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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- I thought long and hard about posting this video, because it was so hard to make, and watch. I made it in honour of the Me Too Movement, because this issue is something that is so close to my heart.
I also want to say my piece and that is, no matter what the situation is, and whether or not it's intercourse without consent, you do matter. The situation matters. It can be you being touched or grabbed in a way that makes you uncomfortable, anything, and if it doesn't feel right, if you didn't want it to happen, then it's a violation. It's a violation of your body, your mind and your rights as a human being and IT'S NOT OKAY.
Lastly, I want to state that while all of the instances in this video are to women, sexual harassment, sexual assault and rape can happen to a person of any gender, religion, race, age etc. and it is never okay, and no person deserves it. There is a stigma against men coming forward if they've been sexually assaulted, which means so many men will take it to their graves, to avoid friends and relatives and complete strangers seeing them differently or less masculine.
So in the comments, if you feel okay with it, please just write #MeToo if you've ever experienced any of this, and if you don't feel comfortable with sharing, it's okay.
I'll start. #MeToo
Thank you.
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Song: 'Til It Happens To You
By: Lady Gaga
Fandoms: 13 Reasons Why; Sweet/Vicious; Switched At Birth; Jessica Jones; The Fosters; The Walking Dead; Ask Me Anything; Life Unexpected; Reign; One Tree Hill; Mom; Recovery Road.
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"I thought it was my fault because I couldn't stop it." I felt that.
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@@selamtemesgen8321 2:18
Me Too.
Madison im sorry that happened to you
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If you’re too afraid or threatened to say no, that doesn’t mean you wanted to say yes.
I really really needed to hear this... thank you
@@ariw3289 hope u feel better :)
Everyone doesn’t believe what my cousin did and I didn’t say no cause of that and they call me the whore and slut and my cousin lives with us so he still is here with me and I can’t do anything now😣
@@katerilittleswallow2519 I believe you
We all believe you, keep fighting
when you realize what’s happening it’s like you freeze and you can’t move and it feels like your not even in your body anymore
This one got me crying
That’s exactly what happened to me
It makes me sad how true this is
'and i decided that since it wasnt sexual intercourse, it didn't really matter'
i felt that #metoo
Same here ❤️
Same here ❤
Same♥️♥️
Same 🩹❤️
"if you were too drunk to remember, then it wasn't consensuel."
this is so beautiful
#MeToo
...
Geez, just saw this nearly a year later and saw all the likes. So, I want to add something.
It breaks my heart to think that this has happened to so many people. I was broken for such a long time, thinking that it was my fault that this awful thing had happened to me. It's never your fault. Never.
If you're in the same boat, that I was a year ago, just know that it does get better, I promise. It won't be easy, but surround yourself with good people and talk about it. It doesn't get better before you talk.
Again, beautiful video with a message that's still so relevant.
coffeeandcats wait I have one question what would it be considered if both people were both people were too drunk to remember.
Alexandra Rivera well that’s tough because think about it
If only one person was drunk the other person took advantage of the drunk one.. but if they were both drunk who took advantage of who?? I don’t think either of them really took advantage of the other because none of them were aware enough to make the conscious decision of using the other person for sex
So it’s not my fault?😥
Fu*k the username never. please reach out and talk to people you trust. you’re not alone, and it wasn’t your fault
Thats my story I barely remember it but I was so so drunk idk if I said no or not but I was like near black out.
"Why didn't I report it?"
With my PTSD I put all the memories into the back of my mind and tried to forget.
This song means so much to me....
Thanks for an incredible music video.
#MeToo
I'm sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you are doing ok 💜.
"I woke up to find his hands in places that they shouldn't have been."
That hit me.
This song is exactly how I feel. I was sexually abused for a year and then sexually assaulted by someone else. Everyone says it gets better but they have no clue how hard it is to believe that. They say let it go but they have no clue how much it has scarred and torn you apart in every way. I will never be able to be the little girl I once was. They stole my childhood. All I knew is that I had to smile and not bother anyone because I hated being a burden. I was also scared and beyond broken. I’ve tried to kill myself a few time and obviously failed. I’m still not okay. I struggle with self harm. But I’m trying. I honestly and truly hope no one else will feel like this. I wouldn’t wish it on my worse enemy
Alex Lesane I'm so sorry that happened to you, and I hope you find a healthy way to live with it, you are right no one deserves something sexual to happen to them with out consent.
