Yes! U so right … I don’t have contact with my father since years and if my partner would force me to meet him - I’d break up …. It would show me that he never listened to me and doesn’t take me for real
Ty mfs dont know how it feels he might of had a chance a few years down the line to forgive& love his mom but to be forced to & on camera is wack & weird & weak asf
you never force someone to face somebody who literally caused them trauma. especially a person who was abandoned by their own MOTHER. hopefully, his mother will use this opportunity to make it up to her son.
I don’t know if you guys can help me out with this. I have a sibling who would not leave me alone. I actually had to post the voicemail. She leaves me and this is been going on since 2011. She finally admitted to me that she’s sorry and she lied about everything. She did not know my dad was on the phone with everything. She lied about he disown Point. Oh, I’m just tired. I’m pretty sure people can understand what that means I don’t do. on top of everything. My brother attacked me and caused me to have a miscarriage. I’m 42 PCOS and because of the trauma fibroids do I just die slowly sue for everything
po is on the money about that indicating that she herself has some degree of alcoholism. that's a big enough reason for anyone who doesn't have a drinking problem to just not have alcohol at home and not drinking with that person. ESPECIALLY at first, to approach the issue with caution.
Has Zuriah ever heard of baby steps? Maybe meeting his mom for 5 minutes in the lobby of her hotel. Then lunch another day. Jeez, she was so out of line
Or let's break it down even further and maybe have an actual conversation with him and respect him enough to even ask if that is something he would like to try approaching in the first place. Just setting it up behind his back like that is disgusting and how long has she been talking to this woman behind his back? How is he supposed to trust her after this?
Zuriah is an absolute monster. I have PTSD due to family trauma and went no-contact over twenty years ago. If my partner just ambushed me with a family meeting, I would leave them. That day. No apologies accepted, no second chances. Done.
It makes me angry when "people" say but that's your mother ,father etc.. you should respect them. Um, no...if they are hitty people then they should be treated as such ,not like royalty. Grrr
@@ingood0867absolutely, people don’t get that for us to go no contact with our own mom/dad means that they were so abusive that we had no other choice. Not that we are doing it for drama but that it’s mental/physical survival.
His mother didn’t do anything wrong. Some people can’t take care of children and she knows it. That’s why clearly she did what she did. I mean, do we even how old was the mother when she had him? Your situation is different than his.
My mother was abusive if some dude arranged a meeting and especially if she was "going to spend the night" I would ghost him and block his number. Him and my mom can hang out without me getting in their way 😂
Being abusive and abandoning your kids isn’t the same thing. Your mother should’ve abandoned you so good people who can’t have kids would’ve choose you and you wouldn’t get abused and get traumatized. Some people can’t take care of children. Unfortunately, some people know that after they have them because people tell them to have kids because kids are blessing but they don’t tell them about their big responsibility. His mom said it, alcohol is a problem.
Being abusive and abandoning your kids isn’t the same thing. Your mother should’ve abandoned you so good people who can’t have kids would’ve choose you and you wouldn’t get abused and get traumatized. Some people can’t take care of children. Unfortunately, some people know that after they have them because people tell them to have kids because kids are blessing but they don’t tell them about their big responsibility. His mom said it, alcohol is a problem.
As someone who has been no-contact with one of my parents for over a decade, it would 100% be the end of the relationship if my significant other arranged for me to spend time with that parent.
Facts. My dad dropped my brother and I at the park with our bikes and never came back. Luckily it was our neighborhood park so my brother guided us home after it got to be dark, but I'll never forget it. He always did questionable stuff and now that we're in our late 20s, he wonders why I personally never call or see him. My brother has a more forgiving heart.
I was wondering if anyone else clocked that. You can barely take care of yourself at 15/hr. I say if shes going to get herself into a toxic af situationship, at least go find a sugar daddy lol
@elaynapaigee8236 orrrr at least let the children go and stay with their respective side of the families. These toxic relationships she's putting herself into won't just hurt her, it'll hurt her children as well.
Zuriah trying to force him to forgive is manipulative and gross. As someone who had to go no contact with an abusive and neglectful mom I would have broken up with Zuriah on the spot. That is such a huge red flag.
I had the exact same thing happen to me when I was a baby that Troy's mom did to him. My biological mother is dead but if she wasn't and my partner took it upon herself to get her back into my life I would be so pissed. Just because you give birth to someone doesn't make you their mom and they don't owe you a relationship if you fail to be a parent.
True played in her face. The fact that he tried to gaslight her is pathetic. Troy had every right to get mad but seeing his mom high on edibles in church was priceless 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Edit: thank you all for the kind words. my dog is not missing she’s in a better place now. I wouldn’t be on UA-cam if she was out lost somewhere Po my dog left me today and I have been crying and sad for hours. I was looking forward to a video from you to distract me. Thank you 💗
My dad used to make promises he never would keep, and it hurt me tremendously, so I always made it a point to never promise my kids something I know I cant follow through.
