She is Not Worth Your Suffering
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- In this video, a man shares his experience of realizing his ex girlfriend is now being promiscuous and why he shouldn't have suffered for her.
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#Men #Women #Dating
Gave 5 years to a woman, I loved her so much. Loved her more than I loved myself.
And when she left me it was like as you said my legs were taken from under me, I was naive in thinking our love was different.
Since then I've been career minded, been excelling at the gym, and been working on myself in any way. It's been a wonderful journey. I don't blame her for falling out of love with that version of me, that loss was needed for me to progress.
Went from 210 lbs to 160.
Kicked my addiction to weed and alcohol, no longer indulge in fast food. Making money, I'm doing ok.
Power to you! Ain’t it incredible how fast life can get better? It gets better at lightening speed if you can replace vices with virtues etc.
@@prinzeugen4734 yeah the funny thing is we met up by chance 3 months ago and she practically begged me for a second chance after seeing the new me, I gave it to her because I was stupid, and a month later she changed her mind again. I feel she was genuine if wanting me again, but too fickle in the end. I move forward regardless.
Thanks brother keep grinding
Never entertain second chances.
You won brother !!
You're the prize !!!
Remember that !!!
🥇🏅🏆☝
@@iamthestorm1004 thanks, I wouldn't say I've won, I have a long way to go, I can always do better, always be better
Fellas....
She's not the woman you built her up to be in your mind. She just isn't, and will likely never be.
After 17 years you think you know someone. You don't. They are evil.
Truest thing youll read today.
happening to me know I'm in so much pain
Thank you mate, really needed this
This! We sometimes let our imaginations fill in the blanks of what we perceive reality to be.
never financially risk everything you have for a modern-day woman. 💯
bingo
Totallly agre
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This is the video I needed. My ex left me after a relationship of several years. After 3 months I found out she was with "the guy I shouldn't care, he was just her friend".
I literally spent 1.5 year martyring myself, crying at every f night for being such a jerk for losing the woman of my life, talking to myself on my walks in the mountain.
Blaming myself and analyzing the situation to see what I could do better or what I did wrong. I carry this shit so hard that i almost ended with depression. The funny thing is:
*While I was self-flagellating she was in bed with someone else enjoying herself*
Don't spend a single minute on another person who has left you. They don't even deserve that.
Something really similar happened to me. I poured my heart in the relationship. After 1 month from the break up she moved on, and now, after a few months she is officialy engaged with this new guy. I stopped blaming my self now, it's just a pattern she follows everytime. Girls are just ruthless and egocentric
@The Warden yap
@@neeru7298 U missed the bullet.. U took the win..
@@josephmario9231 Thank you for the kind words
I’m dealing with a break up now and the girl is blaming me for failing college and being unavailable emotionally- maybe it was her skipping class and doing lots of drugs not getting her assignments done in time - I really cared about her and she called me last night unloading on me saying it was all my fault - it’s time to move on for me the girl doesn’t give a fuck about me only about how she feels - cant keep carrying this baggage around with me need to let go
My girlfriend of three years literally just told me an hour ago she's been cheating on me for the past two weeks. We where about to move out of state together and I totally thought she was invested in this relationship. Long story short, I'm a personal trainer by trade and I also have side hustles and have been saving and planning our move with her then this news. Then I grab my phone and see this video. I admit, I don't have a plan yet but I will be strong and conquer through this like a warrior.
That’s insane man. Wish you all the best, you got this.
Stay true to yourself bro. Love and look after that beautiful person that is you. Time always heals this
You are golden bro.
Move forwards don't look backwards..
@@aplus_mvp I decided to move on, she then told me she's cheated on two of partners, the guy before me was an abusive alcoholic. I'm going to stay on my grind and go even harder.
@@aplus_mvp 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼👊🏼
A friend of mine died at the age of 28 due to a sudden heart attack in early 2019. His girlfriend was 27 at that time & they have been together for 4 years. Few days before his 3rd death anniversary in this year, she got married after a relationship of 2 1/2 years. Do I blame her, No. People need to move on. I have seen most women are very good at moving on with their lives. Its men who mostly lament for months & months, years & years. Move on, forget her. That's the only way forward. Don't complicate you life over ghosts of the past.
