Habits I regret not starting sooner in my 20s
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- Habits I regret not starting sooner in my 20s.
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i just turned 20 and i definitely got some tips from here. adults tell us to grow up quickly but then once we are, it's like no one guides and leaves us to figure things out on our own. experience is essential in life, but help is needed. great video tim!
Take accountability and action early in life! Rooting for you 😊
as a 28, yeah follow what TIM says, trust us
i agree 😪
I agree, I can't describe the feeling i get when i have someone to guide me. Everyone needs a mentor.
19 and its true
Tim's Four Quadrants:
1.Health
A. Exercise
B. Cut out junk food
C. Have a skin care routine
2.Relationships
A. Maintain and foster relationships
3.Career
A. Start a side hustle
4.Finances
A. Use credit cards wisely
B. Save and invest
My Man !
how did u make it blue woah
@@newchangeunlisted_viewer5594 lol
Nice nice tysm
hero
“People who wonder if the glass is half empty or full miss the point. The glass is refillable.” Keep grinding you will soon make it I believe in you.
Love your perspective
He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes, he who doesn't ask remains a fool forever, big applause for you for not being afraid about your knowledge and sharing it with us, been a fan for a year now, and absolutely love your channel
Damnn you won't believe me but i was reading a book before watching this video and i read the exact same line you said in your comment!
@@shreeyashmishra2120 which book?
@@Vanshika-td3gd "who will cry when you die" by robin sharma
@@shreeyashmishra2120 ohk thnks👍🏻
I'm 25. I've been investing, failed my business, read books, maintaining relationship but I still need to figure out my skincare routine, exercise, fashion choices, getting new hobbies, traveling and eat properly. Great tips Tim.
Skincare is simple. Wash with gentle soap, moisturise everyday and use suncream as often as you can.
There's a LOT of lotions and potions on the market but that's all you need
Same bro, i'm turming 11 soon
@@bookwormbon482 sunscreen with the correct amount, everywhere and every two hours
@@xxzakizetchexx6511 I'm turning 8 next week!
I just turned 24, and I am at the point of my life where I slowly dropped out of college and working delivery jobs full time. I enjoy doing deliveries but sometimes i feel like i want to be better. I get sad that people i know have been graduating and getting degrees, so I get discouraged at myself even though I shouldn’t. I have been going out and meeting people and it made me better. My girlfriend is all i have and I appreciate her so much. I guess, the biggest need fulfillment is passion and career at this point. Thanks Tim, this video helps me draw what i need to do now
You have come so far by working hard on your own, and that’s a very brave and independent feat. I could never imagine myself dropping out of college, earning money from part time jobs and getting my life together since I always depended on my parents financially. You’re amazing and hope you and your girlfriend are doing well even now! ❤️
Just take some time to figure what kind of career path you want to pursue and restart college. 24 is still very, very young. Keep GOD 1st. ❤️🥰
Just keep in mind that, according to the degree you're getting, on average, it is always better to have one than not, I don't know what year you're in, but regardless, you're already in, if you're at the third or fourth year, then finish it.
Your not old at all. I've seen people in my classes who are in their 40s and 50s who Already have a family. You should never compare yourself to others. Focus on yourself.
24 you’re a baby lol
I’m turning 23 this weekend and this was a perfect sign to improve on my health and relationships. My career and finances are in an excellent spot right now, but that success came at the cost of my health and relationships. I’ll be working on this immediately now that I’ve watched this. Thanks!
Amazing that you've taken your career and finances in hand so early! Love that for you. Wishing you great health and relationships in the coming future :)
Happy birthday! hows life recently?
you’re so lucky you’ve realized now and have time still.
Still 19 but 20 is creepin up, so this is such perfect timing!
it's never too early!
@Ted Lemy can i ask what's that book about??
Same!
Tbh ur life will take a big change rn good luck man and keep going ahead
Same....13 more days to go and my teenage life will be officially over
I just turned 20 today so this video couldn’t possible have been timed better LOL
Grats :)
Take advantage brother. Learn who you are and what you like. A lot of guys my age still don't have an identity and know who they are or what they stand for.
Happy birthday! I hope you have a great day!
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday bruv
I am at an ambiguous phase in my life right now. 2 of my close friends died recently, but on the other hand I am fostering a loving relationship with my partner. I have been devoid of structure for a while now. The video helps me introspect. Thank you for making this one. It genuinely helped me stick to my life :))
Stay strong brother, we all believe in you
@@zfr33ze87 It's been a year since I wrote that comment. Life is so much better now. I celebrated my 1 year anniversary with the same partner I mentioned in the older comment. I have been working out since January. Books and podcasts have been a staple of my daily routine. Feels good to reflect back on how I used to be and how far I have come :)
@@saukashthat's amazing!
