Bread Lover omg I am soo sorry the world is full of evil and hate but you have to be strong and powerful in order to fight them remember You are STRONG and POWERFULL and you are CAPABLE OF DOING A LOT IN LIFE ❤️❤️❤️
Bread Lover it’s okay to be scared but don’t let the fear stop you from living your life I know an extremely traumatizing event occurred in your life but now you have to learn to understand that you have a life that you need to enjoy and don’t let negativity stop it you should try to meditate and I have an anxiety around people and I understand but you need to fight your fears I know it’s hard but take little steps towards fighting your fears do something that make you feel comfortable I don’t know you but I just feel heart broken that you were sexually assaulted at 13 like I am 13 right now and I can’t believe some piece of shit ruined your entire life I am so sorry
something that just broke my heart is the comment section. too many people have been victims of this disgusting act. Boy or girl Woman or man *no means no*
around a year ago, my moms boyfriend started living with us and every night when i was asleep he would touch me. they broke up and awhile after i finally told my mom. she reported it to the police but they did nothing about it. to this day i'm still traumatized by it but i appreciate you making this video cuz it really helped me
NightFall Animates it’s true, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone... except sometimes I wish that they could maybe go through the same pain to see what it’s like.. 💖
These comments are so extremely saddening. I have experienced a mild form of SA but it’s so comforting knowing that there are actually people who I can relate to!!! Honestly this is so amazing
You're extremely lucky because a lot of girls and women go through this. I got schocked, when I hear of someone who hasn't because it's rare. I'm glad you got lucky.
"stop protecting your daughters, but, educate your sons." for all the people, who have sadly gone through this, just remember that do not hesitate in telling what happened to the one who you really trust. you are not alone. you are not one to get blamed, you are a survivor. #NomeansNo
@@snitchzerboo We know that but it isnt about men right now, its about women. We care for both men & women but its just the fact that men are likely to perform sexual abuse more then women.
this comment section has me in tears.. as an 18 yeard old girl I feel so blessed for not having experienced anything other than verbal harassment and honestly, as a girl, I can't help but think when will the time come that ill be harassed in a physical way and how will I react to it.
I was 7 and later on 13 and the people who touched me were trusted people and I’m now 17 and wish I could have done anything. But I was a child...as long as you are aware, and I am now aware, we have the right to protect ourselves. I carry a knife or pepper spray with me at all times now. I have a bat next to my bed. Girl get urself a paintball gun!!
sharo xx hey I think I have a way we can all help I think if we all get together and protest against sexual assault and tell people as soon as we feel comfortable then every boy/girl who raped someone can get arrested or whatever they do for that kind of stuff but we can all help out in our own ways (don’t take this offense)
Hey. I was sexually assaulted at 11 years old and please let me tell you, do something about it. Don't wait, don't think, don't doubt, scream and ask for help. Or else you'll regret it for the rest of your life and remember the same scene over and over again. I hope it never happens to you and that you grow happy like you deserve, but if anything ever happens, please remember what i told you.
This is my story So a few years ago, I was sexually abused by my cousin. He would touch me in places that were uncomfortable for me. One night when I was spending the night at my grandma's house, he woke me up so we could play on his iPad. I was sitting there and he started to touch me. One day he was spending the night at my house and I was alone with him watching a movie, Then he got on top of me, I told him to stop but he kept going. My mom came in the room and saw him and she quickly got my dad. I went to therapy and the therapist asked what he did to me, I said I didn't want to say but she coaxed me gentally to tell her, I broke into tears. I was so broken and depressed because I thought I would get in trouble, but then I just let it all out. This is me, and I'm a survivor ✊
I have depression,anxiety,PTSD,social anxiety, and have to go to therapy. Basically your story is the same as mine, but mine lasted for 30min straight.sorry for giving to much info I’m just saying I understand what you going through and stay strong
This comment section has me broken, I'm so sorry y'all had to deal with this. The world can be so dark and cruel but y'all survived and I bet its scarring but its over and I'm so proud of how strong y'all are, people are sick.
Hannah Williams and in this situation a lot of people lie for attention it is for to lie for a situation like this cause it’s not good to lie about something this is
that feeling when you're having good time on UA-cam and this pops out and you remember all the world's problems and you're not having a good time anymore.
Guys , reading these comments just broke my heart I just wanna say stay strong everyone and just remember that the person who did dirty to you is always goona burn in hell god is always watching their kids. Stay strong ❤️
i always thought “ how would u just let someone do that to u? why wouldn’t u just say no and walk away?” until it happened to me. even if u say no it doesn’t mean that they r gonna stop. it’s not ur fault!
This is what happened to me: So I was a pretty normal child you know, having fun, playing, running around! But this changed my childhood. I was only 9 back then, I lived with my parents, my brother, cousin and grandparents! Everything was normal until one day, my brother who was 16 and the most popular at school, told me to come in his room. Once I stepped foot in that room, he shut the door behind me, locking it. I thought he was gonna put up a private conversation so I sat on his bed. Then he told me “we are going to have so much fun”. Then me and himself, he started to strip me and himself. I was confused and asked what he was doing then, it happened. He raped me. He was so rough that I screamed for help! But, no one was home except for me and my brother. He then started touching me. I told him to stop but he didn’t! After that was finished he told me to never tell this to anyone otherwise I will be doomed. One day when he went out with his friends, I went to Mum in the kitchen and told her about it. She was upset and worried for me and decided to call the police. Soon he got home and the police arrested him. I’m 15 now and he is still in prison because we found out that the reason why he was out with his friends is because he went to murder someone. I’m still traumatised by what happened. Thanks for reading my story and here’s some advice, if you are being held hostage or got raped like me, never keep quiet! Make sure to tell someone you trust so they can help you! I hope you all will be safe!
I mean u are really brave if I would be In That situation I would never be brave enough to tell my mom so... yeah you are really brave!!❤️ ( sorry for my English I’m from different country)
Why'd you start with saying guys you male cisgederphobe. Also no does not always mean no. It's about context in their voice. No stop it while smililing and laughing us not the same as no screaming and crying. Niggas need to learn context clues for real.
@@6pathsa.e903 first part is a joke I even made up a word if it wasn't already obvious. But it is annoying how men are always stated as the initial culprit when discussing sexual assualt even with no evidence #believeallwomen
Thank you: Remember #NoMeansNo No means no No doesn't mean MAYBE No doesn't mean YES No means NO! :) You are untouched you will stay untouched and you are a survivor
I'm a boy and i'm so sorry that girls and boys have to go through that. I just don't understand why anyone would be such a b*tch and do that and be such a, such a, I can't think of such a word because it's so evil. I would never do such a thing, my mama raised me right. I'm so sorry for anyone boy or girl has to be sexually assaulted by such a creep. And to everyone who thinks this is fake or unreal, even if it's not this kind of stuff happens. So just be aware of your surroundings. please. If you took the time to read this comment i greatly appreciate it. Thank you. -Joey
Its guys like you that are cherished. You are loved and the girl who spends the rest of her life with you will be so incredibly lucky. Thankful some guys still have respect for girls. Thank you so much.
Joey Drennan i love this, i have so much respect for you. your personality and mentality trumps thousands of boys and men who are sick and perverted. this comment can truly make a difference in so many people's lives. we need more people like you.
I was attacked by a family friend in the night when I was 11 and all I can remember is his figure coming through the dark doorway. I'm now 15 and I can't sleep unless the door is shut I have anxiety around all men and I am uncomfortable sleeping at relatives houses. I don't trust my Dad or any man now I wear baggy clothes and I hate the way my body has developed. I have a fear of intimacy and all men and when I opened up about it to my family I was invalidated and brushed off I feel so alone.
purple paint we are a family we were made by 1 person Jesus we were made by him that’s why were family even if one kills each other were still family and we will forever not blood related
I am so sad.... I was reading the comments, and it never hit me that this most likely hapens every day. I am sooo sorry for all of you out there who has been asssaulted.
She's beautiful inside and out. Telling her story helps so many others including herself. Keep your head up and know that you've made it thru 100% of your bad days.
When I was six years old I was at the playground with my friend. A highschooler and his two friends went up to me and asked "Do you know what sex is?" As a curius six year old I had no idea and he said he would like to show me what it is. He said it was a secret so I had to come with him. So I went with him. My friend didnt feel like coming so i went alone. We went to the basement in some apartment complex. There they argured who would "show me" first. But the time went and I had little paitience so I went back to my friend. I didnt understand then but now I understand how lucky I was to escape. People are sick.
it's so disturbing to see the number of people telling their stories about how they were abused as a KID, it's even more terrifying to see how many of the rapists were of the same family as the victim. I'm really scared for me and my sisters. God bless everyone who's been through this and give hope to those who are going through hard times and I really hope this stops, no one especially as a kid should have to go through such a thing. edit: thanks for so many likes, I've never had so many and wasn't expecting or looking forward to likes for this comment because this was just me rage typing in the moment, but I'm glad people are standing up for themselves and others. More power to you guys
im a kid and i go to the park alone nothing happends but i still think there will be something there i look every were just in case we life in a very peaceful place tho :)
To all the victims of sexual assault: I’m praying for you! Don’t let this hold you back because you are scared. Things like this are traumatic, but you can get through it. I believe in you!
this needs more replies i bet every victim who read this comment, appreciated it, even i thank you even though im not a victim of this type of stuff you could be saving lives just by those words, so thank you to you, and everyone else, commenting kind things for the victims of sexual assault
I was almost raped 2 TIMES My mother told me to stop overreacting. She said it my fault and for the longest time, I thought it was. It was my fault I wore such clothes. It was my fault I answered that damn door. It was my fault I didn't say anything. It was my fault i didn't fight back. It was my fault....... That I got sexually assaulted I hope nothing happens to other people either, us women deserve better, were not toys labeled "play with us,hurt us, we don't have any right to tell a soul"
Nothing is ur fault. It was ur moms and that person. Everything is an accident. People wish that time can go back so they can change it. People regret things. But you have to keep moving forward. That is the way life works. But do something about it or it will have a bad outcome.
I am shaking after reading the comments on here, i haven't gone through sexual assault and just reading these are giving me goosebumps. I am 14 and nothing like this has ever happened to me. I am beyond grateful but reading this makes me imagine that would i do if someone ever does that to me? The people who've gone through this are so strong. I respect all of you so much. I hope the cases of sexual assault decrease. Sending you love.
its horrible. it happened to me when i was 12 and onwards. the worst thing is you cant do anything about it, theyre usually bigger and stronger than you,and ur frozen in fear. your heart drops and you just have a mind blank jusst trying to process whats going on. its one of the worst experiences ive had
Nice that it never happened with you. It happened with me when I was 7 and I didn't know how to react. So it mostly happen when we're innocent and by our close ones as for me it was my uncle.
I disliked because she made it seem like the police didn't want to help her on purpose. there is a reason the case was dropped and that is because there isn't enough evidence. also because she made it seem like only girls get raped. Just feminist propaganda. I see 3rd wave feminism, I dislike.
AlexBrokeIt guys also get raped and feminists say that they don't want us to push our political beliefs on them but what are feminists doing when the protest
i watched this few years ago and i had no clue what was going on in this video because i was like 11 but now that i’m 15 this year and more educated on these kinds of topic all i have to say is thank you Eva for making this video and i’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m sure this video helped so many people get through their trauma and also educated lots of people who aren’t too aware of this serious topic.
