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  • @SkilletBabe
    @SkilletBabe Рік тому +249

    “Don’t be afraid of running, be afraid of staying”

  • @MelGoethals
    @MelGoethals Рік тому +535

    Will I ever not cry hearing Maddie say "I didn't give up." I guess not.

  • @l.t.7590
    @l.t.7590 Рік тому +305

    thank you for including Drogo and Dany. Making their relationship be some grand romance is so fucking vile to me forever. She was a child.

    • @my_girl_seraphine5294
      @my_girl_seraphine5294 Рік тому +31

      Agreed
      It feels far worse in the books when she’s a literal 13 year old child

    • @rabidbunny1013
      @rabidbunny1013 8 місяців тому +18

      I thought it was just me that hated their relationship. I did not find it romantic in any sense of the word.

    • @reneejett6509
      @reneejett6509 6 місяців тому

      It made so much sense for Dany to love him bc of Stockholm Syndrome but then they had Jorah all over her without another character calling either one of them out and it's just horrific

    • @syedasumayya9881
      @syedasumayya9881 5 місяців тому

      Which show is it from?

    • @16poetisa
      @16poetisa 5 місяців тому +1

      @@syedasumayya9881 Game of Thrones

  • @medinahbrown8487
    @medinahbrown8487 Рік тому +200

    "we all know not all men but its some of them" " its not all men but its all women" " we say no but they still hear yes"

  • @minbahadurshrestha5553
    @minbahadurshrestha5553 2 роки тому +311

    Don't afraid to run be afraid to stay in abusive relationships

    • @barnyardchick4equestrian19
      @barnyardchick4equestrian19 Рік тому +5

      I remember the officer in 911 said that to Maddie. “Don’t be afraid to run. Be afraid to stay.”

  • @ImmaRockstar121
    @ImmaRockstar121 Рік тому +152

    I was sa'd and groomed so much as a child growing up so I never said a single world to anyone. "Think about what they're going to do if you say nothing". One of my abusers had baby girls and now all I can think about is them. I was protecting myself and my sister but they didnt have anyone to protect them.

    • @sarawexler5698
      @sarawexler5698 Рік тому +7

      I'm so, so sorry. No child should ever be put through that.

    • @ryaedits8424
      @ryaedits8424 Рік тому +1

      That’s so sick, I can’t believe you went through that

  • @e_vidz
    @e_vidz 2 роки тому +854

    Women deserves better. This edit looks really good

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  2 роки тому +30

      They really do. Thank you ❤️

    • @Plants28
      @Plants28 Рік тому +3

      Just By reading this I know your going through pain. I'm sorry. There are good men and women out there though. I don't know what your going through I hope you can find peace and happiness though:( my sister was raped when she was young. And I remember her asking me if she is ever going to smile or be happy again:( makes me wnna funkytown gore that homie. If ya know ya know

    • @fuzzydorito6105
      @fuzzydorito6105 Рік тому +8

      ​@@Jocelyn_Herrick Bruh no one said they couldn't be. But most of them are women. Like rape, trafficking, DV, etc.

    • @cjcrimson67
      @cjcrimson67 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Jocelyn_Herrick Did you watch the video? Or listen to the song? “Not all men” we know that. We know men can be victims too. We’re not stupid.

    • @fuzzydorito6105
      @fuzzydorito6105 8 місяців тому

      @Gin-San101 Yeah no it's not those stats u pulled out of your butt man. The vast majority of victims all around the world are women and girls. But like I said in my original comment, the majority doesn't mean all. Boys in particular are targeted and sometimes preferred by predators. I agree we need to look at it as a victim problem not a gender problem, but to say the numbers are equal is incorrect.

