I've received several comments about me using the word "turtle" instead of "tortoise." Let me address this. First, through my research, I've noticed that the "Turtle and Rabbit" story is an accepted version of the "Tortoise and Hare." But I agree it might have been better if I stuck to the original version. Second, I also agree that the animal portrayed in the animations in this video is, most likely, a tortoise. However, a quick search in the Encyclopedia Britannica enlightened the fact that tortoises are, in fact, turtles! I quote: "All tortoises are, in fact, turtles-that is, they belong to the order Testudines or Chelonia, reptiles having bodies encased in a bony shell-but not all turtles are tortoises." End quote. A reason for me using the word "turtle" is that, in my native language, there's only 1 word for both 'species,' which is: "schildpad." Hence, I've never distinguished a turtle from a tortoise when naming these animals. Hopefully, my clarification extinguishes the flaring tempers caused by my choice of words. As I'm developing my growth mindset, I'm happy to have become more aware of the differences (and similarities) between the "turtle" and the "tortoise."
Bro would you as a grown up man would win again and again against a 10 yrs old, obviously you would let the child win, right? the rabbit did the same thing, by letting turtle win. We have defamed rabbits so much that now they live in burrows. #JusticeForRABBITS
In fact ive never seen anyone die for being a fast turtle so dont say that. Be literally anything the turtle knew he could win so he didnt need anything he knew he trusted
same with chat gpt droping nuggets in ocean of chaos and madness, and then it drop a nugget i could never imagined myslef by some weird logic and word play AI can do i wouldnt normaly do it became a new process randomness ironic i dont use gpt to precise and compress condense, but explore
It's been a few months that I was finally able to move away from a fixed mindset. In this time, I've taken up another university course, started learning another language and, I have to say, despite the new challenges, life is lighter. Better a fool moving forward, than an expert stuck in time. Great video Einzelgänger! And thanks for your book Stoicism for inner peace.
I was a gifted child, school was easy for me and I didn't have to study to be on the top 5 every single year... But school is not life and now I'm an adult, I am autistic and was undiagnosed almost all my life. Real life is a challenge, to survive. I've also developed dysautonomia (my autonomous nervous system sometimes fail and automatic functions like blood pressure get affected) Living a life full of expectations but now having a disability made me develop the growth mindset Even if my talents are not enough, I will make an effort, I will be enough. It's not easy to take challenges when already all my life is a challenge every single day But even if I grow very slowly, slower than someone without disability, at least I'm growing
I'd say the most interesting thing about Dr. Dweck's book was how towards the end she made it clear that we are all equal parts growth/fixed mindset. One can adopt a growth mindset to be sure, but your fixed mindset remains a part of you all the same. Dr. Dweck recommended her student's to name their fixed mindset "persona's" as she called them. Mine is John, and he's a stuffy British guy who keeps looking down his nose at me and telling me I can't do stuff. I just LOVE proving him wrong! As with most therapeutic techniques this sounds a little odd until you try it, and it actually works rather well! Dweck's point behind creating a "persona" seemed to be illustrating very clearly to yourself precisely the type of person you're striving NOT to be. And yet she also suggested attempting to consider your fixed persona as a friend of sorts since it is still a part of you of course.
If you need advice, consider speaking with a financial advisor. Don't get me wrong, you can do it on your own, but financial advisors have a lot more knowledge and expertise in this area.
My advisor is 'Jenny Pamogas Canaya'. In terms of portfolio diversity, she's a genius. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience..
The 3 things to get anything done are - Patience. Discipline. Consistency. It's about finishing what you started, but in your own way. It's okay to take breaks in between while ensuring that the post break comeback is going to be stronger and more impactful.
Absolutely! If you're into Myers Briggs, I sometimes test as INFJ and sometimes INFP. For me I tend to be in a more fixed mindset as INFJ and more growth mode when testing as INFP
@@dread-shinobi ohh wow!! I am an INFJ too. Well, how rare that is! And as stated by wise people "change is the only constant", when we follow those changes, without resisting, growth follows.
Adaptability is equally important though of course. All the discipline in the world doesn't help when your current strategy isn't very effective. Dr. Dweck said that was the first part of the equation, and that pivoting to newer potentially better processes was the second part.
Growing up always being told that I'm dumb and not going to go anywhere really resulted in me building up the will to be successful/good at certain things. And it brought me to wanting to better myself and outgrow the others. But now having built some skills it resulted in a kind of arrogance and resistance to grow. I often think I have to defend myself and my skills to prove "I'm not dumb anymore, I am good at stuff. You can't judge me" and sometimes forget that accepting that you're always growing and never perfect is an important aspect of life and also success. And that aspect is also what brought me to where I am now and will drive me further. I love your videos. They always teach me something about myself again and again.
I think respecting others will make you grow and want to be better than everyone in contrast showing off and being arrogant will give you a false sense that you're superior and others are inferior which results in a fixed mindset.
Having a growth mindset is not just about discipline and hard work; it encompasses much more. While individuals with a growth mindset certainly put in the effort to achieve their goals, what truly sets them apart from others is their response to failure. Although hard work and effort increase the probability of success, they do not guarantee it. However, those with a growth mindset approach failure differently. They view failure as an integral part of the learning process and do not dwell on it. Their resilience in the face of failure is a key factor that propels them towards success. Moreover, I want to emphasize that if you're someone who is wondering why you're struggling to adopt a growth mindset, please don't blame yourself for it. Blaming yourself isn't really productive in this case. It's important to be patient with yourself and accept that developing a growth mindset takes time and effort. So, instead of being hard on yourself, try to approach it with a sense of understanding and give yourself the space to grow. Just keep working on it and don't get discouraged. Remember, it's a journey, and progress will come with time. So, be kind to yourself and stay committed to your personal growth. You'll see the benefits in the long run. It is crucial to understand the underlying psychological complexities that contribute to the lack of a growth mindset in many individuals. Developing a growth mindset requires a nurturing environment that allows children to embrace failure and recognize it as a valuable learning experience. Unfortunately, most people are taught to avoid failure and perceive it as something negative. Consequently, failure becomes associated with emotional pain and discomfort. When failure is experienced repeatedly, it can lead to a state of learned helplessness. Consequently, it becomes exceedingly difficult for adults to adapt a growth mindset. Although the concept of a growth mindset may be understood, incorporating it into one's life is challenging due to learned behaviors. Adopting a growth mindset necessitates unlearning previous behaviors and acquiring new ones, which requires considerable time and effort. The journey towards developing a growth mindset is not only about discipline, effort, and consistency. It involves addressing the psychological barriers that arise from fear of failure and the mental damage inflicted by past failures. People with a growth mindset, unlike others, find enjoyment in the face of hardship and challenges, actively embracing the journey itself. In summary, the development of a growth mindset is a psychologically intricate process. It is influenced by the nurturing environment one grows up in, where children are encouraged to accept failure as an integral part of the learning process. Many individuals struggle to adopt a growth mindset due to the negative associations they have with failure and the learned behaviors that hinder their progress. Embracing a growth mindset requires a conscious effort to unlearn previous behaviors and cultivate new ones, which takes significant time and dedication. Just remember to be patient with yourself, stay committed, and approach it with kindness. The journey to a growth mindset is worth it in the end.
