"Dating Coaches" SABOTAGE A VIRGIN'S DATE
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2021
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Yeah Aba saying you don’t care about animals makes you a disgusting person. People that are decent human beings don’t proudly proclaim they don’t like animals.
Yeah. Caring about animals is a 1st world thing. Yall grew up on Disney movies so you've romanticized animals.
Go anywhere in the world where people have real problems and they don't talk about animals like y'all.
Don't give a fk about animals!
Pin of shame
Yup i agree as a dude from a third world country 🙋
@@AbaNPreach Yeah because they’re supremely uneducated and working class. It’s not my problem if other people’s parents don’t possess enough intelligence to raise them properly
@@KingxDers Pin of truth ;))))
That guy didn't need them coaching him...he has charisma and a bubbly personality. He just needs more self-esteem and confidence.
I agree
@Xavier Rodriguez that's good if you want to attract somebody who's interested in your wallet
@@rickyjiggens2180 Enticing women with money is NOT game. Quite a number of broke guys out here with great game who are sleeping with everything from young models to married women. I've seen it with my own eyes.
besides having at least a somewhat healthy self esteem and confidence, another important part is choosing to date someone that vibes with you, which iv felt is the most important part. LITERALLY ALL THE HARD PARTS take care of themselves without thought or effort if you just ask out people that you actually like, not just the looks by itself.
@Xavier Rodriguez you're the problem dude
Dating coach: “He seems to have no confidence.”
And that’s why he called you.
Yea they seam like they talking more about him then being there for him smh
i mean y'all really expected the fish to know how to fish?
@@FOH45 gotta need some ice for that one sheeeeesh
Saint Rei
bruh, the women in this case were better than the dude. So in this case, it’s either believing a fish or a really bad fisherman
@@justadummy8076 *That's not saying much.*
"Staying single 2021 is really about working on myself."
That is NOT a signal to talk about YOU. She is opening up to you. You COULD ask "What are you most trying to improve?" or "Are you trying to learn some new skills, or find a new hobby?", things like that.
She is LITERALLY sharing her experience and perspective with you, and the sage advice was "Shut that shit down and talk about you.". Really?
Im not the wittiest at banter myself, but I KNEW interjecting with things abt himself were the WRONG way to go... Coaches and specialists huh?
Why waste time on someone who wants to be single?
@@afhostie She probably just said that to make rejecting him easier
I wouldn't have started talking about myself either, but i think i would be a little intimated by her saying she stays single. Cause i am then not sure, if she really is interested in dating, so I probably wouldnt have thought about asking her about what she wants to improve but i think you are right. Its a good question.
@@jasonoliver7029 That's why dating coaches are worthless. They give the worst advice that may work for some girls but they always try to sell you some shit ideology its never little tips and tricks to improve your charisma or confidence its always shit advice.
There is no license, permit, or degree to be a, "dating coach."
Anyone can claim to be a dating coach and not have any skills at reading others or communication.
And this video absolutely proves that
People with licenses, permits, and degrees can suck at their jobs, too. Just saying lol
@@Freek314 Yeah, but licenses give you a basic reference of "This person has this passed this level of qualification at this point".
There is some level that you can expect of them, and hold them to it.
Having 3 different coaches at the same time is the stupidest concept ever.
That's like having 3 different directors direct an actor at the same time.
Yeah - honestly, bad advice can look good when executed well... but this guy never had a chance... listening to a gay guy and two self-absorbed female "coaches" simultaneously is just an awful idea... to say nothing of the fact that they're all white and he isn't...
Like having 3 police officers yell different orders at you at the same time lol
@@GodSin777 sounds like basic training lmao
One is stupis at least
@@moonknight4053 one at a time? Yes. In real time all 3? Yeah its not great in any context
"Ask her what she likes about you"
Don't ever do this,unless you are 100% certain she likes you.
how are you supposed to tell a person you've only known for three minutes what you like about them? how could you possibly give an honest answer?
@@entropicflux8849 exactly🤣🤣🤣 so cringe
That makes me think of those guy who propose on the jumbo tron and get rejected
I would say you should just avoid that question entirely. Making a girl tell you what she likes about you makes you seem worried about what she thinks about you. If you are confident enough to think she likes you, you’ll probably identify why she likes you too.
If she likes you she'll tell you. Don't even ask.
