Our hosts had a lot to say about signing (or not signing) a prenup before getting hitched. "The Real" premieres July 15! Find out when it's on here: bit.ly/RealWIO www.therealtalk...
@@FLTHYFCKGAMING yeah seriously it’s very unfair.. like I understand the concept (sort of) that back in the day women didn’t work - and actually were prevented from it - so they needed some type of assistance. But these days there’s no excuse
@@righteousmasculine Also her ex wife was with her in the beggining, so they built a family together.... If you marry someone you starting off being the millionare and going high in life and she is just starting ( and vice versa women should get a prenup as well) then hell yeah get a prenup
As I see it, it's like a fire insurance, just because you get one doesn't mean you plan to set the house on fire, and the risk of fire is still the same. It's just a fail safe for a worse case situation.
Nolin Summers a Pre-nup should come with a kicker, its void if the divorce is because their just not happy with each other, just some people just waste the courts time with stupidness. That's why I fee people should get to know one other before marrying, marriage is nothing to play with.
If you set your house on fire, even if you have insurance, you committed a felony and will 100% go to jail. So you are saying if people get a divorce, they should go to jail? And no, nobody get divorce by accident.
Yamirka Alvarez if u don't believe in divorce, u won't sign a prenup, enough said. not always about money when u choose not to sign. whatever happened to valuing Marriage and wanting absolutely nothing to do with divorce, not even an "insurance" for it.
Me Just Me "till death do us part" means till death do us part, so if he were to ever come to me and ask for a divorce I would interpret that as he's asking for a bullet to his head.
Me Just Me I have seen just how ugly and painful divorce can be, and I would rather die. and if he's my husband then we r one, so if I'm going down, he's going down with me.
50% of all marriages end in divorce - 85% of those divorces are initiated by women - why would you enter a contract that rewards the other party for breaking the contract? absolute lunacy - the odds are bloody disastrous.
@@Error-ox3fe i meant if women loves man then she shouldn't care about prenup. If someone stops loving? Idk people used to stick by for their kids and partner. Now 90 percent end marriage and break family when they stop loving. So what happens is women shouldn't then get half the man's stuff and be awarded cash and Price is Right final round level prizes for breaking contract
No prenup means no marriage..end of. I've worked far to hard to establish my business, I'm not gonna risk all I've worked for because of love…Not gonna happen
porkchops91 Damn right. I learned from my buddy's mistake. He bought a new condo when he was 25 (self-made) and when his wife left him with his kids bitch took half of everything. Recently she's going after his company too. My friend now has to rent a lil room in a basement. Moral of the story, like you said, no prenup no marriage.
liz liz My last girlfriend wanted us to share an account and credit card. When I asked her how her credit score was she started getting all defensive and emotional. Put it this way even when the so called 'one' comes around, my philosophy will stay the same. No prenup no marriage. Marriage if put in business terms especially in the 21 century and in western countries is a finical risk for any higher earning spouse especially if it's a man. So if you are gonna tie the knot then make sure you protect your paper. I've seen enough men and some women getting burnt to know not to make the same mistake. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you should put yourself in a foolish situation. I'd rather have my wife to be sign my prenup and know she's not gonna try and grab all my assets if things go wrong than leave it to the family court who will happily screw me over. If she won't sign my prenup then I know it's not meant to be, it's really that simple
***** he didn't have a prenup. He should have had one. It would have saved him a fortune. However he believed that she wouldn't leave him and she promised she wasn't that kind of woman and she's independent and she likes her own money. When divorce came she wanted anything she could possibly get. £800,000 in assets is what she ended up taking. She was a part time nurse
***** well thats refreshing to hear. It's a wise thing to do because God forbid your marriage ends in divorce the family court won't screw over the higher earner since that'll be in place. However the kids is always another story but at least you can be reassured your money is good
The reason I love the whole prenup agreement, is because it quite LITERALLY exposes your partner’s intentions 😂 if they don’t want a prenuptial agreement, they want something else from you.
@@larryjames3437 A legal document where you and your future husband or wife agree to terms and conditions. it can prevent a woman from marrying you only to cheat, n divorce u and take half your hard earned assets.
@@larryjames3437 a contract of sorts that your spouse signs that basically says if you divorce then they cant take anything that you have, such as money and property.
Tamar Braxton let’s see she don’t believe in prenups maybe that’s why she divorced her ex husband in 2019 and now has a boyfriend who she intends on having more kids with. Yea she believes in getting that bag is what she believe in if she don’t sign the prenup walk away fellas 🤡
My mom and dad separated after over 25 years of marriage, she was the one supporting him financially at the beginning since all his money, went into building their house. After that he didn't work for a bit, even tho she still never denies that he was looking for work non-stop. So she always have been there, and yes that's what marriage is all about. But when he was gon' have money, he made it pretty clear that he ain't sharing and that it wasn't "their" money but "his" .. My mom was hurt, because she never though of her income as only hers. So now after separation, don't you think it's only fair for her to get half after all those years?
@Valerie Bernice If that's the case, child support exists. Plus, it's not like the kids only belong to the women so obviously the man is going to support them on top of the child support. But he gets to keep what belongs to him and so does she. Simple.
@Valerie Bernice Then the right thing to do.. is let the man take care of the kids. Tell the judge you cant take care of them and forfiet the kids over so they can live a better life..