  • @rosita.handle
    @rosita.handle Рік тому +401

    been raped, bullied, controlled and cohersed by men in my life. its 99% of what ive known from men. This video hits me because anyone who gets abused deserves better. Don't think you deserve it because no one deserves this. I know this will never leave me mentally but I still live how I want to live despite my past. Don't keep looking back because if you do you'll miss what is in front of you. Keep fighting. #metoo

    • @opheila-.2029
      @opheila-.2029 Рік тому +14

      I relate to this strongly. it’s so hard to not think of men being horrible bc it’s all i’ve ever known. stay strong girlies

    • @moldysock8893
      @moldysock8893 Рік тому +2

      good very good

    • @Richard-ri9py
      @Richard-ri9py Рік тому

      ​@@opheila-.2029 Oh boo hoo. Cry a river build a bridge and get over it. Life is awesome

    • @kk2862
      @kk2862 Рік тому +8

      As a man, i hope you get better and fight for gender equality, cuz you got this! #genderequality ✊

  • @Bekka_boo13
    @Bekka_boo13 Рік тому +161

    I love how
    Men say not all men…then won’t tell/correct other men for their behaviour…stop victim blaming women & take responsibility that men/boys play a part in this…we fear for our lives everyday no matter what time of day

  • @Deadcops
    @Deadcops Рік тому +164

    Not all men but almost every woman has a story about a creepy /disrespectful/mean man.

    • @giulianamirra
      @giulianamirra 8 місяців тому +5

      ⁠@Gin-San101Yea, but it's way more women that this happens too. i'm not saying it doesn't happen to men but it happens to more women.

    • @foreverprince_
      @foreverprince_ 6 місяців тому

      Because mostly females live in their own fantasy world believing every other toxic and manipulated guy they can fix them but it's not a fantasy people are bad and good so start making right choices not wrong

    • @Jocelyn_Herrick
      @Jocelyn_Herrick 5 місяців тому +1

      It pisses me off that guys are constantly hitting on me even though I Have A Boyfriend. Like Leave Me Alone.

    • @etoilerousseanimaljam4507
      @etoilerousseanimaljam4507 4 місяці тому

      @@foreverprince_ What the hell ? We’re talking about abuse, SA and other stuff like that. It’s not their fault and it has nothing to do with toxic relationships.

  • @Octarino19
    @Octarino19 2 роки тому +94

    Shit that last one really hit me 💀

  • @Nightengale90
    @Nightengale90 Рік тому +48

    That was powerful! Good Job! Too many have suffered and saying 'not all men' just feels like the victims are being told to shut up instead of dealing with the problem abusers have caused.

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Рік тому

      Exactly! "Not all men" translates to "Just shut the f*ck up girl!"

    • @CătălinaMaria1896
      @CătălinaMaria1896 Рік тому

      True

    • @ryaedits8424
      @ryaedits8424 Рік тому

      Most walk that’s how fucked up our justice system is. My mom spent her 21st birthday in jail from protecting herself against her abuser

    • @Nightengale90
      @Nightengale90 Рік тому +1

      @@ryaedits8424 That's AWFUL and should NEVER happen to anyone. Your poor Mother! Sadly, it doesn't even surprise me anymore after all I've heard...our justice system favors the rich and powerful no matter what they have done and most of the most rich and powerful tend to be men. Abusers also tend to pick victims they think our justice system will let them get away with abusing. MAJOR changes need to be made to it before it will truly protect victims...

    • @ryaedits8424
      @ryaedits8424 Рік тому +1

      @@Nightengale90 yes, unfortunately our government dismisses them, and statistically woman can end up dead even if they try to escape. 1 in every 3 girls ends up in a toxic relationship. My bio father(the abuser) unfortunately had family that was politicians and judges in that area, so the odds were in his favor

  • @luna0520
    @luna0520 2 роки тому +179

    Beaten by my mom, raped once and beaten up by ex twice and don't even let me sum up the mental part

    • @minbahadurshrestha5553
      @minbahadurshrestha5553 2 роки тому +15

      You stronger then this like that man said in the last part don't be afraid to run be afraid to stay

    • @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000
      @onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 2 роки тому +7

      I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are doing better 💜.

