I’m 70 years old and I’ve been asked if there was anything wrong with me why I’m not married I have one adult son. Still not married, but I’m not desperate or lonely very happy with my life😂
Exactly… I’m 57, divorced and with one adult son.. Let me tell you.. I loovveee the peace and solitude I have… I was engaged for 2 years (I recently lost my fiancé to ALS) he was the only guy since my divorce (which was in 1995) that I came close to even wanting to marry.. He was a complete and WHOLE person… I truly liked him in my space.. We both sat down and had open conversations about marriage/parenting/divorce/faith/finances.. We backed everything up receipts… And we BOTH agreed.. We BOTH were happy in our relationship, but we were completely HAPPY single too… Be happy single and fall in love with yourself FIRST.. Then you’ll know the depths of how much you can love someone else..♥️
51 years old. I enjoyed my 20-40’s. Had loads of fun, loads of lovers and loads of experience. Now at 51 I’m ok with sitting down somewhere. If love doesn’t come again at least I’ve loved and been loved. There’s still a reason to live. ❤
My Mother always said, "Being alone does not mean you're lonely." I agree totally. My husband died when I was 34 years old. I knew him since I was 14 years old, and I never wanted to marry again. I had boyfriends who wanted to get married, but I like peace in my home and chose to live alone.
Exactly, I am single without children, and I stand by my decision to be such. I do not regret not marrying or having children. I have God children who have made me a God grandmother, and that’s fine. I am also a proud aunt. And that is just fine with me. It amazes me how in this century, especially women are business owners, and CEOs, etc. and yet they are still supposed to be a wife or a mother or they aren’t considered nothing.
Exactly, I am single without children, and I stand by my decision to be such. I do not regret not marrying or having children. I have God children who have made me a God grandmother, and that’s fine. I am also a proud aunt. And that is just fine with me. It amazes me how in this century, especially women are business owners, and CEOs, etc. and yet they are still supposed to be a wife or a mother or they aren’t considered nothing.
@@ldutton6623 exactly. A woman could find a cure for every form of cancer, and somebody is still going to ask her if she has a husband and kids. If that answer is not “yes,” then that somebody will dismiss her entire existence.
I realize I’m the happiest when I’m single. But then again I’m an introvert so that’s why I like being single cause I love my alone time and I hate commitment. 😩🤷🏽♀️
Being single is never a bad thing. You have peace, no nagging, arguing, cleaning up after someone else, no cheating companion, and you can do your own thing.❤😊
So after all these years she hasn’t met a good man? Ok again the kennel is full of dogs and cats looking for someone like y’all to adopt and keep company
@@Dundatta258 I have over 55 under my care right now. Cats, dogs, even a rescued pig. Love it. Wouldn't trade that peace I have for anything in this world!
I wouldn’t wanna be single ever. Absolutely don’t miss it at all. That sucks being completely alone and having do everything alone romantically and paying all the bills alone. Nope! 👎🏽
P.S. My adorable student just asked me today if I have kids…and I replied “No.” His response, “Are you sure you don’t want any?” Then he asks, “Do you have any pets?” I reply “No.” Student - “That’s sad.” I concluded, “It’s not sad. I love living alone 😊.” Context - My students think I’m in my 20’s even though I’m more than double that. All and all, I wasn’t offended. Ladies, just own where you are in life and make NO apologies!! 😘
There's a difference between lonely and alone. You can be alone (means not tied to someone) and be okay with that. Lonely is different. That means you probably want a relationship with someone but don't have that one. It's up to that person! Let people live!! Yessss!
Hello 👋 everyone, live and let live , let people have their privatecy and do what they want to do as long as they are not hurting anyone in cluding self
I am 68, never married, never been on a real date ( wasn't pretty enough, or so most men thought) and not gay. Was molested by my Dad at age 13, and before that, was never emotionally supported by him anyway. He was abusive toward my Mom and myself. Sooooo, I never let myself become open to relationships even when I was approached. Guess what girls, it's really alright!!! I was always afraid that if I got into a situation with some man that may mistreat me, I would end up I prison, because I was not going to let that happen. I AM BEAUTIFUL, AND I CHILDLESS ALSO. It really is a BLESSING TO BE SINGLE. I AM NOT ASHAMED TO BE SINGLE, I AM PROUD THAT I MADE IT THIS FAR. DON'T HAVE MUCH, BUT GOD HAS THIS WAY OF SUPPLYING ALL OF MY NEEDS. DON'T LET ANYBODY TELL YOU THAT YOU DON'T MATTER IF YOU ARE A CERTAIN AGE AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SINGLE. TOO OLD FOR FOOLISHNESS NOW 💃💃💃🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
I agree, I have watched so many women and men in unhappy relationships or marriages. God Blessed me, and I was able to purchase a 3bd 2bath Townhouse, now it needed some work, and I was able to bring back the integrity in the house. I have found my PEACE! imagine being in a house and dreading he and she coming home. NO!
I think it's the look that Vivica has on her face whenever people bring up 50 Cent is what makes people think that maybe she's not happy being single. However the happiest people you meet in the world are usually single people, they do what they want every day with no need to compromise.
I think the relationship with 50 cent broke her down, and she never recovered from that. Yes, she is living life, but she lost something inside. My observation, my opinion.
I know that feeling. But the reality is that they ended because something didn't fit at that time. Hindsight is 2020 and I know that she will always love him.
Absolutely so true. God's plan for our journey is uniquely fashioned for each of us. [ Jeremiah 29:11] Some women, as well as some men, are medically unable to procreate, reproduce. For reasons, which God only knows, it was not His plan for their journey to include being birth parents. Whatever be thou lot in life, "To God be the Glory. For His plans are always the best.",
Why do they only pressure women like this and not men?? There are a lot of single childless unmarried men that don't get harassed this way so neither should women.
A man posted and said they do get called out. I know a couple of guys that said they don’t have children and some people tell them they don’t have children that they know of. I don’t have children and one of my male friends asked me why don’t I have children. I told him because I didn’t want any, and he didn’t know how to respond back. The nerve of him.
