My story: As a boy in America, I've been conditioned to believe that "boys don't cry" or that I should "man up". I stood firm by that but one time on my birthday something happened. The day started off normal (cake, bday song, etc) but then, at the end of the day, it was time for everybody to leave (my bday party was at my house). Now keep in mind that at the time, I was nine. It was just me, my mom, my uncle Jerry, and my little sister. After the party, we didn't really have much so my mom was going to do some quick shopping. She left me, my little sister, and my uncle there alone. My uncle was very trusted, and was like a father figure to me almost. my little sister (who was a baby btw) was crying, so I put her to sleep. By then u was getting tired to so I just started playing my game. That's when my uncle came in my room and closed the door. I didn't think anything of it because I played music while I played so I just thought it was so it wouldn't wake my sister. He started playing my game with me (Lego marvel superheros) and it was fun. After about 5 minutes, he started brushing up against me and I was feeling uncomfortable. He got up, and closed my blinds. Then he said "aren't you bored of playing these kitty games?" And I just said that I liked the Lego videogames. He said "why don't we play the games adults play". At that point, I was getting VERY nervous (because I was aware of what rape was and what manipulation was). I said "naw I'm fine" and then he grabbed my hand and placed it in his pants and made me feel his junk through his pants. At that point, I was pulling away because I knew what was happening. He told me, in his exact words "don't be a bitch! Your a big man now!" I had rarely ever heard him cuss so I was really scared. He pulled down his pants, grabbed my head with both hands and raped me. It felt like it lasted forever. After, he gave me mouthwash and said "see, that wasn't so hard?" I just cried but I tried not to. My mom came home when I had the mouthwash and saw I was holding back tears. She asked what happened, and as I was about to speak, my uncle gave me a smile that said keep quiet, while looking right at me. Being scared, I said I was crying because I lost in my game. my uncle had his stuff and left, but before he did, he said "next time when we play the game, let's try something different". I was so scared, and having every male figure in my life saying that men don't cry, and that"men shouldn't be scared" made me silent. A few weeks later, we had another family get together. I begged my mom to let me stay home but she said no (since I was 9) at this one, it was the same with my uncle. But that time, he pulled down my basketball shorts, and proceeded to analy rape me. This pattern continued but then, he just started coming over. Just about a few times every other week! I was so scared. I felt like if I said something, I would be told to man up. So one time I had a genius idea. I would ask my mom to get cameras. Since I assumed people wouldn't believe me, I just thought "might as well get the cameras now". My mom was confused, but she still bought cameras anyway. A few weeks pass of my uncle raping me. And at one point I just break out and tell my mom to check the cameras( I was starting to get suicidal thoughts). She was horrified. She saw everything that happened and she called my dad first(even though he wasn't really in my life and my mom only had his number for child support I guess) and he was furious and disgusted. And sadly, Everytime my uncle raped me, I was just frozen. I was screaming on the inside. But nobody heard. I was broken. My mom took me to the police station and he is now serving 22 years to life. I'm sorry for this story being so long I just needed that💔
But I said Who asked you are so brave to do that and very smart at your age. i'm sorry that you have to go through this when nobody deserves this kind of childhood :((
@@charlesmccallum3673 I genuinely can't tell if you are joking right now! You are a disgusting human and a disgrace to society! And also, I never said I was homo-sexual, as I am not. I was taken advantage of by someone who was. I hope you rot.
Rape is just fluid exchange. Just like if someone spit in other persons mouth forcefully. I think rape is over exaggerated today since we have condoms and birth control we didn't have them in the past and the consequences were pregnancy and her life changed for ever . Now we are not living in dark ages. Especially where there is no violence during rape or minors involved.
I was six. He was a male babysitter. I caught him watching what he called "cartoons for adults" of people doing nasty and un-explainable things to each other. It was actually pornography. I watched his male anatomy go from soft to hard. Both times he'd open his arms, have me sat on his lap, and explain the sexual part of human beings in a "sensible" fashion, telling me not to be afraid; it wasn't supposed to be gross or scary or wrong even though it seemed that way. Bodies were just sacks of flesh, blood, skin and bones. It was only natural. There's no shame in it. Just nature. "It's our little secret, right? We're adults having this talk, aren't we? You're the most mature little girl I've ever met." I agreed to silence. I was rewarded with gifts. Money, candy, stuffed animals, and soft, fluffy things. The secret didn't remain a secret when the morbid curiosity got the better of me and I acted out the things I was exposed to on a toddler, shoving both hands into his nappy at daycare to see if his penis would also erect like a Lincoln Log. My mom had to pull me out that day and instead of punishing me, she decided to question me, very sternly, with immense focused concern. "I just wanted to see if it would go hard like (the babysitter's)." That's when she forced me to tell her everything. "Did he touch you baby?" "Nah, he just put me on his lap sometimes." Everything went by in a blur. A child protection officer, acting out things with dolls, the perpetrator attempting to flee the country...
@ramesh mv Support meant everything in my case. I was believed, reassured, and attended play therapy, so recovery happened quickly. I feel so sorry for children who are rejected or called liars...