And holy hell, we’re all dumb about something at 23 but that child should have warning labels. She is NOT going to enjoy the learning curve she’s careening towards.
@@corinatralala2556it can come in through dirty staff, drone drops over the fence, civilians throwing it over the fence, visitors sneaking it in through food, baby diapers, bodily canals, they can make drugs in house with chemicals like bug spray or paint, making alcohol in house with fermented fruits. it’s lots of ways lol.
@@HoneyflowerNectarMoon I mean it’s obvious. Corruption and ability to make sooo much money. It’s clearly the same people that are supposed to keep it out and confiscate that provide it at a MUCH higher cost. Remember Lizzie had like close to 1 million dollars from many tricks in prison but spent it all on drugs and items she shouldn’t have in prison. Well if you have the money, you can def get stuff. Also hand sanitizer and mouth wash is what I heard destiny used to get drunk in prison. Also private prisons make it even easier to get drugs and stuff they shouldn’t have and turn a blind eye cus they make so much off the prisoners, it’s better to keep them happy in prison to keep them there for longer sentences for petty crime.
How to Push Someone Away 101: Getting an ABANDONED child to meet with the person who ABANDONED them. To get them to meet with a parent that NEVER loved them in the first place. It won't change anything because when that parent messes up again, the child is going to remind themselves "Oh I was right, this person isn't my mom anymore. Never was." The Mother ICED HIM out before he ever did anything to her. So how is that cruel for him to not want anything to do with her? She left him when he needed her most. Man it sucks, I almost teared up because her SON appreciates him far more than SHE WILL EVER. But hes going to be pushed away, her son is going to feel that pain. The son seemed so happy to have someone to be there for him.
I've hated every moment of True's story. It's so bad, that I think the network should not feature her verbally and physically abusive partner. Their "sex life" is upsetting, just non stop abuse.
From my own experience when you have a crappy mother I swear everyone and their momma will try to shame you for making boundaries bc “that’s your mother, she gave you life” nah. Stay strong and keep those boundaries friends. Also having unprotected sex with someone who may or may not be an iv drug user is wild. WILD.
“My own bloodline”. 😂😂😂 Why are the guys that use this term always incels that live a loser life. But, somehow think their seed is from royal lineage.😂😂😂😂
You can get drugs in prison because the profit margins are insanely high so there is an incentive to smuggle them in. You can get alcohol in prison because it can be made from random food.
Zeuriah is disrespectful and acts like his mother. She likes being in control and over stepping boundaries. Ask yourselves why she couldn't find a guy who isn't a felon?
As someone who was also abandoned by their mom… that’s sooooo not okay. If someone forced me to be around my mom I would drop them in an instant. Nobody knows your trauma like you do and it’s not right for her to make decisions like that.
Exactly awful thing to do I think it was because they boring AF if they didn’t include the mum and other’s it’s about money and 15 minutes of fame basically she’s just a horrible selfish person
To force someone who was just released from prison and readjusting to society to meet a parent who probably indirectly attributed to their poor decision making skills and emotional trauma is crossing so many lines. Then to not allow that person to have any time to reflect and soak in said confrontational experience by inviting that parent to stay the night is absolutely insane. I understand she might have the right intentions but the execution, so close from being released, feels suffocating. I feel like she is trying to tie up all his emotional baggage in a pretty box and say "okay all of it has been addressed, you can thank me and now live normal and be indebted to me. You're welcome" "
I knew someone around Bianca's age who also dated an older former alcoholic, but one who had been sober (allegedly) for years. She *also* had alcohol at their place because she likes to drink once in a while. One day, she went to make a drink with the vodka she stored in her freezer and found it had frozen. In a completely normal freezer. Turns out, he'd been drinking it and filling it with water. Edit: Just wanted to say that he also lied about it and essentially gaslit her before eventually confessing. The lapse in self-control is forgivable in my opinion since she shouldn't have had it around him, but the lying is not. They're still together, but there's just *something* about him that bothers me, alcoholism aside.
When I was a child my mom was a drunk and let her boyfriend beat her up and us kids up. I haven't spoken to her in 7 years and I am so much more happier. I don't need to worry about her abusing or neglecting my son and I no longer have to let her manipulate me and mistreat me. If my boyfriend would have tried to force me to see my mother I would break up with them right there on the spot. Heck if my current husband tried to force me to see my mother I would divorce him. People don't understand the abuse I endured all because they had happy relationships with their mothers.
Narcissistic ab*se is very difficult to break away from. If my partner tried to force me to spend time with my evil mother, I'd refuse and consider breaking up if they ignore my boundaries.
