20+ Psychology Tricks to Read Anyone Like a Book

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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  6 років тому +1316

    Hey guys! Which psychology tricks do you usually use?
    Here're some other tricks ua-cam.com/video/l4tWdTmYZoM/v-deo.html. They're simple yet they do work!

    • @geesauce3850
      @geesauce3850 6 років тому +62

      I don't know give me a Nintendo Switch

    • @hazizadel119
      @hazizadel119 6 років тому +10

      Putting legs on the table and leaning forward and backward and swinging from their heels to their toes

    • @epi.
      @epi. 6 років тому +4

      BRIGHT SIDE 5th Reply

    • @americansportsfan1059
      @americansportsfan1059 6 років тому +5

      This is so accurate ive done all of these with the emotions you described...I've never done #3, 16, 17 or unbroken staring

    • @midtonne5233
      @midtonne5233 6 років тому +1

      BRIGHT SIDE sorry but idk

  • @bobbimke82
    @bobbimke82 6 років тому +1663

    Hint: "If somebody points a gun at you, they don't like you."
    Also: "Anybody who shoots you doesn't like you A LOT."

    • @lucasb2128
      @lucasb2128 6 років тому +8

      bobbi mke for real?

    • @rageflavored
      @rageflavored 6 років тому +26

      really? how interesting! tell me more

    • @noname-bv4lh
      @noname-bv4lh 6 років тому +9

      bobbi mke MINDBLOWING

    • @HelloThere-uc5yn
      @HelloThere-uc5yn 6 років тому +3

      Mind blowing discovery

    • @coopsawright7225
      @coopsawright7225 6 років тому +8

      if someone is sticking an optical fibre tube up your bottom it probably means that they are a doctor or that something has gone horribly wrong

  • @envo9059
    @envo9059 5 років тому +2141

    You forgot one. If their middle finger is pointing up and the other fingers aren't, they're angry.

  • @robertsides3626
    @robertsides3626 6 років тому +3698

    Remember kids, if they don't maintain eye contact, they are lying to you. And if they maintain eye contact, they are also lying to you. Trust no one.

    • @leaf5524
      @leaf5524 6 років тому +23

      Robert Sides yup

    • @SCPmmmBviewssecondsago
      @SCPmmmBviewssecondsago 6 років тому +58

      That's the world man

    • @johncarlpaulino5830
      @johncarlpaulino5830 6 років тому +96

      So ur telling me that I should just trust my teddy bear?

    • @robertsides3626
      @robertsides3626 6 років тому +30

      As long as it isn't voiced by Seth MacFarlane.

    • @Pooshmaster47
      @Pooshmaster47 6 років тому +19

      If i think someone is trying to stare me down, i love looking away and then right back

  • @HardikBothra
    @HardikBothra 5 років тому +1015

    Feel so sorry for the introvert guy who cant look people in eye but always gets judged as being dishonest!

    • @definitiveentertainment1658
      @definitiveentertainment1658 5 років тому +38

      Hardik Bothra Exactly. Each one of these has major exceptions and hopefully nobody is taking this too seriously..

    • @billybob-dp7ui
      @billybob-dp7ui 5 років тому +23

      Yeah that's me. I can't maintain eye contact with my crush for more than 0.3 seconds. Seriously. One time I saw her as I was going down the stairs, and I literally looked her in the eye and instantly looked away. Can anybody help me?!

    • @sadespain2339
      @sadespain2339 5 років тому +28

      Autistic people have a hard time with eye contact.
      Same with people who were abused or have anxiety.

    • @TekkLuthor
      @TekkLuthor 5 років тому +14

      @@billybob-dp7ui look at people's noses

    • @zura2501
      @zura2501 5 років тому +10

      Not all introverts can't look at people in eye.

  • @simmi6348
    @simmi6348 6 років тому +95

    1. Closing eyes=not interested in convo
    2. Cover mouth=hide info
    3. Chewing on glasses=worried
    4.present face=attracting
    5.rub chin=decision making
    6.cross arms=irritated
    7.fixing posture=attention seeking
    8.lean forward=interested in someone
    9.leaning back=tired of the convo
    10.swing their heels n toes=confident
    11.rub hands=positive feeling
    12.Glove handshake=trustworthy
    13.facing floor palm handshake=respect dominance
    14.cupping handshake=sympathize you/or charge reminder
    15.handsome w/ touch=need more attention
    16.fixing tie=w/ women(attraction) w/out uncomfortable
    17.collecting lint=disagreement
    18.feet on desk= comfort/disrespect
    19. horse chair=dominant person
    20.playing w/shoe=women:comfortable/attraction
    21.eye contact=BIG:attraction Small:mad
    22.avoiding eye contract= thinking or dishonest/discomfort
    23. Unbroken staring=intimidating
    24. A lot of blinking= attracted
    This is mostly for me but I'll share the love lol

  • @10INTM
    @10INTM 6 років тому +2041

    "Strangulation: If a person starts pummeling you and choking you with their bare hands, that can be a sign that they do not like you."

    • @rebelwolf772
      @rebelwolf772 6 років тому +66

      Oh oops I thought that was how kids say hello these days excuse me I have to apologize to some people in the hospital

    • @juliealaroque7201
      @juliealaroque7201 6 років тому +3

      What

    • @thedeejaeebee5babee
      @thedeejaeebee5babee 6 років тому +43

      "However, if they're doing this during coitus, they may be trying to turn you on with their autoasphyxiation fetish. But, if you can't breathe and try to indicate for them to stop and they ignore you, it may mean they're a psychopath or sociopath, and you're being murdered."

    • @PsychologyFeed1
      @PsychologyFeed1 6 років тому +4

      OMG! That's so true!

    • @Cello69.
      @Cello69. 6 років тому +19

      OR if someone appears to be strangling themselves while eating this does not mean they dislike themselves it just means their food is going well and they feel fine.
      I’m good at this.

