I told my Mom and she blamed me for everything, they were several family members who did those things and much more. All my extended family blamed my baby body for what they did starting at when I was 4 years old simply because I was born female. I don't trust my family anymore nor will I ever again.
It's not your fault at all I'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you can recover well all hope you can get better even if it's not today Get well!
I am so sorry this is happened to you. You’re not alone, and you deserve help and support. Perhaps you could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). It's never to late to get help.
@@lmMentallyIllI agree. If a healthy man sees a woman, it won’t matter what she’s wearing nor how much perfume she has to cover up her pheromones. Thanks to my wits, I’ve gotten away with it. I’m still surprised to see it affecting you people so much! Anyways, wishing you a speedy “recovery” 😂, best
My mom just said "but they said you wouldn't be able to remember!!" then covered her mouth and said "I mean- you probably just imagined it". Yeah, I don't talk to her anymore.
My mom lied and said that’s not what happened, even though I was the one who experienced it. And she said it wasn’t that bad. I wish I had a mom who stood by my side like this.
@@someolddude3827I know where you are coming from but please don’t brush it off because it should not happen in the first place. Many have experienced it yes but IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN
@@promeneuzivotu117 Will you feel better if someone told you that there are many others who experienced like you? No, you would be heartbroken that you and many others forced to experience it!
I was 6 when it happened. I'm a survivor. And a mother. And I'm teaching my kid to say NO, to set boundaries, to trust and tell me if something bothers her.
I remember when I was 12, we were having a VBS thing at our church. I was my first VBS in GA so I was excited. There was a boy there. He’d always stare at me. I didn’t really care at the time, considering that he just might be really observant. He then started to get… touchy. He’d always grab my arm and touch my sides. It made me uncomfortable, but I was afraid. I was afraid of being stern with him. I was afraid that I was actually in the wrong. He’d grope my chest and my body in ways that make me want to vomit my organs out and cry. When I told my parents, I’m so grateful that they understood. But when they asked me why I didn’t tell them, I didn’t respond. I remember when my dad asked me, “Did you not tell us because you were afraid?” I just broke down, sobbing and I nodded my head. As a toddler, I was always crying and complaining about random crap, my parents would tell me that I would be fine and to stop being dramatic. Of course, yea, I was a big dramatic person, but I think all those times left an effect on me. I was afraid that if I’d told my parents, they’d reject me and blame it on me. The days I was in VBS, I usually wore a big T-Shirt and biker/workout shorts, nothing special. I sometimes thought that it was my fault, that maybe it was my fault that somehow, too much of my legs showed or something. I’m glad that my parents took action and protected me.❤
@@Kishi_927Dimond.owo. Wow I didn't see the pronouns in your bio. Looks like you never really recovered from that event. I'm sorry some of us are less fortunate. No amount of money or gifts can save you. You have to study chemistry
Growing up. Losing my innocence to my cousin when i was 5 while she was around 16 feeling like my body is not mine feeling insecure wanting to rip off my face because i look alike her Losing so much weight cutting my hair so short so that i cant see her in the mirror anymore. I am 15 now and i am still not okay.
She?!? What kind of proto-swine flu MRNA receptor miscalculation abomination is this?! I really want to know what country you and she are from. This is the one case I want to study thoroughly.
I had a brother named jayson, and one day he came in the living room and it all went wrong. And that was the day i never forgave him nor talk to him...
Hi, I am so sorry this happened to you. If you ever want to speak to someone there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org.
@@blossomingattorney I don’t speak for all abusers, but all the women I chose were over 18, I was simply following my urges. She’ll be fine, she’s a strong woman, she doesn’t need counseling.
@@icantseethe7680WTF DUDE? YOU JUST ADMITTED TO ASSAULTING WOMEN? No! She's not gonna be fine! "Following your urges" isn't an excuse for what you did
TW- I was molested at the age of 7-9. This man my mum used to love confused me awfully. I told my aunt about it and she said that it was molestation and that I didn't deserve it. I have never told my mum and probably never will. I will never forgive him for what he did to me.
My heart goes out to everyone in the comments sharing their stories, and to the people who have stories to tell but haven’t shared them in the comments. To everyone reading this, you’re loved and you’re loveable no matter what you may think. You got this, and you’re strong enough to get through every challenge in your way. You got this
I wish her mom’s kindness, understanding and not blaming her daughter were more common responses.. I rarely cry watching something, but this was heartbreaking when everyone was laughing no one noticed her silence that says so much.. I love your animation and your drawing style!! Love 🖤
she's so lucky to have someone to have her back like that, my mom was a complete disappointment shoving my confess under the rug after it took me so much courage and time to say it
I wish my mom did that when I told her, I came to her crying and shaking and she laughed at me and told me to stop crying that’s not a big deal and that I’m childish, all I wanted from her was to hug me and tell me that I’m brave for talking and that my feelings are important and that I’m safe now. Now I think I’m ready to be there for my little sister and protect her from him or from anyone who would make her feel uncomfortable like the mom in this video
I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you want to talk to trained support counselor call the RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline 1.800.656.HOPE. Continue to tell a trusted adult, teacher, or guardian until someone believes. You deserve to be heard and safe.
Thanks.. Thank you so much... I love this, even if it’s a long time ago, I felt so stupid. I still remember those years, I feel like crying so much now.... When I told my friends, They thought it was a joke, when I told my Family members they Shouted and scolded me, when I told my parents, They shouted at me and told me to stop lying. And it continued.. I didn’t know what to do.. I listened what he said, I want to cry so much, I’m happy that I saw this.. And lucky he’s gone now, I don’t want to talk about it, but Thank you so much! ❤❤
I am so sorry you had this experience. Thank you for sharing your story. If you want more resources or support you can always head over to www.rainn.org/.
