I've decided to clear out most of my wardrobe and start nre besides a few favourite items and I'm only allowing myself to spend the money I make selling to get new clothes, and thrift it all
Anyone else actually love fashion but is not confident enough to wear anything because you don't want to look "overdressed" or get asked "wHo aRe yOu tRyInG tO iMpReSs?"
ive been dressing up a little recently whenever i go out, and while my parents gave me those comments a lot, they eventually stopped. if you just power through, you’ll be fine. at some point, id be able to go to the mall in a ballgown if i wanted to, and my mom would just accept it.
Literally I wore a crop top and some jeans in which was a top my mom bought me and some jeans she gave me and she said who you tryna impress like you think I'm tryna impress the icecream in kroger or smthn😭
I've always been so insecure about that. Like, I would want to wear an outfit, but then in the back of my brain, im panicking if I'm overdressed or if it isn't the right occasion or if its even fit for the weather. It's a lot-
“Myself! I like wearing things for me :)” Also in my experience most people are really sweet and excited about how cute your clothes are :) and if no one is, you don’t dress for other people anyway. And if lots of people are excited, that’s great! But you don’t dress for them. My advice is to not get too caught up in making sure people like (or continue to like) your outfits. Have fun! And relax :))
Me: has been wearing the same thing over and over and over again since I was 6 and wanting to be able to wear converse, shorts, ripped jeans, crop tops without being called fat by my parents while they also say I dress like a grandma Depression: *INTENSIFIES*
me, in corona lockdown: oh! this'll pass the time!! her: track what you wear every day and it'll show your style me in pj's because i have no reason to get dressed: oh.
So totally only do this if you want to, but if you have work to do during this quarantine like, maybe working from home or going to school, getting dressed will actually make you more productive. This is called embodied cognition (well, this is a subset of embodied cognition called enclothed cognition, but same diff) and it's really helped me do my school work :)
I remember wearing dresses my freshman year and everyone would be like 'oh what's the occasion'. I would say 'there isn't one, I just wanted to show my cankles ok'. Lol
All the damn time I get this comment in school. We only have one day to wear our preferred outfits since we have school uniforms, I wear plain longsleeves, croptops and other super casual for me and still some just can't let me be 😌😂
I used to have a thing for blazers & shirts so when I was walking in hoodie filled corridors at school, ppl mistook me for a teacher all the time. (shirts I still love so much I will be buried in one so crisp you could cut someone with it and so bright it'll temporarily blind you if you look directly at it lol)
11:30 I seriously felt this because I have had the same style of dark shirts, sweaters, jeans, and very bland clothes just because I've always been afraid to wear my preferred style OR I'm so weird about people seeing me want to change who I've been for so long. It's a sad view and I'm like ready to start changing a bit by bit, I'm seriously into fashion and I'm very thankful for this video. Cheers to finally dressing the way I have always wanted to, and to be confident enough to stand out 💕💕
My coworker: "why are you dressed up today" Me: " I wanted to feel pretty today." That's all you need to dress up! Love yourself enough to Indulge in your fashion.
true!!!!!! my friend asked me a few days ago why i was so chippy(???) dk what it means but then he explained that i was wearing my boots (and he didn’t point it out but he obv wanted to say something about me wearing a skirt but ok) and i rly didn’t know what to say so i was like... “cos it’s winter” like come on i don’t need to explain my outfit (sorry i made a little rant)
I have mainly black t-shirts. I have one piece of clothing in 3 different colours which I wear on hot days but I don't like the cleverage so I mainly wear them at home. In my wardrobe is a grey dress that I want to wear more but I don't know how which is still better than the grey-brownish woollen blazer that I got thanks to my mom [and she annoys me with saying that I should wear it more often]. It's warm enough that it only makes sense during cold days but at the same time moving my arm even a tiny bit means exposing my wrist to the cold. Yeah, the next time I go through my closet I cm going to get rid of it
I worked in fashion retail, please know we loved customers like you. Always smiling, making other customers smile and using fashion like the basic art it is.
Same. All of them are like Walmart and target kid clothes because there cheap . Crap didn't think this comment would blow up but also all I basic own is a couple good shirt , shorts, and jeans and I'm still stuck with my cat clothing from last year lol
I have anxiety, so whenever I wear clothing that I really love I become insecure and paranoid. that’s why I usually come back to the same boring clothes.
I believe in u girl I do too but I’m slowly starting to change my style without stretching too far, so just swap baggy tees with tucked in tees that are pulled out halfway, for an example
I would also totally recommend thrift stores when trying out a new style!! You can get a lot of pieces for cheaper and it's less of a risk if you end up not liking the style bc you didn't spend a ton of money on it
Story: In high school I literally wore dresses every. single. day. Most people knew or people in my class just knew that I wore dresses every day. One day I showed up to school in jeans and I visited my friend in another class and she was like "you're wearing pants!!" and some random guy in her class looks over, and pops in like "I don't even KNOW you and I know you wear dresses every day" yeetin
every time i wear jeans random people are like no dress?? and if i do wear jeans it’s jeans flats and a blouse i wore a hoodie and jeans one day and my friends thought i was dying
DIYwithParnika haha yeah i know but wasn’t that like 7 months ago, and knowing ashley and her thrift-addiction she must’ve gotten something new - also i want three hours not 7 minutes, haha :)
When I put together a nice outfit that really makes me feel comfortable and "100% my style" i take a pic of the whole look and save it to an outfit album on my phone gallery, when i don't know what to wear i just check these outfits and mix the pieces then come up with a few new ones! maybe this advice could help someone
me: wearing something that i want to wear and that fits my style my sister: you don’t look in that/ you can’t pull that off me: going back to wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts 24/7
I agree with the first one so much 😭😭😭 I know what my style is and I can afford to buy most of the clothing I want but I’m too scared to wear skirts and dresses to school
The only reason I'm here is because my mom told me I need more clothes. But I'm not sure what my style is yet so I just get some stuff and kinda forget I need clothes.
Same, she always says I need basic t-shirts. I want to get into Gothic Lolita fashion. If I find a cute blouse or something, she says it looks like old lady clothes T-T
Understanding that your style journey is an ongoing process that is never fully complete, is really key. I have a terrible habit of wanting to curate the "perfect" wardrobe right now and buying a bunch of items all at once. I have since decluttered or don't wear most of what I've purchased over the past few years 😩 Your content is just so positive and inspiring! I wish I had known all of these things when I was young like you, and could have saved myself years of feeling unattractive and uncomfortable in my clothing. But I'm very grateful to have found your channel.
Okay, but when my mother takes me shopping, she needs to know the difference between taking your time to shop, and literally just spending forever trying to convince me to buy something I don’t wanT
Mom used to do that too & I decided to stop wearing them & not buying clothes... Then she stopped but eventually my mom choice of choosing my clothes got better.. I was kinda surprised lol
Another tip I suggest is looking at movie characters who’s style you like. Since they exist in their little bubble of existence, they can’t change and follow current trends which more often then not, you follow cause you see a lot of people wearing and then get sick of.