  • @user-rl1vr1fd1r
    @user-rl1vr1fd1r 6 років тому +601

    also inhale and exhale is a sign a person is breathing...;)

    • @rageflavored
      @rageflavored 6 років тому +7

      EDEN much smart

    • @pigeon4298
      @pigeon4298 6 років тому +4

      LOL

    • @CeCorapi
      @CeCorapi 6 років тому +4

      my life is now complete just by reading this single comment..... and im still underage ....lolol

    • @dumbanimations5811
      @dumbanimations5811 6 років тому +3

      Woah.... Cool!!

    • @Dillepo14
      @Dillepo14 6 років тому +1

      EDEN how could that be?

  • @emizology
    @emizology 5 років тому +943

    as a dancer, i fix my posture when i see my own reflexion. does this mean i am attracted to myself?😂

    • @justasimpleguy1652
      @justasimpleguy1652 5 років тому +24

      yes

    • @melody._..-.
      @melody._..-. 5 років тому +16

      U looove ur self ❤️💜🧡💛💚💙💕💘💖💗💓💞

    • @emizology
      @emizology 5 років тому +23

      @@melody._..-. but notice how i said i am a dancer... i do ballet and i always need to fix my posture as i always slouch, so when i see my self slouching, i fix my posture

    • @southviewarab
      @southviewarab 5 років тому +10

      Get over yourself

    • @Bleiser3
      @Bleiser3 5 років тому +6

      It doesn't mean you are attracted to yourself... Just use common logic. You just don't want to look bad and know that you are suppsoed to keep posture and not slack like a sloth. Getting used to a bad posture just keeps you doing it without you noticing it. So when you see yourself in a mirror and notice it you try to fix your posture but forget it afterwards as majority of us do anyway, it's pretty normal.
      So short answer: no you are probably not... The ballet is just important to you and you really try to do all you can for it including the posture (which everyone should keep their eye on anyway).

  • @assassinaquilus5685
    @assassinaquilus5685 6 років тому +244

    I love how when he says "crossed arms are to show we are irritated," there's a guy smiling in the background as he crosses his arms.

    • @michaelnaughtin9633
      @michaelnaughtin9633 6 років тому +3

      mixed message

    • @tiffanyoviedo14
      @tiffanyoviedo14 6 років тому +4

      Assassin Aquilus i cross my arms because it’s more normal to be than letting my hands down by my side 😂

  • @stevenhernandez5667
    @stevenhernandez5667 5 років тому +842

    When I rub my hands it usually means I'm cold

    • @kilotwist1
      @kilotwist1 5 років тому +10

      Let's Give it up for Steeeveenn!!

    • @azhrieljavelyngarcia6527
      @azhrieljavelyngarcia6527 5 років тому +1

      Steven Hernandez ikr

    • @otakusan402
      @otakusan402 5 років тому +5

      That or your trying to act like a villain. Rubbings your hands, smiling crazily or weirdly, and trying your best to cackle, are all good signs of attempts at being a villain. Or your just ridiculously happy about something. But it's generally the former.

    • @TSProductionsVideos
      @TSProductionsVideos 5 років тому

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @RamKumar-sw3yn
      @RamKumar-sw3yn 4 роки тому

      True😂

  • @x.Sai.x
    @x.Sai.x 6 років тому +1634

    This whole time his arms are crossed, even the "animator" knows he hates his job

  • @AndHeWalksAway
    @AndHeWalksAway 5 років тому +149

    I have my arms crossed all the time and I'm in a perfectly fine mood.

    • @athomas5035
      @athomas5035 4 роки тому +3

      I can relate to this 🤭

    • @r0sylem0nss0da
      @r0sylem0nss0da 4 роки тому

      Possibly! :D

    • @night._.kitten
      @night._.kitten 4 роки тому

      Yes

    • @aishahbenjamin3281
      @aishahbenjamin3281 4 роки тому +11

      I cross my arms because I don't know what to do with it 😂 I feel like I look weird with my arms hanging down

    • @2007rodne
      @2007rodne 3 роки тому +3

      It’s because that’s your comfy zone once you don’t crossed your hands u will feel distressed and insecure so anyone can get the best of you

  • @Jacob-hy7do
    @Jacob-hy7do 6 років тому +1476

    I don't get why people think crossing arms is negative. I do it everyday because it's comfortable to me.

    • @stoiccrane4259
      @stoiccrane4259 6 років тому +28

      Jacob Takes different meanings depending on context

    • @amyasmith16
      @amyasmith16 6 років тому +60

      Maybe crossing your arms is an emotional defense mechanism to keep people from getting too close to you and you have become comfortable that way.😂 Lol I'm jp that was just a random thought

    • @nata-scree1531
      @nata-scree1531 6 років тому +5

      Jacob ikr

    • @milkman7834
      @milkman7834 6 років тому +14

      Jacob Same dude. I actually enjoy conversation and I lean back as well.

    • @Kyushuki
      @Kyushuki 6 років тому +12

      I know this is out of topic but, what if you can already read people. Some of these techniques aren't true. For some reason it is easy for me to read people easily, even strangers. I only read people if I take curiosity. Other than that, people aren't my business and I have no reason to know who someone is or how they think about themselves.
      If someone ever asked me what this person thinks of them is wouldn't say anything other than "find out yourself, ask the person what they think of you. Problem solved."
      If they asked me who this person is and the details I'll just say "easy, be friends with the person and you've got your answer."
      I have no interest in anyone or even genders since they act all the same in their own ego. Some people may but it's rare to see the free people who don't even care how people think of them or if they are bullied.
      Those are the only people that catches my curiosity. Though not in a love way just in curiosity. Other than that people in my school is just jerks and only shove their problems to mines.

  • @Aybek4
    @Aybek4 6 років тому +249

    Girl:*chews gum*
    Dude:*silence*
    Girl:*chews gum*
    Dude:”ARE YOU DEPRESSED”

  • @hose3262
    @hose3262 6 років тому +4525

    'Crossing arms means that the person is not feeling it today' this dude is obviously in the bad mood the whole video.XD

    • @lightlysalted5151
      @lightlysalted5151 6 років тому +43

      hose maria omg, haha

    • @pattonsanders5338
      @pattonsanders5338 6 років тому +8

      hose maria lol

    • @youngDL21
      @youngDL21 6 років тому +13

      hose maria I was thinking that too

    • @paggi93
      @paggi93 6 років тому +4

      hose maria thought the same thing too! XD

    • @zombieparadox6632
      @zombieparadox6632 6 років тому +5

      hose maria who can blame him...... looks like he had a rough day.

