My parents had a truly successful marriage. It was full of laughter and tears, but there was always love. It lasted almost 51 years, and it ended when my mom lost her battle with cancer. Her last breaths were taken with her children and grandchildren around her and her husband holding her hand. No one can convince me a successful marriage will end in divorce.
Marriage has never been about our happiness God created marriage. He never said it was to make each other happy. We are too glorify. God he said many trials will come it’s about us growing together. It’s never been about happiness, when we marry, we make a covenant between God and us if we divorce we just gave up unless there was adultery involved or abuse. The kids are the ones that always suffer.
I said this for a while. I am sure she delve into New Age Spiritualism because the ideology is always about self. It is not intentional thought, but that is the focus of that practice.
she has, she burns incense , sage and manifestation candles. She also wears crystals. Tia removed Jesus from her bio on Instagram and all she ever dances to is beyonce music and rap. I follow her on insta and have seen her change in the last three years from God.
Came here to say this. The latest video she posted showed her smudge bowl where she burns sage. She has a double-minded Hollywood worldview & it’s clear.
Noone in the biz are truly Christians- they are allowed to say that in order to influence. All of her family including Tamera wear a red kabala bracelet
@@shanikataylor4361 I remember they were professing Christians during Sister Sister. Then I didn't hear much about them til The Game. Reminds me of Darius McCrary. He used to profess Christ, but seems to have strayed. As far as I know their fellow TGIF actress Candace Cameron still professes Christ. This is my first time hearing about burning sage. I guess it's associated with witchcraft, new age, or sorcery.
The real graduation from marriage is you being able to put God first and make your marriage a life time commitment. Years ago we married for a life, we love for life, we honor our vows and out commitment to God and each other, and people who marriages last a life time know if something starts going wrong, you fix it you don’t throw it away.
Tia started letting the feminist movement and social media influence her to divorce her husband! A curriculum? I didn’t know it wasn’t considered a covenant anymore! God help her to come back to you, because this was a woman who throughout her career believed in Christ!
@@shaeakins2670 it’s not just women…ppl who don’t have a full understanding or relationship with God select happiness over family. This world encourages selfishness, and if you don’t have God as your foundation, it’s easy to do as the world instructs vs what God instructs. That’s why it’s important for us Christians to read our word DAILY! That way as we go throughout our day we are considering the Lord and what he’s instructing us to do!!
She's full of beans! Regarding marriage: If love is the "house", then the foundation is... ...COMMITMENT! My wife was dating well before our divorce was final. People asked me why I wasn't dating too, and I replied, "Because the vows I made before God MEANT something to me!"
lol divorce is like a graduation…no shade to her but that is the dumbest reasoning I have ever heard. Yes, divorce happens (as a Christian it is not desirable mind you) but pls don’t try and refine it as graduation, rubbish!
Every time she talks about her divorce, it's always all about her. She's the only one in that family who is "celebrating" her divorce. Sounds pretty Godless and New Age to me. Been there! She can't talk bad about him, because that decision was all about her. Pray for the ex-husband and especially for the children
Great commentary. Tia no longer wanted to be in the marriage. No abuse, no neglect. no cheating.. She was bored and not feeling excited about we're they were in life. This was not Corey's fault. The monsters in her head. Also, the Bible teaches that the heart is the most foolish of them all. She was a flop in the marriage. He was stripped from the marriage and being in the home with his children. He has spoken on it and allowed others to know how he cried himself to sleep at night. No, she behaved like a spoiled brat.
I pray that no one listens to anything she says. Tia is deceived. The enemy convinced her of this. It is one thing if her husband abused her and did not honor the marriage, but she said that is not the case. I've been married for almost 31 years and everything she is saying I Know For a Fact are Nothing But Lies From the Enemy. Don't fall for it. Seek God and seek Him together.
I left my first marriage because my ex-husband was physically, mentally, and verbally abusive. He was not seeking help, but he felt it was his right to abuse me. I left because I was no longer safe. It was not a graduation; it was survival.
Very interesting 🤔💭👯 Keep in mind that Tia is a publicly devout new ager while Tamera is a publicly devout Christian at the time of this post. They're twins but they're definitely not joined at the hip and Tamera's and her spouse's faith-based principles may have played a role in why their marriage is outlasting. This is a good convo and critically constructive view w/o bashing Tia and that's respectable.