You DESERVE to be listened to and be respected! Don't let them convince you otherwise! Please try to talk to e.g. a social worker or try to call an anonymous Hotline for those things. There are different ones. They just listen and don't let you be alone.
I told my mom I was hurt and needed support but I wasn't ready to elaborate on it. She kept nagging until I finally gave her the details. When I did, she asked why I didn't just say no and that I should've just put my foot down (he threatened suicide on the regular). In the end she was more upset that I had lied and made excuses over the fact that I was sexually abused. I don't feel safe to tell her anything anymore
It's not ur fault at all dear. ..Dont believe that bs. . Sorry that u faced such nonsense, and ur mom doesn't deserve u. U need to b far away from such toxic people.. Tc.. 😘❤🙏
I told my parents and they told me if i wanted attention i could just ask (it wasn’t fake it was real it happened for 4 years by my own brother and they made me apologize to him. ME, TO HIM. I’m way too scared to tell anyone else in fear of the same thing happening again.)
This made me tear up. I went through the same thing a decade ago and man, I never felt so related. It’s sad that I connect so closely to this but it’s true. Problem is, I don’t know if I should say anything about it. I’m scared to be known as *that* person.
I am sorry to hear this was your experience. It's never too late speak to someone you trust. You could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). You deserve the same help.
@@amazeorg Majority of these people are pretending to cry and making fake stories. Better not to waste your time into replying to such attention seeking people
I am so sorry this is happened to you. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
Your mother is probably Non-something, where your father is probably something. I don’t care about your trauma, just snap out of it. If life on this planet is threatened, I won’t bother listening to your incoherent insults. I will stand and fight in the name of Earth, those who spake.
Even if it wasn't fake so what? No one said life is easy. Not everyone can be saved. Some people are just unlucky. Suck it up and show your strength. Dont be weak and cry about it.
@@secularindian592 NO. Shh go somewhere else go back to where you came from. SA is no one’s fault. How would you like it if you were SAd and someone said it was your fault.
If I told my mom I would probably be disowned It wasn't a big of a deal.. he just made me uncomfortable He would often touch me in the most despicable ways I still feel his hands on me until this day :(
I never went to mom, she died before I could talk to her and receive love and understanding from her. ❤ Your loved ones will support you not shame you. Go to them ❤
It’s hard sometimes to see representation, and this helps a lot thank you, even if it’s s story I’m glad they got to report him, I wish I got report all the people who did that to me and ofc I’m getting the helped needed even thought I need a new therapist
I told my grandma she yelled at him but just let it go I used to play with him and I used to love him but after that it wasn't the same every chance I had I hid from him but to this day he still lives with us
I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Sexual assault is not your fault, and you deserve to be safe. Tell someone else, like another relative, teacher or neighbor that you trust. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
@@secularindian592Dude, if you are treated less than a human being in your home country - it doesn't mean that citizens of a civillized country should be sympathetic to your twisted views
Hi Lilia, I'm sorry to hear that. If you can, continue to tell a trusted adult that you trust until someone believes you. In the meantime, there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
i was also scared to tell my mom mostly because i didnt want it to be a big deal and i didnt want to run into him after people told him what happened but even after i told her i had to talk to all these people and it really stressed me out a lot and sometimes i kinda wish i never told my mom but if i didnt tell her then i would have to keep seeing him so i was kinda stressed about that as well but im also kinda glad i told my mom.
I was 18 when mine happened. It was a party and i got followed. I get told its my fault for putting myseld in that situation. Told i need to let go and forgive for myself
I was sexually assaulted by a ex friend of mine and when I told my mom about it she put her foot down and told me to block her on everything and make sure I was safe again
You’re lucky I wasn’t the one who did it. I’m polite enough not to impregnate, clothes on is more than enough stimulation. I consider my actions to be an extended hug
I am crying so hard right now, I am living my through that little cartoon girl. I told my mom and she didn’t believe me. I told her so many times by so many people, and she never believed me…
I believe you. And when the time comes, if it hasn’t already other people will believe you too, simply because they care about you and adore you and you’re someone worth protecting and fighting for.
I hate when people say I didn’t get sexually assaulted because I wasn’t raped I know I was sexually assaulted and it wasn’t someone I know it happened like last month I was swimming and then some guy started groping my thigh I was very uncomfortable but I didn’t want to expose my little cousin to that and she was in front of me so even tho I was uncomfortable I distracted her and kicked that guy away he then swam to his big group of friends laughing as I got my little cousins and we went to a different section no one in my family knows what happened tho
It's best to tell someone you can trust and vent to. A therapist would be a perfect starting point. Please make sure that it's someone you can trust. I was in this situation (s.a. and incest) and I told a few close friends first, then my therapist,and recently my parents.
I had only spoken up to my mom about two years ago. As soon as I told her, I broke down crying, and she started crying and wished she had seen the signs before and blocked him immediately
I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is not okay. It is not your fault, and you have done nothing wrong. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you navigate your feelings. You deserve to be safe.
@@Workrelated2child, you were 5. You didn't know it was sex, you were a r*pe victim. If you're worried about society not accepting you, then you can keep your loss of virginity (r*pe) a secret and only tell people you trust. I'm so sorry you went through that.
Best mim in the world. Something like this happened to me too… it’s so healing to hear this. And I’m glad I’m not alone with the attention thing. Thank you for sharing your message. It really truly helped. Thank you🩷
I thought my experience didn't matter because it happened from my peers and happened multiple times. I thought that made that my fault. I'm sorry, I don't mean to trauma dump. Have an amazing day, beautiful people.
