Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to learn about how to improve your marriage life try Secret Fixer Blueprint (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my neighbor got excellent success with it.
hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to learn about save the marriage book try Bablim Relationship Booster (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my work buddy got cool success with it.
+Amira Fazl I wish she would dye her hair back to black, but I remember her saying that she doesn't really like black hair on her and only kept it that way for her husband.
I understand all their points of view. Bottom line have a kid when you are ready. Not your spouse, not your family when you are in that place internally.
Tamara is 100% right. A baby tests your marriage so so much. Mine failed. My ex husband walked out 5 months into the pregnancy because I was so sick all of the time and didn't want to take care of me.
I was pregnant and I was sick and my arc told me either stfu or take yourself to the hospital. Later on I ended up not having the baby. We were together for many years and he eventually physically abused me and emotionally abused me even more. He actually said out loud once I wanted to have a baby with you as an experiment to see how retarded the baby would turn out. We recently got divorced and it is the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
OMG I have a love/ hate relationship with tamar sometimes I hate her n her views but this segment right her I lovessss it she's hilarious and so honest
I think this is the foundation of why Jeannie didn't want to have kids with Freddie. I didn't know that she was contemplating having children and even strongly considering that because of the love parents have for their children. Such an eye-opener. And the topic itself hits Jeannie's past situation with Freddie
I'm actually almost in tears cause this is where I am in life. Ready for baby, hubby not so much. I thought it would bring us closer but this is kinda eye opening
Having a baby made my husband take life more seriously. He grew up fast because of that baby. He threw away everything bad in his life and became completely commited to loving me to show that baby the way a family is suppose to look now days. And I thank God for our son because having him made us a FAMILY inside and out. Now thats not everyone. Thats just my situation. ❤
You were very, very lucky. That's extremely rare. Most men won't change and many women think they will. Then the woman ends up carrying the marriage and kids on her back until she breaks. Not worth the risk.
Tamara. go ahead & SAY it! I'm so SICK of telling family & friends that having a baby isn't "cute". Being a REAL parent involves making sacrifices & looking like crap those first couple of years (until school) bc you'll be ran RAGGED! But no! I've had one family member say that they wanted a baby bc it was "their turn" & another tell me it "wasn't fair" when I was pregnant w/ my daughter. Then they want to whine about being single parents, not my fault you wanted a kid to "look" good.
Sadly I hear a lot of people tell women that having a baby will save their marriage. Especially other older women! "Oh just have a kid and everything will better then." LIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yup. I heard the same thing. I noticed it was always from women who were either divorced or in toxic relationships. They also neglected their kids and had several baby daddies. So I always knew they were stupid and didn't listen to them lol.
the answer to can a baby save a marriage/relationship? hell,no!you're going to start hating each other,resent each other, and who suffers?a defenseless baby. work on your issues first.get you in order.it's a human being, not a magic wand.not a sure fire cure.
Exactly. I've heard so many arguing couples say "I'm only here because of my kid, if it wasnt for them I'd be gone." Or even "im out, you can't trap me with a kid"
I was just getting into the conversation! They give great perspective and actually talk about poignant topics women discuss. Would have been nice to maybe have a single Mum in the mix.... FULL EPISODES PLEASE!!!
Children should not be the most important in the family. Keeping your marriage strong should be first priority because without that there is no family.
"I had to get on The Real to actually have a conversation with somebody." lol! Tamar always has these one-liners that crack me up, hilarioussssssssssssss
I don't see what people are saying about Jeannie. I like them all and I think the fact they're so different from one another makes for great entertainment. Jeannie has held her own. Why are people getting upset with what she has to say. She hasn't thrown shade at anyone.
Exactly. If the relationship is rocky to begin with, a baby,or even a pet can make it worse,especially if one partner feels neglected. Then,it's worse,because then your focus isn't on your mate,it's on that new life.jealousy exists. It can cause both to resent each other and eventually that pet/baby.
Yes she herself stated on her reality show that she did not really want to have a baby. It's Vince who really wanted it. While she was pregnant she also stated she will have to get use to things no longer being all about her, but now the baby.
@globetrotter5km if Kim had a baby as an accessory don't you think there would be many pics and videos of the baby for attention to show off this "accessory"?. She barely posts about her sooo.. You don't make sense. Kim always wanted kids, she came from a big family and she wanted a family herself. Stop hating.
