it worse that the class was basically just us two and him and his friends
I was 10. He was 8. I was told that it was my fault bc I was older and I should have made it more clear. I was fighting him, begging him to get off of me. He knew about my trauma with my dad and he did it anyway. I trusted him. I loved him. He was my fucking boyfriend. We’d snuck alcohol up and I’d drank most of it. It was a party and no one heard me over the music. Hours passed and no one came to help. I couldn’t escape. I was terrified. I was numb. He told me that he did this with everyone else so just to enjoy it, otherwise I couldn’t be his girlfriend. I thought I loved him so I did it. The next morning I remembered everything and all he said was that I was too drunk to remember it properly. Now I can’t be around boys or men alone, I can’t have people touching me and I can’t be in a room alone with someone. Anyone I told said it was my fault. I guess I started to believe them and still do. I mean I was older, I should have been able to escape and get help. I should have made him listen. I was older. I knew better than to trust someone. But I rlly did trust him. I thought he was a good one.
I promise you. You were a child it was not your fault. He knew what he was doing. U are so strong for sharing your story. Keep fighting. And know that it is most definitely not your fault
@@EmptySoulEm you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you, everyone keeps saying it is bc I was older than him
@@charleyjames8045 those people are victim blaming. U were forced against ur will. Does not matter the age. He was stronger than u physically and held u down. He did that. Unfortunately someone alot older probably did that to him to teach him to do that to you. So why arent people worried about why an 8 yr old would be doing that? I'm so sorry you have to deal with people who blame you for something that was definitely not your fault and something you couldn't stop/prevent. You are a survivor, you can get through this 🩷
@@EmptySoulEm u have no idea how much I physically and mentally needed this. He keeps grabbing my arm in school and I’m struggling to get through the days. Thank you so much for this
What show is 0:12 ?
the fosters
@@EmptySoulEm thanks so much 🤗
The Fosters
When I was asleep my older cousins SA/almost raped me I was 12/13 he was 18/19 I would wake up to him touching me but I couldn’t move I was scared I cried when he left my room it hurt so much I cried myself back to sleep one day I fell asleep on the couch and again I woke up to touching me but this time he manage to get the tip in before my mom’s friend got home from work i am 16 now I still live with the pain and nightmares/replays I don’t see him no more it went on for two months straight every time he stayed a night at my house
Im so sorry that happened. You're so strong. Im glad you don't see him anymore. I hope you are doing better. And I promise the flashbacks won't be as often, eventually. but u are so much more than him and can get through this 💓 stay strong 🫶
@@EmptySoulEm thanks and yeah me too I ain’t doing better tbh I started to hate my body myself and starving /cutting myself but today marks me 2 months clean if sh I hate the replays and nightmares they feel super real like it is happening over and over again and it doesn’t help that in 9th grade it happened again but it was minor nit like what my cousin did I’m sorry for bothering g you
@Tomgirl-jamal your not bothering me! Im so proud of u for being 2 months clean
@@EmptySoulEm ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much and i won’t let him win
what scene is 1:50
13 reasons why
I was eight and he was fifthteen
Thank u
@ChauNguyen-hl7io don't thank me. Thank yourself, you have made it so far. ♥️🙏💕 you are strong, and you are not what happened to you ♥️
what is the movie With this blond boy and father
Good will hunting
What is the show/movie at 0:03
criminal minds
It was my fault though. Every time.
Dont say that it is not true
I was only 6💔
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you are ok 💜.
what is the movie or the series on the cover of the video?
and from the last scene too..?
Perks of being a wallflower
@@abel6830 and the last scene is fromm good will hunting
0:02 which show
What is the name of the movie in 0:54 the little boy scene.
Perks of being a wallflower
What show is at 00:23?
Perks of being a wallflower
Can someone please tell me the movie / show at 57 seconds?
Its riverdale
I got sexually abused right next to my best friend
Im so sorry that happened. I hope you are doing better.
@@EmptySoulEm thank you, I’m trying to take it day by day some days are better then others but I’m still going.
2:22 what show?
The fosters
@@EmptySoulEm thank you
Nobody tried to touch me but I alway get blamed for older looking at me in a sexual way I feel so gross with myself I hate my body
It isnt your fault. Thats disgusting that people say its your fault for other peoples behaviour. Stay strong and it isnt your fault, you are not gross and your body is beautiful. F those people looking at u in that way thats them doing it not you. Stay strong ❤️
I do remember monkey in hills follow me he in window I got snow globe when I was 7
When turn 7 he has got new look I don’t know what it from I told him take off new look
So he hurt me I am not in trouble mum said it not my fault I didn’t know when I am disability
I haven’t been harassed I was new it my first year I will take care of myself
4:29 does anyone know where this is from?
Good will hunting
@@EmptySoulEm thank you very much x
movie names please
Criminal minds, perks of being a wallflower, 13 reasons why, good will hunting,
The fosters, riverdale
@@EmptySoulEmI respect that you still reply to this day
thank you
rn im 13. when i was younger (5) I lived in a orphanage called santa maria and I went to get groceries bc a sister told me to and I was followed and raped by one of the boys in the orphanage( he was 16) . they said it was a game called house and all the ̈cool kids¨ play it. i never fitted in so I played. i played for 6 years until I realized it was wrong. he came in at night to rape me again and I said no. he slapped me, pulled my hair, and ripped my clothes off. ofc I wont go into detail but that night I started bleeding and went to the hospital to find out I had a yeast infection AND I was pregnant. :/ now I live with my mom and dad and they help me take care of my kid. ofc I don't go anywhere near my dad (bc I'm still...yk) but we can shake hands now! baby steps
I’m so sorry you had to go through this omg I hope you are doing okay bby!! Sending you so much love your way!!
What show at 3:35 ?
13 reasons why
Thanks