This massage therapist also says they're fab! The muscles control so much movement and stability so getting them to relax makes the whole body relaxed.
Anyone hates that. It would be an instant dumb and ghost if someone tried to force my mother into my life because they would literally be saying by their actions "I don't care about your mental health or safety, and I believe your judgement is wrong in the whole 5 minutes I knew you so I took it apon my ignorant and abusive self to try harm you again!." The relationship would be instantly over.
My boyfriend walked in to me getting to do my makeup and watch your video and you were doing your intro and he was like Him: "are you watching...a talking chicken nugget?! Now I've seen everything!" I burst out laughing so hard and corrected him and said no this is Po, she is a potato and she does commentary on drama llama shows (what I nickname reality tv) thought I'd share, love you Po!
Lord have mercy shontay leave this dude already!!! He’s wearing all those new clothes shoes and chains she bought him but he just wants to “go with the flow”!?!?!? Dude let that idiot go and let him get his karma. Don’t you dare bring him to your home with your children!!!!!!!!!!
Forcing your partner to face somebody who caused them trauma is SO DISGUSTING!!! i honestly wish he would have said "if you dont call my mother and cancelz its over with" and then walked out bc how GROSS. somebody recebtly told me "but hes your father" when i told them id care less of my father was dead. I told him "no, hes a pedophile snd almost ruined my life" and this mans face went ghost white. Its rude and gross and disrespectful
She should have never invited his mom who abandoned him. If he wants to work on his relationship with her that's on him. The whole thing was a mess. So she got what she deserved! Maybe next time she'll mind her business or talk to him first!
7:10 omfg my jaw is oh my God just hitting the floor. I'm not moving. I'm like 00 my God this is horrible. I feel so bad for her. Why the hell is she going through this? Fuck this guy?
hi po! Im recovering from major knee surgery and have been extremely weak lately, thank you for your videos they bring me entertainment and lots of joy and laughs ☺️
Zeruiah is so disrespectful and selfish. This type of people who cannot understand that others haven’t had the same conditions and families growing up just irritate me. She was the “outcast” (for not singing lol) in the family and now thinks that every family problem everybody has is at the same proportion as her. She wants to be the one who “saves him” and “reconnects him with his mother” not knowing she’s doing the exact same thing society did to him, shut him out. I hope he finesses her and leaves honestly this is so bad i’m livid.
I'm very glad and also sad to be surrounded by so many others who survived and grew such maturity after being abused. I recently went no contact with my bad mom and I'm struggling through the process. Yall are good inspiration
Nah, I’d never be involved with a shitty parent like that. Better be lucky he was gracious enough to agree because I would’ve been out. As a partner, if you loved them, you wouldn’t allow that trauma to introduce itself. Funny how mom is back in the picture when he’s on TV.
Poor naiive bianca. She doesn't understand that money was to make her whole. For examples later in life the injury might cause problems and that money would help with future medical expenses. Young and dumb. Its quite sad
Alcohol really does cause denial. How unsympathetic and selfish can you be that you can’t even stop drinking to support someone that just lost their freedom because of alcohol.
That story is full of bad decisions. She’s a child. I agree with Po, she’s gonna blow through that money the minute Daniel is out. Especially if he begins using, which he will, because she’s not going to offer a home environment that promotes sobriety. If she couldn’t tell that her friend was drunk before this accident a year ago, how’s she gonna know Daniel is clean! I’m still tryna figure out how she thought she could assign him a time to call her when he’s in PRISON. Then get mad at him for not being there for her driving back to the accident site ALONE when her friend told her not to go there by herself. Yep. Child.
She was all for troy getting to see his mama UNTIL his mama kept bringing up the baby mama, then she put him out the bed smh. Troy going either end up back in jail, or leaving her.
I worked for a bank 8 years ago. There are 2 customers that stick out all these years later because they ran through settlements within 2 years of receiving it. Both were young males and well over $100k!
Prisoners will make their own alcohol and sadly you can get other drugs too. I used to work in a prison and I was always amazed at how creative inmates can be when they want to get their fix.
When they’re same sex for three hours I don’t feel like they’re actually having sex for three hours. I think it’s just continuous rounds with little mini breaks in between because I do that.
Wow that first chick is controlling disgusting disrespectful manipulative and untrustworthy. I would have turned around and went right back into jail if I came out to a woman like that. How dare she force him into all these things without even bothering to see how he feels. Or even worse knowing how he feels and not caring about it because she's got her own agenda. Disgusting
As a recovering alcoholic people don’t realise how easily you can be triggered just scrolling on TikTok and seeing a stranger out drinking can lead to a spiral, so yeah your significant other drinking in front of you once you’re freshly sober is a horrrrible idea and he will 100% relapse
She told him we gotta pick your mother up in syracuse while they're in a hotel in syracuse, because behind them, it shows a picture on the wall in the hotel room, the landmark theater in syracuse.. Lol, I just think that's funny. I'm from syracuse So I noticed that s*** real quick.
