She Wants Inmate BF She's NEVER MET to Adopt Her Son!! (Love After Lockup)
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Her selling those heirlooms hit me harder as a native. Our elders and traditions are so precious ESPECIALLY since SO MUCH was sized by the government and traditions were lost.
What exactly are heirlooms? 😊
@@ninachan562 idk if you mean native heirlooms or just heirlooms in general but its items that are passed down through the family that have sentimental value. like a ring that every mother gives to her first daughter. usually theyre expensive too
@@ninachan562stuff that gets passed down to the next generation
@@soccerboy1447 yep and there was a lot of turquoise I saw her put up there and it is sacred and often used in ceremony so seeing it in a pawn shop hurts. What hurts worse though is seeing so much regalia and sacred items in that pawn shop for sale. So much of the native community is in extreme poverty both on and off the Rez. Addiction plays a huge part as well 💔
@@IceCoffee-dl8nm that jewelry was likely passed down for generations as is most regalia.
I've been lonely as hell but never get-pregnant-by-a-rando, give-all-my-money-to-an-inmate lonely
That part.
Cause u have sense. Clearly she only has air in between her ears. She needs to be put on birth control asap
Some women just have no class or self worth
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😂😂😂 facts
As a mom it really pisses me off seeing these women intentionally put their children in harms way (psychologically, emotionally, physically). Like do what you want with your life, just leave the babies out of it. 😩
Some people just should not have children.
She is a dayum QUEEN!
For real!!
@@MK_ULTRA420and you are a dayum fool
@@MK_ULTRA420she mah quuuuunnnnn
Why would she want to be with a guy who is out of control and constantly locked up in solitary confinement? I would be afraid to have somebody like that around my kid.
She doesn’t see how he is in there she’s just listening to what he’s saying, every time he goes on solitary confinement he probably manipulates her into thinking it’s for something else not related to him or some “bullshit”
She's a pickme
Now you know women.
Well they often throw inmates in there for no reason. But it messes with your brain and he’s not gonna be super stable bc of that
@@KNByam*this woman
I'm from New Mexico and I can tell you that what she sold at that pawn shop was likely worth 3x the amount she asked for. The turquoise and silver alone in that jewelry, + the fact that it was most likely handmade, + antique = that bracelet alone could have gone for $400. And that's likely what its going to be sold for. The basket and blanket might've been worth even more. It was infuriating to see her lowball FAMILY HEIRLOOMS like that.
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING!!! I'm internally screaming at how unbelievable that whole scene was but Joynomi is already unbelievable as she is
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING!!! I'm internally screaming at how unbelievable that whole scene was but Joynomi is already unbelievable as she is
ugh it hurt to see her sell it off like that.. Her grandma entrusted it to her.. and she just does that
I could tell she got ripped of because the pawn shop quickly agreed to exact amount.
Not only that, its FAMILY passed down ITEMS. She disrespected her entire family
She thinks he’s going to be the best father?! He can’t even be the best prisoner!! Obviously he’s not an inmate trying to improve. He’s a con.
Huge facts
Its also easy for him to accept another mans child while he is locked up..he has no one else to talk to and needs her money...but when he is out of prison odds are his feelings will change when he feels even the slightest bit of preassure to be the provider or even help with the kid.
@@vianjelos excatly lol
She is top tier delulu. I can’t believe she pawned off those family heirlooms. May her ancestors rest in peace.
40k for her prison bf??? She could easily put that money for a college fund for her baby or invest it and save it for her and her kids future
She doesn’t care about her kid. It’s pretty obvious.
She doesn’t even care about herself, she sleeps around and can’t even be bothered remembering which man got her pregnant
You don't even need money in prison like what the fuck
@@Barbieinawheelchairyou actually do
Being native american myself. If I tried selling any of my dad's stuff or grandma's. There would have been a blow up of relatives, friends, and distant family over it. As well if I cheated on someone. I wouldn't hear the end of it. This girl is nuts..
