"Wife her up and you can keep her the rest of your life". I call completely bs, on that sir. Divorce rate over 50% in the west, initiated 70% of the time by the women.
@@Lemonysnicket201 LFA described her as a catch she had it all for me if she never asked for a relationship within 6mos to a year that could be a red flag. Flip side it's better she iniate relationship talk first but if your intention was to get married you ask her how she felt about taking it to the next level but because you iniated gf talk it's harder to set frame like no guys you currently seeing or exs should be in the picture anymore. It's tricky because if her behavior changes like she could be seeing someone else, because you wanted the relationship your frame doesn't have the bite to it, she can always say you wanted it not me as a comeback.
Wow, 50% is very good. In Russia we had 65% in 2019. In 2024 you won't belive - it is 104%. Initiation by women - 85%. You are living in a dream, guys, enjoy 😆
@@DavidW-ng5zv let her choose you first then lay down your law mainly no current or ex lovers can be in the picture as a main requirement. Always assume she has another lover or ex in the picture that way you not blindsided make sense? If her behavior changes after you make her a gf a month year years down the road presume another man is in the picture and pull away
It happens all the time. Smart women know how to do both sometimes, and they will have their own rules about when to becone loyal to one, and hopefully they can do so ethically as this girl seemed to.
Another red pill coat that really doesn’t ever apply to them dude they just don’t care and dudes will always have lust for those women anyway and they don’t care that you don’t
@@beanyboy1508 Any man who knows anything about women knows how to spot if shes been on the carousel. Thats why when they become 45 they ask "wheres all the good men?" Once you have experience you can see right through them. They cant hide it
@@beanyboy1508 if you have any experience with women its very obvious if theyve ridden the carousel. They cant hide it Thats why after 35 theyre asking "where are all the good men?"
@@beanyboy1508 one does not simply stop riding a carousel and become loyal when they choose. Either they are raised from the childhood to be a loyal wife or not. Nobody simply stops riding the carousel and turn that page over.
@@DavidW-ux2gc We don't know how long she was dating this guy before he married her. This woman if you met her would check all the boxes, but always assume you are not the only one regardless. Maybe she had a commitment with guy for months or years???No matter how much you like the woman if she doesn't ask for the relationship I wouldn't make her my gf let alone marry her. Her asking for the relationship allows you to frame her behavior to be expected then evaluate her at least a year to two years for the red flags mainly still seeing a current or ex lover this is about all you can do if looking to marry.
@@recklessnotion1899 that's why a woman's past matters if things don't go right she will reach back out to ex lovers hopefully the man has set these boundaries while they were bfgf if not 100% chance she will cheat
@@Kenny-d7u all women have a "past" unfortunately. Just gotta find one who isn't as damaged and can show you enough respect to not lie and mess around behind your back. Seems like that's the best you can do nowadays
@@recklessnotion1899 And the more surprising thing is millenial women have seemingly less baggage than modern Gen-Z women, speaking from experience..... Social media has corrupted today's generation.....
You gotta be kidding me bro that just destroyed my soul, is it even possible to find a wife these days? Should we all just forget about it and accept it will never happen? WTF DO YOU MEAN YOU HOOKED UP W HER THEN 2 WEEKS LATER SHES MARRIED? If it can happen to that guy it can happen to anyone there’s no way to know
A decade ago, on new years eve, my group of friends got acquainted with a couple that had just married that day and were celebrating their honey moon. We were at the beach and the husband eventually went to get something from the car, at this point a random guy started rizzing up the guy's wife, she resisted for about two seconds and then whispered her phone number. Not long after that we went home and crossed paths with the husband on the beach dunes, we've nodded goodbye. Felt really bad for him and a piece of my soul died that day too. Maybe I should have warned him. But I didn't know them like that and maybe was too young to make the right call. It's a cold world we live in.
@@LowHandStriker women exercise there options over time they categorize you as the hookup guy or the relationship guy a woman is never single dude. Understand if you and her are not intimate at least twice a week while dating or as your gf there's almost 100% chance there's another man in the picture. Marriage has its inherent risks all you can do is vet the best you can and hope for the best but expect the worst.
Shit like this is why I’m trying to completely detach from any desire of serious relationships or even friendships. Maybe I’m being cynical but it seems like 90% of people enjoy being fake and shitty.
@@LowHandStriker if she not 18 living at home you will be buying a used car dude all you can do is vet for the mileage there are no pure good women just women.
There’s a dude named Casey Zander who did a video several months ago where he talked about how there are the guys that the ladies date/marry, and the guys that they are aroused by. These are two completely separate categories and a lot of guys don’t understand that. That’s why there are so many dead bedrooms out there. I like that you added that third category too. Great video as always LFA!
I agree to a point. I think red pill 'creators' over simplify the equation to illustrate a point and men being so simple take it literally. At different times in my life I've been all 3 of those mentioned in LFA's story. I been the guy getting cheated on, I've been the guy sleeping with a girl I didn't know was being courted by another guy because it was a simply drinks and hotel affair. And most recent I've been involved with a girl who wanted to hook up but said she didn't see a future for us beyond FWB. Said we had good sexual chemistry but not much else in common. The point I'm making is it depends on the woman and what she values. In an irony the last girl I mentioned got back with her ex who by red pull metrics (career/height/muscular) I am more in those categories yet I wasn't selected beyond sex. Why? Comes down to what she values.