This is probably one of the most saddest Comment sections I've ever seen :(( Hope that those who have gone through similar Situations to Eva are well and safe x
Around a month ago a few boys got me blackout drunk at a party in a really sketchy suburb, I was drunk to the point I couldn't process anything, couldn't fight and I had no strength. The three boys carried me to the nearby woods as it was a sketchy park party and tore all my clothes off and they all raped me. I don't want to get in much detail but all I remember was myself screaming and crying. A week later I finally found the courage to tell what I thought was a close friend. Two days later at school all I got was dirty stares and could feel and see, whispers about me and eyes looking at me. My 'friend' had spread it around the whole school, it even reached up to grade 12 (I'm in grade 9). I was called a slut and I had 'no self respect' I was treated like a scum, and people told me that I probably enjoyed it. A week later I tried to kill myself and went into a coma for a few days. I'm currently in and out of hospital, have counselling nearly everyday and can't go to school. #NoMeansNo
I really pray and hope that you can recover from this! It makes me sick to hear that not only were you raped but that the people in your school blamed you? THE VICTIM !! It is not your fault! You're incredibly strong and the fact that you are still alive with all this burden proves that.I'm sure it will get better and i hope from all my heart that it will.
This isn't victim blaming and I 100% feel for you... but this is a prime example why young people shouldn't drink, you're too inexperienced too young and it's extremely dangerous... please wait until you're older and wiser, with a better world view, it's just not safe otherwise.
Gia Anahera...i feel so bad for you..i wish you never would've told your friend and shared the matter with someone more close like your parents and because they are the ones who really care and are always there in life..😞
I’m 14. One year ago I got into a relationship and he sexually assaulted and abused me. I hated that I put myself in that situation but I’m glad that I’ve started to feel better. Thank you!
I was in the same situation. Days before he broke up with me he touched me and undressed me and stuff. A few days later he says to me that he hasnt liked me in weeks. At which I come to the conclusion he sexually used me. The first time he touched me I tried to stop it but I couldnt say no for whatever reason. I did try to physically stop him but that didnt work either. He continued touching me to the point where I thought I liked it. So basically he brainwashed me for months, and then broke up with me as if I was some broken toy
@@renatewellner910 I'm so sorry that you went through this. Going through this stuff especially at such a young age is very hard.. How are you doing now though?
Lauren Greathouse I've never been a victim, but I can tell u this from what I do know, don't let anyone tell u that u r not good enough, or don't let anyone insult you. Figure out a way to get through this. Even if it happened a while ago it still bothers you and it would still bother me too. I would love for you to just do what Eva said and say no. I'm supporting you through this even tho I may not know u I am still supporting u and encouraging u to get through this. My thoughts and prayers are with u❤️️
The start of may i started an internship at one of the biggest hotel in my country. I loved my job then i met this guy who i thought was my friend. But one night he cornered me and proposed to drop me off back home after my shift in exchange of sex. I thought he was kidding and said no.. he followed me and grabbed my waist promising me that no one would know because the windows of his car are tinted. I felt disgusted because his gf was the HR of my hotel. Few weeks after i told my bf who convinces me to report him. All he got was a warning. I see him everyday and i started feeling unmotivated to go to work because few people say that i deserve whatever happened because i was asking for it. Which is simply not true. Don't even know if anyone will read this but i felt the need to comment my story.. :/
I am sorry that he wasn't put away in a place were he can never do that to you or someone else. Stay strong. Make sure to talk to someone if you are feeling uncomfortable or are feeling troubled.
Oh wow I didn't realize that so many people read my story. After posting that I remember having a panic attack at work and it wasn't the first time so after talking to a therapist we agreed that I needed a break so I quit.. And would still get texts from few people there saying pretty mean stuff But yh I left that job and feel so much happier. Your comments truly truly made me feel better. Thank you for being so kind
Please, don't act as if nothing happened. Do not "wait until you get older" to talk about it. There is no "one day I will tell my parents" because we need to speak and and knock some sense into people. If anything, you may even stop a person from raping another one! You might be able to save a life from trauma! Speak up and say NO! Run, scream, get attention, throw things at them, scratch them, bite them, but never hide! While you are waiting to tell someone, they might be raping other people too! Never forgive the abusers, because such people never change and they will think it is okay. Never stand up for them. Run to the police or the authorities despite your fears! The WILL believe you! Some tips: If they touch you, start to scream, attack etc. Pepper spray, hair spray, chili power, hot sauce, it all works. If they rape you, do not wash away the blood , do not touch that area AT ALL even if there is no blood. The police can get DNA evidence and take measures against the abuser.
Looking at all these comments, reading so many stories, and knowing people that have gone through this. NOBODY in the world should have to go through this. Seeing that this is a VERY significant problem, the world needs to spread awareness. This is a fear nobody should ever have to have.
You are so brave, Eva! You inspire so many and God has showed you His grace. He has enabled you to use your pain as your platform! Can't wait to read the book
Love life um no please shut up God is real think about it how are we here how did humans come on this earth he created humans and God didn't do it Satan did and God let it because there was a lesson so shut up please
Just looking through all those comments, my heart breaks so much. The stories of all those people are absolutely terrifying, and most of those people got sexually harassed/abused at such a young age. I cannot imagine going through all of that. Nobody has to experience anything of the sort. If you have been a victim of sexual assault, first of all, I'm so very sorry❤️ However, remember, there are always people that will support you! You might feel sad, terrified, and uneasy, but trust me, you will get through it. There is so much life has in store for all of us, and I really want all of you to experience it. It will get better, I promise. I do. Secondly, Please TELL SOMEBODY. It's so important. You are not to be blamed, and those people will understand you, and when you tell someone - everything just becomes a tiny bit easier, and if that horrible person would be arrested - you would feel good knowing that he isn't somewhere out there raping or sexually assaulting anybody else, no innocent person. It will help you so much, I promise. Please stay strong ❤️ And if you think you have nobody - you have me. I’m on your side. I’m cheering for you, no matter where you are or who you are. I'm so glad that Eva spread the word about the issue, as it is, for some reason, never talked about, even though it is so horrible and terrifying. This video helps so much people that have gone through it to open up, tell somebody, and get help. It also a little reminder to those people that they AREN'T the ones to blame. They were the victim, they are not horrible, they are strong. Thank you, Eva, for spreading such an important message❤️
when I was 8 years old me, my mum and brother moved to Hastings nz we originally came from christchurch. When we moved into our new house there was a little girl who lived next door. so I went over there and asked if she wanted to play, and she said yes. she told me that she doesn't have that many friends and she gets bulied a lot so I kept her company. I've met her family and had sleepovers, etc but there was something wrong with my friends brother and father. they looked creepy asf so I kept my distance. as I got older I was even more suspicious because the father and I were pretty close and we talked a lot he said I was like a daughter to him. but one night he told me to come outside, of course I went outside because I was stupid. and then he covered my mouth and pushed me into the garage with the brother ( my friends brother) in the garage waiting. they locked the garage door and started raping me, beating me, cutting me and many other things I don't wanna say because they are pretty nasty. After they raped and beat me I was pretty much dying because there was soooooo much blood, and of course the dad and brother left me in the garage alone. But luckily I had my phone so I rang the ambulance hardly breathing, and couldn't talk properly. some time later the ambulance came and they drove me to the hospital, and then I fainted. after recovery the doctor said I was fine and they asked me what happened? but I couldn't handle it so I ran away back to my house went into the shed and grabbed the rope out of there, tied it to a tree with a loop at the end. then I put my head through it and jumped off the chair and I was hanging BUT my mum saw me and ran out as fast as she could and she brought me down and yelled at me and was crying. so I told her what happened and she immediately rung the police and I did my statement etc. I was raped and beat last year at the age of 13 years old I'm now 14. I was really close to that family for 5 years. You never know who the person is gonna be these days even the most innocent ones are the ones to look out for sometimes. that's my story
Mari Gong you are going to be ok. please all of us need to stay safe and when we grow up teLling our kids the same is crucial. this world is cruel , so please please never kill yourselves. it gets better , trust me .
Mari Gong I honestly wouldn't know the pain you went through girl, but your such an inspiration to so many people for staying so strong and fighting. My issue is domestic violence which I won't share on here, but I'm now going on 16 and life gets better. I'm so sorry this happened to you. ❤
Im going to share my story. I was in the 8th grade new to the school and was trying to adjust to a new living. On my first day i saw a guy who was really attractive and he was sweet she showed me around and talked to me about my interest. He protected me from the creeps and i felt like i could trust him. We started dating after that and during quarantine i would see him. Then one day we had went out in the warm sun and we swam then when i went back to his house i fell asleep i wasnt really wearing much other than a swimsuit and a crowshay cover up. All of a sudden i woke up and i was naked in his room. I got dressed wondering what happened and i went looking for his parents they were gone so i went downstairs he was eating and asked me if i was hungry like as if he didnt do what ge did. And i asked him what Happened and i dont remember and he said its okay you were good and i felt disgusted. I grabbed my things and left. I broke up with him before his birthday and he guilt tripped me and tried to make it seem like i caused it. When school started i was a mess he had changed his schedule to have a lunch and a class with me he sat right behind me and when i would walk by to sharpen my pencil he would go back there like he was gunna do the sake hunch over and grope my private area. Soon it became too much when he cornered me in the library and threatened me. I was so scared to do something im 5'6 hes 6'7 what was i gunna do?? So i ran to my friend and told them i went up to an officer and broke down crying telling hin he brought me to the counselor then....i went to court. I couldn't stand to look at him and since the rape had happen 6 months earlier there was nothing they could do. He walkef free i still go to school with him....he still looks at me...talks about me...i moved on and is what helped me my new boyfriend has helped me through so much hes been there im now bout to be a sophomore and im going to strive and not let him get to me.
Federal Bureau of Investigation Why do you have to hate on people? Did nobody teach you to be quiet about hate? Just keep it to yourself. You can think she’s ugly, but don’t go telling us about it.
Amanaka. Why? do you want to be a dictator? kill free speech? Nobody told me to be quiet because I'm living in a free country. So you are telling me not to criticize her while you criticize me.
Federal Bureau of Investigation The Bible says to treat others how you want to be treated. Would you like it if someone said all this hurtful stuff to you? I’m not trying to ‘attack’ you or anything I’m just saying words can be hurtful even if you’re speaking your mind. It’s still rude and disrespectful to say stuff like that.
This isn't my only story, but it's one I don't share a lot. When I was 5 my uncle locked me in the bathroom when my mom left for barely half hour and touched me. It's one of my first memories and it really hurts that I don't remember anything like my reaction, how long it lasted, or if it happened more than once. For years I tried to treat it as a dream, but I never ever forgot. It made me feel 'off' in every single way all the way until I was 15. I was an extremely moody teenager and I knew in the back of my head if I didn't tell someone I would go insane. I also developed very fast and started eating and hiding my body. When I finally told my mother she barely listened before saying he was "not mentally well" and we never talked about it again. Ever. I was afraid of men all through high school and I'm just now losing fear of intimacy. The only thing that has helped is sharing stories with my friends and reading similar stories here. I'm overwhelmed by how many young young people this happens to. Alot of this is because women and girls are seen as objects. Anyways...if you read this I really hope you feel less alone and find a lot of healing.
I know no words will ever make this pain go away. but I am so sorry this happened to you. you are so brave and strong to share your story. I hope that you feel just as strong as you mentally are. xxx
I hate it when I hear about these stories because it makes me so sad, but I'm just so, so disappointed in the friends or mom's or anyone who's a woman and who just brushes these things off. As girls, we almost all face this and even if you don't we have to stick together!
