this is actually how the stages of grief are supposed to work. A very common misconception is that the stages are linear steps, but the well known list does not really imply an order, a person can experience any of the 5 stages at any time and go back and forth on them, not experience certain stages, and even overlap
And since it's usually happening around 3AM (insomnia is giving a helping hand here :D ), there's about 21h left before the end of the day! That's not so bad
You forgot the hidden step 7: which is form a para-social relationship with your favorite UA-camr and base all your self worth on their acknowledgment of you (Mom would be sad :( )
Alternatively 1. Start love quest by loitering at Target or at local community college with attraction sign confessing no GF and disclosing the cause as unable to initiate with boyfriend free girl because crippling shyness. 2. Develop copyright infringing chimeric intellectual property comic as a form of escapism and outet to indulge delusional fantasy wish fulfillment as self insert marysue character within said comic alongside Sonichu Rosechu Blake and the chaotic combo 3. Switch bodes with Magichan Sonichu and hookup with Mew Two in Magichas body while Magi chan in your body bangs out your geriatric mother. 5. Merge dimensions collapsing the entire multiverse to a single universe where you are a cpu goddess of the commodore 64
See, thats why we play Warhammer. The feeling of "Oh its gone" cant ever happen when we are constantly chasing that new model or new rulebook/edition that will finally get us a win
My man made several important discoveries for himself. Stoicism helps you deal with things outside your control, "changing your life" more often than not doesn't really change anything and last but not least consumerism will not fill the emotion sized hole in your chest. Cheers mate
I've been watching your channel for the last 5 years. and I just wanted to thank you for always being on my feed whenever I need you to either entertain, inform, or feed my delusions of grandeur. This video did a lot to change my perspective on my own experiences with male loneliness. Between losing friends, Lovers, and even family. I now understand that instead of engaging in self destructive behavior, I should do what will really bring happiness and purpose to my life. Playing Teraurge.
Exactly! Who needs to socialize with other people and have genuine connections when I can just be alone and play video games(Ive been lying to myself for years)
Yeah, quality over quantity - and if there's no one who won't try to manipulate, gaslight, or damage you as competition you're better off by yourself until you find people who aren't like that and whom you have enough in common with to have real conversations.
Ok so I'm not here to say this is the one stop solution to all the problems of loneliness and despair, but finding some kind of group to join where you can express yourself and find friends that don't have a "toxic masculinity" vibe, is an excellent way to at least reduce feelings of loneliness. In my own case I became a furry, yes it's cringe, yes it's weird, but man has it made me some of the best friends I could ask for, and it's showed me that I can be open with my emotions, I don't need to act a certain way that "society" expect me to, I can be myself, I can nerd out about cool art, I can be exited about a new movie and no one judges me, it's so freeing.
1. Create goal and establish success criteria 2. Make attempt to achieve thing 3. Evaluate result based on success criteria 4. Upon failure lower success criteria 5. See step one repeat as necessary
6. Realize the goal never had a realistic success criteria and get depressed (must have gotten to step 5 a minimum of 3 times before unlocking this step)
Therapy is 150$ an hour. League of Legends is free. You do therapy with one other person. You do league with everyone as mentally ill as you. I've been playing league for 7 years.
everyone is different but for me, i have so many friends now because i started workin in a restaurant. theres always cool, artsy people working in restaurants and theyre always pretty extroverted and stuff. this environment really helped me to find a bit more of myself. and youre not just sitting around on the computer at home. you have to get out and talk to people. theres really nothing like the relief of working a hard shift then hitting the bar with some coworkers and talking shit until 3 am hahaha. cheers mates. smoke up :D
If only I had seen this video on release half a year ago I'd still be here to be able to watch it! Damn you algorithmic suggestions!! You were too late, I should have enabled notifications :-{
As an ugly, lonely woman I have learned to be my own best friend and enjoy my own company. Trust no one. I don't expect anyone to desire me. And I'm not interested in love. It's way too painful.