@@desertwolf75 I see what you're saying. Sounds like the last girl was still just hung up on her ex. He was the guy she loves and wants to be with, but who knows, she may not even be that aroused by that guy. I think some guys are both though. I'm sure some girlfriends/wives are genuinely aroused by their boyfriends/husbands. You just hear about so many dead bedrooms out there, so that's why that theory I mentioned in my comment makes sense to me.
@@Thatdude64317 Yeah that's pretty much was I speculate as well. What's funny is how some women will lie their asses off. Still I should have known. She swore up and down that she wasn't 'in love' with him anymore but still cares about him basically as you suggested loves him but isn't turned on by him which makes sense looking at him. It's not so cut and dry as have x and you'll get y result when it comes to women. Still it's weird never been fuck zoned before and told that's all im seen as. Weird experience.
I've been to weddings where the bride has been in similar situations in her past with guys in the congregation and the groom has no idea. Better to be on a nice porch with a drink and enjoying the show
Most people are morally corrupt these days. You need to find someone who has similar morals as you. If you are looking for a wife, you need to have high standards for her. This is only going to be a small percentage of the dating population that meets these criteria. You say there were no signs, etc. But the fact that she was friends with benefits and having causal sex with you shows that she gets around and monogmy isn't her first choice.
Add to this she was a “respected woman snd “active in her church.” Where else do we have to fucking look for a woman that’s not riding the fucking carousel.
Lmao there was a girl on tik tok saying she worked at a nursing home and the old people were alway getting caught hooking up with each other and they had a huge std problem 😂😂
I’ve heard stories like this many times since my sister used to have bridal clients. The way they’d show you pics of other guys they’re pursuing, yet they’re 2 days away from their wedding day was bizarre. I always tell guys if a female is not willing to show you her phone, or at least change her number, then there’s a high chance she’s still at it. You can’t get mad at her. You have a choice to make as a man. Sometimes asking just to see her facial expression or body language is enough. You don’t need to force her to do anything. Very few people know how to build trust. They know more about boundaries than trust. If they build trust, it feels as though their boundaries are being violated. Like some females would talk about how a guy they’re messing with got “red flags”. Yet, she’s cheating on her man, but apparently thats not a red flag 😂 😂😂 NGL, those conversations used to be wild.
I was witnessing a dialogue between women, one woman told that she had an affair. And that her husband hired a private detective and also hacked her accounts (he was wealthy) to prove it. And she was telling this in a manner that her husband is a bad person to do this, not her. Then she added - I know he is still in love with me and smiled. Cruel world indeed.
You gotta share your negative experiences too , instead of only those where you 're the hero : ) NB : I like your content , I agree with what you're saying
I think I’ll just keep sharing my honest experiences. I don’t view them as W or L. Taking an L means that I would have to put myself in a position to get disrespected. Which would also mean I’m not respecting myself. That’s something I’m not willing to do. You may find that statement to be unbelievable, but it’s a reality for those who know better.
Man... the girl I'm seeing is probably no different than the girl in this story. I've been black pill, red pill, and now I'm purple pill. Wish me luck if you can...
Twice divorced and 51. I am good! Been where you were, and no, today the many women of my past , doesn't show your opinion on this one. But a lot of men are not worth the woman's time. So we both are in stale mate. 😊
Bro Respectfully speaking, dont mention your nationality EVERY GODDAMN TIME! Indians specially want this attention that 'ohhh u are from India? wow so great!' It makes us Indians look like attention seeking people. Peace and love.
In the guy that seeing what’s going on behind the scenes but at times I jump into the field and have my fun then disappear for a while and come back when I’m in a dry spell I don’t trust anyone I frankly don’t think I ever will this game is too cold and seeing so many close people to me getting cheated on I don’t want to be next lol
I've had the same thing happen. I'd get a call from her on occasion and we'd hang out and have a great time. Then suddenly she was engaged and married a few months after that. Haven't heard from her since the engagement which was a week or so after we may hung out.
@@AdamsDuhStuff this is the reality of modern dating LFA explained the 3 categories everyone got what they wanted this is how the world currently operates fair or unfair like it or not.
Talk your truth. You are good at what you do and say. Just leave the Menospherians alone. They have some truth to them. You don't need to bring them every time you talk.
In a bizarre plot twist married guy's babies first words are "whats up brother?" and guy across the road turns out to be the guy who attracts the cougar in the "you disgust me" video.
Man, would love to hear your take on girls who keep exes as friends when there’s no real links aka kids, animals, money situations etc. Do you think it’s okay if many many years have past and it’s been completely platonic, what if it’s a fresh breakup, or is it always a straight no regardless of the history? Appreciate if you share your opinion. Peace.