    • @ayeshaabdulrahman1919
      @ayeshaabdulrahman1919 Рік тому

      You have Kitty Kat on your pfp, absolutely love your icon 😍😍😍

    • @luna0520
      @luna0520 Рік тому

      @@ayeshaabdulrahman1919 thx check my banner it matches

  • @suzannebaxter2888
    @suzannebaxter2888 Рік тому +11

    I thought it was only me who didn't think that Drago and Dany was this sweet epic love story.

  • @bobachel
    @bobachel Рік тому +116

    i hate it so much when anyone talks about their experiences with men, and men have the audacity to reply with "nOt aLL mEn ArE LiKe ThAt ThOuGh!!!1!1!" SHUT UP. ITS ENOUGH MEN TO MAKE US SCARED OF WEARING CERTAIN THINGS. ITS ENOUGH MEN THAT WE'RE SCARED TO WALK HOME. ITS ENOUGH MEN THAT WE CARRY WEAPONS/PEPPER SPRAY. ITS ENOUGH MEN THAT WE TURN ON OUR LOCATION BEFORE GOING OUT WITH A GUY. ITS FUCKING ENOUGH.

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Рік тому +2

      It was how I was thinking by myself for a long time...😂
      Thank you for this. They just find ways to shut our mouth, without expressing ourselves.
      Why do you think self-defense is important for girls and women?
      Because "not all guys are bad" or nasty, but there are enough that have serious issues...

    • @bobachel
      @bobachel Рік тому +1

      @@missstranger7697 exactly

    • @Kestix1234
      @Kestix1234 5 місяців тому

      I know that feeling, not all women are lying and cheating or manipulating for their own gain. I have seen a rare few cases where she is as loving to him as he is to her.
      But enough of them have done it to me to think that all women are only out there for their own validation and will use any personal information against you without a second thought.
      It happened enough for me to never ever tell a woman how I truly feel, nor will I ever marry without a contract. The marriage contract will also include a parental test in case she gets pregnant.
      Cheating women are the reason why France won't allow dna tests for fathers without direct court order. They stated it would destroy the familiar bounds of our society.
      THEY WILL LIE, CHEAT, GASLIGHT, MANIPULATE, USE AND MENTALLY ABUSE YOU IF GIVEN ANY CHANCE.

  • @theysay04
    @theysay04 Рік тому +26

    İ was 14. He was a police officer. İ didn't know what it was then, i call it 'mental abduction' . İ didn't want that 'relationship'. İ was coerced and shamed just to say yes when he won't stop asking for a date. He would come to my school every evening to drive me home. He dislocated three of my fingers once for saying no to his ride offer. İ told my parents i fell. His coworkers knew about this, but instead of helping me, they just joked about it. İt not all men but as long as you dismiss someone's suffering from the hands of a man and turn a blind eye on it, you're one of them.

  • @TribridPack
    @TribridPack 2 роки тому +289

    Wow i fucking love this. Thank you for doing this HAS WOMEN WE HAVE POWER TO KEEP ON FIGHTING 👏👏

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  2 роки тому +5

      thank you so much!! 🥹 I really appreciate it 🥰

  • @deborahbarbery
    @deborahbarbery Рік тому +24

    I have known some wonderful men in my life but I have been SA twice in my 18 years of life. That shouldn’t happen to a child. I’m still practically a child.

  • @xandilego
    @xandilego 5 місяців тому +3

    Woman deserves the world.
    That edit It portrays the "daily life" of a person who has already been through abuse, it's too strong. 🥺

  • @SKZ_Maniac_08
    @SKZ_Maniac_08 Рік тому +10

    I have been SA'd before and it changes your perspective on life.

  • @ShadowGaming0645
    @ShadowGaming0645 8 місяців тому +2

    I love the ending of the video where the police man tells maddie to not be afraid to run away from being hurt.
    I can’t believe people would do this to others mostly women it’s disgusting.