I know right!!! I can't believe she sold those precious heirlooms. No amount of money would make me sell them. The disrespect to her culture is unbelievable.
I thought some of those heirlooms technically belong to the tribe
It actually broke my heart seeing her do that. Especially precious Native American artifacts sold for a man she's NEVER MET, who has proven for TEN YEARS that he is a volatile person. There's no way this is going to end well. Then she'll be without her heirlooms, without money, and possibly without a child because of that man. I also can't believe her family isn't stepping up and calling her out for this situation.
I could not believe she did that. All those items were family heirlooms and the fact she sold them like they had no value to her or her family. I'd sell an organ before selling a family heirloom.😭
I can't believe her sister let grandmother's jewels go. She should have bought them from her dumb ass and walked out of there not looking back. And she should have taken the child. It's not gonna turn out good here
Pawn shops are notorious for low balling you to get more profit. So the fact that they easily agreed to the $500 shows that it was likely worth WAY more. Its really crazy how she did this and didnt even try to get it appraised first.
That necklace alone cost AT LEAST 500$! All that stuff was so precious n they really don't know wut treasure they had!!!!!
@mx0x0 sometimes you can do that, other times if you want more money you can sell it outright
@@mx0x0 I think you're thinking of when they put something as collateral for a loan to buy back later. I don't think she did that and was out right selling it to the pawn shop. Pawn shops can either do those collateral loans or they can just buy it off of you to make profit. If it's the loan than you have a certain amount of time to pay it back to get your stuff back or they will keep and sell it.
@@mx0x0 no hun, you can take out a loan on your stuff or you pawn it which means it won't be held for you and goes on the floor to be sold. I've pawned before a few times, I normally just sell it outright but I have done the loan before as well. They don't hold it forever either, you typically have a time limit or payment schedule.
If she’s spending her last for this man, then she’ll spend the last of her sons for this man as well . That’s the vibe I get. Sad.
A very messed up situation. No man should ever come before her son or take from him.
you know it's bad when his mom is questioning his character 😭 I would've ran for the hills 😂
LOL exactly!
Yeaaa..... She seems like she's gonna support her son no matter what but on a woman-to-woman level, she would not want this for one of her friends.
Right his own mother
I realize it a pawn shop, but that lady was ruthless.
“What’s it worth?”
“Give me an estimate of what you might need.”
Damn. Not even trying to hide that she’s swindling you😂
Yea that's absurd 😂😂😂
If the pawnshop agrees to your first valuation w/zero haggle you have asked for far too little. As soon as the pawnshop lady said ‘yea I can do that’ with no push back she should’ve left.
It bothered me as well - she frustrates the hell out of me
It’s bad enough that she’s selling family heirlooms, but the fact that she had no idea what they were even worth was brutal 😭
I'm pretty sure they were pawned, not sold.
He probably cheated on her too, it's just that there wouldn't be any kids from his form of cheating
😂😅😂😅😂😂😂😅😅😅😂
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Spot on 😂
He definitely 💯 cheated 😂😂😂
Slippery soap 🧼
She could’ve cheated 20 times if she wanted to, but why not use protection to prevent bringing a child into this mayhem?! 😡
Deez nuts
If you're on a show call 'Love After Lockup' you probably aren't the most responsible person or have the best decision making skills.
What a absolute scum ball...she should be focusing on her kid never mind a nasty jail bird who is probably innocent 😂
Planning for the future is hard. 🙃
What pisses me off is how much money these people send to the inmates. Like WTF do they do with all that money? Oh yes, give it to their side girls and boys while your ass is struggling.
Commissary, talk time, illegal contraband inside.
Heavy on the side boys 😭😂
I adopted my cousin's kids after she got out of prison. She COULD NOT get a good job after because everywhere does background checks. She went right back to her old lifestyle because she felt hopeless. It's not easy when you have a record.
