Adoption Story: The First Letter From My Biological Father

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  • Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
  • I've never shared this letter with anyone. Literally, no one. Why share it on UA-cam for the first time? I don't know. Talking to a camera about my story has opened up things internally for me that I never anticipated. I've told my story to countless people, and it never gets old. I always have a level of excitement and emotion telling the story, but I've never experienced the feelings that talking to a camera has produced. I don't know what or why that is, but life is funny and I'm thankful.
    Prior to any sort of adoption reunion there is a process that must take place, and exchanging letters and photos is one of the steps. In this video I read for you the very first letter I ever received from my biological father.
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    Our Adoption Story Playlist: • Adoption Reunion
    Devon's adoption reunion story: • Adoption Story - How I...
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    About us: We're biological brothers who lived a large portion of our lives separate without knowing one another existed. Now we've bought land together! I'm the good looking brother.
    Follow us on Instagram: / ournewland
    #adoptionstory #adoptionreunion #longlostfamily #adoption #ournewland

КОМЕНТАРІ • 101

  • @hairyscotman
    @hairyscotman Рік тому +5

    THE BIGGEST BLESSING IS THAT YOUR PARENTS CHOSE ADOPTION......for you, for them, for the souls of those involved....

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      It was a blessing for all, absolutely. Thanks for watching.

  • @kickapoocraftycat
    @kickapoocraftycat Рік тому +15

    I can't imagine what it was like for you finding your parent after 28 years. Now you have the rest of your life to make memories.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +7

      It's been amazing. Buying this land with my brother and working on it together -- it's like we're finally able to build the fort or treehouse that we didn't get to build together as kids. Does that make sense? Thanks for watching!

  • @Eio7
    @Eio7 Рік тому +13

    What a powerfully moving letter from a loving father to his son! Obviously he never let go of you through the years.❤️ So glad you found each other.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +4

      Thank you so much! I'm working on a video that highlights the first letter I wrote to him. I hope to have it out in the next few weeks. Thanks again!

    • @Eio7
      @Eio7 Рік тому +3

      @@OurNewLand Would love to hear that one! Also, if you’re comfortable sharing, it would be nice to see the photos you all shared with one another in those first exchanges.🥰 All the best.

  • @MennoniteFarmhouse
    @MennoniteFarmhouse Рік тому +7

    Devon, you had me tearing up!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      Aw, thanks LeAnne! It had me tearing up!

  • @graceandfire
    @graceandfire Рік тому +18

    Oh my gosh Devon!!!! Now I’m in tears. This is such a beautiful story!!! Thank you for sharing this with us. And that letter is powerful and full of love from your father.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +5

      Thank you so much! It felt really good talking about it. Every time I do a video about the adoption, I learn something new about myself. It’s really something I didn’t expect. Thanks again!

  • @bettyhudson979
    @bettyhudson979 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for sharing 😢
    Thanks for the tears of gratitude, thankfulness and including the world of your joy in sharing your emotional moments.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much, Betty! I'm glad you liked it!

  • @Dbellerive22605
    @Dbellerive22605 Рік тому +5

    Your father sounds like an amazing human! ♥️ what a letter!!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      He is awesome! Thank you! I'll be coming out with a video next month talking about the first letter I sent him, so please keep an eye out for it. Thanks again!

  • @Bex-rg8pj
    @Bex-rg8pj Рік тому +2

    I can not begin to understand your feelings of loss and happiness. There is absolutely nothing in our lives that is perfect…although we all hope for perfection. Sometimes life gives us a different story and a different outcome. We all survive by our hearts desire ❤

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thanks, Bex. All of those tears were tears of joy. I’ve been very blessed. My life has blazed an unconventional path to this point, but I wouldn’t change a thing.

  • @b-chomesteading3066
    @b-chomesteading3066 Рік тому +5

    I am happy that you are able to share your stories. You can reach so many people who have gone through similar circumstances. ❤

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      I didn't expect it, but our adoption videos have really caused me to explore my emotions on the entire experience. It's been amazing!

  • @gabrielasmarandache
    @gabrielasmarandache Рік тому +3

    Nice story thanks for sharing this my friend 😀

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much! It felt good talking about it.

  • @foxhollerhomestead
    @foxhollerhomestead Рік тому +5

    Devon, sincerely thank you for this. I know that it took a lot for you to be able to share this with all of us and I commend you for that. You shared an email with me recently that I would like to take you up on when it’s most convenient for you. So much love and so many blessings to you and again thank you so much for sharing this. 🙏❤️ you really are amazing!!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      Thanks for the kind words, Dusty. Feel free to use what I sent you at anytime in any fashion. I hope to connect soon!