I agree with Michie Oo there was an interview with Kim and she stated herself that the only reason the baby wont be shown on the show and why she wont be posting many pictures of her is because Kanye doesn't want her too.
Im my parents 3rd kid, my sisters are 5 and 6 years older than me, they had me thinking it would save their marriage, my mom left my dad when I was 10 months old. It doesn't work but im personally thankful they tried or I wouldnt be here.
Tamar ain't lying about Vince and Miracle because I watch the their show Vince spoils that dog like crazy. I remember when he took Miracle to a dog hotel that had cable TV for the dogs to watch.
I know that if y'all post full episodes while it is still on test run it would hurt the ratings because people will be like I can watch it on youtube. But since the trial run is going to be done this week can y'all post all the full episodes please for the people who can't watch it please?!?!?!?!
If your marriage doesnt have a strong foundation before the child enters, it wont have it after the child is born. Picture a Marriage with no foundation as a boat with no motor. The boat cannot accelerate into the ocean. Now, Having a baby is like introducing a boat anchor that weighs down that motor-less boat. The anchor will weight the boat down ontop of the fact that the boat cannot accelerate. Now you have two problems: no motor and a heavy burden. So now you have a boat that cannot move and its burdened by something heavy. This is how a unstable marriage is when a kid is born. Children can never ever repair a marriage. Why? Because children are a weight. Like the weight you work out with at the gym. This weight comes to weigh down the relationship. It creates stress, tension, sleepless nights, lack of sex, no more time for social events, need a babysitter, vacation ruined cuz baby is sick, so on and so forth. If your relationship isnt solid pre-baby it will only deteroriate even further post-baby.
It's a trial run darling, they're not going to give full episodes. This show is on a four week trial run and the last episode is this Friday. If the show picks up, it will show new and full episodes next year I think. However, if you want to watch the full episodes, go to IAmCarmanJ's blog site. She has them all posted but keep watching the clips and give them good ratings to make the show popular!
Yeah, I don't think so too. Coz if that's the case, the divorce rate today should not be high. The only person who could save your marriage is you and your significant other. If you both want to work things out, you'll be a team to fix everything.
And nobody shud be telling or pressuring (cuz dats exactly what it is) women to get pregnant. Tf. I NEVA understood that. R u gonna do the whole 9 months for me and carry the baby ? How bout you provide & take care of the baby while, I'm enjoying my now "saved" marriage ? NO???? Then have several seats !!!!!!!! #itsnotyoplacetotalk
Don't bring a baby into a broken home, simple as that.
Amen!!!!!!
All these women are gorgeous/beautiful!!!!!!
Jenine/Jennie I like her 💇 /hair!!!!!
Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to learn about how to improve your marriage life try Secret Fixer Blueprint (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my neighbor got excellent success with it.
TimaLelea wish people knew this
I'm glad Jeannie didn't have a baby to "save" her marriage. She did the right thing.
hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to learn about save the marriage book try Bablim Relationship Booster (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my work buddy got cool success with it.
Jeanie and adrienne had babies in 2022
Life truly has no manual. Look at her now💀💀💀💀
@@goddessgumede1084😅
I didnt even recognize Jeanie! She looks so beautiful with that hair color!
+Amira Fazl I wish she would dye her hair back to black, but I remember her saying that she doesn't really like black hair on her and only kept it that way for her husband.
+Josie I know, I wish she would too! but if she likes it then that's all that matters! She looks beautiful either way :)
Also her dress and the color of it is gorgeous on her!
I already love Jeannie more than I should.
Amira Fazl right 💟💟💟
A child will NOT save your marriage...whew Jesus help!
you don't no that
Terrance Anderson it doesn’t
@@terranceanderson4617 it won't.
"I had to get on The Real to actually have a conversation with somebody" THIS is why I love Tamar, never know what she will say next! lol
Lol my fave part when she says that! Haha
I died😂
The dark hair suits Jeannie. Beautiful
OMGGGGGGG! Every time I see it I love it more. Jeanie with dark hair is crazy beautiful. (She's already gorgeous)
i know she always says her husband loves blondes. hope thats not why she changed her hair because she looks stunning in dark hair.
I saw on one segment where she said that her husband liked her hair when it was black/blue but she doesnt want to change it back.