It is sad to say but from this video I think I am a fixed minded person. As someone who was raised to be competitive and only applauded when you win and not when you try, I must say this mindset has limited me and is damaging. Going forward, I will not let the fear of not succeeding at something, keep me from trying and be consistent at it.
What is beautiful is how you have been able to deconstruct the reason... that awareness will help you start seeking new things even with the risk of failure because failure is not even trying
I can't get the exact quote from our boy Epictitus, but he basically said (modernized) "Should I stop thinking if I can't become Einstein? Should I stop walking if I can't be Usain Bolt? Do things for your sake, on your level."
yea , old knowledge can help modern time , and can help detect wich of old or modern teaching are efficient and correct sometimes its modern time that show old wisdom wasnt so wise, its nice to explore both i have preference for nutriton fitness and ethic, the wisdom and wellbeing related to it alot of completly opposit view of each of these 3. carnist, vegan, inactive over active, full empath healer or serial killer.. what are advantage and reality of each
I’m a pianist, and I have been playing for over ten years and I have three degrees in music. I realized 3 years ago that I wanted to get into liturgical music and organ playing as I’ve sang in church choir my whole life. As it turns out the organ is quite different, especially learning to coordinate your feet. Growth mindset has been essential in this transition and it took a good three years of playing like garbage to start to be able to play entire services decently. Now I’m not an expert yet but I’ve built a foundation. All of this is to say: if you’re learning something new, keep persisting even through failure! It will pay off.
Failure is so powerful. With a mindset of "I will", each failure adds to your resolve and ability, until ultimately there is no more room for failure because everything you need for success has accumulated over time and effort. Trick is to have something you're driven to do, something with a strong meaning to you. Often we have many of those but we bury them under distractions, they whisper to us here and there but we brush them away oblivious to their power in our lives, if only we'd see them.
Factory and business owners love to tell you this fable: "be like the tortoise Just shut up and keep doing your job and you'll be a winner!". NO, be like the hare stop and give yourself a break every once in awhile it's not about being the one who beat everyone else.
Wow I really like this. Never ever thought of this like you did. Thank you so much. It's ok to be the tortoise but being the rabbit and take a break. Enjoy your life. It's okay that others cross the finish line before you do.
Once you have worked hard, asked questions, been patient and confirmed that they are lying to your face and there's nothing but a slow and boring death to look forward to, it's perfectly healthy and natural to quit and tell them where to go. Intelligence is not rewarded in factory jobs. They just try to get you to "climb the ladder" of money & doom, to sacrifice the best years of your life to a mindless, soulless heartless company that couldn't care less about you. The guys "above" you are insane workaholics. They drive nice cars, have bimbo girlfriends, wear fake smiles and sell sh!tty coke. They like to pretend to be happy and to have it made, but it's all a front. A facade. Save yourself, your sanity and integrity and just walk away.
I learned this via the fighting game genre. Most people give up before they see growth because you get your ass kicked for a while, it's an experience that destroys a fixed mindset, if you survive the ego thrashing without giving up, you begin to adopt the growth mindset and your outlook changes completely.
Smile even though your days are not as beautiful as a dream, as long as patience is still in your heart. There will always be good things to be grateful..Life is all about balance. It's not always necessary to do something. Sometimes it's absolutely necessary to turn everything off, relax and do nothing❤❤❤❤
My wonderful boss used to say ‘it’s not a problem, it’s a challenge ‘. It conjures up in my mind every time I struggle with something and I think it transformed my life.
I've tried to use a growth mindset in the last few months in all aspects of my life. It all started with a break up from my ex and I really do feel so much less anxious in general. I don't feel like a failure anymore. I feel content with my efforts because I know that even if I fail it's just an opportunity to learn.
Sometimes, as Carl Jung wrote about, Synchronicity happens. I am at a big change in my life, and as most of us, standing at large changes, doubt sometimes crosses my mind. And in my doubts, I come across this video which calms me down on my journey. But what you bring up in this video is something I have trained my mind towards for quite some time. It is okay to fail, it is okay to start out not knowing. You never know until you try.
People with "fixed mindsets" are broken to an extent, hence they could use some (or a lot) of fixing. Individuals with a "growth mindsets" can be considered restless and possibly cold. As long as you exist though you can move to some amount of improvement regardless of the mindset you're blessed or cursed with. Thanks for making and reading.
Nothing stays the same, everything changes for better or worse. Thanks to entropy, either we spend our efforts, exertions and energy on growing and improving, or itll all lead to decay. There is no "stagnation" only growth or death. Thats why its "do or die". Literally.
@@AskConner although choice may exist, but does freewill? Fixed mindset people doesnt want to change because they dont believe they can, meanwhile growth midnset people can change because they believe they can. You have to convince them to change. Otherwise they are literally fixed in that mindset.
In the past I have tended to have a stubborn and fixed mindset and believing that I am incapable and can't achieve much, but I am gradually learning as I get older to have more of a growth mindset. Life has shown me that I am capable of achieving more than I thought. But then when I was younger I really felt like I was not capable of anything and I was worthless. So I still haven't really achieved much. But I am trying to believe in myself more. Although I think most of what I have achieved has been due to luck, but then you still have to show up and make the effort, and then the luck gets you the rest of the way, I think. At least in my case.
