Yes, but why would you complain about someone else’s sickness? Do people with cancer piss you off if they accidentally drive a firetruck into your house? Its not your problem.
I told my Mom and she blamed me for everything, they were several family members who did those things and much more. All my extended family blamed my baby body for what they did starting at when I was 4 years old simply because I was born female. I don't trust my family anymore nor will I ever again.
It's not your fault at all I'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you can recover well all hope you can get better even if it's not today Get well!
Hi, I am sorry to hear you experienced this. You deserve to be heard and receive support. Please continue to tell a trusted adult or anyone until you get the help you need. You can also contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-4673) to speak to a trained crisis worker.
Same here.. I was sexually abused though i was 31yrs old, by my so called bro in law. Even after telling my parents, my mom blamed me, putting all kinds of accusations, saying I was interested etc. No one took a stand for me. I feel soo disgusted and frustrated. 😤😔
I am so sorry this is happened to you. You’re not alone, and you deserve help and support. Perhaps you could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). It's never to late to get help.
My mom just said "but they said you wouldn't be able to remember!!" then covered her mouth and said "I mean- you probably just imagined it". Yeah, I don't talk to her anymore.
@@lmMentallyIllI agree. If a healthy man sees a woman, it won’t matter what she’s wearing nor how much perfume she has to cover up her pheromones. Thanks to my wits, I’ve gotten away with it. I’m still surprised to see it affecting you people so much! Anyways, wishing you a speedy “recovery” 😂, best
My mom lied and said that’s not what happened, even though I was the one who experienced it. And she said it wasn’t that bad. I wish I had a mom who stood by my side like this.
@@someolddude3827I know where you are coming from but please don’t brush it off because it should not happen in the first place. Many have experienced it yes but IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN
@@promeneuzivotu117 Will you feel better if someone told you that there are many others who experienced like you? No, you would be heartbroken that you and many others forced to experience it!
I remember when I was 12, we were having a VBS thing at our church. I was my first VBS in GA so I was excited. There was a boy there. He’d always stare at me. I didn’t really care at the time, considering that he just might be really observant. He then started to get… touchy. He’d always grab my arm and touch my sides. It made me uncomfortable, but I was afraid. I was afraid of being stern with him. I was afraid that I was actually in the wrong. He’d grope my chest and my body in ways that make me want to vomit my organs out and cry. When I told my parents, I’m so grateful that they understood. But when they asked me why I didn’t tell them, I didn’t respond. I remember when my dad asked me, “Did you not tell us because you were afraid?” I just broke down, sobbing and I nodded my head. As a toddler, I was always crying and complaining about random crap, my parents would tell me that I would be fine and to stop being dramatic. Of course, yea, I was a big dramatic person, but I think all those times left an effect on me. I was afraid that if I’d told my parents, they’d reject me and blame it on me. The days I was in VBS, I usually wore a big T-Shirt and biker/workout shorts, nothing special. I sometimes thought that it was my fault, that maybe it was my fault that somehow, too much of my legs showed or something. I’m glad that my parents took action and protected me.❤
@@Kishi_927Dimond.owo. Wow I didn't see the pronouns in your bio. Looks like you never really recovered from that event. I'm sorry some of us are less fortunate. No amount of money or gifts can save you. You have to study chemistry
Hi, I am so sorry this happened to you. If you ever want to speak to someone there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org.
My heart goes out to everyone in the comments sharing their stories, and to the people who have stories to tell but haven’t shared them in the comments. To everyone reading this, you’re loved and you’re loveable no matter what you may think. You got this, and you’re strong enough to get through every challenge in your way. You got this
Growing up. Losing my innocence to my cousin when i was 5 while she was around 16 feeling like my body is not mine feeling insecure wanting to rip off my face because i look alike her Losing so much weight cutting my hair so short so that i cant see her in the mirror anymore. I am 15 now and i am still not okay.
She?!? What kind of proto-swine flu MRNA receptor miscalculation abomination is this?! I really want to know what country you and she are from. This is the one case I want to study thoroughly.
I wish her mom’s kindness, understanding and not blaming her daughter were more common responses.. I rarely cry watching something, but this was heartbreaking when everyone was laughing no one noticed her silence that says so much.. I love your animation and your drawing style!! Love 🖤
I had a brother named jayson, and one day he came in the living room and it all went wrong. And that was the day i never forgave him nor talk to him...
I was 6 when it happened. I'm a survivor. And a mother. And I'm teaching my kid to say NO, to set boundaries, to trust and tell me if something bothers her.
@@blossomingattorney I don’t speak for all abusers, but all the women I chose were over 18, I was simply following my urges. She’ll be fine, she’s a strong woman, she doesn’t need counseling.