I’m so grateful for the Internet and people like you. Thanks to you I can learn important life skills while still young, which some people have spent years to realise. It’s literally a life hack.
can't agree more
I regret not starting a side hustle in my 20's to be much more ahead by now... if you're in your 20's or younger, I highly suggest you try out different things and learn who you are and what you like. A lot of us never figure out who we are or what we like still at my age or have an identity and are lost in this world. So the sooner, the better.
I also wish I got into entrepreneurship sooner and didn't believe a degree to get a job in the rat race for something that doesnt fulfill you is the only way and theres more to life than that.
I also wish I started working on my social skills earlier on as an introvert and exposed myself to more uncomfortable social situations, instead of taking the easier route out.
We're all on our own timeline. It's amazing that you have that self awareness! Rooting for you 😊
You still have so much time now take ur chance and do better
@@ris4430 Thanks brother! I've been doing cold approaches with woman to get comfortable being uncomfortable. I've found that the bad outcome is mostly in our own heads and more success than what I thought. That has helped transition into other aspects of my life. But still trying to make YT a thing and moving forward. Thanks again for your support!
oh the social skills hits me.. im 19 yrs old and i really want to improve
@@stylewithaltitude Im happy for that, and thats so right if u wanna know more about that read book cant hurt me by david goggins or watch his motivational vids, bcoz yes our mind is the one who limit us, periodt.
I'm 17 rn and I started eating pretty healthy and working out 5-6 times a week when I turned 16. Plus I have a morning and night skincare routine that I've been following since the past year. But I'm confused about my career/financial goals and it's very frustrating at times because even tho Ik I'm still very young I just want it figured out and become financially independent so that I can live my dream life and also give back to my parents as much as possible ☺️
I'm with u on this!
Me too! Bit i started at 15 and am now 16?
Remember a thing, most people are dumb. You should and only should learn from those people success.
Learn from those rich, learn from those emotionally infectious, learn from those masters
1 AM and I’m listening to the Asian Jesus preaching about how to make my life better 💪
Edit: After 8 months, I've just realized that Jesus is already an Asian 🤦♂Anyway tks for the likes guys!!!
Couldn't have worded it more perfectly
Asian jesus😂👌
ASIAN JESUS
Asian Jesus 😂😂😂
Jesus was technically already Asian
25 here. I have a great skin care routine, I have some money saved on the side, I've cut many toxic people out of my life and am trying to get my health and "career" on the right path. I'm still working in it all, but just knowing I'm working to be in a good place for the long run really helps! So don't give up, whatever age. The beauty is in the journey ;)
What’s your career?
"I didn't know. I'm not ashamed of it. But now I know". Maybe not the point of the video but I really liked your confidence and acceptance of yourself.
21, and glad I found this. Recently just cut out all sugars and cut down on processed foods. Started working out and have a pretty solid skin care routine now too. Good luck to you!
"Learning from each failure" is such great quote.
Starting a UA-cam channel, dropping out of university to get self-employed and learning about health and finance was actually my 2020 and I'm so glad that I did so
Turning 22 in a couple weeks and I’m not happy with my life style changing mentality is so hard since I have been doing it wrong on a daily basis probably for the last 5 years , wish me luck
All the best , you're still so young , you can do anything ❤️ hope everything works out for you
I wish you all the best ❤ I have the same problem ...
Man up or women up and do it its super easy
I turn 30 this year. Exercise and training was my favourite hobby and pass time but since the pandemic hut, my mental health and physical health fell off a cliff. I want to aim towards caring for myself again. This is solid advice Time. Thank you for making this video!
I’ve been learning this stuff throughout my almost two years in my twenties, but you put it so much more nicely. I’m grateful that I had a mother and have amazing friends and an amazing partner to motivate me
I'm 16, idk why I'm here but I know it's better to listen to him while I'm a teen rather than scrolling on tiktok
Great choice! 👍🏻
Good to see a sensible Gen-Z.
I'm 26, and I think as soon as 21 years old I realized I wanted to do something other than my corporate career. I've already failed innumerable times, and personal struggles have elongated my success at that endeavor. I think it's taken me the pain of failure from "being too afraid to try" that I now have the impetus to actually build a life I'm proud of.
TLDR: Pain and regret aren't bad, IMO they are necessary for making true change. True change will not come from being comfortable, and if you're comfortable, it's ok it may not be your time to change - embrace your journey, much love.