I feel bad for the insecure guy who's date they sabotaged, but I find it hilarious that these worthless dating coaches just carpet bombed their own careers. :')
They do this so they keep getting their customers to come back
@@akawiangel Well the customers who's dates they've ruined will certainly not be coming back. And for any potential new customers, this video content of them being terribly incompetent at what they claim to be experts at, this is a perfect repellent. No one will want their dating advice after having seen this.
This is carreer self harm.
Those "coaches" were basically just telling him to pretend to be someone he's not, which is one of the worst things you can do when trying to get to know someone. How the hell are you ever going to have a healthy, satisfying relationship if you're hiding who you really are?
We live in an age where the LEAST experienced people give the MOST advice. Everyone's a coach for a quick buck.
Oh not just dating coaches, but a lot of other "professions" too
Remember, fellas: NEVER ask a fish how to go fishing. Ask a fisherman.
right? anyone can call themselves an expert nowadays
Facts
@@mad4song01 fkin bars right here
He honestly did the best he could with their terrible suggestions.
Did better then most dudes who is probably on here and still never asked out a girl yet.
Yea that shit was trash
Yea I agree they were making him uncomfortable with stupid ass suggestions
Yeah I can tell cause when the guy "coach" told him to say "Tom-Yum", you can tell he fucking hesitated and knew that it wasn't a good line lmao
Strip them of that "professional" label 😐
I bailed on a date because she talked about herself all the time. By the time I heard “because I’m a model” for the 52nd time over dinner I was done.
I liked the second girl. She was in tune. She saw this dude didn't have confidence so she was very kind and encouraging to him. That's exactly what he needs, a few positive experiences to boost his confidence. Even if it doesn't lead to anything, that's going to be good for him and she felt that perfectly. But those stupid 'coaches' ruined that by pressuring him into being something that he's clearly not.
Yeah the second one was an absolute sweetheart
@@Lemonpie167 Third girl had the best personality she matched him to a T
This guy could’ve done way better on his own honestly, like these “coaches” suck
Don't ask a fish how to catch a fish ;-)
This guy earn confidence to do it (with them in his ear) - it’s is just psychology… I saw so many homies be awkward/creepy alone … But when you know they are there and having your back you feel powerful/invincible…
I was literally about to say this
@@BodyGuardCZ yeah but at some point you gotta think for yourself and think if their advice is good or not
Is like the blind leading the blind these dating coaches thing shouldn’t exist just giving bad advice all around
I mean the fact that the women know he has people in his ear is immediately a turn off. Like they forsure just did this for the cash. This is the dumbest thing cut has done. They just humiliate this poor guy for no reason.
I know, and I can tell that its messed up because they probably feel like they arent talking to himself and have people listening in. They really just ruined his whole shit.
Only take away I see for him is the experience, even though that itself is questionable...
@@Rextle he can cry with some extra cash now..
Calling this the dumbest thing cut has done is quite a big stretch, this is just another one in the vast collection.
@@AspireGMD her: he has experts in his ear and this all the game he got? Shiiiitt
What I took away from this:
1. Avoid making face value compliments, starting off. Things like nice eyes, hair, skin, etc, bc they are already things that they’ve heard from tons of men before you, and it’s something that they know alr. The best compliments are the ones you didn’t expect. Maybe different aspects of their personality, their hobbies, or their achievements(these questions might be kinda of tame to more experienced guys, but I’m definitely not experienced)
2. Have free flowing conversations. Those are the type of conversations that get both sides engaged and leaves you wondering where the time went. Neither side is really focused on trying to be impressive or appealing, which both lead to stress, anxiety, and awkwardness that kills the date, because they’re both too engaged. Having conversations in a way that constantly brings stress and anxiety, never really sat right with me anyway
1. How can you compliment anything other than appearance when you’re meeting someone for the first time and know nothing about them except their appearance at that moment.
2. If free flowing conversation was easy for everyone it would already be happening, just telling people to do something well that they’re not good at is completely useless advice ‘just be better at things than you are’
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 ironically the best way to get better at these kinda things is to do it more to be better at those things
man the poor guy is doing so great on his own, he's going 1000mp/h listening to their BS in the bckground and trying to react. he's awesome!
These dating coaches remind me of Highschoolers who encourage their unconfident friend by 'helping' them and instead they realize he'll say anything and they make a massive joke out of it, trying to get him to say embarrassing shit so they get a laugh out of it.
It's like an episode of Impractical Jokers.
People from the past pulled that on me. They're not your friends zndthey look down on you
Guy: "You got Beautiful eyes".
Girl: "Thank you".
Guy: "Can i have them?"
Girl: "Uhm, No. So, do you have any hobbies?"