Malachi 2:16 “For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce,” “For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts.” “Therefore take heed to your spirit that you do not deal treacherously”
I've spoken about this and both confirmed there was no abuse or adultery also she went straight back into the dating market after the divorce she left for selfish reasons and destroyed her children's lives
Tia is not happy within herself. She needs the peace of God. She has a restless spirit. Nothing and no one will make her happy for long. She turned to this new age spiritually and Corey seemed to be grounded in Christ. Darkness cannot comprehend light. The demon in her was irritated by him, as he was in Christ and she was not and therfore they became unequally yoked. We don't know all the facts, but one thing I have observed over the years with couples who have broken up. The one who level up and find success turns out to be the one who was not the problem in the relationship. The other person was blocking their blessing. One struggles and the other becomes successful. This is spiritual and deeper than you see on the surface. Christ is the center of every marriage and is harder when two people have different beliefs. Marriage is based on two becoming one. How can two become one when your spiritual beliefs are different? That is what has torn them apart. Corey continues to give God praise, have you heard Tia mentiond God. All we hear is about her and her happiness.
How do you know either of them are are not do you know them personally? We don't know if any of these " celebrities " are fallen angels, clones , etc .... I trust no one in the Industry....... but we don't know what went on in their marriage....
We don’t know what happened in the home. She is not saying anything negative about him. We need to pray for them. God can restore there relationship if it is his will.
The marriage perspective taken from a biblical perspective has to be the only one taken in these situations. Aside from outright abuse, if we're left to our on devices, we will think happiness is the ultimate goal for marriage. Good job @trackstarz
I believe that many women at this age, almost like a mid life crisis, decide to leave their marriages. I have seen it before, where the husband is a great guy, & the reasons given are similar to Tia's. The husbsnds remind me of Cory, maybe not the way they met, but similar where he's a great role model, loving his wife & children, taking care of his family,and no cheating or flirting with other women. You'd want your sons to emulate these men. Then, out of nowhere, the wife will come up with similar reasons like Tia'a to ask for divorce. No amount of counseling etc. helps. And you see the kids are hurt & troubled by this. The family broken. Never give up praying for marriages where God is recognized as Lord over the home. Pray that these areas of weakness are dealt with and healed, because the enemy is always looking around to steal kill and destroy marriages.
@@mr.dennis5503 sorry you had this experience. I pray healing of your heart, & that God give you the strength to move on & be that man he's made & called you to be. Amen!🙏
If your marriage does not bring “Glory & Honor” to God it’s a failure…Not a graduation. I believe Tia’s still going through it. Perhaps she should hold her tongue about her divorce until she’s completely through to the other side. And her testimony aligns with Gods grace for giving up her marriage based on worldly perspectives and propaganda.
Marriage is not anchored in 'happiness'- that’s a fickle emotion. Its so much more about serving than receiving. She mentioned 'growing & thriving' but in life, that is not a consistent stage to make a permanent decision for. We need to be better equipped to handle the inevitable seasons of marriage- spring, summer, winter, and fall. It can comes back around.
If you look at Tia you can see how the light she once had around her is no more. There is a darkness upon her which she herself opened the door to by engaging in activities that are not of Jesus Christ.
Marriage, is between two becoming one to fullfil Gods will together. The only reason a divorced individual should marry is the first spouse has past away. Remember, the fallen goes about accusing us before God, so that we be removed while in sin. So thinking that we getting away parading the worldly way of living has consequences with God greater then an individual who doesn't know God. Devil be snitching on everyone, even artist who declares they sold out, or not following Gods word.
Thank you so many don't understand this or don't care... I am currently standing for my marriage believing in God's promises, but the world say go and find another... but God will not give me another husband while mine is still alive... people love making exceptions when God has made his laws very clear... and that is why no one is liking your comment, unfortunately
Sounds like a person having a “ mid-life crisis” to me.. Married young, mom etc.. but if it’s HAPPINESS that she’s looking for?! Talking about “life is too short” Girl; if you are so happily divorced. Talk about something else like your new LIFE and stop making every conversation about that poor man
I think she is being respectful of their past relationship. We, on the outside, don't know what happened or the reason for the divorce. I personally think it was much deeper but they have been very cordial about the breakup. Even when he is asked, he is protective of her and respectful.
She's not staying quiet. She's been talking the entire time! "I'm in my 'happiness over everything' phase." 🤦🏽♂️ I went through this in my own marriage. All I ever tried to do was be a good husband and father. My wife walked in one day and said, "I'm not happy!" Then she proceeded to destroy EVERYTHING; My reputation, my relationship with my children; my house... Fortunately, I put my property in an asset trust before I ever met her, so she couldn't take it! My relationship with my children is restored and stronger than ever, and she has recently declared that she wants her "family back together." I'd sooner keep a pet crocodile in the house!
@JNNJ-wu3is: She ANNOUNCED the divorce! I remember when she did it, and all one could hear was "I, I, I... Me, Me, Me... My, My, My..." Meanwhile, it was Cory Hardrict who remained silent... and watched in horror as the mother of his children twerked and thirst trapped all over the internet!