I was sexual assaulted by one of my brothers. I was around the age of 7 or 8. I have a very clear image of what went on. he made me touch him in places for his enjoyment. he did things to me that I didn't know was wrong at that age. Even when i didn't want to do it he would force me too. he would say "oh im going to tell mom you did this if you don't do it" and other things like that. I was not aware what we were doing. when I got older it all stoped but the memories didn't. I'm currently 15 about to turn 16. till this day my mother still doesn't know and I will never tell her. the only people who know are the 2 most important people in my life. when I realized what he did to me was sexual assaults I could never look at him the same. the memories still are there but I try to move past it. I might not ever. be the same but at least I can say I have becomes stronger. watching this made me not feel sorry for myself. watching this motivated me to not let anyone force me to doing anything that I don't feel comfortable with. I want you who is reading this to know that the troubles ,the pain your going through might be tough but in the long run. it will make you grow into a beautiful individual . stay true to yourself because that's your happiness. THANK YOU EVA ❤
osmanie charles But babe you have to tell your mom, this is unacceptable of him to touch you. He really can't hurt you or anything if your parents know, please please tell her 😭😭
Delilah Arriola sadly even if I would tell my mom I have no communication with her. she is no longer in America. but don't worry I don't see my brother anymore he's off to college. and I told on of my cousins 2 years ago.
Delilah Arriola you saying this really made me so happy thank you and I'm glad this had a positive effect on you. just remember your worth it. thank you so much
See this is where I disagree, and hear me out when I say that people need to understand that *consent does NOT have to do with the absence of a 'NO' but rather the presence of a 'YES.'* So if a girl/boy doesn't clearly say "Yes, I want to do ___ with you" don't proceed thinking that she/he could say 'no' at any moment, because there are a lot of factors such as fear and embarrassment of humiliating you and her/himself.
Looking through this comments is like taking a sledgehammer to my heart. I pray for all of those who have been through sexual assault, sexual abuse, abuse, and all the other horrible things that have happened. And I hope you all justice some day.
To all of yall survivors, You're so incredibly strong. And it wasn't your fault, please remind yourself that every day. You did not loose ONE BIT of your worth, and you're so much more of a person then the one that hurt you. Im so proud of you for being here today, and the fact you can even speak about what happened, is so unbelievably strong
When I was 16 my mother died during the summer holidays... One night I went out to get some skittles. (don't ask) I walked to the store and bought them. Halfway from my home, a guy drove up to me from the road. "Hey, girl you need a ride?" The dude asked. I said no and continued walking. "Oh yeah, I'm your mom's friend!" When I heard that sentence I ran. My mother is dead. And she didn't have friends. The guy chased me in his car and grabbed me. I got kidnapped. He abused me... No one to run to. I escaped. The window was open so I ran. A few weeks later I was back in school. My dad didn't care though, he was an alcoholic. He abused me to, so I was used to it. As I walked to school I met up with my friend. She asked me what happened and I told her the story. She asked the school if we could go to the police and they said yes. Now the guy is in jail. Sorry if it was long this was 2 years ago. I am now graduated and living a good potato life. Love ya peeps😉💜
*I'm so sorry, stay strong! I also have a similar thing I want to share* So this happened around 2016. I was just 7. My family (-my dad) were visiting my Auntie (mom's sister) it was pretty usual for us to stay there a week or so. I actually didn't like it there that much cause of several reasons Including: - Sometimes net goes out -Electricity - waking up late *The waking up late part* The problem was cause I was used to wake up for school at 6:00 am, I usally woke up early. So did my brothers, but my mom and Auntie, uncle,cousins wouldn't. We would usally starve for 2-3 hours, and then get a proper break fast. *The main Story* Ok so my uncle (mom sister's husband) was not so close with me. Lets just name him *xyz* so he was like a normal relative. One time tho he touched me in my no no area. I moved his hand and confusingly asked *what are you doing?* He said *since you're gonna be a big girl, I thought why shouldn't I tell u what happens in The future* I was like *I'm going, mama is calling me* (she actually was) He did touch me, for all the time i came to visit them, he also said not to tell anyone that this happend. I was also scared and decided that i shouldn't. *BAD CHOICE*! After that he once said that *there was a girl, (lets call her "the neighbor")* "She was around ur age and used to strip for me, I would touch her and we would call. But now I don't since I have you now" I was small so I didn't knew he was cheating on my aunt. (GOOD THING HE WASN'T, CAUSE THAT WAS A LIE TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD) *one night* it so happend that my mom was laying for me and my small brother to fall asleep. I didn't cause I quickly Changed from a Morning person to a night owl. After she went, *xyz* came in to the room, and touched my thighs and was massaging them? He also touched there.. I stayed quite so that he thinks i was sleeping. Before the night that happend I told him to stop and said I would tell everyone what happened #guessimablackmailer and he said *"s-sorry"* In my head, I was like *like sorry is enough* and after that, it happened. I confronted him the next day and said *this I the last warning uncle, please don't ever try to touch me... please!* All he said was *ok, and how did you know i touched you, were you awake?!* All I Said was *yes* After that, he would still touch me and it hurt me. When i left to go back to my home, he said *be prepared the next time* *...* It was 2018 at that time, we haven't met cause in 2019 my baby brother came to this world, and my big brother was having an exam. And at 2020 we had the pandemic, 2021 cause of the pandemic again, but idk about 2022. *No one knows about this, I haven't told anyone about this. I know my family is supportive and they will believe me but I don't want drama, divorce between my uncle and aunt, just a normal life. *In early July* I think me and my bestie were swinging at the park. This one dude winked at me and i thought it was nothing. I ignored it. But boy when we were both going to my house, he was standing by the building I started walking abit faster but my friend couldn't as she just had her vaccine. I reached inside the building and as soon as i got in, I heard a scream *ZOYA RUN!!* Me and her ran for it! I almost tripped but I couldn't let it be the movies. She told me that he was showing his d**k to her! Everyone in my and her family knows about this but not about the showing part. And were taking alot of cautions now. Earlier my bestie told me she had seen him at the grocery store. *All we have to do is stay strong, and be strong enough to say no!*
Please tell your family about your uncle! This isn’t ok, and you shouldn’t have to live in fear of seeing him again. I know what that’s like, and it still affects me till this day. You deserve better! And your aunt shouldn’t have to live with someone who would do something like this.
i was molested by my stepfather about three years ago and i still haven’t told anyone. i don’t talk to anymore at all. he would come into my room at night and stick his hands in my underwear and do very inappropriate stuff. i didn’t know what to do so i told him to stop coming in my room at night and he didn’t. this went on for about a year and i hated sleeping at my moms house. i kept telling her he kept coming into my room at night but i never told her what he was doing. i hope this never happens to anyone. and anyone who has experienced something like this i’m praying for you.
Ade Line please tell your mom what happens. you do not have to go through this. your mother deserves a better man. he is basically lying to her, pretending to be a different person than he really is. please take care of yourself and stay safe. don’t be afraid to talk to her.
I’ve been sexually assaulted multiple times, I’m barely 13. I’ve been groped, touched, played with, grabbed, etc. This video hits so close to home. It absolutely breaks my heart.
i am so sorry all that has happened to you. i cant imagine going through that once but multiple times?! you are so freaking strong and i know you will overcome this and grow stronger from it❤️❤️
She still is our happy, cheerful and cute girl, the only thing is that she has gone through a really hard time and she still knows how to be happy even after all this.
When I was 15 I was on a bus on my way to school. The bus was practically empty, maybe two other people were on the ground level. At the next stop this man- around twice my age- got on the bus and decided to sit next to me. I knew this wasn't good considering there were so many empty seats and yet he still chose to sit next to me. After a few minutes I felt his hand go up my school skirt and start to stroke my thigh. I was in shock and didn't know what to do. I was so frozen with fear I didn't feel like I could tell him to stop, yell for help, or even move. I tried to edge closer to the window but his hand stayed gripped on my leg. This carried on for about 10 minutes (it felt like a lot longer). When I got off the bus I felt a mixture or fear, embarrassment and I even felt ashamed at what had happened to me. At that age I didn't even consider that what he did was illegal and that I could report him to the police. I ended up telling my friends later that morning and that resulted in the school contacting the police for me. There was a trial 6 months later, after multiple interviews and investigations, in which I had to talk about what I had gone through in front of a jury. He ended up getting around 2 years in prison for doing the same thing to multiple girls and women. There were a few things that really upset me at the time. Obviously that I had be touched by a stranger on my way to school, in a public place. But surprisingly, my friends had made me feel guilty that I hadn't gone to the bus driver or told the man to stop touching me. They said "If I was in that situation I would've shouted at him and reported him to the driver'... But they weren't in that situation. I want anyone who has gone through something similar to know that firstly, we all react in different ways in any given situation, and secondly, you can't know what that reaction will be until you're there. Some people will defend themselves, and others will freeze and not know what to do. If you fall into the latter group please know that it in no way means you have unintentionally consented to that assault (yes something as insignificant as a man touching your leg against your will is sexual assault as I found out), but more importantly, you are not weak. I know that what happened to me is no where near as traumatic as something as disgusting as rape, but I thought I would share my experience anyway. Like me, you might not think that something as simple as a stranger stroking your leg is sexual assault, but it is. He got prison time to prove it. I am now 19 and studying law at university. I would be lying if I didn't say that part of my decision to become a lawyer was because of what happened to me. The way my lawyer and the judge dealt with my case made me realise I have the power to potentially make someone feel as comfortable as I did during such an ordeal. It's true that I won't forget what happened to me, as trivial as you might think it was, but I have moved on and you will too.
Katarina Inganni something similar happened to me! I was at a convention, and while talking to my friends this guy brushed past me and ran his hand over my waist. I didn't think anything of it and he didn't apologize so I figured he just bumped into me. But he kept walking past like 6 more times, each time touching more of me and for longer, eventually going from my shoulder down to my hips. I was so uncomfortable but my friends didn't seem to notice and I figured it wasn't a big deal. Now I realize I should have shouted at him, or removed myself from that situation. It's never okay for someone to inappropriately touch you, but I feel like we're taught that sexual assault/harassment is isolated to rape and we're being over dramatic if we report about anything else. 😕
Okay I didn't feel like sharing my story as my own so for now it will just be a reply Okay so when I was like 5 or 6 I I don't know what to call it so I'll let you guys tell me if it was bad or not but I remember handing out with my dad and just watching a movie when all of a sudden he would grab my hand and just place it on his "you know" and I specifically remember thinking that's weird so I would put my hand back on his stomache but he would pit my hand back on his private so young me didn't think of it much "okay" and went on watching the movie. Also there was this other time where I remember where he was just grabbing me like tickleing. After that we were just laying on the bed chilaxing and he suddenly he puts his hand down my pants. And starts touching my privates while questing me "what is this?" I said say "pippecha" in spanish to him. Which translates to "vagina" and so on .He would be touching my ass to ugh it hurts me today😭. There would be so many more times where he would be grabbing my private for example I would ask for a piggy back ride and he would touch me. I don't know I was little so did it matter? Was so bad as I think it is? I'm thirteen now
Katarina Inganni I can relate to this 😭 This Is why I also have social anxiety I am so insecure and I always put on a mask and everything one thinks I'm this happy individual but in reality I'm not happy, At 13, public sexual harassment, I wore long jeans and a jumper, I was cat called so many times I remember I was in my cooking class and I was minding my business and one girl shouted out " hey your but is massive, the whole class looked and I was soo embarrassed Then just last year, I was wearing my PE kit and I lined up with my class, and someone ran up to me and pinched my bum and ran off, the boys started laughing Now I am soo insecure and I rarely go outside and have social anxiety and an anxiety
I was groomed by my 15-year-old cousin at 6 years old when he tried to make out with me I was 6 and I told straight away but either they thought I was lying or being dramatic it still hurts but I guess i have to deal with it on my own
omg my heart broke when i read the comments, this is so horrible so see all of you having the similar situations i really hope you all are alright and stay strong i really love you all guys even though i don't know any of you but i'm literally crying hope you are safe now
ulyana brove I never had this happened to me but I appreciate u trying to help everyone through their hard times. And I'm so happy that people are supporting this. The world can be a much better place with people like u in it:)
Agreed I'm in the same way I haven't gone through this and I'm in a calamity of sad feelings for all of these humans who don't deserve them thank you for supporting them
This comment section is so terribly sad 😭 To all the beautiful woman, who have ever been assaulted in their lives or know some that has... hold on my darlings because life really does get better! Eva... you're incredible! xox I love you
I have never had to face any kind of trauma like this but watching this video and reading these comments literally give me a sick feeling in my stomach. Its horrible how some people can be like this and do these things. To anyone who had to go through something like this im so sorry and i hope youre ok now.
i realized after i broke up with my boyfriend that the first time we had sex it was rape. i thought because he was my bf that it wasn't. i said no, but he kept pushing it. even if you are dating the person does not mean you have to have sex with them. thanks for sharing your story, Eva.
