12 Gestures That Make You 100% Less Attractive

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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  6 років тому +256

    TIMESTAMPS
    Gripping your arm behind your back 0:43
    Crossing your ankles 1:04
    Clasping your hands 1:33
    Elbows on the table and fingers laced together 1:54
    Slouching 2:18
    Smirking 2:44
    A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to 3:10
    Hands on your hips 3:44
    A hitch-hiker’s thumb 4:11
    Clenched fists 4:36
    A hand covering your mouth 5:06
    Shaking your finger at someone 5:32
    Pointers that’ll help you leave a good impression of yourself 5:50

  • @GundamSeeDMode
    @GundamSeeDMode 6 років тому +2154

    So basically just cut off my arms.

    • @jennifermasih3791
      @jennifermasih3791 6 років тому +22

      Andre Pinnock haha😂😂😂

    • @1fiddlplayr
      @1fiddlplayr 6 років тому +12

      Andre Pinnock. Yeah! I got that too! Lol

    • @skyemelody3067
      @skyemelody3067 6 років тому +41

      Yeah! And I actually started wondering where to put my arms or hands instead. 😂

    • @louiekimberley804
      @louiekimberley804 6 років тому +2

      👍🏻

    • @janedmunds4218
      @janedmunds4218 6 років тому +12

      Andre Pinnock or maybe a straight jacket 😆

  • @gellybean6068
    @gellybean6068 6 років тому +525

    I guess I'll just lay down emotionless as not to offend anyone

    • @Iris-mi2ut
      @Iris-mi2ut 6 років тому +9

      I’m the expressionless type so I can only laugh with my lips opening only a little
      I need to cross my fingers and put it on the table to concentrate
      I can constantly look at a persons eyes for more than a minute until he or she does what I want them to do

    • @ChikoMontez
      @ChikoMontez 6 років тому +4

      Hehe!

    • @wandychambers
      @wandychambers 6 років тому +4

      😁 😁

    • @pwersurge_688
      @pwersurge_688 6 років тому +6

      That'd still offend someone lol.

    • @zereacristosnew6634
      @zereacristosnew6634 6 років тому

      👍😂😂😂😂😂

  • @phoenixofgiethoorn5258
    @phoenixofgiethoorn5258 6 років тому +28

    clicked on this out of curiosity, but then I realized that the only people who are unattractive are those who judge others based on how they pose.

  • @cutiepie5489
    @cutiepie5489 6 років тому +357

    Who watchs and reads comments

    • @Buckleupfacts
      @Buckleupfacts 6 років тому +3

      Gosego Kamfwa Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄

    • @itscaiti
      @itscaiti 6 років тому +1

      Gosego Kamfwa Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
      From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈

    • @cutiepie5489
      @cutiepie5489 6 років тому +1

      Astrolabe ok

    • @PerceptionVsReality333
      @PerceptionVsReality333 6 років тому +2

      +Gosego Kamfwa
      Me, all the time.

    • @cutiepie5489
      @cutiepie5489 6 років тому +1

      What do you mean

  • @asiyaar3149
    @asiyaar3149 6 років тому +1824

    By watching this video I can conclude that I am not attractive.😂😥

    • @itscaiti
      @itscaiti 6 років тому +3

      Asiya AR Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
      From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈

    • @vanyapetrova4001
      @vanyapetrova4001 6 років тому +3

      Asiya AR lol

    • @matildax1968
      @matildax1968 6 років тому +11

      Asiya AR don't think that of yourself everyones attractive

    • @houseofhorrors.4028
      @houseofhorrors.4028 6 років тому +5

      Asiya AR no your wrong cuz you are very attractive.

    • @ice5756
      @ice5756 6 років тому +1

      same

  • @romanvalentine1629
    @romanvalentine1629 6 років тому +88

    You know, this video fails to point out that every gesture shouldn't be read so much into.
    For example, I have a habit of crossing my arms when someone is telling me something. It's just something I do to tell my body not to make a move and actually pay attention to what is being said to me. It helps me think more because my arms act as a sort of 'blockade', so that I do not act or respond until I have processed all information and actually considered my options carefully.

    • @zeelchan1752
      @zeelchan1752 6 років тому +3

      Niles Valentine
      That is quite true, I like the way you think actually

    • @TheGdawg1999
      @TheGdawg1999 6 років тому +1

      to me that means guarding yourself

    • @worthwhilediscussion
      @worthwhilediscussion 5 років тому

      RomanCupid 95 Thorough.