Guy: "Yes. I collect things".
Girl: "Things like what?"
Guy: "Eyes".
Guy: Your eyes are like blueberries. I wanna just eat them.
Girl: *furiously dialing 911*
Thank you Ed Gein 😅
Haha
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂 lord have mercy
These "Dating coaches" were literally setting up hurdles for him every time they talked. Too many tangents and one-way conversations set him up for failure.
My biggest pet peeve with dating coaches are the ones that think good advice is 'say this' and 'be like this' when it isn't. As a dating coach you should be giving advice on confidence boosting and little body exercises like breathing to control nervousness, not what certain things to say, think, or do.
This is like Impractical Jokers where three friends give the worst advice you have to follow.
I did not think of this similarity! Maybe they could take notes
I think they're called the Sidemen and did this exact same thing. These dating coaches were honestly on the same level when they were interrupting him. 😅
Looks like Sal is tonight’s big loser, the other jokers will put him in a date and feed him terrible lines til a date throws water in his face
but at least they know they are getting messed with
lmaao
they were playing with that poor boy’s life 😔
Aba and Preach should be the ones helping him out.
"Ask permission to ask a bold question."
Doesn't that undo the boldness?
yea jubillee, because they are extremely imperfect human being animals like the rest of us, will just shamelessly use and dispose of people for the clicks. money and clout are truly the roots of all evil.
Right?! If I were him I would have yanked that headset out.
As a woman whose refused to date for like 2 years now literally just because it’s torture for someone super introverted like me. I will say y’all had some great advice…and as a woman who has had my share of shit ass dates I really appreciated everything aba was sayin especially the being pushy so soon with coming over to cook for a woman you just met. A lot of women don’t even feel comfortable being alone in their home with a man they’ve just met… I mean and they definitely shouldn’t, its risky and it’s dangerous.
This comment is even more valuable because it’s coming from a female - dating coaches are a scam
100% agree. Ugh went on a date with a guy who kept suggesting the cooking at his house date. Even wanted me to come back to his house that night to “listen to music.” I told him I wasn’t comfortable going to his house because we just met, he persisted, and then when I turned him down over text he continued texting me for months until I blocked him on everything
I’m cross faded so that probably had nothing to do with what you said but yes his advice is so good, especially asking “what made you wanna go on this date” instead of “what do you like about me”
When preach started ad libing under the shirt 16:03 yo I started cryyyyim😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I bet you haven’t heard this one. So a gay guy and two women give dating advice to an awkward heterosexual… what could go wrong…?
Hahaha!
They're also way too young to be giving advice
What di you mean?!
"Tell her you'll make her some food you've never heard of and have no idea how to cook."
Yeaaaaaah.....
The comment I was looking for
My issue with this vid: theyre telling him
To say things that he would never say in a million years, hes not being true to himself and its apparent to the women
That Tom Yum and James Bond line made me want to punch those coaches. If you are not there to help this man, then just leave!
True, girls sniff that out in no time. They don't know _exactly_ what's up, they just get that vibe you're not what you're trying to be and are turned off.
Its also things a guy would never say. No girl is ever going to say "I was really impressed he asked me what I liked about him"
The dude is a nerdy virgin. He's gotta work on himself
He needs to be a polished version of his current self; just breathe and be confident in his own interests. You notice that when he talked about why he wanted to be a doctor and about anime was when the women found him most interesting? The only general advice I would give is to compliment something specific about the women when you first see her and not to push for a second date until near the end of the current date, which I guess in this speed dating case was gonna be kind of early. But normally, just enjoy the date that you're on.
"ohh, he's doing it on his own" YEAHHHH, almost like when you put someone together with someone with mutual interests and both similar awkwardness, conversation is more likely to evolve naturally. Jesus, how do I get a job as a relationship coach because apparently you need to know nothing what so ever. poor dude being humiliated like that.
He would've killed it if he just took the earpiece out. These weirdo coaches were 100 proof trash juice
Surprised skippy wasn’t a dating coach with this group of “experts” 😂😂
He would have given better advice than the "pros", no cap
As dumb and gooberish af "asking for consent to ask your bold question" is, what is consent to Skippy? 🥴
Yooo I was actually thinking some of this advice sounded exactly like stuff Skippy would say. Like insinuating there would be a second date after a tragically failed date or inviting the girl over for food at his place after 2 minutes of small talk.
@@cokemachine62590 yeah true lol. I agree with y'all
Lol
Awkward af.. these coaches did worse than the dude was doing by himself.