  • @RebekahTOUCHEDBYYARN
    @RebekahTOUCHEDBYYARN Рік тому +2

    It is so amazing to hear Your Story about your adoption. And the perspective that you gi'm getting into first letter from your birth, father.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Thank you so much, Rebekah! Much appreciated!

  • @rgarizonahomestead2729
    @rgarizonahomestead2729 Рік тому +4

    i am sure it was something to deal with. i am glad you did find your father and can talk to him now. take care and have a great weekend

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      It's been wonderful! Thanks for watching!

  • @BellesDreams
    @BellesDreams Рік тому +1

    ❤Devon, it’s hard and the tears are because you feel “whole” now. God Bless you and all that are involved. May you have many new and happy memories to come in the future ❤

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Thank you so much, Belle! It has been an incredible experience, and the journey has been amazing! Thanks again!

  • @kristatjaden1834
    @kristatjaden1834 Рік тому +1

    This story mad me cry . Because I my self is looking for my sister. I need to tell her our mom has passed .

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you find your sister soon.

  • @bettymunguia2136
    @bettymunguia2136 Рік тому +3

    I am so happy everything worked out for you and your family 😊😊

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so very much, Betty! It's been wonderful!

  • @robertadriver6931
    @robertadriver6931 Рік тому +3

    What a wonderful story. You are so lucky to have been able to be in touch with the family, whereas I was not so fortunate.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +3

      Thanks, Roberta! I have been very fortunate through all of this. I'm sorry you didn't get the chance with your family. We really appreciate your support!

  • @KrisAndLarry
    @KrisAndLarry Рік тому +4

    Devon! I LOVE this!!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +3

      Thanks a ton, Kris! I really appreciate it! Ryan and I had a fantastic talk after he watched it. This platform has been so great for our bonding. Thanks again!

  • @StellaLive-le9hf
    @StellaLive-le9hf Рік тому +3

    This video rips at my heart! 😭😭❤️❤️🌹🌹Devon, you are so real, so open. You lay it all out there. I'm so happy for all of you!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +3

      Aw, thank you! The introspection has been a surprising outcome of having this channel. Thanks a ton for the wonderful comments!

    • @StellaLive-le9hf
      @StellaLive-le9hf Рік тому +2

      I'm going through some ancestry discoveries myself, lately. Found family we knew nothing about. 🥰 Such a gift and a blessing and that's what drew me to your site. I keep looking for your latest videos. This world needs more inspiration and miracles! God bless your trek...🙏

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      @@StellaLive-le9hf Thank you! Good luck with your family discoveries. There are so many tools now to aid in the search. Thanks again for your kind words!

    • @StellaLive-le9hf
      @StellaLive-le9hf Рік тому +2

      Thank you! Well, we have connected. It's a blessed journey, enjoying the discoveries. Watching to see your projects with your land. You are all blessed in finding each other. 🙏 Great you can all be together.🌳🌳🌳

  • @DamsLifestyle
    @DamsLifestyle Рік тому +2

    Very nice story and very informative.thanks for sharing

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! And thanks so much for watching!

  • @ericseamount6913
    @ericseamount6913 Рік тому +2

    Well done D!

  • @denisedenomme361
    @denisedenomme361 Рік тому +2

    Very touching video, you had me in tears. Will be following you on your journey for sure. 👍❤️🇨🇦

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Thanks a ton, Denise! Your comments have been awesome!

  • @wakingupcountry
    @wakingupcountry Рік тому +3

    I love hearing your story. Thank you for sharing. So looking forward to following your journey.

  • @donmcardle3582
    @donmcardle3582 Рік тому +2

    It was amazing to hear about this process when it was happening, and even more amazing to hear these details and how it has affected your life years later. MD2B was in your blood!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thanks, bud! It’s been an amazing journey!

  • @outandaboutwithsamiam5034
    @outandaboutwithsamiam5034 Рік тому +3

    I can relate personally. Your story is similar to mine.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      I was telling my brother about how you found out you were adopted. Amazing story! Thanks for watching!

  • @FreehandlyMadeAuCrochet
    @FreehandlyMadeAuCrochet Рік тому +4

    I just love your story thank you for sharing it with all of us!

  • @iammichaelyoungblood2721
    @iammichaelyoungblood2721 Рік тому +2

    man you guys are blessed beyond measure!!!