  • @RichJRZ
    @RichJRZ 6 років тому +1

    This is one of very few advice videos that's nearly uncontroversial. The top comments usually bash the video, but I can't find any this time! Great job with this video!

  • @officialvaylin
    @officialvaylin 6 років тому +471

    as someone who studied psychology, i can tell you this is so wrong

    • @bxcinderella
      @bxcinderella 6 років тому +14

      Kladza : what do you mean? Can you explain please

    • @RnR-Rebel
      @RnR-Rebel 6 років тому +12

      Kladza - Thank you! There are exceptions to every single one of these “suggestions”. Why not go into the really interesting body language of lying vs telling the truth vs looking for the correct/proper way to express something? Much more helpful than these. Be well & keep that eagle-eye open! Jet 🧡🎸🎶⚡️🦇

    • @itskaktus9107
      @itskaktus9107 6 років тому +14

      me too, its so dumb what the bright side says about things like this, es ist sheiss

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 6 років тому +13

      Kladza yeah most this stuff seemed completely wromg

    • @arth8265
      @arth8265 6 років тому +33

      This channel is most of the times wrong :) They just trying to talk about so wide spectrum of things with no real professional knowledge.

  • @HKB108
    @HKB108 6 років тому +1

    Your Videos are soo POPULAR in India!
    Great Work!!

  • @anushkajoshi.1631
    @anushkajoshi.1631 6 років тому +48

    I can't read body language completely but still i can differentiate between rude and cool

  • @SafexTrip
    @SafexTrip 6 років тому +326

    How the heck should i pose then!!!!!!

  • @david_oliveira71
    @david_oliveira71 6 років тому +139

    Can you please do a video on the opposite of this, like: which body language is really important and we should adapt

    • @bxcinderella
      @bxcinderella 6 років тому +5

      Sianeh Johnson :
      On the contrary, we CAN LEARN body language tips. Just needs practice to put into use

    • @zartashaawan6307
      @zartashaawan6307 6 років тому +5

      Watch the full video please

    • @EatingCleanKeto
      @EatingCleanKeto 6 років тому

      Blue Dragon Always look someone in the eye when talking. If you have a hard time doing that look at them between their eyebrows. They won’t be able to tell...

    • @marlindaschutz1156
      @marlindaschutz1156 6 років тому

      David Oliveira yeah, what should I do with my hands😂

    • @TheGdawg1999
      @TheGdawg1999 6 років тому +2

      I'm thinking these may be different for other cultures who agrees?

  • @toukendanshiwarrior2846
    @toukendanshiwarrior2846 6 років тому +8

    A body language you also shouldn't do: Grab your arm with one hand makes you look uncomfortable, shy and, uninterested in talking to someone. It also looked like something bad has happened. Putting all your fingers against each other is also a sign of shyness and timidity. Or tapping your index finger against the other index finger, which is fidgeting.

  • @caithill8532
    @caithill8532 6 років тому +56

    Everyone at my school walks around with their hands in their puffer jackets. We are all unattractive and nervous af 👌😂

  • @kellimccain253
    @kellimccain253 6 років тому

    My fiancé doesn’t believe in body language and yet he shows many of the things you have displayed. Very interesting facts. Thank you for proving my point. Happy Holidays to you all.

  • @HeyItsIgnasio
    @HeyItsIgnasio 6 років тому +90

    Personality is what matters the most not your looks. you never judge a book by its cover📙🚫😀

    • @maryobiagwu7672
      @maryobiagwu7672 6 років тому +2

      swiftierunner .89 ok cool

    • @sodayoda7365
      @sodayoda7365 6 років тому +17

      It's easy to say that, because people tend to judge ones by his or her looks first... cause that's what we see in the first place

    • @sonjawilliams989
      @sonjawilliams989 6 років тому +5

      I judge a 'a book by it's cover' and I'm usually right. Who in their right mind asks a 300 pound person to go hiking for the afternoon? !

    • @HeyItsIgnasio
      @HeyItsIgnasio 6 років тому +1

      Sonja Williams well thats you're way of thinking so ....thats on you.

