Good stuff. I'll use some of these principles with a girl I just matched with. The background music makes it feel sorta like a retail employee training video though.
Hi Blaine, I really struggle with texting because there is no environment to create a context backdrop for conversation so I never know what to talk about. This video is extremely helpful. Thank you.
Hi Blaine, thankyou so much for this video, it's so incredibly helpful. I find all of your content to the point, logical and easy to understand. So extremely useful! Thankyou so much 😊🙏
Instead of trying to control the interaction…. Let it flow naturally… if it’s going to work, it will. If it doesn’t, it wasn’t supposed to and there’s something better on its way. Simply BE YOURSELF !!!!! How else are you supposed to find YOUR match. Have faith in who YOU are.. not in a perceived self identity of you. Guys…. I’m serious… trust in you before some video… it works.. stop the inner dialogue of self doubt… be happy with you.. grow that feeling inside… and guess what.. women come to you.. no bs.. because you are being authentic to you !!!! It radiates from you. You can have what you want… just turn off the influence of negativity.
Heretofore, MOST the girls that are willing to end up having the longest conversations with me on texting... are the ones that meetup and then end up being too shy to actually talk, the date sucks, and a second one doesn't happen because I feel uncomfortable and like my time was wasted. Which is frustrating, because the opposite tends to be true - the ones who don't send too many messages, end up being normal in-person, the dates are great, but then the second date doesn't usually happen, or we meet a second time just for sex, and she usually ghosts soon after. The pattern that I'm noticing is that texting and in-person are supposed to back each other up. When one of those isn't happening, namely meeting up in person, and not for my lack of asking, then the conversation is going to fall apart pretty quickly. So it's a two-point dilemma for most guys. Yes, they're asking a girl out, but also the more we get told, no over and over again, it makes us less likely to ask in the first place if the text messages look a certain way. Which, in a way is unfair to the girl, the same "okay dude" means two different things in two different contexts. Her texts can _look_ bitchy but then in-person she is receptive. In a way, I'm kind of just at a point where I'd rather not have her number at all if it means my time is going to be wasted. But I think a strategy of _calling and texting_ might work better for me.
New to your channel Great helpful advice: however, I'm old school I would rather call because things get lost in a text conversation, misspelled words typo's Etc... I think women who are older prefer a phone conversation. I'm down for; but I would rather call. Somehow, we've gotten away from an old fashion phone call.
Yes! Even among dear friends, unfortunately. I have never understood how you can fake a conversation by texting as if it was one. Remember that the words are only a minor part of the communication! You miss facial expressions, nuances in the voice, eye contact, a barely noticeable smile etc. Not that I as an autistic person am very good at those things, but I refuse to text chat since that gives me nothing but anxiety. Phone calls are fine or why not just go for a walk together? Or a lunch? I like writing letters. I try to find a golden middle ground online where I don't text chat, but write long well-formulated messages, but not so long that no one wants to reply to them. That usually means roughly this length, even though I have a strong tendency to write way longer. For me text is monologue.
Fellas, this is how you get friend zoned. The way to keep a conversation going thru text is. . . DON'T. Briefly text while flirting or arranging plans to meet.
Yeah, I know we are all different, but I have never understood the concept of conversation by texting. Why on earth don't people just meet up and talk? I like writing letters and that is what I do if I get in touch with someone on the internet.
I respect her for what she does to men like us and I see her like my teacher and not some sexy women or slut. Atleast respect women who is trying to change your life
Good stuff. I'll use some of these principles with a girl I just matched with.
The background music makes it feel sorta like a retail employee training video though.
Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate that.
Hi Blaine, I really struggle with texting because there is no environment to create a context backdrop for conversation so I never know what to talk about. This video is extremely helpful. Thank you.
Glad to help!!
@@DatingByBlaine that's right
Really good work, great to see you on YT! You have come so far in the last couple of months! Thanks for all your tips
I think it's only best to text to make plans to hangout.
Solid advice, thank you, Blaine!!
Hi Blaine, thankyou so much for this video, it's so incredibly helpful. I find all of your content to the point, logical and easy to understand. So extremely useful! Thankyou so much 😊🙏
Great tips and video Blaine! Very helpful!