Thank you so much for sharing. We’re sure your story will help many others who might have to face similar circumstances. Your parent’s reaction to it is also a great example for others. Again, thank you.
Hello! I'm sorry to hear what you've been through! ☹ Also, my apologies if these are inappropriate questions, but may I ask: - How have you experienced this yourself? Was it a very negative experience or did you simply not know what was going on? - And what effect had this on you later on? Have you noticed any negative ones? - Lastly, how do you look back at it? Do you now feel hatred towards that man? I'm asking because I have had discussions about this sometimes, but I can't really talk from experience (luckily) and only find interviews of people that research this, but, like me, haven't experienced this themselves either. I'm interested as what you would say, as you, in fact, have been through such a thing. 😬
I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more no one knows about it. it happened while i was in relationship with another man. i was so scared to tell him about scared that he will say that was my fault i really dreaming about someone tell me "i believe u". That I was the victim. i can't stop crying, I don't know how i can live with this i feel like if nobody will know 'bout what happened they'll say this is my fault
Hi Katherine, I was also raped and sexually abused since 6 years old. I am on recovery now and am looking for a support group, would you be interested to form a support group with me?
I belive to you...smilari sutiuation like me but trust me dear sister you have right on hope and trust me you must and can make your own choiche you will fight for your all the best be free and save for this darkness rember and you will be happy...and if you decide do everything what you want and fight and work for that light way of life wait you and this monster which make evil to you he will lost...SO I BEG YOU DONT LOST HOPE
I was 15 and it was a guy i worked with who was 33. He worked at the same pizzeria as me. He constantly groomed me and i didnt realise.. i was having a hard time and one time i got locked out my house so he took me back to his and later that night it was the first time.. many to come afterwards. I have never told anyone this as it went on for 5 months! I hate myself and i can never have sex again i feel sick everytime! And the worst part is he still thinks it was a relationship he told his family in iran i was his girlfriend. I was so minipulatesd i thought i was in love when really i look back it was just grooming. I want help but i dont want to put my family through it, its so complicated. Plus it happened nearly 2 years ago now
Morgan Roberts Thanks for sharing - it’s really brave of you to open up. It’s certainly a complicated situation, but do remember that none of it was your fault, and that you can always seek help from your parents, counsellors, or public health services. Stay strong, and take care!
Morgan, there is just one person who can heal you and set you free. He loves you and wants to heal you off every wound. I pray the blood of Jesus over you. I pray that he breathes you life into you and brings joy and peace into your life. In the might name of Jesus. Amen.
well as an asian parents think why would you do/go with him in the first place, if he ask then block him you know like asians think what made this event (rape) occur.
The guy was a sexual predictor and at 15 years old that girl did not have the life experience to notice the red flags and this is how these creeps operate, gaining the confidence of the naive and the vulnerable. Her parents called her dirty and she was sent away as some sort of disgrace punishment, yet it is the parents responsibility to keep an eye on their children`s activities as I did when my daughter was of a young age. Very sad state of affairs when a minor gets raped and made to feel she was to blame for it.
I was in 3rd grade my teacher was escorted children out of class and I wasn’t escorted, I was 10 years old I was raped by my 3rd grade teacher I kept silence not to tell nobody I hold this in all day I was thinking of suicide, cuz that happened in my life I’m a victim of raped, I hated myself I’m 16 years old now I’m still stuck inside when that happened.😔
the exact same thing happened to me, except i was in fourth & fifth. ive only started telling my therapist recently and ive gone my entire life hating myself. im here if you need anything, i understand what happened to you completely and if you need support im here for you. we'll get through this together
This makes me sad :( because this happened to me :( all I ever wanted to be is a pro footballer so I can give my family the life they deserve. I was raped when I was 9 years old by the football scout :( I have a story of me on my new UA-cam channel. My mission is to prevent others from having this happen to them. My life has changed a lot. Has anyone else experienced what I have experienced?
PUMA COMM I had a friend who was a boy, raped by his mother, and one friend who woke up to her boyfriend giving her oral. I also know of a guy who was raped by his girlfriend who gave him oral when he was asleep, I knew a bunch of girls who would cheat on their boyfriends and say it was rape. I was there, it definitely NOT rape. I know of loads of stories, from boys, men, one girl who was always covered head to to who was being raped by her moms boyfriend, she was 10
I was molested by my cousin for years who was 40 something years old and I was 10 and he did until I was 15 years old. I feel so guilty because I feel like I am at fault. Like I have deserved everything that happened to me and that it was okay. I hate myself so much because I still care and I just don’t know why I am like this. I’m so tired of feeling so much shame.
It's not your fault,you are the victim here. Sexual assault are not right,rape is not right,I'm so sorry for what happened to you,you're beautiful just the way you are,I hope you will recover and forget the bitter dark past ;( You're loved and amazing,you did well,here comes the virtual hugs for you ;))
I was rape too at 15 years old in a Juvenile Detention Facility by two kids (they were gang members). I am an African American male survivor. They tried to silence me too. But when I reported it to the police they just told me to man up and seek professional help. So I did. They just turn a blind eye and deaf ear toward me and tried to medicate me. So I'm now done seeking professional help. What should I do now? Talk with a lawyer? I tried that already they told me I was a little late to seek a lawsuit I'm now 36 years old. I heard that some gay men already commit murder after he became a victim. If that's what they want me to do because of my race then their wrong. Thou shalt not kill remember.