Very interesting story.. just my observations. I think It wouldn't be good to be in the other guy spot still due to her hooking up with at least 2 (maybe more, who knows) guys at the same time. If the married guy finds that out what was going on at the same time while He dated her, He probably won't be very happy about that, and probably same could be said to us if we put ourselves in his position. I would look that girl/wife with completely different view from that point on and couldn't be together with her, to me that's just disgusting. If She would have dated only 1 guy at a time, it would be a whole different scenario yes, but if She constantly sleeping with multiple men at the same time .. can't take this really serious, kinda red flag.. E.g What if She gets pregnant from You and finds that out only after getting married? And then imagine if She keeps the child and the guy thinks He's the father and maybe even She thinks the same.. Then there would be many more scenarios like STD etc.. Also if 2 people are fit and cool together and having good time, and wanna start living together/build family etc, I dont think they neccessary need to marry, as if You know if something happens the odds are against the man always. Why would you need to involve state in your relationship if there is 0 benefits for You in that case. You could show Your love and appreciation in other ways. For me - If I knew She was sleeping with other guys at the same time, then I would choose to be the guy nr 3 who doesen't get involved in that, but of course if I didn't know that then guy nr 2 would be fine.. Just my viewpoint feel free to discuss, Im always open minded to different views/perspectives. But other than that good video as always, You have very unique stories with interesting view perspective that actually makes me think about the times and stuff going on currently. All the Best!
Just proves a woman is never single just because you are hooking up with her doesn't mean anyone else isn't. She liked LFA but never brought up being his gf? Why? because she was exercising her options and she had LFA categorized as a fkboy😂 the other guy she was dating more consistently and he chose her eventually for a wife. Bet your bottom dollar she was already dating the guy that married her while hooking up with LFA. You never have to ask her behavior will let you know your zone, after 6 Mos to a year LFA knew he was the maintenance man because she never asked for a commitment the other guy was offering more.
@@LFA what if she had asked to be your gf after 3 to 6 months? Would you have accepted? If you hooked up with her 2wks before marriage she probably was engaged for a period of time too. Curious how would you feel if you were the married guy and then knowing about you before or after the marriage not throwing shade at you it shows you a woman always has a man or men orbiting she only post the marriage to this man not her other exploits to maintain the illusion of purity
LFA, I learned a very brutal lesson. Women 22 to 26 don't really want a guy their age. However, we have a happy ending. Women at 28 are more mature, usually off BC and initiate conversations with me. So if I wait 2 more years it should get better. Just have to keep going to the gym and building my life.
@@jointhefun4 beauty is much more than physical looks that equate to sex. Our modern world has subverted the purpose of beauty and brought it down to the level of sex and pure physical appearance.
I have the same scenario i love a girl she loves m 2 but she's looking other options n she knows we will be together later on . Im in my grinding face basically beta right now. Idk man this hurts idk
I was the man in your shoes. Except we would go out on dates. The arrangement... Which I did not find out until later (otherwise I would not have touched her with a 10-foot pole),,, was that I was the weekday college guy and when she went back home 3 hours away on weekends, that's when her older boyfriend with a good job took over. This guy loaned her a car when hers was hit in an accident. He paid for some of her tuition. And I found out he possibly bought her a laptop computer which were very expensive back then and on top of that helped her move in and out of the dorm room. Her roommates ratted her out finally and I ended things immediately after that. That little female dog put my health at risk! She was another one of these women who watched that show Sex and the City regularly but I was too young at the time to know any better.
At 17, I was seeing a 36 yr old for a time at a bar. Always took her to discreet spot being in HS living at home. She eventually told me she was married to a PA state trooper. She even introduced me to her hubby. Why she cheat ? They hate predictability and a man with a predictable schedule gets cheated on.
I just got done being the guy that was wanting to marry a woman. Been dating pretty consistent for the last 10 years(not same woman). Dating game is rigged for a man and even worse if you get married. About to check out of the dating game completely. Risk versus reward with the risk being to high and reward to low anymore. Till divorce laws change I believe I will never get married. I am 33 years old and my advice to anyone younger than me stay single and stay away from them. You’re only seeking financial burden and heartache.
I’m sorry but how can you say that the guy found a good woman while she was giving herself to you and probably other guys? This culture is so unhinged and broken and yes, the man that ended up marrying her not knowing what she was doing behind his back is a complete oofy doofy weak male that has no idea what his future will look like with her. She’s not a wholesome church girl. She is a chameleon acting a certain way to get what she wants. Heck, seems like she even fooled you despite you knowing that she is a Jezebel. Lust truly does blind people. We truly need God.
Totally agree. So many people are morally corrupt these days. She was playing everyone. She isn't a "good church Christian girl" if she is sleeping with multiple men at once. LFA was in a fwb relationship with her. If she is ok with that, she is NOT long term material.
@@jsts22 Exactly. She is a deeply evil woman, it’s worse if she goes to church since she should know what adultery and fornication means. She can’t pretend to not know better. It’s tragic that men still give these kinds of women a pass and a bunch of excuses as if they are still good women. Standards and boundaries don’t exist anymore. It’s all about hedonism and temporary pleasure. This world disgusts me sometimes, ngl 😂
@@LFA what do you mean the way it was? Nothing about this is good. It has nothing to do with wishing. She got married and you somehow think that’s the end of it. No, that marriage will not end well and if you think she just changed her promiscuity TWO WEEKS after getting married, idk what else to tell you. It’s flat out unrealistic. Cheater women don’t just start making good choices and the poor husband has no idea what she did. Imagine if that was you, LFA. If you married and you found out your wife was doing it with other men just a few weeks before the wedding. She is not a good woman.
