Looking at things from an stoic perspective, when a girl leaves you, she is not only renouncing to you but also to everything that represents you. She is saying no more to your company, your ideas, your aspirations. She is telling you I don't want to sleep with you neither be part of your social circle or family. Realistically, she does not see value in having a relationship any more. Base on that, why would you want to continue pursuing someone who thinks you no longer worth the effort?
One of the best things I can say about any relationship I have had since I was 20 and had my eyes opened for the first time, I have never taken an ex gf back. “Let’s take a break” no problem. I have had a couple I had as FWBs and only that after. Once the relationship ends or is on a break, I emotionally detach pretty quickly. Not taking back an ex should be a staple for any guy who is dating.
TRIPP, *YOU MADE THIS VIDEO LITERALLY FOR ME,* I am literally in this situation right now, please keep bringing some videos on how to deal with break ups too, it is a necessary and very rare topic in your channel. Thanks for the awesome content, as always!
Tripp is probably the most genuine dating advice guy on YT. It literally feels like he's talking directly to me and selling me something isn't his main goal. Great work, man! Glad to have found you so many years ago!
Grief all you need but when it ends, pull yourself up and start to live your life again. Do what you gotta do. Earn that money, do sports, go to the gym, have a walk, have a hobby, go out with your friends, go out with new girls. She will come back, then you can worry about what to do with her, after you have everything in the palm of your hand. In these hard times we, men, gotta stay strong.
This is definitely true, I'm currently dating someone who cheated on me and I kinda feel like I have to feel the space that she left when she cheated on me then break up with her
I took back a gf after a situation were she most likely cheated. I spent 3 more years with her until I finally couldn’t be with her anymore because I couldn’t trust her. Move on never take an ex back
Agree 100 and 10 percent . Why in the hell would you want jar back either way you will be weaker for taking her back in her eyes and maybe others . Break free and enjoy something new
The only thing an ex should be to you is an fwb at most and nothing more… you should always be moving forward not to the past. I get it emotions cloud judgement, I did the take an ex back thing in college when I was 20 until a buddy slapped some sense into me. Has served me well since.
Thanks for this video I need to work on attracting women and developing this type of mentality. I know they say it’s a lot of fish in the sea but when you’re in the desert you value that one fish too much.
I admire TRIPP; I was in the same boat w/my white Catholic ex-girlfriend: Chris! Jan. 22 will be 36 yrs when I completed my Sp Ed courses in the BCISD'S Lakeview and later, N. Lincoln School in St Joseph MI! Her racist parents both ostracized me 'cause I didn't go to school 'til I turned 26: but she had to-in '92, school ended for her! She lives w/her dad now; her mom died a few years ago! Chris is 56, to be 57 in Feb.(2/25/66-Pisces)!!
Stay single. No more emotional, and financial baggage. No stress, you can do your thing, travel, or play video games, whatever. Don’t ever go back. Drizzle, Drizzle!!!!
Tripp's video title: In March 2017: "The ultimate guide to getting your ex-girlfriend back" In August 2021: "Why you should never take Ex-girlfriends back." Here's my advice Tripp: why don't you stop tripping too much? 😅😅
Machiavelli teaches us how wise is to know evilness in order to learn how not to be evil. Although looking at their titles it seems contradictory, in their content they are not. If you paid attention you will find that basically the first 15 mins. of the first video is an invitation for the viewer to reflects on a decision like wanting to have his girl back, never saying it is the right way to go. 1:17 inviting you to have an introspection on your intentions 11:13 "I want you to see your past experience as a way to grow" 11:50 " is this what you really want to do?" Then he went through the content. As a matter of fact for the viewer it would be even helpful to go watch the 2017 video.
To learn more about developing an abundance mentality and how to have it by creating unlimited options with women for yourself, be sure to check out my online program HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
Thank you for the advice. I have not been in a relationship for 15 years because my ex gf and I have a child. I don’t want to go back to my ex because of issues on both sides. I’d rather move forward and be a father to my child.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
Someone have lied and said that the ex girlfriend she broke up with me when it was the other way around I broke up with her.... It's been over what 14 years she have not found someone who killed that unhappiness... I can never forgive what she did if she had something to say to me she did it herself but she dragged other folks into her business that was a No-No how many times a person gets on a bus and they see you on the bus and they don't say nothing to you. Yes the relationship was boring and it's over... Do I cry over someone that was not meant for a monk or an avatar yeah that is not the girl for someone that's also England descent
How how many times a person said we need to see other people you go out she went out she started dating immediately I was over it I was happy the b**** is gone why you not dating cuz I'm not supposed to...
so firstly opening up my pool to get in contact with more women and then narrowing the pool down. but....How do i know a women is the right type for me when narrowing down that pool?