Letting yourself stay that way for 2 years (and counting…) Move somewhere no one knows you, and start forcing yourself to talk to people. Avoid talking to girls in places they have to be at (grocery stores, public transit, etc.) since the likelihood of it not going well will be high, but beyond that, just yolo it Start going to group events, like volunteer tree planting or something, and then socialize as you do whatever it is you’re there to do. Those kinds of places are the most likely to have people willing to talk Just keep doing that until you get fine with it, and you’re bound to meet new friends over time
@@uydagcusdgfughfgsfggsifg753 Gotta love this toxic positivity that completely ignores the real issues and just assumes that simple habits will solve everything. "(and counting…)" even shaming him for his problems i see?
Dude i've been dumbed by a 2 friends, 1 girlfriend, whole social group from elementary and highschool. Feel into deep depresion, idk how i got out of it to be honest. And the only thing at 25 years of age that fulfils is me going to work everyday. And sometimes i just hangout with my bro at local pizzeria. When it comes to socializing, i am not a shy guy, but it's lot harder making new friends when you are grown up versus when you are a kid in a school. So my advice is, bro just accept that your position sucks. But make best of it.
Main thing that's helped me, both as an adult and growing up, is a two step process that's much easier to say than do and much easier to start the younger you are, but are both doable. 1) Form relationships with people of different genders that aren't predicated on the assumption the two of you will be having sex, regardless of what you're attracted to. 2) If someone criticizes your masculinity or sexuality because you don't fit their model of what a "real man" is, drop them immediately - they aren't worth your time and probably never will be, don't overthink it and don't try to fix it for them, they can figure their shit out themselves.
Another important thing is not taking things personally. Young guys especially like to defend any criticism of their actions or words with the fact that they see themselves as good people. But you can be a good person who did something that wasn’t good. Like when you bump into someone you just say sorry and move on instead of justifying how you walk. And when you hear people complaining about men, you don’t need to take solidarity of anything by default, if it doesn’t apply to you then it ain’t about you. Don’t debate them. You are you. You are so much more than you think you are and when you focus on being you, you will find a community. When you focus on trying to prove that men are good and try to mold yourself into a “real man” you end up inauthentic and that makes your connections weak and ends up leaving you alone. Don’t be a “real man”, just be real, man.
2 resonated with me the most, my “friends” in high school were those people I had to drop because I didn’t fit their idea of masculinity, they were definitely the types of dudes to refer to themselves as alphas unironically and I’m glad I dropped them because they didn’t give a shit about me, they never invited me anywhere with them, never really communicated with me that much and just treated me like I was naive and too innocent, I’be been meeting some better people nowadays and I’m grateful to have them in my life because they like me for who I am even though I am not the alpha male stereotype. It’s worth it tbh.
my 2 pieces of advice for you are. 1) write a reboot fan fic and make your own ending. 2) Buy another model car to keep distracting your self from the void.
A lot of times, loneliness comes from a place of ignorance. You just DON'T KNOW who you could talk to. Sometimes, the coworker who seems a bit distant actually cares more than you think. Sometimes, the guy at your gym you've been occasionally talking to, actually really wants to be your friend. Almost at all times, there is someone out there in the world who thinks fondly of you because of a positive interaction the two of you had. Just know that there is ALWAYS someone looking out for you, whether you know it or not. Think about someone you feel like you could have become friends with in the last few months. Don't be shy and shoot them a call or a message. You will be surprised how easy it is to find good friends. Whatever you do, don't just sit here and mope about it, because there is someone out there RIGHT NOW. You just have to reach out.
It's not that pain is good, but the pain of our short life here is nothing compared to the joy, or pain, that await us in eternity. The trick is use this time to help others with their pain. I hope this helped. I'm not that good at it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@ArabicNameGuy well yeah ofc, but like the cross you walk based on its heavyness will grant you a higher place in heaven with God and for God thus pain is a good thing.
wake up its time to wake up you have to wake up tyler tyler tyler tyler tyler tyler wake up its time to wake up you have to wake up tyler tyler! you have to wake up
@@Misinformed_yt L streamer no vod having ass no scedule having ass no wins having ass no this is the one having ass streamer no videos either but thast not new
One of these days, I'll finally sit and and think about the possibility of one day starting the process of coming to terms with the fact that I need therapy. Until then, I always have the great Prophet Mifo. TYBG. ...oh, and beer. Lots of beer.
