Why You Shouldn’t Trust Boredom | Kevin H. Gary | TED

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  • @laojace
    @laojace Рік тому +94

    Summary: Why we should pay attention to our boredom
    1. Boredom tends to be externalised & objectified but it reflects our internal mood state. Boredom should not be trusted.
    2. To avoid the pain of boredom, people become avoidant or resignated. Due to a loss of agency and of imagination. We need to protect our bored minds which become primed for distractions.
    3. Get strategic about managing our boredom. Name and talk about these strategies.

    • @GammaCats
      @GammaCats 10 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for saving me time

    • @malikakbar4241
      @malikakbar4241 10 місяців тому +1

      thanks for it

    • @balonh1052
      @balonh1052 10 місяців тому +1

      I dont understand that much

    • @pokretnizbun
      @pokretnizbun 9 місяців тому +3

      Wow, thank you so much, that speech was getting boring and I was here to learn how to deal with boredom

  • @poyitjdr
    @poyitjdr Рік тому +38

    I think boredom is the brain’s way of telling us we need a change. It could be a change of perspective. Ex: math is boring to me but the history of it isn’t- now I know the history and math is way more fascinating.
    It could be a physical change, like dyeing your hair because you’re bored of your current hair color.
    Boredom may also signify that you need to take time for yourself. You might be overworked or burnt out.
    I don’t think boredom is the enemy. I think it’s an incredibly useful signifier. Boredom has caused me to branch out and learn new things, try new activities, explore, and form new relationships. If I never got bored, I’d be a boring person.

  • @mochikokopop
    @mochikokopop 11 місяців тому +9

    And guess who did the Arabic subtitles for this video :)
    My sister did °•°
    So proud of u sis

  • @TheOneWhoKnocks969
    @TheOneWhoKnocks969 Рік тому +14

    In this attention economy keeping content with your boredom is really an asset

  • @Pete_R63
    @Pete_R63 11 місяців тому +7

    I like a quote from one of the characters in Game of Thrones. He quoted his father as saying, "Boredom shows a lack of inner resources." Personally, I don't get bored.

  • @JamesVestal-dz5qm
    @JamesVestal-dz5qm 6 місяців тому +1

    Troubling addictions that are linked to boredom motivated me to find this video.

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 Рік тому +24

    I've been bored multiple times. Truth is, one of my hobbies is looking up at the ceiling.

  • @pinkpiano1160
    @pinkpiano1160 Рік тому +225

    Who else clicked on this video as a boredom avoidance

    • @johnadams1976
      @johnadams1976 Рік тому +1

      Me

    • @ZWD2011
      @ZWD2011 Рік тому +1

      It didn't help. There is nothing wrong with being bored every now and then.

    • @roserosalindflying499
      @roserosalindflying499 Рік тому

      A bit dull

    • @enzoshk5287
      @enzoshk5287 11 місяців тому

      I didnt I came here cause boredome legit annoys me, and I got very bored watching this video

    • @falaqnasar
      @falaqnasar 10 місяців тому

      And i got bored while listening to him🙃

  • @pw.70
    @pw.70 11 місяців тому +5

    That presentation was not boring at all.

  • @arnonil
    @arnonil Рік тому +14

    I really liked the talk! The speaker spent a good amount of time introducing what boredom is, which I think is an important topic. However, in my humble opinion, it would have been even better if the speaker provided more concrete information instead of leaving us guessing.

    • @jeanineacree6355
      @jeanineacree6355 Рік тому

      Exactly!

    • @llewellyn08
      @llewellyn08 Рік тому +1

      I agree. I was searching in the comment section for an explanation and completely relate to your comment

  • @robertandsharon9428
    @robertandsharon9428 6 місяців тому

    A lack of agency and a lack of imagination. Good points.

  • @nguyenquangminh1544
    @nguyenquangminh1544 11 місяців тому +1

    If you can control boredom well, it will be a pretty good state of feeling to have. It’s like a signal that motivate us to change and take some actions to get out of it. If you constantly avoids boredom, you’ll be easily end up with constant distractions. Besides, boredom also gives us time to think about our own problems (which is quite rare nowadays)

  • @liasherr2147
    @liasherr2147 Рік тому +11

    finally, a new video! i was bored a minute before 😁

  • @fauxvier8519
    @fauxvier8519 Рік тому +2

    Kinda proud of myself that the idea of being left to my thoughts for 15 minutes is actually pretty doable and prolly shows how im doing well adapting to age.

  • @Cackem
    @Cackem Рік тому +5

    Did it really take him 10 boring long minutes to just say "don't think about being bored"?

  • @Sujal-More
    @Sujal-More 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks A Million for this Video. Great Talk. I got Nice Knowledge and it will help me.