It matters. And you matter. Your peers were perpetrators and they violated you. You did nothing wrong. I hope you can heal. If you have no one to talk to please talk to a social worker or a Hotline. You don't have to be alone, if you can't open up to others abt it yet you write me a message, maybe that's easier. That's a heavy burden for anyone who experiences sth like that. Stay brave
My mom haven't done anything when i told her I got sexually assaulted more than twice by multiple people, she said that I had the permission to handle it myself and that I'm just a bit egocentric, I haven't told anything to my dad cause he even ignores the fact that I'm not mentally perfect. My mom also waited so many years before making me go to a psychologist and experts, I used to ask for someone at the age of 8 cause i had the need to talk with someone that weren't my parents but my mom just yelled at me and from there on I stopped talking to both of my parents. I was sexually assaulted at the age of 8/9 to this year but I still haven't told anyone except my psychologist and a social assistant.
I'm so sorry this was your first experience. If you need support to process this you can visit online.rainn.org to chat one-on-one with a trained RAINN support specialist, any time 24/7.
i remember when i was touched when i was little and now looking at it i just realized that it was serious, sucks to suck that i still havent told anybody
I was assaulted for the first time at about 9 years old. I was told that I let it happen. When i was drugged and assaulted in college, my now husband tells me that its my fault for putting myself in that situation.
Some people are complete garbage like whoever told you that you let it happen. If you felt drugs in your system, don't feel bad about stopping it, you couldn't have. Keep asserting this to your husband until he concedes.
@@secularindian592 if she is scared to tell her mom and she doesnt think ppl would believe her (because hes 5 and shes older) does that sound like she is the abuser? and if she was the abuser she probably wouldnt be saying it on a public section
Im struggling with this, I never told anyone, and years later my abuser burglarized a house and raped an underage minor, its terrible now hes a registered sex offender.
I was 5 the first time it happened and 9 the last time it happened. I’m now 15 and scared that since I’ve waited too long to say anything they won’t believe me.
I was so stupid. I wish I would have reported what happend. But after what happened i felt so numb. Like oh- that just happened.. anyway whats for breakfast? And i continued to see this man because I thought I deserved it for falling in love with him in the first place. I was scared of being alone again so I tolerated what happened. This was 2 years ago.. he even confessed via text that he did what he did. But i was too afraid of men in court telling me its my fault because i didnt push bim away right after, because it took me 2 months before it hit me.. i wish i reported it right away…
I think watching this made me realize an instance of sa I hadn’t fully rejestered as such in my mind. I’m kind of dizzy now. But awesome animation and very important to teach people. 😢
oh I really wish I could hear someone saying "it's not your falut" :( I will visit my therapist soon, I need to talk with them about that, I hope I will feel better🙏
something that I hate is that family doesn't even talk about it and it makes me feel like all that trauma just came out of nowhere, is it so bad that I want to talk about it
My family excused it as a schizophrenic episode but my episodes aren't like that. Mine are like not seeing cars on a busy road or not seeing students in a busy class room. All my senses are able to detect something that is there but my eyes kinda edits it put like editing a photo
One of the male maids in my old house touched me somewhere he shouldn't, and i was like 5 at that time, but i wasn't stupid, i jumped on the table so i could run to my mother to tell her, i was fast... My mother kicked him out and yeah..
My mom said it doesn't count if I wasn't struggling enough. As if you need to have some level of struggle to get an achievement. I didn't know it could be more painful after him but here we are.
I recently got groomed by my ex girlfriend. everyone i was friends with was told. and not a singular one of them comforted me, even while im still trying to cope and get over it, nobody really cares. thats the reaction I'm scared my parents are gonna have, and also, im afraid they'll blame me or take away my online access, just because i didn't know any better.
@@Ash-x9m That's not funny. commenting "LOL WOMP WOMP" on a comment of someone venting their trauma will get you DESPISED by EVERYONE. You shouldn't try to make jokes out of another person's trauma.
Why dose it feel like this animated short film is abaut what I am fealing... It's so hard. At this time since those ( 3 times😔 3 people😔😔) happend I didn't spoke up. I told my mom 2 of them, and she told me she want to support me, but I was so scared at the time I told her Im fine... But im not. One when is was abaout 4, one when I was about 15, and one when i wad 19...I just cant understand why I let all this happend to me... I feel so bad abaout all this and wanna fight for myselfe, but I feel so gulty abaout all, aspecially abaout the last one... Hhh... But my husband told me so many times that it wasnvt my foult.... I know... And I belive him... But... Somehow I just kepp fealing gulty. I wanna fight for myselfe. Pls somebody let me know it's never ti late to do something abaout these things... The laitest is abaou 3 years ago. Because I wnna go back to train what I love, horse riding... All my frends are there... But my trainer abused me... (that was when i was 15 years old) And on top of that, he trains my frends too... And im, afraid of what if he dose this to somebody else too, like to me. Im hardly swetting while i wrote this down😔😔😔
There was a girl last year who had a bunch of s3xual @ssult rumors being spread abt her and I decided to “not listen to the rumors” and bring her to my house and that was the night that everything went down….I’m glad my parents understood but my sister jokes abt it to my other sibling that I don’t want to know.
I was sexually abused from 1-7 almost everyday from my own father and used as a toy that was 10 yrs ago, but it still lingers in my thoughts and I can't get rid of them, i feel delusional for still holding onto the thoughts and like a victim blamer.
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I told my Mom and she blamed me for everything, they were several family members who did those things and much more. All my extended family blamed my baby body for what they did starting at when I was 4 years old simply because I was born female. I don't trust my family anymore nor will I ever again.