My issue: scared of looking like overdressing/being extra loooll cuz i sometimes i like polished styles (like buttoned shirt, slacks, loafers) but most people in my class wears hoodie/tshirt and jeans :/
Do it! I used to wear skinny high waist jeans with Tshirt so like really basic and stuff and it never felt right. It was okay but not RIGHT. Now I wear (extremely) ripped, Jeans, oversized Tshirt and men's sweater, stuff like that and since this change I feel so much more comfortable and it feels more like myself. You'll find people loving you for beeing that extra. Don't hide in the crowd be special!
that's me exactly. i feel like i'm going to stand out because my entire school wears sweats and sweatshirts, and i want to wear a skirt and blouse and clothing that makes me look nice.
Also I’ve found that building self-confidence helps with enjoying fashion in general. I use this tip: Next time you’re sitting at a coffee shop or outside somewhere, or even scrolling through Instagram. Try and think one positive thing about everyone you see, “damn they look confident af!” “Wow girl is killing it in those shoes” “those glasses look awesome on him!” “Her hair is styled so well, looks amazing!” “I love that jacket he’s wearing!” “They look sensational” “I love the colour they dyed their hair!” Etc etc Then at some point after you just keep complimenting everyone instead of comparing yourself to them you slowly start just building that positivity about others and internalising it, to a point where you can say “yeah I look good today!” “I’m feeling confident in this” “I love this jacket it makes me feel good” “I love how my hair is styled this morning” and recognise sometimes you’re just going to have off days, but keep going ❤️
It’s so nice to look at this after a few years and realize I did follow this advice. Thank you so much this really helped me dress in a way that gives me confident in myself
this...i always like to wear bright colors and eye attracting stuff because i thought basic clothes were boring but recently i have experimented with basic crop tops & jeans and i find that it really flatters my body :>
I can just imagine Ashley dragging in all those houseplants from around her house just to have them in the frame and you know what...? Me too Ashley. Me too.
the tragic part is that i own so many plants that i didn't even have to move any into frame.. those are just the usual plants that hang out in my mirror corner
I feel most people are lacking the confidence to be themselves because they aren't completely open towards how other people express themselves. What we personally find uncomfortable, we tend to think of negative thoughts first-hand because it's something different which feels alien to you. I feel that in order to be more confident you have to accept others for who they are and see everyone more open minded. That in hand makes you more comfortable wearing what you want because others see you being yourself and don't judge you for it
Hey, Ashley, you’ve been a major inspiration for me in finding my sense of style. And I definitely agree that confidence takes time. I personally think of confidence as a skill, one you have to practice to get better at. These days, I wear a superhero cape to class, because it’s fun. And it makes me very happy. I’m glad I got to see this video, because it was very helpful
The second waves starting here and I am going on my second marathon of all of Ashley's videos and I am so freaking proud that my teenage self discovered her cause I am rewatching all of these videos and realising wWOW!!
"Why're you all dressed up?" idk mum I just wanted to look cute but I guess I'll go change- I'll wait until I move out to do that thing we call fashion.
I slowly managed to change it more to my style but to be honest I still have a lot of clothes that belonged once to my sisters since I'm the smallest one and our mom doesn't accept reasons like it does not fit my style to go shopping for new outfits
dressing up and looking stylish and good is so fun!! it gives me an enormous amount of happiness and confidence that not a lot of people in my life can “give”, especially during this quarantine period :))
If I were ever to become a mom, I would NEVER say a bad thing about my child's taste in clothing. The only comments on ANYONE'S clothing choices should be in terms of respect, like censoring to ensure they arent blaring hateful messages of any kind. Other than that, wear what ever ya love my dudes. Wear whatever gives ya soul the warm fuzzies
@Lee jasmin hey, hey, no need to be rude. It’s true that parents should be supportive of their kids’ choices (so long as they’re not harming anyone), and it’s also true that not all of them are.
@@sara-vf5xz the skin color thing is just a matter of adjusting the colors slightly so that they match your skin color. Do you have warm or cool skin? If you don't know what I'm talking about then look it up, there's plenty of resources for helping you understand it and figure it out. Took me a while, but I have warm skin color and I love purple, but the purple that is typically sold is too blue and washes me out, eventually I realized that when purple is more red looks amazing on me. Just small adjustments to any color and you can make it work.
Everyone should love their own style or maybe u don't have any style but that doesn't mean you are guilty or boring type person .....It simply means "just stand on your feet and buy all clothes that you love and wear it even though it doesn't look good on you..bt still wear it"and and and specially if you love western clothes bt cannot wear it ..then it's ok ....bc hiding our body is wayy better than showing off body!
Thank you so much for mentioning how most of us have an eclectic style when we’re first trying to figure out what types of aesthetics we love and reflect our most authentic selves. I personally love vintage, minimalism, dark & light academia, and also a basic outfit consisting of a crop top and high waisted bottoms. I’m definitely figuring out how to wind them in together that is uniquely me. 💕
Me wanting to dress grungy/alternative but being too scared to cuz I don't want my peers or parents to judge me and also not having the clothes to actually be alternative or grungy ;(
Hannah Campbell thrift or learn to upcycle clothes! I'm trying to get a casual grunge and vintage mixed style, and I have exactly nothing of what I need to dress like that, or at least I thought I didn't. I actually realized that a lot of my pants/shorts sort of match that style, and now I only need to search for shirts and jackets. Narrow it down a bit like that and try to collect pieces over time!
mom: why are you so dressed up, we're just going shopping? brain: *imagines meeting a celebrity out in public who will compliment my outfit* me: no reason
The one and only helpful video about style on youtube! I keep coming back, rewatching it every so often ecpecially when I feel lost in my own style. Much love to you girly!
Genuinely thank you so much for this. I've spent so much time buying random thrifted clothes that I just kind of like. This really helped me think about what I really like wearing and it helped find my personal style. I ended up clearing out 75% of my wardrobe, selling and donating it all, and then buying clothes I actually would wear and love. You probably won't see this but thank you Ashley!
My friends have described my style as, "Divorce court lawyer who is also a churchgoing single mom with a wild side" and I think thats pretty accurate. I attend a school that's 20% VSCO, 15% emo, and 60% athleisure so I stick out a bit when I walk into a sea of black sweatpants and scrunchies with a vintage blouse, teal blazer, mom jeans, and heels at 8 in the morning.