Aww ! I feel the same way about not keeping promises to kids . My sis is 11 years younger than me and I wasn’t as kind to her as I should have been . I’ve always regretted it. One night when I was in my 20’s , I came over and knocked on her door bawling and apologizing cuz I remembered it. But she didn’t remember it . All she remembered was the times I took her swimming and did fun things with her . Whew 😅. Always keep promises to kids tho . Many adults broke promises to me as a kid and I still remember it at 47 🤣. But now I understand why they didn’t keep the promises cuz they were tired from working/ adulting 🤣
Imagine using your second chance in life to date a felon that is guilty of committing the same crime that almost killed you.
Airhead energy
My head hurts trying to figure that logic out
😂😂😂
Then saying you can’t and won’t stop drinking!!! Something tells me she knew her friend was drunk just like she was!!!
👋 I can do more than imagine 😅
In addiction that's literally the script.
Forcing someone to face their abuser is unacceptable boundary crossing.
It's another form of abuse and it's heart breaking to see. She communicated that Troy's feelings mean nothing
Yes! U so right … I don’t have contact with my father since years and if my partner would force me to meet him - I’d break up …. It would show me that he never listened to me and doesn’t take me for real
Ty mfs dont know how it feels he might of had a chance a few years down the line to forgive& love his mom but to be forced to & on camera is wack & weird & weak asf
@@TaePooks agreed its super cringe behavior.
@@pollette8582 Im so sorry you experienced that, I hope youre healing now 🙏🏼
you never force someone to face somebody who literally caused them trauma. especially a person who was abandoned by their own MOTHER. hopefully, his mother will use this opportunity to make it up to her son.
He should have never come to pick her up and then called and said, "See what that's like?"
I'm sure she meant well but it was definitely disrespectful and just not very mindful. Like why did she think that was a good idea at all...?
@@MimiRAM0NE 🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know if you guys can help me out with this. I have a sibling who would not leave me alone. I actually had to post the voicemail. She leaves me and this is been going on since 2011. She finally admitted to me that she’s sorry and she lied about everything. She did not know my dad was on the phone with everything. She lied about he disown Point. Oh, I’m just tired. I’m pretty sure people can understand what that means I don’t do. on top of everything. My brother attacked me and caused me to have a miscarriage. I’m 42 PCOS and because of the trauma fibroids do I just die slowly sue for everything
@@MimiRAM0NEthat would have been perfect 💯💯😂
I agree that Troy should not be forced to see his mom. I'm sure he's very traumatized by being abandoned!!!!!!
@smaugkat exactly..momma might want to join the reality show only?
That is so inconsiderate and gross that that girl is still going to have alcohol IN THE HOUSE with her newly-sober bf.
These people are crazy.
@@basicallyno1722😂 yes they are!
Dudes gonna use her for all her money & use the booze as a way out of the relationship.
Just bc you messed YOUR life up with it, won't mean I'm gonna stop doing it, though I'd have it hidden/locken up
po is on the money about that indicating that she herself has some degree of alcoholism. that's a big enough reason for anyone who doesn't have a drinking problem to just not have alcohol at home and not drinking with that person. ESPECIALLY at first, to approach the issue with caution.
Has Zuriah ever heard of baby steps? Maybe meeting his mom for 5 minutes in the lobby of her hotel. Then lunch another day. Jeez, she was so out of line
Or let's break it down even further and maybe have an actual conversation with him and respect him enough to even ask if that is something he would like to try approaching in the first place. Just setting it up behind his back like that is disgusting and how long has she been talking to this woman behind his back? How is he supposed to trust her after this?
@@troubleinthevalley5884 🎯
Zuriah is an absolute monster. I have PTSD due to family trauma and went no-contact over twenty years ago. If my partner just ambushed me with a family meeting, I would leave them. That day. No apologies accepted, no second chances. Done.
I honestly feel so triggred by the very idea of that happening.
It makes me angry when "people" say but that's your mother ,father etc.. you should respect them. Um, no...if they are hitty people then they should be treated as such ,not like royalty. Grrr
@@ingood0867absolutely, people don’t get that for us to go no contact with our own mom/dad means that they were so abusive that we had no other choice. Not that we are doing it for drama but that it’s mental/physical survival.
Same. Thats THE hard limit.
His mother didn’t do anything wrong.
Some people can’t take care of children and she knows it.
That’s why clearly she did what she did. I mean, do we even how old was the mother when she had him?
Your situation is different than his.
My mother was abusive if some dude arranged a meeting and especially if she was "going to spend the night" I would ghost him and block his number. Him and my mom can hang out without me getting in their way 😂
That part. Toooodles to ya both, forever 😂
Yes this is so far over the line that its emotional abuse.