  • @lizzl8607
    @lizzl8607 4 роки тому +78

    Another body language... When you smile u can't breathe
    Thanks for smiling.

    • @chqadermunir5059
      @chqadermunir5059 4 роки тому +1

      😅

    • @lizzl8607
      @lizzl8607 3 роки тому +1

      @Gabriel Sepulveda :)

    • @coinbureau247
      @coinbureau247 3 роки тому +1

      Message him at WhatsApp also
      + ", 1", 8", 0", 8", 9", 7"7", 6", 3", 5", 0-

    • @tinasaha5977
      @tinasaha5977 3 роки тому

      The actual fact is when u talk, u can't breathe.
      You can inhale and exhale while keeping the smile... Just like air hostesses do.
      But you need to stop talking if you want to take breathe.

    • @sxnburn8455
      @sxnburn8455 3 роки тому

      😁

  • @akagi937
    @akagi937 6 років тому +82

    What about showing the middle finger

  • @DoomFinger511
    @DoomFinger511 6 років тому +1900

    Many readings of body language can have more then one reason. They're not all black and white. Someone could be crossing their arms because they're are physically cold but not closed off. Covering the mouth can also mean they are not confident speaking. The direction a leg is crossed can change not because they aren't interested in you anymore but because they had their legs crossed towards you so long it became physically uncomfortable and they had to switch directions. Sigmund Freud pointed this out with his famous line "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar".

    • @MyLady22
      @MyLady22 6 років тому +25

      Covering of the mouth or crossing of the legs could mean bad odor.

    • @SIGBizzle
      @SIGBizzle 6 років тому +13

      I thought the exact same thing, I kind of gave up half way through the video because of this. I’m glad other people know this too 🙌🏻

    • @griffingiles2534
      @griffingiles2534 6 років тому +10

      Good points, and I wonder if this video was even based on any evidence based research.

    • @ctpctp
      @ctpctp 6 років тому +7

      Yea, this video is such a steaming pile of horse$#!t 😣

    • @AryanVA
      @AryanVA 6 років тому +4

      DoomFinger511 u are just amazing to debunk and show a new light on these theories. Bravo 👏 Have u studied psychology?

  • @elyssaa.amiraa3739
    @elyssaa.amiraa3739 6 років тому +759

    I like how the cartoon man is saying that crossing your arms means your not in the mood .etc. But he is crossing his own arms😂

  • @Eli_skips
    @Eli_skips 5 років тому +665

    Body language today: people’s eyes are on their phone while doing anything.

    • @Eli_skips
      @Eli_skips 5 років тому

      De̸͟͞rpy Potato 1946-1964🤔 I’m more after generation X. BTW. Still like to gather facts before making assumptions. If you ok with just interacting with your phone and become the greatest keyboard warrior, DO YOU!

    • @tombstonesoda3007
      @tombstonesoda3007 5 років тому +5

      Ok boomer

    • @Eli_skips
      @Eli_skips 5 років тому +1

      De̸͟͞rpy Potato I like boomer though. Makes me feel like a Yoda or wise man. I knew it was a joke😉 I was trying to bust some balls.😂

    • @crusaderlmao
      @crusaderlmao 5 років тому +7

      *Ok boomer*

    • @gfhk5085
      @gfhk5085 5 років тому

      Ok boomer

  • @pocketchia374
    @pocketchia374 6 років тому +264

    I always cross my arms. It's more comfortable for me instead of just standing there with my arms down.

    • @someperson7622
      @someperson7622 6 років тому +5

      Ginger the Espeon embarassing, but i cross my arms when im trying to show off my pecs... it makes my chest look super buff, and draws attention to it as well... yeah, lame

    • @swordbrine6498
      @swordbrine6498 6 років тому +5

      I do it to look intimidating

    • @velvet8859
      @velvet8859 6 років тому +10

      Ginger the Espeon I do that because its also comfortable and sometimes it means I'm cold. And teachers always ask me if I am mad or something lol

    • @datgirlmeredith5370
      @datgirlmeredith5370 6 років тому +2

      Ginger the Espeon same and it makes me feel less awkward

    • @hjikjkd
      @hjikjkd 6 років тому

      jaybull fan b same me everytime waiting for turns when forget to bring phone with..

  • @alek.bear.
    @alek.bear. 6 років тому +395

    I don't keep eye contact.
    My limit is like 5 seconds i feel very uncomfortable with eye contact.

    • @nileciaable
      @nileciaable 6 років тому +7

      Alex King
      Same.

    • @nileciaable
      @nileciaable 6 років тому

      Wan Udyn
      Thanks I'll try this 😁

    • @jameszd6817
      @jameszd6817 6 років тому +2

      I see it as an engage to a conversation or some other interaction. Avoid it if I can't be bothered

    • @inessfarrah5863
      @inessfarrah5863 6 років тому +1

      Same

    • @q-bert6454
      @q-bert6454 6 років тому +8

      Alex King ...just close your eyes and you’ll disappear

  • @whitehoney9230
    @whitehoney9230 6 років тому +199

    You can read someone by their hands
    For example if they are holding a gun they are angry
    Or if their fist is coming towards your face quickly they are also angry

  • @GoogleAccount-pt5uk
    @GoogleAccount-pt5uk 5 років тому +168

    Playing with your shoe is definitely a sign that it doesn't fit correctly. The shoe is uncomfortable.

  • @ILive2Rescue
    @ILive2Rescue 5 років тому +43

    “20+ psychology tricks to read anyone like a book”
    If someone does “this” it has many different reasons.
    But if someone does “that” it also has many different reasons.
    The meaning of “this” gesture depends on the situation
    While the meaning of “that” gesture could mean “this”, but it could also mean “that”.
    What I took away from this video is that every gesture, posture, handshake, movement, etc. has so many different meanings that you’ll need the CliffsNotes to the so-called book that you’re trying to read.

  • @aprilpaine980
    @aprilpaine980 6 років тому +345

    You made a mistake. When someone covers his mouth while talking its because they are aware they have bad breath.