I'm glad they're safe and loved with you. At least she made the best decision for her circumstances. I wish you all the best. I was thinking the same, it's so hard to get a job with a record, especially if you have a bad attitude which he probably does since he couldn't even behave in jail.
Look into expungement
@@kittyearsheadbands8810 my husband had his record expunged. It takes 10 years in our state. She immediately was busted selling heroin and had a high speed chase where police put out spike strips. She's been on the run for 6 years now.
Maybe don't get a record in the first place?
I've been everything but homeless in the past and I've never thought to myself "hey, maybe I should do the crimes! THAT sounds fun!"
@@blobbertmcblob4888 that is not even how it happens smh rude
This “mom” is a danger to her child and an unfit mother. That poor baby is at risk for all types of abuse and neglect. She needs to be watched closely by someone to ensure she is making sound decisions for her child. No one cares if she messed up her life, but your child cannot control their environment. She is lacking love and attention and is filling that void with who ever will give her 2 seconds out of their day. God protect that child please.
The stuff she pawned was worth thousands of dollars. It blows my mind that she didn't at least have the confidence in her own cultural items to ask for more
So rule of thumb, always google what it actually is worth. That way you know ahead of time and you don't get completely taken advantage of like she did. I just don't understand why ppl never do the research prior to selling it.
That’s not even just “silver cup” heirloom stuff. Those heirlooms are her CULTURE. I am so saddened by her choices.
This is a huge, dangerous mess!. She is making NO sense. She's basically handing off her child to a man in prison who she has NEVER met in person. In what world does this make any kind of sense! I don't care what her insecurities or issues are....someone has to look out for that child's welfare. She can't be trusted to do that. She is desperate and will do ANYTHING to have this guy in her life. I already don't see how this can work out. Her family needs to protect that child because she is not. She is dangerously delusional!
"In what world does this make any kind of sense!"
"Wahmen is nevar wrong." ~ PewDiePie
mom definitely is REACHING without regard towards her childs emotional well being
Safety n virginity neither smdh
Yeah why let them live, right? 🙄
She need to stay single
The son? Lmfao she knows her son.
Yea its scary how delusional she is having a stranger adopt her son, she supposed to be protective as a parent. That's how delusional she is its sad
She's desperate
@@LedePat very
she’s really out here thinking delulu is the solulu 😭
She is beyond delusional!! He can’t stay out of trouble in prison so how tf is he gonna be out of trouble outside of prison
THIS PART‼️
To be fair prison is a tough environment, if someone picks on you, you can’t show that you’re weak as it could mean being extorted, assaulted or life ended
Cause he’s going to become a pRoViDeR (Amanda’s voice) 😂
Jail is made for some people but not me.
This Joynono is living a fantasy life. Does she realize how hard it will be for Red to get a job? He's an enconvict and they face obstacles when trying to get a job. She wants wants possibly more than he wants to give just coming out of prison. Good luck. She sounds more desperate than in love.
Joynono is hilarious! That's what I am going to call her.
He can get general labor / warehouse jobs. It’s work that no one wants to do but if he’s willing, and wants too then yeah he won’t have that much of a hard time. Problem is that there are warehouse hoes lol
@@valenciasanchez93warehouse hos are great 😌
she's a bigger girl, and she's gorgeous face wise but let's be honest about how society views bigger people....I was 210 pounds I always said Im fat but not desperate...people think bigger folks are desperate and some might be joy is one of them
@@sanaaniz I only thought of her because of catfishing which most of these prison people do. She looks fine, but her behavior is terrible. How are you going to have a beautiful baby but don't know the father and trying to make a guy from prison you Never met adopt this little dude?
Anytime you say "provider" it feels wrong to not hear you say it in Amanda's voice 🤣
You can tell she suffers from low self esteem and is trying to buy his love. To be this desperate for a man is literally insane!!! She acts like when he comes home it'll be like a disney movie😂😂
Honestly its kinda stupid that she would cheat than be this desperate to keep him like bitch you clearly dont love this man just cut it off
She literally sold what looks like Native American heirlooms or something similar for only $500. I know her grandma is pulling her down to the grave to join her if I'm right
An upside is that if she's enrolled and wants her kid to be adopted by a non-native person, the tribal court decides whether or not the non-native can adopt them, and they look at criminal records first
I was waiting for someone to say this! Tribal rules of adoption are no joke.