I am the guy on the porch but that hopes to be the first guy to a girl that has no second type of guy hahaha. I think most of us are like that, but it can be quite unrealistic. Because girls are super secretive. And the good ones are usually even more secretive from my experience. Because they are trying to be respectful. I know girls that had not the best past, but at least they are trying to make no mistakes in future. And choose to be a guy on a porch and from time to time to be the second type of guy - only makes things worse in society in a long run. So each and everyone are responsible for what is happening.
Yh I just don’t care, as young man in his 20s it’s banging girls and that’s it, my fitness and business comes first, fuck taking care a girl seriously atm.
@@wb2499 this woman is the type that's the exception to the rule she waa friendly kind, cooperative and beautiful no kids. My only concern would have been she never asked for a serious relationship if that's the case you ride it out until she disappears or gets married, I'm not buying the farm how many cowboys been milking the cow😀
@@Kenny-d7u It’s like what LFA said, you can’t hate the player, hate the game. You can either play the field or just sit back like the gentlemen on the porch. The choice is yours my friend!
"Wife her up and you can keep her the rest of your life". I call completely bs, on that sir. Divorce rate over 50% in the west, initiated 70% of the time by the women.
@@Lemonysnicket201 LFA described her as a catch she had it all for me if she never asked for a relationship within 6mos to a year that could be a red flag. Flip side it's better she iniate relationship talk first but if your intention was to get married you ask her how she felt about taking it to the next level but because you iniated gf talk it's harder to set frame like no guys you currently seeing or exs should be in the picture anymore. It's tricky because if her behavior changes like she could be seeing someone else, because you wanted the relationship your frame doesn't have the bite to it, she can always say you wanted it not me as a comeback.
Wow, 50% is very good. In Russia we had 65% in 2019. In 2024 you won't belive - it is 104%. Initiation by women - 85%. You are living in a dream, guys, enjoy 😆
@@troobix_s Omg...
@@Kenny-d7uYes, I've made the mistake of initiating the relationship talk.
@@DavidW-ng5zv let her choose you first then lay down your law mainly no current or ex lovers can be in the picture as a main requirement. Always assume she has another lover or ex in the picture that way you not blindsided make sense? If her behavior changes after you make her a gf a month year years down the road presume another man is in the picture and pull away
You can't ride the carousel while also expect to be treated serious.
It happens all the time. Smart women know how to do both sometimes, and they will have their own rules about when to becone loyal to one, and hopefully they can do so ethically as this girl seemed to.
Another red pill coat that really doesn’t ever apply to them dude they just don’t care and dudes will always have lust for those women anyway and they don’t care that you don’t
@@beanyboy1508 Any man who knows anything about women knows how to spot if shes been on the carousel. Thats why when they become 45 they ask "wheres all the good men?"
Once you have experience you can see right through them. They cant hide it
@@beanyboy1508 if you have any experience with women its very obvious if theyve ridden the carousel. They cant hide it
Thats why after 35 theyre asking "where are all the good men?"
@@beanyboy1508 one does not simply stop riding a carousel and become loyal when they choose. Either they are raised from the childhood to be a loyal wife or not. Nobody simply stops riding the carousel and turn that page over.
See LFA
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this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest
Brutal for the guy marrying her.
It's disgusting.
He is most men, brother. They just don’t know it (yet).
@@columbus7275 99% of women marrying today are retired wh0res. I saw a video of a woman who had 9 bodies at 21. It's over.
@@DavidW-ux2gc We don't know how long she was dating this guy before he married her. This woman if you met her would check all the boxes, but always assume you are not the only one regardless. Maybe she had a commitment with guy for months or years???No matter how much you like the woman if she doesn't ask for the relationship I wouldn't make her my gf let alone marry her. Her asking for the relationship allows you to frame her behavior to be expected then evaluate her at least a year to two years for the red flags mainly still seeing a current or ex lover this is about all you can do if looking to marry.
@@Kenny-d7u I've made the massive mistake of asking girls to be my gf before.
Im the guy in the porch 😀
In your view being a married man doesn't make you the guy that wifed her up?
Lol sounds like the least stressful.
Hitting it after LFA left😂
Haha'😅
I'm thinking about just paying, I'd ike to find one to pay 1,2, times per month. We're all gonna pay anyway you look at it.
You’re a great story teller. Thank you for sharing.
wow the man across from her was laughing at all of you
👍💯
He knew what was up 😂😂😂
They are ruthless and heartless to the core. The truth will set you free.