Dude has an earpiece in with coaches telling him want to say and the coach goes "she was in fact questioning his sincerity quite a lot".
I can't even.
Right when she said, “I think she wants you to talk about yourself” I was like no no no 😂😂
“Dating coaches” that have as much game as Skippy lol
Skippy got a bit more since ge actually got a chick to go on dates with him. It's cringe but still.
@@itstriplem2069 that's because they were Mormons, they expect each other to be a little weird.
these coaches way low-key grooming him to be a Skippy
😂
Vast majority of the Dating Coaches out there have done very little dating. They haven't tried most of the theoretical bullshit they're spewing. If they got something to sell they're probably frauds and if not, just triple check their credentials.
Most of the game y'all would ever need is offered for free online. Don't fall for game just to get play.
I agree with this, lots of frauds out there - My dating coach told me consent is not important
I truly think dating/game/pickup advice needs to be regulated in some way. This just makes the whole industry look bad and discourages those that need help from real teachers.
*Y'all should collab with Anthony Recenello! Maybe do a dual reaction*
They should be treated like snake oil salesmen or psychics. While, someone feels good about it, they almost never work.
@@Main815 Consent is not important? Can u clarify please?
im actually thankful for this video. knowing that there are people who are this awkward gave me a big confidence boost.
Don’t get your confidence from other peoples misfortune 😂 super L
The advice abt taking a beat and breathing instead of just filling the air with words was absolutely priceless for him. If he remembers that he will do perfectly fine om his own going forward.
These coaches are so bad, this guy would have been better off on his own.
Yaaaaasss!! Then their acting as if it's him who screwed up 🙄
FOR SURE!!!!
Nice profile picture Nihilus
@@bradenbash5916 ah, a person of culture. Yes, his my favorite sith.
@@jigsaw2036 badass
That male dating coach was pure cringe. Every thing he suggested was sabotage.
Yeah Fr he was kinda creepy too like his suggestions were something the weird kid in class would say
@@nickskrill2005 _"Hey I like your eyes. They look like blueberries..can I.. can I have them?.."_
The first suggestion he got from the female started him off wrong to begin with. As a woman she should have known that her statement was a bait statement for him to ask her about herself. Anyone on a date that states the intended on remaining single should make you want to know why they are there in the first place. All he had to do was ask her why and she would have elaborated. Her answer would have told him most of what he needed to know about her.
Not surprised he’s from Portland. Fucking dork central out here, guys have zero game. ZERO!
He looked and sound like a woman. He was so feminized in everyone of his expressions. Nothing wrong with that. But he seemed like he’s gay. Can’t give advice to straight men, especially if you don’t what your doing calling yourself a dating” coach “
Yo my man's was actually doing decent without them talking shit into his ear. Every time they told him to say some whack ass shit they killed the vibe he was giving off. Dating coaches ain't shit.
20:08 - Preach trying not to crack a smile at the whole "I'm afraid of animals because I was in a Taxi Cab and one was going to bite me."
Me - I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS!!!
They interrupted him to give him bad advice. They really made him ask for permission, ask for consent for words of affection or affirmation. That's fucked up.
Yeah. He'd have done way better if they didn't do anything.
Aba should of been on the mic he got better advice than them
Feminism ruined love and dating
@@usernameluis305 Fucking preach.
From a woman... don't ask for consent for dumb shit, especially when it comes to conversation. That's insane. No woman will respond well to you ever asking "do I have your consent to ask this question?"
JUST. ASK.
We aren't babies and we don't need to be coddled. We like people who are okay with taking the lead and can keep a conversation going that's comfortable and enjoyable.
Consent to ask a question?? Gtfoh 🙄🙄
"do you like anime"
"yeeeaaarr big weeb" as they both giggle
thats it take that piece out of ur ear and throw it....no more input needed
LITERALLY THOUGH ❤️❤️❤️
Yes!
on god
this is when i knew they were full of shit. Imagine being a dating coach and making a man feel shamed for sharing what he likes. Fuck these people.
Facts lol I was happy for them.
I’ve known girls who said that they felt like the guy was distant and didn’t share anything about himself but it’s a soft hand kind of thing. I find it’s best to share something small about yourself and turn it into a question about her. “I had the best stew for dinner last night. What kind of food do you like? What’s your favorite restaurant? I like that too! Have you ever been to such and sick a place that also makes that kind of food? Maybe we could go some time! I love trying new restaurants. What’s the last new place you tried? Have you ever traveled to a different city or state And been somewhere with great food or even just something cool? Oh you’ve been there? Were you there for working or visiting family?” Etc. You can turn one thing about yourself into a whole evening of questions about her of you do it right.