Growth is good, dedication is desire, practice is powerful and continuous improvement is constantly inadequate. It's important to know one's limits and have realistic goals; doing otherwise is a path to fruitless frustration, senseless sadness and feelings of failure.
To have a growth mindset you have to understand your strength and weakness. Learn to delegate task. Teamwork make the Dream Work. A company slogan quote we only as good as the people we hire.
Great video again, Einzelgänger! In fact, I have been in a growth mindset transformation lately. In the last three months, I have started looking for job opportunities with a strong focus on how I look myself in the short and mid-term. Therefore, I have started to learn new skills or develop some untapped ones, especially quantitative ones. I am already applying this approach to my current work, and this is evident to my line manager and other colleagues, but most importantly to myself. I am enjoying every bit of this self-discovery process, learning a lot and feeling self-fulfilled. No matter the outcomes, I am becoming the process, and this feels amazing. This professional search is also translating into my personal life and providing my new insights about my inner work and my impact in this 3D reality. Thank you for your great work!
Thank you for this wonderful video Einzelgänger. Right before this, I didn't realize that I was unknowingly suffering from this painstaking mindset. I thank you that the term fixed mindset was the right wording of it. I certainly relate to that above average man in terms of both intelligence and skills that you have mentioned. I was of course embarrassed but decided to watch the video until the end. With that little act of watching til the end, I realized that having this fixed mindset won't make my life better at all, and the solution surfaced- replacing fixed into growth mindset. I will definitely work it out in changing from here on. Thank you once again
It's like dichotomy of idealism and pragmatism. Idealism is not that rooted in reality, hence less pragmatism in life, while pragmatism followers have problems of the other kind, thinking to follow only what is useful. Idealists may have problems with reaching goals, because they would feel more stress and anxiety, while pragmatists have less tension about those matters. Though, pragmatists may find themselves in the situation of lacking of any creativity. Like they work hard, but they sometimes say to themselves that «some things are stupid, because there is no benefits in them», while idealists may see that «working hard is stupid» and «everything should be easy», while having creativity, but with less resources to make their dreams come true. Synthesis of idealism and pragmatism is a wise solution, because you would get necessary parts, that will be handy in real life and without losing your creativity.
I have had a fixed mindset for most of my life. I was terrorized of failing, and lost many opportunities because of that. I feel so much happier since I switched to a growth mindset. It wasn't easy, but it was worth the effort.
All inherited degrees of power or strength are only POTENTIAL and potentialities. What determines the actual quality of that potential comes from cultivating it, and nobody can do that but you.
baby steps, start at what you know and move forward searching for your goal. Back track when you have no idea what your learning and try to find a better path for approach.
I have been working in a logistics company, first time in the corporate world as a spots salesman. I have found out that I am terrible at this job, but I have been getting better. I will not burn out, I will keep getting better. Considering the economy in Europe right now, I think if I can get better in the current climate in a foreign country, I can do it nice…..one day😂
Logistics industry is in the gutter right now . We are at the bottom of the freight cycle. Lots of capacity and low rates. Onces rate turn around selling will be 10 x easier than it is now.
Ego and pride do punish, these things disconnect us from reality and hide our weakness in bad way Because of that put your ego down, you will be more powerful version of yourself
Many Years back when i was met with physics i hated it i just hated doing physics because the problems in it were hard and not easy to think and thus i thought to myself that i am never gonna study physics when i grow up, I am now studying Physics as my main subject because it's my favorite subject, there came an incident when i needed to pass a test or my career depended on it and that test contained physics(optics/magnetism and stuffs) i studied but hated at first but that was solely because of my pre-made beliefs about the subject, i learned physics in depth and started seeing much more applications in real life, i kept jumping into problems/Questions, even if i kept failing to solve i found that was only that i did not knew may be just a minor detail, i kept taking challenges and learned through the process, i passed the exam and now i specialised at Quantum Physics, the conclusion is that with the growth mindset you don't care about how much outcomes you're getting instead you get the kick of taking challenges and learning in the way.
Thanks was making this. It was amazing! ❤ Even if you can't fully adopt a growth mindset you should atleast try to work towards it. Try something new once in a while. Being more open to new ideas. Who knows when you might find something that you love doing.
4:36 I Like This Part Because It Gives The Notion Why Stop? Keep Going No Matter The Difficulty. Keep Trying But Maybe They Need Inspiration And Reasons To Continue. Possibly What They Could Achieve Or Experience That May Excite Them. Everything Comes With Hard Work. And You Definitely Aren’t Better Than Anyone Be Humble.
Based on this video, I purchased "Mindset" by Dweck...quite an eye-opener when approaching this subject. These attitude-changers' take time to absorb, and integrate into one's being...howevah', like the turtle, we can grow by facing challenges..small changes on a regular basis. Thanks. 😇
The odds are stacked against me, i am 38, on the brink of heart failure, i have bowel cancer, colon cancer, a brain tumor, blood disease, a bad Bunyan on my foot, i am severely malnourished and extremely under weight; i also have 14 years worth of tennis experience (non-match play), probably the most versatile & beautiful ground stroke form on the planet with many various grips. I gave up my dream of becoming the most disciplined professional tennis champion because of my societal anxiety and my severe lack of social skills concerning proper behavior amongst peers. Because of this video, i have decided to continue my dream of becoming the best, and i will crawl from Texas to Florida like a slow turtle if i have to, stabbing the ground and pulling my weak body to the most prestigious tennis courts in america. Thank you whoever you are. I was going to crawl to Florida aimlessly before i listened to this video. You are cherished by me, and i love your other philosophical-based videos concerning shopenhower & nietschze. Those guys kept it real, just like you do sir. Be at ease, and know that i love your work.
Fixed mindset here, currently a 4th year college student who faced diffculties during my junior year that made me lose interest in the course that iam in (even tho i started with great enthusiasm), i tried to desperately change courses or drop out but was faced by my parents who wanted the best for me, tbh im still unsure till now with what i want to do in life (having a feeling of being lost and hopelessness). Now i realized one thing, not one time in my last 4 years have I tried to improve, i always brushed my negative feelings away by video games and procrastination and said to myself "oh well i guess im stuck here till i get my degree then leave", i never had the thought of self improvement all because i had this argument with my parents about leaving the course which when faced with denial made me even more stubborn, and when i get a bad grade i coped that i didn't want it in the first place even tho i studied the day before the exam but not before that, i still have 1 year left before i finish, if you were in my shoes what would you do?