I believe the same. I believe it is a way of looking at it in a positive light. I don’t believe she entered the marriage hoping it would end. One thing we have to be clear on is we are NOT God. He sees all and knows all. We will never have the entire story. I am not a fan of divorce, but we don’t know if God ordained this marriage, we don’t know when the issues began, we don’t know what happened. God uses EVERYTHING good or bad to develop you. Romans 8:28
We can not assume what was going on behind closed doors. To say he probably put her through the wringer is a significant assumption. Only God and them know the whole story.
Sometimes, a person hasn't done anything wrong to another! There are good husbands out here who have been abandoned for no good reason... ...other than the wife somehow got convinced that the "perfect man" was just standing by, waiting on her to get divorced!
Great chat gentlemen. Marriage is a sacred institution and it makes me so sad when "celebrities" are speaking like this on a platform where vulnerable people are listening to them.
I think that a divorce is like going thru a death of someone close to you. So, I think that she needs to grieve the end of her marriage. We should be careful about thinking we know what they should do. Everyone grieves differently . I am praying 🙏🏾 for both of them and their kids
We can't have expectation of those who don't recognize or acknowledge God. She has stated that she is not religious and is open to many ideologies. It's like expecting a non-believer to extend grace. That is something that may be completely foreign to them. Let's be real successful Celebrity marriages are RARE. Many people go with the wind of how they feel vs communicating, sacrificing, partnering. When you have a Godly marriage, you have an understanding that it's not necessarily about you at the end of the day. Two coming together is for the glory of God and to advance God's kingdom.
"a graduation" ? She's using that terminology to make herself feel better. She doesn't want to feel like she's failed. It's just sugar-coating. She's probably been listening to motivational speakers lol it's a very worldly way of framing things. Divorce is sad on all levels
If you're not happy with your spouse why can't it be fixed? Was there an effort? Another person tho your spouse is not the source of your happiness. So if you find yourself unhappy again in another marriage... just don't marry again.
Midlife crises, and midlife crises usually happens when someone has had an easy life. Listen to her words, graduation, she thinks she is a teenager still or someone in their early 20's. To this day I remember just browsing around on Instagram, when she was still married, and I was on Halle Berry's page, and Tia wrote a comment on it saying when I grow up I want to be just like you. Now mind you she was probably in her 40s, married with two kids? clearly in her head she thinks she is young. 40s-50s you are all the same age. Also, remember, some people struggle to get over a great time in her life, Tia is struggling to get over her Sister Sister days. She still is looking at herself as a kid, and it has come to the surface in her 40's. She panicked man. Tia is lucky she has divorced a man like Corey one who works, pays his own bills, pays for his kids and see's them with all his heart, and does not utter one bad word for his ex.
Pray for her and pray for marriages. I don’t think that she herself understood the impact of the things she said. Lord we cancel the lies of the enemy operating in her. We cancel all word curse. The lies from her mouth Lord. Let her know that she is not bigger than you. No one is. Lord whatever this is, it stops now. This is not her children portion. Lord marriage is your first ministry. Lord may we honour this for generations to come Lord.
Being in an unhealthy marriage is very toxic and soul destroying It impacts on the your children which prevents them from having healthy relationship in the future.
Her framing of the divorce is problematic. Many women will sacrifice their marriage and family for their happiness while men will sacrifice his happiness for his marriage and family.
I think she was masking the truth, this is an old interview. She had a newer one with a pod caster that was more honest. She said she felt like she was jumping through hops and no one was pouring into her, constantly having to prove that she was worthy of love. And it can happen when a spouse is suffering from other unhealed trauma. It's not that at all I think she definitely loved him but was exhausted by the marriage. She explained in a recent interview that they did do counseling and she did counseling alone. Anyway we weren't in her marriage, so we can choose to mind our business, as it's not our jobs to understand what happened. pray for them.
She just talks like this because she's embarrassed of her failures. Well, what she was supposed to say is that "she tried it but it didn't work out." Not go all poetic. She's evil.
I believe her new found Social Media fame played a part. He was not down with making those videos everyday. She wanted to be able to do what she saw other women do in the dance challenges and wear more seductive clothes and they still have their men, she was running around with Adrienne Bosh & Gabrielle Union, who probably pumped her up and she went too far and left her FAITHFUL man. We saw the headlines with those other folks . With all their drama , they have committed to staying in their marriage. Tia and Corey could have easily went to counseling and slept in separate rooms for a while. Corey was probably introvert who was not willing to take a leap of faith on things. She got tired and impatient. Now she is SINGLE, looking DESPERATE!!!. Due is getting g more Social. He got a makeover , and us taking on more roles in acting that he probably normally would turn down.
With all due respect, this is a delusional thought process and self focused. Marriage has nothing to do with being happy but to be of service to your mate. Happiness comes by allowing God to be at the center and operating in marriage the way He ordained it should be. I pray her spiritual eyes are opened and she comes to know the truth of the word.