I know it's hard I can feel the pain and I'll just say please please give yourself a chance and be strong I know you'll definitely be happy. God will always be there for you.
Alex Lesane I’m so sorry 😢
Come and talk to me if you want to, here is my instagram : @esth.e_r
Remember to remember : you’re not alone, you didn’t deserve that and you’ll get better
stay strong beautiful 💛
My brothers friend put his hand down my pants for years. I wasn’t even 10. #MeToo
I'm so sorry that happened to you
I’m sorry that happened to you something similar happened to me but it was my step dad
Almost the same for me except it was my friends brother.
It happened to me when I was 6 and another time when I was 15..
Kat McDowell it happened to me when i was 5 or 6 i dont exactly remember but it was another kid that was around the same age as me
You know the reason why I watch this is to feel like it wasn’t my fault
Same
Metoo
me too.
Same and it isnt your fault its their fucking fault. And they desrve to rot in prison and hell.
It never was and I believe you
It happened to me when I was 10. Its so hard for people to understand what you're going through they might want to know but till you've been through it you'll never understand.
#MeToo
i was 6 i understand
I am still dealing with what happened to me. It was someone in my family. Someone who your supposed to feel safe with someone. Whose’s supposed to protect you. The person who is supposed to be responsible when your parents aren’t around. My parents don’t understand. So thank you, thank you for helping us have a voice when we physically can’t ourselves #MeToo
I'm so sorry that happened to you, and I hope you find your voice soon. Just by leaving this comment, you are showing that you are so much stronger than you know.
Sending all my hugs Allie Lyn
#metoo im in the excact same position. I was 9 when it happened and it tears my down still 6 years later
Alexandria Lyn
You’re not alone. I understand completely.
I was in that same situation. I was just 8. Nobody realized and I wasn't able to report it because PTSD made me forget it for years, so I was forced to live with him
i was assaulted when i was very young by one of my friends and the term "i thought it was my fault because i couldnt stop it" i really feel that
Alexa im sorry that happened to you
I thought I was being dramatic because everyone told me that I was a whiny bitch these videos are the only videos that made me feel somewhat ok since then and I just wanted to say thank you so much you don't know how internally grateful I am
“I didn’t wanted to do what he wanted me to do”
#metoo
Hey you im sorry that happened to you
Had that with my ex too many times and I tried to brush it off
It was NEVER your fault, and you will heal from this
Gosh... this is so powerful and so well done, thank you for making such an amazing video #MeToo
When she said she wants to make amends to any woman who was hurt because she didn't say anything I felt that. I was sexually abused by a classmate in 5th grade, and when I worked up the courage to tell my friend, he said that he had been assaulted by the same classmate. Every day I feel like if I had said something then my friend wouldn't have to deal with what he now has to deal with. I know it's not my fault but I still feel incredibly guilty.
Happened to me when I was not even 6 by a very close relative (a near sexual insult but my mom stopped it). Its so easy for people to say that it will get better but it takes things that could never be gotten back including my trust in people, relationships and any type physical contacts(can not even hug people). I am 20 now and still waiting for it to get better.
#metoo
I was only 11 when it all started.. it continued for about a year until we just never saw each other anymore.. it took me 3 years to tell someone. 3.. years...
Ben Smith he was in the grade above me, it all happened at school or after school activists and they never even pulled the tapes.
To all that were raped, I have to say it was a horrible thing that happened to u because it happened to my girl at a young age and it hurts to know what kinds of horrible things happened to her. This sickes me to know that people to this to eachother and angers me so much. love u all and never live in the past and keep moving forward, there will always be a light at the end of the tunnel.
#NoMore #respect #love
I was 5 when this sort of thing happened to me for the first time. Then it went on till i was 13. I can't-
Diotima im sorry that happened to you
@@bensmith8957 thank you for caring :')
@souad .A yes✨
♥️♥️ there’s nothing anyone can say to change what happened to you or the horrors you’ve experienced. Healing is a different journey for everyone. Thank you for sharing and I hope you know that you’ve got an army of people behind you with this movement #metoo
I am only 12 and ever since I was younger I always had to deal with grown men talking sexualy and look at me inappropriately which effected me mentally that I would cry all night and sometime men would say weird things in front of my parents and they wouldn't say anything.