Quite frankly, as a Christian, I don't see anything wrong with Tamera getting a prenup. For the average person, a prenup seems like preparing for divorce but for the rich/famous, in this day and age, people are crazy. In Hollywood, you always find out about someone cheating or going to jail or leaving their spouse for someone else. A prenup protects the parent who will end up with the children and makes sure they're taken care of. Plus, people get NASTY in divorces and TRY to take their ex-spouse's money for revenge and it's terrible. I think it's being smart. And if it's God's will, then you'll never even have to look at it again :)
tb11212 THANK you. I don't understand it when people say they are planning for a divorce. Having health insurance doesn't mean I'm going to get in a car accident on purpose either. And like you said, it can protect the children (including those from previous relationships), it can also keep family property in the family (heirlooms, businesses, inheritances, etc) and protect you from debts. Do what feels comfortable to you, but don't accuse other people of 'planning their divorce'. Those are your insecurities, so keep it to yourself, you know.
Girl u just described Ms.Trina and Gabe's messy divorce cus even tho Trina did leave with all her money and buisness Gabe tried to take it during the trials and stuff but in the end they both walked away with their own coins
false. if my boyfriend became successful, he would never propose that to me because he knows I don't care about money. Even when I recently got money, it didn't change me and I helped others. I wills always put God over money and I know he'll bless me with my own. I have helped my bf many of times myself. I understand its for protection if something were to happen but if you really know your partner then you shouldn't have to worry.
@Kylissa - If you don't care about about money/equity then why would signing a prenup be an issue? By signing a prenup you're stating that you don't care about those things and that your relationship is truly just about each other without those other things in the way.
Bill Nye the Science Guy because when my bf and I get married, I feel that it is an unnecessary process we don’t need to go through. He knows me and I know him. We trust each other... if we were to go through a divorce ( God forbid ), I know if anything bad to do with money, we would be mature about it.
I’ve had this conversations within my circles who have said that me as a woman, it would push men away if I bring up prenups but my response is this. A man who is secure in himself, as well as his financial status and viability would have no problems with prenups. Men who are against prenups for their wives tend to have fragile egos or a superiority complex and women who are against prenups tend to be gold diggers.
100% right ...no prenup =no marriage. I tuned down 2 proposals from 2 men till now because I wanted a prenup and they didn't so I broke up with them and declined
if a woman refuse to sign a prenup she is after your money. dont fall for it when she tells you that it has all to do with trust and principles and has nothing to do with money. trust me its all about the money!
Prenup isn't just a "what's mine is mine" it can be about payments made to the other in the event of a divorce or a percentage of business/investments being divided. It's just smart to do.
The prenup not only says that you don't marry him for his money. It also means if you ever divorce him, it's not about money. It's quite a strong message. And if you both are decent people and respect each other, none of you will let the other one down if you ever do split.
I like the black chic's response. If you truly want to marry someone and you're not interested in their money then they should sign a prenup with no problem. It's better to haver her feel offended for a little while as opposed to losing half your shit. You don't want to lose your wealth when it took you so long to build
What is you started making money AFTER you were married and didn't have a prenup? In that case, the law would say your money then would be half for your spouse since it was accumulated while you were together.
When a guy makes a girl sign a pre-nup she'll take that as he doesn't really love her. When a girl makes him sign a pre-nup she'll interpret that he really loves her. Either way a guy loses in a marriage. The girl wins either way.
This is dumb lol. If a dude presents his girl with a good prenup and she decides not to sign it, that’s clear sing along for the guy to leave and move on to greener pastures. It’s that simple.
Pre-nup is a must if you have money. Marriage is for financial reasons, not just love. Love is a very minor part of marriage. You can love another person fine without paperwork. Marriage *licenses* are for government and financial reasons.
A pre-nup should be void if the marriage is ending because one person is not happy anymore for no reason or because one the partners is not up to the standards they thought the other person would be in years to come. I feel alot , (not all), of people get married to quick before fully/halfway/ect... knowing the other person. Marriage is something special. Not just a spur of the moment thrill.
A prenup is like insurance. You don't buy insurance for your car or house hoping that something will go wrong. The company can't make the contract void when they feel like it simply because they aren't happy.
Marriage is a joke today with the divorce rate skyrocketing, a woman leaves a man for ANY reason and takes half of his assets and basically automatically get the kids even though most child abuse is shown to come from the mother. Insanity!
What! In one of the other clips discussing Antonio Bandareas paying his ex-wife 65k a month in alimony, these broads were saying he should. Now in this clip when it comes to their money...get a prenup...........Barney was pretty adamant about him NEEDING to pay.
The way I see it I'm kinda torn.. on one hand I understand why you get a prenup but on the other I think if my fiance suggested one I would be hurt they didn't trust me enough to know I would never want to hurt them in that way.
Rollie55 as I said you can have your opinion and I'll have mine. Trust shouldn't change over the years , neither should ur love. There is no time limit on either. It's obvious u don't feel that way and it's ok , u can have w.e opinion u want
@Rollie55 You're completely right. Asking for a prenup, especially when a person has given you red flags, will tell you your partners true intentions. My ex is a greedy woman who is selfish. In asking for the prenup, I offered to make her sole beneficiary of my retirement plan should she become widowed during our marriage. If we were to divorce, however, she would retain her retirement plan and I would retain mine. She didn't like the idea. This attitude gave me a great deal of insight about her as a person, business partner, lover. Her attitude showed me that she is basically a selfish, jealous, insecure, greedy individual who believes they are entitled to things they had no part in building or earning. No one will look after you like you will for yourself, NO ONE. The only reason a person wouldn't sign a prenup is if they foresee a future divorce and wants to hold your earnings over your head if you fail to behave in the way they direct you to.