@@icantseethe7680WTF DUDE? YOU JUST ADMITTED TO ASSAULTING WOMEN? No! She's not gonna be fine! "Following your urges" isn't an excuse for what you did
Thanks.. Thank you so much... I love this, even if it’s a long time ago, I felt so stupid. I still remember those years, I feel like crying so much now.... When I told my friends, They thought it was a joke, when I told my Family members they Shouted and scolded me, when I told my parents, They shouted at me and told me to stop lying. And it continued.. I didn’t know what to do.. I listened what he said, I want to cry so much, I’m happy that I saw this.. And lucky he’s gone now, I don’t want to talk about it, but Thank you so much! ❤❤
I am so sorry you had this experience. Thank you for sharing your story. If you want more resources or support you can always head over to www.rainn.org/.
she's so lucky to have someone to have her back like that, my mom was a complete disappointment shoving my confess under the rug after it took me so much courage and time to say it
I never went to mom, she died before I could talk to her and receive love and understanding from her. ❤ Your loved ones will support you not shame you. Go to them ❤
I wish my mom did that when I told her, I came to her crying and shaking and she laughed at me and told me to stop crying that’s not a big deal and that I’m childish, all I wanted from her was to hug me and tell me that I’m brave for talking and that my feelings are important and that I’m safe now. Now I think I’m ready to be there for my little sister and protect her from him or from anyone who would make her feel uncomfortable like the mom in this video
I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you want to talk to trained support counselor call the RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline 1.800.656.HOPE. Continue to tell a trusted adult, teacher, or guardian until someone believes. You deserve to be heard and safe.
It’s hard sometimes to see representation, and this helps a lot thank you, even if it’s s story I’m glad they got to report him, I wish I got report all the people who did that to me and ofc I’m getting the helped needed even thought I need a new therapist
It's not ur fault at all dear. ..Dont believe that bs. . Sorry that u faced such nonsense, and ur mom doesn't deserve u. U need to b far away from such toxic people.. Tc.. 😘❤🙏
This made me tear up. I went through the same thing a decade ago and man, I never felt so related. It’s sad that I connect so closely to this but it’s true. Problem is, I don’t know if I should say anything about it. I’m scared to be known as *that* person.
I am sorry to hear this was your experience. It's never too late speak to someone you trust. You could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). You deserve the same help.
@@amazeorg Majority of these people are pretending to cry and making fake stories. Better not to waste your time into replying to such attention seeking people
I told my parents and they told me if i wanted attention i could just ask (it wasn’t fake it was real it happened for 4 years by my own brother and they made me apologize to him. ME, TO HIM. I’m way too scared to tell anyone else in fear of the same thing happening again.)
@@secularindian592 NO. Shh go somewhere else go back to where you came from. SA is no one’s fault. How would you like it if you were SAd and someone said it was your fault.
Hi Lilia, I'm sorry to hear that. If you can, continue to tell a trusted adult that you trust until someone believes you. In the meantime, there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
If I told my mom I would probably be disowned It wasn't a big of a deal.. he just made me uncomfortable He would often touch me in the most despicable ways I still feel his hands on me until this day :(
I am so sorry this is happened to you. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
Your mother is probably Non-something, where your father is probably something. I don’t care about your trauma, just snap out of it. If life on this planet is threatened, I won’t bother listening to your incoherent insults. I will stand and fight in the name of Earth, those who spake.
Even if it wasn't fake so what? No one said life is easy. Not everyone can be saved. Some people are just unlucky. Suck it up and show your strength. Dont be weak and cry about it.
I told my grandma she yelled at him but just let it go I used to play with him and I used to love him but after that it wasn't the same every chance I had I hid from him but to this day he still lives with us
I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Sexual assault is not your fault, and you deserve to be safe. Tell someone else, like another relative, teacher or neighbor that you trust. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
@@secularindian592Dude, if you are treated less than a human being in your home country - it doesn't mean that citizens of a civillized country should be sympathetic to your twisted views
I told my mom I was hurt and needed support but I wasn't ready to elaborate on it. She kept nagging until I finally gave her the details. When I did, she asked why I didn't just say no and that I should've just put my foot down (he threatened suicide on the regular). In the end she was more upset that I had lied and made excuses over the fact that I was sexually abused. I don't feel safe to tell her anything anymore
I was 18 when mine happened. It was a party and i got followed. I get told its my fault for putting myseld in that situation. Told i need to let go and forgive for myself
i was also scared to tell my mom mostly because i didnt want it to be a big deal and i didnt want to run into him after people told him what happened but even after i told her i had to talk to all these people and it really stressed me out a lot and sometimes i kinda wish i never told my mom but if i didnt tell her then i would have to keep seeing him so i was kinda stressed about that as well but im also kinda glad i told my mom.
You’re lucky I wasn’t the one who did it. I’m polite enough not to impregnate, clothes on is more than enough stimulation. I consider my actions to be an extended hug
I am crying so hard right now, I am living my through that little cartoon girl. I told my mom and she didn’t believe me. I told her so many times by so many people, and she never believed me…
I believe you. And when the time comes, if it hasn’t already other people will believe you too, simply because they care about you and adore you and you’re someone worth protecting and fighting for.
TW- I was molested at the age of 7-9. This man my mum used to love confused me awfully. I told my aunt about it and she said that it was molestation and that I didn't deserve it. I have never told my mum and probably never will. I will never forgive him for what he did to me.
I thought my experience didn't matter because it happened from my peers and happened multiple times. I thought that made that my fault. I'm sorry, I don't mean to trauma dump. Have an amazing day, beautiful people.