If you can't press charges now, dpn't let people silence you. Sexual abuse on boys and men happen by women and men. I was a victim of molestation by a family member that i looked up to. The word needs to get out there. Men can be abused too, and its not okay, and NEEDS to stop. It doesnt make you any less of a man.
My story: I was 10 living at my godmother house in 2020 because her husband was a IT with multiple computers for me, my sister,and their daughter. My godmother's dad was the one who groomed me. He was 62. I called him Papa. I knew him my entire life. Me and gmd (godmother's dad) were in the car doing uber eats to make a little extra money. We were on the way home at about 7:30 pm after some orders. Half way home he asked me if he could "play." At ten years old knew what he meant. I decided to play dumb and ask him what he meant. He said he wanted to touch me. He said that he would buy me subway if he could "play". He then started rubbing my upper thigh and vaginal area with his hand while driving. We make it home,park in the garage and before getting out he said "can I play before we go inside?" I told him "no grandpa I am tired." And ran inside. I told my sister about it and she went to my godmother. She scolded him about it and there was a dcfs case but he served no time. Update: I lived there again in 2022 till January 5th this year. Same house, I stayed in the same room, everything was exactly like it was before. My mom and I live in a ghetto neighborhood with a shitty school that I went to in seventh grade and ran away from home and was heavily influenced by drugs. I decided to suck it up and say I forgave him for a better education. My room was upstairs with gmds room and a foreign exchange student. Everyone else was downstairs. School was going fine, I had friends, I had a great place to live everything was fine. Until January fifth. (Context: gmd has a fiance who lives in the Philippines and he went on a two week Philippines trip alone two months prior.) Me and D (godmother's daughter) were hanging out with our friend group at one of their houses. At about 6:45 pm we get a call from godmother "You and D need to hurry outside and get in the car. There is a cop following us." Me and D panic and run outside shoes in hand hop in the car and we head home. Turn into the neighborhood and then down our street to see multiple cop cars down the block and cops swarming our house. We park get out of the car get patted down and go inside. We are instructed by the cops to sit in the living room upstairs. We sit down and for what felt like hours we sat there in silence while cops hustled around the house. There were numbers on doors and on walls of rooms marking them. Gmd was nowhere to be found. They get my mother phone number call her to tell her whats going on and that she can come pick me up if she wants. She came and picked me up and we drove to a place for me to be interviewed. On the way there my mom told me what was going on because the cops wouldn't tell us at the house. She said "gmd is getting charged for possesion of child Pornography and Sex with a minor. He could be facing up to 30 years to life in prison." I then found out that these were no regular cops these were Homeland security agents. I got interviewed for three hours about the 2020 case and then went home (more context: the homeland security agents told my mom that the minors in the content were of Asian decent. They assumed Philippines because that was the only place he had been other than USA. I finished the interview and went back to my moms house at 1:00 am. Godmother is holding my stuff hostage and D is being a massive bitch blaming me for this. They gave me some of my stuff after my mom threatened to have cops come back for me to get my stuff. I am still missing a load of stuff and godmother is not responding to my texts. This just happened so I am venting here sorry its super long 😅
This was 2 months ago, I am surprised nobody responded to this comment that you obviously deeply thought about. I hope all is well for you and your mom. Hope you get your possessions back and hope you gain a healthy relationship with some of your family again.
My story I was in year 5 ( 9 ) years old in the uk and one of my best friends cousins kept catcalling whistling and harassing me during school I ignored it and tried to stay away from him until I was called by my other male friend to come to a secluded area near my house and then I was forcefully dragged and raped and if I would scream I would be slit with a blade or burned with a lighter .My rapist was an underage male. I am still underage and I appreciate your time thank you!
U must tell ur parents. If someone was harassing u. I have daughter of ur age . And I keep my kids with me wherever I go. May god bless u and keep u save.
my story : i was 5 and raped not once but multiple times for atleast a year thats my story i was defenseless and he took advantage of me for over a year and now it haunts me
This music is really getting in the way of her telling her story, it's too loud and her voice deserves to be heard over anything. we dont need intense, dramatic music like it's a tv show...
We can only grow stronger from these awful experiences. There are too many women who can relate to your story. Support is so essential to healing and the taboo around something that happens to one third of women must be broken. Your story can change the world Thank you for sharing 🌈🌈🌈
I think only 1/3 of women actually report what happened to them. I bet the actually rate of sexual abuse is more like 90% of all women/girls, and 50% of all men/boys.
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
My girlfriend revealed her part of the story and it is similar what happened to lisa. Now im on a phase where i wanna understand her condition and help her grew up leaving her past behind.