Vivica used to be A. Fox needs to leave the Botox and plastic surgery alone. Having children is a choice that's not for everyone. Anyone shaming women for not having children need to mind their own business.
I don't think she's gotten anything done. I could be wrong, but I don't think so. I think she's just gained a lot of weight, but I don't think it's surgery.
Trust me, she's had alot of surgery. And alot of it is not good. I love Vivica and I'm not shading her (I'm just keeping it real) she has not aged well. She should have left the BBL alone and the botox and other things. Hollywood is a cut throat business where they want you to look young forever and that's not reality.
Vivica A. Fox dress is so beautiful!! she is dressing age-appropriate her hair and makeup is beautiful!! too! Happy Belated Birthday Mrs. Fox May God bless you! many more.
Do you KNOW MOST couples are UNHAPPY & if they're married &haven't divorced YET, they're one argument or indiscretion away from it🤷🏽♀️ Being HAPPILY SINGLE should ALWAYS supercede being broken & coupled or married & MISERABLE...
A lot of married women would rather pretend everything is great instead of telling anybody that their marriage is miserable. And then one day when they blow up or something crazy happen then everybody is like oh no they ALWAYS LOOKED SO HAPPY 🙃 yeah ok
@@ShaeJ_Shaealmost 1 out of 2 marriages (50%) in the U.S. end in divorce. Facts. So there are some happily married couples out there but let’s be honest…the odds are not great.
Vivica you look great and you from my home state of Indianapolis, Indiana. 💕 Her weight may be fluctuating due to menopause. Telling someone to get on weight loss drugs is not the answer. Smh!
Pretty surw she has been post-menopausal for a while at 60, but yes, weight gain is common post-menopause. Also, she could be on a medication that causes her to retain water or cause weight gain. I think she looks good at 60!
I will never understand the hate/dragging towards Vivica Foxx she still looks good and is such a vibe. Now watch they will use this interview and claim she is lying about being pursued and happy.
Some women are jealous and insecure , and they don’t understand , you got single women who been married and divorced never had children because of health issues, etc. Some women need to mind their own business and stay out of other people business and take care of yourself and spiritual grow up and mature. I have 8 beautiful God children , they are grown some married with their children and others who has not married. So stop assuming, just be some women are single something is wrong with them. God them and God got this!!!
I agree. Over the past months, I’ve been seeing horrible comments about her and particularly by men and I thought that was really sad. I think she looks great and I wish her the best. I don’t know what they are seeing. She makes 60 look sexy. 😊
I'm single and flourishing! It would be nice to have a mate but I refuse to settle. I would rather be single than be in a relationship with a liar or cheater or someone who does not have their finances in order at this stage of life.
If your child was dying because you DIDN'T have the money and someone gave you the money needed to save your child's life. Wouldn't you LOVE that person that my CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE sent to you.? Don't be so self righteous. Money can by love in many ways. Money answers ALL THINGS. Study the BOOK.
Booked Busy and Blessed (in that order!). A lot more people need to realize how to be by themselves so when they get with someone they can be better mates. I have a mate and bonus children and I'm happy but I was happy when I was alone.. And I love the point both Tam and Viv are making - that it's often women putting pressure on other women about their relationship status, martial status and child status, we've got to stop this...
I'm not close to 60 but I'm happy when by myself. With or without someone, I feel complete. I don't depends on being in a relationship to make me happy. Being single gives a freedom and peace.
I Hear That! I have 2 Grown Children 1 girl 1 boy Both are over 35 No Marriage & No Children They Feel if it's Meant to be it will be! If Not No worries They are living there Best life♡ My Husband & I Had to realize being Grandparents is Not in our Future♡ We Were Good Parents & That's Good Enough for us⚘️
I'm 60, divorced, and have no kids. I've been single for many years, and dated. I feel at peace with myself. I finally found a male friend who I can talk with, and laugh. I like his company, but that's it. No need for kids at this age.
I am 53, never married and childless. I have no shame in the life I have lived. Others cannot tell you how to live your life. I have nurtured lots of people, more than I probably could have if I had been a mother.
I'm 60, never married, no kids. I believe me and my purpose mate will meet soon. I've been in relationships in my younger years, and at this season in my life, I'm not rushing or settling. In time it will come together. Single people enjoy life, it's short and you only get ONE!
im so glad i came across this post, cause man I'm 53 and I'm good , good good with not having a significant other, and i wish ppl would climb down off my back about it.
I'm 46, have had plenty of relationships. And I'm fine never getting involved with anyone ever again. That's the beauty about getting older, sometimes you just don't care about that stuff anymore and think more about you instead. 💪
Say that again for the people in the back! And it's a Beautiful thing!!! Not hating on anyone who's Blessed with a wonderful marriage. Congrats to All.
Yea she gets bullied online a lot for what she’s done to her face. I choose to focus on what she’s done for the culture,& how she’s entertained millions of people over the years.
Could just be an age thing because my aunt goes through this, when my aunt walks and works out and drinks water she is smaller, but then when she does not she gains.