I was sexually assaulted by a ex friend of mine and when I told my mom about it she put her foot down and told me to block her on everything and make sure I was safe again
Best mim in the world. Something like this happened to me too… it’s so healing to hear this. And I’m glad I’m not alone with the attention thing. Thank you for sharing your message. It really truly helped. Thank you🩷
I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is not okay. It is not your fault, and you have done nothing wrong. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you navigate your feelings. You deserve to be safe.
@@Workrelated2child, you were 5. You didn't know it was sex, you were a r*pe victim. If you're worried about society not accepting you, then you can keep your loss of virginity (r*pe) a secret and only tell people you trust. I'm so sorry you went through that.
i remember when i was touched when i was little and now looking at it i just realized that it was serious, sucks to suck that i still havent told anybody
I had only spoken up to my mom about two years ago. As soon as I told her, I broke down crying, and she started crying and wished she had seen the signs before and blocked him immediately
I hate when people say I didn’t get sexually assaulted because I wasn’t raped I know I was sexually assaulted and it wasn’t someone I know it happened like last month I was swimming and then some guy started groping my thigh I was very uncomfortable but I didn’t want to expose my little cousin to that and she was in front of me so even tho I was uncomfortable I distracted her and kicked that guy away he then swam to his big group of friends laughing as I got my little cousins and we went to a different section no one in my family knows what happened tho
I think watching this made me realize an instance of sa I hadn’t fully rejestered as such in my mind. I’m kind of dizzy now. But awesome animation and very important to teach people. 😢
when me and my ex were dating, he did things that still don’t sit right with me, and to this day, over a year and a half later, i still think about what happened really often. it scares me sometimes, but watching this made me feel a bit better. ❤
It's best to tell someone you can trust and vent to. A therapist would be a perfect starting point. Please make sure that it's someone you can trust. I was in this situation (s.a. and incest) and I told a few close friends first, then my therapist,and recently my parents.
My mom haven't done anything when i told her I got sexually assaulted more than twice by multiple people, she said that I had the permission to handle it myself and that I'm just a bit egocentric, I haven't told anything to my dad cause he even ignores the fact that I'm not mentally perfect. My mom also waited so many years before making me go to a psychologist and experts, I used to ask for someone at the age of 8 cause i had the need to talk with someone that weren't my parents but my mom just yelled at me and from there on I stopped talking to both of my parents. I was sexually assaulted at the age of 8/9 to this year but I still haven't told anyone except my psychologist and a social assistant.
I'm so sorry this was your first experience. If you need support to process this you can visit online.rainn.org to chat one-on-one with a trained RAINN support specialist, any time 24/7.
I was 5 the first time it happened and 9 the last time it happened. I’m now 15 and scared that since I’ve waited too long to say anything they won’t believe me.
oh I really wish I could hear someone saying "it's not your falut" :( I will visit my therapist soon, I need to talk with them about that, I hope I will feel better🙏
I was assaulted for the first time at about 9 years old. I was told that I let it happen. When i was drugged and assaulted in college, my now husband tells me that its my fault for putting myself in that situation.
Some people are complete garbage like whoever told you that you let it happen. If you felt drugs in your system, don't feel bad about stopping it, you couldn't have. Keep asserting this to your husband until he concedes.
I recently got groomed by my ex girlfriend. everyone i was friends with was told. and not a singular one of them comforted me, even while im still trying to cope and get over it, nobody really cares. thats the reaction I'm scared my parents are gonna have, and also, im afraid they'll blame me or take away my online access, just because i didn't know any better.
@@Ash-x9m That's not funny. commenting "LOL WOMP WOMP" on a comment of someone venting their trauma will get you DESPISED by EVERYONE. You shouldn't try to make jokes out of another person's trauma.
No one understands the one was was abused..nor the family.nor the frends ..not the spouse..wanna be so loved...but i cant be ...all because of the touch i dint ask for...
Whatever happened happened and I can't change it obviously .. but idk how to cope with it coz the man who did this to me lives with me.. I don't go out .. I just don't do anything.. I cry and get over it and cry some other day..I only wish my mother would take my side and somehow she'll know I'm right and it's not my fault .. but she refuses and maybe that's simpler for her to believe the otherwise because it'll break her if she accepts the truth... but I wait for the day she'll undertand
something that I hate is that family doesn't even talk about it and it makes me feel like all that trauma just came out of nowhere, is it so bad that I want to talk about it
"you were only nine or ten years old you didn't know what was happening" i needed to hear that
Same
Yes, but why would you complain about someone else’s sickness? Do people with cancer piss you off if they accidentally drive a firetruck into your house? Its not your problem.
@@icantseethe7680 Huh
@@icantseethe7680what?
@@Estella_alsoknownasgabi123 Its not a big deal. Happens all the time. You'll get over it.
I told my Mom and she blamed me for everything, they were several family members who did those things and much more. All my extended family blamed my baby body for what they did starting at when I was 4 years old simply because I was born female. I don't trust my family anymore nor will I ever again.
That's insane 😡 It's never the victims fault, i hope you'll get better and they'll be punished
I am so sorry
You are worthy of the most beautiful love
Be blessed darling ❤
It's not your fault at all I'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you can recover well all hope you can get better even if it's not today Get well!