Ashley should start a podcast. I swear she's such a good motivational speaker and a smart ass person I wish to hang out with. Her cool style & understanding of things just calms me down because finally, I'm not the only one struggling here, even Ashley who's a famous girl with a wonderful fashion sense is still struggling sometimes. WE NEED ASHLEY TO MAKE PODCASTS. LIKE HARDER SO ASHLEY CAN SEE AND NOTICE OUR PLEA!! PODCASTS!!!
i've been trying to find my own style for almost two years now and i have noticed that the clothes that i'm comfortable in is not necesarily the one's i want to wear. like i kinda want to try more feminine style but i'm just not comfortable in it.
How has it been going? If this helps: the first time you wear something outside your comfort zone it will feel pretty weird and people might look at you a lil differently. But after you wear more clothes of that style, people will start to not care and get used to how you dress and you will get used to it too :)
Can we just talk about how fantastic her setup is? Like the two matching wooden bags hanging, the mirror at the back that reflects what she sees except she covers the camera, and the plants. Like, girl, you aesthetic man, subscribed.
Confidence is key! After being in a shitty relationship for 4 years, and him literally throwing all of my clothes and makeup away. I left and now 6 years later I am finally starting to buy more clothes that I love. I recently bought a pair of bright pink gingham trousers and they made me so happy! And everyone I saw that day made a nice compliment on them. Now I feel so much better and I'm delving into my fashion a lot more which is what I love! Like the old me I finally feel like I'm back 😄
I used to watch your videos in awe, like, I could never be that fashionable or confident. I'm 21 now and I can't believe that I'm finally finding my own style and curating my closet with the help of your videos.
Fun Fact: If you don‘t have enough motivation and are in a bad mood so you don‘t want to search two pieces of clothing, wear a dress, people will think you‘re dressed up even tho you were just too lazy to match two things.
i hear this all the time i wear a wrap dress denim jacket and converse most day i wear a girly casual thing everyday my friends think i dress up too much
Try stores like Ross, TJMax, Winners, and outlets like Dillard’s Clearance Outlet (you can get high quality name brands for cheap prices) hope that helps 💕
I really love how Ashley just increases our confidence by her amazing personality. Most of the times, we are all surrounded by people who either judge us for our style or are more stylish than us which makes us insecure as hell! I accidentally stumbled upon Ashley's channel a few days back and I am OBSESSED! She's natural, friendly and just amazing. I feel my fashion improving already. Thanks a lot Ashley!
i love the fact that ashley addressed how scary it can be to wear what u wanna wear, and i honestly appreciate that so much bcs i thought nobody else relates ;-;
Lol I wanna wear dresses to school but everyone will think I'm trying too hard when in reality, it's more comfortable than jeans, and if I wear a hoodie and sweatpants, people are gonna judge me for not trying enough like seriously let people wear whatever they want to school as long as its not against dress code or whatever😭
@@targetbleach8689 So I'm going into high school next year, and the reason I didn't wear any dresses or skirts this past year is because I didn't want people asking questions! Up until this past year I wasn't ever really interested in the more "feminine side" of fashion, so I didn't want people to ask me why I was changing it up. Now I'm glad I can start next year and (hopefully) not get too many questions!
I wore a skirt to a boy’s birthday party.I rlly liked my outfit,but when I arrived there all the girls especially were dressed very casual with sweats and jeans on.I was like “i still like my outfit” but then a girl told me”why are you dressed so formal?” and jfudjjehd it just ruined my confidence for the whole night.
I wore shorts with an oversized hoodie for the first time and my parents said it looked bad like I had no pants on- so oup I never wore that again my self confidence went 📉
"From this fashion disaster, to this *fashionable* disaster"
I STAN AN INTELLECTUAL
First comment yooo
high key me
@@mercury7458 same
Preach
First ty ... I need a car qickplease
Ashley really is the big sister we all so desperately need in our insecure lives.
facts, life would be so much easier if she was my big sister lmao
so true
2.2k of easy pickings...
Jongin is Holy this is actually the best description of ashely i’ve ever seen
couldn't have said this any better
"fashion disaster to fashionable disaster" is the transformation we all aspire to
Does anyone else wanna assess their wardrobe but feels so guilty about getting rid of stuff cause you feel like u wasted ur money?
sell it
gurl my style is "whatever my mom approves of" i'll GLADLY sell/donate my entire wardrobe no cap
I've decided to clear out most of my wardrobe and start nre besides a few favourite items and I'm only allowing myself to spend the money I make selling to get new clothes, and thrift it all
@@hebebebe139 where do you sell your clothes? i usually donate mine but idk what store would pay for used clothes
@@hebebebe139 oh ok thank you!
“who are you trying to impress?” is the most compliment-y/non-compliment-y/uncomfortable question ever
It's just fun to wear what you want I don't understand how some people don't understand that
Dude, I put on a dress and every fucker in my surroundings asks me that.
My little cousin asked me that the other day, I just looked at her and said, “myself, honey life is too short, do things for yourself”
it's so awkward cause rn my friends think i am dressing up for my driving instructor (spoiler: i'm not. i am dressing up for myself)
Also things like "oh, look who's wearing (x item of clothing, ex. a skirt)!!! Like, pls stop, I feel weird already and you're not helping
Ashley: does it reflect your personality
Me: *existential crisis on what my personality is*
Oof I felt that one
oops
Katie Bolton me too
when you're a gemini so you've got 5 different personalities to reflect
Questions about my personality make me wonder if I even have one
people: who are you so dressed up for?
me: you never know where harry styles could be, karen.
only aliferxus this is an incredibly underrated comment
It's always the Karen
^^^
I LOVE YOUUUU
Yesssss, I only care about how I look because i want to look good if I see someone I Stan and I would have a cute picture with them.
Anyone else actually love fashion but is not confident enough to wear anything because you don't want to look "overdressed" or get asked "wHo aRe yOu tRyInG tO iMpReSs?"
ive been dressing up a little recently whenever i go out, and while my parents gave me those comments a lot, they eventually stopped. if you just power through, you’ll be fine. at some point, id be able to go to the mall in a ballgown if i wanted to, and my mom would just accept it.
Literally I wore a crop top and some jeans in which was a top my mom bought me and some jeans she gave me and she said who you tryna impress like you think I'm tryna impress the icecream in kroger or smthn😭
"who are you trying to impress" literally me, its for me...and other cute girls but mostly for me
I've always been so insecure about that. Like, I would want to wear an outfit, but then in the back of my brain, im panicking if I'm overdressed or if it isn't the right occasion or if its even fit for the weather. It's a lot-
“Myself! I like wearing things for me :)”
Also in my experience most people are really sweet and excited about how cute your clothes are :) and if no one is, you don’t dress for other people anyway. And if lots of people are excited, that’s great! But you don’t dress for them. My advice is to not get too caught up in making sure people like (or continue to like) your outfits. Have fun! And relax :))
me : *wears a hat*
social anxiety : *intensifies*
me: wears anything other than hoodies and leggings
social anxiety: *intensifies*
Me: has been wearing the same thing over and over and over again since I was 6 and wanting to be able to wear converse, shorts, ripped jeans, crop tops without being called fat by my parents while they also say I dress like a grandma
Depression: *INTENSIFIES*
i wish i had the confidence to wear leggings😔😔
oim veuch ikr. If i where anything i usually dont no matter how cute i think it is i get insecure
hahaha i felt this in my soul
“You shouldn’t have to change for your clothes” wow that hit hard
Marielle makes senseee
suddenly i don’t speak english
Ur pfp-💀😂
*me having lost 10 out of the 20 pounds i need to fit into my new wardrobe* : 👁️👄👁️
*cough* brAndy
me, in corona lockdown: oh! this'll pass the time!!
her: track what you wear every day and it'll show your style
me in pj's because i have no reason to get dressed: oh.