She is terrible for doing this to him!!!
This same chick will tell him any legitimate problem he has with her is just his mommy issues. She will use this to lack accountability.
Being abusive and abandoning your kids isn’t the same thing.
Your mother should’ve abandoned you so good people who can’t have kids would’ve choose you and you wouldn’t get abused and get traumatized.
Some people can’t take care of children. Unfortunately, some people know that after they have them because people tell them to have kids because kids are blessing but they don’t tell them about their big responsibility.
His mom said it, alcohol is a problem.
Being abusive and abandoning your kids isn’t the same thing.
Your mother should’ve abandoned you so good people who can’t have kids would’ve choose you and you wouldn’t get abused and get traumatized.
Some people can’t take care of children. Unfortunately, some people know that after they have them because people tell them to have kids because kids are blessing but they don’t tell them about their big responsibility.
His mom said it, alcohol is a problem.
All these folks not using protection is scary af
And quite disgusting
Never brag to a criminal that you have money…. It’s like hanging a sign around your neck that reads “steal or rob from me”
As someone who has been no-contact with one of my parents for over a decade, it would 100% be the end of the relationship if my significant other arranged for me to spend time with that parent.
right?? i would never speak to them again.
I have been thinking of going no-contact with my mom (my dad passed away almost 3 years ago)...you were so brave! I am not strong enough
Completely agree
I dont see how dropping your child off at a friends house and never returning makes you a mother at all. That's biology, not family.
Preach👏👏
Facts. My dad dropped my brother and I at the park with our bikes and never came back. Luckily it was our neighborhood park so my brother guided us home after it got to be dark, but I'll never forget it. He always did questionable stuff and now that we're in our late 20s, he wonders why I personally never call or see him. My brother has a more forgiving heart.
If she couldn’t take care of him then she is a good mother.
Some adoptive people are good people and are financially stable.
If she couldn’t take care of him then she is a good mother.
Some adoptive people are good people and are financially stable.
If she couldn’t take care of him then she is a good mother.
Some adoptive people are good people and are financially stable.
"How do people get drugs and alcohol in prison?"
I have bad news for you about how much crime prison guards commit lol.
In a guards pocket or up an incoming prisoners asshole.
@@hospitable_ghost but... they're dressed like cops and have state authoritah D:
Literally- often worse than inmates because they’ve not been caught. Smh
@Beefer-e4j oh they've been caught. The person catching them turns a blind eye for one reason or another 😮💨
Ms. Ma'am is out here trying to raise two boys on $15/hourly??? With a man who has a felony on his record?? Good Lord
I was wondering if anyone else clocked that. You can barely take care of yourself at 15/hr. I say if shes going to get herself into a toxic af situationship, at least go find a sugar daddy lol
@elaynapaigee8236 orrrr at least let the children go and stay with their respective side of the families. These toxic relationships she's putting herself into won't just hurt her, it'll hurt her children as well.
Zuriah trying to force him to forgive is manipulative and gross. As someone who had to go no contact with an abusive and neglectful mom I would have broken up with Zuriah on the spot. That is such a huge red flag.
She got her karma quick though! 😂that mom talked so bad about the child’s mom and made Zoriah feel horrible listening to the mother instigate issues.
I had the exact same thing happen to me when I was a baby that Troy's mom did to him. My biological mother is dead but if she wasn't and my partner took it upon herself to get her back into my life I would be so pissed. Just because you give birth to someone doesn't make you their mom and they don't owe you a relationship if you fail to be a parent.
I completely agree about Troy not wanting to see or speak to his mother, she abandoned him. And His wife forcing a relationship with her is wrong.
People think that because someone is family it should trump all past mistakes. Those people clearly haven't dealt with I'll wanted family.
Facts
True played in her face. The fact that he tried to gaslight her is pathetic. Troy had every right to get mad but seeing his mom high on edibles in church was priceless 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Troy’s mom looks like she consumes all manner of edibles
You need to see the next episode my boi
What episode was she high on edibles in church?
@@haileyparker2003 literally the next episode
the fortune teller shudve told her this relationship won't work BECAUSE OF HER
Honestly 😭
If someone did to me what Zuriah did to Troy, it would be over. Very very disrespectful.
Edit: thank you all for the kind words. my dog is not missing she’s in a better place now. I wouldn’t be on UA-cam if she was out lost somewhere
Po my dog left me today and I have been crying and sad for hours. I was looking forward to a video from you to distract me. Thank you 💗
Have you put up signs yet???
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dog. Your precious dog is resting now. I feel your sadness.
Hope you find him..❤
hoping your dog comes back soon ❤
English is not my first language so I might have worded that wrong. She is not lost she’s in a better place now 😢
“Raw is Law“ OMG 😂😂
GgggRrooosssssss
My dad used to make promises he never would keep, and it hurt me tremendously, so I always made it a point to never promise my kids something I know I cant follow through.