No matter what gender you are no one deserves to be sexually abused at all I'm sorry that happened I hope your healing well
BLAME A VICTIM OS SA IS BAD , BUT BLAME A 4 YEAR-OLD VICTIM OF SA IS FVKING WILD. I wish you the best and I hope you will get better and heal ❤
My mom didn't understand and blamed me. Said I was an attention seeker. She already takes my every word with a grain of salt
Hi, I am sorry to hear you experienced this. You deserve to be heard and receive support. Please continue to tell a trusted adult or anyone until you get the help you need. You can also contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-4673) to speak to a trained crisis worker.
Same here.. I was sexually abused though i was 31yrs old, by my so called bro in law. Even after telling my parents, my mom blamed me, putting all kinds of accusations, saying I was interested etc. No one took a stand for me. I feel soo disgusted and frustrated. 😤😔
@@pollytheparrot8929 My mom blame me as well huhu
Same huhu, my mom also blame me for what happened
@@YourMaric So sad to hear.. Anyway, u got to know their true colors.. Better to b away from such people..Stay safe and strong❤🙏
30 year old women crying watching this. I wish I had spoken up
I am so sorry this is happened to you. You’re not alone, and you deserve help and support. Perhaps you could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). It's never to late to get help.
You are not alone same age as yours even today i cannot forget
Me either
It happened when I was a teenager 13 y o, gym coach, he was 72 y o, I just ran away
30yr old here too and me too...❤❤❤❤
It’s never to late to report it
My mom just said "but they said you wouldn't be able to remember!!" then covered her mouth and said "I mean- you probably just imagined it".
Yeah, I don't talk to her anymore.
Wow .. I'm SO sorry oh my lord..we will get through this yk .. stay strong :(
@@Inlovewithbillieeyelash tysm 💜
😢So sad
Same girl
I’m so sorry you went through that
i appreciate how she didn’t force her to report it against her will
If it was my kid, I would report it no matter what
@nayeon_5615honestly the “what were you wearing?” questions are stupid. Anyways, I’m sorry that happened to you :( hope u feel better
Yes
@@lmMentallyIllI agree. If a healthy man sees a woman, it won’t matter what she’s wearing nor how much perfume she has to cover up her pheromones. Thanks to my wits, I’ve gotten away with it. I’m still surprised to see it affecting you people so much! Anyways, wishing you a speedy “recovery” 😂, best
"you were only 9 or 10 years old, you didn't understand what was happening"
I wish someone had said that to me when it happened..
Same here
Yknow I never had fully realized how many people out there got *the treatment.*
And how many of *those guys* out there too
Same thing when i was 7 and tried to fit in with the other boys
@@TheCheeseManFacedsame with me
Me too, I thought it was normal
My mom lied and said that’s not what happened, even though I was the one who experienced it. And she said it wasn’t that bad. I wish I had a mom who stood by my side like this.
I’m really sorry for how she treated your situation. There are plenty of others who experience that.
@@someolddude3827I know where you are coming from but please don’t brush it off because it should not happen in the first place. Many have experienced it yes but IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN
@@Silencer796 he was not trying to brush it off,but was just saying that it's unfortunately very common.
@@promeneuzivotu117 Will you feel better if someone told you that there are many others who experienced like you? No, you would be heartbroken that you and many others forced to experience it!
@@Silencer796 ok but still he was just trying to point out things.
a mom we all deserve
happened to me already
When I told my mom the first thing she asked was "did u like it?" And she said that I was imagining things and that I tempted them
@@LONELYòvó
Mine too, hm...
I wish I had the courage to tell my mom, but I just can't...
@@DepressedTransTherian me too
I remember when I was 12, we were having a VBS thing at our church. I was my first VBS in GA so I was excited. There was a boy there. He’d always stare at me. I didn’t really care at the time, considering that he just might be really observant. He then started to get… touchy. He’d always grab my arm and touch my sides. It made me uncomfortable, but I was afraid. I was afraid of being stern with him. I was afraid that I was actually in the wrong. He’d grope my chest and my body in ways that make me want to vomit my organs out and cry. When I told my parents, I’m so grateful that they understood. But when they asked me why I didn’t tell them, I didn’t respond. I remember when my dad asked me, “Did you not tell us because you were afraid?” I just broke down, sobbing and I nodded my head. As a toddler, I was always crying and complaining about random crap, my parents would tell me that I would be fine and to stop being dramatic. Of course, yea, I was a big dramatic person, but I think all those times left an effect on me. I was afraid that if I’d told my parents, they’d reject me and blame it on me. The days I was in VBS, I usually wore a big T-Shirt and biker/workout shorts, nothing special. I sometimes thought that it was my fault, that maybe it was my fault that somehow, too much of my legs showed or something. I’m glad that my parents took action and protected me.❤
How old was the boy? I enjoyed listening to that story. Minus the 12 year old part, please 16 and above.
Did he get in trouble? Please tell me you’re parents did something!
@@icantseethe7680 what do you mean, “16 and above?”
