I can relate. I live in the UK, from a Nigerian background, and recently turned 30. The pressure is so real; there's the internal pressure, pressure from sociality and family, and it can be challenging to deal with… I am doing well for myself, and I enjoy my own company, but I always feel guilty for being happy without a husband or kid. I would love to be married with kids one day, but I don't think it's something to be rushed into because no one will go through the challenges with you when things get difficult. Some of my friends are wishing they did not rush into marriage and they are living in hell. Society needs to be kind, supportive and understanding toward single people, you are not alone and thanks for sharing ❤️
You said it all sister❤️ love yourself and keep waiting on Hof the right man is on the way. Cos there is no way I’m getting married because of pressure or being desperate, it never ends well. Lots of love from here my darling 🤗
Weldone Ada Blessing for enlightening your audience. The points you gave are true, but then I think there're exceptions. For me, some ladies brought the delay upon themselves. How? - they want someone who's already made. Most times, they miss opportunities that come their way because they are waiting for "Mr perfect". Ladies need to know that "the person they perceive as nobody today, can be somebody tomorrow", life changes. Keep on with your good work. 👍
That's a problem now. Wait until you're older and you can't longer work. I need a man(husband) independent woman my ass. Sold a lie to women look at eboni k williams vica a fox
You hit the nail on the head. Imagine a single 37 year old man telling me that your mates are already married. I was like what?.like what is wrong with Nigerian men😂. Are they ok at all? And mind you i am still considered fresh out of high school.
@adablesyntv5471 well seeing that you wanna get married, you should know that a husband will be curious about that question. But don't mind me the preference of men don't matter but you still wanna be a wife. You strong independent women should just marry yourselves
I can relate. I live in the UK, from a Nigerian background, and recently turned 30. The pressure is so real; there's the internal pressure, pressure from sociality and family, and it can be challenging to deal with… I am doing well for myself, and I enjoy my own company, but I always feel guilty for being happy without a husband or kid. I would love to be married with kids one day, but I don't think it's something to be rushed into because no one will go through the challenges with you when things get difficult. Some of my friends are wishing they did not rush into marriage and they are living in hell. Society needs to be kind, supportive and understanding toward single people, you are not alone and thanks for sharing ❤️
You said it all sister❤️ love yourself and keep waiting on Hof the right man is on the way. Cos there is no way I’m getting married because of pressure or being desperate, it never ends well. Lots of love from here my darling 🤗
I'm 29years not married and not yet in a serious relationship, but I'm hoping for God. And if says no. I won't force myself into marriage
@@nafularuthy3238 yes be positive and take care of yourself the right man will come
Weldone Ada Blessing for enlightening your audience. The points you gave are true, but then I think there're exceptions. For me, some ladies brought the delay upon themselves. How? - they want someone who's already made. Most times, they miss opportunities that come their way because they are waiting for "Mr perfect".
Ladies need to know that "the person they perceive as nobody today, can be somebody tomorrow", life changes.
Keep on with your good work. 👍
Yea you are right . It happens to some like that
Strong women stay single for life
That's a problem now. Wait until you're older and you can't longer work. I need a man(husband) independent woman my ass. Sold a lie to women look at eboni k williams vica a fox
Currently going through this … and I got the whole flower speech when I was 25 and ended up in a toxic relationship
Sorry darling
Amazing video. Trust me it is the same in London 😢😢
You can relate. 😀
You hit the nail on the head. Imagine a single 37 year old man telling me that your mates are already married. I was like what?.like what is wrong with Nigerian men😂. Are they ok at all? And mind you i am still considered fresh out of high school.
Don’t feel threatened for anything you can still find a right man except maybe you are 50 then you can accept anyone bcuz of kids
Weldone babes
Thank you sis
Weldone
I willl be 30 soon
In like 3 years
May God grant your heart desires
mwaaaa 💕💕💕💕💕
This is timely for ladies, women suffer a lot in Nigeria.
How many ex boyfriends have you had sex with?
1,000,000,000 sir
@adablesyntv5471 well seeing that you wanna get married, you should know that a husband will be curious about that question. But don't mind me the preference of men don't matter but you still wanna be a wife. You strong independent women should just marry yourselves
@@4chukwuebuka if you don't have any reasonable thing to say, why don't you just reserve your comment. Acting like you are better than her.
Why is it always broke frustrated Igbo men that make this type of comment?