Needed this reminder badly Thank you Einzelgangerr for this video I'll comback to this video in December and update about the things I have planned for myself to achieve by the end of this year.
Thank you for this insightful video, Einzelgänger! The analogy of the turtle and the rabbit beautifully illustrates the difference between a fixed and a growth mindset. It's a powerful reminder that our inherent abilities are not the sole determinants of our success. Persistence, discipline, and a willingness to embrace challenges can lead us to achieve more than we ever thought possible. This video has inspired me to continue pushing my boundaries and to view setbacks not as failures, but as opportunities for growth and learning. Keep up the great work!
Thanks for a great production. I always have a problem of this turtle and rabbit race story because in reality, 99% of the time, the rabbit will be sleeping and waiting after the finish line of a race. The very rare situation, that sleeping mid-way in a race to lose a competition, only says that, even with Persistence, you will need that very rare 1% of extreme luck for turtle to win a race. And for most of the people, we don’t have this kind of luck most of the time.
Damn!! I just realized after watching this video, I have this FIXED mindset personality! I always knew that this mindset is very wrong, but didn't knew it's pretty common that it's written. Anyway, I really appreciate this and would give my best efforts to change this to growth mindset.
A thing that might not be too known, is how you might be the type of person to sleep better after learning something new as well. I know i am, i sleep like a rock. And it's a better type of sleep. And i am also eager to wake after 8 hours! Then again, few subjects make me inspired nowdays.
Perfect explanation. I never considered myself as a fixed mindset person. I really like the comfort, want to do things I am already good at etc. Challenges are not for showing others that you are perfect they are opportunities for getting better. You must take the risk of making fool of yourself to improve. Consistentlly improve your skills and never think you are already perfect and unbeatable in your field. As a computer engineering graduate I alway thought self thought software developers can not beat me at this field. Well most of them can't but some of them literraly prove me I am wrong.
Mindset was a really good book. I liked how she applied the growth mindset to parenting. Another good book I went through this year was Accelerating Excellence by James King. Good read good video.
I'm very grateful for this channel & for Einzelganger himself. I remember reading one of his writings sometime ago, where he mentioned a novel that was written along the lines of Stoicism. The authors name was mentioned too. I have not been able to find that information. I look forward to reading this novel. Although it is an indifferent desire, I'd appreciate the name of the novel & its author. Thanks!
The tortis n the hair is a really good allegory for many things in life case point. I am making a animation there’s a lotta cartoons that r in 2D that attempt to do what my show does but just cannot they can upload stuff faster because they paid people to draw a 2D show for them n rushed it while I took my time n learnt 3D my style will stand out exponentially n I’m so proud I took the harder way around it instead of just using others music I’m making my own score!
If you think the world is divided into those who are innately growth-mindset and fixed-mindset, you are, by your own definition, fixed mindset. Important word: Innately. Another thing to consider is upbringing. One's emotional landscape is decided up to age 10, where the child has no agency or control and are at the mercy of their external environment, and all decisions are made around this. Grow up around aggressive or narcissistic parents? Bullying in school? Poverty? Inhereted mental illnesses like autism and depression? People may not be defined by their past, but damn if it isn't a ball and chain around one's ankle. Best to live in isolation such that the presence of other human beings doesn't invoke crippling envy. Well, that or lash out at people in public because keeping a lid on all this baggage is a full-time job.
Wow, this came out just at the right time. I have saved tons of videos from this channel, your work is outstanding. Thank you for all of this knowledge!
Wow really nice video, this video has tremendous wisdom about life and how to live it properly with happiness of doing things not for outcome but for personal growth... Really good video
I've received several comments about me using the word "turtle" instead of "tortoise." Let me address this.
First, through my research, I've noticed that the "Turtle and Rabbit" story is an accepted version of the "Tortoise and Hare." But I agree it might have been better if I stuck to the original version.
Second, I also agree that the animal portrayed in the animations in this video is, most likely, a tortoise. However, a quick search in the Encyclopedia Britannica enlightened the fact that tortoises are, in fact, turtles! I quote:
"All tortoises are, in fact, turtles-that is, they belong to the order Testudines or Chelonia, reptiles having bodies encased in a bony shell-but not all turtles are tortoises."
End quote.
A reason for me using the word "turtle" is that, in my native language, there's only 1 word for both 'species,' which is: "schildpad." Hence, I've never distinguished a turtle from a tortoise when naming these animals.
Hopefully, my clarification extinguishes the flaring tempers caused by my choice of words. As I'm developing my growth mindset, I'm happy to have become more aware of the differences (and similarities) between the "turtle" and the "tortoise."
Bro has a quote for explaining the use of turtles and tortoise. 💀💀
@@herokingroostyh I've got a quote for everything, and I'll let you know when the quote ends.
Such a minor difference, people are just splitting hares… (I’ll see myself out)
Yeah man this is very important issue that needed to be addressed. I think now i can have a peaceful sleep
Bro would you as a grown up man would win again and again against a 10 yrs old, obviously you would let the child win, right?
the rabbit did the same thing, by letting turtle win.
We have defamed rabbits so much that now they live in burrows.
#JusticeForRABBITS
”Failure isn’t failing, it’s giving up trying.” Love that quote.
"Do or do not, there is no try"
- Yoda
Sometimes the lesson isn’t about reaching your goal but the process your go/grow through attempting to reach the goal.
well said!
Right this is why we should implement systems to reach our desires
Yes but I've seen some pretty fast turtles who can beat even the fastest bunnies
In fact ive never seen anyone die for being a fast turtle so dont say that. Be literally anything the turtle knew he could win so he didnt need anything he knew he trusted
same with chat gpt droping nuggets in ocean of chaos and madness, and then it drop a nugget i could never imagined myslef by some weird logic and word play AI can do i wouldnt normaly do
it became a new process randomness
ironic i dont use gpt to precise and compress condense, but explore
Like Confucius once said "The man who asks a question is a fool for a minute, the man who does not ask is a fool for life"
True
The one who asks is not fool
It's been a few months that I was finally able to move away from a fixed mindset. In this time, I've taken up another university course, started learning another language and, I have to say, despite the new challenges, life is lighter. Better a fool moving forward, than an expert stuck in time. Great video Einzelgänger! And thanks for your book Stoicism for inner peace.