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
I am NOT sorry...! I am NOT ashamed to have been sexually abused/victimized by every "trusted" adult male in my life! 1. I was given alcohol and groomed by my friend's dad. (May 2005) 2. My estranged biological father propositioned me. (Dec 2005) 3. My was drugged and assaulted by my step-father. (Feb 2006) It all happened in that order...starting on my 19th birthday and ending right before I turned 20. All in ONE YEAR.
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 Dude, what do you even mean like you speaking a different language that's somehow similar to english I mean, grammar is as valuable as language but I don't get your point, anyways all the best no harsh feelings
I am shocked by seeing all you guys how many you are being faced by problems??😩... I didnot understood why her mother put her to grandmother's place..she should put herself and scold and put that father to the hospital??is that mother was just caring selfestewm reputation???
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
I don't know how to say it but each act is written in the destiny of each person in this life and after death everyone will collect the fruit of their actions, this is the destiny of each soul and spirit of a human being. Sow kindness, respect and love and your reward will be the best. ⏳️⌛️⚖️ 🕎
Young girls should be more conscious when they are especially out of their homes......there must be a stong confidence to survive and be in this society filled with wrong people's all around....As of girls,we should be more alert and our minds should be strong to handle all this in a place where it occurs and we should be in stable mindset too...we can come across a more and more problems like this, so we should be safe and strong to handle all this....Always be confident girls, we are more Powerful...we are iron women,bat women, hulk women and so on..
Why do girls have to listen to man Go where they are ask to go Do what they want you to do Dont you have conscious to safequard yourself. Dont follow them Treat them as a frienc only But boyfriends. Dont take anything from them. Dont blame your parents for your foolishness.
Hey you're being so dumb, you can't understand what girls think when they're in there teenage ages. Their life being difficult. You'll never understand
The fuck the outfit doesn't matter but the jerks who has no mom if you're mom or sis got raped then you will ask what she was wearing men's like them deserves to be dead
These story very disturbing, and very upsetting I am Glad that this Woman Survived this terrible situation I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman: For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable... Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe... No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often. Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been... My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior, I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others... Keep everyone SAFE PLEASE BE SAFE Your Life is important Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate Jason Sandifer, Michigan MESSAGE REPOSTED
My story:
As a boy in America, I've been conditioned to believe that "boys don't cry" or that I should "man up". I stood firm by that but one time on my birthday something happened. The day started off normal (cake, bday song, etc) but then, at the end of the day, it was time for everybody to leave (my bday party was at my house). Now keep in mind that at the time, I was nine. It was just me, my mom, my uncle Jerry, and my little sister. After the party, we didn't really have much so my mom was going to do some quick shopping. She left me, my little sister, and my uncle there alone. My uncle was very trusted, and was like a father figure to me almost. my little sister (who was a baby btw) was crying, so I put her to sleep. By then u was getting tired to so I just started playing my game. That's when my uncle came in my room and closed the door. I didn't think anything of it because I played music while I played so I just thought it was so it wouldn't wake my sister. He started playing my game with me (Lego marvel superheros) and it was fun. After about 5 minutes, he started brushing up against me and I was feeling uncomfortable. He got up, and closed my blinds. Then he said "aren't you bored of playing these kitty games?" And I just said that I liked the Lego videogames. He said "why don't we play the games adults play". At that point, I was getting VERY nervous (because I was aware of what rape was and what manipulation was). I said "naw I'm fine" and then he grabbed my hand and placed it in his pants and made me feel his junk through his pants. At that point, I was pulling away because I knew what was happening. He told me, in his exact words "don't be a bitch! Your a big man now!" I had rarely ever heard him cuss so I was really scared. He pulled down his pants, grabbed my head with both hands and raped me. It felt like it lasted forever. After, he gave me mouthwash and said "see, that wasn't so hard?" I just cried but I tried not to. My mom came home when I had the mouthwash and saw I was holding back tears. She asked what happened, and as I was about to speak, my uncle gave me a smile that said keep quiet, while looking right at me. Being scared, I said I was crying because I lost in my game. my uncle had his stuff and left, but before he did, he said "next time when we play the game, let's try something different". I was so scared, and having every male figure in my life saying that men don't cry, and that"men shouldn't be scared" made me silent. A few weeks later, we had another family get together. I begged my mom to let me stay home but she said no (since I was 9) at this one, it was the same with my uncle. But that time, he pulled down my basketball shorts, and proceeded to analy rape me. This pattern continued but then, he just started coming over. Just about a few times every other week! I was so scared. I felt like if I said something, I would be told to man up. So one time I had a genius idea. I would ask my mom to get cameras. Since I assumed people wouldn't believe me, I just thought "might as well get the cameras now". My mom was confused, but she still bought cameras anyway. A few weeks pass of my uncle raping me. And at one point I just break out and tell my mom to check the cameras( I was starting to get suicidal thoughts). She was horrified. She saw everything that happened and she called my dad first(even though he wasn't really in my life and my mom only had his number for child support I guess) and he was furious and disgusted. And sadly, Everytime my uncle raped me, I was just frozen. I was screaming on the inside. But nobody heard. I was broken. My mom took me to the police station and he is now serving 22 years to life. I'm sorry for this story being so long I just needed that💔
But I said Who asked
you are so brave to do that and very smart at your age. i'm sorry that you have to go through this when nobody deserves this kind of childhood :((
@@roolthefool9706 I know. I'm just very grateful for my mom making sure I was aware of all the dangers of the world. That's why I spoke when I did
Charles McCallum you're disgusting.