Taking girl seriously who rode carousel is a gamble what can backfired otherwise interesting balanced pov as always
plus she probably has STDs
That girl is probably still hooking up with some other guy, just not you anymore because of your history with her
@@recklessnotion1899 that's why a woman's past matters if things don't go right she will reach back out to ex lovers hopefully the man has set these boundaries while they were bfgf if not 100% chance she will cheat
@@Kenny-d7u all women have a "past" unfortunately. Just gotta find one who isn't as damaged and can show you enough respect to not lie and mess around behind your back. Seems like that's the best you can do nowadays
@@recklessnotion1899 And the more surprising thing is millenial women have seemingly less baggage than modern Gen-Z women, speaking from experience.....
Social media has corrupted today's generation.....
Now, I'm the guy sitting across the way giving you the nod, because I've been played the other two parts at some point. I'm in my mid 50's now.
You gotta be kidding me bro that just destroyed my soul, is it even possible to find a wife these days? Should we all just forget about it and accept it will never happen? WTF DO YOU MEAN YOU HOOKED UP W HER THEN 2 WEEKS LATER SHES MARRIED? If it can happen to that guy it can happen to anyone there’s no way to know
A decade ago, on new years eve, my group of friends got acquainted with a couple that had just married that day and were celebrating their honey moon. We were at the beach and the husband eventually went to get something from the car, at this point a random guy started rizzing up the guy's wife, she resisted for about two seconds and then whispered her phone number. Not long after that we went home and crossed paths with the husband on the beach dunes, we've nodded goodbye. Felt really bad for him and a piece of my soul died that day too. Maybe I should have warned him. But I didn't know them like that and maybe was too young to make the right call. It's a cold world we live in.
You’re not kidding man. I’ve been there: dating the girl who “makes me wait” while she’s getting dicked down by her fwb.
I’m done
@@LowHandStriker women exercise there options over time they categorize you as the hookup guy or the relationship guy a woman is never single dude. Understand if you and her are not intimate at least twice a week while dating or as your gf there's almost 100% chance there's another man in the picture. Marriage has its inherent risks all you can do is vet the best you can and hope for the best but expect the worst.
Shit like this is why I’m trying to completely detach from any desire of serious relationships or even friendships. Maybe I’m being cynical but it seems like 90% of people enjoy being fake and shitty.
@@LowHandStriker if she not 18 living at home you will be buying a used car dude all you can do is vet for the mileage there are no pure good women just women.
'Strike while the iron is hot' is one of my favorite sayings 😅👍
There’s a dude named Casey Zander who did a video several months ago where he talked about how there are the guys that the ladies date/marry, and the guys that they are aroused by. These are two completely separate categories and a lot of guys don’t understand that. That’s why there are so many dead bedrooms out there. I like that you added that third category too. Great video as always LFA!
I agree to a point. I think red pill 'creators' over simplify the equation to illustrate a point and men being so simple take it literally.
At different times in my life I've been all 3 of those mentioned in LFA's story. I been the guy getting cheated on, I've been the guy sleeping with a girl I didn't know was being courted by another guy because it was a simply drinks and hotel affair. And most recent I've been involved with a girl who wanted to hook up but said she didn't see a future for us beyond FWB. Said we had good sexual chemistry but not much else in common. The point I'm making is it depends on the woman and what she values. In an irony the last girl I mentioned got back with her ex who by red pull metrics (career/height/muscular) I am more in those categories yet I wasn't selected beyond sex. Why? Comes down to what she values.
@@desertwolf75 I see what you're saying. Sounds like the last girl was still just hung up on her ex. He was the guy she loves and wants to be with, but who knows, she may not even be that aroused by that guy. I think some guys are both though. I'm sure some girlfriends/wives are genuinely aroused by their boyfriends/husbands. You just hear about so many dead bedrooms out there, so that's why that theory I mentioned in my comment makes sense to me.
I generally agree from experience and observation. It's not black and white necessarily though
@@Thatdude64317 if your bedroom is dead her virginia isn't 😀getting service somewhere else
@@Thatdude64317 Yeah that's pretty much was I speculate as well. What's funny is how some women will lie their asses off. Still I should have known. She swore up and down that she wasn't 'in love' with him anymore but still cares about him basically as you suggested loves him but isn't turned on by him which makes sense looking at him.
It's not so cut and dry as have x and you'll get y result when it comes to women. Still it's weird never been fuck zoned before and told that's all im seen as. Weird experience.
I serve God and myself and my cats only. If a lady doesn't want me there are plenty of losers for her.
the amount of self-entitlement is incredible, bruh 😂😂
I'm was the guy who married ...but whit time I became the guy that looks at the situation
I had being all 3 . Now I just sit back and enjoy my peace .
@@carlospita6442both of you are insane for marrying. Sorry that happened to you guys.
I've been to weddings where the bride has been in similar situations in her past with guys in the congregation and the groom has no idea. Better to be on a nice porch with a drink and enjoying the show
Thank you for the video LFA. What an absolute high valued gentleman 💯😎❤️
Most people are morally corrupt these days.
You need to find someone who has similar morals as you. If you are looking for a wife, you need to have high standards for her. This is only going to be a small percentage of the dating population that meets these criteria.
You say there were no signs, etc. But the fact that she was friends with benefits and having causal sex with you shows that she gets around and monogmy isn't her first choice.