It's not about your dog going happiness it's about God's will if you in the center of God's will both of you you will be happy but most the time what happens people never start off in God's will they got stars in their eyes with someone they never check with God if this is the right person for them trying to make something work that God never had a purpose and plan for we need to learn from it and do it differently starting with God seek first the kingdom that's why and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you all meaning all
Okay so in respect, if someone doesn't want to talk about the other person or put them in a bad light and they trying to save face (I think that's the term) then don't answer the question. Just don't talk about it at all. but just to make up some ridiculousness is insane... Just simply say that is a private matter and it will remain private... 😅😮😢🎉
Sooooo what even is the point of VOWS?? Just something to say. She clearly didn't put God in this at all. I believe Tia's issues are deeper, and they are spiritual. She needs to go back to basics and seek first the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added.
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Y'all dudes need to do your research before commenting. Your assumption was that he cheated or did something wrong which is not true and is unfair as you are now actually defaming his character that's characters assassination. She was for the streets. She said so herself. She wanted to test what's out there. There was no infidelity no abuse get that correct.
I wont judge her "why's", that's for God to know and ultimately judge...but I will say her explanation sounds deceived, like that's the story she chooses to tell to keep herself from feeling shame from her marriage failing ( for whatever reason)
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My parents had a truly successful marriage. It was full of laughter and tears, but there was always love. It lasted almost 51 years, and it ended when my mom lost her battle with cancer. Her last breaths were taken with her children and grandchildren around her and her husband holding her hand. No one can convince me a successful marriage will end in divorce.
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@@SusieQ3 your parents are couple’s goals
Marriage has never been about our happiness God created marriage. He never said it was to make each other happy. We are too glorify. God he said many trials will come it’s about us growing together. It’s never been about happiness, when we marry, we make a covenant between God and us if we divorce we just gave up unless there was adultery involved or abuse. The kids are the ones that always suffer.
I'm so thankful God doesn't graduate from us in ANY way!!!
Amen!
Right 😅
Amen! So grateful!
Right
We'd be done for.
She said marriage is like a curriculum. If that's the case she's lying to herself; she didn't graduate, she dropped out.
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Lol 😆 🤣 😂 no shade, truest talk!
Amen!
dang!!!
College dropout like Kanye.
She called her marriage a curriculum, meaning she never thought it was a lifetime commitment.....
@@codeblood2000 she did say that's how she's looking at it now. Maybe I heard wrong but that's what I heard
She said she looks at it as a curriculum, and that's her way of dealing with it instead of saying it was a failed marriage like so many say
I didn’t get that out of that.
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@@ManeThingz huh 🤣 you delulu female talk again. Huh ?
I said this for a while. I am sure she delve into New Age Spiritualism because the ideology is always about self. It is not intentional thought, but that is the focus of that practice.
she has, she burns incense , sage and manifestation candles. She also wears crystals. Tia removed Jesus from her bio on Instagram and all she ever dances to is beyonce music and rap. I follow her on insta and have seen her change in the last three years from God.
Yeah she definitely has come away from the LORD JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH THE MESSIAH
Great Observation
She has completely drrifted from Christ. She burns sage & everything now.
Yeah there was no signs of the Lord in that statement
Came here to say this. The latest video she posted showed her smudge bowl where she burns sage. She has a double-minded Hollywood worldview & it’s clear.
For sure
Noone in the biz are truly Christians- they are allowed to say that in order to influence. All of her family including Tamera wear a red kabala bracelet
@@shanikataylor4361 I remember they were professing Christians during Sister Sister. Then I didn't hear much about them til The Game. Reminds me of Darius McCrary. He used to profess Christ, but seems to have strayed. As far as I know their fellow TGIF actress Candace Cameron still professes Christ.
This is my first time hearing about burning sage. I guess it's associated with witchcraft, new age, or sorcery.
I agree, I believe her reasoning is a mask, her way of dealing with the divorce.
She chose to leave 🤦🏾♀️ though
@@nenep1872 yeah but they’re still not together and it’s still effects them
I agree. The way she was talking was as if she rehearsed that. And she’s an ACTRESS! lol
The real graduation from marriage is you being able to put God first and make your marriage a life time commitment. Years ago we married for a life, we love for life, we honor our vows and out commitment to God and each other, and people who marriages last a life time know if something starts going wrong, you fix it you don’t throw it away.
Tia started letting the feminist movement and social media influence her to divorce her husband! A curriculum? I didn’t know it wasn’t considered a covenant anymore! God help her to come back to you, because this was a woman who throughout her career believed in Christ!
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You typed the truth. I don’t think she realizes that she needs Jesus! Lord help her
@tanishahatchet7883 I honestly want to know why women select happiness over family? Are the feelings too strong? I genuinely want to know.