That's insane 😡 It's never the victims fault, i hope you'll get better and they'll be punished
I am so sorry
You are worthy of the most beautiful love
Be blessed darling ❤
It's not your fault at all I'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you can recover well all hope you can get better even if it's not today Get well!
No matter what gender you are no one deserves to be sexually abused at all I'm sorry that happened I hope your healing well
BLAME A VICTIM OS SA IS BAD , BUT BLAME A 4 YEAR-OLD VICTIM OF SA IS FVKING WILD. I wish you the best and I hope you will get better and heal ❤
30 year old women crying watching this. I wish I had spoken up
I am so sorry this is happened to you. You’re not alone, and you deserve help and support. Perhaps you could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). It's never to late to get help.
You are not alone same age as yours even today i cannot forget
Me either
It happened when I was a teenager 13 y o, gym coach, he was 72 y o, I just ran away
30yr old here too and me too...❤❤❤❤
It’s never to late to report it
i appreciate how she didn’t force her to report it against her will
If it was my kid, I would report it no matter what
@nayeon_5615honestly the “what were you wearing?” questions are stupid. Anyways, I’m sorry that happened to you :( hope u feel better
Yes
@@lmMentallyIllI agree. If a healthy man sees a woman, it won’t matter what she’s wearing nor how much perfume she has to cover up her pheromones. Thanks to my wits, I’ve gotten away with it. I’m still surprised to see it affecting you people so much! Anyways, wishing you a speedy “recovery” 😂, best
@@icantseethe7680 You got away with what?
My mom just said "but they said you wouldn't be able to remember!!" then covered her mouth and said "I mean- you probably just imagined it".
Yeah, I don't talk to her anymore.
Wow .. I'm SO sorry oh my lord..we will get through this yk .. stay strong :(
@@billieeyelashhhhhh tysm 💜
😢So sad
Same girl
I’m so sorry you went through that
"you were only 9 or 10 years old, you didn't understand what was happening"
I wish someone had said that to me when it happened..
Same here
Yknow I never had fully realized how many people out there got *the treatment.*
And how many of *those guys* out there too
Same thing when i was 7 and tried to fit in with the other boys
@@TheCheeseManFacedsame with me
Me too, I thought it was normal
My mom lied and said that’s not what happened, even though I was the one who experienced it. And she said it wasn’t that bad. I wish I had a mom who stood by my side like this.
I’m really sorry for how she treated your situation. There are plenty of others who experience that.
@@someolddude3827I know where you are coming from but please don’t brush it off because it should not happen in the first place. Many have experienced it yes but IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN
@@Silencer796 he was not trying to brush it off,but was just saying that it's unfortunately very common.
@@promeneuzivotu117 Will you feel better if someone told you that there are many others who experienced like you? No, you would be heartbroken that you and many others forced to experience it!
@@Silencer796 ok but still he was just trying to point out things.
a mom we all deserve
happened to me already
When I told my mom the first thing she asked was "did u like it?" And she said that I was imagining things and that I tempted them
@@LONELYòvó
Mine too, hm...
I wish I had the courage to tell my mom, but I just can't...
@@DepressedTransTherian me too
I was 6 when it happened. I'm a survivor. And a mother. And I'm teaching my kid to say NO, to set boundaries, to trust and tell me if something bothers her.
i wish i had a mom like that for my situation of what happened
Same
Real
I can be the mom-
My mom just said that I tempted them and that I was imagining things
@@LONELYòvó Oh no…
It wasn’t your failt
wish my mom had that same response when I told her my story
Same she just told me I was because he liked my body.
Same.. she just laughed
Same here
Same - I think my mom might have withdrew my case.
@@WittgensteinsNiece now that you say that, I think mine might've done the same if she could...
I remember when I was 12, we were having a VBS thing at our church. I was my first VBS in GA so I was excited. There was a boy there. He’d always stare at me. I didn’t really care at the time, considering that he just might be really observant. He then started to get… touchy. He’d always grab my arm and touch my sides. It made me uncomfortable, but I was afraid. I was afraid of being stern with him. I was afraid that I was actually in the wrong. He’d grope my chest and my body in ways that make me want to vomit my organs out and cry. When I told my parents, I’m so grateful that they understood. But when they asked me why I didn’t tell them, I didn’t respond. I remember when my dad asked me, “Did you not tell us because you were afraid?” I just broke down, sobbing and I nodded my head. As a toddler, I was always crying and complaining about random crap, my parents would tell me that I would be fine and to stop being dramatic. Of course, yea, I was a big dramatic person, but I think all those times left an effect on me. I was afraid that if I’d told my parents, they’d reject me and blame it on me. The days I was in VBS, I usually wore a big T-Shirt and biker/workout shorts, nothing special. I sometimes thought that it was my fault, that maybe it was my fault that somehow, too much of my legs showed or something. I’m glad that my parents took action and protected me.❤
How old was the boy? I enjoyed listening to that story. Minus the 12 year old part, please 16 and above.
Did he get in trouble? Please tell me you’re parents did something!
@@icantseethe7680 what do you mean, “16 and above?”
@@Kishi_927Dimond.owo. Wow I didn't see the pronouns in your bio. Looks like you never really recovered from that event. I'm sorry some of us are less fortunate. No amount of money or gifts can save you. You have to study chemistry
@@icantseethe7680 what??
Growing up. Losing my innocence to my cousin when i was 5 while she was around 16 feeling like my body is not mine feeling insecure wanting to rip off my face because i look alike her Losing so much weight cutting my hair so short so that i cant see her in the mirror anymore. I am 15 now and i am still not okay.
She?!? What kind of proto-swine flu MRNA receptor miscalculation abomination is this?! I really want to know what country you and she are from. This is the one case I want to study thoroughly.
You mean while "he" was 16.