Glad to help!
Instead of trying to control the interaction…. Let it flow naturally… if it’s going to work, it will. If it doesn’t, it wasn’t supposed to and there’s something better on its way.
Simply BE YOURSELF !!!!! How else are you supposed to find YOUR match.
Have faith in who YOU are.. not in a perceived self identity of you.
Guys…. I’m serious… trust in you before some video… it works.. stop the inner dialogue of self doubt… be happy with you.. grow that feeling inside… and guess what.. women come to you.. no bs.. because you are being authentic to you !!!! It radiates from you. You can have what you want… just turn off the influence of negativity.
Heretofore, MOST the girls that are willing to end up having the longest conversations with me on texting... are the ones that meetup and then end up being too shy to actually talk, the date sucks, and a second one doesn't happen because I feel uncomfortable and like my time was wasted. Which is frustrating, because the opposite tends to be true - the ones who don't send too many messages, end up being normal in-person, the dates are great, but then the second date doesn't usually happen, or we meet a second time just for sex, and she usually ghosts soon after.
The pattern that I'm noticing is that texting and in-person are supposed to back each other up. When one of those isn't happening, namely meeting up in person, and not for my lack of asking, then the conversation is going to fall apart pretty quickly. So it's a two-point dilemma for most guys. Yes, they're asking a girl out, but also the more we get told, no over and over again, it makes us less likely to ask in the first place if the text messages look a certain way. Which, in a way is unfair to the girl, the same "okay dude" means two different things in two different contexts. Her texts can _look_ bitchy but then in-person she is receptive.
In a way, I'm kind of just at a point where I'd rather not have her number at all if it means my time is going to be wasted. But I think a strategy of _calling and texting_ might work better for me.
Can teach me to text?
Great content Blaine, thank you 😊
glad to help!
New to your channel
Great helpful advice: however, I'm old school I would rather call because things get lost in a text conversation, misspelled words typo's Etc... I think women who are older prefer a phone conversation. I'm down for; but I would rather call.
Somehow, we've gotten away from an old fashion phone call.
Yes! Even among dear friends, unfortunately. I have never understood how you can fake a conversation by texting as if it was one. Remember that the words are only a minor part of the communication! You miss facial expressions, nuances in the voice, eye contact, a barely noticeable smile etc. Not that I as an autistic person am very good at those things, but I refuse to text chat since that gives me nothing but anxiety. Phone calls are fine or why not just go for a walk together? Or a lunch? I like writing letters. I try to find a golden middle ground online where I don't text chat, but write long well-formulated messages, but not so long that no one wants to reply to them. That usually means roughly this length, even though I have a strong tendency to write way longer. For me text is monologue.
this is how you land in the friendzone
Not the first suggestions
exactly my thought :)))
The first 3 points are very solid
Thanks for the share. I haven't heard of "rec" interesting
Hope you learned something :)
Fellas, this is how you get friend zoned.
The way to keep a conversation going thru text is. . . DON'T. Briefly text while flirting or arranging plans to meet.
It is great just to answer all her questions in Whatsapp and switch to home tasks
Fine as hell
These are generally good ideas for an in-person conversation, but I think it’s a bad idea to talk this much over text.
Yeah, I know we are all different, but I have never understood the concept of conversation by texting. Why on earth don't people just meet up and talk? I like writing letters and that is what I do if I get in touch with someone on the internet.
In other words, there is no text that will make her happy.
Bringing up politics with girls these days is a high risk low reward to put it lightly
lookin cute :)
Don't text when it comes to matters of the heart. Be a man and talk to her face to face for all matters of the heart!
hell nah😭 this not it
I’m a bit distracted by that skirt but ok I’ll go back and listen
She’s married
Andrew Tate would have hooked up with Blaine after one date even if she is married.
@@seanm.collins9888 Nope
I respect her for what she does to men like us and I see her like my teacher and not some sexy women or slut. Atleast respect women who is trying to change your life
Blaine during your lesson you are moving your hands and jerking your body constantly. Watch yourself, it is very distracting l