@@charlesmccallum3673 1. I was raped
2. I was 9
3. I'm 13 and still underaged
4. Get a life and stop preying on defenseless children
@@charlesmccallum3673 I genuinely can't tell if you are joking right now! You are a disgusting human and a disgrace to society! And also, I never said I was homo-sexual, as I am not. I was taken advantage of by someone who was. I hope you rot.
NO MEANS NO JESUS CHRIST WHY ARE YOU SHAMING YOUR DAUGHTER WHY ARE YOU BLAMING YOUR DAUGHTER ?? WHAT ABOUT THE MAN WHO HURT HER??
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@@user-ki6pt2zg1h why?
Rape is just fluid exchange. Just like if someone spit in other persons mouth forcefully. I think rape is over exaggerated today since we have condoms and birth control we didn't have them in the past and the consequences were pregnancy and her life changed for ever . Now we are not living in dark ages. Especially where there is no violence during rape or minors involved.
I was six. He was a male babysitter. I caught him watching what he called "cartoons for adults" of people doing nasty and un-explainable things to each other. It was actually pornography. I watched his male anatomy go from soft to hard.
Both times he'd open his arms, have me sat on his lap, and explain the sexual part of human beings in a "sensible" fashion, telling me not to be afraid; it wasn't supposed to be gross or scary or wrong even though it seemed that way. Bodies were just sacks of flesh, blood, skin and bones. It was only natural. There's no shame in it. Just nature.
"It's our little secret, right? We're adults having this talk, aren't we? You're the most mature little girl I've ever met."
I agreed to silence. I was rewarded with gifts. Money, candy, stuffed animals, and soft, fluffy things.
The secret didn't remain a secret when the morbid curiosity got the better of me and I acted out the things I was exposed to on a toddler, shoving both hands into his nappy at daycare to see if his penis would also erect like a Lincoln Log.
My mom had to pull me out that day and instead of punishing me, she decided to question me, very sternly, with immense focused concern.
"I just wanted to see if it would go hard like (the babysitter's)."
That's when she forced me to tell her everything.
"Did he touch you baby?"
"Nah, he just put me on his lap sometimes."
Everything went by in a blur. A child protection officer, acting out things with dolls, the perpetrator attempting to flee the country...
@ramesh mv Support meant everything in my case. I was believed, reassured, and attended play therapy, so recovery happened quickly. I feel so sorry for children who are rejected or called liars...
Thank you so much for sharing. We’re sure your story will help many others who might have to face similar circumstances. Your parent’s reaction to it is also a great example for others. Again, thank you.
Cool
cool story
Hello! I'm sorry to hear what you've been through! ☹
Also, my apologies if these are inappropriate questions, but may I ask:
- How have you experienced this yourself? Was it a very negative experience or did you simply not know what was going on?
- And what effect had this on you later on? Have you noticed any negative ones?
- Lastly, how do you look back at it? Do you now feel hatred towards that man?
I'm asking because I have had discussions about this sometimes, but I can't really talk from experience (luckily) and only find interviews of people that research this, but, like me, haven't experienced this themselves either. I'm interested as what you would say, as you, in fact, have been through such a thing. 😬
inspiring that she's very positive and think abt her future children and learn from her past
Indeed! A great example for other survivors.
I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more
no one knows about it. it happened while i was in relationship with another man. i was so scared to tell him about scared that he will say that was my fault
i really dreaming about someone tell me "i believe u". That I was the victim.
i can't stop crying, I don't know how i can live with this
i feel like if nobody will know 'bout what happened they'll say this is my fault
It's not your fault sis
You deserved to be happy
You are a strong women
FIGHTING!!!!!
@@vaishnavi7944 thank u ❤️
Hi Katherine, I was also raped and sexually abused since 6 years old. I am on recovery now and am looking for a support group, would you be interested to form a support group with me?
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I belive to you...smilari sutiuation like me but trust me dear sister you have right on hope and trust me you must and can make your own choiche you will fight for your all the best be free and save for this darkness rember and you will be happy...and if you decide do everything what you want and fight and work for that light way of life wait you and this monster which make evil to you he will lost...SO I BEG YOU DONT LOST HOPE
I was 15 and it was a guy i worked with who was 33. He worked at the same pizzeria as me. He constantly groomed me and i didnt realise.. i was having a hard time and one time i got locked out my house so he took me back to his and later that night it was the first time.. many to come afterwards. I have never told anyone this as it went on for 5 months! I hate myself and i can never have sex again i feel sick everytime! And the worst part is he still thinks it was a relationship he told his family in iran i was his girlfriend. I was so minipulatesd i thought i was in love when really i look back it was just grooming. I want help but i dont want to put my family through it, its so complicated. Plus it happened nearly 2 years ago now
Morgan Roberts Thanks for sharing - it’s really brave of you to open up. It’s certainly a complicated situation, but do remember that none of it was your fault, and that you can always seek help from your parents, counsellors, or public health services. Stay strong, and take care!