@icantseethe7680 no it was a girl. What i didnt type she on accident.
@icantseethe7680 some sexual abusers can be girls. It's not always men.
@@nocturne3220i hope yu get better man :(
I wish my mom reacted this way with love and understanding. Her response was to just ignore me and never talk to me again.
Womp Womp
@@secularindian592 Get bent Dr. douche
@@secularindian592 shut up and grow up
im so sorry
@@coralchapman9949 it was her fault
I had a brother named jayson, and one day he came in the living room and it all went wrong. And that was the day i never forgave him nor talk to him...
Same
Your own brother?! 😭😭😭
I cant believe man these days now a days some women cant go outside to walk at night or even in the morning without worrying about these things
@Adonisius_Kavata yes...my BLOOD r related brother.
@JaedaShorts I agree, it's scary for woman 😢
I love how this pops up Like 20 minutes after I just had a melt down thinking about it
Hi, I am so sorry this happened to you. If you ever want to speak to someone there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org.
i guess in a way it was perfect timing
@@amazeorg thank you
Same
İf your mama says this,your lucky (video)
I Was Sexually Abused At Age Ten. When I Tell My Parents That I Still Think About It They Tell Me "It Was Years Ago" Im Like "Does That Matter?"
Whether it was long ago or no it will still affect you for your whole life so I hope you’re okay
@@Ranasabia420She’s fine.
@@icantseethe7680You can't just tell other people if they are fine or not.
@@blossomingattorney I don’t speak for all abusers, but all the women I chose were over 18, I was simply following my urges. She’ll be fine, she’s a strong woman, she doesn’t need counseling.
@@icantseethe7680WTF DUDE? YOU JUST ADMITTED TO ASSAULTING WOMEN? No! She's not gonna be fine! "Following your urges" isn't an excuse for what you did
This vid deserves to get viral, this kind of topics need to take more than serious...
Thank you for raising awareness. You can share it with your friends and family.
They are taken seriously. Too seriously infact
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@@secularindian592 sa isnt sum 2 joke abt
@@aaliahhg it is, its taken too seriously
TW-
I was molested at the age of 7-9. This man my mum used to love confused me awfully. I told my aunt about it and she said that it was molestation and that I didn't deserve it. I have never told my mum and probably never will. I will never forgive him for what he did to me.
I feel so bad for you😢
My heart goes out to everyone in the comments sharing their stories, and to the people who have stories to tell but haven’t shared them in the comments. To everyone reading this, you’re loved and you’re loveable no matter what you may think. You got this, and you’re strong enough to get through every challenge in your way. You got this
MOST STORIES HERE ARE FAKE. They are attention seeking people who have nothing else to do
I wish her mom’s kindness, understanding and not blaming her daughter were more common responses..
I rarely cry watching something, but this was heartbreaking when everyone was laughing no one noticed her silence that says so much..
I love your animation and your drawing style!! Love 🖤
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@@secularindian592You have no heart bro
@@Y_S_I_A The original comment is probably just a way to gather attention, nothing else
she's so lucky to have someone to have her back like that, my mom was a complete disappointment shoving my confess under the rug after it took me so much courage and time to say it
I wish my mom did that when I told her, I came to her crying and shaking and she laughed at me and told me to stop crying that’s not a big deal and that I’m childish, all I wanted from her was to hug me and tell me that I’m brave for talking and that my feelings are important and that I’m safe now.
Now I think I’m ready to be there for my little sister and protect her from him or from anyone who would make her feel uncomfortable like the mom in this video
I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you want to talk to trained support counselor call the RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline 1.800.656.HOPE. Continue to tell a trusted adult, teacher, or guardian until someone believes. You deserve to be heard and safe.
@@Nuclear_texting888 imagine being so miserable replying to comments with hateful remarks just to have something fun in ur life
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@@kase1550 WOMP WOMP
@@secularindian592 ya having fun buddy? you're lucky.
Thanks.. Thank you so much...
I love this, even if it’s a long time ago, I felt so stupid. I still remember those years, I feel like crying so much now.... When I told my friends, They thought it was a joke, when I told my Family members they Shouted and scolded me, when I told my parents, They shouted at me and told me to stop lying. And it continued.. I didn’t know what to do.. I listened what he said, I want to cry so much, I’m happy that I saw this.. And lucky he’s gone now, I don’t want to talk about it, but Thank you so much! ❤❤
I am so sorry you had this experience. Thank you for sharing your story. If you want more resources or support you can always head over to www.rainn.org/.
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LIAR. Attention seeker
You DESERVE to be listened to and be respected! Don't let them convince you otherwise!
Please try to talk to e.g. a social worker or try to call an anonymous Hotline for those things. There are different ones. They just listen and don't let you be alone.
I told my mom I was hurt and needed support but I wasn't ready to elaborate on it. She kept nagging until I finally gave her the details. When I did, she asked why I didn't just say no and that I should've just put my foot down (he threatened suicide on the regular).
In the end she was more upset that I had lied and made excuses over the fact that I was sexually abused. I don't feel safe to tell her anything anymore
My mother told me it was my fault. I want a mother like the one in the video.
I am not the perfect person, but i understand you. I am with you.
It's not ur fault at all dear. ..Dont believe that bs. . Sorry that u faced such nonsense, and ur mom doesn't deserve u. U need to b far away from such toxic people.. Tc.. 😘❤🙏
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@@Buzzword_1787u think ur cool?
@@b1gb0zz21 No,not really.
I told my parents and they told me if i wanted attention i could just ask (it wasn’t fake it was real it happened for 4 years by my own brother and they made me apologize to him. ME, TO HIM. I’m way too scared to tell anyone else in fear of the same thing happening again.)