Troy had a line drawn with his mom and Zeruiah FOUND IT. 😢
And holy hell, we’re all dumb about something at 23 but that child should have warning labels. She is NOT going to enjoy the learning curve she’s careening towards.
It’s funny how dead beat parents decide to pop up when theirs a TV crew around! 😂
No one tell Po how drugs get into prison. Let this innocent woman live unbothered
I am wondering as well haha
@@corinatralala2556it can come in through dirty staff, drone drops over the fence, civilians throwing it over the fence, visitors sneaking it in through food, baby diapers, bodily canals, they can make drugs in house with chemicals like bug spray or paint, making alcohol in house with fermented fruits. it’s lots of ways lol.
@@corinatralala2556prison guards and some times loved ones of inmates will sneak stuff in
Shiiiit let me stay unbothered too because I don't know either lol
@@HoneyflowerNectarMoon I mean it’s obvious. Corruption and ability to make sooo much money. It’s clearly the same people that are supposed to keep it out and confiscate that provide it at a MUCH higher cost. Remember Lizzie had like close to 1 million dollars from many tricks in prison but spent it all on drugs and items she shouldn’t have in prison. Well if you have the money, you can def get stuff. Also hand sanitizer and mouth wash is what I heard destiny used to get drunk in prison. Also private prisons make it even easier to get drugs and stuff they shouldn’t have and turn a blind eye cus they make so much off the prisoners, it’s better to keep them happy in prison to keep them there for longer sentences for petty crime.
Children are precious and have incredible memory
“Go with the flow” would have sent me over the edge 😂
😂😂😂 i can't with the voices in the clips, im dead
How to Push Someone Away 101: Getting an ABANDONED child to meet with the person who ABANDONED them. To get them to meet with a parent that NEVER loved them in the first place. It won't change anything because when that parent messes up again, the child is going to remind themselves "Oh I was right, this person isn't my mom anymore. Never was."
The Mother ICED HIM out before he ever did anything to her. So how is that cruel for him to not want anything to do with her? She left him when he needed her most.
Man it sucks, I almost teared up because her SON appreciates him far more than SHE WILL EVER. But hes going to be pushed away, her son is going to feel that pain. The son seemed so happy to have someone to be there for him.
I've hated every moment of True's story. It's so bad, that I think the network should not feature her verbally and physically abusive partner. Their "sex life" is upsetting, just non stop abuse.
same, this is disgusting
From my own experience when you have a crappy mother I swear everyone and their momma will try to shame you for making boundaries bc “that’s your mother, she gave you life” nah. Stay strong and keep those boundaries friends.
Also having unprotected sex with someone who may or may not be an iv drug user is wild. WILD.
“My own bloodline”. 😂😂😂
Why are the guys that use this term always incels that live a loser life. But, somehow think their seed is from royal lineage.😂😂😂😂
"It's your mother"
But she didn't do mother things, soooooooo......
You can get drugs in prison because the profit margins are insanely high so there is an incentive to smuggle them in. You can get alcohol in prison because it can be made from random food.
Not the raw is law law 😭✋🏼
14:00 Been there, I will NEVER get involved with a drinker again. I thought because he was in AA and attending church that he had reformed. Nope!
Zeuriah is disrespectful and acts like his mother. She likes being in control and over stepping boundaries. Ask yourselves why she couldn't find a guy who isn't a felon?
As someone who was also abandoned by their mom… that’s sooooo not okay. If someone forced me to be around my mom I would drop them in an instant. Nobody knows your trauma like you do and it’s not right for her to make decisions like that.
Exactly awful thing to do I think it was because they boring AF if they didn’t include the mum and other’s it’s about money and 15 minutes of fame basically she’s just a horrible selfish person
To force someone who was just released from prison and readjusting to society to meet a parent who probably indirectly attributed to their poor decision making skills and emotional trauma is crossing so many lines.
Then to not allow that person to have any time to reflect and soak in said confrontational experience by inviting that parent to stay the night is absolutely insane.
I understand she might have the right intentions but the execution, so close from being released, feels suffocating.
I feel like she is trying to tie up all his emotional baggage in a pretty box and say "okay all of it has been addressed, you can thank me and now live normal and be indebted to me. You're welcome" "
I knew someone around Bianca's age who also dated an older former alcoholic, but one who had been sober (allegedly) for years. She *also* had alcohol at their place because she likes to drink once in a while.
One day, she went to make a drink with the vodka she stored in her freezer and found it had frozen. In a completely normal freezer.
Turns out, he'd been drinking it and filling it with water.
Edit: Just wanted to say that he also lied about it and essentially gaslit her before eventually confessing. The lapse in self-control is forgivable in my opinion since she shouldn't have had it around him, but the lying is not.