Stella Saridis lol same
So totally only do this if you want to, but if you have work to do during this quarantine like, maybe working from home or going to school, getting dressed will actually make you more productive. This is called embodied cognition (well, this is a subset of embodied cognition called enclothed cognition, but same diff) and it's really helped me do my school work :)
Ha I get dressed every day to at least try to be productive but it ends up being the same two outfits in rotation
Mea I get dressed but it’s mainly lounge wear that I get dressed in now
Mood
When you can't choose between grunge, cottagecore, and light academia.
I can't choose between dark academia, fairycore, and skater/surfer...
:(
@@polly1579 beachy acedemic fairy that likes to vibe at skate parks BAM!
@@agirlcalledmist lol thank you!
mix mix mix
OMG SAME
*“Fashion Disaster to Fashionable Disaster.”* 😭😹💗
"what's your style?" *sweaters*
"what do you wear?" *sweaters*
"what's the fit?" *sweaters*
"what colour palette?" *sWeAtEr-CoLoUr!*
The Gallant Gangster I did NOT ask to be called out like this
Mee
This is so funny 😂 😂😂😂
Sweaters have styles too! Turtleneck? Cowl neck? Mock neck? Tight? Loose? Drop shoulder? Long? Short? Crop?
AllyHiran 1215 gah i don't know these things! teach me 😂
I remember wearing dresses my freshman year and everyone would be like 'oh what's the occasion'. I would say 'there isn't one, I just wanted to show my cankles ok'. Lol
Sarah bear same experience! "Are you going on a date?" uhhhh no
All the damn time I get this comment in school. We only have one day to wear our preferred outfits since we have school uniforms, I wear plain longsleeves, croptops and other super casual for me and still some just can't let me be 😌😂
I’m a very confusing person and often I’ll go from a hoodie and sweatpants one day to a dress and stilettos another 😂
Same, a lot of my friends had this happen to them. We're just on another level 😉
I used to have a thing for blazers & shirts so when I was walking in hoodie filled corridors at school, ppl mistook me for a teacher all the time. (shirts I still love so much I will be buried in one so crisp you could cut someone with it and so bright it'll temporarily blind you if you look directly at it lol)
11:30 I seriously felt this because I have had the same style of dark shirts, sweaters, jeans, and very bland clothes just because I've always been afraid to wear my preferred style OR I'm so weird about people seeing me want to change who I've been for so long. It's a sad view and I'm like ready to start changing a bit by bit, I'm seriously into fashion and I'm very thankful for this video. Cheers to finally dressing the way I have always wanted to, and to be confident enough to stand out 💕💕
My coworker: "why are you dressed up today"
Me: " I wanted to feel pretty today."
That's all you need to dress up! Love yourself enough to Indulge in your fashion.
PREACH
true!!!!!! my friend asked me a few days ago why i was so chippy(???) dk what it means but then he explained that i was wearing my boots (and he didn’t point it out but he obv wanted to say something about me wearing a skirt but ok) and i rly didn’t know what to say so i was like... “cos it’s winter” like come on i don’t need to explain my outfit (sorry i made a little rant)
TheLazyGirlLifestyle lol😂
this is me in the middle of the night wearing makeup and a fancy dress
i hate those “wHo ArE YoU TrYiNg tO ImPResS” headass people lmao
Abby YES! Im dressing for myself now shut your mouth (the people that say that are the ones who wear sweats everyday 🥵)
Well to those people I say myself and thank you for telling me I look good
If you're getting comments like that, it means you're doing it right 💜
my mum tells me this everyday and my sisters LOL
Abby "AhA YoU hAvE a CrUsH!1!1!1!1"
Step one: look at your wardrobe
Me: I have three black T-shirt’s and a pair of jeans, let’s get it
Highkey an underrated comment
I’m laughing so hard xD
FUCKING MEEEEE
I have mainly black t-shirts.
I have one piece of clothing in 3 different colours which I wear on hot days but I don't like the cleverage so I mainly wear them at home.
In my wardrobe is a grey dress that I want to wear more but I don't know how which is still better than the grey-brownish woollen blazer that I got thanks to my mom [and she annoys me with saying that I should wear it more often]. It's warm enough that it only makes sense during cold days but at the same time moving my arm even a tiny bit means exposing my wrist to the cold. Yeah, the next time I go through my closet I cm going to get rid of it
Oh yessss. I have a lot of plain shirts, and most of them are grey.
I worked in fashion retail, please know we loved customers like you. Always smiling, making other customers smile and using fashion like the basic art it is.
So like, referring to step one, what if I hate all the clothes I own?
KLC 28 me
Same. All of them are like Walmart and target kid clothes because there cheap . Crap didn't think this comment would blow up but also all I basic own is a couple good shirt , shorts, and jeans and I'm still stuck with my cat clothing from last year lol
BRO same. I have one pair of shorts I like
Same
Same. I’m here to fix my style because the only thing I wear is a t-shirt and shorts
bestdressed: "Is this clothing something that suits my personality?"
me: "searches how to find out what your personality is video"
There's videos and niche pictures about outfits for your zodiac, Meyers briggs, ennegram, fandom, Harry Potter house, etc
HAHAHAHA SAMMMMMEEE!😂
Sameeee ! 😂
@@PS-bn6st the way i've done all of those things because i'm in a permanent identity crisis 😂
@@AnjaliBakhru omg same 😂
I have anxiety, so whenever I wear clothing that I really love I become insecure and paranoid. that’s why I usually come back to the same boring clothes.
same 😔
Be confident in yourself and the things you love to wear! Heck!,my own family talks bad about my style but idc because I love it 😻!!
Me too.