    • @sonjawilliams989
      @sonjawilliams989 6 років тому +2

      swiftierunner .89
      yeap..it is 'on me' and I'm not ashamed of it. once you have a larger person in your life, they draw you down to their depression level and it's not healthy for anyone. people will always judge with their eyes first. it's human nature.

  • @sheilagadde5975
    @sheilagadde5975 3 роки тому

    Thank you, and MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

  • @fandomfangirl8883
    @fandomfangirl8883 6 років тому +147

    *casually does almost all of these so far* g r E a t

  • @lisacarroll2954
    @lisacarroll2954 6 років тому +1

    Thanks a million and blessings and rewards

  • @mythopoeic8236
    @mythopoeic8236 6 років тому +9

    Needless restrictive rules. This stuff will change over time. Be yourself and learn what works instead of following rules with no experiential or empirical origin.

  • @stephaniealexander3314
    @stephaniealexander3314 6 років тому

    This is a REALLY EXCELLENT GUIDE to UNDERSTANDING BODY LANGUAGE!💜❤️💗I am a Psychologist and it’s all very very important in my best helping patients and best communicating with them! It’s truly an ART that needs clarity and to be brought back into general public life-skills ALL OVER AGAIN! 💜❤️💗Wonderful Thank you!!

  • @thefoodyoumaylike1293
    @thefoodyoumaylike1293 6 років тому +45

    Body language depends upon the situation.we may not be conscious always.some times it depends upon the genes too.

    • @Yazan.Jayusi
      @Yazan.Jayusi 6 років тому +1

      I don’t think it depends on genes it might depended on the environment u lived in not genre :/

  • @kanhyalal3578
    @kanhyalal3578 3 роки тому

    Thank you for these best Gestures points

  • @playdollshowtime6756
    @playdollshowtime6756 6 років тому +6

    Now this is what’s called judgement, it’s best to just learn the person, because guessing can be so bad!!

  • @eugeniakaitell5830
    @eugeniakaitell5830 6 років тому

    great info, I was raised to watch my moms eyes for approval and sometimes body language, regardless of what she says, I must respond to the eye or body language, because she doesn't want us accepting anything from anyone, friend or stranger.

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 2 роки тому +4

    12. Gripping your arm behind your back; 11. Crossing your ankles; 10. Clasping your hands; 09. Elbows on the table and fingers laced together; 08. Slouching; 07. Smirking; 06. A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to; 05. Hands on your hips; 04. A hitch-hiker's thumb; 03. Clenched fists; 02. A hand covering your mouth; 01. Shaking your finger at someone.

  • @lavayuki
    @lavayuki 5 років тому +2

    Oh no i do a lot of these, especially the hands in pockets, although mostly back pockets as opposed to front ones

  • @SV-ed9pg
    @SV-ed9pg 6 років тому +216

    I don't care what others think about me😅😅

    • @SV-ed9pg
      @SV-ed9pg 6 років тому +1

      BM SHAIK creations yeah......i will think about it.......😊😊

    • @TheAtm12345
      @TheAtm12345 6 років тому +6

      Positivity is the answer

    • @SV-ed9pg
      @SV-ed9pg 6 років тому +1

      TheAtm12345 Exactly i do agree with u

    • @xzeeonie7221
      @xzeeonie7221 6 років тому

      Sameee

    • @Marinela2348
      @Marinela2348 6 років тому

      same

  • @softskillspathshala5644
    @softskillspathshala5644 5 років тому

    Sir really minute details of body language discussed. Thanks for that.

  • @pradipkumarborah8794
    @pradipkumarborah8794 6 років тому +77

    So what shall we do?? Just be in attention position???

    • @praptighosh1111
      @praptighosh1111 6 років тому

      Pradip Kumar Borah Sometimes in a stand at ease position for relaxing 😂😂😂

    • @lindakristinekjlibraten757
      @lindakristinekjlibraten757 6 років тому +2

      Just copy the eyes, the smile, sit on your hands!

    • @Setres09
      @Setres09 6 років тому +1

      Cross your hands at your wrists, or have your hands clasped without the fingers laced. Stand with weight on one leg predominantly. Move your hands animatedly during conversation, but never toward your partner. All of these are welcoming and show a more at-ease conversationalist

    • @TheGdawg1999
      @TheGdawg1999 6 років тому +1

      pretend you are singing your National anthem hand over heart standing at attention,singing LOL

    • @worthwhilediscussion
      @worthwhilediscussion 5 років тому

      Pradip Kumar Borah 🤣🤣🤣

  • @colleenriordan9734
    @colleenriordan9734 6 років тому +111

    Please don't believe any of this BS. The messages that people send with body language are a totality of the positioning and movements of all parts of their bodies and faces. These gestures alone have no definitive or single meaning. Also, the relationship between two individuals will alter how body language is intended and interpreted.