+april king her husband likes blonde hair but like Jeannie with dark hair
@@AprilMayJs Explains why he cheated in the end
@@AprilMayJs cn
jeannie looks so pretty here
yes she does she needs her hair dark again
yess.. she looks gorgeous
I agree, stunning. :-)
I think the dark hair makes her look so fresh
ik and that dress is gorgeous
Tongue click * " Do not, do that" -tamar braxton
I understand all their points of view. Bottom line have a kid when you are ready. Not your spouse, not your family when you are in that place internally.
I totally agree
You should have a child when your ready
+Truth Reigns Amen.
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Tamara is 100% right. A baby tests your marriage so so much. Mine failed. My ex husband walked out 5 months into the pregnancy because I was so sick all of the time and didn't want to take care of me.
Amanda Ramsey whats he an amazing man with no red flags? (Btw im sorry that happened)
Omg I am so sorry that happened to you honey .
I was pregnant and I was sick and my arc told me either stfu or take yourself to the hospital. Later on I ended up not having the baby. We were together for many years and he eventually physically abused me and emotionally abused me even more. He actually said out loud once I wanted to have a baby with you as an experiment to see how retarded the baby would turn out. We recently got divorced and it is the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
You didn't test your relationship before marriage
@@Nokss87 I got married cuz I needed health insurance other wise I never would have.
Now I can say I miss Tamar !! That girl chat is REAL
I loved the way Tamera's eyes glowed when she said being the mom is the hardest job you'll ever love.
so sweet. :) 2:57
Jeanine's hair is really cute here!!! Bring it back!!!
I agree all the way!
OMG I have a love/ hate relationship with tamar sometimes I hate her n her views but this segment right her I lovessss it she's hilarious and so honest
a baby won't save a relationship. i'm living proof...
Divorced or parents constantly fighting? 1 situation sounds better than the latter.
Yet these jerks keep pressuring Jeannie into having a baby!
Misery LOVES company! Stay Childfree Jeannie.
+The Childfree Curly Girl Exactly!
I enjoy being Childfree.
+The Childfree Curly Girl alright
how they pressuring her?
She’s husband free now too lol
Everyone ain't cut out to have kids
Jeannie here looks HOT HOT HOT , but I can't handle her with her blonde hair she's so beautiful but the blonde hair doesn't do her any justice..
js S same blonde hair is amazing if you get the right shade of blonde
The dog, that's his home boy LOOOOOL
Hey guys, check out my channel :)
Men likes dogs because they like to control something haha
@@ellaloc4 Which is why they like young, naive women too.
Tamar's hair looks amazing in this video clip. Just thought I'd throw that out there lol
A baby will rip a marriage apart !!!! Your marriage needs to be very strong before having children.
Yup. Many couples don't even want to stay married but stay for the kids. Babies will definitely test your relationship.
I just love what tamara says she is a woman who is very sober in her thinking
I love how honest Tamar is. It's refreshing
Logan👼🏾 miracle 🐾🐩 Tamar 💅🏾
Hi, how´s it going?
im loving tamera hair
I couldn't pay attention to anything that was being said because the plant was disturbing, please tell me it's not just me... o.O
i did not see the plant LOL
I actually replay the video to see the plant your talking about lol, I didn't even notice there was a one ! /D
AirFire18 you're lucky it doesn't bother you shally parker
shortti3 lmao I saw it
shazell taylor see now i like ppl like you lol
This show need to broadcast in Atlanta
I think this is the foundation of why Jeannie didn't want to have kids with Freddie. I didn't know that she was contemplating having children and even strongly considering that because of the love parents have for their children. Such an eye-opener. And the topic itself hits Jeannie's past situation with Freddie
I'm actually almost in tears cause this is where I am in life. Ready for baby, hubby not so much. I thought it would bring us closer but this is kinda eye opening
I’m sorry 😐 how is everyone coping now?
Just curious to know what happened?
Having a baby made my husband take life more seriously. He grew up fast because of that baby. He threw away everything bad in his life and became completely commited to loving me to show that baby the way a family is suppose to look now days. And I thank God for our son because having him made us a FAMILY inside and out. Now thats not everyone. Thats just my situation. ❤
You were very, very lucky. That's extremely rare. Most men won't change and many women think they will. Then the woman ends up carrying the marriage and kids on her back until she breaks. Not worth the risk.