I believe in u girl I do too but I’m slowly starting to change my style without stretching too far, so just swap baggy tees with tucked in tees that are pulled out halfway, for an example
Kiara Walker HOW
I would also totally recommend thrift stores when trying out a new style!! You can get a lot of pieces for cheaper and it's less of a risk if you end up not liking the style bc you didn't spend a ton of money on it
Story: In high school I literally wore dresses every. single. day. Most people knew or people in my class just knew that I wore dresses every day. One day I showed up to school in jeans and I visited my friend in another class and she was like "you're wearing pants!!" and some random guy in her class looks over, and pops in like "I don't even KNOW you and I know you wear dresses every day"
yeetin
i admire your motivation and the jeans day was a power move. well done
It’s the opposite for me haha props to you for being comfortable wearing dresses to school.
every time i wear jeans random people are like no dress?? and if i do wear jeans it’s jeans flats and a blouse i wore a hoodie and jeans one day and my friends thought i was dying
Haha I love that!! I wish it was warm enough where I am to do that
Hannah Banana this was totally me in middle school! Except with skirts as well as dresses
Ashley is only UA-camr who gives tips that I actually follow because they're actually useful and researched.
This is quality content.
True😬
try watching some of AlexandrasGirlyTalk's videos, I love ashley as well, but if you are looking for more with real tips, try her :))
ua-cam.com/channels/U8ssMY0rZQtCgWVwQNpmUA.html
I just just thinking 'this girl is very clever and I would actually follow her advice !'
When her necklace broke, the CC said " *goes through all five stages of grief* " haha I love it :')
Lyssa R
Me when when I have to put in the *slightest* bit of effort into anything
I have a style I know my aesthetic BUT I have strict parents, therefore I am screwed
They would just look at me like is this my child then look back at there phone ._.
Same. I'm expecting a major glow-up when I move out but you can wear things that have a flattering fit that doesn't need to be showing a lot of skin.
samee
Yah me too
Same here
i have a style...i just don’t own anything that is that style
Same
OH MY GOOODDDDDD SAMEEEEE 😭😭😭😑💀
I feel u
Yoooooo same
Sameeeee😫
*me* : likes vintage clothing
*every single person I know* : yOU DrEsS likE A grAndMa
well atleast I'm trying karen
Sangeetha at least not like your grandma, karen
Sis you already one
@karen
I call it "grandma chic"
Joana Gutierrez well yeah, she’s not going to dress like a gHoSt
I WANT A 3-HOUR VIDEO ON YOUR ENTIRE CLOSET PLEASE AND THANK YOU
Nithiyaa Karunakaran same
She made a video with everything in her closet already! :)
DIYwithParnika haha yeah i know but wasn’t that like 7 months ago, and knowing ashley and her thrift-addiction she must’ve gotten something new - also i want three hours not 7 minutes, haha :)
Yess
DIYwithParnika I went through that video on the slowest speed to look at all those clothes 😂
For anyone whos 13-18 years of age watching this video, IT WORKS.
My confidence sky rocketed.
PS: Have fun having a glow up! You deserve it
When I put together a nice outfit that really makes me feel comfortable and "100% my style" i take a pic of the whole look and save it to an outfit album on my phone gallery, when i don't know what to wear i just check these outfits and mix the pieces then come up with a few new ones! maybe this advice could help someone
Mer Vargas omg!! i do that too and it’s so helpful
That’s so SMART
Ooo I love this tip
Fricken genius
i do that! its very helpful
Damn Ashley, stop improving my life so much. I might end up an actual person instead of a potato
I felt that
Damn I really felt that
Yes😂👏🏼
when you said 🥔, I felt that🥺
So true 👏
“it’s a 30 year old mom thing or a thing for 17 year olds” i feel attacked
Same, I'm like only 24 sis 😂
I’m 13 oop
Same, I'm 21 🙈
same
oof I'm 21 and addicted to pinterest, I felt attacked
me: wearing something that i want to wear and that fits my style
my sister: you don’t look in that/ you can’t pull that off
me: going back to wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts 24/7
oh my god me too
You guys got this! Fashion is only about confidence, yall can slay it!
All I’m saying is that spite can be an amazing motivator-
I hate judgement by sisters so I can sympathize
Sis are the biggest problem lol!
when my style is different from what i wear because
1.I have no confidence to wear it
2. im poor, no money to buy those clothes
Rightttt I’m looking on Aliexpress and ROMWE for clothes 😭
I agree with the first one so much 😭😭😭 I know what my style is and I can afford to buy most of the clothing I want but I’m too scared to wear skirts and dresses to school
@@fwelony5252 me to, me to :( AND I STILL CANT AFFORD IT-
Maybe try thrifting? It's pretty cheap and you can find pieces that you love
Vælærïå yes thrifting is amazing, but you definitely need to have the patience to flip through everything
*me having 2 tee shirts
"Ah yes, time to assess"
Lmao me
The only reason I'm here is because my mom told me I need more clothes. But I'm not sure what my style is yet so I just get some stuff and kinda forget I need clothes.
{ kaylapitter } I felt that 😔
I feel attacked
same i wear the same sweatpants and hoodie every day
my style is just: going to the mall with my mom and i end up hating my mom...
Your're not the only one. The problem is that my friends don't really help, either and I'm not confident enough to buy clothes on my own.
Why is that such a mood
Sameee my mom forces me into dresses and I I littarly only were jeans 👁👄👁
Same, she always says I need basic t-shirts. I want to get into Gothic Lolita fashion. If I find a cute blouse or something, she says it looks like old lady clothes T-T
Damnn i feel you
Understanding that your style journey is an ongoing process that is never fully complete, is really key. I have a terrible habit of wanting to curate the "perfect" wardrobe right now and buying a bunch of items all at once. I have since decluttered or don't wear most of what I've purchased over the past few years 😩
Your content is just so positive and inspiring! I wish I had known all of these things when I was young like you, and could have saved myself years of feeling unattractive and uncomfortable in my clothing. But I'm very grateful to have found your channel.
this video is quite
1. informative
2. clear
3. motivating
4. inspiring
!
Диана Ганеева ikr
And aesthetically pleasing
I read this in her voice lol
and well-edited!
-wholesome
I’d love it if you did a fashion for beginners! Like about different cuts and shapes etc and also how to dress for your body shape x
Yes!!!!
@alexandrasgirlytalk has some really helpful videos about different cuts and what looks good on the body, I'd def recommend checking them out :)
Check out, Alessandra's Girly Talks
Oof Alexandra's girly talk is 👌👌 when it comes to that
Justine leconte is perfect for this
Ashley: Find Inspiration
Me: Goes to UA-cam and types bestdressed
🤪🤪
Same
I don’t wanna like bc ur at 666 lmao
Sorry but it’s over...
Cuteeeeee same
I sorta found my style through it and my mother described it as "Hello, yes I am an intern at my grandmother's workplace"
PFFT IM SORRY FOR LAUGHING BUT I LOVE YOUR MOM
LMAOOO I AM SORRY
IM CRYING 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The background of your apartment looks SPLENDID
No Name honestlyyyyyyyy
Could you do a video of facing your fashion fears??!!
I think you would make a good video on working with pieces that you yourself have trouble being confident in sometimes
yes pls
@Larissa M 1000st like! I agree!