They're still together, but there's just *something* about him that bothers me, alcoholism aside.
Anytime you say “provider” regularly it feels wrong
When I was a child my mom was a drunk and let her boyfriend beat her up and us kids up. I haven't spoken to her in 7 years and I am so much more happier. I don't need to worry about her abusing or neglecting my son and I no longer have to let her manipulate me and mistreat me. If my boyfriend would have tried to force me to see my mother I would break up with them right there on the spot. Heck if my current husband tried to force me to see my mother I would divorce him. People don't understand the abuse I endured all because they had happy relationships with their mothers.
Anytime I am feeling a little down about my very boring life, I watch these and suddenly I feel great about my boring little life, lol.
Ikr
Hahahahah same
Exactly 😂😂
5min ago WAT!? I just got off work AND got my snackies. Perfect timing!!!
Forcing the mom on Troy was flat-out abusive. Zarudiah is terrible.
that child talking about how she was going to drink around her addict jail boyfriend was so triggering. she must be like, just out of high-school
That poor guy. Has no control of anything going on in his life. And just wait the chaos that the mom creates
I don’t know why she forcing him to see his mother when she knew what she did to him that’s so disrespectful!!
She's taking RuPaul too literally. Chante don't stay!
𝐼'𝑀 𝐷𝐸𝐴𝐷.🕊😂
Hahahahaha love this
Narcissistic ab*se is very difficult to break away from. If my partner tried to force me to spend time with my evil mother, I'd refuse and consider breaking up if they ignore my boundaries.
Therapist here....glute massages are the best! And we don't get all up in anything😂 fab show as usual💙
This massage therapist also says they're fab! The muscles control so much movement and stability so getting them to relax makes the whole body relaxed.
I found about you like 4 days ago and been binging your vids ever since
Damn his mom is worse than the dad that goes out to grab cigarettes lol
She shouldn’t have imposed herself. Men definitely hate that.
Anyone hates that. It would be an instant dumb and ghost if someone tried to force my mother into my life because they would literally be saying by their actions "I don't care about your mental health or safety, and I believe your judgement is wrong in the whole 5 minutes I knew you so I took it apon my ignorant and abusive self to try harm you again!." The relationship would be instantly over.
Wine and beer can actually be made in jail, and drugs, can be smuggled in. Tobacco also.
He needs to drop Zuriah ASAP. She is not a good woman.
Omg I knew Latisha was lying about his release!! That’s crazy to hear it from you though! So glad you found that out 🎉
My boyfriend walked in to me getting to do my makeup and watch your video and you were doing your intro and he was like
Him: "are you watching...a talking chicken nugget?! Now I've seen everything!"
I burst out laughing so hard and corrected him and said no this is Po, she is a potato and she does commentary on drama llama shows (what I nickname reality tv) thought I'd share, love you Po!
Lord have mercy shontay leave this dude already!!! He’s wearing all those new clothes shoes and chains she bought him but he just wants to “go with the flow”!?!?!? Dude let that idiot go and let him get his karma. Don’t you dare bring him to your home with your children!!!!!!!!!!
Sad to say she's still with him and pregnant. Smh
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Good luck with your move! Hoping everything goes smoothly - we’ll be here when you come back
Forcing your partner to face somebody who caused them trauma is SO DISGUSTING!!! i honestly wish he would have said "if you dont call my mother and cancelz its over with" and then walked out bc how GROSS. somebody recebtly told me "but hes your father" when i told them id care less of my father was dead. I told him "no, hes a pedophile snd almost ruined my life" and this mans face went ghost white. Its rude and gross and disrespectful
She should have never invited his mom who abandoned him. If he wants to work on his relationship with her that's on him. The whole thing was a mess. So she got what she deserved! Maybe next time she'll mind her business or talk to him first!
7:10 omfg my jaw is oh my God just hitting the floor. I'm not moving. I'm like 00 my God this is horrible. I feel so bad for her. Why the hell is she going through this? Fuck this guy?
hi po! Im recovering from major knee surgery and have been extremely weak lately, thank you for your videos they bring me entertainment and lots of joy and laughs ☺️
Zeruiah is so disrespectful and selfish. This type of people who cannot understand that others haven’t had the same conditions and families growing up just irritate me. She was the “outcast” (for not singing lol) in the family and now thinks that every family problem everybody has is at the same proportion as her. She wants to be the one who “saves him” and “reconnects him with his mother” not knowing she’s doing the exact same thing society did to him, shut him out. I hope he finesses her and leaves honestly this is so bad i’m livid.
I'm very glad and also sad to be surrounded by so many others who survived and grew such maturity after being abused. I recently went no contact with my bad mom and I'm struggling through the process. Yall are good inspiration
I’m sorry you’re having to go through that at all. Not everyone deals with it well but yeah, you are in no way alone. I wish you luck and happiness!
