Ruby Franke’s Family Speaks Out After Child Abuse Conviction, Evidence Release

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  • @LawAndCrime
    @LawAndCrime  7 місяців тому +54

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    • @RealLifeWithMichelleRob
      @RealLifeWithMichelleRob 7 місяців тому +8

      Hi folks. Chad said, he thinks his mom should stay in until eve is 18yrs old. Not for 18 years.

    • @elaineg60
      @elaineg60 7 місяців тому

      @Jesse or whomever reads comments: do you all know where the Walmart class action is? (For overcharging for meats and veggies…which is STILL going on! I got some chicken breasts a few days ago..2 medium size, I think actual total weight was about 1.5lbs. No more than that. I PAID for 3.5lbs. 🙄. I’m disabled, in a wheelchair and legally blind; I don’t drive and order things with WalMart +. Luckily, since I found out this was happening and check meat and veggies every delivery; they’ve been great about refunding the overcharge and when I had a delivery last month that was $20+ overcharge; they gave me “Walmart bucks” for the entire delivery.
      On the other hand, I had no idea this was happening until I was told about the class action. According to some videos online, this has been a regular, country-wide practice for more than 2 years. My daughter sent me a link a few months ago; but that article that linked to the lawsuit was removed and the only other links were scams-in fact I informed our Senior center about the scam sites pretending to be the law firm…asking for information up front that I KNOW would not be required…AND the links themselves…no class action is going to ask for your SS number and bank info..and please send to a Google email?!?! 🙄😡. Another was an 800 number and they tell you there’s a CHARGE to receive money from the suit. Another was an actual subscription scam…for the low low price of $7.95 they will send you monthly info on class actions, including this Walmart one. Then, you read the T & C and you’re authorizing a $59.99 monthly payment for a “coupon” to “The internet’s best discount site to purchase whatever you want. 🙄😖 (sad thing about this last one is it appears to be based right here in the US…in Utah. My ex is a software engineer in security and has added it to his growing list of “subscription scams” based here in the US. There’s some websites like NewsBreak, which tends to have an older demographic, is absolutely loaded with these scams. And unfortunately, most banks and some credit cards are no longer covering these subscription scams. It’s up to us to protect ourselves)
      If you know the VALID site for the Walmart class action; could you please post it?

    • @krabbesign
      @krabbesign 7 місяців тому +4

      Tell jesse weber to put his volume up. He's too quiet!

    • @bloomingaccents
      @bloomingaccents 7 місяців тому +4

      TELL THIS GUEST TO STOP SAYING "RIGHT"?. IT IS SO ANNOYING.
      I noticed it the last time he was on. VERY UNPROFESSIONAL

  • @tonysslime7633
    @tonysslime7633 7 місяців тому +2294

    Everyone should know that R didn't escape to get his mother in trouble. R was trying to turn himself into the police because he thought he was evil and was never going to not be a burden to his mother. He told the neighbor and 911 that the wounds were his own fault. Ruby was blessed with an amazing son and took it for granted.

    • @4MAGA
      @4MAGA 7 місяців тому +312

      Children always put the blame on themselves. It's truly heartbreaking

    • @bettylougreen6987
      @bettylougreen6987 7 місяців тому +168

      That is true but he saved himself and his sister. His mother most likely told him he needed to be arrested. Incredible. The abuse was so horrible so terrible and horrific. Words don’t have enough power to describe it.

    • @virginiamandias1009
      @virginiamandias1009 7 місяців тому +31

      This is on point.

    • @beareeves4923
      @beareeves4923 7 місяців тому +121

      ​@@4MAGAWhen your mom constantly tells you you are evil it does have an effect.

    • @4MAGA
      @4MAGA 7 місяців тому +38

      @beareeves4923 yes, I can't imagine what those children will go through

  • @kathleenclarke1823
    @kathleenclarke1823 7 місяців тому +1156

    The fact that Kevin never legally filed for access in one year means he was neglectful. Not a victim. So sick of men getting away with abondonment.

    • @francinejones2524
      @francinejones2524 7 місяців тому +18

      Me too!

    • @ameliacoburn4787
      @ameliacoburn4787 7 місяців тому

      The entire family was manipulated and deceived. Kevin believed he was supposed to stay away. It's pretty messed up but manipulation is crazy real.

    • @SunnyDays70s
      @SunnyDays70s 7 місяців тому +59

      You need to dig deeper to understand how Jodi separated couples/ he’s not the only father she managed to alienate from the family. It’s mind control.

    • @shaleamontanez4591
      @shaleamontanez4591 7 місяців тому

      Mind control veiled by faith ​@@SunnyDays70s

    • @JenniLynn1218
      @JenniLynn1218 7 місяців тому +80

      @@SunnyDays70sa parent who is that easily controlled doesn’t deserve their children.
      He had no problem standing by Ruby’s garbage behavior for years before Jody got involved.
      He is not the victim here.
      He’s pathetic.

  • @clw87
    @clw87 7 місяців тому +919

    Seriously, bless that neighbor. He was so gentle with him 😢

    • @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083
      @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083 7 місяців тому +57

      The neighbors were compassionate, Heroes! The gentleman made me weep with him! ❤❤❤

    • @ritamariekelley4077
      @ritamariekelley4077 7 місяців тому +21

      He showed true compassion.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 7 місяців тому +31

      When he saw the wounds while on the call with 911 and started crying 😭😭😭

    • @sohanpanda
      @sohanpanda 7 місяців тому +30

      The neighbour cried, one of the first responders cried in bodycam , maybe others did too but there was no doubt the cops, paramedics and the neighbours showed more kindness to the 2 kids in a day than those 2 abusers showed them in years

    • @heidimeinzer3176
      @heidimeinzer3176 7 місяців тому +16

      The 1st neighbour wasn’t home or just missed him ( not sure what part) and saw him and messaged Jodi. Imagine if he told R to sit and wait. R may have never be seen again :(
      The second neighbour Thankyou 👏🏻

  • @NonnieAnn
    @NonnieAnn 7 місяців тому +2245

    Please do not allow Ruby or Kevin to have custody of the youngest children.

    • @4MAGA
      @4MAGA 7 місяців тому +176

      I so agree, Kevin was all for this

    • @michelleg4069
      @michelleg4069 7 місяців тому +137

      These kids will carry what happened to them for the rest of their lives. 😢

    • @marcime174
      @marcime174 7 місяців тому +151

      The County Attorney Eric Clarke has said he thinks Ruby is truly sorry and he wants her to be reunited with her family if the children decide they want to see her. This is crazy. Abused children shouldn't be forced to decide in cases like this. They are so broken, Ruby and Jodi need to stay in prison at least 30 years. I think Eric Clarke has a crush on Ruby. He practically gushed over her plea speech saying it was "heartfelt".

    • @jessJBIRD1981
      @jessJBIRD1981 7 місяців тому +44

      @@marcime174 is eclark LDS or whatever too?

    • @marcime174
      @marcime174 7 місяців тому +52

      @@jessJBIRD1981 Yes. Very much so. Clarke is very involved with the LDS church

  • @nadinebraun7541
    @nadinebraun7541 7 місяців тому +737

    I disagree that Ruby’s apology was heartfelt. She’s aware of the power of “remorse.” It was a performance to gain favour. She lacks empathy.

    • @Kim-wt2gl
      @Kim-wt2gl 7 місяців тому +35

      Of course she lacks empathy, to do what she did to those children.