@@Kishi_927Dimond.owo. Wow I didn't see the pronouns in your bio. Looks like you never really recovered from that event. I'm sorry some of us are less fortunate. No amount of money or gifts can save you. You have to study chemistry
@@icantseethe7680 what??
i wish i had a mom like that for my situation of what happened
Same
Real
I can be the mom-
My mom just said that I tempted them and that I was imagining things
@@LONELYòvó Oh no…
It wasn’t your failt
wish my mom had that same response when I told her my story
Same she just told me I was because he liked my body.
Same.. she just laughed
Same here
Same - I think my mom might have withdrew my case.
@@WittgensteinsNiece now that you say that, I think mine might've done the same if she could...
I love how this pops up Like 20 minutes after I just had a melt down thinking about it
Hi, I am so sorry this happened to you. If you ever want to speak to someone there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org.
i guess in a way it was perfect timing
@@amazeorg thank you
Same
İf your mama says this,your lucky (video)
I wish my mom reacted this way with love and understanding. Her response was to just ignore me and never talk to me again.
Womp Womp
@@secularindian592 Get bent Dr. douche
@@secularindian592 shut up and grow up
My heart goes out to everyone in the comments sharing their stories, and to the people who have stories to tell but haven’t shared them in the comments. To everyone reading this, you’re loved and you’re loveable no matter what you may think. You got this, and you’re strong enough to get through every challenge in your way. You got this
MOST STORIES HERE ARE FAKE. They are attention seeking people who have nothing else to do
Growing up. Losing my innocence to my cousin when i was 5 while she was around 16 feeling like my body is not mine feeling insecure wanting to rip off my face because i look alike her Losing so much weight cutting my hair so short so that i cant see her in the mirror anymore. I am 15 now and i am still not okay.
She?!? What kind of proto-swine flu MRNA receptor miscalculation abomination is this?! I really want to know what country you and she are from. This is the one case I want to study thoroughly.
You mean while "he" was 16.
@icantseethe7680 no it was a girl. What i didnt type she on accident.
@icantseethe7680 some sexual abusers can be girls. It's not always men.
@@nocturne3220i hope yu get better man :(
I wish her mom’s kindness, understanding and not blaming her daughter were more common responses..
I rarely cry watching something, but this was heartbreaking when everyone was laughing no one noticed her silence that says so much..
I love your animation and your drawing style!! Love 🖤
Womp Womp
@@secularindian592You have no heart bro
@@Y_S_I_A The original comment is probably just a way to gather attention, nothing else
I had a brother named jayson, and one day he came in the living room and it all went wrong. And that was the day i never forgave him nor talk to him...
Same
Your own brother?! 😭😭😭
I cant believe man these days now a days some women cant go outside to walk at night or even in the morning without worrying about these things
@Adonisius_Kavata yes...my BLOOD r related brother.
@JaedaShorts I agree, it's scary for woman 😢
This vid deserves to get viral, this kind of topics need to take more than serious...
Thank you for raising awareness. You can share it with your friends and family.
They are taken seriously. Too seriously infact
Womp Womp
I was 6 when it happened. I'm a survivor. And a mother. And I'm teaching my kid to say NO, to set boundaries, to trust and tell me if something bothers her.
I Was Sexually Abused At Age Ten. When I Tell My Parents That I Still Think About It They Tell Me "It Was Years Ago" Im Like "Does That Matter?"
Whether it was long ago or no it will still affect you for your whole life so I hope you’re okay
@@Ranasabia420She’s fine.
@@icantseethe7680You can't just tell other people if they are fine or not.
@@blossomingattorney I don’t speak for all abusers, but all the women I chose were over 18, I was simply following my urges. She’ll be fine, she’s a strong woman, she doesn’t need counseling.
@@icantseethe7680WTF DUDE? YOU JUST ADMITTED TO ASSAULTING WOMEN? No! She's not gonna be fine! "Following your urges" isn't an excuse for what you did
Thanks.. Thank you so much...
I love this, even if it’s a long time ago, I felt so stupid. I still remember those years, I feel like crying so much now.... When I told my friends, They thought it was a joke, when I told my Family members they Shouted and scolded me, when I told my parents, They shouted at me and told me to stop lying. And it continued.. I didn’t know what to do.. I listened what he said, I want to cry so much, I’m happy that I saw this.. And lucky he’s gone now, I don’t want to talk about it, but Thank you so much! ❤❤
I am so sorry you had this experience. Thank you for sharing your story. If you want more resources or support you can always head over to www.rainn.org/.
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LIAR. Attention seeker
she's so lucky to have someone to have her back like that, my mom was a complete disappointment shoving my confess under the rug after it took me so much courage and time to say it
I never went to mom, she died before I could talk to her and receive love and understanding from her. ❤ Your loved ones will support you not shame you. Go to them ❤
I wish my mom did that when I told her, I came to her crying and shaking and she laughed at me and told me to stop crying that’s not a big deal and that I’m childish, all I wanted from her was to hug me and tell me that I’m brave for talking and that my feelings are important and that I’m safe now.