Kelseyguurl hahahahaha... when girls are unsatisfied they tend to say that whoever they had sex with raped them... hmmm... very interesting isn't it?😂☠️
Jaylo Haylo honestly what the hell is wrong with you? If she said no. ITS FUCKING RAPE! That comment that you posted was awful and you're a terrible person
The comment section broke my heart
same
YayYaysCorner same:(
YayYaysCorner same😔
YayYaysCorner same...😥
YayYaysCorner same😳😳😳
The comment section broke my heart seeing so many people being victims of sexual assault 😞
I know I was when I was 13...
Bread Lover omg I am soo sorry the world is full of evil and hate but you have to be strong and powerful in order to fight them remember You are STRONG and POWERFULL and you are CAPABLE OF DOING A LOT IN LIFE ❤️❤️❤️
@@batoolayaz5041 I know I did I managed to call the police and I'm scared to leave my house
Bread Lover it’s okay to be scared but don’t let the fear stop you from living your life I know an extremely traumatizing event occurred in your life but now you have to learn to understand that you have a life that you need to enjoy and don’t let negativity stop it you should try to meditate and I have an anxiety around people and I understand but you need to fight your fears I know it’s hard but take little steps towards fighting your fears do something that make you feel comfortable I don’t know you but I just feel heart broken that you were sexually assaulted at 13 like I am 13 right now and I can’t believe some piece of shit ruined your entire life I am so sorry
@@batoolayaz5041 I will stay safe and fight strong
something that just broke my heart is the comment section. too many people have been victims of this disgusting act.
Boy or girl
Woman or man
*no means no*
@Victoria Boumajdi :)
Shut up bitch
@@SehtFromNowhere you the only dumb one here, shut up
You okay buddy?
@@SehtFromNowhere what's your problem just fuck off
around a year ago, my moms boyfriend started living with us and every night when i was asleep he would touch me. they broke up and awhile after i finally told my mom. she reported it to the police but they did nothing about it. to this day i'm still traumatized by it but i appreciate you making this video cuz it really helped me
Sorry sister i think all world have to promote sex education more 🙏
Where did he touch you? Were you wet?
There are way to many sexual harassment story's in the comments I wish I could physically help all these people who are hurting
same
@@toad2870 i feel so bad for you
Twiin Gamerz I’m so sorry.. no kid should have to go through that
I know same
NightFall Animates it’s true, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone... except sometimes I wish that they could maybe go through the same pain to see what it’s like..
💖
The amount of people in the comments who can relate to this breaks my heart
Anna same💞💞
same'
Anna Same
Anna same
Anna
Ikr
"Every story has a happy ending to it. If your not happy its not the end."
- unknown
there are lots of stories of people with horrible endings, just check out murder stories
Thats deep
Its always been my favorite quote ❤
@Salma Siraj Year 8 shut up
@Salma Siraj Year 8 yea you know you dont have to give your opinon if its stupid
These comments are so extremely saddening. I have experienced a mild form of SA but it’s so comforting knowing that there are actually people who I can relate to!!!
Honestly this is so amazing
I literally felt my heart sink when i read that title..
...honestly 😰
I agree
AdelaDIY same
AdelaDIY I almost died
AdelaDIY me too
This comment section is breaking my heart. Girl or boy, man or woman, people in this society need to understand that No MEANS NO. #NoMeansNo
#nomeansno
#nomeansno
Totally agree
Respect the no is what I always said
Madison H. Preach 👏
i never realized how lucky i was because this hasn't happened to me. my deepest apologies for those who have gone through this.
Megan Williams I feel the same way and we have the same name
Lol
You're extremely lucky because a lot of girls and women go through this. I got schocked, when I hear of someone who hasn't because it's rare. I'm glad you got lucky.
You are really lucky 😓
Then your lucky 😔
"stop protecting your daughters, but, educate your sons."
for all the people, who have sadly gone through this, just remember that do not hesitate in telling what happened to the one who you really trust. you are not alone. you are not one to get blamed, you are a survivor.
#NomeansNo
boys can get rapes too and also male rape victims have been increased since last few years
Umm I think it should be dont protect our kids educate them ig
@@glitchgaming1136 yeah ur right but here we are talking about women so i mentioned women and daughters especially.
@@snitchzerboo We know that but it isnt about men right now, its about women. We care for both men & women but its just the fact that men are likely to perform sexual abuse more then women.
I've also heard a similar quote *stop telling your daughter what to wear and tell your son not to rape*
this comment section has me in tears.. as an 18 yeard old girl I feel so blessed for not having experienced anything other than verbal harassment and honestly, as a girl, I can't help but think when will the time come that ill be harassed in a physical way and how will I react to it.
Where are you located? If someone ever hurts you all of the comment readers will bring are brooms and swords and intimidate whoever hurt you! ❤️🖤
I was 7 and later on 13 and the people who touched me were trusted people and I’m now 17 and wish I could have done anything. But I was a child...as long as you are aware, and I am now aware, we have the right to protect ourselves. I carry a knife or pepper spray with me at all times now. I have a bat next to my bed. Girl get urself a paintball gun!!
sharo xx hey I think I have a way we can all help I think if we all get together and protest against sexual assault and tell people as soon as we feel comfortable then every boy/girl who raped someone can get arrested or whatever they do for that kind of stuff but we can all help out in our own ways (don’t take this offense)
Hey. I was sexually assaulted at 11 years old and please let me tell you, do something about it. Don't wait, don't think, don't doubt, scream and ask for help. Or else you'll regret it for the rest of your life and remember the same scene over and over again. I hope it never happens to you and that you grow happy like you deserve, but if anything ever happens, please remember what i told you.
Addisøn Black haha Thank you xx
This is my story
So a few years ago, I was sexually abused by my cousin. He would touch me in places that were uncomfortable for me. One night when I was spending the night at my grandma's house, he woke me up so we could play on his iPad. I was sitting there and he started to touch me. One day he was spending the night at my house and I was alone with him watching a movie, Then he got on top of me, I told him to stop but he kept going. My mom came in the room and saw him and she quickly got my dad. I went to therapy and the therapist asked what he did to me, I said I didn't want to say but she coaxed me gentally to tell her, I broke into tears. I was so broken and depressed because I thought I would get in trouble, but then I just let it all out. This is me, and I'm a survivor ✊
Im sorry that happened to you
God bless u,I am so sorry 4 u,girls have 2 stick together😔
Ew cousin!?
That's so brave to share, well done for sticking at it. Know that people love you and the whole yt community is here for you xxx
I have depression,anxiety,PTSD,social anxiety, and have to go to therapy. Basically your story is the same as mine, but mine lasted for 30min straight.sorry for giving to much info I’m just saying I understand what you going through and stay strong
This comment section has me broken, I'm so sorry y'all had to deal with this. The world can be so dark and cruel but y'all survived and I bet its scarring but its over and I'm so proud of how strong y'all are, people are sick.
i don't think it'll ever really be over in my head
banufshay.aejaz some people fake it for attention
@@shujneko677 that's not common at all and the fact that you commented this makes you think you're the one who craves attention that you never get :)
Hannah Williams boi that makes no sense doesn’t even go with my comment people lie for attention that’s why
Hannah Williams and in this situation a lot of people lie for attention it is for to lie for a situation like this cause it’s not good to lie about something this is
To everyone sharing their story in their comments I want y’all to know that u are all strong!😭im so proud of each and every one of u
A lot of women are into sharing their bodies
THEY ARE WEAK NOT STRONG HAHAHAHHA
There’s a special place in hell for you
No
I jerk off to the story’s 😎
that feeling when you're having good time on UA-cam and this pops out and you remember all the world's problems and you're not having a good time anymore.
Deborah Lottie yep same
Deborah Lottie yep
same😭
Deborah Lottie it's like I'm having a nice Friday night then.... 😂
Deborah Lottie same ffs
Beautiful video with a beautiful message. You are such an inspiration EVA! 😭👏🏾❤
PatrickStarrr I know!! Btw i love your channel 💋💋
PatrickStarrr I love you!!!❤❤
PatrickStarrr I love you Patrick your an amazing friend to eva
PatrickStarrr love you Patrick💕
PatrickStarrr OMG hey PATRICK!!!!
Eva is SO STRONG, she went through all this but when you look at her rn, you can't even think that she went through this😔
Exactly
Is this true
I hope not
Obviously
Bro u know this is not true it's just for awareness
You are a victim
You're a survivor
You are beautiful
You are strong
🖤🌺🖤
No
I am the best 😎
But the guy was stronger
@@ussr8337 true dat
To everyone out there that has been sexually assaulted.
You're not a Victim.
You're a Survivor!
AMEN THAT'S A WORD RIGHT THERE
P E R I D O D T
@@Hi-ko5lg bru-
@@Hi-ko5lg :|
Thank you❤️
I’m watching this 3 years later.. Is this actually real? I’m so sorry Eva.. :( We all love you!!! 💓
SkepticxII me too 🥺💓
Same
ssoorryy eva
period honestly. I was doubtful and suspected the same thing (sry)
Same
Honored to be your "Banana Bread" inspiration. Rock on, brilliant one.
Peggy Glenn that was you?!?!
queen
Peggy Glenn 😂😂😂😂😂
IS it acc YOU
Peggy Glenn 😉😉😉😉
Guys , reading these comments just broke my heart I just wanna say stay strong everyone and just remember that the person who did dirty to you is always goona burn in hell god is always watching their kids.
Stay strong ❤️
Yes
Yes!! I'm crying
i always thought “ how would u just let someone do that to u? why wouldn’t u just say no and walk away?” until it happened to me. even if u say no it doesn’t mean that they r gonna stop. it’s not ur fault!
georgia I hope you are doing better and are happy
I hope your getting better baby, sending luv!
🥺❤️❤️
georgia I’m so sorr
y lol
I am sorry hope you get better
You're strong for this Eva. I can relate so much. Thank you for making this. You inspired and empowered me. This is an amazing message.
Simplynessa15 nessa 😁 I'm a subbie
Simplynessa15 boiii! I LOVE YOU OMGG!!