    • @janetmcneice6246
      @janetmcneice6246 7 місяців тому +9

      💯👍

    • @angelinasvlogsrecipes
      @angelinasvlogsrecipes 7 місяців тому +8

      Exactly

    • @אפרתכרמלי-ג2ק
      @אפרתכרמלי-ג2ק 7 місяців тому

      Ruby Franke is a Mother that doesn't Love 💔 her Children, 😫 She Lacks Empathy, She doesn't have Concious at all. She is a Sadistic Mother 😬 who Enjoys Torturing her children, Seeing her Children Suffering 😢. If Ruby Franke Cried in Court, She was Crying Only, for herself !! and she was Crying because she was Caught by the Police and she knew she was going to be a Prisoner in Jail for many Years. Ruby Franke was Crying in Court with Crocodile 🐊 Tears. She was only Crying for herself. As a mother Ruby Franke was not Interested in her children's Welfare. She had So much Fun Torturing her Children 😢 and being So Mean to them. Efrat

    • @אפרתכרמלי-ג2ק
      @אפרתכרמלי-ג2ק 7 місяців тому +23

      Ruby Franke was Crying 😢in Court just for herself, She Was Crying that she was Caught by the Police and she knew she was going to be in Prison for many Years. Ruby Franke has No Concious at all, she wasn't Crying for the Suffering of her Children 😢, she was Crying for herself. Efrat.

  • @catherinebaum9185
    @catherinebaum9185 7 місяців тому +453

    Ruby was horrible before Jodi. She is sadistic towards her children, punishing them by taking food away, making them sleep outside, setting her kids up with situations they would not be able to navigate, then punishing them. That is a sadist.

    • @wolke1955
      @wolke1955 7 місяців тому +5

      🎯

    • @Hunee-
      @Hunee- 7 місяців тому +22

      Exactly. She is no better than Jodi. Ruby should not be allowed to blame her sick and twisted abuse on another.

    • @mykesorange
      @mykesorange 7 місяців тому +12

      And Kevin was involved and participated and was in full support of everything until…oopsie what he means is he was a victim too. 🤔 Hmmm he’s an adult. Don’t get me wrong I think he needs help and I hope he gets it. But he should NOT have kids. He admits he’s broken.

    • @ramadamming8498
      @ramadamming8498 7 місяців тому

      It sounds like someone with a mental illness, who might not think they are being 'sadistic'.

    • @karispauly2626
      @karispauly2626 7 місяців тому +10

      She was evil before Jodi, but Jodi enabled and encouraged it. Those two were made for each other.

  • @ForeignBreads
    @ForeignBreads 7 місяців тому +485

    How do you not see any of your children for a year ? Dad isn’t innocent in all of this

    • @Nadia..J
      @Nadia..J 7 місяців тому +11

      Nope. He's a horror.

    • @-greentoad
      @-greentoad 7 місяців тому

      When you say how do you not see any of your children for a year, many many dads don't see their kids. They are deadbeat dads, they don't care. This is just not the only case with Kevin.

    • @joycewright5386
      @joycewright5386 7 місяців тому +20

      He was brainwashed by Jodi and he wasn’t her first victim. I think he will be okay now that he is away from Jodi and Ruby.

    • @TM-nu5vd
      @TM-nu5vd 7 місяців тому +28

      For an educated, PhD professor, there's ZERO excuse for not seeing your kids for a year. I'm sorry, the brainwashed excuse doesn't hold for this. Damn, that Mormon Kool-Aid must be strong stuff!

    • @refinnej5302
      @refinnej5302 7 місяців тому +15

      He didn't care about those kids. He only cares about Ruby. The kids were just another job expected of him by the church and not made out of love (except for themselves). He was doing what Ruby wanted of him to please Ruby. The kids weren't even an afterthought for him. He was enjoying not have to deal with 4 kids but was not enjoying being away from his wife.

  • @ThatWitchesRealm
    @ThatWitchesRealm 7 місяців тому +601

    She kept a journal of what she did to those poor babies and still didn't realize how wrong it was! Thats scary😮

    • @caseycat
      @caseycat 7 місяців тому +32

      She knew.

    • @llong2283162
      @llong2283162 7 місяців тому +25

      She definitely knew what she was doing was wrong

    • @llong2283162
      @llong2283162 7 місяців тому +10

      She definitely knew what she was doing was wrong

    • @jeremybilbrey1133
      @jeremybilbrey1133 7 місяців тому +32

      and the courts didnt give the journals much thought...they just charged on the 3 months of abuse..that prosecutor is horrible. they could have got attempted murder when ruby said that they were going to put them in the arizona property and said "they will not go home" well, what would that mean? where would they go ruby?

    • @lizardking5210
      @lizardking5210 7 місяців тому +5

      @@jeremybilbrey1133 they created a copy of the Daybell situation seems like

  • @ariell_mp
    @ariell_mp 7 місяців тому +548

    The professionalism and sensitivity these cops showed to the girl still in the house is unmatched. He sat down with her and waited til she was ready to come out of the closet. So sad

    • @marleenjansen4692
      @marleenjansen4692 7 місяців тому +44

      She looked like a zombie... so I hope they find joy again, and not follow the patterns they had to live, and learn

    • @bettylougreen6987
      @bettylougreen6987 7 місяців тому +55

      He sat there for four hours. He showed her such kindness. He even fed her. She looked defeated utterly defeated. He treated her so well

    • @marleenjansen4692
      @marleenjansen4692 7 місяців тому +40

      @@bettylougreen6987 Her spirit was dying by humiliation, hurt, and deprive from the basic needs..caged in and locked.

    • @rosienewatson191
      @rosienewatson191 7 місяців тому +5

      Agree 🙏🏽😔

    • @אפרתכרמלי-ג2ק
      @אפרתכרמלי-ג2ק 7 місяців тому +6

      The Policemen and Policewoman in Utah are So Wonderful, Kind, Professional and Sensitive. They were Really Great and Wonderful 😃 💕🌷💐 Excellent Policemen 👏 and Policewoman. Thank You so much to them. Efrat

  • @auntlynnie
    @auntlynnie 7 місяців тому +419

    Kevin’s negligence should be considered when determining custody of the minor children. He ABANDONED them.

    • @doracampos2088
      @doracampos2088 7 місяців тому +9

      Exactly

    • @ameliacoburn4787
      @ameliacoburn4787 7 місяців тому +10

      not intentionally.... manipulated into staying away.

    • @TM-nu5vd
      @TM-nu5vd 7 місяців тому +28

      Sorry -- the brainwashing and manipulation excuse doesn't hold.

    • @refinnej5302
      @refinnej5302 7 місяців тому +21

      ​@@ameliacoburn4787why are you caping so hard for that scumbag? He didn't even ask how his kids were after learning they were hospitalized. He asked about Ruby! He doesn't care about those kids, only Ruby and himself. FFS he wanted to press charges on Sheri for B&E when it was the cops who did it, then wanted to press charges on her for taking stuff from the home. What was he so worried about on those electronic devices? Even when he got them back he was mad that he couldn't press charges.

    • @johannajames7824
      @johannajames7824 7 місяців тому +11

      Yes and I also believe he would have ruby back in a heart beat. He's obsessed with her. Look at his reaction when he was first told by the cops. 'I love my wife I want my wife back'

  • @AlittlebitofMari
    @AlittlebitofMari 7 місяців тому +651

    Ruby hasn't changed. That type of behavior didn't start with Jodi. Jodi just gave her a push to do it harder. She sounded like she changed but it's all a show. It will take more than a few months in jail for her to undo everything she has done and her beliefs

    • @moregravity033
      @moregravity033 7 місяців тому +18

      Well said 👏🏻

    • @cheerfulbutterflies1025
      @cheerfulbutterflies1025 7 місяців тому +5

      You are so right!

    • @tracischraenkler4801
      @tracischraenkler4801 7 місяців тому +19

      Made me sad her son believed she was apologetic, he has no clue how evil that woman is.