Beautiful Vivica! Also, I find it rather telling that so many of the comments in support of singleness do so by attempting to suggest married people are unhappy, that the women are dealing with cheating and have no peace. While that might be some folks' experience in marriage, it is definitely not the case for all. There are wonderful marriages with committed and faithful partners and working as a team with so much love. It doesn't mean relationships are without challenges, but not everyone is dealing with drama. And, just like there are happy and content single women who are not desiring marriage, there are also those who want to be married. You can be happy and content with your life and still desire marriage or a committed relationship. You can also be single and NOT at peace, miserable, and sad etc. Overly simplistic statements that pit one group against the other is harmful. You don't have to make one group feel bad to make yourself feel better. It's very telling when that approach is used. We can be better. Being single is not better than being married in and of itself and being married is not better than being single in and of itself, there are so many factors. I guess I'm just exhausted with the division on every issue and not to mention the judgment about a woman's looks and changes she goes through... A woman has enough to deal with without other Women putting her down... 🙏🏽
It’s clear that most people are extremely ignorant to the effects of weight gain (even though they are extremely overweight themselves). Weight gain can DRAMATICALLY alter the structure of one’s facial features. But, in my opinion, Viv looks absolutely amazing!Just as great as she did 30 years ago. If she were to drop her weight down, she would be the same show stopper that she has always been. Let’s also acknowledge that V. is 60 years old, for goodness sakes! Is she supposed to look the 25 year old Vivica forever????!!!??? Vivica is one of the most amazing women, on many levels, that I have ever known of. I GUARANTEE you that all of the women in the comments saying horrible things about her do not compare to her on any level, no matter what their age is. Vivica is gorgeous and fabulous and she looks amazing!!! Let’s be extremely clear, Vivica A. Fox can have just about any man that her heart desires! She is not some regular, simple, everyday woman. If you really do not believe that Viv cannot find a man, any man whatsoever, then you are seriously delusional! From what I have gathered about Viv, she is a no nonsense type of person. Come correct and clear at all times if you want to deal with her. Otherwise, she is happier being in an uncommitted relationship, B.S. free. It’s called having boundaries and self-love and not allowing anyone to misuse and mistreat you. Majority of women will never, ever have that level of confidence and self-love!
I’m 37, no children or a husband and I’m HAPPY.. 😃 I can sleep in 😴 🛌, have all my food to myself, spend my money on me, no stress, no drama and only have to worry about me. I LOVE it and I can stay this way until death. 💀
Sure, but she's had work done too... like they all have! She owned up to the breast implants when a newspaper columnist in Chicago mentioned the difference. She said she got them to make her clothes fit better!
I was homeless, did drugs, went into prison, where I got to know God. He changed my life. Now I have a home, a Husband and a lovely daughter (Jessica), and a stream of income that gets me $44,000 Every month. Plus a new identity - a child of God. Hallelujah!!!
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US amd abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Let people live! Simply put Ms Vivica🤩 Its not only about reproducing children or having a mate. There are varieties of different journeys for all human beings. Live and let live!
Viv, girl you look amazing. What a blessing to see 60!!! Keep loving and living life to its fullest! Happy Birthday Queen!❤ Single ladies w/ no kids live your life! It's nobody's business. As long as you are happy nothing else matters!
@@earthgirl7874 For 1. Statistically you live longer. Meanwhile you guys live shorter when unmarried. 2. Freedom and less stress. 3. No wear and tear or body or from risking your life giving birth. I suggest you go look up the studies done on this topic before you get emotional
I am 48 years old and single. I raise three children and they all are grown except my son who passed when he was 18 years old. It's nothing like happiness, peace and enjoying life.
@@echance12True but studies show men are actually lonelier single because they don’t have support systems and friendships like women. Just because they can get into relationships easier doesn’t necessarily make them happier.
They can't afford a nursing home so they tend to stay in something dilapidated, bad health, slowly dying, with some crack head coming to check on them when they get their check.
Super confused why some people on this post who are coupled, married, and/or who are parents, are triggered by people who are happy not being any of those things. The infatuation with telling people they are not happy with their lives is truly concerning. Live and let live. Log off and go spend time with your partner and children and stop being weirdos.
At age 30, I was definitely looked down upon as the single one. Now 40, i am at the age where interesting things are beginning to happen with my married friends. Lots of divorce, depression, regret, and frequent expressions of envy of my very free and happy single life. Boy, have the tides turned.
Children is for those who choose to have them not every women or man want children and that is ok. Live and let live.. I’m a woman without children and I’m satisfied with my choice not to have children love my life.
Such a great conversation. Single does not have to mean alone. And sometimes it can be lonely. There’s room for a wide range of experiences. Like Vivica said, let people live. ❤ Happy belated birthday! 🎉
I’m 70 years old and I’ve been asked if there was anything wrong with me why I’m not married I have one adult son. Still not married, but I’m not desperate or lonely very happy with my life😂
Exactly… I’m 57, divorced and with one adult son.. Let me tell you.. I loovveee the peace and solitude I have… I was engaged for 2 years (I recently lost my fiancé to ALS) he was the only guy since my divorce (which was in 1995) that I came close to even wanting to marry.. He was a complete and WHOLE person… I truly liked him in my space.. We both sat down and had open conversations about marriage/parenting/divorce/faith/finances.. We backed everything up receipts… And we BOTH agreed.. We BOTH were happy in our relationship, but we were completely HAPPY single too… Be happy single and fall in love with yourself FIRST.. Then you’ll know the depths of how much you can love someone else..♥️
Amen to that
Better to be happy alone , than unhappy with someone who doesn't make you feel safe and loved❤
@@Helloitsme0923nobody cares that you're single. My goodness you are all so self absorbed!
Were you married to your son's father or you've never been married at all period? If the answer is no then why didn't you marry your son's father?
51 years old. I enjoyed my 20-40’s. Had loads of fun, loads of lovers and loads of experience. Now at 51 I’m ok with sitting down somewhere. If love doesn’t come again at least I’ve loved and been loved. There’s still a reason to live. ❤
💨 🖐🏽
@@knd7777 same at 59 rip and ran, and loved the dance. Currently sitting down somewhere AND LOVING IT! 😂
@@carolyneasley8980 48 same
@@carolyneasley8980 ❤️❤️ Right on sis! For sure!
@@carolyneasley8980 according to that YOUNG lady in your photo, I REFUSE to believe that you are 59. Nope! Not doing it!! 🙂
People genuinely don’t understand that some people can be alone in PEACE. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
My Mother always said, "Being alone does not mean you're lonely." I agree totally. My husband died when I was 34 years old. I knew him since I was 14 years old, and I never wanted to marry again. I had boyfriends who wanted to get married, but I like peace in my home and chose to live alone.
Exactly, I am single without children, and I stand by my decision to be such. I do not regret not marrying or having children. I have God children who have made me a God grandmother, and that’s fine. I am also a proud aunt. And that is just fine with me. It amazes me how in this century, especially women are business owners, and CEOs, etc. and yet they are still supposed to be a wife or a mother or they aren’t considered nothing.