😂
Are you computer engineer
Stealing your "better a fool .." sentence as a motto for myself. Thx
Same
I was a gifted child, school was easy for me and I didn't have to study to be on the top 5 every single year... But school is not life and now I'm an adult, I am autistic and was undiagnosed almost all my life.
Real life is a challenge, to survive.
I've also developed dysautonomia (my autonomous nervous system sometimes fail and automatic functions like blood pressure get affected)
Living a life full of expectations but now having a disability made me develop the growth mindset
Even if my talents are not enough, I will make an effort, I will be enough.
It's not easy to take challenges when already all my life is a challenge every single day
But even if I grow very slowly, slower than someone without disability, at least I'm growing
I'd say the most interesting thing about Dr. Dweck's book was how towards the end she made it clear that we are all equal parts growth/fixed mindset. One can adopt a growth mindset to be sure, but your fixed mindset remains a part of you all the same. Dr. Dweck recommended her student's to name their fixed mindset "persona's" as she called them. Mine is John, and he's a stuffy British guy who keeps looking down his nose at me and telling me I can't do stuff. I just LOVE proving him wrong! As with most therapeutic techniques this sounds a little odd until you try it, and it actually works rather well! Dweck's point behind creating a "persona" seemed to be illustrating very clearly to yourself precisely the type of person you're striving NOT to be. And yet she also suggested attempting to consider your fixed persona as a friend of sorts since it is still a part of you of course.
If you need advice, consider speaking with a financial advisor. Don't get me wrong, you can do it on your own, but financial advisors have a lot more knowledge and expertise in this area.
My advisor is 'Jenny Pamogas Canaya'. In terms of portfolio diversity, she's a genius. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience..
The 3 things to get anything done are - Patience. Discipline. Consistency.
It's about finishing what you started, but in your own way. It's okay to take breaks in between while ensuring that the post break comeback is going to be stronger and more impactful.
Absolutely! If you're into Myers Briggs, I sometimes test as INFJ and sometimes INFP. For me I tend to be in a more fixed mindset as INFJ and more growth mode when testing as INFP
@@dread-shinobi ohh wow!! I am an INFJ too. Well, how rare that is! And as stated by wise people "change is the only constant", when we follow those changes, without resisting, growth follows.
consistency is everything. it's everything.
Adaptability is equally important though of course. All the discipline in the world doesn't help when your current strategy isn't very effective. Dr. Dweck said that was the first part of the equation, and that pivoting to newer potentially better processes was the second part.
If there was a word for “not fearing failure” feel like that should be up there too. Confidence?
Growing up always being told that I'm dumb and not going to go anywhere really resulted in me building up the will to be successful/good at certain things.
And it brought me to wanting to better myself and outgrow the others.
But now having built some skills it resulted in a kind of arrogance and resistance to grow.
I often think I have to defend myself and my skills to prove "I'm not dumb anymore, I am good at stuff. You can't judge me" and sometimes forget that accepting that you're always growing and never perfect is an important aspect of life and also success.
And that aspect is also what brought me to where I am now and will drive me further.
I love your videos. They always teach me something about myself again and again.
I think respecting others will make you grow and want to be better than everyone in contrast showing off and being arrogant will give you a false sense that you're superior and others are inferior which results in a fixed mindset.
Having a growth mindset is not just about discipline and hard work; it encompasses much more. While individuals with a growth mindset certainly put in the effort to achieve their goals, what truly sets them apart from others is their response to failure. Although hard work and effort increase the probability of success, they do not guarantee it. However, those with a growth mindset approach failure differently. They view failure as an integral part of the learning process and do not dwell on it. Their resilience in the face of failure is a key factor that propels them towards success.
Moreover, I want to emphasize that if you're someone who is wondering why you're struggling to adopt a growth mindset, please don't blame yourself for it. Blaming yourself isn't really productive in this case. It's important to be patient with yourself and accept that developing a growth mindset takes time and effort. So, instead of being hard on yourself, try to approach it with a sense of understanding and give yourself the space to grow. Just keep working on it and don't get discouraged. Remember, it's a journey, and progress will come with time. So, be kind to yourself and stay committed to your personal growth. You'll see the benefits in the long run.
It is crucial to understand the underlying psychological complexities that contribute to the lack of a growth mindset in many individuals. Developing a growth mindset requires a nurturing environment that allows children to embrace failure and recognize it as a valuable learning experience. Unfortunately, most people are taught to avoid failure and perceive it as something negative. Consequently, failure becomes associated with emotional pain and discomfort. When failure is experienced repeatedly, it can lead to a state of learned helplessness. Consequently, it becomes exceedingly difficult for adults to adapt a growth mindset. Although the concept of a growth mindset may be understood, incorporating it into one's life is challenging due to learned behaviors.
Adopting a growth mindset necessitates unlearning previous behaviors and acquiring new ones, which requires considerable time and effort. The journey towards developing a growth mindset is not only about discipline, effort, and consistency. It involves addressing the psychological barriers that arise from fear of failure and the mental damage inflicted by past failures. People with a growth mindset, unlike others, find enjoyment in the face of hardship and challenges, actively embracing the journey itself.
In summary, the development of a growth mindset is a psychologically intricate process. It is influenced by the nurturing environment one grows up in, where children are encouraged to accept failure as an integral part of the learning process. Many individuals struggle to adopt a growth mindset due to the negative associations they have with failure and the learned behaviors that hinder their progress. Embracing a growth mindset requires a conscious effort to unlearn previous behaviors and cultivate new ones, which takes significant time and dedication. Just remember to be patient with yourself, stay committed, and approach it with kindness. The journey to a growth mindset is worth it in the end.
Wow your comment is incredible, thank you
greatest youtube comment of all time
Great thanks brother 👍
Any podcasts, articles, books that help to cultivate this mindset?
Chatgpt?
It is sad to say but from this video I think I am a fixed minded person. As someone who was raised to be competitive and only applauded when you win and not when you try, I must say this mindset has limited me and is damaging. Going forward, I will not let the fear of not succeeding at something, keep me from trying and be consistent at it.
What is beautiful is how you have been able to deconstruct the reason... that awareness will help you start seeking new things even with the risk of failure because failure is not even trying
"Awareness is the first step of improvement "
I can't get the exact quote from our boy Epictitus, but he basically said (modernized) "Should I stop thinking if I can't become Einstein? Should I stop walking if I can't be Usain Bolt? Do things for your sake, on your level."