    • @lilasfaves7846
      @lilasfaves7846 7 місяців тому +5

      Agreed… she cares only for herself and a lighter sentence. Nothing re harms she done to her kids!

    • @karenbaldry8096
      @karenbaldry8096 7 місяців тому +4

      Dead right !

  • @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083
    @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083 7 місяців тому +420

    Ruby didn't apologize to her children. I didn't believe the speech, it sounded like it was written for her. I hope she is in at the very least 20 years.

    • @jennylevine13
      @jennylevine13 7 місяців тому +23

      Agree - she never seemed to grasp the horrible crime she committed. Just thanked a bunch of people.

    • @sharonhoward884
      @sharonhoward884 7 місяців тому +21

      It screamed narcissistic sociopath. Very similar to the "eloquent" speech Paul Ferguson made before being sentenced for torturing & starving his little autistic brother to death. He continues to believe his mother controlled it all and "made" him inflict the torture while she was at work. 21:21

    • @meowzers8937
      @meowzers8937 7 місяців тому +26

      I think Chad is still in more denial about his mother than he thinks. Sending healing his way

    • @Trammiliin_nr2
      @Trammiliin_nr2 7 місяців тому +8

      ​@@meowzers8937 I think he's in denial, too. I had abusive parents, and more than 20 years later, I still learn how f*d-up psychos they were. New memories surface every now and then. Every time I think now, I've grasped the whole extent of the fu*d-upness, there's still something more that totally baffles me. The human brain just protects them, as the brutal reality might be too harsh to bear. Those things need to be approached step by step with professional help. I hope all the kids get the help they need to heal from this horror.

    • @SuperDrLisa
      @SuperDrLisa 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Trammiliin_nr22🙇‍♀️

  • @dawnhayes1231
    @dawnhayes1231 7 місяців тому +386

    I love how Chad would not talk about his siblings just that all of them are in therapy to help them.

    • @reinasherman8009
      @reinasherman8009 7 місяців тому +21

      Hope it's better than the therapy they had Chad in originally. That being Jodi and he himself apparently had to pay her a crap load of money every month.

    • @normcoreconformity
      @normcoreconformity 7 місяців тому +9

      And that he even said his mother spoke genuinely. For how much he’s been through his maturity is profound

    • @westpnt
      @westpnt 6 місяців тому +2

      Chad doesn’t care about his siblings. He admitted to being mad at Shari for calling the police on their mom.

    • @dawnhayes1231
      @dawnhayes1231 6 місяців тому +5

      @@westpnt you obviously haven’t been manipulated by a parent your whole life or you would understand.

  • @peabert7
    @peabert7 7 місяців тому +327

    He is calling her ‘Ruby’ not Mom.

    • @danstone2615
      @danstone2615 7 місяців тому +62

      She’s is undeserving of that title

    • @isabelgaynor2589
      @isabelgaynor2589 7 місяців тому +34

      Yeah that was an important point those guys should have noticed. Declaring his autonomy is significant.

    • @mickylee6059
      @mickylee6059 7 місяців тому +7

      Speaks volumes.

    • @NonnieAnn
      @NonnieAnn 7 місяців тому +18

      He also calls Kevin, by his first name.

    • @IzzyMariel
      @IzzyMariel 7 місяців тому +21

      yet he thinks his mom's statement in court was sincere. He needs intense therapy to make that thought go away

  • @BMotz-ym1fn
    @BMotz-ym1fn 7 місяців тому +592

    Chad didn't say that Ruby should stay in jail for 18 years, he said that she should stay there until E. is 18 years old.

    • @resetgang6638
      @resetgang6638 7 місяців тому +59

      18 years sounds like poetic justice

    • @pheonixrose2995
      @pheonixrose2995 7 місяців тому +76

      Both parents and the other demon deserve life in prison without the possibility of parole in my opinion. The fathers just as guilty because he was a part of the abuse when they did their videos . Rotten low life’s aren’t they ?

    • @MyLifeAsRazinell
      @MyLifeAsRazinell 7 місяців тому +83

      @@pheonixrose2995 We shouldn't forget Pam either. I definitely feel like she was involved, being she is in connextions.

    • @Limitedonathios
      @Limitedonathios 7 місяців тому +45

      @@MyLifeAsRazinellshe keeps on getting away somehow, but Kevin mentioned her being very involved in the creation and running of the cult and her husband and her had kids at their house to serve out the punishments by cleaning it. She was 100% involved, probably in the worst of it, and somehow she is escaping justice

    • @lizardking5210
      @lizardking5210 7 місяців тому

      @@Limitedonathiosif she was involved in the abuse she will see her day

  • @jomc6734
    @jomc6734 7 місяців тому +312

    In a call with her sister Ruby talked about being remorseful and how showing remorse could affect her sentence. I think that whole speech at her sentencing was an early attempt to be able to serve the shortest possible sentence. I don't think she's actually remorseful. I think it's an act.

    • @Grow_withbella
      @Grow_withbella 7 місяців тому +27

      It definitely is, if you remember her first call ever from jail, that’s truly how she is and feels when she talks to (her now soon to be husband).
      After that, I think her lawyer advised her to act and show remorse which then her other calls changed dramatically with her sister and again with her husband. 100% an act. I just hope she stays in jail until the kids are at least 18.

    • @JK-lp6uw
      @JK-lp6uw 7 місяців тому +3

      Well of course. Who wouldn't?? 😂

    • @ameliacoburn4787
      @ameliacoburn4787 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Grow_withbella "Definitely"??? How the heck do you know? A) Chad believed it was genuine and thinks there's hope for a relationship again someday in the future. B) Until a certain point Ruby was still believing everything Jodi said.... so of course her first phone call was still in denial.

    • @danako2382
      @danako2382 7 місяців тому

      Of course that long winded crap speech, was to manipulate her sentencing, everything she does is calculated. She should never be released. Not to be ever trusted. Her nasisiltic nature would want revenge.

    • @Grow_withbella
      @Grow_withbella 7 місяців тому +9

      @@ameliacoburn4787 if that’s what you believe then okay. And yes, I say definitely because this didn’t just start with Jodi. Ruby is a grown adult who should be accountable for what she’s done and not blame it all on Jodi. They are both guilty. You have never been in a situation where parent manipulate children into thinking what they are doing is wrong. It’s going to take a lot more from Ruby to change than just a few nights from jail. There was no therapist involved, nothing and all of a sudden miraculously she woke up from whatever world she was in and saw and believed what she did was wrong. Okay then 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @yougottabekiddiing
    @yougottabekiddiing 7 місяців тому +305

    Her sister should be listened to. The redactions were due to being too graphic about the torture of the children, not to protect Ruby. She is a monster.

    • @IzzyMariel
      @IzzyMariel 7 місяців тому

      nobody should listen to this sisters. They are horrible people too.

    • @martinastreisel514
      @martinastreisel514 7 місяців тому +21

      Agree she is a monster…. Hope the prosecution will not be manipulated by her….she was a monster way before Judy entered in their life

    • @PilatesbyGina
      @PilatesbyGina 7 місяців тому +12

      @@martinastreisel514she already got a sweet deal from the prosecution. She is guilty. Judge gave a sentence range. And in crazy ol Utah, a parole board will decide how long she serves. So praying that those folks see this released evidence and give BOTH ladies full sentences.

    • @bkang
      @bkang 7 місяців тому +12

      Yes, and Bonnie goes on to say that Ruby doesn't need 'mercy', she needs to be in prison and stay there for a very long time!!! People have so many negative things to say about those sisters but I think they are fab. Loving, caring, passionate ladies with big hearts who have been utterly crushed by what Ruby has done 😭💔

    • @1844D
      @1844D 7 місяців тому

      ​More than likely the parole board that is set to decide the number of years these two monsters get, are more than likely MORMAN and the Mormon Church knew all about Jodi Hildebrand they sent people to her. They r a strange cult.