Same I hate it...
#METOO and I hope my police report helps to keep it from ever happening to another woman
Samantha Penny I’m so sorry you didn’t deserve that at all ,I’m here for you
I was 16 and he pulled his hand to him and I resisted until he said "you're gonna make this difficult for me aren't you?" And I just froze and let him take me, it was my first time. My boyfriend gets upset with me when I try to talk about it to him.
I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. Your boyfriend should listen to you, to what you want to share with him, he should have understand you... I hope you are ok, always remember that you are amazing 💜.
‘ next thing i know he’s ontop of me ‘
hit so hard .
#metoo.
I was 10 my father
I was 14, my stepfather.
I'm almost 18. I can't get this out of my head. I'm devastated.
I'm so sorry. You didn't deserve any of this. It's horrible and it gets a lot of time, but it will get better
Baddye Maddye im sorry that happened to you
Hey sis, I understand what you feel, even when I was 4 years old I was raped by my next door neighbor, now I'm almost 30 and I've never forgotten that disgusting incident, the pain is still clearly recorded in my memory.. keep it strong.. we are not alone.
This is so beautifully done.... for such a strong and hard topic to cover it’s just done so well! #MeToo
Sexual crimes are the one crimes where the victim is blamed and ashamed.
My experience taught me that your family isn't always blood, but those who pick you up and wipe the blood from your wounds. My attacker was family.... and his defender should have been mine.
I was not raped and that's what I was told to be thankful for. But it hurts to listen to certain songs, or hear screaming. I don't play chess as often. I still have issues eating. But I'm better than my yesterday's. One day at a time.
Everytime I think back to it, I feel like I'm going to puke
Stay strong😘
#MeToo
From Egypt.
#MeToo I was 3, it was my stepdad and my mom was in the next room, no idea that it was happening. Then again at 8 with a 15 year old boy who I thought was my friend.
Airu1017 I’m here for you I’m so sorry
Im not crying...i don't think i shopuod be here cause I didnt experience it but you are not alone and I'm proud of all of u for surviving
Firstly I am so very sorry that that happened to you I thank you for this vedio as someone who was assaulted multiple times it makes me very happy that there are people who want to fight this.
Bruh I wish #sweetVisious was renewed for a second season. Such and amazing show man.
Hannah Manuel yes omg, I loved that show!!
Love sweet and viscous
Which show is 2:51 ?
"If you were too drunk to remember, then it wasn't consensual."
#Metoo
Recovery Road
I’m fourteen, he brought me to his house and the next day he told everyone something happened that didn’t. Nothing happened, but that doesn’t mean people don’t talk. They talk and its awful. He was the first guy I trusted, really trusted. And he bragged about something that didn’t happen. How am I supposed to go on? To go to class? To exist? Knowing what he said
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY FLAWLESS AND SO heartbreaking! seeing life unexpected in here UGHHH and ppl say Britt can't act are you serious?! rape/sexual assault is important to me too because my bff was raped at a party when she was 16 and I saw it nearly destroy her, so TYSM for your video!!!
#MeToo
I was broken and ashamed for the last years, but now I'm starting to get over it and I finally become happy again :))
You know what’s the worst? I didn’t report and everyday of the last nine years I’ve wondered if there’s someone else out there getting hurt by him because i didn’t report him and it tears me down.
You can't blame yourself for the system's failures. It's all messed up, they complicate it too much for victims
"Tell me how the hell could you know!?" Literally me when i first told my mom and she called a liar.
It’s not your fault. As soon as you say no, or stop, or whatever it is that you have in place to end something, that’s it. If you agreed and then withdrew consent and they didn’t stop, it still counts. *It counts.* Be strong and fight. This was not your fault and you are brave. You are strong.
I'm sorry for all the people that have to go through sometime so terrible like that. I hope you heal i hope you all get better you're brave, it is never you're fault.
First time... my uncle. 4yrs old to 8yrs old. He ruined my flower.
Second time... 17 yrs old. He was my boyfriend and I said no. Because he was my boyfriend it was “ok”
Third time... 19 years old. He was my friend. I was too messed up & I fell asleep clothed and woke up nude. “It was your fault for drinking too much” he said.
#MeToo
It is sad. You are survivor. Did you get them arrested?
Sophia Petrova no, didn’t even start talking about it til recently..