    • @seozonetherightlocalseocom5442
      @seozonetherightlocalseocom5442 6 років тому +3

      Yes, this vid really is BS. Plus, the animations and voice-over are amateurish & unattractive. Don't listen to these self-proclaimed "experts".

    • @alliepiersanti5450
      @alliepiersanti5450 6 років тому

      Colleen Riordan are you related to Rick Riordan? Because I love his books!

  • @leonelronaldo9335
    @leonelronaldo9335 6 років тому +7

    Hi Bright Side , if you would like to could you make a video about sport like athletics . How to improve your speed or brain to do the sport better . I'm just love your videos and love to learn . Thanks !

  • @rianamomo6597
    @rianamomo6597 6 років тому

    I need these pointers because I work at the front desk. Thank you brightside. 😃👏

  • @yashpednekar4381
    @yashpednekar4381 6 років тому +122

    I can't be anymore unattractive

    • @Buckleupfacts
      @Buckleupfacts 6 років тому +2

      Yash Pednekar Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄

    • @diannaplunk8938
      @diannaplunk8938 6 років тому +1

      CDC CDC d dr tr5tttrrre grew but cut newly by 7

    • @smvideos023
      @smvideos023 4 роки тому

      2

  • @Shottoru
    @Shottoru 6 років тому +43

    ugh so i basically have to fake more stuff and show emotion

    • @TheAtm12345
      @TheAtm12345 6 років тому +2

      Shottoru Just be yourself

    • @Shottoru
      @Shottoru 6 років тому +2

      TheAtm12345 that isn't the point of body language. you have to "fake it" so that people will understand your body language.

  • @BlaCK_HaT.
    @BlaCK_HaT. 6 років тому +17

    TIMESTAMPS
    Gripping your arm behind your back 0:43
    Crossing your ankles 1:04
    Clasping your hands 1:33
    Elbows on the table and fingers laced together 1:54
    Slouching 2:18
    Smirking 2:44
    A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to 3:10
    Hands on your hips 3:44
    A hitch-hiker’s thumb 4:11
    Clenched fists 4:36
    A hand covering your mouth 5:06
    Shaking your finger at someone 5:32
    Pointers that’ll help you leave a good impression of yourself 5:50

  • @namirahossain7066
    @namirahossain7066 6 років тому

    I cannot read or understand body languages bt now i know it...thank u

  • @namankumar9478
    @namankumar9478 6 років тому +4

    I have habit of tilting my head while talking to someone. But l do this because it comforts my neck.

  • @chula5759
    @chula5759 6 років тому +31

    After that video I am afraid to move my hands/body.
    😂
    Oh come on! Nobody is thinking all these!
    You said all the gestures. So..which one is the perfect? To cut our hands?

  • @BrokenClock2U
    @BrokenClock2U 6 років тому +13

    Best way to solve all this video gestures problem, cut off both arms at the shoulders...boom! You're 200% more attractive now!

  • @irisbloom5620
    @irisbloom5620 6 років тому

    Playing both hands palms down, relaxed, on the table in front of you is a Positive gesture. Open communication.

  • @denisad8946
    @denisad8946 6 років тому +3

    Almooooost 10 milion!
    Congrats!😉

    • @nuts6033
      @nuts6033 6 років тому

      They dont deserve it lol

  • @TheFriendlyGiant
    @TheFriendlyGiant 6 років тому +1

    "Just bring to mind any happy moment from your life that makes you smile everytime you think about it." Never thought such an easy task would be so difficult.

  • @romeoraizada1983
    @romeoraizada1983 6 років тому +41

    Thank you sir.

    • @Buckleupfacts
      @Buckleupfacts 6 років тому

      Romeo Raizada Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄

    • @itscaiti
      @itscaiti 6 років тому +1

      Romeo Raizada Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
      From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈

    • @romeoraizada1983
      @romeoraizada1983 6 років тому

      Astrolabe you are doing good. Keep it up. I hope you will grow rapidly.