I lovee youu
Simplynessa15 you are so brave girl
Simplynessa15 Hey boo 😂
this looked hella professional and looked like a movie
liev megaslag yahh
liev megaslag ikr😍 I loved it
liev megaslag true!
liev megaslag ikr its really good like eva has some skill 👌
Fanciest story time out there
Wth why are people disliking this video? People should learn from this video. This video really touched me.
they're disliking it because they think she is profiting from rape for clout
They were crying to much to see the difference between the like and dislike button
@@matthewbates9629 she is telling her story…
@@kkkateltn i know but people are disliking the video because they think she is lying
Your right. Ppl shouldn’t dislike it and it really touched me too
The only part that made my day is when she gets happy and say "oh shinitsel" we all love u eva
Thruth!!!
Truth
Haha I love it
Same lol
Sorry to be a grammar Nazi, but coming from a German speaker it’s ‘schnitzel’
This is what happened to me:
So I was a pretty normal child you know, having fun, playing, running around! But this changed my childhood.
I was only 9 back then, I lived with my parents, my brother, cousin and grandparents! Everything was normal until one day, my brother who was 16 and the most popular at school, told me to come in his room. Once I stepped foot in that room, he shut the door behind me, locking it.
I thought he was gonna put up a private conversation so I sat on his bed. Then he told me “we are going to have so much fun”. Then me and himself, he started to strip me and himself. I was confused and asked what he was doing then, it happened. He raped me. He was so rough that I screamed for help! But, no one was home except for me and my brother. He then started touching me. I told him to stop but he didn’t! After that was finished he told me to never tell this to anyone otherwise I will be doomed. One day when he went out with his friends, I went to Mum in the kitchen and told her about it. She was upset and worried for me and decided to call the police. Soon he got home and the police arrested him. I’m 15 now and he is still in prison because we found out that the reason why he was out with his friends is because he went to murder someone. I’m still traumatised by what happened. Thanks for reading my story and here’s some advice, if you are being held hostage or got raped like me, never keep quiet! Make sure to tell someone you trust so they can help you! I hope you all will be safe!
I mean u are really brave if I would be In That situation I would never be brave enough to tell my mom so... yeah you are really brave!!❤️ ( sorry for my English I’m from different country)
-cough- -cough- he went to do wha- now
Omg,this earth needs people like you.keep up the good work😁😁
I litteraly changed my mind on wanting a big brother..
•ŞimşekPati The Cheetah• so you want that to happened to you
Ok listen guys...
NO...
A MAN
A WOMAN
A BOY
A GIRL...
ANY GENDER
ANY RACE
ANYONE
No means no.
Well said.. this needs more likes
@@arrshitataneja4869 couldn’t agree more
Why'd you start with saying guys you male cisgederphobe. Also no does not always mean no. It's about context in their voice. No stop it while smililing and laughing us not the same as no screaming and crying. Niggas need to learn context clues for real.
@@pcsoyboy563 Df? And? Dumbass feminist, what difference would it make if he switched it? Explain asshole
@@6pathsa.e903 first part is a joke I even made up a word if it wasn't already obvious. But it is annoying how men are always stated as the initial culprit when discussing sexual assualt even with no evidence #believeallwomen
To all the survivors out there. Whenever you're ready. We're there to listen to you and we are so proud of you 💐💗
no means NO
no doesnt mean MAYBE
no doesnt mean YES
no means NO
Thank you:
Remember #NoMeansNo
No means no
No doesn't mean MAYBE
No doesn't mean YES
No means NO! :)
You are untouched you will stay untouched and you are a survivor
PERIOD
HA! I just gave u OCD! I was the 301st like!!!!! YEET!!!!!
@@megmc.a why.. Why you do dat? Cuz I was the 300th liker.. You gave me OCD ;/
periodtt
i need to stop reading the comments I'm in tears
same :'(
Same 😢😭😭
Same 🥺🥺🥺
Same I just I just can’t tho 😭
I'm reminding myself of the things i went through.
I'm a boy and i'm so sorry that girls and boys have to go through that. I just don't understand why anyone would be such a b*tch and do that and be such a, such a, I can't think of such a word because it's so evil. I would never do such a thing, my mama raised me right. I'm so sorry for anyone boy or girl has to be sexually assaulted by such a creep. And to everyone who thinks this is fake or unreal, even if it's not this kind of stuff happens. So just be aware of your surroundings. please. If you took the time to read this comment i greatly appreciate it. Thank you. -Joey
Its guys like you that are cherished. You are loved and the girl who spends the rest of her life with you will be so incredibly lucky. Thankful some guys still have respect for girls. Thank you so much.
we need more people like you honestly.
Joey Drennan Well said,Well said
The world really needs more people like you
Joey Drennan i love this, i have so much respect for you. your personality and mentality trumps thousands of boys and men who are sick and perverted. this comment can truly make a difference in so many people's lives. we need more people like you.
I was attacked by a family friend in the night when I was 11 and all I can remember is his figure coming through the dark doorway. I'm now 15 and I can't sleep unless the door is shut I have anxiety around all men and I am uncomfortable sleeping at relatives houses. I don't trust my Dad or any man now I wear baggy clothes and I hate the way my body has developed. I have a fear of intimacy and all men and when I opened up about it to my family I was invalidated and brushed off I feel so alone.
I'm sorry that happened to you
I feel so bad..
Don't be sad some of us can feel u
Don't feel alone dear I m always with you❤
Most of us are 11 years when it happens I was also 11
One UA-camr I respect. Who tries to put out creative content and not tries to hoard money.
1332 ya go look at shuffle gamer he makes a 3 FUCKING MINUTE INTRO THAT TO LIKE HIS VIDEO
IClash and More
Lele Cane Dreams MSP he didn't say he disrespected eva...
BocaBubblez why he
Nevaeh Dawson It wasn't supposed to be funny. It's serious.
I like how in the coments we all are like a family and we support each other
purple paint Awh yes 🥺
purple paint we are a family we were made by 1 person Jesus we were made by him that’s why were family even if one kills each other were still family and we will forever not blood related
Omg yessss!
I am so sad.... I was reading the comments, and it never hit me that this most likely hapens every day. I am sooo sorry for all of you out there who has been asssaulted.
Same I didn’t know it was SOOOOO common
Thank tou
But why so often
@@dirtbikes3780 I don't know...I cant believe this is what the world has come to.
thank u❤️❤️
She's beautiful inside and out. Telling her story helps so many others including herself. Keep your head up and know that you've made it thru 100% of your bad days.
When I was six years old I was at the playground with my friend. A highschooler and his two friends went up to me and asked "Do you know what sex is?" As a curius six year old I had no idea and he said he would like to show me what it is. He said it was a secret so I had to come with him. So I went with him. My friend didnt feel like coming so i went alone. We went to the basement in some apartment complex. There they argured who would "show me" first. But the time went and I had little paitience so I went back to my friend. I didnt understand then but now I understand how lucky I was to escape. People are sick.
Paula Titianu Omg😮 Thank God you left from that basement
Paula Titianu thank goood!!!
Paula Titianu 你真的是個幸運的女孩！
Paula Titianu glad you escaped
Paula Titianu omg that's so disgusting YOUR SO SMART STAY STRONG!!
NO IS NO FOR ANYONE
any boy
any girl
any face
any gender
any race!!
@@AngelSanchez-dt2zc hush 🤫 keep it to yourself and come back when your educated
Preach miss girl
@@AngelSanchez-dt2zc fr
@@AngelSanchez-dt2zc DUMBASS
@@AngelSanchez-dt2zc no there is more
it's so disturbing to see the number of people telling their stories about how they were abused as a KID, it's even more terrifying to see how many of the rapists were of the same family as the victim. I'm really scared for me and my sisters. God bless everyone who's been through this and give hope to those who are going through hard times and I really hope this stops, no one especially as a kid should have to go through such a thing.
edit: thanks for so many likes, I've never had so many and wasn't expecting or looking forward to likes for this comment because this was just me rage typing in the moment, but I'm glad people are standing up for themselves and others. More power to you guys
Yes agreed, I can't imagine how many victims get shunned by their own family members as well for speaking up 🥺 it hurts my heart so much 🥺💔
@@rebeccalopez555 it's truly painful to even think about
im a kid and i go to the park alone nothing happends but i still think there will be something there i look every were just in case we life in a very peaceful place tho :)
@Violet Morgan omg ur cousin is sick no ofence.....
@Violet Morgan i can see you hate his guts im making a story of an "elf on the shelf" is what its called just for christmas
I relate to every second of this far too much, I was 14 and eight years later I am finally coming to grips with it.
proud of u
To all the victims of sexual assault:
I’m praying for you! Don’t let this hold you back because you are scared. Things like this are traumatic, but you can get through it. I believe in you!
Thank you
this needs more replies
i bet every victim who read this comment, appreciated it, even i thank you even though im not a victim of this type of stuff
you could be saving lives just by those words, so thank you to you, and everyone else, commenting kind things for the victims of sexual assault
Thank you 😢😭
That cashier is now my spirit animal.
danielaxaguilar Yasssss
danielaxaguilar I'm with you
danielaxaguilar yes!
danielaxaguilar oml same
She's in a vegan recipe video and she just swears constantly it's amazing
I was almost raped 2 TIMES
My mother told me to stop overreacting. She said it my fault and for the longest time, I thought it was. It was my fault I wore such clothes. It was my fault I answered that damn door. It was my fault I didn't say anything. It was my fault i didn't fight back. It was my fault.......
That I got sexually assaulted
I hope nothing happens to other people either, us women deserve better, were not toys labeled "play with us,hurt us, we don't have any right to tell a soul"
IT. IS. NOT. YOUR. FAULT.
It doesn’t matter what a person wears, looks like or does, no one is ever allowed to sexually assault another human being.
It wasn't your faut.
Stay strong 💓
Nothing is your fault its your moms fault for not believing her fault for not trusting her baby
Nothing is ur fault. It was ur moms and that person. Everything is an accident. People wish that time can go back so they can change it. People regret things. But you have to keep moving forward. That is the way life works. But do something about it or it will have a bad outcome.
It was not your fault and your mother doesn't know what she is talking about
EVA you're a super strong woman! You're literally a queen! here is your crown 👑 we love you so much
I am shaking after reading the comments on here, i haven't gone through sexual assault and just reading these are giving me goosebumps. I am 14 and nothing like this has ever happened to me. I am beyond grateful but reading this makes me imagine that would i do if someone ever does that to me? The people who've gone through this are so strong. I respect all of you so much. I hope the cases of sexual assault decrease. Sending you love.
Nice but if it ever happen try to fight
its horrible. it happened to me when i was 12 and onwards. the worst thing is you cant do anything about it, theyre usually bigger and stronger than you,and ur frozen in fear. your heart drops and you just have a mind blank jusst trying to process whats going on. its one of the worst experiences ive had
@@juri7507 yes u r right and I was 1 year ago it happen to me
same
Nice that it never happened with you. It happened with me when I was 7 and I didn't know how to react. So it mostly happen when we're innocent and by our close ones as for me it was my uncle.
Such a beautiful message Eva, I cannot wait to read your book❤️
Floral Princess Love you 💘💘
your so right ,I cant wait either Floral Princesss
Floral Princess Is this story real?
Lol
Zain Ali yes
the fact there are over 5000 dislikes on this video really scares me
AlexBrokeIt same
i noticed that too...
AlexBrokeIt why? I don't understand
I disliked because she made it seem like the police didn't want to help her on purpose. there is a reason the case was dropped and that is because there isn't enough evidence. also because she made it seem like only girls get raped. Just feminist propaganda. I see 3rd wave feminism, I dislike.
