I truly do not understand people that say she is lying! Watch the interviews, read her book, and do some research! She didn't want it to happen she didn't lie, there is forensic evidence! Stop victim shaming and blaming. She is strong, courageous and deserves to be respected and supported. Chessy is amazing so stop hating. Behind her 1000%
Whoever does that, you know, like saying that she is lying and all are just Victim Blaming her.... Be it a man or a woman, whoever does Victim Blaming themselves have criminal instincts and, who knows they may also be criminals or potential criminals in the future.
@@myself2873 It does. Trauma can really damage someone mentally and emotionally. Some even commit suicide due to this. SA survivors are scared to speak up because some people might laugh about it or people like you saying it doesn’t take much courage to speak up when it does.
DAVID HUYNH, You need to look up the freeze, fight or flee response before making an ignorant comment like that. Military men have frozen in combat, and it is a PRIMITIVE INSTINCT.
@@myself2873 Yes they have. You are being deliberately obtuse. Educate yourself. Look up the effects of danger and the brain. Miltary men and women have frozen in combat....especially first time. I bet you dont even know what INSTINCT means!
These frat boy traditions make me never want to be alone with a guy outside my family. What's sad is my uncle who is the best person I trust most in this world is confused why I'm not chasing after boys. He needs to realise we're no longer in his lovey dovey days of beach hippies jamming to sum 41
Then start approaching guys you like instead of settling for what comes to you, cuz let me tell you most of the guys who just cold approach you, have approached many other girls so they have options. 80% of men are almost invisible to women cuz y'all only want the top, most attractive guys. So think about the 15 decent guys you've friend-zoned and pursue the one, prove yourself to be as worthy girlfriend and split the bill cuz a high quality man won't chase an average girl if she doesn't show commitment from the start
I have so so so much respect for every woman who has been through the absolute horror or rape. And especially those who have the immense courage and bravery to report them, knowing it will involve having to face them in court and potentially, them not being convicted. I was raped and the two men who did it are still at large because I do not have the courage to report him. SO many women are threatened, as I was and it is just horrific in every way
I hope you can find some peace and happiness in your life. You may not agree with this but i feel that every act is recorded on some level and every effect of those acts are also recorded...the way a sponge soaks up water, all the emotional trauma is soaked up by whatever force controls this universe, some call it God. And the scales of justice have to be balanced, whether in this life or the next. There are universal laws and karmic laws. This is not just some new age crap, this has been present and part of the beliefs in holy books and ancient cultures for thousands of years. People who have died and been brought back have stated that this is the way it is. Past life therapy also shows this. The Dalai Lama, the spiritual leader of the Tibetan people, who doesn't really believe in God, said that he felt the purpose of every human being is to try and live a happy life, no matter what suffering they experience. Easy to say i know but very very hard when faced with such trauma as you experienced. I am a man and i was assaulted more than once in the street, and on one occasion someone called the police and i also did not go through with pressing charges even though what happened to me was very slight compared with your experience. I don't believe it's always a lack of courage, i think many just prefer to try and move on rather than be traumatised all over again in court. But i hope you can find your way to some happiness in your life. God bless you
Another car crash you tube comments section here and this girl was 15 when it happened. People need to know that anytime, it's not OK to rape or sexually assault someone because they agree to meet you for a date or take their clothes off. Just because the girl agrees to meet for a date and would like to have sex, it's not an invitation for the guy to do whatever he wants & completely take advantage. There is the same toxic view about bullying, that victims are somehow to blame. Amazing that people still have these ideas - and it's women as well as men saying it in this comments section.
As a survivor myself it took me 3 years to fight back I was 14 years old when it happened I wasn’t able to fight back until I was 17 .. it was super scary and wasn’t easy .,
Very strong young lady for what she is doing......I am a survivor of two rapes one in 1998 when I was 4 and one in 2019 and I'm just now finding the courage to break the silence.
@@saraicg_9319 why should it be debatable? His suffering on the cross was the penalty for this sin infested human race; and only through Him can we make the transformation in our lives. The greatest gift God gave the human race is the "freedom of choice" every time we violate that freedom we suffer the consequence.
A huge respect to this women, not everyone has the courage to speak, I wish i did. I was abused by my mother's boyfriend thrice. He did it for the first time on my birthday, i stayed silent. I stayed silent every time, i still don't have the courage to speak up about it to my mother. I cry to sleep thinking about it nearly every night. My mom and him are still together. I try this avoid him but end up getting scolded by my mom for "not being nice". I hate him so much at this point. When I'm around him, he gives my creepy looks and threatens me often. He didn't touch me again tho. It's been two years that happened and I'm 13 now. I feel better, it's the first time I've opened up this to anyone. If you're a sexual abuse survivor too, please don't end up like me! I believe in you and i love you
No means no. It does not mean Yes. If you got raped even if it's a long time ago. Let them pay for it. If not prison for them sue them for all they have.
Dudes, your pricks are weapons if the Lady doesn’t want it, and if you hurt her with your weapon expect to be punished because you will sure as Hell deserve to be
femal likes to lie about that they dont want it but they do want it. That is the diffrence between femal and boys. Femal wants this and boys dont want this. This is why boys have it worse
Thank you so much for sharing. Men who take advantage of people are proving wrong things. There is no shame to share and be transparent. This is my heart, pretty sure you guys will agree. Family, friends, teachers, doctors, police, etc are out there to help.
She is lying like all femals, femals want this. We should focus on boys more who are victims they don’t want this, but femals can lie after they enjoyed it
@@Grexen-bo6zp Both men and women can be victims of, and are subjected to, sexual violence. Why do you think she’s lying? I’m curious. I stand with anyone who says they’ve been assaulted or abused, because I’d rather accidentally believe a potential liar than I would purposely tell a real victim/survivor that their story is false and they’re lying. I know first hand the pain that comes from being disbelieved by those closest to you. So I personally feel more comfortable believing people; it tends to do less harm overall.