@@MsBRIEBrie100 A good will person can change in 2 seconds when it come to money.. I have seen very nice women in my life turn really nasty when it came to things money related.
***** the safe side is simple….dont get a divorce …or don't get married….marriage by design is a lifetime covenant not a contractual agreement based based on legal defined terms
***** If your marriage is defined by government sure its a contract. However government doesn't define marriage God does God who created marriage designed it to be one man one woman for one lifetime therefore he designed it as a covenant relationship not defined by if you do this i will do that…. divorce was never the intention for marriage. if marriage is a contract and defined by government then being married to one person is an arbitrary number ….why not be married to 2,3,4,5 people if marriage is a contract defined by government then men should marry men and women should be allowed to marry women no problem if marriage is a contract then that would explain why 50% of marriages end in divorce…because they aren't marrying ''till death do us part''' what they really are doing/saying is … ''till death do us part unless you do something that will cause me to opt out'' Marriage is either defined by God who created it ….or the world who makes rules that will always fail outside of God
Cassandra Muzik 10/10 people die guaranteed but in all seriousness Regarding marriage…if God is the center of the marriage it will last ''Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Mark 10:9
THe pure hyprocrasy of them. Their face of disagreement at the mention of a prenup, but when the woman in red mentioned "she worked for her money for a long time" suddenly they were supportive.
Miriam Calderón No offense, but you are a woman. The laws are going to typically side with you, regardless if your wrong or not. Especially if you have kids. A lot of woman won't date a man if he doesn't make as much or more than her because they feel the man will be a freeloader in essence. But when the man has more and wants to protect himself with a prenup most woman get pissed. I don't get it, y'all can protect yourselves by not even TALKING to the man less known marry him, but a man can't do the same. Especially when history shows how woman can literally rape, disrespect and break a man through the court system.
the way i see it is like this... prenups shouldnt have to be up for discussion. if yall get a divorce and the prenup backfires...oh well. shouldve never gotten one. its a well deserved punishment.
So which "paper" should you believe in, the marriage license you sign when you get married, "till death do us part" or a prenuptial "for richer or poorer" give me your money!?
I would rather just never get married then sign a prenup. I don't care what other people do but for me marriage means forever, divorce simply wouldn't be an option therefore a prenup wouldn't be necessary.
Prenups are great idea and smart. I seen a doctor get taken 70% or more of his life earnings and his wife told someone years ago she wasnt in it for love when she was married to him. Def get a prenup.
The easy way to solve that problem is to change how marriage works, make it so no one is entitled to anyone's property, assets, or money upon exiting the marriage. Probably won't need prenups except for special cases then.
I just started watching this show literally like 30 minutes ago on UA-cam and i love it!! and omg Tamera looks beautiful on this episode.. The straight hair, the hair color, and that color dress is making her glow.. all the women look beautiful
Think about how long it took you to understood what you wanted in life and to understood yourself, so it should take you at least that much time to get to know your partner or understand them before marrying them. That would end a lot of divorces between a lot couple now a days..
These ladies have no chemistry if they even like each other. They talk to loud and over one another, the whole thing just seems awkward and cold. If you're going to do a show like the view and call it "the Real" you need to really examine who you're putting on the panel....does Tamar Braxton scream real to you? I'm not sayin these ladies are "real" or not but come on FOX I could have put something better than this together when I was in college for broadcasting.
If we met when were young, she has my children and throughout that process we getting money, no pre is required, she earned it. If I have monies when I meet her, she’s signing one or we won’t be. “Marriage is business”
I think the kind of World we live in now, with the amount of conditions attached to the Love we offer, is no surprise that people would say "no prenup, no marriage". I agree with Adrienne, in my opinion signing a prenup is preparation for divorce and defeats the actual point of marriage. if you have to go through a divorce I'd like to think the people involved would maintain their integrity and character.
+nazineful Unfortunately, that doesn't work that way. I can vouch from second-hand experience and with an attorney in the family, divorces and inheritances bring out the worst even in the most reasonable people.
+nazineful Signing a prenup is just a realistic way of preparing for the future.. Not signing a prenup does not guarantee a happily ever after marriage. For marriage to work, it two people who are willing to do so, regardless of money..
The same person you marry is not the came person you are divorcing. I've seen this happen many times where one partner thinks they should get everything and the other nothing. Prenups are necessary in today's climate when 2/3 of divorces are initiated by Women. And the court majority of the time favors women. This is why many man aren't in a rush to get married. Nobody goes into a marriage saying or thinking "Gee I want to get divorced in 9 years" Or thinks "Gee I'll get car insurance because I know I'll have a accident in 12 years"
+Philomena Calliope Vince has been in the Muzik Biz since the 90s, he has worked with destiny child and many others. Tamar just got famous. Unless she was successful like Tony, she would have been where Vince is financially.
