Stop Texting Girls! (Here’s why…)
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I get a lot of question when it comes to texting girls - What should I text her that gets her to respond? How to make a girl like you over text? How to ask a girl out over text? etc. So let's go over the #1 biggest (and only) thing you need to know when it comes to texting girls.
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Tripp what's about text her happy birthday?
Tripp Advice could you give me advice Shall I text her happy birthday?
Tripp her birthday is coming, Is it strategical to text her happy birthday or not?
Tripp I want to know is your
rule about texting same when you want to text her wish you happy birthday?
@@TheTengior For me its ok to greet happy birthday bro, don't overthink, greet her
Wish I was born 10 years earlier. In this generation building a relationship is a joke.
Seriously. Where is the straightforwardness? Instead everyone is playing all these mind games unnecessarily.
I've literally never had any problems
@surprisedpikachu I disagree, I don’t give a damn about wealth. Sure, financial stability is awesome, but wealth isn’t near my number one priority. I’d rather date a good, poor man than a shitty, wealthy one.
Ikr. Its either bags , money or dick. Or sometimes all together to build relationships.
@surprisedpikachu fortunately I’m not shallow like these apparent statistics you’re mentioning. Maybe show a source? Regardless what the statistics say, dating is more than just having sex. It’s interesting that you think that bc of these supposed statistics of yours every girl is super shallow and only looking for money.
Growing up in the mid 90s, we just walked up to girls and try to start something. I remember I was so happy my family had a landline. Being able to call that one girl you were courting was a huge perk.
Thats what im saying bro, in the early 2000’s I was a teenager and I would always walk up to a girl I found cute. I was always scared but still did’t while my friends watched. It was just something that people did if you had the balls. So many men forgot how to do that, so now they have pick up artist charging money to teach men this. LMAO….crazy how the world changes, Also crazy how much more real the world felt back then.
Those where the days 🥇
It was easier as we were out all day social more no tech no int no mobiles had 2 house phone or link up kinda romantic like texting its not you I mean sounds simple but irl you can show your humour personality and your coc lol
@@xvsiggo6029 swallow your pride
I’m the youngest boy in my family and my oldest bro is born in the 80’s, I remember seeing him walk up to girls and that’s exactly what I do now
I think texting is a valid way of communication, I love when a man texts me properly and let's me know that he thinks about me. We shouldn't text all day because who has that much of time but couple of cute little texts are actually really nice.
Why text when you can talk
@@justawake4641 of course you can and should talk but texting is also valid because it is fast and you can text even when you are apart, also sexting is really helpful for building attraction and sexual tension.
Personally I think just being yourself is the best route, and ask other guys to judge you, tell you what to improve on. Make yourself wanted but don’t fear texting like it’s gonna kill you. 9/10 people can text all day if you choose not to cause you’re scared it’s gonna turn her away then she’s not for you. I love texting my friends all day, it makes each day have some involvement. But I agree know when you’re lookin desperate or lame.
Yessss !! Agreed 100% !!!👌🏼💛🕊
There's a middle ground here. You want to be texting at times where SHE is receptive to it. Normally evening times before bed.
General rule is to ask yourself: "is there something else I could be doing rn", go do that. Leave the texting for when you literally are chilling out at the end of the day.
If you set up a date a week on advance, and don't text in-between, you're asking to be ghosted.
Ehhh some would disagree. Depends how invested she's been....for a first date maybe
@@sloomslukethejew Obviously match the energy lol. Don't double text someone who doesn't text back?
My point stands, in that scenario she would ghost you anyways so call it quits.