Yeah I won my local Yu-Gi-Oh tournament exactly once became a judge and just lost the drive to exist. Like I'm kinda an overachiever I'm only 23 and I've already dropped out, have started and stopped writing MANY novels, have literally thousands of hours in smash but haven't smashed once.
i am half way through the video and i swear to shiva, if you tell me to just "thug that shit out" by the end of the vid, amma be sleeping vertically from the ceiling tonight
But what if you just kept doing the thing that helped. And just never stopped doing it. Every time that high comes back down, just do the thing. Either until the pain goes away or until you die(whichever comes first). Either way the pain stops. So it’s kind of a win/win.
I mean feeling alone is one thing. When 6arakin showed up I felt the energy from all the boys. Im alone physically but we all love laughing stupid things.
I think therapy is good but not enough, the world we live in is objectively fucked. If you can thrive and feel joy without a problem in this world, then you actually need therapy.
![How We Became the Loneliest Generation [Documentary]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/I19btmIBhx0/mqdefault.jpg)
Bro really said
1. Denial
2. Acceptance
3. Acceptance
4. Denial
5. Depression
DADD
6. Fuck it , we ball.
@@FictionHubZA7. Me and the birds start playing
Thanks, now I don't have to watch the video
this is actually how the stages of grief are supposed to work. A very common misconception is that the stages are linear steps, but the well known list does not really imply an order, a person can experience any of the 5 stages at any time and go back and forth on them, not experience certain stages, and even overlap
There's a secret 6th step:
watch indomitable human spirit videos and suddenly get the urge to solve all your problems THAT DAY AND THAT DAY ONLY
And since it's usually happening around 3AM (insomnia is giving a helping hand here :D ), there's about 21h left before the end of the day!
That's not so bad
Eh, Lasts till morning
When the world needed him most, he vanished
Misinformed's streams has cured my male loneliness. Thanks b'ys
I need to catch more waiting for this zesty drake fan to run sf3 third strike lobby’s I’m in there like a Caribbean to a bbq/cookout
Bryler fixed all issues of humanity
Real
this mf from newfoundland
remember, even at your lowest point where you want to return to the void, to remind yourself of step 6: mom would be sad
You forgot the hidden step 7: which is form a para-social relationship with your favorite UA-camr and base all your self worth on their acknowledgment of you
(Mom would be sad :( )
Alternatively
1. Start love quest by loitering at Target or at local community college with attraction sign confessing no GF and disclosing the cause as unable to initiate with boyfriend free girl because crippling shyness.
2. Develop copyright infringing chimeric intellectual property comic as a form of escapism and outet to indulge delusional fantasy wish fulfillment as self insert marysue character within said comic alongside Sonichu Rosechu Blake and the chaotic combo
3. Switch bodes with Magichan Sonichu and hookup with Mew Two in Magichas body while Magi chan in your body bangs out your geriatric mother.
5. Merge dimensions collapsing the entire multiverse to a single universe where you are a cpu goddess of the commodore 64
Chris-chan maxxing gang.
What is 4?
@@aur4318fornicate with your mentally disabled mother
See, thats why we play Warhammer. The feeling of "Oh its gone" cant ever happen when we are constantly chasing that new model or new rulebook/edition that will finally get us a win
Fr if it wasnt for warhammer, magic, and hearthstone, i would not have been here long enough to get a gf, thus ending my loneliness
Don't gotta worry about loneliness when you've got models to paint
I've tried something similar, I do cocaine. Has the same effects but is much much cheaper.
That Reboot comment is too real, I tried to forget but you force me to remember!
its been s minute since i've watched you, and since you've posted
My man made several important discoveries for himself. Stoicism helps you deal with things outside your control, "changing your life" more often than not doesn't really change anything and last but not least consumerism will not fill the emotion sized hole in your chest. Cheers mate
I've been watching your channel for the last 5 years. and I just wanted to thank you for always being on my feed whenever I need you to either entertain, inform, or feed my delusions of grandeur. This video did a lot to change my perspective on my own experiences with male loneliness. Between losing friends, Lovers, and even family. I now understand that instead of engaging in self destructive behavior, I should do what will really bring happiness and purpose to my life. Playing Teraurge.