These things are horrible and my heart aches for you. Please stay in there and talk to somebody you love and trust
You can file civil lawsuit.
I'm sorry 😔
Morgan, there is just one person who can heal you and set you free. He loves you and wants to heal you off every wound. I pray the blood of Jesus over you. I pray that he breathes you life into you and brings joy and peace into your life. In the might name of Jesus. Amen.
But the guy wouldn't think it's rape, and the family blames the girls for going in the first place... Messed up!
Dath Mao That’s the sad reality for so many survivors of sexual assault. Time for a change!
well as an asian parents think why would you do/go with him in the first place, if he ask then block him you know like asians think what made this event (rape) occur.
@@sh1nenkai258 same in russia/post soviet countries
The guy was a sexual predictor and at 15 years old that girl did not have the life experience to notice the red flags and this is how these creeps operate, gaining the confidence of the naive and the vulnerable.
Her parents called her dirty and she was sent away as some sort of disgrace punishment, yet it is the parents responsibility to keep an eye on their children`s activities as I did when my daughter was of a young age.
Very sad state of affairs when a minor gets raped and made to feel she was to blame for it.
I was in 3rd grade my teacher was escorted children out of class and I wasn’t escorted, I was 10 years old I was raped by my 3rd grade teacher I kept silence not to tell nobody I hold this in all day I was thinking of suicide, cuz that happened in my life I’m a victim of raped, I hated myself I’m 16 years old now I’m still stuck inside when that happened.😔
I hope you are doing better. Even a just a little bit.
@@khemraksapeou4099 Thanks I appreciate that nice message 🙏🏼
You're a brave person.. Did you inform your family 'bout it now ?!
the exact same thing happened to me, except i was in fourth & fifth. ive only started telling my therapist recently and ive gone my entire life hating myself. im here if you need anything, i understand what happened to you completely and if you need support im here for you. we'll get through this together
I´m sooo sorry for you !!! I was nearly a victim too
This makes me sad :( because this happened to me :( all I ever wanted to be is a pro footballer so I can give my family the life they deserve. I was raped when I was 9 years old by the football scout :( I have a story of me on my new UA-cam channel. My mission is to prevent others from having this happen to them. My life has changed a lot. Has anyone else experienced what I have experienced?
PUMA COMM I had a friend who was a boy, raped by his mother, and one friend who woke up to her boyfriend giving her oral. I also know of a guy who was raped by his girlfriend who gave him oral when he was asleep, I knew a bunch of girls who would cheat on their boyfriends and say it was rape. I was there, it definitely NOT rape. I know of loads of stories, from boys, men, one girl who was always covered head to to who was being raped by her moms boyfriend, she was 10
I was molested by my cousin for years who was 40 something years old and I was 10 and he did until I was 15 years old. I feel so guilty because I feel like I am at fault. Like I have deserved everything that happened to me and that it was okay. I hate myself so much because I still care and I just don’t know why I am like this. I’m so tired of feeling so much shame.
It's not your fault
You deserved to be happy
Don't hate yourself 🥺
@@vaishnavi7944 thank you❤️
It's not your fault,you are the victim here. Sexual assault are not right,rape is not right,I'm so sorry for what happened to you,you're beautiful just the way you are,I hope you will recover and forget the bitter dark past ;( You're loved and amazing,you did well,here comes the virtual hugs for you ;))
It’s not your fault
Ukw I feel the same and i felt a relief hearing that someone else feels the way I do....BUT it's not Our fault not at all ryt?!!!
Some men just don’t deserve to live. No one deserves to go through this. We need to protect our women!
Agreed. Neither do some women
We need to protect our men and women. Sexual abuse happens to both genders and sexes!
I was rape too at 15 years old in a Juvenile Detention Facility by two kids (they were gang members). I am an African American male survivor. They tried to silence me too. But when I reported it to the police they just told me to man up and seek professional help. So I did. They just turn a blind eye and deaf ear toward me and tried to medicate me. So I'm now done seeking professional help. What should I do now? Talk with a lawyer? I tried that already they told me I was a little late to seek a lawsuit I'm now 36 years old. I heard that some gay men already commit murder after he became a victim. If that's what they want me to do because of my race then their wrong. Thou shalt not kill remember.
If you can't press charges now, dpn't let people silence you. Sexual abuse on boys and men happen by women and men. I was a victim of molestation by a family member that i looked up to.
The word needs to get out there. Men can be abused too, and its not okay, and NEEDS to stop. It doesnt make you any less of a man.