Exactly, I am single without children, and I stand by my decision to be such. I do not regret not marrying or having children. I have God children who have made me a God grandmother, and that’s fine. I am also a proud aunt. And that is just fine with me. It amazes me how in this century, especially women are business owners, and CEOs, etc. and yet they are still supposed to be a wife or a mother or they aren’t considered nothing.
@@ldutton6623 exactly. A woman could find a cure for every form of cancer, and somebody is still going to ask her if she has a husband and kids. If that answer is not “yes,” then that somebody will dismiss her entire existence.
I realize I’m the happiest when I’m single. But then again I’m an introvert so that’s why I like being single cause I love my alone time and I hate commitment. 😩🤷🏽♀️
Being single is never a bad thing. You have peace, no nagging, arguing, cleaning up after someone else, no cheating companion, and you can do your own thing.❤😊
You can also fart at any time 😃
A dear sister friend of mine says the same ! As loud as you can❤❤❤
@@mikeprice8307that’s a great thing! Why? I be ripping the most stormiest thunder monstrous ones! Smelling like rotten eggs too!😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Loree5669 Its always better if you have someone beside you laugh about it.
@@mikeprice8307 lol you crazy!
One word single women, PEACE! It’s priceless. 😊
Seriously! My ex left me and you know what? I am at peace now! It is priceless, yes!
So after all these years she hasn’t met a good man? Ok again the kennel is full of dogs and cats looking for someone like y’all to adopt and keep company
@@Dundatta258 I have over 55 under my care right now. Cats, dogs, even a rescued pig. Love it. Wouldn't trade that peace I have for anything in this world!
I wouldn’t wanna be single ever. Absolutely don’t miss it at all. That sucks being completely alone and having do everything alone romantically and paying all the bills alone. Nope! 👎🏽
@@debrasjourneyyou're single because you don't have any choice but to be single lol. Yawll need to stop pretending.
P.S. My adorable student just asked me today if I have kids…and I replied “No.” His response, “Are you sure you don’t want any?” Then he asks, “Do you have any pets?” I reply “No.” Student - “That’s sad.” I concluded, “It’s not sad. I love living alone 😊.” Context - My students think I’m in my 20’s even though I’m more than double that. All and all, I wasn’t offended. Ladies, just own where you are in life and make NO apologies!! 😘
Teaching is the best birth control 🤣
I agree...maybe you gave him a different perspective!
Preach❤❤
That goes for anyone. Not just ladies.
Kids only see adults. They don't know age. That doesn't mean you look 20 something lol
60, single, no children and she looks lovely. Go ahead Viv, do you! ❤
I have to say go girl❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She looks horrible!
Tamron looks beautiful!
I'm so happy that you are happy🎉
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She looks so gorgeous and happy❤. Always loved Vivica Fox.
I met Ms Fox years ago at Atlanta Airport and she was so gracious when I asked for her autograph, I've always loved her ❤
Why do people expect everyone to look the same forever....she is still beautiful.
Well said..
Absolutely, beautiful!
Ppl can look more the same for a little longer if they just let nature take its natural course
I wish she didn't have plastic surgery because she didn't need to.
She didn't need to alter her face because she was already NATURALLY beautiful.
Tamron looks TF goodtttt!!! God that woman is beautiful.
I hope she doesn't do what Vivica did and alters her face. I don't understand why Melanated women feel the need to alter their face.
Yes! I came here to say the exact same thing😍
Everyone on here talking negative about Fox when Hall had her own surgery before when working in Chicago.
I know so many women who are married, but "single."
Sister wives.
Many unhappy couples
Me!
Called the "single wife" syndrome.
That’s facts!
In 44, single, no kids, and no man. Sleeping peacefully.
48 and same!!
42 and the same
LUCKY ladies!
Me 60 best years of my life. No headaches 😊
I pray you find a good man, they are many good ones out there. Just like a single man out there looking for a good lady like you. ❤
Love her!!
And there is NOTHING wrong with being single!
She’s been married before idk why ppl got so weird. I love her Lifetime movies.
I agree I'm 57 and I am single two adult children
@@tanitapierce4404and???
There's nothing wrong with being married either. Stop judging.
@@mrsx7944 You’re showing a lot of judgment towards single women.
Single Never Married, 45, and Satisfied but open to marriage, if it's the Lord's will. 😊 Tfs
I'm on the same boat 🙌
Same here ❤
Thats what people miss. If it's THE LORDS WILL.
You've a wonderful attitude 😊 bless you❤
I believe it is this same attitude that is why you are single and never married. You should be chasing it
I met her in person. Sis is a whole vibe. I felt her aura and in that moment, I knew why she has longevity in the business.
I love me some Vivica Fox. I don’t give a damn what nobody says about her. Meeting her is on my bucket list.
I’ve been looking for that movie. I just rewatched Kill Bill and it made me think of her other movies.
It’s too late
I met her in person as well. She was on my flight. Very sweet person, and her energy is everything. Love me some her
There's a difference between lonely and alone. You can be alone (means not tied to someone) and be okay with that. Lonely is different. That means you probably want a relationship with someone but don't have that one. It's up to that person! Let people live!! Yessss!
Sadly, there are a whole lotta folk who are married and lonely. And others who are married and alone.
Exactly
@@roots1458Great point❤❤ such a sad place 2 be in when that is happening.
Hello 👋 everyone, live and let live , let people have their privatecy and do what they want to do as long as they are not hurting anyone in cluding self
Why just why....