This woman's strength ❤❤❤❤❤ They always refuse to acknowledge the damage they've done to their victims I have been there I froze too I froze too Everyone is asking why I didn't beat him I was shocked he touched me. I just stood there and opened my mouth
Lmao what? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a liar who enjoyed it.
@@smortboi2374 they never said JUST female rape victims, they said “sexual assault victims” which means ALL, so idk where you got that, and they never said that girls can’t rape, they can. And do some damn research, read her book, watch her interviews, and she said no, and he just kept going
I don’t get how people say she’s lying, there’s so much evidence against him. She’s a strong person and as a fellow survivor, we deserve to be believed.
I was viciously raped in a foreign country by a man that was much much older then me. I was in the military and unfortunately got a bad ride. Instead of taking me to the base he took me out in the country and raped me. It happened 43 years ago and I will never ever forget his accent!
Gotta disagree on one point--women/girls totally need to learn self-defense. One female cage fighter managed to fight off her attacker. Relying on others to behave themselves is a lost cause. I know.
Why are they so unclear what they mean about sexual assault. Were they kissing and he grabbed her ass and she said no, or did he beat her up or try to rape her??? it's extremely unclear and the definition of sexual assault seems to be extremely broad, so being unclear about what happened takes away from the severity of the issue.
Causs sexual assault is broad term; forcible sexual contact with someone without their consent. It refers to various types of sexual assault. For example, forced penetration with genitals, fingers, foreign objects, or groping, rubbing, forced oral, forced handjob, etc. There’s many different types of sexual assault. Sure, some may be “less” traumatizing than others for certain people but regardless it’s still very traumatic. I don’t see why you believe that the broad term sexual assault makes the issue less serious?? That’s like saying “I don’t like the term Murder cause it’s too broad and removes the severity of the issue”. Sure, If I had to choose between being tortured then killed or being killed right away I would pick the 2nd. If I had to choose between being murdered by a bullet to the brain or murdered by choked to death, I would prefer to be shot in the brain, but at the end it doesn’t matter, it’s still murder😂. It’s still serious. It shouldn’t remove THAT MUCH severity of the issue because some ppl don’t wanna go into little details about their traumatic event.
I was raped when I was severely drunk and told the guy no multiple times and was too weak to physically stop him. That was my “first time”. Then, 1 year later I was on a date with a different guy who forced me to perform oral on him. Although both situations have left a lot of scars, they left scars in different ways. The first rape ruined the way I viewed sex. But the 2nd sexual assault really scared me because I was completely sober and conscious, so I can still remember the fear I felt. If I could get justice, I would want both of those men to be punished equally. Because both assaults were very traumatizing. My 2nd assault was not “less severe” because it was oral and not penetration as some people might assume. They were equally traumatizing to me.
it happened to me last night but i am completely numb to any pain. I grew up in an abusive household so I guess I have became numb to a lot of painful things
A little payback would not hurt for all the Bosniak women and young girls that were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and that Srebrenica Genocide. I do not have anything against American and Serbian girls.
I'm so sorry you went through that and experienced all that. I just want you to know that Jesus Christ loves you. Try talking to him in prayer, he hears you and cares. He is the one who delivers us from all of our afflictions.
How do you help a friend who's been a victim multiple times through out the years and is reluctant to seek help? She spends all her time either at home or doing inconsistent work and gets anxiety around others, does drugs to cope but claims to have stopped. Which looks like the case, when she did drugs she was happy but now always depressed.
A little payback would not hurt for all the Bosniak women and young girls that were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and that Srebrenica Genocide. I do not have anything against American and Serbian girls.
also, i should add, it takes a while to get into the "online" portal. i used to go there, about two or three years ago. and could chat with someone usually within half an hour. unfortunately, however, the number of people being assaulted in today's society is sky-rocketing... i tried to go on a few days ago, and after waiting 2 hours, there were still "4" people "ahead of me"/waiting to chat with a trained sexual assault...person. try to be patient, and remember, you are NEVER alone
Tell her that you're proud of her, and mean it. I haven't heard "I'm proud of you." in so long and I cry everyday because I feel like my rape ruined me. A little goes a long way.
I also stay at home all the time and have no friends because I can't trust people anymore. Maybe one day ask if she wants her favorite food and bring it over to her so she doesn't have to get out.
I went through something similar in 2020 to make it worse I got pregnant from it my son is a year and 5 months now we have a protection order to keep us safe and we're doing better everyday
I need advice. I know someone who has assaulted some people but I don't know how to report him. Because one, the victims don't want to talk. I don't know because they are given money or he is a relative or what. I am very disturbed about this. Because I really wanted justice to be found.
@@gladysangelakamau8760 However you know about what's happened that's your evidence right there call the police, try to schedule a meeting with the victims
100 truth? she is lying😂😂 just like femals do they can lie afterwards but during it they enjoyed lmao😂 boys have it way worse then femal because boys dont want this as opposed to femal who wants this
"Very Lucky" no. You weren't lucky. You had justice, not luck. Because even if you lied you would've won. I still feel for this girl don't get me wrong. I just don't like their word choice.
It makes me feel so angry that someone could lie about rape. I've personally seen just how much it can effect both the person accused and actual victims
Yes Sister you are right but people don't care about your feelings so it's important to learn Self Defense everyday.Learn Self Defense everyday from a good instructor Learn Krav Maga. I have sympathy and respect for you. God bless you.
A little payback would not hurt for all the Bosniak women and young girls that were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and that Srebrenica Genocide. I do not have anything against American and Serbian girls.
It's crazy how easily people believe women but dismiss men especially in these circumstances. He was found not guilty of rape. Which means all of the information and evidence that we the public have not seen was reviewed and clear enough to determine he wasn't guilty.
Can I just remind people that A. "not guilty" isn't the same as "innocent" and B. Only 2-8% of all rape reports are false. Less than half of all rapes are reported, largely because people are scared of not being believed. If someone said they'd been robbed, you'd immediately believe them. Why should it be any different for sexual assault victims
@@LucyInk121 thats a huge percentage ok? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a lying liar who enjoyed it.