Because you vet the women that are in your wider pool with the qualities and traits you want and match them up against them, then when you narrow it down you look at the ones who are most strong with those traits
People choose to not have a choice. Love cannot be one sided . If she left , that means she cut all emotional ties . Men need to do the same. Unfortunately in modern times men are treated as utilities and people tend to upgrade utilities. If she upgrades, why can't he upgrade?
No. If she was never your gf, then you're not getting an Ex back. If she came back you would have to ask her on a date and try to figure out what happened. Maybe she'll volunteer some details.
2:06 that’s not true. I’m good with women. And there aren’t that many AT ALL that I actually like. And that don’t have and don’t want kids (I don’t want kids)
These videos are hilarious, saying there is always someone better is ridiculous. It's like saying don't worry you will find multiple people who can break Usain bolts world records, and run faster than him. Many can out sell Michael Jackson in albums. No no no. Yes you may meet nice women, but it certainly doesn't mean that they will be what you want in most areas. There is only one of us in this world. Point blank.
@@jamesbibbins5158 sorry I don't have that problem you have, I have never needed to flash cash. Women like me for me, and my natural genetics. What a pathetic mind set. You can't get worse without money. Lol. So she only wants you because you are spending your cash.
@@dealwiththemdealwiththem6161 Its not the $ that's attractive to most women (speaking as a millionaire CEO). It's the drive, ambition, skills, charisma, lifestyle, boldness, mental fortitude and everything else bundled together that is required to make a shit ton of money consistently. My exes may find other guys in their life, but there will always be points where they'll be on a date, driving around, struggling with bills, saving for a vacation, etc... Where they'll think, "Damn, Neko wouldn't have had this issue." That's what having money is about, long as you're self-made.
Looking at things from an stoic perspective, when a girl leaves you, she is not only renouncing to you but also to everything that represents you. She is saying no more to your company, your ideas, your aspirations. She is telling you I don't want to sleep with you neither be part of your social circle or family. Realistically, she does not see value in having a relationship any more. Base on that, why would you want to continue pursuing someone who thinks you no longer worth the effort?
The problem is a lot of men use emotions and when a situation like this takes more logical thinking.
Wow 💯
When you put it that way. It makes complete sense and honestly the thought of having an ex back is yuck especially after thinking in this way
Bravo 👏 well said! ✅ u should act as if they are dead To u….
Very good points. Never thought of it that way
When it comes to ex-girlfriends, walk away and never look back !
Couldn't agree more.
They’ll end up using you again
Best to continue on with your life, when you meet the right person you'll know
Never ever take an ex back!
She's your x for a reason ☝️
Never Ever try to get her back
Just be happy...earn money 💰 earn respect 🙌
One of the best things I can say about any relationship I have had since I was 20 and had my eyes opened for the first time, I have never taken an ex gf back. “Let’s take a break” no problem. I have had a couple I had as FWBs and only that after. Once the relationship ends or is on a break, I emotionally detach pretty quickly. Not taking back an ex should be a staple for any guy who is dating.
TRIPP, *YOU MADE THIS VIDEO LITERALLY FOR ME,* I am literally in this situation right now, please keep bringing some videos on how to deal with break ups too, it is a necessary and very rare topic in your channel. Thanks for the awesome content, as always!
Tripp is probably the most genuine dating advice guy on YT. It literally feels like he's talking directly to me and selling me something isn't his main goal. Great work, man! Glad to have found you so many years ago!
Yeah great point bro... There lots of fish out there.. just make a space for new fish cuisine
Thats a good way to put it 😂
3 things I look for: Honest, loyal & integrity
I wish tinder didn’t exist, maybe then women wouldn’t think they’re all gods gift.
Nah, I'm happy tinder exists. The wall will be hit harder
depend on situation, but strongly recommended to stay away from ur ex, more damage than wonderful :)
Grief all you need but when it ends, pull yourself up and start to live your life again. Do what you gotta do. Earn that money, do sports, go to the gym, have a walk, have a hobby, go out with your friends, go out with new girls. She will come back, then you can worry about what to do with her, after you have everything in the palm of your hand. In these hard times we, men, gotta stay strong.