  • @kassandradonelson8065
    @kassandradonelson8065 Рік тому +12

    That is exactly y I dident report anything and barely tell people who it was I do talk about it sometimes but only a few know who it was

  • @cearax3
    @cearax3 Рік тому +13

    It’s not all men, but it’s most.

    • @Yupyupyup32
      @Yupyupyup32 10 місяців тому

      @@tgx123mgjack8 if you dont stop men in your life who do this, you are also a perpetrator. so that makes it all men

    • @Yupyupyup32
      @Yupyupyup32 8 місяців тому

      @Gin-San101 men in your life. If your friends do something joke about it and you just think that’s whatever and don’t even tell ‘em it’s wrong then you’re the same. Your example is such a ridiculous counter argument. You’re taking an example from history about people you don’t even know.

    • @Yupyupyup32
      @Yupyupyup32 7 місяців тому

      @Gin-San101 editing comments makes you seem credible? How?
      Also if you joke about it there’s a good chance someone in your circle does it because you don’t think it’s a big deal. People do it but don’t necessarily go around admitting to it. It’s cute how you’re a “man” but still are clueless about male behavior

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  7 місяців тому +1

      @@Yupyupyup32 thank you for replying to that, i didn’t notice till now but he’d posted 18 comments on this video arguing with women 😭 blocked him but wanted to thank you for your comments!

    • @Yupyupyup32
      @Yupyupyup32 7 місяців тому

      @@EJGEdits ❤️ thanks girl!

  • @Sigrid0000
    @Sigrid0000 6 місяців тому +2

    song is Not All Men, by Morgan St. Jean (in my opinion the best singer and person ever)

  • @friedaweyh1964
    @friedaweyh1964 10 місяців тому +1

    I just had one monster I my life but I am here and can say I was strong. I didn't give up. I made him go away. Stay strong my queens
    You are not alone in the struggle

  • @sqilorsong
    @sqilorsong 2 місяці тому

    Not all men but enough men to make us scared.

  • @Grapesforbananas
    @Grapesforbananas Рік тому +8

    I don’t know what to think. Women should be allowed to be treated fair and same with men.

  • @Bambiluvr
    @Bambiluvr Рік тому +19

    Not all men. but enough. I'm a victim of assault. I was 13. What does this say about society??

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Рік тому +2

      That society is filled with people that have issues and act like they couldn't care less.

    • @hello-sz7hp
      @hello-sz7hp 6 місяців тому

      Why am I responsible for the actions of someone else?

    • @midnightsan9917
      @midnightsan9917 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@hello-sz7hp you aren't but unfortunately bad men don't exactly look different to good men. If you get close enough to check its too late and he can do something horrific. So women are understandably cautious.

  • @Zee-h5y
    @Zee-h5y 6 місяців тому +2

    dont get me wrong i know not all men are like this in fact ive met my partner and he is so supportive of getting me through this...
    when i was 16 i was almost kidnapped and that was the main trigger of my "fear" of men i put it in quotes as i dont really know a better way to describe it even when i was young i was harassed by guys and the first time i was almost kidnaped was when i was about 8 it was happened twice in my life not to mention the countless time ive been followed touched and blatantly harassed all this led to a=me becoming subconsciously afraid of men to the point i flinch when a guy comes a bit to close even just passing on the street im overly aware of my surroundings and frequently get panic attacks both major and minor there painful and scare me shitless the beginning of the build started when i was that young i only remember the pain of the abuse from my dad i dont remember most of my childhood due to it...
    im not trying to vent bot share my experience i hope that if anyone can relate to this and ever need my help with getting through to comment whatever you throw on me and i can either relate to or try my hardest to comfort you because nobody should go through this alone as i had to..
    i wish you all the best

    • @Slaythehousedown_15
      @Slaythehousedown_15 4 місяці тому +1

      Dang, I hope you're doing better

    • @Zee-h5y
      @Zee-h5y 4 місяці тому

      @@Slaythehousedown_15 me and my partner broke up but im getting there got brilliant mates to get me through these things

  • @angelj8854
    @angelj8854 16 годин тому

    Go watch "Sweet/Vicious", my biggest underrated serie who clearly deserve more knowledge.