@Tonya05 Right? Like, I don't think she can even use an adoption attorney who isn't in some way qualified to work in tribal law, that's a whole specialty, you have to go to several additional years of law school to practice it
@@bellahontas510 I have relatives who went through the process and they had to hire attorneys trained in it. It was a long process.
That rule applies only if the child is adopted out by two parents that are non native. A married woman can have her child adopted without any interference from the tribunal community.
Thank god
Im impatiently waiting 😂 you’re my fave reality reaction channel!!
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@@mythotsI love your videos and you’re smart for not showing your face .
I’d definitely would not show my face either.
Its criminal in itself these angry women exposing their children to men they barely know. Its damn right traumatizing, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
She really needs her child taken away IDC ANYBODY WHO IS FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE WITH A CHILD ($40,000) EAST VILLAGE INTO HIS FUTURE OR COLLEGE FUND, AND SHE SPENDS THE MONEY ON A CRIMINAL WHO SHE'S NEVER MET?!?! She is a horrible mother. Like how can you let your child live like this it's Soo disgusting, so disrespectful to call her an actual parent.
I'm in total agreement that Redd has to be a violent man. You don't spend all that time in solitary for small things. It's usually for violent interactions with other prisoners and prison staff.
I feel so bad for this kid, this woman is setting him up for a lifetime of pain and all because she has issues. This is why not everyone should be parents. if you can't put your kids before you, which is your responsibility as a parent, dont have kids.
Darwin award winning mental case ...someone has to eat the strange leaves to know what they do to you.
💯%‼️and the child is in danger‼️
I'm honestly so worried for her Son's future.... THIS is the type of mother that puts her child in danger. She's extremely naive and clearly doesn't have much guidence in her life. The fact that her sister even ALLOWED her to sell family heirlooms tells me a lot.
These women who want to be with inmates they never met is just insane to me. Putting kids in harms way by allowing these criminals around them is another story. Women like this shouldn't be mothers. My mom chose a drug addict bf over me and my 2 siblings. She moved him in a week after meeting him. The worst decision she could have ever make. My mom and brother ended up becoming drug addicts because of her bad decision. Me and my sister got out in time. My brother was the youngest one so he didnt have a choice. He was only 9 or 10 years old at the time. Moms bf recently passed away but they are still addicts. I learned from her mistakes. Every choice we make effects our children so make wise decisions and be careful who you bring around your kids
He can’t even stay out of prison - in prison 🤔
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Omg if i were her sister- id buy that stuff off her and never let her see it again
She's the type to throw out her child in the literal trash for a man. A man who causes more issues and pain than the child at that
Shes living in fantasy land because of her insecurities. She said she only does one night stands likely cause she accepts random guys who gives her attention. The fact that hes her only relationship at 29 shows this too. So yea because she yearns for something so much she is making him into this fantasy perfect guy in her head. He likely fed into that too for money. Theres almost a 100% chance hes using her.
Anotjer show I've NEVER watched, and have no plans to... BUT I'm here for Po. Her tea is just the BESTEST!! 😅
The fact that the tv producers just sat there and let her sell her air looms (don’t interfere with wildlife documentary style) explains the heartlessness of it all 😂
You really think they wouldve been able to talk her out of it? This isn't their fault, this woman is dysfunctional, delusional, and just plain dumb. Their aint no helping that. So you might as well document it. 🤷♀️
It’s heirlooms
Not their responsibility to baby an adult. Were they suppose to stop her from sleeping w all these random azzz men too?!?!!
Why would they say anything though? The sister should have bought them from her if they were that special.