Jeannie looks pretty like this. She should've stayed like that
I totally agree.
Tamar looks just like Toni on here , very cute.....
Tamara. go ahead & SAY it! I'm so SICK of telling family & friends that having a baby isn't "cute". Being a REAL parent involves making sacrifices & looking like crap those first couple of years (until school) bc you'll be ran RAGGED! But no! I've had one family member say that they wanted a baby bc it was "their turn" & another tell me it "wasn't fair" when I was pregnant w/ my daughter. Then they want to whine about being single parents, not my fault you wanted a kid to "look" good.
NEVER would i ever have a baby to save my relationship
I didn't even realize Loni was there
Jeannies hair is gorgeous her! I love her black hair
Awwww i miss tamar on the show . She’s hilarious
Tamar so crazy I love her!! But Jeanie should listen to Tamera.
Sadly I hear a lot of people tell women that having a baby will save their marriage. Especially other older women! "Oh just have a kid and everything will better then." LIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yup. I heard the same thing. I noticed it was always from women who were either divorced or in toxic relationships. They also neglected their kids and had several baby daddies. So I always knew they were stupid and didn't listen to them lol.
I love Tamar and Tamera as mom's because they're REAL mom's and not uterus donors. They RAISE their kids and don't have nannies do it for them.
SweetAnSowaCandi no, because the girl has to carry the kid in the uterus for 9 months. an egg don't make the kid.
SweetAnSowaCandi They do have nannies
There is nothing wrong with having a nanny. 🙄
Amazing outfit Jeannie. Your hair is perfection.
Jeannie looks so beautiful like this
Adrienne an Tay makeup is a bit too much what they were now is sooo much more flattering
Jeannie I’m so happy you didn’t have a baby to save your marriage and now you have a beautiful family with Jeezy and baby Monaco 🥰
the answer to can a baby save a marriage/relationship? hell,no!you're going to start hating each other,resent each other, and who suffers?a defenseless baby. work on your issues first.get you in order.it's a human being, not a magic wand.not a sure fire cure.
If they don't divorce, that kid will assume it is normal for 2 people to dislike each other and have shouting matches every day of the week.
Exactly. I've heard so many arguing couples say "I'm only here because of my kid, if it wasnt for them I'd be gone." Or even "im out, you can't trap me with a kid"
Tamar always knew one day that jeanie would have a baby... and she was right...
I was just getting into the conversation! They give great perspective and actually talk about poignant topics women discuss. Would have been nice to maybe have a single Mum in the mix.... FULL EPISODES PLEASE!!!
i love Tamera's bun!!
Having a baby makes a bad marriage worse. Don't do it!
Children should not be the most important in the family. Keeping your marriage strong should be first priority because without that there is no family.
I love Jeanie hair like this. #onfleek
Lol Jeanies look of disgust 🤣 in the beginning
Babies aren’t an accessory or a stunt
This is a living breathing being that is YOUR responsibility
Hell no it only make things worse. For the marriage and the child.
"I had to get on The Real to actually have a conversation with somebody." lol! Tamar always has these one-liners that crack me up, hilarioussssssssssssss
I don't see what people are saying about Jeannie. I like them all and I think the fact they're so different from one another makes for great entertainment. Jeannie has held her own. Why are people getting upset with what she has to say. She hasn't thrown shade at anyone.
I love Tamar here.
Jeanie looks amazing with dark hair
Having A Baby To keep your significant other or husband....WILL NOT WORK!! If anything it might drive the man away even more. I agree with Tamera
Love the show! But that center-piece.... is terrifying
Exactly. If the relationship is rocky to begin with, a baby,or even a pet can make it worse,especially if one partner feels neglected. Then,it's worse,because then your focus isn't on your mate,it's on that new life.jealousy exists. It can cause both to resent each other and eventually that pet/baby.
This is sooo true, because I didn't like my husband for the first 12 weeks of my baby's life! No BS!
A baby will help you see what communication issues you have as a couple
Tamar too real hahaha
Yes she herself stated on her reality show that she did not really want to have a baby. It's Vince who really wanted it. While she was pregnant she also stated she will have to get use to things no longer being all about her, but now the baby.
Baby’s would actually destroy a marriage especially if you’re not a strong couple
Tamara, Tamar and Loni are my favorites.