AlexBrokeIt guys also get raped and feminists say that they don't want us to push our political beliefs on them but what are feminists doing when the protest
i watched this few years ago and i had no clue what was going on in this video because i was like 11 but now that i’m 15 this year and more educated on these kinds of topic all i have to say is thank you Eva for making this video and i’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m sure this video helped so many people get through their trauma and also educated lots of people who aren’t too aware of this serious topic.
This is probably one of the most saddest Comment sections I've ever seen :(( Hope that those who have gone through similar Situations to Eva are well and safe x
It's amazing this happens to so many women and girls, m'kay; it kinda turns me on, m'kay
@Emma Lee you would like someone to do a hot Cosby to you?
@@reek4062 what do you mean?
@@fariaarham9339 you know what I mean
@Issabella Conroy a lot of men measured her, m'kay
Around a month ago a few boys got me blackout drunk at a party in a really sketchy suburb, I was drunk to the point I couldn't process anything, couldn't fight and I had no strength. The three boys carried me to the nearby woods as it was a sketchy park party and tore all my clothes off and they all raped me. I don't want to get in much detail but all I remember was myself screaming and crying. A week later I finally found the courage to tell what I thought was a close friend. Two days later at school all I got was dirty stares and could feel and see, whispers about me and eyes looking at me. My 'friend' had spread it around the whole school, it even reached up to grade 12 (I'm in grade 9). I was called a slut and I had 'no self respect' I was treated like a scum, and people told me that I probably enjoyed it. A week later I tried to kill myself and went into a coma for a few days. I'm currently in and out of hospital, have counselling nearly everyday and can't go to school. #NoMeansNo
I really pray and hope that you can recover from this! It makes me sick to hear that not only were you raped but that the people in your school blamed you? THE VICTIM !! It is not your fault! You're incredibly strong and the fact that you are still alive with all this burden proves that.I'm sure it will get better and i hope from all my heart that it will.
Gia Anahera I hope you will get better. Stay strong
Gia Anahera it will get better and you have all my respect #NoMeansNo
This isn't victim blaming and I 100% feel for you... but this is a prime example why young people shouldn't drink, you're too inexperienced too young and it's extremely dangerous... please wait until you're older and wiser, with a better world view, it's just not safe otherwise.
Gia Anahera...i feel so bad for you..i wish you never would've told your friend and shared the matter with someone more close like your parents and because they are the ones who really care and are always there in life..😞
I’m 14. One year ago I got into a relationship and he sexually assaulted and abused me. I hated that I put myself in that situation but I’m glad that I’ve started to feel better. Thank you!
Lillian I'm sorry that happened to you
@@bensmith8957 Aww thank you! But it's okay! He taught me a lot about myself and I regret nothing :)
I was in the same situation. Days before he broke up with me he touched me and undressed me and stuff. A few days later he says to me that he hasnt liked me in weeks. At which I come to the conclusion he sexually used me. The first time he touched me I tried to stop it but I couldnt say no for whatever reason. I did try to physically stop him but that didnt work either. He continued touching me to the point where I thought I liked it. So basically he brainwashed me for months, and then broke up with me as if I was some broken toy
This is the first time I've talked about this and it feels really good. I was also 14 at the time which is in my opinion very/too young. Im now 16
@@renatewellner910 I'm so sorry that you went through this. Going through this stuff especially at such a young age is very hard.. How are you doing now though?
It’s sad that most woman go through some kind of sexual harassment. Eva, your so strong and never give up cause of some nonse
This is so inspiring. I was sexually assaulted as a 6 year old and I'm now 15. It still hurts me everyday.
Lauren Greathouse I'm sorry.
Lauren Greathouse I'm so sorry
Lauren Greathouse I'm sorry to hear that 😪
six years old... im so sorry... i hope you're doing better and on your way to recovery. you're not alone.
Lauren Greathouse I've never been a victim, but I can tell u this from what I do know, don't let anyone tell u that u r not good enough, or don't let anyone insult you. Figure out a way to get through this. Even if it happened a while ago it still bothers you and it would still bother me too. I would love for you to just do what Eva said and say no. I'm supporting you through this even tho I may not know u I am still supporting u and encouraging u to get through this. My thoughts and prayers are with u❤️️
This is SO powerful...Love you Eva!
HelloMaphie I love you! ❤😭
HelloMaphie holaaaa!! 😃😃
HelloMaphie you are amazing!!!
HelloMaphie Omçg I love your channel
HelloMaphie OMG I LOVE YOUR VIDS
The start of may i started an internship at one of the biggest hotel in my country. I loved my job then i met this guy who i thought was my friend. But one night he cornered me and proposed to drop me off back home after my shift in exchange of sex. I thought he was kidding and said no.. he followed me and grabbed my waist promising me that no one would know because the windows of his car are tinted. I felt disgusted because his gf was the HR of my hotel. Few weeks after i told my bf who convinces me to report him. All he got was a warning. I see him everyday and i started feeling unmotivated to go to work because few people say that i deserve whatever happened because i was asking for it. Which is simply not true.
Don't even know if anyone will read this but i felt the need to comment my story.. :/
I am sorry that he wasn't put away in a place were he can never do that to you or someone else. Stay strong. Make sure to talk to someone if you are feeling uncomfortable or are feeling troubled.
Remember, you are loved, amazing, strong and many more positive things but I love you
Oh wow I didn't realize that so many people read my story. After posting that I remember having a panic attack at work and it wasn't the first time so after talking to a therapist we agreed that I needed a break so I quit.. And would still get texts from few people there saying pretty mean stuff But yh I left that job and feel so much happier. Your comments truly truly made me feel better. Thank you for being so kind
Anne -Sophie people read your whole story because we care about you 🙂❤️
Anne -Sophie Aw you don’t deserve that
Please, don't act as if nothing happened. Do not "wait until you get older" to talk about it. There is no "one day I will tell my parents" because we need to speak and and knock some sense into people. If anything, you may even stop a person from raping another one! You might be able to save a life from trauma! Speak up and say NO! Run, scream, get attention, throw things at them, scratch them, bite them, but never hide! While you are waiting to tell someone, they might be raping other people too!
Never forgive the abusers, because such people never change and they will think it is okay. Never stand up for them. Run to the police or the authorities despite your fears! The WILL believe you!
Some tips:
If they touch you, start to scream, attack etc. Pepper spray, hair spray, chili power, hot sauce, it all works.
If they rape you, do not wash away the blood , do not touch that area AT ALL even if there is no blood. The police can get DNA evidence and take measures against the abuser.
Looking at all these comments, reading so many stories, and knowing people that have gone through this. NOBODY in the world should have to go through this.
Seeing that this is a VERY significant problem, the world needs to spread awareness. This is a fear nobody should ever have to have.
This is such a terrifying thing is should NEVER EVERhappen to ANYBODY #agreed
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You are so brave, Eva! You inspire so many and God has showed you His grace. He has enabled you to use your pain as your platform! Can't wait to read the book
Love Life the reason God gives us hardships is to help us get through them and make us a better person and he created us so we could stop the evil
Love life don't even
Love life um no please shut up God is real think about it how are we here how did humans come on this earth he created humans and God didn't do it Satan did and God let it because there was a lesson so shut up please
UGHHH Amanda your such an inspiration too I love you guys
Love life who created the world?
Just looking through all those comments, my heart breaks so much. The stories of all those people are absolutely terrifying, and most of those people got sexually harassed/abused at such a young age. I cannot imagine going through all of that. Nobody has to experience anything of the sort.
If you have been a victim of sexual assault, first of all, I'm so very sorry❤️ However, remember, there are always people that will support you! You might feel sad, terrified, and uneasy, but trust me, you will get through it. There is so much life has in store for all of us, and I really want all of you to experience it. It will get better, I promise. I do. Secondly, Please TELL SOMEBODY. It's so important. You are not to be blamed, and those people will understand you, and when you tell someone - everything just becomes a tiny bit easier, and if that horrible person would be arrested - you would feel good knowing that he isn't somewhere out there raping or sexually assaulting anybody else, no innocent person. It will help you so much, I promise. Please stay strong ❤️
And if you think you have nobody - you have me. I’m on your side. I’m cheering for you, no matter where you are or who you are.
I'm so glad that Eva spread the word about the issue, as it is, for some reason, never talked about, even though it is so horrible and terrifying. This video helps so much people that have gone through it to open up, tell somebody, and get help. It also a little reminder to those people that they AREN'T the ones to blame. They were the victim, they are not horrible, they are strong.
Thank you, Eva, for spreading such an important message❤️
Cassandra Kincer I'm so sorry❤️ it will all get better❤️ Stay strong, I am so happy to know i have helped at least a bit ;)
Sascha Bor I am a victim..
Unicorn girl so sorry❤️ Have you told anybody? If you haven't, please do.. Stay strong and know that there are always people to support you❤️
Sascha Bor mine to 😢😣😳😟😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Sascha Bor your intensions are so beautiful that I'm crying just reading ur comment
I'm 16 and going through this hapend today and idk what to do anymore but his video made me feel somewhat normal. Thank u 💓
im so so sorry i truly hope you're doing okay 💖
are u okay?
when I was 8 years old me, my mum and brother moved to Hastings nz we originally came from christchurch. When we moved into our new house there was a little girl who lived next door. so I went over there and asked if she wanted to play, and she said yes. she told me that she doesn't have that many friends and she gets bulied a lot so I kept her company. I've met her family and had sleepovers, etc but there was something wrong with my friends brother and father. they looked creepy asf so I kept my distance. as I got older I was even more suspicious because the father and I were pretty close and we talked a lot he said I was like a daughter to him. but one night he told me to come outside, of course I went outside because I was stupid. and then he covered my mouth and pushed me into the garage with the brother ( my friends brother) in the garage waiting. they locked the garage door and started raping me, beating me, cutting me and many other things I don't wanna say because they are pretty nasty. After they raped and beat me I was pretty much dying because there was soooooo much blood, and of course the dad and brother left me in the garage alone. But luckily I had my phone so I rang the ambulance hardly breathing, and couldn't talk properly. some time later the ambulance came and they drove me to the hospital, and then I fainted. after recovery the doctor said I was fine and they asked me what happened? but I couldn't handle it so I ran away back to my house went into the shed and grabbed the rope out of there, tied it to a tree with a loop at the end. then I put my head through it and jumped off the chair and I was hanging BUT my mum saw me and ran out as fast as she could and she brought me down and yelled at me and was crying. so I told her what happened and she immediately rung the police and I did my statement etc. I was raped and beat last year at the age of 13 years old I'm now 14. I was really close to that family for 5 years. You never know who the person is gonna be these days even the most innocent ones are the ones to look out for sometimes.
that's my story
Mari Gong What happened to them?:o
a.mbero they are both sentenced to 20 years in jail
Mari Gong i am so sorry 😞😞 this is the most saddest thing I've heard. i hope you're fine and strong now. stay strong. we're all with you ❤
Mari Gong you are going to be ok. please all of us need to stay safe and when we grow up teLling our kids the same is crucial. this world is cruel , so please please never kill yourselves. it gets better , trust me .