I am 68, never married, never been on a real date ( wasn't pretty enough, or so most men thought) and not gay. Was molested by my Dad at age 13, and before that, was never emotionally supported by him anyway. He was abusive toward my Mom and myself. Sooooo, I never let myself become open to relationships even when I was approached. Guess what girls, it's really alright!!! I was always afraid that if I got into a situation with some man that may mistreat me, I would end up I prison, because I was not going to let that happen. I AM BEAUTIFUL, AND I CHILDLESS ALSO. It really is a BLESSING TO BE SINGLE. I AM NOT ASHAMED TO BE SINGLE, I AM PROUD THAT I MADE IT THIS FAR. DON'T HAVE MUCH, BUT GOD HAS THIS WAY OF SUPPLYING ALL OF MY NEEDS. DON'T LET ANYBODY TELL YOU THAT YOU DON'T MATTER IF YOU ARE A CERTAIN AGE AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SINGLE. TOO OLD FOR FOOLISHNESS NOW 💃💃💃🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
You are Blessed and Highly Favored 💫💜🙏🏽💃🏽
I agree, I have watched so many women and men in unhappy relationships or marriages. God Blessed me, and I was able to purchase a 3bd 2bath Townhouse, now it needed some work, and I was able to bring back the integrity in the house. I have found my PEACE! imagine being in a house and dreading he and she coming home. NO!
Heartbreaking that you got abused by your earthly father 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Stay sweet, beautiful!! Love seeing comments filled with my peers. ❤❤❤
I am so sorry you had to experience that especially by your own father. God bless you.
I think it's the look that Vivica has on her face whenever people bring up 50 Cent is what makes people think that maybe she's not happy being single. However the happiest people you meet in the world are usually single people, they do what they want every day with no need to compromise.
Their are also happy married people
Correct. But I think it’s bc she always says 50 cent was her 1 and only true love. She gets emotional taking about him.
I think the relationship with 50 cent broke her down, and she never recovered from that. Yes, she is living life, but she lost something inside. My observation, my opinion.
@@tabithagaston952in a way I think she may have felt a loss of confidence when they ended even though she always leads with this diva bravado energy
I know that feeling. But the reality is that they ended because something didn't fit at that time. Hindsight is 2020 and I know that she will always love him.
I loved her in “two can play that game” 💐
Man!!! 💯
Iconic!!!! That movie is what I’ll always remember her by, one of my favorite movies.
❗️
Ms. Shanté Smith was an entire vibe. One of my all-time favorite movies.
@@SPChannel722
Yes one of the best black romantic movies out, that Morris Chestnut 🤗
I love “Two Can Play That Game” also. She was great in “Soul Food “ too. 😊
Most black women do NOT need fillers & plastic surgery. Especially Vivica A Fox. PLEASE STOP ✋🏾
Looking for this comment so I didn’t have to be the bad guy🤦🏽♀️ so strange and odd🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I totally agree! She has messed up her natural beauty along with her bff Jada Smith and Little Kim. They all look so animated now 🤦🏽♀️🙄
It looks like she's has been prepared to play a role as in nutty professor or such.
She looks like SpongeBob's driving instructor.
@@Richard-Reloaded 😆😆😆😆
Chiiiile I'm 59 single and looking for a cat 😂
I'm good! 💯
Hysterical‼️‼️‼️‼️🤭🤭🤭😅😅😅🤭🤭🤭
😂😂😂
Awesome! You love yourself and are comfortable in your skin. Many can't say the same, unfortunately.
Too funny 😅😅😅
LMAO!
I'm 46, next week 47 and have 16 dogs, 17 cats, 2 bunnies, and a rescued pig. And you know what? I love it. Single and so at peace now!
“ I use to live alone, and then I got a divorce,” describes my first marriage perfect.
notable and true statement!
Just because you had a Wedding doesn't mean you have a Marriage.
Marriage is a trap... I will never get married again.
thats so deep
So true ❤
I am 39 single, childless, and I am the generational cycle breaker.
SELAH 🗣️💯🙏🏽❤️
Yes! ❤❤❤❤ And you're still a loveable part of our universe ✨️ 💖
You go gurl!!!!
❤
42 childless here
Everybody's journey is different.
Most brilliant comment. Yeah...think about it. We often forget.
Absolutely so true. God's plan for our journey is uniquely fashioned for each of us. [ Jeremiah 29:11] Some women, as well as some men, are medically unable to procreate, reproduce. For reasons, which God only knows, it was not His plan for their journey to include being birth parents. Whatever be thou lot in life, "To God be the Glory. For His plans are always the best.",
AMEN ❤❤❤❤
Why do they only pressure women like this and not men?? There are a lot of single childless unmarried men that don't get harassed this way so neither should women.
A man posted and said they do get called out. I know a couple of guys that said they don’t have children and some people tell them they don’t have children that they know of. I don’t have children and one of my male friends asked me why don’t I have children. I told him because I didn’t want any, and he didn’t know how to respond back. The nerve of him.
Men are loud and proud about it too!!
Yes we do. Get called ugly names, too. But I understand it's a lot worse for women.
I absolutely LOVE Vivica A. Fox!!! A Legendary ICON!❤️❤️
Vivica said she is booked, busy, and blessed!! 🎉👏🏾🙌
In that order!
Tamron’s outfit is everything!
I was jobless and homeless and I cried out to my Heavenly Father in Jesus name and he heard my cry and I have a job and an apartment 😊
Amen!!! 🙌🏾
Amen, praise God!!
Me too was homeless now working got a place to live
Vivica looks absolutely great and it’s a blessing she is still out here working.
stop lying
@@transbrationsShe does look great do you expect her to not age.
Vivica used to be A. Fox needs to leave the Botox and plastic surgery alone. Having children is a choice that's not for everyone. Anyone shaming women for not having children need to mind their own business.
Yet here you are, shaming her for her choices about what she does to her body.
U are shaming her. Look within
You sure that’s Botox ? She may just be overweight and inflamed
I don't think she's gotten anything done. I could be wrong, but I don't think so. I think she's just gained a lot of weight, but I don't think it's surgery.
Trust me, she's had alot of surgery. And alot of it is not good. I love Vivica and I'm not shading her (I'm just keeping it real) she has not aged well. She should have left the BBL alone and the botox and other things. Hollywood is a cut throat business where they want you to look young forever and that's not reality.