When you see a tea montage you know bruh gon spill some tea.
I'm 22 and I feel glad I already started a few of those habits, they indeed changed my life for better. Time to start the other ones.
Thank you for the advices!
I'm 27, I have a degree ,a job and good looks. I've had multiple failed relationships which I finally decided to work on and it turned out it was due to my childhood trauma( my father's death). Multiple failed relationships also affected my self esteem and confidence. Now I decided to work on myself it's not easy but I'll keep myself moving. I'll work on my health, my skin and just myself .I want to have a good married life just due to my past experiences I don't want to ruin my future.
I'm 36 and this is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Great video, Tim
I usually don’t listen to these types of “advisory” videos, but watched this cos of the content you put out. You’ve explained everything that there is in life eloquently imo. Genuinely liked this vid.
“Today is your opportunity to build the tomorrow you want.” Sharing some love from small UA-camr
Thanks for the tips Tim. The reality of becoming an adult is hard but people like you help give insight into life
I'm a 36 year old mother of 2 and i'm starting all over again...great video. Thanks😊
I'm 21. Grateful for your tips. I'm in college and trying to improve my approaches to life. Thank you for reminding and enlightening me about those aspects!
I’m currently 19 and I’ll turn 20 in a few solid months. Personally I’ve started to maintain my health for the last couple of years and I’m slowly getting the result. Unfortunately, this happened at the expense of the three remaining quadrants. I’ve learned so much from this video, and I hope this information I gained from a mere 12 mins video would benefit me far ahead in the future. Thanks Tim, very cool.
I'm 31 y/o.
Didn't know what my goal in life, 2 years ago I started study in culinary school, today I'm a cook and love my job so much.
A week and half ago I broke up with my girl, she used to call me manipulator and vampire that drinking her energy, recently I've figured out it was the opposite. now I feel way better and have higher motivation to keep going and growing in my life and carrier.
Just applied for a credit card bc of this video and got 100,000 bonus frequent flyer points, meaning I’ll be able go and visit my family in the UK this Christmas - thank you SO much !!
The part of using credit cards (and building your credit) early is so true! As long as you don't spend what you can't afford, you can extract hundreds if not thousands of dollars out of these cards
CAREER
- side hustles
! try out different things
! develop a skill
HEALTH
- exercise
- cut out junk & processes foods
- skincare routine ! ( apply sunscreen before going out ) ( cleanser & moisturizing )
FINANCES
- using credit cards
! research on how to save, budget, invest, credit cards, etc.
- saving AND investing
! educate yourself on these subjects
RELATIONSHIPS
- maintain and foster relationships :) friends, love ones, colleagues, etc.
! let go of toxic people
thank you for these tips tim!!
Thank you, Tim! I appreciate it I turn 20 in August and tbh it's something that does frighten me a lot going into the next 10 years when society says I have to have everything together by, thank you for your words and hopefully I can make the most of my 20s moving fwd!
I just moved to a Uni 5 hrs from home, im glad to say I do most of these (except financing which is hard as a girl bc I love buying stuff lol) but I will say health and exercise are probably the most important to me. it definitely helps with my stress. I was in a toxic environment at my old school... but making the change to a new environment and being surrounded by people who will encourage me to do better in school has made so much of a difference.
adding some good life advice every now and then is very refreshing. this is why you're one of my favourite youtubers already after having subbed to your channel for barely a month now
sometimes we really feel frustrated coz we feel stuck and no one is there to direct and I bet that is the main reason why we look for such videos on youtube thank you atleast we can have an idea on where to start and on what to do
Schools taught us to work for money. Not building a portfolio of career, and that includes having multiple side hustles. I'm turning 23 this year later on and have been thinking about starting a small business despite doing freelance, and your video is another sign. Straight on point tips!
my heart is a little bit sad (quite sad, actually) because i've been lost and got soaked in a emotional limbo for some years and took me some cash and months of therapy to start to realize about these stuff you (almost) spelled out in this video... i got lost but i'm grateful i'm making my way to a better life for me and people around me... I hope that millions of young girls watch this and start to act about it too.
THANK YOU TIM.
I'm 30 now and I can agree that these are all great tips. As far as exercise goes, try to find an activity that you enjoy doing. Try out some group classes if going to the gym just to use the equipment is boring. Side hustles are great and can get you some extra money. Try to find something that you are interested in like pet sitting if you love animals. Maintaining and fostering friendships is tricky and know that sometimes you will get discouraged and not everyone you love will stick around. Some friends disappear but then reappear years later.