Larissa M yesssss
Okay, but when my mother takes me shopping, she needs to know the difference between taking your time to shop, and literally just spending forever trying to convince me to buy something I don’t wanT
I had the same problem but i get around it with saying:"you will just throw away money on something that i will never wear" maybe that will help you
YESS OMG
my mom used to do that and i would just never wear it and she eventually stopped
Or stay in one section of the store for over an hour deciding to buy jeans#1 or jeans#2 -.-
Mom used to do that too & I decided to stop wearing them & not buying clothes... Then she stopped but eventually my mom choice of choosing my clothes got better.. I was kinda surprised lol
Another tip I suggest is looking at movie characters who’s style you like.
Since they exist in their little bubble of existence, they can’t change and follow current trends which more often then not, you follow cause you see a lot of people wearing and then get sick of.
Honestly Ashley should start a podcast, I could hear her talk for the rest of my life with no problem
pls start a podcast ashley uwu
same hereee, hope she does!!
can this pls happen 😔
Yaaaaaaaaaas
Omg yes
My issue: scared of looking like overdressing/being extra loooll cuz i sometimes i like polished styles (like buttoned shirt, slacks, loafers) but most people in my class wears hoodie/tshirt and jeans :/
omg do it hunny!!!! i used to wear oxfords and button ups with a slim jean jacket! no one cares, express yourself!
Same hereeee
Do it! I used to wear skinny high waist jeans with Tshirt so like really basic and stuff and it never felt right. It was okay but not RIGHT. Now I wear (extremely) ripped, Jeans, oversized Tshirt and men's sweater, stuff like that and since this change I feel so much more comfortable and it feels more like myself. You'll find people loving you for beeing that extra. Don't hide in the crowd be special!
that's me exactly. i feel like i'm going to stand out because my entire school wears sweats and sweatshirts, and i want to wear a skirt and blouse and clothing that makes me look nice.
Be confident!!!
Also I’ve found that building self-confidence helps with enjoying fashion in general. I use this tip: Next time you’re sitting at a coffee shop or outside somewhere, or even scrolling through Instagram. Try and think one positive thing about everyone you see, “damn they look confident af!” “Wow girl is killing it in those shoes” “those glasses look awesome on him!” “Her hair is styled so well, looks amazing!” “I love that jacket he’s wearing!” “They look sensational” “I love the colour they dyed their hair!” Etc etc Then at some point after you just keep complimenting everyone instead of comparing yourself to them you slowly start just building that positivity about others and internalising it, to a point where you can say “yeah I look good today!” “I’m feeling confident in this” “I love this jacket it makes me feel good” “I love how my hair is styled this morning” and recognise sometimes you’re just going to have off days, but keep going ❤️
Alyssa Hall I love this so much
You are the nicest person ever. Thank you so much!!!!
This is sweet!
Thank will be using this 😍
I love this. Thank u so much. I will!🦋
It’s so nice to look at this after a few years and realize I did follow this advice. Thank you so much this really helped me dress in a way that gives me confident in myself
My tip is, don't be afraid to be "basic" and to wear ordinary or common clothing, you don't have to be unique to be incredible
Yash
Sophie Williams This!
Sophie Williams i been wanting the fila disruptors but i’ve seen so many people roast them & i don’t want to be flamed on
I felt like a badass wearing a plain tank top with black leggings and a white jacket with (more black) sneakers. So, this!! Yes.
this...i always like to wear bright colors and eye attracting stuff because i thought basic clothes were boring but recently i have experimented with basic crop tops & jeans and i find that it really flatters my body :>
I can just imagine Ashley dragging in all those houseplants from around her house just to have them in the frame and you know what...? Me too Ashley. Me too.
the tragic part is that i own so many plants that i didn't even have to move any into frame.. those are just the usual plants that hang out in my mirror corner
@@bestdressed Hahaha I hope one day I own so many plants that I end up having 4 in the same corner
relatable. cuz we care in this house. WE CARE
1. assess ur current wardrobe
me: *looks in wardrobe*
me: school uniform, ok
me: *looks on the floor*
floor: hoodies, sweatpants, tshirts
me: ok then
LOL. I have no clothe because I’m usually wearing my school uniform
felt
Same gurl same ...
You could go for like a grunge type of look? Maybe go with oversized stuff
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO WEARS SCHOOL STUFF EVERY DAY LMAO
I feel most people are lacking the confidence to be themselves because they aren't completely open towards how other people express themselves. What we personally find uncomfortable, we tend to think of negative thoughts first-hand because it's something different which feels alien to you. I feel that in order to be more confident you have to accept others for who they are and see everyone more open minded. That in hand makes you more comfortable wearing what you want because others see you being yourself and don't judge you for it
You need to make merch labeled “fashionable disaster”
Hahaha YES
I need it now 😫
Yaass
Yesssß
no
My mom explained my style as “she only wears hoodies and once in awhile a solid color T-shirt” and I’ve never heard anything more accurate in my life
honestly same
I really wish I had more than 1 hoodie tbh
• Rosa 'Sunsprite' • i have a whole closet that’s pretty much only hoodies... i think i have an issue
@@jaylin4216 You remind me of my friend who collects pens. She has a whole separate pencil case because they don't fit into her normal one. (′~' )
*Picks out a cute shirt I like* Mom: YoU lIkE tHaT?😣 Me: *sigh* I guess not
Oh my goodness it's the same with me😞 It's so sad honestly
Don’t let that stop you!! ❤️
Same I’m like come on uhhh
Ahh yes so true
Why are parents still stuck in the past?
Hey, Ashley, you’ve been a major inspiration for me in finding my sense of style. And I definitely agree that confidence takes time. I personally think of confidence as a skill, one you have to practice to get better at. These days, I wear a superhero cape to class, because it’s fun. And it makes me very happy. I’m glad I got to see this video, because it was very helpful
Ashley never failed me everytime i watch her. She's always prepared and her content is sooooooooo informative and inspiring
Yeah I wonder how much she writes out beforehand
@@YourFriendlyInsuranceAdjuster Smart people don't need to write things down(I'm implying that you're dumb)
“step 1: assess your wardrobe.”
me: *looks at 2 shirts and 1 pair of jeans that i own*
Lmao
*looks at collection of Star Wars shirts*
i don't even have jeans asgklsjdf
omg thats me lol
*looks at cute tops that are too small, too big, or that i dont have the confidence to wear and settles on a oversized hoodie from six months ago*
the only two problems about finding my style:
1. don’t have the money for it
2. don’t have the body for it
Go to a thrift store or a second hand store! So many gems from so many different styles haha
Yesica Stefanie the money struggle is so real
Same
elf bugs there are also apps like poshmark and depop which sell second hand
You just don’t know yet what types of clothes is great for your body
The second waves starting here and I am going on my second marathon of all of Ashley's videos and I am so freaking proud that my teenage self discovered her cause I am rewatching all of these videos and realising wWOW!!