Heartbreak cause of Heart Failure
@@grimpr vice versa
@@grimpr Ask Ric Ocasek from The Cars......oh yeh, he's dead now.
The lamenting (at least prolonged one) from men usually comes from not having the skills to easily find another woman.
Especially if a man put a woman first and put all his sweat and blood into making her life. Often letting themselves go completely in the process.
yeah why are women like that? gad damnit
My wife took my twelve year old daughter and left me after three houses, five cars and fourteen years of marriage because she was bored. At first I felt like it was my fault for not keeping her happy or life exciting enough for her. I felt like a failure. If it wasn't for the manesphere and the red pill, I might of ended myself. Looking back now, I didn't realize how emotionally sick I was after the divorce and how stupid my marriage had become. I've learned life is too short to pine after a women that doesn't want you. I'm no longer distracted by the heartache. I don't waste time thinking about "why" or "what could have been". I accept "what is" and "what can be". Her actions are beyond my control. Thank you Rich Cooper and the other content producers for making the videos that make up the manesphere.
Not your fault king, stay strong. Females dont value our effort they only think on themselves. Mine left me for someone else after an operation. 3 years and left with a friend of hers with whom "I didn't have to worry about". I absolutely gave her my life, my time and my health (literally putting up with that hell was costing me my health). Stay in the manosphere and if you need anything you have all of us. Do NOT sacrifice your life, for one h...e
after three houses, five cars -- that's on you amigo. Never lead with your wallet. Biggest mistake that conditioned guys make. Have to be indifferent to them. they are replaceable just like your car.
they always want a bigger house.
Eloy, happy to hear you made it to the other side. And you got your head back in the game. Great work mate 👍
AWALT 🐺🖤
The healthiest, best life you can live is one of sincerity, morality, and balance. If you live these characteristics, you will attract them. You don't need "game" or manipulative strategies. Wake up early, and rise with the sun. Find a spiritual philosophy to guide you. Hike, camp, and be outdoors. Fix up your apartment or house. Stay off line, including youtube. Use technology as a tool, but never for entertainment. Go back to email, get off browsers, scrolling, and p*rn. You'll be more than just okay.
You can see the poor guy is in pain
Yes it’s very apparent
@@yeboscrebo4451 HAHAHA 😆
Yep. There was one moment when his voice almost broke. You can tell he was deep in love
@csllover everyone's been there once.
Yeah. They really fuck you up. Poor bastard
Its because women don't really love you. They love what you do for them, they love what you have, they love what you can give them.....trust me, THEY DO NOT LOVE YOU! You are nothing but a resource to them, that is why they can walk away with out a second thought. When a woman says "I love you"....just think this in your head...."I use you". It gets a lot clearer then.
facts. this a true gem right here
FACT
Idk if you believe in god but I sincerely believe that if god exists, his love to humanity is vastly different than love between man and woman. Not the same at all.
this is so dark, and completely untrue and all women are not the same.
@@katclarke8309 Ever date a woman Kat? I'll give you the phone numbers of my last three girlfriends and you can see what dark really looks like.
One thing I learn from reading Richard Coopers book. That always stuck in my brain. There are almost 4 billion women in this world. Not just one. Think about that.
Dumb statistic. How many are your age, live near you, have similar interests, find you attractive? A tiny amount.
@@bigbobabc123 You are a true definition of a BETA. 🤣
@@bigbobabc123 good point
He's saying that all of the have a lot of bad traits
@@jodiecraig8990 Hahaha. Another Beta. 🤣 Beta mentality all day.
Some women have no morals or decency, you have to be your own best friend. Rich gives sound advice.
Women move on so quick it’s crazy-A man’s love is different to a woman’s love.
Correct. If only we knew this at a young age.
Women lust more then love. They use more then they are useful.
You guys have no idea how women think.
@@Her.Serene.Feline.Cuteness.how they "think?" Hahaha!
Women move on before they leave you. They are cold and calculating, always looking for a better option.
One of my best buddies just got divorced and is going through the divorce meat grinder in Britain. He's got 2 kids with this woman who threatens him to take them with her to Germany. As soon as he moved out the house they shared, I sent him a copy of your book from my home city in Canada. The shipping to UK costed me more than the actual book but I'm convinced no amount of money is too great when it comes to saving a brother's life. Thanks for everything you do, Rich.