@@shaeakins2670 it’s not just women…ppl who don’t have a full understanding or relationship with God select happiness over family. This world encourages selfishness, and if you don’t have God as your foundation, it’s easy to do as the world instructs vs what God instructs. That’s why it’s important for us Christians to read our word DAILY! That way as we go throughout our day we are considering the Lord and what he’s instructing us to do!!
@@tanishahatchet7883True !
Marriage needs to be God’s way. Lord help us all understand this. Help us be obedient. Father help us use your platform for good, and not for self.
“What you have in your heart comes out in your life.” That’s so true!!!
She's full of beans! Regarding marriage: If love is the "house", then the foundation is...
...COMMITMENT!
My wife was dating well before our divorce was final. People asked me why I wasn't dating too, and I replied, "Because the vows I made before God MEANT something to me!"
Thank you....
Nice podcast, no cussing and talking about biblical requirements. 🙏
lol divorce is like a graduation…no shade to her but that is the dumbest reasoning I have ever heard. Yes, divorce happens (as a Christian it is not desirable mind you) but pls don’t try and refine it as graduation, rubbish!
You took the words out of my mouth 😂
Shade to her because that is a very ignorant statement!!
Every time she talks about her divorce, it's always all about her. She's the only one in that family who is "celebrating" her divorce. Sounds pretty Godless and New Age to me. Been there!
She can't talk bad about him, because that decision was all about her.
Pray for the ex-husband and especially for the children
Tia is one of those kinds of people that doesn't say what she means and doesn't mean what she says. She was talking but saying nothing.
Great commentary. Tia no longer wanted to be in the marriage. No abuse, no neglect. no cheating.. She was bored and not feeling excited about we're they were in life. This was not Corey's fault. The monsters in her head. Also, the Bible teaches that the heart is the most foolish of them all.
She was a flop in the marriage. He was stripped from the marriage and being in the home with his children. He has spoken on it and allowed others to know how he cried himself to sleep at night.
No, she behaved like a spoiled brat.
She is lost and that’s making me sad. I pray for her mental state
This was such an intelligent conversation! That's very rare on UA-cam.
Tia always seemed very worldly to me. I always preferred Tamera after watching their reality show.
@@mechelledesigns I agree, out of all the Mowry family she's very worldly
Well, just look at who she rubs shoulders with. That's where the evil influence comes from!
I pray that no one listens to anything she says. Tia is deceived. The enemy convinced her of this. It is one thing if her husband abused her and did not honor the marriage, but she said that is not the case. I've been married for almost 31 years and everything she is saying I Know For a Fact are Nothing But Lies From the Enemy. Don't fall for it. Seek God and seek Him together.
I left my first marriage because my ex-husband was physically, mentally, and verbally abusive. He was not seeking help, but he felt it was his right to abuse me. I left because I was no longer safe. It was not a graduation; it was survival.
Was the ways and tendencies of this man not seen before entering into marriage?
@SWISSMUSICFC Sometimes the "real" doesn't emerge until they are comfortable.
I'm glad you were able to get out safely
I'm so sorry! How are you doing now?
@@vlaja3777So true!
She needs to fire her PR team because not only is this ridiculous, but she delivered it like an actor. This is not good
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Agree
Very interesting 🤔💭👯 Keep in mind that Tia is a publicly devout new ager while Tamera is a publicly devout Christian at the time of this post.
They're twins but they're definitely not joined at the hip and Tamera's and her spouse's faith-based principles may have played a role in why their marriage is outlasting.
This is a good convo and critically constructive view w/o bashing Tia and that's respectable.
Malachi 2:16
“For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce,”
“For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts.”
“Therefore take heed to your spirit that you do not deal treacherously”
I've spoken about this and both confirmed there was no abuse or adultery also she went straight back into the dating market after the divorce she left for selfish reasons and destroyed her children's lives
Facts
@@proverbs31university 304s will always be 304s
She said that he was a good husband and father, so I'm not sure he did anything....
This video keeps stopping once it gets to 6:30. Happened to me four times.
Yeah me to.
@@jackseve I’m experiencing the same thing now.
It’s weird as the channel is still on and appears to be playing, but no sound and screen is frozen. Oh it’s back on now 7:28 it came back on.
Tia is not happy within herself. She needs the peace of God. She has a restless spirit. Nothing and no one will make her happy for long. She turned to this new age spiritually and Corey seemed to be grounded in Christ. Darkness cannot comprehend light. The demon in her was irritated by him, as he was in Christ and she was not and therfore they became unequally yoked. We don't know all the facts, but one thing I have observed over the years with couples who have broken up. The one who level up and find success turns out to be the one who was not the problem in the relationship. The other person was blocking their blessing. One struggles and the other becomes successful. This is spiritual and deeper than you see on the surface. Christ is the center of every marriage and is harder when two people have different beliefs. Marriage is based on two becoming one. How can two become one when your spiritual beliefs are different? That is what has torn them apart. Corey continues to give God praise, have you heard Tia mentiond God. All we hear is about her and her happiness.