  • @aerozaxton3541
    @aerozaxton3541 6 років тому +417

    I don't keep eye contact because of anxiety.

  • @kenzierose9198
    @kenzierose9198 5 років тому +144

    When I rest my face on my hand it’s because I’m about to fall asleep in class 😂

  • @TheBlindDyslexic
    @TheBlindDyslexic 6 років тому +348

    hmm, the cartoon guy had his arms crossed throughout the video. What could he have been IMPLYING lol

    • @twisteddwarf6916
      @twisteddwarf6916 6 років тому +3

      scott mccowan editing would be hard

    • @TheBlindDyslexic
      @TheBlindDyslexic 6 років тому

      I know- :p

    • @carenboston2996
      @carenboston2996 6 років тому

      Yup irritated something

    • @purr4962
      @purr4962 6 років тому

      Or he was keeping distance from the audience to sound more professional, like a doctor :)

    • @raniaawadh0
      @raniaawadh0 6 років тому

      scott mccowan day made 😂

  • @Pflippie
    @Pflippie 6 років тому +363

    someone blinking a lot may also be a sign of eye problems

  • @margieviado1900
    @margieviado1900 5 років тому +214

    I know my parents are angry is when their holding a hanger or belt

  • @not-so-jucyworld3020
    @not-so-jucyworld3020 6 років тому +257

    All this went out the window with the invention of smart phones. If you're bored, stare at your phone. If you're nervous, stare at your phone. If you're lying, stare at your phone. If you're uncomfortable, stare at your phone. It you're disinterested in someone, stare at your phone. If you're interested is someone, state at your phone. The default jesture for everything is stare at your phone!

    • @joshuagray3065
      @joshuagray3065 6 років тому +18

      This, absolutely this. For the win. I’m gonna go back to staring at my phone since I’m thrilled right now someone realized this.

    • @tubbytubb32
      @tubbytubb32 6 років тому +2

      Spelling error ahhhhhhhh

    • @la_dragonstudios2670
      @la_dragonstudios2670 6 років тому +1

      In high school this is what I see

    • @mikehawk6175
      @mikehawk6175 6 років тому +3

      Genius!!

    • @monstersince
      @monstersince 6 років тому +1

      you my friend can read people

  • @saminkazi.13
    @saminkazi.13 6 років тому +293

    You've got your arms crossed
    Edit:Thanks for the likes

    • @idkanymore7326
      @idkanymore7326 6 років тому

      i felt uncomfortable now (when it supposed to be comfortable)

    • @saminkazi.13
      @saminkazi.13 6 років тому +1

      Thanks for the likes everyone

    • @saminkazi.13
      @saminkazi.13 6 років тому +1

      Night Fury
      I'm sorry

  • @sophiejones1596
    @sophiejones1596 6 років тому +181

    I rest my hand on my face cuz its more comfortable.. not that im trying to get attention like

    • @vovan1989
      @vovan1989 6 років тому +6

      facepalm is probably then the most comfortable gesture ever xD

    • @sophiejones1596
      @sophiejones1596 6 років тому

      vovan1989 Yes😂

    • @kie5850
      @kie5850 6 років тому

      same

    • @riskygaming2928
      @riskygaming2928 6 років тому +3

      Sophie Jones It's on your subconscious

    • @dripsa
      @dripsa 6 років тому

      That's what you think. It's your subconscious speaking, listen to it

  • @DrewBerryFritz
    @DrewBerryFritz 5 років тому +9

    I have a comment about eye contact: I agree with the examples given for eye contact and would add that someone avoiding eye contact are likely to be uncomfortable because of social anxiety for a number of reasons. Though I want to add that intentional long-lasting eye contact with other positive gestures or a positive conversation can be an intentional way of having a deeper connection; it is like peering into each-others' soul looking into the depths within. The connection (with interactive/reactive content) only happens when both people allow the other "in" and both intentionally allow this connection.

  • @kumajoey6031
    @kumajoey6031 6 років тому +50

    When I look down while talking to someone it's because I'm feeling shy and charmed.

    • @aliimran2422
      @aliimran2422 6 років тому

      KumaJoey its becuz you wont that D. Dont lie😉

  • @dianacampbell8381
    @dianacampbell8381 6 років тому +124

    On the contrary, when I rest my face on my hand it's because I'm borderline falling asleep.

    • @salumtummundi9462
      @salumtummundi9462 6 років тому

      Diana Campbell but for the girls

    • @zerowowo
      @zerowowo 6 років тому +1

      im a girl and i do it for the same reason
      i need to sleep all the time honestly ;u;

    • @antonie902
      @antonie902 6 років тому

      It depends on the situation.

    • @mechasentai
      @mechasentai 6 років тому

      Diana Campbell
      That too. It's a huge list. Not always accurate.

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  6 років тому +459

    TIMESTAMPS
    Closing their eyes 0:45
    Covering their mouth 1:00
    Chewing on their glasses 1:26
    “Presenting” their face 1:52
    Rubbing their chin 2:16
    Crossed arms 2:34
    Fixing their posture 3:02
    Leaning forward 3:22
    Leaning back 3:50
    Swinging from their heels to their toes 4:14
    Rubbing their hands 4:37
    The "glove" handshake 4:59
    A handshake with the palm facing the floor vs ceiling 5:29
    Cupping someone’s hands during a handshake 5:57
    A handshake with a touch 6:25
    Fixing their tie 7:09
    Collecting imaginary lint 7:30
    Putting their feet on the desk 7:50
    Mounting a chair like a horse 8:11
    Playing with their shoe 8:35
    Eye contact 8:57
    Avoiding eye contact 9:34
    Unbroken staring 9:50
    A lot of blinking 10:16

    • @Sidulufu
      @Sidulufu 6 років тому +6

      That guy through the whole video looks a lot like me.

    • @Discip
      @Discip 6 років тому +2

      I don't know why don't u get comments

    • @Discip
      @Discip 6 років тому +1

      BRIGHT SIDE good

    • @jennyeid2104
      @jennyeid2104 6 років тому

      Thanks for the informations

    • @hannahcole5210
      @hannahcole5210 6 років тому

      *Breathing*

  • @sunghoonsnosemole1456
    @sunghoonsnosemole1456 5 років тому +54

    #04. "Presenting" their face
    omg my crush always does that everytime he stares at me.