Well said brother. Bravo 👏
She will never respect you. Period.
Good point. She will likely treat you like dirt
“That is your brain fuc**** with you” so true!🤣
This is definitely true, I'm currently dating someone who cheated on me and I kinda feel like I have to feel the space that she left when she cheated on me then break up with her
I took back a gf after a situation were she most likely cheated. I spent 3 more years with her until I finally couldn’t be with her anymore because I couldn’t trust her. Move on never take an ex back
Agree 100 and 10 percent . Why in the hell would you want jar back either way you will be weaker for taking her back in her eyes and maybe others . Break free and enjoy something new
The only thing an ex should be to you is an fwb at most and nothing more… you should always be moving forward not to the past. I get it emotions cloud judgement, I did the take an ex back thing in college when I was 20 until a buddy slapped some sense into me. Has served me well since.
I like your video never go back to someone that calls drama and says that she is a narcissist that is not the girl for you...
Tripp it thee smartest coach on planet earth in my mind. Never take runaway trains back keep move forward ever backwards never.
Would love to see more content about this from ya Tripp. Thanks for the tips!
Damn, was hoping to be the 1m subscriber, sitting at 999k. Congrats on that milestone. You have excellent content. Keep it up, its very valuable.
Nice work, very explicit video, awesome.
Keep walking like Johnny Walker
Mr KP
6:08 🗣 that is ur brain Fuking with you!!! Lol 😜 Bravo 👏 well said 👍
Thanks for this video I need to work on attracting women and developing this type of mentality. I know they say it’s a lot of fish in the sea but when you’re in the desert you value that one fish too much.
Understand brother, understood. It’s hard, very hard actually.
This guy spitting straight facts bro 💯
Thanks man, this helps. Perspective helps.
Respect loyalty consistency
Tripp hit us with a bomb of knowledge I mean a wealth of wisdom
Thank you for the reality check 🤝
I admire TRIPP; I was in the same boat w/my white Catholic ex-girlfriend: Chris! Jan. 22 will be 36 yrs when I completed my Sp Ed courses in the BCISD'S Lakeview and later, N. Lincoln School in St Joseph MI! Her racist parents both ostracized me 'cause I didn't go to school 'til I turned 26: but she had to-in '92, school ended for her! She lives w/her dad now; her mom died a few years ago! Chris is 56, to be 57 in Feb.(2/25/66-Pisces)!!
If only you uploaded this yesterday...
Anyways great knowledge.. I’ll keep this in mind
Lol why bro?
don't worry... this video will be again perfect for you next week or maybe sooner, 3-5 days. Trust me!
Don't tell me you took her back?!
Wise words ... good knowledge/experience shared . Thanks
Stay single. No more emotional, and financial baggage. No stress, you can do your thing, travel, or play video games, whatever. Don’t ever go back. Drizzle, Drizzle!!!!
Never go back. Hook up. Ditch.
Facts
Tripp hitting us with truth bombs lol
Tripp's video title:
In March 2017: "The ultimate guide to getting your ex-girlfriend back"
In August 2021: "Why you should never take Ex-girlfriends back."
Here's my advice Tripp: why don't you stop tripping too much? 😅😅
my personal experience says stay away from your ex
Even there he secretly tried to get you move on from her secretly
Machiavelli teaches us how wise is to know evilness in order to learn how not to be evil.
Although looking at their titles it seems contradictory, in their content they are not. If you paid attention you will find that basically the first 15 mins. of the first video is an invitation for the viewer to reflects on a decision like wanting to have his girl back, never saying it is the right way to go.
1:17 inviting you to have an introspection on your intentions
11:13 "I want you to see your past experience as a way to grow"
11:50 " is this what you really want to do?"
Then he went through the content. As a matter of fact for the viewer it would be even helpful to go watch the 2017 video.
All it means is that Tripp has leveled up.
He earns his money by making videos 🤡
To learn more about developing an abundance mentality and how to have it by creating unlimited options with women for yourself, be sure to check out my online program HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
Perfect timing, almost did a very big mistake
I am every where
Great video tripp, helpful
She's in the past because there's a reason why she belongs to the past. Never forget that reason.