Mari Gong I honestly wouldn't know the pain you went through girl, but your such an inspiration to so many people for staying so strong and fighting. My issue is domestic violence which I won't share on here, but I'm now going on 16 and life gets better. I'm so sorry this happened to you. ❤
there's so many comments relating to this, and it's devastating. I'm praying for all of you and i wish you so much love and safety
Sophia Morris stop hating
Dxngerxus Wxman just becuase she's young doesn't mean she can't have a heart please keep your mind and words away from her
potterjackson75 ii
Sophia Morris show some respect
potterjackson75 yes it's really sad please bless them
The 12 thousand dislikes are from all of the salty rapists that are scared that Eva has become such a wonderful person
You are right
Yep
Butter Diamond omg yes that’s what I thought
I agree
Or they flipped their phones over so they could like the video twice
Im going to share my story. I was in the 8th grade new to the school and was trying to adjust to a new living. On my first day i saw a guy who was really attractive and he was sweet she showed me around and talked to me about my interest. He protected me from the creeps and i felt like i could trust him. We started dating after that and during quarantine i would see him. Then one day we had went out in the warm sun and we swam then when i went back to his house i fell asleep i wasnt really wearing much other than a swimsuit and a crowshay cover up. All of a sudden i woke up and i was naked in his room. I got dressed wondering what happened and i went looking for his parents they were gone so i went downstairs he was eating and asked me if i was hungry like as if he didnt do what ge did. And i asked him what Happened and i dont remember and he said its okay you were good and i felt disgusted. I grabbed my things and left. I broke up with him before his birthday and he guilt tripped me and tried to make it seem like i caused it. When school started i was a mess he had changed his schedule to have a lunch and a class with me he sat right behind me and when i would walk by to sharpen my pencil he would go back there like he was gunna do the sake hunch over and grope my private area. Soon it became too much when he cornered me in the library and threatened me. I was so scared to do something im 5'6 hes 6'7 what was i gunna do?? So i ran to my friend and told them i went up to an officer and broke down crying telling hin he brought me to the counselor then....i went to court. I couldn't stand to look at him and since the rape had happen 6 months earlier there was nothing they could do. He walkef free i still go to school with him....he still looks at me...talks about me...i moved on and is what helped me my new boyfriend has helped me through so much hes been there im now bout to be a sophomore and im going to strive and not let him get to me.
Why do you have a boyfriend in 8th grade
@@Pine3Defyou have a point bro
reading through this comment section makes me cry. i hope and pray for every single one of you.
iiGrandeFrappe SAME 😭😭😿
sanaya dude that's mest up
"schnitzel"as a bad word? okay that funny ...sorry 💖💖🔥💕
iiGrandeFrappe Same
iiGrandeFrappe you too
I can’t believe there’s people in this world that are sooooo sickening and who do that
People who do this are absolutely disgusting
Yes they are they deserve life in prison
hell yhay
Brodie Nottle fuck those people
I got Rapt before I'm getting help
You would have never guessed by how happy she seems... everyone goes through battles. Remember that.
Shanna Newkirk exactaly what I was thinking
Shanna Newkirk EXACTLY
Shanna Newkirk ikr
Shanna Newkirk That's why I'm nice to everyone I meet. You never know what somebody's going through.
Shanna Newkirk yes xx
My heart goes out to everyone and anyone that’s had this trauma and abuse dealt on them
I love reading the comments. Once Eva shared her story, everyone else starts to come out and share their own story and I love that
Peachanyeol ikr
True
Federal Bureau of Investigation Why do you have to hate on people? Did nobody teach you to be quiet about hate? Just keep it to yourself. You can think she’s ugly, but don’t go telling us about it.
Amanaka. Why? do you want to be a dictator? kill free speech? Nobody told me to be quiet because I'm living in a free country. So you are telling me not to criticize her while you criticize me.
Federal Bureau of Investigation The Bible says to treat others how you want to be treated. Would you like it if someone said all this hurtful stuff to you? I’m not trying to ‘attack’ you or anything I’m just saying words can be hurtful even if you’re speaking your mind. It’s still rude and disrespectful to say stuff like that.
Turn this video, to a movie.
bam bam; yes
Watch Speak (or read it). Incredible movie.
bam bam; ARMY!! You're picture is Tae :D
bam bam, everytime I show up, blow up uhh :DD i know it's Bam Bam, but it just reminds me of whistle :D
bam bam; heeeyy army ❤️❤️ army are everywhere😂💘
This isn't my only story, but it's one I don't share a lot. When I was 5 my uncle locked me in the bathroom when my mom left for barely half hour and touched me. It's one of my first memories and it really hurts that I don't remember anything like my reaction, how long it lasted, or if it happened more than once. For years I tried to treat it as a dream, but I never ever forgot. It made me feel 'off' in every single way all the way until I was 15. I was an extremely moody teenager and I knew in the back of my head if I didn't tell someone I would go insane. I also developed very fast and started eating and hiding my body. When I finally told my mother she barely listened before saying he was "not mentally well" and we never talked about it again. Ever. I was afraid of men all through high school and I'm just now losing fear of intimacy. The only thing that has helped is sharing stories with my friends and reading similar stories here. I'm overwhelmed by how many young young people this happens to. Alot of this is because women and girls are seen as objects. Anyways...if you read this I really hope you feel less alone and find a lot of healing.
I know no words will ever make this pain go away. but I am so sorry this happened to you. you are so brave and strong to share your story. I hope that you feel just as strong as you mentally are. xxx
I’m sorry that’s terrible
@Violet Morgan I’m sorry, that’s terrible
I hope u r doing great now ❤️stay strong
I hate it when I hear about these stories because it makes me so sad, but I'm just so, so disappointed in the friends or mom's or anyone who's a woman and who just brushes these things off. As girls, we almost all face this and even if you don't we have to stick together!
This video was the reason I told someone about my situation that went on for 6 years I will never not love Eva for sharing this video
I was sexual assaulted by one of my brothers. I was around the age of 7 or 8. I have a very clear image of what went on. he made me touch him in places for his enjoyment. he did things to me that I didn't know was wrong at that age. Even when i didn't want to do it he would force me too. he would say "oh im going to tell mom you did this if you don't do it" and other things like that. I was not aware what we were doing. when I got older it all stoped but the memories didn't. I'm currently 15 about to turn 16. till this day my mother still doesn't know and I will never tell her. the only people who know are the 2 most important people in my life. when I realized what he did to me was sexual assaults I could never look at him the same. the memories still are there but I try to move past it. I might not ever. be the same but at least I can say I have becomes stronger. watching this made me not feel sorry for myself. watching this motivated me to not let anyone force me to doing anything that I don't feel comfortable with. I want you who is reading this to know that the troubles ,the pain your going through might be tough but in the long run. it will make you grow into a beautiful individual . stay true to yourself because that's your happiness. THANK YOU EVA ❤
osmanie charles But babe you have to tell your mom, this is unacceptable of him to touch you. He really can't hurt you or anything if your parents know, please please tell her 😭😭
Delilah Arriola sadly even if I would tell my mom I have no communication with her. she is no longer in America. but don't worry I don't see my brother anymore he's off to college. and I told on of my cousins 2 years ago.
osmanie charles well that's amazing, I'm so glad. Stay strong!
osmanie charles this really touched my heart
Delilah Arriola you saying this really made me so happy thank you and I'm glad this had a positive effect on you. just remember your worth it. thank you so much
No means NO! ❤🙌🏽 Love you Eva
Vanessa Blanco have an inspirational post card (brand on rodgers)
Vanessa Blanco hiiiii please like my videos and turn my post notifications on it would mean a lot thank you so much
HBvlogs lmaoo omg
Vanessa Blanco everything BUT yes means NO
See this is where I disagree, and hear me out when I say that people need to understand that *consent does NOT have to do with the absence of a 'NO' but rather the presence of a 'YES.'* So if a girl/boy doesn't clearly say "Yes, I want to do ___ with you" don't proceed thinking that she/he could say 'no' at any moment, because there are a lot of factors such as fear and embarrassment of humiliating you and her/himself.
Looking through this comments is like taking a sledgehammer to my heart. I pray for all of those who have been through sexual assault, sexual abuse, abuse, and all the other horrible things that have happened. And I hope you all justice some day.
Celaena S 😂😂😂 just out of the blue you see this comment lmao I'm dying
Celaena S that not a nice thing to say to ANYONE
I have been I told the police and the police have sorted it I came to this vid to see who has been through the same
Natalie pride ok Im sorry if you're triggered but it wasn't aimed at anybody in particular so I guess it's ok :'((((((
VICTORIA TORRES I
To all of yall survivors,
You're so incredibly strong. And it wasn't your fault, please remind yourself that every day. You did not loose ONE BIT of your worth, and you're so much more of a person then the one that hurt you.
Im so proud of you for being here today, and the fact you can even speak about what happened, is so unbelievably strong
The fact that there are dislikes on this video is sad and really terrifies me
Abby Kassel Some people think this video isn't taking the right approach.
Fangirl Trash lmaooo fam same tho
Abby Kassel true...
Why would it terrify you?
Sivans boy seriously? Are you daft?
When I was 16 my mother died during the summer holidays... One night I went out to get some skittles. (don't ask)
I walked to the store and bought them. Halfway from my home, a guy drove up to me from the road.
"Hey, girl you need a ride?" The dude asked.
I said no and continued walking.
"Oh yeah, I'm your mom's friend!"
When I heard that sentence I ran. My mother is dead. And she didn't have friends.
The guy chased me in his car and grabbed me. I got kidnapped. He abused me... No one to run to. I escaped. The window was open so I ran. A few weeks later I was back in school. My dad didn't care though, he was an alcoholic. He abused me to, so I was used to it. As I walked to school I met up with my friend. She asked me what happened and I told her the story. She asked the school if we could go to the police and they said yes. Now the guy is in jail. Sorry if it was long this was 2 years ago. I am now graduated and living a good potato life. Love ya peeps😉💜
@Four Knocks How would you know? You don't know what I've been through.
@Four Knocks and boys don't?
I'm not creative omg that’s so sad 😭 😔
Oh my God...
Da Potato omg that’s so sad I am glad it’s over but I feel so sorry for u
Im legit almost crying from just reading the comments of other peoples stories.....
Same, didn't go through anything like this ever but I wanna melt into a puddle of tears knowing how repulsive some people can be
Oml, Same..
ok
Yes me too
sames
*I'm so sorry, stay strong! I also have a similar thing I want to share*
So this happened around 2016. I was just 7. My family (-my dad) were visiting my Auntie (mom's sister) it was pretty usual for us to stay there a week or so. I actually didn't like it there that much cause of several reasons
Including:
- Sometimes net goes out
-Electricity
- waking up late
*The waking up late part*
The problem was cause I was used to wake up for school at 6:00 am, I usally woke up early. So did my brothers, but my mom and Auntie, uncle,cousins wouldn't. We would usally starve for 2-3 hours, and then get a proper break fast.
*The main Story*
Ok so my uncle (mom sister's husband) was not so close with me. Lets just name him *xyz* so he was like a normal relative. One time tho he touched me in my no no area. I moved his hand and confusingly asked
*what are you doing?*
He said
*since you're gonna be a big girl, I thought why shouldn't I tell u what happens in The future*
I was like
*I'm going, mama is calling me* (she actually was)
He did touch me, for all the time i came to visit them, he also said not to tell anyone that this happend. I was also scared and decided that i shouldn't. *BAD CHOICE*! After that he once said that *there was a girl, (lets call her "the neighbor")*
"She was around ur age and used to strip for me, I would touch her and we would call. But now I don't since I have you now"
I was small so I didn't knew he was cheating on my aunt. (GOOD THING HE WASN'T, CAUSE THAT WAS A LIE TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD)
*one night* it so happend that my mom was laying for me and my small brother to fall asleep. I didn't cause I quickly Changed from a Morning person to a night owl. After she went, *xyz* came in to the room, and touched my thighs and was massaging them? He also touched there.. I stayed quite so that he thinks i was sleeping. Before the night that happend I told him to stop and said I would tell everyone what happened #guessimablackmailer and he said
*"s-sorry"*
In my head, I was like *like sorry is enough* and after that, it happened. I confronted him the next day and said
*this I the last warning uncle, please don't ever try to touch me... please!*
All he said was
*ok, and how did you know i touched you, were you awake?!*
All I Said was
*yes*
After that, he would still touch me and it hurt me. When i left to go back to my home, he said
*be prepared the next time*
*...*
It was 2018 at that time, we haven't met cause in 2019 my baby brother came to this world, and my big brother was having an exam. And at 2020 we had the pandemic, 2021 cause of the pandemic again, but idk about 2022.