How do you know either of them are are not do you know them personally? We don't know if any of these " celebrities " are fallen angels, clones , etc .... I trust no one in the Industry....... but we don't know what went on in their marriage....
@@chrishenry7303 well said
I bet tia is replaying this on her tv saying "I really sounded dumb as ever with this graduation non sense"🤦♂️
She should be
This lady trying to gaslight everybody with this nonsense. We don't get to change God's design of marriage.
Amen! Vertical marriage is crucial, both connected to Yah and connections to each other 🙌🏼
Tia is lost
We don’t know what happened in the home. She is not saying anything negative about him. We need to pray for them. God can restore there relationship if it is his will.
@angelarice-tucker4305 I agree.
Is love a feeling or a decision? Is God's love a feeling or a decision? 🤔
My mom always said love is a verb.
Decision
A decision ALL DAY and there are seasons where making the choice is painfully difficult. And this applies to friendships as well.
All Tia did was make Corey more famous and more desirable.
The marriage perspective taken from a biblical perspective has to be the only one taken in these situations. Aside from outright abuse, if we're left to our on devices, we will think happiness is the ultimate goal for marriage. Good job @trackstarz
This is so cool….brothers vibezing about marriage in a biblical manner
I believe that many women at this age, almost like a mid life crisis, decide to leave their marriages. I have seen it before, where the husband is a great guy, & the reasons given are similar to Tia's. The husbsnds remind me of Cory, maybe not the way they met, but similar where he's a great role model, loving his wife & children, taking care of his family,and no cheating or flirting with other women. You'd want your sons to emulate these men. Then, out of nowhere, the wife will come up with similar reasons like Tia'a to ask for divorce. No amount of counseling etc. helps. And you see the kids are hurt & troubled by this. The family broken. Never give up praying for marriages where God is recognized as Lord over the home. Pray that these areas of weakness are dealt with and healed, because the enemy is always looking around to steal kill and destroy marriages.
I went through it, and she STILL couldn't tell you what I did wrong!
@@mr.dennis5503🙏🙏🙏
@@mr.dennis5503 sorry you had this experience. I pray healing of your heart, & that God give you the strength to move on & be that man he's made & called you to be. Amen!🙏
Amen
If your marriage does not bring “Glory & Honor” to God it’s a failure…Not a graduation. I believe Tia’s still going through it. Perhaps she should hold her tongue about her divorce until she’s completely through to the other side. And her testimony aligns with Gods grace for giving up her marriage based on worldly perspectives and propaganda.
She needs a lot of counseling!
People give up on marriages too quickly!
Marriage is not anchored in 'happiness'- that’s a fickle emotion. Its so much more about serving than receiving. She mentioned 'growing & thriving' but in life, that is not a consistent stage to make a permanent decision for. We need to be better equipped to handle the inevitable seasons of marriage- spring, summer, winter, and fall. It can comes back around.
Amen guys !!!! Love this ❤
If you look at Tia you can see how the light she once had around her is no more. There is a darkness upon her which she herself opened the door to by engaging in activities that are not of Jesus Christ.
Marriage, is between two becoming one to fullfil Gods will together.
The only reason a divorced individual should marry is the first spouse has past away.
Remember, the fallen goes about accusing us before God, so that we be removed while in sin.
So thinking that we getting away parading the worldly way of living has consequences with God greater then an individual who doesn't know God.
Devil be snitching on everyone, even artist who declares they sold out, or not following Gods word.
Thank you so many don't understand this or don't care... I am currently standing for my marriage believing in God's promises, but the world say go and find another... but God will not give me another husband while mine is still alive... people love making exceptions when God has made his laws very clear... and that is why no one is liking your comment, unfortunately
Sounds like a person having a “ mid-life crisis” to me..
Married young, mom etc.. but if it’s HAPPINESS that she’s looking for?! Talking about “life is too short”
Girl; if you are so happily divorced. Talk about something else like your new LIFE and stop making every conversation about that poor man
Amen put God in your center of your marriage ❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
6:26 it cuts off and it was at a great advice part.
I think she is being respectful of their past relationship. We, on the outside, don't know what happened or the reason for the divorce. I personally think it was much deeper but they have been very cordial about the breakup. Even when he is asked, he is protective of her and respectful.
@JNNJ-wu3isBS
She's not staying quiet. She's been talking the entire time! "I'm in my 'happiness over everything' phase." 🤦🏽♂️ I went through this in my own marriage. All I ever tried to do was be a good husband and father. My wife walked in one day and said, "I'm not happy!" Then she proceeded to destroy EVERYTHING; My reputation, my relationship with my children; my house...