  • @FernVert
    @FernVert 7 місяців тому +319

    I urge people to watch the various documentaries about these things. Do NOT be fooled.
    I'm appalled at the charges.
    Child abuse? This isn't child abuse. This was AT LEAST child slavery, systematic torture and attempted murder of minors. They were STARVING them!
    Why aren't people protesting at the court?!!
    15 Years max? They should receive a MINIMUM of 25 years.

    • @martinastrauch2288
      @martinastrauch2288 7 місяців тому

      Beide Frauen sollten nicht mehr raus kommen ,wie kann man sowas Kinder antun ,mir wird übel...Pfui😢

    • @janetmcneice6246
      @janetmcneice6246 7 місяців тому +15

      💯agree

    • @1844D
      @1844D 7 місяців тому +14

      You are absolutely correct. Ruby Franke is evil as is her husband.

    • @DimaRakesah
      @DimaRakesah 7 місяців тому +19

      The evidence is really, really bad. It really was torture, that is not hyperbolic.

    • @stacy6994
      @stacy6994 7 місяців тому +10

      I think it's 15 years per count as max . She has 4 counts. So possibly 60 years.

  • @LaffeeTaffeeGG
    @LaffeeTaffeeGG 7 місяців тому +416

    I think Chad's response speaks volumes about his character. He comes off so nonchalant, even if he is hurting inside, and that is telling his mother that she may have controlled every aspect of his life, she may have abused him, brainwashed him, hurt him, etc. But now that he is grown and free from that, she's utterly irrelevant to him. He's who he is now because he is in control of his life, and she has no power over him even in memory. I do hope he's doing okay and that he seeks help if he needs it, but man, that is the biggest slap in the face to any abusive parent from their child. "You're irrelevant to me."

    • @salliem424
      @salliem424 7 місяців тому +23

      Very well said

    • @kremmiz1
      @kremmiz1 7 місяців тому +30

      In the video that he was streaming, he said he hopes to reconcile with her in the future. He’s still quite a bit under her thumb, even when she’s behind bars.

    • @lhr8833
      @lhr8833 7 місяців тому +46

      @@kremmiz1as an estranged daughter, takes a lot to realize that your parents won’t change and for your safety you have to stay away. I went back to try to get the relationship back a few times, the last time I even allowed her to manipulate me to stay in her house the last time I went to my hometown. That didn’t went well at all. I was in therapy and doing a lot of healing, but still as adults we need our parents. Realizing your parents never loved you in a healthy way could be really hard to process. Time and healing. I hate they have to do all that healing work now, because is not easy and nobody should have to go through that. Parents are supposed to be emotionally available for their children and love them.

    • @graedot
      @graedot 7 місяців тому +28

      ​@@lhr8833 Very well said. In my career, we see kids who constantly want to go back to their parents, though they have been horribly abused in different ways. in many cases, they accept their fate and then pass it on to their children. Regards to you for getting out of that mind frame.

    • @hostronic
      @hostronic 7 місяців тому +21

      @@kremmiz1As a child abuse survivor, that’s pretty normal. Every child wants a relationship with their parents…or at least wants their parents to love them. So any chance of that happening is hard to fathom, let alone let go of. It’s even more complicated when the abuse is mental or emotional. Even in adulthood it’s still hard for children to completely denounce and cut all ties to their abusive parents. To judge children of abusive parents for hoping for a relationship with their parents or trying to reconcile is inappropriate and so unnecessary. It’s not helpful and only serves to victimize them further. It may not be the best idea for the child to reconnect as an adult, but that should be their choice and something they learn and experience on their own. That’s not for anyone else to decide.

  • @LaineyBug2020
    @LaineyBug2020 7 місяців тому +137

    The way they had to sit with that little girl is animal rescue technique used for traumatized dogs. She had been that dehumanized.

    • @Astrussy
      @Astrussy 6 місяців тому +7

      It’s also just used with children (getting down to their level and giving them space to feel comfortable). She was definitely dehumanized, but this one of the few things that wasn’t a sign of that.

    • @CosmicCourtOfLaw
      @CosmicCourtOfLaw Місяць тому +1

      Animals aren't any less valuable!!!

    • @dumptruck_babs
      @dumptruck_babs 12 днів тому

      ​@@CosmicCourtOfLawYES

  • @hollyfabiani
    @hollyfabiani 7 місяців тому +150

    "Complaining to CPS for years".. i dont think most people understand how hard it is to get an indictment as a whistle-blower. The process isn't what one would imagine.

    • @lyndiwills6354
      @lyndiwills6354 6 місяців тому +7

      CPS should be sued in behalf of these children for not responding.

    • @MsLilBit8344
      @MsLilBit8344 6 місяців тому +6

      ​​@@lyndiwills6354 CPS knocked on the door but didn't have evidence for a warrant. They simply didn't answer the door.

    • @chayabrody722
      @chayabrody722 6 місяців тому

      True it's a long process but now everyone is suddenly involved obviously they didn't open the door cuz they had what to hide and the police and CPS can't exactly burst in especially without a warrant

    • @SamLopezI
      @SamLopezI 5 місяців тому +1

      CPS was complicit!

    • @olayboo866
      @olayboo866 3 місяці тому +1

      Then they take peoples children that are happy and healthy for the most bazaar reasons

  • @s.b.605
    @s.b.605 7 місяців тому +211

    Abusive mothers are sorry once they are caught by authorities or their peers, they don't give two craps when their kids express sadness of their cruelty because it's all about power. Once they lose the power they are sorry because they are no longer getting that high from their abusive actions. I would never trust her again if I were her kids. She's clearly a narcissist or something where she is truly incapable of caring about others feelings. They only act caring to manipulate people.

    • @steggopotamus
      @steggopotamus 7 місяців тому +10

      Yeah, that's what Chad was missing she was genuinely upset she got caught, that's it. Not really upset for hurting her children.

    • @danako2382
      @danako2382 7 місяців тому +8

      Yes spot on, i wouldn't be surprised the narsisist Ruby is getting strength planning how she will invoke revenge. She should never see the light of day.

    • @usethenoodle
      @usethenoodle 7 місяців тому +5

      Well said!

    • @saratemp790
      @saratemp790 7 місяців тому +2

      I agree that abusers get a high from abusing.

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 7 місяців тому +3

      She knew it was wrong because she mentioned it in her journal and was very secretive about it. Of course she doesn't feel bad. She has shark eyes. I'll never forget how happy she looked when she said she hoped no one her KINDERGARTENER who forgot her lunch

  • @golddragonette7795
    @golddragonette7795 7 місяців тому +45

    Genuine remorse? Ruby thanked everyone but never apologised to the children in that long, weird speech

  • @suzanneroberts5883
    @suzanneroberts5883 7 місяців тому +98

    What about Jodie’s niece, anyone going to interview her parents? Why did they leave that beautiful girl with a monster

    • @pezlover1974
      @pezlover1974 7 місяців тому +14

      I heard in an interview with Jessie that her parents still have disowned her and believe in Jodi.

    • @janetmcneice6246
      @janetmcneice6246 7 місяців тому +5

      Omg!!!!! Evil discussing people,

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue 6 місяців тому +4

      Because they’re hateful people who haven’t changed.

    • @dianeratti5644
      @dianeratti5644 6 місяців тому +2

      I know right

  • @screamoguy100
    @screamoguy100 7 місяців тому +46

    Don't excuse Kevin's own role in the abuse of his children. It's documented on the UA-cam videos that he was fully complicit in the abuse of his children with his wife and he DID have contact with ruby throughout the year of separation. What kind of father has no contact with his children for a year?? He's just as responsible for his inaction....doing nothing is doing something.