    • @triplowski.1036
      @triplowski.1036 5 років тому +5

      Ashley George so its been 3 months,is she/he your bf/gf now??

    • @khxtib3714
      @khxtib3714 5 років тому

      @@triplowski.1036 it's been 8 montjs

    • @KumarSingh-tf1sq
      @KumarSingh-tf1sq 4 роки тому +8

      its already 9 months..... are u a mom

    • @dhanushraju4062
      @dhanushraju4062 4 роки тому +1

      so what happened ?
      does he still stare u ?

    • @lipikatamrakar5573
      @lipikatamrakar5573 4 роки тому +1

      Armyyyyyyy 😅😅💜💜💜
      You nice keep going 👍☺️

  • @timbenham516
    @timbenham516 6 років тому +377

    You blinked 23 times a minute are you trying to attract someone mr cartoon man?

  • @hazmatt3250
    @hazmatt3250 6 років тому +25

    I was raised in a military family and been around military personnel a good portion of my life, so the crossing arms thing is extremely natural to me; I’ve always used that gesture as a “I plan on sticking around and talking a while” sign.
    Also, if someone is adjusting their tie in the presence of Darth Vader, it probably means they’re in the process of being choked.

  • @TimeForElohim
    @TimeForElohim 6 років тому +1423

    I tend to give a "death stare" to fakes and folks who try to play me lol. It works the majority of the time. And from that point , they avoid me.

    • @jhannasujide9049
      @jhannasujide9049 6 років тому +2

      aww me too!!

    • @garystinten9339
      @garystinten9339 6 років тому +9

      Do a death stare to sales clerks when you're at a shop.
      Smile then say I'm just looking ... Then go back to death stare... Until they leave.

    • @Ghost-es3bo
      @Ghost-es3bo 6 років тому +26

      Jazmine Lamont I give a "death stare" to everyone. It's my resting face.

    • @SirCavemaninthewest
      @SirCavemaninthewest 6 років тому

      Microphone

    • @traveler7984
      @traveler7984 6 років тому +1

      Ghost Same lol

  • @visalakshik.raman.6278
    @visalakshik.raman.6278 4 роки тому +7

    Which psychological approach we use depends on what the other person is doing! Knowledge is power.
    Thanks for listing the hidden meanings of common gestures and postures. I bet they will be very useful.

  • @julijulianana
    @julijulianana 6 років тому +41

    Or maybe…
    1. Closing their eyes - when I didn’t get enough sleep
    2. Covering their mouth - when I yawn
    3. Chewing on their glasses - never.
    4. Presenting their face - when there’s nothing to rest my head on
    5. Rubbing their chin - nope.
    6. Crossed arms/ Rubbing their hands - when I’m cold
    7. Fixing their posture - I always try to sit with a straight back
    Unbroken staring - maybe there’s something on your face
    A lot of blinking - when my eyes are dry

  • @simp1ymakay1a1ynn
    @simp1ymakay1a1ynn 6 років тому +707

    According to #6 the animated dude DID NOT want to narrate today😂😂😂😂

  • @marjoriethomas1583
    @marjoriethomas1583 6 років тому +53

    In some cultures looking in someone's eyes is a form of disrespect

    • @mpmcarthur1371
      @mpmcarthur1371 6 років тому

      Marjorie Thomas interesting

    • @leone41ll
      @leone41ll 6 років тому +6

      Thank you, african culture.

    • @michaelnaughtin9633
      @michaelnaughtin9633 6 років тому

      Don't forget it also means to challenge a fight

    • @internetgoob
      @internetgoob 6 років тому

      Kenny Leone what are you talking about?

    • @leone41ll
      @leone41ll 6 років тому +1

      Keïta Teferi when someone elderly is talking to you especially if they are scolding you, looking them in the eye is a form of disrespect in africa but in england looking away is disrespectful. Struggled with that growing up.

  • @mothflightjayfeather6653
    @mothflightjayfeather6653 6 років тому +90

    Wait, the blonde guy is crossing his arms, does that mean that he's frustrated and or feels uncomfortable?
    Conspiracy theories.
    What're you hiding, sir...?

  • @abhishekmantri9
    @abhishekmantri9 6 років тому +131

    “Chair is not a horse” Kudos.

  • @Eli-gu1jc
    @Eli-gu1jc 6 років тому +334

    I cover my mouth so people don’t see the food in my mouth while I talk lel

    • @wyn001
      @wyn001 6 років тому

      Buddyboomboom me tooo

    • @hhhilde_
      @hhhilde_ 6 років тому +11

      And when I laugh a lot

    • @lunarjay2727
      @lunarjay2727 6 років тому

      OMG SAME

    • @mauricioferrer3690
      @mauricioferrer3690 6 років тому +7

      Buddyboomboom one shouldn't talk with a mouthful .

    • @buudneato
      @buudneato 6 років тому +5

      DON'T TALK WITH FOOD IN YOUR MOUTH

  • @PurpleComrad
    @PurpleComrad 6 років тому +361

    The HOST HAS CROSSED HIS ARMS BCUZ HE IS NOT INTERESTED 😂😂😂

  • @suchismitameher6893
    @suchismitameher6893 3 роки тому +3

    Also a thing that when you are in group like : classroom, playground,etc. You unwillingly stare at someone and you can't take eyes off from that person means that you have started grewing feelings for that person or it can be that you are checking on that person or curious about that person.

    • @universenerdd
      @universenerdd 3 роки тому

      I stare at clocks. Guess I don’t have the ability to love

  • @eddieshannon9388
    @eddieshannon9388 6 років тому +11

    Too add to this for anyone reading body language, different gestures can have multiple meanings. So to get accurate results, you have to think of each gesture as a word. From there you continue to do so until those words makes sentences. It’s the combination of words and sentences that gives an accurate reading, not individual words.

    • @andipandi5641
      @andipandi5641 6 років тому

      yes - it is the whole cluster of gestures that you need to look at..