Bro you guys are mad funny, you guys give good advice, laughs and this dude probably would have had more games without these coaches
They aren’t helping him at all. Their advice is cringe. He is cool but they are screwing him over. I honestly feel he could do better by himself.
Toughest video i’ve ever had to watch
The girl in the middle isnt so bad, it's the guy. Honestly, he doesn't need a dating coach he needs counseling and therapy.
@@TomikaKelly especially after that terrible advice
Right? I had to tap out halfway through the first girl, but my man's out here working his way through it. It's rough, but he's not dying. Then they're giving him terrible prompts. He's not in a place to be able to segue in and out of this stuff yet so it's very jarring. I think if you just let him take a run at 3-5 girls consecutively, he'd do better recognizing where things are taking turns.
Proud of the guy for putting himself out there. Lots of dudes have just given up on dating
well modern dating that is.
This guy seems like a genuinely cool dude, I wouldn't worry about him not finding a decent relationship. He's pretty young and his anxiety is coming from there, which is completely normal.
And rightfully so. There's almost nothing of value to be gained at this point; especially for the potential risk involved.
Lots of dudes given up dating because its a losing game for most men.
@Pantelis Tzimas Sometimes I wonder if that’s just how this particular space feels about it or is the general consensus really like that out there? I’d love to hear a guy describe the modern dating scene without knowing about A & P, “red pill” stuff, and everything else on UA-cam. Are they losing hope?
Bruh y'all speaking facts. I know from experience the biggest thing is being relaxed and letting it glow
"Don't talk about previous dates" is the kind of advice I grew up with. I don't see how it could make sense now.
They low key wanted him to fail. Lol Apparently, they also suck at dating.
Because if dating coaches were successful, they’d put themselves out of business.
I'm pretty sure half of them don't even know what gender they'd like to date. "coaches"
I think these coaches wanted some failure to make it interesting because they already knew the girl wouldn’t click so they wanted it to fail harder
low key? lol the reason he black girl sounded so much better is cause she know he's getting fucked up and his delivery sucks. you cant be talking to a woman like its a race and you cant be a snail also all while saying something interesting to them
@@AlexanderSkinnerVids *PREACH BROTHER!*
The title should be: "Virgin pays for 3 people to laugh at his dating problems"
Virgin and 3 clowns
I don’t think he payed though I’m pretty sure he got payed
5 people to laugh at his dating problems
HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DAMN!
Natural flow of conversation is great advice!
I have been going through yall videos that I have been missing. Still clutch my guys.
He could've turned this around by just being like 'hey you wanna hear what these dating experts just told me to say?' A first date that's just ragging on dating coaches sounds like a blast to me
Epic, it would be flawless victory lol, im sure the coaches would've had me ctffu & clowning them lmaoo
True, I would have said “These guys just gave me horrible advice. Wanna hear it? “🤣🤣😂
Kid would have done better by himself. Hes got tons of personality.
He does maybe hes nervous, but the advice they gave him ain't sound to helpful.
@Peppi Roni Personality is useless? What are you an incel dude?
@@bravo561 yes
@Peppi Roni hes not even ugly lmao
@Peppi Roni He looks awful? Okay dude. He looks like a perfectly normal dude.
Not even gonna front watching your guy’s videos has definitely helped me be a better human being thank you guys 🙏🏽💯❤️
This is probably maybe the second time I've ever commented on UA-cam and I know this video is old, but what just happened was crazy! Preach mentions that it would probably be the only time he ever asks for an ad, and straight up as he said that the count down to the ad popped up on my screen. I don't know if that's a thing that happens if it's expressly mentioned in a video, or if the content creator can decide where an ad is placed but I've NEVER seen an ad pop up on cue before! Surreal as hell! On another note y'alls videos are legit af!
If that guy is a dating coach, I’m president doofus.
Nah, you're good...Biden is president doofus.
no, you're tom yummy
@@yourvirtualdad 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Then I will be Vlad the impaler
Well I didn't vote for you
He’s just awkward and inexperienced. I think if he keeps putting himself out there (without becoming discouraged) he could have success finding somebody. He seems like a good dude once he relaxes he’ll do better.
And that's how you do it but some people think we are born natural to do this well mainly girls say so but its tough for a guy who is just starting. That's why i advice to learn and probably hire a dating coach but i say be careful who you choose cause not all are good. Specially if some of them are still single.