@@Cynthiaa.c541 exactly
I literally cannot wait for this 😭
She has zero redeeming qualities zero..smh I feel sorry 4 that kid
We're definitely going to see that kid in the newspapers. I'm terrified for him
So many terrible coping habits from obviously bad home environments, which now she's inflicting on her child. She needs to file for child support from whatever person that fathered this kid, get herself into a vocational program or college & just focus on the kid she's responsible for bringing into the world. I've read 35-65% of inmates reoffend within four years, you cannot rely on a person you've never even met to give you the family you're so desperate for, you need to make it yourself.
"Delulu is not the selulu" needs to be added to the bible
“JoyNoNo” too 🤣
And thou should get on birth control if thou sleeps with multiple randos.
No man could ever make me harm my child, neglect my child, keep them in a dangerous situation, and definitely isn't taking my kid's money. She isn't a mum, she's a pick me ass B and I'm legit scared for the kid. She seems like the type of person to let a man hurt her kid to keep them.
These situations are always difficult for me to understand. She's so desperate for companionship and he is so willing to take advantage of her. If he was really serious about being a family he would tell her to put money in escrow so when he gets out they can get a place to stay. Seriously, what does he need all that money for in prison. Also his behavior is showing that he's not going to change.
It brings tears to my eyes how some people can be so lenient with their children’s care. Who’s watching them. How they’re being treated. So many things. Kids deserve so much better so much of the time.
Sometimes delulu is not the solulu😅joynomi ,like how does a mother not know who the father is
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If dude can’t even stay out of trouble in prison how does she expect him to act right when he’s out? Riiiight, he’s gonna be behaving even better without supervision! 🙄
Bad mom bells goin off 🔔
The idea that she would put her son in the protection of a potential psychopath is so disturbing. Poor little guy 😢
JoyHoHo is definitely a narcissist! Even when admitting to doing something wrong, she manages to blame someone else AND expect to be able to coerce someone into siding with her! 😡
JoyHoHo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@allyg5767 😁
The mom is my favorite person from this storyline so far. She’s actually got some good points!
i felt like crying when i saw the grandmothers blanket’s so beautifully folded 😳🥺
This world is just sad.
I literally love po's commentary 😂 I'm constantly checking for new videos whenever I'm in a bad mood or feeling down I just watch my thots and my whole mood changes
Never watched this programme but been absolutely loving your 90 day content so I'm so here for this craziness!! ❤❤
This infuriates me as a MOTHER. I don’t care if we have been together one million years you will not adopt my child because you have nothing in them for one and two, I’m not going to do that custody shit either. That is MY child…..
this woman is freaking crazy and I feel bad for her son. And it’s honestly surprising that the court wouldn’t require the father to be notified first
I think the biological father also deserves to know that he has a kid,
She doesn’t know the details tho 😮
Yay....more Po! I'm here for anything you decide to cover!
omg.. Those are Heirlooms........ Native American heirlooms her ancestors kept preciously and passed to her grandma, to her. That is insane. Just for 500. my heart hurt
I like Red’s Mom. Respectful of Joyno even WHEN she finds out more details about her cheating 💀
She doesn't want to mess up his money supply.😂
I can’t stand the part where she blames Red for her cheating. She’s got ZERO accountability.🙄
I'm from New Mexico. This is so Farmington, where she's from. And o.m.g. those heirlooms. omg. The design on the ring, the blanket designs and being in such good condition *was probably hung somewhere*, the turquoise in the necklace, and they're from her Grandma? They're all VERY Navajo looking items which is the main Native group here and turquoise is either meaningless or SUPER SUPER serious to Navajo people. Being her GRANDMA'S, omg, I just assume they were important. Those 10000% were Grandma's priceless-very valuable possessions. I can't believe she PAWNED them. That hurt to see and hear she spent what, 40k on dude but pawns Grandma's things. This hurt
I love how you brought up the eyebrows 😂 it’s a thing in Farmington
Just curios, are people generally this big in Farmington?