You do know that Tia and Tamera had a show on style network...practically everything was out and about on there-Adam was on it too! Adam has even been on this show. I hope they have a very happy, Blessed marriage and life together.
ok so...like in every women's show, i have learned nothing. why wouldn't a woman sign a prenup? why doesnt that chick believe in it? it does not effect the quality of your relationship, it's just that the prenup secures a man since the laws are benefiting women after a divorce, let's face it. please elaborate
I ain't signing nOOOOOOOOOO pre nup that is the first instance of lack of trust no sir! if we break up I am not taking all your stuff just mine if we have kids then a compromise will have to take place
"if we break up I am not taking all your stuff just mine" yeah sure, youre just going to leave your lawyer husband and not ask for any of his money. your nose looks a little bigger Pinocchio. its not about a lack of trust; a prenup is insurance. half of marriages end in divorce, and you dont know how your relationship will turn out in the future. are you psychic? you got car insurance right? are you expecting to get into an accident? do you have house insurance? are you expecting a house fire? are you planning on burning your house down? what if you were a doctor? are you telling me that you wouldnt want to protect your assets?
I'm a 27 year old guy who still believes in marriage, but I absolutely refuse to get married without a pre-nup.
Yo it's so stupid when people like Michael Jordan don't ask for a prenup his ex wife is literally a millionaire because of a failed marriage
@@FLTHYFCKGAMING yeah seriously it’s very unfair.. like I understand the concept (sort of) that back in the day women didn’t work - and actually were prevented from it - so they needed some type of assistance. But these days there’s no excuse
Prenup or nothing
@@FLTHYFCKGAMING yea but I’m a jordan fan and let’s not forget that man cheated a lot and she stayed until it was time to cash in.
@@righteousmasculine Also her ex wife was with her in the beggining, so they built a family together.... If you marry someone you starting off being the millionare and going high in life and she is just starting ( and vice versa women should get a prenup as well) then hell yeah get a prenup
As I see it, it's like a fire insurance, just because you get one doesn't mean you plan to set the house on fire, and the risk of fire is still the same.
It's just a fail safe for a worse case situation.
really good analogy my friend
Nolin Summers a Pre-nup should come with a kicker, its void if the divorce is because their just not happy with each other, just some people just waste the courts time with stupidness. That's why I fee people should get to know one other before marrying, marriage is nothing to play with.
imigi Please elaborate further on the comment please.
ohh this is whhy i love analogies....this is good bruh
If you set your house on fire, even if you have insurance, you committed a felony and will 100% go to jail. So you are saying if people get a divorce, they should go to jail?
And no, nobody get divorce by accident.
If it wasn't about the money. You'll sign the prenup. Enough said.
you sign one to and video it.. enough said
Yamirka Alvarez if u don't believe in divorce, u won't sign a prenup, enough said. not always about money when u choose not to sign. whatever happened to valuing Marriage and wanting absolutely nothing to do with divorce, not even an "insurance" for it.
+No Name
If you've ever been divorced, and forced to give practically everything you own and a ton of money, you would understand.
Me Just Me "till death do us part" means till death do us part, so if he were to ever come to me and ask for a divorce I would interpret that as he's asking for a bullet to his head.
Me Just Me I have seen just how ugly and painful divorce can be, and I would rather die. and if he's my husband then we r one, so if I'm going down, he's going down with me.
50% of all marriages end in divorce - 85% of those divorces are initiated by women - why would you enter a contract that rewards the other party for breaking the contract? absolute lunacy - the odds are bloody disastrous.
Exactly and also love shouldn't be an argument against prenups
@@Error-ox3fe love should be argument for prenups
@@SoulDelSol What happens when you don't love anymore?
Actually 76% of all marriages end up in divorce
@@Error-ox3fe i meant if women loves man then she shouldn't care about prenup. If someone stops loving? Idk people used to stick by for their kids and partner. Now 90 percent end marriage and break family when they stop loving. So what happens is women shouldn't then get half the man's stuff and be awarded cash and Price is Right final round level prizes for breaking contract
No prenup means no marriage..end of. I've worked far to hard to establish my business, I'm not gonna risk all I've worked for because of love…Not gonna happen
porkchops91
Damn right. I learned from my buddy's mistake. He bought a new condo when he was 25 (self-made) and when his wife left him with his kids bitch took half of everything. Recently she's going after his company too. My friend now has to rent a lil room in a basement. Moral of the story, like you said, no prenup no marriage.
+porkchops91 well then u haven't met the right personto me prenups are like I wanna be with you but I don't trust younot going to work out
liz liz My last girlfriend wanted us to share an account and credit card. When I asked her how her credit score was she started getting all defensive and emotional. Put it this way even when the so called 'one' comes around, my philosophy will stay the same. No prenup no marriage. Marriage if put in business terms especially in the 21 century and in western countries is a finical risk for any higher earning spouse especially if it's a man. So if you are gonna tie the knot then make sure you protect your paper. I've seen enough men and some women getting burnt to know not to make the same mistake. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you should put yourself in a foolish situation. I'd rather have my wife to be sign my prenup and know she's not gonna try and grab all my assets if things go wrong than leave it to the family court who will happily screw me over. If she won't sign my prenup then I know it's not meant to be, it's really that simple
***** he didn't have a prenup. He should have had one. It would have saved him a fortune. However he believed that she wouldn't leave him and she promised she wasn't that kind of woman and she's independent and she likes her own money. When divorce came she wanted anything she could possibly get. £800,000 in assets is what she ended up taking. She was a part time nurse
***** well thats refreshing to hear. It's a wise thing to do because God forbid your marriage ends in divorce the family court won't screw over the higher earner since that'll be in place. However the kids is always another story but at least you can be reassured your money is good
The reason I love the whole prenup agreement, is because it quite LITERALLY exposes your partner’s intentions 😂 if they don’t want a prenuptial agreement, they want something else from you.