My story:
I was 10 living at my godmother house in 2020 because her husband was a IT with multiple computers for me, my sister,and their daughter. My godmother's dad was the one who groomed me. He was 62. I called him Papa. I knew him my entire life. Me and gmd (godmother's dad) were in the car doing uber eats to make a little extra money. We were on the way home at about 7:30 pm after some orders. Half way home he asked me if he could "play." At ten years old knew what he meant. I decided to play dumb and ask him what he meant. He said he wanted to touch me. He said that he would buy me subway if he could "play". He then started rubbing my upper thigh and vaginal area with his hand while driving. We make it home,park in the garage and before getting out he said "can I play before we go inside?" I told him "no grandpa I am tired." And ran inside. I told my sister about it and she went to my godmother. She scolded him about it and there was a dcfs case but he served no time.
Update: I lived there again in 2022 till January 5th this year. Same house, I stayed in the same room, everything was exactly like it was before. My mom and I live in a ghetto neighborhood with a shitty school that I went to in seventh grade and ran away from home and was heavily influenced by drugs. I decided to suck it up and say I forgave him for a better education. My room was upstairs with gmds room and a foreign exchange student. Everyone else was downstairs. School was going fine, I had friends, I had a great place to live everything was fine. Until January fifth. (Context: gmd has a fiance who lives in the Philippines and he went on a two week Philippines trip alone two months prior.) Me and D (godmother's daughter) were hanging out with our friend group at one of their houses. At about 6:45 pm we get a call from godmother "You and D need to hurry outside and get in the car. There is a cop following us." Me and D panic and run outside shoes in hand hop in the car and we head home. Turn into the neighborhood and then down our street to see multiple cop cars down the block and cops swarming our house. We park get out of the car get patted down and go inside. We are instructed by the cops to sit in the living room upstairs. We sit down and for what felt like hours we sat there in silence while cops hustled around the house. There were numbers on doors and on walls of rooms marking them. Gmd was nowhere to be found. They get my mother phone number call her to tell her whats going on and that she can come pick me up if she wants. She came and picked me up and we drove to a place for me to be interviewed. On the way there my mom told me what was going on because the cops wouldn't tell us at the house. She said "gmd is getting charged for possesion of child Pornography and Sex with a minor. He could be facing up to 30 years to life in prison." I then found out that these were no regular cops these were Homeland security agents. I got interviewed for three hours about the 2020 case and then went home (more context: the homeland security agents told my mom that the minors in the content were of Asian decent. They assumed Philippines because that was the only place he had been other than USA. I finished the interview and went back to my moms house at 1:00 am. Godmother is holding my stuff hostage and D is being a massive bitch blaming me for this. They gave me some of my stuff after my mom threatened to have cops come back for me to get my stuff. I am still missing a load of stuff and godmother is not responding to my texts.
This just happened so I am venting here sorry its super long 😅
This was 2 months ago, I am surprised nobody responded to this comment that you obviously deeply thought about. I hope all is well for you and your mom. Hope you get your possessions back and hope you gain a healthy relationship with some of your family again.
It hurts me when I watch these videos
My story
I was in year 5 ( 9 ) years old in the uk and one of my best friends cousins kept catcalling whistling and harassing me during school I ignored it and tried to stay away from him until I was called by my other male friend to come to a secluded area near my house and then I was forcefully dragged and raped and if I would scream I would be slit with a blade or burned with a lighter .My rapist was an underage male. I am still underage and I appreciate your time thank you!
U must tell ur parents. If someone was harassing u. I have daughter of ur age . And I keep my kids with me wherever I go. May god bless u and keep u save.
@@Brainergamerzoffical Thanks
@@Brainergamerzoffical I am much older now though
@@idkrandom457 take care and stay safe
cool story
Now I realised why my mom is so protective and not even let me to hang out with friends 😊😊
WOMEN ARE NOT SEXUAL TOYS!!! WE ARE HUMAN AND DO NOT DESERVE TO BE PUSHED AROUND AND PLAYED WITH!!! - SPREAD THE WORD!
your profile pic says otherwise
Oh I’m so sorry that happened to you. 😢
It's not so much that they FEAR being blamed. They WILL be blamed. They know that.
Yep, that's why they have mental problems. And the police sucks..they thought it's the victims fault even though it's actually not.
my story : i was 5 and raped not once but multiple times for atleast a year thats my story i was defenseless and he took advantage of me for over a year and now it haunts me
Distract yourself from recalling that past rape state, just enjoy your life now, its present time.
@@vanorianluzzennoelle9698 ill try my best
Cool story
@@modibocoulibaly9532 never Blame yourself
Look forward
@@phoenix-vp3uz ill try to
I was raised by a sexual predator how do I get on this show?
You can contact with this company
I would like to be on the show too.
are you okay?
@@billieswig8658 yes getting better I'm therapy it's been hard keeping employment
@@tinaanderson200 glad to hear that,hope things get better tho
1:43 if she was so scared of him why did she contact him
I wonder if you could show the police the creepy text messages and to possibly trace his number?
This music is really getting in the way of her telling her story, it's too loud and her voice deserves to be heard over anything. we dont need intense, dramatic music like it's a tv show...
I have a story about sexual abuse. I was molested and produced a child by my stepfather
Iam sexually assaulted by my own father
Did he get punishment did u report him
Don trust any one..