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Agreed.
nice
If a handsome dude in shape, beard, a job with an accent has girl problems makes it even more important to have game. Ty Rich.
Or you can just be a sincere, balanced human being who draws in good people naturally throughout their lives without needing to use manipulative strategies.
Bruno still has much work to do in order to transcend his BETANESS
He is proof that women do not give a damn about looks.
Pro Athletes & Hollywood stars get divorced, women are never satisfied.
@@strangertobluewater Sounds like a naive delusion.
Eventually...that is what we learn..
She is not worth your suffering.
Never forget your value & strength as a man.
Shake it off and rebuild yourself.
Easy to say....can be tough to accomplish..
but we must do it.
It's normal human reaction to feel bad when relationship ends or someone you loved dearly leaves you heartbroken. But once you've taken the redpill, you get understand the inter sexual dynamics how men have higher purpose in life over women, you don't feel bad if she leaves you stay on your path and purpose and excercise other options. Life is good at the top.
She is not yours, it is just your turn.
Impermanence transcends "red pill" topics and the sooner you learn to embrace and accept this the less unnecessary suffering you will inflict upon yourself.
It blows my mind how some men are almost born with this. I have a friend who was in a relationship with this social media influencer, and I know the term js thrown around a lot but she genuinely makes her income doing that sort of stuff. Anyways, both are social media influencers in Toronto and tiktok famous and online famous. Both are my friends but the girl I presume although I never delved deeply was pushing for commitment from the guy or some sort of label, same girl these sorry simps would trade a leg to be with . They did everything together travelling, food, gym etc but the guy knew better than to commit to someone like her so early in his career. Most red pilled guy I had ever met, never had to read a book, watch a video, just came naturally to him. When I showed the red pill to him, that’s when he vaguely started associating some of the stuff he already knew with that label but for the most part he IS red pill. I try to pick his brain at time but he was just born that way, doesn’t care about what people think, let alone some bitch. Never once did he get emotional over a women, he just moves onto the next
👍
When the student is ready, the teacher appears.
....The feels....
Yeah man, they’re stages, phases, and they’re necessary for growth. They just are. She doesn’t grow from relationship to relationship. Women grow as mothers when responsibly being mothers. As a dude you have to become better or you drown. It’s necessary. I miss my ex. Not ashamed to say it. But I miss things about her that I can have with someone else and better. John Mayer has a great song. “Wild blue.” Lyrics say “I found myself when I lost you” “you’ll never know, the unlikely beauty in letting you go.” Keep moving forward. Mind over emotions.
Sick song, thanks bro
Probably the most mature response Ive seen on here.
Most of these guys are scorned men that have never really felt the love from a women. The whole “Women are evil” thing is a terrible look.
alot of these guys are mad they have been neglected and ignored by the opposite sex. so All they know is PAIN and REJECTION when thinking of Women.
When in reality women can be amazing too. I’ve always thought of it as Love never lasts but just enjoy the time while you have it and when the heartache comes you gotta learn to COPE and Love yourself..and I think alot of men dont know how to Love themselves….they hate the person they are so they trash themselves even more….
But You…I think you are going to be alright man… Sounds like you have the tools to grow and learn and ultimately Move on and develop yourself.
Best of luck to you. 🙏🏻
Divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me!!!
Me too
I couldn't agree more. Was officially married 12 yrs, but together for 17 yrs. Had 3 kids, 3 cars, nice house with pool on an acre lot, a 31ft motor home, investments and nice savings in the bank...the American dream...right? She left me with the kids ages 7, 9, and 11 to shack up with a male coworker. The divorce was brutal...finances were destroyed. I raised our kids as a single dad while she married the coworker and started a new family. She only had contact with our kids a few time during the divorce before completely disappearing after it was finalized. It took me about 12 yrs to get back on my feet financially. Now 5 yrs later I'm in the absolute best financial position that I've ever been in my entire life. Relocated to a completely different region of the country for a fantastic promotion opportunity and great 6 figure career, have a nice house, 3 cars (2 paid for), leisure travel all of the time, money in the back, investments, and no real consumer debt. I focused on rebuilding my life without the impediment of a woman. I'll never remarry...life is so much better without a permanent woman in my life to sabotage my progress. Live free gentlemen.