Honestly. He seems really sweet, and genuine if he can relax a little. I think he will be ok.
Nah. He wont start doing good till he starts making money
I like how u worded ur shit brotha!! You’re absolutely right with all of it.
exactly Tarumarugan i was the same when i had 18 to 21 years in life. now at 26 im just chilling when you try to seduce enought or talked to a lot of women it becomes natural what you should not ask to them ever.
videos are fire.. keep it up.. and the outro song is vibes... downloading now
I got an ad when Preach requested one.
Someone up there is definitely listening
Guy: “Ask her for consent to ask a question.”
Also Guy: “Tell her she looks like a Thai dish and basically insinuate you want to eat her.”
Me: “Can we get consent to shut this fool up?”
For real. In his insulated world, shouldn't he have said, "Ask her permission to ask her a question, then ask her if you have her consent to ask a bold question..."
I feel like this guy never flirt with a women or he wanted to just laugh at this boy
LMAO
The worst part is people pay for their advice these are the worst dating coaches I've ever heard
This guy does not fuck. How is he a dating coach
I'm telling you that NOBODY, none of us could manage a date well with 3 people chipping into your head from outside! Not even you guys could cope with that sort of 'back-seat driving'! I can't even unlock a tricky door if my wife starts with the 'Why don't you do this? Oh, what's that? Is this bit important?' Aaaaaaaargh!!!
Truth
If they were actually experts and good... then they wouldn't be having any discussion on what to do. And as such, it would work. I also couldn't watch the video, but I didn't even see them give any advice on body language yet. Look into her eyes a lot, smile when she tells you about the things she loves and make sure that you show a little bit of extra interest when she does, etc. You can even play around a bit with the unspoken language, that's part of making it feel fun for the lady (but do try to make sure that you are taking her seriously and aren't just making fun of her).
I’ve found some traction with giving little compliments in passing without enthusiasm. Just like throwing it out there without making a big deal or fawning over them and then just immediately talking about something else when they say thank you. They know you noticed but you don’t make them feel pressured.
That ad in-between was a breath of fresher
They were literally making the G look stupid.. and they were low key enjoying the shit show 💔... Let’s find this brother 🙏🏾. He needs to see this
Bit of AMS and Kevin Samuels will put this brother on GAME.
@@iwantgoals1566 oh please God no Kevin samuels is twice divorced and an asshole that will not help him he seems like a nice guy just shy he needs a confidence booster and he can only give himself that
@@iwantgoals1566 Send him to Miami so Fresh & Fit can get a go at him.
@@uok6216 Kevin will get him right, he has all the opportunty's and options in the world
@@uok6216 that’s facts actually I doubt these girls were really his type
Honestly, all the guy needed to do was stay calm, remember that the person he's sitting across is a human just like him, and be open.
These "experts" sometimes over complicate dating.
A human being that smells good, mesmerizing, a sweet voice, and born with a vag//na. Lol it’s very difficult it takes years to get to that point.
@@mark_kline lool
That's the point, how would they get customers if people actually had relationships?
Love what you guys are about...keep it up👊🏾💜
That song at the end" Amari's call" is sooOoOO good! Thanks for adding it
Preach was like "UA-cam please give us an ad break right here."
UA-cam: I got you fam.
They actually did it 😂😂
Lmao yea
I was looking for this comment
I was actually kinda surprised tbh UA-cam actually listen to content creators for once lol
Even the UA-cam moderators couldn't handle that level of cringe. That's impressive
Preach: "Im asking UA-cam for an ad break"
Me: *ad pops up* "damn preach getting some wizard powers 2"
Yo.. That shit lowkey pissed me off 🤣
I thought the creators pick where ads go in their videos. I figured they placed it thete
@@mollynino861 Yes, they do
Lmao I died when the ad started
Same
This the cut video they reacted to was so funny and interesting for me to watch today and amazing video aba n preach :]
Really Great Episode it was entertaining and i have learned something about dating. Even when i'm not the dude from the video, i'm probably in dire need of some of your advices though, maybe make a episode about it :).
He'd be better off ignoring the coaches and talked about nickelodeon
lol
Let’s go, now that’s a conversation worth having, because it’s a Hobbies and an interest. It should be normalised to talk about things we actually like, tbh us folks here in the comments would be waaay more qualified then those bitch ass dating coaches.
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This guy will have no problem, he just needs to keep getting out there and meeting people. He has really good energy. He's not boring, he's not super annoying. He's interesting and putting himself out there. He doesn't need coaches, he needs friends to go out w/ and to keep going out. He'll do fine
Agreed. Tbh he probably would have done better without the terrible advice of those coaches. First because he would have been himself, but also because he would have been simply more successful, because he'll be okay like you said.