@@mireyaalejandra9621 It is worth talking about it. What are your relations with family? Friends?
I was raped repeatedly by my ex boyfriend when I was 18. Just thought of intimacy makes me nausous and afraid. That man is now married and in the air force just the thought him carrying on with life makes me angry! In 2018 a whole year later a ultrasound revealed I had lesions in my uterus and no I never got it treated due to how just the thought of someone touching me down there to this day makes my heart race. I'm almost 25 now and still am scared to even be touched down there! Whoever reads this you aren't alone if you have been through what I have.
Jesus, these comments make me remember how broken this world actually is. I hope all of you heal from this and will live a long and happy life, this must be the most awful thing..
Stay strong warriors💗
I have been psychical abused by my mother. She shows me love, but in other second she is like a monster from the hell. I have a step father and hated when he walked to the bathroom and I was naked. He done it still till I was 18, now not much. I hated it. For some reason, I don't want to have sex. It scares me to death. I don't have boyfriend, becouse everyone want sex. I'm almost 20 now
Where are you from? I suppose ot is worth getting to the shelter for women in difficult position or find a job as soon as possible and live in a rent room or campus.It is Ok to do physical self defence even if mom is abuser.
Wait is my fear of sex because of my rape I never put 2 and 2 together ur comment helped me so muchh
"...I was assaulted and I needed you..."💖
#MeToo
#metoo
“Felt like I left my body and watched him do it”
That was me. Feeling so paralyzed, so ashamed, like it’s all my fault. But it wasn’t.
I'm sorry that happened
I am so sorry for what happened, you are so strong and brave. I hope you are doing ok, it wasn't your fault, you deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best 💜.
I was let down by my father ,my priest ,my mother ,and now my teacher. My father cared but not enough to promise to live , he promised the world but left me in it to see the sky fall
Whatever we wear, whatever we go, yes means yes and no means no
I saw it in a movie can't remember which
I really loved that!! I was 7 or 8 the first time something happened then 15 or 16 the second time by someone else. #metoo!! Have u thought about making a second video with other shows regarding this like “big little lies” or degrassi? Love that the show “life unexpected” was in it!!
After it happened u don't know how to feel people keep saying move on and the flashbacks hurt and #me too it happened💔😭😫
I am so sorry for what happened to you... you are so strong and brave. I wish you the best because you deserve the best 💜, I hope you are doing ok, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
I was sixteen, my boyfriend had me pinned on his couch and took something he shouldn’t have took. He blamed it on being high.
Ben Smith
It’s okay, I’m a lot better now ^^
Give me chils so bad! This is so beautifly done!!! It makes me so mad that this happends to someone... and still rape is only crime where victim is consider guilty! Such a shame!
#stay strong
#MeToo
This was so amazingly incredibly powerful and emotional to watch but I loved it
What these people went through....... I think we can all say that we fear for them, and ourselves and the people around us. Stay strong. If someone rapes you, confide with someone you trust. And don't let others tell you that it was your own fault. You are never the one to blame for something that you didn't want nor give consent to happen.
From A Little Monster
#MeToo
Little Monster #metoo.... little monster!!!!💔😔
little monster paws up #metoo
#MeToo
Girl from Sweden 🇸🇪
I hated and blamed myself for years because I walked into his bedroom and when it happened I froze but now as a grown woman I realize the truth it was his fault and no one elses
This was one, if not the most well done video I've ever seen on this subject. I only missed the movie Speak directed by Jessica Sharzer, but that might be because I love the movie and have seen it a lot. Unfortunately I know so many women that have been hurt, and men too (I loved what you said about men because a lot of people forget they are abused as well), it's so terrible. I was never sexually abused, but I can also go with the #MeToo here. Unfortunately every women has a story that goes well with the #metoo tag. Thanks a lot for bringing the subject!
Be careful when a guy is too nice that's what he told me as I was being choke.
"I thought it was my fault"
#MeToo
It was not your fault at all.if this thing happens with anyone they get numb n feel muted for that time n the time after.everything gets better with time but u should never think it was your fault because u didn't want that thing to happen to u #Me too
"why didnt you tell us in the first place?"
heard that ALL THE TIME.
no matter how much i explain they wont get it
You can say something when and if you want to, you decide the time and the person. You don't have to talk to somebody if you need time to be able to talk about it to somebody. You take your time and when and if you want, you talk. The importance in all of this is you. You matter. Your feelings and you feeling ok matter.