@@k.r.truthseeker7156 respect. That's shit must of been hard.
@@k.r.truthseeker7156 oh it's life summed up in absolute terms
I can’t wait for mine .
I agree,she is not worth your suffering.
Married for 16 years my wife left me while we were in Therapy because the pastor at the church we attended was accused of sleeping with multiple young man. I sensed the danger and left that church,and she decided to stay which caused a massive rift. I left the church in May of 2021 and I was kicked out of our home in July 2021. I am absolutely disgusted by her now.
The tremor in his voice. I sense your pain man. Chin up Greatman
haha, Rich thx for the great info , since I have subscribed. I'll quote one example... I met a gal on a dating site. We talked a bit, and she called me, as I gave her my cell no. Agreed to meet for a coffee/walk. 20 minutes around a well used local park. She then txtd to ask me to meet her at a chic cafe first. I know the place. I responded, nope - first meeting , just coffee , at the park. She cancelled. My time is back to being my own. Perfect !
Bruh she couldnt be more transparent in her gold digging, but u should've gone there and made her pay her own lol
Curious if from what you saw and understood if she was dating down? Basically looking for a meal date?
I hope more and more men carry this attitude.
Don't feed the animals....
I think one problem with us is It is just that easy. Stop complicating it. If she keeps throwing red flags listen to what she is telling / showing you. She is going to tell/ show you exactly who she is.Just be there mentally to see it. Hey I've been there done that and wore the tee shirt. You have to touch a hot stove to learn don't do that. But now that I have I keep it simple and don't go out of my way for a womans approval. She needs my approval not the other way around. Gentlemen Whose The Prize.
We are the champions!
All men need to learn that women are not special. Her coochie is not made of gold.
I cannot believe the sheer amount of time & energy most men put into attracting women into their lives. Every single one of them look 10 years older than me, burned out, stressed out, etc. I live a life of leisure and completely stress-free. My nieces have asked me "when are you getting married?" or "When are you going to get a girlfriend>", and my answer is always the same, I do not chase women, never found the effort worth it. No regrets.
Agreed mate. I look at some of my married friends and don't envy them one bit. Stressed, telling me how they never get time to themselves, wife dictating what they can and can't do. I had a friend tell me the other day that he wasn't allowed to watch a film in the living room because his wife was off work and that's the rule of the household whenever she's off. She wasn't even staying in the same room as him, she was watching the TV upstairs in bed. More like a dictatorship than a relationship. Juice ain't worth the squeeze with most of them. Been in a few relationships in my 20s and none of the girls I was with benefited or helped me grow in anyway, nothing but a hindrance.
One of my friends from the past died and after taking in a women with a kid, doing everything he can for them, she was with another man a month later. It’s ok to move on but don’t tell me women care, because I haven’t met one, not even the women in my family. They’ll leave you on the drop of a dime. Stay true to yourself, love yourself and just have fun.
I severely suffer from a breakup from 9 years and a midlife crisis. I bought in the mainstream narrative. I dreamed to be a musician ex got attracted 10 years later she dropped me but because I did drop myself following someone's else dream. The change in my mind realising everything was a lie made me mad almost Black pill / nihilistic.
Read your Book about 30 Times. You changed my life rich. Now i'm doing the work to put the pieces of me together. And I start to be grateful from her leaving for all that happened to for I would not be the person. I am on the path of greatness. THANKS RICH
Rich my brother turned me on to you recently due to my lady of 8 years treating me like dog shit. I thought eh just another “alpha” speaking non sense but man have you changed my thinking, opened my eyes and seeing these guys your talking to having the same experiences as me and becoming unplugged it gives me strength. Thank you
I recently tried to unplug a friend who bought a woman a house and got dumped 2 years later.
His reaction was "I don't need to listen to some "experts". I have my experience".
But I know that he will repeat that. He bought a car to his previous woman. She dumped him too....
@@jeremiaha5167 Geez...