After preach said youtube give the advert. Then youtube answered. Never been more happy to have seen a break in my life.
little things like standing up and greeting the girl with a confident handshake show how you want others to treat you. when you come in to a party, is nice that your friends greet with physical contact, and show respect for the person. you feel good when you feel recognized so you will do it to others and make them feel understood, comfortable. you are not there to take advantage of them, you need to make them feel at ease. with his charisma, this guy would have taken the first girl home right away, girls wanna stay single till they find the right man, or woman. with so many things going on we sometimes prefer to have some time alone, but if the right person comes, and they are willing to come to a compromise, a relationship can be established
This literally feels less like an “advice in an earpiece” type thing, and more of an impractical jokers episode. The coach’s on the far right and left were literally smiling in anticipation while telling him to say shit.
Sal's up for punishment.
@@steelrarebit7387 every time
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Was watching this and thinking, "he's on Impractical Jokers and doesn't even realize it"
Literallyyyyy
"She was questioning his sincerity"? Gee I wonder why, probably had something to do w/ him looking like he's got the secret service in his ear. Bad idea from jump.
I needed this so bad. All my friends have died. I went through a horrible depression and haven't dated in 5 yrs so I lost all my confidence...it just made me realize my game is tight..rofl
Self amusement in conversations is so important
I know about 20 women who would date him because of his shirt. Geeky girls would bond immediately. My husband and I are geeky as hell and we have a great marriage.
Yeah! in this day and age that stuffs not even really considered geeky anymore. It’s relatable, a whole generation grew up with those shows. It seems like in the us there is a huge mainstream nostalgia culture right now.
Not buying it. 😂😂😂
@@ImpowermentGroup for real CAP
So you’re saying a female would date him cause of a shirt? You sound really dumb.
@@Milk-hb5ve I think she was implying that women who were into cartoons would recognize that nickelodeon logo as something her date and her could have as a common interest. I don't think its much different in principle than women who want financial security (or even gold-diggers) typically go after expensively dressed men, women who like athletes go after men who dress athletic, etc... or vice versa. (men do this too). It sounds shallow, but you can actually tell a lot about someones personality by the way they prefer to dress.
"Get her consent to ask a question."
Yo, they're woman, not gods.
Lol
That is some goofy advice. If you have to ask for consent to ask a question then you shouldn't be asking that question.
lmao, in todays world thats how men are expected to treat women, ask their consent for every little thing or else it's a violation of their female space and boundaries.
Lol if you feel you have to ask someone's consent for a simple question either it's probably too personal for a first date or you're acting silly and treating them wayy too special besides that.
@@maineman5757 asking for consent is a question itself
yooo anyone else get the advertisement break at the perfect time? ...Man that feels good
For the first time im not mad i dont have yt premium cause i needed that ad break when preach suggested it
ABA AND PREACH ARE THE ELDER BROTHER WE ALL NEED
Yes
They sure are, to all of us 😁
Yeah, and little bro some of these older guys I date need. Damn, their advice was exactly what I dream about announcing on a loud speaker that’ll reach the entire city (I’m in Sydney but from Cali).
Facts just blessing the streets with good game jack
speak for yourself
When my best buddy was having issues dating, I told him simply "pretend like you are just catching up with a friend you haven't seen since high school. Calm and genuinely interested in what's going on with them." As opposed to talking to a stranger you hope to bone later. It worked like a charm.
This dude was going pretty good with the second gal, even if she kind of a gold digger, until the "coaches" ruined it.
1st date:
-She initiated that awkward high five
-She definitely didn’t want him to start talking about himself, it seemed forced to suddenly start talking about yourself
-When they said she could pick up on the insecurity, yea no shit, it’s because other people are currently on this date with her, not him.
2nd date:
-I think that was *HORRIBLE* to tell him not to talk about previous dates, especially if they’re funny, bad dates. Dating is about finding what you each can relate to, find middle ground, build chemistry from there or build upon some existing chemistry that’s already there. So much of saying for men and women is different, but bad dates that fail spectacularly and hilariously are something that both genders can relate to. And hell, it can also reveal a lot about the other person too. Was it bad because it was bad, or because you’re a psycho? lol we need to know these things
-Who tf is the bozo?! “Ask for consent to ask the preface to the bold question,” How many qualifiers do you want this question to have? Also, what kinda weak ass shit was that? Is this the feminists perfect male? Weak, unthreatening, even asks consent to ask questions? Like fucking pathetic. This man doesn’t teach you how to get dates, he teaches you how to be the doormat and an ally for women! Lmao 😆😂 that was the first time he opened his mouth and he was honestly more productive just being quiet
3rd date:
-Notice how the coach in the middle actually realized to step back and let him breathe and he found a girl he meshed really well with, and he wasn’t tripping and stumbling over his words anymore because he wasn’t trying to be who the coaches wanted him to be but rather he was being himself.