  • @rismoody3906
    @rismoody3906 6 років тому +278

    I look at these but then forget every single thing they said when I'm actually in these situations.

    • @giloribello
      @giloribello 6 років тому

      Ris Moody, how do you interpret if a lady is posed with her two hands on her wàist most of the time?

    • @alexcrowder1673
      @alexcrowder1673 6 років тому

      Gil Oribello Most Probably Confidence. Hands on the hips is generally something only confident people do. Sometimes people in minor positions of power, like shift managers, do this all the time. Not really sure why, just something ive noticed.

    • @ASN_405
      @ASN_405 6 років тому

      Mah brother😂😂😂😂😂

    • @himaniozha9682
      @himaniozha9682 6 років тому

      lol! same here

  • @Profmillar
    @Profmillar 6 років тому +607

    Why do I give this channel views

    • @tutankhamunsclone1602
      @tutankhamunsclone1602 6 років тому +20

      Idk why do u, only u can answer that

    • @MrDarknessDroa
      @MrDarknessDroa 6 років тому +23

      Its another psychological thing that they are applying

    • @nazgull3001
      @nazgull3001 6 років тому +9

      yea, like playing feel good music and when you put down your guard they casually ask you to like and subscribe.

    • @melaniebannish8656
      @melaniebannish8656 6 років тому +2

      dobbz _ ikr

    • @Bleiser3
      @Bleiser3 5 років тому

      @@nazgull3001 I know right? Such criminals! Playing with out feelings! We should..... Oh wait, so sweet music, sweet video, there's a subscription button? Is it a candy? I want candy! Oh wait what I am saying.... I AM MANIPULATED! SEND HELP! 112!

  • @jamesbison4128
    @jamesbison4128 5 років тому +34

    That animated guy was definitely blinking more than 10 times a minute...

  • @electri7518
    @electri7518 6 років тому +26

    You forgot one more thing for the lack of eye contact thing: it's also a sign of being on the autism spectrum.
    I have realized that due to my aspergers (I know its technically ASD now) people have made assumptions about me due to my lack of eye contact.
    It is uncomfortable and causes me to feel very anxious, we can force ourselves occasionally but not for very long.
    I think it's ridiculous that you are socially unacceptable if you can't stare directly at peoples faces for long periods of time. Its just weird to me....
    Also, the US is one of the only countries that considers lack of eye contact rude, did you know its actually considered rude in China?

    • @marinmethane6071
      @marinmethane6071 6 років тому

      Interesting reply :)

    • @nickyverb
      @nickyverb 6 років тому

      midnight rain Agreed 100% I experience the same issues along with stuttered and higher registered speech. I avoid eye contact in a public situation so much I don't even notice. I think in the new age of things, people are coming around and taking notice that people aren't doing that intentionally.

    • @micecdnwo
      @micecdnwo 6 років тому

      It's not a sign of being autistic, or having Asperger's. Avoiding eye contact is also hypothesized as a behavioral trait to manage stress. Making eye contact with only those you are indeed comfortable with and know/trust.

    • @micecdnwo
      @micecdnwo 6 років тому

      Or not showing what you feel with someone you don't know, or distrust

    • @micecdnwo
      @micecdnwo 6 років тому

      I don't make eye contact when having talks with people about things that requires a lot of thinking. I focus away from people's faces so I don't get distracted by their body language.

  • @richardmorton4762
    @richardmorton4762 6 років тому +87

    I feel awkward hugging people so I head but them instead

    • @cactus3510
      @cactus3510 6 років тому +1

      Richard Morton ha! That's funny

    • @nodeUser
      @nodeUser 6 років тому

      And....
      They like it?

    • @FloatingSunfish
      @FloatingSunfish 6 років тому

      Reminds me of that guy that head-butted tony Abbott that one time.

    • @slushfest8475
      @slushfest8475 6 років тому

      I thought everyone headbutted people ._.

    • @Nstpyo
      @Nstpyo 6 років тому

      Thanks now I don't have to hug people during events or if I'm leaving

  • @michaelmessina700
    @michaelmessina700 6 років тому +43

    Chewing gum in the mouth means anxiety? No problem put it in your nose and nobody will expect a thing.

  • @veggiesarefruits
    @veggiesarefruits 6 років тому +5

    This is something I've learned to not take for granted. I used to assume that everyone naturally was very intuitive when it comes to what others are thinking or feeling. But a couple boyfriends later, I know that not everyone naturally has this ability built in.

  • @justforyou4150
    @justforyou4150 6 років тому +178

    Hey you!!
    You are awesome just the way you are))
    Do not change for anyone))

    • @rhea1503
      @rhea1503 6 років тому +1

      Aww, thx! You too. Never change for anyone! :D

    • @sakuraash1622
      @sakuraash1622 6 років тому +1

      Hi
      Hi

    • @stephenblake8708
      @stephenblake8708 6 років тому

      Just For You like this

    • @PolarTech99
      @PolarTech99 6 років тому +2

      nah, I don't change for anyone, I just change for myself

    • @asurashi2413
      @asurashi2413 6 років тому

      Arigatou senpai!! 😄

  • @IamJay
    @IamJay 6 років тому +691

    How about reading my own comment and liking it too.

  • @ukariah
    @ukariah 6 років тому +12

    i cross my arms because its comfortable and i don't like my hands in free fall deadhang but i also like to lean back because its comfortable, if i don't like a conversation then i will just change the subject or leave with an outro like "gotta go" or "bye" so yeah i just do whats comfortable.

  • @marigold24113
    @marigold24113 4 роки тому +51

    Wait, isn’t everyone going to change their body language because of this so that no one knows how they feel?🧐

    • @tinatiara2924
      @tinatiara2924 4 роки тому

      i don't want other people to read me, that's why i always cross my arms. i know i'm weird.

    • @meenashahi9712
      @meenashahi9712 3 роки тому

      No, it is the power of a subconscious mind.. It is psychology. They will most probably not change.

  • @nekonekrotika8629
    @nekonekrotika8629 6 років тому +25

    If I person who eyes keep moving around during conversation, they give you eye contact but look away after, it's either they trying to avoid the conversation or they're shy.