  • @milancealeksimovic4650
    @milancealeksimovic4650 6 років тому +2

    I do most of these not because I am in a bad mood,but because they just seem natural

  • @callystone7177
    @callystone7177 6 років тому +123

    But I’m not attractive…
    Like at all😂😂

    • @itscaiti
      @itscaiti 6 років тому +1

      Cally Stone Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
      From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈

    • @TheAtm12345
      @TheAtm12345 6 років тому +3

      There's someone for everyone just be patient

    • @theawesomenessofnoodlesand995
      @theawesomenessofnoodlesand995 6 років тому +1

      Cally Stone im pretty sure im less attractive cause I did all of them before you shouldn't say that about yourself tho because I'm the less attractive one like less lessssss

    • @shannaweirich7434
      @shannaweirich7434 6 років тому +2

      💩

    • @sandhyathakur1942
      @sandhyathakur1942 6 років тому +1

      Cally Stone 😜

  • @markryan3751
    @markryan3751 5 років тому

    Very useful, these days I encounter more people I'd rather avoid than continue to encounter.

  • @AMDSiuu
    @AMDSiuu 6 років тому +154

    10million on the way
    i think it will 10M before I wake up
    Im an Indian

    • @itscaiti
      @itscaiti 6 років тому +4

      the BIG Tech Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
      From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈

    • @octopusprime2793
      @octopusprime2793 6 років тому

      AMD Wants YOU me too!

    • @SubbaeYT
      @SubbaeYT 6 років тому

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    • @thakursediting5360
      @thakursediting5360 6 років тому

      AMD Wants YOU me too

    • @daveeva8593
      @daveeva8593 6 років тому

      Indian shut upo

  • @rugrat1235
    @rugrat1235 6 років тому

    While attending college in 1987 body language was a big part of a human resources class that was required. This is 1 reason I find "people watching" entertaining.

  • @wendyraye
    @wendyraye 6 років тому +16

    Ironically the “more attractive” people are obviously models. I could do without the cheese-ball smiling.

  • @audreyviglione3262
    @audreyviglione3262 6 років тому

    Very good video, most of the things I knew, but also learned some other pointers on body language. Thank you! :)

    • @chrislong6999
      @chrislong6999 6 років тому

      hands on hips is an indication of "keep away from me" often seen in a football match, when an opposing team score a goal.

  • @Boegea
    @Boegea 6 років тому +14

    This seems tobe US motivated.
    In Europe many of these a gestures are quite normal and used daily.
    And not considered rudeness

    • @nuts6033
      @nuts6033 6 років тому +2

      This isn't even true in the US. For example, hands in pocket just shows more casual "ness" and holding your arm behind your back can show your shy. 90% of this is BS and is just fake as heck. Poor them, trying to look professional.

    • @ismailelmassaoudi4317
      @ismailelmassaoudi4317 6 років тому

      I'm from europe and i find the people here more closed then the US

  • @Jegvedikkehvadjegskalhedde
    @Jegvedikkehvadjegskalhedde 4 роки тому

    I love your videos with this content here 👍😊

  • @georgerivera9035
    @georgerivera9035 6 років тому +21

    People who have arms, need a place to put them. An angry look, the finger, a fist, a real gun, a knife, these are threatening. Anyone who takes the time to analyze every move and posture is a sick individual. I can tell all of these without the analysis. Mostly, this is just bovine fecal matter, and with that I am moving on to a useful site.

  • @nayanaramesh1252
    @nayanaramesh1252 6 років тому

    Excellent Guestures. Thank you

  • @rainriver6398
    @rainriver6398 6 років тому +173

    I say do whatever the f*** you want people are going to have opinions of you anyways nice or not.

    • @pamspray1413
      @pamspray1413 6 років тому +9

      Rain River ---EXACTLY opinions are like azzholes everybody's got one ;) so be yourself and say f^@k it

    • @Karen-gh8gv
      @Karen-gh8gv 6 років тому +1

      Nice.