Simple. Text a couple times a week. Make sure it's fun,flirty and playful. Doesn't really matter if you text first, brevity is key. Always be the one to end. Don't ask out on date more than 3 days in advance. On day of date, text "I'll be 5 mins late" or " looking forward to seeing you"
If no response, make other plans. She not interested
The beginning of the video he says stop texting her asking what she’s up to. The end of the video he says one of the only things you should text her for is to ask her what she’s up to 😂😂😂
Yeah I scratched my head at that too
Is it a “Happy Accident” or whatever it’s called?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂he contradicted himself
@@newchapter6521about the meet up , like hour and place omg .. he was clear
You got the trick this how they play with the minds of so many desperate guys 😂
If a guy doesnt text me, Ill think he's not seriously interested. Calling or mtg up is better tho
What a joke girls
gets 100 messages daily. It's like degrading your value to a girl. As a man I Prefer not to text.
My friend spent years texting and calling his girl and now he moved to her country and he's living his best life with her
Exactly
It’s possible in rare cases
Watch her get bored and the relationship just fall off now that they are together and spending more time with each other.
it rarely happens.The girl is rare breed
I've been texting this girl for the last 2 weeks and we've both really enjoyed chatting and getting to know eachother. Now planning to meet as soon as covid allows it. Be yourself don't listen to people who pretend to know everything about dating
I have the same idea
Different types of ppl
different types of relationships
I became fully attracted someone over text so don't lie about stuff like that plz
Great advice. Id recommend meeting people on person then call her to make her laugh and arrange a date. Displays confidence and interest without being creepy
Numbers > Social Media
Yeah good luck with that. Unless you’re a chad, there’s a phase in which you need to build some basic level of comfort with them before they’ll agree to meet you in person.
If your advice was to talk them into a brief video chat first, then it would make sense, but just meeting on tinder then pushing for the date is how you get ghosted.
You'll still get ghosted.
Instead of saying it only works if you're a chad, become a chad lol
@@ScotsmanJ oh boy!! How have I never thought of that!?
Maybe after $300k in plastic surgery and having my legs cut off so I can have leg extensions inserted and reattached, I can be a “chad”!!
@@ThomasFoolery8 bro, you know what he's saying. Different girls value different quantities in a man. "Chad" isn't just the tall, handsome guy, regardless of the stereotype. Just work hard on being the best you.
@@ScotsmanJ just change your facial bones bro
I set up my 1st date with her over text and I won't communicate till then except to confirm the day before. Save the conversation for the actual date!
Bros at work think I'm nuts -- "girls want you to show interest" -- but it makes sense to me.
Call on the phone between!
It’s ok to text her whenever, AFTER you’re already digging her guts out. 💯
Ooooooooohhhhhhhh gotcha. Bet. So be it.
You need to be in jail.
@@ladyofspa for speaking facts
They hate you because you speak the truth and I for one would like to add "If there's a hole, Theres a Goal!"
@@edanthue5174 and in jail theres plenty of holes. Good luck
Lowkey facts that’s why I fall back.... keep the realm of mystery we talk here and there
I had to watch a couple times and think about it for a while...it's almost as if he's saying I should stop texting girls...hmmm.
You got that right
What he's really saying is STOP GIVING AWAY YOUR POWER! STOP MAKING YOURSELF TOO AVAILABLE!
@@TrippAdvice what kind of advice do you have about texting her to wish her Happy birthday? Is it ok or not?
So true. Especially, if there’s low interest.
@@TheTengior 😐
This guy's girlfriend : In a car accident
Her : Babe my car broke down, could you come and pick me up?
Him : Doesn't text back
A true sigma male
Fuck yeah
Sigma male is now single male 😫
I’m calling bullshit!! It’s your content that determines “interest n attraction” . Texting never put me in the friend zone unless that’s all it was. Homeboy your wrong! Text all you want , be yourself and be interesting. Never lie or play games . Remember if your not texting her. Other dudes might.