Would any man deny a woman that has been raped? That belly is valuable. And women walk around tic- tokin wit lil shorts and shit.. Aye look. Chilll wit that. For real.
Zero evidence and she absolutely seems like she's lying. By the way you should not say she WAS sexually assaulted by the kid because it was alleged and he was not found guilty of it.
He WAS found guilty. He just didn’t get charged with a felony. Just to add my point of view (not that you care), I totally believe it. The « senior salute » is very real. I went to a very similar boarding school, and it was talked about very often at my school. It was all about taking advantage of freshmen at St Paul’s.
@@elizabethpappas6802 lmao what? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a lying liar who enjoyed it.
Yeah! There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and these ppl are worried about a liar who enjoyed it.
Sad I sit all alone no girl will look our like I. But yet I'd never rape a girl our hurt any girl in any way I got god that's enough i decided to say I want to watch my money pile up but I love women I'd never force a girl to like me love me our rape her no it not your fault no is no not yes you speaking allows more girls to be brave heal be strong
I understand her pain but I need to say, people think all men are bad when women do the same things and are just as bad. And I’m not saying this towards the video that I’m commenting on I’m just saying in general
Any victim no matter what age or sex should be heard. This wasn’t a video about male rape that wasn’t getting sympathy for male victims or anyone commenting on it in relation to male victims its just her personal account of what happened to her, so why you comment this when it’s not relevant to the content. There are many other videos by male survivors too on being a victim of sexual assault that it would be more appropriate to comment this on. Fact is there is a double standards to male sexual activity and to girl sexual activity. Boys/ men that speak up get listened to and believed more often but are often too embarrassed and afraid to come forward as with many girls/ women. For example you won’t hear what the guy was wearing or what underwear he had on when assaulted like all girls in court.,Mostly male rape/ sexual assault is perpetrated by other males. Kinda hard to give a date rape drug or have a guy so drunk he’s passed out and have sex with him as a female. 1:4/5 women 1:16 male rapes are the stats a lot are unreported because of the embarrassment and fear of not being believed he said / she said. One case I know of where a female school teacher got a lengthy sentence for having sex with students that were all 18 at the time and they claimed was consensual. It came to the attention of the school and authorities because the boys recorded it and showed it around boasting. There are many many double standards out there if you go looking. Unless you were actually female and lived the life of being harassed on a daily basis by males as your walking down the street going about your daily business , or the fear you have walking home at night even if a completely innocent male happens just to be walking behind you, you will probably never really understand. . I personally know a lot of women that have experienced sexual assault/ rape but I know no guy that discuses it or admits they were a victim. It’s not to say it hasn’t happened to any of them but women talk especially about how things make them feel and guys just don’t generally do that openly. There’s also the strength difference between men and women so very hard to push a determined guy off.
🙏❤"Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about." -Marilyn Monroe (stayed in 5 foster homes) 🙏❤"I was victimized, but I've made the choice to not become a victim." -Terry Crews (molested by Hollywood agent)
In order to believe her story of being completely innocent and victimized, one has to believe that (a) she removed her clothing and/or assisted him in removing it, while at the same time (b) being motivated to do so out of the fear of otherwise "offending him". That seems preposterous to me. It is far more believable that she was willing to engage in sexual conduct with him. Yes, by NH state law, she was a few months too young to give legal consent, which is what the case hinged on, since he never used force. But her claiming to have been "victimized" is completely discredited by her behavior during and after the incident. There were no winners and frankly, no "good guys" in this story. Along with Labrie, the school, and her parents, she bears a certain amount of responsibility for her actions and words. And given that 15 (her age at the time) is the *average* age that American teens begin having sex, this is the sort of thing that could transform consensual sexual activity between those participants into life-ruining accusations, if the young woman is so inclined. By all means -- if a young woman (or man) is *forcibly* assaulted (as I suspect that Brett Kavanaugh did to Christine Blasey-Ford), they should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. But in *this* case, it is entirely a matter of what they said happened being at odds. She didn't report it as having been a sexual assault, she never said that she resisted, and there was no forensic evidence that supported her claims, so it was just her claiming that she said "no" three times, versus his claiming that she didn't. Unfortunately, that isn't proof of anything, but the law is a double-standard that privileges the testimony of women over men.
Even if she was naked, you do not get to go all of the way without permission. His intention was made clear to his friend to have sex with freshmen girls. Especially if you are targeting underage girls for sex. Every decent guy I ever encountered knew this to be true. Because only a stupid fool would force himself onto someone hoping she won't cry rape after the fact. She wasn't even a girlfriend. It was never agreed upon that they would have sex. Labrie deserves every punishment he gets.
bricology she was 15. Unable to legally consent. He knew this very well and still ILLEGALLY had sex with her. No matter what else you choose to believe, this is a solid fact. He should have known better and a 15 year old shouldn’t have been put in that position
Men love those double standards though they don’t do anything but contribute to it, they don’t even take a stand against it like everyone else does. So miss me with the BULLSHIT
@@saharasafari4529 excuse me what? Are you a man? Did a man tell you he loves these double standards? Does he represent half of all human population on earth? Why do you think they’re called double standards? Fuck off with this sexism
The girl is very innocent .But the scroundel did a grave and the terrific tyranny to her...this merciless and devilish attack no sensitive person can forget. We all are with you, you are brave and innocent like an angel, ...the law should not spare him. ..sweet, innocent girl go ahead ...May God bless you .
Lmao what? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a lying liar who enjoyed it.
I think it’s terrible and disgusting in what women have to go through. Utter terrible and disgusting. Then when people come forward (women called slut etc) That is disgusting (to many trolls and sick people out here/there. The sick, disgusting people are the people/men who do it.