Was expecting this to end with "playing league" and got whiplash instead. What in the god damn is that 💀
Man, fuck friends. People suck, Im better off alone (I'm incredibly lonely and have no means to rectify this) 👺👺
Exactly! Who needs to socialize with other people and have genuine connections when I can just be alone and play video games(Ive been lying to myself for years)
Yeah, quality over quantity - and if there's no one who won't try to manipulate, gaslight, or damage you as competition you're better off by yourself until you find people who aren't like that and whom you have enough in common with to have real conversations.
Ok so I'm not here to say this is the one stop solution to all the problems of loneliness and despair, but finding some kind of group to join where you can express yourself and find friends that don't have a "toxic masculinity" vibe, is an excellent way to at least reduce feelings of loneliness. In my own case I became a furry, yes it's cringe, yes it's weird, but man has it made me some of the best friends I could ask for, and it's showed me that I can be open with my emotions, I don't need to act a certain way that "society" expect me to, I can be myself, I can nerd out about cool art, I can be exited about a new movie and no one judges me, it's so freeing.
Valid 💯
i miss you, Misinformed...
1. Create goal and establish success criteria
2. Make attempt to achieve thing
3. Evaluate result based on success criteria
4. Upon failure lower success criteria
5. See step one repeat as necessary
6. Realize the goal never had a realistic success criteria and get depressed (must have gotten to step 5 a minimum of 3 times before unlocking this step)
Thanks for citing me as a source in your research notes
Is the cure to male loneliness watching Misinformed videos?
It's damn sure not making them. So maybe
Finally, some actually good information on male loneliness.
Therapy is 150$ an hour. League of Legends is free. You do therapy with one other person. You do league with everyone as mentally ill as you. I've been playing league for 7 years.
Stop being a loser bro I believe in you
everyone is different but for me, i have so many friends now because i started workin in a restaurant. theres always cool, artsy people working in restaurants and theyre always pretty extroverted and stuff. this environment really helped me to find a bit more of myself. and youre not just sitting around on the computer at home. you have to get out and talk to people. theres really nothing like the relief of working a hard shift then hitting the bar with some coworkers and talking shit until 3 am hahaha. cheers mates. smoke up :D
His hair changed in the scene after mentioning that he had changed his hair style. Thats some dedication
If only I had seen this video on release half a year ago I'd still be here to be able to watch it! Damn you algorithmic suggestions!! You were too late, I should have enabled notifications :-{
oh nice, misinformed scedules his uploads with my bipolar depressive episode returning
what a time to be alive
its only in the depths of an "its so over" can there be a "we are so back"
OMG Misinformed! I missed you, dawg!
"it be like that sometimes" is how we ignore things.
As an ugly, lonely woman I have learned to be my own best friend and enjoy my own company. Trust no one.
I don't expect anyone to desire me. And I'm not interested in love. It's way too painful.
Wow! Thank you for the video upload!
WOOOOOO, Misinformed's upload schedule is more inconsistent then my sleep!
This is absolutely your best video ❤
I love you miss Informed
I am a living example of this.
One friend that dumped me 2 years ago and barely any socializing afterwards.
What did I do to deserve this?
Letting yourself stay that way for 2 years (and counting…)
Move somewhere no one knows you, and start forcing yourself to talk to people. Avoid talking to girls in places they have to be at (grocery stores, public transit, etc.) since the likelihood of it not going well will be high, but beyond that, just yolo it
Start going to group events, like volunteer tree planting or something, and then socialize as you do whatever it is you’re there to do. Those kinds of places are the most likely to have people willing to talk
Just keep doing that until you get fine with it, and you’re bound to meet new friends over time
@@uydagcusdgfughfgsfggsifg753 Gotta love this toxic positivity that completely ignores the real issues and just assumes that simple habits will solve everything. "(and counting…)" even shaming him for his problems i see?
I can confirm that a friend that dumps you is traumatic. I never recovered from my friend dumping me.
Can confirm. Friend break ups are difficult. It's difficult I know but try making new friends. It definitely helps
Dude i've been dumbed by a 2 friends, 1 girlfriend, whole social group from elementary and highschool. Feel into deep depresion, idk how i got out of it to be honest.