What’s a prenup
@@larryjames3437 A legal document where you and your future husband or wife agree to terms and conditions. it can prevent a woman from marrying you only to cheat, n divorce u and take half your hard earned assets.
That part!
@@larryjames3437 Google is FREE bud….lol
@@larryjames3437 a contract of sorts that your spouse signs that basically says if you divorce then they cant take anything that you have, such as money and property.
“I don’t believe in a prenup” well you don’t believe in this ring😂
Ong lol 😂 🤣😂
it's the exact opposite. If you believe in this ring you should never be thinking about a prenup in the first place!
@Jane Xian hell naw
Tamar Braxton let’s see she don’t believe in prenups maybe that’s why she divorced her ex husband in 2019 and now has a boyfriend who she intends on having more kids with. Yea she believes in getting that bag is what she believe in if she don’t sign the prenup walk away fellas 🤡
@@vnthony2439 But Tamar didn't ask for any money after her divorce. She wasn't a gold digger after all.
Taking half of someone elses money is wrong. What makes you think you have earned it?
My mom and dad separated after over 25 years of marriage, she was the one supporting him financially at the beginning since all his money, went into building their house. After that he didn't work for a bit, even tho she still never denies that he was looking for work non-stop. So she always have been there, and yes that's what marriage is all about. But when he was gon' have money, he made it pretty clear that he ain't sharing and that it wasn't "their" money but "his" .. My mom was hurt, because she never though of her income as only hers.
So now after separation, don't you think it's only fair for her to get half after all those years?
Naim Hastings sounds more reasonable since they have been married for that long. im sorry to hear about your parents :)
So your parents had prenup? I feel bad for your mom
Disabler female entitlement caused by feminism
+Disabler No worries. 😊
I don't see anything wrong with a prenup. I strongly believe that you should leave with what you came with
Tali Marie exactly
@Valerie Bernice If that's the case, child support exists. Plus, it's not like the kids only belong to the women so obviously the man is going to support them on top of the child support. But he gets to keep what belongs to him and so does she. Simple.
@Valerie Bernice It's THEIR children, not HER children. Thinking like that creates a situation for the children to be used as hostages.
@Valerie Bernice Then the right thing to do.. is let the man take care of the kids. Tell the judge you cant take care of them and forfiet the kids over so they can live a better life..
Exactly!
Quite frankly, as a Christian, I don't see anything wrong with Tamera getting a prenup. For the average person, a prenup seems like preparing for divorce but for the rich/famous, in this day and age, people are crazy. In Hollywood, you always find out about someone cheating or going to jail or leaving their spouse for someone else. A prenup protects the parent who will end up with the children and makes sure they're taken care of. Plus, people get NASTY in divorces and TRY to take their ex-spouse's money for revenge and it's terrible. I think it's being smart. And if it's God's will, then you'll never even have to look at it again :)
tb11212 THANK you. I don't understand it when people say they are planning for a divorce. Having health insurance doesn't mean I'm going to get in a car accident on purpose either. And like you said, it can protect the children (including those from previous relationships), it can also keep family property in the family (heirlooms, businesses, inheritances, etc) and protect you from debts. Do what feels comfortable to you, but don't accuse other people of 'planning their divorce'. Those are your insecurities, so keep it to yourself, you know.
Girl u just described Ms.Trina and Gabe's messy divorce cus even tho Trina did leave with all her money and buisness Gabe tried to take it during the trials and stuff but in the end they both walked away with their own coins
Thank you!
Here's a 'christian' talking about revenge.
@@CadillacBunner
Why did you put Christian in quotation marks?
Only chicks with no money have a problem with prenups 😒
false. if my boyfriend became successful, he would never propose that to me because he knows I don't care about money. Even when I recently got money, it didn't change me and I helped others. I wills always put God over money and I know he'll bless me with my own. I have helped my bf many of times myself. I understand its for protection if something were to happen but if you really know your partner then you shouldn't have to worry.
@Kylissa - If you don't care about about money/equity then why would signing a prenup be an issue? By signing a prenup you're stating that you don't care about those things and that your relationship is truly just about each other without those other things in the way.
Bill Nye the Science Guy because when my bf and I get married, I feel that it is an unnecessary process we don’t need to go through. He knows me and I know him. We trust each other... if we were to go through a divorce ( God forbid ), I know if anything bad to do with money, we would be mature about it.
@@kylissasimmons342 God doesn't exist.
Kylissa Simmons FOH ppl change everyday, the honey moon stage of marriage is good , let’s chat 10 years from now after y’all married
i love how tamar at the end was like "i was gonna say me!" hahahah she's the best
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I’ve had this conversations within my circles who have said that me as a woman, it would push men away if I bring up prenups but my response is this. A man who is secure in himself, as well as his financial status and viability would have no problems with prenups. Men who are against prenups for their wives tend to have fragile egos or a superiority complex and women who are against prenups tend to be gold diggers.
You speak of "Reason" .
A rare trait in modern You will be pursued. If not already.
Wahmen. AKA Skqankqs
Banged the point out🙌
100% right ...no prenup =no marriage. I tuned down 2 proposals from 2 men till now because I wanted a prenup and they didn't so I broke up with them and declined
Wow! It's usually women who don't want to get one!