Fortunately, I put my property in an asset trust before I ever met her, so she couldn't take it! My relationship with my children is restored and stronger than ever, and she has recently declared that she wants her "family back together." I'd sooner keep a pet crocodile in the house!
@JNNJ-wu3is:
She ANNOUNCED the divorce! I remember when she did it, and all one could hear was "I, I, I... Me, Me, Me... My, My, My..."
Meanwhile, it was Cory Hardrict who remained silent...
and watched in horror as the mother of his children twerked and thirst trapped all over the internet!
@JNNJ-wu3is he never asked for financial support.
I believe the same. I believe it is a way of looking at it in a positive light. I don’t believe she entered the marriage hoping it would end. One thing we have to be clear on is we are NOT God. He sees all and knows all. We will never have the entire story.
I am not a fan of divorce, but we don’t know if God ordained this marriage, we don’t know when the issues began, we don’t know what happened.
God uses EVERYTHING good or bad to develop you. Romans 8:28
Between 6:19 & 7:21 the Enemy appeared. Lol, some audio & video issues because y’all speaking a word!
@@d.t.richardson3762 thought it was just me. Thanks!
Same here
We can not assume what was going on behind closed doors. To say he probably put her through the wringer is a significant assumption. Only God and them know the whole story.
Sometimes, a person hasn't done anything wrong to another! There are good husbands out here who have been abandoned for no good reason...
...other than the wife somehow got convinced that the "perfect man" was just standing by, waiting on her to get divorced!
Great chat gentlemen.
Marriage is a sacred institution and it makes me so sad when "celebrities" are speaking like this on a platform where vulnerable people are listening to them.
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Some people’s vocabulary is so shallow, all they have is outward beauty.🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think that a divorce is like going thru a death of someone close to you. So, I think that she needs to grieve the end of her marriage. We should be careful about thinking we know what they should do. Everyone grieves differently . I am praying 🙏🏾 for both of them and their kids
Double Dutch, double clutch, double talk nonsense by this woman 😂…
Seriously, graduation from marriage is death.
We can't have expectation of those who don't recognize or acknowledge God. She has stated that she is not religious and is open to many ideologies. It's like expecting a non-believer to extend grace. That is something that may be completely foreign to them. Let's be real successful Celebrity marriages are RARE. Many people go with the wind of how they feel vs communicating, sacrificing, partnering. When you have a Godly marriage, you have an understanding that it's not necessarily about you at the end of the day. Two coming together is for the glory of God and to advance God's kingdom.
This is exactly why our young adults are a messed because they listen to these people that don’t know anything about biblical commitments!
I were stationed in Hawaii with them and attended the same church.
She talks too much
Yes ma'am, she does. WAAAAY too much!
The 304 lifestyle.shes out here living now tells me otherwise. She thought that grass was greener and now she's out her acting a fool.
The grass is greener in two places:
1. Where you care for it!
2. Over a leaking septic tank!
@mr.dennis5503 brother!! I'm taking this
"a graduation" ? She's using that terminology to make herself feel better. She doesn't want to feel like she's failed. It's just sugar-coating.
She's probably been listening to motivational speakers lol it's a very worldly way of framing things.
Divorce is sad on all levels
If you're not happy with your spouse why can't it be fixed? Was there an effort? Another person tho your spouse is not the source of your happiness. So if you find yourself unhappy again in another marriage... just don't marry again.
I think a lot of people move too fast because they want to be married. Then, they find themselves faking it. It's hard living a false narrative.
Midlife crises, and midlife crises usually happens when someone has had an easy life. Listen to her words, graduation, she thinks she is a teenager still or someone in their early 20's. To this day I remember just browsing around on Instagram, when she was still married, and I was on Halle Berry's page, and Tia wrote a comment on it saying when I grow up I want to be just like you. Now mind you she was probably in her 40s, married with two kids? clearly in her head she thinks she is young. 40s-50s you are all the same age. Also, remember, some people struggle to get over a great time in her life, Tia is struggling to get over her Sister Sister days. She still is looking at herself as a kid, and it has come to the surface in her 40's. She panicked man. Tia is lucky she has divorced a man like Corey one who works, pays his own bills, pays for his kids and see's them with all his heart, and does not utter one bad word for his ex.
Well rehearsed…fluffy talk!
She graduated and blessed Cory by letting him go so he can grow!
Christ calls us to die to self !! Periodt
Pray for her and pray for marriages. I don’t think that she herself understood the impact of the things she said. Lord we cancel the lies of the enemy operating in her. We cancel all word curse. The lies from her mouth Lord. Let her know that she is not bigger than you. No one is. Lord whatever this is, it stops now. This is not her children portion. Lord marriage is your first ministry. Lord may we honour this for generations to come Lord.