@@MyThoughtsBelow - Yeah. Watching people's relations after you got red pilled is disturbing. Especially when they are dudes you care about and you see their "doomsday clock" ticking. It's kind of crazy, the things that become obvious to us but totally invisible to others
did you leave her? how are you right now?
yes tell us 🤔😆@@redcircuits110
when someone trashes you, you feel worthless. So you try to change their mind to become "worthy" again. When that doesnt happen, we suffer. The problem however is that we are looking for validation from outside. When you learn to detach from what others think of you, well, thats freedom and you can be happy about yourself according to your own standard.
Yup. Happened to me.
i started to look for help online and came across this channel maybe 6 months ago when i was in a unhappy relationship. I got retroactively jealous of my ex's promiscuous history and was looking for some form of help to make me feel better and most content shown up on the internet are how it doesn't matter, although its a form of OCD, you can overcome it. I tried to believe that but it didnt work.... it bothered me so much that my constant questioning of her past has caused her to distant herself from me. I don't blame her for doing that, but after the relationship had ultimately failed, I started to look inward and examine my set of values, it just didn't match with my ex's. So yeah, Rich is right, don't complicate your life and then try to justify it. Find someone that shares similar value with you, your life will be a lot easier.
I gave 2 years to a girl that I was engaged to before learning that she was cheating. Spent 2 years lamenting the loss of her and the little girl she had that I had grown to love like my own daughter.
Fast forward 4 years and I am engaged to the love of my life who reminds me everyday how much we improved each others lives.
Were all gonna make it bros
Once this wise man I worked for knew I was going through a break up from a woman I thought I loved. He told me, in broken English, “why you care for someone who doesn’t care for you?” I never forgot that shi$.
You can hear it in his voice how hurt Bruno is. So sad. I've been there before, I pined over a woman for 12 years until I was redpilled, and it all made sense to me. Now I'm focused on myself and women are everywhere.
I was in what I thought was a great marriage, over six years, out of nowhere came a black swan event. My entire notion of reality was pulled out from under me. Like many guys, I then found content like this. At first you may not want to believe it, like many hard truths, but now I will never go back. I may have other relationships, but it will always be within the red pill frame. Women may have great qualities, but loyalty, honesty and trustworthiness are not of them. Always approach every relationship, every interaction with a woman, with this in mind.
❤️❤️A guy from hs committed suicide at hs gfs work in front of her, she was with another guy 4 days later❤️❤️
It has to do with new generations also, these mfs are crazy
Hypergamy is ruthless
She was with the other guy already
Voltage junkie yes she was, the guy she was cheating on him with
I feel bad for the guy, but man CGA,plz give this guy the price is wrong button
Going thru a breakup now, this helped me greatly... I had an umhelathy attachment to this girl, we changed country, we moved in togheter... After 3 months she run away, she created drama out of thin air to justify the fact that something wasn't working... Gave ma all the guilt and tried to make me feel like a monster... Sure, I have my own problems but this doesn't change the fact that I owned it and she pointed the finger to me
Thanks Rich, you helped me get over my divorce
I'm coming back to this video. I'm not having any relationship issues, but I realized you have to be like the movie Heat: "A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." Now, if you're on me and you gotta move when I move, how do you expect to keep a... a marriage."
This is one of the hardest things to do.
Rich, my man… here I am- after 20 years of raising this woman’s kids and trying to raise our own. I’m watching My wife decide she’s ready for some other dude. At 50 years of age, this former SWAT team member/FA instructor is following your lead. I need to get your audio book.
Keep it up brother. Overtime you’ll value your peace & stability enough to avoid women that don’t know what it is. Good luck.
Book bought today!
Been loving the content the last couple months and it’s over due.
Thank you for your service sir! 🙏🏼
Watching from Tanzania love you brother
Simplify ? It's this short: Gamble on a low-probability random relationship, or choose a long life of freedom. This simple pair of options doesn't require a book, just the awareness, realization, and balls to make and sustain the decision.
Thanks for the words of wisdom Rich you are paving the way for men to change for the better.
Bruno
I hope you can interact with questions and comments here, that takes these videos to the next level.