I love it when you bring modern psychological understandings, to illuminate ancient philosophical wisdom, and issues.
yea , old knowledge can help modern time , and can help detect wich of old or modern teaching are efficient and correct
sometimes its modern time that show old wisdom wasnt so wise, its nice to explore both
i have preference for nutriton fitness and ethic, the wisdom and wellbeing related to it
alot of completly opposit view of each of these 3. carnist, vegan, inactive over active, full empath healer or serial killer..
what are advantage and reality of each
Oftentimes, the true lesson lies not in attaining your goal, but in the journey of growth and self-discovery you undergo while striving to reach it.
Success is not about what you achieve but what have you become
Never be full of yourself 💯
What are you supposed to be full of?
I just want to thank you for helping me through a tough time in my life.
I’m a pianist, and I have been playing for over ten years and I have three degrees in music. I realized 3 years ago that I wanted to get into liturgical music and organ playing as I’ve sang in church choir my whole life. As it turns out the organ is quite different, especially learning to coordinate your feet. Growth mindset has been essential in this transition and it took a good three years of playing like garbage to start to be able to play entire services decently. Now I’m not an expert yet but I’ve built a foundation. All of this is to say:
if you’re learning something new, keep persisting even through failure! It will pay off.
Having a positive attitude towards life and challenges is imperative. What's on the way becomes the way.❤
Failure is so powerful. With a mindset of "I will", each failure adds to your resolve and ability, until ultimately there is no more room for failure because everything you need for success has accumulated over time and effort. Trick is to have something you're driven to do, something with a strong meaning to you. Often we have many of those but we bury them under distractions, they whisper to us here and there but we brush them away oblivious to their power in our lives, if only we'd see them.
I love people who radiate positive energy.
Factory and business owners love to tell you this fable: "be like the tortoise Just shut up and keep doing your job and you'll be a winner!". NO, be like the hare stop and give yourself a break every once in awhile it's not about being the one who beat everyone else.
Wow I really like this. Never ever thought of this like you did. Thank you so much. It's ok to be the tortoise but being the rabbit and take a break. Enjoy your life. It's okay that others cross the finish line before you do.
Finally someone!
Once you have worked hard, asked questions, been patient and confirmed that they are lying to your face and there's nothing but a slow and boring death to look forward to, it's perfectly healthy and natural to quit and tell them where to go.
Intelligence is not rewarded in factory jobs. They just try to get you to "climb the ladder" of money & doom, to sacrifice the best years of your life to a mindless, soulless heartless company that couldn't care less about you.
The guys "above" you are insane workaholics. They drive nice cars, have bimbo girlfriends, wear fake smiles and sell sh!tty coke.
They like to pretend to be happy and to have it made, but it's all a front. A facade.
Save yourself, your sanity and integrity and just walk away.
I didnt grow up with this mindset but im doing my best to have it for the second half of my life!
This one came at the exact right time I decided to recommit to my dream. Thank you Einzelgänger, for bringing hope and insight, once again.
Same ❤
I learned this via the fighting game genre. Most people give up before they see growth because you get your ass kicked for a while, it's an experience that destroys a fixed mindset, if you survive the ego thrashing without giving up, you begin to adopt the growth mindset and your outlook changes completely.
Does chess qualify as a such a game?
Smile even though your days are not as beautiful as a dream, as long as patience is still in your heart.
There will always be good things to be grateful..Life is all about balance.
It's not always necessary
to do something.
Sometimes it's absolutely necessary to turn everything off, relax and do nothing❤❤❤❤
My wonderful boss used to say ‘it’s not a problem, it’s a challenge ‘. It conjures up in my mind every time I struggle with something and I think it transformed my life.
I've tried to use a growth mindset in the last few months in all aspects of my life. It all started with a break up from my ex and I really do feel so much less anxious in general. I don't feel like a failure anymore. I feel content with my efforts because I know that even if I fail it's just an opportunity to learn.
I am In the exact same boat!
@shadowscp1391 well I wish you the best fellow human 😊
Next will you be breaking up with your cat ?
Sometimes, as Carl Jung wrote about, Synchronicity happens. I am at a big change in my life, and as most of us, standing at large changes, doubt sometimes crosses my mind. And in my doubts, I come across this video which calms me down on my journey. But what you bring up in this video is something I have trained my mind towards for quite some time. It is okay to fail, it is okay to start out not knowing. You never know until you try.
If I had six hours to chop down a tree, I would spend the first four sharpening the axe - Abraham Lincoln
I like this one
Excellent!
Axes get blunt fast
I would spend the 6hrs sleeping because sleep is important and I don't feel like chopping a tree
@@topsgaming4266😂😂😂😂
I read your book "Stoicism for inner peace" and I love it :). It has become a 'staple for my spirit' and lies on my bedside table
People with "fixed mindsets" are broken to an extent, hence they could use some (or a lot) of fixing. Individuals with a "growth mindsets" can be considered restless and possibly cold. As long as you exist though you can move to some amount of improvement regardless of the mindset you're blessed or cursed with. Thanks for making and reading.
Nothing stays the same, everything changes for better or worse. Thanks to entropy, either we spend our efforts, exertions and energy on growing and improving, or itll all lead to decay. There is no "stagnation" only growth or death. Thats why its "do or die". Literally.
You say that like we’re stuck with one mindset or the other. It’s a choice
@@AskConner although choice may exist, but does freewill? Fixed mindset people doesnt want to change because they dont believe they can, meanwhile growth midnset people can change because they believe they can. You have to convince them to change. Otherwise they are literally fixed in that mindset.
So I have a fixed mindset in maybe half the ways mentioned and yet I have grown.
@@albert6157 Yeah, seems kinda paradoxical. This may explain why the majority of people have a fixed mindset
Intelligence doesn't change or at least doesn't grow much. It is simply the size of the syphon through which wisdom can be obtained.
In the past I have tended to have a stubborn and fixed mindset and believing that I am incapable and can't achieve much, but I am gradually learning as I get older to have more of a growth mindset. Life has shown me that I am capable of achieving more than I thought. But then when I was younger I really felt like I was not capable of anything and I was worthless. So I still haven't really achieved much. But I am trying to believe in myself more. Although I think most of what I have achieved has been due to luck, but then you still have to show up and make the effort, and then the luck gets you the rest of the way, I think. At least in my case.