  • @serenadevon
    @serenadevon 7 місяців тому +112

    I don't believe the Oscar speech for 1 second. People don't charge overnight.

  • @LottieOfWales
    @LottieOfWales 7 місяців тому +118

    How does Kevin have a right to sue anyone? Those kids are not in his care. Only he’s responsible for his house payment. Downsize!! He’s not raising those kids and hopefully never will.

    • @Prissy-lp4zq
      @Prissy-lp4zq 7 місяців тому

      I’m sure u was 1 of the ones that thought crystal(harmony Montgomery mom) should sue. She didn’t have her kid either. At the end of the day, ppl run behind money. His kids, he’s entitled

    • @2ladybughippies569
      @2ladybughippies569 7 місяців тому +3

      Its to pay for their therapy

    • @martinastrauch2288
      @martinastrauch2288 7 місяців тому +7

      Das Geld sollte nur den Kindern zustehn ,für keinen anderen ,alles belegen lassen das es auch die Kinder bekommen..

    • @e.k.4508
      @e.k.4508 7 місяців тому +2

      He is obliged by the state of Utah to pay for the therapy and other needs of his minor children in state custody. Also he is suing because of his own loss of quality of life and income.

    • @blitzmom2674
      @blitzmom2674 7 місяців тому +5

      @@e.k.4508 the state of utah didn't tell him to abandon his kids to their psychopathic mother and her psychopathic friend. He did that. He's responsible.

  • @Sueesa-c
    @Sueesa-c 7 місяців тому +229

    Kevin certainly didn’t wear the pants in that family. What kind of man lets his wife’s friend kick him out of his own home?

    • @justkiddin84
      @justkiddin84 7 місяців тому +5

      You mean his business partner. Jodi was his business partner.💰

    • @sharonhoward884
      @sharonhoward884 7 місяців тому

      ​@@justkiddin84No, he was her client. She then became his client while slowly taking over under the guise of needing refuge from her demons.

    • @vertiian
      @vertiian 7 місяців тому

      She was their therapist running a brainwashing cult, not a friend.

    • @gratefulmom5781
      @gratefulmom5781 7 місяців тому +19

      @@justkiddin84 The business partner who slept in bed with Ruby in their own house while Kevin lived there.

    • @seemenomore8900
      @seemenomore8900 7 місяців тому +29

      The lesbian who came in and TOOK OVER. It’s incredible

  • @taylorirvine5032
    @taylorirvine5032 7 місяців тому +176

    Really hoping that these kids are being treated with love and care in social services now and that they are not being further abused like what happened to the Turpin kids

    • @marleenjansen4692
      @marleenjansen4692 7 місяців тому +6

      The Turpin children had no follow up, and were placed in a place, known as abusive, before they took them in.

    • @wandad1799
      @wandad1799 6 місяців тому +8

      So many foster homes are also horrendous. I don't live in the US but have worked in mental health for years and people have NO idea. I pray that these children get the best treatment ❤

    • @journeywithnichole
      @journeywithnichole 4 місяці тому +1

      My thoughts exactly. Which is scarier, the gov't having these children or the neglectful, abandoning father? Poor children.

  • @4MAGA
    @4MAGA 7 місяців тому +116

    Kevin belongs in prison, he was all in on the show and on the jail house call with Ruby

    • @Simplysilla27
      @Simplysilla27 7 місяців тому +4

      Kevin didn’t do anything

    • @moregravity033
      @moregravity033 7 місяців тому +20

      ​@@Simplysilla27 exactly ...he neglected the children knowing they were being abused. Have fun defending that.

    • @biancamaclean4794
      @biancamaclean4794 7 місяців тому

      Kevin belongs in prison with TRUMP!!!😂

    • @caroline-s
      @caroline-s 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@Simplysilla27 except he did.

    • @deadinthewater218
      @deadinthewater218 7 місяців тому +1

      Correct

  • @KyleMorpheus
    @KyleMorpheus 7 місяців тому +47

    Coping with trauma manifests differently in everyone. Glad Chad is trying his best to understand, accept and find a path forward while also protecting his sisters.

  • @beareeves4923
    @beareeves4923 7 місяців тому +88

    Chad l9ving with Kevin is disheartening. His dad left him to be abused. Chad may not have a choice in where to live., but that is unfortunate. I do not believe Kevin should be trusted.

    • @TheAmtwhite
      @TheAmtwhite 7 місяців тому +9

      The Dad also allowed Ruby’s abuse before Jodi came in the picture.

    • @bkang
      @bkang 7 місяців тому +3

      Nope, Chad and Kevin moved out together. Actually, were forced out together, by Jodi via Ruby 💔💔

    • @beareeves4923
      @beareeves4923 7 місяців тому

      @@bkang They did not leave at the same time.

    • @CozyBug-
      @CozyBug- 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@beareeves4923 Chad did say on one of his livestreams that him and his dad moved out on the same day. It's unclear if they moved in together at the time or if they left on the same day separately.
      Also the most recent update is Chad has moved out and is not longer living with Kevin. Chad moved in together with some friends

    • @mozzy8890
      @mozzy8890 7 місяців тому +2

      All of those sisters seem crazy to me

  • @isabelgaynor2589
    @isabelgaynor2589 7 місяців тому +83

    You know how children who have been abused are better able to express themselves more freely coloring in a coloring book. Playing that internet game is Chad's coloring book.

    • @stacy6994
      @stacy6994 7 місяців тому

      Have you heard him speak, not on a gaming device?

    • @isabelgaynor2589
      @isabelgaynor2589 6 місяців тому

      @stacy6994 no Stacy I haven't.

  • @mironricardo
    @mironricardo 7 місяців тому +52

    It messes me up hearing the kid ask timidly for help and that neighbor choke during the 911 call.

    • @jonproctor3739
      @jonproctor3739 4 місяці тому +1

      And by all logic so it should if you're a Humane Being as well as a Human Being.

  • @Theneighborlywombwitch
    @Theneighborlywombwitch 7 місяців тому +69

    I don’t know why no one has spoken about this but Ruby and Kevin sent him to WILDERNESS CAMP at the behest of Jodi. It was horrible! It’s such a relevant piece of the abuse, and one that also points out Kevin’s involvement

    • @brittany8159
      @brittany8159 7 місяців тому +22

      The darkly humorous thing about that was that Chad wasn't even bothered by it other than the food being bad. It was like a vacation compared to what his normal home life was.

    • @Sar-ahG
      @Sar-ahG 7 місяців тому +6

      My bf was sent to one of those and it still messed with his head and heart everyday still ten years later (luckily the one he went to got shut down finally)

    • @beckyw8871
      @beckyw8871 7 місяців тому +1

      Those camps are horrible

    • @e.k.4508
      @e.k.4508 7 місяців тому +4

      Chad didn't mind the camp at all! He liked most of it, except for the food. It's so important to listen to what the people involved think. It's too easy to think of us, rando's, to be able to judge about every aspect of their lives.

    • @Sar-ahG
      @Sar-ahG 6 місяців тому +4

      @@e.k.4508 it says a lot more about his home life that he like it -

  • @LT-hg7fc
    @LT-hg7fc 7 місяців тому +72

    The journals weren't everything "they" did to the children.....it was everything RUBY did to the children!!!!

  • @PippyPan
    @PippyPan 7 місяців тому +43

    They deserve a MINIMUM of 30 years !!

  • @eileenhoffmann2422
    @eileenhoffmann2422 6 місяців тому +14

    Has the man that called 911 been awarded.I sincerely believe he needs to be.He saved these kids lives!