  • @karendeck1343
    @karendeck1343 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful, just beautiful. Hope to see pictures on one of these videos.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Ah, thank you so much, Karen. We do need to do a picture video of how much Ryan and I looked alike as kids, and how much I now look like our father! Our sister and mother want to keep their pics off of the channel, so it will just be the guys! We do hope to have a video that focuses on our sister and mother, since we have a very tight relationship with them, but we need to do it a way that they are comfortable with. Thanks again!

  • @donnal.oglesby4806
    @donnal.oglesby4806 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Devon, your sharing YOUR story. Appreicated. will your birth family ever be on a video with you and Ryan??

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Some will for sure. Our mother and sister value their privacy, so I doubt they will appear. But, you never know! Thanks again!

  • @evelynfrench804
    @evelynfrench804 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful, loving letter. God bless you and your family.

  • @kariamundson5816
    @kariamundson5816 Рік тому +1

    Heart warming story. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. A great happy ending for all. 💕

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for the kind words! It’s been a wonderful experience.

  • @ponderosaprosperity5552
    @ponderosaprosperity5552 Рік тому +1

    I’m so invested in your story lol

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Thank you so much!! I plan to record an update tomorrow and have it posted later in the week. Thanks again!

  • @MtnGrandma
    @MtnGrandma Рік тому +4

    This was beautiful!! 💗

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      Thank you! I still need to ask our dad if he has the letters I wrote.

  • @fullerhomestead2022
    @fullerhomestead2022 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your story; well done! Blessings

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching! We're loving your channel!

  • @benburns5995
    @benburns5995 Рік тому +1

    Hi Devon, wonderful video of your dad's first letter to you. Thanks for having the courage to share this memorable time in your adult life.

  • @Lilly-iy3ob
    @Lilly-iy3ob Рік тому +1

    Just beautiful!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      I’m glad you liked it, Lilly! Thanks for watching.

  • @cinnie2543
    @cinnie2543 Рік тому +1

    Very special. Thanks for sharing.

  • @valhipkiss4011
    @valhipkiss4011 Рік тому +2

    A very interesting story , would love to hear more ,

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thanks a ton, Val! More to come!

    • @valhipkiss4011
      @valhipkiss4011 Рік тому +1

      @@OurNewLand looking forward to see your camping & adoption story’s , mine was similar , but not as such a happy ending , although we keep in touch. You are all so blessed xxx

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      @@valhipkiss4011 Thanks again. I have been very fortunate, and my experience is definitely not the norm. I have a sister that I grew up with. She was also adopted. Her "reunion" with her birth mother was not a positive experience. Take care, Val.

    • @valhipkiss4011
      @valhipkiss4011 Рік тому +2

      @@OurNewLand you need to write a book, or have a u tube that you can just talk on the reunion , I don’t broad cast my story , because I was very secretive about it , I’m now 73 , but still hear from my daughter I adopted out , but it’s just like talking to a friend , it’s sad , but she’s ok now ,

  • @luciwilloughby9657
    @luciwilloughby9657 Рік тому

    God bless you, Devon. Love having found your family and watching your videos. Good Lord does some amazing things and bringing your families story into the lives of so many others is just another one of them. Thank you, JEFF!!!!

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      Thank you so much, Luci! We definitely have been blessed to have been reunited in such a positive way. Thanks again!

  • @jmk1962
    @jmk1962 Рік тому +3

    Was Devon the name that your birth parents or adoptive parents gave you?

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +2

      My adoptive parents named me after the part of England my adoptive dad’s family came from. Great question!

  • @margaretm9028
    @margaretm9028 Рік тому +2

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching, Margaret!

  • @Noname-cn4ly
    @Noname-cn4ly Рік тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much! I recently read the letter that I first sent to my birth father, and I plan on making a video discussing it. Thanks again!

  • @saraschneider6781
    @saraschneider6781 Рік тому

    Did you ever post your letter? I can't find that video.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      I haven't posted that one yet. It will be the next adoption video I post. Ryan may post one before it though. Thanks for asking!!

  • @azgal663
    @azgal663 Рік тому +1

    Well, do you look like them or not? (You said was your main interest).

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому

      I very much look like my father and my maternal grandfather. Thanks for asking!

  • @jodiedillehay8845
    @jodiedillehay8845 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤😊😊😊

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much, Jodie! I really appreciate it!

  • @HolmansHomestead
    @HolmansHomestead Рік тому +2

    Years ago when I was little my ball glove got it out of the closet and put it on and felt like a splinter on my pointer finger. It wasn't it was dang spider came crawling out and that was it with spiders.

    • @OurNewLand
      @OurNewLand  Рік тому +1

      Yeah, that would do it for me!!

  • @miriammuller2845
    @miriammuller2845 Рік тому

    I 🤔