The mind is a muscle in itself
Growth is good, dedication is desire, practice is powerful and continuous improvement is constantly inadequate.
It's important to know one's limits and have realistic goals; doing otherwise is a path to fruitless frustration, senseless sadness and feelings of failure.
To have a growth mindset you have to understand your strength and weakness. Learn to delegate task. Teamwork make the Dream Work. A company slogan quote we only as good as the people we hire.
I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. Your content is both informative and entertaining!
Great video again, Einzelgänger! In fact, I have been in a growth mindset transformation lately. In the last three months, I have started looking for job opportunities with a strong focus on how I look myself in the short and mid-term. Therefore, I have started to learn new skills or develop some untapped ones, especially quantitative ones. I am already applying this approach to my current work, and this is evident to my line manager and other colleagues, but most importantly to myself. I am enjoying every bit of this self-discovery process, learning a lot and feeling self-fulfilled. No matter the outcomes, I am becoming the process, and this feels amazing. This professional search is also translating into my personal life and providing my new insights about my inner work and my impact in this 3D reality. Thank you for your great work!
This is inspiring! I would like to learn how to do this. Where does one begin?
Thank you for this wonderful video Einzelgänger.
Right before this, I didn't realize that I was unknowingly suffering from this painstaking mindset. I thank you that the term fixed mindset was the right wording of it.
I certainly relate to that above average man in terms of both intelligence and skills that you have mentioned. I was of course embarrassed but decided to watch the video until the end.
With that little act of watching til the end, I realized that having this fixed mindset won't make my life better at all, and the solution surfaced- replacing fixed into growth mindset. I will definitely work it out in changing from here on. Thank you once again
It's like dichotomy of idealism and pragmatism. Idealism is not that rooted in reality, hence less pragmatism in life, while pragmatism followers have problems of the other kind, thinking to follow only what is useful. Idealists may have problems with reaching goals, because they would feel more stress and anxiety, while pragmatists have less tension about those matters. Though, pragmatists may find themselves in the situation of lacking of any creativity. Like they work hard, but they sometimes say to themselves that «some things are stupid, because there is no benefits in them», while idealists may see that «working hard is stupid» and «everything should be easy», while having creativity, but with less resources to make their dreams come true. Synthesis of idealism and pragmatism is a wise solution, because you would get necessary parts, that will be handy in real life and without losing your creativity.
I have had a fixed mindset for most of my life. I was terrorized of failing, and lost many opportunities because of that. I feel so much happier since I switched to a growth mindset. It wasn't easy, but it was worth the effort.
@@Selfunified If I did it, you can too, Michael! (I am Vivian) :)
All inherited degrees of power or strength are only POTENTIAL and potentialities. What determines the actual quality of that potential comes from cultivating it, and nobody can do that but you.
this hit me so hard. I just realized that I have a fixed mindset it’s so tiring 😢 I’ll do my best to change and have a growth mindset.
This is the lesson I have been learning this year. Very inspiring.
baby steps, start at what you know and move forward searching for your goal. Back track when you have no idea what your learning and try to find a better path for approach.
I have been working in a logistics company, first time in the corporate world as a spots salesman. I have found out that I am terrible at this job, but I have been getting better. I will not burn out, I will keep getting better. Considering the economy in Europe right now, I think if I can get better in the current climate in a foreign country, I can do it nice…..one day😂
You can do it bro, do it for the rest of us that can’t.
Logistics industry is in the gutter right now . We are at the bottom of the freight cycle. Lots of capacity and low rates. Onces rate turn around selling will be 10 x easier than it is now.
Ego and pride do punish, these things disconnect us from reality and hide our weakness in bad way
Because of that put your ego down, you will be more powerful version of yourself
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this part @13:47
Life is a journey, your choice determines your DESTINY. Thank you!.
this called me out on so many levels lol. thanks for this
Many Years back when i was met with physics i hated it i just hated doing physics because the problems in it were hard and not easy to think and thus i thought to myself that i am never gonna study physics when i grow up,
I am now studying Physics as my main subject because it's my favorite subject, there came an incident when i needed to pass a test or my career depended on it and that test contained physics(optics/magnetism and stuffs) i studied but hated at first but that was solely because of my pre-made beliefs about the subject, i learned physics in depth and started seeing much more applications in real life, i kept jumping into problems/Questions, even if i kept failing to solve i found that was only that i did not knew may be just a minor detail, i kept taking challenges and learned through the process, i passed the exam and now i specialised at Quantum Physics, the conclusion is that with the growth mindset you don't care about how much outcomes you're getting instead you get the kick of taking challenges and learning in the way.
Thanks was making this. It was amazing! ❤
Even if you can't fully adopt a growth mindset you should atleast try to work towards it.
Try something new once in a while. Being more open to new ideas.
Who knows when you might find something that you love doing.
Congratulations on your 2 million + subscribers
growth mindset simply is known and believe yourself can grow in any situation
Thanks UA-cam for recommending me this video and thank you for making this video ❤
4:36 I Like This Part Because It Gives The Notion Why Stop? Keep Going No Matter The Difficulty. Keep Trying But Maybe They Need Inspiration And Reasons To Continue. Possibly What They Could Achieve Or Experience That May Excite Them. Everything Comes With Hard Work. And You Definitely Aren’t Better Than Anyone Be Humble.
Blessings a d prayer and positive energy for your life !!!!!
Based on this video, I purchased "Mindset" by Dweck...quite an eye-opener when approaching this subject. These attitude-changers' take time to absorb, and integrate into one's being...howevah', like the turtle, we can grow by facing challenges..small changes on a regular basis. Thanks. 😇
You are my favorite philosophical site.. your voice and versatility are wonderful.. thank you for sharing your gifts.