    • @asdfghjkllzmxcvbn8147
      @asdfghjkllzmxcvbn8147 6 років тому +5

      or they have a crush on you.

    • @1001011011010
      @1001011011010 6 років тому +2

      So let me see if I get this straight.
      You aren't supposed to avoid eye contact.
      You aren't supposed to maintain eye contact.
      But now you're not even supposed to look away at times?!?
      I'm so confused as to how to go about this.

  • @IsakC
    @IsakC 6 років тому +339

    It’s different in different countries

    • @kalyanbaishya4534
      @kalyanbaishya4534 6 років тому +2

      Isak C yes

    • @davidohaegbulam9751
      @davidohaegbulam9751 6 років тому +3

      Isak C yh in Nigeria cupping someones hands show that you are trying to show respect to someone older than u

    • @IsakC
      @IsakC 6 років тому +1

      David Ohaegbulam HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

    • @davidohaegbulam9751
      @davidohaegbulam9751 6 років тому

      Isak C bruh😐

    • @IsakC
      @IsakC 6 років тому

      David Ohaegbulam bruh?

  • @liltoaster7308
    @liltoaster7308 6 років тому +39

    *A CHAIR IS NOT A HORSE*

  • @ms.rushnugent6477
    @ms.rushnugent6477 5 років тому +7

    I feel like a lot of these signs mentioned can also be miss read , we aften sometimes do thing by not realizing, due to nervousness or various reasons , this is really helpful information that I'll definitely take advantage of . Thank you

  • @Wowbeezz
    @Wowbeezz 6 років тому +125

    Brightside forgot one thing about blinking too.
    If someone is blinking A LOT it usually means they are very tired.
    Or something is in their eye
    Bad dum ts.

  • @naidalambertus
    @naidalambertus 6 років тому +53

    Background music too loud

  • @GlowandLuna
    @GlowandLuna 6 років тому +5

    This was a great video!! Please do one about "how to know if someone is lying" or upset, or in love! Thanks!!

  • @jehchriwkcyebflpsh
    @jehchriwkcyebflpsh 5 років тому +22

    when i’m chewing on my glasses i’m just zoned out😂

  • @keithfreeman5204
    @keithfreeman5204 6 років тому +10

    We, as human beings are Electrically powered. From Brain to Muscles, and back, thru nerves via electrical energy.
    Each of us operate on a very personal Frequency., just as either a persons finger print and or, their DNA.
    When we come in contact with another person, if the frequencies are in "Tune" the connection is comfortable, then we have harmony, two frequencies, even tho' not the same, they work well together.
    Then there are people that we just can't get along with, because something is just out of tune.
    This seems to be working on a very sub-conscience level, like reading body language.
    This brings to mind the 1960's sayings of being in the right "vibe" or "in tune" with ones surroundings.

  • @OBIWANFOSHOBI
    @OBIWANFOSHOBI 6 років тому +53

    There's this girl and I think she likes me but I have trouble reading her signs, we've been dating for 2 years but who knows I'll wait for a sign.

  • @lastnamefirstname2238
    @lastnamefirstname2238 6 років тому +90

    Guy talks about crossed arms .relise that the cartoon has crossed arms

  • @amiramina1677
    @amiramina1677 4 роки тому +5

    When someone is smiling and talking at the same time that means that he or she is attracted to you , once this happened to me and I was completely shocked.

  • @handleismyhandle
    @handleismyhandle 6 років тому +37

    #1 is definitely nonsense, I often close my eyes or look away when I am listening as intently as possible to somebody's words.

    • @TheFlameover
      @TheFlameover 6 років тому +2

      Ye, i do the same

    • @yurtttttt96
      @yurtttttt96 6 років тому +2

      Blitherer Masterman AVERAGE person, not everyone. Outliers exist.

    • @mybestpopmusic
      @mybestpopmusic 6 років тому

      Blitherer Masterman only a few people can do that

    • @BrendaTheBestAunt
      @BrendaTheBestAunt 6 років тому

      Blitherer Masterman IKR

  • @darksidegrin1121
    @darksidegrin1121 6 років тому +171

    If I lie I laugh or smile and if I tell truth I keep a straight face like this
    T T
    __

    • @KingyIII
      @KingyIII 6 років тому +5

      Salmina M tf wrong with you man atleast ask me out to dinner first

    • @karatemeanslife8721
      @karatemeanslife8721 6 років тому +2

      Gamerz are u mad

    • @Rolla_st
      @Rolla_st 6 років тому

      Me too

    • @flintie100
      @flintie100 6 років тому

      Beep beep ima car

    • @sally-di2xv
      @sally-di2xv 6 років тому

      Mines the opposite 😂

  • @princeofnerdzz4055
    @princeofnerdzz4055 6 років тому +1697

    This channel is click bait

  • @lilysworldgaming7315
    @lilysworldgaming7315 5 років тому +7

    For me, when I cross my arms I'm actually happy to be there or calm

  • @七海千秋-e9i
    @七海千秋-e9i 6 років тому +30

    2:05
    No, my head is tired...

  • @arafaatkazi5407
    @arafaatkazi5407 6 років тому +1052

    Chewing the glasses 👍👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌👌👌👌😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kawaiiielephant6876
      @kawaiiielephant6876 6 років тому +6

      Arafat Kazi lol hahaha,.

    • @beautifulgirl9285
      @beautifulgirl9285 6 років тому +1

      Lol

    • @magicalmercy
      @magicalmercy 6 років тому +5

      I thought I was the only one who did that, guess I was wrong!

    • @ysersno
      @ysersno 6 років тому +4

      "Still trying to butch up while chewing on your glasses"

    • @cracksdhead
      @cracksdhead 6 років тому +1

      Brian Griffin

  • @Go90go90-q4h
    @Go90go90-q4h 6 років тому +17

    So inaccurate LOL, I cross my arms all the time when I talk to people and it's just because it's a position I'm comfortable with when I don't know what to do with my arms. Doesn't mean I'm bothered when people talk to me, people can talk to me even if I cross my arms.