I am going through the same thing. Just broke up with a woman who is a single mother who just crushed my heart. I am building my self back up brick by brick
How's it going brother. Hope things are looking up for you 👍🏽
The first time I heard Rich speak I felt threatened. I did not like that feeling. I was already start to wake up and that feeling drove me to listen more. I'm not a fan of being scared. My Tingle senses were already telling me my logic was flawed... So I bit the bullet and read his book. So glad I did. Read Rollo's book too. Working my way through a book list .. once you wake up it's impossible not to see it anymore... not just in what I did in my life but now I see like a ocean of men doing the same dumb shit I was doing.
Which book list? Can I get it?
@@butwhyyyy4870 The unplugged alpha
@@butwhyyyy4870 A year has past though ; sorry just saw this. If you mean the whole book list sure. It’s not anything ; many awoke / unplugged betas don’t already know. Will get it to you
Met my wife when she was completely broke living back with her family. Eventually she moved in with me, bought a home got married and had a child. After 5 years of marriage she got bariatric surgery ( which literally cost her $0 because I have good insurance), lost about 100 pounds then started acting weird….. found her on tinder and bumble. Currently in the divorce process. What a cluster! Never getting married again. Thank god I bought the house with my own money and before we were married. I would be homeless if the home was contested.
Ever since I had my terrible break up last month I’ve listen to rich cooper’s book on repeat in my car it’s truly helping me become a better man for myself and the future family I’ll build.
This isn’t the way. It will take you years to deprogram from this garbage.
@@strangertobluewater A ton of self care is the answer bro. Went through it back in November and fell into deep depression/anxiety. I got out of it, but I’m still healing from what’s left. We deserve better!
@@strangertobluewater Maybe for you it isn't the way but for me to chase excellence and become the best version for myself. Is what I've gotten out from his books and videos. Why should I not become the best version of who I know I can become?
We don’t get married dude! Her ability to love is completely different from yours! Positive post I guess...but the next one will be no different! Please learn this now!
@@joser_1295 yes, be your best self. Be decent and open minded, get outside, spiritually ground yourself. Stay offline as much as possible.
Good talk Rich..Build yourself, Powerful Confident Masculine..get on with your life..Hold Frame, No BS
The frontal cortex in the brain which is vital to judgment shuts down when we fall in love. I guess this is the reason why we look back on past relationships in amazement and wonder what on earth we saw in the person or why we stayed in love so long when it should have been obvious that she was a nutcase.
If I looked like Bruno, I wouldn't care about that women.
News flash: good looking men and "chads" are getting shit from women too. Good looks will not save your from disrespect. Good looks might get you a quick first foot in the door, superficial attention and ONS with dumb bimbos, but it will not give you the essential factors of a long lasting relationship. Its even statistically proven that Women stay with men who are equally or more educated and wealthy than them. And Emotional Intelligence and good communication is important too. Sometimes i get the feeling that women better understand how real relationships work over time than men. All you simps are just going for sexuality when in reality it fades for everyone over time. No matter how beautiful your gf is, at one point most sexual tension will be gone. From then on, respect, competence/potential, emotions and communication are the main factors for having a harmonic and happy relationship.
to these brothers who go searching for evidence when you know what’s up already…DONT DO IT! It’s torture…just trust in the bread crumbs. everything you THINK she’s doing, she prob is….run and never look back. it gets easier but you can’t rush the process. you brothers take care of yourselves. peace
She’s not yours, just your turn
Always leave part of yourself for yourself so if you lose another person you are not devastated.
sir i love your clips produced in recent times
Funny thing is, chick was probably dating in a location outside of the state because she exhausted all her local options. Let that sink in.
Hi Rich, I am noticing many women are on mens sites and are quietly learning what guys want and their character is like amber heard ... The next thing we must do is be able to fish out these women who are lying about who they are. We can see what Megan Markle is doing but Prince Harry can't see. By going on mens sites we are going to find a whole generation of women saying what we want to hear and to some degree doing what we want but in actual fact are just cappin.
True, sometimes I see them as chameleons.
Do you know how to get back at a guy for stealing your girlfriend ? Let him keep her...
Rich. You changed my life. Im in a ltr now, and still listen and apply your wisdom. Thank you
A few years ago I ran into an ex whom I had a bad split. She could not look me in the eye . I remember some nasty remarks she had made to me back in the day. I simply told her “ Gee you look so much uglier than I remember and you were pretty at one time “.She didn’t utter a peep.Satisfying how she looked nervous,and still couldn’t look me in the eyes.