@globetrotter5km if Kim had a baby as an accessory don't you think there would be many pics and videos of the baby for attention to show off this "accessory"?. She barely posts about her sooo.. You don't make sense. Kim always wanted kids, she came from a big family and she wanted a family herself. Stop hating.
i dont believe north west is an accessory but her not taking pics of north n posting all the time is because of KAnye West
I agree with Michie Oo there was an interview with Kim and she stated herself that the only reason the baby wont be shown on the show and why she wont be posting many pictures of her is because Kanye doesn't want her too.
Im my parents 3rd kid, my sisters are 5 and 6 years older than me, they had me thinking it would save their marriage, my mom left my dad when I was 10 months old. It doesn't work but im personally thankful they tried or I wouldnt be here.
My thoughts exactly. She should have been mostly quiet during this conversation. While I like her, Adrienne talks A LOT!
Tamar ain't lying about Vince and Miracle because I watch the their show Vince spoils that dog like crazy. I remember when he took Miracle to a dog hotel that had cable TV for the dogs to watch.
I know that if y'all post full episodes while it is still on test run it would hurt the ratings because people will be like I can watch it on youtube. But since the trial run is going to be done this week can y'all post all the full episodes please for the people who can't watch it please?!?!?!?!
Jeannie mad great points for both sides.
If your marriage doesnt have a strong foundation before the child enters, it wont have it after the child is born. Picture a Marriage with no foundation as a boat with no motor. The boat cannot accelerate into the ocean. Now, Having a baby is like introducing a boat anchor that weighs down that motor-less boat. The anchor will weight the boat down ontop of the fact that the boat cannot accelerate. Now you have two problems: no motor and a heavy burden. So now you have a boat that cannot move and its burdened by something heavy. This is how a unstable marriage is when a kid is born. Children can never ever repair a marriage. Why? Because children are a weight. Like the weight you work out with at the gym. This weight comes to weigh down the relationship. It creates stress, tension, sleepless nights, lack of sex, no more time for social events, need a babysitter, vacation ruined cuz baby is sick, so on and so forth. If your relationship isnt solid pre-baby it will only deteroriate even further post-baby.
Chile these episodes now.... hit diff 👀
It would be nice if you guys would listen to us and upload full episodes, these short clips are getting on my nerves
jeanie looks so pretty in dark hair
LOVE how Jeannie looks here. Stunner
Tamar’s hair is sooooo. Beautiful ❤️🥰
Jeannie is BEAUTIFUL
TAMAR looks amazing here!
It's a trial run darling, they're not going to give full episodes. This show is on a four week trial run and the last episode is this Friday. If the show picks up, it will show new and full episodes next year I think. However, if you want to watch the full episodes, go to IAmCarmanJ's blog site. She has them all posted but keep watching the clips and give them good ratings to make the show popular!
I want to have tamar hair i Love this look on hair
WE WANT FULL EPISODES PLEASE!!!
Tamar is soo funny I like her :)
Tamera can flip between black and white faster then Tyra Banks.
I love love love this show!! My day will not be the same after this week . PLEASE!!! PLEASE!! Bring it back VERy!! VERY!! SOON!!!!!
Yeah, I don't think so too. Coz if that's the case, the divorce rate today should not be high. The only person who could save your marriage is you and your significant other. If you both want to work things out, you'll be a team to fix everything.
WOW Jeanie rockin that hair
There is no love more powerful than GOD no husband, parents, kids, Jeanie.
Tamar is so honest, I love her for that.
Omg Jeannie looks gorgeous =O my god I'm shocked ! She needs this hair now again
tamar is the best
yoooooo is it just me or does jeannie look like that character in incredibles that tried to get with the dad
Jeannie's hair is everything on this episode!!!!!
Look at where Tamar's legs stop vs. Adrianne's
I wish they would post full episodes :(
watching this years later and seeing jeannie have a baby by jeezy, only for him to divorce and leave her with a newborn child to take care of 😢 so sad
And nobody shud be telling or pressuring (cuz dats exactly what it is) women to get pregnant. Tf. I NEVA understood that. R u gonna do the whole 9 months for me and carry the baby ? How bout you provide & take care of the baby while, I'm enjoying my now "saved" marriage ? NO???? Then have several seats !!!!!!!! #itsnotyoplacetotalk
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Don't count on a baby to save your marriage.