Ahahaha mission? Purpose? What is a job interview? I had a lot of good relationships and the all started with a lot of texting about literature, music, food, drinks, art, trips. Knowing a person before dating (because it's 2021 dude, let's stop talking about men vs women) is a good thing.
i appericate texting sometimes but not throughout the whole day all the time, i like chatting when we can, i far prefer calls tho, it definitely is annoying to try and be having conversations with no content throughout the day because i’m like, im doing the things i need to, i want you to be doing the things you need to, and when we both finish that and have time i’d love to text
fine, if I can’t text them, then I’ll send them a post card the old fashion way
No sauce, just meat. That's how I like it. Perfection!
I’m a girl and I only partially agree. I think you can use texting in a smart and minimal way to keep the momentum going… IF used properly between in-person meetings. There’s a lot of middle ground here!!!!
Disagree. A lot of women feel more connected to someone who makes them a priority and communicates with them periodically. Just don’t be generic in text, keep being playful and fun.
It doesn't, it really doesn't. 😮💨Trust me, I learned the hard way. The man is right, you should only text the girl to meet up or invite her out for a date.
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Always call for a date...... Talk in person
Text is for details not conversations. What time are you out of class?
As a woman, I can say that if you want to talk to us, call us instead! It's nice to hear your voice.
Hey guys are you listening
Terrible advice. Text her until you can talk, until you can see her in person, until she's yours. We find out a lot about you when you text. So just don't be creepy
Only texting is unattractive because it says you don’t value her enough to invest time on a phone call.
There is elements of what he’s saying are true,too many txt’s is a sign of being needy/desperate.
Just be yourself,if there not interested…walk away. Sadly,somethings are just not meant to be. Find someone who will stand by you when life goes upside down 👍🏼🙏🏼
But trip what if they’re texting you a bunch first?? Like almost every day.
Be selectively unavailable, she'll start craving your presence!
If she's texting you a lot, that's great! She's doing the work for you. Use that as an opportunity to set up a date as soon as possible. You should reply to her texts, don't be an douche, but at the same time don't just become her text buddy. Like, remember that you have a life, and projects and other people to talk to (or you should anyway) because that's the thing, many guys just drop everything to reply to every text, and that's unattractive.
@@Gabriel-ip6me what I like to do is have a text conversation for a while then when it’s a message they said that isn’t a question I don’t reply. Whatcha think? This is assuming we already have plans to see eachother
@@districtagenda5695 I think it's good to know what you're doing but I don't like to think about "game" too much because that ends up feeling disingenuous. I think when she's showing interest is fine to do it too, but you also should have other things going on in your life that you shouldn't neglected just because you meet a girl. So, basically, just live a life a high value man would.
Be careful some girls just want attention or to be texting buddies. To boost their ego. Only text her with the intention to set up a date. If she says no or I’m busy or I can’t those are excuses and don’t give her anymore of your attention king 👑
Good advice for guys who are bad at texting. Bad advice for guys who are good at texting. This is way too binary - all or nothing. There's a lot more nuance than that.
Very true. Although it’s a good rule of thumb, there are exceptions. I’ve been texting this particular girl quite often and the amount of flirting and attraction we built towards each other is insane.
Of course I’d rather do it in person, but being COVID and distant from each other leaves me no other choice atm.
@@PedroCstify exactly. You would have lost her by now if you didn’t text at all. The point is to not overdo it
What is the context of this video? Is this about dating apps or about girls you've already met in real life and gotten their number? Some context would be useful.
Hey Tripp, how are you doing? What have you been up to? Can we build some attraction?
As a girl who is dating, I completely disagree. I absolutely love it when my boyfriend texts me.
Don’t think talking about guys already in relationship. He talking about new daters
He is talking about guys and girls who aren't in relationship with each other
Normally the dating advice i see online is bullshit. But this, my kings, this is gold. This is the type of advice we need to be giving each other.