😔😔 Not all men are like that.
@@mukul.niranjanparekh3954 but there are enough men for women to be on their guard all the time
It's so sad how women are blamed for these things. I'm sorry. Just know that you are a very strong woman. I believe you, and it's not your fault.
Oh my god I'm very sorry 😢
Its all about wechatttt
We can only grow stronger from these awful experiences. There are too many women who can relate to your story. Support is so essential to healing and the taboo around something that happens to one third of women must be broken.
Your story can change the world
Thank you for sharing 🌈🌈🌈
I think only 1/3 of women actually report what happened to them. I bet the actually rate of sexual abuse is more like 90% of all women/girls, and 50% of all men/boys.
I was 8,10,12,13,15 and 16 and and it happened on my birthday im still16 they are in jail now
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
My girlfriend revealed her part of the story and it is similar what happened to lisa. Now im on a phase where i wanna understand her condition and help her grew up leaving her past behind.
I haven't got raped. I am fortunate.
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 Creep.
She expected him to call day after,??????
Sad 😢
I am NOT sorry...!
I am NOT ashamed to have been sexually abused/victimized by every "trusted" adult male in my life!
1. I was given alcohol and groomed by my friend's dad.
(May 2005)
2. My estranged biological father propositioned me.
(Dec 2005)
3. My was drugged and assaulted by my step-father.
(Feb 2006)
It all happened in that order...starting on my 19th birthday and ending right before I turned 20. All in ONE YEAR.
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 Dude, what do you even mean like you speaking a different language that's somehow similar to english I mean, grammar is as valuable as language but I don't get your point, anyways all the best no harsh feelings
Asian?
Meeee
@@latchubieyh462 We do not care
I am shocked by seeing all you guys how many you are being faced by problems??😩...
I didnot understood why her mother put her to grandmother's place..she should put herself and scold and put that father to the hospital??is that mother was just caring selfestewm reputation???
Hello, thanks so much for this story. I am looking for a sexual abuse survivors support group in KL, can someone help me out please?
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 Shut up this is the third time you copying this message now like we know
Ur a very brave young woman from JEFF
its worse in india.
How so ?
@@h.hholmes.492 Yeah, it's pretty bad.
Hats off.
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 What the hell
You do know that our women and young girls were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and about the Srebrenica genocide,right? You do know that i want this for the Serbian girls,right?
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
Justice for the Muslims of Iraq,Bosnia,Afghanistan, Turkey, Syria,Palestine,Pakistan,Checnya,and well any other Muslims,that includes me,as i am targeted by the American government ( Disgusting ) and made me look bad to people.( no joke ) I dont even hate America,I’m just against unfairness and evil losers, I LOVE American women/girls 3 ( ✌️✌️ )Also,i think you do know what was done to our women/girls in Bosnia during that Aggression…..I do feel bad for Vietnam,Hiroshima,i know they are not Muslims but it is disgusting.🤮🤮!!!!
God bless you Lisa ❤️
I don't know how to say it but each act is written in the destiny of each person in this life and after death everyone will collect the fruit of their actions, this is the destiny of each soul and spirit of a human being. Sow kindness, respect and love and your reward will be the best. ⏳️⌛️⚖️ 🕎
Young girls should be more conscious when they are especially out of their homes......there must be a stong confidence to survive and be in this society filled with wrong people's all around....As of girls,we should be more alert and our minds should be strong to handle all this in a place where it occurs and we should be in stable mindset too...we can come across a more and more problems like this, so we should be safe and strong to handle all this....Always be confident girls, we are more Powerful...we are iron women,bat women, hulk women and so on..
Why do girls have to listen to man
Go where they are ask to go
Do what they want you to do
Dont you have conscious to safequard yourself.
Dont follow them
Treat them as a frienc only
But boyfriends. Dont take anything from them.
Dont blame your parents for your foolishness.
Hey you're being so dumb, you can't understand what girls think when they're in there teenage ages. Their life being difficult. You'll never understand
W comment
Everybody gangsta when they see this comment until blackmail enters the chat
What was she wearing?
you're the problem
Your mums bra Matthew
Lmaooo
Really? That's irrelevant.
The fuck the outfit doesn't matter but the jerks who has no mom if you're mom or sis got raped then you will ask what she was wearing men's like them deserves to be dead
You had a part in this 😑
what?
what?
Ur a very beautiful young woman from JEFF
AHAHAHAHA LOL
What's wrong with u?
What's so funny jerk?
shut the fuck up
What the hell is god damn funny you fuckin creep?!!
HES probably a kid, just report him
Wait, Lisa and Asian culture? Is she Lisa from blackpink?
No she's not Lisa from blackpink
No it's not, it says in the starting that Lisa is not the real name
NO
Yes man
These story very disturbing, and very upsetting
I am Glad that this Woman Survived this terrible situation
I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men
WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE
This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman:
For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable...
Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe...
No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often.
Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been...
My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior,
I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others...
Keep everyone SAFE
PLEASE BE SAFE
Your Life is important
Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan
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