  • @GingkoBlossom1
    @GingkoBlossom1 Рік тому +6

    Maybe a large part of boredom of our young people is due to the instant gratification of electronics, especially the internet. No need for imagination or delayed gratification. The need to receive stimuli at a slower pace than that which is delivered by artificial sources, for example, a book, or human speech, or a board game versus electronic versions of the same, requires extended focus. And that focus has been diminished by the instant stimulation of electronics. Artificial engagement has largely decreased the need for sustained thought, slow, internal pondering and original imaginings. The young are too easily bored because they have reduced internal resources.

  • @mericanmade9843
    @mericanmade9843 Рік тому

    The 2 ways of dealing with boredom: avoiding it (by like going on your phone) or giving in to it and just conforming to it

  • @rajeshbadge1062
    @rajeshbadge1062 11 місяців тому

    Greatly Explained

  • @bird5119
    @bird5119 Рік тому +1

    2:29 Okay, he did NOT have to out me playing tetris while he was saying that..

  • @timkiemdautu
    @timkiemdautu Рік тому

    The video is great. Really happy to see this video. Thank you

  • @Skipping2HellPHX
    @Skipping2HellPHX Рік тому +1

    The powerpoint thread just got abruptly dropped. I expected there to be a point to that anecdote, but the point never came.

  • @LuciFeric137
    @LuciFeric137 Рік тому

    Hard work is the best cure for boredom.

  • @HarpaAI
    @HarpaAI 11 місяців тому +6

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:03 🚌 *Boredom as a common human experience.*
    - Introduction to the speaker's son's first day of school and his reaction to hallway procedures.
    - Boredom as a pervasive issue in schools and institutions, leading to disinterest and misbehavior.
    01:01 💡 *The complexity of boredom.*
    - Examination of boredom as a multifaceted problem.
    - The impact of boredom on students in school and its potential consequences.
    03:00 🎭 *Boredom as a subjective mood state.*
    - Exploration of the subjective nature of boredom and how individuals judge what is boring.
    - The paradox of boredom as both objective and subjective.
    04:01 ⚙️ *Coping strategies for boredom.*
    - Discussion of the two dominant ways people deal with boredom: avoidance and resignation.
    - The pain associated with boredom and how it can lead to avoidance behaviors.
    05:33 🔄 *The consequences of avoidance and resignation.*
    - Examination of the effects of avoidance and resignation in various life situations.
    - The loss of imagination and agency when boredom leads to resignation.
    07:03 🤝 *Finding a middle way.*
    - Personal stories highlighting the need for a balanced approach to boredom.
    - The importance of not automatically trusting boredom judgments and protecting attention.
    09:03 ✋ *Takeaways for contending with boredom.*
    - Three key takeaways: not trusting boredom judgments, protecting attention, and discussing boredom.
    - Encouragement to reflect on and manage boredom in order to focus on meaningful aspects of life.
    Made with HARPA AI

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 Рік тому

    When getting strategic about managing boredom after going through many years of being at risk how do I narrow my focus again while avoiding negative comments offered to me by people outside of school about how i should continue giving up learning any computer languages at age 67? At the time I had to agree being very slow at typing meant it would not be my forte when learning computer coding anyway.

  • @felipemattos2000
    @felipemattos2000 Рік тому

    The boredom is a mood of learning.

    • @Ninja9JKD
      @Ninja9JKD Рік тому

      Or is it the state of the brian while teachers force propaganda and other BS on students?

  • @Rsysas
    @Rsysas 11 місяців тому

    It’s huge issue - just find something I would not be bored. Thx. It starts with smart kids bored

  • @thuyrubicosmetic
    @thuyrubicosmetic Рік тому

    cảm ơn a đã chia sẻ cách tránh sự nhàm chán: giảm sự chú ý và tập trung điều mình quan tâm

  • @TROLOL204
    @TROLOL204 Рік тому +6

    At the very least, boredom before falling asleep should be tolerated. Using the phone in bed have been terrible for me and I've finally learned to read instead.

  • @ayasarsour2860
    @ayasarsour2860 Рік тому

    Amazing, thank you very much 😊

  • @marcinbadtke
    @marcinbadtke 11 місяців тому

    In my opinion there is no such thing as boredom. A person can feel anxiety when there is no external stimulus when a person is addicted to stress. Emotional peaks. Which is almost anyone in modern high developed countries. Children are brought up with fast moving pictures before their eyes all the time. Parents play with them. They play with other children in kindergarten. All the time high emotions. No one is teaching them how to be self aware. How can we expect from them to eventually sit still and listen to the teacher in school? How can we expect from such adults to work constantly on something hard to achieve for a longer period of time? Quick reward is an ultimate goal.

  • @MichaelLevine-n6y
    @MichaelLevine-n6y 9 місяців тому

    Boredom in school prepares one for the workplace.