Now I think I’m ready to be there for my little sister and protect her from him or from anyone who would make her feel uncomfortable like the mom in this video
I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you want to talk to trained support counselor call the RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline 1.800.656.HOPE. Continue to tell a trusted adult, teacher, or guardian until someone believes. You deserve to be heard and safe.
@@Nuclear_texting888 imagine being so miserable replying to comments with hateful remarks just to have something fun in ur life
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@@kase1550 WOMP WOMP
@@secularindian592 ya having fun buddy? you're lucky.
This is the kind of mom we all need caring and supportive ❤️ 💕 💗
this would've helped me as a kid. i'm glad its out there
I'm sorry you did not have this resource as a kid and I'm glad you can access it now. Please share it with the young people in your life!
@@amazeorg thank you
It’s hard sometimes to see representation, and this helps a lot thank you, even if it’s s story I’m glad they got to report him, I wish I got report all the people who did that to me and ofc I’m getting the helped needed even thought I need a new therapist
Hi, sorry to hear that you experienced this. Thank you for sharing and helping to raise awareness for others. Glad you are getting the help you need.
LIAR
My mother told me it was my fault. I want a mother like the one in the video.
I am not the perfect person, but i understand you. I am with you.
It's not ur fault at all dear. ..Dont believe that bs. . Sorry that u faced such nonsense, and ur mom doesn't deserve u. U need to b far away from such toxic people.. Tc.. 😘❤🙏
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@@Buzzword_1787u think ur cool?
@@b1gb0zz21 No,not really.
This made me tear up. I went through the same thing a decade ago and man, I never felt so related. It’s sad that I connect so closely to this but it’s true. Problem is, I don’t know if I should say anything about it. I’m scared to be known as *that* person.
I am sorry to hear this was your experience. It's never too late speak to someone you trust. You could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). You deserve the same help.
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@@amazeorg Majority of these people are pretending to cry and making fake stories. Better not to waste your time into replying to such attention seeking people
@secularindian592 bru go away
I told my parents and they told me if i wanted attention i could just ask (it wasn’t fake it was real it happened for 4 years by my own brother and they made me apologize to him. ME, TO HIM. I’m way too scared to tell anyone else in fear of the same thing happening again.)
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I sadly relate to this. It happened this year. Thankfully i knew what had happened to me wasn't right because i have a supportive mom.
Next time it happens, fill me in. I need some ideas for my next adventure.
@@icantseethe7680what in the world do you mean. You wanna be raped by someone?
when i told my mom she cried with me and told me it wasn't my fault. my dad went ballistic
In that situation, I would be more like your abuser.
It was your fault
@@secularindian592 NO. Shh go somewhere else go back to where you came from. SA is no one’s fault. How would you like it if you were SAd and someone said it was your fault.
@@secularindian592 you when you find out assaulters are the ones at fault because they're the ones assaulting 🤯🤯
@@acornaroonies Still fault of victim. They dont report it, they dont say no.
I wish I had a mom like that my mom doesn't believe me
Hi Lilia, I'm sorry to hear that. If you can, continue to tell a trusted adult that you trust until someone believes you. In the meantime, there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
Im so sorry..
This is such a wholesome way to raise awareness on this topic❤
If I told my mom I would probably be disowned
It wasn't a big of a deal.. he just made me uncomfortable
He would often touch me in the most despicable ways
I still feel his hands on me until this day :(
Sexual assault IS a big deal. Please find someone supportive to talk to about it. ❤️
Someone making you uncomfortable IS a big deal. You were just raised to believe that your comfort doesn’t matter. I’m sorry 💜
My mom never had that courage to speak out, she just ignored all the things like they never happened to me,, yes those things still haunts me..
I am so sorry this is happened to you. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
Same happened
Your mother is probably Non-something, where your father is probably something. I don’t care about your trauma, just snap out of it. If life on this planet is threatened, I won’t bother listening to your incoherent insults. I will stand and fight in the name of Earth, those who spake.
Womp Womp. Fake claims
Even if it wasn't fake so what? No one said life is easy. Not everyone can be saved. Some people are just unlucky. Suck it up and show your strength. Dont be weak and cry about it.
I told my grandma she yelled at him but just let it go I used to play with him and I used to love him but after that it wasn't the same every chance I had I hid from him but to this day he still lives with us
I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Sexual assault is not your fault, and you deserve to be safe. Tell someone else, like another relative, teacher or neighbor that you trust. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
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Nothing wrong happened
@@secularindian592Dude, if you are treated less than a human being in your home country - it doesn't mean that citizens of a civillized country should be sympathetic to your twisted views
@@marchduck2958 How do you know how i am being treated?
I told my mom I was hurt and needed support but I wasn't ready to elaborate on it. She kept nagging until I finally gave her the details. When I did, she asked why I didn't just say no and that I should've just put my foot down (he threatened suicide on the regular).
In the end she was more upset that I had lied and made excuses over the fact that I was sexually abused. I don't feel safe to tell her anything anymore
It’s a great idea to report him. She probably wasn’t the first he did this to, or the last.
Your content is always so great, but this video in particular is just so relatable. Keep it up!
Thank you so much!
@@amazeorg You are the best. Thank you for driving teens through their days.
I'm jealous of the sweets they are consuming. Damn it.