I'm 24 and now i'm doing some of those things. Paid all my debts, skincare everyday, need to go again to the gym but i do walks often. It just feel so good to take good care of your own life
Hi I'm 25 and this was EXTREMELY helpful and informative as I plan out my goals through the end of the year and so on
Biggest mistake I made during covid was leaving my job and school to head home. I was worried and scared for myself and family, but more so I was tired. The problem is when I did all that I got complacent and lazy. Now I'm stuck in my bad habits. My biggest advice is to keep a job always/Always be making money.
i'm well into my 30's .... and this whole video is spot. on.
Its like when you shoot on a blink, you can have a tiny millimeter change, but on the blink it can be a half meter change, when you do a little change for the better every day, can be huge in the future.
I regret (even though was needed) not seeing my job as a side way and thinking it as the main way. Your job is not you, find yourself and invest in things that will be good for your soul. Not only on things that will invest in your career.
I don’t regret going to a therapist from the beginning.
I regret sticking to moments of pain for way longer than needed.
I'm turning 20 the next months and I'm grateful for your advices and that i have watched it earlier
i'm 20's and i'm so gratefull to watch this , thanks man.
I turned 24 this year and the most regrettable thing I've ever had is not able to watch your video clip sooner. Many thanks Tim. Happy new year 2022 to anyone who sees this comment.
Finally starting my independence going to college overseas this year. Glad to have your videos backing me up, Tim! 👊🏻
The side hustle is such an American concept. The straight truth is all people can't enjoy and be fulfilled by their jobs, but they can still be content in them. Having hobbies can be for fulfillment and in a less hustle-obsessed society, you have more time for them.
Tim, I loved this video. I’m 23, and it was spot on. It’s easy to focus on your career and lose track of the other important things. Thank you 🙏🏽
watching this after pulling an all nighter and taking 2 exams. After being thoroughly humbled im ready to learn how I can imporve my quality of life.
Loved the video as per, Tim! I'm 24 and there were so many poor financial decisions I made in the past 🤦♂️
Just wanted to say that I really liked your ellaboration on your use of the word "regret"; I think its really important we don't regret things in the past as they're things we can't change and ultimately, they make up the person we are right this second so props to you on that one!
The credit card and saving and investing part got me like obviously, but then I'm like I should just be happy more people are learning about better personal finance.
"Cutting out junkfood"
me eating chips while watching: 😳😀
Im 25 right now and thanks for this! Need to work on my relationship and my career. Health and Finance in my case is all good.
Absolutely loved this one, As I’m 18 this type of content makes me aware of the beautiful freedom life gives me and get out of my confort zone. I hope you can keep doing this type of videos often bro
Next year I'm turning 25. So as of now I'm experiencing quarter life crisis, and sometimes I feel lost in my life lol. Hectic with work, personal life and hobbies I find it taxing and sucking my time not knowing how to juggle all of it healthily. So this video might be the guide for me to start organising the basic.
Read this in his voice, "You can never go wrong by clicking on these videos"
Videoos
not english native speaker but
Thank you Tim for speaking in a freaking clear tone that I can understand without subtitle!!
I just wonder how old Tim is to kind of give a sense of the life journey he's been through to gather the insight needed to share in this video. Pretty enlightening stuff! Thanks!
1 year on my first job, I think it's where I realize there was something wrong. I was able to fix it by giving fitness more time. From 192 lbs to 156 lbs and I enjoyed it so I continued in building my physique. I was able to fin a job where I can do gym in the evening and my art on weekend. I found myself doing sneaker hustle on the side. Sound doing fine, right? BUT, pandemic happened. Man it was 2 years already and I hate that I can't do anything about it especially in our country PH. Now, I am trying to refocus myself and actually quitting my job. I really want to achieve that body so badly! I am quite afraid but with few savings, ongoing investments and newly found sites where I can earn up money in practicing my design skills & background I am really positive that I can get this time with that kind of life or routine that makes me grow and happy. :)
I’m 26 about to be 27 and I feel weirrrrddd… but yes I agree with all of this. I’m finding that a simple and quiet life surrounded by my loved ones is the biggest blessing!
Recently made these changes in my life this year and it has been wonderful not being in credit card debt and seeing your score rise be almost 100 points just because I cut out the needs I didn’t need. The skin care and health foods as well, instantly felt the difference in my days the past 2 months from making those changes. Great video and continue inspiring others!!!