    • @ria-hu7cy
      @ria-hu7cy 5 років тому +1

      I do most of these things so that I can get to know the real person

    • @smvideos023
      @smvideos023 4 роки тому

      2

  • @mariposa7ful
    @mariposa7ful 6 років тому

    Very informative. I enjoy watching all your videos Bright side. Keep them coming!😊😊😊

  • @harrisonwilson5319
    @harrisonwilson5319 6 років тому +11

    Interesting video that was very insightful. However, in future I, and I think many people, would appreciate it if you quoted sources in the description. Still, I enjoy the content 👌

  • @nortesur9504
    @nortesur9504 5 років тому

    is time to rip it off myself hands and legs...nice video tough...Greetings from colombia south America..

  • @Idkh01
    @Idkh01 6 років тому +19

    I dont think the persons I like analyse my body language everytime I talk to them.... this is BS😂

  • @paulphelps7809
    @paulphelps7809 6 років тому +1

    Info very worth knowing.

  • @osha1403
    @osha1403 5 років тому +4

    Ok so I’m not attractive when using my arms... ok I’m just not attractive anymore!

  • @meerubsajjad8314
    @meerubsajjad8314 5 років тому

    please share any video about feeling confident or while on the stage feeling relaxed and confident

  • @Ins0mniacSl0th5
    @Ins0mniacSl0th5 6 років тому +12

    I do all of these 🤣

  • @elleelle5847
    @elleelle5847 6 років тому +1

    Yay I do all of these (other than slouching), and I ain't gonna stop.

  • @zeenatfatima2939
    @zeenatfatima2939 6 років тому +6

    No. 13 middle finger up👆 can't find the emoji.lol.

    • @sharid76
      @sharid76 6 років тому +1

      You mean this 🖕one?? 😉

  • @MALAKmalak-iz7jk
    @MALAKmalak-iz7jk 6 років тому

    Thanks for helping us in daily life activities.😊

  • @haxh1r
    @haxh1r 6 років тому +15

    333th liker
    86th commenter
    2,583th viewer
    Nice video
    Thanks
    Bright
    Side
    😍😍😘😘

  • @mariadeliguori7159
    @mariadeliguori7159 6 років тому

    thank you so much for the advice❤

  • @sereds
    @sereds 6 років тому +8

    Why do you have to be so complicated?
    I think that the only way to speak to someone without them being offended is to cutoff your arms.

  • @teachyouright1181
    @teachyouright1181 2 роки тому +1

    Be yourself don't fool yourself, at the end of the day you are what you are so do the things you love if a person love you has to accept what you are, even you do all this things it doesnt mean negative it give a diff meaning to a people who judge you their not you be real don't be blinded by this system teaching you to nothingness and wasting your time....

  • @thedon8699
    @thedon8699 6 років тому +21

    These are very true and I should get out of some of these bad habits

    • @Buckleupfacts
      @Buckleupfacts 6 років тому +1

      The Don Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄

    • @itscaiti
      @itscaiti 6 років тому +1

      The Don Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
      From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈

    • @shukurenai6097
      @shukurenai6097 6 років тому

      Astrolabe I subscribed

    • @ismailelmassaoudi4317
      @ismailelmassaoudi4317 6 років тому

      Bulshit if you were sarcastic my bad

  • @jaimycmettsmusic
    @jaimycmettsmusic 5 років тому

    I love smiling I don’t ever fake it!

  • @amjadhamar3280
    @amjadhamar3280 6 років тому +4

    Love you bright side

  • @eddyvideostar
    @eddyvideostar 6 років тому

    I perceive that most of this, except for the obvious, which one can discern, is for those who want to pursue and work with a high-level management system. There are too many technicalities regarding this; akin to a musician who knows all the notes and chords but cannot make it flow from the fingers. A good mentor would help. My long experience with body language and psychology as a denizen in various parts of the world, that sometimes, good things in certain cultures make a less positive impact in other nations. Ironically, A good thing in one may offend in another. To turn the other cheek: necessitates finding a fortified foundation, change the angle -- and bring the Vaseline!

  • @eezhan2579
    @eezhan2579 6 років тому +3

    I do no. 12 because Idk where else to put my hands while I’m walking (I feel weird and out of balance when they’re by my side)

  • @felicialaanbeyinye5827
    @felicialaanbeyinye5827 6 років тому

    Thank you I really love this video

  • @sameraosman1262
    @sameraosman1262 6 років тому +3

    I do 11 things from this list around my crush😥

  • @asaji1296
    @asaji1296 6 років тому

    I do a majority of all of those lol. I’m not trying to offend just be comfortable and some of those gestures put me at ease.