My advice to him is the same as the middle coach, calm down dude, *BRRREEEAAATHE,* no one’s gonna come along and take the words out of your mouth, you can give them time. You talk as if you had a 3 word sentence, you’re already trying to get the second word out while you’re still in the middle of saying the first word. Just SLOW DOWN and relax, command the room and table, sometimes you’ve gotta fake it till you make it, so tell yourself you’re confident, tell yourself you’re relaxed, tell yourself you’re gonna do great, sometimes being your own words of positive affirmation can do wonders for yourself. I mean you’re already in your head telling yourself how nervous you are, how sometimes women scare you, etc. and you’re psyching yourself out, now really try and focus on doing the inverse, tell yourself you’re not gonna be scared, tell yourself you’re just gonna be calm, chill, and relaxed. Any good dating coaches first order of coaching someone for dating would and should never be pickup lines, asking stuff about her, etc. they would immediately first go to work on who they’re coaching. It don’t matter how smooth you are as a coach if the person your coaching is bumbling and stumbling all over the place because they’re not confident enough in themselves.
I actually sat here and read the entire thing. Nothing but the truth was said here
Preaches last comment was spot on, you have to put yourself out there and see how you do in different situations
Honestly, he wasn't too bad. The guy was sincere, nerdy, and cool. When he was Vibing with the black girl they just messed him up! he was getting comfortable with her.
They were jealous
Facts he could still use some game but overall the first girl he did terrible the second one he could have possibly built something but then his coaches messed him up mainly the outside ones
And the third 1 there's definitely going to be a second date
To be fair what the second girl seemed to find most interesting about him was his "ambition".. aka she saw dollar signs when he mentioned med school. But I can't really blame her too much since the whole setup of going on a date with a guy who literally has an earpiece on is sketchy from the get go. But yeah their advice was mostly trash. Especially the dude, "Ask for consent to *ask* her a *bold* question" then "tell her some corny as hell joke about Asian food then imply she looks delicious in the corniest, most childish way you can."
@@reoden7546 Third girl was the cutest Ironically and she actually had a matching personality, which is important when dating.
Yooo…coaches were TERRIBLE. Shout out to my man though, he really did try his best considering the bullshit they put him on. That first girl was cringey as fuck, she was checked out from the get go. I don’t blame her either. But man that was rough to watch
Yep he had even looked once and aske twice if the date was over. They made it go on too long just for more video.
I'm just dying from cringe and so I ran to the comments section looking for this comment to be buried in.
I have many regrets.
They were L manz (and womenz)
He has more game then the fucking coaches. Where he was naturally taking the conversation the girl was interested but would quickly lose interest when he took there adviced
I won't even lie, I can't make it through this one and came right to the comments to see how bad it actually was
yall mental fortitude..............power to you my brothers
Bro going into dating was rough, trying to find that game is hard in the beginning. I remember getting “friend zoned” on tinder bruh. The girl was super into me and shit but my clown ass always kept fumbling. Push through kings, always learn from your mistakes.
That guy dating coach literally sold him so hard I thought it was the 1800s
Lmao Risky. But a damn good joke
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that one took me a second but damn hahaha
Damn u edgy edgy😂
LeRon Harris as all jokes should be
“What’s the guy on the left doing?”
“He’s getting his cut” 😂😂😂
I got an ad break when preach asked floor one im cracking uppp!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hey! That ad came in right when Preach asked for it!
Respect for this guy being willing to put himself in this crazy ass scenario.
The guy getting advice from three different people is already set up to fail.
Especially when the date coach is a woman that teach man how to date women
3 different personalities Jesus
I agree with aba the middle woman wasn’t so bad, but the guy and the girl was ridiculous
I swear dating coaches intentionally give bad advice bc if they give good advice then they lose their customers, their income. It almost always seems like most successful dating coaches give the worst advice. I used to think that maybe it was an off day. But after seeing this same crap over and over and over again, it's the only thing that makes sense to me