Svate2012 Get your facts right before you, you decide to be a troll. Your saying (then idiot) a woman gets raped/beating up by a guy. And she wants that, get a life you jerk
I Svate2012 Apologise for being a jerk brain of a idiot and troll. I Svate2012 100% agree with Oliver Wood it’s disgusting that guys/stupid blokes do this to girls, it shows you what cowards us/men are.
@@oliverwood7190 You need some help😂😂 boys have it worse, and femals lie about this so they can get some symphaty so stupid people like you believe in them😂😂the femals also wants it but they can act like they didnt want it later on and then everyone belives the femal😂😂😂😂 im speaking facts and the fact that you get upset because I tell the truth, is not my problem its yours😂😂😂😂
My husband raped me repeatedly for years and I was thinking how dare you disrespect my body, ignoring me crying. He knew damn well I didn’t want him touching me. I felt what she was saying.
Lucky one. for those who dont get my comment, im saying she's lucky because it could have been so much worse, its horrifying to know that there are people who went through worse, if i remember theres a case in my country about a woman who was found dead, strangled, it appears that she was raped by her ex boyfriend and then he choked her with her bare hands, those who dont suffer worse fates are the lucky ones, stay strong everyone
Because they knew and did nothing about it ! Did you listen and read the text on the video ? Either way the school is responsible for your child’s safety while in their care.
@@gillianstapleton8566 Yes but my point is that schools don’t tell the students to do anything and the school saying no isn’t gonna stop anything neither.
@@rosinlapsi Hassen is right😂 we should focus on the real problems, and that is the pain boys suffer on the hands of these femals. The diffrence is femal wants it and boys dont want it
"without acknowledging that what they're doing is wrong, the pain they caused me - taking away my humanity"
Sounds like he was a badass
@@daustin8888 Kinda like what you're trying to be but failing so miserably? Stick to video games incel.
I truly do not understand people that say she is lying! Watch the interviews, read her book, and do some research! She didn't want it to happen she didn't lie, there is forensic evidence! Stop victim shaming and blaming. She is strong, courageous and deserves to be respected and supported. Chessy is amazing so stop hating. Behind her 1000%
Whoever does that, you know, like saying that she is lying and all are just Victim Blaming her.... Be it a man or a woman, whoever does Victim Blaming themselves have criminal instincts and, who knows they may also be criminals or potential criminals in the future.
Victim blamers are to Lazy and stupid to do research! They dont think it could happen to them, but it can!
she is lying
She is lying i mean she is a woman after all😂😂
@@Grexen-bo6zp Yes she is a woman and? just like your mother and sisters.
Very brave young women. As a survivor it takes tremendous courage to speak up.
Victim*
no it doesn’t
@@myself2873 It does. Trauma can really damage someone mentally and emotionally. Some even commit suicide due to this. SA survivors are scared to speak up because some people might laugh about it or people like you saying it doesn’t take much courage to speak up when it does.
😂
@@Grexen-bo6zp What the fuck is wrong with you seriously rape is REAL and lt's not funny something to laugh lt's horrible having CPTSD cause of it
Don't be afraid to FIGHT! All types of harassment revolves around one mental thought: "Anyone will take advantage of the weak or scared."
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DAVID HUYNH, You need to look up the freeze, fight or flee response before making an ignorant comment like that. Military men have frozen in combat, and it is a PRIMITIVE INSTINCT.
@@TURQUOISEEYES no they haven’t only cowards freeze
@@myself2873 Yes they have. You are being deliberately obtuse. Educate yourself. Look up the effects of danger and the brain. Miltary men and women have frozen in combat....especially first time. I bet you dont even know what INSTINCT means!
But boys have it worse
These frat boy traditions make me never want to be alone with a guy outside my family. What's sad is my uncle who is the best person I trust most in this world is confused why I'm not chasing after boys. He needs to realise we're no longer in his lovey dovey days of beach hippies jamming to sum 41
Amens. Stop these debaucheries... insanities...
Then start approaching guys you like instead of settling for what comes to you, cuz let me tell you most of the guys who just cold approach you, have approached many other girls so they have options.
80% of men are almost invisible to women cuz y'all only want the top, most attractive guys. So think about the 15 decent guys you've friend-zoned and pursue the one, prove yourself to be as worthy girlfriend and split the bill cuz a high quality man won't chase an average girl if she doesn't show commitment from the start
Emanuli FACTS 100% facts
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I see no facts
Lmao guys deserve to choose who they want to mate with
“The doors in the dorms don’t have locks.” WTF?That’s messed up.
I have so so so much respect for every woman who has been through the absolute horror or rape. And especially those who have the immense courage and bravery to report them, knowing it will involve having to face them in court and potentially, them not being convicted. I was raped and the two men who did it are still at large because I do not have the courage to report him. SO many women are threatened, as I was and it is just horrific in every way
Pray to God to give you the courage. I was date raped as well. God will lead
I hope you can find some peace and happiness in your life. You may not agree with this but i feel that every act is recorded on some level and every effect of those acts are also recorded...the way a sponge soaks up water, all the emotional trauma is soaked up by whatever force controls this universe, some call it God. And the scales of justice have to be balanced, whether in this life or the next. There are universal laws and karmic laws. This is not just some new age crap, this has been present and part of the beliefs in holy books and ancient cultures for thousands of years. People who have died and been brought back have stated that this is the way it is. Past life therapy also shows this. The Dalai Lama, the spiritual leader of the Tibetan people, who doesn't really believe in God, said that he felt the purpose of every human being is to try and live a happy life, no matter what suffering they experience. Easy to say i know but very very hard when faced with such trauma as you experienced. I am a man and i was assaulted more than once in the street, and on one occasion someone called the police and i also did not go through with pressing charges even though what happened to me was very slight compared with your experience. I don't believe it's always a lack of courage, i think many just prefer to try and move on rather than be traumatised all over again in court. But i hope you can find your way to some happiness in your life. God bless you
@@pamelagunn234 amen
And they named the school after a saint?!