Man this show makes me feel good about being single 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ooh I have STRONG feelings about a partner inserting herself into a complex past that hard.
Hey Po, it's as easy to get drugs in prison as it is on the street - they have a little bit of everything in there
If you can’t stop drinking then you have a problem too
14:49 oh my poor sweet Po 🥺💗protect this woman at all costs!
If u really want to know: they either smuggle it in, or else they make it.. like “toilet wine” 🤢
Nah, I’d never be involved with a shitty parent like that. Better be lucky he was gracious enough to agree because I would’ve been out. As a partner, if you loved them, you wouldn’t allow that trauma to introduce itself. Funny how mom is back in the picture when he’s on TV.
Poor naiive bianca. She doesn't understand that money was to make her whole. For examples later in life the injury might cause problems and that money would help with future medical expenses. Young and dumb. Its quite sad
When he said the aren't exclusive she should have been like so I can see other men? Thank God
Hahahaha
Alcohol really does cause denial. How unsympathetic and selfish can you be that you can’t even stop drinking to support someone that just lost their freedom because of alcohol.
That story is full of bad decisions. She’s a child. I agree with Po, she’s gonna blow through that money the minute Daniel is out. Especially if he begins using, which he will, because she’s not going to offer a home environment that promotes sobriety.
If she couldn’t tell that her friend was drunk before this accident a year ago, how’s she gonna know Daniel is clean! I’m still tryna figure out how she thought she could assign him a time to call her when he’s in PRISON. Then get mad at him for not being there for her driving back to the accident site ALONE when her friend told her not to go there by herself. Yep. Child.
She was all for troy getting to see his mama UNTIL his mama kept bringing up the baby mama, then she put him out the bed smh. Troy going either end up back in jail, or leaving her.
3:36 omg that's my nightmare, unintentionally hurting my little siblings
I worked for a bank 8 years ago. There are 2 customers that stick out all these years later because they ran through settlements within 2 years of receiving it. Both were young males and well over $100k!
Don‘t get an „ass massager“ 😂 just get a black roll. They are great for the whole back and legs, too. 😊
Omg perfect timing I just got my snack ready!❤
Prisoners will make their own alcohol and sadly you can get other drugs too. I used to work in a prison and I was always amazed at how creative inmates can be when they want to get their fix.
@0:55 you can just see him reliving his trauma 😢
When they’re same sex for three hours I don’t feel like they’re actually having sex for three hours. I think it’s just continuous rounds with little mini breaks in between because I do that.
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Oh my God. I work across the street from where he met his mother! This is crazy to watch lol
Wow that first chick is controlling disgusting disrespectful manipulative and untrustworthy. I would have turned around and went right back into jail if I came out to a woman like that. How dare she force him into all these things without even bothering to see how he feels. Or even worse knowing how he feels and not caring about it because she's got her own agenda. Disgusting
Imagine getting in an accident from a DUI and almost dying and yet you still can’t stop drinking!!! Make it make sense?!!
Anyone that has a “high school crush” at 40…… idk that just seems desperate 😂 if your crush is still single, maybe there’s something else going on
Zuriah hella outta pocket.
As a recovering alcoholic people don’t realise how easily you can be triggered just scrolling on TikTok and seeing a stranger out drinking can lead to a spiral, so yeah your significant other drinking in front of you once you’re freshly sober is a horrrrible idea and he will 100% relapse
After a few years of sobriety it’s doable but still risky
Zuriah is so wrong for doing that to him. Very disrespectful and his mother is an old ratchet bird
She told him we gotta pick your mother up in syracuse while they're in a hotel in syracuse, because behind them, it shows a picture on the wall in the hotel room, the landmark theater in syracuse.. Lol, I just think that's funny. I'm from syracuse So I noticed that s*** real quick.
bUt iT's YoUr MuM?!" .... yes, and I was her defenseless child?
Aww ! I feel the same way about not keeping promises to kids . My sis is 11 years younger than me and I wasn’t as kind to her as I should have been . I’ve always regretted it. One night when I was in my 20’s , I came over and knocked on her door bawling and apologizing cuz I remembered it. But she didn’t remember it . All she remembered was the times I took her swimming and did fun things with her . Whew 😅. Always keep promises to kids tho . Many adults broke promises to me as a kid and I still remember it at 47 🤣. But now I understand why they didn’t keep the promises cuz they were tired from working/ adulting 🤣
Bianca should've spent some money on a therapist instead.
hope the move goes smoothly. I'm gonna miss you but a couple of weeks isn't so bad. love you Po 💜
They make the alcohol in the toilet. Toilet wine. Just old fruit and bread 🤷🏿♂️
Hello❤ So glad this popped up
"Po after lock up" made me giggle 😂