I like how there was a plus size girl, a skinny girl, and a more average weight girl. Nice diversity:)
Also amazing variety for character design, I share your opinion
I was 18 when mine happened. It was a party and i got followed. I get told its my fault for putting myseld in that situation. Told i need to let go and forgive for myself
i was also scared to tell my mom mostly because i didnt want it to be a big deal and i didnt want to run into him after people told him what happened but even after i told her i had to talk to all these people and it really stressed me out a lot and sometimes i kinda wish i never told my mom but if i didnt tell her then i would have to keep seeing him so i was kinda stressed about that as well but im also kinda glad i told my mom.
Yah my mom just told me I tempted them and that I was imagining things
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@@secularindian592 😭
@@XochitlGutierrez855 I think what ur saying is fake
@@secularindian592 that's okay, you're entitled to your opinion.
Not sure why this popped up in my feed, but nice to see there are such resources for people who need it?
Wish I had someone by my side to tell me, It matters, even if it happened long ago.
Wish I could tell my mom.
It matters. I know because i felt it.
You’re lucky I wasn’t the one who did it. I’m polite enough not to impregnate, clothes on is more than enough stimulation. I consider my actions to be an extended hug
I am crying so hard right now, I am living my through that little cartoon girl. I told my mom and she didn’t believe me. I told her so many times by so many people, and she never believed me…
I believe you. And when the time comes, if it hasn’t already other people will believe you too, simply because they care about you and adore you and you’re someone worth protecting and fighting for.
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I was molested at the age of 7-9. This man my mum used to love confused me awfully. I told my aunt about it and she said that it was molestation and that I didn't deserve it. I have never told my mum and probably never will. I will never forgive him for what he did to me.
I feel so bad for you😢
I thought my experience didn't matter because it happened from my peers and happened multiple times. I thought that made that my fault. I'm sorry, I don't mean to trauma dump. Have an amazing day, beautiful people.
I haven’t even open up to my mother about my assault. I only ever told her about my harassment.
My mom understood me ❤my parents supported me they understood me ❤I love them ❤️ a lot I'm greatful for them
Your so lucky
Well, at least mom is supportive. 😢
And she reported but they dropped the case immediately :’)
Yeah.
Because Not enough evidence. also he didn’t rape her so no dna. but it will be his records if happens again
The same
Even though parents love us unconditionally, they often fail to notice the turmoil going on inside their wards..
I was sexually assaulted by a ex friend of mine and when I told my mom about it she put her foot down and told me to block her on everything and make sure I was safe again
I hope you are doing okay🫶
@@Ranasabia420 I'm trying my best to recover but it's not easy sometimes
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Best mim in the world. Something like this happened to me too… it’s so healing to hear this. And I’m glad I’m not alone with the attention thing.
Thank you for sharing your message. It really truly helped.
Thank you🩷
I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this and I’m glad this video has helped.
I wish my mom was like this about it. 😕 I still think about it all the time, I was 11, Idk if this is normal but I think about hurting him.
I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is not okay. It is not your fault, and you have done nothing wrong. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you navigate your feelings. You deserve to be safe.
i was also 11.
@@Workrelated2child, you were 5. You didn't know it was sex, you were a r*pe victim. If you're worried about society not accepting you, then you can keep your loss of virginity (r*pe) a secret and only tell people you trust. I'm so sorry you went through that.
i remember when i was touched when i was little and now looking at it i just realized that it was serious, sucks to suck that i still havent told anybody
The adults would just blame it on you anyway
@@Ballsack831 yeah..
@@Ballsack831not all adults blame the victims. not everyone blames.
I cant even confront my mom cuz I'm scared of being blamed
I'm scared too :(
how did it go? did u tell ur mom?
fr
Ur pro palestine. Of course you will be blamed, unlike hamas which should be blamed
1:46 this moment the mother told the daughter that she would always be on her side and trust her really stirred me (my mom didn't believe me)
I had only spoken up to my mom about two years ago. As soon as I told her, I broke down crying, and she started crying and wished she had seen the signs before and blocked him immediately
I wish I was that one girl with the long legs like she never missed leg day
I wish I could report that person too
I did it. But the result wanst so well. But im proud of myself for be brave. Still im sad about it. Bcz my mom didnt care.
This is exactly what I needed to hear/see. Thank you so much
You are so welcome!
I'm living vicariously through this animation and pretending that this is me and my mom
I hate when people say I didn’t get sexually assaulted because I wasn’t raped I know I was sexually assaulted and it wasn’t someone I know it happened like last month I was swimming and then some guy started groping my thigh I was very uncomfortable but I didn’t want to expose my little cousin to that and she was in front of me so even tho I was uncomfortable I distracted her and kicked that guy away he then swam to his big group of friends laughing as I got my little cousins and we went to a different section no one in my family knows what happened tho
u should tell your family & maybe also your extended family if you feel like they would understand & not brush it off
I wish we can stop this from completely happening!
This was beautiful gave me chills
My dad sided w/ my assaulter and called me pathetic
I wish I had a mom like that
I just remembered something that happened to me. I had a meltdown and now I'm trying to prosses and calm down
I think watching this made me realize an instance of sa I hadn’t fully rejestered as such in my mind. I’m kind of dizzy now. But awesome animation and very important to teach people. 😢
This needs to be shared around more.