Loved it when you stated what if lightning hits her and dies 😅 . I wouldn't care less, you the man. Trade em for 3 first round draft picks😅
never take her back, new girl new 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for the advice. I have not been in a relationship for 15 years because my ex gf and I have a child. I don’t want to go back to my ex because of issues on both sides. I’d rather move forward and be a father to my child.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.
I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago.He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem... 🏃♂🏃♂🏃♂
You can connect with him on wh'atsapp*🙏👇
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Yes I am the girl for you yes I am the girl for you...
Words of wisdom.
This is good stuff and way true
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
👆You can connect with him on wh'atsapp*🙏👆.
1k likes bro 💪🏾💯
Truths! Thank you
Someone have lied and said that the ex girlfriend she broke up with me when it was the other way around I broke up with her.... It's been over what 14 years she have not found someone who killed that unhappiness... I can never forgive what she did if she had something to say to me she did it herself but she dragged other folks into her business that was a No-No how many times a person gets on a bus and they see you on the bus and they don't say nothing to you. Yes the relationship was boring and it's over... Do I cry over someone that was not meant for a monk or an avatar yeah that is not the girl for someone that's also England descent
Legend has it that if he gives you a letter the ring is on the way :) Just sent her a letter with Text a Letter and guess what happened next…👰
Exactly why I keep going back to my ex. There’s more bitches in the sea 🌊
Link your wounds and move on
How how many times a person said we need to see other people you go out she went out she started dating immediately I was over it I was happy the b**** is gone why you not dating cuz I'm not supposed to...
Thank you my boy fr
Snake traps the Mongoose in the snake pit
so firstly opening up my pool to get in contact with more women and then narrowing the pool down. but....How do i know a women is the right type for me when narrowing down that pool?
Because you vet the women that are in your wider pool with the qualities and traits you want and match them up against them, then when you narrow it down you look at the ones who are most strong with those traits
Never ever
🔥nice Video
I just wanted to say thank you for this video. I needed this really bad. Please keep up your great work.
Then she tried to convince me to say that she is the girl for me yeah are you Greek she took off running and start crying what does that mean....
Its not about having the choice sir when u love a woman u dont want another even the prettiest in the world
People choose to not have a choice. Love cannot be one sided . If she left , that means she cut all emotional ties . Men need to do the same. Unfortunately in modern times men are treated as utilities and people tend to upgrade utilities. If she upgrades, why can't he upgrade?
Does this apply to girls who have ghosted you and come back?
No. If she was never your gf, then you're not getting an Ex back. If she came back you would have to ask her on a date and try to figure out what happened. Maybe she'll volunteer some details.
@@shitmandood Good thought- thanks
This is the boat I'm in thsts crazy
The phrase “Better The Devil You Know”, when it comes to relationships, is not applicable.
The reason…they are the devil.
A wife either.
On point
Did UA-cam change its policy about swearing?
2:06 that’s not true. I’m good with women. And there aren’t that many AT ALL that I actually like. And that don’t have and don’t want kids (I don’t want kids)
4:17 idk. I believe in second chances
You are mike Damone from fast times
What if we still love her what u should we do
@Young GuNz
Sorry for what happened between you and your partner
I can connect you to some one who can help you resolve your problems
@Young GuNz
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True
These videos are hilarious, saying there is always someone better is ridiculous. It's like saying don't worry you will find multiple people who can break Usain bolts world records, and run faster than him. Many can out sell Michael Jackson in albums. No no no. Yes you may meet nice women, but it certainly doesn't mean that they will be what you want in most areas. There is only one of us in this world. Point blank.
Have to get your money up to date the woman you want
@@jamesbibbins5158 sorry I don't have that problem you have, I have never needed to flash cash. Women like me for me, and my natural genetics.
What a pathetic mind set. You can't get worse without money. Lol. So she only wants you because you are spending your cash.
But how can a person be the one if they've discarded you? Any person who cares about you is already above that.
@@dealwiththemdealwiththem6161 Its not the $ that's attractive to most women (speaking as a millionaire CEO). It's the drive, ambition, skills, charisma, lifestyle, boldness, mental fortitude and everything else bundled together that is required to make a shit ton of money consistently. My exes may find other guys in their life, but there will always be points where they'll be on a date, driving around, struggling with bills, saving for a vacation, etc... Where they'll think, "Damn, Neko wouldn't have had this issue." That's what having money is about, long as you're self-made.
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Geneses. Feminism is dead.