Blasphemed cuz of them...gg...
this made me cry because I went threw the same thing but I know how to now stand up for myself
Really
*through
@@aspiknf omg does it matter🙄
Olivia Alston sorry to hear that
Be Brave Girl!!! Thts the spirit !!!!!
She's not lying can ppl please stop saying that!
Another car crash you tube comments section here and this girl was 15 when it happened. People need to know that anytime, it's not OK to rape or sexually assault someone because they agree to meet you for a date or take their clothes off. Just because the girl agrees to meet for a date and would like to have sex, it's not an invitation for the guy to do whatever he wants & completely take advantage. There is the same toxic view about bullying, that victims are somehow to blame. Amazing that people still have these ideas - and it's women as well as men saying it in this comments section.
As a survivor myself it took me 3 years to fight back I was 14 years old when it happened I wasn’t able to fight back until I was 17 .. it was super scary and wasn’t easy .,
the opening 36 seconds says it all
Very strong young lady for what she is doing......I am a survivor of two rapes one in 1998 when I was 4 and one in 2019 and I'm just now finding the courage to break the silence.
So sorry this happened to you.
I am so proud of you to keep going! Many hugs ❤️
Jesus Christ is with us all, he understands all pain
Amen 🙏🏾
Debatable
@@saraicg_9319 why should it be debatable? His suffering on the cross was the penalty for this sin infested human race; and only through Him can we make the transformation in our lives.
The greatest gift God gave the human race is the "freedom of choice" every time we violate that freedom we suffer the consequence.
@@saraicg_9319 true. I don’t believe in Jesus but I somewhat support it
Amen
I've never felt so understood as I did watching this.
A huge respect to this women, not everyone has the courage to speak, I wish i did.
I was abused by my mother's boyfriend thrice. He did it for the first time on my birthday, i stayed silent. I stayed silent every time, i still don't have the courage to speak up about it to my mother. I cry to sleep thinking about it nearly every night. My mom and him are still together. I try this avoid him but end up getting scolded by my mom for "not being nice". I hate him so much at this point. When I'm around him, he gives my creepy looks and threatens me often. He didn't touch me again tho.
It's been two years that happened and I'm 13 now. I feel better, it's the first time I've opened up this to anyone.
If you're a sexual abuse survivor too, please don't end up like me! I believe in you and i love you
So sorry you had to go through that
No means no. It does not mean Yes. If you got raped even if it's a long time ago. Let them pay for it. If not prison for them sue them for all they have.
Dudes, your pricks are weapons if the Lady doesn’t want it, and if you hurt her with your weapon expect to be punished because you will sure as Hell deserve to be
femal likes to lie about that they dont want it but they do want it. That is the diffrence between femal and boys. Femal wants this and boys dont want this. This is why boys have it worse
Then the women should put their weapons away then.
Thank you so much for sharing. Men who take advantage of people are proving wrong things.
There is no shame to share and be transparent. This is my heart, pretty sure you guys will agree. Family, friends, teachers, doctors, police, etc are out there to help.
She is lying like all femals, femals want this. We should focus on boys more who are victims they don’t want this, but femals can lie after they enjoyed it
I stand by her 100%
she is lying tho
boys have it worse
@@Grexen-bo6zp Both men and women can be victims of, and are subjected to, sexual violence. Why do you think she’s lying? I’m curious. I stand with anyone who says they’ve been assaulted or abused, because I’d rather accidentally believe a potential liar than I would purposely tell a real victim/survivor that their story is false and they’re lying. I know first hand the pain that comes from being disbelieved by those closest to you. So I personally feel more comfortable believing people; it tends to do less harm overall.
@@magicinthemundane9527 Ignore him. he's an idiot throwing hate for no reason he probably have personal problems l guess..... 🤦♂️
This woman's strength ❤❤❤❤❤
They always refuse to acknowledge the damage they've done to their victims
I have been there
I froze too
I froze too
Everyone is asking why I didn't beat him
I was shocked he touched me. I just stood there and opened my mouth
In my country they have a death penalty for Rape
We need to change the justice system for sexual assault victims
Lmao what? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a liar who enjoyed it.
@@smortboi2374 they never said JUST female rape victims, they said “sexual assault victims” which means ALL, so idk where you got that, and they never said that girls can’t rape, they can. And do some damn research, read her book, watch her interviews, and she said no, and he just kept going
@@alinagolovach7125 But boys have it worse
The diffrence is that femal wants this
And we need to change it so that they focus more on boys that are victims than femals because femals lies about it
I don’t get how people say she’s lying, there’s so much evidence against him. She’s a strong person and as a fellow survivor, we deserve to be believed.
I was viciously raped in a foreign country by a man that was much much older then me. I was in the military and unfortunately got a bad ride. Instead of taking me to the base he took me out in the country and raped me. It happened 43 years ago and I will never ever forget his accent!
Who gives videos like this brave young ladies testimony of a sexual assault she suffered as a child a thumbs down 🙄! What mind set are they 👀 👈🏼
she’s lying
@@myself2873 Exactly
Btw boys have it worse
Its hard to be assulted with someone you trust you dont know how to feel or react you are really brave
Poor thing. The amount of hate she got was so bad
Gotta disagree on one point--women/girls totally need to learn self-defense. One female cage fighter managed to fight off her attacker. Relying on others to behave themselves is a lost cause. I know.
My court date is 7/8. Take them to civil court for $ damages.
Sorry to hear some poor sap has to pay you damages for using your body.
@@MrCODEmaster00 ??????
She said “ no no dont! dont stop”
Why are they so unclear what they mean about sexual assault. Were they kissing and he grabbed her ass and she said no, or did he beat her up or try to rape her??? it's extremely unclear and the definition of sexual assault seems to be extremely broad, so being unclear about what happened takes away from the severity of the issue.