Add to this she was a “respected woman snd “active in her church.”
Where else do we have to fucking look for a woman that’s not riding the fucking carousel.
Nailed it
Yeah but how you gonna take her seriously if shes been riding the carousel?
Its a catch 22. Oxymoron
They ride the carousel into their 80's now 😅😂😅
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Sad!
Lmao there was a girl on tik tok saying she worked at a nursing home and the old people were alway getting caught hooking up with each other and they had a huge std problem 😂😂
I’ve heard stories like this many times since my sister used to have bridal clients. The way they’d show you pics of other guys they’re pursuing, yet they’re 2 days away from their wedding day was bizarre. I always tell guys if a female is not willing to show you her phone, or at least change her number, then there’s a high chance she’s still at it. You can’t get mad at her. You have a choice to make as a man. Sometimes asking just to see her facial expression or body language is enough. You don’t need to force her to do anything. Very few people know how to build trust. They know more about boundaries than trust. If they build trust, it feels as though their boundaries are being violated. Like some females would talk about how a guy they’re messing with got “red flags”. Yet, she’s cheating on her man, but apparently thats not a red flag 😂 😂😂
NGL, those conversations used to be wild.
I was witnessing a dialogue between women, one woman told that she had an affair. And that her husband hired a private detective and also hacked her accounts (he was wealthy) to prove it. And she was telling this in a manner that her husband is a bad person to do this, not her. Then she added - I know he is still in love with me and smiled. Cruel world indeed.
You gotta share your negative experiences too , instead of only those where you 're the hero : )
NB : I like your content , I agree with what you're saying
TBH I don’t really have any negative experiences. I’ve never understood why anyone would choose to be in those.
Because they arent attractive and dont have a lot of choices @LFA
@@LFA Haha nice try, you gotta admit that
bad experiences are crucial for one's success, I'm just saying
I think I’ll just keep sharing my honest experiences. I don’t view them as W or L. Taking an L means that I would have to put myself in a position to get disrespected. Which would also mean I’m not respecting myself. That’s something I’m not willing to do.
You may find that statement to be unbelievable, but it’s a reality for those who know better.
When it happened to me i always self-sabotaged into confrontation. The last thing that kind of girl wants is commit with you, and viceversa. So be it.
Man... the girl I'm seeing is probably no different than the girl in this story. I've been black pill, red pill, and now I'm purple pill. Wish me luck if you can...
Twice divorced and 51. I am good! Been where you were, and no, today the many women of my past , doesn't show your opinion on this one. But a lot of men are not worth the woman's time. So we both are in stale mate. 😊
4:00 Yup see when you are super nice to men & pamper them they always remember
0:50 "You must say things the way they are.." - Professor Chad "BOOM" 'CLICK CLICK'
Boom
Big fan from India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Bro Respectfully speaking, dont mention your nationality EVERY GODDAMN TIME!
Indians specially want this attention that 'ohhh u are from India? wow so great!'
It makes us Indians look like attention seeking people.
Peace and love.
In the guy that seeing what’s going on behind the scenes but at times I jump into the field and have my fun then disappear for a while and come back when I’m in a dry spell I don’t trust anyone I frankly don’t think I ever will this game is too cold and seeing so many close people to me getting cheated on I don’t want to be next lol
I've had the same thing happen. I'd get a call from her on occasion and we'd hang out and have a great time. Then suddenly she was engaged and married a few months after that. Haven't heard from her since the engagement which was a week or so after we may hung out.
Great story. I am guy #2. Cheers!
Every man in the world should watch this video
So sad story :(
Why?
@@LFA This church girl behavior
@@LFAbecause married guy was being cheated on
@@AdamsDuhStuff this is the reality of modern dating LFA explained the 3 categories everyone got what they wanted this is how the world currently operates fair or unfair like it or not.
Kenny right
Watching from LA where it's always summer
Daymmm LFA haha it's real out here 😂
I ve been in all three scenarios😂
Talk your truth. You are good at what you do and say. Just leave the Menospherians alone. They have some truth to them. You don't need to bring them every time you talk.
I only bring them up when it’s absolutely necessary.
Manoswamp
This guy is actually a comedian in the way he tells his stories lol
I’ve had a few girls give me their phone numbers and are now seriously committed to/engaged to other guys. Shit hurts.
In a bizarre plot twist married guy's babies first words are "whats up brother?" and guy across the road turns out to be the guy who attracts the cougar in the "you disgust me" video.
W referencing the “you disgust me” video.
Man, would love to hear your take on girls who keep exes as friends when there’s no real links aka kids, animals, money situations etc.
Do you think it’s okay if many many years have past and it’s been completely platonic, what if it’s a fresh breakup, or is it always a straight no regardless of the history?
Appreciate if you share your opinion.
Peace.
Very interesting story.. just my observations. I think It wouldn't be good to be in the other guy spot still due to her hooking up with at least 2 (maybe more, who knows) guys at the same time.
If the married guy finds that out what was going on at the same time while He dated her, He probably won't be very happy about that, and probably same could be said to us if we put ourselves in his position. I would look that girl/wife with completely different view from that point on and couldn't be together with her, to me that's just disgusting.