    • @veronis
      @veronis 6 років тому

      i cross my arms too, or if i'm wearing a hoodie or something with pockets i usually put my hands in them

  • @SudeepGhosh
    @SudeepGhosh 5 років тому +3

    A person can be read by:
    1. Body language/behaviour
    2. Eyes
    3. Words

  • @merubindono
    @merubindono 6 років тому +519

    4:36 Excellent. Release the hounds.

    • @spencersmith3194
      @spencersmith3194 6 років тому +5

      Good one 😂

    • @spriteluver
      @spriteluver 6 років тому +12

      OMG IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO UNDERSTAND THIS JOKE BUT WHEN I DID I READ IT IN BURNS'S VOICE 😂😂😂

    • @david171095hot
      @david171095hot 6 років тому +3

      HAHAHAHA 😂😂

    • @quinb6837
      @quinb6837 6 років тому

      David Abraham omg that is so funny LOL!!

    • @iamlegallyblind-roar
      @iamlegallyblind-roar 6 років тому

      Oh, I GET IT NOW!

  • @mr.madden5333
    @mr.madden5333 6 років тому +20

    These all depend on the situation..

  • @tupacshakur9034
    @tupacshakur9034 6 років тому +28

    Maybe people close there eyes because they are blinking

    • @daiel1360
      @daiel1360 6 років тому +1

      Ahmad Ali, and who chews on their glasses, seriously.

    • @MyLady22
      @MyLady22 6 років тому

      No people close eyes because they are sleeping

  • @bencaptures
    @bencaptures 6 років тому +2

    I think the best advice would be dont over analyse, dont over think just be your good self and only do things with good intentions. Sometimes keeping it simple reliefs a lot of the stress and worry people put on themselves when they try to learn too much about things.

  • @brennaewig2900
    @brennaewig2900 6 років тому +73

    The person on the side has his arms crossed all this video (I wonder if he’s okay). ; )

  • @Arkain7
    @Arkain7 6 років тому +14

    If a girl runs at you, douses you in gasoline and sets you on fire then runs around in circle yelling incoherent gibberish... she might be crazy. So pay attention!

  • @IsabelleDavis554
    @IsabelleDavis554 6 років тому +286

    YOU HAVE YOUR ARMS CROSSED THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO WHICH MEENS YOU DON'T ENJOY MAKING THIS VIDEO :OOOOO psychology C:

    • @Mike-pj1kv
      @Mike-pj1kv 6 років тому

      xox izzigam3r123 - using all caps shows you don't get it...

    • @Huskified
      @Huskified 6 років тому +4

      Nani!?!?!

    • @sleepergarage8475
      @sleepergarage8475 6 років тому +5

      He also blinked at me well over 10 times per minute....

    • @slaviskosquat3757
      @slaviskosquat3757 6 років тому

      Mike r/woooosh

    • @martinsliepins6225
      @martinsliepins6225 6 років тому +1

      You dont undestand anything. Look, you have a roblox logo as your profile picture.

  • @kuralanna
    @kuralanna 5 років тому +70

    me: *casually chews on glasses*
    this video: SHES TRYING TO REMEMBER WHEN HER MOM BREASTFED HER 😂

    • @noahwhite7848
      @noahwhite7848 5 років тому +2

      Underrated comment 🤣🤣🤣 this took me by total suprise

  • @Megastros
    @Megastros 6 років тому +335

    Now the lizard people know all of our secrets.

    • @rebelwolf772
      @rebelwolf772 6 років тому +13

      Not all of them they still don't know we can't breath underwater

    • @ispeaksarcasm1626
      @ispeaksarcasm1626 6 років тому +12

      Oh uh, yeah, that, uh, what was that again? I'm totally not a lizard person, you know, I just forgot, cause, that would be crazy, right! So why can't yo- we breath under water?

    • @rebelwolf772
      @rebelwolf772 6 років тому +8

      @@ispeaksarcasm1626 well if your not a lizard person you would know our secure code word wouldn't you

    • @halicusnguyen8864
      @halicusnguyen8864 6 років тому +1

      OMG LOL THE ADVENTURES OF GOD

    • @ispeaksarcasm1626
      @ispeaksarcasm1626 6 років тому +8

      I, uh... Forgot... They brainwashed me

  • @dunbardunbaro6285
    @dunbardunbaro6285 6 років тому +166

    The only thing true about this video is that the chair isn't a horse.

    • @alexcrowder1673
      @alexcrowder1673 6 років тому +9

      Oooooh, that would explain why my horse doesn't move around much.... I thought he was just sick.

    • @paulshallbetter1080
      @paulshallbetter1080 6 років тому +3

      Yes it is, if I want it to be. I call the chair/horse "Trigger," which is apparently what this dude has done to a few people here. XD

    • @rebelwolf772
      @rebelwolf772 6 років тому +4

      That explains why old sally isn't eating and is way older then most horses such insight

    • @mintturtle1762
      @mintturtle1762 6 років тому +2

      What do you now about psychology that opposes these facts?

  • @assassinaquilus5685
    @assassinaquilus5685 6 років тому +30

    I was rubbing my hands when I was about to get into a fight in school.

  • @timesof44
    @timesof44 5 років тому +1

    Some of these tips work some of the times, which is why it's advised today by many body language readers to read signs collectively rather than basing a reading off one. For instance, arms crossed can also mean a person is feeling cold and needs a jacket, or it's just a way to feel more comfortable for them in that posture. However, arms crossed with no eye contact or smile and feet pointing away definitely means an opposing view or feeling.

  • @chinchinchen9224
    @chinchinchen9224 4 роки тому +14

    Bright side: *loosening their tie means they are uncomfortable or they like someone*
    Me: he needs air because his tie is too tight?

  • @anonymousfrog9826
    @anonymousfrog9826 6 років тому +11

    I've known my friends forever so I just know stuff. Like how when they say nothings wrong, THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING WRONG. Seriously, they think that's gonna fool anyone?

  • @mariasol9817
    @mariasol9817 6 років тому +235

    If I avoid someone contact its usually because I like them...
    welp no one cares ;-;

  • @waluigi6181
    @waluigi6181 5 років тому +1

    When I want to show to people that I trust them, I tilt my head slightly. It shows that you trust someone and sometimes that you are asking for their trust in return