  • @darrenjohn3382
    @darrenjohn3382 Рік тому

    Yeh takaway good idear

  • @rachelkrumpelman5131
    @rachelkrumpelman5131 Рік тому +2

    When I was a child, if I said I was bored, I got chores. So, when I became a parent, I told my son, "Only boring people get bored." My son is 16 next month; I never hear him say he's bored.

  • @哈哈哈哈哈-w3s
    @哈哈哈哈哈-w3s Рік тому

    whats meaning about hallway procedures?

  • @jordanaction
    @jordanaction 8 місяців тому

    I listened to this at 2x speed to avoid boredom

  • @omeryldz6338
    @omeryldz6338 Рік тому

    Me clicking this video to have solution to it.
    Meanwhile TEDx: Boredom should not be trusted.

  • @TuNrIs
    @TuNrIs Рік тому

    What in the world are hallway procedures? That's something I've never had in my country. At all.

  • @darareachphon
    @darareachphon Рік тому +1

    Please don't grind me down.

  • @aSHTEBALA
    @aSHTEBALA 11 місяців тому

    The kid be like: Sheesh, I got it, no need to make a whole TED talk about it

  • @darareachphon
    @darareachphon Рік тому +1

    I love boredom. 😅 maybe because I am lazy.

  • @TheGoodOldHumanBeing
    @TheGoodOldHumanBeing Рік тому +1

    Boredom is a privilege, and choice is a luxury.

  • @maulidasafirak.l.7348
    @maulidasafirak.l.7348 11 місяців тому

    Love

  • @sandeepkn863
    @sandeepkn863 Рік тому

    To avoid wathcing videos in the mornings i go for running ...and dont take mobile while running

  • @evelynullman8360
    @evelynullman8360 11 місяців тому

    Watched this video, ended up being completely bored.

  • @happykillmore349
    @happykillmore349 Рік тому

    The irony of this one...

  • @nataliep6385
    @nataliep6385 Рік тому +1

    I thought this was Andy from The Office.. From looking at the thumbnail of the video lol

  • @epiclifechangingdevice
    @epiclifechangingdevice 11 місяців тому

    Summary: Get the "Light Phone"

  • @mathphony
    @mathphony 11 місяців тому

    I really like his idea on boredom, though in my opinion, this is the least interesting Ted talk I've listened to in a while

  • @yordygarcia1242
    @yordygarcia1242 Рік тому

    I clicked because I was bored and started thinking about dying

  • @valeriejeaneraga1661
    @valeriejeaneraga1661 Рік тому

    Third 😂, something pops up out of boredom 😅😂.

  • @hori7onlife
    @hori7onlife Рік тому

    who's coughing? it's so loud!

  • @research1747
    @research1747 Рік тому

    If you want to never be bored work on your spiritual life - you will never get to perfection but you will never be bored trying !

  • @vcat417
    @vcat417 Рік тому +3

    This is boring ..

    • @vcat417
      @vcat417 Рік тому +1

      … into my mind.

  • @_mr.sharique_
    @_mr.sharique_ Рік тому

    Well, really got bored by this..

  • @rajagamingyt581
    @rajagamingyt581 9 місяців тому

    I fell bored while watching this

  • @Ninja9JKD
    @Ninja9JKD Рік тому

    If you find yourself board often then you may be a boring person. Try doing some soul searching to find what you value which money can't buy

  • @davidlange1000
    @davidlange1000 Рік тому +1

    Oh my God, this is the most boring ted talk of all time

    • @davidlange1000
      @davidlange1000 Рік тому +1

      The ad was a welcome reprieve from this ted talk

  • @touchthepaintproductions6923
    @touchthepaintproductions6923 11 місяців тому

    This talk lacks depth of insight, so much so that it hinges on misinformation. Periods of boredom are necessary to allow time for our subconscious to piece together data to where this ability to daydream can manifest novelty and invention.

    • @harrypearle9781
      @harrypearle9781 11 місяців тому

      I beg to disagree. Prof, Gary is WARNING us that too much BOREDOM is TERRIBLE.
      People point to Joe Biden, as boring and Trump as exciting. This is bad for Biden,
      Hope to hear back from you, here, if possible TNX H

  • @naromsky
    @naromsky 11 місяців тому

    Boaring.

  • @NotQuasim
    @NotQuasim Рік тому +1

    What a boring speech.

  • @smb7304
    @smb7304 3 місяці тому

    Boring

  • @uaps28
    @uaps28 Рік тому

    Another boring TedXTalk, ha, ha.

  • @amanthoratx
    @amanthoratx Рік тому

    Second 😁

  • @ridachuhan9632
    @ridachuhan9632 11 місяців тому

    This talk is boring

  • @danielprochac
    @danielprochac Рік тому

    First 😎

  • @gt-gu7rb
    @gt-gu7rb Рік тому

    This is boring