    • @AlexaCBrown
      @AlexaCBrown 4 місяці тому +2

      🙏💌🌅He reminds me, of sweet little JJ's Grandfather... An Angel on earth🙏🙏🙏

  • @julieplumb4127
    @julieplumb4127 7 місяців тому +114

    Keep them in prison until the kids are adults

  • @jessJBIRD1981
    @jessJBIRD1981 7 місяців тому +83

    Kevin didn't give a crap about those kids until he got the call from RUBY that she was in trouble.

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 7 місяців тому +2

      He still didn't care. He just wanted them home so Ruby would be happy

    • @DimaRakesah
      @DimaRakesah 7 місяців тому +2

      Keep in mind that for fundamentalist parents like this controlling your children and your public image is a top priority. He didn't care that he hadn't seen his kids in a year or whatever, but he cared when suddenly his public image and ability to have control over his kids was on the line.

    • @Shaz-gq7pv
      @Shaz-gq7pv 6 місяців тому +2

      Even after his first interview he was more concerned for his monster wife and said he wished he had been a better husband not a mention of been a better father

  • @ShastaAnn
    @ShastaAnn 7 місяців тому +30

    I can't even imagine what's in the redacted portions of those journals 😢

    • @e.k.4508
      @e.k.4508 7 місяців тому +2

      Probably statements about the people who are not involved in the lawsuit. For instance about the two middle girls

  • @The_CeeJay
    @The_CeeJay 7 місяців тому +27

    Chad and Shari (and the other children) deserve to be in control of how and when they speak. Especially after years of dealing with their mom and dad’s strict parenting.

  • @aintukr
    @aintukr 7 місяців тому +21

    Let him talk, him talking is not hurting anyone. It’s better to talk than keep it all in. At his own pace, without anyone manipulating his words

  • @janana6786
    @janana6786 7 місяців тому +75

    Kevin's atty's statement sounds as though Kevin is working to get the family back together, he loves his wife, he only sought divorce on advice to show the legal system that he cares for his children. HE WOULD JUMP BACK IN WITH RUBY IN A HOT SECOND!

    • @ritamariekelley4077
      @ritamariekelley4077 7 місяців тому +5

      I'm concerned there are a lot of people who are believing Kevin's attorney, Kestler.

    • @keithabney4665
      @keithabney4665 7 місяців тому

      true but he would've had to fight off the Hildebeast - a legitimate factor, she's built like a linebacker

    • @deadinthewater218
      @deadinthewater218 7 місяців тому

      🤪

  • @jenniferbate-mz3yl
    @jenniferbate-mz3yl 7 місяців тому +26

    Bonnie was the first to pull away her relationship with her family including children telling Ruby she could not send her children to her home anymore due to things Bonnie’s children had told her that Ruby had done to them and their cousins

  • @nyancatnatalie
    @nyancatnatalie 7 місяців тому +119

    I'm skeptical of the sisters...

    • @bonnietrottier3187
      @bonnietrottier3187 7 місяців тому +30

      The entire family is complicit

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 7 місяців тому +1

      I don’t care of any of them they are just money grabbers and in it for the views

    • @angelabaird7135
      @angelabaird7135 7 місяців тому +8

      Me too. Cautious of them from any angle they are coming from whether it appear defensive or vulnerable or anything in-between, i dont trust their motives

    • @marleenjansen4692
      @marleenjansen4692 7 місяців тому +10

      family vlogging is selling privacy, and drama sells.

    • @keithabney4665
      @keithabney4665 7 місяців тому +12

      yep. the sisters are fond of granting their viewers endless drama on how this scandal has affected THEM.

  • @ruthannwatkins3914
    @ruthannwatkins3914 7 місяців тому +19

    Kevin SHOULD NEVER have those kids , he was a crappy father and allowed Ruby to do terrible things to those kiddoes and he never thought anything of it . I think he's thinking purely of the money , he stepped away from those kids when they needed him the most , terrible parents , both of them .

  • @deborahborne4861
    @deborahborne4861 7 місяців тому +21

    I'd like to see the children file a lawsuit against Kevin for his abandonment of them. He is a piece of work!

  • @1844D
    @1844D 7 місяців тому +12

    Kevin was part of the abuse before he left for the year. Please do not allow Kevin to have custody of those kids. He is as cruel as Ruby

  • @Colby_914
    @Colby_914 7 місяців тому +13

    Man….I lost my first child (Jacob) from SIDS when he was five and a half months old. I still cry for him. This story is so discustiing

  • @Tubifia
    @Tubifia 7 місяців тому +13

    Chad has been manipulated by Ruby all through his childhood. He should not be judged for not yet having total insight.

  • @ccccarriemchardy9216
    @ccccarriemchardy9216 7 місяців тому +57

    The whole family has problems and no idea on parenting rights and wrongs. They should have all intervened.

    • @AJTheYoung
      @AJTheYoung 7 місяців тому +1

      YES, not intervened is so so bad. I don’t know how they sleep at night

  • @jenniferbate-mz3yl
    @jenniferbate-mz3yl 7 місяців тому +23

    I believe Chad has a lot of unpacking to do because he still doesn’t see things like living on a bean bag and taking his bathroom door off at the age of 16 was ok, but IT WAS NOT OKAY, ITS ABUSE!

  • @KagomeYasha023
    @KagomeYasha023 7 місяців тому +22

    Kevin should NOT receive custody of the children. *NO!*

  • @hsk2909
    @hsk2909 7 місяців тому +75

    My 💔 every time i see this footage - I was wondering if you could do me two favors.. 😢😢😭

    • @Sar-ahG
      @Sar-ahG 7 місяців тому +4

      Then he changes it to just one

    • @abunchahooey
      @abunchahooey 6 місяців тому +1

      I know, it’s so sad to hear his little voice asking or favors. 😢

  • @usakiwi1986
    @usakiwi1986 7 місяців тому +18

    I am shocked that Pam hasn't been charged with anything

  • @dawnscheerhoorn9583
    @dawnscheerhoorn9583 7 місяців тому +52

    Chad still doesn't understand how abusive this was!

    • @Lemonade_Stand_
      @Lemonade_Stand_ 7 місяців тому +12

      He's still brainwashed.

    • @Kim-wt2gl
      @Kim-wt2gl 7 місяців тому +7

      Cognitive Dissonance

    • @e.k.4508
      @e.k.4508 7 місяців тому +3

      Probably. It will change when he gets older. Also: we the public are brainwashed by all the terrible news and hearing only the terrible news. It sure wasn't all bad! There were loving times for sure in their family. Especially for the two eldest children.

    • @saratemp790
      @saratemp790 7 місяців тому +10

      Well the worst of it didn't happen to him, it happened to the two youngest.

    • @e.k.4508
      @e.k.4508 7 місяців тому +3

      @@saratemp790 Exactly. And to know what happened to them hurt him to his stomach. I hope the family bond between the siblings is strong and will help them over time to get all in a better place

  • @nadinebraun7541
    @nadinebraun7541 7 місяців тому +38

    He is not okay! He’s using the video game to dissociate and disconnect from the emotions. He seems to be in a lot of denial especially when speaking about his Mom’s sincerity of her speech in court.

    • @christineclabaugh2652
      @christineclabaugh2652 7 місяців тому +6

      I agree. He is definitely not okay. This is far from anything a child could just quickly & easily move past. It surprises me that the channel 2 guy does not understand why the kid doesn’t want to do a face to face interview. He can’t because, like you said, he needs to hide and do things on his own terms. Poor kid.

    • @Lemonade_Stand_
      @Lemonade_Stand_ 7 місяців тому +6

      He is still brainwashed. That whole family needs intensive therapy.