Vivica A. Fox dress is so beautiful!! she is dressing age-appropriate her hair and makeup is beautiful!! too! Happy Belated Birthday Mrs. Fox May God bless you! many more.
Do you KNOW MOST couples are UNHAPPY & if they're married &haven't divorced YET, they're one argument or indiscretion away from it🤷🏽♀️ Being HAPPILY SINGLE should ALWAYS supercede being broken & coupled or married & MISERABLE...
This is sad!😢😢
A lot of married women would rather pretend everything is great instead of telling anybody that their marriage is miserable. And then one day when they blow up or something crazy happen then everybody is like oh no they ALWAYS LOOKED SO HAPPY 🙃 yeah ok
You don’t know MOST couples, so how can you make such an asinine comment? You’re talking about the 3 or 4 married people in your circle?
@@ShaeJ_Shae for sure
@@ShaeJ_Shaealmost 1 out of 2 marriages (50%) in the U.S. end in divorce. Facts. So there are some happily married couples out there but let’s be honest…the odds are not great.
Vivica you look great and you from my home state of Indianapolis, Indiana. 💕 Her weight may be fluctuating due to menopause. Telling someone to get on weight loss drugs is not the answer. Smh!
I'm from Indianapolis too!! She proudly represented the Arlington Knights❤
Naptown!
HEY FELLOW HOOSIERS! 👋
Pretty surw she has been post-menopausal for a while at 60, but yes, weight gain is common post-menopause. Also, she could be on a medication that causes her to retain water or cause weight gain. I think she looks good at 60!
her weight is fine it’s all the plastic surgery and botox which she doesn’t need
Vivica is an icon and the way she has navigated her career is amazing. Smart lady❤❤
Icon?
I will never understand the hate/dragging towards Vivica Foxx she still looks good and is such a vibe. Now watch they will use this interview and claim she is lying about being pursued and happy.
Honey Auntie Viv is living good, looking good and eating good! ❤❤❤ Her!
Some women are jealous and insecure , and they don’t understand , you got single women who been married and divorced never had children because of health issues, etc. Some women need to mind their own business and stay out of other people business and take care of yourself and spiritual grow up and mature. I have 8 beautiful God children , they are grown some married with their children and others who has not married. So stop assuming, just be some women are single something is wrong with them. God them and God got this!!!
No, she looks like she did too much plastic surgery, face and backside.
I agree. Over the past months, I’ve been seeing horrible comments about her and particularly by men and I thought that was really sad. I think she looks great and I wish her the best. I don’t know what they are seeing. She makes 60 look sexy. 😊
My 2025 motto: booked busy and blessed!
I'm single and flourishing! It would be nice to have a mate but I refuse to settle. I would rather be single than be in a relationship with a liar or cheater or someone who does not have their finances in order at this stage of life.
All I can say is Thank you for that 🎉
THANKYOU SIS
If your child was dying because you DIDN'T have the money and someone gave you the money needed to save your child's life. Wouldn't you LOVE that person that my CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE sent to you.? Don't be so self righteous. Money can by love in many ways. Money answers ALL THINGS. Study the BOOK.
She really needs to leave all that surgery alone
@@stephaniehall8969 Her face is about to explode!
Booked Busy and Blessed (in that order!). A lot more people need to realize how to be by themselves so when they get with someone they can be better mates. I have a mate and bonus children and I'm happy but I was happy when I was alone.. And I love the point both Tam and Viv are making - that it's often women putting pressure on other women about their relationship status, martial status and child status, we've got to stop this...
sad. should be blessed booked busy. guess God is not at the forefront for her🤦🏾♀️🤷🏽♀️
It’s not fillers it’s weight gain and she looks great!!!
BBL weight does that. Weight gain in places you never had before, face, neck, arms..etc
I think it’s both but no judgment here. She’s a great actor and producer that’s what matters
No its not weight gain
She looks great? Uhhhhh ok u may want to get 🕶️
I was waiting for this. Yes, same thing happened to me. All in my face and upper body during menopause
I'm not close to 60 but I'm happy when by myself. With or without someone, I feel complete. I don't depends on being in a relationship to make me happy. Being single gives a freedom and peace.
46 no kids just payed off my home have a good dude I'm good. Stop playing with us who choose not to procreate
I Hear That! I have 2 Grown Children 1 girl 1 boy Both are over 35 No Marriage & No Children They Feel if it's Meant to be it will be! If Not No worries They are living there Best life♡ My Husband & I Had to realize being Grandparents is Not in our Future♡ We Were Good Parents & That's Good Enough for us⚘️
Two years older and same. Sorry but I know very few happily married people.
Why does her face look so swollen?
@@askmeanything652I was asking myself the same question... 🤔
I'm 60, divorced, and have no kids. I've been single for many years, and dated. I feel at peace with myself. I finally found a male friend who I can talk with, and laugh. I like his company, but that's it. No need for kids at this age.
Need Vivica and the Cocktails With Queens back - miss all the ladies❤❤
Tamron glad you have your old hairstyle back and Vivica such a wonderful interesting woman.
Yeah she tried but that mullet was not it.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@db.590 ohhh lordy NO !! ahhaahahahhaha
Love all Vivica's movies! She is beautiful. Excellent producer. ❤
I am single, no kids and I can move around and do what I want, when I want. And don't have to answer to anyone. My life is good.
Stay blessed❤ Thx 4 reminding folks...it's OK to be single and traveling.🎉God is good we gotta enjoy this thing called "LIFE"
Just looking at your profile, I guarantee no man is missing out
@@AAJ23801 Wild thing to say lol
@@AAJ23801😮
Tam, that dress is Amazing!!! 🌟🔥🤩🌞
Right! I can’t really pay attention to what she’s saying while she’s standing with that dress.
Ain’t it though?!!!
Yuppp i said the same thing
It is❤️🔥
I am 53, never married and childless. I have no shame in the life I have lived. Others cannot tell you how to live your life. I have nurtured lots of people, more than I probably could have if I had been a mother.
Vivica is beautiful inside and out!! 60 you go gurl!!!