😊 yup well said
if a woman refuse to sign a prenup she is after your money. dont fall for it when she tells you that it has all to do with trust and principles and has nothing to do with money. trust me its all about the money!
asdf lol I'm a woman and I agree with you 100%!!!
This day and age you can’t trust anyone. If she/he don’t sign the prenup they can kick rocks
I completely disagree with this statement. Maybe a lot of women, but certainly not me.
Angela Price lol right and unicorns are real.
asdf woman or man- gold diggers are no specific sex or gender
If I do marry, i'm definitely getting a prenup.
You're Italian and Latina.. (Perfect mix). Trust me, yo ass is definitely gettin married lol
+MrGodismypower 😂😂😂
most rich men already have a prenup prepared lol@Milan
@@tadpoppin4817 who hurt you?
t dawg why would she want to be married lol
We all know Tamar wasn't getting a prenup 😂🤑💸
THIS FUCKING SHADE OF IT ALL!!!!! Cackling!!!!
+Jasmine Jefferson Tamar ain't no fool.
+Indigo Girl word she's just a gold digger
+MrThekidisback No she isn't she had money before she met Vince so don't say stuff if it ain't true
Jordan Hicks please that chick want a man for his money
"I was going to say me!" lol did anyone catch Tamar at the end?
i laughed sooo hard
LMAO LONI AT 1:16 "you-you-you DON'T?"
Prenup isn't just a "what's mine is mine" it can be about payments made to the other in the event of a divorce or a percentage of business/investments being divided. It's just smart to do.
The prenup not only says that you don't marry him for his money. It also means if you ever divorce him, it's not about money. It's quite a strong message.
And if you both are decent people and respect each other, none of you will let the other one down if you ever do split.
Either sign the prenup or I’m out. It’s that simple. What we get together is ours, what I had before is mine.
You cruel
@@n.m6249It’s a cruel world out there, protect yourself.
I like the black chic's response. If you truly want to marry someone and you're not interested in their money then they should sign a prenup with no problem. It's better to haver her feel offended for a little while as opposed to losing half your shit. You don't want to lose your wealth when it took you so long to build
Luv4Animexoxo
Did you miss the rest of my message saying how I gave kudos to her? Quit getting hung up on miniscule matters
Luv4Animexoxo
Well after a beer or two you forget the other black chics are there
That "black chic" is fucking rich. Would she still be thinking the same thing if she didn't have money and her husband was loaded? IDK...
bangmeister - lol looking back these people take errything to heart
The "black chick" is actually BI-RACIAL. Her father is white her mom is black and she was a child star and earned millions on her own.
Kanye voice: "Holla; we want prenups!" ✊
+TruMusic89 that man is solid
Aaron Williams 😂😂😂 cuz when she leave yo ass she gone leave with half lmaoo
Tamera is so classy and respectful of her husband.
tamara looks beautiful here. Hair and makeup is flawless!
Looks fake to me
Tamera said that “it shows me he’s not after my money” no advice for the women who are doing that to the millions of men out in the world?
Well it depends, if I am broke then no prenup, if I am loaded then I want 5 prenups just to make sure.....XD
😂😂😂
that is the ultimate truth🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
What is you started making money AFTER you were married and didn't have a prenup? In that case, the law would say your money then would be half for your spouse since it was accumulated while you were together.
Saaaame
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When a guy makes a girl sign a pre-nup she'll take that as he doesn't really love her. When a girl makes him sign a pre-nup she'll interpret that he really loves her. Either way a guy loses in a marriage. The girl wins either way.
This is dumb lol. If a dude presents his girl with a good prenup and she decides not to sign it, that’s clear sing along for the guy to leave and move on to greener pastures. It’s that simple.
Tamera looks gorgeous here ❤️
Tamera is a real one
Tamara looks beautiful with her hair like that!!
If she doesn't sign. You run!
Of course Tamar doesn't have a prenup. Eyeroll.
LOL looking back at this is so funny! "I was going to say me" -Tamar LOLLLL
I love Loni in purple.
Pre-nup is a must if you have money. Marriage is for financial reasons, not just love. Love is a very minor part of marriage. You can love another person fine without paperwork. Marriage *licenses* are for government and financial reasons.
Which is precisely why marriage is a culture con; what does money have to do with love?
wow 3 years later they look different especially the makeup....i do miss tamar
This is what happens when you tell everybody your business. Vincent shaking his head.
A pre-nup should be void if the marriage is ending because one person is not happy anymore for no reason or because one the partners is not up to the standards they thought the other person would be in years to come. I feel alot , (not all), of people get married to quick before fully/halfway/ect... knowing the other person. Marriage is something special. Not just a spur of the moment thrill.
I don't think the law takes emotions/feelings into account.
I don't understand why the protection of your assets should be void just because someone isn't happy.
A prenup is like insurance. You don't buy insurance for your car or house hoping that something will go wrong. The company can't make the contract void when they feel like it simply because they aren't happy.
Absolutely! People need to understand that a prenuptial agreement is not written one way. There are terms to be agreed upon.
Marriage is a joke today with the divorce rate skyrocketing, a woman leaves a man for ANY reason and takes half of his assets and basically automatically get the kids even though most child abuse is shown to come from the mother. Insanity!
You know what they say...”Begin with the end in mind”
I think prenups are a good thing to have in a marriage. It’s to protect yourself and everything you’ve worked for.
What! In one of the other clips discussing Antonio Bandareas paying his ex-wife 65k a month in alimony, these broads were saying he should. Now in this clip when it comes to their money...get a prenup...........Barney was pretty adamant about him NEEDING to pay.