Causs sexual assault is broad term; forcible sexual contact with someone without their consent. It refers to various types of sexual assault. For example, forced penetration with genitals, fingers, foreign objects, or groping, rubbing, forced oral, forced handjob, etc. There’s many different types of sexual assault. Sure, some may be “less” traumatizing than others for certain people but regardless it’s still very traumatic. I don’t see why you believe that the broad term sexual assault makes the issue less serious?? That’s like saying “I don’t like the term Murder cause it’s too broad and removes the severity of the issue”. Sure, If I had to choose between being tortured then killed or being killed right away I would pick the 2nd. If I had to choose between being murdered by a bullet to the brain or murdered by choked to death, I would prefer to be shot in the brain, but at the end it doesn’t matter, it’s still murder😂. It’s still serious. It shouldn’t remove THAT MUCH severity of the issue because some ppl don’t wanna go into little details about their traumatic event.
I was raped when I was severely drunk and told the guy no multiple times and was too weak to physically stop him. That was my “first time”. Then, 1 year later I was on a date with a different guy who forced me to perform oral on him. Although both situations have left a lot of scars, they left scars in different ways. The first rape ruined the way I viewed sex. But the 2nd sexual assault really scared me because I was completely sober and conscious, so I can still remember the fear I felt. If I could get justice, I would want both of those men to be punished equally. Because both assaults were very traumatizing. My 2nd assault was not “less severe” because it was oral and not penetration as some people might assume. They were equally traumatizing to me.
it happened to me last night but i am completely numb to any pain. I grew up in an abusive household so I guess I have became numb to a lot of painful things
You grew to like it probably like most femals
A little payback would not hurt for all the Bosniak women and young girls that were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and that Srebrenica Genocide. I do not have anything against American and Serbian girls.
@@Grexen-bo6zp yea man they grow to like it
I'm so sorry you went through that and experienced all that. I just want you to know that Jesus Christ loves you. Try talking to him in prayer, he hears you and cares. He is the one who delivers us from all of our afflictions.
How do you help a friend who's been a victim multiple times through out the years and is reluctant to seek help? She spends all her time either at home or doing inconsistent work and gets anxiety around others, does drugs to cope but claims to have stopped. Which looks like the case, when she did drugs she was happy but now always depressed.
A little payback would not hurt for all the Bosniak women and young girls that were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and that Srebrenica Genocide. I do not have anything against American and Serbian girls.
also, i should add, it takes a while to get into the "online" portal. i used to go there, about two or three years ago. and could chat with someone usually within half an hour. unfortunately, however, the number of people being assaulted in today's society is sky-rocketing...
i tried to go on a few days ago, and after waiting 2 hours, there were still "4" people "ahead of me"/waiting to chat with a trained sexual assault...person. try to be patient, and remember, you are NEVER alone
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 wtf does that have to do w literally anything the original post wrote about..!?? Gtfo of here w all that crap
Tell her that you're proud of her, and mean it. I haven't heard "I'm proud of you." in so long and I cry everyday because I feel like my rape ruined me. A little goes a long way.
I also stay at home all the time and have no friends because I can't trust people anymore. Maybe one day ask if she wants her favorite food and bring it over to her so she doesn't have to get out.
I went through something similar in 2020 to make it worse I got pregnant from it my son is a year and 5 months now we have a protection order to keep us safe and we're doing better everyday
Lmao “what he has taken from me” and what exactly would that be hm?
Exactly lol he didn’t do nothing
Why in the fuck didnt the doors have locks on them?!
When you saw the background in the thumbnail who else thought of the TV show Jessie? 🤣🤣
Makes me really mad!!! 😡
I need advice. I know someone who has assaulted some people but I don't know how to report him. Because one, the victims don't want to talk. I don't know because they are given money or he is a relative or what. I am very disturbed about this. Because I really wanted justice to be found.
Which country...?? Can you please tell
@@SanSan-vz2fd Kenya
@@gladysangelakamau8760 can you make an anonymous report to authorities in your area?
@@gladysangelakamau8760 However you know about what's happened that's your evidence right there call the police, try to schedule a meeting with the victims
Brave young lady....
Damn... She PISSED!... (It's expected tho) but damn....
I don't blame her
But getting triggered by a joke.😱
Stuart Brown you think it was a time to joke
@@saharasafari4529 Considering his comment was over a year later....
Yeah
Stuart Brown it’s called perspective.
any assault should be felony
No. Touching is not felony.
I read the book, remarkable person!
She is a liar, and by the way boys have it worse
I’m listening to it on Audible now.
Her parents abandoned her by dumping her in a boarding school...
We have a right to a safe education every child does
Women is *not* an *OBJECT*
Boys are not objects either and they have it worse then femals who wants this and lies about it
She is strong person amen to everything she said 100 truth
100 truth? she is lying😂😂 just like femals do they can lie afterwards but during it they enjoyed lmao😂 boys have it way worse then femal because boys dont want this as opposed to femal who wants this
"Very Lucky" no. You weren't lucky. You had justice, not luck. Because even if you lied you would've won.
I still feel for this girl don't get me wrong. I just don't like their word choice.
She was lucky the trial was held in Merrimack County. Had the rape occured in the next county over, the perp would have gotten away with this crap.
It makes me feel so angry that someone could lie about rape. I've personally seen just how much it can effect both the person accused and actual victims
Let's dismantle rape culture
If course it isn’t
Yes Sister you are right but people don't care about your feelings so it's important to learn Self Defense everyday.Learn Self Defense everyday from a good instructor Learn Krav Maga. I have sympathy and respect for you. God bless you.
God bless you for your family
God bless you
Rape is a capital crime in the eyes of The Almighty Yah whoever commit such crime will pay the ultimate Price.
Please be quiet. Let me hear their stories. And now I am not a rape victim
I hear you.
They repeat everything
They take over and possess everything they can, life is a game to them.
No my brother was a real Casanova. He would never hurt a woman
This is boring like tell ur story allready
i mean she is lying so her story is false😂
Peace & Life Everlasting with Jesus ❤️
Why didn't she call the police first?
they think no one would believe her
Its very common to go into shock and denial
@@pamelagunn234 It's also very common to call the police after a seriouse crime.