I'm 60, never married, no kids. I believe me and my purpose mate will meet soon. I've been in relationships in my younger years, and at this season in my life, I'm not rushing or settling. In time it will come together. Single people enjoy life, it's short and you only get ONE!
im so glad i came across this post, cause man I'm 53 and I'm good , good good with not having a significant other, and i wish ppl would climb down off my back about it.
I'm 46, have had plenty of relationships. And I'm fine never getting involved with anyone ever again. That's the beauty about getting older, sometimes you just don't care about that stuff anymore and think more about you instead. 💪
Say that again for the people in the back! And it's a Beautiful thing!!! Not hating on anyone who's Blessed with a wonderful marriage. Congrats to All.
That woman was beautiful, I do not know that obsession for plastic surgery
I wholeheartedly agree with you. She didn't need surgery at least not in her face.
Im just looking trying to figure it out. Jaws botched she was beautiful.
@@apriledwards3965 😢
I know she was so beautiful before 😕
People get old then surgery makes it worse.
love her but she has gotten 1 too many cosmetic procedures done... stop girl. you are naturally beautiful.
She DID NOT NEED NO SURGERY AT ALL!!!! AGE NATURAL PERIOD!!!!!
No, she looks nice,but something is going on in her face, looks swollen.
Yea she gets bullied online a lot for what she’s done to her face. I choose to focus on what she’s done for the culture,& how she’s entertained millions of people over the years.
Not relevant to the video.
@@beemochaAll women get bullied especially in Hollywood.
I Love how much she Loves herself out loud 🥰
Stop making assumptions about people single, married, kids, no kids…. Let people live! Periodt
She may not have fillers - it could also be steroids which will plump your face as well. Whatever the reason, she’s still flyyy and I like her.
Could just be an age thing because my aunt goes through this, when my aunt walks and works out and drinks water she is smaller, but then when she does not she gains.
It looks like steroids to me. My face got round and full like that when I had to take steroids for health reasons
That's definitely filler. If you look closely, she has a lot of lumpiness in the contours of her face...filler does that.
Yes, looks like steroids to me.
She is still beautiful. She may have a sinus issue her voice sounds a little different. I love her transparency! ❤
Blessed booked busy is the right order.
🤣 … I was thinking that also!
Great minds think alike@@ijustwanttosay7417
58 and living for me now kids grown. I like my peaceful life.
Yesssss
Beautiful Vivica!
Also, I find it rather telling that so many of the comments in support of singleness do so by attempting to suggest married people are unhappy, that the women are dealing with cheating and have no peace. While that might be some folks' experience in marriage, it is definitely not the case for all. There are wonderful marriages with committed and faithful partners and working as a team with so much love. It doesn't mean relationships are without challenges, but not everyone is dealing with drama. And, just like there are happy and content single women who are not desiring marriage, there are also those who want to be married. You can be happy and content with your life and still desire marriage or a committed relationship. You can also be single and NOT at peace, miserable, and sad etc. Overly simplistic statements that pit one group against the other is harmful. You don't have to make one group feel bad to make yourself feel better. It's very telling when that approach is used. We can be better.
Being single is not better than being married in and of itself and being married is not better than being single in and of itself, there are so many factors.
I guess I'm just exhausted with the division on every issue and not to mention the judgment about a woman's looks and changes she goes through...
A woman has enough to deal with without other Women putting her down...
🙏🏽
So happy that Tamron came into her own after the the NBC morning show. Love her and her show is amazing.❤❤❤
It’s clear that most people are extremely ignorant to the effects of weight gain (even though they are extremely overweight themselves).
Weight gain can DRAMATICALLY alter the structure of one’s facial features. But, in my opinion, Viv looks absolutely amazing!Just as great as she did 30 years ago.
If she were to drop her weight down, she would be the same show stopper that she has always been. Let’s also acknowledge that V. is 60 years old, for goodness sakes! Is she supposed to look the 25 year old Vivica forever????!!!??? Vivica is one of the most amazing women, on many levels, that I have ever known of.
I GUARANTEE you that all of the women in the comments saying horrible things about her do not compare to her on any level, no matter what their age is. Vivica is gorgeous and fabulous and she looks amazing!!!
Let’s be extremely clear, Vivica A. Fox can have just about any man that her heart desires! She is not some regular, simple, everyday woman. If you really do not believe that Viv cannot find a man, any man whatsoever, then you are seriously delusional!
From what I have gathered about Viv, she is a no nonsense type of person. Come correct and clear at all times if you want to deal with her. Otherwise, she is happier being in an uncommitted relationship, B.S. free.
It’s called having boundaries and self-love and not allowing anyone to misuse and mistreat you. Majority of women will never, ever have that level of confidence and self-love!
Good afternoon she is pretty she needs to leave Botox surgery alone messing with her with looks
Looks like her head is a about to explode.
@@seriejohnson698i thought exactly the same
@@BlackQueen-gg9dr I know people are trying to be nice in the comments, but I am calling it like I see it.
@@seriejohnson698I agree. I think she got too many fillers. Idk why she keeps going on talk shows. She should be working on reducing the puffiness
@@seriejohnson698 you are right I had to look 3 or more times at her
She actually appears so gleeful here. Her laughter seems to know no end. This is a good thing. Why are commenters being so negative?
No they are not stop lying.
people are saying she looks good and they are happy for her.
I’m 37, no children or a husband and I’m HAPPY.. 😃 I can sleep in 😴 🛌, have all my food to myself, spend my money on me, no stress, no drama and only have to worry about me. I LOVE it and I can stay this way until death. 💀
I love Vivica! I am 62 years old and don't look it! I adore this time, and so is Vivica: like she said, "Let everyone live their life!"💕
They need to leave these single women alone. Single women hands down are the happiest group in America!
Stop lying
@@AAJ23801 they hide this information in books the best hiding place ever….
If so why so many are complaining
@@NewWorldOrder19 they have the mic… the rest are minding their business and “not complaining…..” so you don’t hear from them.
lol absurd
Tamron looks AMAZING!!