*No one knows about this, I haven't told anyone about this. I know my family is supportive and they will believe me but I don't want drama, divorce between my uncle and aunt, just a normal life.
*In early July* I think me and my bestie were swinging at the park. This one dude winked at me and i thought it was nothing. I ignored it. But boy when we were both going to my house, he was standing by the building I started walking abit faster but my friend couldn't as she just had her vaccine. I reached inside the building and as soon as i got in, I heard a scream
*ZOYA RUN!!*
Me and her ran for it! I almost tripped but I couldn't let it be the movies. She told me that he was showing his d**k to her! Everyone in my and her family knows about this but not about the showing part. And were taking alot of cautions now. Earlier my bestie told me she had seen him at the grocery store.
*All we have to do is stay strong, and be strong enough to say no!*
Please tell your family about your uncle! This isn’t ok, and you shouldn’t have to live in fear of seeing him again. I know what that’s like, and it still affects me till this day. You deserve better! And your aunt shouldn’t have to live with someone who would do something like this.
@@susankillick2276 agreed.
Fatherless
Why is the last story so funny😂
Oh my gosh…
Tell ur family!
Also I have the same name as you
reading these comments are so heartbreaking. i am crying cause why would people do stuff like this.
ikr.....
people who are ass holes do it and peeps who wanna have sex
Because people are evil and crazy
That's just who people are sometimes 😔😬
i was molested by my stepfather about three years ago and i still haven’t told anyone. i don’t talk to anymore at all. he would come into my room at night and stick his hands in my underwear and do very inappropriate stuff. i didn’t know what to do so i told him to stop coming in my room at night and he didn’t. this went on for about a year and i hated sleeping at my moms house. i kept telling her he kept coming into my room at night but i never told her what he was doing. i hope this never happens to anyone. and anyone who has experienced something like this i’m praying for you.
You are strong and you should tell your mother exactly what happened, you and your mom deserve better than that disgusting man
Ade Line please tell your mom what happens. you do not have to go through this. your mother deserves a better man. he is basically lying to her, pretending to be a different person than he really is. please take care of yourself and stay safe. don’t be afraid to talk to her.
why are we the same
Ade Line This happened to me the same exact thing
Ade Line and I’m 11...
The comment section shook me and the fact that so many people can relate to eva is upsetting 💔
Harshita's Kitchen yeah
Harshita's Kitchen I can relate
I can relate too
I completely agree the comments section made me mad and sad I was not expecting this many people with the same experience
Harshita's Kitchen same😪
I’ve been sexually assaulted multiple times, I’m barely 13. I’ve been groped, touched, played with, grabbed, etc. This video hits so close to home. It absolutely breaks my heart.
I'm sorry that happened to you
@@bensmith8957 this is such a sweet comment, thanks man.
i am so sorry all that has happened to you. i cant imagine going through that once but multiple times?! you are so freaking strong and i know you will overcome this and grow stronger from it❤️❤️
Oh. My. God. Eva I always thought of you as this cute, happy, cheerful girl, and then I heard this... I literally started crying 😭
Me too
Same
I was like WAIT AVA
She still is our happy, cheerful and cute girl, the only thing is that she has gone through a really hard time and she still knows how to be happy even after all this.
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Everyone read the title and got this giant knot of fear in their stomach.
Please stay safe everyone
dabmom same
Eleanor Roper yep im súper scared😱😨😰😢
same
same
When I was 15 I was on a bus on my way to school. The bus was practically empty, maybe two other people were on the ground level. At the next stop this man- around twice my age- got on the bus and decided to sit next to me. I knew this wasn't good considering there were so many empty seats and yet he still chose to sit next to me. After a few minutes I felt his hand go up my school skirt and start to stroke my thigh. I was in shock and didn't know what to do. I was so frozen with fear I didn't feel like I could tell him to stop, yell for help, or even move. I tried to edge closer to the window but his hand stayed gripped on my leg. This carried on for about 10 minutes (it felt like a lot longer). When I got off the bus I felt a mixture or fear, embarrassment and I even felt ashamed at what had happened to me. At that age I didn't even consider that what he did was illegal and that I could report him to the police. I ended up telling my friends later that morning and that resulted in the school contacting the police for me. There was a trial 6 months later, after multiple interviews and investigations, in which I had to talk about what I had gone through in front of a jury. He ended up getting around 2 years in prison for doing the same thing to multiple girls and women.
There were a few things that really upset me at the time. Obviously that I had be touched by a stranger on my way to school, in a public place. But surprisingly, my friends had made me feel guilty that I hadn't gone to the bus driver or told the man to stop touching me. They said "If I was in that situation I would've shouted at him and reported him to the driver'... But they weren't in that situation. I want anyone who has gone through something similar to know that firstly, we all react in different ways in any given situation, and secondly, you can't know what that reaction will be until you're there. Some people will defend themselves, and others will freeze and not know what to do. If you fall into the latter group please know that it in no way means you have unintentionally consented to that assault (yes something as insignificant as a man touching your leg against your will is sexual assault as I found out), but more importantly, you are not weak.
I know that what happened to me is no where near as traumatic as something as disgusting as rape, but I thought I would share my experience anyway. Like me, you might not think that something as simple as a stranger stroking your leg is sexual assault, but it is. He got prison time to prove it. I am now 19 and studying law at university. I would be lying if I didn't say that part of my decision to become a lawyer was because of what happened to me. The way my lawyer and the judge dealt with my case made me realise I have the power to potentially make someone feel as comfortable as I did during such an ordeal.
It's true that I won't forget what happened to me, as trivial as you might think it was, but I have moved on and you will too.
Katarina Inganni
Thank you for sharing this x
Katarina Inganni something similar happened to me! I was at a convention, and while talking to my friends this guy brushed past me and ran his hand over my waist. I didn't think anything of it and he didn't apologize so I figured he just bumped into me. But he kept walking past like 6 more times, each time touching more of me and for longer, eventually going from my shoulder down to my hips. I was so uncomfortable but my friends didn't seem to notice and I figured it wasn't a big deal. Now I realize I should have shouted at him, or removed myself from that situation. It's never okay for someone to inappropriately touch you, but I feel like we're taught that sexual assault/harassment is isolated to rape and we're being over dramatic if we report about anything else. 😕
Okay I didn't feel like sharing my story as my own so for now it will just be a reply
Okay so when I was like 5 or 6 I I don't know what to call it so I'll let you guys tell me if it was bad or not but I remember handing out with my dad and just watching a movie when all of a sudden he would grab my hand and just place it on his "you know" and I specifically remember thinking that's weird so I would put my hand back on his stomache but he would pit my hand back on his private so young me didn't think of it much "okay" and went on watching the movie. Also there was this other time where I remember where he was just grabbing me like tickleing. After that we were just laying on the bed chilaxing and he suddenly he puts his hand down my pants. And starts touching my privates while questing me "what is this?" I said say "pippecha" in spanish to him. Which translates to "vagina" and so on .He would be touching my ass to ugh it hurts me today😭. There would be so many more times where he would be grabbing my private for example I would ask for a piggy back ride and he would touch me. I don't know I was little so did it matter? Was so bad as I think it is? I'm thirteen now
Emily Show yeah that is really disturbing considering you were only 5
Katarina Inganni I can relate to this 😭
This Is why I also have social anxiety
I am so insecure and I always put on a mask and everything one thinks I'm this happy individual but in reality I'm not happy,
At 13, public sexual harassment, I wore long jeans and a jumper, I was cat called so many times
I remember I was in my cooking class and I was minding my business and one girl shouted out " hey your but is massive, the whole class looked and I was soo embarrassed
Then just last year, I was wearing my PE kit and I lined up with my class, and someone ran up to me and pinched my bum and ran off, the boys started laughing
Now I am soo insecure and I rarely go outside and have social anxiety and an anxiety
I was groomed by my 15-year-old cousin at 6 years old when he tried to make out with me I was 6 and I told straight away but either they thought I was lying or being dramatic it still hurts but I guess i have to deal with it on my own
U just you worries to Jesus
You shouldnt deal with it on your own, i know that times seem tough but its going to be okay, even if it isnt right now. I hope the best for you
Sweet home alabama
*these comments are heartbreaking ily all & speak up*
omg my heart broke when i read the comments, this is so horrible so see all of you having the similar situations i really hope you all are alright and stay strong i really love you all guys even though i don't know any of you but i'm literally crying hope you are safe now
ulyana brove same 😭
ulyana brove I never had this happened to me but I appreciate u trying to help everyone through their hard times. And I'm so happy that people are supporting this. The world can be a much better place with people like u in it:)
Agreed. I hope for you all to be safe. I hope for the best things to happen to you in your life, stay strong
Agreed I'm in the same way I haven't gone through this and I'm in a calamity of sad feelings for all of these humans who don't deserve them thank you for supporting them
ulyana brove do u know what raped mean
This comment section is so terribly sad 😭 To all the beautiful woman, who have ever been assaulted in their lives or know some that has... hold on my darlings because life really does get better! Eva... you're incredible! xox I love you
And of course also men, right
Ms. Nekoni men don't really get raped as much, I've never seen a reporter say it was a boy many times
Ms. Nekoni but it is still important
does that mean that they are invalid?
Bianca Frazis ty
I have never had to face any kind of trauma like this but watching this video and reading these comments literally give me a sick feeling in my stomach. Its horrible how some people can be like this and do these things. To anyone who had to go through something like this im so sorry and i hope youre ok now.
i realized after i broke up with my boyfriend that the first time we had sex it was rape. i thought because he was my bf that it wasn't. i said no, but he kept pushing it. even if you are dating the person does not mean you have to have sex with them. thanks for sharing your story, Eva.
Kelseyguurl hahahahaha... when girls are unsatisfied they tend to say that whoever they had sex with raped them... hmmm... very interesting isn't it?😂☠️
Jaylo Haylo if she said no and he continued, IT IS RAPE. its not just because it wasnt enjoyable. youre stupid for implying that and its discusting.
Jaylo Haylo honestly what the hell is wrong with you? If she said no. ITS FUCKING RAPE! That comment that you posted was awful and you're a terrible person
Molly everyone makes mistakes... ur gonna have to accept that
Jaylo Haylo but it wasn't a mistake- you meant to say it and it is so extremely wrong and fucked up for you to say something like that.
the amount of people that are commenting with similar stories is so horrible... please stay strong everyone, sending so much love xxxxxxx
Savanah Rose huhuhu
*I respect you so much Eva*
Kerry Latter 😇
Kerry Latter can I have a shoutout plz?
Ps. I think you are really pretty
Laryssa Rosie thank you
Kerry Latter *my name's literally Eva irl*
Eva you are so strong, nobody should ever go through this. You are so brave.