  • @ameliaflynnhayes
    @ameliaflynnhayes Місяць тому

    Love this song and video even though it’s really sad

  • @doryinsanime6862
    @doryinsanime6862 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes all the women are human beings truly deserve better in whole world deserve better.

  • @ElizabethMcCormick-s2n
    @ElizabethMcCormick-s2n 7 місяців тому

    RIP Dame Diana Rigg!

  • @thekurdishgirl6538
    @thekurdishgirl6538 Місяць тому +1

    0:53

  • @my_girl_seraphine5294
    @my_girl_seraphine5294 Рік тому +1

    They say “not all men” but it feels like a complete and utter lie

    • @Lunakitty1234
      @Lunakitty1234 6 місяців тому +1

      They only say it when they want to get away with doing something bad. Cuz they say “all men” about other stuff .

  • @user-wj8qj5wn1c
    @user-wj8qj5wn1c 2 місяці тому

    0:46 show?

  • @shristhibothra9605
    @shristhibothra9605 11 місяців тому +4

    Not all MAN but still always a MAN

  • @anvidoesit1984
    @anvidoesit1984 Рік тому +6

    1:58 where is that from

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  Рік тому +3

      911 :)

    • @amandagoodtime7751
      @amandagoodtime7751 Рік тому +1

      911 buck and Maddie she got away from her abusive husband and buck her brother found her and reassured her she was safe

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  8 місяців тому

      @Gin-San101 what

  • @emmalewis8149
    @emmalewis8149 8 місяців тому

    Does anyone know what the film/show is at 1:59 ??

    • @estella2lenne
      @estella2lenne 7 місяців тому

      I think it's "9-1-1"

    • @moonlighttv9452
      @moonlighttv9452 Місяць тому

      Also, so you won‘t have a false idea if you ever watch it and see him from ep1, the guy in this particular clip is her brother who fought tooth and nail to get people looking for his sister and find her again. He‘s not the ab*ser in this scenario😊

  • @algoritimodeumamente2
    @algoritimodeumamente2 Рік тому +1

    1:48 wich series/movie is this?

  • @lostmind264
    @lostmind264 2 роки тому +18

    Is 1:03 A Game of Thrones clip😣😞

  • @chanellvlogz
    @chanellvlogz Рік тому +1

    Can smb plz tell me the name of the show from the first clip. Or jus that actresses name so I can look her up .. PLZZZ

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  Рік тому +1

      It’s game of thrones :)

  • @pandulce4447
    @pandulce4447 Рік тому +3

    "I was nice to you know I didn't do it for you be my girlfriend?!" I guess not I ignored that red flag because my glasses of love made them look like flags

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Рік тому

      The part where females ignore the red flags and say guys can be gentlemen is the worst... It screams desperation🤦‍♀️

    • @ryaedits8424
      @ryaedits8424 Рік тому +2

      @@missstranger7697 some get blinded, it happens when you really like a person.

  • @sariahthomas7569
    @sariahthomas7569 2 роки тому +9

    What's the movies and TV shows called

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  2 роки тому

      read the description box

    • @Spike_1900
      @Spike_1900 2 роки тому +1

      @@EJGEdits what episode at 1:03, do you know?

    • @chelseafisse
      @chelseafisse 2 роки тому

      @@Spike_1900 game of thrones

  • @Human-hx5wc
    @Human-hx5wc Рік тому +3

    Where’s 0.47 from?

  • @Tryecia_so-finexx
    @Tryecia_so-finexx Рік тому

    What’s the name of 0:49

  • @cruzinbosco
    @cruzinbosco Рік тому

    😭😭😭

  • @multifandom_gallavich
    @multifandom_gallavich 8 місяців тому

    check out my edit plz! lots of newer clips

    • @EJGEdits
      @EJGEdits  8 місяців тому

      really? you do understand how rude this is right