Did the insult make you feel fulfilled?
@@paulerdosdaughter Yes it did! That combined with the fact she couldn’t look me in the eye.
Not gonna say I condone this, but I completely understand 🤣
my x was always saying oh you just want a submissive woman and i was like nah i just dont want you talking shit all the time lol and being all aggressive and angry
I’m not in a relationship no more. The female I was seeing blamed my behaviour for seeing me less. We were only 35 minutes drive from each other. From in terms of affection and attention, so I started looking for other females, but only found dead end streets.
I concentrate on me now and my daughter. I’m happier I want a financial successful future.
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You can't control women ! you can only help yourself
There is an old RSD concept way back from "Mystery and Style" I believe and it was basically that it is way easier to attract a new girl than "win back" a girl that didn't or doesn't have that burning desire for you. I had a girl I had been hanging out with a few times and really liked suddenly flake on me last Friday out of no where. Literally that night I went out and I've already replaced her with a younger, hotter girl.
She will always be with another (next) man. But he will just be the next ex. So, who cares…
9:13 in my experience very seldom does that ever happen and if it does it’s only temporarily until they find an excuse to go back. I’ll use an example of my younger cousin about 3 years ago he got out of a very bad relationship and he needed someone to talk to and it seemed like he was waking up and catching on to all these things. Last year, he calls me how he’s getting married (already married) soon and the woman he got with was way worse than the previous. At that point, I just did the ole “congrats! you’re doing the right thing!” and back away because that’s a person who will never be able to fully grasp these things. I’m even willing to wager that in the future when things don’t work out he’ll once again commit the same mistake again
My father was international truck driver for 20 years... rarely be at home, just a loyal robot worker to support family. After many years all he gain for working hard is divorce, lost assets and pile of shit on his head.
I understand Bruno.
Girl of 4 years just dumped me last night. My whole life revolved around her yep feels like my legs have been taken out from under me. Ngl it feels damn near impossible to summon the will to work on myself at this point
Men typically don’t move on as fast as women but if you keep hitting the gym, doing cardio, reading, and working on goals you’ll be too preoccupied to waste time on moping. Eventually you’ll realize that you got over her. How do I know? Been there.
@@rullangaar yeah I noticed that aswell, think it has something to do with their abundance of options and maybe their awareness that their prime ends sooner than men? Idk it's fucked up though. Thank you for your words means the world to me right now, I'm sure you know this pain. I know all can do is keep busy on my goals but God that day of realization can't come soon enough.
Your whole life revolved around a whamen? There’s your issue, bro. Let her go, harden up, and start living for yourself. The Red Pill is a bitter swallow but will set you free. Peace …
Expell your rage on your self improvement!!!
It’ll take time but you can do it. Give yourself all the time and energy, not to anyone else but yourself.
This Black Swan Even concept absolutely blew my fucking mind in the context described
The Black Swan has to come from Never Split the Difference-it’s literally the key to every negotiation
Is it beyond the realm of possibility that both parties in this exchange just ruined things for one another and neither side is blameless?
that dog shit theory/analogy is GOLDEN
"A lot of guys struggle with new information that frees them"
Quote of the show right there. 100%
Shout out to🔴redpill coach🔴 Gonzalo Lira❤️ I hope you’re safe❤️ you’ve helped many young men and society. Much admiration. Please me safe.
Bredren don’t hold onto bitterness sometimes we just don’t know how to pick partners and pick shitty ones! We’re here to learn and make better choices !
I am in the process of trying to “unplug”. Nine year relationship, she moved to Arizona. 1300 miles of bullshit. She wanted better weather. She told me when we met that she intended to move there. So no dishonesty, but the distance makes it impossible. She was hoping I’d follow her.
Rich I have a very important comment.
The more you try to push away the breakup feelings of regret guilt and sadness. The stronger they become.
Deal with your shIT, sit with the pain, locate it in the body, and let it go.
Do not become attached to the part of you who is hurt. It is not your center frame. This is a part of you that the center frame the observer is internalizing.
This is gold..