🤣Horrible advice. Calls are always preferred, they’re more personal and provide a chance to connect on a deeper level. Random texts will put a smile on her face and let her know she’s on your mind.
this man is really on one
And what if you need to maintain attraction over long distance or time while you can't meet her in person?
dont be so needy ，thats pathetic
You have to face reality, long distance relationships will never work
@@alejobradley ask Odysseus about that
That's a good question man. But make sure the woman makes contact more
@@imshaun4563 Agreed. She should be contacting you as well, not just you texting her. If she's not at all trying to maintain your attraction too then It's more one sided
Taking advice about women from a man is kinda pointless. You guys can text us women without us thinking you have no ambition in life.
This advice is okay! But you have to tune into every girl, some girls are not always available or within reach(long distance). But if you are into a girl, you should leave her some space, if you text her say” hey I hope you had great day, I want to see you! When are you available? “ not only does the message show what you want, but your straight to the point. A girl who is into you will always find a way to see you, she doesn’t need a pen pal, she has her friend that text her all day. Now some girls rather text and not see you that often and it’s okay too, but be wary, while you out there texting stuff, she’s probably with a dude laughing her guts out since he’s asking her out all the time lol
Me Crying in long distance relationship...😢
Won't last
Wait for them to text you! 💪💪
That is 100% true 👍 bravo Tripp Advice
I don't believe this guy. I think he loves to text women a lot and chat via text messages.
Great advice bru
not good advice...you need to talk to the girl enough so she is interested enough to go on a date...
Ikr? It makes them look desperate.
Hey Genius, get the facts straight, how will you know the person without communicating with the person?
Unless if you’re dealing with some nonsense that translate kindness into weakness!
You deal with them in person to read body language and so on and so forth. You can't detect attitude or energy in text messages like you do in real life.
I disagree. Of course irl interaction is the best, but sometimes it's not possible. I definitely would not be as close to the girl I like if it wasn't for texting. It's about balance. Use text for when you can't talk to them in person, but if you can then go talk to them. It's also a lot easier to be open in text, and especially for awkward people like myself it's easier to talk over text and get to know them that way than it is to stutter and attempt to talk to them and make yourself seem unconfident and awkward.
One more thing, and it may just be me, but when someone is always busy and never texts back/takes ages to text back, it makes them seem unavailable and makes it appear as if you're not important to them, which is the opposite of what you want to do
Yes! Sir Chicken Man... it's nice to know the person is thinking of you...nothing wrong with texting....obviously not all the time - and obviously a quick call now and then is nice too. Spending time together is obviously the best way to get to know one another... the content of texting is also important of course..but in my humble opinion..nothing wrong with texting
Im lucky. I think I’ve actually texted a girl first probably 5 times in over 20 years. They always text me. I’ve been going out with a super model the past 4 months and i have never texted her first. Its a great feeling when she texts every other day asking “where are you “?
🙄🙄
Absolutely accurate advice....I can relate
Absolutely
Well... dont listen to this guy if you're ldr~ i think texting is a beautiful way to know someone in a deeper level. Or just straight up call her would be better
Yeah, you're right, it's a beautiful way to know a friend in a deeper level and it's a horrible way to make a girl sexually attracted to you, that's what the guy is talking about. If two people are highly sexually attracted, they would just do what they can to meet up and talk and know themselves and do their things LIVE, they wouldn't want to be texting buddies, wouldn't they?
Dario Comes fax
Finest advise ever.
Great advice. Keep it going.
I text and thats how I get dates 🤷♀️
Plus, nowdays the way of getting to know people has changed, and I think to get better results we should use all these resources
That hair gel is Luxurious.
What if your mission / purpose is to text girls?
If you text anyone with a question without connection whatsoever, they have no reason to say Yes to you. You are just a stranger texting
I don’t mind if I’m getting a bunch of messages from a guy I like but if I don’t like him it will bother me.
I live 125 miles away from her.........I can't call her everyday just to build attraction and without any reason.........until we are in relationship..........I message her whenever I'm free.......and she repliy to me whenever she is free.........Hardly we do 10-15 chats everyday.........Is that wrong??
so I can't text my little sister, and ask her where should i pick her up?