@@echidnaspikes8563😂😂 yes obesity is rampant in the Farmington area
So since all of her partners were one night stands, and she doesn’t know who the father is, she was getting ran thru back to back 😭😭😭
Honestly, Im surprised her sister didnt offer to buy the heirlooms from her. If one of my siblings was pawning their heirlooms I would definately offer the cash instead to keep it in the family. Plus, if they come to their senses they could buy it back from me so they dont regret it for the rest of their life.
She doesn't seem to have trouble finding money for food.
you know what i love the most about this recap....the amount of laughing Po did......such a cute laugh....made me feel all warm and fuzzy and definitely put a smile on my face. thankyou as always @mythots ❤❤❤
Tbh I don’t blame anyone who cheats in a relationship with someone in jail if they’ve never met in person. I mean there are so many restrictions on jail relationships I can see why someone would want multiple relationships.
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500??? I'm screaming! You know damn well the fabric (I couldn't see which type of garment is) was handwoven being from her grandma's time that alone is worth a looot
It's really not worth a lot it just has sentimental value
Your commentary on these episodes is the best! 😂👏🏽👏🏽💖 Just what I needed today!
I cant hear you say “provider” without hearing your Amanda voice 😂
When she sold her family's heirlooms, I felt such a deep disgust for her. I hope she gets hers. In spades.
No loyalty he’s definitely going to leave her when he gets out. He’s going to use her as a stepping stone.
You want a guy whose has been in prison for the last decade to raise your kid ...... What do you think he's learning in prison and what habits he's picking up . Sigh
Her poor son could have his college fund saved up for 40k or even send him to private school for a better education, or tutoring. So much could be used for her child.
Omg I’m so glad you’re covering love after lock up 🥰🥰
This is one of the few shows my husband and I watch live. It's so dumb that it gives us joy.
So happy love after lockup is back, love you Po
I love how you di it by couple, its hard to keep up with when there are so many couples being covered per episode. This is so much smoother! I only watch recaps on this latest season, but this was definitely my favorite style.
Oh I'm excited you're doing this show! My sister watches all of these shows but I only watch the commentary from you and a few other channels so it's hilarious when we talk about it
Girl I’ve never seen this show but your commentary is hilarious. You have a new fan 😂
Yayy love after lock up is next
I keep wondering if you ever consider doing these show... I'm here for it
His simply in need of commissary and when he gets out she will be in for a rude awakening. 😂
The way I would’ve fought my sister, in public, if she tried to sell off family heirlooms. Native American handmade heirlooms on top of that?!?!?! Oh hellllll no. There has to be some kind of bad energy gained by that.
It always irks my nerves when someone says they’ve been “dating” someone in prison. You’ve been talking on the phone and possibly visiting every now and then. That’s far from “dating”.
I love it Everytime you post- having a rough day but here you are! Thank you
Also I do hope the love after lockup recaps keep coming if that's possible!😊
Being from New Mexico,This is THE MOST New Mexico sh** I've ever seen PO react too, I'm dead. Side note the eyebrows are too real, can confirm 80% of brows are looking like theirs if you were wondering haha
Oh my😂joynomi not the heirlooms 😂
Not the heirlooms.
GIRL!
Her family must be sick of her cuz if I found out my sibling was selling priceless family heirlooms I'd snatch them back so fast.
From his perceptive he has to get out of prison after ten years and get married to someone he’s never met who cheated on him multiple times and spawned a baby out of nowhere that he has to take care of 😭
I cannot believe she pawned her families stuff to pawn. What the actual fck
He's definitely using her....I just watched the latest... it gets worse....
Oh no 😢
I need to google what these people get paid to be on these crazy shows. They all come off as nuts while the networks make mad money off of their humiliation.
Honestly there is nothing you can do when an adult wants to do something. You can try to talk sense into them but that’s it and it really works if their mind is set. Her sister probably just want to keep a good relationship with her.