Is this a sorority thing? Please be quiet Kim Kardashian. We usually never ask victims to take the stand.
This happen right before my rape happened in July of 2014.. I was just going into my sophomore year of high school.
I hope you learned to become more humble after that
@Mr Bumpo aka Mr B Exactly, just admit that this is what you're good for and learn your place
@Mr Bumpo aka Mr B exactly. That's there role
A little payback would not hurt for all the Bosniak women and young girls that were raped in the most brutal ways in Bosnia and that Srebrenica Genocide. I do not have anything against American and Serbian girls.
It's crazy how easily people believe women but dismiss men especially in these circumstances. He was found not guilty of rape. Which means all of the information and evidence that we the public have not seen was reviewed and clear enough to determine he wasn't guilty.
Well is he isn’t going out of his to defend himself that’s his fault. Stop blaming the public and start blaming men for not taking a stand
Can I just remind people that A. "not guilty" isn't the same as "innocent" and B. Only 2-8% of all rape reports are false. Less than half of all rapes are reported, largely because people are scared of not being believed.
If someone said they'd been robbed, you'd immediately believe them. Why should it be any different for sexual assault victims
@@LucyInk121 thats a huge percentage ok? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a lying liar who enjoyed it.
He was found guilty, but was just not charged with a felony
Exactly ur right. All these femal are liers and they wanted it, but boys have it worse since they dont want this
I think if we educated boys nd girls separately from the standard 1 ...this type of accident may not will not happened in school nd collage
Dominoes still won't deliver to our neighborhood. I wonder why?
Shock an immune response
This is fucked up. You can’t convince someone by word with no evidence
Would any man deny a woman that has been raped? That belly is valuable. And women walk around tic- tokin wit lil shorts and shit.. Aye look. Chilll wit that. For real.
I'd like to hear the other side of the story.
Zero evidence and she absolutely seems like she's lying. By the way you should not say she WAS sexually assaulted by the kid because it was alleged and he was not found guilty of it.
He WAS found guilty. He just didn’t get charged with a felony. Just to add my point of view (not that you care), I totally believe it. The « senior salute » is very real. I went to a very similar boarding school, and it was talked about very often at my school. It was all about taking advantage of freshmen at St Paul’s.
@@elizabethpappas6802 he was not found guilty of rape
@@elizabethpappas6802 lmao what? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a lying liar who enjoyed it.
@@ella12626 you know what? Just search up this shit yourself. I’m tired
@@ella12626 do you are have blindness
I was watching pokemon videos how the fuck did I end up here
So fair
Yeah! There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and these ppl are worried about a liar who enjoyed it.
@@smortboi2374 she ISNT a liar, and she DIDNT enjoy it
Sad I sit all alone no girl will look our like I. But yet I'd never rape a girl our hurt any girl in any way I got god that's enough i decided to say I want to watch my money pile up but I love women I'd never force a girl to like me love me our rape her no it not your fault no is no not yes you speaking allows more girls to be brave heal be strong
I understand her pain but I need to say, people think all men are bad when women do the same things and are just as bad. And I’m not saying this towards the video that I’m commenting on I’m just saying in general
Any victim no matter what age or sex should be heard. This wasn’t a video about male rape that wasn’t getting sympathy for male victims or anyone commenting on it in relation to male victims its just her personal account of what happened to her, so why you comment this when it’s not relevant to the content. There are many other videos by male survivors too on being a victim of sexual assault that it would be more appropriate to comment this on. Fact is there is a double standards to male sexual activity and to girl sexual activity. Boys/ men that speak up get listened to and believed more often but are often too embarrassed and afraid to come forward as with many girls/ women. For example you won’t hear what the guy was wearing or what underwear he had on when assaulted like all girls in court.,Mostly male rape/ sexual assault is perpetrated by other males. Kinda hard to give a date rape drug or have a guy so drunk he’s passed out and have sex with him as a female. 1:4/5 women 1:16 male rapes are the stats a lot are unreported because of the embarrassment and fear of not being believed he said / she said. One case I know of where a female school teacher got a lengthy sentence for having sex with students that were all 18 at the time and they claimed was consensual. It came to the attention of the school and authorities because the boys recorded it and showed it around boasting. There are many many double standards out there if you go looking. Unless you were actually female and lived the life of being harassed on a daily basis by males as your walking down the street going about your daily business , or the fear you have walking home at night even if a completely innocent male happens just to be walking behind you, you will probably never really understand. . I personally know a lot of women that have experienced sexual assault/ rape but I know no guy that discuses it or admits they were a victim. It’s not to say it hasn’t happened to any of them but women talk especially about how things make them feel and guys just don’t generally do that openly. There’s also the strength difference between men and women so very hard to push a determined guy off.
@@gillianstapleton8566 no I get that I’m not talking about the video itself I’m talking about in general
@@gillianstapleton8566 I had to edit my thing because I feel like the way I said it at first wasn’t what I meant
Same girl it happened to me he try to kill me
Same. I was almost strangled to death.
why are both of yall lying lol😂😂
See it not fair for girls
they way her mother is holding her hand is so abnormal if we compare to India
🙏❤"Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about." -Marilyn Monroe (stayed in 5 foster homes)
🙏❤"I was victimized, but I've made the choice to not become a victim." -Terry Crews (molested by Hollywood agent)
Ummmm.... my dad has flashbacks from Vietnam. So sometimes you have to remain sane by cookie crumbs
Lol 😂
In order to believe her story of being completely innocent and victimized, one has to believe that (a) she removed her clothing and/or assisted him in removing it, while at the same time (b) being motivated to do so out of the fear of otherwise "offending him". That seems preposterous to me. It is far more believable that she was willing to engage in sexual conduct with him. Yes, by NH state law, she was a few months too young to give legal consent, which is what the case hinged on, since he never used force. But her claiming to have been "victimized" is completely discredited by her behavior during and after the incident. There were no winners and frankly, no "good guys" in this story. Along with Labrie, the school, and her parents, she bears a certain amount of responsibility for her actions and words. And given that 15 (her age at the time) is the *average* age that American teens begin having sex, this is the sort of thing that could transform consensual sexual activity between those participants into life-ruining accusations, if the young woman is so inclined.