Maaan I respect the effort that this women puts into making her background soooooo nice. Holy shit.
"Why're you all dressed up?" idk mum I just wanted to look cute but I guess I'll go change-
I'll wait until I move out to do that thing we call fashion.
Tohru Chan no you got this do your thing now:)
I have the same philosophy about eating healthily oof
@@emijune2171 I feel that. I don't know why some things just seem like you shouldn't them, even though you probably should and it's just normal???
I slowly managed to change it more to my style but to be honest I still have a lot of clothes that belonged once to my sisters since I'm the smallest one and our mom doesn't accept reasons like it does not fit my style to go shopping for new outfits
Why change tho? Nothing wrong with dressing nice if you want to!
dressing up and looking stylish and good is so fun!! it gives me an enormous amount of happiness and confidence that not a lot of people in my life can “give”, especially during this quarantine period :))
Me: *holding a shirt that I like*
My parents: ...you like that?
Me: no i just carry clothes around in a clothing store -_-
ilovedogs omg I love ur profile picture 💜
@@MeMe-rj4zr Aw thank yoou
😂😂💜
Nice pfp👍💜
ARMYs unite under the comment section 😂💜
If I were ever to become a mom, I would NEVER say a bad thing about my child's taste in clothing. The only comments on ANYONE'S clothing choices should be in terms of respect, like censoring to ensure they arent blaring hateful messages of any kind. Other than that, wear what ever ya love my dudes. Wear whatever gives ya soul the warm fuzzies
Yeah and just make sure your personal bits arent out there
But what if your child wears socks with sandals?
Omg how hurt you
@Lee jasmin hey, hey, no need to be rude. It’s true that parents should be supportive of their kids’ choices (so long as they’re not harming anyone), and it’s also true that not all of them are.
@@shizotypical socks with sandals is the MOST stylish look. (actually as a backpacker i am guilty of wearing it haha..)
There is a style I like, but that style doesn't like me.
I felt this 😔 I really like a couple styles but they don’t work with my skin color, height, or build
@@sara-vf5xz same. I like korean fashion, and a bit of cottagecore but I'm not a tall skinny girl :/
@@sara-vf5xz the skin color thing is just a matter of adjusting the colors slightly so that they match your skin color. Do you have warm or cool skin? If you don't know what I'm talking about then look it up, there's plenty of resources for helping you understand it and figure it out. Took me a while, but I have warm skin color and I love purple, but the purple that is typically sold is too blue and washes me out, eventually I realized that when purple is more red looks amazing on me. Just small adjustments to any color and you can make it work.
Everyone should love their own style or maybe u don't have any style but that doesn't mean you are guilty or boring type person .....It simply means "just stand on your feet and buy all clothes that you love and wear it even though it doesn't look good on you..bt still wear it"and and and specially if you love western clothes bt cannot wear it ..then it's ok ....bc hiding our body is wayy better than showing off body!
I feel you
I'm fat so nothing really looks good on me (especially in my eyes)😂
Thank you so much for mentioning how most of us have an eclectic style when we’re first trying to figure out what types of aesthetics we love and reflect our most authentic selves.
I personally love vintage, minimalism, dark & light academia, and also a basic outfit consisting of a crop top and high waisted bottoms. I’m definitely figuring out how to wind them in together that is uniquely me. 💕
Me: *assumes my style is gothy casual*
Also Me: *looks at my wardrobe and realizes I'm just Dolly Parton gone emo*
Me wanting to dress grungy/alternative but being too scared to cuz I don't want my peers or parents to judge me and also not having the clothes to actually be alternative or grungy ;(
Hannah Campbell thrift or learn to upcycle clothes! I'm trying to get a casual grunge and vintage mixed style, and I have exactly nothing of what I need to dress like that, or at least I thought I didn't. I actually realized that a lot of my pants/shorts sort of match that style, and now I only need to search for shirts and jackets. Narrow it down a bit like that and try to collect pieces over time!
Oh damn I thought I was simple emo but then I realised I was flat and depressed
What is grungy, because I just like wearing black or dark colors
im like a skater-girl/egirl mixed with a pink classy princess and idek anymore
mom: why are you so dressed up, we're just going shopping?
brain: *imagines meeting a celebrity out in public who will compliment my outfit*
me: no reason
And that's reading 'those' Wattpad stories at 10pm
like not that i care what other people think of me but I just love it when random people complement my outfit lol
@Alina Oscar Wilde (❁´◡`❁)
@@jodigriffin9439 You did what you had to.
Same!!! I don't know what I'd do if I ever met a celebrity and I'm in practically pj's
"Their image of you is going to catch up with your image of yourself" - I absolutely adore you for this
Anusha Garg i read this while she said it lol
The one and only helpful video about style on youtube! I keep coming back, rewatching it every so often ecpecially when I feel lost in my own style. Much love to you girly!
I love how thorough this video is, instead of saying:
HoW tO fiNd YouR sTyLe:
STep OnE: drinK WaTeR
Step two: make your bed
step three: water your neighbors lawn
step 5: reach out to your ex
Elise Kemp oh no 🤣🤣
step 6:eat a roast dinner
*"Does it reflects your personality"*
Me: Which one?
HAHA
Relatable
As a Gemini, yes
the louis Tomlinson profile photo, I see taste
@@ior1379 literally!
Ashley's slowly creating a Jungle in her room. Lol. The amount of plants are so beautiful on cam though!
Genuinely thank you so much for this. I've spent so much time buying random thrifted clothes that I just kind of like. This really helped me think about what I really like wearing and it helped find my personal style. I ended up clearing out 75% of my wardrobe, selling and donating it all, and then buying clothes I actually would wear and love. You probably won't see this but thank you Ashley!
My friends have described my style as, "Divorce court lawyer who is also a churchgoing single mom with a wild side" and I think thats pretty accurate. I attend a school that's 20% VSCO, 15% emo, and 60% athleisure so I stick out a bit when I walk into a sea of black sweatpants and scrunchies with a vintage blouse, teal blazer, mom jeans, and heels at 8 in the morning.
Hannah Henderson so I guess you’re NoT lIkE tHe OtHeR gIrLs
corey mathews her and the other 5 % 💀
I would describe my style as every style just mashed together as long as the colors match lol
the little big family literally me 😗
same demographics for my school but also the people who dress fashionably stick out in a GOOD WAY i'm always jealous
Ashley should start a podcast. I swear she's such a good motivational speaker and a smart ass person I wish to hang out with. Her cool style & understanding of things just calms me down because finally, I'm not the only one struggling here, even Ashley who's a famous girl with a wonderful fashion sense is still struggling sometimes. WE NEED ASHLEY TO MAKE PODCASTS.
LIKE HARDER SO ASHLEY CAN SEE AND NOTICE OUR PLEA!! PODCASTS!!!
Yup, u stole my words.