The same thing happened to me when I was just 9 years old... but, I am unable to gather up the courage to share this with my parents till now...
Same
when me and my ex were dating, he did things that still don’t sit right with me, and to this day, over a year and a half later, i still think about what happened really often. it scares me sometimes, but watching this made me feel a bit better.
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What did he do
What do you do when it happens multiple times or from a family member?
It's best to tell someone you can trust and vent to. A therapist would be a perfect starting point. Please make sure that it's someone you can trust. I was in this situation (s.a. and incest) and I told a few close friends first, then my therapist,and recently my parents.
@@Proud2BeBre I hope you you're doing better now (:
My mom haven't done anything when i told her I got sexually assaulted more than twice by multiple people, she said that I had the permission to handle it myself and that I'm just a bit egocentric, I haven't told anything to my dad cause he even ignores the fact that I'm not mentally perfect.
My mom also waited so many years before making me go to a psychologist and experts, I used to ask for someone at the age of 8 cause i had the need to talk with someone that weren't my parents but my mom just yelled at me and from there on I stopped talking to both of my parents.
I was sexually assaulted at the age of 8/9 to this year but I still haven't told anyone except my psychologist and a social assistant.
I'm so sorry this was your first experience. If you need support to process this you can visit
online.rainn.org to chat one-on-one with a trained RAINN support specialist, any time 24/7.
@@amazeorg thank you for the attention and the support.
This is brilliant.
I was 5 the first time it happened and 9 the last time it happened. I’m now 15 and scared that since I’ve waited too long to say anything they won’t believe me.
Im in exact same situation as u, i was 10 now im 14, cant tell, but please say something. too many people never report
Only if my mom was like that
I’m to scared to open up to my mom about it. I was only 7 and he was 5 so I don’t think that people would believe me. :(
Who was the abuser? You or him?
oh I really wish I could hear someone saying "it's not your falut" :(
I will visit my therapist soon, I need to talk with them about that, I hope I will feel better🙏
Respect to the mom
GIVE ME A MOM LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW.
I told my mom I suspect my uncle did something to me when I was 4, and all she said was “well I pray he didn’t”.
I am so sorry you experienced that. Please continue to tell the adults in your life until someone believes you.
You suspected it. Your moms statement was justified
26 yr old crying to this, thank you
My inner 7-9 year old self needed this.
I'm thankful that my mom response was nice after what I told her what happened
damn. you must feel nice boosting people’s confidence like that.
@@universeresetting7703 damn. you must feel nice not understanding me or caring about my trauma.
I was assaulted for the first time at about 9 years old. I was told that I let it happen. When i was drugged and assaulted in college, my now husband tells me that its my fault for putting myself in that situation.
Girl, get the divorce papers!
I don't like your husband....
Some people are complete garbage like whoever told you that you let it happen. If you felt drugs in your system, don't feel bad about stopping it, you couldn't have. Keep asserting this to your husband until he concedes.
@@KendraWest-xk6po He won't "concede." If he truly loved his wife he would be furious with the abuser and feel very protective about her.
Sometimes that's the way it is too. He may always think it's her fault.
I really want to be my attorney and send the scumbag away for abusing my daughter because one hope united doesn't care 📜👈😑 they don't care
I needed this, thank you so much
I wish my mom was with me when it happened 🙁 But I'm really afraid to tell her.
Hey listen, if u havent already please please do. I promise you will feel relieved
I recently got groomed by my ex girlfriend. everyone i was friends with was told. and not a singular one of them comforted me, even while im still trying to cope and get over it, nobody really cares.
thats the reaction I'm scared my parents are gonna have, and also, im afraid they'll blame me or take away my online access, just because i didn't know any better.
LOL WOMP WOMP
@@Ash-x9m That's not funny. commenting "LOL WOMP WOMP" on a comment of someone venting their trauma will get you DESPISED by EVERYONE. You shouldn't try to make jokes out of another person's trauma.
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@@Ash-x9m You are, in fact, the problem.
No one understands the one was was abused..nor the family.nor the frends ..not the spouse..wanna be so loved...but i cant be ...all because of the touch i dint ask for...
Okk I just started the video and the song in the beginning transported me😩
Great content than the name of that song will be welcome 😊😁🎉
I still haven't told anyone .
You should I never did I regret it..
Whatever happened happened and I can't change it obviously .. but idk how to cope with it coz the man who did this to me lives with me.. I don't go out .. I just don't do anything.. I cry and get over it and cry some other day..I only wish my mother would take my side and somehow she'll know I'm right and it's not my fault .. but she refuses and maybe that's simpler for her to believe the otherwise because it'll break her if she accepts the truth... but I wait for the day she'll undertand
I see you and hear you. I'm so sorry ❤️🩹
tell the cops ❤
@@Dantalines Agreed.❤
something that I hate is that family doesn't even talk about it and it makes me feel like all that trauma just came out of nowhere, is it so bad that I want to talk about it
if only the adults in ours lives were as supportive as this cartoon mom