And the only thing at 25 years of age that fulfils is me going to work everyday. And sometimes i just hangout with my bro at local pizzeria.
When it comes to socializing, i am not a shy guy, but it's lot harder making new friends when you are grown up versus when you are a kid in a school.
So my advice is, bro just accept that your position sucks. But make best of it.
Main thing that's helped me, both as an adult and growing up, is a two step process that's much easier to say than do and much easier to start the younger you are, but are both doable.
1) Form relationships with people of different genders that aren't predicated on the assumption the two of you will be having sex, regardless of what you're attracted to.
2) If someone criticizes your masculinity or sexuality because you don't fit their model of what a "real man" is, drop them immediately - they aren't worth your time and probably never will be, don't overthink it and don't try to fix it for them, they can figure their shit out themselves.
Another important thing is not taking things personally. Young guys especially like to defend any criticism of their actions or words with the fact that they see themselves as good people. But you can be a good person who did something that wasn’t good. Like when you bump into someone you just say sorry and move on instead of justifying how you walk.
And when you hear people complaining about men, you don’t need to take solidarity of anything by default, if it doesn’t apply to you then it ain’t about you. Don’t debate them. You are you. You are so much more than you think you are and when you focus on being you, you will find a community. When you focus on trying to prove that men are good and try to mold yourself into a “real man” you end up inauthentic and that makes your connections weak and ends up leaving you alone. Don’t be a “real man”, just be real, man.
2 resonated with me the most, my “friends” in high school were those people I had to drop because I didn’t fit their idea of masculinity, they were definitely the types of dudes to refer to themselves as alphas unironically and I’m glad I dropped them because they didn’t give a shit about me, they never invited me anywhere with them, never really communicated with me that much and just treated me like I was naive and too innocent, I’be been meeting some better people nowadays and I’m grateful to have them in my life because they like me for who I am even though I am not the alpha male stereotype. It’s worth it tbh.
@@RaphDeGrate”Don’t be a real man and just be real, man.” Amen to that honestly💯
my 2 pieces of advice for you are. 1) write a reboot fan fic and make your own ending. 2) Buy another model car to keep distracting your self from the void.
As soon as he said reboot, i liked the vid.
Where are you king😭
This video made me happy, thank you
I miss you ❤
Thank you for helping me figure out what to do about that skinwalker outside.
O' MIFo... where hast thou gone...
I'm just chilling fr
This is my first time seeing your actual face and nothing has changed
I go for days or weeks without talking to my best friend who is usually the only one here that i call a close friend
I’m shocked u uploaded. That discord noti shooked me
Building stuff helps the demons in my head be distracted enough for me to forget that I am lonely
3:02 or do things. Literally! Go on a hike, run, cycle ect ect.
is it me or has every stick UA-camr has disappeared
This was actually really good
Damn I never knew your stick persona was so damn accurate
Why won't public insurance cover therapy in Canada? I might be pretty lucky, but I'm American and I use my state health insurance to pay.
It depends on the state though.
Apparently it doesn’t, much like how healthcare in England doesn’t cover dental.
My boy did it.
A lot of times, loneliness comes from a place of ignorance. You just DON'T KNOW who you could talk to. Sometimes, the coworker who seems a bit distant actually cares more than you think. Sometimes, the guy at your gym you've been occasionally talking to, actually really wants to be your friend. Almost at all times, there is someone out there in the world who thinks fondly of you because of a positive interaction the two of you had. Just know that there is ALWAYS someone looking out for you, whether you know it or not. Think about someone you feel like you could have become friends with in the last few months. Don't be shy and shoot them a call or a message. You will be surprised how easy it is to find good friends. Whatever you do, don't just sit here and mope about it, because there is someone out there RIGHT NOW. You just have to reach out.
Thank you misinformed, I did not know waking up and drinking an entire bottle of vodka was not good. Sasuga Misinformed 🙏
so much wisdom standing there at infinite azure 2
Happiness, like all emotions, is fleeting.
Luckily, all of the other ones are too.
the industry revolution and it’s consequences to the human race has truly been a disaster
It do be like that sometimes.