Sign one! It’s insurance for both parties
Adrienne sure has glowed up.
Yes
The way I see it I'm kinda torn.. on one hand I understand why you get a prenup but on the other I think if my fiance suggested one I would be hurt they didn't trust me enough to know I would never want to hurt them in that way.
@rollie55 how can you marry someone if you don't trust them. you can't say it's not about trust when the center of every relationship is trust
Rollie55 I didn't read ur reply, honestly it was to long but ok u can have that opinion and I'll have mine 😊
Rollie55 as I said you can have your opinion and I'll have mine. Trust shouldn't change over the years , neither should ur love. There is no time limit on either. It's obvious u don't feel that way and it's ok , u can have w.e opinion u want
@Rollie55 You're completely right. Asking for a prenup, especially when a person has given you red flags, will tell you your partners true intentions. My ex is a greedy woman who is selfish. In asking for the prenup, I offered to make her sole beneficiary of my retirement plan should she become widowed during our marriage. If we were to divorce, however, she would retain her retirement plan and I would retain mine. She didn't like the idea. This attitude gave me a great deal of insight about her as a person, business partner, lover. Her attitude showed me that she is basically a selfish, jealous, insecure, greedy individual who believes they are entitled to things they had no part in building or earning. No one will look after you like you will for yourself, NO ONE. The only reason a person wouldn't sign a prenup is if they foresee a future divorce and wants to hold your earnings over your head if you fail to behave in the way they direct you to.
@@MsBRIEBrie100 A good will person can change in 2 seconds when it come to money.. I have seen very nice women in my life turn really nasty when it came to things money related.
Listen to the conversation. It’s about money not love.
Simple. DON’t GET MARRIED!
A prenuptial agreement is not there to be believed; it is there to be signed.
We must remain focused, Brother.
Loni is beautiful in purple😍💜✨
it's not just about protecting your finances, it also protects you from getting your partners debt as well
Prenups TRANSLATION = Negotiating the terms of our DIVORCE before we get Married
***** the safe side is simple….dont get a divorce …or don't get married….marriage by design is a lifetime covenant not a contractual agreement based based on legal defined terms
***** If your marriage is defined by government sure its a contract. However government doesn't define marriage God does
God who created marriage designed it to be one man one woman for one lifetime therefore he designed it as a covenant relationship not defined by if you do this i will do that….
divorce was never the intention for marriage.
if marriage is a contract and defined by government then being married to one person is an arbitrary number ….why not be married to 2,3,4,5 people
if marriage is a contract defined by government then men should marry men and women should be allowed to marry women no problem
if marriage is a contract then that would explain why 50% of marriages end in divorce…because they aren't marrying ''till death do us part'''
what they really are doing/saying is …
''till death do us part unless you do something that will cause me to opt out''
Marriage is either defined by God who created it ….or the world who makes rules that will always fail outside of God
+JIX9ISLER1986 There is no guaranty in this life..
Cassandra Muzik 10/10 people die guaranteed
but in all seriousness
Regarding marriage…if God is the center of the marriage it will last
''Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."
Mark 10:9
If you were a guy I would ask you to marry me. Marriage is a serious thing, that you have to be all in for.
THe pure hyprocrasy of them. Their face of disagreement at the mention of a prenup, but when the woman in red mentioned "she worked for her money for a long time" suddenly they were supportive.
When you marry someone you become one. “All my riches I given unto you “, anything else is just not based on marriage.
Miriam Calderón No offense, but you are a woman. The laws are going to typically side with you, regardless if your wrong or not. Especially if you have kids. A lot of woman won't date a man if he doesn't make as much or more than her because they feel the man will be a freeloader in essence. But when the man has more and wants to protect himself with a prenup most woman get pissed. I don't get it, y'all can protect yourselves by not even TALKING to the man less known marry him, but a man can't do the same. Especially when history shows how woman can literally rape, disrespect and break a man through the court system.
YES
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the way i see it is like this... prenups shouldnt have to be up for discussion. if yall get a divorce and the prenup backfires...oh well. shouldve never gotten one. its a well deserved punishment.
*shouldve never gotten a divorce.
So which "paper" should you believe in, the marriage license you sign when you get married, "till death do us part" or a prenuptial "for richer or poorer" give me your money!?
lady gaga is a big one but he also discovered JoJo back then with her hit singles, one direction & etc. Her hubby is PAID
She wants that money
Can we talk about how beautiful Tam Tam looks though? 😍
I would rather just never get married then sign a prenup. I don't care what other people do but for me marriage means forever, divorce simply wouldn't be an option therefore a prenup wouldn't be necessary.
Tamar Braxton "doesnt believe in prenups" lmao
"She take my money"
"When I'm in need"
Feels bad man
Prenups are great idea and smart. I seen a doctor get taken 70% or more of his life earnings and his wife told someone years ago she wasnt in it for love when she was married to him. Def get a prenup.
The easy way to solve that problem is to change how marriage works, make it so no one is entitled to anyone's property, assets, or money upon exiting the marriage. Probably won't need prenups except for special cases then.
I just started watching this show literally like 30 minutes ago on UA-cam and i love it!! and omg Tamera looks beautiful on this episode.. The straight hair, the hair color, and that color dress is making her glow.. all the women look beautiful
Think about how long it took you to understood what you wanted in life and to understood yourself, so it should take you at least that much time to get to know your partner or understand them before marrying them. That would end a lot of divorces between a lot couple now a days..