Omg yesss
i would 100% listen to her in the morning while i’m getting ready lol💖
@@cath5137 sameeeee
Oh my God yes, she can talk about so many things and her voice ugh I can just listen for hours!!
i've been trying to find my own style for almost two years now and i have noticed that the clothes that i'm comfortable in is not necesarily the one's i want to wear. like i kinda want to try more feminine style but i'm just not comfortable in it.
Why this comment is talking about me 😑
Me
@@bella-qo6wb u did not understand her comment she means that she can relate
@@bella-qo6wb and rude.
How has it been going? If this helps: the first time you wear something outside your comfort zone it will feel pretty weird and people might look at you a lil differently. But after you wear more clothes of that style, people will start to not care and get used to how you dress and you will get used to it too :)
this video is so helpful and i love how she talks about finding the confidence to actually fit your style 🥺
Can we just talk about how fantastic her setup is? Like the two matching wooden bags hanging, the mirror at the back that reflects what she sees except she covers the camera, and the plants.
Like, girl, you aesthetic man, subscribed.
me: putting together a dope outfit for school
also me: realizing it is way to extra and that i cant pull it off because who do i think i am
a big fat MOOD
exactly
ok i’m gonna be cheesy and say that i’m 100% sure you can, it’s all about confidence. go wear whatever you want and just know that you rock it
SAME.
hey wear it ! you're you that's all you need to be to wear an extra outfit !
Confidence is key! After being in a shitty relationship for 4 years, and him literally throwing all of my clothes and makeup away. I left and now 6 years later I am finally starting to buy more clothes that I love. I recently bought a pair of bright pink gingham trousers and they made me so happy! And everyone I saw that day made a nice compliment on them. Now I feel so much better and I'm delving into my fashion a lot more which is what I love! Like the old me I finally feel like I'm back 😄
Yessss Queen!!!!💕😁🙌
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
👍👍👍👍👍 Awesome 🎉🎊 Enjoy girl.
YAY CONGRATS GIRL!
YOU GO GIRL
I used to watch your videos in awe, like, I could never be that fashionable or confident. I'm 21 now and I can't believe that I'm finally finding my own style and curating my closet with the help of your videos.
“why are you so dressed up?”
im not. i just don’t feel like wearing pants :/
Fun Fact: If you don‘t have enough motivation and are in a bad mood so you don‘t want to search two pieces of clothing, wear a dress, people will think you‘re dressed up even tho you were just too lazy to match two things.
i hear this all the time i wear a wrap dress denim jacket and converse most day i wear a girly casual thing everyday my friends think i dress up too much
that hits lmao
EXACTLY! I love dresses because I don’t have to wear pants and it’s SO comfy
@@emmarose9997 lmao ikr it's insane
Me: wants to buy that thing that really fits my style and calls my heart.
Thing: is $300
Me: *blinks*
Edit: wow glad I’m not alone 😭
Elsa thrift shops!!!
Elsa oh and also depop!
Jennifer Bordignon I can never find anything good in thrift shops 😩
Go to multiple thrift shops! Consignment!
Try stores like Ross, TJMax, Winners, and outlets like Dillard’s Clearance Outlet (you can get high quality name brands for cheap prices) hope that helps 💕
ashley: track the clothes you wear for one week
me: *laughs in school uniform*
Saaaaame. It sucks especially cause my school is Catholic just think of long skirts
Unpopular opinion but the Catholic school uniforms are so cute
@@pip7403 facts, however i just have a blue plaid short plaited skirt, not a long one.
UGH AUSTRALIAN PUBLIC SCHOOL UNIFORMS SUCKKKKKKKKKKKK NO AESTHETIC AT ALL. NEON YELLOW AND DARK BLUE IS NOT A LOOK.
Idiot Sandwich you have uniforms for public school in Australia?
I really love how Ashley just increases our confidence by her amazing personality. Most of the times, we are all surrounded by people who either judge us for our style or are more stylish than us which makes us insecure as hell! I accidentally stumbled upon Ashley's channel a few days back and I am OBSESSED! She's natural, friendly and just amazing. I feel my fashion improving already. Thanks a lot Ashley!
i love the fact that ashley addressed how scary it can be to wear what u wanna wear, and i honestly appreciate that so much bcs i thought nobody else relates ;-;
Your face when the necklace broke was so heartbroken I can’t rn
Time stamp?!
ugh yes i feel this
everytime i wear a dress people are like "oh you dressed up"
i'm like yes but NO
i want to wear this
an huang when i wear a dress people are like “you look so nice what’s the occasion?” and i just say “i didn’t wanna put on pants”
@@jazzclarke7128
Lmaoooo that's such a mood
especially on hot summer days it's like
um this is practical now i dont get hot around that area 😂
Lol I wanna wear dresses to school but everyone will think I'm trying too hard when in reality, it's more comfortable than jeans, and if I wear a hoodie and sweatpants, people are gonna judge me for not trying enough like seriously let people wear whatever they want to school as long as its not against dress code or whatever😭
@@targetbleach8689 So I'm going into high school next year, and the reason I didn't wear any dresses or skirts this past year is because I didn't want people asking questions! Up until this past year I wasn't ever really interested in the more "feminine side" of fashion, so I didn't want people to ask me why I was changing it up. Now I'm glad I can start next year and (hopefully) not get too many questions!
I wore a skirt to a boy’s birthday party.I rlly liked my outfit,but when I arrived there all the girls especially were dressed very casual with sweats and jeans on.I was like “i still like my outfit” but then a girl told me”why are you dressed so formal?” and jfudjjehd it just ruined my confidence for the whole night.
I love how you say it takes time and you have to be patient and that you're not just born with perfect fashion this is so helpful
My mom is like no thats ugly so i cant be aesthetic
same 😔
Same sis, same
same
felt
I wore shorts with an oversized hoodie for the first time and my parents said it looked bad like I had no pants on- so oup I never wore that again my self confidence went 📉
I’ve got 3 styles
1- sexy victorian going to a funeral
2- turtle necks
3- Christmas as most of the clothes I own are either red or green
Sounds like the Dark Acedamia aesthetic :)
Quarks this.
Who else can’t choose between soft girl and street wear lmao
If it’s what you like, then you do both figure out how you feel that day.
i wanna be a soft girl but i’m not skinny 😔
jins noodles you don’t need to be skinny to have a certain style! Love yourself you’re beautiful❤️
Omg yes😑
I can’t choose between dark academia and vintage
Sections ✨
1. Asses current wardrobe (0:50)
2. Finding inspiration (2:48)
3. Create a moodboard (5:58)
5. Shopping (7:30)
6. Practise (8:23)
7. Confidence (10:52)
8. Fashion is subjective (13:32)
Thank you😊
unrelated to the vid but i just realized that this day last year was when you hit 100k subs and now you have 1.8M!! we’re so proud of you :’)
she really deserves it
Yes omg I remember!!