By all means -- if a young woman (or man) is *forcibly* assaulted (as I suspect that Brett Kavanaugh did to Christine Blasey-Ford), they should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. But in *this* case, it is entirely a matter of what they said happened being at odds. She didn't report it as having been a sexual assault, she never said that she resisted, and there was no forensic evidence that supported her claims, so it was just her claiming that she said "no" three times, versus his claiming that she didn't. Unfortunately, that isn't proof of anything, but the law is a double-standard that privileges the testimony of women over men.
Even if she was naked, you do not get to go all of the way without permission. His intention was made clear to his friend to have sex with freshmen girls. Especially if you are targeting underage girls for sex. Every decent guy I ever encountered knew this to be true. Because only a stupid fool would force himself onto someone hoping she won't cry rape after the fact. She wasn't even a girlfriend. It was never agreed upon that they would have sex. Labrie deserves every punishment he gets.
bricology she was 15. Unable to legally consent. He knew this very well and still ILLEGALLY had sex with her. No matter what else you choose to believe, this is a solid fact. He should have known better and a 15 year old shouldn’t have been put in that position
Men love those double standards though they don’t do anything but contribute to it, they don’t even take a stand against it like everyone else does. So miss me with the BULLSHIT
Agreed.
@@saharasafari4529 excuse me what? Are you a man? Did a man tell you he loves these double standards? Does he represent half of all human population on earth? Why do you think they’re called double standards? Fuck off with this sexism
Will Chessy Prout ever have a boyfriend date or stay single ?
No daughter of mine would "freeze" and allow someone to take off their clothes and engage in sexual intercourse, and then later call it rape.
God and Jesus loves you all!!! Jesus died on the cross for you all!!! Jesus is risen!!! Jesus is love!!!
The girl is very innocent .But the scroundel did a grave and the terrific tyranny to her...this merciless and devilish attack no sensitive person can forget. We all are with you, you are brave and innocent like an angel, ...the law should not spare him. ..sweet, innocent girl go ahead ...May God bless you
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Lmao what? There are countless male rape victims out there paying child support to women who got pregnant from the very act of rape and youre worried about a lying liar who enjoyed it.
@@smortboi2374
Fuck off
@@smortboi2374 Exactly
@@mindlight1189 triggered femal😂😂
@@Grexen-bo6zp
Mad male
Roosevelt ?
Do ppl try to fight when they getting raped or do they just lay there and say no
of course they fight back
@@angelacampuzano7177 mmmm... I think some do but I’ve heard ppl say they just lay there cuz they were scared
@@scottlynnwilliams7868 yes and in some cases they do
@@angelacampuzano7177 I don’t understand why tho...
@@scottlynnwilliams7868 because their life can be on their
hands if they do not proceed in doing the act
I think it’s terrible and disgusting in what women have to go through.
Utter terrible and disgusting.
Then when people come forward (women called slut etc)
That is disgusting (to many trolls and sick people out here/there.
The sick, disgusting people are the people/men who do it.
boys have it worse then femal, the diffrence is femal wants this and boys dont want this
Svate2012
Get your facts right before you, you decide to be a troll.
Your saying (then idiot) a woman gets raped/beating up by a guy.
And she wants that, get a life you jerk
I Svate2012
Apologise for being a jerk brain of a idiot and troll.
I Svate2012 100% agree with Oliver Wood it’s disgusting that guys/stupid blokes do this to girls, it shows you what cowards us/men are.
@@oliverwood7190 You need some help😂😂 boys have it worse, and femals lie about this so they can get some symphaty so stupid people like you believe in them😂😂the femals also wants it but they can act like they didnt want it later on and then everyone belives the femal😂😂😂😂 im speaking facts and the fact that you get upset because I tell the truth, is not my problem its yours😂😂😂😂
She probably teasing him. Women do that all the time.
Your not wrong man. He probably thought she was teasing
I do could this you have hope me to go with all
Lol she triggered
Well I am a loner. I turned out fine
My husband raped me repeatedly for years and I was thinking how dare you disrespect my body, ignoring me crying. He knew damn well I didn’t want him touching me. I felt what she was saying.
you grew to like it like every femal😂😂 boys have it worse we should focus on them not femals like you
Im sorry that happened to you i hope you feel better now!
Lucky one.
for those who dont get my comment, im saying she's lucky because it could have been so much worse, its horrifying to know that there are people who went through worse, if i remember theres a case in my country about a woman who was found dead, strangled, it appears that she was raped by her ex boyfriend and then he choked her with her bare hands, those who dont suffer worse fates are the lucky ones, stay strong everyone
I just wanna know why they sued the school for what the students did
Because they knew and did nothing about it ! Did you listen and read the text on the video ? Either way the school is responsible for your child’s safety while in their care.
@@gillianstapleton8566 Yes but my point is that schools don’t tell the students to do anything and the school saying no isn’t gonna stop anything neither.
@@zeuszo_o1593 is that school american or Japanese ??
Nancy Pelosi 💗 Franklin Delano Roosevelt D'Alesandro
Drama Queen alert
Lmao tf is wrong with you
@@rosinlapsi Hassen is right😂 we should focus on the real problems, and that is the pain boys suffer on the hands of these femals. The diffrence is femal wants it and boys dont want it
@@Grexen-bo6zp god I hope you're a child, cause if you're a fully grown adult I am deeply disappointed
@@rosinlapsi at least im not into bronies😂😂😂 looking at yr page makes every1 wanna puke😂
@@rosinlapsi femal can lie afterward but during it they enjoy, unlike boys who dont want this and femal want this
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