This guy is wrong,
You can text girls and say hi. It will build trust and set your chances higher to go out on a date.
Just don't over do it.
In time you can tell if the girl is interested in you.
How will we get a girl
Stop Making Shorts! Thanks!
Yeah I'm doing that. but what about the guys that get girls by texting?
They’re not by “texting” it’s by the way they’ve approached them
Don't believe in lonely people, and you will be a lot better off, text and email is the new world for sharing ideas,
Awesome advice!
The he must have nothing else to do since he is texting me is not my concern….. I hate empty text, they are a waste of time. If he text, “ wyd” I’m assuming he wants/ need something, wants to talk or see me.. When I reply, and he says “ ok” …. Then I ask “ So, what’s up, Did you need me to do anything for you??” ( My nice way of asking “ What do you want? “) and he replies “ No, just wanted to know what you’re doing ” The conversation is over and the next time he text “ wyd” it gets ignored…
Right also while you guys are at it just don’t call her look at her or do or say anything to her 😂
Don’t even text for a date . Call her up and talk to her
What do you mean by asking her -- "What are you up to?"
More shorts would be great
I'm a female and you are 100% ✅
I don't think so
Thank you so much
Actually you set the tone and dont ask her if she is available...thats like her telling you she will let you know...
Which there is a high chsnce she will never let you know. Because she was never intreated.
You shouldn't even ask, just tell her "We're going out tonight"
Oh yeah you have meet a girl on tinder and your first words are… wanna go a date ? Sure that’ll work…
No, girls see how much attention a guy gives her. Unnecessary texting kills attraction too.. we are mad creatures
Long distance relationship moment
Damn i already messed up. 😂😂
Thats solid, and Tripp/Joe is 100% right.
Call her.
I am going to save this video. Great advice bro.
This advice is kinda dumb. You can text about whatever tf you want, maybe what they ate or if they’ve seen a particular movie etc. One thing I’d say is don’t constantly text them as it shows you’re not doing shit. Prioritise yourself.
Great advice
You do ask girls on dates over text either.
yeah that’s gonna be a no from me dog... it’s not that black and white... you could lose someone amazing really quickly applying this absolute
notice how the women in here are saying this is a terrible idea ???
@@jessiepetri they always say dumb contradicting shit tho🙈
so what you want a full on convo via text? That shits ass we ain’t trynna be your friend lmao.
Well in my case she always chat me I chatted back but with no response. This happen frequently and its my crush aswell. I dont know if shes being annoying which I found nothing but just someone to take to( mostly about philosophy or anything interesting ) or just giving attention or something. She is older though🤔
okay what u suggest bro?
well in my opinion, you should being productive and also be able to text her. Girls love attention, when u are smart, diligent, or talented but didn't give them attention they want. they'll still be attracted to you. But they'll think twice when it come tu build a relationship to you
I don't ask girls out. I ask women out
GOOD ADVICE THANK YOU MY BROTHER
Nobody has downtime to text? There's 24 hours in a day.
I think I agree bro because I would text girls tryna get to know them and they would text back for a little but then stop and I always wonder why. Would it be better to just talk on the phone or how do you go about meeting someone, getting their number and trying to get to know them? / dm'ing a girl tryna get to know them?
Ask them out
Hey Tripp. First of all. Love your channel. Took this video deep into my memory.. however, do you have any advice on the same regarding snapchat. Everyone uses them nowadays.. what are the rules and boundaries you'd like to suggest for the teenagers and twenties.. roll out a short vid if possible
Did you not listen to him? Obviously he knows this… texting and Snapchat are the same damn thing man go on a date for fucks sakes and do what tf he just said
Delete Snapchat
Lol, don't listen to this guy. Nothing wrong with texting a girl you like. Don't over do it afcource. But most girls appreciate when you ask about her life, showing interest.
And if she doesn't like or appreciate it, then she's probably not the one you want in your life.