If She would have dated only 1 guy at a time, it would be a whole different scenario yes, but if She constantly sleeping with multiple men at the same time .. can't take this really serious, kinda red flag.. E.g What if She gets pregnant from You and finds that out only after getting married? And then imagine if She keeps the child and the guy thinks He's the father and maybe even She thinks the same.. Then there would be many more scenarios like STD etc..
Also if 2 people are fit and cool together and having good time, and wanna start living together/build family etc, I dont think they neccessary need to marry, as if You know if something happens the odds are against the man always. Why would you need to involve state in your relationship if there is 0 benefits for You in that case. You could show Your love and appreciation in other ways.
For me - If I knew She was sleeping with other guys at the same time, then I would choose to be the guy nr 3 who doesen't get involved in that, but of course if I didn't know that then guy nr 2 would be fine.. Just my viewpoint feel free to discuss, Im always open minded to different views/perspectives.
But other than that good video as always, You have very unique stories with interesting view perspective that actually makes me think about the times and stuff going on currently.
All the Best!
Great story
happened to me several times.....wtf? Been all three at various stages...
this format really suits me
awesome vid g
Say things the way they are, not the way you wish they were.
Just proves a woman is never single just because you are hooking up with her doesn't mean anyone else isn't. She liked LFA but never brought up being his gf? Why? because she was exercising her options and she had LFA categorized as a fkboy😂 the other guy she was dating more consistently and he chose her eventually for a wife. Bet your bottom dollar she was already dating the guy that married her while hooking up with LFA. You never have to ask her behavior will let you know your zone, after 6 Mos to a year LFA knew he was the maintenance man because she never asked for a commitment the other guy was offering more.
Not exactly.
@@LFA what if she had asked to be your gf after 3 to 6 months? Would you have accepted? If you hooked up with her 2wks before marriage she probably was engaged for a period of time too. Curious how would you feel if you were the married guy and then knowing about you before or after the marriage not throwing shade at you it shows you a woman always has a man or men orbiting she only post the marriage to this man not her other exploits to maintain the illusion of purity
bruh…. I literally said she added me on fb and asked for my number. What do you think I meant by that?
@@LFA I missed that adding you to fb but did she ever ask for a relationship committed over period of 2 years?
Totally agree it’s easy to tell which zone you are in based on their actions and your interactions with her and at what cost to get them
LFA, I learned a very brutal lesson. Women 22 to 26 don't really want a guy their age. However, we have a happy ending. Women at 28 are more mature, usually off BC and initiate conversations with me. So if I wait 2 more years it should get better. Just have to keep going to the gym and building my life.
Can you talk about toxic beauty standards and how beauty is a social hierarchy and pretty privilege
Huge topic, id like to listen on this
@@metalbringerjohnson1642 same it's such a topic that affects dating lives both unattractive men and women suffer due to lack of looks
Beauty has always been hierarchical, the problem with the world today is that it’s not appreciated the way it should be
@@AreteAesthetic it's appreciated because the beautiful races get to stay on top or tend to have amazing sex lives overall
@@jointhefun4 beauty is much more than physical looks that equate to sex. Our modern world has subverted the purpose of beauty and brought it down to the level of sex and pure physical appearance.
2:52 *got anxiety and left*
5:21 thanks for doing the math for me brother
I have the same scenario i love a girl she loves m 2 but she's looking other options n she knows we will be together later on .
Im in my grinding face basically beta right now.
Idk man this hurts idk
Dude across the street seen it all lol
Straight facts shootin da shii
I’m the guy that hooks up but also sometimes I’m the guy watching from afar
I was the man in your shoes. Except we would go out on dates.
The arrangement... Which I did not find out until later (otherwise I would not have touched her with a 10-foot pole),,, was that I was the weekday college guy and when she went back home 3 hours away on weekends, that's when her older boyfriend with a good job took over.
This guy loaned her a car when hers was hit in an accident. He paid for some of her tuition. And I found out he possibly bought her a laptop computer which were very expensive back then and on top of that helped her move in and out of the dorm room.
Her roommates ratted her out finally and I ended things immediately after that. That little female dog put my health at risk! She was another one of these women who watched that show Sex and the City regularly but I was too young at the time to know any better.
At 17, I was seeing a 36 yr old for a time at a bar. Always took her to discreet spot being in HS living at home. She eventually told me she was married to a PA state trooper. She even introduced me to her hubby. Why she cheat ? They hate predictability and a man with a predictable schedule gets cheated on.
I'm a crosscountry trucker so if I bump into you I'll buy a burger
Lookin like Steve from Minecraft
Boom
Men keep their money they made while she was sleeping around. Once 304, always 304. Good luck!
🤔 I'm the one that sits aside,but plan to be the 🎉one soon.
Type 3
I just got done being the guy that was wanting to marry a woman. Been dating pretty consistent for the last 10 years(not same woman). Dating game is rigged for a man and even worse if you get married. About to check out of the dating game completely. Risk versus reward with the risk being to high and reward to low anymore. Till divorce laws change I believe I will never get married. I am 33 years old and my advice to anyone younger than me stay single and stay away from them. You’re only seeking financial burden and heartache.