    • @rhondahoward8025
      @rhondahoward8025 6 місяців тому +5

      Chad also said he didn't have a problem with the wilderness camp or having his bed taken away for six months for his prank. That doesn't surprise me. He was used to it, so it wasn't abusive, it was normal to him.
      It's like that with lots of kids.

  • @DorothyChartrand
    @DorothyChartrand 7 місяців тому +28

    It's must be difficult to report abuse or neglect to police and CPS officials in the same cult.

  • @dianeh.3327
    @dianeh.3327 7 місяців тому +19

    They should not have allowed them to plead. They deserve a maximum sentence.

    • @orlitamarov
      @orlitamarov 7 місяців тому +1

      Taking this to court and making kids testify would have been torturous

  • @margaretprenger7657
    @margaretprenger7657 7 місяців тому +27

    ‼️One of her sisters posted a “Blanket Training” for babies. Horrible‼️

  • @donnamolina6125
    @donnamolina6125 7 місяців тому +19

    The mother and father were abusive before Jodi.
    Both parents need to be in jail.
    Kevin cries for his wife
    The father has NO concern about his kids.
    That lady is going to say anything you want to hear just to get out of jail free.

    • @Ausgar-yc1yl
      @Ausgar-yc1yl 6 місяців тому

      Ruby was NOT sentenced to jail.

    • @Ausgar-yc1yl
      @Ausgar-yc1yl 6 місяців тому

      Ruby was NOT sentenced to jail.

  • @nadogrl
    @nadogrl 7 місяців тому +30

    Yes, Ruby is GENUINELY sorry that she got caught!

  • @Plootyhooter
    @Plootyhooter 7 місяців тому +13

    Ruby was already cruel and controlling with her children. Jodi gave her permission to include Kevin in the punishments so they could clean out the bank accounts.

  • @UrsulaZA
    @UrsulaZA 7 місяців тому +5

    These videos are STILL breaking my heart and giving me tears. It REALLY breaks me to think you could be capable of doing this to children, no less your own. These poor poor children. No justice could ever prevail

  • @janeconnors1807
    @janeconnors1807 7 місяців тому +4

    In what universe could you hurt your children to that extent and not know it was wrong . Baffling

  • @lostribe5130
    @lostribe5130 3 місяці тому +3

    Ruby was already abusing her children before she ever met Jodi. People should not be fooled by her acting.

  • @christinelong473
    @christinelong473 7 місяців тому +30

    If they find evidence of abuse on the middle girls could they be charged and then have move years to server after this sentence?

    • @justkiddin84
      @justkiddin84 7 місяців тому

      Too late now

    • @isabelgaynor2589
      @isabelgaynor2589 7 місяців тому +4

      Great question.

    • @kimchpm
      @kimchpm 7 місяців тому +3

      @@justkiddin84why is it too late?

    • @tammywragg6254
      @tammywragg6254 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@justkiddin84
      No it's not..but the investigation the paper work and most of all the kids to speak up..

    • @childishboyo5215
      @childishboyo5215 7 місяців тому +4

      Chad stated that he was shocked the third lady of connections (forgetting her name.. possibly pam?). Oh, i meant the PRESIDENT OF CONNECTIONS Pam- wasn't being investigated further and he thinks more should be done. Those middle girls 10000% were abused. I'm not sure if any more charges would be filed on Jodie considering they aren't her kids. And Ruby might argue that she had no idea the abuse took place because she wasn't in that home. I really hope all 3 get more charges honestly.

  • @ambermyers7463
    @ambermyers7463 7 місяців тому +15

    I’m shocked no one’s offered Chad a safer home!

  • @danstone2615
    @danstone2615 7 місяців тому +31

    The affect in the voice of her sisters is a carbon copy of Ruby

    • @bkang
      @bkang 7 місяців тому

      Well sure, I sound like my sister too 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @joannajk-q7o
    @joannajk-q7o 7 місяців тому +26

    Bonnie’s #1 priority is Bonnie. Anyone who blanket trains should be investigated.

    • @bkang
      @bkang 7 місяців тому

      Blanket training used to be very standard in many religious households - not just LDS, but evangelical Christianity as well. To be clear - I think it's awful and would never, ever use it myself! But when you grow up in a culture where it's normal to blanket train (and let's not forget, there are definitely differing levels of 'blanket training' too) you're just following what you've been taught by other women that you look up to, and also, popular books on parenting which circulate these religious groups. Bonnie is a loving, passionate, fiercely protective Mama bear 💖 MANY of the women I speak to who blanket trained their first child hated doing so, and never did it again. Every single one regrets it. We shouldn't judge Bonnie for what she did as an extremely young Mum, following the advice of her older wider Mama mentors; are you the same now as you were 15-16 years ago? I know I'm not! All three sisters are great Mums. They don't need to be investigated 👎🏻 It's not fair to tar them all with the Ruby brush 💔

    • @stacy6994
      @stacy6994 7 місяців тому +1

      My understanding of blanket training is similar to a binkie. Self soothing.
      Blanket discipline is where you teach fear with the blanket.

    • @mohar1513
      @mohar1513 6 місяців тому

      Yes blanket training is disgusting. Parents should slap themselves not their babies!

  • @christinewilkinson5705
    @christinewilkinson5705 7 місяців тому +29

    Ironic that Bonny is commenting on Ruby's cruelty to children when she blanket trains her own children, which to me is cruel in itself, controlling and denying the children their natural curiosity and need to explore, and which I believe causes psychological damage in its own way. Hypocrisy

  • @emma-511
    @emma-511 7 місяців тому +7

    I don't understand why the 3rd women in connections hasn't been investigated for having the children doing "housework"

  • @lisac5013
    @lisac5013 7 місяців тому +64

    Bonnie will never stop vlogging she has to make the money in order to pay for that house!!

    • @justkiddin84
      @justkiddin84 7 місяців тому +9

      And that’s what is really important.🤮

    • @karenevangelista1284
      @karenevangelista1284 7 місяців тому +1

      I am so sick of this family go away and stop doing UA-cam all of them .

    • @cynthiaconnors183
      @cynthiaconnors183 7 місяців тому +5

      The vacations too

    • @joannajk-q7o
      @joannajk-q7o 7 місяців тому +14

      Bonnie is so obnoxious. She made a living by exploiting her kids and sees nothing wrong with that. She did blanket training. Anyone who does that to babies is not right in the head.

    • @verbell3573
      @verbell3573 7 місяців тому +9

      Her fake tears in her video is annoying too. And she used to listen to connections. Shes so fake

  • @rosierousseau7889
    @rosierousseau7889 7 місяців тому +10

    What makes me think kevin knew what was happening is that when he talked to his wife after being arrested he never sounded outraged at his wife or even asked her if it was true that she hurt their kids?? Also Ruby is not fixed or had a change of heart bc she told Kevin that the injuries were grossly exaggerated to the kids. She simply smarter than Jody.. she is hoping to get less time..

  • @LaineyBug2020
    @LaineyBug2020 7 місяців тому +18

    Did they arrest Pam for forced child labor? First I've heard of Pam!

  • @BoiseGreatDane
    @BoiseGreatDane 6 місяців тому +7

    These sisters should be investigated as well

    • @dianaray1470
      @dianaray1470 6 місяців тому +1

      Especially Bonnie and Joel.

  • @jenk8385
    @jenk8385 7 місяців тому +11

    I want to say, as a journalist you shouldn't be condescending if someone doesn't want to talk to a reporter.

  • @margaretmorris-calderon2826
    @margaretmorris-calderon2826 7 місяців тому +8

    I think that family is using Jody too much as an escape excuse away from their family member (mom).
    I saw some of those videos they made. Ruby is ruthless. That family is in denial.

  • @jennylevine13
    @jennylevine13 7 місяців тому +11

    Chad said he thinks Ruby should remain in prison until E is 18 years old.