😞
This made me tear up. I went through the same thing a decade ago and man, I never felt so related. It’s sad that I connect so closely to this but it’s true. Problem is, I don’t know if I should say anything about it. I’m scared to be known as *that* person.
I am sorry to hear this was your experience. It's never too late speak to someone you trust. You could visit RAINN.org to chat with someone or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1(800) 656-HOPE (4673). You deserve the same help.
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@@amazeorg Majority of these people are pretending to cry and making fake stories. Better not to waste your time into replying to such attention seeking people
@secularindian592 bru go away
@@secularindian592rage bait bot
this would've helped me as a kid. i'm glad its out there
I'm sorry you did not have this resource as a kid and I'm glad you can access it now. Please share it with the young people in your life!
@@amazeorg thank you
My mom never had that courage to speak out, she just ignored all the things like they never happened to me,, yes those things still haunts me..
I am so sorry this is happened to you. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
Same happened
Your mother is probably Non-something, where your father is probably something. I don’t care about your trauma, just snap out of it. If life on this planet is threatened, I won’t bother listening to your incoherent insults. I will stand and fight in the name of Earth, those who spake.
Womp Womp. Fake claims
Even if it wasn't fake so what? No one said life is easy. Not everyone can be saved. Some people are just unlucky. Suck it up and show your strength. Dont be weak and cry about it.
when i told my mom she cried with me and told me it wasn't my fault. my dad went ballistic
In that situation, I would be more like your abuser.
It was your fault
@@secularindian592 NO. Shh go somewhere else go back to where you came from. SA is no one’s fault. How would you like it if you were SAd and someone said it was your fault.
@@secularindian592 you when you find out assaulters are the ones at fault because they're the ones assaulting 🤯🤯
@@acornaroonies Still fault of victim. They dont report it, they dont say no.
If I told my mom I would probably be disowned
It wasn't a big of a deal.. he just made me uncomfortable
He would often touch me in the most despicable ways
I still feel his hands on me until this day :(
Sexual assault IS a big deal. Please find someone supportive to talk to about it. ❤️
Someone making you uncomfortable IS a big deal. You were just raised to believe that your comfort doesn’t matter. I’m sorry 💜
It is a big deal. Don’t dismiss your trauma like that
i can’t explain how much i owe this video like this gen helped me so much to realise what happened to me i love yall
This is the kind of mom we all need caring and supportive ❤️ 💕 💗
I never went to mom, she died before I could talk to her and receive love and understanding from her. ❤ Your loved ones will support you not shame you. Go to them ❤
I sadly relate to this. It happened this year. Thankfully i knew what had happened to me wasn't right because i have a supportive mom.
Next time it happens, fill me in. I need some ideas for my next adventure.
@@icantseethe7680what in the world do you mean. You wanna be raped by someone?
@@icantseethe7680 bye trolll
It’s hard sometimes to see representation, and this helps a lot thank you, even if it’s s story I’m glad they got to report him, I wish I got report all the people who did that to me and ofc I’m getting the helped needed even thought I need a new therapist
Hi, sorry to hear that you experienced this. Thank you for sharing and helping to raise awareness for others. Glad you are getting the help you need.
LIAR
Your content is always so great, but this video in particular is just so relatable. Keep it up!
Thank you so much!
@@amazeorg You are the best. Thank you for driving teens through their days.
This is such a wholesome way to raise awareness on this topic❤
I told my grandma she yelled at him but just let it go I used to play with him and I used to love him but after that it wasn't the same every chance I had I hid from him but to this day he still lives with us
I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Sexual assault is not your fault, and you deserve to be safe. Tell someone else, like another relative, teacher or neighbor that you trust. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
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Nothing wrong happened
@@secularindian592Dude, if you are treated less than a human being in your home country - it doesn't mean that citizens of a civillized country should be sympathetic to your twisted views
@@marchduck2958 How do you know how i am being treated?
I wish I had a mom like that my mom doesn't believe me
Hi Lilia, I'm sorry to hear that. If you can, continue to tell a trusted adult that you trust until someone believes you. In the meantime, there are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you come up with a plan to get help. Keep telling adults you trust until you get help. You deserve to be safe.
Im so sorry..
It’s a great idea to report him. She probably wasn’t the first he did this to, or the last.
1:46 this moment the mother told the daughter that she would always be on her side and trust her really stirred me (my mom didn't believe me)
i was also scared to tell my mom mostly because i didnt want it to be a big deal and i didnt want to run into him after people told him what happened but even after i told her i had to talk to all these people and it really stressed me out a lot and sometimes i kinda wish i never told my mom but if i didnt tell her then i would have to keep seeing him so i was kinda stressed about that as well but im also kinda glad i told my mom.
Yah my mom just told me I tempted them and that I was imagining things
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@@secularindian592 😭
@@XochitlGutierrez855 I think what ur saying is fake
@@secularindian592 that's okay, you're entitled to your opinion.
I was 18 when mine happened. It was a party and i got followed. I get told its my fault for putting myseld in that situation. Told i need to let go and forgive for myself
I was sexually assaulted by a ex friend of mine and when I told my mom about it she put her foot down and told me to block her on everything and make sure I was safe again
I hope you are doing okay🫶
@@Ranasabia420 I'm trying my best to recover but it's not easy sometimes
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Wish I had someone by my side to tell me, It matters, even if it happened long ago.
Wish I could tell my mom.
It matters. I know because i felt it.
You’re lucky I wasn’t the one who did it. I’m polite enough not to impregnate, clothes on is more than enough stimulation. I consider my actions to be an extended hug
Not sure why this popped up in my feed, but nice to see there are such resources for people who need it?