Is a dominatrix designed for simped
Reminds me of Chizzy P. She’s such a nice and lovely lady. She sure do know how to make a man happy.
Neighbor: could be himself, or witnessing even more. More to life than worn out tail.
What is my incentive to play this game?
Lmao almost none if you have good intentions that aren’t surface level.
I'm the guy across the street 😅
I feel im the onlooker but would prefer to be the hook up guy lol
I’m sorry but how can you say that the guy found a good woman while she was giving herself to you and probably other guys? This culture is so unhinged and broken and yes, the man that ended up marrying her not knowing what she was doing behind his back is a complete oofy doofy weak male that has no idea what his future will look like with her. She’s not a wholesome church girl. She is a chameleon acting a certain way to get what she wants. Heck, seems like she even fooled you despite you knowing that she is a Jezebel. Lust truly does blind people. We truly need God.
Totally agree. So many people are morally corrupt these days.
She was playing everyone. She isn't a "good church Christian girl" if she is sleeping with multiple men at once. LFA was in a fwb relationship with her. If she is ok with that, she is NOT long term material.
@@jsts22 Exactly. She is a deeply evil woman, it’s worse if she goes to church since she should know what adultery and fornication means. She can’t pretend to not know better. It’s tragic that men still give these kinds of women a pass and a bunch of excuses as if they are still good women. Standards and boundaries don’t exist anymore. It’s all about hedonism and temporary pleasure. This world disgusts me sometimes, ngl 😂
I agree with you and was thinking the exact thing before you posted this.
I said it the way it was. Not the way I wish it was.
@@LFA what do you mean the way it was? Nothing about this is good. It has nothing to do with wishing. She got married and you somehow think that’s the end of it. No, that marriage will not end well and if you think she just changed her promiscuity TWO WEEKS after getting married, idk what else to tell you. It’s flat out unrealistic. Cheater women don’t just start making good choices and the poor husband has no idea what she did. Imagine if that was you, LFA. If you married and you found out your wife was doing it with other men just a few weeks before the wedding. She is not a good woman.
I am the guy on the porch but that hopes to be the first guy to a girl that has no second type of guy hahaha. I think most of us are like that, but it can be quite unrealistic. Because girls are super secretive. And the good ones are usually even more secretive from my experience. Because they are trying to be respectful. I know girls that had not the best past, but at least they are trying to make no mistakes in future.
And choose to be a guy on a porch and from time to time to be the second type of guy - only makes things worse in society in a long run. So each and everyone are responsible for what is happening.
Yep, been all 3 of those guys, pretty much the guy on the porch atm not exactly of choice .
Bro. For serious. I need you to put that retro sound at the beginnin gof every video. It's your intro. Don't forsake the intro.
Please.
Lucky for me I did not come of age during the "hook up" culture. Back in the 60's and 70's you where either with a woman or NOT!
Yh I just don’t care, as young man in his 20s it’s banging girls and that’s it, my fitness and business comes first, fuck taking care a girl seriously atm.
this guys a beaut
best!!!
I haven’t met a woman yet that can be taken seriously - not even family.
I would choose to be the third guy in the story who's stand there and do nothing , until I get myself a virgin women.
Even if she marries, she's still riding the carousel.
lol. Just take her seriously bro. Hahahaha
It can work if you are a man of high value.
@@WalkingDead520 ok rich COPER. shave your head and grow a grey beard and only match with old hags. Got it
Is her husbands name Tyrone ?
Them 304s are scandalous
be the dude with the boyfriend aesthetic, but lays down that side dude energy
This guy is attractive, he chooses to be single to play the field.
Be a man with a plan.
@@wb2499 this woman is the type that's the exception to the rule she waa friendly kind, cooperative and beautiful no kids. My only concern would have been she never asked for a serious relationship if that's the case you ride it out until she disappears or gets married, I'm not buying the farm how many cowboys been milking the cow😀
@@Kenny-d7u It’s like what LFA said, you can’t hate the player, hate the game. You can either play the field or just sit back like the gentlemen on the porch. The choice is yours my friend!
@@wb2499 yes have a plan
The 4th guy pays for OF
❤
Alpha=lion
Beta=sheep
Sigma=tiger
change tiger to wolf
Sigma is just a deluded beta
@@sup3994 lone wolf
@@rajunaidu7751 Wolves don't make it on their own.
@@DrArku right lone wolves die quick 😅
You cant treat a women serious who rides carousel 😂😂😂
Your life as a man will bcm a carousel bcs of her😮😮
:)
3 Types Of Men: Test f..., Alpha f..., Beta Buck.
When a woman is ovulating she's hanging out with Chad. When she's having menstrual cramps she prefers Mr Nice Guy.
Be the guy that gets the ass while having the knowledge of the guy next door. Never be the simp under any circumstance because you're living a lie.
"Clickbaitable viewers" 😄
I'm the guy that's plugging her once a week
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Even that mosquito wanted some of LFA’s good milk😅 Superb video my brother😎🏜️