Sure, but she's had work done too... like they all have! She owned up to the breast implants when a newspaper columnist in Chicago mentioned the difference. She said she got them to make her clothes fit better!
I was homeless, did drugs, went into prison, where I got to know God. He changed my life. Now I have a home, a Husband and a lovely daughter (Jessica), and a stream of income that gets me $44,000 Every month. Plus a new identity - a child of God. Hallelujah!!!
Excuse me for real?, how is that possible I have struggling financially, how was that possible?
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US amd abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Big thanks to Mrs Kate Elizabeth Becherer❤️❤️
And to think that I started with the sum of $11,500 remains a miracle
Her top notch guidance and expertise on digital market changed the game for me
She's so humble, pretty inside and out. My Bday twin 7-30
That's the Viveca originalish 'signature hairstyle and I love it And I have always loved her n her spirit n still down to earth ness!!! Big fan !!!
60 and Fabulous ❤ You better go Ms.Vivica Fox.
There’s nothing wrong with being single and having company 😂. I was before my husband of now 7 years.
So basically you were fornicating.
REPENT. GOD IS NOT PLEASED.
Let people live! Simply put Ms Vivica🤩
Its not only about reproducing children or having a mate. There are varieties of different journeys for all human beings.
Live and let live!
Namaste!!! Amen!!! Yesss we all can't get married n have kids. Many of us have different journies!!
Viv, girl you look amazing. What a blessing to see 60!!! Keep loving and living life to its fullest! Happy Birthday Queen!❤ Single ladies w/ no kids live your life! It's nobody's business. As long as you are happy nothing else matters!
I love Viveca A. Fox; she’s a true force of nature. Blessed, Brilliant, and Beautiful. Long may she reign. ❤
Being single and chidless is actually a flex 💪🏽 Statistically single and childless women are the happiest demographic. ❤
@@earthgirl7874 For 1. Statistically you live longer. Meanwhile you guys live shorter when unmarried. 2. Freedom and less stress. 3. No wear and tear or body or from risking your life giving birth. I suggest you go look up the studies done on this topic before you get emotional
@@earthgirl7874 Go look up the studies done on it and you'll find out.
@@earthgirl7874 Child I'm married. None of that changes the facts which is why unlike you I'm not emotional about the truth. Facts trump emotions
I am 48 years old and single. I raise three children and they all are grown except my son who passed when he was 18 years old. It's nothing like happiness, peace and enjoying life.
I remember her on Generations as Maya, with Kristof st johns and Richard Roundtree as her father
That was a beautiful Vivica on Generations, and I loved the Set It Off movie!!
Me too!!! I was a teen and obsessed with the soap!!!
Yesssssss, Ma'am life was peaceful when I was SINGLE. Life is now stressful and drama-filled being married and dealing with his family😮😢
'Let people live'
Vivica Fox.
Simple yet so difficult for folks to fathom.
Vivica A. Fox is Fierce!
What about men who are over the age of 40/45 who"ve never married or had kids. They tend to be by themselves and in nursing homes when they get old.
But men can find love faster later in life more so than a women. You know that. Its not really a man women issue. Stop making it that way
A 45 yr old man is young enough to still marry and have children. Unfortunately not so much for women.
Agreed❤Yeah folks are not having conversation with men! Buy YES there are men in the same situation. Is anybody asking them are they loney😅
@@echance12True but studies show men are actually lonelier single because they don’t have support systems and friendships like women. Just because they can get into relationships easier doesn’t necessarily make them happier.
They can't afford a nursing home so they tend to stay in something dilapidated, bad health, slowly dying, with some crack head coming to check on them when they get their check.
Never Settle!!! Live Your Life on your Terms👑✍🏾
😂😂
The Beautiful Vivica Fox is living her best life. May she continue to be more successful. 💐 🌹
I absolutely LOVE VIVICA!!!!!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 she’s always been so beautiful and down to earth!!! She’s my fave fah sho💁🏾♀️🙏🏾👑🫡😍
Mine too!
0:02 ❤ me some Vivica A Foxx!! Tami's dress is beautiful 😍
Super confused why some people on this post who are coupled, married, and/or who are parents, are triggered by people who are happy not being any of those things. The infatuation with telling people they are not happy with their lives is truly concerning. Live and let live. Log off and go spend time with your partner and children and stop being weirdos.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Right! Are they okay?
They are really “miserable” behind closed doors! That’s why they cheat constantly, especially their husbands.
Oh my! What happened! She was naturally beautiful. What did she do? Wow😮
Not sure but I thought I heard her breathing heavy....yes she's attractive... But too much botox, fillers...not sure..
At age 30, I was definitely looked down upon as the single one. Now 40, i am at the age where interesting things are beginning to happen with my married friends. Lots of divorce, depression, regret, and frequent expressions of envy of my very free and happy single
life.
Boy, have the tides turned.
Tameron is a class act.
You go girl……just ignore the haters …..
I love Vivaca. She is a Boss! You deserve Love and more!
Loved her in SOUL FOOD, one of my favesssss
Vivica will always be a favorite because she shows women how to have confidence no matter what!
i remember when vivica was a soul train dancer.
Stop the fillers please😢
She's just big now! You can't see that her face looks different from how big it is from weight gain!
@@greyeyesntylerthat's not just from weight gain.
Its water pretension, look at her ankles.
@@themagiccityshaman it's surgery!
@@greyeyesntyler those are FILLERS!
Children is for those who choose to have them not every women or man want children and that is ok. Live and let live.. I’m a woman without children and I’m satisfied with my choice not to have children love my life.
❤ Keep making choices that are best for you. Stay blessed❤
Same here
Me too and don't need anyone to define me. I don't have kids either and I'm 39.
I’m in the same boat, but I’m a guy 🙂.
I have children and I NEVER had thought this of a single woman with no children
Such a great conversation. Single does not have to mean alone. And sometimes it can be lonely. There’s room for a wide range of experiences. Like Vivica said, let people live. ❤ Happy belated birthday! 🎉