Richie, loving the content recently.
this video went into informercial mode for his book at the 4 minute mark
It's unfortunate but the fact is, sometimes it takes us having a false belief in women and love for us to get heartbroken and in turn that is what we need to give us the motivation to become a better version of ourself. We not only learn the hard way but for some of us it is the reason we get to where we strive to be.
amen
I wish I got RedPiled and knew Rich 7 years ago! Now I am 40, divorced, broke and jobless... Don't really know what to do with my life 😕 but I decided few weeks that I need to jump start my life: I moving to a different state : Arizona. And I have decided to learn to CODE!
Hang in there brother. Open up the Bible. Start on Matthew. You’ll be fine.
@@joee1213 thank you! Really life ain't easy for men
Any updates pal?
Bruno is a good one. Hope he's doing well! ❤
Ruthless and heartless thats why at my age now its pump and dump....
We've all been there. Always remember: She's NOT YOURS. It's just YOUR TURN while you have her. I've had a few girlfriends who were with the next guy either that same day or the next day (or in reality the were with him before ending it with me so there was over-lap) while I was all sad and mopey and shocked they could replace me instantly. I just came to accept the fact women have so many instant replacement options so if they want to they will instantly get with the next guy waiting in the wings, it's just their nature.
It's amazing how many of us men desperately love a woman believing over the passage of time that she loves us back, only to find out she doesn't
As always Richard…good stuff
"Carrying a bag of bricks"...lol
Great content.
About 2 weeks in my BPD GF told me she was 'a shit girlfriend, shit at relationships and when my dopamine wears off I'll see her for what she really is'. I breezed straight through these flags and within 3 months she entered the split phase of BPD and went disrespectful, frigid and called me a c**t on an almost daily basis. Of course I thought I could change her to love me (empath/codependent) but after nearly 2yrs left her when she tried to con me out of $500. It took me a long while, a very long while to come out of my trauma bond to her but the best piece of advice was this - When they show you who they are believe them. Go absolute thinking, deal only with the truth of what it was like & write down a list of the realities and read them everyday until you believe them. Because they're the truth of what she was like. Go no contact and enjoy your life again. It's hard, very hard, but you'll get there.
There's a reason why Girls have a higher success rate of finding another partner in a short period of time after the initial break-up.
Cause the average woman has more options than the average guy. Women just have more options than men which means they’re able to move on so quickly.
@@ThePatriots010304 what they don’t tell you is that women have more quantitative options of men, not quality.
@@jaylanbolden8024 Men have neither quality nor quantity
That's what you call having no loyalty, no honor no morals.!! Those type of women are for the streets!! basically Whores and hoe bags!!
Rich, I hung out with this "international student" a few times. She joked that we could "get married so she can fix her papers".
Next thing she tells me is that the government of Canada is going to send her out to Newfoundland or Nova Scotia in a month after she graduates college. It's called Pathways to Permanent Residency (I had no idea that this even exists!).
Am I being used?
Yes. You are being used.
@@Jay2Ops I said no (to the fake marriage proposal) FYI.
I did NOT take it as a joke either. There's truth to every joke.
Eric you are being used. Now it's on you to not be abused. Cut that crap out.
@@casserole2406 apparently she is only allowed to stay where she lives now if she gets married (then the government will give her citizenship). I guess I am a mealticket.
@@aplus_mvp no.
Very good info definitely getting ur book
So accurate information
I feel your pain!!
That's the problem with modern women: they think men don't have emotions, or emotional attachments, so they assume that it's necessary to go ham on a man when separating from him emotionally. Hence, the disrespect the woman displays towards a man. The irony is that the more women do these things, the more men have decided to check out of the dating and mating market altogether. The funny thing though is that these women, no longer having a man around to be cruel against, become the very abusers they accuse most men of being, by labeling men "weak" for not putting up with their sociopathic tendencies (see Amber Heard). Sickening. SMH.
Those are the women with attachment trauma. You see that with women that have avoidant or disorganized attachment. Obviously the cluster bs…narcissists, borderlines, etc… guys have to heal what they need to so they don’t get drawn to these type of women (coming from experience).
Think she's worth it? Get familiar with johny depp's trial. You'll think differently....
Been there bro most girls just don't care