  • @Llama_Whisperer
    @Llama_Whisperer 7 місяців тому +14

    She’s a master manipulator. Y’all are wrong.

  • @kazshaw3945
    @kazshaw3945 7 місяців тому +9

    If Ruby truly ment that speech in Court ,she wouldn't have been so defiant at the Police station ,she would have been shocked ,sorry and willing to talk from the very start !It was all an act which she was told to do by others including her lawyer to make her look better and gain sympathy,well she ain't got mine ,she doesn't fool me,she is a bloody Monster !😠

  • @joyful_tanya
    @joyful_tanya 7 місяців тому +30

    All of these adults are self centered and self serving. No one talks about the children, only themselves. Julie was present in the journals at the torture of the Franke children. Sick.

    • @Aniram789
      @Aniram789 7 місяців тому +7

      One of the middle girls is called Julie. Both of the middle girls were under Ruby & Jodi's control. So when Ruby writes about Julie she's referring to one of her daughters.

    • @joyful_tanya
      @joyful_tanya 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Aniram789 no. Julie is also her sister. When it's just a J it's the child. Julie was written out and it was very obvious it was another adult. Go read the journal entries online. I did and it's very obvious because LE tried to keep the children anonymous. Yes there is a child, Julie but that's not who I am referring to.

    • @karenevangelista1284
      @karenevangelista1284 7 місяців тому +2

      Bonnie needs to go away

  • @louise8752
    @louise8752 7 місяців тому +12

    He didn't seem surprised when he found out, at least not much. There is no restoring them back to their former lives....this changes them permanently.

    • @llong2283162
      @llong2283162 7 місяців тому +2

      He never asked how the kids we're doing in the hospital, the only person he cared about was Ruby

  • @akiaclark7990
    @akiaclark7990 7 місяців тому +6

    The son probably wants to air his emotions and feelings on his own terms rather than be provoked by some media folks. He is controlling his setting.

  • @veronicabrewer4375
    @veronicabrewer4375 7 місяців тому +17

    The sisters were "this close to saying something" but didnt, then say they did everything they could? No.

    • @Lemonade_Stand_
      @Lemonade_Stand_ 7 місяців тому +4

      The only one that was sounding the alarm was Shari (the oldest daughter) and no one believed her.

  • @skylarstypulczak9864
    @skylarstypulczak9864 7 місяців тому +77

    Ruby side of the family is no better then Ruby, they exploit their children as well and more worried about defending how THEY LOOK and how THEY ARE AFFECTED on UA-cam instead of being worried about ab the kids. They defended Ruby ab her parenting style up until this news came out. It’s all about them . Ruby was their cash cow so now that she’s gone they turned on her. Their fake. Their disgusting.

    • @Simplysilla27
      @Simplysilla27 7 місяців тому +6

      a lot of mormon UA-camrs use there kids to make money if your gonna shame the griffiths siblings then talk about the rest for the lds youtubers…

    • @marcime174
      @marcime174 7 місяців тому +17

      Ruby's sisters are all I, ME, blah blah blah. Barely any mention of Russell and Eve if at all. Ruby"s parents didn't even return from their mission trip when they heard what happened to their grandchildren. The entire family is narcissistic.

    • @justkiddin84
      @justkiddin84 7 місяців тому +6

      The younger sister used IBLF ‘blanket training’ on her babies.😡

    • @bambiber4722
      @bambiber4722 7 місяців тому +4

      I hope the sisters are being monitored

    • @skylarstypulczak9864
      @skylarstypulczak9864 7 місяців тому

      @@bambiber4722 well now they’ve jumped on the bandwagon wagon saying how bad she is who knows. Such awful people

  • @Kay_Watermelon
    @Kay_Watermelon 7 місяців тому +15

    The whole family seem unhinged. The sisters are especially incredibly seedy.

  • @Oevuh8
    @Oevuh8 7 місяців тому +9

    Bonnie and Ruby are the older two girls. They raised kids together and grew up together. Julie and Ellie are the younger sisters with younger kids. I think Bonnie just naturally feels closer to Ruby’s kids because they were having sleepovers at her house their whole lives. Their kids were best friends (until Ruby met Jodi and cut them off).

  • @ellenfrances1303
    @ellenfrances1303 7 місяців тому +16

    You are being bambozaled aboutt her sincerity. She said on the phone with someone "they" look for sincerity and regret. She's also had years of practice in front of cameras and composing believable content.
    Wake up. Ehe was mean spirited before Jody. Connextions and Jody gave her permission,

  • @honeybunch5765
    @honeybunch5765 7 місяців тому +30

    Bonnie puts videos out about it because it generates traffic towards her channel, and that brings in the money.

    • @Lemonade_Stand_
      @Lemonade_Stand_ 7 місяців тому +4

      Yep, she just had a giant home custom built hat she needs to pay off.

    • @deadinthewater218
      @deadinthewater218 7 місяців тому +1

      Correct

    • @dianaray1470
      @dianaray1470 6 місяців тому

      Exactly. And the people that follow her are just as bad. Wacko

  • @laracada9422
    @laracada9422 4 місяці тому +3

    The creepiest part is when Ruby thanked everyone. How ridiculous! Kevin is a 100% neglectful dad. I just wish the kids wouldn't return to their dad.

    • @splinterbyrd
      @splinterbyrd 2 місяці тому +1

      Agreed. He's a useless pathetic wimp.

  • @Ashels-r9m
    @Ashels-r9m 7 місяців тому +5

    I never hear Ruby ever ask how her children are doing. Never when she was arrested or in any of her phone calls did she show any concern for them. She was still only concerned about Jodi and herself.

  • @splinterbyrd
    @splinterbyrd 2 місяці тому +1

    They're clearly both insane and should never be released.

  • @akashathequeen
    @akashathequeen 6 місяців тому +5

    Bonnie Hoellein: “I want to be very clear I do not support Ruby. She doesn't need mercy. She doesn't need justice. She needs a jail cell.” Why didn't you guys mention this?

  • @bambiber4722
    @bambiber4722 7 місяців тому +13

    He cannot get custody of those children. They have suffered enough

  • @joannewilkins5000
    @joannewilkins5000 7 місяців тому +10

    Ruby’s sister was teaching an abusive way of disciplining a baby with the blanket therapy. So I do find the whole family likes to use punishment as a tool to control their children.

    • @hellepost1439
      @hellepost1439 7 місяців тому

      Lori Alexander’s Cruel Child Discipline Advice 🚩🚩🚩

    • @ana610
      @ana610 7 місяців тому

      Blanket training (or whatever it's called) is very harsh and horrible method originally.
      However, I remember watching Bonnie's video about this years ago, and if I remember correctly her way of doing it didn't involve any punishments or trauma. Kids were simply encouraged to play on blankets for short periods of time.
      That being said, it has been years since I watched this, so if my memory is betraying me, please let me know.

  • @Sam4G0d
    @Sam4G0d 6 місяців тому +2

    Kevin is almost as bad as Ruby and should be kept away from these innocent children!

  • @Sar-ahG
    @Sar-ahG 7 місяців тому +9

    Did she really think just because she pleaded guilty the evidence wouldn’t get out??

    • @cynthiaconnors183
      @cynthiaconnors183 7 місяців тому +3

      Yup!

    • @stacy6994
      @stacy6994 7 місяців тому

      It had nothing to do with that. It was not having the victims have to sit on the stand and testify.

    • @Sar-ahG
      @Sar-ahG 6 місяців тому +1

      @@stacy6994 she didn’t care about putting her kids through that - it actually might’ve been cathartic for them to get that out- it’s all about protecting her own image and getting a lesser sentence by not making it a public spectacle