Being in an unhealthy marriage is very toxic and soul destroying It impacts on the your children which prevents them from having healthy relationship in the future.
What if she broke the covenant. Women aren’t innocent. I feel like it’s easy to blame the man. She seeks attention that’s a red flag.
Her framing of the divorce is problematic. Many women will sacrifice their marriage and family for their happiness while men will sacrifice his happiness for his marriage and family.
She calls it graduating. It seems more like academic dismissal.
So who’s going want to marry her with that ignorance
“The real graduation for marriage is communication” 👨🎓👩🎓 💯
I think she was masking the truth, this is an old interview. She had a newer one with a pod caster that was more honest. She said she felt like she was jumping through hops and no one was pouring into her, constantly having to prove that she was worthy of love. And it can happen when a spouse is suffering from other unhealed trauma. It's not that at all I think she definitely loved him but was exhausted by the marriage. She explained in a recent interview that they did do counseling and she did counseling alone. Anyway we weren't in her marriage, so we can choose to mind our business, as it's not our jobs to understand what happened. pray for them.
She just talks like this because she's embarrassed of her failures. Well, what she was supposed to say is that "she tried it but it didn't work out." Not go all poetic. She's evil.
I believe her new found Social Media fame played a part. He was not down with making those videos everyday. She wanted to be able to do what she saw other women do in the dance challenges and wear more seductive clothes and they still have their men, she was running around with Adrienne Bosh & Gabrielle Union, who probably pumped her up and she went too far and left her FAITHFUL man. We saw the headlines with those other folks . With all their drama , they have committed to staying in their marriage. Tia and Corey could have easily went to counseling and slept in separate rooms for a while. Corey was probably introvert who was not willing to take a leap of faith on things. She got tired and impatient. Now she is SINGLE, looking DESPERATE!!!.
Due is getting g more Social. He got a makeover , and us taking on more roles in acting that he probably normally would turn down.
It’s okay to admit to a failure. Grow and move past it .
Imma be honest, I think she was the problem in their relationship. Not him.
If you look back at the beginning of their relationship, their dating relationship, you could tell they were not going to make it. He wasn’t ready!
With all due respect, this is a delusional thought process and self focused. Marriage has nothing to do with being happy but to be of service to your mate. Happiness comes by allowing God to be at the center and operating in marriage the way He ordained it should be. I pray her spiritual eyes are opened and she comes to know the truth of the word.
It's not about your dog going happiness it's about God's will if you in the center of God's will both of you you will be happy but most the time what happens people never start off in God's will they got stars in their eyes with someone they never check with God if this is the right person for them trying to make something work that God never had a purpose and plan for we need to learn from it and do it differently starting with God seek first the kingdom that's why and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you all meaning all
Okay so in respect, if someone doesn't want to talk about the other person or put them in a bad light and they trying to save face (I think that's the term) then don't answer the question. Just don't talk about it at all. but just to make up some ridiculousness is insane... Just simply say that is a private matter and it will remain private... 😅😮😢🎉
I believe if that's what it was she should be able to just say that. But she's really making this about herself and finding happiness.
😂 so marriage is a 4 year bachelors or what 6 year PhD? I need to know how many years until i graduate mine 😂😂😂😂😂
Sooooo what even is the point of VOWS?? Just something to say. She clearly didn't put God in this at all. I believe Tia's issues are deeper, and they are spiritual. She needs to go back to basics and seek first the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added.
If Tia's marriage is a curriculum & you divorce, you failed the course.
God says the marriage is a covenant, not a curriculum.
I don’t agree with what she’s saying but also I don’t think a woman should be devalued or considered a failure because of divorce.
She should if she caused the divorce...
...for no good reason!
@@m3shia she devalued herself by making the statements she made, not because she divorced.
He got it. It’s a mask of pain. You don’t marry and hope it ends in divorce! That’s crazy
The devil is such a liar!
She made a mistake, and her prude won't let her correct it. 😮😢
I wonder if people do things as a PR stunt. Like when they get back together it will be a whole other show. I might be wrong though
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Tia sound like a damn fool
Y'all dudes need to do your research before commenting. Your assumption was that he cheated or did something wrong which is not true and is unfair as you are now actually defaming his character that's characters assassination. She was for the streets. She said so herself. She wanted to test what's out there. There was no infidelity no abuse get that correct.
Yep. Communication.
MY OPINION: The devil is AMAZING at his job (the father of LIES) & that’s to deceive….
@@summermoore2194 its the truth
I wont judge her "why's", that's for God to know and ultimately judge...but I will say her explanation sounds deceived, like that's the story she chooses to tell to keep herself from feeling shame from her marriage failing ( for whatever reason)
If you put it out there expect to be judged! But we’re all just over it!
Happiness is a feeling. What happens when ur unhappy again? Another graduation?