8:28, since I was 10, I pretended to be happy, it took years to realize I was depressed.
I guess I'll go with the God cope and assume pain is good
It's not that pain is good, but the pain of our short life here is nothing compared to the joy, or pain, that await us in eternity. The trick is use this time to help others with their pain. I hope this helped. I'm not that good at it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@ArabicNameGuy well yeah ofc, but like the cross you walk based on its heavyness will grant you a higher place in heaven with God and for God thus pain is a good thing.
Its cheaper to buy ammo for your 12 guage then go to therapy....
A quote from my best friend of 16 years. Hes not dead but fuck do i worry about him
My personal solution to the problem: Fuck it, I’m switching sides.🏳️⚧️
How can i a male be lonely when IM SURROUNDED BY MY BOYZ😢🎉😅😢😊
wake up
its time to wake up
you have to wake up tyler
tyler
tyler
tyler
tyler
tyler
wake up
its time to wake up
you have to wake up tyler
tyler!
you have to wake up
I'm schleep
@@Misinformed_yt L streamer
no vod having ass
no scedule having ass
no wins having ass
no this is the one having ass
streamer
no videos either but thast not new
One of these days, I'll finally sit and and think about the possibility of one day starting the process of coming to terms with the fact that I need therapy. Until then, I always have the great Prophet Mifo. TYBG.
...oh, and beer. Lots of beer.
I HAVE BEEN MISINFORMED ABOUT HIS HAIR!?!? I AM SO ANGRY, EXACTLY AS ADVERTISED, VERY MISINFORMED, THANK YOU.
“why were you late on rent today?”
you ain’t heard? we are currently in the midst of a MLE (male loneliness epidemic, for the uninitiated)
Okay shout out the breads I fw it gang
Wine guy got left hangin’
This was gold
Wish i wasnt emotionally tired so i could put in the work
Yeah I won my local Yu-Gi-Oh tournament exactly once became a judge and just lost the drive to exist.
Like I'm kinda an overachiever I'm only 23 and I've already dropped out, have started and stopped writing MANY novels, have literally thousands of hours in smash but haven't smashed once.
where is this guy, pls come back
i am half way through the video and i swear to shiva, if you tell me to just "thug that shit out" by the end of the vid, amma be sleeping vertically from the ceiling tonight
It's so over
Wow the afro is back completely now
The correct answer is obviously to find a oshi and form a parasocial relationship with her to give you free regular GFE.
Oshi? Yoshi?
Step 7.
Slowly develop alcoholism by hanging out at the local bar with all the other lonely guys because there's no where else to go.
u so real for this one
Is bro okay?
were back
Fuck relationships, they sink like that ship in the movie titanic
And for a moment I was so ready to buy a Lego model of Paul Walker's Nissan Skyline from 2Fast2Furious™...
I could put some serious advice here in my comment, but I think everyone just wants to enjoy the "AHAHAHA, relatable" vibe.
Ayo, ayo, that perfect ‘fro.
Bro please take the tape off the Acer logo on your laptop, that peeling feeling is the solution to life's problems
But what if you just kept doing the thing that helped. And just never stopped doing it. Every time that high comes back down, just do the thing. Either until the pain goes away or until you die(whichever comes first). Either way the pain stops. So it’s kind of a win/win.
It's not loneliness, i'm just entering my hermitage!
Bro really did the serenity prayer with added nihilism
If this mans ever in cape breton hes getting a lobster and a keiths
The guy didn't even do a satire. He just said facts
when the world ends were all just going to be a bunch of lone wanderers
I mean feeling alone is one thing. When 6arakin showed up I felt the energy from all the boys. Im alone physically but we all love laughing stupid things.
The braids are the right answer, but get a line-up. Consider tapering the sides and back, too.
I have an idea.
*"Live."*
So theres this or those casually explained acid vids (they’re really good tho tbh)
Just meditate in the woods to enlightenment and be free from loneliness.
I JUST BOUGHT THAT EXACT SAME MODEL A WEEK AGO DUDE
the legos always help
I think therapy is good but not enough, the world we live in is objectively fucked.
If you can thrive and feel joy without a problem in this world, then you actually need therapy.
Homie's a vinesauce fan? Nice.