The odds are stacked against me, i am 38, on the brink of heart failure, i have bowel cancer, colon cancer, a brain tumor, blood disease, a bad Bunyan on my foot, i am severely malnourished and extremely under weight; i also have 14 years worth of tennis experience (non-match play), probably the most versatile & beautiful ground stroke form on the planet with many various grips. I gave up my dream of becoming the most disciplined professional tennis champion because of my societal anxiety and my severe lack of social skills concerning proper behavior amongst peers. Because of this video, i have decided to continue my dream of becoming the best, and i will crawl from Texas to Florida like a slow turtle if i have to, stabbing the ground and pulling my weak body to the most prestigious tennis courts in america. Thank you whoever you are. I was going to crawl to Florida aimlessly before i listened to this video. You are cherished by me, and i love your other philosophical-based videos concerning shopenhower & nietschze. Those guys kept it real, just like you do sir. Be at ease, and know that i love your work.
Fantastic! I especially liked the limits set by nature to the growth mindset.
Fixed mindset here, currently a 4th year college student who faced diffculties during my junior year that made me lose interest in the course that iam in (even tho i started with great enthusiasm), i tried to desperately change courses or drop out but was faced by my parents who wanted the best for me, tbh im still unsure till now with what i want to do in life (having a feeling of being lost and hopelessness).
Now i realized one thing, not one time in my last 4 years have I tried to improve, i always brushed my negative feelings away by video games and procrastination and said to myself "oh well i guess im stuck here till i get my degree then leave", i never had the thought of self improvement all because i had this argument with my parents about leaving the course which when faced with denial made me even more stubborn, and when i get a bad grade i coped that i didn't want it in the first place even tho i studied the day before the exam but not before that, i still have 1 year left before i finish, if you were in my shoes what would you do?
Needed this reminder badly
Thank you Einzelgangerr for this video
I'll comback to this video in December and update about the things I have planned for myself to achieve by the end of this year.
This came right on time. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for this insightful video, Einzelgänger! The analogy of the turtle and the rabbit beautifully illustrates the difference between a fixed and a growth mindset. It's a powerful reminder that our inherent abilities are not the sole determinants of our success. Persistence, discipline, and a willingness to embrace challenges can lead us to achieve more than we ever thought possible. This video has inspired me to continue pushing my boundaries and to view setbacks not as failures, but as opportunities for growth and learning. Keep up the great work!
Thank you. This came at the right time.
Thank you bro. loved your video. I needed this analysis more than ever now. Thanks for your hard work. 😇.
Thanks for a great production. I always have a problem of this turtle and rabbit race story because in reality, 99% of the time, the rabbit will be sleeping and waiting after the finish line of a race. The very rare situation, that sleeping mid-way in a race to lose a competition, only says that, even with Persistence, you will need that very rare 1% of extreme luck for turtle to win a race. And for most of the people, we don’t have this kind of luck most of the time.
You help a lot of people with your videos. Keep it up!
Love this video! Hope I can remember these lessons as I work towards my graduate degree.
Fix is not a person think better but a person who thinks no improvement can be done.
Thankyou.god bless you🌈
Damn!! I just realized after watching this video, I have this FIXED mindset personality! I always knew that this mindset is very wrong, but didn't knew it's pretty common that it's written. Anyway, I really appreciate this and would give my best efforts to change this to growth mindset.
A thing that might not be too known, is how you might be the type of person to sleep better after learning something new as well. I know i am, i sleep like a rock. And it's a better type of sleep. And i am also eager to wake after 8 hours! Then again, few subjects make me inspired nowdays.
Excellent content and well articulated as usual! Thank you🙏✨
Perfect explanation. I never considered myself as a fixed mindset person. I really like the comfort, want to do things I am already good at etc.
Challenges are not for showing others that you are perfect they are opportunities for getting better.
You must take the risk of making fool of yourself to improve.
Consistentlly improve your skills and never think you are already perfect and unbeatable in your field. As a computer engineering graduate I alway thought self thought software developers can not beat me at this field. Well most of them can't but some of them literraly prove me I am wrong.
Love these videos! Crazy how wanting growth and having a growth mindset are not the same thing.
Mindset was a really good book. I liked how she applied the growth mindset to parenting. Another good book I went through this year was Accelerating Excellence by James King. Good read good video.
This is such a great video! I’m already familiar with the growth & fixed mindset but this expanded my knowledge so much more.
Thank you for making these videos!! ❤
Love to see some heartwarming content here
I'm very grateful for this channel & for Einzelganger himself. I remember reading one of his writings sometime ago, where he mentioned a novel that was written along the lines of Stoicism. The authors name was mentioned too. I have not been able to find that information. I look forward to reading this novel. Although it is an indifferent desire, I'd appreciate the name of the novel & its author. Thanks!
Fixed mindset and growth mindset 👌🏾
The tortis n the hair is a really good allegory for many things in life case point. I am making a animation there’s a lotta cartoons that r in 2D that attempt to do what my show does but just cannot they can upload stuff faster because they paid people to draw a 2D show for them n rushed it while I took my time n learnt 3D my style will stand out exponentially n I’m so proud I took the harder way around it instead of just using others music I’m making my own score!
People always say "don't become like this"
but they never ask "why you became like this?"
If you think the world is divided into those who are innately growth-mindset and fixed-mindset, you are, by your own definition, fixed mindset.
Important word: Innately.
Another thing to consider is upbringing. One's emotional landscape is decided up to age 10, where the child has no agency or control and are at the mercy of their external environment, and all decisions are made around this. Grow up around aggressive or narcissistic parents? Bullying in school? Poverty? Inhereted mental illnesses like autism and depression? People may not be defined by their past, but damn if it isn't a ball and chain around one's ankle. Best to live in isolation such that the presence of other human beings doesn't invoke crippling envy. Well, that or lash out at people in public because keeping a lid on all this baggage is a full-time job.
"Ego is the antithesis of all growth."
We ALL need to improve ourselves.
Thanks, I needed this today
Never Do, Always Try ; After all, we don't really Know
Damn, I was a turtle w a fixed mindset. I learned so much from this vid. I’ll work harder on developing my skillset. Thank you! ❤❤❤
Wow I really needed to hear this😃thank you💕🤗💗😇💞🙏
I like the new editing style, well done. I like the sound effects u picked as well!
Thank you for what you do Einzelgänger
Oh I so enjoyed that. Thx heaps
Wow, this came out just at the right time. I have saved tons of videos from this channel, your work is outstanding. Thank you for all of this knowledge!
Thanks
You gave me a solution ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for creating ❤
Wow really nice video, this video has tremendous wisdom about life and how to live it properly with happiness of doing things not for outcome but for personal growth... Really good video