Thank you for this. #MeToo
I happened in first grade. He was 2 years older than me. I feel like it's too late to speak up because we were both underage and its been over 10 years now.
It is never too late to speak up! There are always people out there who will listen. And it doesn't matter if it happend 10 years or 20 years ago. ♡
Simplesmente amei 💗
#MeToo I was 5
same
#metoo,5 years old
#metoo thank you for making this. Hopefully it will help make a change. Always here for support
0:59 what show and episode x
Amy Jones the walking dead
The walking dead season 5
#metoo and still fighting to live with Trauma... We got this y'all ♥️
For some of us it doesn't get better
Just cause you dont say no doesnt mean you said yes #RAINN
AMAZING VIDEO
i used to be so social and popular. one day i snuck out with my friends and i got sexually assaulted and my friends ran. after that day i became anti social. i never felt comfortable with men. it sucks.
Selam I'm sorry that happened to you
Maybe someday I will be able to face my truth, maybe I won't. I just want to feel OK with that
I hope you are ok 💜.
The worst part in my life is when my family didn't believe me
I was 6 years old... #metoo
I like to make a point even if the person your married to is married to you if they say no it means no and marriage doesn't change the fact that rape is rape
It can't get better, I'm missing a part of me (my soul)
😟My own family....... I was 12. I'm 15 now #metoo
I was 6 or 8 I dont really remember, it also happened when I was 16. And I hate myself because of them
I’m here for all of you you aren’t alone
I was almost raped and my mom didn't do anything about it , I still live with the fact that I could of actually been raped if I didn't fight for myself
#metoo it happened when i was 8 it was my best friend and i couldn’t say no it trusted him i still have so much problems from it and i thought it was my fault
Eleyna im sorry that happened to you
I was 6 and it was a stranger, I didn’t know what happened to me and at the age of 9 it was my uncle. I am currently 14 with 2 suicide attempts
Sharleen I'm sorry that happened to you
They said that I conceded. You can't concede when your only 13 you don't no what your conceding to
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Of course it was rape. If someone had sex with you at that age then that person took advantage of your innocence. It's not your fault, hope you're better.
Thank you for this #Metoo
I said no but they kept going...
Me Too.
I was 6 he was my best friends much older, brother and my parents always tell me it never happened but I sometimes still can feel his hands on me. the second time I was 15 and he was my boyfriend got me pregnant and when he found out beat me within an inch of my life and i lost the baby again my parents deny it and i hate it.
It’s like everyone is trying to fix what happened but they can’t fuckin fix what happened to me
What show is 1:44?
"I thought it was my fault because I couldn't stop it." #Metoo
Madi im sorry that happened to you
2:08 please from where Is that voice? I mean : She couldn't give you a name, she didn't use the word but she describe a rape....
Such a cruel violation of personal boundaries can happen to anyone, regardless of age, body type, appearance, genitalia, personality, sexuality, occupation, how one is dressed, how much protection one carries or what one does to protect oneself, how intelligent or powerful or diplomatic one is, or what choices one makes. The lies that one can control another person's thoughts, feelings, or actions through their own decisions and that some experiences should be disregarded as they seem less bad or violent than others are both ridiculous. The perpetrator is always to blame for making the choice to take advantage. #MeToo
I rarely think about it since it was 4 years ago...and more shameful to me was that I was a grown man.
What’s the show where she says you will survive this because I did to? The old fashioned style one?
xbbyashx reign
My best friend at the time forced me to do things to her for years. She abused me mentally, emotionally and sexually. #Metoo
I'm sorry that happened to you
@@bensmith8957 Thank you so much. That means a lot. ☺️
Hope you get better. The girl who did it to you isn't your friend. 😔You deserve better.♥️
@@franciscagomes185 Thank you so much. That honestly means a lot. Thank you.
@@emilyjanacek6844 Your welcome. Always here to talk. Wish you the best. It's really difficult to go throught sexual violence and even realizing it as such. Most of us just can't accept and belive it's out fault, 😔 but you can make it throught, if we stay close to ones that deserve us, things get better and happier.🌼 Sometimes we think it doesn't but it really does, just takes some time. Praying for you.
'I didn't wanna do what he wanted me to do' ...
#metoo