I'm having my quarter life crisis here at 22. I'm really behind in my classes at college. The hole I've dug myself into is pretty deep to be honest, and no one really knows how bad it it except maybe my professors that can see my attendance record and lack of turned in assignments. It's been tough for me to shake what's been holding me back, but I'm going to try getting a part time job to get some spending money, so I can at least stop feeling so trapped financially
Yo I was there a year ago dude, I feel you. It sucks. Talk to your professors. Most of them will understand, and I bet they'll want to help you. If I made it you can too!
I’m 14 years old and I’m glad I get to watch this to get a head start! Thank you for this video
When he said “and if you’re blessed with good health” the captions said “How Dare You” and I had to do a double take XD
there’s a rhythm in the way he talks and it really elevates the watching experience.
I am graduating this year and i am so not ready to leave my friends cus ive known them for so log but life is life and we gotta get through it
i love how you dont claim to know everything and always link your sources. thanks a lot lmao its fun watching you 🧸
This was very helpful!! I’ve been feeling like my life is in shambles for most of my 20s so this will hopefully help me get on track
Yes, I do agree with using CC with rewards earlier. During my 20s, I thought it was all expensive, but now in my 40s, I realize that its not the cost but the value in it that counts.
Great Video. Important to strive for balance and Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life.
I don’t understand how this isn’t a recurring topic at school. These are the life skills they don’t teach and it doesn’t make sense.
I wish someone told me about the 50/30/20 rule and how the stock market operates.
Thank you for these simple tips. Sometimes we actually know them but life keeps us so busy that we can’t think of the obvious. Thanks for reiterating Tim!
I think, health could have an edition of mental and spiritual health as well!
IF TIM can notice this, Ill cherish it forever. I started my fashion youtube channel because of him. ❤️❤️❤️ Love lots from
Philippines.
Much love my friend!
OH MY GOODNESS! 😮😮😮
Is it for real, thank you so much man!
Thanks for the advice, Tim! I just turned 31 and I am a bit late to maturity and/or "finding myself". I hope this summer to get certified for personal training as a side hustle to nursing. Thanks for the inspiration!
You're right on time. You got this my friend!
Me also but I am 23
This type of videos must be done more often. Feeling good about yourself directly impacts how you look.
You are a legend. EXTREMELY positive and wonderful advice. Much love.
this video keep showing up on my recommendations but never had the mental energy to click it. i finally did and i’m glad i did! thanks!
Really enjoyed watching this! Inspired me to make something for when I turn 25. Let’s focus on what’s we can control!!
This was the most genuine thing to ever say to someone. You’re so caring & sweet thank you so much for this video ❤️
I appreciate this video even if I’m already 38-years-old! all the best
1)Start a side hustle
2) invest in health: exercise, cut out processed foods, skincare
3)finances: saving, investing, budgeting, credit cards
4)friendship, relationship community
Don't ever be ashamed of who you are.
Well...depends
It's okay to be ashamed if you're lazy.
Turned 25 a month ago, found my first strand of white hair yesterday. Reminded me that I NEED to take care of myself now for the future me. ❤
When you have a difficult 9-5, how do you find time for a side hustle, heck even health?
I'm learning about those pockets of time throughout your day. I've started turning my bathroom break to surf social media into studying Spanish on Doulingo... right there on the toilet. Or when you walking to get coffee or w.e look up information on how to develop that new skill. Or the steps on how to start that thing, even if you're not ready to start it.... you'll be happy that you're getting ready for the new things in your life. Hope that helps 🙏🏼🙂
@Ria Sharda my point, I love going to the gym, but man does it get tougher to squeeze in
@Ria Sharda I was waking up at 4:30 a.m., but it was killing me, I turned into a zombie. My job requires too much overtime.
Luckily, we finally got a new designer and excited to get my time back again to exercise. But, not everyone gets the privilege of having enough personal time, sadly.
I'm a carpenter and my hours are 7 - 4.30, I go straight to the gym after and prepare all my lunches on the Sunday (it makes a huge difference). Moral of the story is that if you really want it you will find time for it, I need to work on my side hustle which I could train people in the gym.
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I'm glad I found this video. I am turning 24 this year and sometimes I think that its kinda late to start doing these things. Thank you for this.
love your lifestyle videos as much as fashion related ones!
hope to see more of these!
Great tips. In my last year of 20s was really educational. It's never too late start again.
Been waiting for a new vid since so long man
I disagree with prioritizing a side hustle, as so many people do side hustles they hate and arent successful in. Finding hobbies that you like, and that you can find a way to monetize is the better way to do it
I always enjoy watching your videos Tim ! You seem like a good man and someone to look up to . Take care and keep up the good work 👍
I appreciate your kind words Marc, thank you! All the best 🙌
really inspiring, based on experience and not something picked up from a book or something