  • @robinleslie8066
    @robinleslie8066 6 років тому +6

    Maybe I should just stand or sit like a robot ..everyone have that personality that they are attracted to 😤 it's good to express how you feel at times okay👍

  • @Sumera2015
    @Sumera2015 6 років тому

    I loved this video because it has both to do and not to do ❤️

  • @missdenisesmith6836
    @missdenisesmith6836 6 років тому +14

    What???? I love putting my hands on my hips 🤣

  • @zinniazinnia2145
    @zinniazinnia2145 6 років тому +1

    People can be so judgemental towards someone just because they didn'tsmile 'correctly'. I prefer to see people in what they do in their lives, their real actions, charities, kindness, love, caring attitudes and not focus on their body behaviour.

  • @seus2731
    @seus2731 6 років тому +4

    "use your eyebrows"… he..that's a usseless advise for someone with BOTOX 😂😂

  • @zubaidasaleem690
    @zubaidasaleem690 6 років тому

    thnx f0r thix kn0wledge 😍

  • @dutchpuppet5248
    @dutchpuppet5248 6 років тому +4

    When you realize you do all these things

  • @AmisCooking
    @AmisCooking 6 років тому

    Wow interesting notions 😊👍

  • @shriyanambiar6784
    @shriyanambiar6784 6 років тому +4

    Then how tf do we sit there is nothing left

  • @tabitha.shipley
    @tabitha.shipley 2 роки тому

    When you said shaking your finger at someone, I immediately thought of Sonic the Hedgehog. That one scene in SSBB Subspace Emissary where he wags his finger at Tabuu when he’s about to do the second shock wave to turn all the other characters back into trophies.

  • @RC--tw7em
    @RC--tw7em 6 років тому +75

    Don't make eye contact in asia, you'll be rude.

    • @TheAtm12345
      @TheAtm12345 6 років тому +12

      Why do I find this funny?

    • @kyoxtohru112
      @kyoxtohru112 6 років тому +8

      Also reminds me of not smiling in France. You'll either be seen as a foreigner and become a target or rude as well.

    • @Info.Planet
      @Info.Planet 6 років тому +1

      agree

    • @autumnoranges1719
      @autumnoranges1719 6 років тому +2

      kyoxtohru112 what lol...smiling is rude in France?

    • @richardancog7520
      @richardancog7520 6 років тому

      whoah news to me

  • @oliviashores1326
    @oliviashores1326 5 років тому +1

    So according to you I’m always angry and lying. I always grip my arm behind my back because I’m fidgety and I do’s it when I get nervous not angry. I cross my ankles because I have a bad balance and I sway when I stand in place. What does that have to do with lying? Thanks a lot Brightside! You really know how to make me look bad. 😂😐

  • @priyankanayak9268
    @priyankanayak9268 6 років тому +25

    *I am not alive*

  • @bonniebeaver499
    @bonniebeaver499 6 років тому

    Thank you that was Very helpful

  • @kimber7774
    @kimber7774 6 років тому +5

    Well, I'm a sloucher. 🤷🤦

  • @fatimaansari1112
    @fatimaansari1112 6 років тому

    After watching this video I can say it’s hard to live in this world we all are same but we all have to learn the same thing

  • @fupayme5511
    @fupayme5511 6 років тому +7

    I don't need people to like me
    They already do

    • @Radifying_
      @Radifying_ 6 років тому +4

      desiree fessler I doubt they'd value a weeb.

    • @fupayme5511
      @fupayme5511 6 років тому +1

      Speak for yourself

    • @RC--tw7em
      @RC--tw7em 6 років тому

      Lucky

  • @MrNose-tw7cz
    @MrNose-tw7cz 6 років тому +1

    And I'll try to be polite and I will make sure that I'm kinda kind only to the people who i really respect. I don't have to force myself to be nice all the time

  • @susantilley5732
    @susantilley5732 6 років тому +4

    I do all of them up to 8

  • @louisborselio8608
    @louisborselio8608 6 років тому +1

    When I see someone with gripping their hands behind their back, crossing their ankles, hands in their pocket, clasping their hand, elbows on the table fingers laced together, hand reaching toward me, hands on their hips,hitch hiker's thumb, or hand covering their mouth I'm not the least bit offended or not want to be with that person. So why would they feel negative toward me if I subconsciously did those things.