I am crying so hard right now, I am living my through that little cartoon girl. I told my mom and she didn’t believe me. I told her so many times by so many people, and she never believed me…
I believe you. And when the time comes, if it hasn’t already other people will believe you too, simply because they care about you and adore you and you’re someone worth protecting and fighting for.
The way her mom comforts her feels so right ❤
I like how there was a plus size girl, a skinny girl, and a more average weight girl. Nice diversity:)
Also amazing variety for character design, I share your opinion
I'm jealous of the sweets they are consuming. Damn it.
I hate when people say I didn’t get sexually assaulted because I wasn’t raped I know I was sexually assaulted and it wasn’t someone I know it happened like last month I was swimming and then some guy started groping my thigh I was very uncomfortable but I didn’t want to expose my little cousin to that and she was in front of me so even tho I was uncomfortable I distracted her and kicked that guy away he then swam to his big group of friends laughing as I got my little cousins and we went to a different section no one in my family knows what happened tho
u should tell your family & maybe also your extended family if you feel like they would understand & not brush it off
My dad sided w/ my assaulter and called me pathetic
This is exactly what I needed to hear/see. Thank you so much
You are so welcome!
What do you do when it happens multiple times or from a family member?
It's best to tell someone you can trust and vent to. A therapist would be a perfect starting point. Please make sure that it's someone you can trust. I was in this situation (s.a. and incest) and I told a few close friends first, then my therapist,and recently my parents.
@@Proud2BeBre I hope you you're doing better now (:
You can also try to gather evidence. Set up a camera or sth like that. Then you can bring it up once you're safe
I haven’t even open up to my mother about my assault. I only ever told her about my harassment.
I had only spoken up to my mom about two years ago. As soon as I told her, I broke down crying, and she started crying and wished she had seen the signs before and blocked him immediately
And she reported but they dropped the case immediately :’)
Yeah.
Because Not enough evidence. also he didn’t rape her so no dna. but it will be his records if happens again
The same
I wish my mom was like this about it. 😕 I still think about it all the time, I was 11, Idk if this is normal but I think about hurting him.
I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is not okay. It is not your fault, and you have done nothing wrong. We want to make sure you get some help. You tried telling your mom, but it sounds like you will have to find other trusted adults to help you, like another family member, teacher, friend’s parent or neighbor. There are trained support specialists that you can call at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673) or chat with online at Online.RAINN.org. These specialists can help you navigate your feelings. You deserve to be safe.
i was also 11.
@@Workrelated2child, you were 5. You didn't know it was sex, you were a r*pe victim. If you're worried about society not accepting you, then you can keep your loss of virginity (r*pe) a secret and only tell people you trust. I'm so sorry you went through that.
That's normal, they harmed you! And you didn't deserve that
Even though parents love us unconditionally, they often fail to notice the turmoil going on inside their wards..
Best mim in the world. Something like this happened to me too… it’s so healing to hear this. And I’m glad I’m not alone with the attention thing.
Thank you for sharing your message. It really truly helped.
Thank you🩷
I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this and I’m glad this video has helped.
I wish I was that one girl with the long legs like she never missed leg day
I thought my experience didn't matter because it happened from my peers and happened multiple times. I thought that made that my fault. I'm sorry, I don't mean to trauma dump. Have an amazing day, beautiful people.
It matters. And you matter. Your peers were perpetrators and they violated you. You did nothing wrong. I hope you can heal. If you have no one to talk to please talk to a social worker or a Hotline. You don't have to be alone, if you can't open up to others abt it yet you write me a message, maybe that's easier. That's a heavy burden for anyone who experiences sth like that. Stay brave
My mom haven't done anything when i told her I got sexually assaulted more than twice by multiple people, she said that I had the permission to handle it myself and that I'm just a bit egocentric, I haven't told anything to my dad cause he even ignores the fact that I'm not mentally perfect.
My mom also waited so many years before making me go to a psychologist and experts, I used to ask for someone at the age of 8 cause i had the need to talk with someone that weren't my parents but my mom just yelled at me and from there on I stopped talking to both of my parents.
I was sexually assaulted at the age of 8/9 to this year but I still haven't told anyone except my psychologist and a social assistant.
I'm so sorry this was your first experience. If you need support to process this you can visit
online.rainn.org to chat one-on-one with a trained RAINN support specialist, any time 24/7.
@@amazeorg thank you for the attention and the support.
I'm living vicariously through this animation and pretending that this is me and my mom
i remember when i was touched when i was little and now looking at it i just realized that it was serious, sucks to suck that i still havent told anybody
The adults would just blame it on you anyway
@@Ballsack831 yeah..
@@Ballsack831not all adults blame the victims. not everyone blames.
I cant even confront my mom cuz I'm scared of being blamed
I'm scared too :(
how did it go? did u tell ur mom?
fr
Ur pro palestine. Of course you will be blamed, unlike hamas which should be blamed
Well, at least mom is supportive. 😢
My mom understood me ❤my parents supported me they understood me ❤I love them ❤️ a lot I'm greatful for them
Your so lucky
I was assaulted for the first time at about 9 years old. I was told that I let it happen. When i was drugged and assaulted in college, my now husband tells me that its my fault for putting myself in that situation.
Girl, get the divorce papers!
I don't like your husband....
Some people are complete garbage like whoever told you that you let it happen. If you felt drugs in your system, don't feel bad about stopping it, you couldn't have. Keep asserting this to your husband until he concedes.
@@KendraWest-xk6po He won't "concede." If he truly loved his wife he would be furious with the abuser and feel very protective about her.
Sometimes that's the way it is too. He may always think it's her fault.
The same thing happened to me when I was just 9 years old... but, I am unable to gather up the courage to share this with my parents till now...