Getting a prenub is as effective as getting a restraining order to protect you from a killer.
These ladies have no chemistry if they even like each other. They talk to loud and over one another, the whole thing just seems awkward and cold. If you're going to do a show like the view and call it "the Real" you need to really examine who you're putting on the panel....does Tamar Braxton scream real to you? I'm not sayin these ladies are "real" or not but come on FOX I could have put something better than this together when I was in college for broadcasting.
Hell yes for prenup, my money is my money and his money is his money
Tamar of course don’t believe in prenup cuz she know she didn’t marry Vincent’s look.
Adrienne looked salty when the ladies were talking about Vince. 😂 She wasn't happy, at all.
Women get mad when you make then sign one.
@Ella well there you go problem solved. Notice you never said you would date a man with less money than you tho.
Prenup is really a sistem to detect gold diggers.
In today’s day and age a prenup is the SMART thing to do
100,000,000,000,000.9999876% getting a prenup, no matter how much I love my wife. Prenup.
I bet now Tamar wished she did sign a prenup 🐸☕️
I wish all the full eposides could be online for public viewing. I love this show it speaks to my generation. :-)
If we met when were young, she has my children and throughout that process we getting money, no pre is required, she earned it. If I have monies when I meet her, she’s signing one or we won’t be. “Marriage is business”
Forget a prenup, get an ASSET PROTECTION PLAN instead, it is much better.
I think the kind of World we live in now, with the amount of conditions attached to the Love we offer, is no surprise that people would say "no prenup, no marriage". I agree with Adrienne, in my opinion signing a prenup is preparation for divorce and defeats the actual point of marriage. if you have to go through a divorce I'd like to think the people involved would maintain their integrity and character.
+nazineful Unfortunately, that doesn't work that way. I can vouch from second-hand experience and with an attorney in the family, divorces and inheritances bring out the worst even in the most reasonable people.
+nazineful Signing a prenup is just a realistic way of preparing for the future.. Not signing a prenup does not guarantee a happily ever after marriage. For marriage to work, it two people who are willing to do so, regardless of money..
The same person you marry is not the came person you are divorcing. I've seen this happen many times where one partner thinks they should get everything and the other nothing.
Prenups are necessary in today's climate when 2/3 of divorces are initiated by Women. And the court majority of the time favors women. This is why many man aren't in a rush to get married.
Nobody goes into a marriage saying or thinking "Gee I want to get divorced in 9 years" Or thinks "Gee I'll get car insurance because I know I'll have a accident in 12 years"
Take everything of his but don’t take yours, right?
Why is everyone calling Tamar a gold digger she had money before she met Vince, so ...
+Philomena Calliope come on Tamar money is pennies to Vince's money. Tamar had no money worth talking about girl. She just started making money
Tracey Mair I am not going to judge someone who I do not know.
+Philomena Calliope Vince has been in the Muzik Biz since the 90s, he has worked with destiny child and many others. Tamar just got famous. Unless she was successful like Tony, she would have been where Vince is financially.
I wouldn't mind signing a pre-nup because you can't predict what will happen in the future. It's better to be prepared than regret of not doing it.
Jeannie must be glad she signed that.
In my opinion if you feel the need to get a pre-nup, you shouldn't be marrying that person.
the one who said she has no prenup seriously wants more than she deserves
Prenups are not just for divorce. They also conveys wishes if one spouse dies, custody issues if both parents pass away, etc.
If only more women like Tamera existed the world would be a much better place.
Love that their parents brought it up
I don't have any money so no need to sign a prenup with me.
You do know that Tia and Tamera had a show on style network...practically everything was out and about on there-Adam was on it too! Adam has even been on this show. I hope they have a very happy, Blessed marriage and life together.
Tamera is by far the finest woman on this show.
I would sign it simply because people do change and get spiteful when divorce comes up, or if not cough up half your money and keep it moving
ok so...like in every women's show, i have learned nothing. why wouldn't a woman sign a prenup? why doesnt that chick believe in it? it does not effect the quality of your relationship, it's just that the prenup secures a man since the laws are benefiting women after a divorce, let's face it. please elaborate
Getting married without a prenup is like driving a car without insurance.
I ain't signing nOOOOOOOOOO pre nup that is the first instance of lack of trust no sir!
if we break up I am not taking all your stuff just mine if we have kids then a compromise will have to take place
"if we break up I am not taking all your stuff just mine" yeah sure, youre just going to leave your lawyer husband and not ask for any of his money. your nose looks a little bigger Pinocchio. its not about a lack of trust; a prenup is insurance. half of marriages end in divorce, and you dont know how your relationship will turn out in the future. are you psychic? you got car insurance right? are you expecting to get into an accident? do you have house insurance? are you expecting a house fire? are you planning on burning your house down? what if you were a doctor? are you telling me that you wouldnt want to protect your assets?
Joe Dirt I agree people like that will end taking everything it’s always to ones saying they r not like that that r like that
@Fel - I hope you man runs like the wind away from you then.
@@willgossett2675 hahahaha facts
Haha it’s called marriage insurance. THESE ARE THE TYPE OF GIRLS YOU NEED TO GET A PRENUP WITH.
"I was going to say me". Lmaooooooo Yasssss honey!
It doesn't matter if you get a pre-nup, courts don't uphold them.