Same
I’m to scared to open up to my mom about it. I was only 7 and he was 5 so I don’t think that people would believe me. :(
Who was the abuser? You or him?
@@secularindian592 obviously him??
@@aaliahhg the commenter didnt specify who was the abuser
@@secularindian592 if she is scared to tell her mom and she doesnt think ppl would believe her (because hes 5 and shes older) does that sound like she is the abuser? and if she was the abuser she probably wouldnt be saying it on a public section
I just remembered something that happened to me. I had a meltdown and now I'm trying to prosses and calm down
I wish we can stop this from completely happening!
Im struggling with this, I never told anyone, and years later my abuser burglarized a house and raped an underage minor, its terrible now hes a registered sex offender.
This was beautiful gave me chills
I wish I had a mom like that
I told my mom I suspect my uncle did something to me when I was 4, and all she said was “well I pray he didn’t”.
I am so sorry you experienced that. Please continue to tell the adults in your life until someone believes you.
You suspected it. Your moms statement was justified
I wish I could report that person too
I did it. But the result wanst so well. But im proud of myself for be brave. Still im sad about it. Bcz my mom didnt care.
I was 5 the first time it happened and 9 the last time it happened. I’m now 15 and scared that since I’ve waited too long to say anything they won’t believe me.
Im in exact same situation as u, i was 10 now im 14, cant tell, but please say something. too many people never report
I was so stupid. I wish I would have reported what happend. But after what happened i felt so numb. Like oh- that just happened.. anyway whats for breakfast? And i continued to see this man because I thought I deserved it for falling in love with him in the first place. I was scared of being alone again so I tolerated what happened. This was 2 years ago.. he even confessed via text that he did what he did. But i was too afraid of men in court telling me its my fault because i didnt push bim away right after, because it took me 2 months before it hit me.. i wish i reported it right away…
I think watching this made me realize an instance of sa I hadn’t fully rejestered as such in my mind. I’m kind of dizzy now. But awesome animation and very important to teach people. 😢
oh I really wish I could hear someone saying "it's not your falut" :(
I will visit my therapist soon, I need to talk with them about that, I hope I will feel better🙏
This needs to be shared around more.
something that I hate is that family doesn't even talk about it and it makes me feel like all that trauma just came out of nowhere, is it so bad that I want to talk about it
My family excused it as a schizophrenic episode but my episodes aren't like that. Mine are like not seeing cars on a busy road or not seeing students in a busy class room. All my senses are able to detect something that is there but my eyes kinda edits it put like editing a photo
26 yr old crying to this, thank you
One of the male maids in my old house touched me somewhere he shouldn't, and i was like 5 at that time, but i wasn't stupid, i jumped on the table so i could run to my mother to tell her, i was fast... My mother kicked him out and yeah..
I wish my mom was with me when it happened 🙁 But I'm really afraid to tell her.
Hey listen, if u havent already please please do. I promise you will feel relieved
GIVE ME A MOM LIKE THIS RIGHT NOW.
My mom said it doesn't count if I wasn't struggling enough. As if you need to have some level of struggle to get an achievement. I didn't know it could be more painful after him but here we are.
I recently got groomed by my ex girlfriend. everyone i was friends with was told. and not a singular one of them comforted me, even while im still trying to cope and get over it, nobody really cares.
thats the reaction I'm scared my parents are gonna have, and also, im afraid they'll blame me or take away my online access, just because i didn't know any better.
LOL WOMP WOMP
@@Ash-x9m That's not funny. commenting "LOL WOMP WOMP" on a comment of someone venting their trauma will get you DESPISED by EVERYONE. You shouldn't try to make jokes out of another person's trauma.
@@kira_3rd Womp
@@Ash-x9m You are, in fact, the problem.
Why dose it feel like this animated short film is abaut what I am fealing... It's so hard. At this time since those ( 3 times😔 3 people😔😔) happend I didn't spoke up. I told my mom 2 of them, and she told me she want to support me, but I was so scared at the time I told her Im fine... But im not. One when is was abaout 4, one when I was about 15, and one when i wad 19...I just cant understand why I let all this happend to me... I feel so bad abaout all this and wanna fight for myselfe, but I feel so gulty abaout all, aspecially abaout the last one... Hhh... But my husband told me so many times that it wasnvt my foult.... I know... And I belive him... But... Somehow I just kepp fealing gulty. I wanna fight for myselfe.
Pls somebody let me know it's never ti late to do something abaout these things... The laitest is abaou 3 years ago.
Because I wnna go back to train what I love, horse riding... All my frends are there... But my trainer abused me... (that was when i was 15 years old) And on top of that, he trains my frends too... And im, afraid of what if he dose this to somebody else too, like to me.
Im hardly swetting while i wrote this down😔😔😔
My inner 7-9 year old self needed this.
There was a girl last year who had a bunch of s3xual @ssult rumors being spread abt her and I decided to “not listen to the rumors” and bring her to my house and that was the night that everything went down….I’m glad my parents understood but my sister jokes abt it to my other sibling that I don’t want to know.
😂😂
@Ash-x9mThat's the crying laughing emoji, not the crying emoji.
@aftonstan5494 I know I meant to put that
Only if my mom was like that
This is brilliant.
I'm thankful that my mom response was nice after what I told her what happened
damn. you must feel nice boosting people’s confidence like that.
@@universeresetting7703 damn. you must feel nice not understanding me or caring about my trauma.
I needed this, thank you so much
I was sexually abused from 1-7 almost everyday from my own father and used as a toy that was 10 yrs ago, but it still lingers in my thoughts and I can't get rid of them, i feel delusional for still holding onto the thoughts and like a victim blamer.